That's it, man.

Simply try.

Doesn't matter whether you're approaching or escalating.

Your job is to try. Your best try. The best try you can muster within your breast. If it's weaksauce, don't worry. You tried, man. That's all you have to do. All you have to do is try. Don't try to reach the highest heights right away. It's alright, fucking up is natural and part of the process. If all you do is succeed, well... would you even be able to tell the difference if you haven't failed? And what is failure if not the twin of success? The one that makes all the difference? The one that makes success great. Having one without the other merely means neutrality. They will always be two sides of the same coin.

So try. It's worth it. Failure through action always teaches more than failure through inaction.

She won't kill you, she won't shame you to the ends of the earth, she won't shatter your confidence and self worth. She's just a girl. She's literally nothing special. She's just as plagued by fears and insecurities. She's weak and helpless as we all are in this world. How can you let one person make or break you? The only person that truly has the power to break you, is you.

But you don't want to break yourself. You want to better yourself. You want to become a better person and a stronger man.

It's hard, man. I know. We fall to despair and we lose battles to our fears and insecurities. A constant tug-o-war battle against the loser within all of us.

But you want to do it, don't you? Of course you do. You want to win your mental battles.

Just remember.

You want to win.

And trying is victory.

Try to approach. Try to get a convo. Try to get a number. Try to get a date. Try to get her naked.

Try

After all, it's your job. And your life is your own to live. It's in your hands. As a man you have to try. You have to take the first step. And you want to. You know you do.

So do what you want and try. Because you also know that nothing magical will ever happen and no one will fix all of your problems for you.

No matter how much you read or watch. You will never have a turning point that came out of nowhere. Your turning point will be a decision. A decision made with gritted teeth and hope in your chest.

So make it.