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Come on, dude. He's the first guy that popped into my head. Though in a normal setting Ryan Reynolds would be putting other men to shame if he carries himself the way I see him in interviews and just random videos.
/r/seduction23/08/18 07:12 PM
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In a world where you are attractive. Sorry
/r/seduction23/08/18 04:45 PM
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Oh whatta doozie. This is an "Abundance mentality" post reskinned. I've seen this type of shit so many times but it's got some different word use. Fucking kudos, man. Compliance will shoot through the roof because only winners have the balls to act like this. Now this is just silly. You are trying to make a post where you can have your cake and eat it too. If you're not a winner you won't act like one. Unless you're damn good at being fake as shit in which case kudos to you. You literally contra…
/r/seduction23/08/18 04:35 PM
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All women have massive ego problems nowadays. Tech and social media amplifies it immensely. Everyone is more connected and the law of the universe called "Pussy is a commodity" gets juiced to the gills with some superhuman steroids in our modern world. See even if you're not that good looking, the men seem to have gotten so fucking desperate and needy that it's ridiculous. So every bitch starts acting all high and mighty. Ever see an instagram thot? Y'know the type that has more pictures of her …
/r/seduction23/08/18 04:17 PM
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Therefore there is no point in bothering with girls unless you have a busy life with tons of things to occupy you. And for some reason this is an unpopular opinion.
/r/seduction23/08/18 03:31 PM
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Exactly. Now you can next this one and move on.
/r/seduction23/08/18 03:30 PM
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Did you just come back to reddit, fam? Anyway I appreciate you clarifying it I guess. 🤣
/r/seduction23/08/18 02:48 PM
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I could've told you this over a cup of tea. I could've told you this blacked out drunk and high. I could've told you this with a tumor for a brain. This shit ain't rocket science, man. Everything that you said is common sense.
/r/seduction22/08/18 11:20 PM
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Not only does it sound like you're her gay BFF/her best gurl. This bitch also sounds like a trainwreck.
/r/seduction22/08/18 04:05 PM
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Short answer. No. Long answer. Unless you got mad social media game and judging by the amount of followers you have, you don't. Granted 1k is not 80k so it's not like this bitch has her head in the clouds. Social media is all about being active and showing off social proof as well as an active life. If you don't have social proof, a life worthy of showing off like skydiving or just something cool. Then social media is a waste of time when it comes to girls.
/r/seduction22/08/18 10:24 AM
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So basically I just have to try and someday it might pay off? I've already basically accepted I'll never be an "alpha" but eventually getting a wife is ok for me. Y'see you're beating yourself down for no good reason. You have all the physical makings of a potential Chad but yet you speak like a little beta cuck boi. You have self limiting beliefs about yourself. They become a self fulfilling prophecy because you believe them. Therefore they influence your behavior. Therefore you believe them ev…
/r/seduction22/08/18 12:53 AM
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I mean... look around. You're on seddit. All the tools are right here. You can't be afraid of something and hope it goes away. You gotta face your fears. Without being entitled too. What it looks like to me is that even though you have all this good shit going for you, you're focused on the fact that you're a virgin. So instead of being confident about the good things you have, you are instead focusing on the negative side. Just think about it, man. You get girls showing you attention and you kn…
/r/seduction22/08/18 12:21 AM
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Man I thought of writing up a philosophical storm but I just don't feel like it. Simply put. Look around you. Look at life. People have what they have. There are tons of dudes that aren't as well off as you and they're getting more ass than you or I could ever dream of. Are they worthy? Are they entitled to all that ass? No I think? But chicks dig them. So are they worthy? In some way yes absolutely. But in another they're just trash and you don't understand why they are getting ass. It's not a …
/r/seduction21/08/18 11:32 PM
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Just do whatever the fuck you want. This sub is not at fault. And besides if you're not horny when you're with a girl you should probably stop jerking off and watching porn.
/r/seduction21/08/18 06:58 PM
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This is exactly why I'm not in a rush. As a guy without a job currently, not studying, without friends or a social life and a dry spell of 2 years where I haven't even gotten remotely close to ending it. Is women really the place to start for a guy like me? Absolutely not imo. There's tons of shit to fix before women become a viable thing to pursue. I have goals I want to hit by the end of the year and others for mid next year. None of them involve women. In fact I'm pretty much okay with riding…
/r/seduction21/08/18 06:42 PM
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Uhhhh no
/r/seduction21/08/18 01:55 PM
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Why people feel the need to waste money on dates is beyond me.
/r/seduction21/08/18 11:47 AM
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I gotta say, not to be a dick, but the guy in the video doesn't have the cadence of a very confident dude that'd be a perfect candidate to make this type of video. 4 of these are entirely dependent on circumstance. The top one would be locking eyes because locking eyes between a man and a woman creates sexual tension. The 2nd one would be looking back at you. Obviously if a girl did it at least twice and she's obviously looking at you, that's probably a sign you piqued her interest. There are ti…
/r/seduction21/08/18 11:43 AM
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Asexuals are a tiny portion of the population. You don't need to think hard to figure out why either. Truly asexual people are biologically broken. And I'd bet my entire building that most of them are just scared and making bullshit excuses so they don't have to be vulnerable and face their desires. Anyway you watch porn and masturbate. If you were asexual your sex drive wouldn't be there. Stop watching porn and masturbating. You'll see women in a whole other light. You are more than likely addi…
/r/seduction21/08/18 11:15 AM
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Just relax. Is what I can tell you. Don't pay for the pussy. Dude if you were my classmate I'd get your ass high as fuck, hang out with the homies and then send you off to get laid. What I mean is, look at the bigger picture. Don't focus on this one minute flaw in it. Dude I was stuck in a serious pile of shit at your age(not saying this as if I'm much older than you, I'm 21, 22 in November). And if we go by date, by the end of November I got some direction in life. Something to work for. For me…
/r/seduction17/08/18 01:10 AM
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I said pretty much the same thing but now I'm thinking. Wouldn't a normal person know to distinguish these two completely different images? Like a normally functioning human being can't tell the difference? I know I would. I would never in a million years ask this question.
/r/seduction17/08/18 12:34 AM
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I am. Well... hash. But it's good.
/r/seduction17/08/18 12:31 AM
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Don't worry. We all get stuck in a rut of shit sometimes. Just gotta remember the fact that you don't want to stay in that shit.
/r/seduction16/08/18 11:10 PM
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That's fine. I'm only into you because you're a female Sun Tzu of game and that's fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
/r/seduction16/08/18 11:08 PM
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I don't have a shotgun so no.
/r/seduction16/08/18 08:35 PM
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I can get where you're coming from. You're 19 and I had a pretty similar attitude towards women up to 19. It's fucked up, you sort of want to become awesome just to give these bitches the finger. I get it. But you just won't be happy thinking that way. Imagine just going through life with the sole purpose of fucking someone else over. It's a pretty miserable existence because even if you're the one screwing them over. It's a life filled with so much negativity and it's just not worth it, man. Bu…
/r/seduction16/08/18 08:34 PM
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Ever seen Californication? I am technically a writer 🤣
/r/seduction16/08/18 08:23 PM
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Dude I've had similar thoughts but realize that your balls are also the thing that make you want to succeed at life oh and also live life because you'll probably kill yourself should you castrate yourself. Right now, on a long ass dry spell, if I could remove all libido while keeping my motivation and passion for life I would. Not because I think my dry spell is unfixable but because it's unfixable for the foreseeable future.
/r/seduction16/08/18 06:10 PM
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You're adorable.
/r/seduction16/08/18 06:05 PM
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Why don't you ask him? The fuck are you asking us for? Dude seems to have social media game on lockdown. I'm getting sick of mentioning this but my neighbor's got some mad social media game. On pure physical attributes he's less attractive than me but he is one of the more entertaining people on Instagram and he has a huge social life. And objectively speaking dude is much more attractive than me simply in the way he acts. He's confident, gives no fucks, doesn't take shit from girls or guys and …
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:40 PM
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I see what you're trying to do and it's... I mean that's not gonna work on most people on the internet. We've dealt with such gr8 b8 m8 before and it's not really effective. Sorry to disappoint, but good try I guess.
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:34 PM
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Geez everyone on seddit is so on edge today.
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:29 PM
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Probably. It depends on her body language and the conversation itself.
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:27 PM
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I'm sorry I hurt your delicate petals by calling your comment stupid which it is. Very stupid. So yeah... maybe it is a sign you yourself aren't the sharpest tool. You said IQ is the top shit for you in men so maybe that's some very cute overcompensation on your part.
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:24 PM
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Thank you.
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:24 PM
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You don't want to pursue girls. You just want to get your dick wet(sort of. It's a hooker after all. She's not there because she wants your dick). And then you think that everything will magically fall into place? I dunno if that pisses me off or makes me pity your ass. Again, easy for you to say all of this at this point in your life. You clearly missed my point entirely. Wooshed pretty damn hard. The point is that I had a girlfriend. And that changed nothing about how I looked at other women o…
/r/seduction16/08/18 04:57 PM
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Goddamn are you on your period?
/r/seduction16/08/18 04:49 PM
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What does it say about you as a person when you see a harmless comment as attacking your character? For such a "badass independent woman" your skin is thin as hell. And I'm not defensive, your statement is just stupid. I didn't attack your character, where'd you even get that? You said something stupid and I told you I consider it so. Drawing parallels between airplanes and potatoes is stupid no matter how you look at it.
/r/seduction16/08/18 04:47 PM
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Get shitfaced before walking into the door.
/r/seduction16/08/18 03:49 PM
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I think you're projecting your mindset and approach to dating onto other women. A mindset and approach the majority simply doesn't have. You're like a female Sun Tzu of game or some shit. If someone can’t take the time to be bothered to write a bio then how good do you think they are in bed. That's such a stupid thing to say. I can't for the life of me take this seriously. It gave me a genuine laugh so there's that.
/r/seduction16/08/18 03:35 PM
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This is not a meme. I actually did both of those. And they were great. Washing the blood of my face was fun.
/r/seduction16/08/18 03:30 PM
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I've never fucked a hooker but I don't think that's a good idea. Personally the image of a woman pretending she's into me and then getting up once the alarm rings as if it's all business which it is. That sounds like shit. So you'll fuck a hooker and then what? You'll bust a nut. Trust me you won't get any closer to actual girls. I was in a relationship for 2 years with a total babe. I fucked her brains out but... I don't feel any closer to getting laid again nowadays. Granted that was 2 years a…
/r/seduction16/08/18 03:28 PM
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Dick is the best cure to period cramps. No reason you can't get some HP.
/r/seduction16/08/18 03:16 PM
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Dude... I'm not the guy you should be asking. Maybe you're not approaching enough. Maybe you don't escalate and don't take enough risks. Maybe you're simply dull and uninteresting most of the time. Who knows? You of course will know better than any of us. And most certainly more than me. You seem to be more discontent with your life than I am but I'm the motherfucker who won't be getting laid anytime soon.
/r/seduction16/08/18 03:13 PM
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It's more of a question whether you can use the information effectively rather than whether the information is useful in and of itself. Since I don't really know exactly what they're going to tell me(for obvious reasons, that's the info they're charging for). I don't know if I can make use of it. Like Myers Brigs. Yeah sure I identify with the type I was assigned. But the information is more so of a "cool to know" than "let me apply this shit".
/r/seduction16/08/18 03:08 PM
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What do you mean by this? I kind of get where you’re coming from in that it’s doing much more harm than good right now, and I’m curious to see what you did. I'm not sure what you're referring to so I'll answer the 2 ways I can interpret the question. My Breakup Basically just like you I had a breakup, beforehand I'd ditched friends for her and stopped keeping contact with others. You can guess she didn't do the same and when we broke up, I was alone without a social life, friends or anything els…
/r/seduction16/08/18 03:05 PM
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Fair enough. If you want success you should have everything on point. Logistics being one of the biggest probably.
/r/seduction16/08/18 02:39 PM
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Wait hold. So you're not getting laid at all. I get what you mean with the break up and all. I had something similar though probably much worse than you. I’m not sure how to reverse it Get laid. You've gotten close a few times by your own admission, fine tune some things and keep trying. You'll get there, bro. Don't be down. And when you're in that kind of mindset or when you're susceptible to becoming a downer, avoid things that you know will turn you sour. I remember seddit used to rub off on …
/r/seduction16/08/18 02:25 PM
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Dudes actually google venues to bring girls to? For some reason that makes me cringe.
/r/seduction16/08/18 02:21 PM
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Personally I'd always be skeptical of any website that asks for money for this kind of information. And from what I saw the combined price of this shit would be over 100 bucks. Unless you can make some serious waves with the information given, I'd be very tentative about forking over so much dough. Myers Brigs is actually free and coincidentally enough I actually strongly relate to the type I was given(ENTP - Debater) except I'm not emotionally retarded.
/r/seduction16/08/18 02:20 PM
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What? You watch RSD because you're not getting laid as often as you'd like? And you feel depressed by watching RSD? You feel terrible because you're not getting laid as often? Well... boohoo there's plenty of dudes that aren't even remotely close to seeing a titty let alone touching one. You have no right to feel terrible about yourself.
/r/seduction16/08/18 01:47 PM
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Damn I got downvoted hard for asking a question. It's not a stupid question, I thought. But I guess it's common place for dudes to walk around the city and find random venues to bring girls to. Sorry but that's some elite level of prep work I just did not foresee.
/r/seduction16/08/18 01:45 PM
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you know a great cafe What if OP or anyone else for that matter... doesn't know a great insert place here.
/r/seduction16/08/18 11:04 AM
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Hey here's a solution. Don't watch RSD. Pretty easy.
/r/seduction16/08/18 10:42 AM
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Am I honestly witnessing this? Am I high? What was in my food? I'm getting downvoted and the faggot who's talking about the black pill is on the other side? r/seduction you dissapoint me
/r/seduction15/08/18 06:28 PM
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I'm an open minded individual... to an extent. The Kardashians is where I will draw the line.
/r/seduction15/08/18 04:03 PM
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Shut the fuck up, you can shove that black pill straight up your ass.
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:52 PM
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Fuck You
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:23 PM
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The easiest ways are changing your day to day life. Here are some examples: If you masturbate and watch porn. Cut them out entirely, forever. Especially if you're an addict, you will struggle but overcoming your addiction obviously builds fortitude. Trust me, it will open up a new world of emotions and perspective on life. Meditation can be a great asset to unload all the drama and stress in your own head. It also makes you more used to facing those bad things that dwell within everyone. I'd rec…
/r/seduction15/08/18 12:56 PM
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Of course it's essential. It's just not the be all end all. Julien is straight up a good looking dude. Any straight guy can look at him and say "yep girls will find him attractive". Tyler is different, he's not bad looking by any means IMO. But he's not attractive in the same way Julien is. Tyler is attractive because dude's stylish and magnetic. More so than Julien but Julien's got his devilish looks so it evens out. Rejection will always be a thing because like you said women have some interes…
/r/seduction15/08/18 12:34 PM
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Pretty refreshing to see you post something positive. But I think there's still some limitations in your post. if you're an average looking guy and a drastic underachiever for whatever reason Why not fix that? Drastic underachievers tend to be very depressing and unpleasant company. A drastic underachiever is one because they don't really strive for anything or they do but they go about it like a retard. High value people are much more interesting than losers. They'll make better partners, frien…
/r/seduction15/08/18 10:40 AM
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Don't worry. Odds are, no one is going to bolt a neon sign to your forehead.
/r/seduction15/08/18 10:30 AM
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That's not something to be ashamed about. This shit is hilarious and you should be the one laughing the hardest.
/r/seduction15/08/18 10:24 AM
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It's like OP beat her puppy to death.
/r/seduction14/08/18 08:20 PM
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Absolutely do not message her on fb. Why? She knows you exist and she has seen you irl. You trying to approach her through social media gives off the vibe that you're too much of a pussy to do it face to face. And you say you might not see her but you're in the same uni. I dunno how long either of you has left but I'm guessing at least a year. Why would you risk bombing(and you probably will) through social media and then be faced with her walking past you irl in uni? If you're going to message …
/r/seduction14/08/18 08:17 PM
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Dude think about it. You have one friend and it's the girl you want to fuck and date. In what world is that an okay list of friends? Tell me, are you 100% happy with your life aside from your sex and dating life? The way you're speaking it sounds like you're desperate and needy. You say you have to convince a woman to see something in you. That tells me you're not nearly as fuckable as you believe yourself to be. Because it doesn't matter how good it is past your insecurities. If your insecuriti…
/r/seduction14/08/18 04:29 PM
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I see.
/r/seduction14/08/18 01:21 PM
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I am not about to take a r/transexualwiener seriously.
/r/seduction14/08/18 01:02 PM
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He gets laid off it a lot. He's very active. Always posting stories and making short clips that show off his no fucks given personality. Since July to now he probably banged 6 or more different girls. Dude also has a massive social life. Whenever we hang out to roll a spliff or two, he's always getting calls from people. His social proof is through the roof honestly. But it's a double sided sword. Dude has no time for himself. Is there more to it than posting fancy pics and liking every girl you…
/r/seduction14/08/18 11:10 AM
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Sounds like you should forget about women and focus on fixing your self esteem. Women won't fix it and they won't even get close to you in that state. Put yourself above everyone and most certainly above getting your dick wet. Regardless of what people say on here, I will always defend the stance of "Fix yourself before you bother with this shit." Take a long hard look at yourself and ask yourself honestly. If I were a girl I'm attracted to, would I fuck me?" Now answer that question honestly. I…
/r/seduction14/08/18 11:04 AM
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I've said it before and I'll say it again my neighbor uses social media more effectively than I've seen anyone do it. He does have a massive amount of social proof however. You might want to look into that as it's probably the biggest component of social media game.
/r/seduction14/08/18 10:41 AM
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Man those people really ruin everything don't they. I can't go BOIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII with as much carefree glee as before. ._.
/r/seduction14/08/18 10:39 AM
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I gotchu but think about this. An emotional connection and chemistry creates some pretty damn br00tal sex. So while it may be unpleasant to be vulnerable, you may be missing out. But that's how I look at it. In the pov of a guy who's on a 2+ year dry spell, sex is raw and it's not just about sticking it in and busting a nut. I mean these 2+ years have resulted in a lot of changes to how I look at things. So you may want to take a step back.
/r/seduction14/08/18 01:06 AM
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I swear people ask so many mundane questions I'm just wondering if someone's gonna start a Discord server so that we can all pitch in live and help you fuck her.
/r/seduction14/08/18 12:35 AM
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Thing is that girls got "easier" and societal norms got looser but we men got weaker. So it's probably no harder or easier to get laid for the average dude. World works in balance and I think you're seriously overselling how easy it is to get laid nowadays. The ridiculous consumption of internet porn would be one of the things going against your claim that everyone's getting laid and it's so easy. It's not easier nor easy. It's not harder either. It's simply a different society with different me…
/r/seduction14/08/18 12:16 AM
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Hmmmmm I can't say I agree because looks have always been a thing. Those powdered wigs? That's a fashion trend from the past. Looks have always been and always will be a useful way to categorize people and put them into boxes. Not out of malice or ignorance but the sheer lack of brainpower to actually look at everyone and consider them a complex, full human being. We can't do it and appearance will always be the first piece of info we have so that's how we default. If we look at dating sites and…
/r/seduction14/08/18 12:11 AM
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Cheers my famski. This was a pretty nice chance for me to spit some mad truth xD
/r/seduction13/08/18 11:54 PM
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Of course, brah. Just exaggerating for the top kek.
/r/seduction13/08/18 11:54 PM
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Yeah. Do you really want to have a conversation with a person that goes "lol k" after not reading your 500 word essay? OR maybe you want to "lol k" each other like throwing a ball at a wall. Sounds fucking boring to me, if I'm perfectly honest. If a person can't be bothered to pay attention to the convo or lead it themselves for a more pleasant one. Why tf should you?
/r/seduction13/08/18 11:33 PM
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Smooooooooth as hell OP. 👏👏👏
/r/seduction13/08/18 11:30 PM
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Excuse me but where exactly did you see me blaming someone for my failures? I stated an objective fact. Also I've never blamed anyone but myself for my dry spell either so shut the fuck up. Stop blaming PC culture and ""modern feminism How about no? It's here and it's affecting society, idiot. It's a much larger topic than just me and my failures or whatever.
/r/seduction13/08/18 11:28 PM
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Also you cannot say that the industry is "well intentioned" as it knows what is happening and is still pushing for things like vr. Good intentions generally start at the beginning. Not the end. I can't really create a whole lot of good intentions for porn since that shit started in a pretty fucked up environment and is still fucking people up to this day. Both inside and out. I agree with the whole capitalism thing but I consider myself and everyone in the world (basically) a capitalist. In the …
/r/seduction13/08/18 09:22 PM
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She's fucking 16 and sounds like she wants a piece of you. but she is one of my exes really good friend Who gives a shit. Slide it in.
/r/seduction13/08/18 08:31 PM
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So easy mode is like playing tetris on level 1 forever. Hard mode is playing Dark Souls, blindfolded, with one hand behind your back.
/r/seduction13/08/18 08:28 PM
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Can Reddit fucking ban this dickhead's Mac Address already
/r/seduction13/08/18 08:00 PM
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There are several stances you could take. You could say it was well intentioned creations that got out of hand. It's like PC culture. It has a kernel of good intentions but it turned into a shitstorm of unbearable twats. You could say they didn't care and just wanted to make some bucks. You could also get a bit conspiratorial and say that porn is one of the many tools used to destroy the west. But I personally think it's all about money. No one gives a shit what happens to our societies as long …
/r/seduction13/08/18 07:47 PM
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I love when people downvote me but don't have jack shit to say. Hurt feelings are a bitch.
/r/seduction13/08/18 06:59 PM
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So you're suggesting it's even worse than that? Man OP is gonna be throwing a hot dog down a hallway.
/r/seduction13/08/18 06:40 PM
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We should copy paste this over the original post. Pretty entertaining read.
/r/seduction13/08/18 06:38 PM
2

They do? Was not aware. But they probably like him for the same reason I do, as a man. He's entertaining, he's quirky he gives absolutely zero fucks and generally does whatever he feels like doing.
/r/seduction13/08/18 06:31 PM
3

Didn't you already say this yesterday?
/r/seduction13/08/18 06:29 PM
3

I'm really conflicted rn... your name represents something I love dearly but... your post is retarded.
/r/seduction13/08/18 05:15 PM
3

I could spend hours talking about this. Gaming, porn, tv shows, social media, movies. We're overloaded with information and stimulus. Why bother with women when you can just rub one out? And this'll get much worse because VR porn is coming, slowly but surely. The tech is developing. The porn industry is salivating at the thought of cucking the entire male population under the guise of "healthy exploration of sexuality". I want to see some girls but I don't want porn? Sheesh just open up instagra…
/r/seduction13/08/18 05:14 PM
3

Top kek. Some retard on a cuck recruitment mission.
/r/seduction13/08/18 11:55 AM
5

Honestly all that I can muster as a response is fucking duh.
/r/seduction13/08/18 09:42 AM
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I think it's because we're on a new gen of men. And the new gen kinda sucks compared to everyone who came before. A byproduct of our coddled existence. The surge of the PC culture and modern feminism doesn't help men nor the PUA movement either.
/r/seduction13/08/18 09:20 AM
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Who the fuck downvoted me?
/r/seduction13/08/18 01:31 AM
2

Hey man I'm in the same boat. Tinder's useless as shit for a dude like me. And my 2+ year dry spell is still going strong.
/r/seduction13/08/18 12:18 AM
1

She means that she believes you to be a swell gentleman.
/r/seduction13/08/18 12:12 AM
2

What the... fuck? Man people are fucking weird nowadays. The image I have in my head is so bizarre and creepy.
/r/seduction13/08/18 12:10 AM
3

tried applying bad tasting nail polish Really? That didn't work? My ex got some of that shit in her mouth for the same reason and I legit did not want to kiss her at all. But seriously this is some high level compulsive behavior. Do it like Achilles said. Carry a pair of nail clippers at all times. But fuck what he said about doing it when no one's around. Do you prefer to have bandaged up hands because of your fucked up habit or have the casual judgmental glance from some idiot?
/r/seduction12/08/18 11:53 PM
2

Yes.
/r/seduction12/08/18 11:49 PM
2

Probably nerves porn.
/r/seduction12/08/18 11:48 PM
2

Whoa I don't want to start anything but you may be jumping the gun a bit.
/r/seduction12/08/18 11:47 PM
-1

Yeah but old people don't need game. They're old and about to die, who gives a shit about games? That's for us youngsters. We have time to fuck around, waste our time, play games, beat the shit out of ourselves and actively hold ourselves back. Not only do they not have time for that shit. They already went through it. I'm amazed I actually decided to reply seriously.
/r/seduction12/08/18 11:33 PM
5

The smell, taste, and viscosity of vaginal fluid changes throughout a woman's menstrual cycle. So does the position of the cervix. This is a great tid bit of information but I have no clue how it relates to the rest of your post.
/r/seduction12/08/18 11:28 PM
4

hmmm pretty good video. I can certainly relate to it in more ways than one. Anyway you better make it happen next time. Stay on your toes, fam.
/r/seduction12/08/18 07:53 PM
22

The thing is that most dudes let it stop them before they get even remotely close to where you were. You got your dick out and a girl had her hand on it. At that point it should've been instinct.
/r/seduction12/08/18 07:18 PM
1

Incredible. How many accounts can you make?
/r/seduction12/08/18 06:58 PM
38

I'm actually amazed how a girl had her hand on your dick and you had the wherewithal to pussy out. Pretty intense I must say.
/r/seduction12/08/18 06:40 PM
1

Did someone get offended by the word faggots? Seriously? Grow a pair whoever the fuck it was.
/r/seduction12/08/18 04:53 PM
5

Eh this is a good and well intentioned post but it lacks some nuance. I feel like you failed at the premise, in other words the title. Tinder is in fact meant to be a crutch for when you're dry IRL. You shouldn't make Tinder front back and center but the average guy can make use of it once in a while. If you can get laid on Tinder then I think there's no real reason not to use it. Relying on it is a bad idea but using it to complement your already prosperous dating life is fine. Just like social…
/r/seduction12/08/18 04:35 PM
10

Hey this is a pretty good story. She nuts twice and you get to keep your seed. All win and no loss. Funny though, we're both 21. You lost your virginity and mine is slowly creeping back. Hell it already did since I don't remember what pussy feels like. Regardless, good job famski. 👍
/r/seduction12/08/18 04:20 PM
5

My first time was so bad I had to get surgery on my dick. Top me faggots.
/r/seduction12/08/18 04:18 PM
3

You're not gonna die and your dick won't fall off. Don't get your panties in a bunch. Happens to fucking everyone. I failed to approach a girl back in junior high before I could even fathom the concept of pickup. Oh and get used to it because it's not the last time. Trust me.
/r/seduction12/08/18 04:15 PM
16

So grandmas aren't off limits? Now they are. For your own good.
/r/seduction12/08/18 04:11 PM
2

By all means but it's pretty amusing how so many dudes get defensive when chicks get on here and start spitting game.
/r/seduction12/08/18 03:50 PM
1

Maybe I’ll write about overcoming anxiety in order to pick up women next. You really like getting shit on, fam.
/r/seduction12/08/18 10:15 AM
1

I suppose you have a point. People do in fact do it everyday. As does everyone on this sub, the ones that aren't here to kill time that is. But it doesn't really affect me so what do I care.
/r/seduction12/08/18 12:30 AM
0

I have nothing to say on the matter except point out your username.
/r/seduction12/08/18 12:23 AM
13

Didn't you get the memo? Hot dudes only.
/r/seduction12/08/18 12:19 AM
1

Look at this sly motherfucker trying to play it cool.
/r/seduction12/08/18 12:14 AM
1

Oh you're getting blocked son.
/r/seduction12/08/18 12:11 AM
2

I also like a deep infatuation and when I use Game it lasts much longer than it would otherwise. In my moral compass if you deliberately use skill to make someone infatuated with you that's pretty damn fucked up. It’s not like I am lying or doing anything unethical. If what you said is exactly how it came off, yes you are. I think you believe it is sadistic because it is hard as a man to not feel in absolute control all the time and to think someone may be using Game on you is hard to process. N…
/r/seduction12/08/18 12:10 AM
1

Shut the fuck up already.
/r/seduction11/08/18 11:41 PM
2

I don't have any comments aside from one thing. I also like a deep infatuation and when I use Game it lasts much longer than it would otherwise. That's pretty fucking sadistic I must say.
/r/seduction11/08/18 11:39 PM
1

I agree, I was just pointing it out.
/r/seduction11/08/18 10:39 PM
10

99.99% of the time when people say "by myself". They actually do mean it.
/r/seduction11/08/18 09:41 PM
2

I am fine on my own. You getting laid at least or what?
/r/seduction11/08/18 09:38 PM
3

I usually tell them if they want to go out with me they have to listen to X song, watch X show, read X book. How bloody desperate does a guy have to be to actually do those things? And isn't him doing that an utter turn off? And please explain to me why in the hell would women ever need even 1% of the game men need to get laid? Sounds like it's purely for self amusement at that point.
/r/seduction11/08/18 09:35 PM
1

I know you'd like that hit of validation for people to tell you "Damn son you pullin in the babes". I'd love it too. But I can't give it to you honestly based off of this. Don't think too much of it. I think the best thing I can tell you is that you're actually a fairly good lookin' dude. Especially in the first picture. But I'm a straight dude so my word ain't worth much. It's like getting told you're attractive by your mom. Just don't sweat it in the future.
/r/seduction11/08/18 09:30 PM
1

I seriously doubt this. I think this is indeed happening in your head. Maybe some kind of obsession or the way you behave around these girls turns them off because as you said you are into them more which in turn can make you into a worthless man with no self worth(hyperbole). I can relate with your tastes. And despite not being successful with any kind of woman at all. I can give you an example that may spark something in your head. These women tend to affect me more since I find them really at…
/r/seduction11/08/18 09:24 PM
3

Uhhh sounds like this ship has sailed and is going to port at the island of cock sometime soon.
/r/seduction11/08/18 09:16 PM
1

I'm firmly in the male camp. As for your question. ugh... First off it's too vague to say. Whether she was laughing at you, something unrelated or wanted a piece of you. Impossible to tell by what you have given us. Second off why do you care so much whether a random stranger liked you? A stranger you'll not be seeing again?
/r/seduction11/08/18 09:13 PM
1

Heh it's entirely up to you how you interpret it. Most of what you see is a reflection of your own self perception so take a look at that first since that's far more important than some random stranger with a vagina laughing in your presence. Some dudes will see IOIs everywhere. Other dudes won't see them anywhere. You're overthinking a situation with a girl you probably won't see again.
/r/seduction11/08/18 09:05 PM
4

How about you stop making these retarded self deprecating posts? I get that it feels good to beat the shit out of yourself but it's not very healthy or productive. Find some composure for the love of fuck. I see you guys do really well with women and yet im here whining like a little bitch i am Also this is pretty deceptive. Don't fall into the mindset of "Everyone is getting laid but me". Sure you're missing out. But you're far from the only one. Even on this sub. You have a lot of company. Lot…
/r/seduction11/08/18 08:15 PM
1

Girls do this type of shit all the time. Can never really be sure what it's all about since we laugh when we like someone and when we're making fun of them. They could've been making fun of you(don't see why, you look fine to me). Or they could've been discussing you as a fleeting topic of interest. I don't really see why it matters though.
/r/seduction11/08/18 08:09 PM
5

Sounds pretty damn normal under the right circumstances. You're not going to open with that shit.
/r/seduction11/08/18 08:01 PM
1

"Our main purpose as animals is to reproduce. Women pick the cream of the crop of males. Cream of the crop males have big dicks. That's not me. So what's the point in dating, when sex is one of the biggest factors in a healthy relationship?" But you have gotten laid and have had relationships. Not to mention the fact that if what you say were an evolutionary fact, you wouldn't even have a small dick. And so this mentality cycles over and over again, to the point today, about 10 years later after…
/r/seduction11/08/18 08:00 PM
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I don't think a dude that can't get laid should start playing with fire like you're suggesting. Though at the same time it can make a switch go off in your brain. When you don't play it safe, you effectively detach yourself from outcome.
/r/seduction11/08/18 07:45 PM
1

Listen man, don't fucking sweat it, alright? Everyone makes mistakes and misses opportunities. From the absolute best pimps to the most undesirable fuck ups on the planet. The only difference is that the best shrug and bang another girl. The fuck ups shrug and do nothing.
/r/seduction11/08/18 04:42 PM
1

You're 18? Damn well time to give up man. You're too old and soon you'll be out the door. No way you can get laid in the little time you have left. Truly might as well throw in the towel. 18? Forget about it. If you haven't had sex by 12 years of age you are forever doomed to be a virgin.
/r/seduction11/08/18 04:14 PM
1

Do whatever exaggerated theatrics you want with your face and/or hands. "Whatta piece of ass" with as much sarcastic interest as you can possibly muster within your breast.
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:54 PM
3

Is this going to be what you post on here? "Looks are everything. If you're ugly or even slightly weird you might as well give up." Are you going through your incel initiation?
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:51 PM
8

Man that imgur post is on a new level of painful grammar. As for your problem. What the hell do you even want people to say? Your post is all about how much it sucked that you pussied out with no details whatsoever. You want a pat on the back? Well fuck you I ain't giving you one. Move on, forget about her and don't fuck it up next time. Everyone can and will pussy out at some point or another. Deal with it.
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:50 PM
1

I love the fact that your 2 posts about the same thing are on the same page.
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:46 PM
1

Even on a 2 year dry spell you'd have to pay me to bang a 5 or lower.
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:45 PM
3

realise that women are not the only source of affection and validation and prioritising them over family and or friends is needy and stupid. I never once said anything about prioritizing women over friends or family. The female sex can give a man things no one else can and vice versa. I do agree that you should fix yourself before bothering with this shit. You need a solid baseline of friends, fulfillment and direction in life to even think about women. A dude that doesn't have his shit together…
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:32 PM
1

This guy fucks, OP. 100%
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:27 AM
1

Hey you clearly wouldn't fuck yourself so why would girls do it. Good thing? Hell a great thing even. You're fucking 17. You've got plenty of time to fix your shit. At 17 I'd imagine most dudes weren't much better off than you. You could potentially get a very substantial edge over your peers if you start getting your shit together at such a young age.
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:26 AM
1

Want some advice? Leave this sub. Don't post here. Don't even open this sub. Especially if you still have some kind of semblance of hope and belief that you can indeed do it. I gave up some time ago and I just chill here when I want to laugh or kill some time but I sure as hell remember how I felt being on this sub after all my failed attempts at attempting. I'm just posting new things I'm realizing just now. Not to be a dick but this post is ridiculously useless even for people that would be op…
/r/seduction11/08/18 01:43 AM
4

Okay so? What do you want? To tell you that you can do it? Sorry man but the truth is that no matter how much your ass gets kicked by strangers on the internet or even by people you know. None of it will bend you into shape. You don't believe in yourself so why should we? We don't know you and we can't possibly tell you, honestly, that you can do it. Maybe you can't. It's really up to you. It's something of a decision I would say. Whether you can or cannot is up to you. You'll never git gud by n…
/r/seduction11/08/18 12:13 AM
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Everything falls on YOUR lap so everyone else can lean back and relax. Once you’ve reached somewhere you’re happy to be, approach women you’re interested in and be honest with them about your intentions. Also this advice doesn't make sense. Part of the reason guys aren't happy is that they lack a very basic human need. That need is the topic of this entire sub. And very very few are driven enough to completely cast it aside. Naturals are like women. Useless at giving advice.
/r/seduction11/08/18 12:05 AM
2

Field report.
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:51 PM
1

Except the unconscious* mind is in the background. It's not a thing she will realize until you "unlock" it. If we're to go by the assumption that it's an unconscious thing.
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:41 PM
1

I deal with social media by not finding it entertaining. I've gone through the phase where I did that shit, that's why you creep me out. Since social media never bore fruit for me because you need to have a very active life you show off on the regular. In other words, social media game. My neighbor is like that. Last month alone he probably fucked 6 or more different girls. Look at it this way. Why are you going to bother looking at half naked thots on instagram if you know you're probably not g…
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:39 PM
1

Try quitting porn. Could be a factor.
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:35 PM
3

From the sounds of it you have a very active life AND you are physically attractive. You're lacking in social skills. There is that 0.001% of men that don't have to do anything but they're not worth mentioning. As for ugly dudes. Depends on what constitutes as ugly or physically unattractive. It can range from bad facial features, bad posture, bad hygiene(The kind that shows on your hair) or you could just look fucking weird and out of place. Not even ugly. Some things are in your control, some …
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:33 PM
2

I think a lot of them will probably just think you're a pussy rather than getting dejected.
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:28 PM
3

Do they though? I don't think sex is on everyone's mind at all time. I don't buy that a girl will see a guy before he sees her and thinks within 2 seconds "I'd have sex with him".
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:20 PM
1

While this sounds great as a title. It's a weird stance to have. It's like saying "I don't have what it takes". You are putting yourself in a box where you have little responsibility and control over what happens. And while it may make it so rejections don't hurt as much, it may also make it so you're blind sided by your shortcomings. Ones you could fix.
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:10 PM
5

You creep me out and I'm a dude. Never do this, k? The whole thing. Never do it. It never works and it ALWAYS makes you look bad.
/r/seduction01/08/18 10:51 PM
3

getting ugly girls is better than nothing. Are you sure about that one? Fam? I'd say that getting nothing is better.
/r/seduction01/08/18 10:46 PM
2

Is this a hypothetical? The ugliest guy? With perfect game? He won't be picking up hot girls no. It'll be a 1 in a 1k sort of thing if it ever happens.
/r/seduction01/08/18 10:45 PM
1

As it happens for some reason racism gets people horny. If the success of Blacked and all of its derivatives is any indication. Y'all are a bunch of messed up motherfuckers in the west.
/r/seduction01/08/18 10:39 PM
2

Sounds like she's into the whole cuck thing. You didn't avoid a bullet. You avoided a blast from a railgun on that one, bud.
/r/seduction01/08/18 10:33 PM
4

Your brain probably can't handle having the information of what you said.
/r/seduction01/08/18 10:27 PM
41

This sub is a fucking barrel of laughs man. I fucking swear.
/r/seduction01/08/18 10:24 PM
1

Or it just gets you good at..... fucking? Hey that's reason enough. Know how many dudes aren't good in bed? I think the best way to put it is that you're cultivating skills and a persona that is both rare and attractive to women. As for college, people are different outside of it. Now I personally have never been to uni since I went to work but I knew some people who were in uni and let's be honest, they aren't living in the real world. It's still school. They're not much different from high sch…
/r/seduction01/08/18 11:54 AM
3

Balls deep brah Balls deep
/r/seduction21/07/18 01:07 AM
3

Oh yeah you're the buffdude. Ok yeah there may be something there. It's just that it's pretty fuckin' bizarre. Why wouldn't she ask you? It's such a bland and innocent thing. Maybe she has a complex of some sort? Towards younger or older? I dunno.
/r/seduction21/07/18 12:46 AM
1

What the fuck? Did she go "Oh my is he legal?" I mean... what? what the actual fuck?
/r/seduction21/07/18 12:30 AM
1

This entire reply page is beautiful. You're all top kek worthy.
/r/seduction21/07/18 12:28 AM
3

Personally this reads to me like she wants some room from you. Don't be clingy brah. And not that I'm one to talk but keep some girls around while this one is away. Unless you want to look like a very loyal puppy ready to lick her feet.
/r/seduction21/07/18 12:21 AM
1

Top kek
/r/seduction20/07/18 09:32 PM
2

Huh, maybe it looks that way from the outside. But in here shit's written in stone.
/r/seduction20/07/18 08:29 PM
1

I mean I wish I had some kind of semblance of optimism. I'm afraid of changing things. I've spent the last 2 years in the shit, almost feels like home honestly. No sex, no friends, no social life. Worst part is that you, figuratively speaking, stop existing.
/r/seduction20/07/18 08:26 PM
2

Y'know I'm just wonder why the fuck am I even arguing with you? I haven't had so much as a potentially conductive conversation with a woman in 2 years let alone sex. I have no friends or social life of even the smallest kind. I quit months ago and haven't budged since. I just come to this sub for shits and giggles. Well cheers you won the argument cause I don't really have a rebuttal.
/r/seduction20/07/18 08:09 PM
1

Yeah of course I want to. But it doesn't matter. I have so many things I want to do and I don't do them. Some because I can't. Others because... pick an excuse.
/r/seduction20/07/18 07:58 PM
1

I appreciate the fact you're trying to give me homework. But you're wasting your breath. I'd love to tell you I'll get out of my house but I know myself, I'm not gonna do it and even if I did I'll instantly regret it and pack my ass back home.
/r/seduction20/07/18 07:38 PM
2

We're using your stats here, brah. Do you really think a guy can muscle through 100, 200 rejections in a ROW? We're talking about realism here. Yeah if you grit your teeth hard enough, you'll suffer through to the other side into the land of pussy. The odds of the "average" guy, as you said, having the mental fortitude of getting through that shit are pretty slim Once you get one girl you have a good chance at steady sex until the next one. Where the hell'd you get this "good chance"? Is it like…
/r/seduction20/07/18 07:35 PM
2

It's as simple as talking to girls and escalating. But neither of those things are simple. That's what I'm getting at. It doesn't take anything to sleep with 1 in 200 girls. You see you throw this ratio at me but I don't believe you realize how it'd look in reality. Just by numbers, it looks bad to me. 200 girls is a lot of energy expended and you only get with one? And you have no clue whether it's right at the beginning. Straight down the middle or dead at the end. Regardless you will look bac…
/r/seduction20/07/18 04:29 PM
1

Sounds like a qt to me.
/r/seduction20/07/18 04:02 PM
1

For a guy with 0 experience with night game of any type. Since I've never been to a club/bar/festival/concert/whatever. Shit'd be awkward as fuck. Figuring out whether you pay to go into a bar or not. Going shoulder to shoulder with people you've never seen in your life. But the worst part is knowing that everyone there is most definitely not alone. You need to have some serious nerves of steel in order to go out solo and have fun.
/r/seduction20/07/18 04:01 PM
6

Come on if it really were that simple this sub wouldn't exist. If we were all able to just go out and have a relatively successful sex life, this sub would be useless. Sure there'd be some communities about the masterworkings of the whole thing but as a whole? We'd be pretty set and we'd be able to focus on our life. It'd be a great world but it's a world that doesn't exist. The average man can't do what you describe. You really have to embrace the grind of the whole process if you want to play …
/r/seduction20/07/18 03:56 PM
1

Those more optimistic and/or successful will probably get a positive and lighthearted vibe from your post. Different people see different things in the same words.
/r/seduction20/07/18 01:18 PM
1

The last nerdy convention I went to had just as much hooking up in the hotels they were held in. Fuckin duh fam. If even furries are getting laid, you can bet your ass regular nerds can as well. Well... not the classical nerds. But you get my point. Im sure sex happens in hostels when people travel as well. Oh I'd imagine it does. Before I quit my job I had a coworker who flew in from Brazil and stayed at a hostel for some time. According to him there were tons of chicks in their 20s from all ov…
/r/seduction20/07/18 01:16 PM
2

That's how it reads to me. It's more of a "I've failed for so long trying to make a difference and I have so little going for me. This guy has a career, friends, a social life, a metric fuckton of experience with girls and people in general. He has a busy life. Hobbies and passions he fights for. He fails and he has so much more going for him than I do. He has all these things and his mind still get blocked. Why would I even hope that I'll be able to break through it."
/r/seduction20/07/18 12:59 PM
1

You people make my blood boil sometimes.
/r/seduction20/07/18 12:39 PM
6

This reads less like "Hey man we're all human. It's okay to mess up. If pimp master Hector messes up then it's alright to err. We all have a road to follow and it's full of both failures and successes" And more like "I don't even have a 10000th of the experience and confidence this motherfucker has. So how in the hell could I hope to possibly even try."
/r/seduction20/07/18 12:37 PM
2

It's not even a matter of she'll find out and she'll be turned off. It's the fact that if you don't have those things, you will most certainly not be an attractive man and you won't be able to act as such either.
/r/seduction20/07/18 12:24 PM
2

dont blame situations for your lack of sex I think you seriously underestimate what situations do for you. And how your current place in life affects your social and sex life. By all means "If only I were in college I'd be getting laid" is a stupid excuse. If you're a loser, all women are going to see that and none of them will fuck you. Same with dudes really, in case of making bros. If you're a loser, then they won't want to go out with you and they will be in no rush for your company. But reg…
/r/seduction20/07/18 12:22 PM
1

Without great friends, hobbies, passions, and people that otherwise depend on you, you will never be happy no matter how many women you seduce. Correction Without great friends, hobbies, passions, and people that otherwise depend on you, you will never be happy and you won't seduce any women.
/r/seduction20/07/18 11:33 AM
9

You can expect her to be as reliable as the answers she gives you. Sounds like a massive headache. Pussy's not worth it imo.
/r/seduction20/07/18 11:21 AM
1

I actually have yes. No one touched my biceps cause I'm not really jacked but I did get a fair amount of attention from the chicks at my job. Being the only guy in his 20s amidst a bunch of chicks in their 20s probably would do that. I want to know WHY they do it, and why is it always the biceps It could be just playful touching. If you're the best looking guy at work then it may be their way of releasing some sexual energy during working hours. The bicep is the arm and the arm is one of the mos…
/r/seduction19/07/18 03:00 PM
1

This is such an inane question you already know the answer to. So I can only conclude this is your very not so subtle attempt at bragging. Come on let's be real, fam. You know these chicks like you and since you're so disinterested, it only gives them more incentive to try to get your attention. Stop bragging. Keep it to yourself. You know the answer to your silly question.
/r/seduction19/07/18 10:44 AM
1

Not to be a dick but what did you think I meant when I said What's your stance on men who refuse to pursue women and masturbate instead Do you seriously think these dudes can get laid?
/r/seduction19/07/18 10:31 AM
1

Pretty sure that thing was already dismissed as false.
/r/seduction19/07/18 10:30 AM
1

I do talk to people, just not a lot since I have no friends or social life.
/r/seduction19/07/18 10:29 AM
1

I don't even talk to people in general let alone new people. Sounds like you have it pretty sweet.
/r/seduction18/07/18 11:35 PM
2

Go BALLS... deep? So yeah he's probably just shy as shit. Gotta clobber him over the head.
/r/seduction18/07/18 10:24 PM
3

It's amazing there are people that choose to stay unfulfilled and frustrated. Because don't forget. Most men have no clue about self help or pickup or any of this shit. But there are plenty that do know and still choose the same path.
/r/seduction18/07/18 09:51 PM
2

I like your stance. It's pretty no nonsense. Top kek. But I'm curious. Why do you think men do this? Obviously not counting Incels and MGTOWs since we've all heard it before.
/r/seduction18/07/18 09:19 PM
1

I will say that there's something special about paper. Exact reason I will never read a book off a screen.
/r/seduction18/07/18 09:17 PM
5

Try a reverse 9 to 5. Night shift. Seeing 3 people at most per shift. 1 day off a week. Shit pay. No vacation days. Now that was pretty depressing.
/r/seduction18/07/18 07:35 PM
1

That's awfully specific but by all means.
/r/seduction18/07/18 07:31 PM
3

This is sure to increase your chances tenfold
/r/seduction18/07/18 03:53 PM
2

Hmmm this is actually a pretty solid read, I must say. Gotta open up a google docs and do some mental tinkering.
/r/seduction18/07/18 02:57 PM
3

Dude if you've ever paid any attention to these chick's profiles you have this terrifying and mind numbing wave of thirsty, desperate losers vying for her attention.
/r/seduction17/07/18 11:00 PM
0

Hey man I'm just saying. Most of the people I've ever been friends with and hung out with were black guys. It may be different. Because most of this sub's population is from the US. Black people there and here in Portugal are pretty damn different since here they are actually born in Africa and in the culture itself. Which brings another point. It's not the women even. It's the dudes themselves. They behave differently from other guys. Those I knew and know are always confident, always outgoing …
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:55 PM
-1

All black guys I've ever known were on the advantage side. I haven't met a single black guy who wasn't good at getting laid.
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:30 PM
3

Sure by all means.
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:27 PM
1

Amazing what people are like here. And they call us Russians cold.
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:08 PM
1

That's not the point though. The point is that it's a social consensus not to talk to strangers.
/r/seduction17/07/18 09:51 PM
1

We're talking about men and women. And absolutely not. It's usually a break of eye contact. If it were that simple. This sub wouldn't exist since we'd all be naturally wired to interact freely with one another.
/r/seduction17/07/18 09:31 PM
6

Dude you keep throwing these stats at me but are you going to tell me that if you walk up to a cute girl on the street and say hi she's going to pepper spray you or something? Or no. Even more insidious. She'll get your name, contact info and then she'll scream rape on you. While that COULD happen. I find the likelihood of that happening very very low.
/r/seduction17/07/18 09:12 PM
2

I find it very hard to believe it happens more often than not. I mean I have seen your campuses. Those are quite the treat to enjoy overseas. But I still don't buy it.
/r/seduction17/07/18 08:50 PM
2

Without context? Fucking nowhere dude. People don't just smile and greet each other in the middle of the street if they don't know each other. I'd think that'd be common knowledge but apparently I'm completely wrong.
/r/seduction17/07/18 08:47 PM
2

I'm sorry, I may be 100% wrong. I doubt it. But I could be. I honestly don't believe that it's that bad, fam. I think you may need to get out into the real world more. I swear I just don't believe that a compliment like "You're looking nice today" or whatever other kind of benign shit like that would be grounds for you to lose your job.
/r/seduction17/07/18 08:45 PM
28

I must say that I love Reddit's personal brigade of Armchair Psychologists.
/r/seduction17/07/18 08:42 PM
1

I 100% believe American men are using the pathetic state of their society as an excuse.
/r/seduction17/07/18 08:24 PM
7

Mind you I'm a grade A stoner that hasn't even remotely come close to banging anything for the past 2 years. But I feel like I can answer most of your questions. So I'm wondering, are women truly worth purssing and training this field t become like really skilled, for what goal? Pleasure, companionship, friendships, intimacy and fresh experiences. Are you guys honestly in it for the body parts - know what I mean? Aka just to get laid? Is it more? True love? Is it real? Statistically don't most m…
/r/seduction17/07/18 08:23 PM
1

Well I guess I'm defeated because in Portugal that shit don't fly.
/r/seduction17/07/18 08:10 PM
12

(black) You're better off than any black guy in history when it comes to getting ass. I really don't get why black guys complain. Women like "exoticism". And out of all non whites blacks are hands down the most popular in that category. Just think about it like this. An asian would have to deal with women thinking he's got a small dick. You gotta deal with the exact opposite. Dating apps Dating apps can make you think you're less attractive than you are. Since the standards women have on dating …
/r/seduction17/07/18 08:10 PM
-8

An ugly fuck going on a date with an Instagram model? Yeah I don't buy it, boi. Not the date. The ugly fuck part. I'm a beautiful man and I'm on a mean dry spell.
/r/seduction17/07/18 07:05 PM
3

That's the rule on social media and dating apps. You're hot or you're not.
/r/seduction17/07/18 01:07 PM
18

Same shit as every other woman does. Hand pick a select few Chads from Tinder while the thirsty and unworthy add to her ego by following her on social media.
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:40 PM
2

I dunno about the rest of you but this gave me a laugh.
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:37 PM
1

I have no clue where you see that, bro.
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:22 PM
2

You said yourself. It's a third of women. 9 out of 28. While the guys may be correct in that there may be something wrong with what you look for and what you signal to women in general. At the end of the day the truth is that you'll never be sure of whether a girl will or not cheat on you. Just gotta have faith in her and faith in your judgment. And truth be told, there is always going to be a dude who is manlier, more confident, more charismatic, smarter and on and on than anyone out there. The…
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:21 PM
1

When have you ever had that problem? "Do I want to bang her or nah?" She doesn't have that problem either famski.
/r/seduction17/07/18 11:54 AM
2

I like to smoke tubbing/rolling tobacco. I have the occasional desire to smoke a menthol out of a pack though. And I like to make my spliffs from both types of tobacco.
/r/seduction17/07/18 11:52 AM
18

While I enjoy a healthy dose of skepticism it's polite and she was a well-raised girl This is a stupid statement. We don't live in the 20s. You could say she smiled because it was a safe distance with no compromise. He was in the bus, she was in the coffee shop. Him jumping out of the bus to say hi is pretty unlikely so it was a safe thing to do. That's fair. Girls don't just smile at dudes because it's the polite thing to do. But point is that you don't know. And unless you want to keep me comp…
/r/seduction17/07/18 11:51 AM
1

she worked hard on her appearance to impress you Mom jeans. Your argument is invalid.
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:54 AM
5

My neighbor is actually a good example. Dude has probably never committed to one piece of ass in his life. His pregnant girlfriend is in the UK. He's banged like 3 or 4 girls in a month or so since she left. It's up to you. It is morally wrong. But if you want to have your cake and eat it too, then go ahead. In your place I'd be honest. You rushed into a relationship and didn't give yourself time to man yourself harder.
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:37 AM
5

Nothing in your pants but your bulge What about my wallet, phone, cigarette case, keys, cigarette pack, rolling paper, hash and 3 or so lighters?
/r/seduction17/07/18 01:32 AM
4

Don't even, fam. This sub will disintegrate.
/r/seduction17/07/18 01:30 AM
2

OP's college is straight out of the movies.
/r/seduction16/07/18 08:02 PM
3

If you literally just went to a party you'd get it. I'm 100% positive there are tons of dudes who do go out and don't get any ass no matter how drunk it may be. But like I said, who I am to say. My dry spell is only getting stronger. Time to blaze.
/r/seduction16/07/18 03:24 PM
2

Well I recently smoked myself so hard I forgot what sex, kissing or what an ass or tit feel like. You seriously underestimate the amount of dudes that aren't getting any action. College or not. As dirt easy & cheap as that drunk ass may be to you. I assure there are tons of dudes that'd love to get some and they ain't even close, fam. As a guy that's never been to a party, club, bar, rave, festival, etc. Making out with random chicks is impressive enough to me.
/r/seduction16/07/18 03:01 PM
8

Not in the gym, brah.
/r/seduction16/07/18 12:23 PM
5

Depends on many factors. Age obviously. Your current experience. Time and money. Demographics. Obviously You. What you look like what you stand for and all that jazz. Also how much of what you are you are willing to brush to the side for pussy. So for some it's pretty realistic while others borderline impossible. More than anything your age to experience ratio is probably the most important part. Which makes the fact you didn't mention yours a bit weird. Though where you live can make you or bre…
/r/seduction16/07/18 12:22 PM
1

Man I'm stoned as shit, bro. And I just gotta say that reading all this shit only makes my brain conjure up equations and a bunch of geometry and shit. Makes no sense to my brain whatsoever. But hey it works for you so that's pretty cool fam.
/r/seduction29/06/18 02:15 AM
5

Say what fam
/r/seduction25/06/18 09:25 PM
2

I don't even remember the last time I saw a hot girl.
/r/seduction19/06/18 02:50 PM
-1

Still top kek, fam
/r/seduction14/06/18 01:32 AM
-1

This post is top kek and meme worthy.
/r/seduction14/06/18 12:12 AM
2

Wtf is wrong with like 20% of you? Part is mad that they don't get any action or attention. The other part is so uptight that they treat this whole pickup thing like it's flipping burgers at McDonald's.
/r/seduction13/06/18 02:03 AM
1

Yes yes everyone knows it all. But then everyone gets a mad raging hard on and realizes that jerking off just isn't that great anymore. My question is why you're even asking this question. You seem like you're pretty flippant over the state of the world. Is it worth it? In your mindset? Not really as you probably won't get anywhere. If you treat women as idiots and the whole dating shit show as a game then it probably is worth it. Since then she'll be a liar because she's weak and silly. Not bec…
/r/seduction12/06/18 09:34 PM
1

This is why every person who says "get your life together before girls" is wrong. I'd argue that it's much easier to get girls after you're on a solid career path, have a social life and are fulfilled in life. But I guess that's just my opinion, man. There's no point in trying to get girls when every other aspect of your life is a mess. If you don't feel good about your life, then I think you should forget about women because they sure as shit ain't going to fix it. I'd take 5 bros. 5 legit frie…
/r/seduction31/05/18 04:18 PM
1

They run? Bruh that's actually pretty impressive.
/r/seduction22/05/18 01:56 AM
1

Upvoted for the juicy and unpleasant truth.
/r/seduction21/05/18 01:25 AM
1

I could go major in philosophy and I'll get you a book full of those.
/r/seduction21/05/18 01:23 AM
26

Man you you went out of your way to make every thing in his post negative. That's impressive I gotta say.
/r/seduction21/05/18 01:22 AM
1

It sucks fam
/r/seduction20/05/18 01:56 PM
1

It's stuck fam. It won't cycle anymore
/r/seduction20/05/18 01:43 PM
2

The cylinder is broken, fam.
/r/seduction20/05/18 11:54 AM
3

Funny. Doesn't work.
/r/seduction15/05/18 08:57 PM
1

Exactly. Shit ain't simple. But thanks for what it's worth
/r/seduction15/05/18 08:33 PM
1

On some level I do know that but I have a serious mental block about the whole thing. I can't bring myself to interact with people on any meaningful level. And when I try to interact with the few people from my past they don't give me any rope so I really don't even want to interact with them at all.
/r/seduction15/05/18 03:28 PM
1

I don't think you understood what I wrote. But I won't sit here explaining why I don't see myself making friends by trying to talk to strangers.
/r/seduction15/05/18 03:10 PM
1

Portugal
/r/seduction15/05/18 03:04 PM
1

Depends on how many you have and how they influence your life. After a certain point, provided you don't go out of your way to change or hide yourself, you will only have real shots with women who are into the same things. If those are your only seriously "nerdy" interests then it's a non issue. It obviously depends on the woman too.
/r/seduction15/05/18 12:14 PM
2

Not to sound like a downer but there is a lot of work involved in having abundance and you make it sound much simpler than it actually is. There are tons of variables at play. Not everyone lives in hot girl central for one. Culture differs from place to place, even more country to country. And not everyone has the money to move at will just to get a social life going. Where I live, most social and sexual connections happen within social circles. If you have none, you'll be hard pressed to get a …
/r/seduction15/05/18 12:08 PM
5

Hmmmm sounds like you're trying to turn me into a positive mental gymnast.
/r/seduction14/05/18 07:01 PM
1

The grand majority yes but they'll also not know what to do with the information since it's a bizarre occurrence in most men's lives if it even happens. I personally don't care what she looks like, I detest the idea.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:40 PM
3

If you’re not taking action, then seddit has just become a form of entertainment for you Grade A entertainment actually.
/r/seduction12/05/18 10:19 PM
0

Unless he has the cash to move at will, that's not very useful advice, bruh
/r/seduction12/05/18 09:57 PM
5

Gotta love this pseudobroscience
/r/seduction12/05/18 09:22 PM
1

Sure I'd welcome that.
/r/seduction11/05/18 05:03 PM
1

The problem is that I have no friends or social life. Makes it hard to actively pursue women when there's such a massive void.
/r/seduction10/05/18 04:20 PM
2

Thanks man. I gotta look at what I want and balance it with reality. At least for now I want to enjoy summer and find myself some nice activities since I do have money and I do have the time.
/r/seduction08/05/18 12:14 AM
1

Ugh you're giving me an existential crisis. Go to uni to study something I roll my eyes at just because it makes money just sounds like a miserable existence. Seriously man. It feels like I'm stuck just waiting for the next pile of shit to hit our doorway like it always does. Day to day. I don't even bother making long term plans because they'll go with the wind very quickly. Get into uni and right away my folks hit another rut and I either quit to get a job or we starve our asses off. Honestly …
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:32 PM
1

Thanks, bro. As for your question. Nope. My folks needed help once I finished HS and I've been working for the last year and a half or so. I quit by the end of March since I got fed up with it. Got a nice cushion of cash saved up but right now I don't really have much of a desire to go back to school. But right now I'm only really going to the gym. Not doing much of anything else.
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:10 PM
2

21M I hung around the nerds in middle school and junior high(as you muricans call it). High school I was in the ghetto stoner league. I was fairly popular since I stick out like a sore thumb. Threw away all the potential and actual friendships, connections, skills and my drive in life for one piece of ass. Now I'm on a two year long dry spell, no friends, no social circles, no social life and little to no drive or idea of how to change any of that. None of the "vowing" or "swearing" in this worl…
/r/seduction07/05/18 07:19 PM
3

I know lots of guys who say they love Models but they never go out and actually approach women. Can testify. Got it 6 months ago. Haven't done anything since.
/r/seduction06/05/18 04:18 PM
1

What if you ain't got one?
/r/seduction06/05/18 03:43 PM
1

You're literally playing on easy mode, fam. You don't get an excuse.
/r/seduction06/05/18 03:40 PM
20

Tell that to a dude in his late 20s. He'll thank ya.
/r/seduction06/05/18 12:13 AM
6

I know this sub is probably 90%+ American but goddamn you people have it good.
/r/seduction06/05/18 12:12 AM
1

BTW I think you belong in some sub reddit about sel improvement, not here. You are correct but this community can be pretty useful in that department. When they bother to be anyway. But thanks for telling me what I already know.
/r/seduction04/05/18 03:31 AM
0

You can "fuck it" all you want but it's not a pair of magic words.
/r/seduction04/05/18 01:48 AM
3

If she's a dime she's getting it regardless of how she feels about it.
/r/seduction04/05/18 01:46 AM
1

Nothing we haven't seen before. But now every dude on here has to have mad sex and then make his not so unique post about how to have mad sex.
/r/seduction24/03/18 01:57 PM
1

Most women spend about an hour a day on their appearance: eye shadow, eye liner, foundation, make up, lipstick, mascara, jewelry/rings, hair conditioner, blow dry, and leave-in product, Yeah and it goes the same for pretty much all of them. Yeah one will use one product over another but who gives a shit what conditioner she used. how does a woman negotiate the balance between being feminine and seeming slutty? Between tastefully being attractive and being an attention-grabbing whore? Women nowad…
/r/seduction24/03/18 01:53 PM
1

Bounce. Bounce hard, broseph.
/r/seduction23/03/18 03:13 PM
1

Talk to her and say something to her she hasn't heard. Notice something about her no one else has. There's two ways to this. Going indirect or making up some bullshit. Most girls simply don't have anything that sets them apart from other people aside from how hot, sexy or pretty they are. They all wear the same clothing, they all have the same hairstyles and on and on. Women and men too, suffer from this quite a lot. Everyone just looks pretty much identical so there isn't anything to point out …
/r/seduction23/03/18 03:09 PM
4

Yeah but that's how those dudes are. They're not here to have their beliefs challenged. They're here to argue. And they're most certainly not here to do anything.
/r/seduction21/03/18 02:19 PM
4

Sure but as a rule of thumb, someone else having it worse than you doesn't mean you have it better. In other words, she may be more insecure but you sure as hell ain't worried about that. You're worried about yourself.
/r/seduction21/03/18 02:18 PM
13

I've recently come to one blatantly unpleasant realization. I had a thought yesterday "Man it's been so long since I've been with a girl I can't even fathom myself being with one anymore. It's just unbelievable to me at this point." Lo and behold, the solution that presented itself in my head was simple. Shut the fuck up, suck it up and approach girls. All of your doubts, fears and all of the stuff holding you back has only one solution. Turn your brain off and do things. Get a list of habits an…
/r/seduction21/03/18 02:16 PM
6

100? Really? Come on.
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:58 PM
16

They're not gonna start thinking otherwise.
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:56 PM
31

It's a double edged sword to me. On one hand I have more energy, more drive and confidence to do everything and anything. On the other hand, being horny isn't fun in the slightest. Especially when you can't do anything with it.
/r/seduction20/03/18 08:54 AM
5

Throw those dudes at the sidebar. That's all there is to it.
/r/seduction19/03/18 12:30 PM
27

I think we've all read this 10+ times already.
/r/seduction19/03/18 12:25 PM
1

Yeah... comes a point when you can't really deny it anymore.
/r/seduction16/03/18 11:56 AM
11

Why wouldn't you? Hell yeah man. That's why we gotta share our D with the ladies. Can't have myself all to myself.
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:31 PM
2

My best guess is that he has no sex so OP's problem makes him mad because he wants sex so bad.
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:29 PM
3

Don't even remind me of that place, bro. You can feel the depression and bitter misery oozing from your screen.
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:21 PM
46

I realized it too. Just gotta remember it more often. Can't be a loser if you're this fucking smokin'.
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:18 PM
3

That's interesting. How does that work?
/r/seduction15/03/18 01:06 PM
20

You are indeed a piece of shit of a human being. You should be ashamed of yourself from tearing a girl's attention away from scrolling through her ridiculously interesting and exciting instagram feed.
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:45 PM
28

I was thinking of giving you a legit answer but then I saw your post history and had a hearty, pained laugh at your tinder profile. So I'll just keep laughing at you.
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:45 PM
1

There are no other options after a certain point. He's well past that point. But he still insists on... something. I legit don't get the guy.
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:43 PM
2

Well you do have a point. Can't really argue with that. Lying is pretty popular among women. I guess you're right after all.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:24 AM
1

Dude... sheesh, you are literally in the easiest setting imaginable. You are playing on easy mode when you're in college. Grow a pair and go for it.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:19 AM
2

Herpes has nothing to do with morality, bruh. If she has a boyfriend that's worth nothing to her then why the hell is he even her boyfriend? If she doesn't value him but keeps him as a boyfriend, that's a serious black flag raised.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:17 AM
4

Simply put, not approaching might spare you rejection and a passing moment of anxiety, but you're actually strengthening the underlying issues which feed into your fear of talking to women. This is something that needs to be cemented into every guy's head. Negative reinforcement is painfully powerful. It's not a "If I don't play I won't win but I also won't lose." Dead fucking wrong. It's a very sneaky loss but it's arguably the most powerful one. You automatically win by playing the game. Not p…
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:15 AM
2

What if I have a principle against bedding chicks with boyfriends no matter how much they may want it? Personally I find the act immoral and repugnant.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:10 AM
2

Other people waste their time on him of their own volition. He is pretty famous at this point anyway. I'd love to help the guy but I don't think anyone can help someone so balls deep in negativity. I get negative but I at least can bounce back with ease. Not so sure about him.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:06 AM
10

And there's several layers of nuance. Such as when guys "settle" or just let themselves get into a relationship they really don't want to have with a girl they don't quite dig but it's sex and it's some kind of "love" born of misery. And it's companionship. Tons of dudes aren't having the sex they want to have, not as much as they want to have it nor with the girls they want to have it with. Dog eat dog world, the dudes who can man up are the ones that get to bang all the girls the average schmu…
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:24 AM
3

You can get more confident and calmer by exercising and meditating for instance but at the end of the day you'll still feel it and it'll still be enough to kill your manliness. but it's very hard If it were easy, we'd all be getting laid.
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:03 AM
0

"Oh no I can't stop approaching girls and having sex, someone help me. Please. It's tearing me apart, man." Hope you feel my empathy.
/r/seduction15/03/18 08:57 AM
1

Aeon... I really really have to ask. Why are you here? I remember you from when I first found this sub, I had time to lurk, post, ask, leave several times and come back only to find you still here, doing the exact same thing you were doing before. Don't you feel like you're actively wasting your time by hanging around this sub? Wasting time you don't have the luxury to waste? And I don't get what you're trying to get out of this sub anymore. Do you just hope that someone comes along with a succe…
/r/seduction15/03/18 08:52 AM
2

I like how invigorating and electrifying they feel. And besides, I can't leave the shower without getting a good dose of cold water. Even if I start it hot, I always have to end it cold. The thought of ending it hot is just downright unpleasant.
/r/seduction14/03/18 02:17 PM
3

Wha? Sounds like a whole lot of BS to me. But I also haven't skipped a cold shower ever since I started taking them so I may not be able to make a comparison.
/r/seduction14/03/18 12:49 PM
2

The reason I don't want to talk to you is because I don't want to talk to a dude that's gonna give me one hundred and one reasons why things don't work for him. Fine they don't work. Leave this sub and move on with life. And yes, I have. Not nearly as much as I should be but I have. Am I suddenly swimming in pussy? No. Not even remotely close. But I'm in a transitional phase in my life where I'm trying to get a lot of shit moving in the right direction.
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:32 AM
0

Stop moaning, brah. Enjoy school while you can. Build connections, friendships, social circles and on and on. Also work on your social skills and your skills with the ladies. School is the primest of the prime times to do that. After you're out of school, you're gonna need that shit. And if you don't have it? Well you're gonna regret wasting your school time bitching and moaning. Because the hill becomes significantly steeper and you'll feel it, oh boy you'll feel it. When you go for months and …
/r/seduction13/03/18 12:21 PM
2

He just wants to argue so that someone crushes his hopes and dreams once and for all. Since you folks have been failing at that, he's still here.
/r/seduction12/03/18 11:07 AM
1

Honestly, you don't need even a tenth of the content and info that's out there on this topic. I sure as hell don't feel like I learn something anything nowadays. Shit's just same old same old. All in all, nothing makes you better at something than doing that thing. Writing, fighting, fucking, gaming or whatever the hell.
/r/seduction10/03/18 01:29 PM
1

That's almost 3 girls a day. Sheesh... You'd have to do 6 foursomes and a threesome a week.
/r/seduction08/03/18 08:39 AM
1

Out here you'll step on broken glass if you go outside barefoot.
/r/seduction08/03/18 08:35 AM
2

Well I thank thee for thy sacrifices in the past. Gotta learn from the mistakes of the masters so we can surpass them.
/r/seduction06/03/18 06:59 AM
1

Who the fuck is dense/insecure enough to let this type of shit pass them by? These aren't exactly ambiguous signals. Just the first two off the get go are signs you're on the right track. Everything else is signals and more signals that you're on that right track. I guess if you're insecure enough and aren't a horndog those signs would fly over your head but that's pretty bewildering to me.
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:53 AM
2

You'll get there brother. Just take it one day at a time. After being stuck in a vicious cycle of flip flopping and not being able to have a single grain of consistency for almost 2 years. It's kinda hard to have faith in myself sometimes. All I can do is try. Better than not trying.
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:37 AM
1

I was thinking of what to say but now I realize I haven't slept yet and I'm not exactly a testosterone machine when I don't sleep so I can get stupidly depressive. So I'll go against my state and say that you're right. As an added thing, yesterday it dawned on me that sexual energy is probably the best thing a man can acquire. It's true, pure and raw energy. It's not just being horny. It motivates, it boosts confidence and it makes you feel good. I think that's what I need to get the ball rollin…
/r/seduction05/03/18 04:05 PM
1

Bruh, I'm 21. I'll be on a 6 year dry spell by the time I'm 25. Challenge accepted though. Gonna be shredded as fuck by that point. God damn, I already look damn good. In 4 years? Hot damn, bruh. I already can't take my eyes off my reflection.
/r/seduction05/03/18 08:44 AM
1

But that's because you're already in that loop. You're getting laid and if you're not getting laid you're moving along the process towards that goal. What I mean is that you're already in that mindset. Personally I'd settle to just be able to approach girls. I ain't even thinking about getting laid anymore. I mean that's a lie obviously but the few times I did approach I did not take numbers or anything of the sort. I was just happy to talk to a member of the opposite sex. If the building doesn'…
/r/seduction05/03/18 08:37 AM
1

andagain
/r/seduction05/03/18 08:31 AM
3

Kek and there are dudes girls don't even look at once. It's like being a ghost, I swear this shit is magical. You literally don't register on any of their senses. It's amazing.
/r/seduction04/03/18 07:14 AM
3

Great now do it again.
/r/seduction04/03/18 07:03 AM
1

I know. Abundance. Have abundance. If you don't have abundance. Act like it. Personally it's a whole lot of fancy words and nonsense that doesn't fix any problems. If your dry spell is drier than a desert then you only have the hard way. It's literally the only way. To defy every single thing your brain is telling you and to go for it. Which feels nigh impossible. And if you don't do it. It's a self fulfilling prophecy. It's not impossible but since you're not breaking out of it. It thus becomes…
/r/seduction04/03/18 07:02 AM
1

You think every guy in the hood is just successful with women? My journey was difficult just like everyone else man. It's not about hard or easy. It's about having a better perspective of the fact that you have nothing to lose from talking to a girl. You don't just know it. You feel it. I know I have nothing to lose consciously. But I don't feel it and I don't act as if I have nothing to lose. My knowledge and my actions have no relation to one another. I know everything there is to "know" about…
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:54 AM
1

You don't say
/r/seduction03/03/18 08:12 AM
1

You potentially have an edge by being from da hood. Most of my former friends were black guys from ghettos. It probably applies to people from the ghetto in general, though I'd still say that black dudes just have some kind of confidence that comes out of nowhere. Anyway, they were getting ass left and right. They sure got laid whenever they wanted. I think that growing up in shitty places gives you experiences and a perspective in life that make girls simply not scary. One of my former best fri…
/r/seduction03/03/18 06:54 AM
3

Problem is that most guys don't have a rotation of any kind, that's why we're here in the first place. So it's pretty easy to overthink and play safe, fuck up and turn your brain to mush by stressing about it.
/r/seduction03/03/18 06:45 AM
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Man whatta loser /s Seriously dude? You feel like that shit makes you a loser? Sure if all you do on your free time is play videogames and read then you're letting a lot of opportunities and fat asses pass you by. And you don't even know it because you're sitting at home. My advice? Put yourself out of your comfort zone and do things that are social. You can make some time don't even try to say you can't. If you want to get laid that is. There is nothing wrong with seeking out some avenues that …
/r/seduction02/03/18 10:18 AM
1

You're into her, she's into you. Why does anyone else matter? A lot of people don't appreciate seeing it because they want some action too and hate seeing other people get it when they don't.
/r/seduction02/03/18 10:07 AM
2

What are your hobbies and interests?
/r/seduction02/03/18 09:15 AM
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People have a really shitty taste in music on this sub. Hot damn.
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:58 AM
5

Try to not be a loser? That's step numero uno.
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:46 AM
3

Yeah you gotta go back to the drawing board and do some analysis. Though you might as well get a new drawing board and a new wall while you're at it. If you tried to bang 500 girls and didn't even get a sliver of action. You're gonna have to do a lot better.
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:45 AM
1

It gets easier after a certain threshold. Much like a checkpoint in a game. If you per chance fuck up and stop doing it before reaching the next part, it's back to square one. Or whatever checkpoint square you were at. ¯\(ツ)/¯ Anyway I just wanted OP to not get too full of himself and too comfortable. When you approach rarely, every approach will feel like a much bigger victory than it actually is.
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:39 AM
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But... it doesn't.
/r/seduction01/03/18 03:01 PM
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No it doesn't.
/r/seduction01/03/18 09:03 AM
2

Ok. Now do it again. Did it again? Again. Oh you're back? AGAIN. Don't stop or it's gonna get harder and not easier.
/r/seduction01/03/18 09:02 AM
6

Just be a creep. Eye contact for me isn't a problem. It's just that no girls ever make any eye contact with me. Though I guess you just don't make eye contact with a dude wearing a tank top when it's 5ºC.
/r/seduction01/03/18 08:59 AM
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I'd argue tons of dudes don't know about game. I've been getting pussy before I discovered seddit by just dressing nice and being forward. You're in a cozy minority of dudes who had an upbringing compatible with being a playa. That's all there is to it. Most guys here are those that have hit some kind of rock bottom or found this sub by chance and realized they were at that rock bottom. They're not sharpening a sword that's already there. They're trying to make that sword from scratch. It's pret…
/r/seduction27/02/18 05:19 AM
3

Bruh... neither do a lot of dudes on this subreddit. You're preaching to that choir of 1% dudes who are getting more ass than the other 99%. Most dudes don't even know about this shit. And out of those that do, you'll still have a ridiculous slanted ratio of those who do approach and those who don't.
/r/seduction27/02/18 03:19 AM
1

It is but it's about a shift in mentality I'd say. You're not out to feel fantastic. Because it won't always feel great and you still gotta do it. Those are your biggest challenges, how you act when it doesn't feel good. Anyway you're just out to do those things whatever they are. Not to get a boost in your mood. I mean it's the same principle as pickup. You're not there to get laid, you're there to just do it. That mentality detaches you from outcome, makes you more resilient and more free to d…
/r/seduction19/02/18 06:40 AM
1

That wasn't really my point. "I feel so great because of X and Y. No need to do Z I already feel fantastic." My point is about getting too comfortable.
/r/seduction18/02/18 07:39 PM
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Most guys can't hammer in a nail with one hit. Same way one point may not be as effective or powerful when made with a shorter delivery. At the end of the day you can sum up all of pickup in very short ways. "Be yourself" "Practice everyday" "Don't be needy" "Be attractive" So on and so forth. That's what's narrow minded. Your mentality.
/r/seduction17/02/18 02:28 PM
1

Oh my fuck Zoidberg please tell me you've banged some girls already. Haven't been on this sub in months but this is reminiscent of your past posts. Please for the love of fuck tell me something has changed in your life. A life perspective. ANYTHING. But considering the fact that you're still asking these inane questions. Oh my fuck, bro. I almost want to leave again.
/r/seduction14/12/17 07:34 AM
3

Ugh... I honestly laughed at your post, brosephski. I'm honestly not sorry either. It's pretty simple. The biggest loser on the planet that makes a move is better than mister perfection who is too much of a wimp to do it. My advice? Your mental health is clearly suffering because of her. At this point she is an object of such obsession for you that you will not crawl out of that hole. Sure maybe some day down the line after you've had sex with other girls and almost forgot about her, you may reo…
/r/seduction14/12/17 07:32 AM
1

Oh don't let the angst get to your head. I'm serious. At 17? Come on. Your whole life's ahead of you. I'm sure that the greatest masters of pickup didn't start banging babes at 14 years of age. Realize that the sooner you start doing something, the better. I wish I had found personal development when I was 17. Seriously, would've been awesome. You're at a great age to start improving, man. (Balancing your age and the likelihood of finding this. Sure it'd be great if our dad was the biggest playe…
/r/seduction14/12/17 07:14 AM
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I would hope dudes would get their brain past getting their dick wet. I think of the thrill of the hunt, the thrill of discovery and the thrill of challenge. I'm not out to fuck some pussy. I'm out to fuck some souls. But hey I'm not out to judge these dudes that just want to get their dick wet. I just have a... different perspective.
/r/seduction14/12/17 06:57 AM
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Honestly I look at it like this: If I need to lie, be deceptive or put on a mask in order to attract a girl. This girl doesn't interest me. Why would I want to act like someone I'm not? Why would I want to attract a girl that likes that someone and not the actual me? Fuck that, bro.
/r/seduction13/12/17 06:51 AM
3

The fuck were you screaming "fuck" for? You made a move. Even if she's lying about being married. What does it matter? You tried and it didn't pan out. You won. You didn't lose.
/r/seduction13/12/17 06:46 AM
1

Could there have been a better way to have handled situations like that? Don't be daft. You know the answer to that question. You just want some echoes.
/r/seduction13/12/17 06:44 AM
1

I dunno, I'm still beginning my journey so it's not like I can tell you exactly how I'd react. I do have an opinion on this though that I'd like your input on. Since you seem to have the XP. Pickup has some interesting elements I find stupid. Like when a girl asks whether you have a girlfriend always say something cocky and hyperbolic. What if I don't feel like it? What if I just want to give her a flat "nope" and a smile? Am I playing a quizz? "Who wants to be a millionaire?" If she wanted to h…
/r/seduction11/12/17 09:55 AM
1

Ah, gotcha. I'd say your opener is fine. Y'know just confirming where the situation's at seems fine and dandy to me.
/r/seduction11/12/17 08:52 AM
3

Hey man, I recently finished Models. Fantastic book. I'll give you my perspective on the matter since I think it'll do you some good to see another side of the matter. I, just like you, have no interest in a long term monogamous relationship. But Models really resonated with me. Because at the end of the day even if I'm not interested in committing to one girl, I have no interest in meaningless sex. I want genuine connection. Models is pretty much about that. And I don't believe that means you w…
/r/seduction11/12/17 07:49 AM
2

What about laughing? That sounds like something I'd laugh at. Because honestly that sounds like such a tryhard thing to say to rustle a dude's jimmies.
/r/seduction11/12/17 07:36 AM
1

A plan? I have a hard time placing your scenario in reality. I may be dumb as a brick but so you're a college student and so is she? I don't even know what an admin office is in the context of a student. But ok, the plan? Just fucking wing it. And I'd just skip the nonsense. Personally. I'm not a fan of BSing. I don't really think I need an excuse to talk to an attractive girl. If she thinks I'm weird or creepy. That's her problem.
/r/seduction11/12/17 07:31 AM
1

You ain't got any blue balls if you masturbate every 3 days, bro. As the other guys said. Be as sharp and observant as a hawk when you're out in the world going about your business. Get the earbuds out and just pay attention. If shit's really as hard as you say then you better make every attractive girl you see an approach. Though you sound really fixated on getting your dick wet which I find a very bad mindset. Because it's a negative reason. You're not out to meet people. You're just out to me…
/r/seduction11/12/17 07:21 AM
2

Very typical. Girls get very picky on dating apps or websites or just the internet in general. The terrain is slanted against the man. Y'know how dick is a cheap resource and pussy is high up in the clouds with demand. Because you ain't got your biggest guns with those platforms. Your biggest guns are the guns you use when you approach a girl. Posture, smile, confidence, tonality and all of that good shit. On Tinder and all of the other shit? Not only do you have none of your biggest guns. If yo…
/r/seduction11/12/17 07:15 AM
0

Hot damn I wanna see you guys at pet stores taking cutesy pictures with animals for your tinder profile. I don't know why I find that so funny.
/r/seduction11/12/17 07:03 AM
1

And you're assuming I don't have well established habits and a sex life? I am not. Never did I suggest a porn addict should try to enjoy it in a healthy manner. I explicitly said that if OP is addicted, they should stop. Fair enough. I just throw my two cents in for the sake of not giving some lurking addict the bright idea of trying to enjoy it in a healthy manner. You not being able to relate to something doesn't make it wrong. Of course not. Problem is that I like to think through the lens of…
/r/seduction11/12/17 07:01 AM
1

These kids who are completely against porn have some serious mental issues, unrelated to porn. You are belittling people. Pretty standard thing to do. I'm sure you've seen it yourself. I'm providing a different view on how enjoying porn in a non destructive way is completely possible. If you had well established habits and sex life, then... yeah perhaps. If you didn't? No. A porn addict definitely can't enjoy porn in a non destructive way. Because they won't really ever be the same again. You do…
/r/seduction10/12/17 05:37 PM
1

Oh god no
/r/seduction10/12/17 07:54 AM
2

Y'know people don't get defensive when they're completely confident in their stance on something. Sound to me like you got pricked a bit. Regardless deal with it, you can't really deny the studies and countless stories that are surfacing again and again. Porn is not the only problem but it sure is a problem.
/r/seduction10/12/17 07:51 AM
1

It wasn't even a joke
/r/seduction12/09/17 07:05 AM
1

Man you're shit at diplomacy OP
/r/seduction11/09/17 10:12 AM
0

You seem remarkably upset at my "all that" text. I was just saying. sheesh.
/r/seduction11/09/17 10:09 AM
0

Well I'm not a woman but I hate peaches. The actual fruit. It's awful. Skinned, it's alright. Nectarines are the best.
/r/seduction11/09/17 06:17 AM
1

Uhhhhh Seriously though I can see a month later and there will be a lot of dudes with reconfigured faces. Maybe not a lot but most of those that try this. I mean if this shit is for advanced dudes, they're probably already getting enough ass as is. Great post though. Entertaining.
/r/seduction08/09/17 05:42 PM
1

ITT: Desperate Housewives stories.
/r/seduction06/09/17 04:21 PM
1

This is pretty cool actually. Good job, fam.
/r/seduction31/08/17 06:32 PM
1

The problem is, I've virtually eliminated from my life all situations where I may encounter an attractive girl and it has become a habit so that I won't even know I'm doing it. Stop doing that. Grow a pair. Start doing the opposite.
/r/seduction31/08/17 03:03 PM
2

Yeah but that's like... I dunno dating 101? The most basic of basics. I'd say a lot of guys do get bad advice especially if it's mostly from their female friends. The whole "be sensitive" can be very easily misinterpreted as carte blanche to vomit emotionally.
/r/seduction28/06/17 07:08 PM
6

give you her back If she gives you her back, sink in a body triangle and take her to the ground. Once you have her under control, you can start working for the choke. She'll probably not stand much of a chance but be sure to soften her up with some punches so she exposes her neck. Once the opening is there, you slide one arm in and choke her out. Ignore her if she taps, that's a shit test. A real man chokes his bitches out and she knows it.
/r/seduction28/06/17 01:31 PM
1

Are you autistic? hi Way to set yourself apart from the crowd. because im bored Ok now we're cooking. Tell her she's just some little entertainment and a way to kill time. Winning a lot of points here OP. Anyway you shit the bed with that one. If that's the best conversation you could come up with, you should've just not done anything and found something to do that wasn't that.
/r/seduction28/06/17 01:12 PM
7

Not to shit on you but it's pretty obvious, bruv. Don't whine how you're not getting laid, not getting dates, no women like you. I mean that's obvious. That's shit you tell your friends when you need to vent. Not a girl you want to bang.
/r/seduction28/06/17 08:02 AM
1

I love how all of your input is always negative. Regardless of what gets said. What you say is always negative. Way to go, Woujo.
/r/seduction27/06/17 03:37 PM
1

Well I'd definitely be looking forward to get the trademarked Woujo "Kill yourself". I thought of creating one. It would've been an alternative to seddit, a support group and an accountability group so you don't get to just slack off or be asking new questions every day without actually doing anything. Because a Discord group would be better than Seddit in every way. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/seduction27/06/17 01:22 PM
1

No. But it damn well should have.
/r/seduction27/06/17 01:03 PM
1

but he's unfortunately also an asshole. Well you're one to talk, bro.
/r/seduction26/06/17 01:14 PM
1

What. I really struggled to read this too. I have no clue what you're trying to say, bro.
/r/seduction26/06/17 12:19 PM
1

Meetup is pointless unfortunately. People aren't fond of social or dating apps around here. Most of the social gatherings and other shit like that happen on the other side of the river aka Lisbon. I live pretty far from those events. I work in Lisbon but I work right on the shore so it's not even comparable. Never feels great to be waiting for the ferry on a friday night. No one there looks like they're going to be working in a cramped place all night. Like I said, it's all about social circles.…
/r/seduction26/06/17 11:36 AM
2

I choked on my cigarette reading this. Why were you eating a cigarette? You have a job I assume Yeah. Totally. With my brother. At night. In a cramped bakery. Where every coworker is butthurt and resentful of us. Not a very good people job. And don't mention my brother because he's like 13 years older than me and getting married this year. The only reason he has a social life is because of his soon to be wife. All of his friends are hers. interests Writing. tools to meet other people from this s…
/r/seduction26/06/17 11:22 AM
1

What kisses, bruv. I've yet to approach a girl. Last time I kissed/banged one was my ex, over a year ago at this point. And I always talk about the one year of dry spell celebration but never end up doing it. Fucking work.
/r/seduction26/06/17 11:12 AM
1

We meet people everyday. We do?
/r/seduction26/06/17 11:08 AM
2

Caught you in the act. Question is whether he knows that act was checking him out, judging him for one reason or another or just a passing glance. I think most men don't have the mentality that gives them the ability to assume or recognize that a woman is checking him out. Even if she's smiling and playing with her hair or something(Which isn't very likely). He may still "figure it out" ass backwards and assume he has something on his face or just have his mind go into defensive mode and avoid a…
/r/seduction26/06/17 10:16 AM
1

You can't help Zoidy.
/r/seduction26/06/17 09:49 AM
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Get out of the house Can't wait to go to a bar at 1 PM. Anyway this is a standard issue thread passing through. Move along people, nothing to learn here.
/r/seduction26/06/17 09:48 AM
1

Yeah I think newbies should get in here. Get all the info and GTFO before they turn into one of us if you know what I mean.
/r/seduction26/06/17 09:45 AM
1

Well good for you, OP. Congrats are in order I guess. Good thing you started early. God knows how many dudes have known about this for years and still haven't gotten anything. Seems like I'm going down that road. Will be a year in like October or something for me. Still got nothing under my belt.
/r/seduction26/06/17 09:43 AM
2

It was when I decided I'm gonna just focus on me, and forget about getting girls as best as I can, that I got results. I started focusing solely on enjoying everything, never being bored, always living the most exciting and fulfilling life I could. Just a disclaimer that this is a shit tactic if you don't have any relevant social circles. As soon as women find out about your lack of social life, you instantly become weird and potentially dangerous even. Since people have the tendency to assume t…
/r/seduction26/06/17 09:40 AM
2

Reminds me of RSDTyler saying "You ever stick your dick in a woman and she goes OH GOD but you react like hmmm am I missing something? Am I missing out here?"
/r/seduction26/06/17 09:09 AM
3

Shifting? It HAS shifted ALREADY. Social media following and activity is essentially having EVERYONE and their mother see your social proof. Duh, but that's not something you get over night. That guy has gotten laid a ton, has gotten a ton of friends and has been to tons of events. He started sharing those things and guess what, he's gotten laid even more, he's gotten even more friends and has been to even more events. The classic catch 22. You need to get laid to get laid. Snowball effect. Pret…
/r/seduction25/06/17 09:33 AM
1

"Just go out to socialize so you can be that worthless third wheel, sit there in the corner and say nothing, expect no women will ever have any interest, and be content with that." Is that your alternative? Is that what you suggest I do? No. Go out to socialize so you can light the entire group on fire. So they can feel your energy. Your power. Your love for life. Your passion for all around you. But you need to have those things for them to be felt. You need to think about yourself, man. No per…
/r/seduction25/06/17 09:22 AM
1

You're 17. You probably don't have a tight schedule SO yeah. As for your bonus question. NoFap if you do things really right can help mitigate and transform it into a very natural sex drive. If I had a clear cut way to do it, I'd have put those sex drive numbers at a flatline. I mean I'd love it. But unfortunately we're pretty cursed with a horrible thing called horniness. We sorta need it because evolution and all so you ain't getting rid of it.
/r/seduction23/06/17 08:50 PM
4

That's a stupid thing to say. Don't say that.
/r/seduction23/06/17 08:43 PM
2

what's the use of doing anything, if all I can do is suck ? Yes. I've had that thought going through my head many times where I just lie on the floor of my bedroom, looking at the ceiling. Just being there, just staring at the ceiling, doing nothing. But the biggest thought is "What the fuck is wrong with me." I've gone through that many times. Something would really upset me and I'd just sink into the pit of shit. I've cried and felt shitty as a whole. I'm sure you can imagine. Every feeling in…
/r/seduction23/06/17 08:38 AM
2

Oh my dear goodness. If they're in the same basket as Redpill and MGTOW then I can only imagine what sort of madness goes on in there. Not checking. I don't even want to know for sure.
/r/seduction23/06/17 08:20 AM
25

Honestly those communities are just pathetic. Redpill, I mean I'm not sure what exactly it's about but I appreciate the political side of being redpilled. But having the "truth" of all women are whores, they all cheat, they're all immoral, manipulative and only out for themselves. I mean holy shit whatta truth. Like saying all men are marauding, rapist, warmongers with no desire but to fuck bitches and to be killin' fools. Just realize they're ridiculous.
/r/seduction22/06/17 09:29 PM
5

The fuck is Incel? Only thing that pops into my head is Involuntarily Celibate.
/r/seduction22/06/17 09:24 PM
2

But it's an amusing word, dude.
/r/seduction22/06/17 09:12 PM
2

Track suits? Lol who the hell wears that? Seen plenty of people A hoody? Who is going to workout in a hoody? Maybe more so a sweatshirt but I've seen plenty. Sweat pants are hot. So? Still see people wearing them. You expect her to dress in a snow suit just so creepers like you wont hit on her? Never did I say that I gawk at them. maybe your white knight instinct is telling you that. A girl would have to WORK to find all that ugly attire. Are you or are you not mentally challenged? Is this scena…
/r/seduction22/06/17 09:10 PM
7

To be honest it's pretty emasculating to feel like a scared little boy. Not even a lil bitch or a pussy. But a boy. For some reason it just rubs me the wrong way to feel like a "boy". It feels like I'm not worthy of my cock n balls when I feel like a boy. The worst thing I could get called is not a pussy, not a bitch, not a pansy, not a loser. But a boy. Weird.
/r/seduction22/06/17 02:42 PM
5

Getting laid sounds like the least of your problems if that's the case.
/r/seduction22/06/17 02:39 PM
4

I've seen you here before Aeon and I'll just say this. If you've ever had a slight budge in mindset. Just a slight off center moment where you didn't believe you're a lost cause. Where you didn't believe that you're fucked and nothing can save you. Then try to hold that budge there. Try to keep it off center. So that it keeps tipping. Do you feel good believing you're a piece of shit or a lost cause? Of course you don't. So why do you feel the need to draw out and prolong the feelings of inadequ…
/r/seduction22/06/17 02:23 PM
6

It's astonishing the amount of empathy you have for us chodes trying to break out of our vicious cycles. Out of our shells, out of our heads, out of all these walls that keep us "safe and sheltered" AKA "sedated and powerless". I appreciate you, bro. You're a good guy.
/r/seduction22/06/17 02:08 PM
2

Man I used to write my thoughts down. All the shit that's inside me. It usually helped me deal with those problems better. Sort of a way to vent. Same way I sometimes vent to some users on here(my apologies to them), it actually quite often helped me. Write it all out and eventually come to a point where by the end of the post I'd be writing from a different perspective than the one I started with. But this is good stuff. I think I need as much structure in my life as possible. That way I'll be …
/r/seduction22/06/17 01:08 PM
3

I know a lot of girls hate being stared at I didn't say girls want to turn heads and have every guy in a 50 meter radius eye banging them. I meant as a general, being seen. Not being stared at. There's a difference. Same as there is a difference between listening and hearing. Active and passive forms of the same action. That is because there is not a lot of choice on what to wear for gym attire for girls. It's tight, it's sexy and that's pretty much that. That's a bold faced lie. A straight up t…
/r/seduction22/06/17 07:57 AM
1

I mean that's some hardcore shit right there. Sure in theory everyone can do it. Easy to say that. Joined nofap and this sub, began learning and approaching during the day on my way to work, public transportation, restaurants, began gym and got some new clothes... Gotten a few contacts, a few hangouts, a couple makeouts, and made many new friends with hotgirls their hot friends, from which I learning a lot and having fun with, a few text buddies for when I just need to exchange words with any wo…
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:35 PM
7

It's both.
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:22 PM
2

So you're saying you weren't happy. Makes sense now.
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:02 PM
2

The fuck does it even matter? It doesn't. You can remove her if it's easier for your soul or something. If not. Keep her or remove her. Who cares. She won't notice it. So why does it matter?
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:01 PM
6

Were you in a porno, OP? Cause that sounds like a porno to me. You failed at your job, bro.
/r/seduction21/06/17 01:15 PM
2

Also, that's why I find all "focus on yourself, be happy by yourself" advices to be pure BS in my ears. I was happy and fine and not even interested in women or the trouble it is to have to be available to them when I rather be working and studying and not giving a fuck. But the time for that shit is over now. The fuck? You were happy and fine. Time to end that bullshit. What. Can you... like... explain that one? Why would you bother with women if you were happy and fine. I'm confused.
/r/seduction21/06/17 01:13 PM
1

Does anyone talk to them? Is that a serious question? I can't recall seeing some dude talking into the ether as the girl blatantly ignores him, no. "Quite strong, aren't you?", "How long will it take me to be lifting those on my leg day?", "That savage effort expression suits you", "Waiting for this apparel? Maybe we can take turns if you keep up", "Now to go home walking like a penguin..." You can pull any kind of shit out of your ass for any situation. That's most certainly true. I'm by no mea…
/r/seduction21/06/17 01:10 PM
1

Maybe you're just smokin', OP.
/r/seduction21/06/17 09:58 AM
3

This idea and the owner of said idea sound both pretty retarded. No offense OP but this is fucktarded. Giving a girl an ultimatum will just make her give you the finger. You're not in an abusive relationship where you got her addicted to your dick and the cocaine only you can provide. This would not be a test. This would be the ultimate signal that you're a desperate creep and that your dick is not desirable. Please stop. You're already way too deep.
/r/seduction21/06/17 08:37 AM
2

Simply don't. What opener would you even conceive using? Unless you're legitimately interested in a workout or exercise she's doing, don't ask her about it. From what I see personally, women never talk to anyone at the gym, only the instructors. The women go in, workout and leave. Almost like they're in a mad rush to do so. So asking them about their workout I'd imagine would be like delaying that eventual exit hour which as I said, doesn't seem to be a thing they'd like. Going direct and tellin…
/r/seduction21/06/17 08:17 AM
45

It's not sometimes. It's a partial split. No matter what the split is, it's always there. Whether you want to admit it or not, subconsciously you want to look good for others as well. That's just following the instinct to peacock. Whether you're peacocking your bright and shiny feathers or the flaming razors from hell. You're peacocking all the same. So she definitely wants to look good for herself but everyone else as well. She wants that silent validation of a guy checking out her ass. Because…
/r/seduction21/06/17 08:04 AM
1

Oh it went through. Trust everyone when everyone says that it most certainly went through.
/r/seduction21/06/17 07:57 AM
7

I wanna see a guy imagine the girl taking a shit and use it as an accidental opener.
/r/seduction20/06/17 05:47 AM
1

Man you chodes really love the weeknd huh? I guess his feminine voice really gets your panties wet.
/r/seduction19/06/17 05:24 PM
2

I don't want to give off the impression that I'm bitter and got a stick up my ass. It's just that it's hard, man. That's obvious but you said it yourself, you've got it good. Nothing particularly wrong with that. Simply a matter of your choices when you were younger are leaps and bounds above mine. I got nothing from my choices. I hate bitching about other people's advantages over me but y'know, sometimes it's frustrating and you gotta vent. And I'm sitting in that 40 ft deep hole just thinking,…
/r/seduction19/06/17 01:14 PM
20

Unless there's some missing piece of the puzzle. I can't see many other options
/r/seduction19/06/17 12:51 PM
3

Happy to help. Just came back from the gym. Had to force myself to go. It was exactly as I expected. Coming back feeling so much better than going.
/r/seduction19/06/17 12:41 PM
3

Well I can most certainly relate to this. After a lot of searching, I can only think of one answer. And it is singular. Do it. Always do it. Don't think about it. Don't think about anything. Mechanize it. I don't know how generally you're speaking here. Whether it's about personal development in general or specifically women. But it applies either way. There's no way other than the hard way. There's no easy path. Thing is, physically you can do it. You can do it. It's not physically impossible. …
/r/seduction19/06/17 10:42 AM
1

Not much to takeaway here. Being jacked, tall and good looking with friends, connections and a solid job is good. Duh. Not to mention being really young, having had a very favorable path in life and already rolling in the pink. So inspiring. It isn't just Game that's a game. Life is a game. And it has an unhealthy amount of RNG. No one tells you the things you do will influence your future. I mean they do but you never get the full picture until it dropkicks you out of a window. No one says "Hey…
/r/seduction19/06/17 10:32 AM
4

You don't sound particularly awesome. Sorry to say it. You got your shit together but none of the stuff you mention makes you seem particularly cool or awesome.
/r/seduction19/06/17 08:34 AM
-5

I mean... he went to a fucking weeknd concert. I would've killed myself not two weeks later but at said concert.
/r/seduction19/06/17 08:21 AM
2

Ah screw the leagues bro. Cmon. You're just limiting yourself by thinking that. The bad part isn't even the leagues part itself is that you believe yourself to be of inferior value. That's the worst thing about it. The way you think of yourself will be how you present yourself. If you think you're inferior. Little to no value guy. The girl or whomever will probably think the same. She's a stranger. She's not your friend that knows you and sees that you're feeling down. She's a nobody in your lif…
/r/seduction19/06/17 08:11 AM
2

No. No. Please no.
/r/seduction18/06/17 01:54 PM
2

Of all the places you could've gone and asked this question. You go here.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:19 AM
2

Whaaat. Rude and insulting? Cmon that's stupid. I know personally I like it when normal people talk to me. Normal mind you. It's nice. Even if it's just small talk really. Even if the person wants something from me. Like the drug dealers I walk by every night on my way to work. One was so nice to me, this one time. Hell he really tried to get on my good side and sell me some drugs. I appreciated the effort. Dude is really cool and asks for a smoke? Hell yeah I'll give him a smoke, make some smal…
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:17 AM
1

What the fuck bro. How am I supposed to slowly kill myself in style?
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:10 AM
3

Let me throw a lil logic bomb your way, bruh. Let's inverse this situation. How much do YOU look at other people? I mean if you've been out in public today, think. How many people were memorable to you? How many did you just stare at inquisitively? How much did you care about what they were doing? How much were other people looking at one particular person? The answer to all of those questions will probably be "not much" as a general answer for the whole thing. Think, when do you actually pay so…
/r/seduction17/06/17 09:31 AM
3

The problem with mental or physical masturbation or whatever other kind is that you're rewarding yourself for doing nothing tangible or important. You trick your brain with a false sense of accomplishment. Like when you tell someone you're going to do something. What happens? Quite often you don't end up doing it. If it's something not scheduled that is. Because when you tell someone you're going to do something like approach a girl, they go like "whoa really man, that's awesome. You got balls."…
/r/seduction17/06/17 08:53 AM
108

Maybe you're just smokin' OP.
/r/seduction17/06/17 08:44 AM
3

Hey, Woujo. Yeah I know. I'm still alive, sunshine. Still haven't killed myself unfortunately for you. You failed to make me leave this sub so how do you think that'll work out with Zoidy?
/r/seduction16/06/17 09:12 PM
7

SERIOUS stay the fuck away vibes That's probably more in your own head than anyone else's
/r/seduction16/06/17 11:33 AM
3

Hmmmmmmm I know from experience that nothing works for me. No "trick" or "method" gets rid of the problem. So if you're like me, I'm certain you don't want to hear this but the best way is to just do it. What can change the nature of a man? Belief. If you can believe. If you can convince yourself. You'll do it.
/r/seduction16/06/17 09:44 AM
1

Better to not see her ever again than to be constantly reminded of your failure to approach. I have 2 failures to approach living in a nearby building. I'm honestly happy that I haven't seen either in a long ass time. Working night shift has that benefit.
/r/seduction16/06/17 09:38 AM
1

Strangers smiling at you or you smiling at them is a concept that sort of baffles me. Makes no sense in my brain. Time for a little rant. Excluding some exceptions I can't even smile back at someone most of the time. Unless it's the mechanic or a front desk person at the gym or a cashier or something. The gym is one exception, y'know since everyone's in the same environment, it's not that weird. I like seeing someone smile at the gym since sometimes the atmosphere in there is fucking depressing.…
/r/seduction16/06/17 09:32 AM
1

Well socializing is nice but I think that if approaching becomes an actual thing for me. Y'know. Not just a one off thing that happens every other blood moon. I swear I'm going to have "relationships" which begin and end at the first and only conversation. Because I forget things like phone numbers and all that. I'm just really happy I'm talking to someone because I like new people and I like talking to people. But as nice as it is, it's just a single conversation. It's very likely you won't see…
/r/seduction16/06/17 08:54 AM
1

Crutch or no crutch at least you're photogenic and got those slick salesman skills where before they know it, they're already in bed with you. I mean I'd say since Pickup is personal development you'll have to get out of your comfort zone and approach sooner or later. Some dudes don't have either of those two blessings. So it's time to double up and turn your 1 into a 2.
/r/seduction16/06/17 08:29 AM
1

Bruh, no. Being black doesn't matter. In fact you'll get a boost with certain girls just for that. You'll be the risque/taboo, but not really, potential fling. Being white in a white country gets you... well nothing. The world is so liberal nowadays, you can't possibly use that as an excuse. Tall? Yeah tall increases your manliness which also increases your intimidation factor. If I were 6'4... uhhh I'd be fucking terrifying. So they could be offput and intimidated. Regardless I've used Tinder a…
/r/seduction16/06/17 08:26 AM
1

Well, it'd be a shame if your own life withered away because of your family. Do you think they want you to be miserable? Well more than likely, no, I don't think they do. I'm not the sole moneymaker in the family but my mom works in tourism and it's a hit or miss. My dad works in a rather dead end job and helps with the tourism thing. They have their own thing going on here in Portugal for our countrymen. But my brother moved out this month since he's getting married and the bills will be even m…
/r/seduction15/06/17 08:40 AM
1

What if you have nowhere to put yourself? What do you do then?
/r/seduction13/06/17 06:10 AM
2

Welcome to the pickup community - we relabel, reformat and rephrase so hard and so often. That if you just put it all together we can sum it up with one sentence "It's hard and scary to do. Do it. You'll be a better man." A lot faster, exact same impact and you haven't read through a bunch of pretentious fluff and filler.
/r/seduction13/06/17 06:06 AM
1

Well ya gotta do it, you have a some base already. You have a reason to be confident I consider myself way happier than before I started getting into PUA theory and self-development. I'm glad for you because on the social and sexual fronts I'm far more miserable because I'm self aware now. Don't hate on the guys here What
/r/seduction13/06/17 05:44 AM
0

My experience? None. But the funny part is that I can't be wrong because this is pretty obvious.
/r/seduction13/06/17 05:40 AM
8

Please Chad. Chad please. Please Chad. I can only take so much of your negativity before you start sounding bitterly angry.
/r/seduction12/06/17 06:21 PM
3

Naturally until you start to sear through her skull
/r/seduction12/06/17 06:06 PM
2

Not to shit on the advice but it's... circular. There is no AHA. As in, we haven't learned anything. It's the same as saying: "You didn't approach the girl. You gotta act fast and approach." It's obvious. It's better than dead silence. It's better than nothing. And waiting for some sort of situation where you can open is... I mean... situational. Obviously. But in your scenario, you probably sat down next to the hot girl because... well she's hot. It's probably not completely random chance that …
/r/seduction12/06/17 05:52 PM
1

Here's the thing, "getting along" doesn't require "connecting." You can be superficial and share in the "small talk" and that's meaningless. True my getting along was never connecting. Here one person asked a simple follow-up question with all the sophistication of a child asking why. I most certainly get what you mean. The why is probably the hands down simplest and best tool to go deeper. But I don't like asking why. For some reason whenever I do the person either simply doesn't open up or the…
/r/seduction12/06/17 05:43 PM
10

Y'know when you read PUA problems like these you really don't want to be one. It's like even in success you find a reason to shit on yourself. Even if you didn't lie or trick anyone, I can imagine it being unpleasant.
/r/seduction12/06/17 05:07 PM
3

Shit and here we thought AI would exterminate humanity. Nah, we'll use AI for Tinder
/r/seduction12/06/17 04:32 PM
21

"Hold on. I don't love you and I will never love you."
/r/seduction12/06/17 01:58 PM
1

I've never had a girl look at me or smile at me. I must be really unfriendly looking. I only get smiles from the elderly black woman on the ferry, trying to give me an exorcism, throwing rice around and clasping her hands together while talking incomprehensibly. Maybe I should take that exorcism. No I'm not joking. I'm not sure if she really wants to exorcise me or not but she does that. Anyway, just do it. Are you really going to wait for a girl to look up from her phone straight at you and smi…
/r/seduction12/06/17 01:49 PM
1

If you want to do it. Do it. If you don't want to do it. Don't. I mean I wouldn't. But my ex is a cute, dirty blonde haired, blue eyed shorty with a fat ass. Maybe you could... indeed do better. I dunno, bro. It's up to you. If you'll feel good about yourself afterwards, then sure why not I guess. If you won't or aren't sure then you probably shouldn't.
/r/seduction12/06/17 01:36 PM
2

The confidence from banging a fat girl? Don't get me wrong but what's your reasoning for gaining confidence here? "Fuck yes at least some girl wants me inside her"
/r/seduction12/06/17 01:32 PM
1

Consume as little theory as you possibly can. Read the sidebar, watch some videos, read some articles. And when I say some, I do fucking mean it. SOME isn't a 20 video playlist. Putting it simply, you need the basic principles to start. And then you start. No techniques, no terrifying truths, no redpill BS. Start as soon as possible. Because you'll never be "ready" or will you know "enough" to start. In fact, you'll only be further and further away from ready the more you consume pickup content.…
/r/seduction12/06/17 01:29 PM
1

Consume as little theory as you possibly can. Read the sidebar, watch some videos, read some articles. And when I say some, I do fucking mean it. SOME isn't a 20 video playlist. Putting it simply, you need the basic principles to start. And then you start. No techniques, no terrifying truths, no redpill BS. Start as soon as possible. Because you'll never be "ready" or will you know "enough" to start. In fact, you'll only be further and further away from ready the more you consume pickup content.…
/r/seduction12/06/17 01:29 PM
2

Consume as little theory as you possibly can. Read the sidebar, watch some videos, read some articles. And when I say some, I do fucking mean it. SOME isn't a 20 video playlist. Putting it simply, you need the basic principles to start. And then you start. No techniques, no terrifying truths, no redpill BS. Start as soon as possible. Because you'll never be "ready" or will you know "enough" to start. In fact, you'll only be further and further away from ready the more you consume pickup content.…
/r/seduction12/06/17 01:29 PM
2

Barely see her? So you do see her. Simple. Put her away from your mind by focusing on your daily activities and your eternal journey of personal development. Keep her on the backburner and when she pops up IRL, talk to her. Meanwhile, why not talk to other girls. Messaging for a bit then escalating? Nah bro, don't ease into it. Just jump straight in. Don't go the easy way first. You just jump into the cold water, you don't ease into it.
/r/seduction12/06/17 01:23 PM
1

Whoa, sounds like you're a bit invested already. Just relax. Don't get tunnel vision on one girl.
/r/seduction12/06/17 11:38 AM
1

Let's just say that even though it's not a complete waste of time. You could use your time more effectively since most your messages will not get a reply. You probably have something you could be doing instead.
/r/seduction12/06/17 11:35 AM
1

Savage.
/r/seduction12/06/17 11:02 AM
8

I do neither but you should do both.
/r/seduction12/06/17 10:15 AM
1

Is it mostly the job's schedule that makes you feel this way? Have you always felt this way? Or is there something that changed, to lead to this? I mean I've always been the weird kid in school. The weird kid that got along with everyone but the weird kid nonetheless. The token cool weirdo in the group. What have you changed in 6 months? Honestly these past 6 months have been a roller coaster which isn't necessarily change. Lots of questioning myself, tons of attempts at doing things differently…
/r/seduction12/06/17 10:01 AM
1

No. I'm just really giving OP some perspective. That not everyone has the opportunity to go out and party at night. You however, love to shove your negativity in my face. And while I appreciate the "faggots", "pussies" and "hopefully you kill yourself soon". I really do appreciate it. It's a barrel of laughs. As much as I admire your efforts, I'm afraid they're in vain.
/r/seduction12/06/17 09:04 AM
1

Your bro can pinch your cheeks. No harm in that.
/r/seduction11/06/17 01:18 PM
4

Y'know what else sucks? To work on a saturday night. Work on a friday night. A sunday night too. Cooped up underground, making bread with only the company of your brother who memes like crazy and only talks about Rainbow Six Siege. And wading through the riverside littered with people partying and having fun. Waiting for the ferry to the other side, no one waiting there looks like they're heading off to work. Y'know I'd absolutely love to just enjoy one night, hell I don't even need friends, I d…
/r/seduction11/06/17 01:15 PM
3

Better listen to Chad, bro. He'll call you a pussy and faggot so many times you'll think you're on Xbox Live.
/r/seduction11/06/17 01:03 PM
3

they're not afraid of getting raped or shit like that, Fucking cuckcasualamateurbeta. Watch me, just gotta flash my patented, full on joker smile and she'll dig through the core of the earth to get away from CERTAIN doom. ANYWAY I don't know why this is even a question. Great starting point. Now keep going. As Kalo said, keep going up the ladder.
/r/seduction11/06/17 01:00 PM
1

Honestly the only thing that truly resonates within me as the cause of the holding me back is I'm often feeling like a person detached from humanity. Since I have very few people I could easily call friends and I rarely see or hang out with them because they are really stagnant. They don't have that fire to improve every day. I like them personally but they're the same they've been when I met them. Obviously more mature but the same. I change a lot as a person in the time span of 6 months for ex…
/r/seduction11/06/17 09:33 AM
1

Honestly I don't think the why matters. I tried to decipher it all and figure out why can't I still do anything about this? Or rather why am I not doing anything? I've come up with reasons and explanations but none of them explain why I don't approach. The reasons and explanations don't give you a can't card. They just give you some information that you can't apply or use. Doesn't matter what fear you have. Doesn't matter what circumstance you're in. Musing over it doesn't get you anywhere. Lear…
/r/seduction10/06/17 03:32 PM
1

A movie or TV show? Sex scene? Uhhh no. I can't say it bothers me. Most I could ever feel from that is a half chub. When it comes to real life. I'm generally happy for people, honestly. Especially if they seem really into each other. For some reason that sort of changed in me. It used to get on my nerves, I hated seeing it IRL. It just sparked this unreasonable butthurt anger. It legitimately made me want to kill people sometimes. In that angsty teen sort of way. Now I just feel happy for people…
/r/seduction10/06/17 09:18 AM
1

Are you a professional clown? I mean honestly it's a boring exchange if it's one sided. Questionnaires. Interviews. All that jazz. If you give but don't receive, you're not having a lot of fun probably. Unless you just love to talk, love the sound of your own voice, love how you feel like Hitler talking about the master race to an enormous audience. Y'know that sort of stuff. Or you're giving her dick. That's the other fun scenario. But I mean even the most shy person can get cracked if they are…
/r/seduction10/06/17 08:38 AM
1

Oh well I just canned the whole thing with her. She said she was legitimately interested in getting to know me. Well... there's a lesson. Seddit's retarded. And so am I for following its advice.
/r/seduction09/06/17 01:19 PM
1

Well that's putting it lightly. If I went to the mall and asked them. I think I'd come up with 0 answers that were "Yeah I totally know what reddit is. I go there all the time."
/r/seduction09/06/17 12:36 PM
1

Woujo I really love you, bro. And you also piss me the fuck off. Well you're pretending like you have shot a gun. Never did I say that I have shot said gun. Except there's one thing I don't understand. Of all the things I said in the post you replied to. What's wrong? I'm genuinely curious if you're going off my current post or just the past depressive posts I've made. Why is it so easy to get you upset? I'm a gun without a safety. That's about the most clever thing I can come up with.
/r/seduction09/06/17 12:34 PM
1

hmmm I most certainly have considered that I'm the sucker and the toy in all this since this shit doesn't make a whole lot of sense in the practical sense. Honestly as egotistical as I am, I wouldn't disregard the input of people far more experienced than I am.
/r/seduction09/06/17 12:31 PM
1

Don't do this. It's creepy and shows lack of abundance and lack of self-esteem. It's also a waste of time. Go meet girls in real life. A man with abundance would value his time more than to message random people that are probably not going to message him back. I most certainly can muse and philosophize on my smoke breaks. That's most certainly true. As for your little situation, this is the typical text buddy situation. She wants a text buddy, but will flake and go cold the moment you try to han…
/r/seduction09/06/17 12:28 PM
1

We'll bang ok?
/r/seduction09/06/17 11:08 AM
4

you will always be the same little GF with penis to this girl. Finish Him
/r/seduction09/06/17 08:50 AM
2

any time I work up the confidence to hit up a girl online You need confidence to say something to a girl ONLINE? Really? Really? Uhm... ok I suppose. Ok so regardless of your confidence. Regardless of what you say or when you say it. It's a dice roll. You're always rolling the dice if that's where your interaction with the girl starts. I've made it a habit to just say random shit to girls online. Since I've been going on adding sprees on FB for shits and giggles. I just come up with weird or str…
/r/seduction09/06/17 08:46 AM
7

I like this post. This is a good post.
/r/seduction09/06/17 08:23 AM
1

Fuck off, Woujo. As much as I appreciate the shit you've said before. Fuck off, broseph. You are the one that loudly proclaimed here that he was giving up because he was never getting laid. Yeah I did. A couple of times. So what? Bad moments. Rapidfire stupid thinking. Don't give people advice until you figure out your own shit. I don't need to shoot a gun to know that it's not as simple as videogames make it look. And besides, what difference does it make who you get advice from? If a gun exper…
/r/seduction09/06/17 08:09 AM
2

Forward broseph. You always keep going forward. Marth made a good point. You can't control what life throws at you. If life isn't throwing anything at you, then your life isn't really worth living. Sure being horny and lonely sucks. When you don't know what to do with those things, it sure sucks. Definitely. No doubt about that. Sometimes you just have to look at things differently. Thing is that you talk about opportunities. But they're there. I just can't seem to talk to girls that I've never …
/r/seduction08/06/17 02:58 PM
7

Remember: No means Yes. Please stop means Please Don't stop. You're hurting me means Keep going. Utensils: You could opt for the knife if you want the rush of endangering. Or the chloroform if you're a bit of a sleazebag. Some rope is useful but get an actual chain if you can. You could use a ballgag but what fun would that be? Alright go get 'em champ. As for the non rapist techniques. Your acting skills and improv better be on point if she thinks you're not a virgin. Ok so: Everything is forep…
/r/seduction08/06/17 10:26 AM
13

Well holy shit Seriously. What are you here for? To tell us you suck? Ok you suck. Or do you want a different perspective than the one you have? I'll be honest and say that you sound fucking retarded when you say that shit. You sound like the most special damn emo kid on the planet about to slice his wrists because of his bloody valentine. Listen, I've gone through thought processes like these. They'd usually come in bursts. Now they don't appear anymore. Thinking like that, yes you are most cer…
/r/seduction08/06/17 09:55 AM
6

That's extremely situational. Assuming you're the friendly and good looking type sure that'll work eventually. And besides, she was already looking at you. All you had to do was return the glare. It's a good thing to have self awareness. And if you know your face generally isn't the friendliest or most attractive sort then just glaring at some chick in public will more likely end up in her getting uncomfortable. You can of course be smirking at her. That will probably gain you some points. Even …
/r/seduction08/06/17 08:16 AM
3

I got ya, fam. First off you gotta: Approach.
/r/seduction08/06/17 08:02 AM
11

Let your dick rise up from the depths of your pants. Let it pierce the heavens. Let it go and let it be free. For it yearns for freedom. It yearns for the embrace of sweet puss. Sustain your package. Cherish it. Respect it. Support it. Polish it. Thou shalt not hide it. Thou shalt not shame it. Thou shalt not oppress it. For you are a man. And a man must let his meat roam the universe.
/r/seduction08/06/17 08:00 AM
2

So this is what I see when I come back to Seddit? Really Seddit? Come on, brosephs. OT: There is no point in doing what you describe. Any of the things you describe are downright pointless acts. Commenting, reacting or whatever else. And for the sake of fuck, she probably knows she looks good because she has a metric fuckton of thirsty chodes complimenting her. I legit saw this a couple weeks ago. I have some chick added and she changes her profile pic. What do I see? This wave. This absolute, t…
/r/seduction05/06/17 10:44 AM
1

No. When I said it, I meant and if I said it now, I'd still mean it. I have... an idea as to why I suddenly became so worn out. I was never THAT into this thing that I was just "Fuck yeah let's do this shit. Let's steamroll these bitches." But I was also never a complete downer as I have been these past couple of weeks. I've been really needlessly stressed because of work. Always thinking about the what ifs, the whys and generally overthinking everything. My willpower took a beating. I stopped g…
/r/seduction03/05/17 11:24 AM
2

Gah, motherfuck. What can I even say. Well, you're right, broseph. I'd say more but I have to go work soon. You're right, man. You're right. In more ways than one I'm doing this to myself and keeping myself in this state of reluctant acceptance of misery. Thanks, bro. For once again beating some sense into my thick skull.
/r/seduction02/05/17 10:25 PM
2

When you don't do something you want to do. When you backed yourself into a corner with your own actions. Stuck alone with no one but yourself. No comfort and nothing holding you up. Nothing to mitigate the stress. No one to vent to. You can be honest with yourself. Or you can bullshit yourself and try to make up a myriad of reasons as to why it's not your fault.
/r/seduction02/05/17 10:10 PM
2

All you're doing is jacking yourself off with your pseudo help. As I said I have no clue what's the beef here.
/r/seduction02/05/17 10:08 PM
1

I don't know what's your beef with me. I don't know why you got a stick up your ass. But I hope you know I'm not doing any of what you're saying. And a post that perhaps knocks some sense into the brosephs around here, will always be better than the 1000th post about how to get X, Y, Z with "These simple steps". And fuck off with the therapist already. Not happening. I honestly find it fucking laughable. You sound like one of those people that sees mental illness fucking everywhere. Gonna ask me…
/r/seduction02/05/17 09:58 PM
2

Great job, man. Legen-fuckin-dary I'd say even. I personally find it awesome when shit hits the fan in life, and instead of dwelling on it, you pick yourself up by the bootstraps and charge the bitch with a smile. I had a somewhat similar click. Not nearly as awesome but it was nice. As I said, great shit, broseph. Keep killin' it.
/r/seduction02/05/17 11:07 AM
1

You cannot even talk to a woman you don't know, then? I can ask her for the time if I have to. And no that's not gonna work as a sly trick or something. And you never will, ever again in your life? Have sex? Nope, ever again. Approach? I do remember one time where I did, last year. Before finding out about this rabbit hole of pickup. But no, I won't approach. Talk to a woman? If she's a coworker I can banter I suppose. I do it when I'm in a good mood at work which is less and less often. Or I ca…
/r/seduction02/05/17 11:00 AM
2

Tried to look at it that way as well. Problem is, you need to see yourself as a prize, a catch, someone worth knowing in order for that mindset to get you anywhere. Needless to say, as much as I may like myself, I don't see myself as a catch. I can lie to others but I can't really lie to myself. Truth be told, that girl, whoever she may be, is better off without a dude like me in her life. After all, if I'm that much of a pussy that I can't approach a girl and just say hi to her, what real worth…
/r/seduction02/05/17 10:51 AM
1

Self destructive, limiting beliefs. What else could it really be. If you can't get rid of those then... well... unless you can fake it, you're not getting anywhere. You're going literally nowhere.
/r/seduction02/05/17 10:45 AM
1

Nah, broseph. I never will change mine. I'm weak. I only hope there's very few like me.
/r/seduction01/05/17 07:28 AM
2

Yeah, I've heard it all before. But what can I say. I'm a chode and a wimp. Ain't got the balls, the stones nor the spine for it.
/r/seduction30/04/17 07:04 PM
2

That video makes me want to skydive. Not game. Regardless I've said before that I gave up so yeah.
/r/seduction30/04/17 06:51 PM
2

You're trying to help guys stay positive by telling them you gave up. That's sorta stupid, OP. I mean honestly I gave up myself but I'm just wondering, what's your thought process to think that this would help someone? Help someone give up, sure. Make it an easier decision. Even though I gave up, I want to see others succeed. I wouldn't give them the option to just quit. And this sort of mentality of "I lost the genetic lottery" is pretty stupid too. You're deflecting the blame all the way into …
/r/seduction30/04/17 06:45 PM
2

I get the core principle. It's a pretty clear cut one. It doesn't really work for me. Sure I've had the times where I was horny to all hell and wanted to approach but I didn't so... it might as well not be there.
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:50 PM
3

NoFap, while great won't do anything in that department, for me anyway.
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:22 PM
2

Sounds like a whole lotta bullshit to me. You can't sell me the idea that being attractive has any even remotely significant downside.
/r/seduction30/04/17 08:56 AM
1

Isn't it "against his will"?
/r/seduction30/04/17 08:53 AM
1

I'll humor you as well, pussy slayer. 1 Never said it was about looking hip. I said that I don't find "what's in" appealing. And what you describe. Especially shoes, that's what's IN. 2 By all means. I wouldn't do it because I think it's silly. 3 I play with my style as well, I do by all means take chances at things I look at and say "I may like that." 4 You severely blew the drug dealer joke out of proportion. 5 By dressing nice, or well or whatever other word you may want to use. You still ben…
/r/seduction29/04/17 10:12 AM
1

Sheesh, you're approaching. See that as a victory in and of itself.
/r/seduction28/04/17 10:06 PM
5

Then it's not a particularly useful training exercise. No report or "The one thing" are useful. Since it's all filtered through their own experience. And since men are different. And women are also different. The advice and the tips and the tricks and all that jazz lose all value.
/r/seduction28/04/17 03:22 PM
4

Not to shit on you, broseph. But this is the sort of content you see on a regular basis and you essentially read the same thing over and over again. Reformated, reframed, reworded and so on. And it doesn't give someone a step forward or a step back. I'm not talking about myself. I'm talking about everyone. This is essentially pickup 101. Take women off the pedestal. Nowadays I only wish for at least a week of pure serenity where not only do I not wonder nor worry about women. I also don't even t…
/r/seduction28/04/17 10:05 AM
0

Man everyone's a hacker nowadays. Also I can't grow a beard. Sorry man. Just not in my genes.
/r/seduction28/04/17 09:51 AM
57

OP must be packing some firepower to gain points with a dick pic. Good shit even though it looks pretty... unbelievable in the sense that I don't get how it went so deep so quickly. Is that how it always or usually goes? Or is it cherry picked?
/r/seduction28/04/17 09:47 AM
3

The main problem with clothes and style is that not everyone has the same taste. I, for instance, am extremely picky when it comes to what I wear. I absolutely detest these hip boots/shoes. The only types of footwear I'd ever wear are dress shoes, steel toe leather boots and sneakers. None of those dishcloth sneakers though. I'll take leather. I find the way most hip clothes look absolutely repulsive. I don't like wearing layered clothing. Shit like khakis or something. Usually I will only wear …
/r/seduction28/04/17 09:37 AM
1

Ye never know I do suppose.
/r/seduction27/04/17 02:10 PM
1

Big strong man that don't need no validation. If that's all then those points must be turned up to 11. Sorta weird. Though you're somewhat my opposite. I'm like a bulldozer, I almost never smile unless there is an explicit reason for it and my mind is always racing. Can't say much on the confident side as I have no clue whether I'm confident or not. So I suppose I just can't understand you because you're so different from me.
/r/seduction27/04/17 12:03 PM
7

Don't sit on that question. It's a pretty meh matter. I find the "I like your face" weird. It can mean as I said, the positive counterpart to "I don't like your face." Which no one says in terms of attractiveness. People usually say it like... well they just don't like your face. Not because it's ugly or pretty but because of the vibe it gives off. Or sure it can mean she finds you attractive but that's a very weird way of putting it. Since there's no way to tell by just talking about it. Roll o…
/r/seduction27/04/17 11:58 AM
2

Are you going to tell me you have absolutely no clue as to what's going on? I stand out like a sore thumb to people as well but in my case it keeps them at a distance. Everything about me screams black sheep. I can probably list off all the reasons I'm a black sheep. Can you list the reasons as to why you're a human magnet? Is this one of those things where we can rant on and on about what's wrong but when it comes to talking about what's right, we're just completely at a loss?
/r/seduction27/04/17 11:44 AM
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It's the positive counterpart to "I don't like your face."
/r/seduction27/04/17 11:41 AM
1

Read the sidebar, watch some PUA content and then leave and never come back. You gotta jump out into the wild as soon as possible. Or the odds of you doing it will be slimmer and slimmer as time passes.
/r/seduction27/04/17 10:58 AM
5

Ah yes, so that more dudes can have the excuse of "I'm still not done with the theory."
/r/seduction27/04/17 10:57 AM
2

Hard to accept or see another side to the coin when as far as you've known it. You got the shit end of the stick on that front. Like a person that's spent most of their life in jail. They get out and then what? The pits is where they've lived most of your life. When they crawl out of them, everything looks so alien. They don't know what to do. You could say they lost the ability to face society again. Same with this. Your reality is: "I'm invisible to women." Suddenly someone comes along and say…
/r/seduction27/04/17 10:56 AM
0

Same as your other post, this one... it just has no intrinsic value. This sort of advice is stupid. It's too vague and makes very little practical sense. Re-write the ending to your fear's story. Bleed out the emotional charge by letting go of behavioral modification in yourself and others. Re-frame your beliefs to get your neural pathway to adapt the new story. Y'know this is like you're trying to explain how to hack into the mainframe of Microsoft or something. You're using a bunch of fancy te…
/r/seduction27/04/17 10:49 AM
5

The other post is just BS, broseph. I can swallow the idea of "You gotta put in the work. You gotta approach and you gotta walk the walk." I cannot however swallow the idea of "Oh people just gravitate towards me because of some broscience I thought up." I can't take you seriously if you throw around a bunch of metaphors about Astronomy and magnets. I mean honestly, it's ridiculous.
/r/seduction27/04/17 10:40 AM
1

Tough it out. I mean it's like AA. There's nothing you can do about it. It won't just go away. There is no trick for it. You have to power through and tough it out. There's no other option.
/r/seduction25/04/17 09:04 AM
1

Don't make a thread about it. The more you acknowledge it, the more you talk about it, the stronger it will get. You are validating that thing's existence.
/r/seduction25/04/17 09:00 AM
5

If you tell me "I want to bang hot girls." That's fine. Who doesn't. If you tell me "I want to bang hot girls more than I want anything else in life." That's a problem. Who the fuck wants to be friends with a person whose goal is just so... I mean let's be honest. It's kinda fucking boring of a goal. It's hard as fuck, sure. To have pure palpable abundance. But it's by no means an interesting goal. Personally I don't want to be nowhere near a person like you. What, I introduce you to a friend of…
/r/seduction25/04/17 08:59 AM
8

Of all the biases I'd expect on here. I would never expect a dude to be whining about what other dudes wear.
/r/seduction24/04/17 09:46 AM
4

Nah you just go "You're not slutty. I'm just that good." But yeah some people bone. Some people don't. From experience I know that the only people that shit on others for having sex are those that are so fucking jealous and sexually frustrated but yet they want to pretend they're above it. Like they're better than the people having sex. I used to be one of those. Sort of dawned on me eventually. "I'm just bitter." And that was the end of that mindset. Pretty liberating. Even with the fact standi…
/r/seduction21/04/17 01:55 PM
1

Are you saying that because you've had girls put up that +10 Anti-Slut Shield or because you're not even going far enough for them to pull it out? Regardless it's not gonna change anytime soon, broseph. Dick's cheap. If girls started doing that, sure it'd be easier for us. Personally not only would I find it unpleasant, suspicious but I'd also see it as cheap. Like... I didn't do anything, why would I be getting this?
/r/seduction21/04/17 01:34 PM
0

What the fuck am I reading this for?
/r/seduction21/04/17 09:49 AM
1

I don't care about the upvotes nor anything else. "Which part makes you feel like I'm judging you?" "Was it what I said, or how I said it?" "How would you like me to make suggestions in future? Or would you prefer it if I didn't make suggestions?" "A good listener". Sounds like a pussy to me.
/r/seduction20/04/17 09:33 PM
1

No. It's not worth banging a fat girl in general. I mean unless you have a thing for all the jiggle and handles you can take. If she isn't getting you stiff from just being naked in front of you, she's not worth the bang.
/r/seduction20/04/17 08:08 AM
1

If you are not fucking women, you are probably masturbating I'm not doing either one. We do have more options in life than animals do. We can look past our primal instincts, urges and desires. That's why we don't KTFO people when they piss us off. Because we CAN not do it. We do not need sex, love or affection to be happy. You may find it necessary because you have it, thus you can't live without it. But those that don't have it, I mean... we managed to get this far, haven't we? You don't have t…
/r/seduction20/04/17 08:04 AM
1

Women are an important and necessary part of a man's life. I would not go that far as to say necessary. They're a great thing if they're there but they're not necessary by any stretch imo. And of that 20%, 90% of that should be actually doing shit (approaching, talking to girls, etc...) and only 10% should be reading shit. Honestly, if I ever start trying to get laid. I'm not going to be doing a whole lot of reading up on the matter. There's no point. It's just a bunch of garbage in your head af…
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:44 PM
1

The fuck are you regretting it for? You can't change it, you can't turn back time. Sure it's upsetting of what could have been but you're really blowing it out of proportion. Simplify it. Don't romanticize it like she's the one that "got away". She's gone and if you don't move on she'll just be one of many. Does it even matter if you fucked up? What you read? Whether she wanted you to give her the princess carry or whatever the fuck? Regardless of whether it was your fuckup or she was just not s…
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:12 PM
2

Useful for newbies. Useless to everyone else. Basically Do far more than reading or watching content involving or talking about the doing. Take all the content you read or watch with a grain of salt. Get your shit together. Get a life that is an effective platform with tons of pillars and a roof. Seduction is the fancy ornament you put on the roof. So I don't have friends, a social life of any measure or a "cool" life which I don't really know what it means but I suppose it means an exciting and…
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:07 PM
1

Gosh darn it, I suppose all the torture and sex aren't going to get any pussy wet. Anyway. I don't get why they gotta be down with your passions for you to follow them.
/r/seduction19/04/17 09:35 AM
3

Your parents don't LET a 20 year old go out? Wha? If you work then just do it of your own volition perhaps? Surely the house won't be full 24/7. And if it is, it's summer, smash some puss in the bushes. And is your family ridiculously religious or something?
/r/seduction18/04/17 10:19 PM
2

As of yet I have not. There are no miracles that can break it for me. There's no epiphany or realization that will make me go "whoa that's so true man." leave the house and then approach like a maniac. Circumstance certainly doesn't help either. Night shift sucks dick. And it means I essentially am free at the time few others are. Not much to approach during these hours.
/r/seduction18/04/17 10:16 PM
1

Stuck at home doing what? And how are you "stuck"?
/r/seduction18/04/17 10:10 PM
14

That realization doesn't help nearly as much as you seem to think.
/r/seduction18/04/17 10:09 PM
1

Well I don't care. I'd prefer to be a corpse than give that up. I'd rather never have sex again, never kiss a woman and be surrounded every day by gorgeous women that I could never fuck. I'd rather deal with that than give up my writing. And besides it's not even a genre. You can have every single genre in fantasy. From horror to romance.
/r/seduction18/04/17 10:01 PM
1

I do suppose that saying fuck it, swiping right on everything and then ignoring the unwanted matches would be rather simple.
/r/seduction18/04/17 11:23 AM
1

I love looking like a snazzy and obvious drug dealer straight outta Florida or some shit. So I guess that's what I should do?
/r/seduction18/04/17 10:28 AM
48

Age of consent is 16. Just don't knock her up and have fun smashing. I mean... why not?
/r/seduction18/04/17 10:25 AM
25

Time is most certainly running out. It runs out pretty quickly. I suppose a guy should just get his shit together and get moving before he finds himself dead.
/r/seduction18/04/17 10:24 AM
2

Some hobbies are better than others obviously. The more "mainstream" they are. The better. Extreme sports are a given. It's edgy and thrilling so those are an easy win if you want to give them a stab. Anything from rock climbing to contact sports. Dancing as others have said is an obviously social and useful hobby. As long as it's mainstream and not some obscure type of dancing. I mean it doesn't even have to be obscure. As badass as I happen to find ballet because it's self torture, most people…
/r/seduction18/04/17 10:17 AM
2

Uhm... eff' off fam. I'm an aspiring fantasy writer.
/r/seduction18/04/17 09:54 AM
1

Swipe right on all? What? Are you high?
/r/seduction18/04/17 09:32 AM
1

Is it really that simple though? Y'know just simplify the concept of approaching to the barebones concepts.
/r/seduction17/04/17 03:18 PM
1

So you don't talk to people? Other than family, coworkers and vague exchanges with people at the gym. No. Did your facial muscles fail? My face is actually really expressive. I don't have much to say to you as I don't really feel like defending what you're attacking. I'd rather not give the side of doubt and self defeat any more steam than it already has. In any case my only option when it comes to women is daygame cold approaching. Nightgame is out of the picture. I work night shifts. Social ci…
/r/seduction17/04/17 03:03 PM
2

Because... I enjoy doing them. They're fun, I feel their benefits and I enjoy the process. It's a great way of challenging myself. Hitting that cold shower is fun because you just sort of enjoy the pussy out thoughts you get before you do. It's amusing. And great when you finally turn on the cold water and it hits you like a truck. The gym, I mean that's self explanatory. The burn. The pain. The struggle. It's satisfying. Doing leg day and then walking back home? Yeah you feel like a castle buil…
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:58 PM
1

Well what can I say. You're right. I wish this were an epiphany or something. Yesterday was simply just another day of doing a night shift that lasted almost 10 hours. Far past the "night" too. With a boss that only demonstrates himself ever-more incompetent. Not to mention inconsiderate. So I was dead tired and cranky. Same old same old. During the day I'm all fine and shine. Even if I want to say the things I said here, I can't be convinced by them since I do happen to be far more self aware t…
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:54 PM
1

As I've said before, this pickup shit isn't for everyone. There are many steps a dude has to take in order to even try to be a casanova. Nightgame isn't an option for me just out of sheer circumstance. Not to mention ALL the rest. I love giving you people explanations because all you see is excuses. It rubs you all the wrong way for some reason too. Not everyone's got a life filled with women to game and friends to make. Not everyone's living a life of opportunity. There are many who... live the…
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:21 PM
2

ITT casanova diaries Pretty good stories.
/r/seduction17/04/17 09:12 AM
1

If those self improvement exercises taught me anything is that they won't give me the strength or the energy to approach. Unfortunately they do nothing for that aspect of life.
/r/seduction17/04/17 05:49 AM
1

My response was more so: I'd rather listen to music that I enjoy. I'm not deliberately going out of my way to listen to music most people wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole. What can I say? I hate pop, R&B, kizomba and all of that garbage. And besides, all I could really think when I was watching the video was: A - I hate clubs because of the aforementioned aversion to club music. B - I won't have a girl grinding on me ever in my life.
/r/seduction17/04/17 05:47 AM
1

Uh huh, if you think I blame anything or anyone other than myself you're dead wrong.
/r/seduction17/04/17 05:40 AM
1

You'd think I made that fact abundantly clear
/r/seduction17/04/17 05:28 AM
-1

I often ask myself the same exact thing. "You aren't using any of this no matter how much you may want to. Just say fuck it already. Even when you feel like a million bucks you still don't do shit. Let. It. Go."
/r/seduction16/04/17 06:35 PM
0

A very useful marketing gimmick, I get it. But that's simply not true, broseph. I mean you can call it whatever you like. Weakness. Pussy. Loser. Spinelessness. You can paint it any one of those things but the outcome is the same, innit? Some people are broken straight outta the box. They were never "meant", if you will, to do X. That's why they can't do it. Their brain doesn't let them.
/r/seduction16/04/17 06:10 PM
0

I get you want to help. But some people are a lost cause when it comes to pickup. I know because I am one.
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:54 PM
2

How do you have that many questions... 5 a day. Goddamn. Just ignore him. What, you think he's suddenly gonna get shit done because of a conversation on a forum with a stranger?
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:36 PM
1

Let the man ask for his stupid advice.
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:07 PM
-1

I'd rather listen to splittercore.
/r/seduction16/04/17 04:49 PM
3

Well regardless it's good to know I don't have to worry. I'm so far out of the realm of game it's hilarious. But s'all good, man. Ain't gonna die without women.
/r/seduction13/04/17 12:46 PM
1

Thanks, I try my best.
/r/seduction11/04/17 03:15 PM
1

It ain't gold but you have the makings of it. You definitely have something to build upon. Some people are have to try to make a chair out of toothpicks. You are not one of them.
/r/seduction11/04/17 12:39 PM
3

Now I'm sort of glad I'm single and a pickup chode.
/r/seduction10/04/17 10:56 AM
17

Joke's on you I don't have a girlfriend. I don't even have female friends.
/r/seduction10/04/17 09:57 AM
1

Sheesh talk about being miserable with a great life. Great social circle, fit, well groomed, hobbies. You have half the bricks laid out on the road. A social circle, nevermind a great one, is truly important. When it comes to lifestyle that's the only thing I'm lacking. And it's HUGE. fuckin' enormous. So... oh sheesh I'm at a loss I don't know what advice you can get because you don't need advice. You need to shut the fuck up. Go out, approach girls and focus on your career. That's it. You soun…
/r/seduction10/04/17 09:55 AM
2

Well. Good job. What more do you want, broseph? Just don't stop approaching. Easier to get through the day once you get out of bed.
/r/seduction08/04/17 01:13 PM
2

The main thing this subreddit can do is to push you to get out and practice interacting with with females. Don't say that. That's a flatout lie. I know this subreddit can't pull off shit like that. Because it's a bunch of anons with their own set of BS to worry about. It can't push you to do anything. The only thing that can is yourself. We can sit here and tell you all the harsh truths, all the tips and tricks and all that shit but to what end? Apply it or don't bother getting it. This sub can …
/r/seduction08/04/17 01:11 PM
1

I do indeed tend to start disagreeing on this sub just because. Excuses and explanations because sometimes I suppose I want to convince myself I can't do it.
/r/seduction05/04/17 03:52 AM
1

Yeah same here, happened several times.
/r/seduction04/04/17 05:31 PM
1

Learn something yeah but you'll be getting bogged down by theory regardless. 20 different perspectives don't really help. They're fun and interesting to consider but that's really it.
/r/seduction03/04/17 09:30 PM
2

Nope. I wish I did. Every time I come here it feels like I'm one step further away from actually doing it.
/r/seduction03/04/17 09:29 PM
3

Well hot damn and here I am burying the corpses of my social life, my sex life and my love life. Good post though.
/r/seduction03/04/17 05:46 AM
1

Nah bruv, you gotta splatter the dance floor with their brains and do some sick moves.
/r/seduction02/04/17 07:30 PM
1

Hard to start a day poorly if you take a cold shower when you wake up. Personally I don't think there is any amount of mental gymnastics that can make you feel good all the time. The most important thing is to start the day off the right foot. Get up as soon as you get your allotted sleep time. Don't lazy around in bed. Don't roll the alarms 5 minutes later. Don't lie in bed fantasizing about some shit. Do some medium level exercise when you're out and hit the cold shower. Do some meditating aft…
/r/seduction02/04/17 07:19 PM
1

Yeah. So? You think we're on this sub clinging to some Hollywood fantasy? Like we're in a library and we are just spaced out, we bump into the hot librarian, she drops her books, we help her out and our hands meet and then our eyes do? Really? Hell no. Fighting or investing is a waste of valuable time and energy.
/r/seduction02/04/17 07:13 PM
0

Fuck yourself, fam. I mean seriously I'm glad you got over that hurdle. I'm happy for you and I have to give you a begrudging pat on the back.
/r/seduction02/04/17 07:10 PM
2

Imma hit you with some hard hitting counters, fam. Paradigm 1 is a flat concept. Yes women love to get a good dicking. It gets you nowhere regardless of what you think about the matter. I know this and it doesn't change anything. Paradigm 2 is mental gymnastics out the ass. If you can fake it till you make it, good for you. Some can't. It makes no sense to me. Paradigm 3 is truth disguised as mental gymnastics. Since the average dude does not have abundance with women. He'll be happy to get anyt…
/r/seduction02/04/17 07:09 PM
1

If you have a life that's worth living every day. Masturbation is a very petty and pathetic thing to engage in.
/r/seduction02/04/17 06:17 PM
3

Hell yeah, broseph. I got your back.
/r/seduction02/04/17 06:14 PM
1

Uh huh, nice "argument". Considering we're on a personal development forum where we try to become better men. A "better" man doesn't tug on his dick while someone else fucks his partner. It's the epitome of an ULTRA beta male. Think of nature. What logic is there for an animal to let another male fuck his mate? Admit he's weak. Admit he's inferior. Admit he's unworthy of reproduction. With humans there is only another side to it. He gets off on his pathetic state and inferiority. Instead of y'kn…
/r/seduction01/04/17 04:19 PM
0

Fuck that.
/r/seduction31/03/17 06:29 PM
2

So I have a question. How do I stop flip flopping between giving up and not giving up? Also on the friend thing. I've come to know it the same way you say You can't have a healthy social life or relationship without friends. If you rely on women for your human relationships, you're going to have a bad time. You won't make friends unless you have friends. Regardless of what it's for, people want status and social proof. It ain't just women. Social circles don't accommodate weird mofos with no fri…
/r/seduction30/03/17 02:35 PM
1

He sounds more insecure than anything else. Or maybe he's an autistic troll. Or maybe he has alzheimer's. Who knows.
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:44 PM
1

This is like trying to be high energy when you're not. Trying to be the mysterious guy when you're not one naturally is as it implies, unnatural.
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:43 PM
1

That him? Legit? He ain't a bad lookin' mofo. He's doing some serious underselling.
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:41 PM
3

Never been on a date. Only ever had sex with one girl. My ex with whom I've been with for 2 years. She was hot sure but she was a mess of a person and made me into even more of a mess than I already was before. It was a high school BS little romance that chained me, wrecked all of my relationships with everyone, made me apathetic towards my life and all around me, absolutely fucked up my academics and kept me stagnated, only going downhill for those 2 years. I don't miss her. I miss the sex but …
/r/seduction27/03/17 07:31 PM
1

I've had 2 matches overall throughout my time on tinder. So don't feel bad bruv
/r/seduction27/03/17 07:10 PM
2

I figured as much. But I'd say it's not just "a little harder". Compared to "adulthood", school is a dirt easy place to make friends. Out in the world... sheesh... people don't get a pass without friends. Everyone just looks at you weird and keeps throwing those vague platitudes of "you have to go out with people". Used to shit on school all the time. Now I just regret I didn't do anything with the opportunities I had in it. Had the opportunities but neither the confidence nor the drive. Now I h…
/r/seduction27/03/17 06:48 PM
1

How?
/r/seduction27/03/17 05:57 PM
1

You should've bounced, broseph. Bounced hard.
/r/seduction26/03/17 07:26 PM
2

A natural... male model essentially. This dude has looks that could beat Ryan Reynolds. By all means mentality and all that jazz but he can get away with... well... let's just say he could probably get away with things that'd earn most of us a fight or jail time.
/r/seduction26/03/17 07:23 PM
3

I'm grateful to have been blessed with decently good looks You're not. If you were, you wouldn't be so doubtful. As for advice... well... Do some reading and watching. If, as you say you managed to get some without doing anything. That must mean you're... more than decently good looking. Social anxiety, nervousness and all that aren't exactly panty droppers so your looks must be. Thing is for a tall, attractive dude... you can get away with a lot of blunders. Women are horny and if they're horny…
/r/seduction26/03/17 07:09 PM
9

You work with what you got. No point in getting bitter or sad over it. Sure it's hard sometimes to face the fact that you haven't been given cards as good as someone else. What other option do you have though? Dwell on your disadvantages? Of course not. You accept 'em. They're there and you gotta live with 'em.
/r/seduction26/03/17 06:58 PM
1

Unless you're a game master, I'd say don't do it. But that's me. I'd like to have at least some safety net at play. And besides, there are plenty of dudes with more muscle and aggression than confidence or skill with women so if I were to go out at night which isn't likely, I'd like to be rolling deep.
/r/seduction26/03/17 03:25 PM
1

Broseph, plaster a smile on your face and you're golden. As for meeting girls. Yeah cold approach would probably be your only good avenue. Unless you like to appear in clubs/bars/parties alone. But yeah... cold approach is the way. As far as everyone says anyway, I have no clue since I'm an approach virgin.
/r/seduction26/03/17 03:19 PM
3

What in the fuck is an insulant facial expression?
/r/seduction25/03/17 08:56 PM
1

Sounds... sketchy. But why not.
/r/seduction25/03/17 08:56 PM
96

A good motto would be: "No one gives a shit about your problems, your insecurities or your feelings. Everyone's got their own fair share of that. And everyone thinks that the world revolves around them. Everyone thinks that everyone else judges them, mocks them and observes every single move for the slightest sign of weakness." No one gives a shit simply put. We're all self absorbed and selfish. We're all insecure one way or another. My name's Blurryface and I care what you think. That's actuall…
/r/seduction25/03/17 08:49 PM
2

I can relate to an extent but I fluctuate between somewhat different POVs than you. "I look so good a million bucks is jealous." "I'm too different and out of the ordinary." As others have said, what you have is a difference of focus. When you're good, you focus inward and you're like... yeah this is good shit. When you're bad, you focus outward and you go... goddamn everyone thinks I look like shit. But y'know everything we think and feel depends on a random whim of our innards. A few days ago …
/r/seduction25/03/17 07:20 PM
3

Well... that explains a lot. I don't go out at night.
/r/seduction25/03/17 06:49 PM
1

Honestly... I think women have enough boy toys on fb trying to nice guy their way into their panties to keep 'em entertained for a lifetime.
/r/seduction25/03/17 06:44 PM
2

"I'm shy, you're shy. Let's not talk or fuck and just keep walking." That's what you're saying, pretty much. Well... it doesn't bloody matter. They can think "Oh he's so cute... goddamn it... I'm so shy though." They can think "Goddamn I want him to fuck my brains out. come on... come 'ere." It don't matter, broseph. You'll NEVER know those thoughts are even fuckin' there. You'll be utterly oblivious and engrossed in your own shyness.
/r/seduction25/03/17 06:42 PM
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Elevator eyes: if you look at them, and they are looking at you in the eyes, and they then look up and down at the rest of your body AND they then go back to looking you in the eyes and they don't look away, it's a good signal they are interested. Goddamn who the fuck does that? Sounds like it's straight from a cheesy porno or a teen romance.
/r/seduction25/03/17 06:34 PM
1

Hey, it's not like I'm trying to be an asshole. It's called being yourself which is the dumbest advice on the planet. I wouldn't be surprised if she never wanted to speak to you again Oh she will. probably gossips about you being a piece of shit behind your back. Would be surprised if she didn't. Man I'm actually offended you seem to think I'm putting on an act because of tv and movies.
/r/seduction25/03/17 05:37 AM
1

I think people would be more receptive if you had come here to ask advice on a job application. A facebook message though? Do anything other than that. Please. Please. I beg of thee. The only use for FB messaging is to fuck around and throw around random messages into the void to girls you'll never see in your life.
/r/seduction24/03/17 07:41 PM
1

Broseph, I look at my birthday and say "One step closer to biting the dust". I'm quite aware we'll all wither away and die.
/r/seduction24/03/17 06:16 PM
1

Eh, I'd say don't bother with it. Sounds like it went on for a tad too long without in person contact. I don't have the insider scoop or anything but I'm quite certain girls have a bunch of dudes they keep around on impersonal contact for when they are bored or need some attention/validation. Shovelware of sorts. Just roll on by, broseph.
/r/seduction24/03/17 05:39 PM
1

I don't know why you're on a thread old as ass. But frankly, the cuck "fetish" is just being a pathetic piece of shit of a man. If you tug on your dick while your partner fucks other men you're a loser.
/r/seduction24/03/17 05:05 PM
3

"I'm really nervous but I wanted to get to know you." Wouldn't that castrate you automatically in their eyes?
/r/seduction24/03/17 05:48 AM
1

I'd rather be a virgin than a friendless dude that can't approach.
/r/seduction24/03/17 05:46 AM
2

Quite amusing that I started working myself after the exact opposite happened.
/r/seduction23/03/17 07:41 PM
2

According to everyone, Tinder profiles are a damn science for men. Selfie stick shouldn't be okay. Unless you're hot enough to get away with it. I have no clue, I'll just say right now. That there are guys who don't have the looks for Tinder and holy shit yes they do matter on Tinder of all things. Not even a matter of pure sex appeal. More so... mainstream sex appeal. Women on Tinder appear to stick to what's safe and forgive me for saying this but it's the dudes that look like every other fuck…
/r/seduction23/03/17 05:24 AM
1

Pretty much. Better than just returning the eye contact. Something has to happen in order for you to get somewhere. If it's just eye contact, she'll eventually look away and there's no guarantee she'll look back or give you another shot. I'd say the smirk or smile is good goto for those situations. Can't think of a whole lot else. If she reciprocates or shows some sort of crack in the armor like awkwardly looking away, blushing or some shit like that, that would also be a good indicator. But non…
/r/seduction21/03/17 03:14 PM
1

Well I'm shit out of luck. I got a chin patch but that's it. Well who cares, ya work with what ya got.
/r/seduction21/03/17 11:55 AM
1

I had that happen to me on the bus a couple days ago. Casually writing in the back, shirt half open, cute girl gets on the bus, sits a couple seats away, facing me. And very very quickly she starts to fuck me with her eyes. Her face really, saw her jaw drop for a moment, I made eye contact with her and I was writing so my mind was in a completely different place but holy fuck the way she returned my glare made my jeans quite tight and uncomfortable. I've only ever seen that look in one place, an…
/r/seduction21/03/17 11:49 AM
1

And remember not to give up! This is the hardest advice a dude can ever follow. It's also technically the easiest because you can never truly give up. Unless you throw ALL of your personal development into the toilet, it's a tad hard to go "that's it for women. I'm a monk now." And even if you do toss all of the personal development off to the side. You've seen behind the curtain. You cannot unsee what has been seen. The advice I'd give is not "Don't give up". The advice I give is "Realize you c…
/r/seduction20/03/17 09:32 PM
8

I think cars, bikes or whatever are dick magnets. "Whoa bro, nice ride." But I may be wrong. I mean... that's what I think when I see a cool car or bike. Unless she's into cars or bikes herself, all your car will really show her is the fact you have an alternative to public transit and wealth.
/r/seduction20/03/17 09:27 PM
2

Ah come on, that's not approaching. That's just being chatty.
/r/seduction20/03/17 07:19 PM
7

Quite certain there are certain dudes for whom even that isn't enough.
/r/seduction20/03/17 12:35 PM
1

Goddamn who bit your dick? Not a girl, I know. Was it your cat? Listen I am astonished by the fact you still sit around here on seddit, broseph. All I've ever seen you do is try to argue against what you're told. While being critical and skeptical are traits I tend to admire, here they're just not worth applying. Listen man, I'm sitting on a dry spell that will hit 1 year in the beginning of summer. I'm already making plans to sarcastically celebrate it. Look, I haven't found the balls to beat A…
/r/seduction20/03/17 11:18 AM
12

0 per day, 0 per week, 0 per month, 0 per year. Not a particularly impressive rate I know.
/r/seduction20/03/17 11:05 AM
2

Well... good for you, bud. Hope you're having fun.
/r/seduction19/03/17 08:20 PM
19

I've had 2 matches. A half assed conversation was max I ever got.
/r/seduction19/03/17 04:23 PM
-2

Good post, there's a certain guideline to follow. What will said action or sentence make her call you? The options are pretty much 3. Daddy - You're in the gold. You did it right. Friend - You didn't do anything and tried to hope for some ass. Creep/Asshole - You did the thing but fucked up in execution/calibration. Be her daddy, boys.
/r/seduction19/03/17 05:52 AM
1

Why do you seem so salty? It's not that I'm afraid. I just think these one liners are stupid af. And sorry but I don't believe you got laid with those magically stupid lines.
/r/seduction19/03/17 05:27 AM
2

Examples are nice but these sound like something that would go wrong for many dudes. While the overall point is good, I don't really see how those examples even work. And I must say. "Don't tell me how to live my life!" and "Stop trying to change me!" Who even says this with a straight face? No, my nuts are a separate issue that you also love. Or this? The other ones could conceivably work if you have charm blowing out of your ass. I like the 2nd one though, gave me a chuckle.
/r/seduction18/03/17 07:50 PM
2

Can't argue with that I suppose, bruv. I've been up for almost 24 hours. I get cranky. I'm sure you understand.
/r/seduction17/03/17 08:35 PM
2

Hmph, perhaps. Regardless night game is a big no. I don't have a sleep schedule that could work with it. The fact I can't move and don't have a lot of time is just a fact though. I didn't say I couldn't do ANYTHING about it and that I was fucked. It'd just be harder to do than for a well off student or someone that at least has a very stable and laid out job with a fairly normal schedule.
/r/seduction17/03/17 08:10 PM
4

While the general gist of the story is a solid one. It doesn't work for everyone. Not everyone lives in the oh so great US. You know what the south of Europe is? The ass of Europe. And I live in the ass hole of Europe. Moving would be great and all... except y'know... I'm 20 and I don't make NEARLY enough money to move. That's to move to Lisbon(aka the Capital). No one's talking about the US or some shit. Hell, no one's even talking about the fancy part of Lisbon. We're talking bare minimum. I c…
/r/seduction17/03/17 07:43 PM
1

Side-note: About NoFap, if it makes you happy, knock yourself out. But this sort of thing is more about the placebo effect. If it's a good way for you to focus, then great. But most of the effect is in a guy's head; no one should be losing focus or productivity due to masturbating all the time anyway. As long as you know your own body in terms of how your body orgasms, then NoFapping doesn't hurt. But if you're a virgin and you don't know your own "point of no return" before ejaculation, then yo…
/r/seduction17/03/17 02:39 PM
1

I dunno but she sounds like she's trying to put you into the friend box. A box you sound like you willingly entered.
/r/seduction16/03/17 04:08 PM
2

Sounds like you're the kitty's plaything. Move on and have some dignity, bro. Don't say you don't care because if you need to make a post on seddit, you do. Why would you waste your time on a chick you'll never even get to grope? NEXT
/r/seduction16/03/17 04:00 PM
0

How... how the... what? Does that ever happen?
/r/seduction16/03/17 06:45 AM
2

Yeah I must say, it's a tad annoying. The fact you're asking the question is sort of a surefire sign, you're over investing.
/r/seduction15/03/17 08:47 PM
1

I'm fairly sure "game" isn't a thing here in Portugal.
/r/seduction15/03/17 08:37 PM
1

Information is power. You're cutting yourself off at the source. Curiosity is more helpful than negativity. If you want better results with girls, tuning out is not the answer. This whole idea of women being the enemy and being "the other," doesn't help you. It's not that I don't listen and chat with them. It's just that I don't ALWAYS do it. Some of it is just rubbish. A very entertaining matter has been one of NoFap. Since I told them that I don't masturbate and am actively doing my best to qu…
/r/seduction15/03/17 08:37 PM
1

That'd make it pretty easy. If I had a bro to do this shit with.
/r/seduction15/03/17 07:47 PM
3

I'm a loser with women, bruv. But I do think this. Take a step back and focus on your daily life. Don't msg her, don't give her too much ground if she engages, don't engage on your own unless it's for a casual "how you doin'" chat. Go about your daily life and pretend she's just a girl you know. Go to the gym, study and would be healthy to engage other girls and people in general. That way you have fresher memories of others rather than her. It's very possible oneitis has already wrecked this sh…
/r/seduction14/03/17 08:32 PM
26

Sheesh... good job, bruv. Circumstance sure is your friend though.
/r/seduction14/03/17 08:10 PM
1

I don't watch theory at all nowadays. Not much of a tip, bro.
/r/seduction14/03/17 07:30 PM
1

Therapy seems to be your goto advice.
/r/seduction14/03/17 07:27 PM
1

Alright so, at least you're rather responsive and keep a convo going. On the white guys topic. We seem to think about different things when we talk about "media". You think movies, videogames, books, TV shows and so on. I think news, politics, social media and so on. To me, the keyword for the former is entertainment. Movies feature a lot of white people because let's say Hollywood, is in the US. The US is primarily white. And so is Europe while we're at it. So a larger white population means a …
/r/seduction14/03/17 07:23 PM
1

I'm actually really chatty with the girls at work. And we all get along well. I tend to be chatty in general. To the point where I think some people get offput by it. I just love interacting with people overall. It's just that approaching is a big fat no. My brain stops functioning, my knees feel like they're going to break under the pressure(and I don't skip leg day), my hands get sweaty. I know it's normal but I can't beat it. I can fight it but I always lose. I could very easily see a girl on…
/r/seduction13/03/17 09:33 PM
1

There are very few ways the dry spell could be NOT self inflicted. And as much as I wish it were true. I can't do the same. I can't just switch that on. I know it sounds like a flimsy excuse but believe me, bruv. I've tried to just go "time to bang chicks". I whiffed hard on that. Many times. AA man. I can't break through it. I dunno why. I don't know how to... try harder. So I will indeed be celebrating my 1 year anniversary of the dry spell... somewhere... around the end of spring? I think. Wa…
/r/seduction13/03/17 09:15 PM
3

Honestly it doesn't feel subconscious at all, bruv. If you're needy, it essentially means you're desperate, you want to try hard because you don't have a lot of options, by proxy you don't try as hard since you don't make the proper moves, you become manipulative and deceiving because that's probably a slice of the survival instinct going "SHIT, we NEED THIS. Let the lil' shit out." And out comes the needy little troll. If no one wants you, then why should she? Is essentially the question she ra…
/r/seduction13/03/17 09:01 PM
2

I live in Portugal. Everyone... kind of gets some actually. The average dude. Any color really. Though I live in what I describe as the ghetto of Portugal. So the sportier mofos with snapbacks or the ones with the faggy fashion sense, with the undercut and shit. Everyone but me and the ugly/fat/scrawny nerds are getting ass. And everyone seems to get hotties too, it's not just some group that is hogging them. Everyone gets some of those.
/r/seduction13/03/17 08:56 PM
1

Can't wait for my 1 year anniversary of the dry spell. As Tim said, mindfulness. Be present in the moment. Don't let auto-pilot take over because it may just make you go for the finish. Here and now. Not one second before, not one second after. NOW.
/r/seduction13/03/17 08:44 PM
1

It depends generally speaking. A mole is not nearly as big of a deal as a dude going bald for example. Your general point is indeed true, we have a tendency to blow things out of proportion when it comes to insecurities. I have no specific physical or mental insecurities. For instance I have one physical imperfection I'm very rarely aware of, my nose if you look at it straight on, you can tell that it's pretty damn crooked, my nostrils are not symmetrical at all. Not even close. I dunno if I was…
/r/seduction13/03/17 08:41 PM
2

Eh... I don't see this going well for you, bud. When you start getting "feelings" for a girl and you're not intimate, it's not looking good already. You're putting too much stock into it. Emotional investment in general is dangerous. Very dangerous. It can castrate you completely. Personally I'm deathly terrified of the notion of getting even remotely invested in someone. I'd say don't bother but who am I to say anything anyway? Because I am after all, a dude that doesn't have the spine to appro…
/r/seduction13/03/17 08:32 PM
2

Well... shame not everyone can pull that one off without looking freaky or weird. I feel like every time I stare at someone I look like I'm going to tear their head off. So not a good thing for me.
/r/seduction13/03/17 08:17 PM
2

How does Star Wars push this view? I literally said all media (books, movies, TV). Fair enough, you did say "all" but there is what actually affects and morphs society and what just distracts it. Star Wars is the latter. Sounds like unjustified victimhood. Then check those ears, bro. I ain't saying I'm not getting any because I'm white. Come on, man. It's the modern age, people like sex, and they like talking about it. You don't think a woman can feel awesome about having bagged a guy they reall…
/r/seduction13/03/17 07:59 PM
2

I treat my dating life, my social life and my sex life like a corpse. It's dead and it's sad that it's dead but it's dead. If it dies, it dies. But hey, better to be dry for eternity than to tug on my dick for hollow self indulgence.
/r/seduction13/03/17 05:55 AM
2

Our dicks will fall off by the time that change is widespread and common enough. So none of these guys should be waiting on it.
/r/seduction13/03/17 05:48 AM
2

... all media really tells them is that white men are scum. I don't know about you but that doesn't exactly swing in my favor. I'm sure you already know some women who brag about their dating lives, like guys might No. I don't. And I never actually have. And what the fuck is there to brag about? The reason "slut shaming" is so slanted against women is because getting a lot of dick requires so little effort it's like you're giving away ass like it's candy. Unless you're a 2/10 chick pulling 6 and…
/r/seduction13/03/17 05:47 AM
4

This is a forum to meet women? That's a very peculiar way to put it. And listen, unless you happen to be absolutely abhorrent, you have the advantage when it comes to sex. Denying it is just being dishonest.
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:45 PM
9

This is changing Where in the goddamn world is this changing?
/r/seduction12/03/17 04:52 PM
2

It actually is because you're a woman. Not hating on you or women but you gals have it pretty easy unlike us. Relationships are one thing, one completely separate. But sex? You have it easy.
/r/seduction12/03/17 04:50 PM
2

My theory is that if a man stops masturbating and having sex, eventually his sex drive will disappear completely, or maybe just become a non - issue, and he will achieve total freedom. That's be pretty sweet. Except it's more than likely not going to happen.
/r/seduction12/03/17 05:59 AM
10

How's it feel to have a dirt easy sex life?
/r/seduction12/03/17 05:55 AM
1

Is that fad even still... around? I mean Brokencyde and Blood on the dance floor are sort of dead. So I don't even know where you'd find scene girls.
/r/seduction11/03/17 05:26 PM
1

I do suppose that'd be a good way to describe it. Though I don't remember Any specific thought I had at the time. Maybe my excuses are embedded into my subconscious or something. I don't think so but maybe. My legs felt weak af. I was like "Whoa.... what the fuck, my confidence forgot leg day." I'd love to... not... get a fight or flight response when I want to talk to a girl. I mean... people say it's because of evolution but that's... kinda stupid. Ah well, I feel ashamed for yesterday(Yeah it…
/r/seduction11/03/17 05:27 AM
1

You'd think it obvious.
/r/seduction10/03/17 09:17 PM
1

I don't have a social life, bruv. I chat with my coworkers and people at the gym. I'm a 20 year old that needs to help his family. You have to make mad money or really enjoy your work for that to be worth it. While I do enjoy what I do, I'm hardly passionate about it. I do it because I have no other option. Would I say I'm miserable or unhappy? No. I'm busy and I have little time but that hardly means I'm miserable. I'm actually the happiest I've ever been. This was just a bump I'd say. It'd be …
/r/seduction10/03/17 08:54 PM
1

I'm an all or nothing sort of guy. I don't think that I'd feel particularly better knowing that I'm just there to say hi. Wouldn't make any difference probably.
/r/seduction10/03/17 08:29 PM
2

Good stuff. Thanks bro. I actually feel a lot better now. I'm gonna do something tomorrow and I won't like it. But I'll do it. Leave my earphones at home. I think it's about time I did that. My default mindset when I'm listening to music is not one of sociable behavior or thinking. In fact, I'm gonna go a step further and carry through my entire day with game thinking. I've never done that before to just be in predator mode all day.
/r/seduction10/03/17 08:28 PM
0

I could try to argue against that. What would be the point though? Why would I want to complicate it and make it more difficult for myself. But it is really that simple at the end of the day I suppose.
/r/seduction10/03/17 08:05 PM
1

That is a... fair point to make I suppose.
/r/seduction10/03/17 08:03 PM
1

I'm very chatty at work. To the point where I struggle against the desire to open my mouth sometimes. And my coworkers are all women. Rather attractive ones too. But I generally try to keep it to a minimum because it feels like I initiate the interactions a lot and it feels like I annoy them sometimes. I'm social at the gym too, I chat with the instructor because honestly it's a godsend to be able to talk to a dude since I'm surrounded by women all day. Sometimes I strike up a convo with one of …
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:53 PM
1

Ok. I get no numbers. No matches. No kind of attention or even a passing glare from women. The only glares I get from people are glares of "Goddamn this dude is weird." I have absolutely no friends. I can't approach because I'm a pussy. I am sexually invisible. I am socially invisible. I am romantically invisible. I am essentially a fucking ghost in the world of parties, sex, fun, love, friendship and camaraderie. I can't even put myself in a situation where I get to have the luxury of failure. …
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:44 PM
1

Those dudes probably game for years. The only way you'd have some sort of tangible reason to be jealous is if you've also been gaming for years but unlike them have gotten nothing. I know that these mofos have way more balls than I do and thus deserve the pussy far more than i do. Simply put.
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:34 PM
3

I love how the dude goes "I can't approach" and your advice is "approach"
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:30 PM
1

Well I've been dry for over 8 months. I don't even remember when the last time was. I'll be having my one year anniversary pretty soon. I don't know when but somewhere in the beginning of summer. Lookin' forward to it I suppose. Might as well enjoy the joke. Better to find it funny than not.
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:26 PM
1

20. Gladly enough I still... seem... well... I think I have hope. And yeah approaching itself is the goal and it'd be pretty swell but let's say I get rejected on my first approach. Regardless it'll be a nagging thought. "Huh... I got called an ugly piece of shit. Quite... swell."
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:21 PM
2

Assume attraction from the one you're dating. ... Are you sure?
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:17 PM
0

A fun lifestyle? That's kind of... hard to come by.
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:14 PM
2

Can I get an explanation? Because I noticed that no matter what, my brain doesn't have enough time to register "want to approach". It's like 3 seconds is not enough.
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:12 PM
1

Bro, I've yet to make one approach. Every time I pussied out. I know this one is a no no now because I honestly don't want to see her ever again and I don't want her to see me ever again. I frankly feel ashamed regardless of whether she knew or felt I wanted to approach or not. This has happened before(hot girl, lives a couple buildings away, great chance to approach wasted). I'm glad I've never seen that one ever again, especially because this one I'd say is a surefire bet that she knows I'm in…
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:09 PM
8

Yeah... true. Both the good and the bad come and go. They flow in that natural synergy of life. What matters most, honestly speaking, is what you're going to do about it. This thing that happened, best case scenario, is that it went bad or was bad because of something you did or because of something you didn't do. It's good because you only have yourself to blame. You can point fingers but you know, not even deep down, that it's your fault. And if you know that and you admit it then at least you…
/r/seduction10/03/17 06:58 PM
1

indeed we can
/r/seduction28/02/17 07:27 PM
1

I used to be very flip floppy when it came to women. Like a light switch. FUCK YEAH FUCK NO FUCK YEAH FUCK NO. It was pretty depressing. Now I really don't care. It's not a fuck yeah or a fuck no. It's not even a word. I'd describe my stance as a shrug. Indifference. Honestly as you say "gorgeous young girls" don't quite instill any sort of strong response in me. Sure they look nice but I don't have a whole lot of desire or interest in them. They're there and I don't care.
/r/seduction28/02/17 07:08 PM
1

Hmm... I do believe I mentioned NoFap quite clearly in my post. In any case, I'm doing my best to stick to it. I dunno, my top streak was like 4 weeks or so. That was when I first found out about it, in... August. I've been on and off. A couple weeks has been my best thus far. Currently on day 9. And being quite aware of all the benefits of NoFap and damage of porn and masturbation, I don't manage to fool myself into thinking it's an alternative. I simply don't quite care that much about women r…
/r/seduction28/02/17 07:02 PM
1

There's a salient distinction between having pussy in your head and thinking about pussy. Unless you live on a mountain in a Buddhist temple you'll see women in a daily basis. My coworkers are all women aside from my brother. And they are all at the very least reasonably attractive. Just the other day I was in the gym and there was this smokin' chick like in another division of the gym where they have different classes and stuff. She had like some photoshoot or something and was in fairly minima…
/r/seduction28/02/17 06:45 PM
3

Damn broseph. I don't want to break Cold Turkey again. Too many bad things happened when I did. It's gonna stick.
/r/seduction27/01/17 02:43 PM
25

Shit, bro. Better to start awkward than not at all. Good job. Daddy didn't pass his genes down so they could die at you. Just keep rolling.
/r/seduction27/01/17 02:42 PM
1

You can realize one thing first: The person that cares about your looks the most is you. So if you're thinking of what someone thinks of your looks. Realize that they're probably thinking about their own looks rather than yours. However, if your looks bother YOU because YOU want to look better, that's completely up to you. Now we cannot change facial structure or our stature. We can however improve what's already there. Good hygiene, proper hydration, healthy eating, plentiful exercise, enough s…
/r/seduction27/01/17 02:40 PM
0

It's not the style itself. The style itself is pretty boneriffic. It's the music. Hold on let me put that another way. "music". It drives me up the wall. You could put the hottest, most perfect, gorgeous chick in front of me. And you could say "dance kizomba with her for just a couple of songs, then go home and fuck her all day. Hell she'll be your FWB now, she has plenty of hot girlfriends. You'll be set for life when it comes to pussy and it'll be the top shelf quality. All you have to do is d…
/r/seduction27/01/17 04:53 AM
3

Aside from kizomba I just find that shit weird honestly. I have no idea why, but I do. I can't for the life of me see myself in a class like that. To me that shit's like grinding or hell even daggering. Oh god... daggering, don't get me started on that. It's the "we forgot to evolve" dance.
/r/seduction27/01/17 04:43 AM
1

Why would you think that's a good idea?
/r/seduction27/01/17 04:39 AM
2

What would you do? Nothing. Just another chick. Hot or not. Chat if the chat is there. Flirt if I feel like it. Not filter my humor since it's a girl in class and not at work. Probably say some offensive joke as a result. Not care otherwise. It's not what we would do. It's what you want to do. I mean honestly, bro. You know the situation better than any of us do and you could never describe it well enough for us to give you hard lined tips. Don't be needy. Don't be weird. If you want to pursue h…
/r/seduction26/01/17 07:00 PM
13

I will eat broken glass before I dance or listen to kizomba ever again, broseph. I'd rather do ANYTHING else than do that. You could put a gun to my head and I won't do it. Hell I'll take the gun myself. I'll lobotomize myself with a spoon. In fact, fuck all of those dances. But I abhor kizomba above all others. Holy motherfuck, you have no clue just how much I fucking hate it. I can already imagine myself at a kizomba dance class. 9/11 times a fuckin' thousand
/r/seduction26/01/17 06:49 PM
1

Thanks for the laugh, mate. Good one xD You better not have your face in there, broseph.
/r/seduction26/01/17 04:43 PM
3

How in the bloody hell would you be able to convey personality through text?
/r/seduction26/01/17 04:12 PM
1

Personally I think it would be very rare overall, as there are a lot of real risks and the reputation thing is very important for women. Seriously, think about it. Again, irrelevant. What difference does that make here? How to stop feeling so bitter about it? Made any progress yet? Oh yeah I'd say I'm completely at peace with it. Realize the fact that no matter what, that fact won't change. It's how the world spins. That's how it is. Being bitter about it only deters and slows you down. I've onl…
/r/seduction26/01/17 02:41 PM
45

Some are. But whether they do or don't is irrelevant. Just the mere fact of the option being there changes the dynamic of the dating scene and turns the scales very very favorably for women.
/r/seduction26/01/17 05:27 AM
4

Good shit, broseph. I mean I can't really say much else. I'll refrain from being a sourpuss and I'll just be happy for a fellow broseph getting some ass.
/r/seduction26/01/17 05:13 AM
45

The amount of dick the average woman can get is beyond the scopes of what the hottest dude can get. So in the attraction phase there is no nervousness or anxiety because you're one of dozens or hundreds of dicks she can get. If you were on a date with a girl or something, and you knew you had 30 other girls on stand by, some hotter, some just as hot, some a little less hot. You wouldn't really be nervous with this one chick.
/r/seduction26/01/17 05:08 AM
5

Where the fuck have you seen that advice get spread around? It's not: "Ignore girls" It's: "Don't chase them like a desperate mofo"
/r/seduction26/01/17 05:05 AM
1

By all means, I think most dudes are well informed and aware at this point that women pick and choose. Obviously. A hot dude and a hot girl are on completely different levels. A hot girl can snap her finger for 1000 dicks without ANY effort. A hot dude, to fuck 1000 chicks... whoa... that would be amazing to behold. One of these you could make an epic LOTR style movie about and the other is a poorly worded tweet with the grammar of a 10 year old. That's why I think the slut shaming double standa…
/r/seduction25/01/17 07:06 PM
1

Sounds like a "Oh you don't know? Bye." It's basically the most obvious way to blow someone off without actually saying it.
/r/seduction25/01/17 02:00 PM
1

How do you put that question on a switch? Do you write it on your wrist with a sharpie or something?
/r/seduction25/01/17 01:55 PM
3

Pretty easy to say that. Truly not giving a fuck is beyond my capacity to comprehend.
/r/seduction25/01/17 01:54 PM
1

I'm 20 and I have pretty much the exact same mindset. FWB is as serious as I can stomach. So yeah I'd say it's pretty normal.
/r/seduction25/01/17 05:53 AM
1

Do you know why your advice is just as useful as OP's? Because assuming the belief "Women control the game" or "Women control because we allow them" doesn't make a difference. You can believe whatever the hell you want. That's quite literally a pointless thing to even talk about because internalizing either of these notions makes no impact on your life or behavior. And as I said in my own post, the abundance mentality shit is completely counterintuitive. You need to have it to get women, but to …
/r/seduction25/01/17 05:38 AM
1

awesome shit, bro. Well the frocket isn't really the point, it's just that these shirts fit me like a charm and somehow they tend to be different from just standard t-shirts. Also I'm wondering as to whether my post was so bad to get downvoted so hard xD
/r/seduction25/01/17 05:29 AM
1

You seem to think that I spend a whole lot of my time and energy thinking about cucks and shit eaters. Well I don't. You are talking more about your feelings rather than logic though. That you find things 'disgusting' etc. That's only part of my point. If you read my post. I spend more time thinking logically than giving an opinion. Your judgement derives from the narrative that 'If there is no explainable or clear reason for something to be there due to it being evolutionary advantegous it must…
/r/seduction24/01/17 07:32 PM
2

Hard to cum when your dick can't even stay hard, right?
/r/seduction24/01/17 06:09 PM
15

Yes, we know, broseph. It's not about how great the pussy is, it's about how great you think it is. The problem is that it's sometimes hard to go "I don't need your pussy, bitch" when your options are severely limited. If your options are limited to a solid 0 that sometimes sort of straightens out into a 1, yeah that's... well it's actually easier because at that point you're so self aware of how much of a loser you'll be in front of this fade in fade out 1 option. You'll just go "the fuck am I …
/r/seduction24/01/17 06:06 PM
1

And in this case I'm questioning you and pointing out the toxicity within your post which won't lead to a happy, successful and fulfilled life. Gee, you don't fucking say. Pretty easy to question something you don't agree with. How about you question yourself here? My point is simple. Fetishes are unnatural and often bizarre. They lack a biological basis for existence. What need is there in someone shitting in your mouth? Where is the logic behind that? If there is no logical basis for its exist…
/r/seduction24/01/17 05:39 PM
1

Well you can enjoy being a special snowflake and I hope that people do buy my advice. Because it's a different fucking perspective than just being happy and accepting yourself for what you are. Having some fucking self awareness, being able to question yourself and others. You're clearly incapable because you're just special in your own unique way, aren't you? You don't know me. You have no idea how I recognize my fantasies neither do you know anything about me or my life. I definitely have a lo…
/r/seduction24/01/17 04:42 PM
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Not bad guide for dudes that are clueless, you definitely gotta start somewhere with your sense of style. Since I am one artsy mofo and I am as picky with clothing as a woman is(especially footwear, if you came with me to a mall or something so I could buy some boots or sneakers, take a seat bro. You'll be waiting for a good while), I've always had a reasonable sense of style. Recently though I got myself a really sweet combo. I needed new sneakers because my old ass deeply's were about to cave …
/r/seduction24/01/17 04:31 PM
3

nah bro, I ain't getting a fagtastic undercut. Fuck that noise. I'm good staying buzz cut with a bandanna on. Pidgeotto looking motherfuckers
/r/seduction24/01/17 03:39 PM
1

“Hey, my little secret but I just masturbated to the thought of you and it was fantastic.” I'm still reading but this made me contort my face into the most expressive wtf in existence. Now I have another thing to say. My left eye feels like it has a permanent twitch after I finished this. But goddamn if I ever move to the US, I'm going to Colorado. Sounds like they have some really good weed. OP can probably attest to that, considering this post.
/r/seduction24/01/17 03:29 PM
1

I don't really care what you think of my advice. I am giving advice. OP can take it or leave it. I'm giving my take on the matter, you can give OP your take. but I'd still rather live life the way that I will enjoy it and rather I'd live out my fantasies than suppress them because I'm sure that suppressing my fantasies will not get me anywhere. Good. Have fun. I don't care. You're not the one asking OP's question. There's a fine line between things I consider ok and not ok. Slight to medium BDSM…
/r/seduction24/01/17 01:20 PM
1

Fetishes make 0 biological sense. Therefore they are caused by damage or distortion. Also I highly doubt you remember preschool well enough to know you had fantasies of getting beat up by girls.
/r/seduction24/01/17 12:54 PM
1

Well you definitely have some things you can sort out, broseph. I know you must get this a lot but inner game is something you sound like you need right now. And in absolute frustration I say that wanting to submit to someone, to be humiliated by them and to feel like shit under their boot is a sickness. I'm not saying you're a freak or something, I'm saying that shit's not good for you. When you want humiliation you cannot possibly feel good about yourself. That's the point of it. It's like a s…
/r/seduction23/01/17 04:13 PM
2

The try not to lose it is a bad thing because more often than not, trying too hard not to lose it makes you lose it. Definitely tease. Teasing is just fun. I love to tease in general, everyone. I think it's funny. I like messing with people and all that good stuff. Of course I'd imagine it's not easy to be a machinegun of wit and charm but you gotta strive to be one. Best of luck to you, man.
/r/seduction23/01/17 03:32 PM
4

Bro, you already do something damn amazing and that's cold approaching a woman in broad daylight. That takes an insane pair of balls. Never done it but if there's one thing I know just from basic conversation with any person over any medium. You gotta loosen up. You have to free your mind. If the interaction is labored on your part and you're the pursuer of the interaction then she's not gonna be trying to hard. I know this just from chatting with girls I already knew and wanted to chat to but t…
/r/seduction23/01/17 02:25 PM
1

Are you looking for a "Gotcha" sort of tip?
/r/seduction23/01/17 01:59 PM
1

Unlike the other fellas I have another idea to look at the whole thing. Since my self improvement journey started with NoFap. This wasn't due to porn, this was how I ever imagined in my head. What is submissive? Do you want to be pegged? Do you want to be chained and whipped? Do you want to be cucked? Or are you simply a guy that wants the girl to take the lead in standard sexual activity? I'm sure some people will get their panties in a mess but fetishes aren't natural and are created through p…
/r/seduction23/01/17 01:58 PM
2

Real content. Huh. Then why are you bitching about how not worth it, this is?
/r/seduction23/01/17 11:27 AM
3

Then get out of here. It's pretty simple, innit?
/r/seduction23/01/17 08:24 AM
1

So?
/r/seduction22/01/17 06:37 PM
1

Coke? Seriously? Crazy fratboys
/r/seduction22/01/17 03:50 PM
3

Honestly, I sort of have an aversion to "learning material" at this point. Because there's so fucking much of it and if I get caught up in the loop of theory. I'll never do anything. So I'd rather not even bother. I know basics and the quintessential sort of shit. But learning through the internet is useless to me. I seriously doubt I'll be having some sort of list of choices and buttons in my head to use on cue.
/r/seduction22/01/17 02:40 PM
17

Exactly, you owe it to yourself to stop doing all the bad shit and start doing all the good shit instead. We have only ourselves to rely upon.
/r/seduction22/01/17 05:38 AM
4

Discipline and fortitude. To make it clearer: Your body and your brain get used to discomfort. Your immune system gets better. You breathe better. You're more awake. You're more energized. It helps weight loss(still gotta work out). It builds discipline because you're constantly forcing yourself into discomfort. No more hot showers for me. It's January. It's cold and I don't care. I take cold showers.
/r/seduction22/01/17 05:28 AM
3

If you're scared you're gonna die a virgin, go bang a hooker. If however you're scared of looking back at your life and regretting it. Get fit. Meditate. Stop wanking and especially watching porn, go on r/NoFap. Take cold showers daily from now on. Get your appearance together. Keep yourself clean. Study and/or get a job. Work hard at it. Find a passion and milk it every day. If it's drawing then draw every day. Writing, write every day. Playing football? Play football everyday. You get the poin…
/r/seduction22/01/17 05:01 AM
7

Certainly seems like good advice to me. A lot of dudes will have a problem though, because you do have to change the tone of the date into a more sexual one. And you need to keep going. It's not like getting a ball rolling, you have to roll it yourself through and through. As for me, I've never been on a date so to me it sounds pretty out of this world.
/r/seduction22/01/17 04:57 AM
22

sup fam, great post. I just have a couple of replies. You're too lazy to go out and blame your buddies for not wanting to go out I ain't got no buddies, fam. And I don't make enough money to go out. You expect women to take the initiative Who the fuck expects that? You have no real ambitions aside from watching sports, playing video games, surfing the internet and learning seduction I do. You treat a woman like a princess, act needy, be agreeable and lack backbone Nah. You have unrealistic high …
/r/seduction22/01/17 04:53 AM
1

Aren't we talking about the social aspect of school? Not the professional/money making one?
/r/seduction22/01/17 04:34 AM
1

What's money got to do with this? I can learn to like something passable in order to make money but I can't touch the shit that repels me. I still don't see your point.
/r/seduction22/01/17 04:34 AM
0

This is so impressive it's unbelievable. Sounds to me like you have this game shit locked down. I ain't in college and I probably won't be going so I can't really say much else. Being a 20 year old dude, I've thought of going to uni but I ain't got much of a clue as to what I would be doing there so I'd say why fuckin' bother with it. There's like 3 options for me: Go now and get a shit degree I don't want anything to do with. Go now and fail it through and through. Or get to my later years and …
/r/seduction21/01/17 06:07 PM
1

You don't have to give a shit about any of those things, you can enjoy the simple things in life, you can not compare yourself and be bitter about someone else getting more ass than you. You don't need to have the sun shining out of your ass through all your gratitude for that. There's gratitude for just having freedom and power over yourself without gracing every little thing for just being there.
/r/seduction21/01/17 02:16 PM
4

You have two contradictions in your post Number 1: You go on to talk about how shit everyone has it. And then you should see the world as full of love, fortune and peace. Number 2: You decided to stop making sense here But what if you currently have no women in your life? Instead of looking for women to fill your abundance, look to fill your abundance with gratitude for what you already have. Once you realize this, you'll see why you desired women so much in the first place! Women are attracted …
/r/seduction21/01/17 05:28 AM
1

I don't know but if someone told me that I'd think they are 100% bullshitting me. My face would twist into a WTF of unimaginable proportions. It seems like wayyy too much shit to get dropped all at once. I mean you said she isn't BS-ing you so there must be something to it?
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:18 PM
6

Maybe you looked like you were searching for kidneys and livers.
/r/seduction18/01/17 04:15 PM
1

A - Stop caring. When it comes to women that's the least of your worries. B - Take care of yourself. Vadim from Honest Signalz isn't good looking but he's groomed. RSDTyler isn't good looking either but he's groomed. Grooming is far more valuable than your natural features. There ARE of course cases where dudes are just a freak show but I doubt you're one of those. If you're balding, go full on bald and own it. And if you're fat. Unfat yourself.
/r/seduction18/01/17 04:14 PM
1

Bro, I can't remember the last time I looked at a guy and thought "Man he's so much better looking than I am." It's always between no reaction, "That's a good lookin' dude" or "That's one chode lookin' mofo" I stare at myself in the mirror because I just can't help myself.
/r/seduction18/01/17 04:11 PM
1

I don't see how a virgin dude could be perceived as novelty or challenge. Maybe in a potential LTR? Maybe? But casual sex? Nah bro, I can't see a woman with that mentality. I'm not a virgin so I won't really find out but hey I may be wrong.
/r/seduction18/01/17 02:21 PM
3

People in Portugal stick out very easily because people in Portugal are so similar. Everyone around here is just so... homogeneous. People here blend right into each other. Everything from fashion sense, to faces, to way of walking, to posture, to facial expression, to energy level, to the very things they do when waiting(bus, boat, sitting on the bus or boat). I can see that because I'm very different on every single level. Legit. When comparing to the men at least. Just so I don't look like I'…
/r/seduction17/01/17 04:42 PM
1

I must ask, what is the point of reading a book on this topic? I have to say... there must be some transcending fucking knowledge that just makes me jump up and turn my sex life around, just like that. If not, I'll sink a bunch of time into it and come out of it exactly the same.
/r/seduction17/01/17 12:49 PM
1

We're trying to not be average guys.
/r/seduction17/01/17 12:45 PM
6

Good shit, broseph. Should've definitely approached, that was a clear as day signal to do it. Also Makes me want to go there every day. Please do yourself a favor. Do not ever think this after a lost opportunity. Because you build both expectation which will often turn to disappointment and excitement which can easily turn into anxiety. But that's good, you've made some changes. Of course I imagine that it's a damn sweet confidence booster. I wouldn't know People don't check me out. They just lo…
/r/seduction17/01/17 12:39 PM
2

I don't see how indifference would work if you weren't the one getting engaged. But instead the one doing the engaging. Think of a time when you were needy, receiving one word replies from a person you're interested in. Same logic essentially. A person that's not interested in you or has yet found a reason for it will probably not play the game.
/r/seduction17/01/17 12:29 PM
8

To some, a male virgin might as well be a disease.
/r/seduction17/01/17 12:25 PM
3

Body count? That's a peculiar term.
/r/seduction17/01/17 05:38 AM
1

Find out ways to conquer approach anxiety, tons of good info on the side bar and other places. I know you mean well but you're wrong. There is no "way" to conquer it. Let me put it this way, as long as your legs are connected to your brain, you won't move.
/r/seduction17/01/17 05:29 AM
1

Exactly, the main point of it, is that there's no risk to it whatsoever. And hey, that's the way game goes. I wish I had a success story too but shit xD Especially online game, way too easy to mess up and not get another chance. Honestly sometimes I feel as though I'd have much better success in person than over text. As a person I'm just very expressive and lively. Can't really transmit that over text.
/r/seduction16/01/17 05:46 PM
1

That guy is right though, at the core of it all. He's correct. The world as a whole is only preoccupied with the things you have to offer. Y'know ever seen the "Coffee is for closers" video? It depends on how you look at the world and at life but if you strip it down to its naked core. Life is 1s and 0s. I look at life as a game. I don't look at it as a bleak, dog eat dog world. It doesn't even really matter how you look at the world as long as that way of looking at it is beneficial to you. So …
/r/seduction16/01/17 02:42 PM
2

You're confused because you're the resident pompous know it all. The proverbial snowflake whose excuses are somehow all the more valid because of X,Y,Z. You're the dude that sits in the middle of a bunch of people, screaming and whining just so we can pay attention to you because you MUST have us confirm what you say. Can you not form your own beliefs and worldview based on what info you intake? Can you not analyze it?
/r/seduction16/01/17 05:42 AM
3

It's not just sex, dude. I enjoy interacting with other people in general. Women even more so. Pretty simple.
/r/seduction16/01/17 05:38 AM
3

Easy to say. I know it all at this point. All of the damn AA solutions. Shit don't work. Only thing that does is going in cold turkey, no matter where or who with.
/r/seduction16/01/17 05:36 AM
2

If you're good with that, more power to you. Most of us are not like that.
/r/seduction16/01/17 05:35 AM
3

I don't really see what women do aside from giving passive cues and talk back. We still do the grunt work along with the scientist work. Women are assistants at best in the whole process. This should not be. But it is and I already shit the bed on that end.
/r/seduction16/01/17 05:33 AM
5

If being rational and thinking about it were enough I'd be a seduction pro at this point. I also firmly believe that very very MANY things in life are in fact about sex. To the point where saying something like "This isn't worth my time" is downright ridiculous. The thing is that you cannot make it the core of your life. You have to attach it to a core, whatever it may be. So... essentially the core of life I would say is "Find at least one thing you're hella passionate about in life and do the …
/r/seduction15/01/17 08:05 PM
1

How do you actually manage to place yourself in that mindset? Because that'd be pretty sweet.
/r/seduction15/01/17 07:38 PM
2

Your thread did kickstart it. My original response went off a tad long so I decided to just make a thread instead. I sure hope those thoughts help you in some way, bro.
/r/seduction15/01/17 07:07 PM
1

Why are you even reading guides anymore? They all regurgitate the same shit. Same shit, different box. Some contradict the others. Also why were you reading a guide on dancing if you hate parties and clubs? Go out and stop thinking so much. Seriously people. Why am I, the guy who has 0 approaches and hasn't had contact with a girl in well over half a year. Why am I telling you this? I mean... sheesh. I'm at the bottom of the barrel but yet I'm the one giving insight? Insight anyone else could gi…
/r/seduction15/01/17 03:58 PM
0

You know why so many guys skip that step? Because it's buttfuck useless unless you are a dude of some legit means. I live in Portugal, the ass of Europe. And the area of Portugal I live in? You can call this the ass hole of Europe. Do I have money to move? Bro, I live in Portugal.
/r/seduction15/01/17 03:49 PM
5

PUA problems: I can't decide what chicks I want to fuck. You people.
/r/seduction15/01/17 03:21 PM
1

What... what the fuck? Those are some fantastic problems. You're that guy at the gym that gets depressed because he can't bench 5 extra pounds on top of the 300 he's already benching. You people seriously piss me off sometimes. I come in here expecting a sob story. I get a story that makes me roll my eyes so hard I feel like they're going to pop out of their sockets.
/r/seduction15/01/17 03:18 PM
1

Bro, if I could give up I would. If I could just fucking... Uninstall the red pill. I would. But... y'know I can't. That's the worst part about this feeling. Is that you're forced to cope with it somehow.
/r/seduction15/01/17 03:09 PM
2

Please don't break any wrists.
/r/seduction13/01/17 04:11 PM
3

It's just a fancy word for sleeping around where everyone fucks everyone and everyone is ok with everyone fucking everyone. I don't see the reason for any special denominations. Basic shit.
/r/seduction13/01/17 03:19 PM
1

FB and texting are fairly notorious for shittiness at this point. The reason is probably that these girls are so bloody filled with thirsty/needy motherfuckers in their FB/Contacts that all of their K's and whatnot float over to you even if they don't mean it. I don't recommend either unless you're just fucking around and don't care what reply you get if you get one at all. Keep it to a minimum if you're trying to get somewhere. So much gets lost over text that is crucial for a man to stand out.…
/r/seduction12/01/17 04:19 PM
1

That's a pretty healthy and reasonable way of looking at it, I would say. I'm probably just thinking too much about it but you never know. Better to make sure.
/r/seduction11/01/17 05:34 PM
1

Honestly, I do want to avoid certain thoughts. Thoughts of insufficiency, of weakness, of insecurity. They come and go. Sometimes they don't bother me and I shrug them off and other times not so much. Yes, I practice meditation though. I just spent my entire life... living wrong I guess you could say. Locked in my room doing absolutely nothing worthwhile. I don't want that. That's most of the reason I don't like staying at home a whole lot.
/r/seduction11/01/17 05:32 PM
1

Dude, I'm no longer in school. It's sort of hard to make friends. I'd say I'm an extrovert because I hate being at home and my days off. I deliberately stay at work for an extra hour sometimes. And yeah you do have a point when it comes to the age of consent. Though honestly it sort of feels like cheating if you get what I mean.
/r/seduction11/01/17 04:05 PM
1

PUAs can get away with more because they know more and are more skilled and experienced. The average joe schmoe like me can't get away with the shit they get away with because they just are leaps and bounds above me when it comes to this stuff. PUAs can take the gloves off and do whatever they want. Because they know they have many more women all around them and they could do whatever they want with them. Just one girl is irrelevant when you live a lifestyle that is filled with women. Talk, fuck…
/r/seduction11/01/17 03:22 PM
1

Just like beast said, you could've gotten SOME sort of action at least. SOMETHING. ANYTHING BRO. Could've grinded her in some corner and gotten your dick sucked. Night out? Grab a fucking condom ffs. Better to have it and not need it than to need it and then you resign yourself to nothing because you didn't come prepared.
/r/seduction11/01/17 02:03 PM
3

I don't think cute is just for what you described. I see cute as a lighter, more subtle and more socially acceptable version of "I find you attractive". I don't see women going so far as to say "you're hot/sexy" at work especially. Cute I'd say is just the safe way. By all means, cute can also mean "You're so adorable, like a puppy." But then again, I live in Portugal and in Portuguese there is really no double sided meaning to the word cute. Cute over here is pretty much adorable. And there is …
/r/seduction11/01/17 12:49 PM
7

Man... next thing that'll happen is that she'd have to put your dick inside her for you to get a clue. Dude. You weren't dealing with anything tough or unclear. According to what you said, she might as well have said "PUT. YOUR. DICK. INSIDE. MY. PUSSY."
/r/seduction11/01/17 12:32 PM
1

She's getting ready for a 3rd dude on her maybe? But hey I'm pretty stoned right now. So maybe I'm just being what I am. A stoned dude.
/r/seduction10/01/17 04:04 PM
1

I bother because I don't have a social circle anymore. I bother because this is challenging. I bother because I want to improve myself. I bother because I'm horny and I want connections with women. That enough for you?
/r/seduction10/01/17 05:16 AM
7

geez, you're always such a sour motherfucker. Aight dude. Enjoy. Nobody can help you. Still wondering why you bother with this sub.
/r/seduction09/01/17 05:32 AM
4

Yes, and? Is the focus here on the how or the fact that I got laid?
/r/seduction09/01/17 05:22 AM
6

Yeah and there you have the reason as to why relationships with girls like this are more than a year long. It's support. You become the immovable center for them. So they cling on to you and shove all kinds of problems in your face. My ex was like that. Relationships now simply... I... can't stomach the idea of having LTRs.
/r/seduction09/01/17 05:21 AM
5

Seriously? Friends? Social Circles and so on don't clue you in? But now that I have none of that, I can't rely on it anymore. And I don't remember talking about women chasing me.
/r/seduction09/01/17 05:18 AM
2

As unsatisfying and frustrating as it may be, you just have to do it bro. There is no easy way, there is one way. And that way is called "JUST DO IT PUSSAY". I wish ya the best, man.
/r/seduction08/01/17 08:24 PM
1

Yeah, but I honestly believe that many people have issues which if transmitted over text in a very emotional way would make them look mentally disturbed or unstable. I'll get through it, just gotta do the do. Walk the walk and so on. Life ain't easy for a guy like me but if life were easy it would be pretty dull.
/r/seduction08/01/17 07:24 PM
1

Yeah I know of it. Done a couple of tests on it before. Last result I got was ENTP which really threw me off but after reading a bit, it really resonated with me.
/r/seduction08/01/17 07:18 PM
1

I am not taking drugs. Fuck. That. One glance at adverse effects is more than enough to man up and get my shit together. Though at this point it's already together. My "aggression issues" is honestly "excess energy".
/r/seduction08/01/17 06:59 PM
1

Honestly, to me I've found crazy or abrupt changes work best for me because I'm a pretty fast paced guy but that also means I'm fairly scattered in my habits. I need to put myself in this "box" where my energy and power are focused. So I don't throw it around erratically. I think that's one of the reasons my days have been so polarizing. Because I'm so erratic and energetic but had no real order to things, no real discipline with life. I slacked off with some things sometimes and by proxy ended …
/r/seduction08/01/17 06:55 PM
5

I can't give you a tip because I don't believe there is one that can help you overcome this. Dude I've yet to open and I know all the nooks and crannies when it comes to all the reasons as to why you should approach and should NOT be afraid. There is no tip to help. But maybe I can give you something to perhaps motivate or maybe look at me like I'm crazy: Look at that girl, damn she's really good looking isn't she? Real cute, nice body, sexy and you feel drawn to her, don't ya? Oh what's this? S…
/r/seduction08/01/17 06:42 PM
1

Really does. I think I just used this post as an actual form of catharsis since I did cry which is extremely rare. I've always been just halfway on the train. I can't be in the comfort of sameness and the scary greatness of change at the same time. I know what comfort has brought me. Jack shit. Time for change. Legit. Serious change. Thanks, bro.
/r/seduction08/01/17 05:46 PM
1

That was pretty damn insightful, bro. Thanks. I've been slacking a little on my good habits. So I'll write them out, and paste them on my bedroom walls. Especially a big "Get the fuck up" above my bed.
/r/seduction08/01/17 04:34 PM
13

You've posted this before but with a more negative message. The first paragraph is irrelevant as you'll never find out if you don't try. Obviously not EVERY thing will work for EVERY man getting a CERTAIN woman. You'd think that's fairly clear cut. So essentially none of that matters. Keep shooting. The only card women hold, that men don't is this one: There is no expectation of them to approach or initiate interactions. That's it. Their game ends there. Just because you pursue, doesn't mean you…
/r/seduction08/01/17 04:26 PM
1

What do you want me to say, then? Spend? And besides, I have no clue of where I could even go and whether it would be fruitful or not. What guarantee is there that the whole "therapy" shit isn't some place where you just get assigned some disability by some mofo in a tie so you keep going there and spending your money. While not actually improving and just becoming dependent on this idiot who merely listens to you and asks you vague and empty questions?
/r/seduction08/01/17 03:16 PM
1

I don't have money to splurge on that shit.
/r/seduction08/01/17 03:02 PM
1

I think it's more so one of those chances to get some dick without commitment, hard feelings or any kind of strings. So it's not particularly surprising.
/r/seduction08/01/17 01:28 PM
1

I'm probably like... at the end of the 2nd week. And I'll be honest, I'm not even thinking about "superpowers". I just know I feel better all around. That's more than enough for me. I think most of the "powers" are bullshot so I don't bother even worrying about it.
/r/seduction08/01/17 05:11 AM
3

There is no WAY to get around that. You have to just... power through it. That's it. Sorry bro. There's no medicine for this shit.
/r/seduction07/01/17 06:52 PM
2

Keep that ball rolling, you fuck. Don't even dare to fall into a pit. And most of all don't you dare sit in that fucking pit.
/r/seduction07/01/17 06:36 PM
3

Whaaa? Shit sounds like it's straight out of a porno, bro. Good job nonetheless. It honestly sounds a tad unbelievable.
/r/seduction07/01/17 06:31 PM
2

Mature enough to not give a fuck about whether he gives someone a fuck or not.
/r/seduction07/01/17 02:35 PM
1

Shit, maybe you're thinking of practicing eye contact on them. Little did you know, they were doing the same to you.
/r/seduction06/01/17 11:10 PM
20

staring at the girl will be creepy. To drive this home, ever had someone just fucking stare at you relentlessly? Just flat eye contact. Dead on. It's usually old people. Old people have this batshit crazy eye contact.
/r/seduction06/01/17 04:24 PM
4

I don't know if staring at Scarlett Johansson will make eye contact easier because I'd have to pick my jaw off the floor if I saw her irl. But I mean... if it works it works.
/r/seduction06/01/17 04:22 PM
1

I would most certainly not say I consider love a permanent or life long thing. In fact I find "love" pretty questionable. As time passes I start leaning more and more towards what RSDTyler said once about love. That it's a choice and more often than not, the dudes who "fall in love" are just in a very prettied up version of oneitis and scarcity. But I find the notion of cheating or being the tool of someone else's cheating deplorable. Of course they'll cheat regardless. It doesn't matter who it'…
/r/seduction06/01/17 04:17 PM
1

I don't jerk off. And I hate clubs.
/r/seduction06/01/17 08:48 AM
1

Basically useless.
/r/seduction06/01/17 08:45 AM
1

I never thought I'd ever see a day where dudes openly defend good ol' bieber.
/r/seduction06/01/17 08:45 AM
1

yes, you're our resident workhorse. We all love you.
/r/seduction05/01/17 09:15 PM
1

Time is precious when you don't have a lot of it. I have far too much. I'm dreading my day off tomorrow. I fucking hate days off... so fucking much. Worst day of the week hands down. I'd rather just work and sleep. Just all day, every day. Work sleep. Work sleep. Work sleep. Work sleep. I wish I could give you all some of my time because god knows I have far too much.
/r/seduction05/01/17 09:13 PM
1

I was talking about me. I can definitely see its use for other people but to me. It's absolutely worthless. I actually care about my close friends / cousins life I'd be all down for that if I had either of those. Most of my fb time is I instinctively hop on it, scroll through my feed, and my reaction is split into... 4 categories: Ignore, Eyeroll, Laugh and suffer at stupidity(holy shit the day after the US election, I live in Portugal too so you can imagine how "informed" these mofos are). And …
/r/seduction05/01/17 09:05 PM
1

ehhh that's dude by dude basis obviously. And it's not THAT shocking, if you were a solid part of their life in some form or another, it's not too weird honestly. It's more so you weren't thinking of them nearly enough to even consider that an option. And I actually just deleted both fb and ig. Thanks OP. Social media and dating apps/sites are the most useless thing on the planet to me. They serve literally NO purpose. About time I stopped pointlessly popping onto facebook to argue with special …
/r/seduction05/01/17 08:51 PM
7

i don't beg and plead for sex with a new girl (nor for her attention) anymore. That's not even brag worthy when you're stacked with FWBs. Pretty hard to have a mentality like that when you're with your dick out in the air and tumbleweeds are your company.
/r/seduction05/01/17 08:09 PM
2

That shit ever feel wrong to you? The idea churns my stomach.
/r/seduction05/01/17 07:58 PM
0

I'm 100% positive, I've already replied to this question. Same exact post.
/r/seduction05/01/17 07:33 PM
16

If my sister were to go on a date and for whatever reason decided to bring me along. You're not getting laid, bro. That's probably what's up.
/r/seduction05/01/17 07:29 PM
2

Right but internalizing and living these beliefs is a lot harder than just going "yeah that's right." You could look at the whole thing from many angles but the answer is always the same. You gotta believe in yourself and you gotta risk it. Of course it's meant to be hard because we are conditioned and taught the exact opposite of what we're trying to accomplish here. But it takes a lot more than knowing things like "rejection isn't a big deal"
/r/seduction05/01/17 07:04 PM
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To be fair, if she drops I am a big fan of Justin Bieber's new music. You can just get out of your seat and jump under the nearest moving vehicle.
/r/seduction05/01/17 04:28 PM
2

I don't see how that relates to what I said.
/r/seduction05/01/17 03:48 PM
3

I don't think jacking a car to get laid would be a good idea.
/r/seduction05/01/17 03:26 PM
0

Schedule your dates for late at night I work in the morning and I go to bed at 9 PM. And that's as late as it gets. I have one day off every week and it bounces all over the week. What now? I don't intend to fuck up my sleep schedule for a date.
/r/seduction05/01/17 01:37 PM
1

I have no money to splurge on a motel. What now? Do I resign myself to being a monk until I get my own place or enough money to buy my way into an "inexpensive" motel?
/r/seduction05/01/17 01:34 PM
1

I think the main issue is that they all seem detached from each other while they actually aren't. They're part of a greater whole. You can't possibly remember every single pointer but I'd guess as time goes on, and your experience grows. With every little failure where you forgot this or that. It all melds together and becomes a great boulder of natural allure.
/r/seduction04/01/17 08:52 PM
1

yeah, tell me about it. Eh, I mean you're right. Not that I have much of an issue with most of the stuff. Just the... higher echelon of tools. Well, it's life. Gotta do something, being on NoFap I can't conceivably go full on monk mode because that's simply not me. I love women so gotta give it to 'em.
/r/seduction04/01/17 08:37 PM
2

I just deleted Tinder while reading this post. It hasn't paid off and honestly I'm nowhere near good enough to get anything out of it. I just can't have a good profile. And besides dating apps/sites are damn near useless where I live. It's not a big enough pool of people. And while this is all, generally speaking, good stuff I simply must ask, why does all this just feel like such a fucking chore? All the really motivational/informative GAME stuff just makes me go "UGH". This shit's a damn scien…
/r/seduction04/01/17 08:07 PM
5

I've always hated oversleeping. I feel like shit when I do. I need to get better at just rolling out of bed onto the floor to do push ups.
/r/seduction04/01/17 06:32 PM
5

That's completely beside the point. Just because it's fiction, doesn't mean it's worthless and has nothing to teach or can't give something to think about.
/r/seduction04/01/17 06:31 PM
6

I don't know if this is good because you were a good friend or bad because you didn't get laid. I mean honestly you probably could get laid regardless so good guy OP. Though when it comes to the HB8.5. When she pulled the You probably would not mind if I left now... You were potentially between a girl that was honestly into you or a girl that would flake off if you had shown some sort of sympathy. But what do I know.
/r/seduction04/01/17 04:03 PM
2

Crossing your arms is generally speaking defensive language. Literally a flesh barrier. And if you're approaching a girl it would be... I don't know, it'd look weird you approaching her with your arms crossed or crossing them mid engagement. If you're defensive in that situation, it... kind of makes you look like a pussy or just a weirdo. Why else would you be on the defensive if you weren't scared, intimidated, threatened or whatever else? Honestly you're probably overthinking. Just don't cross…
/r/seduction04/01/17 03:45 PM
3

Good shit, motherfucker. KEEP THAT MOMENTUM GOING. There'll be more and the faster you start thinking on your feet to get numbers and respond to cues and all that, the better. GET IT. Also Jamaican, Asian, German, and Spanish That's some mad gene splicing.
/r/seduction04/01/17 05:13 AM
1

Listen... even if it is hurting your game. Take a step back and look at the matter. What can you do to get rid of it? Unfixable negatives, yeah you shouldn't even worry about them. Why? Because it's something you can't change. If it's hurting your game and you can't change it... deal with it is the best thing you CAN do.
/r/seduction04/01/17 05:06 AM
0

Non bar type girls? For starters try, not a bar.
/r/seduction04/01/17 04:57 AM
1

How about you stop second guessing yourself? Not every chick will like you but it's how you present yourself that really matters. NOTHING. ELSE.
/r/seduction03/01/17 09:16 PM
1

According to media, you'd be weirder if you didn't like any of that. I find it absolutely outlandish that a woman would go "Oh you like Game of Thrones/Videogames/Batman. That's like... for children". I mean what? Seriously? If that's what makes you nerdy then what you said about women not liking "nerdy guys" is a complete and utter asspull. Sorry. I just don't buy it that liking Batman is what really repels all women away from you.
/r/seduction03/01/17 08:59 PM
1

Nerdy as in what? What do you mean by that? At this point, I honestly have no fucking clue. Are you out of shape one way or another (Scrawny/fat)? Do you wear thick ass glasses? Do you have an obsession with waifus? Do you play videogames all day? Is your face ridden with acne? Seriously. Tell me. I must know.
/r/seduction03/01/17 08:32 PM
1

Do you live on a mountain? In a Tibetan valley? An abandoned metro tunnel perhaps? Or a nuclear wasteland? Are you a quadriplegic? A schizophrenic maybe? Perhaps you are horribly disfigured? Are you a blind or a mute? Do you have the black plague? Leukemia? Maybe you were cursed with Alzheimer's at a younger age? Are you mentally retarded? A midget? A giant with fragile bone structure? Do you have nasty, yellow, crooked teeth that stick out of your mouth? Maybe you are cursed with a tiny dick? A…
/r/seduction03/01/17 08:20 PM
1

If you keep thinking about her and don't even try to focus on yourself and other women then you probably WILL still like her. Just be careful, bro.
/r/seduction03/01/17 08:01 PM
3

However, part of me also thinks that if she really wanted to, she would have got back to me so maybe I shouldn't bother. This is probably the best course of action. Personally I don't find the whole "couldn't text" thing very plausible. It's usually bollocks imo. Ever seen a girl out on the street? Where is she looking? Probably at her phone or something. Women are just so deep into social media and all that jazz because they have dick flying at them from every angle. The easiest thing you can d…
/r/seduction03/01/17 07:59 PM
1

Shit's not impossible. But even then, it's better to spend 3 months thinking about yourself and improving yourself than brooding over one chick who clearly doesn't want you and probably won't want you in said 3 months. In fact, considering this plan. You intending to talk to her in a couple of months, I mean what would your life even look like? Can you really focus on yourself and improve yourself with that plan in mind? I don't see it happening.
/r/seduction03/01/17 07:50 PM
1

Ok so plan A is the most feasible one because plan B is just stupid. Think about it. A few months. A "couple" would be two so let's assume 3. Just picture of how many girls you can fill your life with in 3 fucking months. That's a lot. 90 or so days? Shit, man. That's a lot. Once you're over her or are just simply so ballsdeep in pussy, you can then try because then it doesn't even matter what she says or whether she says something at all. Let it go. Move on.
/r/seduction03/01/17 06:38 PM
2

My suggestion is, replace "get a girlfriend" with "approach women". Not "Get women" not "Fuck women" nothing else other than "approach women". Your desires will lead you to "salvation" so to speak. And yeah it will come naturally as long as you do the do. AKA approach. I'd also recommend meditation. Seriously. It's awesome. I'm just getting back into it consistently and I remember yesterday, back from work. Serene, mild, calm as fuck weather. I get to my home and I'm like "I won't go up just yet…
/r/seduction03/01/17 05:57 PM
8

Made that shit up.
/r/seduction03/01/17 05:47 PM
18

You better, don't lose your momentum. And if you do, remember this: When the warmth turns to cold and the water turns to ice. Your body no longer caressed by comfort but instead assaulted by vicious cold. You have two options, give up and drop facedown into the cold, dooming yourself to wilt in misery, or keep walking, no matter how slowly, in order to reach warmth again.
/r/seduction03/01/17 05:45 PM
1

You sound pretty depressed actually. If you feel nothing then why do anything? We live life to feel it. From every cold jagged edge that burrows into our skin to all the flesh incinerating pleasure. If you're a feel nothing zombie then you have nothing to live for.
/r/seduction03/01/17 05:40 PM
44

Wish me luck!!! Fuck that. You don't need luck, motherfucker. You got all you need. A set of balls.
/r/seduction03/01/17 05:37 PM
4

Yes BUT as you said. If a girl is a goddess to you, she won't let you touch her. She might as well not exist at that point.
/r/seduction03/01/17 05:25 PM
1

Don't bother, bruv. You already know all your mistakes. Should've gone for the makeout earlier and should've banged her. Fast and punchy. If she was an HB10 by average standards then she probably had a lot of motherfuckers in line. She liked you and you messed it up. No worries that's life. Don't bother with text messages. I know it feels like saying SOMETHING gives you more power but honestly what in the flying fuck do you want power for? Even if you gain a little of it with her, things won't r…
/r/seduction03/01/17 05:41 AM
1

If it's kissing related could be a myriad of reasons. Women are kind of picky. But as mirotake said, if you build up the tension, the kissing is much more forgivable unless you're absolutely hands down atrocious. I think kissing is something you either have or don't. But my first kiss was in fact a full on make out session that lasted for... 40 something minutes? I was out of breath after that. So that probably set the bar pretty high for me. I can't say practice because... well there's not much…
/r/seduction03/01/17 05:31 AM
1

Do it wearing a Cannibal Corpse T-Shirt. Then we can talk about beer. Hell I'll buy you a bottle of vodka and an ounce of weed.
/r/seduction02/01/17 07:45 PM
2

Do something retarded then. If you're having stilted conversations, it just means you gotta let go. I dunno go to a park, spot a pair of girls on a bench and just lie down in front of them and be all "hey ladies, you wanna make a painting of me?" with a wicked smirk or something. Is that gonna get you laid? Well I don't know. I think the essence of doing something stupid is that when you do it, it just means you're essentially saying "I quite literally don't give a fuck what happens" You're over…
/r/seduction02/01/17 07:30 PM
2

You see, if you truly believe you're cool and attractive, you won't care whether she believes it and counter intuitively she will probably believe it that way. But it has to come from a place of honesty with oneself. If you're a miserable slob throughout the day, it's gonna be pretty hard to come off as genuinely fun, confident or interesting to a girl. Like when I feel like shit, I don't even bother trying to put on an act. I'll try to get out of that shitty feeling but I won't put on an act. I…
/r/seduction02/01/17 07:23 PM
2

And i'm not shallow. Lemme just preface this by saying, no one makes judgement like that here. Because it's a stupid thing to say in the first place. As a response to your question. Why would you ever bother with girls you're not attracted to. Just because? Don't. It's stupid. Focus on yourself. You should always be priority number one
/r/seduction02/01/17 05:33 AM
3

Alright, let's do this shit then. I don't have plans to become a monk so might as well. Let's do it, mothafuckas
/r/seduction02/01/17 05:06 AM
2

You took that supremely personally. And while I did take that a tad far for humor, I still stand by it. I find the whole "just stick it in" rather boring and boring is the exact opposite of what sex should be. And since men take charge, you get my drift. And I also don't see any reason not to eat puss. Sure some chicks are nasty but that's a specific. I didn't say it's alpha, I said that if we follow the logic of "Primal and animal" which you used saying she would see you as less of a man subcon…
/r/seduction01/01/17 08:10 PM
3

Doesn't matter had sex
/r/seduction01/01/17 06:05 PM
5

"Your tits are lopsided and uneven. Good day, madam."
/r/seduction01/01/17 05:58 PM
3

Your logic is flawed. If we're talking about purely biological factors. Two pump chumps whose only sex act is vaginal penetration are the all time superior alpha males. They get the job done fast, clean and simple. Also, "Dominated"? As a purely logical rule, whoever is louder and whoever is feeling the most physical pleasure is the one getting dominated because they are the one getting the business. I can't really moan nor make any significant noise with a fat ass on my face and my tongue in ei…
/r/seduction01/01/17 03:16 PM
3

While a fair point I personally hate masturbation. So it's a YMMV sort of thing
/r/seduction31/12/16 10:05 PM
9

Be in the moment. Focus on her completely. Breathe motherfucker. And do it slowly. Faster you breathe, faster you cream. Rhythm and pace. Maintain the pace. I'm sure you've heard of the joke everyone keeps cracking "Oh yeah just like that. No! why are you speeding up." Control yourself, if you're there to cum then you can resign yourself to jacking off. Listen to her and how she reacts to the things you do. Eat pussy like a champ. Do it(As long as she's clean and you know it). In my book, I don'…
/r/seduction31/12/16 06:47 PM
1

Well I'm not a master, so... and neither are most dudes on here
/r/seduction31/12/16 05:36 AM
1

What room is this? A club? A bar? what if I don't go to places like that? Furthermore while I get the gist of what you say here. You need to have some superhuman sensory abilities to pull conclusions like that out of your ass. Ever looked at a couple people laughing and then one glances at you? What do you assume? They're laughing at you, right? Egocentric but that's how humans operate. What are the actual odds of that? People laugh in public regardless of who surrounds them. "You aren't aware" …
/r/seduction31/12/16 05:35 AM
1

What? This is the exact opposite of everything else I've read or heard. "Approach because women want to be approached" is all I've been hearing.
/r/seduction31/12/16 05:29 AM
1

Because you're acting like such a miserable and pathetic sob, our own problems and shortcomings look really silly in comparison
/r/seduction31/12/16 05:25 AM
11

Man this sort of reminds me of the POV video from College Humor. Who gives a shit, honestly. Why would you put that unnecessary pressure on yourself? I know at best I'll be screaming out of my window, drunk as fuck when the year passes. And at worst I'll be asleep. I don't care. I don't have any plans or people to go out with so it doesn't really matter honestly. I'd love to bang my way into the new year but that ain't really happening so who cares. Honestly, 0 fucks given. If you want some sort…
/r/seduction30/12/16 05:45 PM
1

I don't know why you're here but honestly if you're here to make the rest of us feel better. You need a promotion ASAP. Enjoy being above it all. Heard that shit before because it used to come out of my own mouth.
/r/seduction30/12/16 12:50 PM
1

Hell yeah. Damn good comment. Eh with girls you'd have to be supremely lucky with your genes and even then... no guarantee at all. Ryan Reynolds wouldn't get girls to come up to him if he weren't who he is and just had his dashing looks. So there ain't any choice. Do or go home. No point in taking such a pointless chance anyway.
/r/seduction29/12/16 06:58 PM
1

Did you know obvious things are obvious? I know right. It's pretty amazing shit.
/r/seduction29/12/16 06:37 PM
1

That's a pretty solid way to look at it. I like it. The wants and wishes don't matter. What you think doesn't matter. Y'know we are not who we think we are, nor what others think we are. We simply are... what we do. I think that's the healthiest way to look at it. It is or it isn't. I like your comment, thanks. Pretty smart.
/r/seduction29/12/16 06:36 PM
1

It has impact on everything in life. Thus far that's what I see. I'm happier, more energized, calmer, more in control of myself, more motivated, more confident and more creative. Quitting porn is the main thing. You can look up "Your Brain on Porn" on yt by Gary Wilson if you're curious. But other than porn I've found abstaining from masturbation at the very least energizes me. All around I feel better without it.
/r/seduction29/12/16 04:33 PM
1

Good point and it sounds rather fun actually. Y'know just approaching regardless, I suppose is the essence. Unless an atomic bomb just blew up, I'd say approaching is fair game.
/r/seduction29/12/16 04:30 PM
1

Yeah I definitely need to slow down my life a bit because I really bulldoze through it sometimes and when I look back I'm kind of "Wait. Damn it" Sure yeah, there would be other things to do in Lisbon other than clubs and shit. So I suppose from now on, whenever there is a chance for an opportunity to appear I'll stay unplugged. I've started to work without earphones and doing pretty fine, doing my best to find common ground with my coworkers. Used to just listen to music before because no one r…
/r/seduction29/12/16 02:08 PM
1

I don't care how many of them are here. I want to know what exactly are they fucking doing here.
/r/seduction29/12/16 11:51 AM
1

Ok. Do what you want. Don't bother coming back to this sub. It's useless because your feet are planted in what you believe. You clearly want someone to confirm your beliefs. So here you go. Yeah, you're screwed. Women are a bunch of entitled gold digging whores. You win. You are correct. I mean, honestly what else can I tell you?
/r/seduction29/12/16 11:30 AM
1

The way you talk about women and yourself. Your problems are out in the open. If online dating is such dirt as you have seen. Why would you even entertain the notion of getting back to it. And the way you see women, yeah man... you won't get far thinking like that. And by won't get far. You won't get anywhere. Resenting and being bitter towards them really shows the holes in your mentality. What do you even want women for if they're such shit? my crappy awkward self And that's actually what you …
/r/seduction28/12/16 11:57 AM
2

Sure I get your point. But you gotta start. Even if it's late. So what. Start. Otherwise your prediction will come true.
/r/seduction28/12/16 04:30 AM
1

You don't need to toss and turn like you're having a 'nam flashback to not like that shit. And I've found that I'm always more needy and creepy if I'm wanking. Y'know in general, I'm just a far worse person if I'm wanking. And especially a far worse man if I'm wanking.
/r/seduction27/12/16 07:36 PM
1

It drains me of energy, motivation, horniness, confidence and happiness. It fills me with paranoia, anxiety, stress and self deprecation. And that's without going out. Shit goes through the roof if I leave the house. So no. Can't say I agree.
/r/seduction27/12/16 07:01 PM
1

Don't bother. This sounds like a chick that doesn't know what she wants. My ex did something like that after our 2 years. Tugged me back and forth like a puppy, but then when she wanted me back I was like "Nope. No love for you left, fruitcake. Bye." She cried and sobbed as I sort of put her outside of my door and closed it in her crying face. That relationship has fucked up my life majorly. I was the epitome of pathetic back then. The only thing past me has over present me is a tight pussy to f…
/r/seduction27/12/16 04:39 PM
1

Better with women? What do you even base that on? The couple pieces of advice I've given you? Advice ANYONE else could have given you? Having a measurable experience with women and a past social life doesn't really translate to pickup. It's much better than being a kissless virgin or something but still.
/r/seduction27/12/16 01:22 PM
1

If I were to magically fix them I'd do better with women not because they suddenly think I look better but because I'd feel better and more confident. That right there. Exactly. Before anything else you need to feel good, comfortable and awesome in your own skin.
/r/seduction27/12/16 04:23 AM
1

I'm something of a natural thinker. I like contemplating and debating ideas in my own head and all that good stuff. A natural arguer, a douchebag and well... a tad crazy. So writing is just another side of that. I don't see any reason why you shouldn't at least try it, since you've had the desire. It's pretty easy to figure out whether or not it's your thing. Naturally not everyone is cut out for it, that's why you have fan fiction. I like to think of it as(for the most part) people with no real…
/r/seduction26/12/16 07:27 PM
1

Well, y'know you can make the choice. I know it's a stupid piece of advice but what else can someone give you? You have a choice. Stay the way you are, miserable and bitter about yourself. Honestly in a way you probably hate yourself. Sometimes I do too. Or you can just make the choice that you're not just some piece of shit that is doomed to jerk himself off in front of his computer(also do yourself a favor and quit doing that). A big part of self improvement is realizing that the power of chan…
/r/seduction26/12/16 07:20 PM
6

There sure is Facebook game. Candy Crush
/r/seduction26/12/16 05:51 PM
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I'm still working on it after so many years and I don't see the fix anytime soon. This entire post is kind of a demonstration of that. Honestly man. There are a ton of dudes that are just... I'm sorry they are just downright sad to look at. I'm not a bloody ladies man by any stretch of the imagination but geez. I've met some really hardcore pushovers. Y'know since this happens at work, how about you just do your damnedest to detach yourself from the misery of the poor sobs that get rejected by t…
/r/seduction26/12/16 02:56 PM
2

Honestly I think featuring a defect is rather pointless. A much better thing to say would be "If you can't change it, don't sweat it." Why? Because you can't change it. When it comes to your eyebrows, I'm not sure what you mean but mine are also somewhat sparse. I cannot get a unibrow. A noticeable one anyway. I'm pretty light haired so you cannot physically see any hair between my brows. I've gotten the question as to whether I do my eyebrows(I don't). The bags under the eyes, well not much you…
/r/seduction26/12/16 02:36 PM
11

PUA problems: I can't get oneitis. You people.
/r/seduction26/12/16 01:36 PM
2

staring into her soul like an evil hungry night ghoul from hell. You'd have to try pretty hard to achieve such an effect.
/r/seduction26/12/16 01:34 PM
2

Damn, this hits home.
/r/seduction25/12/16 08:33 AM
1

I mean do anything for it. Depending on where you live, you can just cast a wide net and use all of those women as guinea pigs if you will. Try different things on them. Whatever you feel like saying, say it. That's really the core, "abundance" and all that. If you're acting like you have a constant flow and pipeline of women to talk to and try different approaches on then the value of just 1 girl will decrease significantly. Y'know the fuck up is not scary. That may be your problem. The proverb…
/r/seduction25/12/16 08:31 AM
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Silence has a metric fuckton of power. It escalates tension in pretty much any situation. In this context it would be sexual tension. Slow, paused speech is better. And leaving some silence in there is also good. Y'know the silence is only awkward if you make it that way.
/r/seduction24/12/16 06:07 PM
1

Shit bro. I'm 20 and I go bald because I like wearing a bandanna and the shape of my face/head fits the style. Plus IMO it looks cool and that's more than enough for me. I'm not balding but my hairline is a tad back for someone at 20 years of age. If the hair is going, well... what can ya do honestly? Own it. That's all you can do. Y'know stuff like wigs and all that only means you're hiding your insecurity, weakness and "inferiority". But that's only the way it is because you consider it as suc…
/r/seduction24/12/16 05:47 PM
2

Have I just become a sociopath? Or psychopath. Sure sounds like it. You could've just transcended depression and entered some weird state where all the emotions kind of just turn into white noise to the point of not even being able to hear it. Did losing my humanity increase my success with women because I have nothing to lose anymore? Yep. Pretty much. If your brain operates on the "nothing to lose" mentality. That's pretty much all of game in a nutshell.
/r/seduction24/12/16 05:14 PM
1

Yeah, same here. And I've personally have had girls that did in fact find me attractive and other than 1 or 2 they were all "would bang" material. But no, I was stupid. I had a severe case of one-itis as well as a relationship which made me throw all my connections in the toilet because she was such a manipulative, insecure(she was hot) and stupid bitch. And I was an insecure, weak and spineless dude that couldn't see what would happen to him once he woke the fuck up. She dumped me and I started…
/r/seduction24/12/16 11:17 AM
1

Well you are indeed a douche. But a douche that's in the right. Very well, I shall meditate. If one does self improvement, one must always go all in. No edging into it, no one foot in one foot out. All in with all that you can. Thanks, actually that was pretty inspiring. Not even sure you're a douche anymore.
/r/seduction23/12/16 06:26 PM
6

Goddamn, did you get sponsored by Meditation Inc.? I kind of want to meditate now. I should really pick it back up.
/r/seduction23/12/16 05:45 PM
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... cuddle party... that's probably an after orgy party or prelim to one. Because that's the only time I cuddle, before sex or after it.
/r/seduction23/12/16 04:45 PM
1

The only other dude that works there is my brother. And the boss as well as the "Supervisor" I'd call him. The other 6 are all chicks in their 20s so that's pretty good. And I've been going out of my way to be... friendlier which helps my mood a great deal. Good tips for sure. Thanks. I'll keep them in mind.
/r/seduction23/12/16 04:43 PM
1

hmmm that's... very true. There are far too many undesirable outcomes to taking that risk. And I'd rather not fuck her and keep my job than not fuck her and lose my job. No piece of ass is ever going to be worth that cost.
/r/seduction23/12/16 02:24 PM
1

Maybe I worded that a bit wrong. I do not want a relationship but ideally it would be a FWB. Not quite a fuck her and not again call. You tell me if that changes something in your response.
/r/seduction23/12/16 02:12 PM
1

Well... I am real, that's for sure. I'm by no means saying that YOU can get away with not following any of those rules. What I am saying is that there's no reason you can't get laid other than you're not doing the do enough. I'm not saying he got ass left and right, all the 10s and shit. No. I'm saying he got some without following the basics. Not 10s or anything. But at least 1 or 2 of those chicks I'd defo fuck. Don't believe it if you don't want to but... well, it's just true. If you don't be…
/r/seduction23/12/16 12:21 PM
2

That response sounds like the response of a dude that does not in fact get laid and instead he just jerks himself off in front of his computer. Don't listen to that. Even if that is someone who isn't bitter and trying to make himself feel good about his lack of action. When people say things like that, usually it's not a matter of being "redpilled" or "hardcore realist". It's a way of coping with their own inadequacies. I don't accept ideas or notions that tell me I won't get laid. Because if I …
/r/seduction22/12/16 01:40 PM
2

Since women tend to look for maturity and experience in men, I don't see a whole lot of women getting off on the idea of taking a man's virginity. I really don't see that happening. As for dishonesty, I mean if it's a one night stand lay, who gives a shit. You're not hiding an STD to do it raw so it's not like she'll get screwed over. And you're not screwing her over with your inexperience as she can get dick anytime she wants. Furthermore, doing all the work to just get blown off because of som…
/r/seduction22/12/16 12:42 PM
1

Because it's facebook. Last I checked the "friends" cap is 5k. If she's hot, take a guess at how many dudes send her messages.
/r/seduction21/12/16 12:19 PM
1

Improve clothing style You really mean "Wear what's in".
/r/seduction21/12/16 12:17 PM
3

Probably everything that gives you a buzz helps. I mean if I'm uninhibited enough to walk around shirtless at night with a crooked smile on my face and a buzz in my head then I'm probably not gonna be inhibited enough to fuck things up with girls. But my drunk/high is very full of energy unless I'm feeling extra groovy then I'll just bob around like an idiot with a stupid grin on my face. But do you really want to get good at something only with external assistance? Getting buzzed is just fun by…
/r/seduction20/12/16 05:13 PM
1

Ok, first off, I don't care about his or your feelings. I'm being completely blunt. And if I'm being blunt then doing your absolutely castrated disagreeing would not be very honest. And again I never said it's morally wrong. If you want to quote me saying "it's morally wrong". Yes. By all means. If you can find me saying that. By all means.
/r/seduction20/12/16 03:25 PM
1

Yeah I've turned a very suspicious eye towards fetishes. They're there for a reason. No one is just born with a "I want to get whipped and told I'm a piece of shit" desire. We're not really born with a preset sexuality. People grow up differently and thus have different tastes. There is some genetics there but I doubt there's a "shit lover" gene. And I'm not here preaching to cuckolds or so I thought. I want to stay away from that sickening shit. The concept of cuckolds goes directly against eve…
/r/seduction20/12/16 01:12 PM
12

not going to get laid as often as you'd like You're probably not going to get laid at all if that's all you do.
/r/seduction20/12/16 01:01 PM
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guessing that, in general, young girls aged like 18-22 don't want older guys. Wat. Dude. That's like, the staple of human sexuality. Women like older. Men like younger. Generally speaking. I'm 20 years old and what you said is the exact opposite of the truth. Generally people assign bigger numbers to my face. I don't know if once a girl gets my age wrong by 4 or so years(higher) her panties turn into a desert. But women want maturity which implies older. And men want youth which is by definition…
/r/seduction20/12/16 12:58 PM
1

I know, right. I don't get women existing on this sub. Because if you're reasonably attractive as a woman. You need exactly 0 effort to get a dude. You may need some effort to get him to stay with you but you won't have any issue with anything before that.
/r/seduction20/12/16 12:43 PM
1

How about you give me something that isn't an opinion? Then I'll retract mine. Everything is a fucking opinion. But this opinion has grounds in logic unlike yours. Y'know my beliefs aren't a clusterfuck of random shit. It's all a rather connected and fine web. If you think being a cuck is A-OK and there's nothing wrong with it then you're already halfway to becoming one. It's disgusting, repulsive and downright pathetic. It's one of two things: Product of extremely damaged self esteem and wayyy …
/r/seduction20/12/16 12:40 PM
2

We're talking about people who in my eyes deserve absolutely no respect or consideration. So damn right I'll be a dick. This isn't a sexuality or a sexual orientation or whatever else. It's just called being pathetic.
/r/seduction20/12/16 03:58 AM
1

Yep. I start hot for the cleaning part and then I flip it around. If you were sleepy before. You are not sleepy after that. Full of energy.
/r/seduction19/12/16 05:56 PM
1

I'm not one to talk as I have exactly 1 approach under my belt. But did you ever like... go into serious reforms? I mean 50k is hard to believe but let's assume it's true for a second. Did you ever go "hmmm something's not working here. What must I improve and how can I improve?" You must be working with serious handicaps and terrible approach form to get that far and get no results.
/r/seduction19/12/16 03:56 PM
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Best thing you can do is train your willpower and discipline. Things like cold showers, meditation, NoFap, exercise all help in order to uphold and maintain mood rather than just swinging back and forth without any control over yourself. You may not be able to put yourself in a good mood but you can at least maintain and support an already present good mood. Like today, at work I fucked some things up but instead of freaking out, losing my composure or going sour I was just ok let's do it again.…
/r/seduction18/12/16 04:03 PM
2

Tough shit for them. What the hell, dude. Your bros can want all they want but if you're the one getting their panties wet, then you're the one getting dat puss. Especially when they're not making a move. It's not a target unless you're shooting it ffs.
/r/seduction18/12/16 01:18 PM
2

Chris Hemsworth with glasses gets everyone hot in their loins.
/r/seduction18/12/16 01:10 PM
1

Lucky you, bro. Lucky you indeed. Just remember not to expect lightning to hit twice. You got a break but be vigilant next time. You going for that sweet kiss, let's be honest, has more weight than words do. Especially when it's mutual. But y'know we're all here playing the "Will it blend" game.
/r/seduction18/12/16 12:27 PM
1

This is indeed dangerous. Take a cold shower. Punch yourself in the dick if you have to. Just don't believe that and by no means ever follow that. Scarcity, desperation, oneitis and so on. Yeah none of these things signify getting dat puss. You won't get hers and no one else's either.
/r/seduction17/12/16 11:31 PM
1

Seriously? I thought the PUA community was all about self development and being a better man. Guess not.
/r/seduction17/12/16 11:25 PM
2

Yeah it's like a shit or piss fetish.
/r/seduction17/12/16 11:23 PM
2

It's that obvious, innit. But we all know that. I do, at least. My approach count is 1. And that's before I found all this shit. It was a nice result and it made excuses supremely difficult, nay, impossible to create. It's a matter of accepting A) Rejections will happen. B) They're not a damnation of who you are. C) You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. D) Who says the rejection will happen THIS time? You don't know. And then it's a matter of how loud you can scream "Fuck it" in your own he…
/r/seduction15/12/16 07:43 PM
1

Well I most certainly feel more mentally able to approach during NoFap because I'm hornier, more energized and more confident. NoFap to me is a booster more than anything. I like the energy and good feeling it gives me. Also because I have a serious logical and mindful aversion to porn. I hate getting lost in the urge and the moment the fucked up nature of it surfaces in my head. Not to mention how disappointed I am at myself afterwards. I think if you stick to what you do and what you intend to…
/r/seduction11/12/16 07:17 PM
1

I don't really consider myself either extro or introverted. Lately I'd say I've looked at myself as more of an extrovert, considering how much I'd rather be interacting with people than not. My hobbies are generally alone type hobbies. And I spend so much time in my own head that I love to get out of it. I really relish the few interactions I have with other people.
/r/seduction11/12/16 06:53 PM
3

Yeah... bro. We all eventually come to that conclusion. I've had it a long time ago. I've done 0 approaches since so... yeah. And it's funny because I've ever only done 1 approach and it was probably a couple weeks before I found all of this self improvement shit like NoFap and Pickup. And that approach went pretty swimmingly, very nice and intelligent 2 hour conversation with a rather attractive girl. Nothing came of it. Never spoke to her since but it was kind of eye opening. And now I definit…
/r/seduction11/12/16 06:27 PM
3

Simple. Don't. You have venues to talk to her face to face so do it. And if you don't have said venues. It's better to forget it. Because facebook has taught me one big lesson. What you're talking about is absolutely pointless. At least if she's at the very least a 7. And it gets worse the higher you go up. Because If you don't know her or have never talked to her, you have absolutely 0 ways or chances of conveying confidence or whatever other positive trait you may have. Text is absolutely awfu…
/r/seduction11/12/16 06:22 PM
0

Get the fagtastic undercut. Everyone wears that shit for whatever reason.
/r/seduction10/12/16 02:32 PM
2

Why... in the hell would you be listening to pop punk. All in all this is another be yourself thread. This is a 50/50. Just because you happen to dress like a semi fashionable hipster and get away with it doesn't mean we can dress however we feel and get away with that. There is no "women sense how confident you are and comfortable in your skin you are because you just wear whatever is right for your soul" Yeah. No. Y'know what they most likely think in my case? If anything really. "He's wearing…
/r/seduction10/12/16 05:27 AM
3

I don't really get it. For women this is pretty simple. As long as you're reasonably good looking and not a slob. Just open social media. You don't even have to try.
/r/seduction09/12/16 08:08 PM
1

Dude, it's pretty easy. Everyone gets criticized for SOME thing. And mags are complete fabrication and distortion of reality. It's like teen popstars. They're all pretty because they're appealing to the lowest common denominator. The teen girls get sold the perfect pretty boy and the oh so pretty, admirable, "brave" and (Insert whatever other shallow platitude here) girl. The boys get sold the pimp, playa, gangsta shit or whatever else. You get my point. It's all fabricated. And I dunno, I've he…
/r/seduction09/12/16 08:05 PM
2

Wait... what? Misogyny?
/r/seduction09/12/16 06:35 PM
1

I have to ask. Why are you even here? I'm supremely curious.
/r/seduction09/12/16 04:28 PM
1

This is like asking if a man is an asshole when he doesn't want to fuck fat chicks.
/r/seduction09/12/16 03:42 PM
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Man, this sub is like a fucking broken record. Always regurgitating the exact same talking points. Seriously seduction "material" is very counter productive. There's so much of it but very quickly you stop finding out anything new unless you're absolutely oblivious to the world around you. You could condense all of modern PUA into 10 sheets of paper. Hand it to any motherfucker that wants to learn. Kick him out of the house and lock the door. Because all I've been doing after finding r/seduction…
/r/seduction09/12/16 03:27 PM
3

The gurus aren't relatable because they're basically telling you how to get over a chasm from the other side of that chasm. Y'know the further away you get from what you were, the harder it becomes to relate to it. Ever went "Damn I was a fucking idiot. I have no idea what I was thinking" when you look back at the past things you've said/done? If we say that about ourselves, what can a guru tell you about yourself? While you have a point with RSDJulien. But look at him. Him and Tyler. They're no…
/r/seduction09/12/16 02:57 PM
2

Become their sensei.
/r/seduction05/12/16 04:34 PM
1

To be entirely fair, I appreciate your advice. I just have these moments as do we all where you look at your life in a very pessimistic, doomsday type of way. Right now I'm feeling better actually. NoFap helps a lot. The worst is just when you have nothing to do or feel like doing something but you have no actual desire to do anything. Weird. Eh. Life's a bitch. Gotta tough it out.
/r/seduction05/12/16 01:03 PM
1

Yeah, pretty cynical indeed. A trademarked outlook/attitude at this point.
/r/seduction05/12/16 12:51 PM
2

I may very well be an angry, unhappy fuck. But I'm by no means clueless. It would take a retard to even for a second ask the question "Why" And I know damn well what choices fucked me to bring me to this point. Stop making bad choices... wow. If every choice I made had the tag "Good" or "bad". Bad choices are bad. No shit, genius.
/r/seduction03/12/16 04:47 PM
2

Eh, I have better days. I try to be as conversational and friendly as I can at work because I like the people there generally speaking. Sometimes the mood just sinks like an anvil but I'm trying to quit PMO and I've been on and off with it. Trying to stick to it legit. Only thing I know is that I feel more vivid off it. Which makes my mood more extreme and more prone to swinging. Shit's hard and you can probably relate, got nowhere to put this feeling. Only real consolation is that I'm only 20 s…
/r/seduction03/12/16 03:27 PM
15

Legit dude. I don't even remember the last time I hugged someone.
/r/seduction03/12/16 03:10 PM
3

You should probably realize that's not comforting. After the dude beat the shit out of OP he probably didn't quite feel as threatened anymore. There are two things that are just satisfying on a primal level. That's violence with proper success and sex also with proper success.
/r/seduction03/12/16 02:04 PM
1

Oh shit yeah, that's great information. Where's the switch? So I can just SIMPLY and EASILY put it in the OFF position. Oh right, there is no fucking switch. This information is as useful as realizing that rejection isn't so horrible and walking up to women isn't scary. Still not doing it and that info has been stewing for a couple months now
/r/seduction03/12/16 01:57 PM
14

Well my life is boring as shit. Seriously. No one wants to be a part of it because it's just that boring. That's why I have no friends and my social circle is a dot. I have a comment on the style and social points. First off on the style point: 1.1 - Instagram is cancer bro. From all the chicks you won't see, let alone fuck. To the dudes banging those chicks. To all the pretentious fags with their black'n'white bullshit. It's not even cancer. It's the congregate for the lowest common denominator…
/r/seduction03/12/16 01:44 PM
1

Yeah I've been trying to convince myself back into this for the past couple of weeks. Just lurking here. Not really working. I'd say I'm more resistant to buying into this PUA shit than I was 2 or 3 months ago. This shit requires optimism and all that. Like Louis CK says, "You have to be stupid to be single" I mean I'm only 20 but I already feel like I have two options for my future sex life. A monk or a wanker. And I'd rather be a monk. Feel bad enough without PMO.
/r/seduction02/12/16 06:38 PM
1

That doesn't take intellect. Self control and discipline is all that is. What kind of disparity are we even talking about here? Genius and retard? There is nothing intelligent about what you described. A dumb person could argue "ok ill just watch one episode of this, then ill go go the gym", even though that didnt work. Everyone does or has done that at some point. Procrastinating or finding an excuse or whatever. It's a lack of willpower and desire. Not Intellect. An intelligent person can anal…
/r/seduction01/12/16 03:11 PM
1

It also prevents her from creating erections.
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:06 AM
1

Discipline and self control aren't really intellect. When I say simple I mean that you don't have to put any thought or rationale into it.
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:04 AM
0

Genetics are still at play though. And your facial structure won't change even with makeup. And besides, it doesn't take any kind of intellect to maintain a diet or a workout program or to use make up. From "beach bod" diets/workouts to makeup tutorials to filling your bra to double your cup size. Everyone's already figured it all out so they don't really need to use brainpower. In fact, being simple minded would make it easier since you're not constantly plagued by something that requires a lot…
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:55 PM
4

"Believe in the force, Luke" "How?" "Just do it"
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:09 PM
4

Better you look, the less tools you need and the less they need to be developed.
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:05 PM
1

Where can I get the 3 second rule software? Seriously what's the point of setting these rules up? It's as effective as thinking to yourself "I can fly". I mean I don't know if this shit works for you guys somehow but that rule works for me as long as I don't get an opportunity to employ it. Which isn't particularly effective.
/r/seduction26/11/16 01:14 PM
1

The whole PUA thing is about playing games... so... wat. All the inner game shit, constant happiness, inner peace, abundance mindset and all that is you telling yourself what are essentially lies, misdirections and mind tricks. Which is essentially the game we all play to one extent or another, in one aspect of life or another. Life is a fucking game, especially when it comes to other people. We feel them out, we get comfortable. You don't drink beers and swear like a sailor with your boss. You'…
/r/seduction26/11/16 12:59 PM
1

Are you asian? I really really hope so, because the whole "race puts me at a disadvantage boohoo" shtick just doesn't work. If not, shut the fuck up. There is no other race aside from asian that has a bad universal stereotype sexually or romantically. And besides, no person is attracted to everyone. Regardless of what race you are, you work with the tools life has given you. You don't wish for tools you don't have and cannot have by way of being whoever you are. You can wish to be white all you …
/r/seduction26/11/16 12:37 PM
18

They also say they like nice guys but we all know the truth about that.
/r/seduction21/11/16 07:23 AM
0

I'm quite sure that all the reasons as to why being a nice guy isn't enough and isn't attractive. We all already know that. Unless you just got into this community, you're well aware of what's up with nice guys. Regurgitating information that has been said time and time again.
/r/seduction07/11/16 01:47 PM
2

And said female friends are absolutely oblivious to that fact. "Oh don't be silly, of course not. We're just friends. Oh shut up, of course he doesn't want to fuck me. He's just my friend."
/r/seduction14/10/16 10:59 PM
1

I can see that I suppose but I'm something you'd call a smoker by passion. As in, I like to destroy my lungs because I like it and not because of its social perks. Although a good lighter is always cool to have and feels cool to use. Just googled Sobranie, yeah man I can see THAT turning a few heads or at least catching someone's attention but I don't really see a normal pack of Marlboro doing much in that department.
/r/seduction20/09/16 08:55 AM
1

cigarette game... what kind of smoker would actually do this? Change his smoking habits and apparel to impress women. That just sounds so tryhard. And let me tell you something, if I buy packs it's to break the cigarettes and roll them up. Because I am cheap and I'll maximize my smoking. What an odd post though, seriously.
/r/seduction20/09/16 08:42 AM
0

General improvement, yes. It's also exacerbated the desire for women. Which is not a good thing to say the least. No underlying issues either. What are the excuses everyone tells? Same ones, save for any involving underlying issues.
/r/seduction17/09/16 06:24 PM
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You whole wall of text actually didn't have any point other than some self mental masturbation. Right back at ya, fruitcake
/r/seduction17/09/16 06:14 PM
1

I already am on NoFap
/r/seduction17/09/16 05:02 PM
-2

I suppose you have a point. Then why is there even a post talking about it?
/r/seduction17/09/16 04:48 PM
-3

So... what exactly is the purpose of this subreddit, if his advice sparks so true.
/r/seduction17/09/16 04:10 PM
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Uselessness of this reply does not disappoint.
/r/seduction17/09/16 03:57 PM
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