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RED FLAG 🚨pascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:41 PM
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STAY WOKEpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:07 PM
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LibFem Logicpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:42 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 03:20 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:49 PM
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FDS HUMORpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:06 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:58 PM
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STRATEGYpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:30 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:47 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:57 PM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢pascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:30 PM
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LEVEL UPpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 12:00 AM
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STRATEGYpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:54 PM
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DISCUSSIONpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 06:42 PM
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STAY WOKEpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:29 AM
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LibFem Logicpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:04 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:04 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:27 PM
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DISCUSSIONpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:56 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!pascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:09 PM
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STAY WOKEpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 10:39 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:15 PM
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LVM LOGICpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:31 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:13 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 06:30 PM
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FDS HUMORpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:55 PM
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LVM LOGICpascalines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:25 PM
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Ok but I’ve watched this like 10 times her voice is like FDS ASMR which is a category I am so here for 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 12:45 PM
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Based on this comment alone I now have a huge crush on you. Which I realize is ironic 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 03:13 AM
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“And that if she was gonna hang with the boys then she needed to act like it” 🤢🤢 saying the quiet part out loud. Men protect other disgusting men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 04:16 AM
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What in the pickme hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 03:53 PM
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Not el chapo or Sofía 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 05:45 AM
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“What do people eat in your country” 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 05:41 AM
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Yup. I had a male friend once I’d never worked with, then he hired someone I knew and turns out he’s a psychotic asshole micromanager. Friendship ended immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 05:56 AM
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He hates her. How can so many women not see that? I’m not excluding myself because I used to be one of them. I really think women will never understand how much men hate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:41 AM
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Leave and do NOT under any circumstances get pregnant. If you get pregnant by a LVM, abort. Protect your womb at all costs, there is nothing that ties you more permanently to a scrote than a baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:09 AM
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The bar is underground
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:02 PM
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She should abort his child and divorce him stat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:03 AM
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This describes an enormous portion of you-know-what activism. Fury and rage that we experience things and are things they can never have or be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:29 AM
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No, he’s not an ill man. He’s just a regular, ordinary man steeped in misogyny by a misogynistic society. Stop making excuses for men, who exactly are you going to bat for here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 06:30 AM
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Subbed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 03:57 AM
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FOR REAL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 03:41 AM
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I agree. When I criticize choice feminism I’m criticizing the idea many feminist have that if a woman chose it, and claims she chose it of her own free will, that it is a feminist choice. Not only do I not believe in that extreme level of individualism (we should consider ourselves a class first and foremost), but I think it dilutes the term “feminist” in a way to kowtow and become more palatable to men. If men agree with your feminism, chances are it’s not feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 09:29 PM
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We should absolutely be posting more feminist analysis + writing in this sub. I’m part of a few other radfem subs and Brady, Steinem, bell hooks, MacKinnon, Dworkin, Greer, Dines, Wolf et al should be posted more often imo. I miss second wave feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 05:11 PM
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I’m an avid birdwatcher and photographer, and I derive endless inspiration from female birds. They know they have the power. They know it’s the male’s responsibility to prove they’re the best choice for reproduction; they do this by extensive grooming, displays of health, elaborately choreographed mating dances, gifts, and for monogamous species consistently being a doting father and providing for offspring season by season. The females are often also larger, and absolutely none of them give af …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:05 PM
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My dog is 100000000000x better than every single LVM combined.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:36 AM
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If you read this mantrum in Perd Hapley’s voice, it actually makes a great descriptive monologue of women’s lives and priorities in 2021 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:33 AM
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Lmao I fully agree with the seriousness of your comment but “porny unconsented spinning” is fucking killing me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:17 AM
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My relationship makes my life so much easier than when I was single. It does take “effort” to continue going out of your way for someone, appreciate when they go out of their way for you, learn each other’s communication styles, etc. But it’s loving, easy, happy work. If it’s “hard” work there is something wrong in the relationship and statistically it’s probably the man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 11:00 PM
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Succinct and perfect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:55 PM
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This is so sad. It truly is a pandemic of male violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:45 PM
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Incredible username
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:11 PM
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I love long-standing FDS references so much. The nest, the slugs, the rare yogurt collection 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:53 PM
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LOL “I just want to extract all of your emotional labor and give nothing in return” emotional vampire ass dudes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:33 PM
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I book myself 60-90 minute massages regularly (obvi not during COVID).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 05:52 PM
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Like anything else typically benign but potentially addictive (smartphone use, alcohol, weed, etc) I think it’s fine in moderation. My concern is if their video game use interferes with their normal life/relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:28 AM
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I know :( makes me so sad too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:04 PM
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I adore Cardi B. She’s not perfect, she’s not the model of what FDS would advise (stays with a cheater, caters to the male gaze etc). But she is TOUGH. She believed in herself for YEARS even when everyone was saying she’s not a real rapper, she’s a stripper, she’s a joke. She’s funny af and smart as hell and she is SO much tougher than any of her critics. She’s made an incredible life for herself through sheer determination, hard work, and an unshakeable belief in herself, I think she’s an amazi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:53 PM
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Amazing point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:09 AM
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“Over 35 pleasures” hahahahahxhxhandlskd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:03 AM
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Good for you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:09 PM
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Sex is a great example of this. I swear to god whatever it is that a guy reverts to doing in bed, despite several exhortations to the contrary, I’m CONVINCED is what his first ever girlfriend liked. It’s like a guy learns “direct counterclockwise rapid circles” ONCE and then does that fucking forever. Even if you tell him a million times “indirect, slightly to the left and over my clit hood” he’ll do that for 10 seconds and then go back to his default he learned from ONE woman at age 16. Infuria…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 11:39 PM
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“Walks” 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:59 PM
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My college roommate used to get “good morning sunshine” texts every single morning and night from this one scrote. The worst part is he wouldn’t change the sunshine part, what is “goodnight sunshine”????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:59 PM
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Ewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:39 PM
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When I was 27 I “lost” my HVM bf, a man I was sure I would marry someday, due to unresolved childhood trauma. I would lash out, and we drifted further and further apart and I just let it happen, not realizing it was happening. When he finally ended it I was devastated; I thought I’d lost my “one chance.” Two years later I’m with a different, higher than HVM, amazing partner with whom I’m so much more compatible. I took a while off dating to work on myself, went to therapy, improved my self estee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:37 PM
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Imo 24-32. Don’t exclude younger guys! We’re socialized to believe older men are “more mature” but honestly….they’re not. In my experience there are just as many immature scrotes in their 30’s and dating a younger man can be a way to even out the power differential in het relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 01:27 PM
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Not sure why you’re being downvoted. It’s perfectly acceptable to prefer sex with another person to toys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:56 PM
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The gendered cognitive bias is insanely frustrating. My advice? Get a new psychiatrist and tell them you WERE diagnosed as a child/teen/college student. Tell them you used to take wellbutrin for it off label because you were nervous about regular ADHD meds, but that it wasn’t really working for you so you went off meds long ago. As an adult you’re suffering from X symptoms and you’re now ready to try out other meds. This was the ONLY way I got my psych to believe me, diagnose me and treat me pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:57 PM
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I can’t tell you how much I relate to this specific anger as an adult dx ADHD. I spent my whole ENTIRE life being called lazy, messy, disorganized, undisciplined, not doing well in school, forgetting to pay medical bills, and my parents/teachers never ONCE thought to test me for attention deficit issues. Doing well as an adult, going to grad school and finally being treated. But I’m resentful of all the little boys who were diagnosed and helped when I wasn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 01:56 PM
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I tried my best 😩😩😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 01:40 PM
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My 4 year old brother once came up to me and very seriously asked “name three dinosaurs that you don’t know 😳”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 01:06 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 05:46 PM
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Drug dealing is work!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 03:23 AM
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What in the pickmeisha hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:13 PM
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You’re a hero honestly. I admire your strength!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:55 PM
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Ewwwwww imagine being taught by this scrote professor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:58 AM
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NYC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:31 PM
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It REALLY depends where you live and what your social circle is like. Yes LVM abound everywhere but we’re kidding ourselves if we think they don’t aggregate more in certain contexts. For reference I live in a large city full of educated progressive/liberal professionals. While yes, there are plenty of LVM Bernie bro types, there are FAR less LVM proportionally here than in other regions of the US. I work at a young, liberal, inclusive, prestigious company. I love the outdoors and am part of many…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:42 AM
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Such an important reminder. If I had settled for “pretty good” I would never have met my current (amazing) bf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:12 AM
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My bf gently warms up my dogs food because “I can tell he likes how it smells when it’s warm” 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:29 PM
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What in the delusional tradcon nightmare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:12 PM
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I have conflicting feelings on this. Yes, I think sex work including OF is a scam and women have been duped into believing it’s empowering. But the disrespect from men towards these women?? FOH. Calling them whres, slts, denigrating their worth (even though THEY watch them!!), all of that bullshit I’m not cool with. These women have been misled by patriarchy; they are still worthwhile people and they are deserving of respectful treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:31 PM
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My best and easiest vet is just to disagree with a man, as soon as possible, and watch his reaction. I can’t tell you how many guys cannot tolerate a woman disagreeing with them and feel compelled to argue, convince, scoff, eye roll, etc. Current HVM replied to me disliking my college town with a laughing “really?? Wow that’s so funny, I wonder if it’s because I spent summers there as a kid so it’s nostalgic for me”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:12 AM
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I think people have taken “the expensive wedding industry markup and pressure to keep up with the joneses is insane” (which imo is true) and confused it with “engagements and weddings mean nothing, you can spend $100 on rings or better yet just don’t get married it’s just a piece of paper!” There’s a happy medium people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:59 PM
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Daren 😂😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 01:05 PM
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Are there really? I can’t wrap my mind around women genuinely believing they’re empowered by sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 12:43 PM
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This is why choice feminism drives me crazy. A decision is not feminist just because a woman made it. Sex work is not a feminist choice, plastic surgery is not a feminist choice, becoming a sahm is not a feminist choice. Women should be free to make those choices but they are not empowering choices, and calling them such dilutes the power of that word to where it’s entirely meaningless. Women are oppressed by patriarchy as a class so choices that uphold oppression do not solely impact the indivi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 10:01 PM
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Wow I didn’t even know that. This is all such a scam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:45 AM
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Dude. Anterior/posterior fornix is SO important to me, way more than gspot and probably more than clit actually. If a guy isn’t long enough to reach back there I’m so sad. That’s why it also drives me crazy when people say “size matters but it’s girth not length; the vagina is only 3-5 inches long” like uhhhh I guess if all you care about is your gspot? 🙄 Also if my vagina is 5 inches long and I want you to hit my fornix (1 inch behind the cervix top and bottom) I’m gonna need you to be longer t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:18 PM
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In order to date a man, two things MUST be true: He must see you as his true equal He must be secure in himself If he doesn’t see you as his true equal but he’s secure in himself, he’s a classic misogynist. If he sees you as his equal but he’s insecure, he’ll feel emasculated, resentful of your qualities, and take it out on you in subtle ways. If neither are true it’s just a redpill misogyny nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 01:27 PM
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I mean it’s the same scrote who sang “can’t make a wife out of a ho” 🙄 Can’t make a husband out of a ratty scrote more like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 11:00 PM
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Same. I don’t hate the honeymoon phase, but I know it’s not real, it’s a dopamine high designed to encourage mating lol. I couldn’t wait to get to the real part, where we discover we have flaws and argue but it’s authentic and stronger and more secure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:25 PM
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Ew what the fuck? I have loved you when you and your friends beat and GANG RAPED ME? What the actual fuck. Black women have suffered far more than black men in this country. And yet we only ever pay attention to the men. It’s even difficult getting people to remember Sandra Bland, Atatiana Jefferson, the prevalence of r*pe as a tool of control by White enslavers/authorities, on and on. Sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:08 PM
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This is the only answer in the thread I think is reasonable and not terrifyingly dystopian. If you were going to have a conversation about addressing the dating market, the ONLY thing I think we can and should do is to change and diversify media representations of leading protagonists. We need to have a much wider physical variety of leading/romantic representation in our society. I think attraction/selection will adjust accordingly over time in a healthier direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 02:19 PM
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God I love Gen Z women: “It’s seen as potentially shallow, a repackaging of the patriarchy, and not in the best interests of women, especially young women, because people associate it with casual heterosexual sex, D/s play, and being sexually active online, especially through platforms like OnlyFans.” I 100% agree. I am ALL for queer liberation and shedding puritanical christian sexual mores, better sex education, reducing stigma around women’s pleasure. But everything else can goooooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:08 PM
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“Their aim is to ensure men as a group can continue acting in a bad way and get away with it” A-FUCKING-MEN. This is Reddit relationship advice in a nutshell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 11:59 AM
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Not simlish 😩😩😩😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 10:18 PM
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Also….just because you happen to be short doesn’t mean you aren’t still allowed to prefer partners who are 6”+. Men have this weird idea that it’s equal opportunity pussy and that short women should get “matched” with short men and tall women with tall men so “everybody is happy.” There is this strange and entitled vitriol directed at short women who DARE to still select tall partners. That’s not how the world works. Women are entitled to whatever preferences they have regardless of their person…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 04:42 PM
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Great post. Men need to be embarrassed more often for their EMBARRASSING behavior. They don’t respond to reasoning, cajoling, convincing. They respond to embarrassment and it’s high time we start making them ashamed of their low value behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 01:19 PM
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I hope she gets picked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 08:24 PM
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I genuinely believe men should be barred from being judges. They objectively were raised worse than their female counterparts, know less, have experienced less, empathize with less, and if they empathize with anything it’s likely to be other men who are usually the defendant/abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 01:41 PM
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Also “I mean, two teenagers banging it out is bound to be good” 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:34 AM
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Don’t forget David Foster Wallace groupies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:10 AM
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Sidebar but I actually LOVE vagisil- but for skin rashes…it has the highest % lidocaine of any OOTC product (I believe) so I use it for bug bites and stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:12 AM
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I didn’t understand the caption and thought they were truly making fun of this cleansing product for men’s genitals. And I was like wtf I think that’s a great idea! I’d be appreciative of a man who had a special ball hygiene wash…. But no of course it’s for women. Who already do wash 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:10 AM
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Fellow CF FDSer- you must also BEWARE the mildly CF man. Even if he is HV in all other ways, in my experience “CF” men who are not RESOLUTELY CF for a very good, personal reason, are more susceptible to external pressure and likelier to change their mind on you than a CF woman. My hypothesis is that deep down even the most HV man knows that being a father is much easier than being a mother. Even if you truly do split the work 50/50 (rare), men will never have to be pregnant, give birth, or shoul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:27 PM
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PLUS even if we are childfree we still bear the risk of pregnancy and the burden of obtaining/paying for/remembering to take birth control, and getting abortions if necessary. IUD insertion is painful and expensive and I do the mental labor in my relationship of remembering when it expires and making appointments to get a new one. Abortion is painful, unpleasant, stigmatized, and uncomfortable. Men don’t have to worry about these things and benefit from our labor in these areas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:21 PM
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The way I see it, my mental health is slightly better with my HVM boyfriend than when I’m single. But my mental health was TEN TIMES worse with my NVM ex. So being in a good relationship now is worth it to me, but if I didn’t have a HVM boyfriend I would SO much rather be single forever with my girlfriends, pets, and peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:50 PM
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I 100% feel you. My dad married a 29 year old when I had JUST moved out of the house to go to college (and he was 47 🤢) and from then on he’s super upset and guilt trippy because I don’t want to play happy families with my now 3 and 6 year old brothers and his new wife (I’m almost 30 and live on the opposite side of the country). It’s traumatizing and sad. I used to be super close to my dad until 17 and from then on I basically removed myself from his daily life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:57 PM
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Ugh this is exactly my dad. Parentified me at a young age and used to ask my advice about his dating and sex life starting from age like 12 🤢 including about my current (at the time) stepmom. Also started dating a 29 year old when I was 17 (and he was 47) and now I have 3 and 6 year old brothers that he’s mad I’m not more involved with. I’m just traumatized and don’t want to be dragged into his new family just because he’s decided 55 is a good time to have more kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:55 PM
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Then you know enough to understand why I asked if OP is a troll. Have a nice day!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:49 AM
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I have an MS in stats and work as a data scientist. But thanks for chiming in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:15 AM
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Are you a troll or have you never taken a statistics class? Correlation =/= causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:48 AM
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Frankly concerned at your choice of metaphor. But yes I consider my experience being pursued by creeps, like the type of dude who likens women to deer being hunted, to give me unique insight into this topic.
/r/seduction09/07/21 04:56 PM
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Sure, just don’t listen to both women in this thread who are saying that consent/desire to sleep over and cuddle isn’t the same as consent/desire to have sex. Men know best, after all.
/r/seduction09/07/21 04:02 PM
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Completely disagree. I would be creeped tf out if a guy took advantage of me not having a place to stay like that.
/r/seduction09/07/21 01:33 PM
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“Inexplicably riding a child’s bike” that he ABSOLUTELY stole from some poor kid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:26 PM
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Grab a headlamp and an excavator while you’re at it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:48 PM
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“Laundromat and walk dates” 💀💀 I swear the women here are fucking hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:19 PM
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“Unfortunately he was quite…smelly as well and I really wanted to kiss him but I didn’t know if I could….because of his smell” 😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:10 PM
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“I just get a phone call on a Monday morning and it’s Vic saying ‘I’m here now’….and he’d followed me to Vienna.” “But you were in prison at the time” “Well not in prison…I’d been arrested for stealing a chicken and it was on a Friday afternoon and they’re not going to let out anyone till Monday” 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:10 PM
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Being too eager to call themselves a feminist. Most true feminist allies show, not tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:23 PM
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Lmao true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:01 PM
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Heyyyyy some of us are sensitive about our tiny clits 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:22 PM
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Signaling interest is literally the opposite of playing games. A respectful man WILL look for signs of interest before asking a woman out. What alternative do you prefer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:59 AM
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LVM make sense when you remember they see us as things and not people. It’s like if I said “I got the single person phone plan but now I have kids. I wish I’d gotten the family phone plan.” LVM see us as phone plans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:10 PM
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Lol mine also gets me flowers regularly and I find myself having the same thoughts it’s so maladaptive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:58 AM
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Thank you for rerouting the sub back in the right direction. I’m in the first truly HV relationship of my life with an amazing man and I’m scared to post about how/why it ended up working out because I feel like the sub’s emotional timbre lately has been “there are no HVM just fakers” and that’s damaging as fuck to the women who are still dating. There ARE high value partners out there. If you want a relationship it’s worth keeping your hopes and putting the effort in to swipe left on some toads…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 12:32 AM
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Wow I’ve never had my feelings put so succinctly by someone else before. As soon as I finally realized I had aged/I was not as pretty as I was before, it’s like this flip switched....and I was free to become the person I was at age 10 again. Crunchy, tevas wearing, obsessed with bugs and plants. Dgaf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:24 AM
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She looks like Nina Dobrev!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:46 PM
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I get that sentiment and I agree with it in a way. But part of me feels like if we never go outside at night, never wear certain clothes, never take nudes, never travel alone, etc then.....they win? Their goal of minimizing our freedoms and ability to choose our own activities is met. But I do get the sentiment to self preserve. Personally I like taking body neutral nudes for self love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:00 PM
110

In a perfect world we would be free and respected and able to take nudes for ourselves and trusted partners without having opportunistic scrotes taking advantage. But we don’t live in that world. You can set up folders to password protect your nudes and make sure that you don’t send them to anyone whom you don’t trust to delete and/or password protect them (I.e. very few people) Also yet another reminder to never date a cop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:59 PM
7

“You are a 55 year old very stinky chunk trying to date 25 year olds” 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:44 AM
10

I’ve been there. The NUMBER ONE thing you absolutely must do (if at all possible I.e. you don’t have children with him) is block. Block him on all platforms, social media, text/call, email, everything. This is for two reasons, 1. So he can’t talk you back into returning to him and most importantly 2. So you aren’t secretly waiting around and hoping he DOES say something. Blocking means a clean cut and mental freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:23 PM
18

I love this sub. So many smart women in here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:50 PM
59

Nest 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:04 AM
8

MGTOW always makes me laugh because they NEVER go their own way. I would absolutely LOVE if men went their own way but they’re way too obsessed with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:00 AM
5

Same. Dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:01 AM
8

Not banana sex 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:14 PM
67

This is exactly how I feel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:25 PM
49

The last sentence 💀 you’re hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:19 PM
100

Even worse, in the books he doesn’t rape her. He actually touches her gently and turns her on and she’s the one who moves his hand lower (I.e. he explicitly waits for her consent). They made it a rape scene in the show because the showrunners are scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:45 PM
95

This is why I refused to ever watch game of thrones and judged the fuck out of anyone who did. Disgusting show, disgusting excuse for showrunners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:08 PM
74

My 20F boyfriend 56M and I have a lot in common aCtUaLlY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:08 AM
132

Hairy legs, no makeup is how I successfully repelled enough men for enough time to leave myself free to meet my HVM boyfriend. Who is so sweet and prefers me without makeup because “you seem happier and more true to yourself that way.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:49 PM
104

Nick is trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:18 AM
29

LVM only like other men. They only enjoy the company of men, they only want the approval of men, they only respect men. The only reason LVM as a whole seek women is to use them for sex and domestic labor. Why would she need to be funny or smart for that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:26 PM
21

Lmao she’s so funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:51 PM
21

I would love more conversations about race/class/sexuality/ability on FDS! All women supporting ALL women is so important and I’d love to have discussions of what we can do to level the playing field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:16 PM
16

Lmao are you a writer? You have a way with words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:11 PM
185

“The unwashed” 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:41 AM
92

I’m cracking up at his face at “tell the whole story 😏”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:42 PM
37

Absolutely this. I think a big part of it is our culture’s obsession with “troubled hero” stories. Male protagonists who are pieces of shit and treat people poorly (iron man, the entire cast of entourage etc) but “at the heart of it” they’re “good” and you’re brainwashed to cheer for them. Women aren’t allowed even 1mm of wiggle room or imperfection and yet we’ve basically CEMENTED the idea that men can treat people like shit and remain heros & protagonists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:46 PM
95

You’re so lucky you discovered FDS at 17. I wish I had known not to spend my 20’s seeking validation from scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:13 PM
74

My HVM boyfriend becomes completely disconsolate if he thinks there’s a chance he has upset me, even unintentionally. He’s so scared of harming our relationship in any way. I didn’t know what real security felt like until this relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:45 AM
25

I would LOVE an all female gym. Fuck I wish that was a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:48 AM
36

I’m 29 and every year I become happier and happier. I was MISERABLE ages 18-27. I can’t wait for my 30’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:47 PM
4

GASHOLE 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:15 PM
3

Honestly I could have written this post two years ago. Same exact situation. And I’m so, so, so glad we ended things and I wish we’d ended it sooner. It’s a common pattern to suddenly think about all the good things you’ll miss as soon as it’s over, but once you’re doing good on your own you’ll have more clarity of all the negatives that led you to leave. I promise you’ll look back on this and be so happy you put yourself first. As for friends, do you have any hobbies? Can you join a running gro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:07 PM
8

He might be talking to other gay men. I’ve heard gay men call each other girl/girls all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:52 AM
18

So really Meghan is the HVW lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:17 PM
3

It’s scary the change was even necessary. It’s scary that this is a common enough attitude towards women that they mentioned it as a takeaway for others to reflect on.
/r/seduction19/03/21 02:04 AM
2

It’s pretty scary that you have to consciously try to focus on seeing women as actual real people and not sex vending machines.
/r/seduction19/03/21 01:59 AM
8

100% true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:18 PM
9

Would anyone else be interested in a sort of FDS book club/discussion circle? I’m an avid reader and I’m constantly reading books both fiction and non fiction that I think really fit the themes in this sub. I’d love to discuss with like minded ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:32 AM
3

My mom is exactly like this! I’ve finally realized through my therapist that I don’t need my mom to agree with me about who I am. I can be and know who I am without her co-signing that, and that’s so freeing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:31 AM
127

This is so true and I would add the invisible 3rd shift- the beauty shift. The first shift is paid labor, second shift unpaid domestic labor, and the third shift unpaid unacknowledged beauty labor that the world demands (shaved body hair, waxing, makeup, high maintenance hair, nails, trendy clothes). “The Beauty Myth” by Naomi Wolf really opened my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:26 AM
123

I was able to go completely off Zoloft when I dumped my ex. Seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:38 AM
45

Cracking up at “really great snakes”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:53 AM
44

It’s so fucked up that we’re criticized more harshly for hating men, than men are for constantly doing the things that make us hate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:23 AM
35

Same!! I’m 29 and I never dated hot men even though I could, but for me it’s because I thought less hot men would be nicer eyeroll. Turns out there are just as many ugly entitled LVM. So glad I’m not stuck in a relationship with no attraction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:27 PM
16

Honestly you’re better off. I’m 29 now and in my first HV relationship and I wish I hadn’t been strapped to a bunch of dudes in my early 20’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:19 PM
1

You date women you find unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:00 AM
3

Lol....this is exactly why I have anal sex with my boyfriend! But it’s his ass, not mine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:35 PM
8

I literally love you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:34 PM
7

Lmao they lost all credibility when they dated purity myths to tHe VicTorIaN eRa. Wtf? That wasn’t that long ago! Virginity fixation has been around for thousands of years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:41 PM
8

I really hoped this was satire but I don’t think it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:14 PM
23

LOL she’s fucking funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:46 AM
52

“Our culture builds girls up just to destroy them” is so true. Britney Spears, Anne Hathaway, Jennifer Lawrence, Kesha. There are so many women our culture has raised to extremely high heights just to then turn around and mock and tear them down. It’s why even if I don’t care for a particular celebrity I will never ever ever badmouth a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:12 PM
13

The school of hard knocks alum is married to the CEO at Mommy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:42 PM
3

You are not being dramatic. If you never got justice and closure from an event, it doesn’t matter how long ago it happened, it can still hurt. You are not crazy for being upset and you’re not alone. Going to therapy even for just a couple of sessions really helped me receive closure and reconnect with my strength to move on. I have confidence you too will heal from and move past this when you are ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:23 PM
5

Lmao I love this guy. His accent and mannerisms are so cute too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:06 PM
12

Oh god I dated a mijito once. All of these responses are so triggering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:01 PM
36

For thine is the queendom, and the power, and the glory forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:57 PM
35

The fingernails are triggeringgggg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:06 PM
29

Not the tiny beanies 😩💀 we get those here too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:00 PM
28

I wish we could get movies about women like this instead of a 44th mission impossible starring an aging scrote going through the same boring plot lines over and over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:11 AM
84

Ewwwww imagine being this woman and having this nvm scrote misogynist’s child 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:23 PM
65

I can’t stand when men call us girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 01:13 AM
33

They NEVER go their own way. They can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 01:11 AM
3

You just leveled up so hard today. Queen behavior. It sucks and it hurts right now but you’ll look back on this with immense pride and relief. I know I did for my NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:12 PM
21

Ooh what language? I need to remember that one next time someone pulls the im just joking card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 01:23 PM
8

Yay!!! Congratulations. PLEASE block him on ALL platforms, it’s the only way to move past a NVM. If you don’t block him you can’t stop yourself from wondering whether he’s texted and you can’t ignore everything he says. Blocking is absolutely required step #1 of the breakup plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 10:47 PM
24

It means that staying and feeling justified/vindicated in being “right” (I.e. he SHOULD give you marriage/children) is poor compensation compared to actually GETTING what you want (leaving and having children).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:31 PM
15

🤮 disgustingggg. I dated one of those too. Revolting weird protein powder egg concoctions 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:00 PM
39

One of the biggest reasons I’m with my current boyfriend; our lifestyles match. We go to the gym together AND cook nice meals together. He’s a balance between fit and not a keto protein freak who won’t eat anything that’s not protein powder, chicken, and steamed vegetables. I actually think he’s made ME healthier and more fit just by being around him and being inspired. Your choice of partner has a big impact on your health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:11 PM
71

This has happened to me too, Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:52 PM
37

You are worthy of love, respect, and being treated with human dignity at the exact size you are right now. I think withholding sex until a man has proven himself is one of the best things I ever learned to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:52 PM
18

This is really good growth and I admire you for recognizing your past mistakes. I’ve definitely been there too when I was younger, you’re 22 and even ahead of where I was then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:51 PM
79

We’re on the same journey! Deprogramming objectification and the idea that sex is done TO women. It’s so hard but so worth it to learn boundaries and stick to them; no, I don’t like being choked, called “sl*t”, wearing a collar, being degraded etc. Luckily my boyfriend now also feels really weird doing all that stuff and just wants to have loving respectful sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:01 PM
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Great resource! I’ll add that a HVM is always mature and supportive regarding sex-related vaginal issues like yeast infections, UTIs, BV, and chafing. A HVM will never, ever be grossed out by you using real adult language (I.e. “I have a yeast infection so we can’t have sex tonight” instead of “something doesn’t feel right down there”) and he will go out of his way to help by buying cranberry pills, going to the store for anti fungal cream, drawing you a bath, rubbing your back, etc. Source: HVM…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:02 AM
6

Woohoo Dr. Queen!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:06 AM
50

This comment triggers tf out of me 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:01 PM
44

What always blows my mind is that men imagine just because THEY enjoy sex with women, we feel the same way about them. By and large we do not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:28 AM
65

My bf is the gentlest man ever but he sneezes like an elephant trumpeting LOUDLY and it kills me every time 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:02 AM
65

Def my experience too. If a vanilla guy is bad in bed he’s just bad in bed! Adding whips isn’t gonna change that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:11 AM
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No there’s nothing wrong with you! Just because sex isn’t very important to some women doesn’t mean women with high sexual needs are wrong or broken. For me sex IS a huge part of a romantic relationship, and not just a cherry on top (but no shame to women who feel differently!) I would also feel disconnected from a partner who didn’t want to have regular sexual intimacy or who was so bad at it that it impacted my sex drive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:09 AM
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My boyfriend now is blessedly what bdsm types would call “vanilla” but is by far the best lover I’ve ever had. Sexually open minded and adventurous (without being abusive!!), generous, skilled, empathetic, listens and remembers what I like, manages to be masculine, strong and sensual all at once. I’m not sure when our culture decided only “kinky” people are good in bed and everyone else is boring but it’s really sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:05 AM
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No it’s good this way!! We need to put the embarrassment back on men for having so much audacity. Every time someone like you does this it helps all women out everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:20 PM
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Oh really?! Ew that’s gross. Also dark skinned women look gorgeous with a red lip...?? Weird of her specifically since she has a makeup line. ETA a makeup line that is built on inclusivity & a huge shade range 🧐🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:40 PM
10

Definitely a green flag!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:47 PM
32

“Cara mia” “Mon cher”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:41 PM
30

“Double pitiful instead of just regular pitiful” I swear the women on this sub are particularly funny 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:24 PM
5

Lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:56 PM
64

Hatfishing 😭😂💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:27 PM
8

Oh no girl. I’ve dated a 35 year old emergency medicine attending, a machine learning engineer at Google, an M&A corporate lawyer, they were all dumb as fuck actually. Skilled in 1 career thing ONLY and idiot children in all other aspects, tragic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:05 PM
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This is a really great point. One of the first things I noticed about my (so far HV, still vetting) bf is that he absolutely raved about his former boss at his first job and how she set such a great example of how to behave and get stuff done at work that he’s tried to emulate in his career ever since. Also something I’ve noticed is that his DAD is a HVM and treats his mom like an absolute queen. He clearly grew up in a household where that was the example set for how to treat your partner and m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:37 PM
5

Hahah for sure. I think it can be a nice “in a relationship” date, but definitely would side eye it as any of dates 1-5.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:05 PM
3

Yes!! The best thing I did was read the FDS wiki/handbook back to front and take enough time to work on myself where I was happier to be alone than with a LVM. Best insurance against settling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:02 PM
13

Ugh seriously. Don’t forget the opportunity to watch them play video games/surf on their phone/take bong rips with their friends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:59 PM
53

I should’ve mentioned- this isn’t a first date, we’ve been dating for several months! He comes up here a lot, but I like visiting him too so I can get a sense of his home life, friends, daily routine etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:16 AM
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I’m not approved to comment there yet hehe but here is my response: “I would frankly be turned off by a guy expecting me to drive to HIS city for a first date. If you had been dating a while I think it makes sense to go to each other’s cities but this is so low effort of him right out of the gate! Especially since ice cream is a low effort date too. The other thing that jumped out at me was you saying “we could do so many cute things like_____” the fact that you can name all those cute things ri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:36 AM
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For context, my previous ex I broke up with in August would always float the idea of “we should go out to dinner” but end up just inviting me over for takeout and sex and me watching him play Conan the Barbarian 😩 wtf was I even doing before this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:34 AM
3

So real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:17 PM
5

I literally burst out into a snort cackle HAHAhcwnckdj. Why is it so accurate though. Why is that literally his underwear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:16 PM
11

Excuse me did you go through my fridge?? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:40 PM
18

The pianissimo 😩😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:35 AM
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I came to a very similar conclusion in a different relationship. After years of battling and arguing and debating, I realized that I don’t need my mom to agree with me about who I am. I know who I am, she can have a warped vision of me and that’s fine for her. Self worth and self reliance is priceless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:36 AM
17

Saving your comment for later so I can check these off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:57 PM
4

Red flag #1: “I bought a house with my boyfriend.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:49 PM
55

This isn’t my experience tbh. I’ve had the same proportion of shitty laziness across all dick sizes, but at least big dick guys have a big dick 🤷🏻‍♀️ current partner is hung AND generous, gimme that over average and generous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:29 PM
7

Even besides his inner state, you KNOW at that point you’re signing up for a lifetime of being his mommy/bang maid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:35 PM
6

My NVM ex somehow had the perfect size/shape/length to always hit it without hitting my cervix. It was hard af dumping him even though he was a piece of shit.....bc of the D 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:10 PM
34

Hahah twinsies. Sex education is such a sham honestly, more people should know about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 12:55 PM
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I think it’s possible this comment is from an actual woman who is confused about what her anterior fornix is, and thinks it’s her cervix. There’s a space just above the cervix on the far anterior vaginal wall that DOES feel really good when “punched,” colloquially called the a-spot. Some lucky men can actually reach it in certain positions and it feels amazing. It’s the only way I can finish vaginally (no gspot for me!) and no it definitely does NOT feel like a cervix being punched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 12:50 PM
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Oh god puppies are the worst. I love dogs but every time I foster a puppy I feel like I’m going insane. I would never date a guy even 1/4 as much exhausting work as a puppy 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:39 AM
24

“We know you’ll love the ✨Bare Minimum✨” I am dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 01:32 PM
18

Crumb 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:36 PM
5

I’m so sorry about your bonsai :( In a way, it saved you. Its sacrifice saved you from potentially marrying someone who would do something like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 08:38 PM
13

Definitely start an instagram! I’d follow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 09:48 PM
3

They all look like failed abortions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:14 PM
7

Toot your own horn girl!!! I love this story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:41 PM
41

The look on his face is sooo cute. He’s so excited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:45 AM
55

Brb gonna call every woman I know girlypop 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:39 PM
39

It’s called concern trolling, and it’s super fake and insidious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:25 PM
5

You’re my hero
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:54 AM
10

Yup, NEVER communicate with something like that! Such a waste of energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:06 AM
26

Not the autumnal equinox 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:44 PM
27

Kamsendoo’s entire internet presence fuels my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:16 PM
5

Lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:21 AM
108

It’s honestly what every fucking female animal on the planet does. What female bird is mating with a dude with no nest, no gifts, no resources, no physical fitness?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:54 AM
25

Oooh. I love me an impulsive and violent man!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:34 AM
9

It’s also our job as white women to specifically go out of our way to support/believe/uplift/help/promote Black women’s safety and interests!!! We owe Black women so much (even the terms “pickme” and “pickmeisha” originate from Black women!), historically they’ve done the MOST both in feminist and anti-racist movements and have not received that energy back from WW and BM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:27 AM
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VERY RELEVANT TO THIS POST: https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/ipx2qz/all_tom_cruises_wives_were_33_at_time_of_divorceoc/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 11:24 AM
7

When you get your harp back post a video if you like :) I love to see women creators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:50 PM
3

Gorgeous voice. I absolutely LOVE the timbre of your voice. If you can find the time with your children and everything I really encourage you to record more or perform live. I love small venue live music and I’d totally go watch you perform if I lived near you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:49 PM
4

Men can’t STAND to see women have talents, gifts, ambitions, abilities that they don’t. He was purely jealous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:48 PM
88

I’m also sipping an iced latte, eating a croissant, cuddling with my dog and watching criminal minds ✌🏻 happy Saturday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:36 PM
36

Week 1: “seriously baby I want you to always feel comfortable bringing things up, we can talk about [past event] as much as you want” Week 16: “I just feel like [past event] is still hanging over us and it’s never going to go away” NEVER?? It’s been 4 months 😂 Never believe your Week 1 bf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:42 PM
5

Extremely well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:40 AM
3

I wish I’d had this growing up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:34 AM
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See I was disappointed. I felt like they still didn’t go far enough in favor of ensuring as many men were still attracted to her as possible. Gal is gorgeous and she put on a lot of muscle for the movie. But she’s still wearing heels, she’s still very very slender and willowy and to me not believable as an athlete. The other Amazons were and I agree with you the way they treated them cinematically was amazing. But to me Gal still felt like she was styled to be beautiful over capable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:34 AM
7

THE FUCKING FLAIR 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:15 AM
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I think the problem with the concept is that it positions friendship as some kind of holding pen area that only “lucky” men escape. Instead of a totally different but equally valuable dynamic. It devalues women’s nonsexual contributions to a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:58 AM
73

Not a chewing gum date 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:52 AM
58

Woman wears coat, carries drinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:39 PM
3

Yessss pamper yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 03:54 AM
3

I SCREAMED how have I never heard this before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 03:46 AM
20

Bc only bed minimalists are real men!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:01 AM
7

All the time it’s so crazy to me. They spend so much time and energy typing these long dissertations that I don’t even read and never see the light of day 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 02:54 AM
13

Barbara the Builder 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:30 PM
4

Cute and wholesome ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:52 PM
23

“If you really believe your truth is so insightful and valuable and that women just have to hear it, you’re welcome to create your own sub. If what you have to say really resonates with and validates the lived experience of half the population, you’ll have no problem creating the most successful subreddit of all time.” I cackled 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:29 AM
13

This is exactly how I feel. I’m blissfully happy in my own apartment, with peace and quiet, no LVM ruining my mood, being childfree with my dog and my other childfree best friends, saving money and traveling. The only reason I would give any of that up is for a truly spectacular HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:57 PM
89

“Men naturally know how to do those things” “Ok what’s your credit score?” “I’m still learning”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:50 PM
154

This is amazing. I basically just did the same thing to my NVM ex (recently posted on FDS). I’ll never have an argument or “cOmMuNicAtE” with a LVM again. Block delete and ghost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:52 AM
32

We absolutely stan a ruthless queen. After my last relationship with a NVM I have FULLY lost all ability or desire to argue with any man, about anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:32 PM
35

Always always always leave at the first sign of disrespect! You are too valuable to be treated carelessly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:59 PM
19

I remember having crushes as early as 1st grade, and trading valentine’s cards with my crush. Children can have crushes or even just close friends and learn to model adult romantic relationships without them truly being relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:58 PM
32

My female friends and I have a dream of buying houses next to each other, having a shared garden, living in our own spaces but supporting each other like a community family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:35 PM
28

June is a full mood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:55 PM
27

I love that your self care night includes pickles and nuts. You’re adorable 😂❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:08 AM
92

Ann is the ultimate pickme. I can’t believe she mommy’d Andy for 3 years and basically tolerated him living in a hole next to her house 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:07 PM
13

A QUEEN 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:46 PM
9

I LOVE HER 👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:44 PM
12

There’s an awesome woman who works at the thrift store near me where I’m a regular who says “hey baby!” or “hey sugar” when I walk in. I LOVE it. Every time she does it I think of how much I would hate it if she were a man 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:46 PM
1

Great post- maintaining Queen energy is often difficult, feels unnatural, and can be emotionally draining! It gets easier and easier the more you do it, but none of us should ever beat ourselves up for not feeling perfectly strong all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:10 PM
82

I don’t think the post is about who is a positive role model. The post is about men’s contradictory misogyny. Even women who aren’t role models deserve to be free of male hatred.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:58 PM
30

GATHER YOUR AUDACITY 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:27 AM
24

Men fare far worse than women in breakups and they know/fear it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:03 PM
36

Every woman needs a fuck off fund!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:33 PM
196

I’ve found that everything men say is a projection. “Women talk too much” (men talk FAR more), “Women are emotional” (men are MUCH more emotional and unstable), “you’re never going to find someone like me” well....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:07 PM
2

I love/hate that sub. So many awful authors. And yet women write men well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:16 PM
3

Yes to focusing on writing! We need more writing by women in all spaces. Tired of men dominating the written word, and I think brainwashing women to be obsessed with relationships is a way to exclude them from that sphere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:01 PM
3

This song is EVERYTHING and her voice is amazing. Thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:59 PM
6

Not rocks 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:57 PM
17

Blocking is mental health care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:56 PM
70

I’m cracking up that is EXACTLY what he would post 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:51 PM
29

That’s a good point- I was going to wait to see if he used them to reach out to me before blocking, but I don’t even like the idea that he might be observing my life through them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:49 PM
47

Not sure why you’re being downvoted to hell! It’s a small mistake, but yes that is indeed Helen Mirren on the right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:47 PM
101

LOL how much do you wanna bet he tries to shadow message me through his friends. FOH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:48 PM
100

YES! He made such a show of giving me all these flowery speeches about how he’s high value and will always treat me well. Never trust their words!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:26 PM
270

Tl;dr: boyfriend of 4 months acted like a dick. Instead of staying, explaining, and wasting my energy trying to get him to see my side, I just left without a word. Blocked and deleted! Full story: Yesterday I went over to my boyfriend of 4 months’ apartment for the whole weekend. He had a get together with friends. I like his friends a lot but in a super weird way he was kind of ignoring/neglecting me all day; he wasn’t acting like I was his girlfriend, he was treating me casually and not really…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:19 PM
5

LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:02 PM
2

Thanks for writing this. I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:47 PM
3

What an amazing story!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:43 PM
33

I love her so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:52 PM
2

This is so helpful thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:51 PM
6

That’s a huge accomplishment! Big changes can feel lonely sometimes, but you are doing something amazing for yourself and your future :) the uncomfortable feelings will pass soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:51 AM
36

My ex bf took such good care of me when I was super depressed, but ONLY if it was his idea (so he got to be the voluntary hero). If I ever asked him for something specific, he’d get annoyed or offended and call me needy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:28 PM
11

This is exactly why I’m a monthly planned parenthood donor! Fuck religious exemption laws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:26 PM
1

Performative woke men are 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:45 PM
7

I interpreted it as relating to 8 and 9. Is he busy because he has a full life? Or is he “busy” and restless because he’s avoiding being present, sitting with his feelings, being vulnerable, and prioritizing delayed gratification?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:13 PM
2

AMEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:09 PM
19

I just want to express how much I love all of you wise, tough, powerful women! I just love this sub. It makes me so happy to have a space just for women where I can actually relax and speak my mind and my pain without a man gaslighting me or arguing with me. Thank god for FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:44 PM
3

This is art
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:57 AM
63

Who are men supposed to be protecting us from?? Oh right.....men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:59 PM
12

It’s supposed to be the “balanced” sub for people who are neither blue nor red. But because reddit is so heavily biased towards LVM men it ends up being just a slightly less red redpill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:55 PM
2

I needed this! I find myself draining my energy just explaining things to guys who don’t fucking get it. So easy to fall into that trap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:42 PM
6

We’re screwed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:44 AM
12

I swear I’m swiping right on the first guy I see with no fish 😩😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:32 AM
13

Have fun! Remember, YOU are the prize :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:00 PM
14

GIRL. Lorena Bobbitt was a victim of rape and horrible domestic violence, and no one did anything to help her. And fucking men turned her into a joke and a cautionary tale about how women are crazy. That story always gets me so mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:51 PM
22

Idk why but I died laughing at the second “you’re mad desperate and pathetic” really reinforcing it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:28 PM
26

An actual goddess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:27 PM
2

Explanation =!= excuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:53 AM
8

I agree with you. I think a LARGE proportion of men are like this; we already know this, they’re LVMs. The goal is to find the ones who aren’t, or at least who don’t expose us to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:42 AM
1

I hadn’t ever heard of her but I’m subscribing now!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:40 AM
3

Foreskin gamer extreme 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:47 AM
22

In any case they should base minority/majority definitions on POLITICAL minorities, not demographic minorities. Yeah there might be a majority of women in the US but we are absolutely a political minority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:28 PM
12

Behavior like this is rape spectrum behavior IMO. Posting another human’s nude body without their consent should be considered a flag crime for future rapists. They should be put on a watch list and monitored. I fucking hate men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 01:03 PM
3

LOL I love how she put it. “You will never be tasked with this decision.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:14 AM
2

That’s incredible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 12:49 PM
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