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'The voice of god is capable of destroying mortal minds. So I need to be careful.'
/r/askTRP21/08/18 05:54 PM
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I read it 2 years ago and thought it was awfully written. But looks like I've grown into reading it a second time.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 01:40 PM
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That sounds a lot like CBT. Currently I don't have a real frame. Currently it would feel fake to me and therefore for others as well. As long as I can't look in the mirror and truly think I'm good, there's no way I would believe otherwise
/r/askTRP10/08/18 08:01 AM
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Currently I try to not eat at all for at least 3 consecutive days. I lost about 3kg in one week this way (no water I believe, as I went keto OMAD way before, but didn't even lose 1 lbs per week with it).
/r/askTRP30/07/18 04:43 PM
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How much should it be? How should I lift fasting/on a deficit so I can do it for as long as possible without burning out? SS or SL won't suffice for losing fat, does it?
/r/askTRP30/07/18 04:28 PM
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I does feel like I don't have that year. I did this once and it was so horrifically slow. You grind your geara in the gym for nothing and I feel hungrier eating on a deficit than on a fast. The Idea is pretty good for once I have shed almost all the excess fat
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:35 PM
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I know about the maintainance work. I need the best way, how to fix my shit soon. I am lifting 3 times a week, can and do cook normally, at the moment I'm fasting and I don't know if it's the best route tomy goal.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:52 PM
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I try my best. Designed a routine for myself over the weekend that is based on scientific facts and pro bodybuilders' experience. I'll just test if this works. Just to have some more fun with lifting. Career, I will tackle that as soon as I have my head outage my ass again.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:21 AM
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I took ADs from late 2012 to late 2016. Neither SSRIs, SSNRIs, tricyclic nor MOA blockers changed anything for me. I was in stationary therapy for 8 weeks in 2015,.half a year partly stationary (8 to 4, sleeping at home) and a little over a year ambulant. I made a lot of progress, especially stopping suicidal thoughts and selfdestructive behaviour. But it didn't solve what I described post. I started eating well and lifting 2 years ago and very rarely it makes me feel good. I know without it I w…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:57 AM
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Sure, but alternating to other tested routines makes sense when it's getting boring. Also there are routine specificly tailored to aesthetics. But I can't deny theprogress I made from following SL Edit: Reading fail. Yeah, but being strong is not the only thing important.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 08:32 PM
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I understand it. But it gets really monotonous.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 08:12 PM
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Pro tip! Occupying myself with fleshing out a new lifting routine (hateme for it, but if I do SL or SS one more time, I shoot myself. Also no legwork until I know if they're too tiny)
/r/askTRP21/07/18 07:17 PM
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I don't complain, I try to discuss. Different things. Do you believe there's this 'spreading genes'in every man? If so, how to 'activate' it?
/r/askTRP21/07/18 07:15 PM
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I have a slight foot fetish. After sucking her toes, she would suck my cock. 'It's about power' sounds cringy.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:31 PM
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Actually I tried to rationally solve/help her solve her problems and enjoyed the feelings inside myself. Is it needy to suck her toes to make me and her horny?
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:22 PM
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No. But I actually like to feel something, anything at least sometimes.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:03 PM
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Point me in the right direction. non exclusive relationships. low investment, higher girl-effort, more fun, no misery. Zero "making it work" that just makes the girl more lazy and entitled. No commitment no fun. At least for me. Casual sex is boring as hell. Also I enjoy the drama sometimes. personal success Maybe if having fun is equal to success. Money, competition and power, couldn't care less.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 03:29 PM
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Currently on TRT, pinning 250mg every Friday. T level went from 112 ng/DL to 370 ng/DL. Tried Vitamin D 5000 IU per day, no effect. So I left taking the vitamin D. Also last fapped 3 weeks ago on Thursday (24 days nofap) as I'm not horny that much.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 03:24 PM
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Yeah, I know that people see others that just can't understand why others socialize or put effort into their career as boring.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 11:02 AM
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If I had a bad attitude, I would probably not reach out for help. I don't know if you understand it, but I would love to want things. Life and improving myself was so much easier ACTUALLY wanting money, status and bitches. I would give a leg and an arm for these desires.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 10:21 AM
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Then I'm outside and everything is meaningless there. Wording it is kind of hard, but for me there's nothing worth achieving. I just want to stay at home and would love to be happy doing this,but I don't. That's killing me.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 09:50 AM
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Holy cow. That strand of arguments again. I was i CBT and I tried a lot of things. I don't want to dothem. And I don't know why. I don't care for money (if bills and food are covered), I don't care for competition and I also don't care for random sex encounters. That's why I 'need' a woman in my life. I feel obligated to care for her and therefore I'm forced to do stuff.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 09:48 AM
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I don't have a career. I dropped out years ago with sever depression and I struggle to get a foot on the ground in this area of my life.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 07:46 AM
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No. And that's killing me from the inside for years. No matter what I do it feels like a chore. I sometimes catch myself just sitting on the couch staring a hole intomy wall and simultaniously hating myself for it.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 07:45 AM
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Thissounds like a full blown circle.I ask for basically 'where do I find the reason and direction for improving within mysel?' and you answer 'by improving yourself'.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:11 AM
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Of ocurse you can. I once had a plate from tinder that thought I was repulsive but couldn't let go of my cock. Women sometimes amaze me
/r/askTRP20/07/18 08:42 PM
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Will try my best, except for the fun part. I never had nor have now fun doing anything. Also I prefer being exclusive even not being 'tied'. Had 3 plates for about 4 months before I decided to LTR one of them. Too much stress.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:41 PM
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I was in therapy for depression for about 18 months total. Would be a hit in the nuts if it's this bastard again. But honestly everything feels like a chore. Even going out with the boys does. Your advice is quite good though.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 12:47 PM
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I won't get her back anyways. Never saw her this fucking cold before. Took her clothes today and didn't even say a fucking single word. I'm devastated. So much fucking effort put in to keep her happy, plan out future and now this? Am I this repulsing?
/r/askTRP20/07/18 12:22 PM
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Most important thing to women in a man is not being fat. When it comes to frame: Is being broader than my 2.04m friend being 1.73m myself big enough?
/r/askTRP20/07/18 09:15 AM
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Sure, throw a log in the fireof false hope.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:47 AM
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No, but seriously, I hate endurance sport and training. I never had endurance and all throughout school I was forced to do it. This combined with smoking makes me avoid such sports.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:46 AM
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Do they require good endurance? Than fuck them
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:30 AM
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Being fat is being fat. After I managed to get from 160kg to 110kg I finally was in the position that a good friend (my ex) started to hit on me. Took the chance, lost my way and went back to 130kg whereI pulled the break and I'm down to 125kg again. But getting less fat ain't getting more muscular. I literally could lose the weight in an artificial coma.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:21 AM
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I just realized I lied.Deep down I have the desire to compensate for my inability to have a workingrelationship with fucking around.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:18 AM
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It was too much work killing off the violent spark in me. I don't want to risk this primitive and ugly trait to comes back.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:17 AM
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That's a horribly painful truth to accept
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:15 AM
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Lifting for two years, with a break of 4 months. Effects on body are feelable, but not visible. I'm still waiting for it having an effect on my mind. It isn't that I wouldn't know about the theories, advice and guidance in this sub and the main TRP, I could recite a lot of it before my LTR, but I struggle to use it, as it 'doesn't fit the bill'
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:48 AM
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Her being promiscuous is the only thing I see as disqualifying. If I go out, I smoke a joint here and there if I get one offered.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:45 AM
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Are you projecting or something? I don't want to 'pull bitches' I want toget back my LTR or find a new one. Casual sex and FWBs aren't anything I would want toput energy in.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:40 AM
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Next thing I think that is extremely shitty is ghosting.If you really don't give a shit and were just with someone for sex, okay, ghost her when it's over. But it is a real dick move benefitting nobody to ghost someone you really had feelings for. At least responding should be done. Why actively give someone thefeeling they just have been used?
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:38 AM
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I wish I was trolling. I wish I was an asshole that doesn't give a shit.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:32 AM
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What brings us tomy next problem: game. I havea problem with this mindset. I just can't do routines on people, neither play with women. I see the person behind it and it seems totally disrespectful to me. PUA (although being a lying game for themost part) makes me cringe. How those guys behave and the bloated their egos are makes me want toshooteverysingle one of them. Although it's admirable how much effort theyput into something this 'stupid' and get at least some openly slutty girls.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:24 AM
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I would have to totally redefine who I am or wear a heavy maskall the timetoadopt thebehaviors presented around here. I like the idea ofhaving betterrelationships in the future, but I have a strange sensation whenit comes to being dishonest and calculating when associating with people in general.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:06 AM
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That's the most normal thing tohappen when the hormonal rollercoaster of falling in love slowly degrades. It wasa dick move how she handled it.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:53 AM
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'Only' 150€
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:51 AM
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I meant everything without exactly that behaviour. But I think I finally understand why she did it andcould forgive it.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:50 AM
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I don't think that misbehaviour makes a person unworthy of my time. That said, xeah, I showed weakness. So what? To have weaknesses is a part of human nature. I was mate guarding, she was disrespectful. Doesn't sound like an unresolveable problem to me.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:49 AM
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I found TRP after I was devastated by my ex before the current cheated on me and left. I lurked around here for a while, trying to adapt to the core concepts. I think that self improvement and talking about women and the problems they cause is a good thing. What I don't think is a good thing, is how easily and readily you should simply vanish of problems arise. Self protection is important, that's for sure. But the point that you basically cut out all the important stuff, the resolving of proble…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:22 AM
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But her actions were consequences about something that was wrong.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:50 AM
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Did you even read the damn text? She was completely drugged and used by a guy before and I didn't want it to happen to her again. Do you want to have your LTR being raped? I don't think so
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:39 AM
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12 months of being a great companion aren't just wipedaway, because she maybe cheated.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:11 AM
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Than it's finally a good thing I smoke that much scince being 11.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:08 AM
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Even if se doesn't. I own it to her to go in dignity and not feeling like I never loved her.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:06 AM
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I tried to get a lot of different female personalities. The only one that tend to choose me either are borderliners or have been so badly mindfucked by men, that they start a fight over possesive pronomes like in 'my darling' and stupid bullshit like that.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:40 PM
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The one thing ruling out codependency is that I don't feel a need to do all this shit. It just never got me laid not doing all this tiresome work of picking up a woman's scrambles. It always was the case, that if I didn't gave the maximum attention and commitment, they left instantly.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:35 PM
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If you sayso. I will see. I still disbelieve in being distant increasing attraction.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:32 PM
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I'm not busy at all. But not even lifting is really making up for having to schedule a time, always wash the clothes early enough so they are dry nect time, buy some water, pack in showering stuff before and out after, doing my hair before going to the gym, doing it afterwards, looking up when the bus line arrives and how much time there is to switch between two of them, forcing myself to even leave my apartment, being groggy and moody afterwards, still sweating like niagara falls although I alr…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:29 PM
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How could I enjoy additional planning of time, logistics, maybe material, yadda yadda? That's horrible.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:12 PM
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I can't even get routine into etaing and lifting. How am I supposed to start a hobby without stressing out about it all the time?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:07 PM
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That's the only way I achieved getting laid. I seriously don't comprehend why it changes from being 'strong and generous' to 'weak and clingy' in women's eyes throughout a longer time period, Being saved is actually a bad thing?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:54 PM
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I don't need them. I just want them really bad
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:43 PM
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I was dumb and pempered her. She wasn't able to manage her life and I took it into my hands (giving actual advice to fix her depression and shit and disapproved her starting to get baked 5 days a week with a guy she crushed on).
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:42 PM
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It's just feeling wrong zo have none around. I don't know, but it's just amazing to have somebody around that's behaving like basically a wife.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:27 PM
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Was at my cousin's and tried to reactivatean old plate. Worked so far (meeting soon). But a plate isn't a girl that'll come to my place, cook,clean and chill on the couch before and after sex.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:20 PM
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I just realized that it'll never be like it was
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:15 PM
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My outlook is realistic
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:14 PM
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I just realized how fucked my life is right now, no matter what I do with the damned photos.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 09:38 PM
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I just realized how fucked my life is right now, no matter what I do with the damned photos.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 09:38 PM
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I just realized how fucked my life is right now, no matter what I do with the damned photos.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 09:37 PM
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She isn't mine any more.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 06:46 PM
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Really? After that betrayal? No way I could see her for a decent human being ever again.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 06:09 PM
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I don't want her to do anything other than spread her legs
/r/askTRP19/07/18 06:06 PM
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Lesson learned
/r/askTRP19/07/18 06:03 PM
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I. don't. care. as. long. as. I. can. get. mine. wet. longer.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:59 PM
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I'm not that paranoid
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:57 PM
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This will be a long and stony road
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:57 PM
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True. Would be satisfying. ButI think it'd be better to not ruin the tiniest rest of a chance
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:52 PM
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I will have to. No wayI can get another one the way I am at the moment.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:36 PM
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What do you mean? Better her than nobody right now. I learned to MAKE myself love my ex before her (was a hyper-thirsty loser that moved in with the first bitch that said yes. She was lazy, ugly, a little smelly, fat and had one A cup and and one B cup tit) This one is at least pretty faced, although hamplanet. Extremely well groomed with H cups
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:34 PM
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I'm a huge dick, but not to that extent. Not after 12 months of pure joy. Even if the last weeks were hell.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:28 PM
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BP is strong with me these days. I thought for the first few sentences that this was advice on getting her back.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:16 PM
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I was willed to make her my wife soon. Obviously I've never really known what a cunt she is.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:12 PM
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Nah,I only agreed to her staying at her place without contact. Well, I don't care.Her life, her decisions
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:06 PM
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At the moment I'm light years away from being physically and mentally able to pull another pussy. That's why I would take her back.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 04:57 PM
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I actually don't know shit about the other guy, except that he has a gf I could tell about via facebook.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:52 PM
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What kindof show areyou talking about? Doyou think there'd be a minimal chance?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:48 PM
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Dunno man. I still somewhat like her as a friend somehow. But it would be nice to maybe guilt trip her. Pictures, birthday and holiday cards and that stupid 'What I love about you' book could defenitely trigger her. But meh, we didn't break up in a bad way that would justify it.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:43 PM
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should our pictures be in their spot or my basement, when she grabs her keys? Don't know another woman who could open the door tomorrow
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:20 PM
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should our pictures be in their spot or my basement, when she grabs her keys?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:19 PM
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should our pictures be in their spot or my basement, when she grabs her keys?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:19 PM
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should our pictures be in their spot or my basement, when she grabs her keys?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:18 PM
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She sent me a 5:41 Voicemail. Mine were between 20 and 40 seconds. Btw, should our pictures be in their spot or my basement, when she grabs her keys?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:17 PM
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I know myself, thanks anyways
/r/askTRP19/07/18 01:27 PM
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If I set the same goal, It'd be summer 2020 for me. (Sorry, sarcastic because I got my 'You're dumped' voicemail 5 minutes ago. Advice is good though. Have to look into what's reasonable as a short time goal.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 01:27 PM
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Okay, I thought you had to be self-employd to freelance
/r/askTRP18/07/18 03:54 PM
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Sorry, for almost any field there is, it's by law in germany forbidden to 'have or be your own company' if you haven't either a 3 year trainee in this field or a 3 year trainee in economics.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 03:26 PM
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Didn't the bubble burst already?
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:57 PM
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No car, wrong country
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:57 PM
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I am not oficially qualified and therefore not allowed to do it on my own. If I had the qualifications, I would also beable to legally freelance.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:57 PM
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Having a pussy is enough for this job, you just to have to work more, the uglier you are
/r/askTRP18/07/18 12:47 PM
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Well shit, I highly assumed it. Freelancing isn't for me currently, as I don't have the qualifications to be allowed to by law. But thanks none the less
/r/askTRP18/07/18 12:46 PM
2

It is, the way it is. But you actually made me hope to get my boys out into the as I see it real world if I try more and insist on it.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:55 AM
2

I'm so fed up with tinder. Used that piece of software just before my last/current (?don't know yet) relationship and it's like standing in line for getting a kick in the nuts. If you don't have 12/10 looks and 23/10 money, tinder will only provide you with the scummiest of cum cemeteries on this planet. Neither type A or Type B are women I could even fake interest in. It's pretty hard to make trips to the wildernes with the boys. Both of them are students and love city life (which I hate) and t…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:49 AM
2

Thing is, I have 2 good friends that really like to go out to party in clubs or chill in bars with me. I really like those guys and spending time at home with them is the least tiring option. But I just hate to go out on social occasions. I love the woods, I love the mountains, I love the ocean, but I can only enjoy it alone, or with max one other perso around, preferable a soon-to-be-wife. Before I had therapy for my depression I actually had social anxiety. With a lot of confrontational traini…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:31 AM
2

Thanks for the kind words. But like I said, I hate going out and doing stuff. It might be forfilling and fn for other people, but for me it's draining and agonizing. The more unfilled space in may day, the better I feel. The less people I interact with, the better my mood.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:20 AM
1

That implies I actually wanted that shit to happen. I just accept that it happened.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:08 AM
1

That's neither a thing I want nor a thing I know how to, except for the first part
/r/askTRP18/07/18 09:41 AM
1

I disbelieve in finding a better one, as I am not the kind of guy that goes out, like at all. I have no real hobbies away from lifting, what after 2 years still is more like a chore, and gaming. But the latter mutated over the years to something to just kill time. See, there aren't really things that I'm interested in. There neverwere things I was like 'Woah, havetodo this.' and I have a hard time connecting to people. It's pretty darn hard for me to push me to meet with friends or go out like a…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 02:13 AM
1

Don't thinks this'll work, as she has keys to my apartment and vice versa
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:20 AM
1

As I disbleieve in commitment being unattractive... He was there, I was not, shit happens
/r/askTRP17/07/18 09:22 PM
1

I don't know the exact cause, so I'll just list a few things: Beinjg laughed at for being from a poor family and not having a father, my family always saying they would've been off better without me, my mom not letting me do any activities, getting pissed on as I played with some boys I thought were friends, getting told from early on that life is meaningless and you just work and die, being shy and therefore being a weirdo, being mocked for being fat and the size of my head, getting punished by…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 09:17 PM
1

I'd rather enjoy having free time, until I have a job. I obviously forgot my household, but that are chores, so I guess they don't count.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:42 PM
1

I can cook. I know a lot about health already and lifting longer than 1 hour isn't actually good for your body. Endurance training would be an option here, but I hate it.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:35 PM
1

Then what? She would have gotten angry and cut it off right away
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:32 PM
1

I AM NOT ALLOWED TO WORK RIGHT NOW. I have to have a state doctor to attest me, that I am able to work, to get the chance of falling back to safety IF I fail. If I fail without allowance, well, I won't get support any more and end on the streets
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:31 PM
1

I was out for a walk, tried to solve my problems with my soon to be ex, have another day of cutting and was lifting for an hour.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:21 PM
1

I try and try and try and nothing changes. I am lifting for about 2 years now, cutting for months on end, with a little pause going back to TDEE and gained 20 of 30kg back. I am cutting again, but for what? Will I even get a job, as soon as I get my allowance to work again? At the moment I'm chained to waiting. I am constantly making calls to get out of social payments, but they won't let me (germany). It's like trying to push an elephant through a needle's hole.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:14 PM
1

I don't want to live the rest of my life alone. Better than nothing, I guess.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:07 PM
1

Be me, be 29, be chronically depressed since age 6, also fat, grow up without a father, see your mother going nuts and see her trying to kill herself 7 times over 7 years, get forced to do everything she is unable to do, so basically everything, barely finish school, chose the wrong job, get even more depressed, getting fatter, drop out, start anew, same shit again, find a girl, she loses her job, I have to carry her with me on low wage, get cheated on, try to kill yourself, go into therapy, get…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:04 PM
1

I don't care for crushes, I don't care for weed or booze. As long as she choses me, she can crush on who she wants
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:51 PM
1

Can't you guys see, that you are paranoid and spreading paranoia? She may have fucked him. There's no definitive evidence.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:50 PM
1

Until 6 weeks ago, that was the plan.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:48 PM
1

How? It's not damaging my dignity to care for her. That's absolute bullshit. This shit started out of nowhere. What else can I do, than give her boundaries and hope for her to not cross them? If she does, should I run away? That's weak. I never witnessed that leading to something. Only the naiv little bitches in school fall for these mindgames
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:47 PM
1

Fuck my dignity. It's worth nothing. I prefer not having to look for a new girl over saving my dignity and being single.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:39 PM
0

I bursted out laughing. Dignity is worth shit.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:38 PM
1

I actually don't care for her age.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:37 PM
1

That's true. But always better than looking for a new girl.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:37 PM
1

Could you elaborate how he is masculine?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:36 PM
0

Trolling is stupid, sorry. Delusional, if anything.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:35 PM
1

Everybody gets weak once in a while... If she comes back, I'll try to forgive her.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:34 PM
1

If she comes back, just for the comfort of having me save, I'd be an idiot to go and dump her and go dating again. Dating is mindnumbig and tiring shit.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:48 PM
1

I know, well, I've dated worse, way worse.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:46 PM
1

Actually no. One of my prospects I dropped, but who befriended my cousin has had sex with 11 different guys this year
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:45 PM
1

As long she is good to a child she can do whatever the fuck she wants
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:44 PM
2

There's nothing pathetic about a low n-count. It's actually a good thing to have a lower one, but to be oneself. Do you really want to be fake from head to toe, like all the fuckbois? If so, have fun. Me for that part, I hate to enact something or play bullshit. Either I am who I am and it clicks, or it doesn't.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:54 PM
1

First of all, you can't kill something that's already dead. Second, there were only a few comments actually providing advice and a lot of basement dwellers, that try to force their toxic bullshit down other peoples throats, because of being narcissistic shitbags who didn't get enough beatings growing up.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:51 PM
1

It would've been a normal relationship again in January. Thing is, I don't mind her having guy friends. I hate her being with those drug abusing shit heads that are even bigger failures than I am. For the part of worry losing her, I don't know why she even considered dating me in the first place, but I seem to have something she really likes.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:49 PM
1

I got in touch with my father some years ago to find out he is a pathetic fat slob, that's into dating instable women for the ease. Some things seem to be genetic, to my disgrace -.-
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:46 PM
1

Tell me what's so horribly wrong with being a decent person? I'll make a post asking about that stuff anyways.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:42 PM
0

That's exactly what I'm currently doing, as I don't see a fucking reason to crawl to her. Opening other girls? No, I don't want to. When this shit show ends I'm done with women for now. Also she has about 2 female friends. One lives 40 km away and tries to fix up her double-x-chromosomed (he actually is bragging with this disability) boyfriend. That chick is only into damaged goods. The other one is married and lives about the same distance away. For her new female friends from the boarding scho…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:41 PM
1

Well, in germany it's normal for a girl to have her first time around 13. A lot of girls back in the day in my class, managed to have a new boyfriend every month. Therefore 12 per year, giving an easy 96 in 8 years if they don't bond for longer.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:36 PM
1

Good point. Well, either it's that or the effects of her therapy are dwindling away. It's just sad and feels dull currently.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:34 PM
1

It's partly both. If I wouldn't feel obligated I had given up on her already. Strangely I'm a very supportive guy, but not very social. Thanks for your idea, but that's going to be hard to implement.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:33 PM
5

I was raised by a schizophrenic and lazy piece of garbage human, that never got a degree. She was never able to help me in any regard but the other way around. As soon as I was more knowledgeable and competent than her, so with the age of 9, I had to solve her problems. With age 11 she got severely mentally ill and pressure by my family grow and grow. Today I'm 29, never had any male role model, still think it's my job to solve women's problems and can't the heck away from this mindset. Oh and o…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:56 PM
1

That's actually pretty good, as she will fall on her ass with this kind of guy
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:29 PM
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At least I have the balls to put through shitstorms and not run away like a self-entitled prick
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:28 PM
1

Neither are you for harassing people having their own mind and not blindly following a basement-narcissit agenda
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:27 PM
-1

Running away is the solution to all of your problems, isn't it?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:26 PM
2

Because I'm not a shallow piece of dick-controlled garbage?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:24 PM
1

Most girls I know. Either they have seen more cocks than anything else, or they are that much rock bottom looking or character wise. At least she was only used as cum dumpster, as I had toteach her giving proper head.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:18 PM
1

More plates, more hassle. I don't want this shit. Jesus, sorry, but I only have capacity for very few human interactions.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:16 PM
1

Empathy is what seperates humans and monsters.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:14 PM
2

Relationships will end anyways. But I still see her as becoming a good mother... hard toexplain. I'm not that thirsty that I'd actively try to get girls any more, sex isn't worth the hassle.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:13 PM
1

The wife just needs to be a better human being than my own mother and that's not that big of a hurdle. Thing is, I don't want to let her go, because of how easy it was until now. I hate to play games with women to keep them, it's exhausting. The only thing that I see she did wrong, is that she initiated the body contact. That's nothing I can keep my nuts chilled. Either she has me for emotional support (that goes way over talking and pempering), or she can gtfo. Cuddling another guy and befriend…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:11 PM
1

The only thing I'll do with this guy is rat him out to his girl so he loses his house
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:56 PM
1

Bash my head in for this, but mating is what leads to your own family. I want children, I love(d - don't know right now) her and therefore she is something like family. She is/was the first woman I met to be the potential mother ofmy future children.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:55 PM
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That's the kind of reply I love TRP for. It's not insulting, it's constructive and gives me at least one more option instead of cutting me off for the way I roll. Thanks mate!
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:53 PM
1

Although almighty TRP sidebar says so, girls that don't get attention from their partners or whose partners don't care for shit about them, bounce from dick to dick like a pinball. I don't want to switch my partner over and over again. It's anannoying task, that's only paying of very seldomly.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:46 PM
1

I don't care any more about that part. 6 weeks ago, I did. I want her to stay for the sex. That's it currently.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:39 PM
1

I don't want to punch his face for hitting on her. I think he and everything he brought to her life (weed, booze around the clock, the emotional confusion) aren't good for her as a person. Wouldn't you punch a guy doing some shit to say like your sister, mother, family?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:33 PM
1

The controlling thing came up yesterday and it sure isn't good. The mate guarding, well, it's hard to overcome hardwired responses. Hyper responsiveness isn't anything I'd say is a bad thing.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:28 PM
0

I see clearly. All the pussy there is, is used anyway. Every woman has had a slutty phase. Her too: 37 men between 13 and 21. I don't care. And if our sex last weekend was sloppy second, than I can live with that.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:26 PM
1

The dumb it might sound, I'm not that phased by it any more. Either she stays, or she goes, I don't care. But it would be easier, if she stayed, I don't want to look for a/some new pussy.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:17 PM
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Well, I don't want to spin plates at the moment. Either she stays and it's comfortable to have the sex, but at this point I couldn't care less. With or without her, my life goes on.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:13 PM
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Well, that's the way I am. I fucking don't care any more. I don't want to have to play something all my life. Fuck this and fuck her.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:09 PM
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I thought that TRP wasn't such a cancerous shithole like 4chan is. At least I remembered it as a place to discuss things on a psychological base. Actually I tried this LTR the exact opposite than my last one. Being bold, but not being a huge dick. But I also am no run-away ffs. I don't start something without the intention of at least having it run to the point of kids. Why else would I even bother to date? Because it's fun? Hell no, it isn't. It's tiresome and lifedraining. I have at least enou…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:55 PM
0

But why on earth would she fuck a loser like that?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:45 PM
1

But why on earth would she fuck a loser like that?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:45 PM
1

Woah, wait. Show she intreprets me trying to save her sorry ass from destroying herself is mate guarding and weak? What should I have done instead of telling her what my boundaries are? Smacking her head against a wall for being a bitch? Btw. I read the sidebar and lurked here before I got my plates that finally resulted in promoting this one. I know that it says running away from problems is manly and key. I decided to be patient and understanding, while being direct,instead of fleeing. What's …
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:37 PM
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Could you be any less vague please? Yes, I should have taken harder consequences, but the rest? I always was the one guiding our time spent together. Edit: Abundance mentality is a buzzword that makes me want to dance my name some how...
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:30 PM
1

long muscle bellies err and short tendons, eh? There are guys that have e.g. biceps that only run to like the middle of their upper arm making 12" arms look big. Dying my hair would only be an option if I also dyed my beard. Doable, but a huge waste of money. I don't hate my face for the remaining fat, I hate it for it's general structure:big forehead (width and height), big in the middle, broad jaw with short chin, (box head inc), small nose....
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:59 PM
1

I wouldn't consider a lack of joy as negative as there isn't sadness accompanying it. But I see, for our fucked up species not being happy equals being toxic and nagetive. Absurd.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:15 PM
1

That's an extremely helpful constructive answer
/r/askTRP17/05/17 01:40 PM
0

I live because I was born. It's nice to have money, sure. But it ain't worth the effort.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 01:39 PM
1

I'm not negative nor positive. I'm neutral. Almost all the time, with slight ups and downs.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 12:55 PM
1

Money and power are overrated. Why waste the time you have with working your ass off? I still don't get it.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 12:14 PM
1

Just a side joke, but I would definitely have been better off not knowing my parents... For me it's even weird to have friends as I don't know why they like me. I never ever had interest in getting to know a stranger. All the people I have in my circles came to me at one point. I'm in the wrong place because I hate to make decisions for myself and even more so for others to follow. Also I'm not confident by any means. I hate almost everything about my body and I struggle hard to change that. Whe…
/r/askTRP11/05/17 01:59 PM
1

On TRT I got to 1200. No effect headwise. Now trying a cycle. Should be at 2500-3000 right now, gaining weight on a cut althoughlosing fat, but headwise no deifference.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 12:36 PM
1

The thing with cold approaches is, it's odd. Would you want to get talked up by a weird stranger? I wouldn't and I believe that in day to day life most women would be glad if it doesn't happen to them. Even if they could work, I'm in no place they could work for me. I'm no model, man.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:35 PM
1

Yes, it might feel like you're no longer being yourself, but that's honestly just not true. you're less of yourself now because you're unable to express who you really are. fixing your body language, image, etc. are all to help you be the best version of your self. But I express who I am by not faking smiles. I asses my posture every once ina while and for holding it on point like a motherfucker, my friends call me stiff. When good posture sitting is truly 'lounging' than I did this right way be…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:35 PM
1

Most of what you describe sounds like pure placeboto me. I came from a very low level of T and I was running TRT for 18 months without any real improvements overall, I currently administer myself and run on a 'first cycle' level and there's barely any effectto notice.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:12 PM
1

What's funny is lifting is probably the easiest method of setting yourself apart from the crowd and being above average. It's one of the few things where you're literally guaranteed results if you put in the work. Same can't be said about starting a business for example. You have to be kidding. To get guaranteeed results you need to start as a youngster being lean to scrawny. Coming from fat it's endless work and barely any profit. Only hope can keep yougoing than
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:00 PM
1

poor or no mentorship: no one's ever pulled them aside and explained what should be rather obvious, but clearly isn't: that the benefits of lifting or at least being in great physical shape are numerous and far exceed any 'costs' (ex. muscle soreness) There are numerous guys out there who look like they live in the gym and do extremely poor with women. From some of my fit friends, being in exceptional shape only increases the number of shit tests and flakes you get. feminism/pc culture: directly…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:58 PM
1

That's an explanation that really sucks. If I want to play stupid games, I turn on my PC, go out for bowling/darts/we or play with my little niche. Isn't life too short to play tricks and mind games with women or anybody else?
/r/askTRP10/05/17 04:18 PM
1

If I was able to copy behaviour and play a role, I wouldn't ask (stupid) questions on here. I don't go along with all this playing roles, wearing masks and hiding yourself in different situations. I can't do this and I'm just the way I am no matter where and when.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 02:19 PM
1

Although this seems bitter for a first sentence in a response, even if you sludged around, being scrawny seals the deal. Being built like a scarecrow (sorry) is incredibly attractive for women. Being a 5'9" dwarf with overbroad shoulders isn't, no matter the posture. But coming to body language you are probably right. I believe I have it down walking and standing, but sitting in a good posture is hard af. Although an open chest makes me self conscious. I'm a big chested guy with pegs and the rem…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 02:17 PM
1

You may je right in nowadays 65-70% of cases. Eat less, move more isn't working for people with metabolic syndrome. They have to get medicated beforehand to make it really work (in a timely manner).
/r/askTRP09/03/17 09:42 AM
1

It's way better than.gossip, small talk or bragging bout your status
/r/askTRP09/03/17 09:02 AM
1

fap could also possibly be short for Forever Alone Pleasure
/r/askTRP05/03/17 05:22 AM
1

Have a relationship with someone you like? Beauty isn't everything, but 70% from my experience. If you don't like the way your plate is, if she is boring to you, you'll lose attraction. Please don't read ego esoteric bullshit
/r/askTRP27/02/17 07:13 AM
2

Hell shit, no. I always fall the beta side of the scale after sex someway. The girl comes back for more and I slowly fuck up because I get attached. That's pretty much that I'm beta when my balls are deloaded. But before, when I really want to fuck a chick I'm doing good.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 07:11 AM
1

70 is more than enough and dieing is never pretty. But you know diabetes is not about fat but carbs?
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:08 AM
1

Lifting harder than most guys I see in the gym and I never warm up or stretch. I know the horror stories everybody tells, but I know nobody that ever got injured from not warming up or not stretching. Maybe I'll learn the hard way some day. Til then I cut the extra time.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 03:41 AM
1

I don't know any vegans and from my meet eating friends and relatives not even one had a fucking heart attack. It's leading cause of death, sure. But it's because so many people have a meat and transfet consumption of a small village. My grandparents both had a "normal diet" veggies of the saeson with potatoes and meat almost every day. My grandpa died at 69. He had lung cancer from smoking 3 packs (à 30 cigs) a day for 55 years. My grandmother died with diabetes at 73. Not because it got that w…
/r/askTRP25/02/17 03:36 AM
0

Or as my psychotherapist would interpret this: Because she knows her boy is a fragile pussy that'll rzn away if he sees some emotional stress in the horizon she desperately tries to cushion his little fee fees
/r/askTRP25/02/17 03:23 AM
1

Wow, you are really stuck with things like cholesterol and saturated fats that your body can handle easily, as they are a part of a normal human diet. Makes me believe you are also afraid of air, because it could contain micro particles, so you wear an airfilter and you obviously bath in sunblocker because some people who sun bath multiple hours a day and use a solarium if the sun doesn't shine get sometimes skin cancer? Or are you even one of these guys who doesn't use soap (fat and ashes) or d…
/r/askTRP25/02/17 03:02 AM
1

Veganism is dumb. Sure pork and high amounts of red meat aren't good, but eggs, poultry and fish obviously are. The only good diet is a diet with high variety of quality foods. Plants that are garbage for the human body are grains, because we aren't cattle and soy as it's protein is hard to digest and it's very high in phytoestrogens. Also there is no Vitamin A in plants, just precursors that aren't guaranteed to get converted by our liver if it's just a little off.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 02:43 PM
1

I'm stuck at a point where my energy isn't enough to make the changes needed. It's not that I refuse the obvious solutions or that I'd hamster them away. I'm lacking the energy to make consistent changes as I'm physically and mentally tired. Which is a fucking circle. Depression causes low energy, but high energy is needed to "heal" depression
/r/askTRP24/02/17 02:25 AM
1

It fucking is. There is a huge difference between delayed gratification and no gratification at all. Even if you just get 0.001% closer to your goal, it's success. But if you grind and grind (I have this wit health. No matter if it's fat loss, muscle mass gain or simply energy) and it gets worse although everything is done right according to science, broscience and faith (lol) that's fucking me up. Health is a simple thing every reaction has a known source and every action will produce a definit…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 02:21 AM
1

You have this totally backwards. You have to live before you can feel alive. Language barrier: What I tried to bring up is that I feel dead most of the time. If I wouldn't force myself to do something I'd just lie on my bed and wait for the reaper. I wish things would get easier the longer I go, but it's like grinding gears with less and less oil: It gets harder and harder until it gets unbearable.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 01:06 AM
1

I put my wellbeing higher than my standing. Getting sick of something you'd have to do (care for your mother, crawl all up your bosses ass because your greed won't make you able to cut back on bullshit, etc) is not what I want to do for a lifetime. Better be weak than irreversibly ill (anybody I know 50+ is one foot in the grave). I'd prefer to unfuck my mind before. If I can put a finger on my problems, I can fix them. Going on in a depression is possible, but it'll make you hollow and sad and …
/r/askTRP24/02/17 12:37 AM
1

Try a Yakuza like look: Badass serious business guy. Instead of trying to hide, go full on asian gangster. You have the face for it
/r/askTRP24/02/17 12:08 AM
1

You cohabite with my ex? Poor guy
/r/askTRP23/02/17 11:47 PM
1

It's just hard to tell truth feom lie. I know people who got out of depression and I know people that lived their whole life with it. I believe it's like diabetes. You can live with it, but it's always lingering in the dark. You got out of your episode and that's great. I don't really know if I have a very long episode or if I'm just falling from one to the next. By experience it's just hard to believe anybody can get out of it onntheir own. A lot of people don't make it with help, therapy and m…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 11:29 PM
1

And that's the way I'm made: I'm a serious guy that only talks when necessary. I have more fun coding software than talking to people. Each and every rejection I got burned deep. I always got and still get rejected because "form of head, color of hair, glasses, not lean enough" list goes on. I don't doubt it being possible with game, but I can only use the experiences I made myself. I can get chicks I don't want. But yes, you're right, I have no confidence at all. Never had. Even getting laid th…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 03:39 PM
1

Okay, so cure me wise guy. I'm trying what I can to get my shit together. It's one step forward, two steps back all the fucking time. No good relationships with feeling suicidal. But hey, I just need them to get out of my down. Similar with exercise or diet. Yeah I can follow both to the point for half a year, til it hits me in the face again and I can barely hold myself together. Guess how this is improving ly perspective on life. It isn't. You are unable to get anything done crawling on good d…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 03:27 PM
3

Than it's luck. You live between a demographic of men who are mentally retarded. There isn't even a chance in my city that a chick 6+ won't get approached by guys 2+/10. To summarize: Every single woman in legal age is getting hit on by every hobo every day. A majority of women just doesn't care for how fun/charismatic you are. It's like they just want to be seen with a guy that pulls them up. Best case he won't talk to anybody but her and just shine as her jewelry. I call it reversed roles.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 02:10 PM
5

Depression is a medical state where the temptation to kill yourself is bigger than anything else. Sure, it's used by most people as excuse. But for some it's very harsh reality. Look at it like ADHD. Some few people have it, a majority is just lazy and pretends to have it.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 01:58 PM
2

Than you either have a model body or extreme luck. Hard enough to date women with jobs, as they shoot for manager or fitness model guys. They don't need a man, they want them based on looks or wealth. No matter what, if you can't be milked off prestige, you're out.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 01:56 PM
2

Then you are very wealthy and buy their affection?
/r/askTRP23/02/17 01:13 PM
1

You don't. Only way is becoming the man you want to be. Guess what, not loving yourself will make it twice as hard. Either you are the pampered asshat who got sugar blown into his ass from rhe start "you're so awesome" from childhood or you have a damn long road ahead
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:16 PM
2

...for women 30+ as younger girls go for hot looks
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:11 PM
1

But they are 80%
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:09 PM
2

Catch a horse that has almost what you want and cultivate it. When done, glue a horn to it's head.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:06 PM
2

He has no point and is an idiot. 5k would mean pay bills, lean back, get some things sorted out, invest as much as I can.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:04 PM
1

Because your ego can't handle losing?
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:02 PM
1

To take OPs vibe: If you're already good enough at something to enjoy it, why qork for it? Doesn't make sense
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:01 PM
3

Some guys have to. You would prefer a rusty car over traveling hundreds of miles on your feet, wouldn't you?
/r/askTRP23/02/17 11:56 AM
4

Depression is the absence of goals, motivation, emotions and every single drive there is. All the thoughts go wild and even the sun seems dark and cold
/r/askTRP23/02/17 11:50 AM
-3

But if you're worthless then why did you brush your teeth? Why are you dressed before noon? See what I mean? If you had the power to do this, you weren't depressed at all. On the darkest days I can't get my ass out of bed even if my life depends on it.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 11:47 AM
1

Love is only existent between parents and children. Beauty is something fading really fast. There is no invisible man in the sky
/r/askTRP23/02/17 11:40 AM
1

That's quite a difference between us, eh? I'm 28 and I feel fucking old compared to fresh 20ers or younger guys. They are dating beautiful women their age and live a life with no rhought. I'm here, having problems dating younger than 26. Most of them are damaged and all their femininity has dried up years ago. If not they are in committed relationships or married. Being almost 30 and single sucks big balls.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 11:02 PM
1

You don't say. But I just can't pull emotions out of thin air. Most of the time there's nothing. Often the only thing I feel is being tired. Euphoria or happiness are feelings so far out of range, I start seeing them as concepts. Feelings I can project and evoke in others are fear, hate, anger, envy and the like
/r/askTRP22/02/17 10:06 PM
1

28 who wasted precious 8 years in an LTR, so you're somewhat right
/r/askTRP22/02/17 07:38 PM
1

how generous. I'm at 113kg. But I also don't have energy on a bulk. It's my character rather than anything else
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:41 PM
1

I tried a lot of different activities and while they are good to kill time, they aren't more than that. Things that genuinely make me happy are the ons that'll kill me in the long run: eating, sleeping, getting stoned or wasted, timely very limited even gaming, though I grew out vidya some time ago.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:00 PM
1

Heavy lifting 5x a week, HIIT after that. No processed foods, currently cutting. Bulk or cut makes no difference in mood. Intake consists of 1g protein per kg bodyweight, 32g fat, carbs reduced to 70g atm. Sleep from 12 to 2-ish am for 8 to 10 hours. No matter how long I sleep, I'm exhausted in the morning. Was in a sleep laboratory 2 times, nothing wrong with my sleep. I take multivitamin, D3, zinc and omega 3 (6g). Already tried SARMs, no real effect. Blood work is good. While between 2 TRT in…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:33 PM
1

To give you some nerd love back, that's why I used or and not xor lol. Obviously fucking a woman right has more to do with respect than disrespect. We have to acknowledge how the female mind comprehends sex. But that wasn't the point in the beginning
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:19 PM
1

I read the sidebar more often than I'd like to admit. Things make sense, but why should I care for more, more, more if the thing I want is just a decent woman or some semi-decent plates? I just have this life. Why not enjoy it? What I'm enjoying the most is female company and sex. That's the way I (currently) am. I know about my depression. Though I'm baffled it's still that obvious. Also I'm supposed to have body dysmorphia, but guess what. I don't look good and just because I don't delude myse…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:11 PM
0

That's one of the reasons I'm disliking socializing so much. You're expected to be a fucking engine of happy feels. It's not working for me. I'm low energy most of the time. Don't know how to change it or even if I want to. Also I'm not an emotional kind of guy. Yeah, I can be the romantic gentleman or the funny cynic, but it's extremely draining. At normal state I'm fact based, honest and serious. That's my modus operandi
/r/askTRP22/02/17 04:54 PM
2

Maybe it's a cultural thing, but most women I know will next you the moment you ghost them. Why should they care? There's always another guy to have fun with. They earn their own money, have their own flats and large social circles. They are with guys to have fun or build a family. Only the really insecure ones without anything going in there lifes full under complete AWALT logic.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 04:49 PM
0

There is no value in juggling empty phrases, isn't it? I can see the point with body language, eye contact and stuff, but talking about nonsense bullshit isn't worth a dime. I can also show these traits without using mental capacity for bullshit that doesn't get me anywhere
/r/askTRP22/02/17 04:43 PM
0

That's pointless. That would make you better every day. You'd have to really fuck up to get a negative outcome. The only thing that counts is being better than somebody else at this noment. Comparing your current state to your past doesn't make sense to me when it comes to determine my worth. The thing is: I'm better than yesterday/last week/last month, but am I better than the guy getting the woman I want? If I'm not, I'm of low worth
/r/askTRP22/02/17 04:40 PM
0

Okay. For me small talk is and always was bullshit. I talk to bring a point or to discuss something. News headlines, celebrities and stuff like that are none of my business. Why should I care? Holding a conversation isn't hard, as long as the conversation is going somewhere. Talking just for the sake of talking is stupid and boring. Either people having something important to say or STFU
/r/askTRP22/02/17 04:34 PM
0

And how is this going to help me? If i can do more in the gym, than I believed before, fine. But also everyone else can do, too. It's not making me feel "omg, I'm the shit" but "okay, now what?"
/r/askTRP22/02/17 03:43 PM
1

Confidence and self worth are concepts so extremely abstract, I don't get how to form them properly. It's all marketing, isn't it? If you celebrate your product as the best there is, guess what, it's probably a huge pile of crap. Else it'd sell itself? Things that have worth, like water, don't need to be pushed. Crap like Apple, McDonald's and Coca Cola wouldn't.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 03:33 PM
1

And all of this is worth nothing as you just can't pull a bar out of your ass when you want to attract a girl with deadlifting 240kg.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 03:02 PM
1

I read self worth and artificial bullshit in the same paragraph. What?
/r/askTRP22/02/17 02:30 PM
0

Lifting only helps with your body. Inner game is something you have to force yourself to. Meditation helps recognizing bad thoughts and limiting believes. That's where work starts. Inner game is a mental thing as the word inner suggests
/r/askTRP22/02/17 02:29 PM
1

Wanna chime in here: Not many emotions in me, maybe also in OP. Most dominant "thought/emotion" interacting with women is "fuck me or fuck off".
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:30 PM
1

Why talk than?
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:29 PM
3

Being monogamous or not is a choice and nothing that's predetermined by your genes. Sure having a harem sounds nice when your balls are filled til they may explode anytime, but after busting a nut you clearly see the insanity a harem is. A shitload of mental work for shallow sex with chicks so insecure they let you disrespect them. I still believe in pair bonding. Not like a fairytale, but for a limited time. Sex gets better the more you know and trust each other. Sex without emotional bonds is …
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:23 PM
1

That's so not true it hurts. No matter if LTRs or plates, if the girls wanted to have sex while I wasn't or was neitral to having sex at any given moment, they initiated. No big deal. Women too just start to escalate if they really want you.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 02:10 PM
1

Like that mindset. Can't believe it before I get there, though
/r/askTRP17/02/17 10:01 PM
2

It's not about instant thrills. If it was I would've already given up. It's reassuring if it can be done. I'm losing faith in the most simple thing there is on earth. Why? Because the internet is 99% lies and I know not one single fucking person that got better after Highschool. Literally every 'normal' person I know peaked at 18 and went downhill from there.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 10:00 PM
1

Most success stories are either absolute bullshit or the time needed is extremely shortened. No way from 60% bf to washboard abs in 12 months. But that's the norm for success stories. Exactly why I asked in an honest place
/r/askTRP17/02/17 09:57 PM
2

I expected the time span of 3 years. that's a progress of almost nothing per week and just a corn of dust every month. How the fuck am I supposed to stay consistent if things change that unbelievably slow? How do I know if I'm doing right or wrong if change isn't different to white noise? That's like the 1 lb fat loss per week. How do I know if I lost a pound or if it's an irregularity in bowel movements? I can't before 3-6 weeks.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 08:30 PM
2

And thongs are for homos
/r/askTRP17/02/17 07:08 PM
1

Don't let things seem easier than they are
/r/askTRP17/02/17 06:53 PM
-1

Average-looking dudes who do well on OKC, what does your profile look like? You ask for something that doesn't even exist Choose ONE
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:53 PM
1

That's the one I'm talking about
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:50 PM
1

15 months now. Switching between 3x per week minimum and 6x per week maximum. I don't grow when eating 5k calories, I just get fat and a bit stronger. And I don't lose fat til I go down to about 1k calories intake max. I really feel fucked when I see guys bulking with +500 or cutting with -500 while I'm prisoned in my body no matter what. I tried about every theory out there from fasted cardio, paleo diet, keto to IF and nothing works. If I want to look good in this life, I'll have to starve mys…
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:48 PM
1

In fairy land
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:26 PM
3

Rare to find women who aren't going to get banged on first date. Pursue til date #5 at max. But don't let the trolls get to you with 'no action at first date? NEXT!' That's bullshit
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:20 PM
2

Get the chick on your right out of the photo.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:18 PM
1

Somebody who is still trying, sees results but doesn't get anything from it mentally
/r/askTRP17/02/17 10:09 AM
1

Had a personal trainer for 2 sessions who told me to not go hard as stress from lifting heavy isn't good for the body and I should go light so I feel relaxed after working out. Lol
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 11:02 PM
1

How about rolling this up from the other end? Why are so many people desperately working on staying/becoming fit? Because if you aren't you are shit to most people. It's ridiculous. If somebody feels content with being fat and dieing young, why force them to change?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 10:44 PM
1

Each and every rejection stings and adds another entry to the ongoing list of 'women who aren't attracted to me'.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:17 PM
-16

Lifting isn't a cure it's a crutch. One that works for some guys but not for all of them. Ask if he tried lifting and if it helped and don't pedestalize it as the ome cures all
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:51 PM
1

And what should I do to search my mission? No matter how hard I try or which approach from books/therapy I take, everything is just meh or could be cool, but no value to me at best.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:59 AM
1

Medication is what I ruled out as the first option. It doesn't sdo shit for me. The opposite. It makes me slow in the head and my feelings foggy and meh. Exercise and diet are things I tinker with for over a year now. Diet doesn't really make a big difference, as long as I meet macro and micro nutrient needs (fast food plus vitamins gives the same feeling as eating well and healthy). Exercise is working somehow, but only for short periods. After lifting I feel good for 20-30 minutes. Than I'm ba…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:56 AM
1

Made a quick search and skimmed over some reviews/wikipedia synopsis. Power or leadership are the last thing I care about. Why is everyone so obsessed with it anyways?
/r/askTRP16/02/17 01:50 AM
1

If it's caused by a lazy eye, like my problem was, you have to make an effort to look with both eyes. Hard af in the beginning and gives you headaches, but the active control needed will get a lot less over time. If I'm drunk or high, it still happens from time to time, but in normal day to day life it's good
/r/askTRP15/02/17 07:47 PM
0

People who judge by what you wear (if it's clean and not damaged) are shallow scum
/r/askTRP15/02/17 06:13 PM
1

Was referring to binocular vision.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 06:05 PM
1

I get bloodwork done bimonthly. Evering okay
/r/askTRP15/02/17 06:04 PM
2

I find feeling hungry way more appealing than feeling stuffed. Btw I never said that I eat no veggies at all. 70g carbs from plants is a shit load of plants (leafy green)
/r/askTRP15/02/17 03:05 PM
1

I know about calories in, calories out, am able to calculate my TDEE and weight my food. Mass(weight loss) = t * (caloric intake - TDEE) That's it. No magic vegetables involved
/r/askTRP15/02/17 02:56 PM
3

Vegans are fucking stupid because they don't give their bodies what they need
/r/askTRP15/02/17 02:16 PM
1

Depends on where you live and which social group or level you find yourself at. I had to really search for examples of TRP logic working in rl. Culture makes it seem like BP is working just fine. All the skinny fat, nerdy betas with receding hairline and no sense of style do hop from one LTR to another. It's really hard to comprehend what's going on if you actively have to take a look behind the curtain. There you'll see LTRs because "They're easy" chicks cheating with randoms from bars or tinde…
/r/askTRP15/02/17 12:59 PM
3

And I'm not as rich as Bill Gates with the face of Brad Pitt and the body of Dwayne Johnson. Obviously you need this for todays girls. Guess what? Try to get there or stop crying
/r/askTRP15/02/17 12:49 PM
2

Learn it? If I can fix my lazy I and learn to see 3d as normal people in my early 20s, you can the fuck learn some eye-hand-coordination
/r/askTRP15/02/17 12:34 PM
1

I don't do it. Hate those guys. But they get invited zo everything and they drown in pussy. Bzw age group 25-30
/r/askTRP14/02/17 11:11 PM
1

You can't be center of attention without performing idiot bullshit. If you're just positive and charismatic you're one of 100 others who are also.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 09:14 PM
1

I like the way I am. I just envy the clowns for the attention although I hate clown behavior
/r/askTRP14/02/17 08:57 PM
2

Or if you want somebody who doesn't brag... When they break, they do. Usually after a few months. Sometimes they break themselves, other times I break them. If you have to reset, that's the way it is. They're just plates, why even care?
/r/askTRP14/02/17 02:26 PM
1

They don't because they always can choose the guy. They take the highest SMV for lowest work aka spreading their legs
/r/askTRP14/02/17 12:47 PM
1

Become a completely different person so people give you attention?
/r/askTRP14/02/17 12:44 PM
0

Flatline inc
/r/askTRP14/02/17 12:19 PM
1

If it really was that easy. Even linear progress often isn't very appealing because "still not there yet". Also lifting is en encapsulated area of life. Like vegas. What happens in the gym, stays in the gym.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 11:24 PM
-2

The alpha male of every species mate guards with his life. Mate guarding is inherently alpha
/r/askTRP13/02/17 02:30 PM
1

But I would be extremely glad if it sparked with me, you know
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:31 AM
1

Yeah, I just go to the gym because I go to the gym. Will I get a six-pack? Don't know. Or will it be covered with lose skin afterwards? Don't know. Do I care for the reasons I would rather stay at home? Not really. Do I care for earning the opportunity to have a more constant supply of plates? More than I care for having comfort in the present. Still every session is a battle
/r/askTRP13/02/17 08:40 AM
1

You move sluggish, feel like a fool and you get tired while running...
/r/askTRP13/02/17 07:31 AM
1

Go out, walk, the motivation to run will die in an instant. Running sucks
/r/askTRP13/02/17 07:25 AM
1

I don't get this thing about habits. If that all was true, I wouldn't have anything in mind when I go lifting, now after 14 months. But I still have to force myself every session, because it would be less stress to not go.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 06:57 AM
2

If their behavior is annoying, they probably are extroverted
/r/askTRP13/02/17 06:45 AM
1

Don't know what you mean, never had high cholesterol. When it comes to Almonds, compared to eggs, the are rather tasteless. Americans love food that tastes like pure fat and salt and shit. I barely believe the vast majority would eat Almonds, even if somebody would come up with "they heal cancer and idiocy"
/r/askTRP13/02/17 06:38 AM
1

Dumb shit by dumb amifags. Of course eggs are high in calories. Hello, they should serve a little chicken for a few weeks. Also cholesterol isn't bad, overdosage of it, as with anything is bad. It's this type of shit where a government can't say something is good in moderation, because the population's vast majority would start to eat 150 eggs a day. Amifags, please
/r/askTRP13/02/17 01:13 AM
1

I talk about my social circle and I know the guys for 27 years. Both are obese, they stink, never worked a single day, live of unemployment benefits for 11 years, sit at home all day (cohabiting with their SOs btw),have no talent, do nothing in or around the house, dropped out of school, lived with their parents up til recently... the only thing they may do right is big mouthing about their youth (that we spent together... nothing they tell is true). They have the vocabulary of a fourth grade ki…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 04:57 PM
1

Yeah, of course. But I don't get how for some guys doing literally nothing works fine. How?
/r/askTRP12/02/17 04:16 PM
0

All this do do do and do on TRP. What's with the guys that feel okay with how their life is going and just want few more friends and a chick? I know a bunch of total losers. Fat, depressed, unemployed, no hygiene, nothing going for them. They are engaged/married and always have friends around them. Doesn't fit with TRP philosophies that well?
/r/askTRP12/02/17 03:48 PM
1

In my opinion absolutely
/r/askTRP12/02/17 12:10 PM
1

Yeah, wine about earning twice as much as most people earn in their 60s...
/r/askTRP12/02/17 02:52 AM
-1

For bulking eat throughout the day. If you can squeeze your food in let's say 4 hours, you aren't eating enough. Time doesn't really matter as it changes with your training level. Beginner with 5x5? Your sessions are short and that's okay and good. Later on, when your body is accustomed to lifting, you'll be able to do splits. That's doing 1 or 2 major muscle groups per day. If you aren't lifting for hours on end and if you eat and rest enough, more is more. More sets, more reps, more exercises …
/r/askTRP12/02/17 02:49 AM
1

Being drunk is almost like being sober. You just can hold yourself back a little less. At least that's for normal people. I just get a nice warm feeling of dizziness and develop a speech impediment. When it comes to nightgame in clubs (only observation) the guys pulling barely talk at all. They choose a chick, dance beside her and try to get them to dance with them by either somewhat passively signaling or by just touching and grabbing. Very few of the guys at the bar that talk to the girls are …
/r/askTRP12/02/17 02:41 AM
2

For me monk mode is last resort. If you have friends and money to spend on fun, you won't need monk mode. You just need to practice and build up from what you've got.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 02:19 AM
4

Monk mode is for guys that already miss out on life and therefore don't take a hit.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 12:03 AM
1

From observation: 20% do 80% don't
/r/askTRP11/02/17 10:17 PM
2

Even if I read the sidebar the fifth time now, it won't make wrong assumptions true. A lot of girls are turned off by competition. They desperately want a man who only goes for them. Going for another bitch makes you a shallow asshole instantly. Because "He didn't want me, he just wanted to fuck me. Disgusting"
/r/askTRP11/02/17 09:06 PM
0

Lifting improves posture, strength and discipline.That's it. Everything else is placebo
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 07:29 PM
4

By TRP teachings girl #1 should fuck yoi right at the club. That's what's always paradox for me. IRL if a woman sees you with other women, she'll reject you and go for other guys
/r/askTRP11/02/17 07:15 PM
1

Why is divorced parents a red flag? She got to know reality if, like in most cases, her dad left for younger prey
/r/askTRP11/02/17 05:16 PM
1

Popping a cherry gives him at least a plate that'll spin almost on itself for a few weeks to months. Never had this scenario without the girl deeply falling for me. Also it'll provide a good opportunity to work on leading a girl in bed as she probably only knows how sex is portrayed in porn and won't do shit untill he leads her because she's scared
/r/askTRP11/02/17 02:03 AM
2

Guess how much my first lay back when I was 13 giggled as she had my dick in her hand? They giggle because they're excited and nervous. Little girls, that's what women are no matter the age
/r/askTRP11/02/17 01:43 AM
1

I was and on bad days still am like this. Your saddling the horse from behind. Being this way isn't the reason behind not being popular, not being popular is the reason for getting moody. When you fuck up and compare yourself to others, you tend to victimize yourself. Why is he... and not me? Can drive you mad
/r/askTRP11/02/17 01:40 AM
5

Life shows the opposite is the case. Those low self-esteem bitches are the ones going for the primal guys. Why? Because they cope in this way. Never heard bitches competing "But my Chad has a giant dick" "Oh Stacey, my Chad got arrested again for beating up his grandma. He's such an amazing man"
/r/askTRP11/02/17 01:30 AM
1

I guess it's somewhere in between. Sure, high value men get laid because of being high value men, but even Dwayne Johnson would be a loser without decent game. Bill Gates would probably never get a ONS if he wasn't known, although he's one of the big winners. In the end being successful brings you only so far. PUA is something that just works with good looks. Know a bunch of guys that do RSD lines for the lulz. If you have a six-pack and a bright snow white smile it works.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 01:24 AM
1

Good question. But game is only touched by TRP. PUA discusses it to death. Sometimes this helps, just like with math back in school. Also PUA, especially RSD is ridiculously funny. I love how this ugly freak Owen Cook trys to screw his customers over with the hilarious shit he pulls with paid hookers and calls it "in field".
/r/askTRP10/02/17 11:33 PM
1

Bit obviously slaying pussy IS part of the deal. A good man has a mission, a high performing body, material resources, lots of skills AND he is having sex when HE wants. What OP may try to say is: Strip the pretending of PUA and extract game theory from it. Mix this with TRP principles for maximum profit (of your own wellbeing).
/r/askTRP10/02/17 09:08 PM
4

Reminds me of my current situation. I live at my mom's while looking for a new flat (long fucking story) and she asked about the girls going in and out. Told her straight in the face "None of them is worth being my GF, I just fuck them." The "Have fun but wrap it up" response from the woman who shoved BP shit down my throat when I was a kid really baffled me.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:45 PM
2

How about staying with your own ethnic if you're that insecure? There are cuties in every color. Why are indians so obsessed with white blonds? Why is everyone so obsessed with blonds?
/r/askTRP10/02/17 12:43 PM
2

But he has the right attitude. That he's not slaying is therefore not a behavioral problem
/r/askTRP10/02/17 12:35 PM
1

Germany: Caucasians
/r/askTRP10/02/17 12:09 PM
2

He's finally behaving like the players slaying pussy and you mock him, haha
/r/askTRP10/02/17 12:07 PM
2

"I'd enforce women showing at least 40% skin by law"
/r/askTRP09/02/17 05:13 PM
1

What's helping me with this is a little game I play in my head: You are a hunter out in the steps and you scan your environment for prey. It's a good way to get away from potraying a somewhat frightend looking around for danger
/r/askTRP09/02/17 04:52 PM
1

this! Please amifags, use real measurement units so everybody can discuss with you
/r/askTRP09/02/17 04:00 PM
1

Let's stop discussing this as your body probably isn't your problem. What about facial features? What are your eyes doing? You said you got your body language under control,what about your eyes?
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:58 PM
1

Looking down or suddenly away. Everything portraying you have your dick between your legs and roll on your back
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:51 PM
1

Sounds a little strange with that low weight. Maybe your muscles are more strength oriented? Ever tried volume training? But that shouldn't be your problem with women. Wa...ay better thsn your normal transgender skinny fat white knight nerd.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:49 PM
1

Way from fit, mate. I'd say build fat. Let's meet in the middle. I'm strong
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:39 PM
1

Broad jaw, broad shoulders, thick arms. I'd say yes. Way less than I could because of flab. Cutting therefore. EDIT: sharp haircut, beard. Though I'm almost ginger Isn't 180lbs (82kg) on 5'11" (181cm) somewhat normal/skinny? A buddy is about same weight and 2 cm shorter than you and his wrists are half of mine at best
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:30 PM
2

Dude, I'm fat (27%) and short (5'8") and I catch girls eye-fucking me. Just look confident or a bit intimidating. Shoulders back, head straight, eyes to the horizon. Take your space, walk with pride, women will notice
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:20 PM
2

Betaing provokes them even more. Nodding up like a silent "Wazzup?" actually works
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:02 PM
1

3 seconds or more
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:57 PM
1

Report him. If revenge is about your relationship to her it's beta. If it's about him betraying you, it's standing your ground. Huge difference. Report him and than cut contact
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:53 PM
1

No he's quite right with the second. Undereducated scum tends to punch you in the face if you hold eye contact for too long.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:50 PM
1

It lacks a bit of sexual tone, but it isn't such a "logistics only" meme. If they meet in the end, it worked
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:57 AM
1

You aren't in control about WHAT you feel, but which feelings you present to the outside. It really shouldn't matter how you feel, as a man you should always act rationally and in your own best interest. If you want to change how you feel in certain situations, you enter the field of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. The basics: Every situation activates a thought pattern that's the conclusion of past experiences. This pattern distinguishes how you feel. Meditation teaches you to recognize thoughts …
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:06 AM
1

50 in 30 months? Success rate is somewhere between 0.1 and 5% for average guys. Approach more, use tinder, be creative about it
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:35 PM
1

That's working in just a very few fields here. Normal case is you go into a trainee of your choice in a firm of your choice and get paid a few bucks to learn a skill that you will be bound to until you do another trainee or "reschooling".
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:17 PM
1

Bouncing in a club maybe is. Strip club not so. The people going there are old and disgusting creeps. I have to waste away a big part of my life anyways. Cubicle or industry halls, does it matter? Also daylight hours are no different than night hours. Except for maybe nobody has free time while the sun does shine. But do I get the subtext?: Find something to do that's not being a cog wheel and try to squeeze maximum money out of my time by investing as much as I can as soon as I can?
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:05 PM
2

Could become a bouncer in the strip club my sister bartends. But both of these jobs are paid shit and you have to work when other people go out and socialize
/r/askTRP08/02/17 07:53 PM
1

With body, maybe. With career, no way. At first I have to either go back to uni or have a trainee (3 years) before I earn enough to pay my debts I made while failing my first attempt at uni.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 07:39 PM
2

Yeah, probably. I have no fucking clue how to change it (in a timely manner). Body will cost me at least a year. Clothes, after body is soon enough. Better hide the fat deposits. Face 6/10 currently 8/10 probaly when lean (rated on asktrp last summer/fall). Money...fucked it up. Have to start fresh, so in 2-5 years okayish. Social circle isn't big (some uni students) and the one I'm getting rid off was BP hell. Never won anything.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 07:27 PM
2

Don't just say things were that simple every time, haha. It's definitely different from region to region. In Germany you have to chat a day or three or to phone for an eve before a girl will consider to meet with you. Maybe 1% goes on a date directly after approach/tinder match/whatever
/r/askTRP08/02/17 07:15 PM
1

Thanks. Tried exactly this the last time. As she wanted to go to sleep, she hugged me in the door for very long. Tried to escalate what made her pissed
/r/askTRP08/02/17 05:44 PM
2

Okay oO So plating isn't worth it, huh? For just a handful of weeks it isn't worth the time I have to put in
/r/askTRP08/02/17 05:42 PM
-1

Programming can be a really hard field. You typically have to work your ass off, over hours and lot of stress. Isn't really worth it, even if you're good at it. Needs some luck to lsnd s job in a good company that has at least one guy in a management position who came from a technical background. If the company is governed by sales dumb asses alone, it's a matter of time when we coding monkeys burn out.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:09 PM
1

Well shit. But hey, 3 months of fun without any attachments. At least I experienced it's working
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:37 AM
-1

Any link? Should I go like: "Hey, I wanna show you that it's not just about the sex. Let's watch a movie and grab a beer together?"
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:00 AM
1

Good advice, hard to follow. Already tried to do some "dating activity" with her. She prefers meeting at her's. Very introvert. If it just wouldn't turn me on.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 10:58 AM
1

If you tell a bitch you're training hard and have higher bf% just carry her around. I don't have a huge problem with chubby girls and it's pretty awesome how their eyes light up when you lift her 90kg off the ground and carry her to bed. I also know guys of the kind you describe. What's a bit frustrating is that they sometimes get pussy although they lack game just because bitches throw themselves at them. One day I'll have the body I don't feel ashamed for anymore and can pull all the things th…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 09:25 AM
1

Sounds a lot like you're unrolling it and than try to pull it over like a sleeve? Wrong way to do it. pull akin back, open package, lay the still rolled up condom on your glans with the reservoir pointing upwards, squeeze rhe air out of the reservoir and roll the condom down your shaft. Done. If your unsure just grab the lower band after unrolling and adjust/pull it a bit towards your penis root. Be sure to use good ones. Maybe the ones you currently have feel shitty, are too thick, too large, t…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 02:49 AM
1

I had to laugh. I'm 27 and only date 25+...well I try to. Younger women are just a pain in the ass. They tend to want these super aggressive overly loud shitheads. That's not me. I prefer women who already experienced being used by insecure big mouth wannabes and go for guys that are able to stand against their drama without beating them to the hospital
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:21 AM
2

That's an argument I guess. Left swipe rules somehow sound odd. If a girl is hot I swipe right. Tattoos and ugly piercings are only a reason to swipe left because these girls never work for me. I'm only attracting the shy ones who get clingy after getting railed
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:57 AM
1

1.75m (5'9" for amifags)
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:38 PM
1

In Germany it seems to not work as well. At least with my plates/ONSs. It's like women see "He's trying to be a player. Thirsty little chump...."
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:36 PM
1

I'm interested in an actual answer. It's basically what I believe I/you have to become
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:29 PM
2

I can perfectly chime in on this thought chain as I still have to forcefully push it away. It's like this "She has a beautiful face, I have a weathered gorilla face. She has perfect skin, I have scars and shit. She is lean and energetic, I'm chubby, plump and lethargic. She has great hair, I have blond-red straw on my head. She has stylish clothes, I look like a bum (if I wore better clothes, I'd look like a torn sausage). and so on and so forth
/r/askTRP07/02/17 07:45 PM
4

You should be glad you're able to go balls deep into hot chicks a head shorter than you. Also anal with all the stretching inbefore really sucks.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:17 PM
-2

How about not having shirtless pics? Mostly all girls I banged off of tinder are disgusted by guys with shirtless pics that aren't able to have simple conversations. I know you think shirtless pics will get you sloots, but I had f close first dates that show even a bathroom selfie may be enough
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:11 PM
5

It went just how life is sometimes. Your wife saw a better man in him and fucked him. I see justification for reporting him. In stone age you would've just bashed in his head. Now we have law protecting the weak. So bash his career. People will say cheating needs two, but as we know, women are weak. There's nothing weak in destroying his life. If he was a stranger, I'd say you overreact. But he was friend. Bros before hoes. Destroy this shithead
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:04 PM
1

Me: "Something something about her pictures/profile" Her: "Thanks :) How r u?" Me: "Awesome as always. Do you [from profile: drink/vidya/something]?" Her: "I love it :)" Me: "Saturday, [activity from above] at your's" A------------ Her: "I live there and there. See ya then :)" B--------- Her: "Already planned :/" Me: "#?" get number, ignore, get spammed, schedule new meeting
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:27 PM
2

Don't know. I always wait, but also try another chick. Just don't be the one who writes the next message
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:16 PM
2

"Bring some oil, I wanna work on my massaging skills ;)"
/r/askTRP07/02/17 03:48 PM
1

That's good for you. A single flat in a normal German city is about 150k. Possible with two incomes. With one that'd be a hard shit for at least the first one or two flats. If you stack some loans with about 10 year paying periods you maybe ger this to work out.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 03:22 PM
1

Failed it myself. But there was something about rental property. Maybe it's just Germany, but estste is expensive as fuck
/r/askTRP07/02/17 02:56 PM
2

How to make a quarter million cash working part time?
/r/askTRP07/02/17 02:28 PM
2

You are the king of your life. Act accordingly Never give in to your thoughts, they're just thoughts Always work on every aspect of your life. No zero days. The least you can do is eating good and lift. People don't care for you but only the image you paint of yourself. Women are no prize. Pussy is abundant. See them as pets or hot fuckable teens
/r/askTRP07/02/17 01:47 PM
1

Not a big surprise. Dumb guys are confident from the start. Everyone else has to work for it. What I'm ashamed of is, I often hear from women (acquaintances and plates) that I'd have a sexy voice "making their neck hairs stand" when I'm talking slowly and at ease. I just don't have the balls to turn the volume up.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 12:57 PM
1

OP isn't that wrong. A good friend of mine is 6'4" and he doesn't need game nor looks. He's your average skinny fat nerd and pulls tail every other night. But he has a huge problem closing because his lack of game
/r/askTRP07/02/17 12:29 PM
1

I knew that there'll be a 'be a clown' comment...
/r/askTRP07/02/17 12:12 PM
1

mimics being boisterous, confident and engaging. You spelt annoying, attention seeking and deaf wrong. Jokes aside, I'm too fucking quiet myself, but overbearing loud guys annoy the shit out of me.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 12:08 PM
1

That's what I currently eat: 220g Protein 70g Carbs (only leafy vegetables) 90g Fat Adding up to 1970 kcal. 5-6x lifting a week, 4 sessions HIIT minimum. 2.5km walk every morning.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:34 AM
1

Girls dont wanna talk to me and i stay at home all day because no one wants to chill with me. You are saddling the horse from behind. Nobody wants to hang out with you, because you don't do shit. To be interesting you have to provide value. It can be money (worst and totally boring and BB) or cool anecdotes from the stuff you do in your life (works best, just be like every other guy and brag with your uber awesome hobbies). Believe me, I'm 11 years older than you and still sit in the same boat t…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:22 PM
5

You love like a man and not like a woman. You love the person she (currently) is and not what she currently has. As other answers show, the number of men needing a "status pushing girl" is alarmingly rising.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 06:08 PM
1

So, which amount of macros is essential? I guess the often stated 0.8g/kg (LBM) protein? what're the values for carbs and fat? 15000 kcal potatoing around sounds nice, but it costs a huge amount of muscle, I guess
/r/askTRP06/02/17 01:34 PM
1

Just stepping down to 400kcal/100g protein wouldn't work, would it? Would make creating a large deficit extremly easy
/r/askTRP06/02/17 12:21 PM
1

So basically as long as the engine is running high (heart) it doesn't really matter which movements I perform?
/r/askTRP06/02/17 11:26 AM
1

Ah, okay. So I'm in-between. I see it just as work at the moment. Some challenges arise out of setbacks. But a challenge per se is just work you have to put into.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 11:25 AM
1

Is there any good way (sites and apps don't work) to determine the calories burned by lifting? If I have to do cardio, I'd go for high rep volume training and HIIT, because I absolutely hate running. Would be so nice if that'd be possible
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:47 AM
1

Fuck the experience. Reaching a goal is always worth more than some esoterik experience
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 08:45 AM
1

I'm weighting every thing I put in my mouth since I started my self improvement journey. Had most things checked, thyroid included. I suppose it's just because my fat is "old".
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:17 PM
2

He is just insecure because you chose the hard way of improvement and you will, if you also work on your game and your emtire life, pull better bitches than his fat ass.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:13 PM
1

Slightly active troughout the day. 5-6x lifting a week, 4 sessions HIIT minimum. 2.5km walk every morning. Bloodwork normal (get done regularly because of TRT). Drinking only on 1 or 2 weekends per month. Often less.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 07:59 PM
1

That's what I currently eat: 220g Protein 70g Carbs (only leafy vegetables) 90g Fat Adding up to 1970 kcal. Not losing as much weight as the numbers may indicate.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 07:47 PM
1

1,75m. I'm a heavy fucker, I know. But to give you a reference point, my waist (pants) is "only" 36 inches. I know a shitload of dudes way lighter with bigger waist circumference.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 04:19 PM
1

Yeah, I get stalked by some of my former plates because I suck in bed. Biggest obstacle while plating is girls losing sexual interest if you don't invest commitment. They seem to smell you have other girls and therefore will slowly reduce the sex you get. There are girls who get frustrated if you aren't exclusive with them
/r/askTRP05/02/17 02:57 PM
12

This just killed my libido totally when I tried 60 days. The need for sex builds up and anxiety and stress also. Biggest problem is anxiety staying in place or even increasing after your sex drive crashed to absolute zero.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 03:28 AM
1

Maybe you're dating the 20% of women who aren't dumb bimbos? I experienced similar stuff. Plating only works with brain dead chicks
/r/askTRP04/02/17 06:32 PM
1

A kink is a kink. I like pretty feet and scratches on my back
/r/askTRP04/02/17 06:29 PM
1

The guy in front of the TV
/r/askTRP04/02/17 06:14 PM
2

Social life ends with school. After that you've to bust your ass to have a social life
/r/askTRP04/02/17 06:10 PM
0

Just be tall, fit and don't have a funny/annoying accent. That's it, you'll swim in pussy
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:28 PM
1

What I tried to say is: Even though I fear never reaching my potential and I lose my motivation, I still try. Others, that may have started from a better place, can do it, so can I. May take my whole life, but do I have anything else to do? No
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:26 PM
1

Nah dude, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Don't like my jewels tortured
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:20 PM
1

I can't provide any help nor advice, as I'm struggling the same shit at the moment. From age 13 to now I considered offing myself about a dozen times. I just can't do it. not out of fear, but because the pain of my life isn't as big as the pain in giving up
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:11 PM
1

My buddy told me to open with (forgot wording) a comment about their sis'ky. Will read your post. Hope it's different than the other's, cause I couldn't implement them.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:03 PM
1

If everything came down to low T, as lots of dudes on TRP state, I would just start to pin again and be a real man. Does bot work, already tried
/r/askTRP04/02/17 04:55 PM
-1

Smash their faces. Nobody cares for the scum of society
/r/askTRP04/02/17 04:34 PM
2

Neither. I have a hard time with women as I can't beat my approach anxiety. Sometimes I have up to 3 plates from Tinder, other times I have 3 or more months long dry spells. I'm lifting 14 months now. Gained a load of muscles and lost an okayish amount of bodyfat but it doesn't count for shit. Only the final product is in bitches' interest. And this product seems to have to be 10% BF, huge pecs and giant biceps.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 04:02 PM
1

I'm loving RPGs. Biggest difference is they tend to suck untill you're geared and maxed. I know my body isn't made of glass. I'm not into martial arts but into lifting, although it's really annoying me sometimes, I'm still progressing almost linear. I'm always trying to go as hard as possible and I'm not satisfied if my shirt isn't soaked in sweat and I'm not getting dizzy during a session. But I ain't feeling confident. I'm not having all things ticked on my checklist and therefore I'm not good…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 03:58 PM
1

It'd a least give them a chance to brag about how expensive their shit was
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 04:47 PM
1

I never got any compliments on my body or looks (everything looks shitty on a shitty body) except for my broad frame (genetic gift and nothing earned). So see yourself as lucky bastard.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 03:57 PM
2

Worst thing you can do is waiting with girls. If you aren't a model or sports jock, you have to chase them. Getting older you will loose a lot of physical attractiveness although you should gather material/intellectual value over time. Believe me, hot girls have no intention in intellect and some spare cash is enough material wealth for most. Get them hot bitches as long as you're hot yourself.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 03:47 PM
2

If you need sex like any halfway healthy guy does and your SMV is low like mine, the only option you have is low SMV women. It's just the way it is. You're right about plain Janes only dating model lookalikes. It's because most men (read BPs) are selling them self short. It's easy for a lot of guys leaving their adolescence as reasonably fit dudes to just hop on the roid wagon and live a player life paid by daddy. Chicks don't care where your SMV comes from. You have or you won't. That's life,my…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 03:36 PM
14

This is a perfect guide how to creep out 99% of people. Most of the things you listed will make you look weird and like idiot or a psycho. Talking to random strangers? Most people will leave immediately. Maybe older folks won't. Complimenting people on stuff? Had this task for some weeks during CBT. You'll earn weird looks a lot. Smiling at or high fiving strangers? More so than compliments. Most people seem to be intimidated by stuff like that, especially when you have powerful posture. Smile a…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 10:13 AM
1

I don't know why I'm so disgusted by my own jizz.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:10 AM
1

I don't know why I'm so disgusted by my own jizz.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:10 AM
1

I won't tuch that pussy when I just jizzed into it. So I make her clean up.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:52 AM
1

That's what I would normally do. But some bitches hate to pause and let me recover. Maybe it's because I wont do anything to a cum stained pussy and make her clean up... as if this was a problem. Literally every chick I had needed to piss after a single session
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:36 AM
0

Okay. I had multiple occasions with women who nagged when I came after 10 minutes and couldn't bang them in a ton of different positions without getting off. Or is 'I hate when your jizz is running out of my vag. You cum, I clean up and this kills my mood' just a shit test or utter bullshit? Also already had shit theown at me like: 'It's not normal you're already hard before I start to suck it' and 'Wow, you get even more wet than me. Aren't getting much sex, ain't ya?' and my favorite 'Could yo…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:24 AM
1

How do I convince myself challenges are good? I'm in no way competitive or driven. Is there a way to change this? Trying to think myself into it just doesn't work
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 11:04 PM
2

A survival trip would be amazing. Hard to do in fully domesticated Germany. Camping in the woods, making a fire, hunting all of this are crimes
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 12:01 PM
2

Nice motivational post that resonates with me. Do you have tips for the guys (like me) that never felt passion for life? Guys that were already screwed and fucked up since childhood? I'm already lifting for quite some time and though I know I'll eventually reach the me I should have been once and should be for the sake of being a man, never really feeling masculine, attractive or energized before makes it just a thought bubble I cannot connect with. I'm not intending to whine, but it's hard to i…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 10:24 AM
0

Not really. Lifring causes mental stress because you have to force yourself to go over your limits. Team sports even more so. You have to plan for badly scheduled sessions, you have to deal with others and their bullshit, etc. All sports require to stay focused to not fuck up and injure/kill yourself. That's a shit load of mental stress.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 10:01 AM
1

TV or Video Games are to relieve stress and relax. You are doing the same with Gym/Hockey/Bouldering etc. Why does everybody say sports are to relieve stress? Actually they build stress because you're actively working and using up what's left of your disciplin. Relieving stress requires to rest from work, eg. watching TV, playing games or just chilling on the couch listening to music.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 09:34 AM
1

I get what you mean. I'm way better in pulling via tinder than irl. I also don't want to say stuff. I talk as much as necessary but as least as possible. I could say 90% if she meets my, I'm going to fuck her
/r/askTRP02/02/17 12:08 AM
3

The majority may be tall and intelligent, but they're also very scrawny, shy and beta bux to a degree it hurts. The emotionlessness is a disadvantage, really, as chicks fall for clowns.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 10:07 PM
1

In a closed location like train, bus, gym, shop, bar, etc
/r/askTRP01/02/17 09:25 PM
1

Happiness is a state of mind I only need if I want to approach. Else I'm used to feeling neutral/nothing it's the way I'm at default
/r/askTRP01/02/17 09:11 PM
1

They're handsome but not really masculine. But it's the appearance that gets most of them laid. I also believe that's why our women don't really react to game. Either you're handsome and get pussy or you're fucked
/r/askTRP01/02/17 09:00 PM
1

Because gaming women irl is much harder than gaming them on tinder. On tinder you are able to attract them with one single optimized picture. Irl you need to be a giant with 0% bodyfat, a hand full of sports cars and a 5 meter long dick to even say 'Hi' without making a 4/10 puke. (Exaggeration intended)
/r/askTRP01/02/17 08:48 PM
1

I can't point my finger at it, but the author's writing style makes my toe nails roll up.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 08:36 PM
2

It's an argument. But wouldn't you say too, that if he may have an aversion against things from the beginning that trying would be pointless?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 08:25 PM
0

Sex out of genuine attraction is the most potent antidepressant for men. If it doesn't help, ask yourself is she really that hot?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 08:12 PM
1

I come from Germany. Literally every guy that isn't a proll is a handsome hobo hipster twig or fat and trashy
/r/askTRP01/02/17 08:00 PM
1

Everywhere. College town ftw.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 07:44 PM
4

Thing is abundance is for a lot of guys just a concept that's not or just partly real. I also didn't say you should never go for logistics. Shit chat a few lines, see if you can bring stuff orbiters just get ignored for and than go for logistics. The quality of my tinder dates ain't high, as my own isn't as well. But a 6/7 f close rate is a 6/7 f close rate
/r/askTRP01/02/17 06:01 PM
0

Because I'm in therapy and it doesn't help shit? Not everybody is blessed with being content/happy on default. A depression is like diabetes. You can handle it, but it'll always be there
/r/askTRP01/02/17 05:38 PM
8

As soon as you start scheduling a date before comforting her a bit you instantly get the "PUA wannabe loser" stamp and she'll never reply. Going for a date instantly is perceived thirsty and insecure because you have to play man.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 05:23 PM
1

Why should he do shit he probsbly doesn't like? If he'd like to do something, he would already be doing it. Does nobody notice that most of the self improvement promoted here actually is changing from being you to being what women want you to be?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 05:08 PM
21

Bang her anyways. Blood ain't acid and it'll even cure a bad mood and cramps
/r/askTRP01/02/17 04:20 PM
1

That's exactly what a therapist would say. But it's almost impossible to deprogram the damage done to you in your formative years.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 03:50 PM
1

Professional help is bullshit. Either you get meds that make you even more depressed or you have endless sessions of talking leading you nowhere. To wrap a year and a half of therapy in one sentence: Just think positive.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 03:40 PM
2

Ok, so this was your disclaimer. How to do it? What to search for if there is something to find on the net? Living without drive is a pain in the ass, because I know that I could reach greatness, if I could just get up and do it.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 03:13 PM
1

Finding your purpose in life is really important. Sometimes your purpose is to find a purpose. But please don't recommend esoteric bullshit like "The Way Of The Superior Man". It's one of the few books on the TRP book list that's incredibly hard to read through because of all the energy and lifesense circlejerk. But if you can write up a summary of facts from that book and cut out the bullshit, I'd highly appreciate that
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 03:01 PM
1

So how to get Serotonin sensitive? I can do nothing for days (and I mean nothing as in lying in bed and only get up to eat or shit) and I'm still not motivated. Could this have something to do with a delayed damage from SSRIs?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 02:51 PM
1

Enlighten me on that. I'm interested in what you have to say, but I don't get it completely
/r/askTRP01/02/17 02:34 PM
1

It's basically what I am calling love. Loving myself is hard. Can't really explain it. It just doesn't work. If I do things I have to do, I just feel like I did the bare minimum.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 02:11 PM
1

Because German women, at least the ones I'm attracted to, fall for them because 'Muslims are so manly'. I don't want a bitch that behaves like a man and is an yndypyndynt woeman.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 02:01 PM
2

I'd call it love, yes, but not in the Disney bogus kind of way. I want a woman that's genuinely attracted to me. A woman that craves my attention and 'pays' for it with fulfilling her innate role (emptying my balls, cooking, cleaning and annoying me with her childlike problems) Love as it is negatively portrayed here, didn't even work out in the relationship with my mother during my childhood. There's one thing women love, themselves.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 01:51 PM
1

May be my age group or the shit load of Turkish, Syrian and other immigrants, but I've got to believe most guys are just too dumb to be scared. When I compare myself to lots of guys it's pretty obvious: though I'm fat, I'm strong (able to wall-fuck a 80kg girl), I'm educated, I'm not blindly following, I'm blond and blue-eyed with a great beard and a big masculine jaw, I have a dark kind of humor and my harsh sarcasm makes even the meanest motherfuckers and bitches laugh, my handwork and licking…
/r/askTRP01/02/17 01:15 PM
1

Holy shit brother, I've gotta stalk you down and learn how you can be confident in yourself. There are points on your list where I'd say I'm clearly above average, but I still see myself as worth nothing.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 12:43 PM
1

If OP is a candidate for resting stoneface, he probably is doing some or all of the things you mentioned and they aren't making him happy, but just making him not sad, so he's at neutral at best. I know that problem. Happiness is one of the hardest states of mind to achieve. Whst works for me is having eye contact with college aged chicks. If you don't smile at them and just stare like a predator warches his prey, they get nervous and start to laugh. I can't do anything else than laughing back. …
/r/askTRP01/02/17 12:33 PM
0

Fuck that. Some people just don't spark with lifting. If you see lifting as a choir, it's getting harder and much more disciplin draining the heavier you lift.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 12:23 AM
1

You gotta be joking. That's like fighting a gorilla on crack with my arms both broken
/r/askTRP31/01/17 10:48 PM
1

Women are. Women that like me aren't
/r/askTRP31/01/17 10:35 PM
1

Why should I shove my life down somebody's throat? That's exactly what I'm talking about
/r/askTRP31/01/17 10:18 PM
1

Abundance is a concept that in my eyes does fit just a tiny bit of things. Everything that's worth anything is scarce
/r/askTRP31/01/17 10:16 PM
1

It is. Being fat is being a failure
/r/askTRP31/01/17 09:58 PM
1

Misbehaving in relatiom to what is actually happening. A fst guy that behaves like a boss? That's misbehaving
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:39 PM
1

Confidemce has to come from something. I suppose from besting what you're hating the most about oneself
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:35 PM
1

I like the way you wield my metaphors. None the less, you know what I mean
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:32 PM
1

There just isn't any backing to be confident
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:28 PM
1

New problems identified: I'm not funny and I rarely talk sbout le or what I do. I don't feel a need to present me like a horse on a market
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:28 PM
1

I can't fake it. That's the point. Not because others could uncover the fake, but because I totally misbehave. This brings up such a strange dissonance in my head, that I totally block and end up doing nothing
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:07 PM
1

I wouldn't try to buy a Ferrari with an old shady knob
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:05 PM
1

Don't take this personally, but that's far from the truth for 99% of the population and hearing somebody pouting something like that makes my very essence cringe
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:48 PM
1

That's how I lost 5kg in 3 months before my last bulk because everybody told me deficit should be 500 under BMR at max
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:46 PM
1

That's not quite me to be honest. I need to assume some basic attraction to make my 'magic' work. It's time and thought consuming to the point I cut off 2 plates in december (no beauties, but hole is hole, especially for free) and went back to maintaining only one.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:43 PM
1

Now I only have to find a way to achieve that. What I currently do (lifting, dressing better, upping my grooming/hygiene, socializing, building a career) brought the exact opposite. My confidence is shattered, my life becomes dull and I slowly dropped from bedding 5s to bedding 3s
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:37 PM
1

The purpose in life is the purpose I give to myself. Currently it's get a HB7+ in my bed and/or bind one to me.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:27 PM
1

True that. But just speaking from dudes I know: Fit guys get flocked, normal guys just have to ask and fat guys have to fight windmills
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:26 PM
1

In most cases. I often tried to stay present, joke around or bring a 'so tonight you're breaking your own rules, eh?' But it's really draining when somebody leaner comes up with 'wanna bang' or 'I like your titties' and steals the girl. Women before the wall just go for who they BELIEVE destroy their pink hole best. Obviously the fitter guy. The same skanks that whine that 'all the guys' suck in bed
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:24 PM
1

I'm at 28% right now. The most frequent sentence I get from attractive women is 'You're so cool, but I don't fall for chubby dudes'
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:13 PM
1

I don't say plants are bad. But without protein from animal sources, as well as fats that aren't to be found in plants, the human brain wouldn't have been able to develop the way it did. Instead of eating a ton of plants it's way better to eat an egg or a steak. Moderation is key. To get all the nutrients your body needs, you'd have to stuff yourself with plant food. Being stuffed feels shit.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:10 PM
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There are none? Cause the ugliest lean motherfucker can steal a bitch from a charming fat dude with a simple 'wanna bang?' because 'O my gosh he godda six-pack and I see his ribs' -.-
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:02 PM
1

I was with you to the point til 'meat isn't good for you'. Why do vegans feel energized? Their bodies crave some real food and are ready to hunt anytging edible
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:59 PM
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Dude is right. Biologically the only thing a man needs is to impregnate women. Why spend time on bogus, if you can't forfill your biological purpose?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:56 PM
1

I'm presumably immune to coffeine by now. Ephedrine is illegal to possess without a medical receipt
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:52 PM
1

You kidding? In Germany 500g brown rice costs about 2€. Most veggies are at 5€/kg year round.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:51 PM
1

Feeling hungry isn't a big issue. It's just temporary. Much worse is energy levels going down to zero.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:37 PM
1

I'm not shitting money. If I could eat mostly organic, I could bang hot hookers haha
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:36 PM
1

Fat dude charisma? wtf you talking about? Fat dudes get ignored by everybody except fatter than fat chicks.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:35 PM
1

I could try. I only know dudes who do sports to show off how fit they are to other dudes. But maybe I'm lucky and can get fit doing sports without being stimped down by those douches
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:34 PM
1

You don't say. I'm shorter than that. But at least I'm not your typical construction worker fat belly is sweating in the sun kind of fat. To get down to 80kg I'd have to say goodbye to food for the rest of my life
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:32 PM
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Well, it's drastically destroying my chances with women and yep, I'm lethargic. But no pain or stuff like that. Being reasonably lean is todays standard at least in Germany. Only 1 in 30 guys 18-30 is overweight and not incel
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:30 PM
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Thanks for cuddling my ass. Jokes aside. Benching started at 60kg for 3x5
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:19 PM
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Cut for the rest of your life... Aromatization is not a problem though. On TRT, so regulst bloodwork -> T is mid range, E2 is on the low border
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:17 PM
2

I was boxing for 7 months and it wasn't fun really. For real martial arts I'm not fit enough. My endurance is crap.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:15 PM
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So I'm probably fucked. I don't plan ahead that far for lifting, as I don't know IF I reach my goal. I'm 27 and fat for 27 years. My only connection to being lean is hope that it'll make my life a little better
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:13 PM
1

I know. But it's the maximum I csn reach with medical assistance
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:11 PM
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If I'd like doing sports I wouldn't have asked such a thing, would I? Looking good is an abstract concept for me. The only connection I have to this specific goal is dwindling hope.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:10 PM
1

Exact opposite. I love bulking as I love feeling pumped and hard. Cutting would be done best in coma
/r/askTRP31/01/17 01:58 PM
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ZERO cheat meals as I dislike cheating myself
/r/askTRP31/01/17 01:54 PM
1

IF is basically what I do since my childhood. Macros are tracked to the gram, so tiny variance. On cut I rather stay under what I should eat. Hard alc every 3 to 4 weeks when out with the boys. Else I couldn't stand nightlife
/r/askTRP31/01/17 01:53 PM
1

I lift 5 times a week, bro split with compounds to total exhaustion. I ate at 3600kcal 270g P, 400g C and 80g F while bulking and at 2600kcal 270/200/80 while trying to cut (atm). Cut at start took me to go down to 800 kcal intake a day to even lose weight
/r/askTRP31/01/17 01:47 PM
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I came from fat as in slight gut and big legs and am now at slight gut and big legs. I lost half my love handles while I more than doubled my lifts. To be exact, I cut down from 155kg to 105kg and bulked up to 120kg, now unable to lose fat. difference is 2 inches lost in waist and slightly gained chest, arms and unfortunately ass -> changes in physique, yes - better than before? ha, no
/r/askTRP31/01/17 01:43 PM
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My physique was 'too much overall' and it still is 'too much overall'. Sure, I lost 30kg, but cutting is more a pain in the ass than anything else. I lose energy, mood and stuff way faster than weight
/r/askTRP31/01/17 01:19 PM
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Gym buddy is out of the question for me. It's partly because I dislike the most guy's attitude there and because I go lift as it fits (days are set, but not the exact time) and I don't want to arrange to another one's schedule
/r/askTRP31/01/17 01:16 PM
1

Essentially lifting is: Putting weight on the bar, doing a set, putting more weight on the bar, go all in on each and every exercise. Go home and ask yourself why you're even doing it
/r/askTRP31/01/17 12:59 PM
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I loled too hard. Shoulder Press/BP/Pendlay Rows/Sq/DL 5x5 65kg/120kg/135kg/180kg/220kg If this us fucking around I'm at least fucking around with progress
/r/askTRP31/01/17 12:55 PM
1

It's not about making them unconscious. Just to get them off their high horses
/r/askTRP31/01/17 12:44 PM
2

A sweet LTR does save you a lot of trouble and stupid shit chat
/r/askTRP31/01/17 12:23 PM
1

If it wasn't almost impossible to meet (interested) girls anywhere outside the internet, the advice would be great. Got my last LTR (8 years) online. Wasn't that bad, I guess
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:43 AM
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Or burn out trying to become what some bitches want men to be. Best thing to get women, if it wasn't illegal, would be to drug them. Women highly overestimate their value in the same way those 'alpha males' do
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:27 AM
1

Becoming better is an inherently good thing, but it isn't what is getting you laid. TRP shows it in almost every single thread. You have to become a validstion seeking clown to get women. Becoming better and getting laid gor it would mean you have to be LESS an idiot dumbfuck clown fool, not more.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:11 AM
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Except for the inner motivation/thinking part, it wouldn't make a huge differenece in how others perceived me
/r/askTRP31/01/17 09:43 AM
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Such a jump would attract women, wouldn't it? It shows an overestimstion of one's skills and a total denial of reality. Something that's highly common in sexually successful males
/r/askTRP31/01/17 09:41 AM
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The problem isn't that I'd actually care about others. It's that I constantly set everything I could do in relation to who I currently am and to how they could or couldn't help me reach my goals (in this special case picking up women). Would be a lot easier (for me) without thinking at all
/r/askTRP31/01/17 09:39 AM
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Not the slightest. I'm baffled myself
/r/askTRP31/01/17 09:33 AM
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I wont take this as sarcasm and just say thanks. At least I wasn't masTRPbating for almost half a year
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:33 AM
1

I'm on TRT for about a year now. Peak level is around 7 ng/ml, lowest at 3 ng/ml although I feel a difference in my mood, the impact of this difference is like between a hot or a lukewarm coffee.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:15 AM
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Raised by single mother is quite on point. I know I'm not doing anything wrong, as the girl I was with this night told me 'Had a fuy over here to weeks ago. He couldn't even make a move and probably jizzed his pants, as I kissed him.' But it feels damn wrong. Guess it just needs more of these encounters.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 07:04 AM
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5% 4/10 chubby, caucasian, 5'9" 50% 5s, 30% 6s, 15% 7s, 5% 8s, mostly normal/pseudo nerdy girls a fucking selfie college town
/r/askTRP21/08/16 06:00 AM
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It's not that I'm scared by a particular reaction that may or may not occurre. I'm scared by the situation as is. It seems to be a mix of classical AA, fear of success and the thought 'if this is working out and I successfully escalate, it's embarrassing for her to be seen making out with me.' Hope you get what I mean
/r/askTRP15/08/16 12:59 PM
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There are guys that even in a good mood face literally a wall of approach anxiety no matter what. I'm one of these and OP might be, too. Any ideas fir 'hard case noobs' ?
/r/askTRP15/08/16 10:24 AM
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That's an 8 at best. No tits, no hips, but she's lean. Solid 8.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 09:46 AM
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And that takes time and work, like OP said, no quick-fix
/r/askTRP15/08/16 09:34 AM
1

You're right, getting pussy is hard work. But nothing good comes easy. It's definitely worth it.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 09:18 AM
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It's not about instant gratification but about not doing things I don't want/need to do. There are enough things of that kind without filling my free time with them.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 10:32 AM
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If I had to gather experiences before starting to game women, I'd have to travel and take a shitload of hobbies for at leat a year if not more.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 01:21 AM
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Sigh. That's the plan, but what topics to talk about? It's probably creepy if I talk about makeup or cooking.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 05:14 PM
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Thanks for the reminder. I lack topics.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 04:56 PM
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I read TRP for a year now. Learned a lot about frame, inner game, self improvement, how to treat women, but when it comes to what, ir gets very thin, compared to how and why.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 04:54 PM
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Yea, ok, that's obvious. But what to talk about? With the boys I talk about science, politics, finance and women to name a few. I don't think that's a good idea during an approach
/r/askTRP11/08/16 02:29 PM
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Looks a lot like we are in the same boat. I got a completely new social circle consisting of students and stuff from having done a stationary therapy. Met a guy with fear of repelling people there and I'm slowly growing into his social circle now. Even if it's the most beta thing to do, my purpose at the moment is getting pussy, not as 'get this one girl' but making myself into a man that has options and can pull an attractive woman if he wants to. And of course, my purpose also consists of my c…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 08:36 PM
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There isn't much I can tell you, as I radomly relapse into the abyss of my mind from time to time. But what I can tell you is, that medication only is a crutch and it only is to prevent you from falling into the 'I can't, won't and don't even want to' rut. One thing I discovered on my journey out of a major depression that lastet for years is that you have to do things in your life that you are totally convinced they'll improve you and your circumstances. It's still hard to keep this tasks going…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 08:10 PM
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Sounds interesting. I don't know if I have something like that inside of me or if it's just burried somewhere. From time to time I have impulses that fit this category, but I think such behaviour is highly inappropriate. I wouldn't like a guy like me acting this way towards me.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 04:44 PM
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Thanks for the compliment. Well, I have to look where the people in my city are interacting with each other. Germany is mostly soulless elders on the way to work/home. Haha
/r/askTRP10/08/16 04:17 PM
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Be amused about what? Shouldn't my mind be in the moment? Than there's no capacity to 'play a movie in my head'.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:42 PM
1

Thanks. I keep on it, but I'm just a man and I'm craving legit pussy after 7 months now.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 01:47 PM
1

Body language in short: don't appear nervous? Facial expression: When not smiling I have stone face/bitch face. What to do instead? How to get rid of baggy eyes? I have a genetic preposition and I know that it's unsexy, but never managed to make them less visible.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 01:45 PM
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I started at 155kg with 40+℅ bf by 1.75m height and I'm now at 101kg 19℅ bf. Takes some time if you've been a whale all your life and have to get fit all by yourself. Everybody who got fat after being 'normal' as a child should be happy that they just have to get back in shape.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:24 PM
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Lifting, reading, cooking, coding. That's it for the moment. Have a hard time finding stuff interesting, especially when it comes to physical activities. I'm still too out of shape to feel good sporting and I dislike most sporty guys attitude 'You can't throw a ball? LOSER!' really annoying.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:11 PM
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That's what I'm doing for almost a year. That's not making me fun. Any more direct advice?
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:02 PM
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Only with the ones I got to know via online dating (3), ONSs with post wall women who opened me (2), or friends of my LTRs as they were on prospect/plate level (2).
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:40 PM
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There normally isn't any interaction as I look for slight IOIs before approaching. If this happens, not often but it happens, I walk up to her, say 'Hi' and use a situational question or a low pressure compliment to open. That's when they turn or walk away, brush me off or plainly state their disinterest.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:34 PM
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And I'm again falling at the start. Have your list in check, except for my body.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:35 PM
1

There are things I enjoy. Being done for the day, having a funny evenings with the boys, trying new food/drinks, making other people think, making progress in the gym. The things you listed just aren't special to me or I never experienced them.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:33 PM
1

That's a guide I can follow...sime months from now.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:29 PM
1

That's the hard thing.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:00 PM
1

Never brought home a beautiful girl. At best tolerable, at worst nightmare worthy. When a check hits my bank account I feel nothing. I oay all the bullshit like rent and stuff and the money is almost gone. I don't compete in any field. I hate competition. Sports are a (sometimes pleasurable) waste of time and energy. I don't want to make this more uncomfortable than it has to be.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 03:58 PM
1

Care to tell a loser how to? Like your explanation for my 'What the?!' reaction to reading about game.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 03:52 PM
1

Now I get what you mean. 'Just be different so you are more exciting'
/r/askTRP09/08/16 03:49 PM
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It's just not fun. I couldn't care less about what other people think. I never did and I hope I never will.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 03:29 PM
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Short and simple: I am engaged interacting with people, but I'm not enjoying myself. Ex: In the club I dance. Is it fun? No. Is standing around fun? No. So why not dance. You could say my emotional state always is 'neutral' with a stone face.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 03:27 PM
1

That makes sense. I give a crap about feelings, but it definitely makes sense. I can make girls giggle and smile. But I'm not behaving the way game is portrayed. Hell, I don't even know exactly how I behave. It just happens. I need to learn game because it's so hard to get a fresh prospect's attention.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 03:14 PM
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I wasn't clear I guess. I don't buy 'quality stuff'. I buy what I need and like. I disbelieve things more expensive are higher quality. It's the same shit, with a lame brand name on it.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 02:50 PM
1

Than I have to condition myself to have fun doing childish stuff. It wasn't even fun when I was a child.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 02:48 PM
1

Either you're lucky with who you chat up, or you have an eye for people. Most people do absolutely nothing in their free time and it's kinda hard getting close enough to them to even start an activity together. Also I have no idea how to be fun, as I'm not the most physically active guy, when it comes to normal situations. Sure, I do some physical stuff here and there and I lift, but what I'm trying ti say is that I'm not the loud, hectic, flippy guy that I see when I think about when I read abo…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 02:45 PM
1

I can't hate what I don't understand, but I'd say I'm not it's biggest fan. I most often believe women being children, but often it's men that behave like children and women keeping cool.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:57 PM
1

That's exactly one of the problems. I didn't intend my text to have a negarive vibe. It's a text and what's it telling is what counts. I appreciate your intentions of helping me more. Maybe you could provide an answer how to fix my 'people have no interest in me? So I ignore them too' bullshit of a thought?
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:50 PM
1

I ain't good chatting up people, right. But normally rhe situations you listed work relatively well. But in all these situations it's appropriate to talk to them. They are where they are because it's their job to serve/hinder a purpose. Strangers on the street are just moving from action A to action B. If I was chatted up in the streets, I would feel really awkward.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:42 PM
1

Didn't see it from that angle. So changing to get bitches is ok, but changing to get a bitch is futile? Makes sense.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:37 PM
1

Na, job interviews are pretty easy compared to gaming women. Never fucked up one (except I wanted to, because the HR guy behaved like a dick). Fucked up with women in almost all cases.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:34 PM
1

That's actually pretty good advice. I should read about body language and look to find a job like that.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 01:32 PM
1

Presentations are boring no matter what. Advertisement is effective? I don't think so. I can only speak from my own perspective, but I don't buy into advertisement bullshit. I buy what I need in the quality I need, no matter what some flashy ads arw telling me.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:30 PM
1

I'm totally in on that. So I won't get laid because I don't want to be fun. That's ok and I can live with that. If I have to compromise myself for pussy, it's not worth it. Being a clown is in no way an improvement. I also totally agree with the looks, but I had to laugh about you judging my in-bed skills.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:27 PM
1

So I have to give in to pussy and change my personality just to get laid? Isn't that a thing TRP despises? Your comparison is faulty. Being a carpenter is a thing you do being a total clown and full of shit is a way you are. I made this post after reading the one on the main you mention.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:34 AM
1

If this was our ancestors attitude, every new generation would have to reinvent poking for ants with a stick.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:21 AM
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I don't see why refusing to play monkey just because everyone else does qualifys as developmental issue.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:10 AM
1

I ain't fun and game sounds stupid and not like fun, too. I don't want to trick a woman into thinking I'm a fun guy. Why women should fuck with me? Because there are dudes below my level getting fucked. I'm not a fucking private entertainer.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:02 AM
0

Because I have an opinion of 'this sounds stupid ti me'. If I didn't want to understand it, I wouldn't be reading TRP or PUA stuff.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 10:52 AM
1

Guess what, that's one of many TRP recommend books I read. But I'm not taking that much from it, except for the basics as not pedestalizing and stuff. You mind giving me an idea about the social cues you talk about? I took spectrum screening tests multiple times and if they're reliable I'm not autistic nor aspergers
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:50 AM
1

I can't really read behavior that good myself. What counts for me is what people are saying and not how. Therefore I don't understand how game is supposed to work. It's paraphrased nonsense dressed up in clownery. From my perspective, plainly 'I like you, let's fuck.' would work best with me. I never really tried to appear to anybody in a certain way and I don't get why anybody would fall for this.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:24 AM
1

I ask some guys who understand it, if they may be able to explain it. With what I tried, I didn't get a foot in the door.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:19 AM
1

Could you please phrase this in a way I may understand better? Sounds like you're assuming I fear to socialize. I don't. I don't want/feel a need to. I just need game to get pussy. I see no benefit from talking bullshit to faceless strangers.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 09:59 AM
1

I suppose you read my post history? If it was a guess by this post, I would be surprised. What's wrong about being German anyways?
/r/askTRP09/08/16 09:55 AM
3

My SMV is probably low and I don't understand game, therefore I'm in no position to successfully chase tail. But teasing makes bo sense to me at all. Why act like a creepy teen and not like an adult?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 09:53 AM
1

Please elaborate
/r/askTRP09/08/16 09:50 AM
-6

I don't have targets. I'm not in a position to pull any women. But thia teasing just sounds dumb and childish. If somebody talked to me this way, I would ignore them or punch them in the face.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 09:23 AM
-3

Having a good time and talking ti people is in most cases mutually exclusive. Not that I'd fear talking to people, but I can do much better things with my time, like reading or listening to music or audio books. Is there a way to learn cold approach without the need to talk to people I don't give a flying fuck about?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 08:28 AM
-6

I don't get it, sounds like total bullshit. Who the hell wants to talk to a clown idiot? The only one I can see being a child in your sketched scenario is the guy.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 07:30 AM
1

Ugly, skinny punk oO
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:41 PM
0

Being fit=attainable in under 6 months of diet/training. I never fucking laughed this much. If you can become fit in that short period of time, you had luck with your upbringing.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 08:49 PM
1

Not OP, but I want to answer: The first thing I get my hands on. Doesn't matter if every hob pays tge same
/r/askTRP16/07/16 03:06 PM
1

Does this mean my inner voice going amok the moment somebody wants to control me actually is a good sign?
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:28 PM
1

Interacting with people isn't fun. If I wasn't force to talk to people sometimes, I wouldn't talk for weeks or months. There's just bo reason to talk to strangers other than leeching something off. Be it sex from women or shit chat from men.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 12:25 PM
2

I wish progress would be addictive but it isn't. I lift for quite some time now and I still hate it. But it's the only way to get the body I want. So I have to, if I want or not.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 11:39 AM
10

Learn to enjoy the soreness. At first it's hurting a lot, but soon it will just be a very subtle soreness. I miss it when I fail to go lifting for a few days
/r/askTRP15/07/16 11:09 AM
3

I'm really into anal Homo
/r/askTRP15/07/16 10:49 AM
3

Just don't develop a personality. Women fall for shallow idiots who are barely able to tie their own ahoes and trip over their own ego when somebody looks at them. Seriously, use your perceived flaws as your branding. From what I read you are a perfect example for an Asian stereotype. There arw lots of women who fall for that.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 06:23 PM
0

The only thing getting ruined by those videos are realistic expectations. Especially young guys who watch them tend to believe that such a bullshit really works and they will eventually become wannabe players nobody needs.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 06:10 PM
1

BMI is 33 with 20% bf according to 3 fold method
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 08:28 AM
1

Believe me or not, there are guys out there that want to do nothing and just look for a way to get along. Some guys just want to live an acceptable life and don't have to be the best all the time.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 05:35 PM
1

A year of struggle and hard dieting, losing 50kg+ and gaining strength on every exercise, but I still look like shit. Either most of the guys on TRP are just slightly out of shape or I have serious body dismorphia
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 05:09 PM
1

Well put. But to struggle needs will to struggle and therefore a goal (that feels achievable) or any kind of motivation to get going. I think for most guys it's the same as it's for me, everything seems to be out of reach.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 04:26 PM
1

There just is no spark or fire. When I go inside to see whats going up in me, the only thing I find is hate against my family and lack of interest and high caution towards humanity. I just want to pair-bond with a woman and keep the rest of the world outside. I can't explain nor understand why. Thinking about the future really hurts me and makes me feel suicidal. Life feels like an endless walk through hell.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:56 PM
1

I agrre. But there is no fucking way. I have no purpose, because there is none. Life's purpose is to survive and reproduce. Everything else is just shit you have to endure on your way.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:40 PM
1

I agrre. But there is no fucking way. I have no purpose, because there is none. Life's purpose is to survive and reproduce. Everything else is just shit you have to endure on your way.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:40 PM
1

8 hours is more than enough. 14 hours sounds like you do nothing apart from work. Working from waking up to going to bed is one og the things that made me depressed in the first place. There just has to be room for important stuff like family, women anf friends. How is life worth living if you feel like shit in the morning, have to force yourself to stay productive all day, feel shitty and exhausted in the evening and repeat that cycle all your life?
/r/askTRP06/07/16 12:15 PM
1

Exactly, I'm going to die anyway. So why try so hard if I lose it in the end no matter what? What counts is to make it through life without making it harder than it should be. Why do something that's not really beneficial but takes all my will to live and all my time? It's work to live, not live to work
/r/askTRP06/07/16 10:19 AM
1

Yep, I'm not a guy grom a wealthy family that has nothing to fear in his future and has the time and and free capacity to copy the work of another wealthy guy who had all he needed on his fingertips.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 10:14 AM
1

I know you are right on the rest, but meat is expensive as fuck. I didn't eat out scince 2013. chicken 6-8€/kg pork 8-12€/kg beef 16-20€/kg fish (except for crappy) 12-25€/kg
/r/askTRP05/07/16 07:29 PM
1

I appreciate this advice. I currently spend 2-5 hours a day improving my coding in c++ as I try to make a game. I don't think it'll bring me anywhere, but it keeps me sane.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 07:17 PM
1

Rice and frozen chicken and veggies, 20 bucks a week. Incredebly correct (I calculated). I dislike living with others, but you are right on that, too. But warmth and electricity can't be reduced further that much. Radiator is only running in winter, when it's colder than 0°C. Doing stuff outside also costs money except for just hanging around in the park.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 07:10 PM
1

Being unlucky most often means you worked your ass off and shined out all your colleagues but the guy looking better and licking everyone's butt got the raise.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:56 PM
0

You never know if something will pay off and most often it doesn't. Hell, I wanted to study and learn when I finished my stuff, but I wasn't allowed to. If I had done something else than looking like I'm still doing my assigned tasks, I would have been handed shit from my colleagues and before I do others' work, I rather do nothing.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:54 PM
1

Ah, that'd be one cert per 6-12 months. That's ok.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:43 PM
2

So please tell me how to work years or decades living like a bum to aquire some savings without the urge to kill yourself because nothing will change? A starting level job pays around 10-15k a year after 5 years you maybe earn 20-25k. Rent for a fucking 20m² apartment is about 500, 50 for warmth, 50-70 for electricity, 30 for telephone, internet and even if you only eat garbege, you pay 250 per month for food. So I can start saving in 2020, maybe later.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:40 PM
1

So far you sound like you aren't even ready to consider being in it and you don't even have an idea of what you want to do! To the point! I have no clue what to do, as everything is the same in the end. Get up, slave away, go home, have shitty pay. There just has to be something to do as job that doesn't make me wanna end myself after some time. I have not that much work experience, but what I know is, that it doesn't matter if you work hard or dick around as long as the minimum is done in the e…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:31 PM
1

A+, S+, N+ One of them cost at least 1.8 - 5k in Germany
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:17 PM
0

I just don't see a chance to break 'the cycle'. Literally everyone I know is working, working, working and nothing ever changes. They get a few bucks more every year, but that's it. I don't see a chance that, after working X years I have enough experience to convinve anyone in hiring me/investing into me. Why would they? There always is somebody that does the same work or better for less.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:13 PM
-2

I was making 23k/yr in the military and bought a 360k house Wow, you only have to pay all your life for a house. But congrats on your K9 school. I just wonder how you had the time for this when working full time. As I worked fulltime, I was barely able to manage my schedule, as work including commute easily costs you 10-11 hrs/day. I wouldn't say I'm entitled. But the lack of drive really bugs me most of the time. I just have no idea how to make it. I only see mediocrity in my future and I hate …
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:07 PM
1

C#, C++, Java, Delphi, Pascal - HTML, PHP, Python, Ruby, Javascript I have no certs as they cost a shit ton of money (0.5-1.5k) and for a 9-to-5 job you have nothing of them in return, few bucks if you're lucky. Why should I try to gather as much paper as possible? I don't have technical profeciency. I should have at least Level II, I know, but meh, what do I have from a slave cert?
/r/askTRP05/07/16 05:59 PM
0

Nope, I just expect a job to pay rent and food and have at least a bit left for hobbies and other stuff.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 05:52 PM
0

Well, what could you want to know? I can code in different languages (desktop and web), I can work with photoshop and alikes, I can 3d-model a bit, I can do all kinds of craft work around the house, I can work with metal (wielding, milling, etc.), I can do garden work. Everything not perfect, but good enough I never had to pay for anything of the above. But there's nothing I like. If I had to do some of these things for a living, I would stop after some months if I don't earn good enough.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 05:27 PM
1

Ask what you need. Also an idea not pays itself. You need to put in money (or something else) to get out more in the end.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 05:14 PM
1

Yes, I'm scared I have to abandon them all. Cats raised in a pack have problems being on their own. Trust me, we had cats all my childhood and I just lived without some from age 12 to 19. It's like giving away my own children for an uncertain future. If I only had a plan for my future. But Germany means risk all and start your own business or slave your life away in a 40k/year job if you didn't came from a wealthy family with connections. I'd love to become a game dev, but it's a horrific slow j…
/r/askTRP30/06/16 05:09 PM
1

To only have one cat is barbaric. Being out for the day and leaving the poor thing home alone if it's used to have company. Nobody in my family wants to take the cats, I have to find them a new home and I'll only give them to people who make a good impression on me. You're right about tying myself to my pets. I don't know my way yet, but I know I have to break/be free to go it. I also don't plan on pursuing women before I have a new place.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 03:00 PM
1

Would be really nice of you. Jokes aside. Isn't the whole described behavior bragging and not only this post? For me such outgoing behavior screams for attention like 'Look at me, I'm so cool and smooth. Please look at me!'
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 04:31 PM
0

The amount of bragging is unbearable. I need to puke.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 03:51 PM
1

Single women? It's hard to be there in this limited 20 minute time frame. Jokes aside, most women are single before they turn 12 or after they died. They aren't single, they just branch awing.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 09:33 AM
1

Don't want to show my flab around. Sunbathing would be worst idea possible, as I have 2 skin colors: cottage cheese and boilded lobster
/r/askTRP23/06/16 09:26 PM
-1

This isn't Amerifaqistan where air conditioning is a thing. Indoor places that are up to acctual norms are even warmer than outside in summer. Gym had 39°C today
/r/askTRP23/06/16 09:25 PM
1

Well everything changes. I feel like shit when it's that fucking hot. I'm a dizzy, sweating mess right now and the way to the gym with bus and tram in this heat is more exhausting than lifting on cooler days.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 06:22 PM
2

So in 2-3 months a shitlord like me can give lifting advice? lmao
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 07:06 PM
3

About me: 28y, n-count 6. And than you get disgusted by 3? Brother, try to see it (age - 14) * 2, everything above that is critical imo
/r/askTRP20/06/16 09:07 AM
1

Because sex is better than no sex
/r/askTRP19/06/16 04:18 PM
1

I experienced this shit as well, but from the absolute opposite of what the other commenters point at. She cheated on me with a guy who could privide more for her... and she came crawling back for the D 3 times. Maybe she would've ce back more often, but I told her after break up, that I'm only available for sex and nothing more. At least there seems to be one thing I'm incredibly good at.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 03:21 PM
1

If it was that easy. I don't even have money for traveling to another country. All the EU is fucked up like that. Only good alternative would be US or sth the like.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 08:54 PM
1

Maybe my view will change when hitting 'mediocre' one day. Before that, my goal is to get sex every now and then.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 08:53 PM
1

...women so I can find one to marry? About being lazy: In germany it's pretty hard to get up the ladder. If you won't get promoted a lot your income increases about 1-2% per year starting at 1600€ after taxes for 'high paying' office jobs, less than 1000€ per month on manual jobs.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 08:51 PM
1

Thanks, already read this. It's good to know where things came from, but it doesn't magically make me more confident. I'm not confident, because I don't feel human, because I miss sex and all stuff that belongs to it.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 08:29 PM
1

lol. A month dude. Germany, not US
/r/askTRP18/06/16 08:27 PM
1

No. The first one want to have a family, the second flees it. Both structure their life around what they want. Also I dislike licking as, therefore a big, fancy carreer is out the picture.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 08:23 PM
1

That's round about what every manual job pays here.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 08:18 PM
1

No problem. I just don't want to waste my life away at work. For me finding wife material and starting a family is more important. Money has to be just enough to provide for that.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 08:16 PM
1

I rather jerk off and save the 1/6 of my income
/r/askTRP18/06/16 08:14 PM
1

It's hilarious to think I overate on disgusting sugary or fatty shit. Sure, I ate too much, but ffs I ate healthy food all my life. I just never moved a lot. I think it's especially hard to lose weight if you were never ever fit in your life before.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 08:13 PM
1

Hookers are so expensive and it doesn't feel worth it. I was in a brothel once and paying for it is just not exciting.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 08:08 PM
1

I think clothes are a costume to put on to sell yourself. You're right about the health thing, but I son't see a need to "master a profession" before getting women. Work as much as neccessary but as less as possible.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 08:07 PM
2

I hoped for a slight chance to get something going on with women after losing 40kg+. Now it looks like another year not feeling human. Will come back to you for face advice when done.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 07:45 PM
-1

Fuck BMI other guys my height and weight are double or triple my size (balloons). BMI is only appropriate with almost no muscle mass and average body frame. I accept overweight though.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 12:33 PM
0

Lol, I'm 225 lbs at 5'10" and I'm just a little chubby. This guy probably is on the culp of bein skinny fat.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 11:11 AM
1

But that's similar to how I perceive other's bragging 'Well, good for you, I don't care'
/r/askTRP15/06/16 09:36 PM
1

This only works for me if I can get 'belly rubs' for it. Knowing I can do something is like making a checkmark on a list 'did that, now what?'
/r/askTRP15/06/16 09:35 PM
1

Why should I even need achievement? Tell me, I don't understand it.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 09:27 PM
1

All good advice. But there's nothing inside of me. No needs, no goals, no drive, nothing I like, no passion, just sadness, anger and void.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 09:25 PM
2

As I don't know if it'll get better or worse, I will have to try.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 09:22 PM
1

Well, you get what I said. As long as I'm in bad shape, grooming is pointless.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 09:21 PM
1

I don't care for competency. Being good at something is only important if you need something to brag about.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 09:05 PM
1

The confidence part isn't really working. It's more like stop being an abomination so I get at least a chance.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 07:26 PM
1

Actually shaved and unshaved have pros and cons. I'm unsure what to do. It's just if I shave, I get pimples.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 07:25 PM
1

If I don't drink I get nervous, start sweating heavily and my heart starts to hammer to my throat.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 07:10 PM
1

I don't get the essay. But I also don't get why people do sports. Physical activity serves two purposes: keep the body to function properly and looking good. I lift because I have to to increase my chances of getting laid.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 07:09 PM
1

illegal here
/r/askTRP15/06/16 06:06 PM
1

I don't understand the differences between different strains of weed. Once I had 'something to party', 'something to get smooth' and 'something to chill'. All of them hammered me in the same way.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:53 PM
1

The things I posted?
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:51 PM
1

Before putting myself in action I need to know all aspects of theory. Would you build a plane before you can wield? Would you just try it before knowing how it works and what things are potentially harmful? I think not.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:51 PM
1

Speaking of which, how do you feel before, during and after working out? Before a workout I don't want to, during a workout I hope I'm through my regime soon and afterwards I feel exhausted and 'fear' the next one. You may ask why I'm doing it than - Because I hate my body, I always hated my body and I want one I can at least accept. Also, what's with the prejudice? A lot of bad experiences with this kind of guys. I hate people who believe they are something better, because most are not. Meditat…
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:48 PM
1

Ok, I get the idea. But it's making things even scarier. How to know if the way is the way to go? How to know you don't end with less than you started with?
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:19 PM
1

What should I do if changing behavior doesn't change the way I feel or think? Do you think I wouldn't want things to change? If that was the truth I'd sit at home playing vidya all day like I did until my ex left.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 04:40 PM
1

My wellbeing suffered tremendously after trying 9 different antidepressants. No libido, no clear thoughts, no emotions, just numb and 'brain dead'. I don't want to feel this way ever again.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 04:37 PM
1

Was in a clinic for 8 weeks. Psychiatrist was like 'try this' didn't work 'than try this'. This guessing sucks balls
/r/askTRP15/06/16 04:28 PM
0

I actually did it with the 'bench bw' thing. Felt nothing the moment I hit the goal. Was like ' k, I csn bench my body weight now. What do I get from it? Nobody cares, it brought no money, why did I want to be able to do it?'
/r/askTRP15/06/16 04:26 PM
1

I have a depression and low T. I maybe get TRT again if my doc is generous, I doubt it. The SSRI, SSNRI and MAO helped shit.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 04:21 PM
1

I'm in a cut scince October last year, 40lbs to go, so maybe I'm ripped next fall. But I'll give it a shot. Drugs sometimes are very helpful.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 04:18 PM
1

Maybe you're right. The comments are helpful, but I just don't see how to apply them. It's just so much and I have no idea in which direction to change. I envy most 'real men' but I'm afraid that I'm not able to act like one. I'm insecure in every aspect of my life. If I had to on point decide what I want to become it's 'being a player'. I think being able to get what I want in social scenarios I may be able to use this experience in the more complicated aspects of life like a career.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 04:14 PM
1

None of these. All of it sounds nice, but out of reach and not worth the pain. Also, although I'm a fatass (105kg) I can bench my body weight 5x5
/r/askTRP15/06/16 03:25 PM
1

First clubbing experience sounds odd. I go clubbing now and then since the age of 16. That's 11 years now. I don't get it and I don't like it. It's tolerable.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 03:06 PM
0

I just don't know what to do with what I discovered about myself working through the book.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 03:01 PM
1

I have no 'old friends', I never had friends. And my family consists of the most toxic people I know. What's 4fa?
/r/askTRP15/06/16 02:59 PM
2

How about 'go fuck yourself'? Like seriously, I know it takes time. I have to start somewhere and there are other things I have to develop in addition to a decent body. Also I don't want to look like a bodybuilder, slightly athletic is more than enough for my taste.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 02:57 PM
1

I don't know if a change is worth it. Only way to find out is to try. I don't think I'm autistic. I just hate this bullshit like doing my hair, moisturizing and all that stuff. Showering and brushing my teeth, clipping the nailz - the minimum - should be enough if I don't go out to a social gathering. I like being hairy like a cave man. The thing is, my body hair has different colors. Chest and belly are dark blond, pubic area is red blond, armpits, arms anf legs platin blond. Similar thing for …
/r/askTRP15/06/16 02:32 PM
-2

I did. The exercises involving other people aren't possible to do as I seldomly have contact with others.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 12:30 PM
1

Grooming/hygiene for about 8 months now, serious lifting for about 3.5 months, fucked around in the gym beforehand a bit. Almost because it's a shit load of work for me and I get nasty pimples shaving my face and grooming my body hair every day. Like I mentioned, I have serious problems doing things only for me and there is nobody else I could do it for (no one cares) and I'm not attractive to females. So I'm doing it without a reason. Monk mode. All my life was and still is monk mode if you str…
/r/askTRP15/06/16 12:28 PM
2

That's what I did. Now I know what's up with me. I have no idea what to do about it.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 10:33 AM
1

If you have no goals or dislike the capitalist bullshit you're fucked
/r/askTRP15/06/16 08:36 AM
3

You compare a dance shoe to an army boot. The character 'The Hound' represents a real man. Ferocious, strong, able to kill without guilt and not a man of words. 'Alphas' today are tanned, pumped up and starved down little boys that brag about everything are loud and extremely annoying.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 08:22 AM
1

No matter what, the more I push in any area, the higher rises an 'inner wall'. The more I do or dedicate to something, the more I want to give up. Hard to describe
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 10:17 PM
1

That's my problem. I don't know. I worked through the book in hope of some help, but now I have a shit load of written stuff that's simply worthless.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 09:29 PM
1

If you don't care, then be selfish and affect it for your own reasons I am selfish and not changing anything. Gambling a lot on finding a good woman. What happens if she or your children die? I disbelieve in even finding a woman. But keeping my family save is my obligation. Spend some time figuring it out until you remember or create new dreams. I've never met a man that did not once have dreams. Big dreams are good. Society has beat you down and made you want to be a happy slave. Fight this. I …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 09:24 PM
1

Fuck the world, I don't care. I just have this one life and I hope I'll be able to enjoy it one day. Maybe with the mother of my children, as couple or two friends caring for their children together. Can't remember if I had dreams once.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 06:45 PM
1

I want to be happy and to procreate, that's it.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 06:32 PM
1

Looks like your self-evaluation was incorrect before. Hint - to some people this is true, to some it's not.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 06:13 PM
1

and? Get the same lame results but be obliviously happy about them?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 06:02 PM
2

Well, if you aren't able to move objects of everyday life (if you are of average health) instead of lifting you should just shoot yourself. If you aren't a full retard it's easy to read the nutrition labels on refined food and calculate things to meet your needs. Sure, you have to substitute with unprocessed food here and there, but a boxed meal and stocking up the protein intake with eggs and other simple things is way easier than preparing whole meals. There is no difference in the way you fee…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 05:52 PM
1

If I weren't single by then, probably. Would I be happy in any other situation? I doubt it. Is there a situation I would be happy in? Yes, every situation that is not being single
/r/askTRP14/06/16 12:44 PM
-7

Three chores to add to a life that consists of endless struggle for nothing. Lifting gives you nothing if you aren't narcissistic. It's building a body that's serves no real purpose. Diet and drinking lots of water may br good for your health, but it's additional work you have to put in for minor returns. It doesn't matter what you eat if you match your micros, macros and calories. Meditation is very good to ground a mentally healthy man who only has to much shit on his mind. But be careful, it'…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 12:34 PM
1

Good question. Old guys fucking young girls are creepy as hell and I bet my ass they'll never find an LTR prospect fucking 'kids'. What I think what's driving this guys is frustration of not finding a suitable SO when younger. Why would anyone who could be married already put in all this work?
/r/askTRP14/06/16 11:42 AM
1

I really don't get this 'set goals and pursue them' advice. I belive I'm not alone with not wanting anything? A lot of things are 'yea, would be ok to have/be' but nothing's out there that is 'I FUCKING HAVE TO...'
/r/askTRP14/06/16 11:28 AM
2

Reading it and I'm in your situation for a long long time now. Hope someone may give an answer that helps both of us. Be aware of the 'do what you want' responses and the like. If I interpret your post right, there's nothing you want to do, so do I.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 11:15 AM
1

I'm not doubting that it isn't working for us ugly short men. Just not in the way this sack of shit tries to market to us.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 07:00 PM
3

He's right. Looks don't matter if you use hookers for your footage.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 06:19 PM
-4

LOL. Only because you are delusional to believe such nonsense doesn't mean others believe it, too. Also, if you are more intelligent than a potato, which I can assume as you are able to read and write, there is no way of talking yourself into it. Tried positive affirmations for months and they still feel like a lie
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 09:27 AM
1

Lifting, reading and all the positive stuff will do nothing for you if you don't try to change yourself into a douche/jerk/player
/r/askTRP13/06/16 09:11 AM
1

How to be alpha in a shitty warm and loud environment where you can barely hear yourself thinking and everybody is dancing like a stiff clown? Who should take such a photo? The photographers running around in clubs only shoot girls or the pseudo douches with their spray tan.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 09:01 AM
1

I'm out there in the city most of the day and I scarcely see attractive women. Maybe 3 a day. Often these are women I see nearly every day the same time. Only places being exceptions are clubs and bars.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 08:47 AM
1

What I always wondered about group photos for tinder, I never ever saw a guy taking pictures of the fuck knows what. I don't no any guy that ever made a photo of an activity or any other shit.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 08:30 AM
1

All three are words for a guy who had a shitty upbringing and therefore developed a moral code towards women, where obviously shouldn't be one.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 08:19 AM
1

You can literally do everything but still don't get laid.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 09:29 PM
2

OP: How to gain abundance? you: have abundance. great advice
/r/askTRP12/06/16 09:19 PM
-1

Fuck the group but also I'm a mixed match of BILL and BOB -.-
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 06:04 PM
0

If I only knew an appropriate answer. But sounds somewhat very similar to my Situation, even with age. Would appreciate to talk a bit more and deeper with you. But I'm out for clubbing now (only way to fix my anxieties as far as I know -> tackle, tackle, tackle them). Solution pieces: get fit, get out there. The rest idk and I can't handle everything at once.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 08:50 PM
1

If anybody has an answer for where to find these guys in germany, tell me
/r/askTRP11/06/16 06:50 PM
2

If there are more steps in the foods creation than: killing/harvesting cutting washing packaging than it's processed
/r/askTRP11/06/16 06:23 PM
-1

Shit made it worse. As long as I won't be brainwashed into thinking positive, the baseline of TRP is 'Life sucks and it`ll never gonna stop to suck!'
/r/askTRP11/06/16 06:15 PM
-2

Being born an ugly female There'll always be a thirsty beta for every girl. Point denied. You're right about the rest. But use the time for what? Nothing really matters.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 06:13 PM
2

Yes it will. Maybe not in an instant, but the more time you spend together, which is inevitable if living together, the less mysterious and exiting you will become in her eyes and the sex will gradually decrease. Keep your game tight though.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 08:36 PM
1

Haha, nice advise. Well, what's your problem? I eat at a 700 kcal deficit and exercize 5-6 times a week for about 70-90 minutes and have decent progress with all lifts (no break in progressive overload so far). Also I do LISS (60 Minutes) 4 times a week and HIIT after my lifting sessions. I'm just not losing weight, though I may be losing fat. Seems to me, after research, like a hormonal problem an d I already have an endo appointment scheduled.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 08:51 PM
1

Oh well, I know. I already eat clean and it did nothing to my skin. Also losing weight is currently pretty hard, god knows why. I have a deficit, exercize a lot, but weight stalled, already looking for medical assistance/finding the cause.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 08:11 PM
1

This sounds exactly the way my last LTR came along
/r/askTRP05/06/16 05:37 PM
1

You're right, I have no game. I don't get it. I read a shit ton of PUA stuff and I feel like reading a warp engine manual in Mandarin. All that shit seems so fae of feom reality it hurts my brain.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 09:33 AM
0

Can feel you bro. It's the same for me. Not that I'm trying for 15, but for only 12 months now. Life isn't fair and SMV is just a theory and not 100% accurate. Look, I observe several dudes every night out getting at least make outs although there SMV is none existent (niggers, muslim scum, even indians, scrawny, broke, dumb, ugly and nothing more but big mouthing and bragging to cover insecurties) but imo SMV is the theory representing reality best. We have to work with what we were given and m…
/r/askTRP04/06/16 11:41 PM
-1

-> Low SMV = 99.9% of the population, high SMV = unbearable douchebags
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 07:16 PM
1

I think it's a good idea to start slow, but you're advising this little dude to delay lifting an unreasonable amount of time. If I followed your advice, I would start lifting in 2020.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 09:11 PM
1

Depression makes you not love anything. Everything you do will feel bland, no matter what. Nothing is interesting nor fullfilling. Getting out of depression is one of the hardest tasks anyone can work on.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 06:36 PM
2

I wouldn't follow a leader who never loses track, cause it is fake. It's better to have no clue what to do and where to go, but to figure shit out, than to be a fake like a politician.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 06:09 PM
2

The best way to build frame is to forget who you are and just believe you are infallible
/r/askTRP30/05/16 05:59 PM
4

Neither paying for pussy, nor being an attractive man to get it without paying is cheap. $350 is a lot of cash and being a good man is a lot of work. OP probably has a longer lasting dopamine spike. Good for him.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 05:49 PM
4

Not quite right. Androgel has a very low rate of assimilation and oral test has huge impact on your liver. Also it's not injected into the fatty tissue, but into the muscle. Also IF your T went low some time after puberty, you can get injections over a period of time till your body is in a condition, being able to produce your normal levels (from before being low), e.g. reduced body fat, increased muscle mass and other health issues.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:18 PM
-3

How old are you? 65? What's with all the guys having erectile dysfunction because of lame excuse xyz? I'm almost 30, drink too often and smoke a lot (cigs) and I can stay hard even after cumming 3 times....just wtf?
/r/askTRP29/05/16 09:50 PM
3

As soon as you state your own opinion, these blue balled neck beards will kick you without a chance to explain yourself. Admin-God-Complex, I think.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 05:17 PM
8

worst advice ever
/r/askTRP28/05/16 04:39 PM
1

I don't get it. Why change something that's working? There's so much to do, why spend additional work on something that doesn't need it? Maybe I don't understand it, as I reallu have issues with non verbal comm. I would need to always look up on body language.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 02:47 PM
1

I really don't get this obsession with multiple plates. You only need one pussy at a time. You just need 1 plate/FWB/LTR and that's it. When your ways part, you need a new one.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 02:37 PM
3

That's a thing I only know the other way around. Most of my guys fake personality traits to lock women into LTRs. Most women I know have a somewhat decent job, some sporty hobbies, go out regularly and dig reading or watching movies/series. Most guys on the other hand do nothing but playing video games excessively and getting wasted 4x/week. You really have to fake some BS as a man to get attention, be it being a bad boy, being a fun guy or being dedicated to sports. All things without value imo…
/r/askTRP28/05/16 02:26 PM
1

Maybe this works in the US, but in Germany it's easier to have an LTR than a FWB. Anyways, why more than 1? 1 is more than enough to fuck once or twice a week.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 01:58 PM
1

Don't know Corey Wayne, but RSD is too fake and motivational marketing bullshit.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 01:13 PM
1

Not the bp bs. More like a friendship or something. Just being familiar with each other and being able to do other shit together. A bro with a pussy, you may call it.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 01:01 PM
1

You could also heat up a watermelon in a microwave and cut a hole into it. Why cope with drama and bullshit just to use a woman as masturbatory tool? I think FWB or LTR is a better way to go, as you can establish some sort of connection.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 12:44 PM
1

I can understand OP. Having sex isn't that great to just having a woman's attention. Perhaps, escalation will come naturally, but often times it's far better to just enjoy her admiration and don't screw things up trying to slay her.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 12:34 PM
1

Yea, I may be a sloth. I can't describe it, really. I can force my ass to the gym and to do cardio, but if I don't have to do something physical, I won't. For the women part, I said basically the same. I'm not interesting. Most guys aren't, because they also do nothing but drink in a club. Socialize? How? I can barely hear my own word in a club.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 11:59 PM
1

Could also be the other way around. If you can't beat a depression no matter what, it may be indicated to let your hormones get fixed, what'll fix the depression and therefore keeps the hormones in check again.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 05:36 PM
2

What to want in a woman? Your dick A housekeeper A cook Somebody to relate to Kids In this order
/r/askTRP27/05/16 05:26 PM
2

I still disbelieve in competition being hard wired. Competition is the misguided thrive to improve. If you are blind and selfish, this ends in competition. You get better, nobody else and when you die, your accomplishments die with you. Improvement shouldn't only be your selfish objective, but an objective towards your surroundings, social circle, society as is. But this'll never happen as long as corrupt institutions like governments and an exploitable economic system exist.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 10:10 AM
0

Your example missions sound stupid. Why on earth should somebody even want to do something for rhis fucked up society? I don't get this deeply rooted capitalist bullshit 'work, work, work'
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 07:29 AM
3

Tell her you have to work on yourself and there's shit to be done. She either folliws you like a good girl and accepts she's only your #2 (obviously #1 is you) and has to cope with less commitment or she acts up and you know that she's not worth it and you can break up with her with bo regret.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 07:38 AM
1

Only if you start as a twig. If you have more than 12-16% bf, no.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 05:34 PM
12

Seriously, IRC is full of wannabe alphas who ban you instantly if you try to argue about something. There may be some guys who are really helpful, but the mods are 13 yo blue balled neck beards imho
/r/askTRP16/05/16 09:23 AM
1

Do you really want to do, what you do? If not, don't do it.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 07:48 PM
2

Would you please explain how to chose the right values or find the ones resonating with oneself?
/r/askTRP11/05/16 07:35 PM
1

"I just can't talk to random strangers. It just feels so wrong: just having empty conversation with someone I don't even care about!" Your joke is pretty much my biggest problem with people
/r/askTRP10/05/16 10:55 PM
2

It's because you're old. They expect you to have money
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 06:58 PM
2

WAY fucking better. Money, options, FREEDOM that I got at no other time. And responsibilities? Yeah, not so much. Well, it's the exact opposite for me. No money, no options and no fucking freedom.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 06:47 PM
1

Lol I knoe this guy's issue pretty well. I feel totally save and awsome during survival trips, but women are frightening as hell.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 12:20 PM
1

Hard to have confidence if you can't base it on anything. It's how others perceive you and doesn't really matter what you do or have, isn't it? I'm a good coder, admin and talented with handy stuff (electrical and water installations, woodwork and stuff around the house) but who cares?
/r/askTRP07/05/16 10:27 AM
1

Straight piece of advice. One question though: Aren't so called alphas, guys that only consist of ego, tan and hot air, the ones getting pussy?
/r/askTRP07/05/16 10:22 AM
1

I just want sex. I don't want friends, I don't want to be wealthy, I just want my dick in a girl. wtf?
/r/askTRP06/05/16 08:04 PM
0

My life practically is monk mode. What's wrong with not being motivated? I'm not overly demotivated and that's huge, at least for me.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 07:50 PM
5

I'm a recovering fat ass and I know a ton of guys like me and you who refuse to get in shape. I would guess from my own experience and the things I witnessed of my fat former friends, that you probably have other aspects in your life that need examination and work. I try to stay over my instincts and cut sex and interactions with females with sexual intent out for a while. It is hard, as sex is a great thing, but for me it's not worth the work it requires atm. May be just me, but I think it's be…
/r/askTRP04/05/16 04:58 PM
1

Except for the immigration part, this sounds like me. Even the SSRIs and stuff not helping. If you find a way out, I need a memo. The only advice I can give is don't kill yourself. After a failed attempt there may be some injuries having irreversible impacts. Better be poor and a fuck up than a poor, crippled fuck up.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 11:20 AM
-2

...you are basing your expectations, goals and dreams off of what society and women want, not what you want. I want a woman. My bad, I guess. But your text shows you're a spoiled dipshit. Let's hope they fuck up your sperm conservation.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 09:52 AM
0

If you have no money, no connections and stuff, your options are more than limited. The only option is to slave away the rest of your life or try to cheat e.g. save your taxes from government or rob a bank.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:37 AM
6

Just because things could be a lot worse does not mean things are great. I can totally relate to OP as I see it the same way. Most of humanity do stupid shit all day, shit so fucking stupid it could be automated. There's so much potential wasted in keeping slavery alive. But things are what they are and educational system as a whole would need huge changes to make anybody able to do a meaningful job. Imho never going to happen
/r/askTRP03/05/16 11:21 PM
1

NO to both, but I'm extremely low SMV and I can just speak for my current situation. Maybe it will be better sime day.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 08:12 PM
-6

The one that'll let me :/
/r/askTRP02/05/16 03:55 PM
-2

Even I literally have to vote this comment up becuase you're fucking right. Wanna know why I'm bitching around so much in here? Probably not, but I tell you anyway. Because in here I can and it has zero impact on my life. askTRP is the best place to vent when running through life like a rock neither showing good emotions (not having) or bad emotions (need to vent to not go insane). If I wasn't a pessimist, I probably wouldn't have survived until now, but it's like it is with all other habits. It…
/r/askTRP25/04/16 06:00 PM
0

It annoys me because it's fucking hard to be narcissistic if you know all your flaws.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 05:16 PM
-16

Well no, but most dumb people have tan.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 03:39 PM
-7

Not skinny, not gentle, no sir. But no skin cancer and I don't live in the gym
/r/askTRP25/04/16 03:02 PM
-32

To look shallow and dumb
/r/askTRP25/04/16 02:51 PM
-6

Girls will be sad you look like you're a dumb meathead that's stuck in his late teens.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 01:08 PM
1

He's right, but where's the problem?
/r/askTRP24/04/16 10:39 PM
-2

I am so awesome and so attractive and funny and smart, I could get anybody if I wanted. People thinking this of themselves are the most annoying. They radiate this 'I'm so insecure I believe my own bullshit' for miles.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 05:29 PM
2

Stop beating off, and watch your libido and confidence skyrocket, you'll be so desperate to let your load out it'll be 10x easier to approach women. Or you libido could vanish completely and your anxiety will skyrocket. You will be way too nervous to talk to even a HB3 and may fall into a deep depression.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 05:19 PM
1

62/78/84
/r/askTRP23/04/16 12:27 PM
0

I never said it's about others making more. It's about getting fucked by your boss. From my time in IT: Client get's billed 68€ per hour of your work. You get fucking 22€ peanuts. I never had more than 1000€ a month and it's just not worth it. Btw: Traveling sucks, people suck, women suck.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 06:36 PM
1

Well that's great, get the fuck out because no one on here aspires to be like you. People on here aspire to be a "high SMV" guy and quite frankly, there is nothing "high SMV" about a sexless loner with a cynical outlook on life. The newbies on here aspire to be the guy with some good friends and either a cute girlfriend or a lot of women in their lives. Fuck the friends. You can bang women but you can't (or imho shouldn't) bang other dudes. Most men are exactly as boring and pointless as women. …
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 06:16 PM
0

How does being fine about being poor affect that I need advice on how to make me believe I could change my life for the better? Money isn't everything. There are many things more enjoyable: Female companionship, low responsibility, being able to isolate from society when and as long you want.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 06:02 PM
0

I don't like busting my ass for other people getting rich. Money isn't a thing I care for that much. I can pay for shelter and food. That's enough.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 08:54 AM
0

I said I was feeling like giving up. But I try for the sake of trying. There has to be a way to enjoy life. I'm still far from being lean. Currently at around 25% bf. The funny part about me and a job. I feel better a thousand times without 9-5 slavery.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 08:35 AM
0

I go out on my own because I have no friends who go out. Most of them have a gf or a family and say stuff like 'Have a girl, no need to go out.'. I also dislike socializing. Feels odd. I'm not a team sports guy either. being with 2-5 other people at a time is more than enough.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 10:56 PM
1

Not on the spectrum, but on it's border.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 09:25 PM
1

This! You have to know as much bragging, narcissistic assholes as possible.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 08:26 PM
1

I don't get it? Running is for getting fit. Being fit is for showing off being fit. Doing something fun and doing something with somebody else is as good as mutually exclusive. Reading is for getting skills, skills are for showing off having skills.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 08:16 PM
1

Let's put it plain and simple: Why work harder than you have to? To buy crap to show off. You won't buy a Ferrari for the sake of owning a Ferrari, you buy it to show off you have more than you need. Hope you can follow.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 06:51 PM
1

I personally find tan ugly and hair color is irrelevant
/r/askTRP20/04/16 12:18 AM
2

Most of the decent women get smashed by inbred immigrant idiots and most of the decent guys have to be complacent with shit tier women
/r/askTRP19/04/16 08:14 PM
5

Arabs look like average Joe with tan and dark hair and their culture raises them as violent children freaking out, if the world stops revolving around them.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 07:48 PM
-2

A guy bleeding out desperate losers and buying hookers for his in field footage is a bad example
/r/askTRP19/04/16 07:18 PM
-1

Chicks love stinking dick
/r/askTRP19/04/16 07:08 PM
12

Germany: Arabs, Blacks and Mediterraneans have it really easy. Slavics do little better than Germans.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 10:33 AM
1

In fact, people actually get sick when they stop working. BS. I get sick if I have to work. Being lazy is an mazing feeling and is the ultimate goal for me.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 06:18 PM
1

Thing is, why do something. To impress/please others. There is no other reason, isn't it?
/r/askTRP14/04/16 10:30 PM
0

Exactly nothing, but somehow everybody believes they are someone special and superior and somehow some of them make it. Just be inflated and life is yours.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 10:29 PM
1

I was glad if this was a phase. The attitude towards life is the same as it was when I was a child, the attitude towards women developed during puberty.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 10:28 PM
0

27, By your name I guess you're one of the RSD fools
/r/askTRP14/04/16 09:56 PM
1

At least I would get easy sex then.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 09:43 PM
-1

You're right, PUA is stupid. But why should I bust my ass? For what reason?
/r/askTRP14/04/16 09:42 PM
1

How can I, seeing the goals most of humanity strive for, as pointless decide on a meaningful purpose? Do my values really count? Or aren't values not shared with others plain worthless?
/r/askTRP14/04/16 08:33 PM
1

I don't even know if and how this unicorn of a life should look like.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 08:25 PM
0

Just more things to add to my 'Why?-list'
/r/askTRP14/04/16 08:12 PM
0

Why won't you just go parachuting without a parachute? Optimists annoy me.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 08:11 PM
1

I want to live without the feeling that there's something missing. It's like an internal suffering I don't know where it's coming from nor how to cure it.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 08:10 PM
1

That's a question neither I nor my shrink are able to answer. Somehow I can't end it
/r/askTRP14/04/16 08:05 PM
1

This. Everything right in your comment.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 05:12 PM
-1

Na, I don't think it'd be that easy. Never made a cake for a friend? Well, I did. So yeah, I try my best, although I fail most of the shit tests anyways. Btw does shit test mean she's doing something conscious? Cause if it means that, I disbelief she did/does them. Just not her kind of behavior.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 12:47 PM
1

Wouldn't call it oneitis. It's using a chance. Could be any other chick, I don't care.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 12:43 PM
1

A depression is, when you feel like there's nothing in your life to live for and you lost the ability to feel happiness. I know, that just not getting laid is just a little problem in my bucket. Compared to most people I know, I should feel like a demigod (just believe me, most of my relatives and people I know have bigger self-induced problems). But somehow I'm jealous towards them. They get laid, they do their miserable jobs day in, day out, but they seem to be ok with it. Don't know if you'll…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 06:43 PM
1

Hard task to rewrite without negativity, but I try
/r/askTRP17/02/16 10:44 PM
1

Biggest problem in being depressed is absolutely not knowing what things are making you happy.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:44 PM
1

I think depression is what's causing this purposelessness and lack of a reason to get out of bed. At least it's what I learned by reaearch and in therapy. It's pretty hard to give yourself a purpose, if everything seems gray and dull. Yeah, I know, my mind, my control but even if I try to keep my self talk positive, deep inside I know and feel it's all shit.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:02 PM
3

Easy advice but hard to follow. Thanks for reminding me I'm in this pattern again
/r/askTRP17/02/16 08:56 PM
1

Watched all of the RSDTyler videos. No idea what this dude is talking about most of the time. But the things I understand, mostly about meditation and stuff, are pretty good. Some recommendations, who's vids of the RSD dudes I should watch?
/r/askTRP17/02/16 06:25 PM
1

lohnt nicht
/r/askTRP16/02/16 10:25 PM
1

Sorry, not a native speaker. Intellect is a combination of memory, creativity, the ability to analyze and take informed guesses, so my spelling errors do not represent my intellect in a measurable way.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 09:59 PM
1

I know my flaws and fail hard to overcome them. For me it's rather easy to keep frame, but I fail at being funny and flirty. I won't even get if a girl would be flirting with me. But if I get the signal and understand it, I'm straight forward with kino. All this shit like smiling and joking, carefully reducing her touch barrier and being a douche isn't me. I've got a heart of stone and feel better being cold.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 07:09 PM
0

All the species knowing greed are primates, so therefore human-like. No 'normal' animal steals or kills for just having more, like all primates do, they do it only to survive.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 06:01 PM
1

Thing is, of course I've got the urge to fuck hot women, but I'm looking for a partner and not a sperm dumpster. It's other qualities I'm looking for than just making my dick hard, cause that's an easy task. Also I don't want to cope with huge competition. I believe it's easier to keep a 4 than an 8+.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 05:59 PM
0

Humans are abominations. Animals don't know greed nor envy. They don't need to try to make their existence seem to be something greater than it is.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 08:53 AM
0

But what's the problem with getting a 4, if she isn't a total bitch characterwise? This isn't a 'who gets the hottest woman' contest.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 08:49 AM
1

If it were those things that stand in my way, I would change them. But there are a shit ton of guys on and below my SMV that have absolutely no problems to get girls.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 08:47 AM
0

I dumped my first LTR because I wanted to be as integrated to her life, like I integrated her into mine. ONSs are what they are. The FWB is married now, but still a friend. Only my last LTR dumped me, but it's her problem when she dislikes the way I live.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 02:40 AM
0

At least somebody found a place to brag under my post. Have fun, dude
/r/askTRP16/02/16 02:36 AM
0

I don't know where these opinions come from and I didn't had a ton of girls (2 LTRs, 1 FWB, 3 ONS) and I never ever had a fight with them, nor have they tackeld me with bad behaviour. They more or less showed some really girly traits like being calm and submissive.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 02:35 AM
0

1 - my picture sucks, right 2 - will watch tomorrow 3 - IRL is not my thing. As for FB, I have an account I don't really use.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 02:23 AM
1

Ah, ok, so we have a misunderstanding. I don't get the calidation thing. She can of course seek it, if it's her nature. I also have no problem if she has like 100 notches. What I call an entitled bitch is more behavioral than sexual. If she's a total brat and behaves like she is the fucking best thing on this planet, has to pick every little fight and in total behaves like scum, that's what I see when saying entitled bitch.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 02:19 AM
0

I can understand why you don't want to have a discussion. It's your time and effort going against a wall, but just for a better understanding, why is it 'niceguyish' to want a normal girl and not Ms. 'I get everything because I have boobies'?
/r/askTRP16/02/16 02:00 AM
-2

The fuck? I can offer good company and an above avarage intellect. I can do a ton of shit most people need a repair man for and do all of the fucking paperwork most people have no clues about. No, I want a avarage girl, not an entitled bitch.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 01:22 AM
-1

So, a shame I forgot to make a huge post about reaching 215lbs. And, omg, fuck the money. I ain't starving, so it is enough. I just think that it's time to just get an avarage girl, as my figure is normal and my income is just a little bit lower than average.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 01:18 AM
-1

I know it takes a lot of wark to look like a mutant. It's just that I have only the goal to get a girl. And to my shame it's only a 'want' and not a 'need'. But there's nothing else I desire. I don't need more money, because I don't need fancy shit.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 01:13 AM
-1

Although I'm pretty sure I will never get there because of loose skin that will be left in the end, that's my goal.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 12:51 AM
-1

Please explain what you're trying to say. I don't understand. You don't know my profile.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 12:48 AM
-1

If I would follow all the comments blindly, I would non stop run around in circles and do stuff I don't need. I don't need fancy shit and I don't need the body of a male model. Of course I need to lose my overweight, but that's a thing I'm working on.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 12:45 AM
0

Ekm, no, I think that I'm no beta, at least not a complete one. I don't care for other people's opinion or well being. My benefit and my needs always come first. I really don't understand this attention thing completely, but I accept that women crave for it. I use online dating to find a mating partner and not to get attention. Attention gives me nothing (real).
/r/askTRP16/02/16 12:38 AM
-2

No, I don't want to change my lifestyle for anybody else than myself. For now, I'm getting rid of my weight and that's fine. If I than want to get ripped, I'll do it, if I don't want to, I won't do it.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 12:32 AM
-2

Just anybody else behaving like animals doesn't mean I should feel forced to do so, too. I also wouldn't date a girl dressing like a hoe. If you have to throw your body at others, it signals you have nothing else to offer.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 12:30 AM
0

Dude, life is a competition on who can live it the best. I call bullshit on that. When I see others rushing to work, rushing home, to the gym, their second job only to impress somebody with fancy, shiny stuff, I only see people betraying themselves, trying to make a miserable existence look nice to push their ego.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 12:28 AM
0

K, cool, so at least I think like a normal person in tihs manner.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 11:30 PM
-1

Why the hell seek attention online? If anybody wants attention that bad, why not just paint your face, put on a funny hat and do stupid shit in the city? You would get instant attention.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 11:25 PM
-2

As I anyways try to avoid competition because I think it's stupid, I won't stand in anybody's way. Where does this urge to compete come from? You survive or you die, that's it. The chances to die of starvation or those things is barely existing in western culture these days, so why compete?
/r/askTRP15/02/16 11:23 PM
-1

Yeah, but where are all the women? Population in western countries should be near the 50:50 mark.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 11:11 PM
-3

I have no problem to push through when I know I've the right to do so or with the law on my side. Never let anybody screw me.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 11:10 PM
-4

I don't think so. I just want an average woman. Why would I nowadays need to socialize for this? I have no idea, how socializing should improve my life. I have no urge to talk to people except for getting information I need.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 10:52 PM
1

As it is with everything else: The 'rich ruin the poor'
/r/askTRP15/02/16 10:36 PM
-3

Why is that so? It's pretty much the exact same thing, except for me not being anxious because I don't have to think about the nonverbal signals I give and can't misinterpret hers.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 10:35 PM
0

How would you know I did? When did these rules come out of the blue? Online dating once was the only chance for the lookwise 'not so gifted' to get a mate.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 10:32 PM
-6

Yeah, but I do. Even if I was ripped, I would never ever post a shirtless pic of me. It's just vulgar.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 10:01 PM
1

Actually I don't use canned openers and just ask something legit about one of the pics or about teir interests. If there isn't anything special to ask about, I go for things like a comment on her psycho eyes or shit like that.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 10:00 PM
3

Yeah, I am one of the many, dude.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 09:57 PM
0

It does not. K, I don't overdose like those beafcakes, just went up from 3ng/l to about 11ng/l, but it did nothing characterwise,
/r/askTRP15/02/16 12:51 AM
1

Maybe, but like I said, I'm looking for a relationship and not for meaningless sex
/r/askTRP23/01/16 05:06 PM
1

Because the internet in my area isn't that stable, there are 1-5 days every once in a while, when I have no internet. A single day is easy to fill with sleep, but a longer period makes me really angry and aggressive. Still I'd rather burn down my apartment, than actually go out.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 12:05 AM
1

Like I said, try to reduce the desire to kill myself: find a girl, find a job that isn't annoying the crap out of me, avoid people to avoid unneccessary drama, etc
/r/askTRP25/12/15 10:15 PM
1

What's trolling on wanting a girl/family but no other idiots in my life? Sorry I dislike most men because they are flat morons
/r/askTRP25/12/15 06:14 PM
2

I only watch porn if I'm horny. Averaging at about 3-5 times a month. But at least it sounds like a not impacting thing to try. Perhaps I'll get this endorphine rush after sports than. Never felt good after physical activity before.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 04:32 PM
1

First of all it sounds scary. Second it sounds disgusting. I have a personal rage against all this self-loving and complacent douches.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 04:29 PM
1

There is no reason to pick a hobby. Cooking all for myself is no hobby as it tastes good to me is enough. Everything else, yeah, I have no need for anything else than female companionship. There may be things I want, but nothing I couldn't live wthout.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 03:51 PM
0

Then I'll sit at home doing nothing or sleep all day.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 02:32 PM
1

Only works if you're looking like a god. Else nothing will happen
/r/askTRP25/12/15 02:31 PM
0

If I'd refuse my therapists advice, I wouldn't even care for hobbies. Please stop glorifying antidepressants, if you never took some. They keep your mood from falling, but also keep it from rising. They take the 'everything is black or white' and make it a 'everything is the same shade of grey'.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 02:29 PM
1

It is all a matter of perspective and you will only start loving life once you allow yourself to love yourself and your life. Once you allow yourself to break free from negative thinking and giving a shit about other people's perception of you and your life. It's hard because you're used to it, but in return, living will become a breeze. Point is, I hate my life and myself. How could I love me, if nobody else, nobody that doesn't know me as good as I know myself, can? Iknow myself, ugly guy with…
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:44 PM
1

Fuck this inner-city kids. I was once in their shoes and came from a family with an IQ like toast. Nobody helped me. I made my way alone from early on, what's the least you can expect from every other human being. I need a woman because I can't create one out of thin air like practically everything else. Every skill is learnable. To have a faithful SO is not.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:41 PM
1

I love meditation. This absolute emptyness of thoughts and feelings is an amazing thing.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:37 PM
0

I think life is the way from birth to death, you have to walk in a way, so you don't kill yourself before you finished.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:35 PM
1

That's what I'm doing with everything except the hobbies I don't have, else I wouldn't do anything at all.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:33 PM
1

If I don't have something cool to do which I like, I could at least spend the effort in pretending.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:32 PM
-2

Well, I think macho behaviour is as needy as bragging. 'Oh, please look at me, I'm so great, I'd bang myself...'
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:30 PM
1

Lift. Eat right. Succeed as a man. Stop wasting your life. Success imo is to get a girl. It's the only thing I can't influence that much. I could basically learn everything and to do everything. Others did it, so I am by logic able to do it, too, making all this shit pointless.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:27 PM
1

I dislike tournaments, it's killing the fun in gaming. Conventions aren't my type of thing. Being around that much people is very uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:23 PM
1

That's why I want to build some interests and hobbies. Because girls want me to have them
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:22 PM
1

Read the series. Part 1+2 are great but didn't help. On Part 3... I don't want friends
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:18 PM
1

I think MAs are stupid. Competition is stupid. Why to want to be better than sb else? I even hated school for that stupid reason.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:14 PM
1

Tell me that Steve's yard next door looks great and that it really shows how much effort he's put into it? Fuck that cunt Steve next door, he's a fuckface, I'll be outside at the crack of fucking dawn for as long as it takes to make my yard look better than that cunt's yard. I'll make sure it doesn't even look I'm trying that hard either. If Steve mentions it i'll downplay the shit out of it to make fucking sure he knows it's GAME FUCKING ON! Exactly, fuck him and his yard. Especially fuck the y…
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:11 PM
2

Fucking isn't the problem. Getting to fuck them, is.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 02:41 AM
1

A few months of kickboxing, but not long enough to have matches. If it feels like brawls back in school or in front of a club, than it feels pointless.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 02:36 AM
0

At least being a cave man works for you
/r/askTRP25/12/15 02:28 AM
1

By your definition sleeping is an interest... If finding a girl was easy, most of the internet (porn), even this sub wouldn't exist.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 02:27 AM
-2

My perception of what women find interesting: Big Muscles Low IQ Bad habits Large criminal record Being mouthy Being as less caucasian as possible Being abusive/aggressive/womanizer --> Being (except race and body) a worthless piece of shit
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:49 AM
1

That's the exact opposite of what I want. I can cook, clean and masturbate. No reason to get a wife for that shit. Emotion and warmth can make even the ugliest, laziest bitch worthwhile.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:37 AM
0

As I already said: I don't want friends. I want to: Find something I enjoy. Find a girl. Have a family. Retire Die
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:27 AM
1

I tried a lot of ADs. Best thing I got from some of them was temporary shut down of sex drive. I never liked partying. Can't wrap my head around why anybody thinks this is fun. Who said I wanted a HB10? A HB4 would do also. Easier to keep her longer, higher chance for at least a tiny amount of loyalty, etc...
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:23 AM
1

if you don't want to do anything interesting if you don't find it interesting, then accept you just aren't willing to do what you have to do to be interesting. Just what? Things ren't magically going to be interesting just because I keep doing them. School was shit in the beginning and after 13 years it still was shit. Work sucked in the beginning, it still sucks after 4 years. Grooming sucked when it started to become important, and it still sucks. All things I do, because I have and not want t…
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:20 AM
-1

Men are least likely to want to profit, i might invite you because you want to try something new, maybe you're tight on cash and i offer to pay for you, am i profiting? I constantly have male friends asking me to do this or that and i feel like if i ever said "i'm broke" or "i need help doing it" that they absolutely would. Only reason to get invited to a game/sport is because of being very good at it, to increase the chances of winning. Being broke or being afraid of something was and is my #1 …
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:15 AM
2

Good point, but anybody can prepare a duck. Aren't we trained to follow instructions from early on? Had to smile imagining myself walking up to a random girl 'Wanna see pics of the Christmas Duck I cooked this year?'
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:09 AM
1

If that was true I wouldn't have made it out of bed since being a 12yo
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:06 AM
2

The perfect invitation to get back into my gaming addiction. The only thing I did after school or later after work was playing games or just being with my gf of the time (first one was stressing because lots of logistics to manage, last one was easy, as we lived together 6 of 7 years)
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:04 AM
1

Martial Arts aren't that great imo. I'm a programmer and coding was my hobby back in the day, but since I do it for money I hate it. If someone asks you what you like or do after work, what you going to answer? I like to stay at home and watch something random or browse the internet.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:01 AM
-3

I don't believe in friendship. Of course I hung around with my last LTR's friends, but I think I'm better off myself. People only spend time with you to profit themselves, it's for men as it is for women.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 12:43 AM
-3

I'm getting sick of trying and quitting new stuff. In my eyes it's weak to start something and abandon it for just not enjoying it.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 12:27 AM
1

That's what I'm trying to do and I'm glad for every piece of advice or experience report I get.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 12:25 AM
1

Sounds pretty good but I actually disike lying. I'm in no way free from it, but I feel shit everytime I have to lie about something.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 12:23 AM
1

You mean medication to make me calm and my mind flat, so I can at least function. No way I'll ever take antidepressants again.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 12:22 AM
-1

Merry christmas to you, too. you're actually here, alive, breathing air that goes through your lungs, into your bloodstream and on to power your system. Just like 7 billion other people and most living creatures on this planet. I sometimes wonder why I am at 'the end of my evolutionary family chain'.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 12:19 AM
1

If you add 'so what?' to all of it, that'd be perfectly reflecting my attitude. Sports -> Throwing a ball is throwing a ball, nothing special to it. Music -> I don't evenwant anybody to listen to it, that's why I stopped playing bass. Carving -> The things I make are in no way good enough to be proud of. Although I probably do better stuff than most others, it's shit compared to stuff I can buy for a few bucks.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 12:15 AM
0

So I have to hope for not giving up before I find something, cause searching for interests slowly starts to make me sick.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 12:08 AM
1

I'm already in therapy. But part of it is to find some interests. The one phrase my therapist keeps repeating on this topic: 'I can't help you find interests. Do something you enjoy. Having a reason to get out of bed is an integral part of depression therapy.' Basically running around in circles.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 12:05 AM
1

That's exactly the first thing I tried. Just doing shit and hoping to enjoy. I wouldn't call the activities I tried a waste of time, but I also don't feel like doing them again.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 12:02 AM
0

Yes and no. At least I never got any injuries. But you're right. Most of the time I'm thinking, no brooding, about my life and why it seems to not wotk.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 12:00 AM
1

I'm 26. I don't think it has something to do with age. Most things are just boring. Sports - Wow, I can throw a ball... Music - Wow, I can follow instructions... Carving - Wow, I can make dust collectors... I hope you can guess what I mean. I just don't care about such stuff.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 11:57 PM
1

There isn't anything hyping me. I need some advice on tricking myself into thinking something is interesting.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 11:37 PM
2

There isn't anything hyping me. I need some advice on tricking myself into thinking something is interesting.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 11:37 PM
1

I know, that's why I'm here. I suppose it's just like it is with sex. If you don't have it regularly, the desire fades and you have to 'restart' with stimulation.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 11:09 PM
1

Let me explain this. Most people my age in Germany have a driver's license, but no car. I'm living 45 minutes from city center. But on weekends between 10pm and 8 am and workdays in the evening you basically don't get to or away from my place. I lived near the city center few years ago. Was pretty stressing for somebody that grew up in a village. The matches are mostly from surrounding villages and the city.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 07:15 PM
1

Sorry, I said I know the wrong people, because I only know people talking about themselves and others a lot. So in a few sentences: I meant to say that I tried Tinder and got absolutely 0 matches. You gave me a to do list as a rule set like 'Do this -> go Tinder -> get woman', but like I told you, my shortcomings compared to the list are being pale and overweight. What I'm saying is, that it's not working as easy as you proclaim, therefore I tried and failed. Because nobody wants to talk to some…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 05:54 PM
1

"You shouldn't make your happinss depend on others, but be able to make others happy, so they can depend their mood on you" stenches out of all this "you should be a douche clown" statements
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 04:58 PM
1

Good point I don't want to attract the ones having the sun shining out of their asses I can barely live without one for a few months. Also I'm clueless on making money out of thin air. Sounds right I'm only whiny on the net. I'm not showing any emotion irl (maybe not that good either). There's no place on earth I could go to, where I'd get money for free. Also why should I care about other countries? Different locations have different problems. I'm struggling with superficial shit, while others …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 04:52 PM
1

So I know the wrong people. Tried and failed is not the exception per se. It's months on Tinder, swiping every girl to the right and not getting any match at all. I would be content with pale and overweight. Last LTR was from this category and it went well for 7 years 8 months 13 days 21 hours and a bunch of minutes. I don't think that being negative is a lack of skill. But I know what you mean. I'm not this inflated kind of douche clown the girls fall for, but I'm totally able to have a normal …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 04:46 PM
1

what would you do if you had no limitations Wouldn't change anything, as the only thing I want atm is get rid of my excess weight, but the physiological processes involved take their time. So I'm basically 'dead to the outside' til Feb/Mar 16. I know that I'm the only one responsible for my life, but there are so many obstacles in my way to anything, I can't see the way, nor think of a goal. Maybe to want an average girl is limiting, but I believe it'll be easier to keep a 4 than a 7+.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 04:39 PM
0

All this shit about 'experience is determined by thoughts' is nonsense. Water is wet, no matter if you want it to be or not.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 02:10 PM
-1

Because there are millinos of dudes out there believing they are something great? Life is worthless, as individualism basically is.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 02:08 PM
-2

And there has to be a less attractive girl, always. Fuck it. That's pointless not only because I know you are right, but I just don't want to stay without female companionship for multiple years. Besser widerlich, als wieder nicht -> Better disgusting than nothing.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 02:06 PM
-1

I never said I wouldn't work on it in any way. I just want what everybody else gets: slightly lower than average girls for just comitting to them. parents/family that at least pretends to care/help a 'clean start' - e.g. not having a driver's license (like anybody else, who get it as birthday gift) makes most job applications pointless raised to be fit (average of overweight people in my agegroup is 1 out of 20) bla...
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 01:57 PM
0

You misstyped it: The world is against you, so you (alone) have to be against the world.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 12:44 PM
-8

You'll get the female attention you want if you head upstream and become the sort of man that women admire. This is universal. I just want a normal girl, no overstyled bitch or topmodel. Most older people in Germany are bigger morons than the younger ones. P.s.: Volunteering is stupid. People who work for free are stupid
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 12:43 PM
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Yeah, with the exception of "tried and failed". K, maybe because I'm pale and overweight, but I don't want to date a model, just a 'normal' girl. Why the social skills? Most people talk about themselves or other people, that's boring.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 12:40 PM
-4

Lol. I really like, when the gifted tell the poor to not be jealous
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 11:52 AM
1

Used this calc http://iifym.com/tdee-calculator/ Everything else, nope, same as always
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:51 PM
1

Thing that came to my mind about Jefferson. It's obvious how this dude was able to talk huge about being lucky because of being productive. Everybody born in wealth, having it without having to earn it, is big in telling shit about 'just be more productive', even nowadays.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 08:25 AM
-2

I know, the rich asses would never betray each other. But screwing customers is normal
/r/askTRP29/11/15 08:33 PM
0

Construct meaning realize/build or think about? I'm in therapy for some time now, but never heard of this definition. Yeah, motivation basically is non-existent for me. Tried a number of ways to find it, but yeah, nothing. I had some economy classes in school, that's where this opinion is from. If you take all the bullshit, like 'image', 'nature', 'providing value' and stuff out of the image it comes down to 'Try to fuck everybody around you by selling worthless crap for max $$$ possible'
/r/askTRP29/11/15 07:56 PM
0

I don't get how to use the self doubt for motivation. It basically is what's killing all motivation. It's that inner voice telling me 'Stay at home, do nothing, as your life won't change no matter how hard you try'. The books on economics couldn't help less. All of them go the same: have money (fail) buy shit sell shit
/r/askTRP29/11/15 07:42 PM
1

helping myself
/r/askTRP28/11/15 01:37 PM
1

To be honest, I find this situation rather repulsive, like 'I know you wouldn't talk a single word with me if this wasn't your job, bitch'.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 12:08 PM
1

Now I'm pretty happy, that interacting with the people you mentioned isn't that hard for me. It's starting to get hard with guys being roughly around my age or younger and also with attractive women. My brain starts to tell me 'For them you're scum'. The big carveat with the 'customer contact jobs' is, that I know it's their job, so interacting with them doesn't teach me anything.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 11:28 AM
1

I know, but positive thinking is extremely hard and feels wrong. I think, if it's this book about 'thinking about something to make the universe give it to you', I read it when I was 14. I'm also sure I could get up to getting a 6, but I think/feel not yet.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 08:28 PM
1

Maybe I should get some hobbies, right.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 07:51 PM
1

But I know I aint 'fucking amazing'
/r/askTRP27/11/15 07:50 PM
1

Tinder isn't working for me. Not attractive enough yet. Will have to overcome myself and go cold approaching
/r/askTRP27/11/15 06:11 PM
1

I won't even get a 4, but I won't cry about it. And if I would, I would stick with her. What'd be the best way to start 'approach training'? Where to go, who to game, how to read/interpret IOIs of there are some?
/r/askTRP27/11/15 12:29 PM
1

7 weeks for now. Was at contant 1800 before without losing shit.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 10:31 PM
1

I just can't find a place to buy. In Germany you need a prescription for everything (that works). And I don't trust this shady online stores
/r/askTRP24/11/15 05:39 PM
1

So I just have to find a place to buy that suff. Sorry, your comment sounded way sarcastic as a whole.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 05:26 PM
0

Why would it be cheating myself? I only want to be fit to get away from the shit you get faced with for being fat. I feel shitty anyways, won't matter to ME if fat or fit, just to OTHERS it matters
/r/askTRP24/11/15 05:06 PM
1

Nope, been very very slowly building up in strength
/r/askTRP24/11/15 05:04 PM
2

I'll give it a shot, thanks. Good I took a pic at start
/r/askTRP24/11/15 05:03 PM
1

Sure, been born rich and raised to be fit from the start like everyone else here is huge effort. NOT! Being fit and financially fluent is (at least for the people I grew up with) the absolute standard.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 05:02 PM
1

You think a photo will let me see a change I can't recognize in person?
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:27 PM
1

3-4 lbs a week. So 15 weeks approx to go
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:25 PM
1

How much cardio should i do? An hour is 200kcal at best. So I'd have to do 35 hours to lose 1kg of fat. So 5h/day. This isn't even significant except I'd do nothing else than cardio for weeks
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:32 PM
-1

Fuck this, I want to sprint the rest. If it's not healthy, than it's not healthy. Better risk all on getting fit than staying fat
/r/askTRP24/11/15 12:39 PM
0

Kitchen scale and the highest calorie value I findnon Google. Yeah it's too low of everything but weight loss is slow.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 12:36 PM
1

Goal: 15% BF Current: Approx 28-30% Routine: StrongLifts + 15min Cardio before and after 4-6x per week Diet: Shifting between 400-1600 kcal, only protein and fat
/r/askTRP24/11/15 11:06 AM
0

Losing 3-4 lbs a week, it feels incredibly slow.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 11:02 AM
1

Germany
/r/askTRP24/11/15 09:12 AM
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This is vaguely what I'm doing with shifting calories 400-1600
/r/askTRP24/11/15 09:12 AM
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For sure, didn't say anything about not sticking to it. But at the moment it's absolutely nothing happening. Weight loss is slow, muscle growth because of deficit basically non-existent. I just need a shortcut from -5 to 0 on the health scale. I know it's possible but I only find shit like 'go slow' instead of actual tips
/r/askTRP24/11/15 08:48 AM
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Thanks, I'm doing fine on a carb free calorie shifting 400-1600 kcal. If I eat more, my body won't give away the fat.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 04:44 PM
1

MMing for 5 or so months now. Not a single 'zero day' so far. It's still a very far and rocky way to go. It's just this thought coming up every now and then 'What if this ain't gonna work? What if I'm still worthless when I reached XYZ, if I even reach it?'
/r/askTRP23/11/15 01:01 AM
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I know that it's retarded, but I couldn't help it.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 12:56 AM
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She started out as a low 4...took lots of work (convincing her to use make up, wear her hair long and not colored black, etc) to bring her up to a 5. I let myself go and gained fat in the LTR... Making myself happy...I would be so glad if this'd work, but I somehow need this BP relationship crap (cuddling, somebody calling me darling/big boy/..., a girl being happy just for being with me) and of course daily sex P.S.: I don't even know why I'm struggling to get ANY woman. I sent some pics to som…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 12:25 AM
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It's just... if even SHE (fat, lazy, borderline, selfish, not even slightly emberassed of popping pimples right besides me) doesn't want me, how high are the chances any woman wants me?
/r/askTRP22/11/15 11:35 PM
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IF...and it's not that probable
/r/askTRP22/11/15 11:27 PM
1

So again, it's me against the world. oh, I hate it
/r/askTRP22/11/15 11:15 PM
1

And how do I 'show her I'm bettering' without actually going 'hey, look at this'?
/r/askTRP22/11/15 10:54 PM
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1 - I konw 2 - Lost 40lbs but still 50-60 to go 3 - LOL 4 - I know, but time and lonliness make it hard
/r/askTRP22/11/15 10:33 PM
0

Actually yeah....
/r/askTRP22/11/15 10:32 PM
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Can't throw out everything I have. Just don't have the money to buy everything from a kitchen counter to a new bed
/r/askTRP22/11/15 10:32 PM
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Thank you, but I think I need a kick in the ass more than pity
/r/askTRP22/11/15 10:23 PM
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The sidebar is only telling me what I know but I still feel in another way (some times)
/r/askTRP22/11/15 10:21 PM
0

Because: low SMV working out 4-6x/week (but still fat) money doesn't grow on trees reading RP material, learning guitar, getting better at programming, working with photoshop or 3d editors to get mind clear
/r/askTRP22/11/15 10:19 PM
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Fuck privacy. She didn't call nor text me for some time and I was desperate to know, what she's doing in life now. Back in our LTR I didn't even think about snooping around or shit like that
/r/askTRP22/11/15 10:03 PM
1

Success in this matter is, when I'm finally lean
/r/askTRP22/11/15 06:43 PM
1

Was enough to break my fucking weight plateau
/r/askTRP22/11/15 01:20 PM
1

7 years and she was a 5. As we met the first time, she was barely a 4. But yeah, I got dumped because she 'didn't want to settle the rest of her life with her first'.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 10:59 AM
1

At it, but need 'lunch break'
/r/askTRP21/11/15 10:23 AM
1

SMV too low to game anyone irl
/r/askTRP21/11/15 10:23 AM
1

Dumped by a 5 after years blahblah. irl 5+ ignore me
/r/askTRP21/11/15 10:22 AM
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Will PM you after gym, mate.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 10:21 AM
1

All of them not that usch used in germany
/r/askTRP20/11/15 11:14 PM
1

I've plenty of time to spend but no money
/r/askTRP20/11/15 10:02 PM
2

Way too expensive
/r/askTRP20/11/15 09:56 PM
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Looks well thought on first sight. Will definitly give it a shot. Big thanks
/r/askTRP17/11/15 10:40 PM
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Nice write up dude. Basically that's what I'm trying and failing hard at. No mind changes after a few weeks of lifting but I'll stick to it, cause I force myself. Maybe it's taking me a bit longer cause my T level is at the absolute bottom. Bitt nice to hear from somebody who had the same shit 'against' him.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 03:31 PM
1

Citralopram, Amitryptilin, Sertralin, Muclobemid, Brintellix, Elontril, Mirtrazapin, and some others I can't remember the names. Each for about 2-3 months
/r/askTRP16/11/15 07:45 AM
1

I will try a dew days of fasting. Let's see how far I can get
/r/askTRP15/11/15 03:21 PM
1

Best way to lose weight would be to stay at home half a year and eat nothing at all.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 01:12 PM
1

Tried a lot of different antidepressants. None of them worked. Had a shitload of side effects, but they didn't affect my mood.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 01:08 PM
1

I'll never be in shape because I struggle to lose weight even at as low as 400kcal. I'll never have friends because nobody cares about me and I don't like socializing. I'll never find me dream job, because I have no dream job.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 01:06 PM
1

middle to far east
/r/askTRP15/11/15 01:03 PM
1

I tried around for a bit. At 1500kcal I gain weight. At 800 I hold weight and I have to eat at max 400 to lose weight.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 01:02 PM
1

122kg on 173cm
/r/askTRP14/11/15 11:57 PM
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But than I could also pause gym til I'm lean...
/r/askTRP14/11/15 11:16 PM
1

So in the end nobody cares
/r/askTRP14/11/15 09:27 PM
1

fuck money, fuck opportunity... pussy sounds good, though
/r/askTRP14/11/15 08:52 PM
1

Germany: black/arab/mediteranian > white > asian
/r/askTRP14/11/15 07:58 PM
1

In therapy since June. Therapist is always repeating 'Do what you like'....haha
/r/askTRP14/11/15 07:36 PM
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That was the way I felt when I still played games. Socialising is something making me want to stay in bed. Most hobbies are about doing something physical, I don't like that. I don't like to go out if I don't have to.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 07:35 PM
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Going to the gym for 8 weeks now = nothing Played no games since June = nothing Read about 15 RP books = confused work more = fuck it
/r/askTRP14/11/15 07:24 PM
1

HOW?!?!?!?!?!
/r/askTRP14/11/15 07:11 PM
1

And again, the thing with purpose. Everybody tells me to give me purpose, but nobody is able to answer how.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 07:11 PM
1

You'll be amazed about the money saved from this. Already on a diet, Lost 50lbs since June. But eating pasta and crap all day was waaaaayyy cheaper than a healthy diet. I suggest you start with education first. I got my Abitur in 2008. I would need to go to university to get 'the paper needed' to get a good job, but no money for it. Also maybe you know how it is in Germany with fucking 'Berfsausbildung' bullshit. I know the theory, but being fat looks stupid in everything.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 06:55 PM
0

I see you are right, rationally. But I already wasted what should've been used to get a good life started. I'll never be in shape, I'll never have any friends and I'll never have much money. That's just how it is.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 06:50 PM
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So I will never get my stuff back. How can something I don't want/need to do be in my best interest?
/r/askTRP14/11/15 06:30 PM
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So, start working towards what you want, working what you love. I love nothing, working is shit. I want to play video games (at least right now)
/r/askTRP14/11/15 06:28 PM
1

So, how to find the 'punch in the face'?
/r/askTRP14/11/15 05:55 PM
1

No, she started gaming, when she moved in with me
/r/askTRP14/11/15 05:47 PM
1

fat lazy poor no style see everything negative
/r/askTRP14/11/15 04:33 PM
1

Accept like 'know who you are, but don't rate it' or 'feel ok about yourself'? The first is hard, though I know some of my biggest weaknesses. The ladder - no.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 02:47 PM
2

I don't know, but you are asking way better questions than my therapist. I feel like a total failure. No idea what to do, where to start and how to stick with it. I'm so confused about decisions, I couldn't even decide on a pair of shoes today, so I bought none
/r/askTRP13/11/15 11:44 PM
1

I know. But there are more than enough things I'll never obtain/reach no matter what.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 10:22 PM
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With food the outcome is predictable. With everything else it's not. So it's pretty sure I'll 'roll and roll and roll' for nothing
/r/askTRP13/11/15 08:09 PM
1

Not really
/r/askTRP13/11/15 07:33 PM
1

Sure, why not
/r/askTRP13/11/15 06:57 PM
1

Can eat it very often without getting annoyed by it
/r/askTRP13/11/15 06:24 PM
1

No. It's just 'k, I remembered the taste right' if anything happens in my mind
/r/askTRP13/11/15 04:36 PM
1

Dark wheat beer/pretzels/kasseler with sauerkraut
/r/askTRP13/11/15 04:09 PM
1

No. But that's why I'm in therapy, although I feel nothing getting any better.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 03:51 PM
1

I don't understand
/r/askTRP13/11/15 01:45 PM
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Pride doesn't matter to me. Most proud people are bragging that much it's making me want to puke. Akso I can't handle positive feedback. It's making me nervous and uncomfortable
/r/askTRP13/11/15 12:48 PM
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Don't nknow, has to be a learned sense of shame
/r/askTRP13/11/15 11:52 AM
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Because it's a shame to live as a bum. Everybody sees them as freeloaders
/r/askTRP13/11/15 11:15 AM
1

I would be ashamed and it's inconvenient
/r/askTRP13/11/15 10:15 AM
1

I'm on welfare because of clinical depression. If I don't go to therapy, I have to go find a job. I would switch crap for shit. Then I would be in the same place. Do crap for not living in the street. The other shit is housework so my flat isn't stinking and hygiene to not stink myself
/r/askTRP13/11/15 08:54 AM
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I get out of bed to not stay in bed. My life consists only of shit I have to do, because I have to, boredom, inferiority, and the occasional thought on suicide. I have no idea a) what and b) how to change.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 07:35 AM
1

Give and decide actually are 2 sides of the same coin imho. But they have the same obstacle. I don't know what to do. There's no particular 'action' or 'time/focus investment' touching me in any way.So it woulf, again, fall back to make a living with the least investment possible. That's what brought me to my actual state of mind in the first place and that's bad
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:23 PM
2

Tried this approach some time ago. I have no values
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:17 AM
1

Esoterical as hell, not helpful
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:12 AM
1

Very annoying to read. All this Nazi stuff I got beaten to death with in school. Is there maybe a good summary?
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:09 AM
1

Wow. This is good advice. Will give it a shot
/r/askTRP12/11/15 07:15 AM
1

And that's exactly the problem. I am unable to give myself a purpose and need some input onnhow to overcome this obstacle
/r/askTRP12/11/15 07:09 AM
2

Isn't this about reaching goals? To reach goals, you need to have goals... but thanks anyways
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:27 PM
2

Thanks. Glad it's available in German. Not so glad about it being WWII stuff
/r/askTRP11/11/15 09:58 PM
1

Where to find such a place? A buddy suggested a coiffeur run by a young staff team, where he also gets his hair cut. Read my history or the T thingy this obvious?
/r/askTRP06/11/15 10:54 PM
1

Thanks, seems legit. Was just curious, cause other guys have very thin arms and legs but a huge belly
/r/askTRP05/11/15 07:59 PM
0

actually I have an appointment with an urologist if my doc isn't reacting. But that appointment is in january (it's the earliest I could get in a 75km radius)
/r/askTRP04/11/15 08:05 PM
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I knoe you're right. But the whiny part in me needed a vent and I love the TRP community for being straight and bold with their advice. As long as I'm looking for my purpose I'll keep the work on improvements that are common consensus.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:27 PM
1

It's simply hope for one day comprehending how others enjoy their existence and a tiny bit of not wanting to give anybody victory for me ending it
/r/askTRP04/11/15 03:19 PM
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I know MM is for eliminating shortcomings. I already address my weight, but with other stuff it's insanely hard. I have no particular values. Humans are basically egoistic creatures. The world will do it's best to keep me small. So I want to know, where to invest time so I don't waste my energy for shitty hobbies or a cubicle job
/r/askTRP04/11/15 03:06 PM
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Actually I wish to find an inner motivation. Veggies as broccoli, cauliflower, cabbage, garlic, onions, carrots, tomatoes, cucumbers and all that stuff. I use a zinc supplement. Program is based on stronglifts5x5 core
/r/askTRP04/11/15 02:28 PM
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I lift 4-6x a week, eat on a deficit but 1.5g protein per lb of weight and lots of veggies. I sleep between 7 and 14 hours a night and dislike to go out, because I dislike being seen and also dislike heavy sun. Edit: I didn't masturbate for 4 weeks now, before once per week or every 10 days or so
/r/askTRP04/11/15 02:08 PM
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Was on meds for 3 years. Tried 9 different antidepressants and it changed nothing. Shit stayed shit and I had a fuckton of side effects like temporary impotence, heavy sweating and shit
/r/askTRP04/11/15 02:05 PM
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