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You, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:25 AM
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It’s definitely not “typically women” that start looking for someone to fill the void. Nah. Its typically women. I see it all the time because I'm the type of person that listens to people's problems, and they come trying to have a pseudo-relationship with me until I show them that that won't be happening. It’s very common in men too. Not really. Men are either looking for sex because they're not getting much, or they're looking for a potential new girlfriend. Women will stay with the dude that …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:22 AM
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Yo, where have you been? I unsubbed. Got tired of stuff in here. Is all well? Aside from general life stuff that I need to invest more of my time on, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:15 AM
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Constantly looking for things to do or people to talk to instead of their spouse. Working a lot of overtime. They look like they're faking their role in the relationship around people (i.e., stereotypical boyfriend/girlfriend) but lose their smile and personality once everyone is gone and they're just with their partner. They start looking for someone to fill in the emotional and friendship portions of their relationship because theirs is lacking those things. Its typically women that do this wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:14 AM
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Its like getting rich though. Its not, really. Do rich people think they are rich cause of luck? Probably not but that doesn't mean anything. People always like to think that their own effort got them to where they are. People that are attractive tend to think that they're just really good at getting people to like them so they also tend to react negatively when someone rejects them, in addition to them not being used to being rejected. Still, they were born lucky enough to be attractive.
/r/seduction31/01/22 02:19 AM
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No problem. A lot of success in life can be attributed to being the right person in the right place at the right time, so best of luck as well.
/r/seduction31/01/22 12:21 AM
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Just make small talk first to see if they're receptive to having a conversation with you and continue talking to the ones that are. The important thing is that you can walk away from women that aren't interested without being disappointed. Active social skills are a necessity when approaching, so don't approach people that look busy or not open to conversation.
/r/seduction30/01/22 11:14 PM
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My own personal choice doesn't reflect my intention of being here. I'm here to give what advice I can to the people who are choosing to pursue sexual relationships.
/r/seduction30/01/22 10:36 PM
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Uhhh most women don't do porn.
/r/seduction30/01/22 09:22 PM
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I'd rather be alone regardless, so that's what I'm doing.
/r/seduction30/01/22 09:22 PM
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Blaming porn is kinda lazy, but yes, it might help some of them.
/r/seduction30/01/22 05:58 PM
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Just a guess, but their hatred is most likely a projection of the hatred they have toward themselves. They hate that they weren't born hot and perfect and that they have to work toward what they want instead of it being offered up to them on a silver platter, like it seemingly is to all of the other attractive people. If they were to learn to love and accept themselves for who they are, their hatred of women/other people might disappear along with it.
/r/seduction30/01/22 05:46 PM
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Depends on how we feel. Most of the time, we don't flirt in ways that anyone would notice. We just look and keep walking. Maybe even look twice.
/r/seduction29/01/22 11:23 PM
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Smooth-brained take.
/r/seduction29/01/22 11:18 PM
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Be playful, not insulting.
/r/seduction29/01/22 11:17 PM
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Same, except I only let the right people in, and there's been a lot of wrong people so far.
/r/seduction29/01/22 11:16 PM
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As long as you're eating right, getting enough sunlight and exercising, you don't really need a skincare routine - provided that you don't have some type of fungal infection or food allergy affecting parts of your body.
/r/seduction29/01/22 03:35 PM
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👍🏻💪🏽
/r/seduction29/01/22 01:58 AM
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Did she actually reschedule? If not, then wait for her to reschedule since the ball is in her court, but don't expect to hear back from her. If you don't hear from her, then she won't hear from you.
/r/seduction29/01/22 01:55 AM
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Her friend was either cockblocking or it was some kind of dumb test set up by her and the friend to see how he would handle the situation. Yes, they actually do stuff like this.
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:38 PM
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Just ignore and move on. She could have talked to that long time friend any other night. That interaction was your sign to leave and you took it.
/r/seduction28/01/22 07:01 PM
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Tyrone is like Tank, the singer. Nice looking smooth talking black dude who creates the tension, gives her the tingles and is ready to make those cheeks clap with his chocolate thunder.
/r/seduction28/01/22 01:35 AM
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Sounds like you've got the green light then 👍🏻
/r/seduction28/01/22 01:32 AM
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Yes, I didn't mean it's always going to be one or the other. Some will think you're cute like a baby and some will think you're cute as a man. You have to figure out which one they mean at the time. Also, "being cute" or doing "cute things" is different from looking cute. If it seems like there's a sexual undertone and they seem very interested in you, then it's probably the good kind of cute. Looking like a baby is the bad kind of cute.
/r/seduction28/01/22 01:23 AM
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It can be. "Cute" is a word with a double meaning in womanese. It's used as a codeword for "not hot but not totally unattractive" (think literal baby face), or it means they literally think you're cute (think Mario Lopez, 18yr old Justin Bieber, Zac Effron, etc). The difference between the two is that they would not date the former but they would date the latter.
/r/seduction28/01/22 12:44 AM
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No. If you’re hot, you’ll get attention from everyone. If you’re not hot but a likable person with a decent personality, you’ll get a mix of seemingly random people.
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:50 PM
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There’s a song called “just call on Tyrone” or something like that. Tyrone is pretty much the black version of the dude that your girl is talking to on the down low.
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:40 PM
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If she wants to suck your dick, she might have sucked others before it. Pure speculation on my part but it is a possibility. She also could just be extra cautious which I would understand too. I think all newly acquainted people should get tested before they do anything sexual regardless of their history.
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:47 AM
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She can be a virgin and still want an STD test. Sex isn't the only way to catch STDs, unfortunately. There's some nasty ass people out there that don't think or care about things like hygiene regarding their or other people's genitals.
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:03 AM
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Casual sex isn't for everyone. That's why I advocate for self-awareness.
/r/seduction24/01/22 02:11 AM
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If you're worried about your performance, then maybe you should. It might help build up your stamina.
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:32 PM
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Idk about you but for me personally, that's where it seems like the real failure is here. If all you're looking to do is bust a quick nut and go about your day/night, then why not jerk off at home? If we smashin, then we smashin.
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:15 PM
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You should've just nutted and kept going. I don't get why dudes only bust once and thats it. Like take a 10 minute intermission and go for round 2 or something.
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:07 PM
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Happens a lot, actually. Pro-tip: don't change for any person other than yourself. Otherwise, you'll be changing into whoever someone wants you to be for your whole life, and it will be both exhausting and unrewarding.
/r/seduction21/01/22 06:42 PM
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Nope, and I wouldn't suggest it to anyone either. Unless you're a psychopath, you don't need to practice being in a relationship and what would essentially be manipulating your "girlfriend/boyfriend."
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:08 PM
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No, don't ask. If she's interested, she will ask, or be receptive to going out and make the effort to meet with you when you suggest it.
/r/seduction19/01/22 08:24 PM
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The whole package is what matters. Might sound bad to say, but women want it all, or they at least want to think that they're getting it all, and when I say "all," I mean all - face, body, height, style, personality, peen size, finances, etc. The only way you're getting past that is if they love you.
/r/seduction19/01/22 12:04 AM
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Just be hot, bro. Its that simple.
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:20 PM
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Russian women are 👌🏼. Of course, there's always 👌🏼 people in every country, but still, 👌🏼.
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:12 PM
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Yes but only the pilot should be doing that.
/r/seduction18/01/22 03:38 AM
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The glow up and maturity that comes with life experience, usually. Not everyone gets the first one, so big sympathies to them.
/r/seduction18/01/22 03:38 AM
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Whether you're approaching them to ask them out on a date or ask them a different question, you're still approaching them. It doesn't have to be a explicit sexual approach. Conversely, people who aren't really approaching can't be upset when the other person interpreted it as them being friendly and sociable rather than an approach, which also muddies the water a bit when people were actually just being friendly and not really approaching. This is a fairly common problem and complaint among wome…
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:29 PM
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Yeah, it's two very different types of aggression here lol. Going ham for a good 5 seconds is different from pretending your dick is a hand saw and she's a piece of wood.
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:28 AM
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Hard to really put it into words because everyone has their own experiences and will only understand things from their own perspective. If you want to be good in bed, make sure that everything you're doing is coming from a place of love, as in you want them to feel good and comfortable and communicate your feelings for them through your actions. Sex without feelings can be tricky because those feelings aren't there to guide you.
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:16 AM
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If you suddenly feel like you want to go Hulk mode and smash a hole through everything in front of you, don't do it. Back off and maintain a comfortable yet passionate state of mind.
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:04 AM
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Could be any reason but I have the same problem, and I think the answer might be that women tend to look for men a little bit older than they are. I'm 33 but I look younger and have always had much younger women and older women interested in me. Very few women my own age. They're usually with men who are or look 2 to 6 years older than men their age. If you look younger or have a "baby face," you'll have to shoot for much younger women.
/r/seduction16/01/22 01:35 AM
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No, I don't have gay sex because I'm not physically attracted to males or male sex characteristics. Also, gay sex is more a sexual act than sexual intercourse, and while sexual intercourse is a sexual act, not all sexual acts are sexual intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:31 PM
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What exactly did they adjust for? Women spend much less time single than most men, so I would question if there's a latency effect that isn't being accounted for here, or if there's other possible factors like diet and lifestyle differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:28 PM
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The potential outcome of something being different makes it different. Nah. Disagree. The outcome is the only thing that is different. You're like, oh eating pasta and poisonous pasta is the same since they're both pasta. Flawed logic. Cumming and not cumming makes the sex physically different, it releases different chemicals in your brain, it feels different, basically everything about it is different. Cumming is not sex. Just because all sex is sex it doesn't mean all sex is the same, that's l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:17 PM
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We're talking about the act of shitting, not the shit itself. The shit coming out doesn't change the act of shitting. You're still having sex even if it's good sex or bad sex or relationship sex or make up sex or affair sex. Feelings don't make sex a different kind of sex anymore than what comes out of your butt makes it a different kind of shit. Still just shitting, whether it be brown or green or smooth or spiky.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:15 PM
1

Yup. Still sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:06 PM
1

It's not a different type of sex. Still sex. Just sex with a condom on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:05 PM
1

If it wasn't shitting, it couldn't be a different type of shitting. Yes, and it was shitting, but still not a different type of shitting. A lady bug and a T Rex are different types of animals even though they are both still animals.. Yes....... but shitting is shitting, just like a ladybug is a ladybug and a T-rex is a T-rex, unless your next line is going to be that a ladybug is a different type of T-rex, or vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:04 PM
1

Yes. It happens sometimes where guys go for forever and can't orgasm for whatever the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:01 PM
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Okay, so you're one of those people who actually operates on objective reality and the material world. Doesn't change the fact that most other people doesn't work that way at all. They are even if they don't realize it, and it would be their fault if they misinterpret what happened, wouldn't it? So it's impossible to change your view because your view is fundamentally different from the norm to such an extent that even the basic rules are different. My view is fundamentally different, as in most…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:00 PM
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Virgins in the sense that they've never had sexual intercourse, yes. If you're opening the door to any orifice or bodily opening being "sex," then everyone who's masturbated is no longer a virgin and has had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:56 PM
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What I'm saying is that the inclusion or lack of those chemicals in the brain don't change what sex is. You're still having sex regardless of what or how much chemicals are there, and it's still just sex, not serotonin sex or dopamine sex or oxytocin sex or relationship sex or hookup sex. Just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:48 PM
2

The original quote? I don't think that is comparable to this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:46 PM
1

Doesn't matter what the intention is. The intention doesn't make it a different type of sex. It's still just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:45 PM
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Not really. Taking a shit at home vs at the store doesn't make it a different type of shit. You're still just pooping/defecating/whatever you want to refer to it as.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:44 PM
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I don't understand what your point is with this topic to be honest. The topic is about sex and how people's feelings or reasons don't change or make sex what it is. Also, anal and oral sex are both sex. There is no gray area there. Nah. Oral sex is a sexual act, not sex. Sex is sexual intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:42 PM
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Gay sex isn't really sex. Otherwise, that opens up the door to a lot of other things counting as "sex."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:39 PM
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Doesn't matter. Orgasming or not doesn't make sex any more or less of sex. You still had it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:38 PM
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There is a HUGE difference in sex without protection and sex with protection. Nope. Still sex. The outcome of that sexual encounter doesn't change the fact that sex was had. I'm still puzzled why some guys think that having protected sex with a bunch of different women makes them evolutionary winners? Don't know. Guess it has something to do with their ability to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:37 PM
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I'm not privy to his take.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:36 PM
1

Food is just food. Doesn’t matter if it’s Michelin star restaurant or 3 day old food thrown out in the dumpster from that shady truck stop. You still get the nutrition your body needs…. It's not about getting anything that you need. If you eat food, then you're eating food. Chewing a certain way or eating at a different time doesn't change the fact that what you're eating is what you're eating. There also is no "Oh, I didn't really eat because it wasn't that good."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:35 PM
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Not all sex is the same for our bodies. Sex with a condom and sex without a condom are pretty different im the consequences to the body for obvious reasons. Not really. The condom doesn't make sex "different." It only makes the potential outcome of sex different, which might be what you were actually referring to. Sex with a person that you're sure does not have STDs is different from sex with someone that might have one. If you're still having sex with both of them, then again, not really. You'…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:29 PM
1

By your logic I'm not sure if you even know what my logic is because yours looks a bit off, even though you probably thought it was similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:26 PM
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What the mind thinks (perception, or whatever) absolutely matters, and for every non-material things perception does effectively equals reality. Non-material thing, yes. Humans are material things, as are our sex organs, so the joining of those two things are happening in the material world. The mental world doesn't have any bearing on that objective reality. Just because you (yes, you you, not generic you) don't see or feel the difference of the act in different context doesn't mean the majorit…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:25 PM
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I don't recall it ever being something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:20 PM
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Doesn't matter. Feeling good doesn't make it a different kind of sex. It's still sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:19 PM
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Actually, it's being taught that "good" and "bad" are real things that makes people think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:19 PM
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Because I'm not gay. That's why. It's also apparent that you didn't read the whole post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:18 PM
2

I'd say both.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:16 PM
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Emotions don't change what something is, firstly. Secondly, you can't see a person's emotions, so if you're on the receiving end of them, whatever the case may be, you're primarily going to respond to your own emotions first, not theirs. That is why emotions don't matter in this case. They're all subjective. They don't change what objective reality already is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:13 PM
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Yes, I said that doesn't really matter. The mind doesn't make things what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:10 PM
1

He’s wanted to leave for awhile but didn’t want to leave her stranded because she’s an immigrant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:43 PM
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I mean they’re mostly all married too. Very few single women and teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:42 PM
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Disagree. Sometimes people just don't know, and things change. Not everyone can be an immediate "fuck yes" unless they're born lucky. Leave the ego at the door. Seducing someone takes time and effort, but phrases like this make me think people who subscribe to it don't want to put in time nor effort.
/r/seduction14/01/22 08:43 PM
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This isn't that cut and dry, honestly. There are numerous factors at play as to the reason why someone, let alone a group of people, becomes an incel. I remember seeing a short clip about a Middle Eastern man who couldn't get interest from the women around him, despite them looking like the stereotypical old Middle Eastern woman (not very attractive). He ended up finding either a Russian woman or a European woman who was more than happy to live a traditional lifestyle in his home. She didn't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:13 PM
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Lul. The comments here are telling. All of the women have never had problems getting attention from dudes and all of the men are either meh or "Pardon me, Madam. Could you spare but one crumb of pussy for a poor man who's down on his luck?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:00 PM
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There's not going to be an average guy. The middle class has been shrinking for everything. People are either going to look bland/unattractive or somewhat attractive. No middle-of-the-road, neither attractive nor unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:49 PM
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Uhhh wat? Edit: Oh, okay I see now after reading the comments. I'd give myself a C. I've had a decent amount of interest from women but not women that I've considered to be good partner material. Most have been in relationships while showing interest. Aside from that, interest has always been like a missed connection. They'll be interested, and by the time I'm thinking about it, they've lost interest and are looking elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:33 PM
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That may be the case but the bigger issue is that who they get their perspectives from are entirely selective, or they won’t listen to reason. My friend’s wife is saying she wants to get her boobs and lips done when I personally don’t think she needs that. She doesn’t care what anyone else says. She’s just set on doing that. Another longtime female friend and neighbor showed up at her mom’s house one day while I was visiting and it looked like she’d gotten Botox or something. She’s not even 30 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:47 PM
1

Oh so that’s why you think I’m here? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:41 PM
1

How do you know that I’ve never had an LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:47 PM
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They’re possible but don’t last very long typically because of dumb cultural beliefs like hot people should be together regardless of compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:05 PM
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That doesn’t seem to be the case here though. More attractive women tend to struggle with narcissism and that’s where the illusion of insecurity comes from. Less attractive women have poor self-esteem because they feel like they can’t measure up to the attractive women, and feel like they need enhancements just to be able to compete for the attention of the men that they want. That’s where the problem is because these women are still attractive. It just seems like “normal-looking” is no longer g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:47 PM
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What’s up with women’s self-esteem lately? I know that everyone’s self-esteem in general seems to be down, but I see women that look perfectly normal and not unattractive with poor self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:27 PM
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Economics doesn't exactly accurately cover emotional spending and impulse buying either, so you might want to consider what it does cover and then compare. People are predictable and the sexual preferences between men and women have been generally mapped out with significant accuracy. We can go from there and make accurate judgments and predictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:57 AM
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Just go for what you like, then. Also, you get what you pay for, so splurging a little bit on pricier stuff will make it more likely that you're getting better quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:26 AM
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Gotta spoil yourself with the good stuff every once in awhile. "Health is wealth," and everybody is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:42 AM
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Doing it yourself would probably be the best because you can get the best everything = the best espresso, the best vodka, the good chocolate syrup with sugar and not high-fructose corn syrup, and make it as light or as heavy as you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:25 AM
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You've gotta go to a place that does them good. Most will just throw vodka and Kahlua in a glass and call it a day. Italian restaurants and higher-end steakhouses with a good bar seem to make them right, which is with real espresso, not coffee/espresso liqueur.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:16 AM
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Having a sex life is okay. Having a sex life filled with hookups from random people is not, and those who don't want someone like that are obligated to turn them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:12 AM
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What is the meanest way you could break up with a girl after you’ve had sex with her. Ghost her, or tell her that her vagina smells and then ghost her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:06 AM
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His response is immature, considering how old he is. He should've just let her go. Long-distance relationships seldom work out, so he should be glad that his lasted as long as it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:05 AM
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What would be the alternative? Not personalizing and exclusively judging content? Just give me the bullet right now Ye and okay. Stand over there against the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:58 AM
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Espresso martinis are god tier. So SO good. A man of culture. It is funny, though. I’d say my comments are like 70:30 serious:troll/joke (purge notwithstanding, which is 99% trolling). I always wonder what conclusions that makes people draw about me. Misogynists are always short ugly incel dudes with small peens working some dead-end job like retail, or no job at all and typing away from mom's basement with a 4chan tab open in the background, of course. In my experience, people will see what the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:56 AM
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I can’t do caffeine at night Try it at dinner time, or around 5 or 6pm. No Kahlua. Emphasis on the "no" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:50 AM
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I'm not a fan of coffee, but........ Espresso Martini in a chocolate syrup-drizzled martini glass. Try it. You won't be disappointed (Note: No Kahlua. Blegh). Anyway, I think it's a bit funny how people form an image of a person's personality solely by their comments and think that this is who that person is, whether they make innocent, generic blue-pilled comments, or spastic, inflammatory, borderline sexist comments. In real life, nobody knows who is behind the keyboard, but they like to think…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:12 AM
3

It means you've successfully triggered someone. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:02 AM
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The best women to date, are unfortunately already dating. Not exactly true. Everyone gains relationship experience at some point and it becomes part of the "relationship" program in their brains, where they store things that they're supposed to do while in a relationship. A lot of what it looks like in action can be described as "going through the motions." This is true for dating as well. Anyway, almost all relationships fail eventually, so I don't think the time frame matters. Whether they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:00 AM
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Nope. I'm one unicorn looking for another unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:42 PM
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Sex is always sex. The reason behind it isn't relevant/ doesn't matter. Hookups and relationship sex are still just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:39 PM
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No, Comcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:37 PM
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It’s more that men are sexually unsuccessful because women perceive them as not ready or able to take care of them and a family. You’re one step off because women are instinctually looking at the end goal and considering their own biological imperatives and goals in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:05 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:58 AM
1

Ye.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:12 AM
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I think what women actually like are the perks of benevolent sexism, but they do not like overt benevolent sexism where people directly say or communicate that women are weak and need men for protection. They'd rather that men be quiet about that part but keep the provision and protection coming in smoothly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:12 AM
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His color is relevant because its 2022 and he's trying to break into the alternative/punk rock scene, which is predominantly a genre for people with much lighter skin tones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:35 AM
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They either met through mutual friends or shared spaces like at work, or that's just the typical sexual dynamic between men and women where men are providing and putting in work and women are providing their appearance and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:29 AM
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Yeah, I guess treating them like poop takes you through that glass ceiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:26 AM
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They can, and do, though, by advertising themselves as sexual objects to men. Prostitutes are the perfect example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:04 AM
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As said in another comment, the words "nice man" or "nice guy" does not exist anywhere in the post, so obviously you're talking about something else, or you're in the wrong post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:12 AM
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You didn't answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:10 AM
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Actually I'm kidding I'm in a hetero Nope. Gae.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:09 AM
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I wonder why he chose her Something is better than nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:08 AM
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The desire to call enjoying one’s pregnancy “masculine” is foreign to me. They're trying to flip the script on society (again). Pay attention because you might miss it and before you know it, people will be calling women "men" and men "women."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:07 AM
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The headlines: "The next chapter in equality: black alternative rock singers, and we love it!" The reality: Don't hype it up, please. It's not that good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:05 AM
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Is OnlyFans competitive or is it like a gold rush where every girl who signs up has the ability to be successful? As with any career field, it's a gold rush for the first wave of people that jump in and a fight to the top as it becomes oversaturated with people that wanted the gold rush.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:58 AM
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That said, I do believe that people need to stop saying that being nice has anything to do with a man's dating success. The word they're looking for is "approachable." It's often used interchangeably with nice, but they're not the same thing. Approachable assholes are 100% a thing, and without a doubt you will have the people who like them enough to cover and make excuses for them. Ye. Good clarification there. Definitely smash-worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:54 AM
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Ye. For true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:52 AM
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But sex is not the ultimate reward for being virtuous. Nobody said it was, but it should be pointed out that women don't really care about virtuosity when it comes to sex, and the fact that people try to make it a "good = successful, bad = loser" argument when this topic comes up is where the point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:50 AM
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​ I don't hear it and I don't see it. Both popular experiences. Welp then you must be elsewhere when it's being said or communicated, or it has and you don't remember. So has this "belief.” If no one ever talks about it? How do you know? Because I've heard it and seen it. You never hearing or seeing something doesn't mean it doesn't exist or never happened. It's possible you're in a bubble who believed that just as much as I'm in a bubble who never did. Yes, we're both in separate bubbles apart …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:48 AM
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It's not common knowledge in everyone's minds. People legit think that only good people find love, and if some non-good person found love, then they must've been hiding their true personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:40 PM
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I guess I’m challenging your view by asking who said exactly that “sexist men don’t get laid”? People. People that you've probably never met before but exist. I’ve never heard that. Where? In person? Have you ever been in that conversation before? If not, then it also isn't likely that you wouldn't randomly hear someone saying that sexist men don't get laid. However, it's a commonly held belief among a lot of the women in this sub, and popular among general audiences. "Most people that get laid …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:33 PM
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It just means that you shouldn’t be another bad person to add to the already more than sufficient amount of people that are assholes. Why not? Because it would be bad for others? That's usually the paradox: what's good only for the individual is bad for others, and what's good only for others is bad for the individual. The amount of good and bad people in the world doesn't matter/is irrelevant. People want good people around because it's better for themselves than having bad people around, which…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:24 PM
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Ye.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:20 PM
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It’s not so much women like “bad boys” as much as they are repelled by the stereotypical “nice guys” Women really want a juxtaposition of aggressive chivalry. Nice kind agreeable men are often, not always, neurotic pushovers. Right, and that aggressive chivalry is two parts, not one. "Aggressive chivalry" = simp. Aggressive and chivalrous is more accurate. A great example I enjoy using is when I see my date open a door. I will playfully but seriously say something along the lines of “If I ever s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:20 PM
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Those misogynistic and sexist guys just happen to be attractive lol. Try being an ugly & misogynistic guy lol you’ll prolly have the police called on you. Perhaps. Ugly misogynists still get laid though, because they have the "confidence," which is really just a "women ain't shit but hoes and tricks" attitude. They’re attracted to the guy not him being a sexist so they just overlook it because he’s so attractive to them. Eh. I think there's a controversial argument to be made about female sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:16 PM
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"Less misogynistic" doesn't really mean anything. Less misogynistic than what? Someone who absolutely hates women? Like less misogynistic than Ted Bundy, the famous serial killer that almost exclusively killed women? Sure. That still leaves room for a fair bit of misogyny though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:11 PM
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Circular argument. Not a circular argument. I just clarified your misunderstanding of misogyny. If you are making some determination "who gets laid" there is a huge difference. As I said before, there isn't a "different type of misogyny." If there is, then you'll have to show your reasoning as to why you think there is, because there is no "incel misogyny" and "player misogyny." They're both just misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:08 PM
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You shouldn’t be a good person because it grants you success, you should be a person just to do the right thing. So you would be fine with having very few of your needs being met while being a good person? That's usually the fate of most truly good people, as there are too many other people in the world that need help. People who steal are probably better at acquiring certain resources. Does that justify stealing? Should everyone steal now? Again, no justification required. You're holding onto t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:16 PM
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-poof- Wish granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:10 PM
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That's a component of misogyny, not a different type of misogyny. Misogyny or sexism is an umbrella that many things fall under and are categorized as "misogynistic" or "sexist." So, just like there isn't different types of sexism, there isn't different types of misogyny, because misogyny is a subcategory of sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:09 PM
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<sup>Everyone who posts comments after this one is gae</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:04 PM
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Men who love and adore women are kind and agreeable toward them. That is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:03 PM
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Success is living a good life. A life of a good person. Nah. Living a good life involves different things for different people. Most people want to be happy whether they were "good people" or not. Success is measured by how many people you have positively impacted during the course of your life. Maybe in your opinion. Nobody would really call a homeless person "successful" even if they were the most kind, caring and cheerful homeless person that ever lived. Someone like Freddie Mercury lived a v…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:01 PM
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Right, not everyone is either/or. That misogyny isn't usually the reason for his failure with women though, and that's the point being made here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:56 PM
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If getting laid is the only objective sure. That's part of it. Some people go their entire lives without the relationships and affection that they see everyone else getting and that they wanted but never got or had a chance to give. I think it's difficult for most women to imagine being forever passed over by every man they met. Most men and women looking for a bang and bounce don’t care to put deep thought into your views/beliefs or who you are as a person. Yeah, if it's casual sex, women's app…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:55 PM
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I mean, I don't actually think the so-called, self-declared nice guys are nice guys at all. I didn't say "nice guys." This comment is the reason why, yet it still managed to show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:51 PM
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I'm not a lass, but it means that women want growth and progression. They want to eventually upgrade from the apartment to the house, and from girlfriend to wife, and perhaps have a family. Being "stuck" or "the relationship isn't going anywhere" means that none of those projected futures are in the works. They feel like they're still going to be a girlfriend in your apartment for much longer than they want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:48 PM
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There's not different types of misogyny, unless you're talking about when fat loser neckbeard is misogynist vs when attractive wealthy celebrity is misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:45 PM
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Sure misogynistic aggressive men might get laid more. But they're misogynistic and aggressive. Apparently, that doesn't matter. Would much rather be a kind and caring virgin than and aggressive and misogynistic player. No point in answering this question because I am who I am regardless of the answer. Most people, however, would rather be the one that is succeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:44 PM
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Isn't the current social/cultural orthodoxy being that moral virtues is something that is only internally motivated and thus lack of rewards (and even punishments) from external sources means nothing? Uh... no? Moral values themselves are circling the toilet bowl. People only want others to have moral values for their sake, as in you wanting me to have moral values because of the likelihood that I will benefit you rather than cost you if we were to cross paths. So therefore it does not matter th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:42 PM

Do you think attraction works in only one way?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:31 PM

Anytime. I love expanding. Especially around the waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:25 PM
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Ye. That answer is still most likely to be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:17 PM
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Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:14 PM

Someone who has to have things a certain way that is both more expensive and more work. While recycling and using cloth towels may be more work, it's not more expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:11 PM
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If that's all that they make themselves out to be, then what is it? Is reality sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:38 PM

Not really true. Appearances change in people's minds with the inclusion of new information.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:33 PM

Lul. Guess some people really have nothing better to do over in their blue-pilled world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:32 PM

Tbh, those initial feelings of attraction that people get are the least important. Real attraction and "love" has staying power. Hope it's the latter in your situation and that you have one of those Titanic love stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:28 PM

Do you consider this to be high maintenance? Nope. Not really including the bidet here but I do everything else and it's not what I'd consider "high maintenance."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:16 PM

Anybody have the experience of a lot of people of the opposite sex eventually falling for you at some point after getting to know you? Bonus points for it only happening when you're not looking for a relationship, but the moment you become interested, they start running away.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:13 PM

She looks weird lmao. You can see it in her face that she has those big ass adult eyes but the rest of her outer facial features and body looks like a kid. At first I was like "mutated crack baby?" but then settled on a mix of that and Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. Jeebus.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:09 PM
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Fetishes mostly manifest when there's a sex drive to motivate or support those fetishes, and most women have a pretty low sex drive because of naturally having lower testosterone than men. Otherwise, those things are just nice to look at, not really fetishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:05 PM
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No, it plays out to her looking like a cinnamon bun that a 2 year old got a hold of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:03 PM
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Yeah, once a week is pretty low. A few times a week is the bare minimum for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:02 PM
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I'm going to guess you've decided women don't do things on their own because they are irrationally afraid because you left your house a couple of times and couldn't find a woman to ask out. Nah. There's two reasons why most women don't do things alone: They dislike being alone for extended periods of time (too many insecure thoughts floating around in their heads). They're afraid to be alone (for reasons pertaining to the above in parenthesis). No one needs or wants your "security". Women do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:59 PM

so you dont study evolution, you study the human brain. Evolution is part of the course curriculum. I've taken my evolutionary psych class already, as well as a comparative animal behavior class that links similarities between human behavior and other animals. you're not a sexologist here bud so quit going on about "female nature". just makes you sound sexist and misinformed You don't need to be "a sexologist" to know things about the sexes and nature. Well, maybe you do, but other people don't.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:56 PM
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Ye. Handy is better than a lump of useless flesh that doesn't do anything except cry and expect things of everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:51 PM
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Too bad for them. Maybe women should start making an effort toward getting their own pleasure in the bedroom instead of waiting on or expecting men to please them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:22 PM
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Nah. Those women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:28 PM
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Again, no it doesn’t. You’re the one disagreeing with my comment, not the other way around. You having casual sex doesn’t change the function of sex for every other woman. Women have casual sex with hot men for the pleasure and sex with other men to secure relationships and better their futures/increase their security and quality of life. This isn’t a convenient “either/or” argument, unfortunately for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:13 PM
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I live in North America, one of the safest places to live on the planet and where women are still afraid and apparently oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:09 PM
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Relationships/commitment and money, mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:38 AM
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Men don't use sex to get other things from women while women do use it to get other things from men. That is the difference here and it seems to be flying over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:27 AM
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If I actually got in a relationship that lasted for awhile, it would mean that I succeeded in finding someone who wasn't figuratively gae.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:02 AM

You are basically doing the same thing I said that the OP is doing in the last part of my original reply to the post and have yet to realize it. I'll still be here when/if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:58 AM
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So then by your definition, men also have sex for exchange of goods and services. Men exchange sex for sex. Sex is transactional, yes. Did I claim otherwise? In your original statement, you only bring up ‘females’ doing it, in an attempt to make women look shallow or manipulative; as if they’re having sex in order to gain something superficial from men. That's your interpretation, but it seems like the only motivation behind your argument is trying to make men look as bad as you think I'm making…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:56 AM

Sounds like you mental gymnastic'd your way to the conclusion that you wanted to hear and are acting like I'm the one who said it. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:41 AM
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So the sex itself is the goods and services? In the case of those specific men, yes. Okay so now you’re saying that women have goods and services for exchange of goods and services. Uh what? I think I rest my case. I'm not sure if you even know what you're saying. Women don't exchange sex for sex with all men. Just the ones that they want, like you and the dude you're mentioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:37 AM

Do you financially provide for the women you have had sex with? I financially provide for women that I have any sort of continued interaction with. I buy them food and gifts on their birthdays and Christmas and other times throughout the year. How often have you provided security for the women you have dated? Do you carry a gun on dates in case someone tries something? No need to carry a gun. The presence itself is enough of a deterrant unless there are multiple other guys involved. Women are aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:34 AM

Depends on the people in question, but for any random person, I'd say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:25 AM

So the “goods and services” you’re referring to is literally just… knowing that they aren’t a serial killer or rapist? If he puts in most of the effort during sex to make sure you feel good, then that's both goods and services. If you are physically attracted to him, that's goods. If he picks you up and otherwise caters to you, that's a service. I don't imagine that you drive over to use him as though he was a sex doll and then leave. What an absurd way to put it. And if you want to put it like …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:24 AM

Women don't get enough pleasure from the average man for sex alone to be an equal exchange for sex. Only when it's a guy they're heavily attracted to with a nice peen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:18 AM

Did you grab him off the street randomly and claim him as your FWB? If not, then he's been vetted already by you and deemed "safe." That's security.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:59 AM

You're probably not looking then. The primary function of a male partner for a woman is security. Having a man around that they trust makes women feel more secure automatically, because he is able to respond to threats, and they assume that he will if they have a good relationship. The financial part is a given because women mostly expect men to make more than they do for a reason. That is added protection in the event that they become pregnant or incapacitated and cannot work. So yeah, if you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:54 AM
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He's got the sauce, and the gold-diggers want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:41 AM

Nope. It still applies if he's done anything else for you, assuming that you aren't grabbing random men off the street and immediately having sex with them on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:40 AM
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Have you thought about using a glory hole? Nope. The ones in the public bathrooms mostly have men on the other side, and I'm not gay. It's just sex and you are responsible for your pleasure, why would you care who is on the other side of the wall? Because being responsible for my own pleasure means choosing when and where to pursue it. I guess none of that applies to women though since men are responsible for their pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:39 AM

Physical, mental and financial.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:37 AM
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*Hefty brand 10-gallon trash bags
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:36 AM
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The opposite of preselection you've described sounds like "they aren't shallow, insecure and/or mentally lazy."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:33 AM

yes, we don't. females and males would mate freely but prefer to mate with the strongest and nicest members. but males and females would take care of each others Young, that's the difference. Uhhh.... what? im studying medical biology right now, Very first semester? im trying to get a job in a pharmaceutical company for Uni of Toronto. Cool. I dont lecture me when you didn't even study any branch of science. Quite the assumption. I'm actually studying psychology and in-between finishing my Bache…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:27 AM

The problem is that seeing sex as only a commodity is damaging and provides an incomplete picture. Who are you speaking to that said "sex is only a commodity?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:19 AM

What goods and services am I getting from sex, apart from orgasms? Security in multiple forms, assuming that you're in a relationship with the man you're having sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:09 AM

you're acting like you dont want the women to have pleasure, It's not my responsibility to give it to them. If they don't get pleasure from sex, then maybe they should stick to staying at home in their studio apartment with their vibrators and pets. also its not a "problem" a women cant get off from your luke warm hotdog It's certainly their problem, not ours. Men get pleasure from sex just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:08 AM

Yes, to everyone. Those dudes got over the barrier because they had what was required to get over the barrier. Them getting in doesn't mean it wasn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:06 AM

uh bud in nature if you got a girl pregnant or mated with her if might be for life, Or it might not. Humans don't mate for life like other species do. and in nature males didnt just view women as a hole to fill, a little sad how a fucking bird views their own kind higher than you view yours. I don't think you quite understand how evolution and biology works and varies among other species. Might want to read up on that before thinking and promoting this kind of view. im not going to respond to yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:01 AM

It's not the dude's job to "give her pleasure." If she's not getting any pleasure from having sex, that sounds like a problem on her end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:57 AM

Usually I agree with you, but no, sex isn't inherently a commodity. I didn't say that it inherently was. I said that it is commoditized. But for those of us who are disgusted by such transactions, sex is never a commodity. Right, not an explicit commodity being listed as part of the contract, but it's covered in the implied language in the contract. You can't have a sexual relationship with someone without sex. It is an experience shared with another person for pleasure and emotional connection.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:56 AM
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That's physically all that is happening. Any feelings of specialness happen only in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:51 AM
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Calling something "reductionist" is mostly just an attempt to frame it in a bad light while promoting the idea that the blown-up version is the correct take. Nobody has to agree on the value of something because that is where subjectivity takes over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:50 AM
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this is just sexist, all i have to say is yikes man, yikes. i feel bad for you. Talks about the sexes are usually sexist. Duh. Though I guess you're too PC for that. no kidding, sex boundaries are a healthy thing to have, everyone should have some form of them Not the same "boundaries." uh, no. once again putting up barriers for people you dont like is normal and sex isnt transactional. That's what you think. You're free to believe that sex isn't transactional all you want, but it is. wanting to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:46 AM
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Sex is not a commodity any more than hugs are. Hugs aren't in demand, and hugs don't carry much, if any risk to women. Sex, on the other hand, is both in high demand and carries risk. That is why women/females place prerequisites on mating. It’s an activity that people engage in when they like each other, Yeah, this is how sex is explained to or by 8 year olds. despite what you pill people think. But I guess that’s hard to fathom when you reduce it to entry into their vaginas That's physically w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:35 AM
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Uhhh...... women knowingly and deliberately put up barriers to entry into their vaginas. Sex is a commodity that females exchange for goods and services. That is basically the essence of female nature, and not just for humans, but for females of other species as well. Edit: So basically, you're seeing the result of women putting their own vaginas on a pedestal while men are climbing the pedestal and then removing the part where women put it there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:22 AM
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Gotta find yerself one o' them "born-again virgins."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:31 AM
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Literally all they would have to do is make it cheaper for people to rent larger homes than it currently is, And why would they do that? They're trying to prevent the poor/LMC from having children. Making it cheaper would mean that the poor and LMC would be having more children (which is how it usually goes anyway). Importing is more efficient because it cuts out the non-productive consumer years (0 - 17) and allows them to enter the workforce without the expense of food, diapers, toys, and othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:19 AM
1

Marriage is pointless beyond people wanting it for the social "Oohs" and "Aahs."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:16 PM
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Animal fact: Those people who hoard cats in their dirty homes are infected with a parasite that lives to infect cats. It will infect multiple animals in a chain until it infects a bird or a rat/mouse. Then it makes those animals act in a way that ignores their natural fear or averseness to cats in order to get eaten by them. In humans, it deadens the smell of cat urine and feces and causes the people to act as those people do. People who just love cats, dogs and other animals are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:12 PM
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The easiest way for a man to do this is via financial success but it’s not the only way. Ye. Being hot, sociable and having a nice peen is the other way, but we can't choose to be that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:05 PM
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Well that's my point, clearly they don't want people to have dependents because the fewest number of bedrooms is what's incentivized from a cost perspective. Uhhh..... what math are you using? More rooms = more cost effective. One room = $1200 while three rooms = $1600 = $533.33 per room. Even if we were adjusting for square footage, more is cheaper, because they want people to either shack up or start families. Accommodating space for one person takes up too much space so they put a premium on …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:04 PM
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most relationships are successful if neither one of the two is a damn hoe Welp I guess that's why almost everyone's mom has been divorced at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:58 PM
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Ye. That's their ticket to the upper echelons of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:56 PM
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either that or he needs to be hotter and really masculine Yes, and still be able to help with the heavy lifting. you can't be both less successful and less attractive and expect her to respect and or be loyal to you The only way that's going to happen is if there's other factors like knowing each other/being very close for a long time (like they grew up together) or he did a thing one time and it's still stuck in her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:55 PM
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If they really wanted people to reproduce, those dollar figures would be reversed. They do, for some people. Not everyone. They don't want everyone reproducing. Just enough people, and not the poor. Not hard to see why 2 people + 0 dependents is the most affordable math. 2 people with no dependents is the same as one person. If they want dependents, then "child-free" people don't factor into the equation at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:50 PM
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That depends on how one defines "success." Usually it's "Able to support and provide for oneself and one's spouse/family." I mean there were plenty of kids in my Catholic community whose parents were ostensibly still married but couldn't stand to be in the same room together. Yes, they probably got married because of infatuation. People consider that feeling to be "love" but it isn't. A woman with her own career/finances/life outside of her husband probably wouldn't hesitate to leave a situation…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:47 PM
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Because women need men to be strong enough to deal with their insecurities. If a man is insecure, how is he going to handle both of their problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:31 PM
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Men need to be successful enough to be respected by the woman, but I don't think they need to be the more successful of the two. Usually, the only way women respect men is if they make similar to or more than they do. Women don't respect men who make significantly less and/or are less esteemed. But also all the divorces in the 70's and 80's were from relationships where the man was the more successful one of the two. So there's that. Most marriages end in divorce and most people split up because…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:30 PM
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Would anyone agree that most relationships are successful when the man is the more successful one out of the two? With the financial tides in the US shifting more toward women, that's going to have an impact on most newer relationships where men haven't been given the same boost that women are getting. Also, penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:23 PM
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Fertility rates are more for the country than they are for the individual. If a nation needs more people, then they will encourage people to reproduce, and if need be, make it harder for them to live alone. That is why rent magically becomes cheaper as the amount of rooms increase. $1000 for a one bedroom but $1600 for a three? The math doesn't checkout there and it's because they want people to create families.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:17 PM
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You don’t. You join other people’s circles where some are friends and everyone else is in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:12 PM

Sometimes people are essentially stuck together in marriages, be it through shared assets, kids, or the process of divorce. It's understandable to still desire intimacy when you're under those circumstances. Right, but it's not much different from when you're in any other relationship. You either get that intimacy from your partner or you wait until you're split up to find it. Getting it from another person while still in a relationship is cheating regardless of the circumstances. People just do…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:48 PM

It just means you stop living together, lol. If you’re pissing each other off too much to function, but don’t want to unwind your legal stuff Right, but you're still together. People take "separated" as code for "split up" or "technically single" even though you're still "in a relationship." It’s not that complicated But it is unfair/inconvenient to anyone who wants to bang you in the meantime, and you should behave accordingly What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:41 PM
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Apart from "Hi" and "Oh, yeah, haha."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:40 PM

I guess it takes too long to finalize a divorce. Several months to a year just to get through all the proceedings and paperwork. Right. People can't or don't seem to want to wait that long until the relationship is "officially over" before moving on, and yet they value marriage as a meaningful part of their lives. Very inconsistent thoughts. And that's after you've already decided to file. People just kind of break up without filing for divorce for a long time. Idk why. It's probably as I said: …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:42 PM

What is y'alls opinion on marriage separation? It's always been socially acceptable to sleep around and date while still married if you just tell people that you're "separated." In my opinion, you're still married, so you're still in a relationship. Even if you don't love each other/have high school-grade feelings for each other, it's still cheating/adultery, yet people don't want to wait until the divorce to move on. It's a bit of a hypocritical stance to have where you're committed to someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:17 PM

How convenient is it that when a woman gets rejected for a relationship, it’s because she’s too ugly for the man. But when a man gets rejected for a relationship or casual sex, it’s because he’s unlucky. They're the same. Just using different wording.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:10 PM

Equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:09 PM

Women dreading men is older than TRP telling men to run dread on women. "If you don't shape up, you're gonna lose me/ all of this." -waves hand around body-
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:08 PM

She's one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:06 PM
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It is that you don't socialize enough That's kind of the point. If women don't want to socialize with you, then you'll be struggling in dating as a result. If you're suggesting that chatting up and trying to befriend random strangers/women under a secret pretext of trying to get with them eventually, that only works if you're at least somewhat attractive. The guys that are struggling in dating are mostly average and below.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:38 PM
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There is nothing morally "right or wrong" about it, nor is it "bad" for everyone. Polygamy allows people to meet their needs via multiple channels. The drawbacks are that it's a less stable, less consistent lifestyle. It's not for everyone, either. Some people are more compatible with it than others are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:35 PM
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Jobless, obviously. You can still live a life without dates. You can't do either without an income.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:58 AM
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Yeah. When most of what you’ve seen by people in your life has been the same, you come to the conclusion that this is just how people are, whether they be good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:18 AM
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There’s never just one woman. It’s always multiple women doing the same things or responding the same way as if they were all in contact with each other and decided to do or say the same thing, except that they’ve likely never met before in their lives. Hence why guys are always referring to women as a herd or a hivemind. The ones that got away were usually not known very well. Otherwise it might’ve been discovered eventually that they did the same or similar stuff to other men too, and you were…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:13 AM
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I'm somewhat inclined to agree as well. Just another anecdote is the pool, but the lion's share of my friends in HS were all girls. I had an easier time associating with them and fell easily into the role of non-threatening entertainer (and part time emotional support) which at the time was fine by me. I think the only way the friendships worked is because I was non-threatening, as I was already in a relationship and genuinely wasn't interested in any of them, in short there was no way I was an …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:13 PM
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Ye. I just think the topic should be dug up because there's this running idea that men are the shitty friends or using friendships as a segue to a relationship. In my experience, this is mostly projection, or men trying to adapt themselves to how women do things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:05 PM
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Ye, or when they're not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:03 PM
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Male friends definitely last longer. r/SuddenlyGay My male friends typically stayed friends after getting a girlfriend, after getting married. The point where they sometimes disappear is when they have kids, even then it was like 50 / 50. Ye. Female friends would get a boyfriend and you'd see them less often, but they still were around and it seemed like things would be fine. Then things would get "serious" at some point and they'd go m.i.a. completely - bye bye bye. I've seen this as well, alth…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:03 PM
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It should be common sense that men and women generally can't be friends, with a few exceptions. Meh. Not even all same-sex friendships are the same. We don't totally vibe with everyone we cross. A lot of women just seem to want guy friends which is probably the only reason this debate even exists in teh first place. I've had female friends in the past but they've always been pretty superficial friendships where it feels like I'm just fulfilling a "guy friend" role. Ye. I've felt the same (like I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:51 PM
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Was not offered any crack If you smashed, then you were ;D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:44 PM
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So far, you've added nothing new that I haven't already said. However, does Briffault's Law apply to male friendships? If not, then you might want to rethink and approach the topic from a different angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:43 PM
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I didn't understand until I went to her place and it looked like a crack den For all you know, it could have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:35 PM
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Nope. Plenty of adoptable, unwanted children that were given up by their parents available to take home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:32 PM
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What OP? Your comment was irrelevant because it was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:58 PM
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If those girls are all that women got, then it’s no wonder why men think women are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:22 PM
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I didn’t say that it increased horniness. The word used was “induced.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:37 PM
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Success is getting what you want/what you’ve been looking for. I can’t say that most people end up with what they want, because they still found someone that they weren’t looking for and are happy anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:36 PM
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It's not about need. It's about want. Smart girls have their place, but if all they are is smart and not attractive, those places can be sparse. Having only brains for a woman is like being a nice guy - it ain't enough on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:12 AM
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Uhhh no. Drunken horniness is a legitimate thing. Substance-induced horniness is a thing for people in general. I've heard of women becoming horny while drinking or doing drugs many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:09 AM
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It's not a redpill for smart girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:06 AM
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Every post on your post is wrong. My collection is 3 vibes, and 1 rarely used didlo I wouldn't have bought myself, plus toys to share as a couple that aren't just for me. "Durr, look at me! I represent all women! You are wrong about us, durr." And that other guy saying all women use vibes to get off? Yo, even my vibes barely get used in my marriage (especially if he's not there). Never used one before it lol Typical low sex drive: confirmed. That's about the only area you could remotely represen…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:11 AM
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Those vases represent the dildos in the dildo collection. Everyone else seems to have understood that after seeing the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:11 AM
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Woosh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:03 AM
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Wanting to be hit or anything to do with piss and scat. Most BDSM stuff is borderline dealbreaker territory for me. I'm more of a "fiery vanilla passion" kind of guy. Maybe some in-the-moment spanking and grabbing here and there, but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:01 AM
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Ain't no tampon big enough to stop that drop. Women be forever drippin. That drip drop got them trippin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:38 AM
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Ye that's about the size of it - women no care at end of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:32 AM
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Yeah, imagine not being able to measure up to a tampon and have your manliness and self-worth called into question on top of it simply because of a small portion of your whole body. Men with small peens are insecure for a reason, and that's because women are telling half-truths regarding peen size preferences. Those dudes get the most sympathy from other men while they get among the most scorn, ridicule and criticism from women behind closed doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:15 AM
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FDS energy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:52 PM
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Lesbians have more orgasms than hetero couples because of that snake tongue. Sssssssssssss. Thisssss might be the sssssstart of your new, amazing ssssssssex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:50 PM
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Guys with micropeens, maybe. However, the women that use dildos larger than the average dick aren't fooling anyone about what they really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:46 PM
2

They’re bees? Wasps? Angry hornets?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:15 PM
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Women: "Women don't use dildos! They only use vibrators. Dildos are for appealing to men!" Meanwhile, their dildo collection:
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:55 PM
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Probably remote control vibe butt plug in his ass for one week.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:49 PM
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You obvi have the hots for her and want to take that friendship to the next level. possible /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:46 PM
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Perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:45 PM
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A hunch that you’re sure of for no reason other than it just seems like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:17 PM
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Ye. Some guys out there do want a loving, caring, passionate and compatible cum dumpster too though. Not all of us can live that totally successful life, or care to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:09 PM
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You said “men.” Which men? Two of them? One of them? Four? Half? All? Unless it was one man, then it would be a group of men. You can think that it originated with men, but without the facts, it’s just an opinion, and one that might not be correct. Women are the biggest slut shamers out of both sexes, so it’s more likely that the conception originated with women before the word was ever created to express it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:07 PM
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You might want that, but someone who already feels fulfilled in their current life situation may not have a need for that. You can’t project your own wants on to them saying that they want or should want it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:04 PM
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I explain what it infers directly after. Alrighty. And yeah bro. I don’t think women conceived “slut.” Just a hunch. Right. Men created it but women call other women it more than men do. Makes sense. Never said men had a secret meeting about it. I’m not the one between us obsessed with conspiracies. This is definitely your conspiracy theory that men created the word "slut" as some kind of group.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:00 PM
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Yeah, for sure it's a bonus. But the bonus is like tracking down the owner of a wallet with thousands of dollars in it, and handing it back. Only to be g8ven the cash as a reward. Bonuses and rewards are two different things though. Having a girlfriend you can relate with, share common interests and goals with, work together well and have good banter with is the aim of the game. If she has a cracking body as well, that's a bonus. Right, and there will still be dudes who are only/primarily wantin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:56 PM
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It’s not a slur if it meant “promiscuous women.” But it doesn’t. So what does it mean then? “Gross” is subjective and sure why wouldn’t anyone take offense to be called gross. Is "gross" any more subjective than the implied attributes of what constitutes "a slut?" Not worthy of commitment is what it is but sure I totally expect a person to feel a way if the person theyre crushing thinks they’re good enough to fuck but not good enough to be with seriously. Like I said. Men created the term as a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:49 PM
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Nah. Some people are only looking for/at one or the other regardless of what someone has. Even if a man has a lot of money or a woman has a nice body in addition to having a personality, then the money and body will be valued as "a bonus."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:44 PM
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at least not one we know about. When has the public ever known about any of the plans?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:43 PM
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If "gross promiscuous woman" is a slur to women, then maybe they're just offended that someone is calling them what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:42 PM
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Ye, but that might not be part of the plan, so we'll have to wait and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:36 PM
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Generally, I don't get erect and copulate with books. There's still plenty of time. This could be a false statement 10 years from now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:31 PM
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I already know what sections I like to read from. If one looks good, then I'll read the summary inside. If that's good too, then that's the one I pick. If not, it goes back on the shelf. Looking for a random book to read is a signal that someone is either bored and looking for a brief distraction or they don't know what they want and are just hoping to find something good if they look long enough. A lot of people fit into one or the other, but mostly the latter. The cover matters but only becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:30 PM
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Women like showing off their bodies (peacocking). Nope. The only problem is when they dress in form-fitting clothing and then expect (certain) people not to look at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:24 PM
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It was never meant to. It was to allow women to have the best of both worlds via the choice to be independent or be provided for, and freely flip-flop between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:23 PM
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Because their own inhibitions plus lack of sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:53 PM
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If they're new to the place, then yeah I could see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:55 AM
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If you can't notice it, then it will likely make SMV go up. If you can notice it, then SMV goes down. Similar with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:33 AM
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Yeah that's excessive. I could understand taking a few pics for the whole trip, but not the standard bajillion that some women take.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:31 AM
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You mean you personally have seen/heard it expressed more by men, not that it actually is, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:44 AM
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Ummm okay then. Cool story bruv.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:18 AM
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He won't do anything to me because I'm not a heathen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:16 AM
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I don't have ass burgers, but if you're basically asking me if I regret not being dumb like most of the population, then no, I'm glad that didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:10 AM
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Not even the Gods on Mount Olympus will be able to help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:04 AM
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Appeal to religion for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:00 AM
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Not scientifically possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:53 AM
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Being a "nice girl" can seem normal for women to behave. They certainly get away with it more than men do. I think the difference that you're looking for though is that nice guys are trying to figure out what works (they thought being nice will work because they were told/misled to believe that women "like nice guys"), only to find out that it doesn't work like that, so then they become frustrated because they thought it was supposed to work and didn't work. Nice girls are mostly just entitled a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:38 AM
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Noice. I like seeing fit women. She should re-post those abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:24 AM
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Nah. I've seen some good-looking overweight women. They're just not that common.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:22 AM
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These questions are a bit pointless because we're here right now, not in some other timeline. I can't regret being born because it's not something I chose to do (as far as I'm aware). All we can do is make the best of our lives while alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:20 AM
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Right. A lot of them aren't even beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:35 AM
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I mean the still good-looking one could get it, but the other one was just cottage cheese in a pink bikini and blonde wig.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:25 AM
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Titty sprinkles
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:22 AM
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Idk about that last part, but yeah, there's still going to be dudes liking and thirsting over it. Like I said, one of them still looked decent despite being a bit overweight. She had a good body underneath and would be even better if she lost weight. The other one was almost similar but she was a bit beyond the threshold of looking good while overweight with her body type.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:21 AM
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Hobbit (aka Kim Kardashian)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:10 AM
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I saw some heckin chonkers at the beach last weekend taking pictures for their social media by the beach entrance (they were posing on those wood and rope rails). I don't get exactly why women (especially fat women) go to the beach to take pictures while trying to look sexy for strangers on the internet. They were both overweight and only one of them actually looked decent. If it weren't for her, it would've been nothing but cellulite with tits in thong bikinis posing at the beach. They were leg…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:05 AM
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Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:00 AM
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Nah. Everyone is both the employer and the employee. If you have nobody "applying to work for" you, then that's unfortunate, but it doesn't change the fact that everyone is both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:59 AM
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suddenly its a woman’s fantasy?? It's always been a woman's fantasy to have The Perfect GuyTM wanting his first time (and every other time after that) to be with them only.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:57 AM
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It is, but some women take that to the extreme and become virgin chasers, while others only want that in a specific context.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:55 AM
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I think the only part women like about it is the specifically crafted "saving all my love for you" boy bander aesthetic. Nah. That's part of the fantasy, but the key part of it was the "attractive" portion. They don't care if some schlubby dude is reserving himself for a very special woman. They'll just think it's cute at best, and still call him "a virgin loser" at the worst. In my experience, girls want an ex of yours to compete with and win if only for their ego. Ye. Women definitely get inti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:47 AM
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Nah. Men just don't want sloots or current/former sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:43 AM
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Uhhhh.... I mean, you can.... Better to watch the animals though as a conscious person than someone who isn't, because then you can both know and enjoy what you're seeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:42 AM
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Further, many women aren't virgins, and so, a male virgin, not only will be troublesome for fulfilling her sexual desires, And that's part of the problem. Gotta find a woman who can build up and be patient with a dude that has less experience. A lot of women are too spoiled with instant gratification that it becomes the standard expectation to give them everything they want almost immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:40 AM
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Ah, yes, the perfect female fantasy, with or without the religious part.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:37 AM
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Just dive into philosophy. Much better for one's life in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:33 AM
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It's mostly projection. Men want women that are turned on and enthusiastic while having sex with them. If things are getting hot and heavy with one person but not the other person, that might be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:30 AM
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Get triggered, boob noob.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:29 PM
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My goal is to be happy. I’m already happy so having a partner won’t do anything for me there. I’ll endure some stuff for the right person, but anyone who makes me unhappy and isn’t worth it will get the boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:27 PM
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I have to ask. Why are you not reproducing and being a father / husband? Because I don’t want to at the moment and/or no good prospects. I’m sure you’ll say all the women you interact with are this or that but surely you could muster up and sacrifice for the greater good of the species. Nah. Not worth. I’d rather adopt and cut out the problems before they start.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:53 PM
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It’s not like that when people are involved rather than stores and items.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:50 PM
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Closure first. If it’s been awhile since they responded for whatever reason, then just let it be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:35 PM
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Depends on age and partner frequency. If she has a lot of partners at a given age (like a 1:1 ratio) or she has frequent partners within a certain amount of time (a few guys per month or one per month for the whole year), then she’s promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:02 PM
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If I am, then I should get a sex change to make it official.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:13 AM
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Two sayings: "Don't marry the one that you love. Marry the one that loves you." "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:03 AM
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Delusion. Delusion. Delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:51 AM
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I'm a dude and I'm here because I like talking about relationship stuff and human behavior. Studying psychology makes this sub an area of interest. I think a lot of other men are here to voice their concerns and share their own experiences. Most of the women here are unironically married or not single and have higher n-counts than the men do. Just a view of the landscape here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:51 AM
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Is that what they teach in gender studies courses? Lul.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:46 AM
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I’m talking about both. You’re the one who failed by replying to a convo when you don’t know what’s going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:07 PM
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Online dating is similar to window shopping or just shopping online in general, except this one is for a boyfriend. It’s no surprise that curated profiles get the most attention from women. They think that if the product looks good and sounds good, then it must be good, and this doesn’t change whether it’s a product or a person. They’re both the same in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:48 PM
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Maybe for the steak. No on the cheese though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:19 AM
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Definitely. Most women are born without a funny bone in their bodies. Not very humerus.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:36 AM
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Gae. Those things are a waste of money for people who don't know what fruits and vegetables are. Eat a few figs, prunes or berries and you'll be shidding fairly soon. Only problem is when you eat too much meat that doesn't get digested all the way along with minimal fats or veggies like lettuce and broccoli and you get poops that feel like partially hardened concrete within a day or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:35 AM
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If I had my way, most pairings would happen in areas of commonality. I’ve found my attraction grows as I get to know men. Yes, that's part of how attraction works. The proximity effect and mere exposure effect are known psychological phenomenons among the psych community. Like I met a guy in a group and at first I thought he was a dork. But as time went on I started fantasizing about him. And he was short and pudgy. Ye.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:31 AM
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Damn. You make men seem like petulant children. Adults are just old petulant children in between acting "grown up." FFS. Ever heard of the adage “Don’t be a dick”. I'm not a dick until someone warrants it. That be the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:29 AM
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IKR? Takes someone of the same level to really understand and appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:27 AM
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That is also acceptable. Let's see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:10 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iN7\_O-2Kixw
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:05 AM
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Gae. I'm suing the mods for false advertisement. Purge Week is supposed to last a week, not a weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:04 AM
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It's crusty even if it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:02 AM
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I'd slash the risks. Negligible considering that most of the observable ones are not that common among the population anyway. Things like heart disease, cardiovascular disease, predisposition to diabetes, Alzheimer's, Dementia, however.........
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:00 AM
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I was talking about women in general, not you specifically, doll. Also, with the lights off, all sexual activities are more enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:54 PM
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Nah. Men like sex with attractive women's bodies, not gross, unshapely, crusty bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:50 PM
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Not really. Just the ones that are objectively/visibly disfigured from genetic diseases and dispositions. For the more subtle ones or the ones that don't show up, or the ones that come about due to poor diet, you won't be able to easily tell just by looking at them, so you'd be making an assumption there that "looks good = is good."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:49 PM
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"The box says 'no."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:47 PM
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Why would the girls look any more gross in this hypothetical than they do now? Why do you think this is what I said? Women currently think this way right now. Gross-looking women think they're entitled to attractive men and currently do live in a fantasy world. In a society like the one I'm suggesting, that wouldn't change. Girls are already fucking who they want and who chooses them as well. I mean in a way, yes, but not all of the dudes that they want. Just the ones that they think are "good e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:46 PM
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Yes, but sadly, the daughters get to choose when to be mature or when they're like children with no agency or responsibility, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:41 PM
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So I guess you mean women shouldn’t be allowed to reject men? Women shouldn't have much if any say in who their partner is, because they'll reject every man that they don't immediately think is attractive enough for them (even if said man would be a good partner). I thought we were supposed to get better and not become single moms though? You are, but women still seem to be failing there through their own choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:28 PM
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I did/do. Cheese is probably the culprit here, along with a buttload of meat (no pun intended).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:25 PM
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Logically this is right but neither men nor women want to live in this kind of world. I mean it doesn't really matter that much because if the country/surrounding environment is better as a result, then it makes for better lives for those who live in it. In hard-working, industrial societies, people may be obligated to do certain tasks and not have much freedom while doing those tasks, but their QOL is significantly better when they're able to enjoy themselves. Problem is that people want freedo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:22 PM
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Is that a bash on men or a bash on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:17 PM
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Yes, guys like sex, but not with gross-looking women. If those women still think that they're "gonna fuck who they want. Lol," then they're living in a fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:28 PM
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Are you proposing a law? No. Just saying that women suck at something so they shouldn't do it/should do much less of it. Prohibiting….what now? Or legalizing kidnapping and rape? Whatever your imagine wants to conceive of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:27 PM
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I mean love more in the friendship/family aspect that's needed to sustain a relationship. Yes, and that eventually forms when you've known or have been around someone for long enough. Although without lust they won't be getting grandchildren very easily. You don't need to be attracted to someone to reproduce with them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:25 PM
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I can do worse for you, if that's what you want. We'll go all the way to the bottom of the dumpster.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:24 PM
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Men will adopt women's standards when women adopt their own standards. How bout dat?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:23 PM
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They won't have sex with their partner and fend for themselves. Well then so be it. What do you think the women who fend for themselves will do? They are gonna fuck who they want. Lol Only if those people want to fuck them too. UnLeSs YoU'rE tAlKiNg AbOuT rApE.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:22 PM
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And you don't really know what that means or is in a conscious sense. You only interpret it as "I like/don't like" them. They could be "compatible" and still have health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:21 PM
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I don't know whether to call it Krusty the Clown or Sideshow Bob.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:15 PM
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You don't have to "love" someone to be married/partnered with them. Most people's definitions of "love" just mean "viscerally attracted to" = "infatuation/lust."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:14 PM
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That's code for the same thing. Incompatible translates to undesirable. It's the same as when people say "unfortunate." You're being PC.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:12 PM
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So that's pretty much the system we have now... Women will only have sex with them men they want, and those are the men that will select them. Congrats, you've just experienced the sexual revolution. Uhhh no. Women will have sex with their partner, whom they did not choose/whom was chosen by someone else, or they will be single for lyfe and have to fend for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:11 PM
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More like "#Bringbackthefamilyunit"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:09 PM
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Also I’d rather die than be forced into a nightmare existence with someone who’s just gonna abuse me. You implied it right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:08 PM
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Yes, you should suck one right in front of them while holding eye contact, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:08 PM
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Sure. We're not doing it for someone else, again. Still confirming that men should act in ways that women deem acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:07 PM
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Your vagina is the crusty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:06 PM
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You think parents are likely to choose partners their children actually like and are compatible with? That's cute but if you think that women are awful at picking partners, their parents are unlikely to be better. Parents are more likely to choose someone who would be better for the family, not just their daughter. Case in point, if the daughter is "in love" with some loser druggie, her parents would be hesitant about wanting to include him in the family, and for good reason. And your parents sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:05 PM
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Can't agree or disagree because I probably don't use the same definition of romance that you do. Most people's definition of romance involves infatuation or lust. I don't have those for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:01 PM
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I was picking for you, personally/specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:59 PM
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My best bet for picking a suitable man for the health of the next generation is by using my sense of sexual attraction. I can tell to an extent his health through his looks, his body scent for a compatible immune system, etc. Yeah, no. It's not as black and white as "hot = healthy/no ancestral health issues at all . Not hot = unhealthy." That's not how it works. That's just what people want to think because it's easy and convenient to believe it works like that. Aside from anything else, I will …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:58 PM
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I no has melon baller, but that sound kind of gay too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:53 PM
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Guess it's going to be a pandemic for the next +50 years then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:52 PM
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Go for it, if that's what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:50 PM
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I already explained that: have sex with partner or they'll be on their own with no partner. Basically it will be like the traditional nuclear family dynamic of the US in the middle of last century. Women who were married were provided for, and women who weren't had to provide for themselves and live relatively solitary lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:50 PM
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Hope it's still satisfying later on when you want more than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:48 PM
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Sounds like they just picked whoever lol. "Oh, that guy over there looks nice. How about him?" "Yes, yes, he's got a strong nose. He will be good partner for our bella!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:47 PM
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You have contradicted yourself. You should at least remove your second point on your post. Nope. You still just don't understand what is being said. Not my problem since I've already explained and you still haven't gotten it. Also, it's my post so I say what it's about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:46 PM
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Ah, yes, all menz r aboosive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:45 PM
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Then it would be her parents' fault for picking a leper to wed their daughter, or for having poor genes themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:44 PM
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Yes I do. Welp, hence my post. My vagina knows who is a healthy and compatible mate with a good immune system. No, it doesn't. Your brain does that, and if you're attracted to men that look okay but don't have the best genes in terms of internal health, then that's what your vagina responds to. No Just-World fallacy. Your vagina is not an infallible genetic quality detector. If I want a healthy, thriving baby, it's best for me to let that lead the way. Yes, and you might end up having to raise t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:42 PM
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Yes, after the rips and tears stop bleeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:37 PM
3

so the only way you can conceive of being friends with a woman, is if you have a romantic connection with her, Uhhhh drop the romance there. One person bonding with another person doesn't have to involve romance. but is she physically is too unattractive for you to date her ? weird. She's not unattractive. Just very overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:36 PM
1

You don't have to be happy between your legs for our species to grow and advance though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:33 PM
0

I didn't say that women should be auctioned off to the highest bidder. I said that women shouldn't choose their mates. That means that they will likely be married off by their parents who have more experience in life and likely to be better judges of character than women's feelings and vagina tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:32 PM
2

No u.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:29 PM
2

Well good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:29 PM
1

Dead bedroom is not a choice. Have sex with partner or be single and settle for the scraps of fake feelings through sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:29 PM
12

We do. Just not the ones you want us to have for ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:26 PM
1

The man with the plan. I like it. Sounds fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:26 PM
0

Well I disagree with you based on the fact that 40 percent of relationships are currently started on OLD and 40 percent of the men in relationships don’t look like designer men. Are you including demographics over 40 years old? That might be why. But that’s a bit off topic. According to you women are currently choosing men from work and friend circles that don’t look like designer men. Doesn’t that statement go against your post. No. You must not understand the dynamic of partner selection when …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:25 PM
0

The choices are have sex with partner or be single while settling for hookups and pump and dumps for life. No relationship romance, no love, just human fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:19 PM
1

In this situation, there wouldn't be a "say yes or no" there. That would be a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:17 PM
1

God, I'd rather push out diarrhea than a giant pliable lump of concrete.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:16 PM
1

You mean men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:14 PM
3

What do you mean? It's called "an arranged relationship/marriage," and has already been in practice in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:14 PM
1

sure, pick a life partner for me. The homeless guy that's always standing on the side of the highway off-ramp. the deal is i get to masturbate as much as i want for the rest of my life til my fucking fingers fall off Your fingers might fall off anyway because of the leprosy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:13 PM
2

Women: "Men only think with their dicks and chase after the women it points at!" Also women:
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:11 PM
0

We do. How is this related to the post? You think that the men choosing women won't be having sex with their chosen partners? Lel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:10 PM
-3

Mwahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:08 PM
-5

That's because those partners meet in areas of commonality, like at work or in friend circles. They'd never be together if they were both meeting as strangers on OLD or at a bar or club.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:08 PM
3

B
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:06 PM
2

Those poops that feel like they come out sideways or just in one massive ball that feels like you're pushing out a lump of concrete are the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:04 PM
3

We value friendships, but in my experience, women don't tend to be great friends for men. I only have one female friend who I've shared a deep connection with, and if it wasn't for the fact that she's quite obese, we'd be together right now. Most other female friendships have been rather shallow or a brief probing to see if I was worthy as a potential partner. Men and women might be better friends to the same sex due to heterosexuality and already having similar interests and mindsets. Friendshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:59 PM
4

Probably because there's nothing at stake while being friends or casual acquaintances, but a rejection does reflect at least a little bit on the person being rejected. Some people have bought into the comforting lie that rejection doesn't mean anything, but it does. Maybe not for everyone, but for that individual person doing the rejecting. If those rejection numbers climb high, then chances are that people don't think you're good-looking, which basically means you have poor genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:51 PM
18

We don't need to behave according to women's standards or preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:47 PM
6

Women weren’t doing the choosing, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:33 PM
0

Wasn't the case for me. Guess I was just an early starter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:57 PM
6

They can tell exactly how tall he is just from a picture? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:22 AM
4

I think you missed the whole argument here, but you keep on commenting to your heart’s content.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:17 AM

The argument isn’t black and white, as I already said before.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:16 AM

And not every woman has the same definition of “marriage material.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:00 AM

Glad to be of service. -tips peen-
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:59 AM
10

Different context for the posts. Dude on the left looks like a model or is modeling. Dude on the right is a bodybuilder. Hence, the difference in their comments. Smooth-brains btfo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:57 AM
1

Yeah, that doesn’t apply to everyone. I responded to the post title. Women don’t make guys wait all the time because they respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:23 PM
-1

Still depends on your definition of “sexual abuse” and the perspective of who it’s actually happening to, not what the third party bystanders think of it happening to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:22 PM
1

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:15 PM
0

I was 7 and liked girls’ bodies. I had a gf in another school that I met on the aftercare bus. We used to make out and she onetime pulled down her pants to show me her leotard. That stuck in my mind all these years for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:14 PM
-5

In what way? I think you're throwing out guesses or what you want to believe. People only tend to get fucked up by traumatic experiences like aggressive rape, and that doesn't sound like what would be happening here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:16 PM
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Respect doesn't mean much if they only think kindly/fondly of you. You're basically asking "Men, would you rather be friends with women, or would you rather have sex with them?" The answer is always going to be sex, because men don't exactly need women as friends. Nice to have but the bois are better friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:14 PM
-4

Depends on your definition of "children" and whether they know and like what is happening. Not all black and white there. Even as young kids, boys still like ass and tiddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:11 PM
-6

"Child abuse?" 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:05 PM
3

New year, new me. My goal is to be making close to $100k by the end of this year, and also maybe find a scuttle buddy - yes, a woman that will Zoidberg-walk with me in public on occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:48 PM
-1

Probably because if the worst case scenario happens, the baby stays where the girl is. If you have a daughter, that's going to be another baby in your house and partial responsibility as the parent of the daughter who had the baby. In general, when it comes to sexually related things, experience for boys and men is seen as a necessity, because they'll need it to be successful later on, whereas experience for women is something to be avoided for the opposite reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:41 PM
1

I won't say anything about specific people in here, but Russian is probably among the top due to generations of pride and reproducing through communism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:37 PM
1

Being mean to a woman within reason is not misogyny. Being mean simply because they are a woman would be misogyny. Take notes, peepole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:28 PM
9

Dating gets harder in every modern, wealthy country. Standards go through the roof. Women don't want to downgrade or feel like they're going backwards with men that they're dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:25 PM
1

On average/in greater numbers, they are. In any given place or group, there are a minority of actually kind women that wouldn't resort to shitty behavior when things go south, or aren't default bitches already. I also mean shitty for the sake of being shitty because they're shitty people who think they're better than someone else, not being playfully shitty. Sometimes I tease people that I like for fun but there's no actual malice behind it. However, it always seems like there's some truth or wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:04 PM
4

Tons of people riding through it on boats every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:52 PM
1

Yes those wild stallions could just act how women wanted them to act. Genius. If they did that, then they wouldn't be wild stallions and there wouldn't be a problem since that's what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:49 AM
1

Society was founded on men and women in the missionary position. Like two bugs wrestling on the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:46 AM
1

Ye. You got it. The sad part is that women want those men to be the ones, and think that their vagina and feminine charm is enough to tame the wild stallion, but it isn't. It rarely ever is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:44 AM
1

Same Old Gang Sign?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:43 AM
1

Yeet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:43 AM
1

Nah. Men are supposed to shut up and stay in their lane when they're poor mates, but women get to shout and complain online about how "trash" men are and how the successful men should pick them because they're totes worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:43 AM
1

Yes, that's an option, although the market will decide that when they can't get the guys that they want and end up alone while browsing FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:57 PM
1

I only asked so I could put what you were saying in context. The way you’re talking betrays some level of disdain towards women (“emotional junkies”, implying that they’re dumb and illogical for not being able to leave these relationships), so I wasn’t sure how that would impact your ability or desire to form a genuine, caring relationship with a woman that’s built on respect for her. No, it won't. Obviously I won't be with the dumb, illogical emotional junkies. Good women are good and bad women…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:55 PM
1

I prefer sex in missionary position for the sole purpose of reproduction while the Christian God watches on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:52 PM
2

Uncultured swine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:51 PM
1

So does that mean we can abort people that look like fetuses too, or...?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:49 PM
1

Ye.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:48 PM
1

Gross. They don't deserve my holy seed. Their chalices have been tainted already. Something something casting pearl necklaces before swine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:48 PM
1

Of course. Gotta flash that milestone badge.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:46 PM
2

So....... no then?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:46 PM
2

Taken from the secret stash just for you. Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:45 PM
1

I will. I've also been edging for the past few nights and I can feel it welling up inside. It's going to shoot out like a geyser.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:39 PM
1

If I was trying to fuck your ear holes, I would've sent this one instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:38 PM
1

Do you think you’re better than the men you’re criticizing women for staying with. I’m really curious what you think, because so many “nice guys” who complain about women dating douchebags are just as emotionally immature and toxic to be around. Pointing out a behavior is not "complaining about" it. Saying that women date shitty men is a fact. A fact that a lot of them have trouble accepting and admitting. Also, have you been in a relationship with a woman before? Yes. Why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:26 PM
1

SCREEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:24 PM
1

Except they're also the poor mate and don't even realize it, and in the same breath, say that they should go after the best men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:24 PM
1

Surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:23 PM
3

The subreddit doesn't red pill anyone. It can be a stepping stone to becoming red pilled, but it's not the place you're going to find enlightenment in. Being "red pilled' is a state of being, not a wall of text that you read.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:53 PM
1

Because that isn't how the convo goes. If a woman agrees to have sex with a man, he should be more than happy and also grateful that she's agreed to bless him with her holy vagina. It is a privilege to even be able to touch it, so the onus is on him to handle it, worship it, and appease it properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:50 PM
1

It's both. They love and hate it. They love that they hate it and hate that they love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:47 PM
1

Jeez you’re a lost cause. I can’t really respond to anything you’ve said I know. Should've just left it at that. because it’s either counter to common sense, Feelings don't function on common sense. or just narratives you’ve made up about the world. For example, you’re completely wrong about it not being hard to leave a toxic relationship, and if you can’t see why, you’re just not emotionally intelligent enough to understand relationship dynamics and normal human emotions, Right, it's difficult …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:43 PM
1

Maybe. Maybe not. Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:38 PM
1

It means rather than hide it, they just full-on admit it and give advice on how to keep the crazy train going.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:37 PM
3

Nope. My birthday was a few weeks ago. Now I'm a 33 year old wizard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:59 PM
2

It's because they want him around for other things/reasons. Women keep men around to get the things that they can't get or aren't getting from the men that are already in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:49 PM
1

An example of a woman not understanding the context and the overall message.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:46 PM
2

God, I've been holding this nut in for weeks now. If I don't find someone to help get it out of my peen soon, I'm going to get an escort to coax it out with her hands. Unpopular opinion: handjobs are better than blowjobs. Safer and last longer. Plus, it's a current kink of mine to cover some beautiful feminine hands in jizz.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:35 PM
4

/u/TheBookOfSeil, some of the things you say I think are well thought out and logical, but a lot of the other times when I talk to you I feel like I’ve stepped into crazy land. You can't have the darkness without the light. Both sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:31 PM
1

Shitty men don’t always show their true colors until you’re emotionally committed in the relationship, and at that point it’s really hard to leave. It shouldn't be. It's only hard to leave if you have a thing for toxic relationships, which is the theme here. Women like drama and emotional turmoil on top of the lovey dovey stuff. They almost have to have it. And what if the issue is that there are too many shitty male partners in the dating pool, making it statistically likely that so many women …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:30 PM
2

or maybe i'm just living in a fantasy world Ye.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:21 PM
1

Stupid people make stupid decisions. Such as having kids. Only if you're anti-natalist, which you are, if I remember correctly. Then they complain about how much their life sucks or in the case of stupid men, how it's all wahman's fault their life sucks. Ye. It can be women's fault if the plan was to have his baby when he didn't want to be a father, especially in the case of a woman using his discarded condom semen to impregnate herself, which apparently happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:21 PM
2

She's the Queen of England, you bloody wanker bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:01 PM
1

-Queen of England laughs in the distance- Edit: There's been some conspiracies saying that she passed away recently though and England doesn't want to release the news yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:00 PM
1

And in a sand diaper with thong sandals.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:59 PM
1

but they can say no to sex and make the guy wait. Wait for what? They're only making the dude wait if they're: Nervous/Shy/Inexperienced Waiting for things to work out with another dude Hopefully it's the first one. If not, then waiting isn't worth it because you're Guy #2 (or 3, or 4, or 5). unless they are trying to use sex as a way to gain commitment which is a horrible strategy and they would be wise to learn the first time. Yes, and those women are not worth waiting for anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:59 PM
2

The ultimate "Double down."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:20 PM
2

I literally just opened Microsoft Edge and was greeted with the news. Betty White, star of Golden Girls - Dead at 99. She was the chosen one. She was supposed to beat the queen. Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:44 PM
1

Well there ya go. All dots connected.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:43 PM
0

Nah. Children are great even if they're a lot of work. Stupid people make stupid decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:37 PM
1

Of the women I know who had ooops babies, they were pro-life and just didn't see abortion as an option. Right, both have oops babies, but pro-choice women sweep them under the rug with abortion so you never see pro-choice oops babies unless they were trying to trap a dude or thought that he was going to stay if she kept the baby. Pro-choice women would likely have just as many oops babies if abortion were not an option. You don't think pro-life women resent their kids? lol Not initially. Mostly …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:36 PM
0

Nah. Having kids is only stupid if you're stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:31 PM
1

No, the other way around, unfortunately. Stupid people are having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:27 PM
2

Connected at the peen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:26 PM
2

Uhh...... every person wants their children if they specifically were trying to have one. Duh. Pro-choice women are more likely to resent their unwanted children if they were unable to get an abortion, and also more likely to give them up for adoption, abandon them, or commit infanticide.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:25 PM
2

Sure, but the main problem is that women approach the same dudes that are more likely to turn them down or have sex and then ghost afterward. Those women don't have much of an advantage, but women who are more mature and know what they want will have better outcomes whether they approach or not, and that wouldn't be many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:23 PM
1

Sex can only be described as a need in the context of a relationship. If you're not in a relationship, you don't need sex - you want sex. Sex is necessary to maintain sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:21 PM
3

You forgot lilith, gigabitch and PinkPill lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:20 PM
2

Yes, literally and figuratively/directly and indirectly, they get screwed by their mate choices. Peenas go in vaginy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:17 PM
6

Really makes ya think. Not really. Not anymore than they do when they're chasing after said dudes. Maybe you should start being like that dude? Atleast aesthetically Nah. Not wurth. I'd rather have my peace of mind, and I can always sit back with some popcorn and watch the drama unfold.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:16 PM
4

One of those groups is more likely to contain single mothers. Nope. Single mothers exist on both sides. It's no accident that a woman gets pregnant and decides to keep the child. Usually they thought that keeping the child would keep him around, and they guessed wrong. Too late to abort at that point. Also, at least the pro-life women actually take care of their children when they have them. Pro-choicers only care for their children when it's convenient and they can fit it into their schedule. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:14 PM
3

What are the choices? Slutty pro-lifers or slutty pro-choicers?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:48 PM
2

Ye they do. Some either get lucky or grow up before they made the bad decision, but rest assured, they all do it or would have done it but it just didn't happen that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:46 PM
2

And with that logic, they're also 100% at fault for turning down the good guys that they claim to want and could have been with instead of the ones they did decide to go for. Also, that dude was the same dude that he ended up being in the end. Infatuation and relationship goggles cloud people's minds and prevent them from seeing the red flags. No passes for those women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:45 PM
4

Nothing. Everything in this post is a fact and therefore undebateable. Especially the last line. Emphasis on that one in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:35 PM
3

They hated jesus, for he spoke the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:25 PM
2

Yeah she definitely fits the batshit crazy Florida demographic, and another reason why I need to get out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:23 PM
1

Something something used water gun, super effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:20 PM

If he's Slavic, I think there are worse things to worry about than armpit hair. Gotta watch out for Blyatman. He strikes fear into the eyes of all who see him, and if you do see him, then it's too late for you. Anyway, tall man protecc woman even from armpit hair monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:44 AM

Sounds like you were scared of the armpit hair, or what might have potentially been hiding in the armpit hair, waiting to pounce when you least expected it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:26 AM

Ye
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:17 AM

and are fantasizing about being a criminal to get women because that's easier than for them trying to look attractive. But, logically, it's the same thing: Criminal = attractive. Be criminal = be attractive. Those "Island boy" losers are rich almost exclusively because young dumb teenage girls think they're hot and subscribe to them on social media. They look like trashy hoodrat drug dealers, which is funny because they're apparently from Boca Raton, one of the wealthier parts of South Florida.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:16 AM
3

Probably because women already sought out great men, so they didn't need to account for anything. Great men needed great women for support. Hence, the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:09 AM

So who was wearing the heels in this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:06 AM

She’s dumb and insecure and looking for a guy to make her feel more secure. That’s it. Small animal afraid of larger animal and want even larger animal to be around for protection. Symbiotic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:13 AM

Yeah, I'd be freaking out if I was a cat and never knew it either, although there have been a few times where I had the thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:24 AM

Possibly. Just surprised that she said out loud what the others like her are thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:23 AM

Ye, incel has devolved into an insult to be hurled once offended, just as she did with the classic “you gots a small peepee haha.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:13 AM

Let us know when you find out if you’re a cat or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:07 AM

Here it is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:06 AM
1

Makes sense to me. Society doesn’t want to encourage single people. Our nation was not founded on single people. It was founded on the family unit, and that is who the system is going to support and encourage. Married men make more than single men simply because they’re married. A one bedroom is $800 - $1000 but each additional room only costs about $200 more? How does that make sense? It doesn’t. It only makes sense if they’re encouraging people to start families.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:45 PM
2

Yes Occam’s razor is the go-to for naive and dumb people. Makes for easier conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:27 PM
1

Not scientifically possible!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:28 AM
2

Women say that they hate when men are cocky and full of themselves, but they actually love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:26 AM
1

Talk about gae. That's gae to the extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:22 AM
3

They're not sealing the files for the victims. They're sealing the files to bury the identities of everyone involved, including links to potential government authority figures and high status people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:21 AM
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So "Only successful marriages should be viewed in determining whether or not marriage is a scam?" Lol. Logic, where for art thou?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:19 AM
3

The things that they say are unquantifiable as far as how many women and men are outliers. They're guessing. They don't know. They only say what they think or want to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:18 AM
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When it comes to something as important as child support, you cover your ass You only cover your ass when you don't trust the other parties involved. He trusted her. She ended up going AWALT. And if there was no child support hearing, how did a judge/court assign child support? During the hearing after she came saying that he wasn't paying her support for his child, even though he was. There was no hearing when he was paying her cash of his own volition. And if there is no record of him providin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:15 AM
0

How long is "a long time" to you? I'm sure you'd like to project your own preferred or personal experience onto the situation, but no, other people do not date for "a long time" before they end up with a child. He also didn't "decide to impregnate her." Typical no agency for women when convenient but men have full agency and decide when women become pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:07 AM
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States have guideline-based formulas that factor in the incomes of each parent and the percentage of time the kid(s) spend with each parent. The formulas kick out presumptive amounts which judges are free to modify up or down for good cause. Yes, and in this case, they modified it up to +$1k, which is almost triple the average payment per child. Whether that be for "a good cause" or not is debatable here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:04 AM
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And whose fault is that? I don’t pay cash for anything without a receipt, and my ex and I kept very careful tabs of all cash expenditures during our separation and divorce He is either the biggest idiot on earth, or his story stinks to high heaven Right, yes, it's his fault for simply trusting a woman that he was involved with. Actually? Not true Actually, yes true. During divorces and child support hearings, you need to file regular financial affidavits … and can request them frequently from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:36 AM
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No one pays without some way of confirming. Uhhhh.... I can go buy my neighbor's front porch plant and pay in cash. The confirmation is both parties witnessing the transaction. If he wasn't officially on the hook for child support, then the government would not know that he even needed to pay, and wouldn't be party to any transaction or exchange of money taking place. Duh. It was strictly between him and the ex. She went AWALT bitch mode to the state and lied about his involvement. People might …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:24 AM
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Where are his receipts, then? He didn't have any, and figured he didn't need any because he did it. He didn't need any for himself, which would be the only reason he saw that he would need one. He didn't think the leech would screw him over, but she did. I guess he's guilty of trusting a woman, right? That's his only crime here. And the court clearly thinks he wasn’t paying enough. Uhh no. They had no references to what he was paying, so to their knowledge and his ex cunt's word, he wasn't payin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:12 AM
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He wasn't "hiding income." That's your false assumption. He and his gf had a baby while they weren't married. He wasn't officially on the hook by the government for child support yet he paid her IN CASH to offer support for his daughter. Scheming cunt went and officially pursued child support, lied saying that he wasn't paying or hadn't paid the whole time until she was X age, and then they hit him with the maximum payment directly taken from his account.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:06 AM
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That has slowly changed overtime. Not gonna say that this was all part of the plan, but it was all part of the plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:03 AM
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Why can’t both be true? They can, but not very likely in this case. She chases cash (although, if you don’t know if she and the doctor were married, isn’t this a huge assumption on your part?) The mere fact that she did what she did to my friend and then dating a doctor removes her benefit of the doubt. She's a leech, and the track record is evidence. He tried to duck his legal requirements by paying cash and not getting receipts If he was not mandated to pay, then there were no legal requiremen…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:08 PM
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So he would have to have known AWALT and/or expected a lawyer to pull their punches in court (really?)? Yes. He is pretty blue-pilled so he doesn't know about AWALT. He's more left-wing/liberal when it comes to politics and philosophical ideologies. Very pro-choice and pro-whatever is good for women. That's probably where he set himself up for failure with this woman. I get why that happened, but it's not entirely unavoidable. Ye.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:05 PM
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Actually, it does matter. The courts need proof of these things, as he well knows Best case, he tried to get away with paying under the table to avoid taxes Worst case, he never made the payments and is lying I don't know how things work in their state, but apparently he was paying her unofficially, meaning the law was not involved and mandating that he pay her child support. Ok, then the only options were that her 1099s were taken into account OR she didn’t make enough to qualify to file taxes …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:02 PM
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Yes, it is your assumption. You're claiming that that's what he did when you don't know. A textbook assumption. For context, this woman started dating a doctor, flew out of her state to live with him, split up about a year later and moved back to her home state. I don't know if they got married or not but if they did, she collected from that divorce without a doubt. So, what's the real story here: friend tried dodging child support payments, or the baby mama is a $$$ chaser? Since I actually kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:52 PM
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I don't know. All I can say is that most marriages end in divorce at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:48 PM
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It sounds like your friends could have been way better prepared for this. He would have had to predict that the mother of his daughter would turn out to be a shitty person, which also involves throwing the first punch, in a way. He didn't think he needed to because he's an honest dude. He just got taken advantage of by a dishonest person. Quite common. You are correct that the system can steamroll the unprepared. But it's really not too difficult to learn what to do proactively and what not to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:46 PM
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Yes, most men aren't built to make $100k a year while being totes hawt and demolishing the competition. Also, just-world fallacy. There's tons of shitty people getting in relationships/married. The assumption that they're "the best ones" is something that you want to believe. There's no easy formula for determining who is and isn't in a relationship or getting married because it's a no-holds-barred royal rumble match on Smackdown!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:42 PM
1

Oh shid I fogot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:37 PM
1

Your assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:37 PM
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An honest dude doesn’t try to sneak by paying cash with no receipts There's no "sneaking" here. He paid her the amount that was due and on-time. Whether that be cash or check doesn't matter, so this doesn't make much sense. If she did, her previous 1099s would still be taken into consideration. The fact that there are none means she was never self employed She was. She had her stuff advertised on Facebook. Saw it with me own eyes. That’s not how that works. Her company/client/anyone she bought s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:36 PM
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Can't touch this! -dum - dum dum dum.... dum-dum.. dum-dum-
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:18 PM
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All anecdotal. The 400$ is the average amount ordered and only 40% of that amount is actually collected. Uhhhh my best friend and his half-brother are paying at least that amount, not 40% of it. Men created the system so their money doesn’t go to welfare. Single mothers is one of the poorest demographics in the country. The effects of poverty are worse on boy children. Umm okay. Cool story.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:15 PM
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So, basically, your bf’s half brother was a fucking idiot who didn’t get receipts, and set himself up to be taken advantage of by a woman who he is breaking up with? Did I read that right? Yes, he's an honest dude that got taken advantage of by a scheming cunt. And the “self employed” woman would have a 1099. If she doesn’t, then she’s considered a SAHM, which is exactly who alimony was designed for. This shouldn’t be a shock I don't know if she recently quit her self-employed gig or what, but h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:13 PM
2

The US.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:10 PM
5

Yes. Bring those hourglass legs over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:09 PM
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Full of shit in what way? That he was paying her? He's not a POS. He's an honest guy that loves his daughter. Unfortunately, his bitch ex is a feminazi.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:08 PM
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Hey. It's me, the MtF hourglass leg boi.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:01 PM
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I do think it's going to be repaired and fixed in the future. Nah. And I also don't think the mothers are benefiting from the system either. They are. Women are given the benefit of the doubt plus handouts. Women know that they can lie and immediately turn the attention onto a man. That goes for whenever the justice system is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:47 PM
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I wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:43 PM
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How? The average CS payment is $400. That’s … not even half of what it typically costs per month Women can get it bumped up if the guy makes one slip up. They can even lie. My best friend's half brother was paying her in cash. She went to the court and said that he wasn't paying her. The court said he has to pay the maximum amount, plus he has it taken directly from his bank account, and if he doesn't have the money to pay, he will possibly get fined and/or thrown in jail. Another friend of mine…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:42 PM
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It's not going to get better. It's going to stay how it is. Women don't want to change it, and it's more beneficial for the state to fuck men over than fuck women over. The only thing that will happen is men will no longer want to get married, which is bad for the State, and also try to have less children, which is bad for women (more pump and dump) and the State (unstable population growth).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:36 PM
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Men are getting fucked over in family court by their devious cunt ex-wives. All the time. I have a few friends who are currently getting fucked over by their ex-wife or baby mama. Women know that they can screw men over in family court so they try - and often succeed. Too often.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:23 PM
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All’s I gots to say is that the more women/the government try to fuck men over to boost their bitch exes up, the less that men are going to do to enable it. If people are ready for that, then let the cards fall where they may.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:15 PM
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The vast majority of men are attracted to beautiful and feminine women, that's no surprise. I don't know what definition of "feminine" you're using. There's no objective definition of "feminine" unless you're talking about the dainty, helpless but supportive "feminine." Well-liked as friends and acquaintances, not as romantic or sexual partners. I hope you know that most successful, fulfilling LTRs begin as friendships. If dudes want women to be initially attracted to them despite not being attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:05 AM
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It's just harder to quantify, that's all. Yes, it's not something that one can easily debate/argue against. If men could combine the looks of Ester Exposito with the feminity of Florence Nightingale, I'm sure we would. What was so feminine about Florence Nightingale, and why would femininity alone add to a physically attractive woman's value? Men who do provide this kind of inherent human connection often struggle to even find a date due to being subpar in looks, money and status. Yes, they stru…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:00 AM
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Why does getting dumped by B not do the same? Because they're with B for different reasons. They might feel bad, but it won't affect them psychologically like it does with A. Wouldn't it be worse to not even be attractive enough for B to put up with your shit? Nope. Again, women are typically with B for different reasons than A, so the breakups will result in different thoughts and feelings, although, as I said, if women are being broken up with a lot by both types, that will make them go crazy,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:31 AM
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Pro-tip: most multi-vitamins are trash and don't fully dissolve in your stomach so you're not getting everything out of it. If you've ever seen a single calcium pill, they're larger than most multi-vitamins, and they're typically not even 100%DV of calcium, so if your multi has 100% DV, they compact those three or four pills - worth of calcium into it along with the other vitamins which makes it more difficult to break down. I'd take the multi in the morning, but you're better off splitting your…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:28 AM
1

Connection is a much less tangible factor compared to looks and sexual attractiveness. And? Does that mean it's less desired by people, or less important? I'm sure some people would like to think so. A gay man does bring a special connection to his female friends, but not in the same way an straight man does to his partner. I think you're confusing feelings of protection and provision along with infatuation for "connection." Those things are not "connection" on their own. That is often why women…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:17 AM
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Could be a couple of things there. In those situations, I notice that some people already know what they want from others, so asking for more than what they've already decided to allot you will be met with stonewalling, because they think you're complaining and basically begging for them to do something. This happens with people who believe that they are more of friends with the other person than the other person does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:09 AM
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A. Always A. Getting dumped successively by guys will do it also, but getting dumped by A too many times will make women think that they're ugly and destroy their self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:05 AM
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Hopefully. Zinc, Vitamin D and Vitamin C are the key immune boosters so make sure you're getting them at the same time, but no Vitamin D before sleeping because it'll keep you up. You can take zinc and C before bed though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:03 AM
2

Mostly common among younger demographics (17 - 21) and women. Men do it too but it's been less common.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:59 AM
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Make sure to take your vites.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:55 AM
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People are weak and unable to deal with problems or accept that they either don't have the ability to successfully resolve issues, or accept that they might be the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:55 AM
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I don't know what "LMS" means, but there are men who also know/have what women are missing in all of the men that they're chasing after, and that's connection. It seems to me like people who constantly walk through the revolving door of relationships don't understand that successful relationships are about connection, not just feeling like you accomplished something in your life (got the good job, locked down the hot guy/woman, etc). The guys that are still successful despite lacking key attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:49 AM
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Lul. King energy right there tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:16 AM
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I'm filling ALL the holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:12 AM
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Does anyone else laugh like a maniacal evil character in a show or movie after posting a comment that they know is going to trigger someone because that was the point of the comment, or is it just me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:47 PM
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Women don’t survive in the real world. Men change the world so women can live comfortably in it. That’s been the whole theme of our species since before we started grunting at each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:44 PM
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And also that they care about looks/are visual just as much as men are, which runs counter to the studies saying that men are more visual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:43 PM
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Nope. I’d just turn her into a cream-filled donut.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:41 PM
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Yes. Equality doesn’t matter here. If the woman doesn’t have a preference or doesn’t care that much, they don’t have to be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:38 PM
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The point is that women care about things that the men around them don’t care about. They think men are picking them apart to the same degree that they do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:33 PM
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Ah so no’s for them. The old “no yeses unless they’re almost ideally what I want in every way” conundrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:31 PM
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Eyebrows can change the whole face? Nope. Only way it has a significant effect is if a woman doesn’t have any eyebrows. That makes everyone look weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:29 PM
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and just reduces female sexuality to a broken, inferior version of male sexuality But it is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:03 AM
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This comment sums up the entirety of women's perceived beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:02 AM
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No's for who- you or them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:52 AM
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It's not. I remember for these particular incidences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:54 AM
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The vast majority of onlyfans creators make Jack shit from it. That's because they offer nothing but their bodies, and their body compared to another similar or better body isn't going to net them any leverage over their competition. Most female streamers, content creators, e-girls wear revealing clothing and basically beg people indirectly (some more directly) to give them money. Wanna know how successful that approach is? Not very.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:52 AM
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In order to find the right one, you have to be good at dating, among other things. You have to know yourself, what you want, and intuit whether the person you're talking to is the type of person you're looking for, and not just a person that you could be with for a little while.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:48 AM
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Problem is that women make it seem like being attracted to the first guy is somewhat common for them when it's literally just that individual guy, while being attracted to the second traditionally/conventionally attractive guy is like "no shit, business as usual" because women will be attracted to other similar guys and not just that particular guy as was the case with the first guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:45 AM
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It is. Everyday, I'm questioning my sanity because I don't know if I'm actually seeing what I'm seeing, or people really are this stupid while driving. I seriously can drive a stick-shift with my legs while texting/talking on the phone/writing a message on Reddit than these people can drive an automatic with their full attention on the road. These people are lucky I'm not a POS traffic cop. I'd be making it rain tickets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:50 PM
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Or they're just going to sleep with you right away because they're potentially unstable turbo sluts that have very little relationship experience and low introspection. Also possibly pretty stupid/naive. I've met a few who fit that bill. 10/10 would not recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:44 PM
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Women's arousal isn't some constant, unchanging, non-fluctuating thing, so no, men don't have mind-reading powers. Attractive men that have enough varied experience with women might try a few things that they know of to see if women respond to it (they probably will because they're already interested anyway), but there's no instinctual understanding aside from physical/biological things. Men in their younger years will try to show off and act cool in front of women because that is what women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:42 PM
1

Or just support your friends and family and screw everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:35 PM
1

Nope. Just the same snowbirds that we get for their annual migration every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:34 PM
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It's the same over here, too. Florida is Eastern Cali. Same sun, same palm trees, same stupid drivers. We're fucked if it starts snowing here, although maybe the Northerners might drive slightly better in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:33 PM
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Another day, another driver on the road that doesn't know what the fuck they're doing (or where they're going). Fun times. Less stupid and/or old people off of the road, please. Also, Northerners, it's time to leave Florida and go home to your cold, shitty state. Looking at you New Yorkers and New Jersey license plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:19 PM
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Why are you trying to better yourself for other people? Improve for yourself. Most other people only want you to be better for their benefit. You won't get as far in life if you get things or improve in order to give it all away to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:08 PM
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They’re not complicated. Not at all. Most friends of the opposite sex aren’t really friends. They’re potential partners or people who are set aside for mutual use and benefit as a precaution. This is also referred to as “the friendzone,” even though it isn’t actual friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:16 PM
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Yes, if she thinks that she’s entitled to an above average looking dude, just like all of the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:07 PM
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No, men’s (ideal) body standards aren’t harder to meet. They’re only hard to meet if you have little self-control and engage in too much comfort-eating. That “woman crying on the sofa watching Lifetime with a tub of ice cream” stereotype isn’t just a meme. Edit: Oh, you meant the standards that are placed on men, not men’s standards for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:04 PM
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The expression really means that you want two different things that are incompatible. It’s like women wanting two different men because their perfect man either doesn’t exist or would never choose them over a better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:06 PM
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No. Just less popular because want have cake and eat too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:16 AM
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Really? Interesting, so you’ve experienced many IRL situations where men told a woman complaining about her dating struggles it was because she was fat? How often do these situations even happen where there's a fat woman complaining about her dating struggles around male friends? Probably almost never, so it's pointless to address. Or described their preference for “no fat chicks” in front of a fat woman? I don't know what men you hang around (assuming everyone is fully immersed in the feminist …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:04 AM
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Husband got me a watch that measures sleep stress, anxiety, calories, steps etc. to help me with my sleep disturbance and mental health. Interesting. Mother got clothes or accessories, as usual. Ah, yes, the socks and stuffs. I might get something from in-laws next week, maybe. I have not received all the gifts. Sounds like a fun time. Usually is, from what I've heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 12:59 AM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 12:57 AM
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to virtue signal? Like men do? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:41 PM
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Ye
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:41 PM
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Women don't lie about being attracted to good-looking men, but they have lied about what they consider "good-looking," and also have downplayed the attractiveness of men that they did find attractive to save/cover their own ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:03 PM
1

Ooh orange chocolate is great as long as it's done right. I enjoy artisan or craft chocolate where people infuse it with different flavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:00 PM
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Noice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:58 PM
1

Nice. Mint chocolate is good on occasion but too much too soon makes me hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:57 PM
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Roofied by Santa. Nice. Classic Santa move.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:56 PM
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Its actually true that women don't value it as much. Intelligence is only viewed as attractive up to the slightly above average range (110 - 120, or within one standard deviation). Then it drops off and actually becomes counterproductive as intelligence increases. Highly intelligent people have less success with sexual/romantic relationships and are more likely to form relationships as more of a strategic or business merger than off of pure sexual/romantic attraction as average-minded people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:55 PM
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Q4All: What did Santa give you for Christmas?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:12 PM
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You didn't answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:29 PM
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That's a nice one. She has a beautiful voice. Doesn't exactly spark the same feelings as the video that I linked, but it's still a nice one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:05 AM
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Ye. Hot with larger peen or has money are the two choices for women in the upper echelons of physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:59 AM
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That's a nice one. I'm going to play this one at my mom's funeral, provided that I don't go sooner than I anticipate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:12 AM
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Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:10 AM
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Scary Movie 1 and 2 are eternal classics in the comedy genre.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:09 AM
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The average dick size is basically meaningless and only put out there to make men feel better about their size despite women preferring slightly larger than average penises, so basically they distract the public from the truth with takeaways from studies that, while true, are misdirection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:08 AM
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You can say that, but apparently whoever made the decisions decided that it wasn't. There would be nothing to offset or compensate for if she was entitled to half of his savings but not the car. Otherwise, it sounds like she wasn't really entitled to half.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:15 AM
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What are your soft/touchy songs that always break through and get to you? This song will always do it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:13 AM
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I can't think of any studies that will objectively put women's standards and mate preferences on blast like that (most of them are catered toward appeasing the public that it will be released to, like the "average dick size" studies), but if you think about this from a strictly logical perspective, it makes sense. The average in this case will be higher, or result in a more attractive man that the median would, since the median is lining up all men and picking out the one in the middle which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:08 AM
3

I played the Scary Movie 2 instructional about how to prepare a turkey for the family dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:00 AM
1

You heathen. How dare you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:58 AM
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Yes and no. They consider if the guys that they're already interested in will be good fathers, but not random dudes that they're not interested in. An ugly guy who likes kids is perceived as even more creepy than if he were ugly and didn't like kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:56 AM
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Idk. Seems like they give a little more leeway to women and less leeway to men in these situations. Trying to move your money or hide it in a different account can be seen as deceptive if its discovered during the process of divorce. Lawyers still try to go for those funds too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:54 AM
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She did, because they were married. Far as I know, he was mostly supporting her. Then she turned AWALT and ran off with everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:40 AM
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Where is it that you live? In the US, there aren't many places where common law marriages are in effect, and not after two years. The least I've heard of is five.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:39 AM
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What's so foreign about it? The fact that women can switch behaviors like this without batting an eye is pretty strange. When you're single, you hug your male friends, but when you're not single, then it's suddenly an issue? That's strange to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:38 AM
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Or because she didn't legally own or have any claim to the car. She took everything out of the account and had to give back half because apparently someone decided that she was entitled to half.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:36 AM
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No, the situation was that she emptied the bank account of all of his savings and took off in his car. The court apparently determined that she had to give back the car because he was the legal owner given that the car was bought by him and solely in his name. However, they determined for some reason that she was entitled to half of his savings and is being forced to give him back $20,000. No negotiation. He doesn't have to negotiate the return of his stolen assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:33 AM
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The fact that a court would defend her even though: The money was unequivocally his and he could prove it through bank statements She blatantly stole all of it before running off means that the family court system is still fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:29 AM
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I've seen or heard of those guys. They're typically shit heads though because they drop their friends for pussy. I don't think women are dropping their Male friends for dick. They mostly seem to be trying to keep the new dude around by showing how loyal and committed and exclusive she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:19 AM
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So are you saying that the woman will cheat because he's interested? Does the woman conveniently have no agency in this situation too?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:17 AM
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Legally, they become half hers once she has access Stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:16 AM
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According to what? His pre-marital assets are still his pre-marital assets. Getting married doesn't automatically make his money her money in the same sense that buying a house and moving all of his stuff into it makes it half hers too. If you have receipts, the spouse is SOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:15 AM
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His assets, money, possessions, and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 11:57 PM
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Idk the specifics of the marriage or their account. I just know that she cleaned it out before she made the classic escape. In his car.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 11:56 PM
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Apparently not because she had to give it back. He purchased it and it was his name so someone decided that it was his.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 11:54 PM
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Women work these days but everything is men’s somehow. I can see how you all colonized places. Family courts are still biased against men and in favor of women regardless of the fact that women work now. Women working didn’t get rid of sexist bias against men. Even if women have money of their own, the courts are still ready to take from the husband. That hasn’t changed yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 11:53 PM
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Ok, but men here say they don’t give a shit if women have good jobs And? It’s not men’s job to finance women’s lives when they divorce. You get what you get and I don’t feel sorry for you. Get a woman who has 40k you can get half of. Smooth-brained.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 11:29 PM
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He probably could have but I don’t think he really wanted to fight with her over it. He was originally going to give her the car but it was in his name so she had to give it back, and I’m sure that’s the only reason that she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 11:26 PM
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With documents showing that there was a certain amount on a certain date that was before the date the marriage license was signed, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 11:25 PM
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Shouldn’t be. Kinda weird that it seems mostly to be the case for the husband but not the wife too. They’re almost always ready to take from the guy in the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 11:23 PM
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It can be his money and still be in a joint account. Putting it in a joint account, or turning his account into a joint account doesn't make that money her money too. The bank statements from before the marriage will show that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 10:26 PM
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Possibly, but also the entire divorce court too. Wouldn't be the first time that a guy got fugged by the system when he shouldn't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:55 PM
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Eh, dunno. She would still have been entitled to half the interest atleast, no? For what? Its entirely his money. Why should a wife be entitled to interest on an asset that is entirely her husband's? No support was given or necessary to make neither the money nor the interest by the wife. Just don't mingle anything you don't want to share. The point was that he had savings that she shouldn't have been entitled to any of, but the divorce court said differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:50 PM
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I don't know, but even still, if he can show that he made it before they got together, she or any wife shouldn't be able to get any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:26 PM
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What if he fights for u but gets an injury that will affect rest of his life. Are u staying? Some might stay for a little bit, but only until it starts affecting their personal happiness and livelihood. Then they gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:00 PM
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Some marriage courts and lawyers are full of shit in this country. I have a cousin who was divorced recently from a real winner. She took his car and cleaned out his savings account (roughly $40,000) that he had saved up before they were together, and the court only made her pay back half because she was "entitled to half being that they were married." Like........ what?..... Spouses aren't entitled to assets made before the marriage, right? So why would they only make her pay back half? Should'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:59 PM
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Fart
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:50 PM
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It's a dumb point, regardless of your exaggeration and their rationalizations. Trying to prevent a cheater from cheating is dumb and a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:50 PM
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Insecurity ruins relationships, and it's the people with the insecurity ruining the relationship, not the person that isn't doing anything wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:47 PM
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I'd want to keep mine the same. I've never had a problem with defeating The Horny. Better to take care of it myself than needlessly and recklessly rack up my partner count while increasing my exposure risk to STD's and also sharing intimate moments with people who were discovered later on to have no souls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:43 PM
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Accommodating other people's insecurities isn't exactly the route to being better though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:41 PM
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Men aren't attracted to men so men don't know what "an attractive guy" looks like from women's perspectives. They just see the celebrities that women are going crazy over and saying "Oh, so we have to look like that in order to be attractive? Well we're all screwed then."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:35 PM
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In-sec-urity. Fun times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:33 PM
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Ye. That's also part of the reason why the US is such a fucked up place. People with no business being in a relationship making children that have to grow up being co-parented while we center a lot of our culture around that dysfunctional dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:28 PM
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I've been in real-life spaces for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:25 PM
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Teenagers, mostly, but more women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:57 PM
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I’ve observed 1-2 of my male friends pulling back significantly in the early stages of their relationships but they recalibrate after a few months. Ye. Sounds like the initial jealousy/mate guarding stage. I’m the same with everyone regardless of my relationship status. Same, although my relationship status doesn't change. I don’t get with jealous or traditional men, so the expectation is very clear that I’m not going to behave differently with my guy friends just because I now have a partner, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:47 PM
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It's borderline here and it often seems to be romantic. There's a fine line between intimacy and romance. I don't know how they do things over in Russia, but if they're family or long-time friends, it's intimacy, not romance. I do this with my female friends and used to do it with my male ones. When I'm talking about excessive touching, I mean it. Yes, who do people excessively touch of the opposite sex besides their partners or people that they're interested in? Family members aren't excessivel…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:45 PM
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no, men who are your BOYFRIEND and see you do it to OTHER MEN. You mean "other men" as in strangers, or other men that they've never met before and whom you have known for quite a while already? Both are understandable, but the second one is more harmless. If a person requested that you stop talking to long-time friends because they're insecure and jealous, then that would be their problem to address, and maybe a relationship isn't something that they should be in until they adjust their perspec…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:42 PM
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That’s what she goes out looking for: the man who can make her feel more alive. While this is true, it often ends up turning into a lot of work for the dude in the situation, and if you want to be the court Jester, don't forget your jingly hat and shoes on the way out the door. Also, hard truth to swallow, but some guys are doomed to fail before stepping outside because they weren't born lucky enough to be good-looking, which means that they'll have to try much harder, and it might not be worth …
/r/seduction25/12/21 04:34 PM
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Hugging is okay, but kissing cheeks Kissing cheeks is fine. It's a cultural behavior in many countries. I do it with my female family members and close friends all the time. or caressing their arm for a long time aren't really. Who does this with anyone aside from their partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:27 PM
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receptive warmth is flirting, No, it isn't. Not according to women, anyway. They're "just being nice." and it's certainly perceived as such by men Men who are starved of interest, or don't know what flirting looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:25 PM
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this is not how actual men in relationships behave, I think you mean to say that you're not used to men behaving this way because of cultural/traditional behaviors surrounding dating, not that men don't act that way because they're "not supposed to" or some other simple-minded take. People act like that out of insecurity, not necessity. they dont want you having male friends that you hug and are warm to, what people in relationships do to avoid cheating is avoid propinquity, If people really are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:23 PM
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People outside of the relationship have no interest or obligation to maintain it. Those people are usually strangers, not friends or acquaintances. It's your responsibility to maintain boundaries if they're literally trying to jump on you, but if they're flirting, treat them normally/like any other person. No need to do anything there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:12 PM
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but who i sense have an interest in me romantically. So an assumption? I'm generally not warm and touchy with people that I don't know very well, especially with women that I don't know very well, but even if I was and they had a romantic interest in me, that would be their boundary to maintain. The boundary is already set because you're in a relationship. It's not really your responsibility to keep people at arm's distance, especially just on an assumption that they might be or become intereste…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:10 PM
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It's okay to have boundaries Yes, it is, but it's also insecure to have a boundary that is "can't hug or show friends love that is similar to the love you show me apart from sex." I wouldn't want my partner behave like this, so I changed my behavior myself. Yes I've also noticed that people make assumptions like this and its become a cultural behavior that people don't touch others as much when they're in a relationship because intimacy is now solely reserved for romantic partners. Kind of sad i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:06 PM
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Merry Christmas, ya chavvy chav.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:36 PM
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It might be the guy then, I’ve had boyfriends be insecure about my longtime male friends before. Did they know that those guys were longtime friends? Usually, the answer is no. I’ve seen posts on here saying having male friends is a huge red flag That's mostly insecurity talking. It's a precaution/preventative measure to avoid being potentially cheated on. The truth is that it could go either way. If someone was really going to cheat, then it's probably going to happen at some point. No point in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:33 PM
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Probably because they don't know who the guys are. They just see their wife or GF kissing and hugging a bunch of other random dudes, in which case, they should know who those dudes are, not demand that their partner stop treating them the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:28 PM
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Then you have a different definition/understanding of what "flirting" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:26 PM
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You're not disrespecting your partner by showing love to friends and family members, but okay. Jealousy is the main motivator in this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:25 PM
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Well thats good. I guess I just don't get insecure American concerns regarding dating anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:08 PM
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Kind of the same thing. It's a change in behavior toward someone that you have a history with. If you wouldn't do it to your family, you shouldn't do it with friends that you've known longer than you've known your partner either. If they get jealous because they don't know, then let them know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:07 PM
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Not really. In this situation, I'm the longtime friend, not the acquaintance of the friend. I don't expect acquaintances to be warm and close with me like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:04 PM
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So jealousy, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:03 PM
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Well fuck them. Their opinion doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:02 PM
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I mean partners should understand that other people had lives before they met. I wouldn't expect my partner to shut all of their friends out of their lives just because I'm there now and her new life is now being with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:01 PM
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Friendly with strangers, yea. Friendly with people that they've known for years/decades? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:59 PM
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and flirting That sounds to be the problem. It's not flirting if you're friends (and if it is, then there's a problem that will likely make itself known in the near future). and people getting the wrong idea when they are taken What people? Who cares about anyone else? The only people that matter in the situation are the partners and the friends, not the friends of the friends or the random bystanders. If the partner doesn't know that this person is a longtime friend or family friend, then you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:58 PM
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I could see why if it was a stranger or someone that they didn't know very well, but for long-time friends? People shouldn't get jealous over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:52 PM
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Ah so it is about warding off jealousy and securing the bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:46 PM
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It's strange to me, yes, that someone, even a friend, can switch from warm and inviting to cold and distant depending on their relationship status. I personally wouldn't treat the people I know and love differently just because of a partner. Jealousy is never a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:44 PM
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Also, it's always seemed a little strange to me that, of the women I know or have been acquainted with, they always act different when they're in a relationship vs single. For example, when they're in a relationship, they seem more cold/ distant to other men, including their male friends or guys that they have known for awhile, whereas when they're single, they're warm and talkative and you can tell that they're conscious of you being there. I haven't known or seen many guys act this way toward …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:03 PM
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Merry Dickmas, everyone☃️🎄🎁🍆
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:44 PM
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Women wouldn't waste time with Male nurses as a doctor. They are above male nurses. The minimum is Male doctor or higher, like a surgeon. Men don't mind going lower because we don't care about titles and pay grades in sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:41 PM
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Offering in the sense of being amazing That still requires giving something or putting something out there. You can't just be amazing to anyone without offering them something, whether it be love or an amazing show of skill at something. The problem seems to be that people think they're amazing without actually being or showing that they're amazing and expect others to recognize and respond preemptively to it. The life hack here is to treat people like they are amazing so that they will want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:20 AM
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I would think that one who draws others in is the one putting things out there first. That makes sense to me. I can't imagine someone offering nothing and expecting others to give them something first being someone who draws others in. "I traveled the world and the seven seas. Everybody's looking for something." Gotta give in order to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:48 AM
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if you view sex as a "cost" on your partner, Its usually the women that view it as a cost, because it biologically is a cost for women. Should men get the sympathy there then? sex should be a benefit, Yes, for both people. If women don't want to have sex, then they have no business being in a relationship. if sex is so unpleasant for your partner that they don't want it, you should communicate about what you can do to make it better. The communication would be their job, not the guy's. They have…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:40 AM
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Funny thing about trust and respect: you have to give them to get them. Nobody seems to want to be the one to give them first though. They always want it from others before they give it, and that's not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:35 AM
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no one owes you sex. Reread my comment. if you want to have sex and they don't, break up with them. but you can't force them. If they want to continue being together, they'll show it. They can't expect to keep the perks of being in a relationship without the costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:24 AM
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Ye. I have a thing for cute girls with long hair, smaller tits and fat asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:23 AM
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My stance is give your all to everyone you meet. If they don't value or appreciate it, then at least you can move forward knowing that you still did good for someone without expecting anything in return. Things would be better if people functioned this way, but sadly, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:22 AM
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If you're with a partner or especially married, your partner owes sex. No sex, no relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:18 AM
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No, it’s mostly about things like not personally being discriminated against. They want to hear other people struggling or get advice so they don’t feel alone in their own struggles. Otherwise they’ll start thinking that people hate them and wonder why, which is a starting point for diminishing feelings of self-worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:33 PM
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*sex dolls
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:42 PM
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There's a difference here because the penis is directly being stimulated while women don't get that much pleasure from PIV sex in comparison. It's like having your ballsack touched and toyed with. Feels interesting and good, but nowhere near getting your dick touched. Women get most of their pleasure and arousal from the thoughts leading up to sex that make them horny and that makes it easier to enjoy it. Without that, it's not pleasurable for them, and even worse when they feel as though the ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:43 PM
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Dingalings....dingalings ...watch them swiiing..... watch them swing Soon it will beeeeee Dickmas daaaaay Merry Dickmas, y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:21 PM
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But if you find out she makes significantly more than you or if you are in a long term relationship and her financial situation gets significantly better than yours. Would that be something that would affect how a man viewed himself or the woman he was with. No, not unless the woman made him feel differently about her making more than him, which is typically how it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:32 PM
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Not really. Its noticeable, but not something that we are looking for. I've never heard of a man sitting down on a date with a woman and trying to grill her over her salary. That's something that only women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:23 PM
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The penis has mind control powers. Its basically an antenna that sends out signals wirelessly. This is what men use to control women, and also what we call "getting dickmatized." Be wary. Fear the power of the peen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:38 PM
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I'm 33 and I always thought that it meant "what's good for one man/woman is good for all of them." Hence, women like hot, rich masculine men that will simp for and protect them, and men like hot, loyal women that will stick by them through the tough times. I never took it to mean what's good for men is good for women, as this doesn't seem to apply to some parts of sexual desires and imperatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:16 AM
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gae and gae
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:49 AM
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a normal functioning woman. You mean the fabled one?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:48 AM
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Managers: "Communication is the foundation of good teamwork." Also managers: "I don't get it. I cut their hours/gave them the shittiest shifts/loads/routes/tasks and treat them like they're stupid and a nuisance. Why haven't they quit yet? What kind of monster keeps coming in to work after that? Why must they torment me so?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:47 AM
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Uhhh what? Its not true that women don't approach? Who rendered that verdict? Most women do not approach. Few do, and more but still not very many do it in specific situations or contexts, like when they're horny and the guy is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:42 PM
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Ye. I've seen and heard enough to know how this situation plays out in 8/10 relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:10 PM
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No prenup = no marriage. Women know that they stand to gain something from the divorce later on so that's why they consider being greeted with a prenup to be offensive and "a breach of trust." By the time they're ready for divorce, they're ready to take/accept all that they can get, even if at the time of marriage, they said that they didn't want anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:05 PM
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Maybe self-satisfaction isn't the right term to use here because it sounds like the opposite of what you're describing. People tend to get very selfish when things aren't working out and they go into self-preservation mode. I think self-actualized is probably a better term to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 09:22 PM
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Men cheat because men suck Uh no. Sounds to me like men cheat because the women that they’re with suck. No blamey men for women sucking. People who suck need to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:09 AM
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It’s relative. As a guy, being cheated on means that you weren’t keeping her happy and entertained/satisfied. As a woman, being cheated on means you’re either plain/boring or the other woman was way more attractive than you. Both reasons hurt the respective gender of the people being cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 02:07 AM
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Nah. Women be gae. All day, errday.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 02:04 AM
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Male introverts tend to be single don’t even have to ask because chances are that your guess will be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:55 AM
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England is part of Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:31 AM
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Because England isn’t Europe and also most white people are of European descent, if not all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 10:45 PM
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Grew up in a regular setting (family, neighborhood kids to make friends with) but still ended up feeling isolated. Raised by a single mother who I’m still convinced is NPD or BPD or both. Didn’t really develop close relationship with brothers as a result of terrible mother/home environment. I’ve been able to make friends but I’ve seen nothing but the ugly side of female nature from my mother my entire life - manipulative, parasitic user, passive or nasty to people that they don’t want/can’t get …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:43 PM
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Some girls actually do put effort into the relationship and want to make their guy comfortable as well. Yes, after they are comfortable, or on their way there. You're just describing a leech tbh. Hate to say it but most of female nature is a bit leech-y. Women provide support and children when comfortable but leech away time, energy and resources as part of the exchange, and it’s almost always upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:15 AM
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It’s because women ultimately rely on men for comfort. That means that guys have to constantly be doing things to make women feel like their comfort and safety is assured, so that they can sit around and do almost nothing. They’re basically in a managerial role most of the time and directing men to do things for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:06 AM
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Not according to the internet, but whatever they want to refer to it as doesn’t really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:08 AM
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You do know that England isn’t the only country on that continent that has women that like the BBC, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 11:53 PM
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Some like one, some like the other, and some like both at the same time. ”BBC 1! BBC 2! BBC 3! BBC 4! BBC 5! BBC 6! BBC 7! BBC heaven!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 11:14 PM
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The secret truth is that they actually like both.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 11:00 PM
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It was a Euro joke/ double entendres.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:49 PM
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English/European women love the BBC.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:40 PM
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Idk about that. The men that women consistently choose for sex and/or relationships tend to be shitty providers, in that they don’t want to provide, which is why the single motherhood rate is so high. Wanting to provide what you have is better than not wanting to provide and having enough to provide for someone through alimony or child support. Women would obviously prefer the same dudes to be an all-in-one packaged deal of wanting to provide for them, having the means to provide for a family al…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:36 PM
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I think this label is subjective depending on who is listing the traits. Odds are that you described yourself, someone you wish to be like, or what you think a high value man is, correct? Women’s definition of “high value” may differ from yours, mine and any of ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:51 PM
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Or their standards are too high/ they’re not high enough value for the guys that they’re going after.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:39 PM
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Because the women in these cases are often first place while the men are at least second place to another guy (or guys) that the woman couldn’t get before him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:47 PM
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No, butterfaces are still ugly. I said plain face. Neither good nor bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:08 PM
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Ye
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:06 PM
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As long as the rest of her looked good, yeah. Plain face with a nice body should be a fetish. If she was uglier in every way, like she was fat, had ugly tits, body acne, etc., then she'd better make up for it with a great personality and drive for improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:06 PM
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Well, they stay at home and take care of things like the chores and perhaps even home repairs if they're handy because men are good with that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:59 PM
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That's because women on average have more sexual experience than guys do. There's no shortage of demand for sex with women from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:12 PM
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Last night when your mom came over.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:05 PM
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Tell him what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:04 PM
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I diagnose them with gae.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:44 AM
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Something something duality. Inside of our heads, we're all awesome, great people with many talents and interests while everyone else is stupid and boring. Outside of our heads, people might think we are like "everyone else." Point is that you can free yourself, sure, but you'll never be free from other people's opinions of you. The real growth that comes from freedom is one step above not letting others define you, and that's defining yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:05 PM
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What did I invest? The difference here is that I don't invest in people with the hope of gaining more from them later. If I genuinely liked this hypothetical woman as a person and we got along well, then of course I would be sad over her wanting to split up, just like anyone else would, but would I feel cheated that I didn't get the big payout (a fantasy relationship with the big house and white picket fence) because I flirted and was nice to her and shared my food with her during the relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:01 AM
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No issue with that. Women feel like investing in their partner means that should be rewarded with undying loyalty and cash and prizes 100 fold. Nobody is obligated to stay with someone regardless of how good or bad the relationship is. If a guy is more valuable, or grows into a better person, then he should also have a partner who is more similar in that regard. Women think the same way when they upgrade too, so that's why I don't see a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:50 AM
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🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:19 AM
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People prefer texting for some reason, mostly because its more convenient and they can do other things while communicating. Also, there's a bit of a dating rule for men, which is to use the phone only to set up dates and save the talking for in-person, so talking on the phone (too much) generally lessens the things people have to say because you'll have told them already. Not good for dates because at some point, someone is going to run out of things to say, and that's usually when the convo can…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:19 AM
1

Totally not black and white at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:12 AM
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Ikr? Men only exist to serve women. Can't have them getting self-aware and sheeit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:26 AM
1

You're also looking for more interpersonal things like common interests, values etc. that don't really come up in a job search. That's the purpose of the interview... Did you think that interviews are only for discussing work related things and not how good of a fit the person would be with the company? If that was the case, the interview would be pointless and people would be getting hired solely based off their resumes. There's not much difference between a date and a job interview. They're ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:54 AM
2

Ye
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:48 AM
2

Unfortunately dates are job interviews if they're with someone you don't know. She just took the serious approach as opposed to the laid back approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:36 AM
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That's an understandable concern and a valid reason for splitting up, but getting with a high(er) libido woman isn't likely going to solve the problem. Might just bring different problems, so if you can handle those as long as you're having sex, then good luck and godspeed to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:31 AM
11

The golden thread
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:28 AM
3

You sure you want to find them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:26 AM
0

How are women that take testosterone "feminine?" Sounds like the equivalent of Ms. Man from Scary Movie. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:25 AM
2

They have to go outside, yes, if that's what you're asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:07 AM
2

Of course, this doesn't apply to the gross POSes that still "spread the love around."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:57 AM
3

Prostitutes dating their clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:54 AM
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I'd wager that most men do not initially set out to date high-n women just like escorts don't set out to date Johns, but it happens. Sometimes people click, and sometimes they don't have many other options due to herpes infection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:29 AM
2

Probably his presence/demeanor. Everything else would be a derivative of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:26 AM
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Not surprising. Even on the R4R subs, I see women looking for "bulls" or "BBC/BWC." They want something else and that's the only way they can get it without cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:47 PM
2

True
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:30 AM
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There isn't a strict dynamic. Men just don't want to wife up crazy/psychotic women, although sometimes they might have to settle for a crazy/psychotic woman considering that they exist in decent quantities. There are very few mentally stable women, and by "mentally stable," I mean non-neurotic, secure, mature/well-adjusted, etc. Most have at least one of the inverse traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:35 AM
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After a certain age most women know that sex doesn’t equal a relationship. That doesn't stop them from trying to turn it into one though. I’m talking about dating. You think that less attractive women are dating more attractive men in large numbers these days? Nope. Less attractive women are having sex but still struggle to compete with their more attractive counterparts for relationships. That has always been the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:29 AM
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The problem seems to be that these less attractive women can snag an attractive man No, they can't. They think that they can because they're sleeping with them, but the guys don't want to commit, or the relationships don't last very long. What they're attracting is what matters. You think they can't get an attractive man when they can. Again, getting smashed by a more attractive guy doesn't put the women in the same league. Women just seem to think that it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:23 AM
1

I feel you on this post, but sometimes the rewards of the former are greater than the effort spent trying to get laid. Not all people are worth the effort anyway.
/r/seduction14/12/21 04:25 AM
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There's no point in using this to get people to try to empathize with each other. Needs are experienced and gained on an individual basis. There is no group effort to satisfy everyone's needs. That being said, people don't really care about other people's needs before their own, either. That liberty is only given when one has what they need already. People who don't have what they need will do whatever they can to satisfy those needs, even if it means stepping on or over people to do it. This is…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:13 AM
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Even if men lower their standards, the standards of less attractive women don't permit them to be considered an option for the men in their league. Less attractive women still want and think that they deserve a better-looking partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:04 AM
1

You do know that only a few teenagers fit into that category you describe. What category? Not being an overweight, socially awkward teenager? Abs the majority of them aren’t having regular sex Doesn't matter. They're losing their virginities. That means that they're having sex at least once at a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:02 AM
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Ye. In my small town in south Florida, the kids that I grew up with weren't waiting until 17 to start having sex. The girls were all doing it at around 14 - 15 with a few select boys from the group, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:07 PM
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Might be more true for the boys than the girls. The girls are smashing earlier. 17M with 15F is still legal. 16M with 14F is also legal. So let's walk those stats back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:04 PM
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Idk what this is supposed to relate to, but you don't need to have game as a teenager. Teens are freshly going through puberty so they have sex hormones swimming around in their veins on a constant basis. As a teenage boy, all you really need to do is look a little bit older than the girls do, be sociable and accel in a team sport. Girls are always following around the guys on the basketball, baseball, and football teams. Other sports apply for niche dude, like skateboarding and surfing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:02 PM
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The average age of someones first time is 17, According to what? Self-reports? Data from certain locations? Young teens are smashing, bro. Regardless of what data you want to look at and point to. 17 sounds like the socially acceptable answer. 13 - 16 is a more realistic answer. And I don't know about you but sex sucked as a teen because none of us knew what to do. Doesn't matter; had sex. It not being good doesn't mean it doesn't count. And it's universally known that the people who get laid th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:57 PM
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It shows that pretty much everyone is extremely close in terms of "game". Uh no. It just shows that everyone has had sex at some point, and it most likely happens in the teen years, which is arguably the easiest time to get laid in anyone's life. Teens are horny and shit happens. No need to insert some skill for getting laid in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:49 PM
0

I think the first part is true for women across almost all categories. The second part can get a little muddied depending on the context it's being spoken in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:46 PM
2

Vagina. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:11 PM
6

*Its not manipulation, its prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:10 PM
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Yes, they should. Actions have consequences and people are allowed to have preferences for or against sexual looseness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:08 PM
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Except it doesn't happen that a shy woman and a shy guy get together because he always has to initiate/make the first move. He either has to suddenly become not shy, or she will get asked out by one of the other guys instead. Shy women are even worse at not initiating/making a move than other women are, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:36 PM
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The vibe that I was getting from the comment was more targeted toward men not feeling obligated to sex from their partners but on the flip side, women need to acknowledge their partner's sexual needs too, so a very delicate balance of "your partner needs to have sex" and "your partner shouldn't make you feel forced to have sex when you don't want to."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:11 PM
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Yes, they definitely are identifiable just by looking at them and very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:08 PM
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Nothing we can do because its quite obvious at this point that women mostly have gotten with men in the past to get what they needed since men had the resources, but now that women can obtain resources through indirect means by way of working a job and then getting money to purchase goods and services provided by others, they no longer want to get with the men available to them. The equation will balance itself out, regardless of who is happy and who isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:03 PM
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The women would have to be able to see that instead of just expecting them to always be confident and not shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:58 AM
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Ye but for different reasons than it sounded like you were intending.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:40 AM
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Men and women alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 12:38 AM

Being hot and charming doesn't make someone LTR material though. That hot and charming can also come with hidden downsides like being shallow, conceited, materialistic, plain, possibly crazy, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:57 PM
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Being a child with parents who also grew up with Disney? You think its really a choice that young, impressionable kids can make by themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:27 AM
2

Yes. Don't underestimate Consuela.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:20 AM
1

Ye. Beaches be petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:48 PM
1

He probably meant "scowled."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:48 PM
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In the upper tiers, that is true. That's who the majority of the 20% are, although in reality it's something like 30/70. For the others, it depends. Some women will and some women won't. For the ones below that, most women won't find them physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:24 PM
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If smaller head smarter than bigger head, you in trouble. Don't let your dick lead you places that you wish you'd never been. People get shot over being the person who helped the partner cheat, and pussy isn't worth any man's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:57 PM
1

Uhhhh spontaneous is spontaneous. What you described as spontaneous is not spontaneous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:54 PM
1

Or just don't buy a house that's too big for you to manage by yourself. Big houses are nice and I get the appeal of having a lot of space and nice things, but if you need a small team of workers to manage your property, then your house is probably too big for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:44 PM
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Nope. I've had the opportunity too many times and I never took it because I'd feel as shitty as the women should.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:42 PM
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The reality is that he looked his best when he was in college, That's probably your opinion, which is a factor. You may think he looked the best in college but perhaps, just maybe, potentially, possibly other women might disagree. Seems like some women like to think that they have the last say in when a guy is hot or not but then get surprised when other women don't conform to the same notions. I've heard a few stories where a guy was rejected by a woman who said he was ugly but then dude comes …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:41 PM
2

*warm behind
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:06 AM
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Stop thinking about/seeing yourself in relation to other people. There was a time when I was a very self-conscious teenager but I grew out of it. I don't get how other people can live their lives constantly comparing how they look to other people, or in a way that they want to satisfy the opinions of strangers. I'm the type of guy that wears bold clothing. I have a pair of reef board shorts with a Reef model's ass all over them, and I have bright-colored button down shirts in baby blue, blue, sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:04 AM
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I saw no red flags Did you actually look for any, or did you like the guy so much that you either forgave or completely overlooked things? I've noticed that some people make that mistake and then are surprised later on because they thought everything looked good so they must be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:04 PM
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You were far beyond the vetting stage there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:44 PM
1

🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:43 PM
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It does go wrong more than people are aware of. People use stupid/lazy heuristics to vet and they immediately next people who, let's just say, "make a mistake." A lot of people seem to forget that nobody is perfect and they shouldn't expect someone to be perfect on the first date or first couple of dates. Really getting to know someone should be the goal of vetting, but alas, people use it to save themselves time because they could be using that time to date someone better. So yeah, vetting poor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:21 PM
1

For specialized parts and work, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:02 PM
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Should be obvious. Egalitarianism is about equality for all. Feminism is solely about equality for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:59 PM
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Like I said - I’m responsible for staying on top of maintenance. That’s responsibility Its not really responsibility if you're taking it to someone and saying "figure out what needs to be changed and change it. I'll pay." Do you know off hand how many miles or months are on your spark plugs? Air filter? Oil? Seals? Gaskets? If no, then...... doesn't sound like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:34 AM
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However, not everyone can have every skill. They don't need "every skill." Just the one that are relevant to their lives. People know how to have sex, cook and wipe their ass, but when it comes to cars, they don't have the time because they've filled up their cart with more than they can push.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:30 AM
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No it isn't. Cars should be everyone's hobby because they're still responsible for them as the owner and driver of the car. I knew that there would be at least one person saying "that's why we have mechanics" but they would be missing the point, which is that they're still responsible for the upkeep of their cars regardless of whether mechanics exist or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:27 AM
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The cost benefit is that time could be spent elsewhere. For example, some people would be better off spending more time working to make money to pay others to do things for them. Depends on their exact situation, but it comes down to available time and money. Right, so if you/someone can't maintain the things around them that they are responsible for, then they should probs get their priorities straight, because I'm pretty sure that they're not working 24/7. 8 hours for sleep and 8 hours for wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:01 AM
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I never said you had to be a mechanic. A mechanic is a job title, not a state of being. You can't exactly swap body parts out either, so maintaining your health is still as much your responsibility as maintaining your car is. The question is whether you do that or not. If not really, because you can simply pay to make it someone else's job, then that still misses the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:53 AM
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Noice. Gotta offset the pollution somehow unlike most other people that get a different car before the major repairs need to be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:51 AM
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Obviously if you don't drive or own a car, it wouldn't apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:48 AM
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What cost benefit analysis? If you have no time to do the important things you need to do, then you probably need to change your priorities, or not take on activities that leave you with little or no time to dedicate to other, more important things. Makes no sense that someone would paint or build things in their spare time but can't dedicate any time to learning about this one thing they use everyday and rely on for bringing in money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:47 AM
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It’s also my job to manage my health, but I have interest in being a doctor You don't have to be a doctor. Its not a doctor's job to manage your health either. You would likely know that something is wrong better than your doctor would. Meds aren't a cure for poor health.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:18 AM
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I'm talking about things that need to be maintained or replaced at a certain point, like the timing belt every X years/X amount of miles, or the coolant, the power steering fluid, the breaks, the alternator, starter, etc. All parts of the car are important if they make it move or help keep it moving. You can change your own timing belt, but I'm pretty sure most people don't know how to remove their front bumper, let alone change the belt. That should be the owner's responsibility to know how to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:11 AM
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Poop tunnels
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:06 AM
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You're basically the audience that the comment is speaking to. Its not the mechanic's job to manage your car for you (tell you when and what needs to be done). If you break down on the road, it wouldn't be the mechanic's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:05 AM
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Ye
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:43 PM
3

Lmao. The UK memes are running hard today.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:41 PM
1

Agriculture and IPM Wtf is IPM? Inter-Planetary Movement? You telling us to study astrology? Plumbing No need to know plumbing. Just don't wash your hair or grease down the drain and don't flush paper towels or other things that you're not supposed to flush. Simple enough. Electric engineering 🤔 Basic building and carpentry Basic medicine Yes, your house and body are also your responsibility, so it's your job to maintain them. Phones and computers 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:39 PM
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I just take public transportation or Uber. But I do take care of my body, working out etc. I'm just too much of a couch potato, it wouldn't make sense for me to have a car, lol. Noice. I'd like to limit my pollution too but it can be difficult depending on the area you live in. Having to wake up an hour earlier just to take the bus or train and get to the same place on time isn't fun either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:31 PM
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Ye. It's something that has to be separated first before we can have progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:24 PM
2

Yes. You must learn and know about cars even if you don't drive them. Thus sayeth the lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:23 PM
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I barely leave my house, mate. I'll most likely never have a car, lol. So how do you get around when you need to? Bike? Scooter? Those things need maintenance too. Even your body does, so I hope you're also eating right and staying somewhat active. But yeah, people who drive almost every day would probably benefit from understanding more about cars in general. Ye. I wouldn't want to be that person broken down on the side of the road because I wasn't paying attention to something that I should ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:19 PM
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Ye. People actually think that they're the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:15 PM
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CMV: Cars should be everyone's hobby. You probably drive it everyday but barely know how it works. You also probably don't keep up with the replacing of crucial parts until one of them break or the mechanic tells you it's old/worn out and should be replaced soon, which is more of your responsibility as the owner than it is the mechanic's. Driving an unsafe vehicle is still driving an unsafe vehicle whether you were aware of it or not. The two most common causes of collisions are distracted drive…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:13 PM
1

Pretty much the same thing but on a smaller scale ("watch me do this crazy/potentially dangerous thing" vs "watch me strut my stuff and make the guys look").
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:37 PM
2

Statistically, people with higher n-counts are more likely to cheat, so that would mean that their partner quality is lower by most people's standards, unless someone tries to "well they might be cheaters but..."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:27 PM
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There is no filling in the void with anything other than masculinity. Society's and feminism's misguided opinion that masculinity is bad because they mistakenly conflate masculinity with "things that men do that are bad" and therefore has to be done away with by replacing it with something else (feminism and gurl power) is the actual problem. Actual egalitarianism would be better - possibly the best solution - but I don't think that most people have the brain power or the personal development to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:47 PM
1

Because they probably don't know enough about women to get laid, so for them, its because they're dumb and/or inexperienced. Not sure if we could call them incels but not all dudes that aren't having sex are incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:11 PM
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Not incel if it's a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:00 PM
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Until women become "worth it," men will continue not trying, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:52 PM
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No. The failure is men would rather masturbate to porn, anime and instagram than actually go out there and meet women. No, men would rather masturbate than try to live up to women's unrealistic expectations. There's no benefit in doing so if we have to do more work just to get the same thing. Women may think that they deserve the world with their inflated sense of self-worth but a lot of them are just delusional basic bitches who deserve an average guy. Claiming all eomrn only go after one asthr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:48 PM
1

Ye, we kinda need to have that third leg. A society supported by a clit would wobble and fall over.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:44 PM
1

Right. The only "failure" here is western dating culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:42 PM
0

Now you're getting it. The peen is the foundational pillar of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:31 PM
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Yes, he's not, tall, dark and masculine with a perfect peen and a fat wallet. Women want idealized men when it comes to personal preferences, and they are so egocentric that they consider people as "beneath them" if they have a degree or a certain salary and the other person doesn't, and they will refuse to date men who have less than them, which is the crux of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:30 PM
2

YOU WOT, MATE?! YOU WANNA 'AVE A GO AT ME?! I'LL GUT YA LIKE A BLOODY FISH, I WILL!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:10 PM
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but I am just going to move on Move on from what? If you can't keep your feelings in check with a FWB, or you're trying to be FWBs with someone as a pretext for a hopeful relationship later on, then FWBs is probably not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:43 PM
4

Innit?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:40 PM
2

Ye
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:37 PM
3

Men? For a few reasons, like boldly going where no man has gone before, and the flip side of that - not being in the same place that a bunch of other dudes have been in already. One is more related to the ego while the other is related to disgust factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:00 AM
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I was still referring more to women. Men will coach or work with women but most guys would still much prefer the women that could suck and ride like they were born to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:46 AM
5

Depends. If you wait too long, you'll wait yourself right out of people's lineups. A lot of people (especially women) expect a partner to have a certain level of experience by a certain age, and if you don't, then you probably won't be able to satisfy them and they'll continue looking for someone that they don't have to coach.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:04 AM
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Not sure about that but I'll keep it in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:55 AM
1

Cant see the emoji. Small box with x connecting the corners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:46 AM
4

Who cares? The media is deliberately trying to drive a wedge between men and women. Fuck what the media says.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:30 AM
2

Yes, relief that they don't have to put forth any effort anymore because that was the extent of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:29 AM
8

I've read a few research-backed, double-blind, placebo-controlled, peer-reviewed studies that confirmed that the mods are, in fact, gae.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:26 AM
1

Considering that it only happens when someone is running a 5ghz wifi channel that I'm around for an extended period of time, I think I have it narrowed down already.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:23 AM
1

Ye. Mostly people calling the OP an incl or saying other things of that nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:44 AM
1

What would they be able to do? I've just accepted that not being around wifi and radio frequencies is probably better for my overall health.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:43 AM
1

For eating or pounding? All holes are fair game for pounding. Ears, nose, belly button, pee hole, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:37 AM
1

It does. Some don't just get over it and move on. They make a big deal out of it. You writing them off as mentally unstable doesn't mean it happens less than anyone would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:32 PM
1

Relevant example
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:05 PM
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Ye. Its because women are insecure about their bodies and that matters more than men being insecure about their bodies, of course. If you talk poorly about women, then you're a misogynistic incel loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:58 PM
3

Not all vaginas are ugly. Just the ones that look like they were attacked by rabid animals in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:51 PM
1

Ye
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:47 PM
7

Was not expecting a post like this over on r/dankmemes. Mercy...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:14 PM
1

Ye. Dating apps suck. I've tried a lot of them and they're not much different from each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:08 PM
1

I'm guessing some women are having more fun than others, just like it is with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:00 PM
6

You just said exactly what I said. Uh no. You said that men don't have direction because they don't engage with the community. I'm saying that men don't engage with the community because they don't have direction. Men need to think of and support themselves first so they can support the community. With women, it's the opposite. Men aren't women, so they need to have direction before they do anything. The problem is that all of the direction and success that was given to men in the old/traditiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:51 PM
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Isn't direction what leads or motivates men to do that stuff? You're saying that the effect is the cause and that doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:42 PM
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Not very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:26 PM
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Guess black people really piss you off No. Just people with half a brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:26 PM
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but as far as I know it operates on roughly the same bands as 4G and 3G. I was mostly talking about your comments about EMF power and bioeffects. Ah I see. I think the last I read the thought on that is it has something to do with causing some sort of localized heating in the cochlea. That actually sounds about right. I can't describe the feeling exactly but it feels like something is swelling up and creating physical pressure, most notably when I'm sleeping. It seems at times like it affects my…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:13 PM
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Exactly. I'm not going to explain to someone how they're dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:02 PM
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brief Maybe or maybe not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:59 PM
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Yes all black people are masculine. /s and you're not very smart
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:11 PM
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Because black people are usually more masculine in appearance and personality. Most men don't want masculine women but women want masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:05 PM
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But only after asking for consent to continue first /s
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:42 PM
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It means she's communicating with the mothership.
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:40 PM
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Ye but no, these women don't want men trying to talk to them, specifically, and for almost any reason. If they're not buying something or engaging in a transaction, they think that men shouldn't be able to talk to them in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:38 PM
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Many of these regulations used to be extremely conservative because there was no relevant evidence to base things on. You can learn a lot about this and how new evidence has changed our understanding in the https://www.icnirp.org/ guidelines which almost everyone bases regulations on. Ah I see. Thanks for the link. Admittedly I'm not familiar with the 5G band, I work mostly with low frequency and radiofrequency. There really wasn't a lot known about this until after the 2000s and even now the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:34 PM
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Eventually yes, they'll give up and move on, but not after forlornly looking at you or pouting and thinking about it for a bit. It's not an immediate "oh well, on to the next one."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:29 PM
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Ye.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:25 PM
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Isn’t that the whole point - only meet up with attractive men who have dating potential? That's the point of dating, yes, but that's not how women are using dating apps like Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:24 PM
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I don't even think I've seen studies measuring the average width of the vagina at all, possibly because it's so springy and we shouldn't worry about it that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:21 PM
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I was trying to explain that some women will go as far as altering their lifestyle habits just to get you to notice them more, if you haven't already. Surely not just a "oh well" response.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:19 PM
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Of course they're going to say no so why bother asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:17 PM
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Going to be hard to find in paper form because all of the info is not consumer friendly to navigate, of course. I did find this on the FCC's website, though I'm not sure if it will be of much use.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:13 PM
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And women can control their tightness by doing kegels. I'm gonna wager that most women are not, unless it's to satisfy their current partner/husband, and after they've given birth at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:03 PM
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Loose is usually referred to in the context of it being stretched out from sex or masturbation, not naturally loose or wide. I've never heard of any studies alluding to naturally loose vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:01 PM
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I'm saying it doesn't make sense to say that anything 4" or under would qualify as a pencil dick when the average isn't too far ahead of that. Micropeens are several inches smaller than the average length, but a pencil dick is just one inch or more thinner than the average?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:59 PM
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That's the feminists who carry a rape whistle and mace on them at all times. They barely muster up the courage to go out in public because they're varying degrees of anti-social and also misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:53 PM
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Idk about that. I had one woman that seemed interested in me in a college class. She suddenly started sitting near me and would look up at me a few times. She had her laptop open and on the search page was "how to get rid of cigarette smoke on clothes" or something to that effect. I thought it was a bit strange but I still just ignored her. It was a shame because when I got a better look at her, she looked pretty decent. Good face, slim waist and nice buns and legs. Just my type, but I'm not int…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:51 PM
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I need to figure out how to transfer the flip phone calls to the work iPhone so I only have to carry one of them. Just forward the calls. I'm pretty sure the flip phones still had the option to forward calls in the settings. If you can't figure it out, go to your carrier and the associates should be able to help you do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:47 PM
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Do you mean on the safety of cellphone signals or on the nerfing of safety regulations? I recall that there was recently (within the last 2 years) a case with big radio and Congress about the efficacy of 5G towers and cellphones, but I think it got covered up in the COVID pandemic craze along with all of the other shit that happened like the collusion with Russia, the Hunter Biden laptop, Epstein, and the other political happenings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:45 PM
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Ah, I see. Yeah, they have no business managing people's phones, again, unless it's healthcare under a branch of government or something. Some regular hospital has no jurisdiction over your personal phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:37 PM
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The average girth preference and the most commonly sold dildos are about average girth, or only minimally larger. I'm going to go with the minimally larger. So average girth is good enough for most women, so a pencil dick is probably like 4" around or smaller That doesn't make sense considering that the average girth is only a few centimeters larger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:36 PM
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Poh-Tay-Toh Vision.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:34 PM
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Those studies are always talking about unaroused vaginas and only measure to the tip of the cervix. When aroused their cervix moves up and out of the way, her vagina balloons up and expands to twice the size. Yes, I caught that immediately. They're just trying to make dudes feel better so that they won't give up and stop supporting the economy. https://www.saleemanoon.com/blog/2019/03/13-things-you-should-know-about-your-vagina/ Unaroused, the average vagina is about three to four inches deep. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:34 PM
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Ye. I read something earlier that was talking about average dick size and "don't worry because the average vagina is a small hole that's only about 3.5 inches deep, and if its bigger than that, then she's got a problem on her hands." Lul.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:13 PM
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1 megapixel camera?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:01 PM
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Slight disappointment, maybe? Varying degrees of disappointment, or defense mechanisms like "Maybe he's gay." A thought like “oh well, that didn’t work”? I can’t believe most people would get too terribly hung up on strangers not responding to their advances, but maybe I’m wrong. You would be surprised. I've had women pout over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:01 PM
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There's a difference between any signal and a strong signal. Weaker signals are less likely to affect our bodies (which is why we have safety regulations regarding things that transmit signals) but in this context, politics have intruded on safety and some of those regulations are being relaxed or pushed back, allowing companies to put out less safe products for the sake of financial gain. The older cell phones were regarded as "safe" while newer phones are also regarded as "safe" but not really…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:59 PM
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Some abusive men would be attractive to women, others not. Depends on how masculine and attractive they are, yes. Abusive relationships are tricky because a common facet of them is love bombing at the start. Or the women are just totally head over heels for him for no real reason and he treats them semi-decent at times. In these cases, "I can change him" is the main theme that they're running on. And yes, there are a lot of decent guys out there who know fuck all about talking to women. Right. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:51 PM
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Most women on dating apps are looking to pass the time, not actually date or meet up. They might be open to it if the guy is attractive and funny enough, but they're mostly just wanting to swipe, read funny openers and have some cheap entertainment for a bit. You'll have to get lucky to find a woman that wants to meet up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:47 PM
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I hear women talking with disdain about "pencil dicks" a lot but I've never heard of any actual experiences with pencil dicks from women. The thinnest dick I've seen that wasn't a micropeen was about the thickness of a thumb. What measurements does a dick have to have to be awarded "pencil" status?.. because it seems like it's all about personal preferences (i.e., "If it's not at least 5 inches in circumference, it's a pencil dick").
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:44 PM
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Is it that much of a coincidence that these types of men happen to be "good with women" and actual decent guys are "just shit with women?" Me thinks not. Seems like women are just attracted to a certain kind of man for reasons that they try to rationalize as good while ignoring or downplaying the bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:37 PM
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Ah I see. I could see if it was a tech company or if you were working in the higher echelons of the government sector, but if it's just some large corporation that has no business managing their employee's phones, then yeah, fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:33 PM
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I stopped asking women out. Same. I stopped responding to their IOIs and expectations too. The result has been interesting and funny. I can only imagine what's going through their heads when I ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:31 PM
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Yeah I'm not a huge supporter of Google either. I don't want them storing my info or expanding their info profile of me based on my usage habits, app downloads, contacts, word usage and syntax, etc. Fuck Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:28 PM
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the math is perfect lol, Yes, in your head. all that is additional information not provided in the original post. So you made assumptions without knowing. Brand new A5 was $500 back in 2016. Brand new Note 8 in 2018 was around $800 - $1k depending on the storage capacity. I paid about $550 for it in 2018. Inflation raises the price of both, not just one of them. The cheaper phone was still a better phone, in my opinion. Although i have my doubts about "cheaper third parties" Go check online. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:24 PM
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Meh. I'm not that interested in buying Chinese brand phones, even if most phones are made in China.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:19 PM
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................... Your math and logic doesn't work out. The specs and quality of materials don't change because of inflation. The Note is a more expensive phone in comparison. I just got it cheaper because I purchased it online (brand new) from a third-party. Still not as good of a phone despite the fact that it's supposed to have better specs and is a larger phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:16 PM
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Flip phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:12 PM
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Features look good and has great reviews but: Expensive 5G I'm not interested in spending over $1k on a phone and 5G is too strong of a signal to be carrying near your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:11 PM
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Gotcha. Thanks for the tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:08 PM
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I saw that that new Samsung Z flip3 has thousands of reviews on it already and it looks kinda stupid. Sure, it can flip into a larger screen that you can watch videos on, but that seems like the only thing it's got going for it. It folds into a brick that you'll be carrying in your pocket and yeah. None of the stores sell anything like the Blackberry smartphone that I want to try, or anything different or better. I've been having problems with my current phone because I bought it from a third-pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:36 PM
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Is it just me, or are mostly all of the phones currently available on the market just garbage? The best phone I ever had was the Samsung Galaxy A5 back in 2016, though it was a bit expensive at $500. I paid about that much for my Note 8 that I currently have and it could be better. Seems like newer products appear better but are actually shittier quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:26 PM
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Depends on how attractive he is. If he's really attractive, he can get away with being Republican and pro-life. If he's not that attractive, he has to be more similar to her in views and lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:22 PM
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Yes, he can wrap a few wads of $100 bills around it to make it more pleasurable for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:23 AM
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Well women are free to chase after the elusive hot rich simp with soda can pepe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:16 AM
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Cannot confirm. Good pepe is a gift from the gods Yes, that's the rub. There isn't many good pepe in women's opinion. That's where "go big or go home" came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:09 AM
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Uhhh men aren't women with some secret book explaining all of their hand, arm and eye signals. Men use direct words to communicate. When people say that men need to communicate better, they're saying that men need to communicate, because in that instance, they aren't communicating at all, or they're not saying what they should be saying ("nothing's wrong. I'm Gucci, bb"). If someone's idea of communicating isn't really communicating, then they aren't communicating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:57 AM
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Women no like smol pepe. They barely like pepe at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:49 AM
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Your personal preference, then. Most men find curvature in the hips and ass as more attractive than it being flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:43 AM
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Do I need to see a doctor? Get a shot? Yes, go see doctor ASAP. He will give you medication.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:30 AM
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I think your girl is less attractive than mine, but not entirely unattractive. The focus here is on the body and ass. You might be inflating your example's bodily attractiveness with her face in your mind. If she had more ass, she would be more attractive. Asians aren't usually built with ass though. They have small everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:29 AM
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-quietly tiptoes away-
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:23 AM
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No. That is attractive, but not as attractive as a woman with more meat in her hips and ass, like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:22 AM
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Fat asses and being fat generally have an overlap, like a venn diagram. Yes, they do, but the ass cheeks don't actually merge and physically overlap. They wouldn't be able to poop. Unless...... I dislike both. Nice, small, slim butts are superior. If she's flat, you might as well line her up with the other pieces of wood in your fence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:11 AM
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No, that's gaer. Still gae to IOI men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:07 AM
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It could potentially come off as a bit childish, yes. People generally grow out of the need for those types of comfort items by the time they reach adulthood. If she talks to them though, that's a big nope. Definitely some untouched mental issues relating to her younger years there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:06 AM
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That’s feminine *gae
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:01 AM
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No hangups about age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:00 AM
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It's not men saying "thicc = fat." That's women. Men want slim women with fat round asses. Fat women call themselves "thicc" or "curvy" or "Big Beautiful Woman" because it sounds better than "overweight" or "heavy-set" or just "big." It's a two-pronged attack that tries to normalize "fat is sexy" and also to make them feel better/less guilty about being a heckin' chonker.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:59 AM
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Like I said before, "you can't spell 'happiness' without 'penis." I think most of the liberal SJW concerns is just an outlet for their craziness. They literally go looking for shit to get triggered over.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:54 AM
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what makes her “dating down” if you still find her attractive? is it like, she’s less attractive than you but still attractive enough? Yes, attractive enough for me personally, not for every other guy that looks comparable to me, which is the mistake that women make in assuming their own attraction level because of a past partner or guys that want to have sex with them. "If this guy likes me, then I must be equal to him. Otherwise he wouldn't want me." That's projection. are there other things t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:22 PM
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I don't date, but I would as long as I personally thought the woman was cute or had some attractive charm to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:54 PM
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i tend to believe most people don’t want to date down. Dating down is a matter of perception. Men don't exactly perceive women's attractiveness in relation to themselves like it's okay or not okay to be attracted to them. Men either find a woman attractive or they don't. Hawt guys can still think a lesser attractive woman is "cute" and not make a big deal about being more attractive than she is. and if you have no other options but to date “down” then i’d argue you’re actually dating on your lev…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:48 PM
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not a useful measure, as the other commenter said, that's nearly poor in some areas. National average, not locational average. The estate is a more stable measure since it represents what you accumulate, not just what you spend to survive Not really because given enough time, someone with a low wage could save enough make them look "middle class" even though they are actually lower class. plus, the average national income per household s almost 70k... 100k is not even double that... Right, so mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:32 PM
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you said women don’t see dating down as an option. You're not dating down, are you? You basically confirmed that you don't want to date down already so idk what else to say because it sounds like case closed. do you believe that men frequently date down? Can't say whether they do or not, but men don't have as much a problem dating down like women seem to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:28 PM
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This wouldn't apply to you, obviously. Only to women who can't get men at the level they're at or the level they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:17 PM
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National averages only, not local.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:05 PM
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that's like... barely out of middle class lol. In what world? Are you talking about USD or Yen? When i say upper UMC im thinking ~5 million net worth. An "actual millionaire" being 10+ million. I'm talking about average amount brought in per year, not their entire estate. im just saying that once you remove "poverty threat" from women's selection decision, the game changes and her goals no longer involve dating up. That's not exactly true though. The only time women date down is "for love" (i.e.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:56 PM
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i still don’t want to date down. i date people on my level. Or higher, yes. You are indeed a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:28 PM
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not the top of the world... once you're in the upper UMC, "dating up" means finding multimillionaires... Uhhhh.... what? What is "the upper UMC?" sounds like its somewhere on the +$100k bracket. Why does a woman making this much think that she's in "multi-millionaire" territory? Anyway, we're getting further and further away from the topic because most women are not already rich. This convo wouldn't apply to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:28 PM
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Right, so chances are that a hot woman isn't going to be receptive to a pudgy balding Jewish lawyer who decided to hit on her, and more receptive to a normal looking guy that she's known for a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:16 PM
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bc the people you find are usually at your level or lower, since higher is v rare. You talk as if these hypothetical women are at the top of the world. Must be how it feels to them. And there's no reason for wealth to be a selecting factor when you already have everything you want. So you go for personality, appearance, etc. Doesn't seem to be the case though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:14 PM
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By whom, by women? No, by monkeys. Of course by women. I think most men will cheer if a bastard gets a beautiful girl , while her friends will question her decision Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:12 PM
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I've seen attractive women date short balding guys. Cool. Everyone has a different standard. Everyone also meets people that they eventually fall for- outside of their idealistic preferences and standards, yes. This is how reality works outside of the fantasies in our heads. Tinder and dating apps make you think that everyone dates on looks alone but that's not true. Strangers dating strangers is all looks and other shallow traits like wealth and status, yes. That changes when people are not str…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:11 PM
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Ye. Little do they know that they might be fooling themselves though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:05 PM
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already rich. So born into mommy's and daddy's money? They're not immune from it. They'll still use all of the above. yea, imma disagree with u here. Can't really comment on your post about poor women bc i don't know any. A shame. But i know plenty of well-off women and they tend to date sideways or down. Is that because they can't find anyone at their level or higher? That's usually the end result of the "where have all of the good (read: "other hot and rich") men gone?" The only choices for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:04 PM
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Wrong topic. Women conform, of course, but this isn't about social conformity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:01 PM
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Did they get rich before or after they started using any of these things? I'm going to guess that most women get rich well into adulthood, which is after the clothing and makeup and face creams came into play. Women who are already rich look for equally rich or much richer men. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:59 PM
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I don’t think anyone should have to date down to the point of viewing their partner as inferior, And thinking that you're better than someone simply because you're more attractive than them is the main problem there. Women don’t necessarily try to look look good just to date attractive men, though that is a benefit for some. That's a large portion of the reason that they do, whether they tell themselves that they are doing it for some other reason or for that reason. They're all linked to other …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:56 PM
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They need to be an actual team to be compatible. That's why they're called "partners." If they're both similar people, they might run into problems. Traditional gender roles worked because men and women both had their roles that contributed to the success of the family unit. Failure of a family usually comes from someone not holding up their end. Men typically protect and provide while women support and tend to the children. However, the people themselves can decide what roles they fit best in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:51 PM
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"Its a place I go to talk about dating and relationship dynamics and issues."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:39 PM
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CMV: Dating down isn't seen or accepted as an option for women. That's what the makeup is for. That's what the plastic surgery is for. That's what the beauty creams and cosmetics are for. That's what the slimming/deceptive clothing and styles are for. Women want to inflate their SMV as much as possible to get the cash and prizes that comes with being an attractive woman. There is nothing else on the planet that allows for rapid upward mobility of women like being attractive, and it's no surprise…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:38 PM
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Uhhhh anyway, the point is that they are not commitment material for the guys that they're chasing after.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:28 PM
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This isn't in reference to one person.... Women who are chasing after guys with commitment issues will not be getting commitment from any of them, and there's a reason for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:45 PM
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I've heard that people either end up almost exactly like their parents, or almost the exact opposite. Not much of a happy medium.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:08 PM
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Meet women through mutual friends and acquaintances, or flaunt your wallet with expensive quality stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:47 PM
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Semantics. People take them as being the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:25 PM
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Stop waiting for men to approach and chase you if men aren't approaching or chasing you. Be a big girl and take initiative. Matter of fact, just don't wait in general. If you're interested, do something about it. Also, if a guy won't commit, chances are you're not in the same league/commitment material for him and his lifestyle, so aim lower and "get in where you fit in."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:59 PM
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I made that mistake with my ex (she passed vetting heuristics but I should have eliminated her anyways) There's still time 🔫🤠🔫
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:20 AM
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Ye
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:18 AM
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I have the last 3, but both my father and stepfather were abusive shits, both my parents are divorced and remarried, and I have waaaaay more positive traits than my mother has Same, except my mother was the shitty one and never remarried because it just wouldn't happen. She's too difficult for any guy to want to put up with. But I am an excellent partner and the environment one is born into doesn't necessarily mean they will allow themselves to be controlled by it. This can happen, certainly, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:18 AM
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Let me be a Devil's Advocate here, dating people with way too broken families is like dating someone who is disabled, Sounds very generalized and not very logical. Having a broken family or coming from a broken family does not necessarily reflect on the individual person themselves. none of it is there fault necessarily but after the relationship you will have to be their emotional Yeah you're just assuming here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:11 AM
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gae
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:56 AM
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Full-Metal Jacket.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:48 AM
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Ehhh I'm not sure if this can be generalized to all women/everyone. Some people have shitty parents. A person's parents aren't a reflection of who they are or whether they are relationship material or not. People who use these types of points to vet are probably just mentally lazy and/or don't know how to vet properly for themselves so they apply this filter to make things easier for them and save time. Being kind and having good friends and less experience with casual sex are green flags though…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:41 AM
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Uhhh no. The anglerfish is shaped by the environment that it lives in. It's not very relevant as a comparison to humans. Also, the female anglerfish is the one with the big teeth and the little lightbulb coming out of its head. The male anglerfish is the tiny one that spends its entire life looking for a female mate in the darkness of the ocean. Fish lesson: over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:37 AM
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Because women still want relationships. They can tell themselves and others that they "don't need no man," but women and solitude often do not go hand in hand. Women want to feel desired, loved and protected, and they need a man to do that. They might be able to run on cheap likes and matches on social media for awhile, but eventually, it's not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:32 AM
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For the most part yeah I do. Historically far more women have contributed to the gene pool than men. That doesn't mean that women chose anything though. That could mean that men were doing the choosing, which is what seems to be the case considering that uggos exist. Men would fuck uggo women. The reverse doesn't really happen that often, and we can assume that something similar would apply to pre-historic men and women too. In any dating venue whether its online dating, speed dating, cold appro…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:28 AM
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Ye. It's the only way they can function because they don't haz gaem or seduction charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:23 AM
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Extreme doubt. Obvious example is the anglerfish--one of the most sexually dimorphic species that exists--lady anglerfish ain't choosing shit. Uhhhh why tf are you talking about anglerfish? You're in the wrong class, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:23 AM
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I think you’re broadly right here insofar as we can see evidence of women being selected for. For example, more attractive women have more intelligent husbands.. This is probably going to remain true as long as people are broadly practicing mostly monogamous assertive mating. Yes. More attractive women also have wealthier husbands. These things are correlated so it's not much of a surprise that we see a lot of attractive women married to men in the upper socioeconomic class. It’s still legitimat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:22 AM
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Working on it. Gotta develop superhuman strength and some wings first.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:10 AM
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For their resources, not for their dick. The dick is benevolent and all giving For both. Strong ape gets the best women, the lesser apes get the leftovers. The women get divided by the men. That might be the case in smaller groups, but for us, there are arguably too many people to go around. Some will be left out on both sides regardless of how they look. So? For the man there is no cost. It doesn't matter if he makes subpar child. All he cares about is spreading the seed as much as possible. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:09 AM
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Aren’t you the one always complaining No. You just might be imagining that I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:07 AM
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Men compete with other men for access to women. And women compete with other women for access to men. Women's opinion on the matter wasn't that important in our evolutionary past. The biggest strongest most ruthless and dominant man keeps the other men away from the women he wants. Women just evolved to find that man attractive. In a way, that is correct, if you're saying "women didn't have a choice because the choices were to have sex with stronk ape man or possibly die." However, it seems that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:45 PM
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Men compete, women choose...for sex Women compete, men choose...for love, romance, and serious commitment Nay. Whoever wants someone for something has already chosen them and the other person also decides whether to choose them or not, whether they're a man or a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:38 PM
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Men compete with men for women. Women compete with women for men. Yes. Men and women have somewhat different evolved selection criteria based on sexual dimorphism. Men select for looks and youth (health and fertility). Women for status, wealth, looks (provision and protection and health). This is across cultures. Ye. I'm just wondering who in here still believe that women choose because they're always at the mercy of women's choices or because they have guys chasing after them a lot. Pretty easy…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:36 PM
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Anybody in here still believe in the "men compete, women choose" garbage smooth-brain line of thinking? If so, why? Not personally getting interest from the opposite sex is not proof. Feeling that you always have people chasing after you without you having to do much is also not proof. The fact that men and women both display sexually dimorphic features is proof that both choose, and if we take the "women are more attractive than men" claims into account, that points to mate choice in recent his…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:21 PM
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I usually let them grow just to accumulate dirt out of spite, and also as a woman repellant. They're functional too. I can undo tight knots and other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:15 PM
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There are a lot of things that are unisex but stoopid people have been brainwashed into believing that gender roles are the standard and that they're static and unchanging, which is the opposite of adaptation and evolution. Of course, this is usually coming from people who haven't evolved very much in the brain department.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:11 PM
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Doesn't really mean anything. It's in most women's fantasies that an attractive man is catering to them. However, women also have no problem trying to turn attractive and abusive men into the "perfect partner" (an attractive simp who does everything just the way she wants and treats her like a kween).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:06 PM
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You put your penis in her vagina and then while thrusting you lean forward, reach around her thigh and stimulate her clit. Right, so not actually going to pound town because leaning forward takes away most of the thrusting power and you would no longer be in doggy position. You realize gay men do the "reach around" during anal sex, right? That's where the concept comes from. Penises extend further than clits do so that would be more doable than giving a woman a reach around while in upright dogg…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:26 AM
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Yes, you have to fuck men to know how men act when they are fucking What do you mean "when they are fucking?" What noises and expressions they make? Where's the relevance? This is one of the biggest theories in RP - watch what they do, not what they say Still waiting for you to explain what it is that men are doing, exactly. If you literally have zero experience watching what they do? Then you have no business commenting on it Ah you're one of those "you can't possibly know unless you experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:15 AM
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Couple of reasons that have to do with biology, imperatives and hormones. Women don't cheat as often because cheating is risky and women are more risk-averse. Beyond a certain point, women both need and want a partner to enter into old age with. Men may want but don't objectively need this, although the benefits of doing so are similar or the same. What exactly does this have to do with average men though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:10 AM
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Do I sleep with men? Yes. I have been doing it for 26 years I have slept with men in multiple states, in areas that are rural and areas that are urban, and everything in between I am very open about the fact that my history includes going from WC to UMC. I was sleeping with men during every step of that trajectory My sexually active female friends have experiences that mirror mine, regardless of where they fall on the SES and geographic maps Kewl. Now let me ask you - have you ever fucked a guy?…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:02 AM
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I am using the common and most relevant definition of violence. Yes, relevant to the argument you're trying to make. I’m not an SJW. That's exactly what an SJW would want people to think. I don’t call it “literally violence” because someone has disenfranchised me or caused me distress. I call that disenfranchisement and distress. You're free to use the words you prefer. That doesn't change the definition of violence, nor what constitutes violence. Oh I see your point. It hinges on me affirming y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:59 AM
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Explain how. We don't have rubber arms. The only way you can is if you're not going to pound town.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:49 AM
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What does that have to do with how men behave? You'll have to explain what you mean by "behave" because you still keep saying just that word when I've given examples of actual behaviors. Men who are having ONS generally don’t have a problem going down. It’s a very mild act these days, basically PG-13 Who exactly are you talking about? Men in general? Have you slept with or are you sleeping with men in general? If not, then you can't really say this because it might just be a theme in your partic…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:48 AM
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I’m using the commonly accepted definition of violence. Yes, the physical one. That is, however, only one type of "violence," so if you're being honest and consistent about the topic, you wouldn't limit the definition to one that would include or exclude certain people to skew the focus toward a particular group. You’re committed to thinking this means I think women don’t inflict harm? Got it. And you're committed to dodging points that would make your argument seem biased or shortsighted, yes. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:38 AM
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Ah yes, the tentacle boiz.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:32 AM
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Maybe to you, as a woman. To the guys themselves, it's about what they want and/or don't want, whether that includes going down on women or not. Most men want to have actual sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:29 AM
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How they "behave" does not matter so much as the outcome does. Whether they immediately dunk their heads into a vagina like they're bobbing for apples at a Halloween party or try to make up excuses for why they don't want to or won't doesn't change the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:21 AM
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Yes, women enjoy the reach around, but that's if the dude wants to and the position allows for it. Can't give the reach around while going to pound town in doggy position.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:14 AM
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I was using the tangible and literal definition of violence. Men outpace there, demonstrably. So you're using a definition in a context where it would mostly apply to men to say that men are more violent. Got it. Do men cause emotional or psychological damage as their secondary whether intentionally or as a consequence of their physical damage? Also yea. You're comparing cups to bowls though. They're the same thing, but just present in different contexts. Men commit more physical violence agains…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:13 AM
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I mean, it’s the same place you’re putting your dick Exactly. Guys don't really want to put their tongues where some unknown number of other dude's dicks have been. This sort of disgust/inhibition is just generally not found in guys who have ONS Putting a dick in a vagina is different from putting your mouth on a vagina. The penis is supposed to go in the vagina. Are there guys who just don’t like it, so don’t? Sure. Ye. But the majority of guys women have casual sex with aren’t this high strung…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:07 AM
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So PPD pro-life men, why are you against abortions? Because we know what they are. They are human offspring, not some lifeless object or "clump of cells." It's very strange that someone could say that other humans have rights, but not those particular humans because [insert feelings-based reasoning here]. Its not logically consistent. All it says is that those who want to abort have no problem treating others as "lesser than" when its convenient for them to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:03 AM
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Men seem to be the biggest perpetrators of gun violence. Why don’t women get mad and shoot up the corner or the school or argument at the same rates? Because women's violence is different. More covert, not overt. Men attack physical things and women attack conceptual things like relationships, careers, self-esteem, etc. However, in the context of relationships, women will and do get physical. Might be from being more familiar with the person that determines whether women get physical or not beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:56 AM
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The point is to use the peen to have sex with the woman. Sex hookups are fine but going down on a rando is potentially equitable to being blindfolded and dared to lick whatever the others want you to lick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:53 AM
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I think that's because you don't understand what TRPs goal is, which is to get sex from women. You're not supposed to take the women that you're sleeping with seriously. That would defeat the entire point. So... swing and a miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:48 AM
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With gurl power, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:23 PM
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Idk what the main message of the post is because it seems like its set up to say one thing but then it says another thing in a kind of "no but yes" manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:02 PM
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That applies to everyone though. It's not just men trying to appeal to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:57 PM
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Gigabot: active. Rant mode: initializing. -Loading rant sequence- Loading sequence: complete. Rant mode: engaged. Rant: initiated. Anyway, most women only objectively have their bodies/sexual favors to offer men because men don't really need women for anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:51 PM
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It's important to them, not objectively more important than anything that anyone else thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:11 AM
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Unfortunately yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:10 AM
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Still contradicted/contradicting yourself. Also, that applies to just about everyone, considering that everyone has different tastes and wants different things. Acting like "men" and "women" are all lumped into one person and it is the women that are deciding everything is pretty top-tier smoothie material.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:05 AM
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They can't afford to get their needs met by one perfect person so they likely have to supplement a relationship from multiple people. I think they want to feel desired and having multiple partners (even if they're also ugly) gives the illusion of desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:50 AM
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Polyamory is mostly just having many crushes, like a kid on the cusp of going through puberty. Polygamy is the practice of having many spouses. It doesn't have to coincide with actual feelings. Men take on multiple wives if it is acceptable and also encouraged, but a lot of it would be for appearances.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:47 AM
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Is that sex work? No. As far as I am aware, there are some paid nude modeling exhibitions (not much) but most of them are volunteer-based, and I'm sure it would have to be an explicit exchange for money to even begin to be classified as "sex work." Also, the context is not for satisfying anyone's sexual gratification, so that would also disqualify it from being labeled as sex work. e-Thots and prostitutes know what they're doing is sex work. If you have to ask, it probably isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:42 PM
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My taste buds: "I want a matcha latte with almond milk." -reads- "Mix one teaspoon of matcha tea with 8 oz of water or your favorite plant-based milk." My brain: "How many milliliters are in a cup?" Also my brain: "Two girls, one cup."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:34 PM
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I don't save any just to present when arguing with people. I read them, remember them and then tell other people what the studies say. If you don't want to listen without seeing it for yourself, then idk what to say because I'm not going to spend 10 - 30 minutes digging for the exact one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:30 PM
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So we can confirm basically that western women/liberals and feminism are destroying the US, among other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:18 PM
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"It was just a movie, bro."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:11 PM
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I'd say that all are possibilities, not just one or the other. Different times, different actions. People in this sub have a habit of mistakenly taking one confirmed behavior and generalizing it to the whole demographic and across the entire human timeline. Big dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:11 PM
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Putting emphasis on looks doesn't mean scrutinizes looks more. Men like attractive women, yes, but the range of what is attractive to men is much larger than what is attractive to women. That has also been confirmed via studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:09 PM
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Nice. Now if only we could get people in here to acknowledge and accept these things, that would be great. However, I predict that within the next 24 hours, someone will make a comment or post that says the opposite of something covered in this one. Good ol' PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:07 PM
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It's a surprise to people who didn't know and are basing the truth off of their experiences and their friends' experiences. I see that a lot in here, mostly coming from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:04 PM
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It’s really irrelevant what men objectively bring, since women select for sex. If women perceive men not bringing much, then it doesn’t matter if men objectively do. These two sentences contradict each other. It's irrelevant what men bring, unless they bring a lot? Hmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:01 PM
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No. Women like to think that they bring more, but the dynamic for our species has been such that men select women based on attractiveness and women select men based on capability/skill for acquiring resources and physical attractiveness. Most women actually bring objectively less to the table than most men, but with the differences in physical appearance factored in, it evens out. There's a reason why women "marry up" - it's because the men that they're marrying are objectively bringing much mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:00 PM
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The problem with that is that it exposes a person as being blatantly opportunistic. People that want casual sex and also a decent relationship contradict themselves with their actions because these two are opposing desires (i.e., wanting to have your cake and eat it too). These people know that others may not be receptive to someone who is sleeping around while wanting to date seriously which is why they try to conceal what they want or what they're doing. These types of people are risky to cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 01:57 AM
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It takes effort if that's what you're trying to do, but it's going to happen regardless of whether you're trying if you're doing the same thing. Do you think that muscle only grows while working out in the gym or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:22 PM
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There's no "effort to make the vagina bigger" going on here. It just happens as a result of their frequent actions and behaviors. Imagine thinking that trying to do something is the only way that it will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:19 PM
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“Communication” breeds obligation, No it doesn't. Communication only communicates obligations that existed already. Not communicating is probably the worst ways to respond in any relationship. The people who don't communicate are typically afraid of confrontation and not good relationship material, or immature and also not good relationship material. Let your ground be known, but don’t supplicate or sperg over details Yes, good communication skills are a must. Bad communication and poor communic…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:59 PM
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Right lul
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:00 AM
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Ye
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:55 AM
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So thanks for proving my point. You didn't have one. Just a false understanding of what's actually being said.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:50 AM
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Obvious exaggeration is obvious. Only a handful of women are looking for "massive" penises. Most of them are looking for decently sized, not small, above average penises. Jesus it's like people here have never met humans before It's like some people here paid for their diplomas past middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:43 AM
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Randomly? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:40 AM
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i cant imagine talking to guys about it Right so who is the one basing their views on opinions here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:35 AM
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