Create them yourself.

Seriously man, waiting for signals is downright stupid. Being attentive to signals is great but waiting for them? A serious waste.

Not all girls(most aren't) are gonna be star struck by you at first glance and give signals they want you balls deep inside them. And depending on what kind of dude you are. Well... maybe you're abso-fuckin-lutely invisible to women. So what's the answer? Gotta make 'em see you.

How? Approach. Let that smokin' personality and charm get their panties soaked.

There's tons of different dudes and tons of different girls. Some dudes are just smokin' to a lot of girls on first glance and they want their attention. But some girls will be intimidated by the steam getting them all hot and bothered. But you may look scary, intimidating, ill tempered or whatever else. You may also just look average so she's really not getting much to look at.

Not all girls give signals and not all dudes are types to get signals.

A girl not giving you a signal doesn't mean she's not attracted to you. You not getting signals also doesn't mean you're unattractive or can't be attractive.

And let's be honest the whole "She made eye contact and looked down means she's submitting to your manly gaze", come on man that's fucking stupid. That's a dumb shit assumption. Hair tosses or any of that... nonsense. Sure if she's fucking smiling at you, there's probably something to it. But for some reason I smiled when I told my mom her dad died so... maybe not.

If a girl is dead on fixated on her phone which is common as shit since all people(girls especially) do is look at the fucking instagram feed. She didn't give you any signals. So... you're not gonna approach? What're you gonna do to get her to look at you so that you can verify if she's interested or not? Throw a drink at her?

Though I'd also say that if you're thinking whether you got a signal, it's best to assume that yes you did because whatever takes your ass off that bench and puts you in front of her face is a good enough reason.

And also don't beat yourself up when in retrospect you realize that you did indeed get a signal but didn't act on it or didn't even realize it. Happens to everyone and always happens when you're primed to not catch them. Opportunities present themselves when you can't even see them.

What's the solution? Fuck waiting. Fuck expecting. Just go and get hammered with whatever comes. What will come? Doesn't matter. Whether it's a rejection or a marriage proposal. Who cares. Get some experience and enjoy jumping into the darkness.