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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP25/12/19 06:49 AM
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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:59 AM
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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP06/10/19 12:34 AM
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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP05/05/19 01:40 AM
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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP31/10/19 05:41 PM
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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP02/10/19 02:16 AM
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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP26/10/19 02:42 AM
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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP31/05/19 03:29 PM
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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP21/02/19 11:11 PM
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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP31/08/19 02:01 AM
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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP16/02/19 11:51 PM
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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP23/11/19 06:12 AM
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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:55 PM
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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:29 AM
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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP04/03/19 09:51 PM
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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP24/09/19 08:37 PM
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sweatybuyer/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:02 PM
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wait, why in the fuck is she telling you this cuck shit about fucking some other guy? Are you sure the other guy is the beta? If you ever interact with this woman in any sort of capacity you have zero respect for yourself. Take the L and move on.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 07:48 AM
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I would, you got anything else for me?
/r/askTRP31/10/19 07:40 PM
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I needed this months ago, thank you sir.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:42 PM
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So in conclusion, initiate once and if that doesn't directly result in a meetup I should just indefinitely next until they initiate? I do like this but very rarely will a hot girl initiate, especially if she's got a steady queue of dudes lined up.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 05:53 PM
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I think the texting for logistics is recommended because there are a lot of beginners who find themselves orbiting women through text and providing too much validation. Surely there must be a middle ground for those who are not stupid enough to orbit women via text and know when to delete a number and move on.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 01:21 PM
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I haven't been doing this at all. If I get anything but yes I soft next for 7-10 days and re-initiate with a plan proposal. Sometimes on the second try I'm able to secure a date. If she says anything but yes on three separate occasions, I just delete the number. You think giving them three chances comes off as too needy?
/r/askTRP27/10/19 01:17 PM
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yeah, that works too. I'll deal less with these problems as my SMV increases.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 01:14 PM
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since you're in college, she's probably going to tell her friends your dick was small. If anyone questions you about it say she was the loosest girl you've ever fucked. Regardless, not much to be said here other than hard next. For her to say that to you, you probably didn't fuck her well enough or she just doesn't respect/acknowledge your frame.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 02:24 AM
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I will try all of this, thank you sir.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 05:33 PM
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Usually turn them off at 11 Probably 15 minutes but sometimes right before Don't take melatonin Work out around whenever I have time, usually around 4 Last meal around 9-10 Don't really drink coffee, maybe a cup or two a week
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:33 PM
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No one in the frat sticks up for you? Aren't these supposed to be your "brothers"? Training jiu jitsu is good but it's not enough. You need good wrestling take downs and striking skills. My wrestling coach is shorter than you and he can throw/pin even the biggest dudes in my class. The low center of gravity and stockiness combined with strength are the keys to controlling bigger opponents.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 05:51 PM
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is it acceptable to ask something along the lines of, "what days are you free this week?". This is how normal people make plans but I feel that's playing into her frame too much.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 09:24 PM
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Yeah you're right, it's more of a "soft flake". I do see some flaws with the text for logistics model that is heavily touted on here. When you propose plans without taking into account the other person's schedule, it's hard to make plans. From my experience girls who have a life won't just clear their schedule to see you, even if they are high interest. Thoughts on that?
/r/askTRP24/09/19 09:20 PM
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absolutely not, the fact that you are asking this means you already care too much and are looking for a reason to go through with it. Don't make this mistake.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:50 AM
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I see what you're saying and I definitely don't have people who can back me up. What is the best option now that I've submitted it, allow it to continue or tell them to cease the investigation?
/r/askTRP03/09/19 11:33 PM
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do you think if I rescind the complaint HR will fuck me even harder? What is the best option now that I've submitted it, allow it to continue or tell them to cease the investigation?
/r/askTRP03/09/19 11:32 PM
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Good advice. I'll work on that.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 02:25 AM
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I agree it's definitely validation seeking behavior. It's like I'm looking for recognition in the form of eye contact. I appreciate the insight.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 02:25 AM
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I just made the same exact comment without having reading yours. Glad to see someone else knows this tactic.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 03:59 PM
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Do you know why she didn't respond to him saying something reasonable like, "I have a boyfriend, please do not text me again"?. She's keeping him as backup. If she rejected him outright then she risks losing him entirely. Once you breakup with her she's going to message him, "oh hey! Didn't see your text until now" type bullshit. She's able to do this because she never rejected him in the first place and kept him on the sidelines. Girls do this to me all the time and I do this to girls all the t…
/r/askTRP07/07/19 03:57 PM
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I get what you're saying about the hostility, but that just would not fly in my workplace. It's very non-confrontational, non-aggressive, and mostly women/betas. Doing something like that could warrant a visit to HR. I see how that could work in more manly/confrontational workplaces. Your second point is excellent. I've already started building my reputation on the value of "attitude". I never complain, always in a good mood, always working hard no matter how tough it is. He's already tried to b…
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:30 PM
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At the end up the summer I'll post an update. You're right about openly feuding with this guy, both of us will never be re-hired.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:16 PM
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Decent advice, thank you.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:14 PM
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Great advice. I've already started expanding my network to people he doesn't know so that if he sees me talking to them, he can't just butt in. Regarding to your advice points 3 and 6, I plan on asking more questions in meetings to get him to interrupt me more and say stupid shit. All his rushed responses have been flat out wrong so far.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:11 PM
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Good idea. I think dialing back the A&A is the key to making people around us realize he's just being an asshole. If I A&A him they might think we're joking around and that I'm also an asshole.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:07 PM
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In our firm, the culture is very non-confrontational and non-competitive. It's the opposite of a typical finance firm. There's also plenty of women. No one is going to stand up for me because they don't want to be confrontational against another employee. Everyone is expected to respect one another and get along without issues. His frame is strong so they're not going to contradict it.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:05 PM
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eh I don't know if I could handle that. Do you have it?
/r/askTRP31/05/19 09:21 PM
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I already made the phone calls, no one really gave a fuck since I held frame and played it off cool.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 09:20 PM
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absolutely man, play the game long enough and eventually you'll get it. Stay safe brother.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 09:11 PM
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I'm doing it now. I wasn't going to but I respect your opinions immensely (I've read a lot of your comments and submissions) so I will go with your advice. Damn.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 05:38 PM
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lmao true
/r/askTRP31/05/19 05:09 PM
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Thanks chief. Don't worry though, you won't get anywhere near the girls I'm fucking with your $18/hr job and life in shambles so there's really no risk for you.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:54 PM
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add a condom and now we're down to .003%!
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:41 PM
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Laws depend on the area but they're usually pretty lax. If you have HIV/AIDS it's a different story. Vet your girls carefully, especially if they're hot. Hot girls = more dick = more STDs. If I could go back and fuck less girls I would. Stay safe.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:07 PM
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Yeah exactly, I'm not even stressing about this. I just needed some pointers on how to maintain frame when disclosing. The dude below me in this comment thread is freaking out, maybe have a word with him. Cheers.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:06 PM
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I'm not a doctor but the 10% is for people who weren't on the medication and weren't using condoms. For those that did it was 1% within a year. Regardless, I don't know you, you're not my homie so don't be asking me favors. Just pray we're not fucking the same girls and vet your girls more carefully and you'll be safe.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:03 PM
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Should I still accept head from girls? Also should I mention this to my FWB who I plan on upgrading to LTR? I've been fucking her raw for about a year now, if we go to condoms I feel she'll pick up something is wrong (she's exclusive to me but I'm not to her).
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:00 PM
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If I wear a condom and take the meds it's about .003% chance of transmitting it on a one night stand. Nah I think I'll keep fucking hot girls from the club.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 03:53 PM
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This is what I was looking for, solid advice.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:23 PM
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I heard good things about Sowell, will check out his book. Thank you for the advice and recommendation.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:22 PM
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I used to hatefuck girls, until I realized I'm actually better at sex when I hatefuck. I get this primal energy that I normally don't have and can last way longer. If they disrespected/betrayed me to the point where I hate them, why do they deserve better sex from me?
/r/askTRP05/05/19 12:12 AM
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never met a quality woman that talks/texts like this. This is why you don't fuck with hood girls
/r/askTRP26/04/19 07:05 PM
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Around 2 years but not consistently. On and off at my discretion.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:18 PM
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That's what I've been doing but it just keeps escalating. I want it to stop escalating otherwise I'm hard nexting completely.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 03:32 AM
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"""""effortlessly""""""
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:24 AM
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I agree with you that beta texting, i.e. texting her in the morning "hey cutie! hope you had a good nights sleep" or texting needlessly or trying to tell jokes over text is absolutely retarded. Texting only for logistics has been my bread and butter for the past two years in the club/bar/tinder scene. However, I feel it holds me back with girls who aren't HIGH interest with me right away. Like you said, if she has HIGH interest, then you don't need to text. Well what if she isn't immediately HIG…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 06:06 AM
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I agree with you this is an extreme level of mental masturbation that makes me seem like a unhinged virgin. I don't have any RP friends to discuss theory with so this is what happens. I go out twice a week to bars/clubs and have also tried this with girls on tinder. I do well at bars/clubs better than on tinder. I can't really give you proof that I get laid without coming off as a bragging douche so I'm not going to try. I'm not saying change the rules, I'm saying adjust the strategy. Texting on…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 05:26 AM
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Girls are always on their phones 24/7 so they just assume everyone else is on their phone 24/7. I'm just like you, I take a while to respond and am genuinely busy for most of the week. Unfortunately, that has cost me some pussy since the girls feel I am disrespecting them and they next me. I'm talking about girls I've already banged. It seems like you haven't banged this girl so she's probably not interested. Delete her # and let her re-initiate, but most likely she won't. ​ You could re-initiat…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 07:34 PM
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You're using Snapchat, a platform designed to give women validation and ego-boosts, and you're complaining that you're being used for an ego boost and validation? The girls might be interested, just butthurt that you're taking so long to respond. Your response time is most likely not congruent with how they perceive you, so they think you're trying to manipulate them, in which case they next you. I know YOU perceive yourself as a busy high value male, but do they? Are they aware of the many acti…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 06:49 PM
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You could use your words to make him look stupid. Stuff like "why are you being so aggressive dude, relax", "bro you're creeping the girls out with your behavior", "why are you trying so hard to impress the girls". Just make him look dumb and don't get sucked into his aggressive frame. If that doesn't work, then yes, defend yourself physically.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:40 AM
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I wouldn't add the hbu at the end. Comes off as approval seeking and doesn't do anything for the false rape charges. She could easily respond "no I actually had a terrible time being raped by you". Just say you had a good time, it implies you're confident she had a good time as well. I usually do some variation of, "I had a good time with you last night, let's make time to hang again soon".
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:34 AM
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I agree it's autistic. Saying that would warrant an instant ghost from any woman who values herself.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:32 AM
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lmao jesus h. christ wtf is this gay shit, get this off my screen
/r/askTRP07/03/19 07:29 PM
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either no response, "lol ok", or that laugh crying emoji would have been solid. Explicitly saying it doesn't bother you is dumb, you need to imply it without saying it. You took an L here chief.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 07:27 PM
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are you in college? If so DM me, I have experience with a very similar scenario. It did not end well for me but hopefully I can help you learn from my mistakes.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 07:24 PM
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I took the deephouse REDPILL a couple years ago and have never looked back lmao
/r/askTRP07/03/19 07:20 PM
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Focus on yourself. Why is there an unblocked channel? I went through this last year. I even unblocked her after a few months and checked her social media on a friend's phone to prove to myself I didn't care. Boy was I wrong. Saw her post a picture with another guy and that set me back a couple months of progress. If you're still in contact with her or expecting her to contact you, you will never let go. I'm doing much better now but still not through it completely. What helped me was focusing on…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 07:17 PM
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Mention that she should file a police report and that you are concerned that a "creep" has her information and knows who you are. She probably won't want to file one because it's a lot of work, but that will show her that you're concerned with her safety and implies you're innocent. Good luck with this one, you seem to know what to do.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 03:47 AM
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I heard on a Dr. Phil interview that innocent people get angry when they are falsely accused. Asking for details seems like the wrong approach, that's what a guilty person would do. A guilty person would ask for details and then try to poke a hole to prove innocence. Also never say shit like, "come on you know me, I would never do this". Trademark guilty person phrase. If you know you're innocent, you don't need details. You know 100% it's false so why even bother with the story. If I randomly a…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 03:31 AM
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Thank you for the advice. I'm thinking this will be a solid opportunity for me to practice maintaining frame and gauging how they respond. If I have tight frame, I doubt they'll be making a mess or at least they'll try hard not to. I bring girls over quite frequently so that would give me some proofing, and I'm in good shape so walking around shirtless is an option. I agree that if my frame is shit, no way I'm getting set-up with any of their friends and the room mate relationship will go to shi…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 03:22 AM
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Yeah, I feel like I might be putting having a female roommate on a pedestal. I'll just select whoever seems more relaxed and normal, female or male.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:44 PM
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I didn't even think about that benefit, solid tip thank you.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:42 PM
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Give it time brother, for time heals all. Lay low for a bit and focus on yourself. Let the desire for women come back naturally and view this situation as a positive. All the time and energy you would have spent chasing girls and trying to fuck them, you can now invest in yourself. The two time periods in which I've made the most self-progress are when I got fucked over by a girl I had oneitis for. Ironically, now that you have no desire to chase, they will chase you provided you use this time w…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 10:15 PM
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I just realized how retarded the fact that I typed two paragraphs about this is. Cringe. Thank you for the reality check. I'll keep the post up in case anyone runs into the same thing.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 11:32 PM
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I appreciate the clarification. I do feel that I do read into things more than I should. I found this quote a while back but forgot about it. Your comment reminded me of it, I think you would appreciate it. "If you are willing to look at another person’s behavior toward you as a reflection of the state of their relationship with themselves rather than a statement about your value as a person, then you will, over a period of time cease to react at all.” Yogi Bhajan
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:45 AM
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Whenever a girl mentions how easily she can get laid to me in a overt way, I just respond "probably, guys are so desperate now" or "guys will go for anything its ridiculous". Say it the right way and it will get at least a chuckle or she'll even agree with you. Why are you considering a LTR with a girl you haven't fucked yet? She's withholding sex to get power over you (i.e. commitment), and it's working. Your response was a complete submission to her frame. If you do end up dating her, the rela…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:36 AM
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I see you've been reading 48 laws of power. Forgot about that one, good time to re-read for me.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:26 AM
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I think expecting people to be polite with you is reasonable. It's not a script, it's a boundary. When they cross it they get less attention and possible demotion. If you act like nothing happened because you don't care or have no expectation, you're enabling their behavior and investing time in girls that disrespect you. I will acknowledge that I have to unlearn my upbringing or at least save it for the older generation or formal occasions.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 12:35 AM
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what do you mean? Can you expand on that a bit please.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 12:23 AM
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I looked through your profile and saw that post you made on the rate me sub. You're far from ugly dude, no homo. You've got good aesthetics, just change the way you present yourself. You're 20 years old, try to look your age if you want to pull girls your age. Right now you look like a 35 year old blue collar worker. Grow out a normal hairstyle and lose the beard. Change the viking aesthetic. You'll look less intimidating/more white collar and that will make it easier to pull girls. You're not g…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:45 PM
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Change your mindset from "I am ugly" to "I can improve". They both mean the same thing but the second mindset allows for action. You're greatly underestimating the power of game. Why do you want to get bitches if you can't retain them?
/r/askTRP06/02/19 08:05 PM
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I've downloaded tinder and did not receive the same kind of reactions the guy from this "experiment" did. I always message first and have a 20-50% response rate which I assume is average. I actually have to try to set things up. No issue, just means I'm not model attractive and my pictures suck. Tinder isn't my main hustle anyway. OP acts like if you don't get the exact reactions he did, you're ugly as fuck and you should give up on girls entirely. He also implies Tinder is the only source of pu…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:31 PM
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unfortunately yes
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:21 PM
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what have you gained from doing this "experiment"? This is literally what incels do; give themselves reasons why they cannot succeed or why others are doing better than them. Pathetic. Obviously guys who are more attractive than you are going to have it easier. You didn't even post pictures of the guy or give anyone advice on how to get over being unattractive, completely useless post and defeatist attitude. This has been done 1000x before by defeatist incels like you. ​ Lmao at the"What's the f…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:08 AM
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Agreed. This post belongs on one of the incel subreddits. Love the "what's the fucking point" at the end. This guy will turn gay to "have it easy" by the end of the week.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:07 AM
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I am looking for validation from sex. If I have some form of attachment to a plate I do get a bit insecure if I'm not the one fucking them, especially if they're asking me to hang and I say no. It's understood they're going to hit someone else up. I do the same thing if they bail. How do I adjust or deal with this nagging insecurity?
/r/askTRP06/02/19 03:53 AM
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Sex is about power and submission. After you've fucked her well, she has submitted to you and you have the power. This is why the "tough bitch" attitude temporarily goes away. Hormones are released and all she wants to do is be affectionate toward you. It's a biological response. ​ If a girl opens her legs easily for you, you can think about it in two ways. The first way being she opens her legs for everyone and you're nothing special. I believe this stems from insecurity or refusal to give your…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:48 PM
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I've noticed this exactly. That's why I don't go out in groups anymore, just 1-2 guys who are on the same page as me. It's not just the party life of the beta though. I know many social circle chads who pull regularly from social connections/parties/friends visiting etc. When we go out to a club where they have no social connections it's painful to watch. These guys have zero game except getting drunk as fuck and making fools of themselves. Always making excuses as to why they aren't talking to …
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:39 PM
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