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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:55 PM
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FDS HUMORgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 07:24 PM
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REMINDER 👑gcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 05:49 PM
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REMINDER 👑gcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 05:42 PM
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REMINDER 👑gcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:00 PM
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DISCUSSIONgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:02 PM
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SNATCH THEM COINSgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:48 PM
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FDS HUMORgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 12:24 AM
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REMINDER 👑gcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:44 PM
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STAY WOKEgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:49 PM
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PICKME CULTUREgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 06:33 PM
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RANTgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:34 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:54 PM
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LVM LOGICgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:03 AM
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NAH, SISgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 09:33 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 01:29 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨gcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:29 PM
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FDS TRANSLATES MENgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:50 PM
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PICKME CULTUREgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:35 PM
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PICKME CULTUREgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:49 PM
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REMINDER 👑gcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:27 PM
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SEX STRATEGYgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 10:48 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:32 PM
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DISCUSSIONgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:32 PM
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FDS HUMORgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:01 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTgcsubthrow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:29 PM
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You don’t even need to go that far, sis. The whole meme was based off of his appearance, personal accomplishments aside. Men don’t think about what women contribute to this world before they start sexualizing us which is the entire point these women have been missing the whole thread. Melissa McCarthy and all the other accomplished, non conventionally attractive women would like a word. I’m tired of women going to bat for these men when they have grotesque appearances because he does bare minimu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 06:54 AM
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Lunacy. These pickmes can’t see they’re patting his ass for the bare minimum. He respects wahmem!! He takes care of his parents1!1 🥺🥺he’s such a nice guy omg why are the comments so mEeeeAaaaNnnnNn 🥺🥺🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 03:39 AM
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He respects women and takes care of his parents? Bare minimum, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:56 AM
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Yeah let’s literally pat his ass for the bare minimum 🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:43 AM
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Bbbbut he wants Wikipedia to feature more wahmem! He takes care of his parents!1! Ass pats to the ugly fucker doing the bare minimum or gtfo! 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:42 AM
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These comments in here sis… whew. Sticking up for an ugly ass man just because he does the bare minimum? YIKES!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:41 AM
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Not acting like them in terms of appearance is precisely why we have men who can’t wash their ass crack properly or moisturize their face. Don’t even get me started on mens clothing. Something something… we all have to raise our standards in order for the bar to raise for men. Seems to be a common sentiment, can’t remember where I’ve seen it 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 09:59 PM
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Men should be shamed for their bad appearances so the bar can be raised. The bar for women is sky high while these basement dwellers get to look like that and have women standing up for them saying to not focus on their looks but their achievements. Men don’t do that for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 08:53 PM
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Because I think we should shame men for bad appearances like they do to us. Collectively raise the bar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 08:51 PM
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The meme isn’t about his achievements. It’s simply about his looks. This is just another long winded way of policing women and telling them to bE nIcE. Nah, sis. Men aren’t chastising other men when they’re picking on unattractive women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:59 PM
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I commend you for you morality, believe it or not. What I can’t get behind is lambasting other women for picking on a man for his appearance. Where are the men in the comments policing other men about their behavior and language towards unattractive women? They don’t do it and I don’t think it “reflects poorly” on the sub if women scrutinize a males appearance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:57 PM
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Whoa! A guy doing the bare minimum! Let’s pat him on the back and get mad at other women for pointing out that he’s ugly as sin!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 06:36 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 But highly upvoted pickmes in the comments say we’re sO mEAn because he’s a nIcE GuY 🤪🤪🤪 TFOH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 06:35 PM
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I invite you to take a look around at some of the more unsavory subs on this website, particularly ones dedicated to sexualizing women of a certain body type or hair color. What’s crazy is you can just pick any random combination and something will come up. Think those men care about the womens personality or achievements? Think again. The meme isn’t about his personality or his personal achievements. It’s about his looks, and he’s one ugly ass man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 06:32 PM
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I hate this line of reasoning every time it comes up. You realize that men have literal websites dedicated to categorizing us by hair color, height, weight, and on and on while calling us degrading names and defiling us? They even have subs on this exact website. Do you think they give a damn about those women that they sexualize? Shit like this is so pickme. Men ruthlessly scrutinize our appearances down to the literal hair follicle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 06:29 PM
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I’m a big fan of snooping and encourage every woman to do it with any man she’s intimate with. Trust, but verify. Giving men the benefit of the doubt has always come back to bite me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:26 PM
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How do you get into iPhones now with facial recognition and passcodes? Answered above: piece it together over time. Watch while he puts in the passcode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:45 PM
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Second image just proves again that men are not your friends. Their only intentions are sizing you up to see what they can get out of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:23 AM
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Community dick? Nah, sis 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:21 AM
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I love that line. Dissolving into the men they date. That was so me in my pickme days and I get sad sometimes that I missed out on HVW friendships, but I wouldn’t have been a HVW myself, so why would those women want to be friends with me? Now that I’m in my thirties it’s not only already hard to make friends as an adult , but even harder to find FDS aligned friends. The women in my age group and In my area are either moms with kids under 5, already in a social circle so “no new friends” or desp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:38 AM
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Yes! I was young when this movie came out with the added cherry on top of my parents also going through a divorce. I sided with Daniel because I thought Miranda was breaking up the family for trivial reasons and they could have worked it out because he loved his kids and loved her so much. I rewatched the movie a few years back and has the exact perspective as you. I miss the 90s movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:32 PM
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War flash backs 🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:42 PM
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This is my pick me friend I’ve slowly started spending less and less time with. She will constantly entertain losers at a bar even if she’s not interested just to get a free drink. But she will keep entertaining them after she’s gotten the drink and has actually told me before that she doesn’t think I’m friendly enough and ignoring the losers makes her less likely to get more free drinks. I was so stunned and too tipsy to tell her I came to hang out with her and that I don’t want to entertain th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:20 PM
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We don’t tolerate that, “If it makes her feel good, then don’t criticize or analyze it!” When it comes to BDSM or prostitution so why is makeup the one last libfem holdout?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 06:05 PM
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What we don’t do is claim that we do it for our own pleasure and there is not societal pressure to do so. There it is. We absolutely have to make some concessions to be successful and get dates. Those are just facts we don’t disagree with. We just don’t claim we’re actually doing it for ourselves. Recently there’s been lots pushback on this idea and I somewhat understand mod handling on it, but I don’t think it should be deemed off topic or outside of the scope of the sub. It worries me that it’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:48 PM
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I completely agree with your entire post and your point about theory vs practice is the real meat of the issue. In regards to the sub, I think this issues should be addressed instead of a catch all if you think makeup is a tool of oppression even if you wear it you’re part of an offshoot subset who unfairly believe that women who do these things are actively participating in their own oppression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:32 PM
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It’s not risking their career because they’ve never suffered consequences for it because they’ve kept women in the dark about why and when they do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:18 AM
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It saddens me that what’s being said here makes you feel uncomfortable. Women shouldn’t feel ashamed for natural processes during or after they take place. That being said, please don’t detract from others experiences by insinuating that just because it didn’t happen to you, it’s not that bad and it won’t happen or is unlikely to happen to others and even if there’s a small chance, then it’s not that bad or it’s so statistically unlikely anyways. Women above in this thread are saying that their …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:48 AM
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I cannot wait for menopause. I hate having periods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:40 AM
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Please let us know about any inaccuracies. I don’t want misinformation being spread either, but I don’t think something that could be considered a really small chance when it comes to women’s health means that it should be withheld from her or any concerns brushed off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:14 AM
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WHat aBoUt dA mEnZ? Fuck em. We’re talking about women’s possible issues during and after pregnancies in this thread. If you want to discuss dieting and other factors related to having an easier pregnancy and after, we can discuss in another thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:03 AM
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But let’s not downplay the possibilities. Too many women are pressured into being a tRoOpEr and saying their labor and delivery wasn’t that bad. That’s why there are so many comments here saying they had no idea this was even a thing. It’s not fear mongering, it’s women finally being told the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:00 AM
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I’m not going to even ask what happened to her. I’m just going to make up a story in my head that one day she packed all her shit, left in the middle of the night while there were zero groceries in the messy house, and drove and drove and kept on driving until she got a beautiful place of her own surrounded by friends who loved her with her beautiful plants and animals and her nuclear scrotes all died of scurvy and filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:33 PM
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My take was natural shape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:29 PM
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Scrote hegemony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:21 PM
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50/50 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:20 PM
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WhAt dO U bRinG 2 tHe tAbLe? 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:19 PM
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That’s what scares me about having children. Either a scrote or pickme and then finding out your husband is useless after you’re already pregnant. What a little shit. I would’ve made his ass walk and then do all the chores for months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:15 PM
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Your massage therapist friend is a true saint.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:14 PM
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I can’t believe they’ll do it without even informing the woman. I was so sad to learn here that this happens and women don’t even know until months later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:56 PM
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After how I treated my mom…. I don’t think I could do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:55 PM
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I wonder if there’s been any research as to why mens switch suddenly flips and they become abusive. Are they suddenly scared of fatherhood? Realize they actually don’t love their wife?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:55 PM
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Thank you! Don’t even get my started on the husband stitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:23 PM
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That’s talked about here frequently, along with husbands only showing who they truly are after she’s baby trapped. I think the physical changes aren’t talked about enough and women are pressured into saying they had a relatively easy pregnancy and birthing experience when it was very traumatic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:21 PM
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Hair too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:57 PM
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Professionally: “I briefly touched on that when I mentioned x. Do you think I missed an important detail?” Put the onus on them to do the talking. Dating: block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:52 PM
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If it’s not a professional situation, fuck em and tell them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:22 PM
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I’ll be patient and explain something if I think it’s in good faith and on topic, but derailing with a ton of whataboutisms is exhausting and gets off topic fast. Moving forward I’ll invite a member to create her own post where we can dissect other possibilities without derailing OPs and I’ll engage with her there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:30 PM
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That was the exact comment I was going to post 🤣🤣🤣 it was so unnecessary and literally added nothing to anything you said. Gtfo with that shit 🤣 there’s a huge difference in empathizing and sharing your similar experience vs derailing. I think a lot of newbies take that frustration out on other women and it’s disheartening to read. We know you’re hurting sis, this isn’t an easy way to wake up but it’s necessary for your personal growth and the advice here will literally save your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:15 PM
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Your dirty John post was actually what made me write this post. I thought about including some of the comments you received as examples (usernames not mentioned) but I wasn’t sure about the rules on that so I decided against it. The other members doing it is what made me want to call it out. It’s internalized misogyny at work and it’s incredibly annoying and frustrating to read. Maybe this would be a good podcast idea. Giving examples of how we police ourselves and other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:48 PM
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Yeah this post is a bit confusing..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:21 PM
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It should!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:59 PM
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Or putting everything they say under a microscope when they’re speaking about an emotional situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:53 PM
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just the patriarchy at work. I hate having every little thing I say broken down and put under a microscope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:49 PM
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That pesky empathy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:47 PM
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It’s the first job they ever have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:46 PM
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This place is so wonderful and I’m so glad it’s here and in my life. It’s been far more validating than I could’ve ever imagined. And I’m happy you and all the other women subscribed are here as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:46 PM
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Yes! I’m not going to write a damn book, just let me say my piece and if you want to share a similar story that happened to you then I’m here for it but I’m not going to consider every aspect that’s not relevant to me. If it is to you, I’ll go there with you and give advice or listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:44 PM
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I catch myself giving the disclaimers when talking to friends a lot as well and I hate when I do it. It’s a behavior I’ve been working to correct. I hate that aspect of Reddit as well. People think because you can type you want to write a damn book for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:43 PM
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Example: “My HVM would never think to do that, I love him so much!” Versus “I used to date a guy like that. He did x,y,z when we were together and I was so hurt. I’m glad I’m with my HVM husband and he doesn’t treat me that way.” One is adding to a conversation and empathizing, one is not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:40 PM
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It’s given in a very tough love kind of way and I’ll always be grateful for that. I’ve had women misconstrue important information that I needed because they wanted to tip toe around an issue for fear of being uncooperative or abrasive. This place really opens your eyes as to how much we police our own selves to appease the patriarchy, and I agree that it causes lots of anger and some of those angry women will take those feelings out on other women. There’s a big difference in adding to the OPs …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:37 PM
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“I used to date a guy exactly like this. This one time x, y, z happened and I was so hurt. So glad I’m out of that situation and with my HVM who doesn’t do that to me.” Vs. “My HVM would never think to do that in a billion years, love him!” One is adding to a conversation and empathizing, one is not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:32 PM
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There’s a lot of internalized misogyny we have to undo when we get here, so I get having knee jerk reactions to avoid attacks on every single part of your post. There is a difference between wanting to add to a conversation or relate to another member without derailing her post, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:30 PM
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Thank goodness you’re out of there and on a better team and not having to over explain your every benign thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:28 PM
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Not as many as the other subs, but they’ve been creeping in a lot more as of late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:27 PM
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I’m so grateful there’s little of it here as well and since I don’t really spend time on any other subreddits so it shocks and angers me when I see it here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:26 PM
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We love you too, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:25 PM
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it’s annoying that even here members are demanding that women over explain and go into these long, detailed explanations about what she said and making her consider all of these situations not even relevant to her post. I get wanting to start a conversation and ask advice for a similar situation, but that doesn’t seem to be the case in most of the replies I read here. It’s a ton of whatabousim that derails the OPs post and makes her account for shit she’s not even involved in. Over explaining gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:00 AM
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Sorry again. I’m a bit hungover.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:07 PM
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Whoops, I meant to reply to /u/penelopekitty but replied to you instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:04 PM
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What blows my mind is the women who do a full glam look but still use filters on their pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:01 PM
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It also seems like a lot of them are here because they realized putting out on the first date isn’t the best strategy. They don’t understand this sub was built on radfem ideas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:00 PM
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I only see that on “the wall doesn’t exist for women” posts. Those posts are in my opinion praising the women for obviously going to the gym and taking care of their skin. I don’t see a lot of comments on those posts about how pretty her makeup is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:58 PM
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Those comments were an absolute shit show and I’m still disgusted at your treatment throughout it. I was literally wearing makeup as I typed every response because (and I’ll say it again) I’m not dumb enough to fuck up my meal and shelter tickets so you bet I’m showing up to my corporate job wearing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:55 PM
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Sweet baby Jesus!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:55 PM
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It’s absolutely easier to conform in certain situations. For me it’s professionally. I’m completely against makeup even though I’m wearing it as I type and in it’s current form I don’t think it’s feminist, but I’m also not dumb enough to fuck up my meal and shelter tickets, so you bet I’m conforming to the professional look required of me in corporate America.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:28 PM
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And it completely ignores men’s accountability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:24 PM
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Keep on keepin’ on, radfem sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:29 PM
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I wish they wouldn’t have taken away our radfem subs. I hate having to explain basic radfem ideas to newbies and particularly those not discussing in good faith.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:20 PM
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Agree with every word, every reply, and the notion that makeup isn’t feminist. You’re entitled to your opinion just like they are. Crazy how they can’t handle even the slightest bit of criticism. None of the shit were saying here is new or groundbreaking and has been the bedrock of feminist thought since feminism became feminism. Good lord the salt and accusations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:14 PM
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Lol. When did I say skincare or anything else on your list? The topic of discussion is makeup and it’s requirement for women in the real world and with or without it, the ramifications of each.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:30 PM
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I was calling out the comments that refuse to acknowledge that makeup is in fact a patriarchal tool to oppress, and the women who think the opposite. I still stand by what I said. I don’t lie to myself and say it’s fOr mE and that I lUv it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:20 PM
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Growing facial hair literally requires zero effort, lol. It’s also a naturally occurring process. When did I ever say I was a bEtTeR pUrsEn for not wearing makeup, when I actually do wear makeup? If men also have the requirement of makeup to appear professional and put together, then maybe I’d hop aboard the makeup train. Til then, it’s misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:07 PM
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Which is a direct result of patriarchy. Funny how men are allowed to feel secure and happy in their natural faces. I agree that it is empowering to be good at something, but when that is co-signing your own oppression I don’t find that empowering at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:54 PM
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I’d like a fully detailed report on how women are empowered by makeup, and how the same doesn’t apply to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:53 PM
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I’m praying for the end to the victim olympics days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:15 PM
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It would really filter out a lot of this 101 level shit. And you are so spot on about the victimization complexes. We’re only asking you to think critically, not attacking you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:00 PM
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There should be some type of check thing here where before you comment you have to scroll down and check a box like you do with some documents, but this is actually timed so you can’t just skip over it. I’m tired of these pickme ass libfem comments 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:39 PM
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If it were genuinely needed, this bullshit would be peddled to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:36 PM
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They’re taking it personally that we’re asking them to think critically about it but instead doing the opposite and accusing us of accusing them that they’re a problem. Smells like classic libfem/pickme bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:35 PM
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If you think that then you’ve missed the point entirely. This sub isn’t just for attracting a good man, it’s for maximizing female benefit in all areas of life. If your statement were true, we wouldn’t have so many married and non dating women here. Also, you’re saying that “good men” require women to wear makeup? Huh? That’s ZVM shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:31 PM
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It makes them feel eMpOwErEd. Notice how they always say that word but never describe what it actually means to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:29 PM
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Shouldn’t we feel confident in our own face? Yeah boys, get those dark circles out from under your eyes and apply some foundation and mascara. Don’t you want to feel confident in your face?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:25 PM
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Can you describe what “empowering” means to you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:22 PM
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I agree with everything in your post. I have to wear makeup at my corporate job because the code of conduct states that we have to be professional and presentable and I’m still fairly new in this career area and don’t want to make waves. When I worked serving jobs for $2.13/hr it was disgusting how many restaurants required the women, “dress like they’re going on a date.” I’ve never had the skills like what these new makeup looks are doing today so now and even then I did very basic makeup of ey…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:12 PM
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Oh, he cares if it’s a man alright. He was only saying that to placate her and make her more willing to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:23 PM
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The rub here is what’s being done through the male lens as opposed to what’s being done to actually make women feel the ill fated eMpoWeRed. For sexual trauma healing (which I am a victim of) why is it that she must be hardly clothed and doing what is traditionally male pleasing for her healing? Where are the men in Speedo’s with the design of the Speedo having emphasis on the cock? Whenever these conversations of “taking back sexuality” occur, it’s always through the male lens and what they vie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:10 AM
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I’m glad you enjoyed my post! I think it’s important and should be talked about more because I don’t just see it happening to women in relationships, but also in the workplace. I know for a fact that statement has made me and other women feel “crazy” more than once, and I appreciate you wanting to make sure that’s not happening in our conversation. With that being said, I want to be clear that I’m willing to keep an open mind about the pole fitness topic, but I am looking at it through a radical…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:12 PM
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Yes! /u/jingks_ please let us know some tips and tricks for how to appropriately vet a therapist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:20 PM
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I agree that we should never blindly follow anything and should always be open to changing our minds. That being said, I decided to take your advice and Google calisthenics images. I chose calisthenics as the search term because most of the commenters said that’s the actual exercise and they don’t dance in their classes. The majority of images are photos of men outside using monkey bars, bike racks, and the two poles that are horizontal to the ground that I’m not sure what are called but I think…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:18 PM
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Im glad I’m not the only one uncomfortable with the uptick in comments defending it (from newbie accounts too) and I find it funny how they all use the empowerment word when describing why they like it. My libfem bullshit detection meter is going haywire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:08 PM
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This entire comment is exactly why I’ve been against couples therapy for years. The therapist must remain impartial? Fuck that. I’m all for individual therapy but this is just another way to gaslight women and make her think she’s partially to blame for the husband or boyfriend’s abusive behavior. I’ve also been wary of individual therapy for this reason also, and I think vetting therapists is even more important than vetting men. I wouldn’t recommend any woman with male inflicted trauma visit a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:53 PM
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Past dead pickme is rolling in her grave right now and needing a boat load of aloe after that burn. Ugh I can’t believe I literally used to do all of those same things and in that exact order with the exact same reasoning 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:31 PM
1

And that’s exactly how they act. They inherently think they’re superior and they’re so god damn smug about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:53 PM
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Holy crap you should’ve written this post. Thats a perfect examples of what I was trying to convey in my post, particularly the roughshod “solution” completely ignorant of any nuance. This should be added to the handbook and women should immediately leave if he ever says you don’t listen. And they say this stupid shit on every ask Reddit thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:11 PM
3

His answer to this will be incredibly important and also how his kids behave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:05 PM
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My reply would always be, “I am listening, you just don’t like what I’m saying or that I don’t agree with you.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:01 PM
2

I hope you get out safe and soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:00 PM
2

Yeah the questions are very softball. My friend liked it because you can’t send pictures so she wasn’t getting dick pics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:59 PM
1

I’ve had this happen to me so many times! How can I not be listening when I’m literally looking into your eyes as you speak and having replies?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:56 PM
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I don’t think I’ve ever been told I wasn’t listening in a situation where I was actively doing something else besides listening to the person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:54 PM
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I’ve heard good things about hinge. Can’t send pictures, and you’re forced to answer some questions. They’re softball, but you can still weed out the shitty ones. One of the questions is “my love language is...” you can guess what the men put. Even if it’s not touch, any guy into the love language shit is transactional and it’s a massive red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:41 PM
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I feel so heard right now! I’ve done the same thing. Literally repeated word for word back to a man what he’s said to me for him to be like, “no. I didn’t mean it like that!” But apparently they’re supposed to be the mInD rEaDeRZ and y wahmen so complicate?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:31 PM
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You’re welcome. Here to listen if you’re wanting to share ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:28 PM
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And we’re the ones taking all the risks. Scrote audacity never ceases to amaze me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:27 PM
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I’d really like a thread on this. I have no medical experience and depending on the source, dr. Google says you can’t spread herpes unless you’re having an outbreak while others say you can absolutely spread herpes in lieu of an active outbreak. Also, what if you were sexually active before you got the gardasil (hpv) vaccine? Do you need a booster shot? Dr. Google says men don’t even usually present symptoms!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:32 PM
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Wow, I’ve never heard that word before and the definition is on point and put so succinctly to words I haven’t been able to find on my own since me and other girls were hard headed and bossy from young ages. Thank you so much for this, really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:10 PM
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I think that’s how pretty much all of my relationships have been. The men I’ve been involved with view being respected as being treated like an authority. These are also the types of men who will call you hard headed and stubborn. I’ve noticed this happens in the workplace as well when women aren’t doing things the way the man would. It’s another form of gaslighting for control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:47 PM
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Was he offloading child care related duties on her early on like watching his kids for a few hours while he ran errands or had to work? Was he inviting her and her children over for a dinner he planned, shopped, and cooked for while not asking her to pitch in and help do any of the tasks? Were his children helpful during that process? Is his home clean? Are his children respectful and responsible for reasonable chores? If the answer is no, he’s looking for a new mom to help manage his kids and l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:38 PM
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You wouldn’t believe the number of men I’ve known over the years who sleep with their doors unlocked 😱 Men are predators. Women are prey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:29 PM
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Hopefully he’s thought of this since he loves sex so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:45 AM
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Ooohh excellent point I didn’t mention. Thanks sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:35 PM
10

I’m curious about your experiences and your age range if you don’t mind sharing. I think it’s difficult for men to hide who they really are for 3 or more years if you’re vetting him properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:13 PM
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Heard this story one too many times. Really goes to show the depths of male depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:14 PM
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I think it depends on life stages. Twenties vs. thirties are entirely different ball games. I’m the latter, so I’d prefer to not have my time wasted. If I do want to reproduce, I don’t have 2-5 years to wait to figure out if a man sees that type of future with me. Marriage talk On the first date or in the first three months? Huge red flag. Likely means the man is looking for bangmaid mommy 2.0 and has unhealthy attachment issues. Marriage should be somewhat discussed within 6 mo- 1 year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:12 PM
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You’re right. You may never know either. There are stories about men who only became abusive once he baby trapped the woman. I personally think it’s very difficult to hide such tendencies for such a long time if you’re applying FDS vetting methods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:08 PM
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Three years is way too long to wait for me personally. Maybe if you’re early twenties. It shouldn’t take either of you that long to figure out if you want a future together. Otherwise you’re wasting time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:06 PM
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Which is why you make sure you have financial restitutions should it happen with the marriage contract.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:05 PM
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My view on marriage now if I ever decide to go through with it is for restitutions WHEN he gets bored of you and cheats or becomes abusive or decides to skip out on you and leave you with kids. The marriage contract will require he at least pay you half and that you’re still entitled to half of the marriage home and all of the other financial resources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:04 PM
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When does it become ours? My opinion is when it’s not in the corporate handbook that women must be traditionally presentable such as wearing makeup and heels, or when serving jobs stop telling women they need to show up dressed like they’re going on a date (meanwhile only paying them $2.13/hr). When women can go to a job interview wearing clean clothes with clean nails and teeth and brushed hair but not be considered unkempt. When women can still be deemed attractive by males without makeup BEFO…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:14 PM
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A couple of months ago she was telling me she wasn’t really looking for a serious relationship, but when I talked to her a few days ago she was so mad that she saw one of the rando guys she hooked up with from the bar at another bar with another girl! I didn’t want to point out her hypocrisy for the combative issue, but just listening to her gave me a headache. It’s so tough because I don’t want to leave her behind and I know she could really benefit from here. I really don’t want to give up on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:42 PM
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Yes! And their lack of a skin care routine, childish dress and hair style 🤮 need I go on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:19 PM
9

If we judged men on the 1-10 scale like how they judged us and really let it all come out, most men would be 2’s at best, and in the negatives at worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:17 PM
7

I just signed up but used a temp email. How long is the process? Should I do it again but with a non temp email?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:08 PM
12

Woll website registration be open again soon? The link in the auto mod is dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:14 PM
2

What. The. Fuck. Please tell me she’s in a cell right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:07 PM
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Die mad scrotes and pickmeishas! FDS does nothing but win ❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:41 PM
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Lol you don’t even know they’re actually women 🤣 ever see the documentary don’t fuck with cats? They were able to track that psycho down when he didn’t even show his face in the videos. Just off a pack of cigarettes and a vacuum. You out here with your whole face 🤣 if you didn’t think there were anything wrong or unsafe about it, why delete it? Lol bye pickmeisha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:30 PM
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I’m considering the gray rock method. She needs this place so bad but there are so many layers to get through first and my energy and time is thin these days. I really don’t want to give up on her, but on the other hand we’re grown. If you can’t recognize the things you’ve been doing for years haven’t worked and you’re not coming up with new strategies, maybe I can’t even lead you to the water. On the other other hand, I know how deep this goes and when I was pickme supreme I probably would’ve p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:25 PM
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We talk extensively of personal safety here. Posting pictures of yourself on a huge platform with no other purpose than to receive compliments from strangers is incredibly dangerous and shows that your self esteem is in the toilet and is the epitome of libfem logic. Libfems encourage dangerous behavior and sell it as empowerment or women uplifting other women. This is the kind of dangerous pickme behavior that can put you and your friends in scary situations. There was a whole thread about this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:09 PM
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That’s kind of creepy in adulthood, playing dress up with another woman’s clothes. Trying YOU on made me shudder. I hope you’ve found better friends and that woman isn’t popping up randomly wanting to “hang out because she misses you.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:03 PM
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So you’re so bereft of self esteem you need random people on the internet to give you compliments with no regard to your personal safety? It has to do with your comment because you’re saying something completely false and doing non FDS aligned things like posting that pic in the first place. You think ugly women don’t have friends?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:40 AM
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Lol did you read what you even wrote? “Women only want to be friends with attractive women!1!” But the jealousy thing is just a bs patriarchal stereotype and nOn eXiStEnT🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh, sis. I just had to peek at your profile and you’re actually uploading photos of your face asking for compliments and honest feedback 😬😬😬 ...on Reddit. Please hang out here, really try to internalize what we’re saying, and the self esteem will come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:23 AM
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One hundred. I had a whole post about dropping an insecure and jealous friend who started using scrote tactics on me by deleting me off Facebook then texting to hang out. Being iced out blows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:20 AM
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Username: entry level ho 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 Tag: pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:00 AM
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A huge issue I have with her is that she’s very combative and it’s probably the biggest reason I’ve been getting closer to dropping her lately. I’m already limiting my time with her. She gets offended over banal things and makes scenes over it. I’ve been lightly critical of her over other non dating related in the past and she doesn’t receive it well, so I’d worry if I sent her here she’d immediately accuse me of saying she’s a pickme and freak out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:52 AM
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She’s the most draining friend I have and I also have to psych myself up to see and talk to her. I want to introduce her to here but I don’t know how because I think she would immediately reject it and double down harder in her pickme hell, but I always want to give other women the benefit of the doubt and help them. I’m just not sure how to do it. I care for her so much and it kills me to see her doing this to herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:50 AM
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“It’s important to have friends who know you through all stages of life.” You have no idea how depressed that’s made me lately. I had to drop all of my childhood friends for various reasons from becoming young moms to drugs or just naturally growing apart so it makes me super sad to consider dropping the friends I have now. My one friend is becoming increasingly desperate to find a man. A few weekends ago she told me over drinks she went home with a random guy from the bar and hooked up with him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:42 AM
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This is why I don’t understand the hate this sub gets from scrotes. This is literally a look into the other team’s playbook! Oh I forgot. It’s easier for them to say wAhMeN sO cOmPliCatE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:32 AM
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I think we should start another one and have a master list. We need to watch out for pickmeishas just as much and if not more than scrotes. I’ve been leveling up my friend group lately and I may be dropping another pickme friend soon. Hurts to do but she’s been dragging me down and I’m realizing we don’t have many values in common anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:24 AM
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Holy fuck I hate that line. I should’ve put that in my LVW red flag post about women who say they’re jealous of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:28 AM
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100%. I was still able to add her as a friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:01 PM
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My immediate thought was to treat it like a scrote tactic but I really wanted to be her friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:45 PM
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Big ups on number one. I think that’s one that should be talked about more. There’s a giant difference in venting about a friend having a bad day and maybe made an offhand rude comment vs. a wrongdoing with proof vs. general shit talking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:44 PM
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That’s a solid list, sis. Especially the one about social media. If she’s constantly looking for likes on selfies she could be more prone to getting jealous of other women. I’m guilty of the shitty bf in my past pickme supreme days. I flaked on so many friends for those shit show scrotes 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:42 PM
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That’s why I didn’t bother giving her the time of day to ask what was up. We’re grown. If she can’t confront me and have a conversation about an impasse or something small, then she’s not worth my energy, just like scrotes with the emotional intelligence of rocks. I did want to parse my thoughts here on this issue though, even if I do feel like past pickme supreme trying to find answers for a NVM scrote doing a hot and cold. I guess I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt since she’s a wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:38 PM
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She didn’t delete it, she defriended me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:35 PM
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It is. They weren’t ignoring me, I was mixing elsewhere and I meant that comment as how well they were getting along. They weren’t rude when I joined the conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:34 PM
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My thoughts exactly. I was willing to give her the benefit of the doubt and not immediately block and delete but these types of women have proven themselves to be more trouble than they’re worth in my history. It feels like discovering a HVM isn’t HV after all and stings more because it’s a woman :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:40 PM
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You said it much better than I was able to relay to the OP. Those are my exact thoughts as well which is why this whole Demi sexual thing just sounds like a long winded way of saying normal sexuality. The fact that something like that even is in the lexicon of dating is just gross. It sounds so patriarchal with a pinch of internalized misogyny. /u/likejackandsally I really think you should rethink this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:43 PM
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Meh. Still sounds normal to me. You do you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:57 PM
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Your initial statement said you could objectively recognize someone as attractive with a good personality and not have sexual feelings towards them. That’s normal. That’s how most people are. Most people don’t sexually bond deeply unless mutual feelings of deep emotional connection have been established. Sex naturally creates more closeness between partners because of the chemicals released so your Demi word salad just reads as what normal people experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:11 PM
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That’s a long ass way of saying normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:39 PM
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Demi? You mean you’re a normal person?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 06:20 PM
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Why am I not a lesbian 😢 You’re the spouse I dream about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:18 AM
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Yup and notice how it’s never telling the man to tap into his feminine energy and pull his weight around the house or emotionally in the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:17 AM
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Exactly that. That’s why I’m shocked at all these women saying OP should take it down. No woman could present like this with a boat load of achievements behind her and not get ridiculed for something. This is male privilege in action and I’m shocked at these girls defending him bc hEz nIce 🤪🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 12:53 AM
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One of the traits of a HVM is well groomed and put together. That’s not this guy. Sure, we can stop it once it’s stopped for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:23 PM
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I wouldn’t change it. Women are constantly mocked and derided for their bodies despite their achievements. See Melissa McCarthy and countless others. He looks like your standard incel neck beard. No mercy for scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 05:26 PM
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Because again, men will say and do whatever it takes to achieve what is most convenient for them in the moment because these types of LVM fuck boys are liars with no integrity only looking out for themselves not caring who they hurt along the way. It has nothing to do with you and once you start strategizing to defend against this, the less you’ll be asking these questions and spending hours of your life deciphering what boils down to male bullshit and entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:06 PM
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Seems like we have a lot in common. I could’ve written your reply myself. I don’t think anyone has the answer to that question because to me that’s like asking if we’re alone in the universe or if god really exists or not. Men are liars and have no shame. They will say and do anything to get what is convenient for them. You’re seeing this with this guy. So, he didn’t have time for you, time for a LDR, but he sure found the time to booty call you when his dick was conveniently hard. Funny how men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:14 PM
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That’s the most common trick in the LVM playbook. They think that by telling you it’s going nowhere but continuing to call and keep you as a FWB they can assuage guilt for using you and “hey, at least I was hOnEsT” when your feelings get hurt and you start having these why am I not good enough feelings. The cold hard truth is the more pickmeisha you are and the less and less you vet and keep your standards high, the more LVM you attract and the more situations like these will be what you find yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 06:45 PM
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All this and a bag of chips. Good people don’t use other people and take what they can get. When my friends do favors for me, I try to return the favor of equal or greater value. If he knew you weren’t the one, he should’ve been honest about it instead of using you for sex and wife duties and moved on, especially since he knew you were serious and saw a future with him (I assume). All of this makes him inherently a LVM and you should feel bad for the next girl and happy that you can continue you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:20 AM
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Not joining a sorority when I was in college is surprisingly becoming one of my life’s biggest regrets as of late, and I’m in my thirties, so this is so odd to me. After finding FDS, I realize the importance of female only spaces and support networks. When I was in college, I wasn’t receptive to rushing because it seemed frat boys were douches and full of misogyny so it turned me off. I also admittedly had internalized misogyny that I wouldn’t have fun because it would just be catty drama with s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:56 AM
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I have no doubt about it. I’ve read some really heartbreaking stories. I hope you’re alright now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:29 PM
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You should make a post about your MLM experience and the red flags and tips to avoid it. I image with the current situation in the USA many women will become desperate for work and more vulnerable than usual and fall for this. I’d be interested to read your experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:51 PM
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For your sake, I hope you’re not or if you are you can exit without much financial ruin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:41 AM
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Of course I’m not privy to your current situation. You could’ve done this willingly and had the finances to do it but it is worthy to note MLMs are notoriously bad news for women, and they sell the false dream that you can be a SAHM making crazy amounts of money. Companies like this routinely bankrupt women and isolate them from their friends and family since they encourage you to peddle bullshit wares and slide in to your middle school acquaintances DMs under the guise of a catch up coffee date…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:22 AM
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MLMs exclusively prey on vulnerable women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:19 PM
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It works is an MLM... just saying. I wouldn’t invest a cent in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:49 PM
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Until these robots can scrub the cabinets, microwave, oven, full shower and clean the windows, dust, and all the other nooks and crannies the burden of housework is still going to fall on women. Is the food coming prepared, or do you still have to cook it? I agree that technology is rapidly advancing, but I highly doubt it’ll happen in our lifetimes where all of these tasks are completed by robots, though if I live to see the day I’ll jump up and down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:47 PM
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It’s so serial killer vibey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:02 PM
1

Whoops, I meant my shower thought post I made about an hour ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 10:04 PM
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If it’s assault with your clothes on, it’s assault with your clothes off. Great write up. This particular brand of male depravity needs to see more public light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:56 PM
1

Did my post not meet criteria or was I banned?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:54 PM
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It’s a hard pill to swallow when you realize you were or are a pickmeisha and what that concept even is. My awakening when I found this sub was brutal. I felt angered at myself, men, and society as a whole; men for creating the systems we have in place and regularly enforcing them, and the women who also help enforce it via pickmeism, and myself for falling victim to the traps when everything inside of me screamed no but I didn’t have the mental framework to properly express and work out why I h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 10:19 PM
1

Maybe the Nordic model isn’t the best, but I do think criminalizing the prostitutes and John’s isn’t the best way. I don’t know what the answer is, but full legalization isn’t it since trafficking goes up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:03 PM
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Look into the Nordic model. It goes after the johns instead of the victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:00 PM
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Decriminalization will not hold them accountable. In fact, it will make it worse. In areas where it is legal, trafficking gets far, far worse. Why? Because there simply isn’t enough supply to meet demand without forcing women into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:50 PM
1

Thank you thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:53 AM
34

I love these legacy types. You have no legacy to speak of. No tangible contributions to mankind and certainly no money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:25 AM
1

While you’re here, any way my flair could move up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:44 PM
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I don’t have the source handy now but it’s been passed around this sub before; your chances of being proposed to drop by 50% after 18 months. No ring in 18 months? Boy bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:35 PM
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Wow. He sounds like a giant scrote that shouldn’t be counseling women for any reason. Or men for that matter. The audacity to tell you that if you had just kept your mouth shut and not thought about it. Actually I’m not surprised. Men will always take up for other men especially in situations where women are being denigrated. I’m interested in this too, and I’m going to make a post specifically for this question now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:29 PM
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I could never see a male therapist for this reason. No way I could open up and share my vulnerabilities and traumas with a man when most of my traumas have been male caused. Now to find a female therapist that isn’t a pickmeisha...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:23 PM
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I didn’t even have to watch the whole thing. As soon as I saw the American eagle logo, I knew this scrote would be saying cheap ass, classless shit and is obviously young and inexperienced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:42 PM
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Phew! Luckily I follow all of these. The only surprising ones are the gifts if you can’t make an event or asking what someone does. That’s usually one of the first things you ask of someone new. Thanks for the information!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:19 PM
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Congratulations!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:34 PM
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What are the etiquette rules we should be aware of? I think good etiquette is important even if your not rubbing elbows with the upper echelon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:21 PM
5

ViBeZ mAn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:17 PM
8

Poor girl. What a loser ass scrote. Omg. I just saw his man bun 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:51 PM
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Her: “but six months was lOnG eNoUgH for him to realize his mistaaaaaaaake!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:48 PM
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She’s not very bright.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:47 PM
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I love this. Turn it around on them. If you’re going to demonize the prostitutes then we should demonize the patrons the same if not more. It’s time for men to start being accountable. If there weren’t demand, the industry wouldn’t exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:12 PM
18

I’m curious, why is it company policy not to hire these women? Is it because the company doesn’t want to deal with weirdo creeps showing up during work hours to stalk these women? I think it would be super beneficial for girls and women thinking of doing this stuff to really understand what the repercussions are and exactly why companies wouldn’t hire them. If I ran a business, I wouldn’t want stalkers hanging about the building and having to dedicate more security resources to fend off predator…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:03 PM
3

Check out period underwear on amazon. I use 4period and I love them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:18 AM
6

I could’ve used your therapists saying years ago. It would have saved me so many tears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:41 PM
56

Does anyone have more info on Lilith? There was a thread on here about her but I haven’t been able to find it. Lilith was before eve and from what I remember got banished because she wouldn’t submit to Adam. I could be misremembering though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:19 PM
3

The hero we need!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:17 PM
3

There’s also period underwear if you can’t get cups to work for you but I know lots of women use the panties as backup to their cups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:15 PM
31

I’ve never liked making too much eye contact during sex. A quick glance, sure. I once had an ex that liked to keep his eyes open while kissing and making out and it weirded me out. Now I’m worried about this lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:46 AM
20

Because who else is going to keep their house clean and their bellies fed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:22 PM
11

It’s just another way for men to center themselves in something that have nothing to do with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:17 PM
16

And like you can catch a disease or get pregnant from working in retail and fast food. So woque of these libfems!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:07 PM
14

Just wondering what other jobs leave you open to STIs, pregnancy, and ***e.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:06 PM
15

What the fuck is going through their minds when they ask shit like this? Requests like these really highlight how different men’s and women’s experiences are and how they don’t fear for their personal safety as much as we do. The audacity of these scrotes. Jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:15 PM
5

Why are scraggly, unkempt beards a thing now?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:27 PM
12

And to apply makeup perfectly and precisely to simultaneously not be wearing too much, but just enough. Nevermind the costs of products and time it takes to apply or even learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:54 PM
3

You don’t sound entitled. Get that out of your head. I wish I could credit the author (in this sub) of the following, but this resonated so well and is a perfect way to tell a man your standards and you won’t be lowering them: “What’s entitlement is you thinking you can do the bare minimum to keep me.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:36 PM
11

This was my OLD experience with the men who had their kids in every picture. I never matched with them, but you could tell from their profiles they were only looking for another mommy bangmaid chef. John, you only see your kids on the weekend for these photos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:28 PM
4

Is this the same guy who made the scissors on the grass tik tok? Men never pull their weight. Glad this one is calling it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:25 PM
9

Since when? I still see way too many adult men with acne and flaky skin 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:23 PM
27

Men hate to see it. Keep on climbing, sis. You’ve got this, and drop those “male friends” from your life. You won’t be sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:11 PM
19

Pickmeisha, kinkmeisha, yikes! 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 sis, you know what you’re doing is wrong. Please get therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:43 PM
1

How has your life increased in quality? I’m not against women getting plastic surgery on her boobs after an accident or cancer or one being noticeably bigger than the other. I remember reading a story about a woman having labiaplasty because after childbirth she couldn’t have sex without it being painful. But I can’t support women getting breast or butt enhancements just because they’ve been told this or that size is correct. I hope you don’t interpret this as me attacking you, I completely unde…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:15 PM
19

I fully support the principle of not teaching these lecherous scrotes lessons. Ignore, block, delete and in that order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:08 PM
11

ItS sO gAy to care about a woman’s emotional wellbeing 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:00 PM
3

I don’t have the time to waste or patience for someone who isn’t serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:05 PM
3

At this point I genuinely don’t think men actually care about the woman and when they’re ready I actually settle down they’ll just take whatever. Low effort dates like this where you don’t even get to know someone just proves it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:04 PM
6

But dating is naturally a high pressure situation? Or should be anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:41 PM
19

I think it’s really because they simply don’t want to put forth the effort. They don’t care about who she really is. They just see her as a hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:40 PM
5

Awww pickmeisha mad with a dead dick boyfriend 🤣🤣🤣🤣 what is with this stank coochie energy flooding the sub as of late? Crazy to me how people really spend their time arguing with folks they don’t agree with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:25 PM
5

Lord my heart attack is over. Phew! They’re scrotes mad over on unpopular opinion 🤣🤣 die mad!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:01 AM
2

The hypocrisy and audacity of these scrotes will literally never cease to amaze me. Good on you for turning him into an ex immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:40 PM
5

This. They’re all about the 3some til you suggest bringing a man in the picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:42 PM
6

I’d bet he really thinks this will get him laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:20 PM
9

And let’s be real: if the man lacks basic grammar knowledge, you’re going to be the default tutor for your children. Call me a grammar nazi all you want but this is a hard pass. Also, it’s really not that hard to be able to figure out the difference between their, there, and they’re etc. if the man knows he’s lacking in these areas and still hasn’t figured it out then he’s inherently low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:55 PM
3

Please do not stop making these for the love of god!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 12:00 AM
24

Men are so lazy and complacent. I don’t understand it. Gold diggers? I feel like the majority of them are just wanting for mommy 2.0.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:06 PM
9

My goodness. I just don’t even know what to say to this story. 🤡🤡 shit for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:01 PM
6

Dead ass didn’t see that until you pointed it out. Omg this is gold 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:40 PM
18

The FDS prayer. Love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:08 PM
38

Yes!! That woman is basically saying she has to have sex with him if he pays for her! This shit is rooted so deep 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:48 AM
72

I hate that I agree with this statement. The bf situation sounds super sketchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:44 AM
10

Your insistence that these issues weren’t that big of a deal and widespread is frustrating and annoying. If it’s documented and with the information we have now about how difficult it is for victims to come forward, what on earth makes you think this wasn’t that widespread? Girls and women are ****d in droves every single day. Just in Greek culture, it was boys and men who were sexualized, so they bore the brunt of those acts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 06:58 PM
21

Men have always been predatory towards the weak and the fact remains that women weren’t sexualized and objectified in Greek culture like we are today. So, yes: all men are like that. We have centuries of evidence to prove it. Quit trying to minimize the issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 06:37 PM
1

Are you ok now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:07 PM
15

Effective pepper spray will put you down too since it has a wide range.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:01 AM
13

Stun guns are legal? Are you in the USA?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 12:22 AM
12

The. Audacity. Never ceases to amaze me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 12:19 AM
17

I think I’m going to be sick 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:22 PM
3

I can’t believe that’s what they’re expecting of us. No I will not be saddled with all of the responsibilities while the man gets to reap the benefits. Bye pickmeisha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:48 PM
12

I love when the trash takes itself out. Luckily he let you know on the front end and didn’t lie just to bed you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:10 PM
8

“Seams.” 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:39 PM
11

No, sis. He’s clearly showing zero effort. He’s trying to get her to plan the date. We haven’t seen the whole convo, but he should’ve been inquiring about her interests and palate if he was actually planning a dinner date. Spoiler: he wasn’t, he just wanted to “meet up” 🙄 Sounds like an even lazier way of saying, “let’s meet up and see where it goes.” 🤮🤡🤡 Making excuses for these scrotes is supreme pickmeisha mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 10:31 PM
20

Two words: liberal. Feminism. That’s when the wheels fell off the wagon. It’s eQuaLItY for the woman to pay half 🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 10:28 PM
9

This is exactly why I’m so torn on having children, even with a proverbial HVM. At the end of the day you can’t trade pussy duty when it comes time to birth, or breast duty when it’s time to feed the child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:01 PM
3

Awe, it’s fee fees got hurted 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 01:07 AM
4

Pole dancing? Really? On FDS?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 01:01 AM
1

.... yeah... what sub is this again? Yikes! 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:59 AM
21

Lordt you speak the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:33 AM
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That’s why I never understood their hypocrisy. They have prostates, it would be entirely more pleasurable for them than us yet they’re so against it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:18 PM
24

He really thinks he’s good looking, doesn’t he? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:35 PM
3

Your artwork is beautiful and I’m glad you’re using such a positive outlet ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:06 PM
2

Could you do a post on this, please? Ive been wanting to try this for so long! The only classes for women I’ve seen in my area tell you to come dressed in tour high heels and dresses or whatever you’d wear on a night out and.. I don’t know. It just seems like you’re better off carrying your mace? I’d have lots of questions for you and I’m sure others would as well. Please DM me if you make the post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:32 PM
24

Praise the lord I love this comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:18 PM
57

I’m not picking apart what you’re saying or trying to attack you, I just want to point out how much I hate, “she stole another woman’s man!” Nobody can be stolen away from you, they left willingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:10 PM
5

Yes!!! It’s also about knowing when to do each love language! There are times and places for each one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:46 PM
18

The love languages nonsense was founded by a whack job christian. Give it no heed. Everyone needs a little bit of each one in order for a relationship to work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 08:45 PM
8

This is the most clear cut case of someone asking for it I’ve ever seen in my life. I bet he expects hardworking taxpayers to pay for his medical treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 08:40 PM
20

No, sis. From what I’ve read she allows an open relationship with will as a way to cope with his cheating. It’s not cheating if you know about it 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:39 PM
3

Let’s not forget that Rihanna is the ultimate kinkmeisha though. I fully attribute the rise in bdsm being normalized with her s and m song. Rihanna is the ultimate pickmeisha and no one to be looked up to, /u/lowkeyrebel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:50 PM
20

Me too, sis. Me. Too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 11:00 PM
6

I was told the same and spent many years in pickmeisha hell because of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 05:17 PM
8

It makes me so happy too that we can point out the massive gaslighting women endure to protect the male ego and make excuses for his fuckery. No more, sis! We’re waking up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 02:03 PM
9

I love this and hate this all at the same time 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 07:18 PM
15

Men will never own their own shit. It’s pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 07:17 PM
25

This perfectly encapsulates the female experience once you’ve woken up to it. What you’ve laid out are the key things women should keep in mind once they get there. Bravo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:38 PM
2

Just a heads up, we don’t do the NAMALT (not all men are like that!) here because yes, we know that already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 12:18 AM
24

Dating an uglier guy so he doesn’t cheat on you. They will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:56 PM
18

Enlighten me about your dickdar!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:29 PM
13

There’s a big part of FDS that’s against this. Once he finds out he’s hot, his ego will get out of control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:28 PM
47

Jesus. THE. AUDACITY. Red flag #1 was no reservation. This should be added to the list of LVM nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:34 AM
3

Weed ‘em out 2020, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:57 AM
24

Ooohhh I can’t wait! Just don’t give it up so easy for the dude lurkers! Hopefully if they’re attached they’ll actually ask their woman what she wants 😮🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 11:42 PM
21

Dang I forgot about that one.. maybe French kiss him and say, “Show me what you’d do to my clit.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 11:41 PM
11

“He’s going to do it anyways so just shut up with your legitimate concern!” How to break down womens’ boundaries in one easy step!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:28 PM
5

That shit had me dying omg 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:26 PM
12

Males have never had to band together for solidarity on any issue because they’ve never been oppressed in any time in history. But they do have all male everywhere solidarity on the simple fact that women must be oppressed at all costs. Historically they’ve even given rights to oppressed classes of men before those same rights were ever granted to women. Make no mistake. That’s male solidarity right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:12 PM
9

Yep. This is why this sub is so important. If he’s not financially stable, fit, good looking, knows how to cook, clean, take care of bills, and is emotionally available all at once then he’s a LVM. Period! The majority of women meet this bar no problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:00 PM
10

Yep. Look at women like Melissa McCarthy. Rich, insanely talented, hilarious, on and on but is she a Hollywood heartthrob? No!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:27 PM
16

Not at all. They want ass pats for the bare minimum and what 99% of women accomplish daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:26 PM
2

I don’t know why you’re downvoted to hell. Does this man exist?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:25 PM
2

Enjoy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 12:17 AM
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