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Looks get you to the table. Conversation skills keep her there.
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:10 AM
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I couldn't care less what a woman's career is. Not all smart women become professionals. I find smart and driven women attractive, and I think it's a more lasting kind of attraction because all looks fade with time, but being able to have a conversation with someone that is engaging is something that can only build with time. That said, I find women who self-identify as "professionals" lack values that I find important. My end-goal is to find a wife who I will raise children with. For a woman to…
/r/seduction27/12/23 09:38 PM
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👉👌
/r/seduction07/12/21 04:25 AM
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Classic Shmoesby
/r/seduction27/10/21 02:02 AM
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For some people, the only way to seduce them is way more work than someone might want to do. Like, if you have to marry them to seduce them, that may not be worth it to you. On the other hand, it may. It's up to you. But knowing when to cut your losses is important.
/r/seduction11/10/21 04:51 PM
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Why do you distill your self worth down to be equivalent to a dildo? Is that really all you want to be? If that's all you're focused on, you're probably neglecting a lot of who you are as a person, and leaving a lot off the table. If a woman is looking at what you've got downstairs, she already wants to have sex with you. Not use your cock like a dildo, to have a sexual experience with you.
/r/seduction14/09/21 04:21 PM
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The man your man could smell like.
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:02 AM
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Not at all. Masturbation is like fast food. Is it the healthiest option? No. But it's fine, even good, in small quantities and on occasion, with moderation. If you can never eat fast food and only ever eat healthier food, all things equal, you're going to be healthier. However, eating the occasional fast food isn't going to kill you. You're healthier eating good, healthy food. Your default should be to eat good, healthy food. That's just sound advice. What I'm talking about is equivalent to peop…
/r/seduction21/03/21 09:15 PM
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I'm pretty sure I never said "don't masturbate". I said if you excessively or exclusively masturbate, you're training your body to do that more and more. And the more you have trained your body to do that, the more it's going to take work to train your body to stop doing that and start doing other things, including to get actual sex. If you've got a healthy sex life and still masturbate occasionally, I'm not suggesting you change that.
/r/seduction21/03/21 08:21 PM
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When you orgasm your body releases a bunch of neurochemicals that are designed to incentivize you sticking around, to promote pair bonding and increase the likelihood of both parents raising any offspring, increasing the likelihood of any reproduction being successful in the long run(that is, that the offspring will grow to be itself sexually successful). Now, there's several different "modes" that "work" with the biological pathways involved here, and I'm not going to pretend like the literatur…
/r/seduction21/03/21 07:53 PM
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Behavior can contribute to physical attraction, for example, posture, stance, and facial expression are behavioral things, but done judiciously, they contribute to physical attraction.
/r/seduction16/03/21 02:48 AM
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One of the important things to remember if you have depression is that your depression will make your depression worse, and you need to do all of the hard things that make you a better person even though life sucks fat ones and you don't want to be alive. Like, brushing your teeth, exercising, eating properly, all that shit. When you have no motivation, you let your health slip, and then you start to feel like shit because you're unhealthy along with having fucked up neurochemistry that makes yo…
/r/seduction06/03/21 12:19 AM
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Really depends on the context whether you can get away with it. Don't drool over her, obviously, but you can get away with being overt. The more 'meat market' the venue, the more blatant you can be. In a bar or a club at 10pm you can get away with being a lot more forward than you can in a coffee shop at 8am on your way to work/class. Calibrate to the moment. If she's obviously dolled up and eyeing you, let her know you appreciate it. If she's in sweat pants getting her morning starbucks on the …
/r/seduction18/11/20 10:29 PM
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The problem almost always is people deciding for themselves that they aren't good enough for themselves. If you aren't good enough for yourself, how the hell could you possibly be good enough for other people? What the hell kind of sorry sap would consider you good enough when you're not good enough for yourself? You have to actually do the hard work of building character and self confidence before any of the rest of this shit matters. Be somebody you like first and foremost. Be the person you h…
/r/seduction12/11/20 06:03 PM
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What some of these people are missing is that you can hold your partner accountable if you're in an established relationship. You can kick them in the ass if they aren't shouldering their share of the relationship. Everyone gets complacent if they start to stagnate. If you start to stagnate, then new and outside things start to look much better than what you have. The grass looks greener, as they say. The remedy here, if you actually have a good foundation and maturity, is to hold one another ac…
/r/seduction07/11/20 10:38 PM
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It's a both/and situation. You need to be confident in yourself as a man to approach women and succeed regularly, and to be confident in yourself, you need to accomplish things in your life. Approaching women is something a lot of guys here want to weasel their way out of, and yes, if you're not approaching women you're just procrastinating and making excuses to let your approach anxiety get the better of you. But having the rest of your life put together and having some innate self confidence t…
/r/seduction02/11/20 09:38 PM
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Honestly man, the older I get, I have a lot of appreciation for older women who keep themselves looking fantastic. It's a lot harder to look 25 when you're 35-40 than it is when you're 25, but there's plenty of women out there who pull it off. They tend to have better pillow talk, too. But I agree, at least in part.
/r/seduction23/10/20 05:17 PM
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There's 4 billion women in the world, and for some reason wanting to be in the presence of interesting ones is a huge ask... lol
/r/seduction23/10/20 03:33 PM
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/r/seduction23/10/20 07:04 AM
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Honestly, consider giving therapy a try. Cognitive behavioral therapy is a lot more than "complaining about your parents until the doctor gives you drugs because you want to fuck your mom" or whatever. It's being coached into how to recognize how you are thinking about situations, and how to maximize your response to the situations you find yourself in.
/r/seduction17/10/20 11:05 PM
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Just read through your post history: My girl, go to therapy. You're a mess right now. Getting laid won't fix that.
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:08 PM
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it's perfectly ok to be ok with having sex as much as your female partner initiates and no more, it's also perfectly ok to feel like there should be some give and take in that arena(regardless of the preference of frequency) and that if they call all the shots, that they aren't adequately invested in being a partner and are instead meeting solely their needs. You're allowed to have a preference in these things and also allowed to not really care. Take care of yourself. Don't let someone else tel…
/r/seduction14/01/19 02:28 AM
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Part of it is an overreaction to feminism. Part of it is a mental trick some people use to give themselves a mental framing of the world that they can be confident in, so that they can project confidence, which is in fact attractive. Some of it is legitimate evolutionary biology. Some of it is pseudo-science bullshit. There are archetypes, and nobody is a perfect example of them, but everyone has a little bit of the archetypal human in them, men have a little bit of the archetypal man in them an…
/r/seduction24/11/18 12:16 AM
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Breaking down 'attraction' like this makes it seem shallow. It's not. While I think the OP is inadequate as a total model for 'attraction', it makes some good points too. Humans want to mate with the best humans. What makes someone 'the best'? Well, being better than the other humans you can mate with is certainly in there. Physical prowess is in there. Health is in there. Understanding of, and excellence in, social dynamics is in there. There's also personal taste in there too, though. Humans h…
/r/seduction08/11/18 10:25 AM
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Seriously, it has never occurred to you, when given the boyfriend line, to say literally anything else to the girl? Hell, even to compliment her as you leave?
/r/seduction27/08/18 04:03 AM
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Getting past the boyfriend line is not something you go into it intending to do, especially not if you haven't already been flirting with them. If you chat up this girl at a coffee shop and she basically says that immediately, there are some ways to get past that line, but if you're reading this sub you probably shouldn't try it lol. It's intermediate/advanced level game.
/r/seduction27/08/18 03:48 AM
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Maybe. Maybe she just wanted to flirt with you and wasn't going to ever do anything else. Maybe she went home and fucked her man silly because the thought of being a little risque with a stranger turned her on.
/r/seduction27/08/18 03:44 AM
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You're a sexual being, right? You want to do sexual things with women you find attractive? Love and accept that part of yourself. Develop your ability to communicate that. If you want to kiss a girl, get to where you'll be comfortable hinting obviously at that. It gets easier after that in my experience. You've got to want to kiss her, and then you've got to want her to want to kiss you back. What makes you want to kiss a girl? What turns you on? If she's doing those things, then let her know (c…
/r/seduction27/08/18 03:31 AM
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off the very top of my head. hug 'oh wow your hair smells really nice I bet it's soft too' note: don't do that if her hair is obviously styled in a painfully meticulous way that you touching it would fuck it up. but you can compliment her hair. If her hair is in her eyes: 'put your hand up in a half stop, half non threatening gesture hold that thought... brush away great now I can see those pretty eyes wink' If you're in a loud bar or a club: motion for her to lean in because you have something …
/r/seduction27/08/18 03:23 AM
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I wouldn't do that, but I have nudged innumerable people towards ways to better themselves, including game-like advice. I find if you avoid the buzzwords and find ways to phrase things like a normal person instead of the 'in-group' shorthand, you can find a better way to effectively communicate things to people whose ideological position perceives itself as opposed to yours. The softer hand tends to prevail.
/r/seduction11/06/18 02:14 AM
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More inflammatory language but if you know the concept I'm referring to then you know that they're either the same or derivative enough to prove the point. Simply blazing forward without any care for indicators is a flawed technique weather or not you're full ape-ing a girl is technically similar and suboptimal. Indicators are important, but not the only important thing.
/r/seduction15/05/18 02:45 AM
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You should assume she does if nothing else, but, your assumption can be reinforced given proper analysis and information.
/r/seduction14/05/18 04:29 AM
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What is sex if not compliance? An interaction that both people enjoy? I'm not saying your approach is wrong per se, but there's a lot more out there than simply mad dogging until she says no. That approach can work for, hell, whats his name from RSD pioneered it 15 years ago when Style was still writing "The Game" but there's more to seduction than just compliance. Being confident and having leadership qualities makes people more likely to follow you, and you know you're not fucking up too bad i…
/r/seduction14/05/18 04:28 AM
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Amoral answer: you played the game as you saw fit at the time, and the worst that comes from it is that you learn to never do it again. Moral answer: you don't, you accept your guilt because you're guilty.
/r/seduction09/05/18 08:49 AM
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/r/seduction03/04/18 07:29 AM
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Its fine to tell a girl she's pretty but it's ultimately unimportant. It's like, the absolute minimum for guys to talk to girls. It's the 'senpai noticed' of compliments. It's nice to hear, and you should say it from a position of honesty, but it's the lowest of bars. It shouldn't be an afterthought, but it's pretty meaningless outside of the baseline physical attractiveness to initiate. That's important, but it's a threshold and you've obviously passed it if you're talking to her and it's not a…
/r/seduction12/10/17 03:38 AM
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lose her Nope, she lost me. I don't say that because I think I'm hot shit. I say that because I value myself more than what some random girl thinks of me. I'm not perfect, but I am valuable, and my sense of humor is valuable. I may not be for everyone, but I am myself, and I will not be someone else.
/r/seduction19/09/17 12:18 AM
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I'm not sure if you've ever been on a sports team or followed say college football at all, but there is a very common mentality among successful players and coaches: You commit yourself to 'The Process'. "The Process" can be anything and whatever that process is doesn't matter for your mentality. Your mental state is 'I am committed to this process, and I judge myself by how I follow the process.' Did you do what you need to in the gym, on the practice field, in the kitchen, in the classroom, et…
/r/seduction13/09/17 09:27 PM
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Hint: hold your drink in your left hand. Your right hand will never be cold and wet from condensation when you shake someone else's hand.
/r/seduction11/08/17 05:21 PM
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You need a work area and a storage area. You dont eat in the organized cupboard, you eat on the table. You don't prepare food in the pantry, you do it on the counter. Your desktop is for working. Your filing cabinets and whatnot are for storage.
/r/seduction11/08/17 05:20 PM
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Yep. 'Can you settle an argument for us?' No matter what they say you can play good cop bad cop with a wingman.
/r/seduction11/08/17 05:18 PM
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Who gives a fuck how tall other guys are?
/r/seduction07/08/17 05:47 PM
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Way she goes I'm afraid. Me thinks girls get giddy and nervous and dont answer their phone when you call em, but they can type out a text. I've called, left a message, and the girl texted back immediately with a positive response. Text keeps the pressure off, which is good in some ways (might get more yeses) and bad in others (harder to polarize). Ultimately calling just doesn't have the success rate unless you've already established a date, so.
/r/seduction02/06/17 02:38 PM
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'Frame' as a term is colored by the people who use it and the nuance it carries being lost on some. Everything we're about is actually being influential people and connecting with others. While we champion our story we are not satisfied alone (otherwise why would we be talking about how to connect with others). But we accept that what we truly want, a deep, positive connection with others for whatever length of time suits both of us (be that a quickie in a closet because you both just want to fu…
/r/seduction18/05/17 03:08 AM
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I agree. My takeaway from this is social proof is mattering more. You need to show that you're capable of working a group to open a group effectively. Therefore, instead of lying about that social proof, you have a few options. A) Actually get a crew together and go out. This can be guys or girls, honestly both help in different ways. B) Hustle your way into a group. I'd say guys are going to be more open to it. Play a game of pool, shoot the shit, get to know them a bit. C) Know the staff. This…
/r/seduction05/05/17 05:37 AM
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And projecting it onto others. Thought process: I'm lonely and need to be around friends. If I post any pics on Insta or do any Snaps and I'm not with friends people will think I'm lonely. Ew, that person isn't with anyone, they must be lonely.
/r/seduction05/05/17 05:26 AM
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Power posing may sound stupid, but it has been found to have a real effect. It's often said that you should "fake it till you make/become it" and while that's not terrible advice, the reality is it feels good to act 'cool', 'suave', 'confident', or 'powerful' and that creates a feedback loop that enables you to do so naturally as time goes on. So instead of thinking about it as 'faking it', as though its not genuine, think about it as practice. You want to look like a badass motherfucker who doe…
/r/seduction10/04/17 04:45 PM
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Sure. So stop worrying about it. Change what you can, accept yourself as you are, and run game.
/r/seduction17/03/17 06:50 AM
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You actually can. It requires surgery and is generally a waste of time because attractiveness is a package thing and getting surgery to put steel plates in your face or break your jaw is pretty damn insecure unless you've been in a horrific accident.
/r/seduction17/03/17 06:18 AM
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Looks matter and can help your chances, that said, work to improve yourself as possible and run game like you're a sexy motherfucker even if you're not. You either can or you can't change things in life. Work to improve what you can, accept what you can't as unchangable, and move on. Don't think too hard. Run game.
/r/seduction16/03/17 06:03 PM
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It means you dont want to fuck anything.
/r/seduction13/03/17 01:04 AM
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I dont over think this stuff. If you enjoy the company of someone then go right ahead and set up some ways to continue doing so and grow. Thats what dating is. You don't have to fall head over heels right away. Do what you want and have fun.
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:40 PM
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I mean do you masturbate? Maybe you're asexual. Not that theres a problem with that. Seduction may be about satisfying your partner sexually and purely the emotional connection for you. We're not you, we dont know.
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:29 PM
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Do you enjoy your time with her enough to keep doing it? Are you sexually attracted to her? Then yes you like her.
/r/seduction12/03/17 06:51 PM
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As always, reality is more complicated that trite internet comments. When a woman says 'just be yourself' as dating advice, she's not saying, 'just be the same' she's saying 'be the same calm quietly confident you that you are around me and your friends' or even 'be self secure to the point that you're not putting on an act whenever you're around a new person.' The difference is, she probably hasn't ever deeply analyzed what makes you 'not yourself' when meeting women to know that's what she mea…
/r/seduction12/03/17 10:46 AM
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Cheese isnt outright wrong. Say it with a smirk and she'll get that you're deliberately making a bad joke.
/r/seduction12/02/17 05:04 PM
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Thus why you lift and do martial arts to better yourself
/r/seduction06/02/17 04:15 PM
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Low male:female ratio
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:09 AM
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Do Starting Strength. No, do not alter the program. No, do not alter the program. No, not even just because of whatever your special thing. Do the program. Rippetoe is an OG. He's legit. He knows his shit. Just do the program until it doesn't do anything for you. By that time, probably 6 months to a year, you'll know enough for what you need to graduate into.
/r/becomeaman01/02/17 05:20 AM
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Get HPV vaccinated, dont go down on a girl who you dont trust. Be smart. Getting your dick wet is not worth your longterm health.
/r/seduction22/12/16 01:07 AM
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I'm talking explicitly about 'Frame' here. It is true that if you have no self confidence and self respect, people can and will take advantage of you. Because people are innately selfish creatures, and if they can get what they want they will take it. Most people, however, do this subconsciously. You need some help moving? You ask if people can help you move. Maybe you provide incentives (I'll have beer and pizza) maybe you don't. If people decide to help you then neato. Maybe you'll help them w…
/r/seduction17/12/16 11:02 PM
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It is a traditional 'red pill' theory, yeah. It has some truth if you only apply it in the subconscious abstract to something we already call maturity. If you're mature and confident you don't need to construct a playground in which to mentally operate. You'll be okay with whatever another person chooses even if it's not the choice you prefer.
/r/seduction17/12/16 09:32 PM
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Basically it comes down to your psychological construction of reality and imposing it upon others. It's a surrogate for allowing individuals autonomy and complex motives. Instead of understanding those motives and how they apply to attraction, the frame theory suggests that if you aren't in control of the mental playground within which a relationship is operating you're at a disadvantage. Reality is more complex than that, but mature human beings don't need a mental construct to have confidence,…
/r/seduction17/12/16 09:00 PM
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'Frame' is a silly construct for immature people. The fact of the matter is a girl is either attractive to you, or not, and you're either attractive to her, or not. Subconscious, unspoken, beyond looks, body language, all that nuance comes down to those 4 possibilities. You're only gonna get laid by girls who find you attractive, and you're only gonna be happy in a long term gig with someone you find attractive.
/r/seduction17/12/16 01:10 PM
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If thats literally all you respond with, sure, but saying something to the effect of "I'm intrigued, please go on" is a great way to communicate interest.
/r/seduction31/08/16 10:40 PM
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Whenever people go "hurr durr be attractive and dont be unattractive" I feel like theyre missing the point. People have different tastes, sure, but being a) not gross and b) the best you possible is pretty much a foolproof ground floor. If thats too cookie cutter then idk what else to say. Be ugly and dont work on yourself and see were that takes you i guess.
/r/seduction19/08/16 03:20 AM
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You volunteer for things that matter to you. You gotta be honest with yourself. Picking up activities just to pick up women is sad. Helping puppies because puppies are cute little sons of bitches is rewarding in and of itself.
/r/seduction09/05/16 02:17 AM
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It's good advice. Do whatever speaks to you. The women you find doing that thing have at least one thing in common with you: they value that activity. I volunteer at the humane society. Girls love a guy who saves puppies. You're like Steve Rodgers himself, heart of gold, in their mind.
/r/seduction09/05/16 02:13 AM
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No, you're wrong, and you just don't understand at all what I'm talking about Disagreement =/= lack of understanding, friend.
/r/seduction03/05/16 10:24 PM
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If you're not getting rejected, you're not putting yourself out there as much as you could. Be bold!
/r/seduction03/05/16 09:27 PM
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Creating fake users to pump up your awareness is a shit tactic, bro.
/r/seduction14/04/16 10:35 PM
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It shouldn't. It gives you the power to make your own destiny. Take charge, man, you've got this.
/r/seduction01/04/16 06:01 PM
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Mrs Robinson, are you trying to seduce me?
/r/seduction19/03/16 06:44 AM
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Real alpha males don't need the Internet to tell them how to live their life, either. We're working with rehab cases here. Some of them need a kick in the pants like quitting their job to do what they actually want with their life. But I agree, do it with intent to get somewhere, not on a whim.
/r/seduction15/03/16 10:27 PM
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Sounds like an inner game problem. Why are girls different from your friends? They're the same organism as your sister, or your cousin, or one of your friends.
/r/seduction15/03/16 09:06 PM
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Exercise. Endorphins are released, posture improves, body begins to improve its shape, better cardiovascular fitness decreases the unsteadiness that comes with being nervous. You really need to be doing a half hour to 45 minutes of gym a day. And you'll be more confident because you'll have body confidence(aka, you're comfortable in your own skin, with what your body can and cannot so, how strong you are, what you can rely on your body for). Hygiene. Shower, brush your teeth, get a haircut, trim…
/r/seduction15/03/16 08:45 PM
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They want men who are unapologetically genuine. Be yourself and don't compromise. The ones who are into that will be into you, if you're otherwise attractive, socially calibrated, good at conversation, escalation, and everything else we preach.
/r/seduction15/03/16 03:10 AM
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I can tell you either haven't read it, or haven't understood it. Let me know how faking it works for you later in life.
/r/seduction15/03/16 03:06 AM
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Most of these can be summed up by: be comfortable approaching people who interest you while out living your life. Learn how to approach, learn how to live a healthy independent life, then put them together instead of just going out and grinding approaching women.
/r/seduction12/03/16 12:33 AM
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If she keeps disrespecting you then where is this relationship going to go? She obviously has a different opinion of what it means to use someone else's time, and she obviously doesn't truly take it to heart to change. All you're doing by sticking around is reinforcing that it's okay for her to say 'I'll stop' and then do a token gesture and get back to her old ways. Seriously, it's not on you to fix her. If she isn't willing to stop being completely rude, insensitive, and disrespectful then tha…
/r/seduction09/03/16 12:07 AM
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I want her to know HER behavior was shitty, and feel bad. Why? Why do you care so much? Her behavior is shitty. Not worth your time. 'Then it's not going to work out. All the best.' And you're on to the next one.
/r/seduction08/03/16 08:05 PM
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Who they are as a person IS what they are offering to you in the interaction. You're making it sound like there shouldn't any "value transaction" going on in genuine personal interaction. I'm not disputing that, but while people may have similar tendencies, not everyone is the same. If they truly are not a person you want to know then by all means, don't get to know them. But if you're just bored because their life experiences don't offer you some new and interesting learning experience about hu…
/r/seduction03/03/16 02:46 AM
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You sound like you're more worried about what they have to offer you, instead of who they are as a person. You're approaching it from an academic rather than a personal interaction.
/r/seduction03/03/16 02:25 AM
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You should be doing it because you like meeting people and you want to meet people. What you say about yourself is effortless because it's true and doesn't change. So if those things are true, then you need to work on how you can get people to talk about themselves in ways that are new and meaningful and interesting. Ask people meaningful questions about their lives and actually be interested in gaining perspective from what they have to say. If they are boring, who cares? Have fun yourself. Be …
/r/seduction03/03/16 01:38 AM
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They can be, but you have to realize that the group is a democratic social entity on its own. You approach the group and you get the group to approve of you as a member, then you can influence the group as a peer, and you can connect with the other members as an equal. Quick and easy method? 'This looks like the chill/fun/party group, hey, I'm [Name], mind if I join you for a bit?' have open body language, nod, smile, and look every member of the group in the eye. Don't bother waiting too long f…
/r/seduction02/03/16 10:15 PM
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Do you not?
/r/seduction02/03/16 05:23 AM
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I'll agree men should get their hygiene in order and go to the gym, but... Wat?
/r/seduction23/02/16 07:55 PM
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Being outcome dependant puts your happiness in the realm of what other people do. "I'll be happy if people go out with me" "I'm be happy if people say it was a good time" those are shallow, fleeting ways to attain happiness. What if nobody that night is feeling it? What if nobody is free that night? Is that any reason to not be happy? No, of course not. Make your own happiness. Be comfortable being uncomfortable. 'I don't know what will happen and that's okay' 'I'm having fun right now because I…
/r/seduction23/02/16 07:52 PM
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TRP has its place. But it wasn't healthy for me long term. Too much negativity. A lot of the guys over there are over compensating for their lifetime of being hamstrung by societal or family influenced niceguyitis by being misogynistic. I understand it, and I don't judge them for it. I was there myself at one point. It's an understandable reaction to realizing that everything you've been told is a lie. But it's not an endgame. Women act a certain way. For the most part they're a lot like us, the…
/r/seduction21/02/16 10:36 PM
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Mindfulness meditation can be as easy as focusing on your breathing, or your heartbeat, and not letting your mind wander. Whenever you notice that you're thinking about something not your breath, or the beat of your heart, recenter on it.
/r/seduction21/02/16 05:22 AM
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This is a very good post, and I 100% agree. That said, it badly needs a TL:DR, so that it's easier to remember/digest.
/r/seduction21/02/16 05:20 AM
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Gotta gave both inner game and outer technique. Practicing outer technique gives confidence. Sorting your life out and being confidence makes your technique better. It's a feedback loop. Just pick something and start doing it and then do the other thing.
/r/seduction20/02/16 08:27 PM
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The point of this book is to be genuine. Not manipulative. You genuinely treat people these ways out of goodness. These are guidelines for healthy interaction and relationships. In that grain, seduction is not manipulation. You are initiating a relationship with women. If you're faking it it's going to be right shit and girls are going to have you figured out. You need to really enjoy women, their company, their quirks and flaws and yes, their sexuality. Think Don Giovanni(if you've ever seen th…
/r/seduction16/02/16 04:36 PM
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Yeah, it's relevant today, even if you already live that way, there are a lot of people out there who do not.
/r/seduction16/02/16 04:23 PM
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Combined with Models and No More Mr. Nice Guy, I think they are the Big 3 of the foundation for self confidence, self respect, and genuine interactions with others.
/r/seduction16/02/16 04:21 PM
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TL;DR Take girls off the pedestal and have fun.
/r/seduction10/02/16 01:27 AM
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Be fun. Do fun things. Tease her playfully. If she responds, get her out on a date.
/r/seduction07/02/16 01:19 AM
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No, staying busy to distract yourself is wrong. Fill your day with things that you need to do(work, gym, etc) and things you want to do (hiking, dancing, socializing, etc). Just distracting yourself won't cut it, that's why people browse Facebook and reddit all day and still hate themselves. Become a secure person by meeting your needs, and then become a happy person by doing things you enjoy. In the course of those things, feel free to 'run game' with people you meet. 'Game' is just a way to te…
/r/seduction07/02/16 01:18 AM
1

Clickbaity title but absolutely true words. Just deal with yourself and accept who you are. You will become confident.
/r/seduction07/02/16 01:14 AM
1

Same. Tone maybe? People seem to overcomplicate dates. Do fun stuff. If she's cool she'll enjoy it too.
/r/seduction04/02/16 07:24 PM
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Been a while doing anything outside of lunch or afternoon coffee because I'm out of college and work a lot nowadays, but you can do a lot of stuff. Go to a mall, model clothes for one another, get ice cream and window shop. Go antiquing. Go wine tasting. Go to a fair or a carnival or small amusement park. Go hiking, or for a walk at a scenic place. Go surfing/to the beach. Get coffee. Go to a shooting range. Go to a pet Park. Do things you're interested in, or that you haven't tried.
/r/seduction04/02/16 07:07 PM
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/r/seduction29/01/16 08:23 PM
1

My cousin has a ~hundred gallon saltwater tank and a couple thousand dollars of coral and fish in the main room of his house. Professionally lit and everything. It's a fucking gold mine when you bring chicks in and they spend forever just looking at fish. Tons of opportunities to escalate physically when pointing out fish and stuff. Plus they're damn cool. He actually grows and sells different types of rare coral to help fund it. And of course he's a marine biologist so that helps too.
/r/seduction26/01/16 04:02 PM
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My advice, do one or two, and do them hard, for 6 months to a year. Then decide if it's for you. A lot of hobbies have an element of challenge to them that needs to get over the hump to be really enjoyable, and you won't get there if you just pitter-patter at it and turn to something else whenever it gets hard.
/r/seduction26/01/16 03:58 PM
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Mark Manson explains it as an acknowledgement that you're breaching the norm, not the norm for you, but the norm of most people. For example, don't say 'I never do this' but say 'I know this is a bit forward, but'. It acknowledges that you know you're coming at her strongly without acting like you think it's not okay for you to do so or that you never have the strength of will to do it. It keeps her off the pedestal(why is she the only one you're doing it for?). This is important because it keep…
/r/seduction22/11/15 10:40 PM
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Probably Models
/r/seduction14/11/15 05:58 AM
2

So why do you have a girlfriend if you don't want one? That sounds ridiculous. If you'd be happier single then break up with her.
/r/seduction11/11/15 09:10 AM
2

Yeah, make sound financial decisions, by all means. I consider my car both a vehicle and part of my entertainment budget. If that's not your thing then don't buy a car like that. Thing is doesn't matter what you drive, unless you're driving something that's not a congruent with who you are.
/r/seduction11/11/15 03:15 AM
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it's not some thing that elevates your status I disagree. It's a subconscious communicator of your personality. I drive a modded Mustang. It's loud and fast. Some girls don't like that, some don't care, more than enough are turned on by it. Is it necessary? No. But don't be naive, everything you do communicates who you are. Do you get regular hair cuts? Do you shave or grow stubble? Do you dress well? Having a car and what that car is plays in. Don't stress over it like it's a huge thing, but it…
/r/seduction11/11/15 02:21 AM
1

Cool, I've got a German Shepherd who needs a walk buddy.
/r/seduction11/11/15 02:11 AM
5

women CAN NOT take the initiative, she can only choose among those who show an interest in her! All others man just unapproachable for her and she will never has a chance to have sex with them. Maybe if she's young. Older women are very direct, but discrete. I'd say 25, 26+ if they're down they'll definitely approach. Sometimes even younger in college. Young Women in general don't approach, but as they get older they will. The big difference is women are fluid sexually. They adapt to their envir…
/r/seduction08/11/15 09:31 PM
5

Rodgers fits also.
/r/seduction07/11/15 04:29 AM
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Much like there's always luck involved with throwing a touchdown pass in the NFL. Yeah the receiver might drop the ball or the DB might make a huge play or a D-Lineman might get off his block and swat it. Doesn't mean Carson Palmer can't throw like a motherfucker.
/r/seduction07/11/15 12:55 AM
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I've said it before: Be you, whoever you are. If you're a ruby and you keep chiseling away or painting over trying to find an emerald, you're going to have a bad time. Once you reveal yourself, you can smooth the rough edges that aren't as attractive.
/r/seduction06/11/15 08:41 PM
8

TRP speaks a lot of truth and isn't for everyone, I get that. It's not easy to swallow. Ehhh. TRP is a 'safe space' for upset manchildren who need to grow up. That's fine, I get it, if you need a place to vent without being told 'but eww you're a sexist' then fine. A lot of the rest of it is piles of bullshit. There are nuggets of truth, and it can be good in the short term for some people, as I said, I was there for a while. But it is a very negative place because it is a safe space for negativ…
/r/seduction05/11/15 02:11 AM
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The red pill can be useful for some, hell I spent some time there, but it is not a healthy place. It is amoral, about results, not about healthy human evolution and growth. That's fine if what you're looking for is lays from insecure girls who need a hard man to suckle some self confidence from, but you won't be happy doing this. You'll be like this guy was when he was running lines and getting girls but not actually secure in himself. When you realise you don't need TRP's platitudes, or seducti…
/r/seduction05/11/15 12:34 AM
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Happiness comes with congruency with one's self. Being true to yourself, whoever that is, is the first step. The hard edges that aren't really attractive about your true self can be honed into attractive facets with work, but that comes after you stop trying to change who you are. If you're a ruby and you keep chiseling away or painting over trying to find an emerald, you're going to keep being disappointed.
/r/seduction05/11/15 12:30 AM
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Happiness comes with congruency with one's self. Being true to yourself, whoever that is, is the first step. The hard edges that aren't really attractive about your true self can be honed into attractive facets with work, but that comes after you stop trying to change who you are. If you're a ruby and you keep chiseling away or painting over trying to find an emerald, you're going to keep being disappointed.
/r/seduction05/11/15 12:30 AM
4

In Manson's example, I believe it was through sheer dumb luck. The guy took a job and he enjoyed it, to start, but it took so much of his time and energy that he didn't do much of the things that made him the guy she was attracted to. Then as he slowly got drained and since she was his only remaining bit of 'not work' life, it put pressure on her. Ultimately that's a story of work/life balance, and the side effect of having poor work/life balance is that you will inevitably stress those around y…
/r/seduction05/11/15 12:25 AM
8

Muffdiving is what manhood is all about.
/r/seduction18/10/15 10:28 PM
9

That's pretty irrelevant.
/r/seduction18/10/15 10:02 PM
10

If the only thing stopping your girl from cheating on you is that the right guy hasn't offered her dick, she's not really that great of a girl in the first place, IMO. I've been cheated on. It's not the guy's fault. If she's not gonna be faithful, sooner is better than later.
/r/seduction18/10/15 09:59 PM
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We've been lied to What, you mean Hollywood and Madison Avenue weren't telling the truth? Funnily enough, if you watch the old American classics, with Humphrey Bogart and Jimmy Stewart and stuff, they portray a much more realistic notion.
/r/seduction15/10/15 10:22 PM
3

Sounds Mormon level fast
/r/seduction13/10/15 04:52 AM
17

Closure implies that she mattered enough to leave something needing it. You had one date. It's not like she left you at the altar.
/r/seduction13/10/15 01:02 AM
3

I've had bad luck with calling. I've called girls and they'll text back, and it's no different than if I had just texted them. We still go out and it's all good.
/r/seduction13/10/15 01:00 AM
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3 strike rule. Some girls just get flustered and don't text back. One, wait a day or two, second one, wait a week(maybe she's out of town), third one, possibly a bit softer 'Hey, have some free time this week? I want to get a drink.', and that's all. Don't ever be negative. Ever. It's not worth it. Be a positive, charismatic, active guy who is interested in her company. Trying to Make her feel bad for not accepting your date or coming up with bad excuses for turning you down means she matters fa…
/r/seduction13/10/15 12:58 AM
3

Am farmer. Can confirm, economies of scale have my dad, his brothers, myself and my cousins all united.
/r/seduction12/10/15 06:26 AM
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Evolutionary psychology: women seek a provider mate, thus why men reach peak attractiveness later (28-32) than women. The older a woman is, the more she is looking for that stable mate who will be there long term, she's going to start losing her beauty, or already has (relatively, obviously women can be foxy into their 50s as Sandra Bullock, Lisa Kudrow, and others can show), and her biological clock is ticking. So she's got that biological imperative to find a mate that will take care of their …
/r/seduction12/10/15 05:28 AM
4

Southwest vegetable market. Lettuce for life, brah.
/r/seduction11/10/15 10:44 PM
2

Nobody is perfect, man. You can date for whatever reason, having fun, trying to see if she's good enough to commit to, whatever. It's not wrong if she doesn't make you fall in love. All that matters is that she's worth your time right now.
/r/seduction11/10/15 09:24 PM
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I'm a farmer, so... Sorta?
/r/seduction11/10/15 08:42 PM
1

Nah, it's all bukkshit =P
/r/seduction10/10/15 08:10 PM
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Plus, the glasses look works for some types of game. The whole prep school cute nerd look works with Style, he's nerdy as shit.
/r/seduction10/10/15 06:38 PM
2

Eh, too old? Nah. The guy's a legend.
/r/seduction10/10/15 04:04 PM
1

We learn from failures, not successes.
/r/seduction10/10/15 04:09 AM
1

BRB buying Sixpack bodysuit and lifts for my shoes.
/r/seduction08/10/15 02:41 AM
2

It's complete shit. Style pulled it off and he's not conventionally attractive, he's nerdy, bald, has a squeaky voice and a grating laugh. But he connects with women.
/r/seduction08/10/15 02:38 AM
1

'You're cute and I want to get to know you.' Would probably suit you better, then.
/r/seduction07/10/15 04:47 AM
1

Are you in a gym and/or specifically complimenting a part of her physique? Lots of girls are "beautiful". That's not a personal compliment, you're not connecting with her.
/r/seduction07/10/15 04:10 AM
1

In general, complimenting a girl on how she looks with something outside of her control is less good than complimenting something inside her control. Example: 'I really like that dress, it brings out your eyes.' vs 'You have really pretty eyes.'
/r/seduction07/10/15 03:25 AM
1

What does that have to do with anything? Nobody is saying date a slob or be a slob and expect to get people to like you.
/r/seduction07/10/15 03:20 AM
1

And women of course never get hotter or colder depending on make up or hair cuts or clothes or just growing up, right?
/r/seduction07/10/15 02:55 AM
2

Then yeah, save your cash and focus on life skills and getting ripped.
/r/seduction07/10/15 02:31 AM
2

Switch to a binary scale. Hot or not is all that matters to you, if she's above 'bang' level of hot there's nothing that makes her more bangable.
/r/seduction07/10/15 01:49 AM
1

So today I finally asked out the girl of my dreams to go to homecoming with me. Just a bit of advice: this girl shits the grossest fucking shits known to mankind from time to time, just like everyone. She might be really cool, but she's still just a person. Now my question to you guys is, how do I project the same confidence I once did? There's literally nothing different now, kid. She's still a person, and she apparently likes you enough to rub her junk on your junk on a dance floor. You're her…
/r/seduction07/10/15 01:46 AM
1

If I already know what I want like the OP mentioned I'm not gonna give you the light of day if you aren't it. How do you know? Is everything you want capable of being seen in 3 seconds? Is this guy going to be not that forever? Personally I like the idea of incompatibilities. Could be temporary, could be permanent, could be what you said, could be what you wore, could be what mood she was in, could be that you're ugly, could be that she has low self esteem and you're 'too hot', could be literall…
/r/seduction07/10/15 01:37 AM
2

Do I move on Literally always just do this.
/r/seduction07/10/15 01:31 AM
2

Why does it require confidence to talk to her? What are you presuming? What pressure or importance are you placing on talking to her above that of talking to anyone else?
/r/seduction07/10/15 01:29 AM
2

Why do you live there?
/r/seduction07/10/15 01:20 AM
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Approach whomever you want. Approach all the girls you're attracted to. 'Hi, I'm Jack, I just transferred here and I'm looking to meet new people' will go a long way.
/r/seduction07/10/15 01:19 AM
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Agreed. Go with something like 'hi, I saw your [feature] and wanted to compliment you. I'm [name](shake hand). [Compliment]. [Statement drawn from assumption]. Ex. "Hi, I saw your dress out of the corner of my eye and wanted to compliment you. I'm Nick(hold out your hand). Yeah, I really like what's going on with the color scheme. You seem really fashionable."
/r/seduction07/10/15 12:49 AM
2

I ran into a Lamborghini. Then another Lamborghini. Then a few more Lamborghinis, and pretty soon I had 5 Lamborghinis.
/r/seduction06/10/15 11:14 PM
1

... Do you not?
/r/seduction06/10/15 11:08 PM
1

Awww yee pain is pleasure.
/r/seduction06/10/15 11:04 PM
5

Like a karate master, you must take many punches before you finish the journey.
/r/seduction06/10/15 11:03 PM
1

no guns Guns polarize... I mean... if you're a gun guy you'll definitely get a response. Dress up like a cowboy and wear a gun. See what response you get. I wouldn't be surprised if you got quite a few chicks simply from the balls, regardless of their opinions on guns.
/r/seduction06/10/15 10:21 AM
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Different one, she was on the edge of the dance floor though.
/r/seduction06/10/15 06:14 AM
5

Everyone fucking loved it man, it was one of the best choices I made that night haha
/r/seduction06/10/15 06:07 AM
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Most recently I feigned seppuku on the dancefloor. Got a girl's number like 3 minutes later.
/r/seduction06/10/15 05:19 AM
1

Been a while since I've looked at the sidebar but it's basically required reading, along with No More Mr Nice Guy
/r/seduction06/10/15 04:59 AM
2

Pickup is not 'how to scam girls into sleeping with you'. It's 'how to find girls willing to sleep with you.' Just like financial planning isn't 'how to steal millions of dollars' It's 'how to build a good portfolio of investments.' Sure, some guys are going to try to rob and scam their way into it, but in general they crash and burn. Becoming an attractive, honest, confident fun person who people like to be around is never a bad thing. It'll do more for you and your overall happiness than the c…
/r/seduction06/10/15 02:31 AM
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That part is, yeah, but Mark says when you hit on a girl, it's natural for that to be a little awkward, and that's okay. Things like 'This is crazy but I'd love you to sit with me' for a girl in a coffee shop line make you relatable and build rapport. Acknowledging that you're breaking social convention by being forward shows that you're socially aware, yet confident, instead of oblivious. It's a fine line between that and 'over explaining'.
/r/seduction05/10/15 08:55 PM
8

Seems to fly in the face of part of Models if I recall correctly.
/r/seduction05/10/15 06:55 PM
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Hint: being an asshole requires the character trait of not giving a shit about what people think of you, aka self confidence. If she thinks you're an asshole it means you're self confident, but just maybe aren't giving her what she wants right now. Example: 'Hey, I'm going to watch Twilight with my sister, want to go?' "No, I've got this thing, it's called a penis." 'God, you're an asshole... I'll be back around 9' 'See ya babe'
/r/seduction02/10/15 07:35 AM
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Having nerdy hobbies isn't unappealing, it's just not as appealing as other things. If your attractiveness is otherwise so low that you're playing catch up, then you may want to find some new hobbies. The thing is, we're all nerds about something in the end. Gym rats are exercise nerds. Gamers are game nerds. I'm a college football nerd, I love following the game throwing viewing parties, going to games and after parties. I'll admit, college games have a lot of girls and that helps the chances, …
/r/seduction28/09/15 08:11 PM
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I'd go the other way with that though. There's no supposed to, there are only those we make it work with, if for a time and those we don't. That said I'm not one for permanent write-offs, either. Just because a girl turns you down one night she could be DTF another. Whole lot of different reasons why stuff doesn't work out in the short term and not taking it personally but accepting that incompatibilities are just a fact and can be for any reason or any duration is pretty much the only way to li…
/r/seduction27/09/15 12:21 PM
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I don't fuck attractive drunk female friends, because they're friends. You can be a friend and nice guy to these girls without being in some sort of friendzone. The only way you can be in the friendzone is by not making your intent clear, and then maintaining a non-romantic relationship in the stead of your true intent. If you do announce intent and subsequently get turned down and move on, or simply don't have any intent, then being a nice guy in shit that actually matters (e.g. not fucking a f…
/r/seduction27/09/15 12:09 PM
1

Nope, Esther Vilar used the Masculine vs Feminine feminism distinction back in the 70s when she wrote 'The Manipulated Man.'
/r/seduction21/09/15 09:13 AM
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Masculine feminism vs feminine feminism. "I'm the same as any man" vs "I'm different from men, and that difference is valuable"
/r/seduction20/09/15 11:18 PM
5

In case you're serious, you can book a porn star for a scene, retain the rights and never release it. It costs money, more than a brothel in Nevada, but it's absolutely legal. And s/he'll be nearly guaranteed to be clean z for the last 2-3 weeks, as will you, as you'll go through the same requirements as any performer.
/r/seduction20/09/15 11:14 PM
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The metaphorical 'pill' is about opening up your mind that maybe social constructs aren't some sort of disney narrative. The sub is a toxic place in general. Women are just people, like everyone else. Models is great because it's 'red pill' without being as whiney about literally everything as the sub. I understand why the mods there allow the whineyness, it's a normal reaction to having everything you've been told taken away from you. 'If you're a nice guy, she'll like you and you'll totally ge…
/r/seduction04/09/15 06:20 PM
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I spent time there. I moved on. There's a time for everything under the sun. It's a pretty negative place and that negativity, while eye opening, will bring you down eventually. Find out who you are and do you, that's the best advice I can give. The rest of the 'tricks' to being social come afterwards
/r/seduction23/08/15 10:15 PM
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Sex is a universal for all reproducing members of our species, so I'd advise against using it as your polarizing idea. Especially since women, generally, respond better after connecting with someone. Polarize with something that actually matters to you, if she's into you for what matters then switching to sex will be easy. If you go straight to the sex, you're going to have to have one helluva first impression to get it to work in your favor.
/r/seduction17/08/15 01:29 AM
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Inner game comes, primarily, from acting congruently with your psychological self. That means finding out who you are, and then perfecting those parts of yourself. Don't go out and try to make a million dollars and dress in suits if that's not you. If you're a gym rat and love working on cars, do that. If you're not a gym guy but would rather go hiking and running and surfing, go do those things instead. If you're more a romantic and less of a stoic, cool, do you, man. But you're going to have t…
/r/seduction17/08/15 01:21 AM
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Do it over time. He's not wrong, you have to be mature and apply it when it needs to be applied and hold off on the stuff you're actually unable to do. His whole point is honest living. If you legitimately can't afford to live like a millionaire playboy, don't.
/r/becomeaman31/07/15 05:50 AM
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It's a very succinct method of conveying courtesy, confidence, and value. A high value person is not threatened by anyone.
/r/seduction27/07/15 08:44 AM
0

Tinder is full of flakes these days. Take it with a grain of salt. You have to have really good game to make it work. A lot of girls heard about it and wanted to see what it's about. They swipe tons of dudes they have no intention on doing anything with, just for the validation. There's some really good Tinder guides in the sidebar, though. Should help a newbie a lot.
/r/seduction20/07/15 02:36 AM
7

Filthy heathen.
/r/seduction17/07/15 06:56 AM
1

Yeah, going your own way means your life on your terms, not their life on your terms.
/r/MGTOW14/07/15 05:59 AM
1

Doesn't mean you're a different person. You can have flings and still be real.
/r/seduction06/07/15 05:42 AM
1

If you want to spin plates you are never allowed to let a woman get the emotional high-ground If you completely own yourself, flaws and all, she'll never have any 'emotional high-ground'. Because chances are they will lose interest when you tell them everything. This sounds a helluva lot like recommending hiding unhealthy life habits and insecurities rather than accepting them as reality and working on them, but not letting them get you down. Now that has not to be true with every woman but it p…
/r/seduction06/07/15 03:56 AM
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You fucked up in a lot of ways, but being honest about how you feel isn't in there at all. She warned you from the get go to not get too attached to her, and you ignored it. The honest thing to do would have been to manage your own expectations, and if/when it got to be too much, to break things off or tell her 'look, I need something more, and if you can't do that then we need to stop this.' You didn't do this. You allowed yourself to draw on the emotions of your ex, instead of looking at what …
/r/seduction05/07/15 09:31 AM
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I opened up and broke the rules. Any rule that has you lying about how you truly feel is a shitty rule. If you're just faking everything, eventually every woman is going to realize this. I showed fragility One of two things happened. A) You stopped faking confidence and it was pretty apparent to her that everything was fake up to that point, or B) you were honest about yourself in a 'this is who I am, take it or leave it' kind of way. My guess is it was A, not B. A screams 'fake' louder than any…
/r/seduction05/07/15 07:08 AM
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And there's new girls coming of age, moving into and out of your city at any time. If you're like most people around here, early to mid 20s, the bottom of your age range is probably still whether or not she's legal. My high school class was around 1000, and there were 4 high schools in my town. Even of only 10% of those girls are real prospects, 200 new prospects every year isn't anything to scoff at. If you're older, you're much more likely to be into girls moving into your city for various job…
/r/seduction29/06/15 04:38 AM
1

Technically legal in all of Nevada except Clark County.
/r/MGTOW20/06/15 05:07 AM
1

Why make an absolute if there isn't one? I very well might be convinced to go steady with a girl after a casual relationship. Seduction isn't about just banging. Some of us want a long term thing eventually, we just haven't found someone worth it. I'm not going to lie and say I only want a casual relationship. I'd love a lifelong mate eventually. I'm just not ready for that at 24.
/r/seduction20/06/15 01:06 AM
1

Difference is, you have to make it clear you aren't buying.
/r/seduction20/06/15 01:02 AM
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Girls "hate" this, but make a game of poking their sides. It's goofy and lighthearted but they will try to get you back. Which means they are going to initiate kino themselves. If used properly, in the right setting, after she comes at you, you can call for a 'truce' while you've got her arms pinned. At which point you've already manhandled her and shown that you're big and strong, but also that she can trust you. And she's been held by you. Everyone loves to be held. She's going to crave that f…
/r/seduction12/05/15 07:02 PM
1

Even if she pulls away, it doesn't matter. The fact your went for it speaks volumes.
/r/seduction03/05/15 03:33 AM
1

Have you ever seen some decent female oriented porn? Real sex is kinda like that. You can go with 'I've always wanted to try x' or just talk about what really turns you on about her.
/r/seduction02/05/15 11:25 PM
1

I'm pretty sure this conversation is in the context of 'you've got your target in a position where you could kiss her, how do you actually make it happen?' Personally I've had some okay luck with Mystery's cave man status followed by a hard push, but I'm new here. More suave ways exist I'm sure.
/r/seduction02/05/15 11:21 PM
1

If you doubt the existence of an upper class, I'm not sure why. The connections, money, and women available to the men at the top is not some facade. Pity lays to string a beta along don't count. A measly salary to keep a beta working hard doesn't count. We don't care about those things. They aren't for us. When you get to the point that you have power and status, you'll know what I'm talking about. The bouncers usher you in quickly. Women crowd around. Businesses bid on you, higher and higher. …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 04:31 PM
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Of course. You are only 'competing' with other possible mates. Those who aren't suitable mates (too old, too young, obesity eunuchs, gay men) shouldn't be counted one way or the other. There's no need to separate yourself from those who aren't playing. Regardless, becoming one of 'the group' is all it takes. Once you're there, you're getting laid. If you like more pussy, get more pussy. If you like cars, get cars. If you like money, get more money. If you like your business, run your business.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:09 AM
2

Most men are beta. He's not wrong. Loads of guys would be totally cool if their woman cheated with Gronk. We here are not striving to be 'most guys.'
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 03:11 AM
1

The 80/20 rule applies more generally. If you're in the top 20% of men, you'll be getting laid. The higher the better, but there's more important things than puss. Get to the top 20%, then do what makes you happy.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 03:10 AM
3

Define the size of your pond such that you are the big fish.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 06:59 PM
6

If I recall, he got in trouble for those pictures(owner of the team likes a family friendly image). Then the story was 'nothing happened, they were just hanging out' or similar BS. I don't buy it.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 07:08 AM
3

You're already paying taxes for health care, having to pay again to have the same level of care as the US speaks for itself. That doesn't mean the quality doesn't exist. Just means average Canadians get shafted by socialism over promising and under delivering. The rich and powerful, the alphas, they get their cut and move right along.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 05:14 AM
12

It was hardly even that. High fived him a couple of times and saw him around. There's a lot of parties and I'm sure he went to tons. Everyone was 'dude' or 'bro', he's fuckin awesome to party with though, if you've got an iron liver. There's also the fact that he always had 2-3 girls hoping to get in bed with him. The ones that failed, boy, their self esteem was ripe for someone to make them feel sexy, since top shot shut them down.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 03:55 AM
2

Cool story bro: he and I were on campus together. He's a helluva lot of fun. I unabashedly got some preselection puss from being at parties he went to.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 03:07 AM
24

It's not a pissing contest. Work on your insecurities.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 01:51 AM
6

Jim's married with two sons. He's probably either rolling in side pussy or simply being benevolent alpha and using abstinence to his benefit (no rape accusations, complete power over his show, all that money).
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 01:47 AM
28

The caveat here is that at if you're at all capable of competing with him, there's no competition. There's more than enough to go around when you're at the top of the top. So go out and get there.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 01:45 AM
30

That's how wealth redistribution works. None of the rich and powerful are going to do away with their wealth and power. They're going to make it seem like they're doing more so that the masses are appeased while taking it away from the middle class. It's simple social engineering.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 11:52 PM
9

Jim Rome is hit or miss for some folks. I assume he's asking the question because it polled well with female viewers in some fashion or another. Jim's been around a long time. He's been popular since the early/mid 90s on radio and a bit later on TV. He's not dumb. He's a personality. I'm convinced this is an example of what women say they want being different from what they actually want. Some female producer diversity hire pulled up some bullshit about softening the show to get better ratings, …
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 10:54 PM
20

Depends how much money you have. On demand, quality care is available, just much more expensive. Money still makes the world go around.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 10:32 PM
2

Definitely. It's not just that you're asking intimate questions, it's that you both buy in and see where it leads.
/r/seduction24/02/15 06:24 PM
2

Shit tests are fitness tests. Are you fit to be my mate? Are my offspring with your genetics going to survive? I don't think these are necessarily conscious questions women ask, but they're the questions that are answered by shit testing. I think the 'can't handle me, not attractive' is hard wired mate selection for the female brain.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 10:16 AM
3

It's their nature. Power is scary unless they can latch onto it.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 10:46 PM
6

Exactly. The key point here is the left backed themselves into a corner by adopting the façade that high percentages of women are raped. Now, if they actually believe this, they ought to do everything to defend all women all the time. They have to choose whether or not defending women who they claim are in danger is worth more than keeping guns out of people's hands. They can't use the 'think of the children' approach they do to semi-automatic guns because a) women aren't going to be concealing …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 10:43 PM
1

As a born and bred country boy, liberal city girls definitely get tingles when they see you have a 'dangerous killing machine' although their words won't admit it. They'll shit test you, try to make you out to be a coward hiding behind a gun, all the same shit they'd do for some other reason to vet you as a mate. But boy do they snuggle up close once you pass.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 10:31 PM
6

You can always lead with that, and then playfully shun if the other person doesn't say please. 'Go out that away.' 'What's the magic word?' '[non-compliance]' Now you can go a few different ways: Playful, with innuendo: 'Looks like I'm going to have to teach you some manners when I get back' wink Playful without innuendo: 'Don't forget your manners now.' Escalate: 'My oh my you're a bossy one aren't you?' 'Well aren't you just full of class today.' 'Oh sweetheart, rudeness isn't cute.'
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 08:10 AM
2

Wet wipes are a godsend.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 07:01 AM
-11

AWALT. Being dominated is the ultimate way to sexual satisfaction for a woman. Leave her quivering and unable to walk like any man worth his salt would.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 07:00 AM
2

It's much more up to the individual church. 10 minutes inside one will tell you if it's got decent girls or not.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 05:54 AM
7

So far And there it is. Women are publicly supporting her, but you know for a fact that behind her back she's the slut who can't keep her legs closed.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 07:15 AM
10

Honestly I don't think she's attractive enough to make it.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 07:12 AM
9

You've gotta be at least a situational 8-9 to pull it off, but it's glorious watching the hamster. Being hauled off to get your dick sucked by a club bunny who isn't used to being ignored is especially hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 06:46 AM
18

Sometimes, fucking below yourself keeps the bitchy 9s in check. 'Why isn't he with me? What the fuck she's not even cute... am I fat? God I wish he would have just fucked me...'
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 05:01 AM
2

That preachy attitude of yours is what's getting you downvoted, along with your rationalizations. Its pretty simple: this girl showed that she's willing to give all her sex for no commitment. Her sex is not worth commitment. Not LTR material. Furthermore, she's keeping ex-fuckbuddy around. That's not girlfriend behavior. Now, OP can do whatever he wants. But his best course of action is to distance himself. If he wants to keep fucking her that's his own choice. If he wants to get out, forcing he…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 02:29 AM
2

Some women aren't broken by feminism and still support their man. 'Unicorns' are less uncommon in religious circles. Both parties buy in, there are predetermined roles, and it works. Those brought up in this environment will still have some of that influence even if they aren't the epitome of piety. It sounds like you're partially in monk mode and wondering why you aren't getting tail. Don't half ass two things. Whole ass one. Either focus on SMV development, or get out there and start being soc…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 07:46 PM
0

I had a post up with those kinds of guidelines, got deleted for being low effort, but I can dig it up if you want to read it.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 05:25 PM
1

He goes on to hypothesize that it's an evolutionary trait, that men throw better because they had to, and women default to a throwing motion that makes sense, if you're holding a baby next to your torso. And he presumes that it's a neurological difference, since it still exists prepuberty.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 06:03 AM
2

Lets look at the two cases: We take two groups of prepubescent kids, males and females. We do this in multiple different cultures, some where males and females throw the same amount, others where they do not. We note the velocity and distance the groups can throw. Females throw only about 80% as far, or worse, and have worse innate throwing mechanics. Alternatively, we have a person of a particular race, culture, economic class, etc., being accused of committing a crime by a person of a particul…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 12:36 AM
1

Women as a demographic during a sporting event is a result of cowing to them to keep the sporting event on TV in the first place. We used to not care if women watched the Super Bowl, and advertised for the men. When it became apparent that women would turn it off and their beta husbands wouldn't do shit to stop them, we changed our advertising ideas.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 07:51 AM
0

You seem to be under the impression that humans aren't natural actors.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 05:54 AM
1

Lucky bastard. I had to cut 30 pounds from my football weight every year.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 05:51 AM
3

The first National Super Bowl commercial was Joe Namath promoting shaving cream for men. Women weren't the target market of a sports event until more recently. In fact, the NFL has done a ton of work the last few years to sell football to women, and their domestic violence ads this year are more of the same. But it didn't used to be this way. Women largely were the focus of daytime TV ads, because when being a stay at home wife was still the majority occupation for women, and taking care of the …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 05:48 AM
2

I take it you didn't wrestle in high school. Naked weigh-ins in front of cheerleaders will get you comfortable in your skin.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 05:25 AM
5

She's good at her job, but her image was definitely helped by the nudes.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 05:17 AM
4

Manipulation of those you can, in order to get ahead, is a natural step. He's not wrong, he's just not giving due credit to the Machiavellian advertisers who are pulling this shit off every day. They're geniuses in large part, thus why American ads are so good at promoting sales, why ad revenue nets so good for corporations like Google, etc. But it all boils down to doing what you can to get what you want. That's the natural state of the universe.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 05:16 AM
6

I'd love to see that substantiated, as it's in opposition to the article quoted that openly states, as quoted in my post: That suggests there's some kind of explanation in addition to nurture.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 02:41 AM
14

This post focuses on one ad that is factually incorrect, that dared to say describing the inferior throwing motion of girls was insulting. Furthermore, the Nissan commercial that attempted to show a racer as a poor father, the Nationwide commercial that set up everyone to fear for their kids, there's a significant portion playing on that element this year. My 68 year old father commented 'I wonder what ad agency found what study that said fear of your family was the way to go this time.' It's ob…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 02:08 AM
57

logic That's your problem right there. Pathos is the primary persuasive element these days.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 01:51 AM
3

If you truly are their sole benefactor, cut them off. If they don't like the direction you're going, they can go somewhere else. As Emperor, you don't give two shits what a mere courtier thinks. You are the goddamn law. If it's your money, you decide how it's spent. If someone else tries to shame you, take theirs away too. Caesar cows to no one. This is your life, they're along for the ride. I will suggest, however, that you stop offering advice. Merely make any aid you give contingent upon doin…
/r/askTRP30/01/15 08:09 AM
2

Used to be, boys were taught to be men, and young. 12-13 was the coming of age time. You're a young man at that age, and what happens in the next 5-8 years will directly influence the man you are for the rest of their life. Some programs still do this to an extent, Scouting taught me many life skills, perhaps most importantly self reliance, which is a great foundation for frame and SMV due to success. The nuances of women in particular, as this sub directly addresses, will probably be best aroun…
/r/askTRP29/01/15 06:47 PM
2

On point a: most girls who make a big deal about their virginity, are not. Religious girls that actually value their virginity are much more quiet on the whole issue of sex. Once you open them up, they're a blank book. If she's making a big deal about her virginity, then she's covering up something.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 06:36 PM
4

Yes. The number of sexual partners a woman has(and a man, but to a lesser degree, with less overall side effects) directly influences her brain chemistry due to the oxytocin induced memory effect. When humans have sex, especially when they reach climax, when women beast feed, and also in post coital touching, a hormone called oxytocin is released. This is called the 'bonding hormone.' It increases attachment in women(and men to a lesser degree) and encourages care, primarily this incentivizes a …
/r/askTRP29/01/15 06:33 PM
5

Unless you're a farmer and know your shit. Family friend of mine, best man at my parents' wedding, had some of the best horses I've ever been around. He was an artist with a colt.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 08:34 PM
4

Yes. I've said this before, my hierarchy of attractiveness is: physically pleasing, maturity, and tenderness. If a girl is terrible with children, that's a big sign that she's selfish, bordering on narcissistic. In the overall picture it's a big no-no for an LTR.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 01:52 AM
8

Righteous anger while retaining frame is very powerful. Being pissed that the world doesn't work the way you want it is childish. 'Rage' is such a vague word, but situationally, yeah, it's pretty easy to see that anger, and more importantly acting on it, can go both ways.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 10:47 PM
1

Remember, AWALT. These women may be decent people because of their mates, but don't forget for a second that under the right circumstances they will abandon any and all social contracts to get a leg up. For some, due to how they were raised, religion, whatever, those right circumstances might be more extreme, but there exists a tipping point for every woman.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 03:35 AM
8

You can do what you want. Remember, AWALT. Choosing to not have sex with a particular girl is sometimes wise; don't stick your dick in crazy or gross. Nowhere do I even suggest you should. You determine which girls are suitable to be around you, which ones are good enough for you to fuck. I'm also not against social game. Having female acquaintances you use for social proof and not fucking is acceptable, just like using social connections to further yourself in your job. That doesn't mean they a…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 03:32 AM
86

There's a broader point here, probably missed by some, later in her paragraph: if you want to have sex with a woman, fucking go for it, or hold your peace. If you let yourself get put into the friendzone, by not gaming her and trying to fuck her, by being a little bitch and hiding your intentions, you are her beta orbiter by your own choice. In very rare circumstances are you going to be able to, after your first or second meeting with a woman, be able to go from not directly pursuing her to dir…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 11:55 PM
2

You can, certainly, I'm just not convinced a majority of men will become alpha in some kind of awakening. I think they're happy to be beta, if unhappy with the results of it.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 12:10 AM
18

Women are in an identity crisis. It all goes back to shit tests bring failed long ago and women not being put in their place. They won't be happy until that happens. Some say it will be an awakening, I'm not convinced it'll happen without a collapse.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 11:42 PM
7

As a special forces soldier told me once, "'hurry up and wait' is the perfect time to brush up on your french"
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 07:35 AM
2

Work together. Benevolent natural alphas are very good wingmen.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 06:39 AM
13

Women will playfully swing, claw, swat, etc. It's an excuse to touch you. She wants you to grab her arms, pin her down and kiss her, to tear her clothes off and fuck her. You should be able to tell if it's this kind of playful pawing, or if it's abusive, straight up angry, or button pressing shit test. If it's the latter, get out.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 08:09 PM
3

If it's playful: A) 'Save it for the bedroomwink' if it's in public B) if it's in private, tackle her, tear her clothes off and fuck her. If it's not: Get. Out. Get up and leave. Walk away. If it's at work, inform your boss you will not subject yourself to physical harassment. If it's in private, get your things and go. Consider turning your phone on and recording.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 08:05 PM
18

It most likely will backfire, unless there's a lot of men in the room. Be prepared, brother. There's a reason we don't mention TRP on the outside.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 09:38 PM
48

Fucking manned up. OP should be proud.
/r/seduction11/01/15 09:14 PM
3

Hungover game should honestly be one of the first things you learn.
/r/seduction11/01/15 04:37 AM
16

See also: Women leaving their husbands to be murdered and tortured so they could bang Nazi officers.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 04:26 AM
2

However, there are other things, such as being verifiably insane and having zero discretion, that limit those displays of violence being attractive to very few instances.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 04:23 AM
2

I see where you're going, and I like it.
/r/seduction09/01/15 01:28 AM
5

on SNL attractive Him being on SNL was just one thing. It could have been any number of different things. She ended up with a rock star. She was with Tom Cruise. The point is, stand out and be interesting
/r/seduction08/01/15 05:59 PM
0

His job may require it, either explicitly or implicitly. Being socially connected to a weed smoker might be detrimental to him because of who currently holds the power he is seeking in his city. There are tons of reasons to not be associated with people who have illegal vices.
/r/askTRP07/01/15 09:54 PM
0

Depends on what I'm getting out of the conversation. If you're trying to bed her, ignore it, or 'do you usually talk about love this soon? [change topic]' If she's annoying and I don't have to deal with her in the future, 'Ohhh sweety one day some 40 year old programmer will be just head over heels in love with your size 15 body and 13 cats, you just wait.'
/r/askTRP06/01/15 08:48 PM
1

Frame- how you view the world around you, your mindset. Most red pill husbands adopt a ship captain frame: the ship represents your family, finances, house, etc. Your wife is your first mate. Any of your children are your sailors. Your job is to direct the ship. No matter what happens you are the captain. If your first mate questions you, you have ultimate say, but it better be in their best interest too, otherwise they'll take a job on another ship when they get back into port. But if the mate …
/r/askTRP06/01/15 08:04 PM
2

Reality doesn't care about your feelings. Neither evolution nor God cares that you're not the epitome of human genetics. You were dealt the hand you're holding. Accept it, the good parts and the bad parts. Know what you are. Be grateful for what you have. Work to make everything the best it can be. If you can't accept yourself your frame will always be fragile. One of the best framed men I know is an overweight mechanic. He has a smoking hot wife who tends to his every need. Why? He knows who he…
/r/askTRP06/01/15 07:22 PM
1

Considering how much of your future income she would stand to win, exactly this. Only if it's open and shut her fault should you ever consider it. Or if you're filthy rich and don't care
/r/askTRP06/01/15 07:12 PM
1

Frame is independent from how you feel. It's okay to be sad and admit it. It's okay to be angry. Letting these things change your feed decision making process is the error. Embrace your emotions as what they are, but don't let them directly change your actions. Keep them in mind when making choices, but don't make choices solely based on them.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 07:08 PM
6

Correct, it's called alcohol induced retrograde amnesia, and has been thoroughly studied. Any intellectually responsible person would give it due credence, but feminists of today have absolutely no sense of accountability or responsibility.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 07:28 PM
5

That's a fairly good analogy. People flipped their shit when that black professor was arrested for B&E when he forgot the keys to his house, and for good reason. Obama invited the guy to the white house for a beer. But if you're trying to get a girl you've been partying with all night back to your place, everyone assumes you're doing it without her consent. Edit: added link.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 07:23 PM
13

Don't live in CA. It's easily one of the most authoritarian states in the US. Same with New York. These supposed 'liberal hotspots' are just as morally conservative about pushing their agenda down your throat.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 11:24 PM
3

Afford means you can pay it off in 15 years and aren't paying insurance. The extra interest by going for a longer mortgage or the extra payments by having to pay for insurance are simply not worth it. You'll need 20% down probably, too. A house is an investment. The thing with houses is, they're all relative to one another unless the neighborhood goes to shit, but you'll see that coming a ways off if you pay attention to any redistributing the population efforts your town tries to institute. Thi…
/r/askTRP23/12/14 06:57 PM
1

I never said otherwise. I go hiking when I can, though I rarely can devote a whole day to it. The likelihood of everything that would have had to happen for it to happen as they said is still incredibly slim. This girl, and the camera person, used all of the daylight hours, on their mutual day off, bypassing any and all other obligations or necessities or even hobbies and other things they enjoy, to walk, without stopping, to film a video comprised of every time a man talked to her. Most people …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 12:05 PM
7

Sticking with the story and holding frame This is the essence of frame. What you decide reality is, there is no other option. It better be a position you can hold no matter what.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 09:10 AM
19

Better yet, don't do petty revenge. Make calculated moves.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 09:07 AM
2

Congrats, you're talking to a fellow farmer. I know I could do it. I'm also A) a man, B) in shape, C) a regular backpacker... The list goes on. But I never would. I have a job to do. I have other things to do. You can explain one or two of those things away just fine. But not all of them together.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:30 AM
2

Doesn't mean she did it in one day. Who the hell has time to film a bullshit video all day and walk around all day without stopping to eat, drink, go to the restroom, do anything else during daylight hours, and let alone, do that with her body type, without being absolutely dead fucking tired by the end of it? It's not impossible that she did it. It's almost entirely unlikely, however. And if she did that alone is a selection bias. What kinds of men are going to be out on the street all day with…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:10 AM
6

There's barely enough daylight in one day with buildings that tall.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 07:21 PM
3

Don't worry about social media at all to show you don't give a fuck about being associated with women. Take attractive women with you everywhere you go. People will notice.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 03:39 AM
17

And you can have money and status with no frame and therefore be 'unattractive as fuck' once you open your mouth. It's not just one thing. Take care of your body, your bank account, your social life and your game. They're all important too.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 06:34 AM
1

Hell man, A latin dance club in the southern US will change your life. The women expect machismo and respond to it alone, that's how the style of dance works. It's a red pill gold mine.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 02:10 AM
5

Anecdotally, several flirt whores in high school that got married in the 18-22 range did get divorced to 'find out who they were' while on top of some different dudes. Personally, it seems the Sweet spot is 22-25. With how college celebrates anonymous sex, if they're still 'pure' afterwards, they likely are the type of girl that won't divorce you. Essentially, college is, in my experience a good proof test for if she's got the slut disposition. Caveat, though: AWALT to a degree if pushed far eno…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 07:05 PM
0

If they wanted me to know, they'd say it. I asked you, since you're so keen on talking about it.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 08:52 PM
0

I'd love to hear which bit of advice here is not something the newbies need to know. Until you're willing to actually critique the content and stop taking pot shots at the style of presentation, don't expect to be seen as an authority.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 08:35 PM
0

only Endorsed contributors Because that will definitely not be circlejerky.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 08:18 PM
0

It's a guideline, not a guarantee. As I said, the trades do(or used to) 4 years of apprenticeship. Some say 10,000 hours. Whatever. It'll take time, a lot of it, before you 'get there.'
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 08:11 PM
5

Agreed. I simplified the point in "congratulate him and get your own." Friendly competition is a good thing among men. It keeps us fresh. Just be sure you're adding value and not sucking it up.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 01:59 PM
11

Fair enough. My goal was to hit on some points for the newbies. Each one of the rules has a bit of advice for those that haven't been here for a while. I guess it's something of a primer.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 01:42 PM
4

My goal was adapting Fight Club's rules with some TRP relevancy and hoping to make it newbie oriented. It's a great book/film in its own right, and there's a lot of paralels to be drawn from it outside of this, too.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 01:11 PM
1

The Red Pill is the door to reality, specifically, the reality of the dating game. We expose the reality of women, and, ultimately, ways to succeed in bedding, wedding, or shedding women to suit our personal goals. Sidebar materials lay the ground work. Things like the pussy pass, AF/BB, they're all parts of the puzzle, and need to be said from time to time to keep the picture of reality in place: women are in an advantageous position from default, and only valuable men will compete for them, or…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 12:38 PM
2

Look up No Nothing November in this subreddit(I tried linking our own goddamn subreddit and it got deleted). It's merely a step, a trick, to put you on the path. Whatever works to get the unnecessary crap out of your life
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 10:58 AM
1

Unlikely to find them but not impossible. Don't take a woman at her word on it, either.
/r/askTRP22/11/14 03:02 AM
1

The court of public opinion is much more damaging than the legal one, and much more strict in cases like this. I'm not giving a legal analysis, I'm saying what people are told to think, by the media.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 04:00 AM
2

I disagree. Do not speak authoritatively if you're new, but one of the best ways to learn is to put your understanding out there to be analyzed and critiqued by others. If you're approaching something from a blue pill perspective, you need to nip that in the bud. If you comment and it gets downvoted to hell, you have a pretty clear indication that you're thinking incorrectly. It's one thing to be new and trying to figure things out. It's another thing entirely to be new and running around spouti…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 09:27 AM
23

Account age does not mean he hasn't been here. People abandon and make new accounts regularly.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 09:22 AM
14

Addendum One: Preferably yourself.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 06:30 AM
1

If you want to have a logical discussion, present a logical argument instead of your anecdotes. All you've done so far is defend your opinion on the grounds that it worked for you, without actually having logic supporting you. From the looks of things, the community here has weighed in on your opinion as well. I don't care what you think about me. Bring good discussion to the table, stop bringing your feels in here expecting to be coddled.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 01:08 AM
2

You have to sign a prenup, or otherwise control your finances to where that's possible within a marriage. Possibly if you have an LLC that you are the president of that owns the house, or something. But that's edging on paranoia.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 02:52 PM
2

Something working once does not a rule make. Don't make that mistake. You got lucky if she left when you told her to. You can't force her to within the bounds of the law, unless you had a prenup and we're the sole owner. Now, you can try to get her to think that her leaving is her only choice, if you play the cards right, but if she's smart she won't bite, she'll call your bluff, and then you're still in the situation where you're sharing the house with a woman who is not your wife and who refus…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:15 AM
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who said anything about leading? You're a man aren't you? It's your job. You are the captain of your ship. RP theory includes treating women like children That also precludes you from being a child yourself. What are you going to do? Kick her out of your joint owned house? Or worse, live with her after she serves you papers? It's childish. You're holding on to what's not there. Rise above. Lead your ship. Trim the fat. Holding on to every last board of a sunken ship gets you nowhere in a hurry.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 03:52 AM
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Kick her out of a joint owned house? Good luck. Continue to live with her even though it's over? That's a terrible idea. Be proactive. Lead, don't dig your heels in.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 03:24 AM
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That's digging your heels in, not leading. If your wife serves you papers, do you sleep in your bed and pretend like you're the master of a house about to be split in two? No, you find a girlfriend, get yourself a new bed and move past the bullshit. What she suggested, living in separate rooms, is not a marriage. He's saying 'if you don't want to be married, don't bullshit me, I'll leave and not think twice'
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 02:37 AM
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Him sleeping on the couch is supplicating to her feelings that she doesn't want to be in bed with someone she's mad at. Him leaving is ending the relationship. 'I don't want you to sleep with me' 'I'm not sleeping outside of my bed' 'Well then I'll go sleep in another room for a while' 'I have no patience for someone who doesn't want to be here with me, so if that's what you want, okay, I'll move out tomorrow ' ' Omigod Babe I love you don't leave me' It's nuclear dread game and maintaining fram…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 02:32 AM
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Several of the more business oriented men I've had the privilege of knowing, drive older, less conspicuous vehicles. Put simply, the rich don't talk about money. If they want a nice car they'll have one, but they don't get one just to appear rich.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 02:24 AM
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I think the error is assuming TRP means 'Always Be Alpha' which will do you well if you have no desire for a lasting relationship or a family, but isn't necessarily the best course of action. Marriages, if they are entered into, require a mix of Alpha dominance with beta provider/role model to work well. Women gravitate towards men that meet their needs in a given situation. If she has kids or is pregnant, or even certain times of the month, she will respond best to more Beta traits. As long as …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 10:14 AM
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It really depends on if she's from a small community that values those things, or not. If she's an avid churchgoer, where divorce might literally cost her her soul(in her mind), or it might cost her all of her family and friends, you are on fairly equal footing. These women are unicorns, however.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 09:23 AM
4

Fuck that. I use one account. If someone burns me because of it, fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 11:57 AM
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Stop bitching Don't just stop with feminism. This is not a place to bitch. We aren't a support group. We're here to discuss ideas, strategy, techniques, theory, practice, and reality. Only when bitching is a situation we face or, god forbid, a tool someone is suggesting, should it ever even be discussed. I think we should remove "blue pill example" I disagree. We need to ensure it is being used correctly. A post that shows these things is meant to keep pounding away that there is a reality beyon…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 11:46 AM
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On this topic: Is there any way to increase the TRP comment karma necessary for posting? Commenting even? I think that would help immensely in this situation.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 11:39 AM
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Men don't generally complain about the cocks of superiors they must suck to get, and keep, their status. Women believe they're entitled to a position than men worked to institute, and then achieve. There is a massive difference.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 08:58 AM
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Romney could govern though. He's a calculating yet benevolent, smart mother fucker.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 08:54 AM
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That the margin of victory was not larger, especially in a place like Texas, is disturbing.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 08:52 AM
2

I'll go further: you're the prize. Unless you're just starting out, why the hell are you even considering girls who aren't ridiculously fit?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:55 AM
3

Have been in college. Weekend marathon sex sessions are top.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:51 AM
1

Desensitivity. Literally, his dick doesn't care for pussy because he's saturating it with simulation.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:50 AM
1

Morning/midmorning sex always takes me longer. I think it's the hormones.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:49 AM
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When you're young, your reset timer is pretty quick. I consider 20 of dick rest but still going at it, a straight fucking. If you took 45+ off, or actually ceased the activity, that might be a stretch. If she's a good girl I'll show off what I can do with my mouth while I recover.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:46 AM
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All my marathon sessions have been weekends in college. You gotta work hard, pace yourself, and have something to do in your recovery time between bouts. Longest I ever did was 6 hours, but there were a handful in the 3-4 range too.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:42 AM
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Fuck no. LBJ was known for showing off his dick while in Congress. It wasnt impressive on its own, but his frame was fucking tungsten.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:23 AM
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Domination is vanilla. It's the way things were intended. You don't need toys, you just need to fuck like the animal you are.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:21 AM
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Take your pseudointellectual high horse elsewhere. A man who defends a woman in the face of the truth about her actions, or blames the other party is textbook whiteknighting. There is a risk of him being blamed if he acts on her advances. I never once said he should do so. Knowing this woman's tendency, he can use her hypergamy to his advantage. It does him no good to fuck her. It does him immense good to win an ally by befriending this man. Read the 48 laws of power, because this is a textbook …
/r/askTRP05/11/14 09:50 AM
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She's young and stupid. You hold all the cards. Do not make this be anything more than it is. She's not shown she's mature enough to handle a real relationship, so don't give her one. And if she ever tries to shit test you about you not being a 'real boyfriend' you have anything you need to say right in front of you.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 07:19 AM
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If the gender roles were switched Men and women are different. You cannot directly swap them. arent the men in this sub advocating to other men to only be loyal to the women they perceive to be high status A woman of high status isn't really important to me. Physical attractiveness, womanliness, and maturity, in that order, determine how far I'm willing to go with a woman. Her social ranking by her peers is of no consequence. Any woman who thinks that her social status means I should consider he…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 06:05 AM
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It is not what you do for a woman, but who you are for a woman, that matters.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 05:46 AM
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Not all non-TRPers are white knights. He may gain a powerful ally if he uses it to his advantage and helps the guy.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 12:35 AM
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Would be hard for her to do so if he's not married.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 12:33 AM
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Red Pill is amoral. It's not our job to defend someone's marriage. It is, however, bad advice in this case for several reasons. Most people consider marriage a big deal, so do contribute to it's end is frowned upon. Angry husbands are not something you want to deal with, because you will lose, either by being hurt or killed, or lose the PR game because he is the husband, after all. It's also a case of not shitting where you eat. You shouldn't fuck your secretary or your subordinates, or your roo…
/r/askTRP05/11/14 12:32 AM
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Just like when I was 'abused' at 15 Are you saying it was abuse? Is it defined as abuse? Was it sexual experimentation with a peer or was it with an obviously gay person taking advantage of your inability to say no? Was it a kiss on the head or were genitals touched? Whether or not you now feel it was abuse does not mean it wasn't abuse. Pre- and Early-pubescent children are unable to consent for a valid reason: they have barely started the process by which their sexuality is defined. Straight b…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 06:14 PM
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First: boys who later identified as heterosexual had a mean average of 15.7 as the time of their first sexual experience. For the boy who later identified as homosexual, the mean average was 12.7. 12.7 as a mean age is either before, or right in the onset of puberty. Obviously some were before, and some were later. The mean heterosexual age is 15.7, meaning that having an experience around that time is fairly normal. The link is a percentage, not a direct cause. This quote: What’s intriguing is …
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 05:33 PM
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IDK, Roman Polanski seems to have quite a following these days. Same with Woody Allen. Seems sodomizing prepubescent girls is acceptable. Though I'm not sure you can consider that 'straight.' They're female but have none of the sexual characteristics of one at that age.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 02:51 PM
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As if her acting thus far wasn't enough evidence, she wrote an autobiography at age 28. Twenty eight. What the fuck can you possibly have done by age 28 to merit an autobiography? She's a textbook narcissist.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 02:48 PM
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I fucked a girl with my roommate in the room in college, and I'm sure he did the same. There's a difference though, between that and masturbating in the same bed as the girl you're emotionally manipulating, who is 6 years younger than you, views you as a role model and is thus very impressionable.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 02:46 PM
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They shared a bed until she was 17. That is not a typo. Direct quote: I shared a bed with my sister, Grace, until I was seventeen years old. She was afraid to sleep alone and would begin asking me around 5:00 P.M. every day whether she could sleep with me. I put on a big show of saying no, taking pleasure in watching her beg and sulk, but eventually I always relented. Her sticky, muscly little body thrashed beside me every night as I read Anne Sexton, watched reruns of SNL, sometimes even as I s…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 02:42 PM
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First off, public perception dictates what you're viewed as, not necessarily the law. Next, if you don't believe me, here's a link to a story from 2009 talking about the 17 year old male who was accused of rape for having sex with his 14 year old girlfriend Here's a story of a 17 year old girl meeting a 55 year old man with an app, who is then accused of "13 counts of statutory rape, five counts of sexual exploitation of a minor and four counts of contributing to the delinquency of a minor". His…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:42 AM
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It's just because men generally want more sex is not indicative of the whole story. Men tend to want more, but relalatively safe, sex, as the logical gender. Homosexual men seem to have a more unsafe, illogical practice of sex, statistically.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 03:21 AM
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Lesbian bedroom death is also a documented phenomena. But let's not act as though women and men go down the same path to homosexuality. Women are more sexually fluid naturally, more open to group sex, even if it includes more females. On average, men want more sex, and want it with one or more females. Women want comparatively less sex, with more of any partners. Women are more interested in the experience of sex than the sex itself and thus are, provided any of their fears are assuaged, more li…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 03:02 AM
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That's not uncommon, but for a few reasons. Women are almost entirely sexually mature by age 16-18, men do not fully mature until their mid-20s. There is a difference, then, between having a sexual experience at age 15 for a male and a female. Women are much closer to full development at that age. It's also one of the reasons women were married off at around 15-18 historically, whereas men chose their first wife at around 22-25. It's completely different when we're talking about women being sexu…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:48 AM
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I would probably say premature exposure to sexuality would mean pre-pubescent or early-pubescent sexual experiences. The young brain is learning all the time. If you artificially introduce phenomena, like molestation, the brain will adapt. It's fairly clearly shown that there is a connection between early homosexual experience and future homosexual identity. If you think that it's okay that an adult or older youth instigating a homosexual experience at a young age will increase the younger perso…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:32 AM
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straight teen girls 14-16 do fool around with guys in their late teens early 20s without society considering it molestation What society are you living in? In the United States for the last, oh, 30 years, if you touched a girl under the age of 18 and were yourself over the age of 20, you're a rapist. In the last 10, if you were 17 and she was 14, you're a rapist. That also doesn't refute this bit: Even more intriguing is that Friedman noted that the boys who later identified as heterosexual had …
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:00 AM
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It's pretty well established if you look at any of the literature that disputes 'inborn homosexuality.' The most intellectually honest position is that homosexuality includes a biologically introduced susceptibility in utero and social interaction. In 1995, Dr. Thomas Schmidt, author of Straight and Narrow, cited two different studies about high rates of sexual abuse in homosexual and bisexual men. He writes: Nevertheless, it is disturbing to find that although under 4 percent of boys are molest…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 10:59 PM
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"Well, I say if it was rape, it was a good rape." I have not been able to take anyone who doesn't abhor the Vagina Monologues seriously since my English class in college required viewing it. Just make sure you play along in instances like that.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 10:46 PM
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Stoicism with regard to negative things, or things intended to incite a response in you, is what they're talking about here. It's not that you don't feel, it's that you don't get brought down by anyone or anything around you, that's the key.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 11:41 AM
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"what do I get?" with a smirk and a twinkle of the eye. 90% of red pill human interaction is mastering the smirk and twinkle.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 11:34 PM
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Closure doesn't exist. People hold on to things until they deal with them and nothing you do will change anything. That said, don't just ignore her. Be the same you that wins friends in every situation. If you want to be friends, be that. Friends. That's it. Treat her like a bro. If you can't, then you do need to go no contact until you can. If you do, she will either be okay with it, or open up to being a plate when she craves your attention like she used to have it.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 11:43 AM
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Report link: http://archive.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cb/pubs/cm01/cm01.pdf
/r/MGTOW25/10/14 01:49 PM
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I've found, tis better to ask reflecting questions. It takes very little effort, and it makes you seem the sage when really, it's shortcutting them to the decision they're going to come to anyways regardless of your opinion. You can do this on autopilot once you learn the skill and it can very quickly lead to people perceiving you as being incredibly insightful, all because you held up a mirror.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 01:36 PM
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Good for him. And if that translated into a better use of your money and time than taking an alternative class and self studying the philosophy material, you made a good choice.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 12:17 AM
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They are a few grand, but like any hobby, you get what you pay for. I work with them for rapid prototyping, so my hobby money goes to aviation.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 11:46 PM
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Buy some CNC machines and just start making stuff. It's like legos for big people.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 10:42 PM
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A liberal studies course is, as a general rule, a poor return on investment. Your degree gets you your job, your success. If you must take some classes, do the best you can for finding the ones that are likely to benefit you. But by no means is the philosophy course at every institution the best choice. At mine it was taught by a known hack that handed out A's. I preferred music and art alongside my engineering degree, and I still read Plato/the Greeks, and other philosophers in my own reading t…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 10:41 PM
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You don't have to relegate to faith that which can be adequately described by reality. Religion can be a tool by which those who reject the notion of societal norms are convinced to act properly. Religions by definition have 3 parts: beliefs, cultural systems and worldviews. The beliefs generally form the basis for the cultural norms and worldview, but it would be a 'fallacy fallacy' to say that because they are based on faulty premises, they are necessarily false. It matters very little for our…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 10:06 PM
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The caveat here, that needs to be clarified for some: You need to enjoy being places that you will actually meet women and be social. This isn't license for you to sit on your ass and play world of warcraft because it's 'where you like to be.' Go out, try new things and find ones you like. If you enjoy the activity, you're more likely to keep doing it. You'll increase your chances of meeting girls by doing things regularly. You'll also come across as a guy who knows what he wants. Take the time …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 05:58 AM
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You're upset. There there. Was Clinton a womanizing manwhore? Maybe, maybe not. But people believe he was, because he couldn't keep it in his pants when he should have been doing more important things. I actually liked probably 80% of Clinton' domestic policy. His foreign policy was shit, but that's true for a lot of presidents. But that doesn't change his appearance of lacking priorities and self control. If you can't understand that appearances matter you need to read more of the sidebar mater…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:56 PM
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He also tended to do his philandering not in his office, but in other rooms. Like the old pool that has since been paved over to make the press room.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 11:57 AM
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It speaks to the principle of the deal. If you can't trust them enough, then you shouldn't sign it anyways. It's not an end all be all. Taking care of yourself is one thing, but if you're stuck with folk you can't trust, find new folk.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 10:10 AM
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High profile sexual history might make you the more accomplished slut, but it doesn't make you a desirable mate to a man. It's more of the same Red Pill stuff we preach.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:15 AM
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This is another part of why Clinton was an idiot. He got his rocks off, but she had so much more to gain and he so much more to lose because of it.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:14 AM
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LBJ was known for his schlong. He actually did shit like this to bully congressmen, albeit years before he was in the oval office. He also vowed to be a bigger philanderer than Kennedy. Difference is, he didn't get caught.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:11 AM
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This. Clinton fucked up. He fucked up because he shat where he ate. He fucked up because he lied about it when he didn't know with certainty the lie would pass. He fucked up because he got caught cheating on his wife in a society where people care that you cheat on your wife. Doesn't matter if you disagree with social constructs. They exist. You have to look like you're playing by the rules otherwise you stand out, and once you stand out, people watch you all the more closely for their shot to t…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:10 AM
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Bit of a difference between having a whore, and screwing her on the desk where the phone that can end the world sits. Also, don't shit where you eat is RP ProTip #1. If you're going to lie and go the Machiavellian route, don't get caught, or if you do, have more against the person that catches you than they have on you. But honestly, don't be an idiot and fuck your secretary if you're the president. You look like a goddamn fool.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:06 AM
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My grandfather gave me a bit of advice when I was young: If you have to read something before you sign it, don't. Same idea applies here. If you have to worry about the semantics of the wording before you get married, don't. But don't act like executing the letter of a contract and not the spirit doesn't make you a bastard. Embrace it or let it alone.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:59 AM
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Don't be naive. People have a logical reason to not want a womanizing manwhore at the helm when the ship starts sinking. It shows lack of prioritization. I do care if the leader of my country is more busy burying his shaft in a secretary than he is doing his job. It would be one thing if, like other presidents, he moonlighted with a whore because his wife is a shill (like Lincoln). It's a completely different thing to get a BJ in the Oval Office. And finally, it's not just the GOP that wanted to…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:54 AM
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Intimacy with a woman means occasionally being gentle, meeting her womanliness with receptiveness. It has absolutely nothing to do with opening up to her. You should already be honest about your expectations and she should already know what is and is not acceptable. LTR material is someone who betters your life and will help you meet your goals. She wants kids, makes you work hard at your job and fulfills you sexually? She listens to your leadership and her shittests and emotional outbursts are …
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 03:55 AM
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It decreases their value and capability of being a long term mate. Even if you personally work to end their social undesirability, women with more sex partners are worse long term mates, for several different reasons. Men have different effects from multiple partners, not all of them good, but none which ultimately make them poor long term mates off-hand.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 03:59 AM
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She has cheating on the mind. You didn't play it too hard. Asking if she has something she wants to say forces her to stop the ruse and confront her motives. Genuine insecurity like worrying, without cause, that someone is cheating, is something that needs to be dealt with by her. You aren't her shrink. You're her rock. Her leader. You go forward, not backward into her history.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 08:06 PM
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"No" 'Oh my god you're such an asshole we are so not talking right now'aaaas I go fuck the guy I was thinking about "yes" 'awww thx Babe I'm so glad I can trust you' Yeah he's totally gullible enough and as long as I hide it it'll be fine "[actually passes shit test]" fuck... He knows... Or he knows to expect it...
/r/askTRP14/10/14 10:01 AM
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But she also respected him. The whole goddamn story is the world's largest shit test, and he passes because he's fighting for his life. She comes out of it still a sociopath but very willing to work with him to make sure he gives her what she needs.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 08:41 PM
3

Jesus Christ, I just saw it. You want to kill the whole goddamn world.
/r/MGTOW05/10/14 05:08 AM
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I disagree. There's two measures of attractiveness for women: physical attractiveness and companionship. Her T&A may get her in the door, but her womanliness is what earns her seat at the table.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:08 AM
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Au contraire, you have to ask if she consents before you rape her house.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 06:51 PM
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Lemme just drop this here: A mother begins training her children from birth. She makes them wait for food; she controls when they play and how far they travel. Adults need these same rules, boundaries, and limitations from you, their leader. A leader doesn't project emotional or nervous energy, so neither should you. In the wild, the pack leader uses calm-assertive energy to influence how the individuals interact with their surroundings. A leader enforces these laws in a quiet way, as is the cas…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 06:42 PM
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I think the creepiness there is the presumptiveness. For example: If you're in a club, and there are single girls about, there comes a point when everyone involved is DTF, and just looking for someone compatible with them. So just saying: "I like you, let's get out of here" can get an F-close. Even if she's not into you, being that forward isn't presumptive, given the context. However, it would be presumptive to assume that anyone would go that far in the middle of the day without any circumstan…
/r/seduction29/09/14 06:18 PM
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Today's prices are a result of inflation, which is exactly what he said. I don't see what error you're trying to point out. There is no reason stable goods should cost more over time when technology decreases the cost of production. If wheat is plentiful (it is, we almost never have shortages) then bread should be cheap. But bread costs more now than 100 years ago with a much less stable wheat market. Why? Inflation. It's not hard.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 08:52 PM
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Exploitation means giving people jobs where they had none? What did I miss?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 08:47 PM
1

I'm beginning to wonder if deliberately posing as SJWs and making ridiculous claims against TRP would be beneficial.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 10:54 AM
1

Have you read or listened to Esther Vilar? This video is her discussing her book on how men are manipulated into capitulating for women, their whole life. It's a great debate between her and a complete manhater, who basically disowns Esther as a female because she dares to say that women completely fuck over men for their own selfish reasons.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 10:10 PM
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The irony is that Red Pill is the natural condition of things, and given enough threat to the artificially created peaceful society, we default to it. In the 20s women were whoring it up something awful with all the excess, then boom, stock crash, Nazi's and Japanese, men were men again, women calmed the fuck down and loved their men. Then peace and whoops, divorcing their now no-longer war hero husbands (though not nearly as much as today) arguing for a place in the workforce, leaving kids to b…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 10:00 PM
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Were she a feminine-positive feminist like Esther Vilar, I definitely could see it not being complete bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 09:50 PM
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That's almost word for word what my mother said to me last weekend. Also "why do you hate women?" came up. I never thought my own mother would be this naïve.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 06:12 AM
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The reason defendants are named is because we have a constitutional right to a public, speedy trial. This was intended to prevent secret court proceedings against people. If the government didn't like your best friend, arrested him in secret, tried him in secret, and convicted him in secret (or alternatively, arrested him in secret and held him 'awaiting trial' in secret for several years) there would be no recourse. The problem is public perception no longer includes the 'innocent until proven …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 02:05 AM
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That's a slippery slope. One of my family members is a public defender. According to them, in cases where the crime is serious, people are more likely to convict, all other things held equal, precisely for this reason. It's self fulfilling. "Oh, well she wouldn't dare make it up, especially since if she did, she'd go to prison. It's obviously a true accusation."
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:47 AM
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I spent some time in Italy. 6 hour work day 5 days a week with a 3 hour break for lunch.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:36 AM
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The difference is, this is a school, they don't have to have due process, since students are enrolled at the discretion of the institution. Hooray for 'progress'!
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 04:13 AM
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Angering things can still incite anger, that doesn't mean you're in any sort of phase. It's what becomes of it that matters.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 08:44 PM
1

Which is basically the lawsuit, if I understand it correctly: she should be equally guilty of assaulting him, because he too was too intoxicated to consent, and her intoxication doesn't preclude her from obtaining it, yet only he was punished. That's the discrimination.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 08:30 PM
1

Money is the medium of exchange of worth. You can get rich from inheritance, but you cannot stay rich without knowing how to do things that are worth money to other people. Pro footballers are hard workers that have stayed marketable, that produce views that sell seats and advertisements. There are about 3000 people in the world that can call themselves a current NFL player. There are just over 1000 first string players. They have achieved at that point. Making money is, for 90% of people, their…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 11:36 PM
3

Except several millions of dollars.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 09:58 AM
1

Have you found the actual story? Because you're still horribly butchering it. Population expansion? So, survival of your clan through strength in numbers? And I'm supposed to think that's something to be revolted by? Even if you're an evolutionist, you ought to believe that 'winning' at life means reproducing. The problem here is? First, it never says a woman is owned by her husband. Second, women tended to be 14-17 and men 25-30 at their first marriage, which necessitates a different relationsh…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 12:07 AM
1

There's very little difference between not having proof and claiming you have proof but not actually sharing it. You posted an assumption, and yet I doubt you even know what story that completely erroneous idea is based on, so I would love to see you substantiate it. a lot of Christianity pushes about relationships is complete bullshit Like?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 11:06 PM
5

And if you are looking for something serious and realize after a few years that you two are not going to fulfill each other's expectations, you're a tool? Fuck that. If he was with her three years he gave her a serious shot.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 08:53 PM
2

Honestly, her best bets are: work her fucking ass off and look like Gwyneth Paltrow at 41, and adopt.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 08:50 PM
1

I'm not going to bother looking up verses Assertions need verifiable, repeatable proof to be worth anything. I'll let you sort out your cognitive dissonance. As I said, christianity provides a rough outline for stable societies and relationships Ah, so you admit that, in regards to TRP, the Christian model works. That's all we need to discuss here.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:05 PM
1

there's a great many examples Alright, then it shouldn't be very difficult for you to bring up a few that we can discuss. To which are you referring? christianity is unpopular? In the same regard as TRP for promoting gender specific roles, it certainly is. what basis do you have for thinking the bible is anything but an inconsistent collection of myths edited for their purposes by 1500 years of corrupt catholic papacy? Personally, I've studied the original Greek manuscripts most translations of …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 07:15 AM
8

If you're not a natural My Christian upbringing prepared me better than society about the true value of gender roles. Sexual dimorphism was not only acknowledged but celebrated. As a young boy I was expected to become a man, to lead my life, create my career, and eventually to lead a family. Proverbs, and the story of Samson taught me that fickle women will try to use sex to delude you into serving them instead of leading them. massive societal misunderstanding of the fundamental nature of man T…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:54 AM
9

"Don't jump to conclusions" and "if you're going to get preachy, hold all people, including yourself, to the same standard" are the main takeaways. It's meant to challenge our personal assumptions to the same standard we apply to others before we react to a situation. In that regard, it's actually a Red Pill philosophy: do not be ruled by your emotions and fleeting assumptions, but rather measure people and yourself by what is true and logical. Next, the word 'judge' is the same word in Greek as…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 10:40 PM
1

I'd add a smirk. Everything is better with that subtle "Everything you do is playing right into my hands" smile.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 08:27 PM
15

As a fairly religious person, I'm appalled at how people use this passage without understanding it. It makes me lose respect for them instantly.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 08:25 PM
2

Preaches to avoid? Sounds like she's using shit tests like every woman does. Men do it too, but we understand them. All women will try to be manipulative if you give them the opportunity and don't make it clear that doesn't work. There are two things I take away from this: you never had a male role model who knew how to deal with your mother, even though she very blatantly knew how to handle shit tests herself, and you need to respect your mother for being your mother. My mother occasionally wil…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 08:47 PM
100

So she spent time with what amounts to 80%+ of all men. Creep and loser is guaranteed to mean any guy who is not found to be attractive and dares to exist in such a way that a woman notices him.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 02:11 AM
11

Take a deep breath, and talk, but try to use as little air as possible. Should sound kinda choked out. Now do it again, and really just let the air out in as few words as possible. Your voice will sound much lower in comparison. Your 'natural' voice is somewhere in between.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 05:50 PM
2

If it doesn't concern the two of you financially, or in scheduling together or for yourself, feel free to take initiative. Act and inform him if it's mildly important ("the cable is out, a tech is coming Thursday"). If you're making dinner, make it. If you want to watch a movie, and it's within your budget, bring it home. If he's displeased he'll say so and you can modify your behavior for the future.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 02:44 AM
1

If you don't feel grateful, in the midst of the stuff that you should be grateful for, then what would you suggest? You lack that emotion. You can't force yourself to just feel grateful anymore that you can force yourself in any particular moment to be happy or to be attracted to someone.
/r/seduction03/09/14 07:03 PM
1

Persevere, brother. It gets better. bro power fist
/r/seduction03/09/14 01:56 AM
1

So people like you *
/r/seduction03/09/14 01:54 AM
1

That's not what I'm getting at. I agree that if you're faking it so people like you're missing the point. But from a personal growth standpoint, pointing out the things you should be grateful for to yourself, as a starting point, is important.
/r/seduction03/09/14 01:53 AM
3

As much as I love the gun and business laws in my state, I'm embarrassed about this.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 01:21 AM
1

you can think you're some sort of rock man I'm not sure if you're meaning to direct this at me, or just speaking in a general 2nd person tense. But I basically agree with you. A lot of people have trouble separating 'being' something from 'feeling like they are' something. It's hard to 'shut up and be grateful' when you don't feel grateful even after looking at the marginally good things about your life. All I'm getting at is, don't let not feeling grateful stop you. Do what a grateful person wo…
/r/seduction03/09/14 12:54 AM
2

Google the Vin DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. It's nearly fool proof. Second, if you feel like you lost frame, you did. Your frame or inner game needs to be outcome independent. You are still 'you' if she turns you down, if she tells you to stop, if she leaves to help her roommate. Everything should roll off. Own yourself. So what if you're inexperienced? It's who you are right now. Can't change the past. Make sense? Ultimately, frame comes down to owning everything about yourself. Don't be ashamed …
/r/askTRP03/09/14 12:38 AM
7

Maybe I'm being pedantic, but 'act' sounds more along the lines of what the author is getting at than 'be.' In my mind its an extension of 'Fake it until you become it.' Act grateful even if you aren't feeling grateful, and you will eventually be grateful.
/r/seduction03/09/14 12:19 AM
2

While quality women are scarce, to you, they are all interchangeable. You need to act like the kind of man these women are attracted to, at all times. That's the frame you adopt. I'm going to guess that you're religious based on what you've said, and I am as well. There's no reason to stop looking at the pool of all women. If you don't need sex from women, they have less power over you. They have to win you over by their personality. That said, you'll probably be happier keeping a fair amount of…
/r/askTRP02/09/14 08:24 PM
2

This is actually good advice. Drugs or alcohol that affect your frame or coherence enough to jeopardize your results should be looked at seriously to see if you should eliminate them from your life. If acid is hurting your game, you should get rid of it. If weed is hurting your ability to keep your job or your motivation to work out, you should get rid of it. If alcohol tends to end with you being a sloppy drunk, you should get rid of it.
/r/trpGAME02/09/14 07:52 AM
5

If it's true, do you care? If not, ignore it, and make plans anyways. Most importantly, don't break frame. Make it clear she's only marginally worth your time. You aren't going to talk her out of it. Push forward and just go ahead, or just text a 'ha, k' and next her.
/r/trpGAME02/09/14 06:03 AM
3

The difference is, a significant portion of men, even those only moderately attuned to their inner alpha, still look upon a drastically underdressed slut and think that she's probably easy, and from there, depending on their disposition will attempt to pump-n-dump or just ignore as they please. While they are free to dress as they will, that's not what they want. They want men to not see them as they are. They want to wear a thong bikini into a business interview and be seen as whatever they dec…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 04:31 AM
3

Yeah, cut off all contact for a week or two, let her wallow, fuck her in the ass when she can't take the separation anymore or just move on, your choice.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 08:46 PM
5

I would agree, and add that to a woman, the social contract of a relationship is with the stipulation that you provide her value. If you aren't providing her value, she's completely justified in obtaining it from another source. The lie is just because other women stand to gain from her being labeled a cheater in the eyes of men. Females are in constant competition with one another over high value mates, and no high value mate with tie himself to a known narcissist. The lie is self preservation.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 07:24 PM
8

It always matters. Being able to obscure your intentions whether they be good natured or not, truthful or deceitful, isn't something to shy away from. You should read the 48 laws of power.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 07:16 PM
12

Incorrect. People act in the way they find most expedient. A woman cheats because she does not value her relationship more than the sex she is being offered, in that moment. You are either lower value than the other man (your responsibility) or she isn't interested in the long term consequences for her actions (her responsibility). Usually some of both.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 04:18 PM
8

If you can't lie convincingly, you lack a very valuable skill. You should be able to lie and appear to tell the truth, and tell the truth but appear to be lying, as you choose. Then you are the master of how people perceive you.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 04:09 PM
21

The point of women being pointed out in all their imperfect glory is precisely to take them off the pedestal. The misogyny is the beginning of the acceptance that perhaps sunshine does not shine out of their asses. If you were told shit was chocolate your whole life, and you finally tasted chocolate, you miiight be a little pissed off every time you're reminded that you've been had your whole life, but the guy selling you shit is just trying to get his.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 05:16 AM
1

You know lifting accomplishes those things if not done like a moron, right?
/r/askTRP18/08/14 05:35 PM
5

My excuse: I was pulling 16 hours a day 6 days a week running my business for about 10 weeks. But I didn't stop exercising. I'd squeeze in a tabata of something when I could. I kept plates in my car. I'd do pushups in the middle of a phone call. Things are settling down. I'm fuckin ecstatic to hit the gym hard.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 05:34 PM
5

It means they use it to only fuck people they find attractive.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 10:23 PM
4

If they think you're actually being an asshole until they look at your amused face, you're toeing the line perfectly.
/r/seduction15/08/14 10:06 PM
7

Cultivate as many relationships as possible. One of my friends from high school and I reconnected after college, and after having drinks and lunch with him, we're already sharing helpful business contacts with one another. It's very easy to buy him and a contact of mine lunch so they meet, and then for him to do the favor for me. You never know who people know until you start talking to them. Sample: "So what are you doing these days?" "Well I'm interning at this firm, and I've shot off some app…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 09:31 PM
5

My flavor of this has a lot of muted facial expressions, and deadpan delivery with just a twinkle of the eyes and slight smirk.
/r/seduction15/08/14 09:09 PM
1

Exactly, so you shouldn't assume that someone is making a stupid semantic argument because they don't agree with how sayings apply to your life.
/r/seduction14/08/14 09:04 PM
1

It's not a straw man if it's an actual difference that real people recognize. I'm not arguing against you, I'm saying some people see there is a difference that makes a difference between the sentiments of the two. Semantics matter because words have meanings. Just because you and a group of people agree that 'making it' and 'becoming it' are the same doesn't mean that all people share that definition. Making the paradigm shift from 'making it' to 'becoming it' has helped me much more than just …
/r/seduction14/08/14 08:31 PM
1

Thanks for posting this. It seems the sentiment around here is that the idea is frivolous.
/r/seduction14/08/14 08:20 PM
1

I'll let Amy Cuddy's TED talk explain it, perhaps she can do a better job of getting through to you: http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are
/r/seduction14/08/14 08:19 PM
0

I think it has to do with the outcome dependence of 'making it' as if it's a one time thing. You don't cross 'was confident' off the list because you succeeded at actually being confident one time after faking it several(possibly hundreds) of times. By faking it until you become it, you're making a choice to act this way whether you feel it or not, forevermore. When you become it, you're no longer faking, but you still act that way.
/r/seduction14/08/14 06:39 PM
0

Don't be afraid to get up and walk away. Another tip is saving the bed for sex and sleep, and cuddle on the couch. If she's bothering you in bed just say "Not now, I'm trying to sleep." You can train this over time if haven't made it clear from the get go.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 08:53 AM
1

A few pieces at a time. Buy an article or two every month, making sure it fits well. You'll be able to dress decently as your body changes.
/r/trpGAME10/08/14 05:31 PM
1

Let me clarify: I don't intend to get stuck taking her to dinner because that's bullshit, she hasn't given me anything to be worth that. So how do I play this 'set up' to not be in that position? I'm not actually in contact with her to run any logistics. I'm leaning towards just getting her number from the guy since if she's attracted enough to go on any date she's attracted enough that me having her number and running this my way isn't going to backfire.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 02:58 PM
1

Exactly. She's not worth a dinner date. So how the fuck do I turn it from this guy saying "you two show up at this restaurant at the same time" to actually getting a field I can play? I don't have her number, like I said I ran into her at his office once.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 02:52 PM
1

What about getting a sure date into bed is blue pill?
/r/askTRP07/08/14 01:27 PM
2

Texting soon is just a witty "test 1234" to keep the connection fresh and make sure it's a real number. If you like to go radio silent then you still can after that. It's not desperate, just nice logistics.
/r/seduction06/08/14 01:40 PM
1

Ideally you would have texted her within about 12 hours saying something hinting at who you are and referencing what you talked about. Once you got that out of the way: Invite her for when you have time. If that doesn't work, offer one alternative. Then it's on her. It's about communicating interest. Any more and you seem needy/desperate. If she's down she'll counter offer and make it work. If not you tried.
/r/seduction06/08/14 01:13 PM
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She doesn't have a boyfriend or doesn't plan to keep him. You should have ignored her saying it or said something witty. Right now, ignore it, or possibly try a 'You have until 6pm Thursday to deal with that boyfriend so we can grab coffee."
/r/seduction06/08/14 12:45 PM
4

This is also my experience. Having an 8.5 attention whore cut in when you're dancing with a 7 because she can't stand you hitting on her friend but not her has happened to me several times.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 11:57 AM
4

I've been a fan of the, "I didn't think we were serious enough to put a title on it yet, babe. I guess I need to look up my list of pet names, shmookums bear." Basically, assume attraction to absurdity.
/r/trpGAME06/08/14 08:55 AM
1

Let go of your expectations. Everything you get out of life is something you've earned by virtue of your SMV.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 03:43 AM
10

Yes. Vasectomy stops the sperm from joining the rest of the semen. You won't even notice the difference in volume, it's less than 5%. Info: http://www.mydr.com.au/mens-health/vasectomy-frequently-asked-questions
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:33 AM
1

The flipside is guys may say, eh, she's a 5 but I'll still hit it. Girls won't until/unless you show them your value is greater than your looks.
/r/seduction04/08/14 08:00 PM
29

I failed some approaches last night. Not a single fuck was given.
/r/seduction04/08/14 08:47 AM
3

Everything matters. What matters more about a man's sexual history is the quality of women he's been with. If you're known as a chubby chaser, or have a history with girls that had a screw loose and weren't hot, then yeah, it'll matter. Women have a huge validation problem when they know you have other options and have proof of that, IE ex's. Would I tell my daughter to look at a man's partner count? Sure, but there's other things that matter more in her choosing a mate.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 02:58 AM
2

That's exactly what I'm getting at. You should look at every social interaction as an investment or an exchange. It's not a bad thing to have self interest. And this applies to friends too. If they don't offer your life anything, then find new friends. The simplest Red Pill philosophy can be made is that all persons are just self interested people doing their best to look out for themselves. Even those beautiful princess, couldn't hurt a fly, sweet, down home girls. That's the essence of hyperga…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 03:30 PM
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Sweet loving women don't exist. Interested women who have something to gain from being with you do.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 03:19 AM
1

Lose the midtext emotes. Deadpan and vague humor makes the hamster spin. I'd have gone with: "yeah my garter has been riding up, always makes my voice crack"
/r/askTRP01/08/14 01:06 AM
0

My knowledge is limited, but essentially, if assets are put into a trust, they aren't really owned by you. You have varying degrees of control over them determined by who else is in the trust with you. If you don't have control or ownership of an asset, then you aren't sharing that with your spouse, so they aren't entitled to a share of it. It works better with larger groups of people. If I am a part of a trust that is managed by, say, 15 family members, and they decide that my leadership isn't …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 10:41 AM
2

Men more generally admit that their rationalizing is just that, that it's unlikely and they're just trying to hold out hope. Women fully disregard that which is not their rationalized reality.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 04:44 AM
5

I too used to hate the third party, then I realized that eskimo brothers are for life, even if the girl is a whore.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 03:44 AM
2

Thanks for this. I needed that kick in the pants. Any other inner game suggestions?
/r/askTRP28/07/14 01:00 AM
2

That, and being the host I have more Machiavellian opportunities, since I know or meet everyone, and know or learn everything that happens throughout the course of the night. One of my Bros gets it on with a girl cheating on her BF and I've know everyone involved.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 12:38 AM
3

Over time some of them have become decent friends, much as anyone who is in your social circle long enough and with whom you've built enough rapport.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 10:43 PM
4

I don't know what part of "this has worked for me" you missed, but I wouldn't say it worked if it didn't. Hosting parties means I know sluts I wouldn't touch with with a 10 foot pole that I keep in my circle for various reasons. They have friends that I tag simply because it's my house they're in. They're a sure thing for guy friends looking for a lay. The overall success of the party makes more people come to future ones.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 10:37 PM
11

Calm down keyboard warrior. Have you never hosted a party? Hot single girls make it not a sausage fest. You have to know some that you're not interested in to bring the ones you're going to tag. You have your high value male friends as an added incentive for your no go's to show up. Managing a social circle is a valuable skill.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 10:30 PM
10

Utilizing an attractive female social circle as preselection has worked for me. I'm not trying to bang them. It's a social proof give and take. I can use them and their flirtatiousness for preselection and social proof, and I can set them up with high SMV males that I meet and expand my social circle.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 08:37 PM
4

I have female friends. I generally wing for their boyfriends to help get them laid more. Bros before hoes.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 07:56 PM
2

I think my execution problem here is holding the initial contact too long before turning away. I need to be clearly first to break so that it's on my terms, and then be vigilant about her so when I turn my attention back it's open to being received.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 07:47 PM
2

It seems like you need to work on your inner game. Self acceptance, self reliance, inner peace and stoicism might benefit you.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 07:26 PM
-1

Women are acting rationally... given their innate decision matrix about mating behavior and the cultural environment. It's not just cultural differences. Women are by their nature going to weigh some completely irrelevant mate characteristics as 'quality' and others as 'poor.' They weigh traits certain ways. It's not necessarily rational to do so, but they do consistently. A computer that is programmed to weight certain things and ignore others still follows it's programming. Women(and men, albe…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 07:23 PM
1

Self presentation is a big thing: Lift heavy, dress fashionably and well, and have elements of your standard of living present (i.e. your Rolex watch, your nice cufflinks, high quality shades, designer clothes) to help peacock. Your goal is to not only have high SMV, but to stand out as having it. You can do this even while understating certain things. For example, you don't have to take your shirt off and show your six pack, but you can wear clothes that make it apparent. Preselection helps. Fi…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 07:09 PM
2

I started with The Game by Neil Strauss aka Style. It's a classic in the PUA community, and while some of the techniques are somewhat out of date, the principles are still sound when modified for the times. Mostly, however, it is a good, easy read, and he has a lot of information to direct you to that worked for him. IMO it's a great place to start with to keep you interested and give you a base to build your knowledge from.
/r/RedPillBooks27/07/14 07:00 PM
0

If you're a solid 9 physically, it's possibly legit. Follow up in a public place and be prepared to immediately take care of business.
/r/seduction27/07/14 06:45 PM
3

Exactly, man. It works with other behaviors too. You just have to be on your game.
/r/seduction26/07/14 04:37 PM
27

I conditioned one of my girlfriends by giving her a light smack with a goodbye. So funny that after 2 months of her yelling at me for doing it, the time I withhold she glanced over her shoulder and frowned as she walked away.
/r/seduction26/07/14 01:23 PM
1

I'm in the states. I have friends and family that like the Mary Jane. That's cool. I'm not into mind altering drugs in general, (although you can make a case that alcohol is, and then fine, that's my one exception, but even then, occasional drinking to excess as a result of being social and having a good time is different than seeking out a specific drug, IMO, but I digress) I have no desire to try it and don't want it around me. I wouldn't be opposed to my woman having tried it, or used it in t…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 03:59 PM
1

As a devout Jew, it would be more odd if his mind didn't immediately turn to the laws of his people before deciding against using them.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 11:45 AM
2

First of all, no guy wants an easy girl long term. If you're easy for him, you're easy for other people. Ways to show staying power really come down to DHV(demonstrating high value). What sorts of things do guys value long term from women? Care giving abilities, an interesting, open personality, stable life choices, etc. Cook for him. Pop in on laundry day and help out without asking for something in return. Go on adventurous dates.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 11:39 AM
-1

It's not an act of mercy if you don't stay yourself from harsh action. Look no further than the husband of the mother of the son of God. Fully considering stoning his fiancée for getting knocked up, but then showed mercy by downgrading it to quiet divorce, and when the literal voice of God told him otherwise did he stay with her. Now ask yourself, did Christ himself come and tell you your girlfriend is not a whore? Of course not. She should count her blessings that she's in a more civilized coun…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 10:05 AM
3

You should have realized by now that it's your SMV that gets you women, nothing more, nothing less. Game is a combination of being the physical specimen they want to fuck, the mentally stimulating guy they want to be around, and the man of status they will appreciate being attached to. You can increase your lays by just having one or two of those parts but you'll have no staying power without all three, and two of them take a long time of steadily plodding away to achieve. The mental side of thi…
/r/askTRP21/07/14 01:34 PM
1

6'4" 258 lbs looks like this--Brian Urlacher-- if you aren't on gear. It's functional strength. Here's several near 6ft. bodies in the 220 pound range, that are perfectly fine goals
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 01:44 AM
0

220lbs @6'6" would be pretty thin. I'm 205 @ 5'11", and I still want to gain.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 06:18 PM
6

My Mustang has done me many a favor that a bike couldn't. You can still go fast, but she doesn't have to worry about her hair being destroyed by the time we get to our destination. YMMV
/r/trpGAME19/07/14 03:41 AM
1

They're hamstering "unattractive" as permanent trait, because they believe that an unattractive man will always be, and they're terrified of that being true of them. This is why the wall hits so hard.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 11:06 PM
2

The road to hell is paved with good intentions. You can "want" to get in shape until hell freezes over, it's not going to happen until you act. Flipping your shit because a woman hamsters your mutual fatness is caving to the hamster. Women will always hamster. Our power comes in action and leadership, not intentions and emotions. He should have lost the weight, hit the dread game hard, and if she still hadn't followed him, then 'Next.' Bottom line: her hamster broke his frame, and made him react…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 11:03 PM
1

And subtlety. A wink and a smile should be enough.
/r/trpGAME25/06/14 12:50 AM
1

Give value to whoever you're with, and they'll invite you back. People live busy lives, and this should include yourself. Scheduling isn't always easy. Sometimes my job has me tied up for 14 hours, then with the gym, shower, and dinner I don't get back to people before sleep. Doesn't matter. Live your life, incorporate others, and make friends with any group of people you meet and you won't go wrong.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 12:47 AM
1

Or is it showing that alphas can get oneitis and be betafied if it goes on long enough? Ever notice how the relationship in said movies is usually based on some shit that nobody in their right mind would think was the foundation of an actual good relationship? Movies aren't real. If they're entertaining because of the irony, then it is deliberately a nearly impossible situation. If they're preaching a message, then it's an agenda.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 07:20 PM
5

First of all, nice edit. I know your original post mentioned politeness, and that's what my reply was based on. So, what points do are ineffectively communicated without politeness? What about this subreddit is unclear to you?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 06:54 AM
9

To what end? This is the Internet. Parsing properly can be a skill (Machiavellianism, and game come to mind) but only when it is something for you to gain. TRP isn't interested in moralistic value placed on things. This is a place for discussing sexual strategy. Your application of strategic theory can be limited to your morals, but there is nothing here that should be even trying to maintain some moral high ground. This isn't the place. We are here to discuss what works, what does not, and hypo…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 03:16 AM
3

Estrogen is added to America's food supply. Plastics are a bitch, man.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 03:33 AM
8

If you're her CO, she's going to suck your cock for a promotion, claim rape no matter what happens, and try to ruin your career, unless you're a general. If you're attractive and beneath her rank, she will make your life hell until/unless you sleep with her, and then she will claim rape if you ever try to stop.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 03:31 AM
8

That's still rape, he can just afford to pay her silence when he's done.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 03:28 AM
2

But you don't have to get them the same way. Having an 8 friend will pull in 7-9s.
/r/seduction18/06/14 03:09 AM
1

Having attractive female friends helps with preselection. Now, they're attractive, so being DTF with them is understandable, but if you find yourself being emotionally attached(romantically), you need to reevaluate the terms of your friendship.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 09:00 PM
5

It's dominated by women because it's essentially what women do for other women. Have a problem? Complain about it to your friends. Now, they can backstab you to getssomething they want. Unless they want your help. Then they'll help you, but hold onto anything you tell them so they can throw it in your face later when they can. Human resources is Frenemies for WorkTM
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 07:36 AM
5

Running proper dread game can help, but why put half of everything you've earned your whole life in the line? Selfish vanity is limited in utility.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 07:06 PM
3

I disagree. I have a social network, without the backend being supported by a business selling my information. I call, text, and meet people to talk to them. And it works. Being able to say "I'm not on Facebook, but here's my card, and my personal number" is powerful.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 04:33 AM
9

"Whoa what makes you think I put out that easy?"
/r/askTRP14/06/14 04:19 AM
7

Showing that you have emotion, and not relying on her for you to deal with it is the key. I once read my favorite childhood book to an LTR, The Giving Tree. I had tears rolling down my face as I finished. My voice didn't crack, I closed the book, put it down wiped off my face and went back to what I was doing(moving some boxes I think). The sex that night was prime. The golden rule always applies. You have emotions, but you still hold frame.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 04:08 AM
1

On your last point: be wary of being a know-it-all. Interesting things should be shared akin to something you recently realized or learned.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 03:49 AM
6

Corollary to the last one: sharing time is not when she wants to hear your problems, but rather your successes. When she asks, "How was your day?" she wants to hear "I was just made VP" or "I brought in a big client" or "I hit a new max on squats" or whatever it is that you're doing. You should make a list of everything you do each day that you succeed at anyways. First, it reinforces good behavior. Second, it gives you ammo for your resume, and the quarterly letter you should be writing to your…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 10:22 PM
1

To the last question, play the piano for her(, nothing mushy, just whatever you've got) make food, use your laptop for music and maybe a movie. Use your bed like the couch to watch a movie. Use the laws of Kino, but you can take the first few steps slowly. Talk. Go for a walk. Literally whatever you want.
/r/trpGAME12/06/14 04:52 AM
3

Yeah, physically forcing yourself upon a girl is rape. Getting past LMR isn't. You don't get past LMR by rape, because she obviously would be resisting(with very few exceptions). Rape is failure.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 04:30 AM
4

"Hey listen this has been fun, but I've gotta get going. I'd love to continue this conversation though" smile"Thursday afternoon? I've only got one rule though, I don't pay for a girl on the first date... " or similar.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 03:33 PM
2

I will tell her upfront. "I have one rule, I don't pay for a girl on the first date." and I'll break it up with a "my money for free meals goes to the soup kitchen" or "the important things are worth waiting for" with a wink, or something. If I extend a date, I'll pay. So, we just got back from a hike or something, and totally jonesing for a smoothie or something, I'll get that, my treat.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 02:56 AM
0

Being old fashioned is attractive in a lot of instances because our fathers and grandfathers weren't pussified by society. My grandfather moved 3000 miles with his wife, worked for years living on next to nothing, and started a business that is thriving today. Being reminiscent of that gives tingles.
/r/trpGAME10/06/14 09:03 PM
5

This really is the only answer.
/r/trpGAME10/06/14 08:58 PM
0

I want to add that sleep is critical, too. Muscle regen happens during REM, and being short on sleep can up your Cortisol so you retain fat and lose your gains.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 08:23 PM
4

I, as a rule, don't pay for her on the first date, and I make sure she knows it. There are some exceptions and logistics involved with maintaining that, limitations on where we go as a result, etc.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 08:06 PM
1

like this Stop qualifying it. If she posts on Facebook, she's looking for validation. It doesn't matter what it is. You don't post things online connected to your real identity without expecting to be recognized for them.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 06:10 AM
5

I hope to find a unicorn, myself. They do exist in high numbers in churches, and similar circles, although it is not a given. Knowing game, and how to handle yourself, will still attract them. Thus, having high standards, bettering yourself with these skills, and keeping your frame will eventually get you what you seek, or at the least protect you from those who want to take advantage of your search for a unicorn. Keep realistic, but high, expectations. If you want a lifelong mate, remember that…
/r/askTRP10/06/14 04:55 AM
4

I attributed it to a form of rejection. She's probably an 8, and is used to being an object of attraction. Now this guy comes along and doesn't fall for that bag. So not only is her power play up, but she's also, for some reason 'not attractive enough' in her mind, for him to sleep with her. He holds all the power.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 09:16 PM
13

Interesting anecdote in regards to your last sentence: girl I know has long had a thing for alpha cock, since high school. Currently she's dating a guy who is definitely alpha, Army Ranger, Sergeant, helps disadvantaged kids and does MMA. And HE'S the one who won't put his dick in her until they're married(supposedly). I know the guy and his pastor. Sounds legit. I know this drives her nuts. I'd love some analysis of this situation.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 08:24 PM
3

Shit like this is why I'm not on Facebook. You shouldn't even flinch. She's craving a reaction. You should have said something like "I better see that on the floor when you get home" and then moved on. If she's the kind of girl to post stuff on Facebook in the first place, she's an attention whore, not worth an LTR.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 08:10 PM
1

The problem with that, and your original analogy, is the presumption of error, rather than merely overconfidence. Overconfidence doesn't mean that what you have is not innately valuable. A 3 of a kind will win a lot of hands. Being confident that it will win every hand will have you lose some to better hands, but also win a lot simply because you aren't caught bluffing and thus won't be called out. If you believe your 3 of a kind is enough to win, you will play like it is, and people with better…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 07:46 PM
8

Perhaps a better analogy: you're not bluffing by counting cards. If you know the hand you have is good enough to win a high enough percentage of the time, it's just as good as having a good hand.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 10:57 PM
4

The Red Pill is for the sick, not the healthy. There are a lot of people here who are beginning to understand that they've been sold a lie their whole life, and they're very bitter about that. These people need to stick around longer and realize that TRP is not about "everything is a lie," but rather "here is the truth, go and use it to better yourself." You have to get past the first stage to get to the real, life changing parts, and for some people it takes longer. Misogyny is not Red Pill, al…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 06:46 AM
3

And that's when you hold frame and up the charm.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 11:56 PM
5

Men tend to have realistic, if high, expectations. Women are hypergamists always.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 11:37 PM
7

My best bros have enough on me and I them, it's not worth being frenemies. We aren't women. We don't need to hold years of friendship hostage to get something we want. Your mileage may vary, but honest men friendships are good.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:50 AM
1

The pill just starts the journey down the rabbit hole. It's the exit, not the destination.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 12:34 AM
3

The red pill is what gets you out of the matrix . Do you need to take it if you're not in the matrix? No. Do you go to a hospital if you're perfectly healthy? Only if you're a doctor or visiting someone who needs your support. It's not for you. It offers you nothing in the terms of self betterment.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 06:53 AM
7

I feel like I'd have to give a wink as part of the delivery to make it natural. I guess I tend to say stuff pretty dead-pan. Anyone got any advice here?
/r/seduction26/05/14 04:03 AM
3

I'll bite: TRP is for the sick, not the healthy. If everyone were getting laid, they wouldn't need TRP. Obviously TRP is popular because it's searching for solutions to a problem. Don't assume that TRP is blatantly anti-reality. If there is real world evidence for or against a theory(as there is for hypergamy, for example) then by all means submit it. Just because there are far more people here trying to fix themselves doesn't mean it doesn't work. It means that there are 50,000 people reading T…
/r/askTRP26/05/14 03:28 AM
1

Yeah, I read a few pages and it was all just himself Hamstering his lack of success. How the fuck is that red pill? People are trying to make this a thing. It's not. It's a sad, mentally ill person who went nuts.
/r/MGTOW25/05/14 11:45 PM
11

The Red Pill is for the sick, not the healthy. You don't need to take the pill if you're not plugged in. That people think we're condoning the sickness instead of trying to cure it is the ridiculous part. Did this guy want to be sick? He obviously wanted to kill other people rather than fix himself and what he was doing wrong. That's not Red Pill. That's Hamstering 101: blame others for your problems, get hostile when they don't care.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 11:35 PM
1

As a matter if pragmatism, being careful is advisable. If he didn't have any backing or evidence, would you suggest he still do the fiance a solid? If I knew someone would fuck up my life in a hot second without so much as a blink, I'd hold my tongue until/unless my cards were good enough. Not that I would do nothing. I would just wait until I had what I needed. This kid is in a beneficial situation because she was caught, on tape, with several witnesses, and his boss is a hell of a guy. Without…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 12:37 AM
3

Don't do anything unless it is a conscious choice to bettering yourself. Will nofap better you? Will masturbation better you? Are you going MGTOW for the moment to focus on building your SMV? You have to ask yourself what you want out of your life and do what is necessary to get to that point.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 07:57 AM
0

Starbucks, near a daycare place, after drop off time, so around 8 am, is where I've had my best luck. Holding a good book and working on your coffee you can catch them when they're getting their indulgence, and I think the indulgence mindset plays to your favor(if you're a treat, that is). Conversational flirting is a key skill, maturity but not terribly much, peacocking kept to a minimum. Seems a fair portion are open for just physical relationships, too.
/r/seduction17/05/14 02:35 AM
1

How do you stop being the animal that you're wired to be? You don't. You either accept the trade she's willing to exchange or you don't and you find someone who has a trade you're willing to take.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 10:00 PM
1

There are probably other virgins who want to lose their V card. So, if you really want to hit a virgin, there are opportunities. But part of what makes this particular one so appealing is more than her virginity, it's what it signifies in regards to her overall value.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 05:09 PM
1

TRP is amoral sexual strategy. Strategy is a longer term goal than tactics. Getting individuals laid is tactics. Getting men to be men and women to be women is strategy. Of course, some men just want to get laid. That's fine. But by being positive masculine, you control the power structure. Which type of daughter would you rather raise, the one who is complementary to her husband, or one who is a plate? That said, if she gets plated, it's not entirely your fault, it's hers for her own decisions.…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 05:05 PM
1

Men are naturally polyamorous, in that, we are wired to spread our genetics to all available sources. Women gain from stable relationships, because the risk of childbirth is offset. Valuing female virginity is natural for both genders, because a virgin has more reproductive and overall mate value. She wants to remain a virgin because it's a currency that can only be spent once. You want her to be a virgin because she's less likely to have had her brain chemistry fucked up from oxytocin release b…
/r/askTRP12/05/14 04:32 PM
9

Find a new church. Was recently at a church that had that passage quoted in the marriage ceremony. I was thoroughly impressed with the balls it took to do that in this day and age.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 09:42 AM
1

If you're saying that he's trying to plate an unplateable, sure. If you're actually suggesting that Christian girls do not want Red Pill husbands I think you need to reevaluate.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 09:28 AM
3

Always hold your drink in your left hand. That way, when you go to shake someone's hand, your right hand is dry and warm. Little touch I picked up. Not necessarily for seduction, but just in general as a power player.
/r/seduction12/05/14 03:57 AM
10

The thing about seduction stories is that being 'in the zone' kinda makes sense. Even Style admitted that there are nights when the stars align and you are a fuckin assassin, able to slay anyone in the room with a glance. The confidence you get compounds with your technique and it's just easy. This is true in other things too. When I played sports, there were always those games where literally every play you tried works.
/r/seduction12/05/14 12:38 AM
2

Does this help?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 03:01 AM
2

Seriously, tell that to farm boys on dairies that are huge because they lift heavy shit all day and drink raw milk. There's a reason the Midwest has been a breeding ground for offensive linemen for about a century.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 03:34 PM
1

A basic animal function might be repressed and controlled by those who master it, and yes, I believe that having self control is the mark of a good man. The difference is not all people have self control. Just because you have a right to not be molested doesn't mean that if you are, willfully or not, vulnerable to molestation, people will just ignore it. They won't. They don't. People have limited self control. It's a fact of life. Women that are physically undermatched, vulnerable, and sexually…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 06:32 AM
1

True, there are some elements of feminism that have invaded modern Christianity. I'm not purporting that any of these is an ideal of TRP, only that they do have some of the things right, and an intelligent man can find these examples and learn from them. One does not have to follow blindly any ideology to pick the things that are insightful from it. Social conservatives really are a misnomer. I honestly think it does a disservice to their points about modesty and self control to try to legislate…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 09:53 PM
0

And this from someone who probably thinks "no means no."
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 09:28 PM
19

I'm not promoting a political ideology. I'm noting places where TRP is espoused within modern society. Religious groups tend to also have 'traditional' views on gender that openly accept and celebrate sexual dimorphism. Drawing truth from any source that exhibits it is a trait every man should learn.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 07:10 AM
23

It should be no surprise that conservatives have more traditional values on gender, and openly recognize sexual dimorphism, a crucial component of TRP. They are the closest thing to an anti-feminist party around. Libertarians support meritocracy and personal achievement, very much TRP in that regard.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 06:48 AM
2

Depending on how she sits on the HB scale, I would consider going out with her as a wing, or at least as a 'friend' who helps you out with preselection. I have two 9s I've known for about 10 years via high school and family friends that I do this with. Works like a charm.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 06:32 AM
2

Leadership is what people call manipulation when it benefits everyone or most people involved.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 06:14 AM
8

You have to get some of the things that make you the prize. You shouldn't delude yourself into thinking you're the prize if you're a fat fuck living with your parents with no money, no job or a very shitty one, and no social skills, and no women. You should be thinking "I need to get my fucking act together." Because you fucking do. Don't shit yourself. If this is you: get up, RIGHT NOW and do as many push ups as you can do. By this I mean, until when you try to push up, you just don't go anywhe…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:58 AM
2

Reddit...gives me value I want to emphasize that it's not Reddit that takes it away. If you're learning valuable things from Reddit and using the time wisely, it can be a very good tool to bettering yourself. This is why TRP exists. If you look at Reddit because you're bored, you're doing it wrong. You should never be bored. If you tailor Reddit to your needs, and check it once a day, it can be useful. Social networks can work similarly if used properly, but I really just got sick of shit and go…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:39 AM
2

Bits of advice I've collected: Never talk about the relationship. It's always just her and me. If she asks about it say something like: "When we're together it's fun, I want it to work naturally, I don't want to ruin it with too much pressure from expectations." If she's unwilling to sleep with you without it being a relationship then dread game is the way to go. You tell her "We aren't going to do anything together that either of us is uncomfortable with, but I'm not here to play games. Intimac…
/r/askTRP25/04/14 12:58 AM
2

The single mom crowd hits it hard. Can be gold if you frequent the ones around child care locations around drop off time.
/r/seduction24/04/14 04:16 PM
10

Step one: go study Step two: make eye contact Step three: smile Step four: "I know we're supposed to be quiet in here, but I just had to say...." Continue game as usual.
/r/seduction24/04/14 04:14 PM
8

In the interest of general advice, /u/brahs_al_guhl mentioned knowingly giving someone an STD. Vasalgel only stops sperm(and I'm unsure of it's efficacy as a birth control with the current state of research on it). If you're spinning plates, condoms are still a must for STD prevention. Don't let her give you debilitating disease because you aren't committed to her.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 10:41 PM
3

In some ways yes. But there was a post by Tyler of RSD(the actual posting account was Papa, but it says in the title that it was Tyler) about the Secret Society that I think is the epitome of Seduction meets The Red Pill. Seddit doesn't normally like these 'high game' type things because, I suspect, the 80/20 rule applies even there. Things are upvoted on reddit because people are attached to what they've viewed and having not seen that these elements of society themselves it's hard to accept. T…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 03:29 AM
11

There is nothing preventing you from acting like that. Except for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 07:23 AM
5

I can't say I agree with everything Stefan says/does, but boy does he know how to hold frame.
/r/askTRP20/04/14 07:37 PM
2

Shit tests are boundary tests mixed with frame tests. The way to 'win' isn't to call her on her bullshit, it's to pass the test. Literally, you must get past it. If you call attention to it, you reinforce that it has affected your frame. For the little things, ignoring them in a way that makes it clear that you aren't biting is immensely more productive than retaliating. Sometimes a disappointed glance is all it takes. Getting up and walking away. That sort of thing. Do you have any particulars …
/r/askTRP20/04/14 02:53 PM
4

If you take away Wonder Girl's tits, take away Prince Charming's six pack and royalty title and we might call it even.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 03:07 AM
6

This article does a fairly good job of laying the groundwork. Edit: this too https://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/why-women-feel-more-attached-after-sex-than-men-2457011.html
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 05:57 PM
1

BP Males also promote promiscuity to increase their chances of getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 05:35 PM
10

Oxytocin, the commitment hormone, is released when both men and women have sex. The difference is, it has been shown to change the cognitive abilities of women, whereas men think the same way. Basically, sleeping around fucks up their mind.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 05:28 PM
1

Date more, not stop lifting.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 05:22 PM
7

In today's era of political correctness you can't label anything with a connotation that it's negative. Much as those who scoff at immigration regulations, I am merely an 'undocumented downloader' of various copyrighted materials. It's not wrong. It's just another viewpoint. /s
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 09:32 PM
8

This analogy just in time for Easter. Bravo good sir.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 09:22 PM
2

The Iliad has a lot of TRP too. Don't get oneitis over your whore wife and sell your Kingdom to your brother to make war and try to get her back. Edit: On a more serious note, I recommend you do actually spend time reading religious/spiritual texts. Zen Buddhism has a lot of applicable psychology. And at the very least it will give you a data point when you inevitably have to deal with people who believe in the various things about the world.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 09:01 PM
5

He means yacht.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 07:11 PM
24

The Red Pill is a bitter one. Generally, it's because the folks swallowing it are breaking their fantasy that 'all women are princesses' and getting to 'all women, at some point in time, will be a bitch, and the more chances you give her to be so, the more she'll use them.' It's because their expectations they've been taught by society are being shattered, so they have to reinvent their life. That, and they're finally understanding all the bitchy things that women actually do. Or maybe they're f…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 07:05 PM
1

Read Proverbs sometime. The "beware the wayward woman, for she will lead you astray" and "Is a virtuous wife able to be found?" bits are incredibly red pill philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 06:27 PM
1

If you are attracted to her, and enjoy the time you spend, go ahead and keep seeing her. If you're not attracted to her, then stop.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 03:41 PM
2

This uses slightly more nuanced definitions than we generally see here on TRP, but I would amend your categories to be labeled as such(and it's not a perfect categorization even then): Delta (lacks moral compass and social value) Beta (moderate social value and moral compass) Sigma (high social value, but low moral compass) Alpha (high moral leadership, high social value) You can be an alpha and not be Christian, but being a bad boy social reject is not being alpha, it's being sigma. If you acti…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 08:27 AM
5

It's a pretty widely accepted fact that a man named Yeshua did exist and was killed for blasphemy/inciting rebellion against the Jewish community leaders, like the Bible claims. The supernatural bits may be factually hard to swallow, but for the most part the historical accuracy of non-faith requiring events holds true. The quick spread of early Christianity is fairly well documented, and nobody at the time tried to disprove it by saying "Except there was no such execution, stop lying."
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 07:39 AM
1

As someone who swallowed the pill a few months ago, there are few fruits of your labor at first, especially the farther you have to go. Building value is a process, and gets easier with more value, like compound interest, to a point anyway. I see myself applying principles more naturally today than when I started, and I see myself making the better choice more frequently, but I would be lying if I didn't say I'm nowhere near satisfied. I work to keep myself focused and centered on truth, to be a…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 07:28 AM
5

I think #5 is a thing all men need to employ in their life: Be that guy, the guy who does the thing that nobody else wants to do, does it better than everyone else, and comes out acting like it was fun. Enjoy doing things that are hard for the very reason that they are hard. This applies for anything in your life. Is it hard for you to break a bad habit? Then be the guy that breaks habits with his teeth. Is it hard for you to get up for work in the morning? Is it hard for you to get through your…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 02:09 AM
4

Using an anecdote to segue into a broader conversation is acceptable. If I saw a situation happen on the street with total strangers and it made me think of something, which I started a conversation with like-minded people to discuss, you wouldn't automatically assume I'm emotionally attached to them.
/r/askTRP15/04/14 06:08 PM
3

I think the biggest thing here is noticing the trend that people are here looking for "how to get x result" instead of "how to be a guy who gets results." Having value and status gets you women. If you're seeking women instead of seeking power and status, it's much like a doctor looking to control symptoms of having cancer instead of cutting, irradiating, throwing chemicals at it until it is actually gone, and then watching for it to try to twist it's way back in from some other hidden location.…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 05:47 PM
1

They are the only women capable of truly loving you. While generally they do, the instances in which a mother does not live her children are widespread enough that to assume they must because they have the greatest propensity to is faulty. How many mothers have murdered their infant children, abandoned their young families to ride more alpha cock? More than we can ignore.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 11:45 PM
1

It is not the incapable infant's job to raise itself, and unless the mother was somehow not at all responsible for the birth (I don't even know how that's possible, was she put in a padded room and forced to conceive and carry the child to term?) she willingly accepted the responsibility to raise the child. I'm grateful for the actual things my parents taught me. That they didn't allow me to die is what they signed up for.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 11:38 PM
-8

Yes.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 08:52 PM
8

This is a very good point. Simply achieving sex is not any wondrous achievement. Achieving status and value brings the comforts of sex with 10s, a well paying career, etc.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 07:11 PM
-29

Sounds like we know who the alpha is in your family dynamic.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:12 PM
11

It's basically the "no true Scotsman" fallacy: for a real man, it's easy to pick up tons of women. If you have no game you're not a real man.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:16 PM
6

The power of the hamster is strong, even in RedPill receptive women.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:00 PM
2

In the same grain, I was always told, "Rich people don't talk about how much money they have."
/r/askTRP14/04/14 03:35 PM
0

First, that is a very big if. What constitutes knowing in this instance(I'm not looking for some philosophical debate here)? Do you know both parties in the relationship? Do you know only the girl and a vague mention of a 'boyfriend'? Do you know the girl decently well, but not know the extent of her relationship nor the boundaries she has agreed to keep with with her significant other? This is seddit we're talking about. A fair portion of the time, the boyfriend line after approaching is bullsh…
/r/seduction14/04/14 09:14 AM
0

If you're up for a logical analysis, I'll ask you, what do you think is the fundamental mechanism for why cheating is bad? I'm not trying to be dense, but rather your response will tell me basically your philosophy of ethics so I can better discuss this with you. Edit: and if you'd like, I'll give you my answer as well, we'll keep this fair.
/r/seduction14/04/14 08:49 AM
0

You're again going from "allowing a perfectly autonomous person to choose to do something, when their response to that choice is valuable information to someone else" to "deliberately perform acts against a person, and justify them by saying that if they survive they will be stronger." You're chock full of fallacies. Your whole rape analogy is a straw man. Cheating is not rape. Do not equate them and then assume that because rape is obviously bad, so is cheating. That's faulty logic.
/r/seduction14/04/14 08:44 AM
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Giving someone the opportunity to willingly participate in an act that may be morally reprehensible for them to perform is nowhere near equatable to violating someone's basic human rights.
/r/seduction14/04/14 08:38 AM
0

It seems people are weird about this. Lemme give it a try: Anything done with someone other than one's significant other that is reasonably understood to be reserved for their significant other alone is cheating. This is different for different couples(look but don't touch/no kissing/threesomes allowed/etc.) but should default to a consensus opinion unless explicitly stated boundaries are agreed upon beforehand. Now, notice, the people who are responsible for setting these boundaries and upholdi…
/r/seduction14/04/14 06:31 AM
3

There are 10 types of people, those who can count in binary, and those who can't.
/r/seduction14/04/14 06:06 AM
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Arrogance is confidence without respect. Said differently, it's confidence without proof. It's acting above your self evidence. This is why being cool, calm and collected plays better most of the time, until/unless you are high value enough that being straight up cocky is attractive. This being said, being called arrogant is always a shit test. She's asking you to back up your acting like a badass with actual badassery.
/r/askTRP14/04/14 04:09 AM
4

Because his will to have sex with a woman isn't dependant on her background. If you aren't the one in the relationship, and you respect the woman's right to make her own decisions, if you present yourself to her in a way that makes her want to cheat, that is not your fault. You are betraying no one by sleeping with a woman who wants to sleep with you, unless you actually know her SO, or the foundation of your relationship with her to begin with is such that you just shouldn't sleep with her anyw…
/r/seduction13/04/14 03:43 PM
22

A freelancer being 'officially never invited to return' is pretty much the same damn thing as both being fired, and your boss giving you a shitty reference. Now, being given a reference from a bad place can be a good thing, depending on how the employer views it, but it's still a big 'fuck you' to the DJ, all because he played a song that probably everyone in a modernized society has heard a few lines of.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 05:22 AM
1

Definitely. I found this out first hand last week. Some girl was hamstering about something, and while what I said paused her for a while, by focusing too much meeting the shit test, I wasn't passing because I literally wasn't getting past it. I was letting it linger. Lesson learned.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 09:48 PM
2

I just thought of a Frank Underwood style condescending reframe I don't sleep with guys on the 1st 2nd or 3rd date. "Well it's nice to know I'm not just a piece of meat to you." edit: punctuation
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 09:43 PM
1

All the same, I'm interested in your response. Perhaps PM is a better medium to continue this conversation, or a new post.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 09:34 PM
1

People say fear is good. I disagree. Fear is a construct of conditioning. It's not logical. Danger can be real, but fear is a feeling. It can be reasonable, but it is not, as a rule. When I start to feel fear, I use what I'm told are Zen type techniques: I stop, acknowledge what I sense, or what is real, and what I feel as two separate things. The fear is separated from my decision matrix. The danger is quantified logically.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 02:49 AM
2

Kindred soul was used solely to mean "someone else around in any given situation". I do not believe in soul mates, that shit is garbage. I don't disagree with what you're saying, but this is more of a pep talk for continuing in my "I've decided to be more social" thing than actual techniques.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 09:10 PM
-1

"oh no, there's no meat near you, you're a robot."
/r/askTRP09/04/14 08:49 PM
2

Swallowing the pill means rejecting everything that you had accepted up until this point. It really depends on how ingrained in you that is. I find my autopilot still has blue pill tendencies at times, and as a result I'm still weeding those out. It's a life improvement process. Edit: think of it this way: Neo took the pill at the beginning of the film, but couldn't see the matrix until the end.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 05:54 PM
1

This is similar to, as I believe in one's right to unionize, unions today serve a vastly different purpose from their intended purpose 100 years ago (from an American perspective).
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 05:42 PM
0

I think this begs the question, then: do we, and if so how, apply the basic principles of TRP, ie embracing reality and leveraging it, as well as constructive debate, to the other subjects that derail men from their leadership, such as race? Or is it more of a personal obstacle and not to be discussed at length in this subreddit?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 05:39 PM
1

The double standard is very evident. How dare you not want open borders and zero checks to ensure that those who are voting are actually those trying to improve the American ideal? Yet also, how dare Americans spread "American democracy" (even though it's a constitutional Republic) to countries that don't want us to interfere? White /American/Male/Wealth guilting is alive. In a lot of ways, feminism is just one of the several "winner hating" ideologies out there.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:36 PM
1

You have to be higher value than the sluts immediate alternative. Hypergamy, or the law of opportunity cost.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:24 PM
19

I tend to find the cultural norms of urban blacks annoying as hell, and generally find the body lines of African and African-decendant women unappealing. Does that make me racist? If anything, the second one is more attributable to race, but sexual attraction can't be forced. Cultural norms are learned behavior, yet have much more to do with identity than ancestral lineage anymore.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:18 PM
1

A mentality that a childhood coach instilled in me: the ref is right, even when he's wrong. You can't control bad calls. You just have to be better than your opponent. In this case, women are the referees and other men are either your teammate(TRP/Wingman) or your opponent (alpha competition, beta hater). You win when the ref says you win.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:03 PM
2

I had one LTR from when I was 17-19, that started with me being alpha, and ended up with me being beta. I learned from that relationship that you should never be in a relationship if you don't value yourself when you're single. You have no business trying to leech off someone else to get happiness. Invent it yourself, and invite someone you like to enjoy it with you. It's self confidence 101.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 03:53 PM
2

You need to assert your frame, cut the clingy shit, and let her know you have options. If she keeps flaking, next her.
/r/seduction09/04/14 03:48 PM
3

If there is a condition that, if satisfied, would make any person perform the said kink, then it falls under AM/WALT. For example: Every woman would receive anal sex under the proper set of (non coercive) conditions, because of the submissive nature of woman to her ideal alpha.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 05:48 AM
4

Much as Alpha is merely a platonic form or ideal, AWALT is too. No man is the epitome of alpha (there would be a worldwide benevolent dictator with whom everyone was pleased if he existed) and no woman is perfectly average. But the characteristics paint a valuable picture about how to approach most if not all situations.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 05:01 AM
23

If OP was high enough value and played his cards right, it could be with him.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:55 AM
2

She's yearning for male attention. Just run game and nail her. If she shuts you down, next her. Edit: and stop giving her the attention she wants if you don't nail her. "affection is for my girlfriends when we both meet each other's needs."
/r/askTRP09/04/14 04:45 AM
1

But, women don't rape as hard as men do. /s
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 06:56 PM
3

Sadly, that's biology. HIV+ dick females who don't disclose it to their partners aren't likely to spread it, whereas HIV+ dick males are, especially in anal sex. If you're gay, insist your partner uses a condom if you are not sure they're clean.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 06:51 PM
3

Some truths are so self evident, even the willingly blind admit them to be true.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 06:08 PM
1

Look at the bulletin board in your campus food court, the one that says "hey, look you can join this 1 credit yoga/salsa/etc. class RIGHT NOW!" Pick one and do it. The single best piece of advice I can give you is to peruse this list of Boy Scout Merit Badges and study the ones that interest you. Shooting sports comes naturally for me, but reptile and amphibian study may be more up your alley. That's fine. Join a club. Is there an SCA group on campus? Service club? Intramural sports?
/r/seduction08/04/14 06:00 PM
14

dressed up This isn't about dressing up. It's about dressing well. You can wear jeans and leather like Steve McQueen or James Dean, that's dressing well without dressing "up." It's a situational thing.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 05:05 AM
1

I'm not saying it's impossible, I'm noting the reason why wearing clothes that fit is advice that bears repeating. You're supporting my argument by adding that there is advice for those people, too.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 03:42 AM
5

Not generally one for hookah. Does it lend to cigars all the same?
/r/seduction08/04/14 03:29 AM
1

Part of it is, it's hard to wear clothes that fit when you are an amorphous mass of lard.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 02:34 AM
2

I was giving a snapshot, but yes there are many alpha qualities that are nuanced in alpha action.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 02:29 AM
1

I was unclear: I agree with you, and seddit has no excuse. They're preaching the same message, with different words.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 02:27 AM
27

This is one instance in which MGTOW is likely the only option available. If you are a 7-8 guy and there are only 5s, do NOT lower your standards.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 01:47 AM
2

TRP: Sexual strategy and realism Seddit: Sexual strategy that requires understanding what girls really want. I don't see how they're all that contrary, at the bottom of things.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 12:36 AM
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There is no logical reason to not dress well. It's an easy addition to your SMV that literally every person you meet will appreciate and take note of. Just like having a fit body signifies that you are responsible, able to take care of things, while being virile, having a 'fit' wardrobe signifies that you are thoughtful, able to take care of things, and have a decent amount of money attached to your name.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 12:33 AM
1

I'm not sure it's not entirely based on women being bad at leading a relationship in the first place, regardless of their gender of attraction, whereas an alpha/beta male homosexual relationship is the best of both worlds for both involved.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 12:28 AM
3

This may be off topic but is, I believe, relevant. To quote from 300: "Only Spartan women give birth to real men." There's more nuance there than first meets the eye though. TRP is about sexual strategy, obviously. One of the easiest ways to influence people is to have children, lots of them, and raise them properly. If you have 3 alpha sons, you have effectively tripled your RP influence. If you raise RP daughters, they will raise RP sons. This is long term sexual strategy and requires either a…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 02:46 PM
3

Incorporate as much of RP ideology into your speech as possible. Which, from what I remember of medical training I've had, should be fairly easy.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 07:09 PM
6

As far as we know. It's possible they were punished, in their own way, by their own society.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 06:50 PM
10

I heard that story, and several others recently. I'm thoroughly unimpressed with the state of law enforcement in the US as a result.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 06:46 AM
1

This is definitely a goal of mine. How did you pay for it? Right now that several grand is what's holding me back. My dad and uncle own a '58 180 that I intend to use to get mine in the future, too. Any other tips for getting through airsickness too?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 06:39 AM
1

A lot of this depends on your situation. Are you avoiding conflict by being too lighthearted to do what needs to be done to have the desirable outcome? When you're being stoic are you assuming that means you cannot enjoy yourself and still be in control? You seem to be oversimplifying it.
/r/askTRP06/04/14 04:43 AM
1

I did consider friendzoning her after that night. I've got another girl, HB7-8 who is also friendzoned currently. Thanks for the tips. Appreciate it.
/r/seduction06/04/14 04:22 AM
3

I'll be succinct: fuck both of them.
/r/askTRP06/04/14 03:48 AM
3

Listen to The Man by Aloe Blacc. Let this become your anthem. Look yourself in the mirror every morning as a part of your daily routine, and tell yourself you're the man, you're a fucking badass, and today will be your bitch. You have to believe you are high value. Working on the things that make you high value will help, i.e. hitting on women and being a social person, meeting goals in your work life, in the gym, in your hobbies, etc.
/r/seduction06/04/14 03:03 AM
5

I've done solo stuff but only in places where I was a) allowed to carry a firearm or b) unconcerned with predator activity for some reason or another. Find a scout troop or similar. Most of them go camping several times a year and have one longer trip in the summer. Venture Crews are the guys(and girls) who do the most fun stuff. Edit: Also, having a second sleeping bag, a camelback pack and a two-man tent to fill is a perfectly good excuse to invite a girl along. Edit 2: Another good idea is to…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 02:39 AM
13

StonedHumor mentioned conversation threading, and that's really good, but don't forget that you can thread from everything about her, not just her speech. When you walk up to her, notice something about her, her smile, her hair, her clothes, where you both are, the weather, the time of day, the day of the week, something happening nearby, something that will happen nearby, literally anything about the situation you both are in when you approach. Threading from the now into her speech is the firs…
/r/seduction06/04/14 02:26 AM
23

Good on those officers for getting to the bottom of it. 90% of the time they wouldn't have.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 01:41 AM
2

Getting people tested is easy "Some jackass at my gym caught x and didn't bother cleaning themselves up before spreading their plague around the whole place. I'm getting tested, I don't want this shit to get me. You should too."
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 01:39 AM
1

Look at the list of Boy Scout Merit Badges. Hell, become an Assistant Scoutmaster, and do everything the kids do. There is so much in that program for people that makes you an interesting person.
/r/seduction06/04/14 12:56 AM
0

TRP is about realism, accepting the world around you and not rejecting it because it's scary. Any ideology that is subject to wanting to change people so that society works is flawed. This is true if you want pure capitalism without leeches, or pure anarchist communism where there is no rule of law and people are just altruistically generous to their neighbors by nature and always have what is best for the group in mind. Obviously neither of these can ever happen because they're contrary to huma…
/r/askTRP06/04/14 12:36 AM
20

High heels, push up bra, hair extensions, make-up, hair dye, artificial tans, stockings/nylons, plastic surgery, women use numerous 'tools' to 'enhance' their SMV. One bit of advice I heard is that there's no such thing as lying when flirting. Women don't consider any omissions, stretched truths or even flat out but meaningless(in their eyes) lies as being unethical, and neither should you. In fact the whole idea of ethics in the dating game is pretty fluid. Good job OP on nailing the point home…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 12:20 AM
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Backpacking. There's nothing quite like living on what you carried 80+ miles on your back and having nobody (except for those you bring with or meet along the way) to interrupt you. Also, some of the best natural views can only be reached by several days of hiking. EDIT: Also, any combative exercise/martial art.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 10:12 PM
1

can't screw a diploma True, but having a pussy doesn't make up for being a cunt.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 02:41 AM
3

fuck her He may get that chance. TRP has that effect.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 02:36 AM
3

Men can't fake sex with an unattractive person unless they're willing to pop pills. Women just have to lie there. The logistics play a role, for sure.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 06:39 AM
16

Leading vs controlling is what you're after here. Leading means emphasizing what is okay and what is not, and impressing in those you lead the willingness to follow and do what is expected of them. Controlling is micromanaging because you're too outcome dependant. Putting a woman, just like any person, who steps out of line into place is situational. And sometimes the best way is to just leave and not engage, like a child throwing a tantrum. Over domineering would be telling her she's putting th…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 12:28 AM
1

On point 2, there's no reason to assume that alphas do not /cannot work together. Independence means unifying out of choice, not force. This isn't to say cold weather societies forced cooperation, but it seems that's where you were leading. The Vikings were easily the most alpha of cold weather societies. Men pillaged and took because they were better than those they conquered, and worked together because they recognized that they could accomplish their unified goals more effectively as a group …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 06:37 PM
5

Getting rid of social media and actually calling/emailing/sending cards at holidays is the way to go. If a girl wants to be in your social circle, she needs to put in the time.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 05:53 PM
2

You could very easily also do this and check the results. I'd love to see some contrary evidence. Also, it very well could be a numbers game even still.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 09:10 PM
8

Part of it is facial/body expression too. Part of it is he is well dressed. You can also tell from his lack of facial blubber that he's at least in decent shape. True, you can't fix your facial aesthetics, but you can fix most everything else. Instead of focusing on what you can't do, DHV from all other sources available to you. I guarantee if you put up a washboard abs pic, with a professionally done fake tan and proper lighting, you'll get responses.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 09:00 AM
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It seems a fair portion of the commenters here are upset about this. Being upset doesn't change this. If you want to be treated this way, fix your life so you scream SMV from a mile away. Get in shape, get a good job, be interesting, find a tailor and a barber. This should fuel your determination fire.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 07:59 AM
1

Awkwardness: how "not cool" you act. Forwardness: how willing you are to offer unsolicited information, or emotions. Attractiveness: pretty much physical here. If you don't have the face/smile you have to have the bod. Persistence: how much you press the issue, on anything in particular, instead of hearing her say no, and moving on. Edit: Formatting.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 11:53 AM
1

I only really get the high from failure sets. The "pump" is personally gratifying for me, too, but in a much more vain way.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 08:29 AM
2

Sounds a little bit like we're ragging on creativity and improvisation, which isn't the case. Much like playing jazz requires mastery of your instrument and music fundamentals, so does playing with a recipe.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 08:21 AM
-1

Accountability to one's self is the goal. The steps to getting there may use whatever tactics available. Don't let any particular means prohibit you from reaching the goal.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 07:27 AM
2

True, scientific knowledge is not political. But all scientific organizations, peer review journals, unions, etc. are subject to the same societal politics that literally all of life is. Even TRP is subject to confirmation bias, try as we might to get people to think for themselves and realize the world around them.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 07:24 AM
1

I would venture that its largely because they don't have the patience, focus and attention to detail to do things right, like following a fucking recipe. That said one of the best bakers I know is a woman who spends nearly all her spare time baking for her husband. She's a natural.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 07:17 AM
0

TRP encourages holding frame. For some folk that means downvoting that with which they disagree.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 07:14 AM
1

That's actually based on science, though. As opposed to 90% of the things women say about how to be happy.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 07:04 AM
0

http://www.genebase.com/learning/article/71 Edit: "The Y-DNA carries information about an individual’s paternal ancestry. The following characteristics of Y-DNA make it suitable for paternal ancestry analysis: It is found only in males and is inherited strictly from father to son (the same way that the surname is passed down). It’s genetic code is very stable (low recombination rate). It contains STR markers which can be used to trace an individual’s recent ancestry. It contains SNP markers whic…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 06:55 AM
6

If you're fapping without it being a conscious decision to better yourself, stop. Hell, the whole point of this subreddit is if you're doing anything without it being a conscious decision to better yourself, then stop.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 06:14 PM
-4

This.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:58 PM
7

It would be better to actually have shit you're doing. But if you have to fake it somehow, sure.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:56 PM
1

This. I recently went to a wedding where the scripture read was the "women need to submit to their husbands" bit. Mad props to the groom.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:52 PM
3

She'll be waiting either way, this way she watches me showcase my SMV. When I was in high school, working with my dad, girls would dig watching me do shit, aka bucking bales, changing oil, turning a wrench.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:51 PM
3

What you need to know about health food: Did you make it yourself?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:46 PM
1

Take it or leave it.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:44 PM
1

Oedipus? That you, buddy?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:39 PM
3

"I want to see you" "I'm going to the gym, you can watch" Aaaaand done.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:38 PM
1

Can confirm.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:37 PM
6

They will. Sometimes, the best way to handle a shit test is to just walk away and do your more important shit. Sometimes that more important shit will be a different woman.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:36 PM
2

Out with some friends, girl I just met was telling me "once you get a girl in your life, you'll have to change." I walked away from her. She kept coming back, with the same line. If she was attractive, I might have screwed her. Don't break frame.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:34 PM
1

Hey, someone has to run marathons.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:31 PM
1

This is basically "associate yourself with high value people, and you will see more opportunities to be with high value people by association" 101.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 04:59 PM
0

I learned in high school that girls, when they REALLY want something, have less fear than guys about being too forward. Case in point, giving me an unsolicited hand job underneath a lunch table. I mean, I really didn't care, I was a horny high school kid, but I was not even remotely interested in her.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 08:40 PM
1

never marry a single mom Corollary: fucking, yea or nay?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 08:21 PM
0

Let me clarify: If this is a plate you've been spinning for 2 months, there's no way you can go back to it. If this is a girl you've spent literally one date with, you can put it on ice and come back to it. EDIT: I'm not saying he SHOULD, either. But it can be done. I wouldn't stress it all that much. Which is why I said, if they respond, cool. If not, you're in this to pick up women. Go pick up more women and be happy.
/r/seduction26/03/14 07:51 PM
0

You were alluding to it referring to making women wait for you. Women are known to be shallow enough to forget you after two weeks. If you hit them up 6 months later, if they even respond, it's like starting from scratch, not starting from stale.
/r/seduction26/03/14 11:41 AM
9

Fuck the friend. Move along.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 11:30 AM
1

You're assuming there is intelligent choice there, it's more primal than that. We're preprogrammed to seek out desirable traits. Undesirable men will not reproduce because the women won't let them, unless of course they cannot find a better mate themselves. That doesn't mean we aren't all programmed to desire to reproduce: sex is fun for everyone. Also, genetic variety combats genetic disease. When I said "society" I don't mean civilization, I mean the collective subconscious of the species. Lik…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 05:27 AM
1

The X and Y chromosomes that determine gender, are passed down. Yes, it is a simplification. Men give either their X or Y, women only X. But seeing as only men can give the Y that determines manhood, that is reason enough to be concerned. The woman's genes matter less in determining male offspring, and male offspring lead the group.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 05:19 AM
1

It has to do with the necessity of the society. For the survival of the species, women have to bear children and raise them up to a certain point. Men have to provide for the woman during that period. A weak woman doesn't create problems, because the Y chromosome that is passed to any future male offspring (and thus future providers/warriors/protectors) comes from the male. Weak women don't cause any problems because they already are the weak gender. Weak men pass on genes to their male offsprin…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 12:08 AM
2

Can confirm.
/r/seduction25/03/14 10:34 PM
2

Every analogy breaks down at a point, because it is intended to be representative, not be exact, by definition. Poking holes in an analogy doesn't remove the logic behind the comparison, necessarily. Good luck having a feminist understand that, though.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 04:38 PM
2

Scotch is best when aged so long it can order it's own Scotch. Your analogy is flawed.
/r/seduction25/03/14 04:07 PM
1

You say you texted and she hasn't gotten back to you. Move on. If she digs you you'll hear from her. Otherwise don't worry about it.
/r/seduction25/03/14 09:21 AM
1

Always, text/call right away. Like, they're sitting right next to you still right away.
/r/seduction25/03/14 09:20 AM
2

Get rid of your Facebook. Use Google Voice number for all pickup. Done.
/r/seduction25/03/14 09:16 AM
2

"Please leave me alone." That will cordially end literally everything.
/r/seduction25/03/14 09:12 AM
1

Use the same lies. Or, create a persona that you assume. It ceases to be lying, and is just your pickup persona. Thus why a lot of PUAs pick a nickname and stick to it. It's easier to not be "yourself" when you're not you, you're [insert nickname], a total pimp/player.
/r/seduction25/03/14 09:09 AM
1

Superficially, sure. Deeper, though, I disagree. If you don't want to call that want, then I'll substitute another word. Women respond when you treat them like nothing special. Women respond when you call their bluff without embarrassing them. Women respond when you know when "no" really means yes. Women respond when you take their outward facade and see right through them.
/r/seduction25/03/14 08:58 AM
1

Not sure why nobody mentioned this, I learned this trick when I was super into counting cards as a kid(apparently its how you trick the casino into thinking you're drinking): tonic and lime. It's a gin and tonic without the gin. If I'm DDing, its what I drink. And you shouldn't be alone. Make friends with any/everyone who is in the bar. Learn to play pool/darts.
/r/seduction25/03/14 08:52 AM
5

Don't just get rid of porn. NoFap. Seriously. After that, you really need to just go out to have fun. Be a person.
/r/seduction25/03/14 08:16 AM
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Style picking up Jessica Alba, anyone?
/r/seduction25/03/14 08:11 AM
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Case in point: Taylor Swift is definitely physically attractive. But her self confidence sounds like absolute shit. HB7 max.
/r/seduction25/03/14 08:11 AM
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I went out with a wedding party and ground on a 5 who was mad dogging the rest of the club because she didn't want anyone she didn't know on her. Club game is a different animal.
/r/seduction25/03/14 08:09 AM
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By singling her out right off the bat, you put a lot of pressure on her without building enough rapport. You're also not gaming the group very much. It's pretty much a one trick pony.
/r/seduction25/03/14 07:12 AM
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Find things you enjoy in life that don't rely on other people. Do them often. Then find ways to enjoy them with other people. Give no shits if anyone cares. Be completely honest and fuck as many girls as you please. If you find one who stimulates you mentally and who wants to stick around, then let her.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:36 AM
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I took it as more the beginning of opening his eyes. He's seeing the truth in the theory and reporting it, not pontificating it himself.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:26 AM
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Arrogance is confidence without respect. Also, value is a part of it. Make them want to buy into your reality. Being seen as an asshole is also somewhat a result of the feminization of the western world. Being masculine, and being unapologetic is not PC, but it is attractive if done correctly.
/r/seduction23/03/14 09:27 AM
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til you become it.
/r/seduction23/03/14 09:24 AM
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Isn't "assume attraction" still the rule? Even if she's not, by acting like she must be she may just start to actually be. What's the worst that can happen?
/r/seduction23/03/14 09:22 AM
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I have no social media presence. Why? Because I got tired of bullshit. And the fact that I don't actually gets more interest than I ever got from having one.
/r/seduction23/03/14 09:17 AM
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A smart man once told me, "rich people don't talk about how much money they have." This applies with women as well. It's not about hitting it off with every woman who shows interest. It's about going after every woman you're interested in. I was at a wedding recently. I was set up with the bride's sister, who is probably a 4. I wasn't interested. Should I feel bad for not pursuing her? I gamed other girls and got numbers. I went after the ones I wanted. That's what it's all about.
/r/seduction23/03/14 09:12 AM
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My three rules I set for any relationship with a girl are as follows: 1) We will have no expectations for this relationship. 2) We won't put each other in a box. 3) We won't do anything together that makes either of us uncomfortable. That doesn't directly answer your question, because the expectations are about the relationship, but it sets the tone. Ultimately I'm looking for someone who respects me and my space, is honest, and will let things happen as they happen without needing to take contr…
/r/seduction23/03/14 09:03 AM
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Your concept of the burden of proof is off. TRP's ideas and proof are open and available for you to disprove. If you wish to disprove any one of them feel free to bring it up and disprove it. Your basic analysis is incorrect. Women are not a lower class of society. They are people, just like everyone else. TRP is about getting your own shit together, not being repressed because of some bullshit societal rules. Part of that is pointing out bullshit societal rules. And nobody gives two shits if yo…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 08:50 AM
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If you're worried about what women think about you instead of being who you are, you're already behind the game. Stoicism doesn't mean not feeling. It means continuity of action regardless of circumstance.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 08:41 AM
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I think the biggest thing here, is you eventually found a woman worthy of respect, whereas the majority of both genders are not, in their current form. Most of TRP is also young enough that their new found mature actions are mixed with their current wants, which is just getting laid. We haven't reached a point in our lives where our existential needs offset our biological ones. Or rather, we don't give them much pause. Or perhaps it's just a natural progression. I don't take TRP as "women are ba…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 08:28 AM
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Reginald Hunter is a new favorite of mine, and definitely Red Pill. Essentially, the jester has more power because anything that is edgy, not pc or "bad" for some reason is okay because "he's just a comedian." If people get mad at a comedian they're seen as not fun, and for good reason. Comedians shouldn't be taken seriously. But they can speak truth, and most good comedy comes from a place of truth. The non-discriminating majority of the populace is easily impressionable.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 08:14 AM
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"Call me when you're single. I don't have time for bullshit."
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 06:19 AM
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Ask whomever you like. If they turn you down, just say "okay" and ask the next one, even if they're standing right next to the girl you just asked. It shows confidence and abundance mindset. There's no such thing as a league. Every person is just as human as everyone else, and everyone is available.
/r/seduction23/03/14 05:59 AM
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Do interesting things, have hobbies. You're probably in high school, so join the band, join two sports teams, join the academic competition team. Join clubs that do interesting things. Read poetry, good literature, and other books. Learn the social scene in your town, like what bands are playing, what the b-movie theater is playing. Join the local service organization. Have your hand in several groups of friends and be the guy they want to take out.
/r/seduction23/03/14 05:53 AM
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Watch out, your assumptions show your insecurity.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 05:44 AM
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In a club, it's hard to build enough rapport with a group to separate a girl, especially directly home. Remember the rules of escalation: 1 step forward, 2 steps back. Don't invite her home, invite her out. "This place is getting old, I'm going to go to X" then "Hey, she and I are going to go talk outside" "It's late, let's get you home." Never be afraid to back off and let her come back to you. You should have built enough value that she wants you to take her home and fuck her by the time you i…
/r/seduction23/03/14 05:35 AM
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Which is why I said you'd have to define "the bankers." The average guy in an office isn't alpha, but that's a given. There is nothing average about being an alpha. The guys who worked on Wall Street throughout the Occupy bit who gave zero fucks and wore tailored suits, handmade shoes, and continued making shit tons of money are. Having the power to entrench yourself as a power player permanently isn't beta. Playing the game isn't necessarily beta either. Most of Machiavellianism is playing the …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 03:21 AM
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You'd have to define "the bankers" but yes, in a lot of ways, they are.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 06:58 AM
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This is why countries, as rated by the Economic Freedom Index are on a continuum. Nobody is truly capitalist.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 06:56 AM
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I get your point, but there still is competition in incredibly socialist countries. Marx would consider these "in transition" just like all socialism, though. The end goal for Marxists is still Marxist Anarchist Communism.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 06:54 AM
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In this short amount of time, read a sparknotes version of Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People. Be a conversationalist. If you happen to hit it off with particular people or groups, coordinate meeting up later. One doesn't come off the street and hit a home run in a major league game. Keep your expectations realistic.
/r/seduction20/03/14 03:59 AM
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On the subject of fear vs reality, I just saw this TED talk today. It also reminds me of the Will Smith movie After Earth.
/r/seduction20/03/14 03:23 AM
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Why do you have to pick just one?
/r/seduction19/03/14 06:42 PM
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I harken back to when I read The Game and Neil mentioned dog training as a starting point for your interactions with people. The alpha dog never breaks eye contact first. If you have a dog, or know people with dogs, I really encourage you to try to alpha them. A) people don't judge you for trying to train dogs. B) There's less pressure, because if you fail at alpha-ing a dog, you can try again another day, and C)When you get used to doing it, it'll become a habit that ties over into your everyda…
/r/seduction19/03/14 06:22 PM
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