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| 1 | [Q4W] How does a man quickly tell if a woman is attracted to him?Not a woman, but if she is in your proximity more than just 'randomly' its a big sign. She just happens to be on the same party. She just hapens to be in the same classes. She just hapens to be hanging with your friends. She just hapens to be on your street. She just happens to be on your dick... You get the hint. But you can never be 100% sure until you make a move. Not because she is evil or something. But she is also not sure, until you make a move... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 08:01 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How does a man quickly tell if a woman is attracted to him?Not a woman, but if she is in your proximity more than just 'randomly' its a big sign. She just happens to be on the same party. She just hapens to be in the same classes. She just hapens to be hanging with your friends. She just hapens to be on your street. She just happens to be on your dick... You get the hint. But you can never be 100% sure until you make a move. Not because she is evil or something. But she is also not sure, until you make a move... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 07:49 PM |
| 4 | Is causal sex ever really causal?50% did not want a longer relationship... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 05:01 PM |
| 5 | In case you suspect your girl has Bpd...You must be blue for not seeing whats going on here relationship which was pretty messy into the next more serious phase I booked a romantic getaway Saving relationship by buying more stuff, giving attention, emotions, time, money... Basics.... Learn about dread. sex which was admittedly disappointing You can't make her wet and cum. Low SMV, lousy game, unattractive. her secrecy in general Yeah. She doesn't like you, so she doesn't want to talk about herself to you. "love of her life" Alpha wido… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 11:36 AM |
| 1 | In case you suspect your girl has Bpd...Dude. You pay for her vacation. You pay for dinner. You have losy sex. You are emotionally invested, trying to fix her mood. She tells you about her exes... She is not BPD. She is awalt. She doesnt like you, because you have no abundance. You go back to basics and read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Man tries to win his wife's love by giving her Teslas and expensive vacations. She returns the favor by - you guessed it - having an orgy with randos when he's gone.Did you read the thing? He was talking about seing the signals early 2015, then it just escalated. It happened in the span of couple of years, not over night. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 11:49 AM |
| 5 | KETO: Your shortcut to (part of) being attractive or how you can get shredded in 4 months.This is the only advice most people need. Which diet works? The answer: all of them. The problem is people take drastic changes to their diet and they can never stick to. The best diet is the one that you can stick to for life. | /r/askMRP | 03/05/18 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Redpill moviesFunny. When I watched 300 with my ex, she was not impressed with any of the characters, until we meet xerxes. That's when her eyes lid up and she said how sexy he is... | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 06:38 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP immensely exaggerates the attractiveness and quantity of women they are getting casual sex withYoung, fit and highly attractive people are enjoying lots of quality sex with other fit and highly attractive people? Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, that MUST be a fairy tale! . Hint1: you are not invited, so it must be made up? Hint2: Olympic Village is one big orgy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/18 09:52 PM |
| 1 | MBTI theory: Fi/Te men are more attractive to women than Fe/Ti menWtf are all these shortcuts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 03:02 AM |
| 2 | How to go from incel to chadRemember, it's a long and bumpy journey going up. https://georgecouros.ca/blog/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/Success.jpg | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 06:35 PM |
| 8 | Anyone else have the problem where you start losing feelings for your ltr's after about 6 months+ of dating?Yes. I don't have any suggestions or answers. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Steps on recovering from a toxic relationship?Just delete her from your life forever. You invested too much in her, thats why it hurts. You cant fix that. Stop any communication, never talk or reply to her. It will take time to get over her. Loss of this kind can be massive stress and emotional roalercoaster. Keep focused and use the energy to improve yourself in every way possible. Hold on and you will become a real man once you are over her. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 11:40 AM |
| 17 | The "Am i getting fat?" Test"No honey, you look beautifull". Then proceed to flirt with a hot skinny waitress across the bar. Dont say it out loud, just get that hamster of her spinning. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Let my story be your lessonWelcome to a new life. Never look back again. I wish you all the best. | /r/askMRP | 19/09/17 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Example: Stop trying to be agree-able and shitTo be honest, I would fuck a feminazi if she was hot. There are none though... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/17 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Last minute resistance and failure to be assertiveEvery guy was in a similar situation once... just keep practicing interacting with girls, watch how they respond and learn. Remember: erroring on the bold-assertive side is always better than playing it safe. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 11:48 AM |
| 4 | FR: From meeting at party to fucking up a kiss to fucking her.Great post, good game. About the other comments in this thread... I was fat, depressed, no life motivation, shitty job, didnt care about looks and clothes 4 years ago. Then breakup and TRP hapened. Lost 30lbs fat, gained 20 lbs muscle, got a fantastic job, have a large social circle and my clothes are impeckable. Also my game is solid as a rock. Going from 5 to 8 was not easy, so I can imagine most people will never get so far and will never understand what it takes... | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/17 08:15 PM |
| 2 | I was doing better before TRP.You've pointed out the problems. You overthink and the angry phase seeps through you. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/17 06:43 AM |
| 3 | How can I get over depression and sadness as a 16yo?Stop spamming the internet. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/17 08:25 PM |
| 6 | panic reaction to seeing exI thaught I was over my ex after 1.5y and the same happened. Now, 3 years after breakup I could fart in front of her and I couldn't care less... Just keep improving and stay on track. Some things just take time... | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 01:31 PM |
| 14 | Guys who are in their 50-60s. What is your life like?Lol. Your height insecurity is making you so unfuckable that you probably can't get laid even by a prostitute. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 03:19 AM |
| 3 | What are your experiences with shy girls?Wild sex. Very manipulative (victim, they all believe her, she is always innocent) | /r/askTRP | 25/08/17 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Embrace the Unspeakable Horror of The Real!GLO at its best. 99% of people will never get this. 80% of the self proclaimed TRPers won't. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/17 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys share some of your kino moves?Practice | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Need to lose body fat / weight. Suggestions?Carbs are not as big of a problem as most people think they are... | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 10:23 PM |
| 8 | Need to lose body fat / weight. Suggestions?You know exactly what to do. You just came here to find a shortcut. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 04:25 AM |
| 16 | What Being A Drug Addict Has Taught Me.Also correlates with why I have a ton of attention from women since I got in a LTR. It's pre-selecion, but also the girls not knowing I'm in LTR see that I don't care about them and just keep sending me IOIs. While the guys trying too hard to hook up and pick up women look pathetic. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/17 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Most of the things you mention, I like doing. I don't like being a fat slob, getting my heart ripped appart. Not getting your point really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Getting free sex without giving commitment (and all benefits of it). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:22 AM |
| 3 | I finally swallowed the pillWelcome. :) One thing: Rome was not built in a day. Massive changes over night don't happen. You fall back. Learn to love the self-improvement process. It's a marathon, not a sprint. | /r/ThankTRP | 20/07/17 06:15 AM |
| 6 | Friendzoned by fat hb4, fuck me what a wake up callShit test, her blown out of porportion hamster and a massive projection. The OP is fine. He just needs to work his social skills. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Walked out on a date last night. Did I handle it right? What now?Sure, I was not there, it might have been best you could do in the circumstances. Either way, try to have as little reaction as possible (too many words if you ask me) and always be sexual/playful. E.G. I had a situation where a guy took my "date" to the bar to buy her a drink. I was confident she was in to me, I just didn't care. I had other social things going around me, conversations with other people and chicks. After a while I passed them by, stopped at them and said casually something in t… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 08:10 AM |
| 4 | Walked out on a date last night. Did I handle it right? What now?You felt "threathened" by him. If you didn't, you would engage in the conversation, encourage him to talk more about himself, compliment him, maybe even get his linkedin. All while slipping your hand between your date's legs. If he was a much higher SMV male, there is not much you could do. If not, you blew it with your insecurity. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 09:27 PM |
| 35 | Too Much Attention Kills AttractionIf a woman would just stop me on the streets, put her pants down and stuck her pussy in front of me to fuck her, it would just make me cringe. No matter how hot she is. Giving your most valuable asset too soon and too easy (heart-attention-commitment for men) makes you a loser and a weirdo. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 10:59 AM |
| 8 | Why do I see so many beta men with hot women?I also see huge bodybuilders with ugly chicks. Insecurity is a bitch... | /r/askTRP | 05/07/17 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Do girls really like the swimmer body the most?I think it's like boobs. Bigger is better. But after certain point it gets too big. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 05:30 AM |
| 9 | After reading TRP and actually seeing it work in real life I am very confused about what do women add to our life except unnecessary drama along with prospect of reproduction?Invest in yourself. Love yourself. Build career, body, social skills, intelligence etc. Once your SMV is high enoug, sex and women come as a side-effect. You don't care about their drama anymore, because abundance. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 05:22 AM |
| 3 | What is the best self defence art I can teach to myself [M16]?Just do whatever circumstances allow you to do. You can switch later when you move or get a car. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/17 05:19 AM |
| 0 | "Am I your girlfriend?"Well, you don't want her to be your gf, what do you want us to do? Convince you to be her boyfriend? She might move on. Or not. It's her "right" to do whatever she wants. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Aren't there strong hints about whether a man is interested in commitment from the beginning?Well... they are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Why are women more interested in my best friend than me, even though I am 6'2 and he only is 5'8 and always jokes around?Wtf? Of course women love funny guys. Wit is an indicator of intelligence. Just dont be a clown and make a full of yourself... | /r/askTRP | 19/06/17 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Ask the Redpill side bar suggestion.....Tbh, I was like thar 3 years ago when coming to trp after a breakup. Too much emotional investment in one girl just clouds your mind. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/17 08:18 PM |
| -1 | My friend's soon to be wife invites me out to drink with herYou're overthinking, she wants to chat with a soon to be husband's best friend. Nothing else. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 11:16 AM |
| 3 | Advice for the younger men entering the workforce.Good post. Also, work on social skills. They matter as much, sometimes more then the expertise in the field. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/17 07:59 PM |
| 1 | The never ending shit tests I have experienced while losing weightWait till you get big and below 12% body fat. Shit tests turn in to IOIs, respect and admire. There are always haters, but they become invisible... | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/17 02:08 PM |
| 13 | "If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present. " - Lao TzuEverytime you hear someone talking about quantum phisycs or string theory in the same lecture as consciousness, just run away. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 12:39 PM |
| 2 | (FR)Losing my virginity tonight Part 2Are you sure it wasnt pussy liquid? Yeah, condoms suck. But get used to them. Also get bigger condoms. Less pressure on penis. Also might be the reason why it broke. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/17 03:41 AM |
| 1 | HELP! Friend knowingly engaged to alpha widowWhen the student is ready the teacher will appear. He's not ready. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/17 08:31 PM |
| 6 | Got rejected by a 6. Don't know what to think.Noob. Just brush rejections off. They mean NOTHING. Learn and move on. You can't know what happened to her that day. Maybe she just got dumped 5 minutes ago. Maybe it's her father's funeral today. You are being a bitch and an asshole, because you thought she owes you being interested in you, because she is a 6. That attitude will not get you far and I suspect she felt it through your behaviour. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/17 02:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "Now, I feel Guilty." Or, How I fucked up and fell into her frame.Just saying it's a great FR. Thanks. No comment, you already know what you did wrong. Most of it was actually great, but we all live and learn... | /r/askTRP | 06/06/17 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Instead of deliberately trying to make yourself seem busy and unavailable to women, how about you actually do stuff with your time and let that behavior come naturally?% of people not doing the basics is enormous. Shower, brush your teeth, clean after your meal... then they wonder how they cant get a decent job. For fucks sake. You can't take care of yourself? How am I as an employer going to trust you to take care of anything? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/17 11:19 PM |
| 1 | A coworker just changed jobs and girls are really missing him... does this mean he was "alpha" in their eyes?Nice guy = doormat, needy, trying-too-hard, boring.... was he any of those? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/17 06:22 AM |
| -3 | Seems to me TRP has a lot of middle-aged converts like myself (45)No | /r/askTRP | 27/05/17 03:05 PM |
| 7 | I think I handled this right.You will get a lot of mixed emotions in the following weeks and an urge to contact her. Do not. Under any circumstances. Make your life as busy as possible (gym, work, socializing etc) | /r/askTRP | 25/05/17 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Lost frame tonightWell, fix it. | /r/askMRP | 24/05/17 08:41 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread May 17Thanks for your reply. You got it pretty good with the first sentence: comfort/this attitude is only going to act as a constraint on you This sounds like me. Good is the enemy of the best. I could not imagine a better job at the moment. It's well payed, I do what was my childhood dream, I'm really good at this, so people trust me and depend on me, coworkers are great and the company has a great future and option plan which will bring more $$ in the future. But it's not my own business, which is … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/17 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Any of you guys think about your ex? Is it normal?Next oneitis you'll forget about ex and new one will ocupy your mind and dreams. It might take time. But you will handle next oneitis breakup much lighter, prefferebly before you turn on to a beta bitch. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 12:14 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread May 17Been on TRP for 3+ years. I have a great job, I am in great shape, I have money saved, reel estate, I keep my apartment clean, dress well, I have hobbies, large social circle, couple of plates (which all want to lock me down). Basically got my shit together. 36 yo. What's next? It's not that I have nothing to do, but I want more. How do I find my next mission? Anyone here that "has it all" that has trouble finding next goal and devote all energy to it, how do you find it? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/17 06:41 AM |
| 4 | askTRP Megathread May 174 months Try 4 years. Reprogramming your brain takes time. Just keep it going, read, improve, approach, socialize... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DR2j2RC0Ytk | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/17 06:32 AM |
| 8 | Brutal redpill that no one here ever talks about, how physically attractive you REALLY are, as judged by science and womenI've seen top model look-alikes being self hating beta bitches that couldn't get laid. It's the same as height. What are you gonna do? Cry in the corner? There are plenty of dimensions of SMV. Looks, height, muscles, leanness, voice, popularity, wealth, intelligence, humour, social status, game, ability to AMOG a group, interesting life, hobbies etc etc. If you're lacking in one of those, you can make it up with others. Just work on things you can, and you'll be fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/17 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Social CalibrationI think everyone is like this to a degree. 2 scenarios that put me out are some people that make me uneasy, so I avoid them. They're not AMOGing me. They're just weird to be around. The other one is when I'm not on top of things, like too much open projects at work, not finished stuff etc.. which is also fine. It makes me want to finish stuff, so I can relax. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/17 08:02 PM |
| 3 | What is a good workout routine to cut fat without losing muscle?Read wiki pages of fitness and bodybuilding subredits. Starting strength / stronglifts / 5x5 are good starting points. Nutrition is 90% of calories in/out. If you want to gain mucles, eat a bit above maintenance, if you want to lose fat, eat a little under. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 01:30 PM |
| 3 | What is a good workout routine to cut fat without losing muscle?Routine is not important when you start. You will learn and adjust later. Just start somewhere and do something. What's important is to do something and start loving the exercise. Anything you do will give you results. Once you are so far and fit that you will need adjustments, you would have learned a lot about fitness and nutrition, so it will be easy. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 01:07 PM |
| 1 | LDR. Break up. Need second opinion.Is this a troll? You know exacly what to do. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 12:56 PM |
| 5 | Question after first date sexThis | /r/askTRP | 14/05/17 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Question in ShittestsNot being congruent is creepy. She can read through your "play" like through glass. Best game is no game. Play a game on a level you can pass. | /r/askMRP | 12/05/17 07:00 AM |
| 1 | A discussion with TRPMeanwhile you haven't done shit, there's women smarter than you, and a lot of them. You are right. My argument was the whole time that all women are stupid and that I am the smartest person alive. The number of straw men you throw around in your arguments is making impossible to communicate. Enjoy your stay at TRP. Try to teach people after a week of browsing how they are wrong. Dunning-Kruger won't mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/17 10:32 AM |
| 1 | A discussion with TRPIf you disagree with me it's okay, you can have your opinion i'm not trying to force mine on you, I just tried to show my view of things and see what y'all think about it. You came to TRP preaching the BP and social-liberal agenda. Listen, i'm not living in a dream, we're special, that's basic science. You can't argue against this unless you take it on a philosophical argument. Special in what way? Most complex? (Water Flea) Most powerful? Best memory? (elephants) Longest life? Most populous? Bi… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/17 08:40 AM |
| 1 | A discussion with TRPWomen are on average less competent then men and they like sex with chads. Nobody is calling them incompetent or sluts. Or we are, but its an exaggeration to make a point or from someone in angry phase. Keep living in the "you are special" dream and your ability to see the world as is will be severely limited. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/17 03:01 AM |
| 1 | A discussion with TRPwe can't generalize about women unless we do the same for us You're missing the point. Let me ELI5 this for you: Men are taller than women. It's a generalization. But we all agree, don't we? There are many short men and there are many tall women. There is a big overlap. But the generalization still holds. If you compare female/male gauss for height or intelligence, they actually look pretty similar. About animal behavior. Of course we have more brain power and huge frontal cortex to make rationa… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 08:06 PM |
| 5 | A discussion with TRPIf you would be here long enough, you'd know that there is a gauss curve and of course there are smart and hard-working girls, but they are minority. There is a degree of generalization in everything we talk about, if you don't, there is nothing to talk about (but academic math). They can far more easily exploit the system and they do. Through divorces, employ quotas and every pussy pass method they can, because women are wonderful AWALT: again, it's a generalisation and it talks about innate fe… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 02:35 PM |
| 1 | LTR Should I/How to drop needy girl with fleeting emotions.She will ALWAYS revert back to the worst of her behavior, no matter how many promises and new beginnings you do. Oneitis is a bitch, you don't see her how she really is. Everybody here will tell you, all your friends tell you and you know it, you have to end it with her and never look back. But since you're unexperienced and your first kiss and severe oneitis, you will just believe her again and go back. You are just hamstering you staying with her. Hard next is the only option, everybody is tel… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/17 03:31 AM |
| 5 | How to stop chasing?Realize that self improvement is the goal. Achieving goal gives you just a temporary happiness. You need to learn to love the process. There is no "end" goal where you achieve it and live hapily until the rest of your life. There is no completion. https://youtu.be/Bq8oM0mo2n4 | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone recovered from my point?It's not gonna be easy. But by the time you're 30, you can be fit as fuck and fuck 9s and 10s and drive a ferrari. But you will have to get off your ass and do it all yourself. Start slow, you won't change over night. And if you fall back, don't beat yourself too much. Everybody makes mistakes. The important part is to put yourself back on track. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/17 04:33 PM |
| 1 | If you were to be high SMV man but with little game experience, how do you go about gaining it in the most efficient way?You're looking for shortcuts. There are none. You will have to put the work in. Results don't come over night. It takes years to develop good game. So start working on it. Watch RSD youtube channels and apply in practice EVERY DAY. Learn to love the whole process of learning, failing and trying new stuff, if you don't, you will not succeed. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 12:20 PM |
| 49 | You're not the one she wants. You're the one she's using.I was wondering this lately. Is it even possible to be AF when having loads of money at all? I had this experience as well. As soon as they find out I have a great job, their pussy gets a price tag and they start acting entitled and keep finding shit I need to do for them. Of course I just laugh at them. But I'm begining to think AF chad was never some rich kid like Gray from 50 shades, but only beach bodyguards, bartenders and milkmen. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/17 08:31 PM |
| 2 | I really want to kill myself.Number 3. is hard, yeah. But you have to do it. Success is constant little improvements. You might feel like you are not doing much of a difference, but after a year or 2 of constant little improvements, and you are a completely new person. You dont notice day to day changes. But you are doing the hardest work now. Go to youtube and search "RSD motivation". Watch them all. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 03:08 PM |
| 1 | "I can't kiss you cause I have a boyfriend" she says, while we're spooning on her couch feeling each other up. [Short FR]I fucked a girl. We did everything, including anal. But no kissing. That was for her boyfriend only. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/17 11:08 PM |
| 10 | Tips on gaming older women?My experience is completely different from yours. I had this experience with women close to the wall. But the ones way past (37+) where the easiest and kinkiest lays I ever had. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/17 08:42 PM |
| 1 | I stood my ground with a woman at work and she attacked me behind my back to the others all day... how can I respond to this now?You played her game and lost. You were obviously upset and she will burn you for showing that. You should just brush it and play stupid "oh, sory, I was really busy, my uncle is dying and he wanted for us to come and fish with him one last time for 2 days" or something stupid like this. And add: "next time I will make sure you get all the help from me, no matter where I am". Don't do it, just promise. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 07:56 PM |
| 13 | RP Men who were lazy and undisciplined - How did you manage to discipline yourself? What steps you took?Pick one simple task and stick to it like your LIFE depended on it. Like, washing your plate after you eat. Do it religiously every time, NO MATER WHAT. Do not skip it, not even once. Do that for one month. Then pick another simple task and add it to that one. Repeat. In 3 years you will be one super disciplined motherfucker. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/17 06:43 PM |
| 25 | Dumped... after 4 years together, need to some adviceam I wasting my time trying to get it out of her? Yes. And you look even more pathetic to her by trying to find out,... Her attraction to you is gone. Forever. And you can't do anything about it. Think about this as long as you want. Remove her from your life and move on. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/17 06:33 PM |
| 1 | am I forcing it too hard?Like some people said. It's usualy not so important what you say. How you say it can't really show in text, but if its in the right context and you find it funny at the time, then you're allright most of the time. Just giving vibe that you're entertaining yourself, unaffected about the outcome, will most times be cool. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Had a fight with my fiancé tonight. Soft Nexted her. Was I right?Can you give a speciffic example of how your conversation goes, when it escalates to a fight? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 03:29 AM |
| 2 | This "Chad" obsession is similar to men and their dick size. Women in general don't care nearly as much about either of them.guys who want casual sex. So, 99,9%? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/17 05:17 PM |
| 7 | Girls are attracted to a level of muscularity that is easy to attain and sustain. Lift.You are pretty lean. I didn't get much IOIs when buffing, but when I cut down the fat the most obvious change of women attention happened. This guy has the same amount of muscle on the left or right, but he looks muuuuch bigger on the lean one. So I would emphasize to get lean is as important as lifting. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/17 02:42 PM |
| 2 | TRP strats have worked before. Wife that takes advantage of me.By reading through your OP and comments, you have a lot of reading to do. Start with sidebar, rollo tomassi's and illimitable man's blogs, NNMNG, models (mark manson). If you like podcasts try beige phillip. Read all the top posts of all time of TRP. AND START LIFTING. See you in a half a year. Don't do much until then (because you will fuck up by not fully understanding the field). After that come with a specific question. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/17 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Why isn't there more realistic discussion of the "Wall" men face?Good points. About No. 6. Everybody wants to stay young. Obsessing over it is mental ilness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/17 12:44 PM |
| 3 | I give up. I don't know what to do. That girl ruined me.What news exactly did she spread? That she dumped you? Own it. Don't do anything crazy. Invest in yourself, lift, read... People will see her fucked up personality sooner or later. Your SMV can only go up from here... | /r/askTRP | 14/04/17 09:29 AM |
| 1 | How to recover from...Its a big deal only if you make it. If you put your mindset to "hah, that's funny" and brush it off, she will adopt that mindset. If you start making excuses, feel embarresed and make drama, so will she. She is (or should be) in your frame. So make it what you will. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/17 08:27 AM |
| 20 | Diomedes' Triple Strength RP Guide To LTR Breakups and ExesMight be a completely different scale. But according to brain scans, it uses the same brain regions, so the pain and emotions are similar. Look it up. Thats how evolution and brain works... There are master chess players that use the brain regions for face recognition to see patterns. Yeah, playing chess is nothing like looking at a face and recognising it. But to them it kinda is. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/17 04:20 AM |
| 58 | Diomedes' Triple Strength RP Guide To LTR Breakups and Exes"Love" is a fucked up thing - evolution hijacked the part of the brain that was supposed to be used for love for children Your brain is tricking you and your emotions that the woman you "love" is your child (uses the same brain regions) and it makes you do everything for your "love". Breaking up is as hurtful as losing a child. Women can never love you the same way. They can only love their child in the same way. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/17 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Terrible behaviour last night when I got drunkDude. Get help. Seriously. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/17 01:55 PM |
| 24 | Why So Serious? - 2 Keys to Dance Floor AttractionThere is a fine line between enjoying music, dancing and not caring what everybody else thinks and being a club clown. One is super attractive, you become the social hub for everybody around you, the star of the night, with many options. The other one is... well... a clown. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/17 01:36 PM |
| 17 | Older guys (25+), how do you find a way to make friends and have a social life given that so many people get married in their late 20s?36 here. Most of my friends are divorced now, so we can hang again. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/17 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: How do you predict gender dynamics will evolve over the course of the 21st century? What do you think will happen in future generations?Trp will become mainstream. Not the hardcore red version of it, but a slightly dirty purple... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/17 07:14 AM |
| 5 | Confirmed. She's cheatingGood. Keep us updated | /r/askMRP | 11/04/17 07:12 AM |
| 11 | FR: My first day out daygaming after a year and a half of lethargyGood for you for trying, but you look extremely desperate, and only through text. I imagine this was extremely creepy live... you are just way too much invested, screaming to get in their frame, since you have none. Wish you luck though. It gets better with practice. What you need to work on is yourself... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/17 06:48 PM |
| 7 | Older guys (30+) that didn't get married, what is your life actually like now?Y 36. Life just started. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/17 12:32 PM |
| 0 | Not visiting TheRedPill has helped me immenselyI think you're gay. Get help... | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 12:27 PM |
| 5 | "NOTICE ME!"Go easy on yourself, so you don't freak out. Start by saying hi to random girls and chat with cashiers... Then work your way up from there. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/17 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Time management: how to deal with many projects going on in life?The ultimate thing that gets you going: Order your to do list by priorities. #1 on your list is what needs to be done NOW everything else on your list is NOT stuff that can be done in the mean time or to get it out of the way while you prepare to get #1 done, but it's a distraction. Remove everything out of your head from your list, but #1. DO NOT LET IT DISTRACT YOU OR TAKE YOUR FOCUS. Everything else is getting in the way of finishing #1. Just focus on completing #1 once you complete #1, decid… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 01:51 PM |
| 8 | In dire need of advice, am I [24/M] permanently friend-zoned or can I get her [24/F] back? Long story.Even in my most beta blue pill days I was not so desperate. You're a lost case. Forget about TRP, it's not for everybody. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/17 09:30 AM |
| 3 | I still have oneitis hardThe only way. Lift, focus, work, fuck. Time will do the rest. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 06:09 AM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong?Also called female hamster... | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 06:06 AM |
| 1 | How do you account for the fact that not a single woman on this PPD thread posted a pic of a supine, hairless, oiled, shirtless muscle man with a come-hither look on his face?Fit, well dressed, famous and rich versus random gay from internet? What are you trying to proove? That TRP is right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/17 06:24 PM |
| 5 | What did I do wrong?She posted that to make other guys jellous. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/17 02:45 PM |
| 2 | I have a situation I don't quite understandYou showed yor beta side, then she pulls away. Redpill 101. What did you expect? | /r/askTRP | 04/04/17 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Which beauty or character flaws don't you find off-putting?I dont mind small tits. They look nice on some bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/17 08:01 PM |
| 8 | Guaranteed FailureLearning to fail is one of the most important skills in life. I used to dwell over my failures forever, which is the worst thing you can do. Embrace failure. Learn from it, then move on. Like OP said. Everybody fails. Everybody! The difference is what you do with that failure... | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/17 11:41 AM |
| 7 | Serious OneitisWas in a similar position. Her being the only plate is the problem. Just refill your stock with new plates, and everything will fall back in to place. Its funny how brain plays this tricks on you. When you're running out of options it starts being clingy and creates oneitis in your head. Just get more options. It really is that easy. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/17 01:30 AM |
| 5 | Violin or guitar, what will have better ROI?You dont master an instrument by playing it one hour per day in your twenties. You master it by playing it 6 hours per day from 6 years old. But you can get pretty good at playing some chords on guitar for pussy magnet purposes I guess... | /r/askTRP | 02/04/17 08:20 AM |
| 6 | NMMNG: discuss with partner vs STFU/Acta Non VerbaWhen in doubt, STFU. | /r/askMRP | 31/03/17 08:13 AM |
| 1 | MOD Notice- We remove your shit if you suck.Great job mods. Big respect! I would love to hear some more real life field reports and personal examples. We all learn so much from each other's mistakes. How about a weekly field report thread where everyone can post their stories and people can comment on stuff from a TRP perspective? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/17 12:03 AM |
| 8 | Teenager With A Horrible Rep - What More To Do?Whatever you do, do it slowly. Extreme and fast changes are crepy to others and it will freak out your brain, then you will fall back in to your old habits... Form habits slowly and steadily. Those stick forever. One at the time. If you overload yourself with changes, you will not last. Also, allow yourself to fail. Everybody makes mistakes. Dont beat yourself because you didnt succeed at something. Acknowledge it, learn from it, then move on. You are already ahead of most people, because you ac… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/17 02:10 PM |
| 5 | Is a straight-faced "no" the only indicator of going too far when TEASING?Repeating the same move is boring. Be creative. She also probably sensed your needines... | /r/askTRP | 30/03/17 09:57 AM |
| -2 | REMINDER: Some of the biggest fallacies I've seen in here this week and just one man's take on itGreat post. Why not main sub? | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Be honest, just how important is a lean physique when it comes to gaining and holding attraction from women?To me it's like day or night. At 25% bf my face is bloated, moon face, double chin and I feel awful. 12% my jaw is sharp, I look 10 year younger, facial bones make really different face. Girls approach me and I get constant IOIs. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 11:33 AM |
| 31 | Is 30 too late to start?Started at 34, 36 now. 3 years almost. Best 3 years of my life so far... The best time to plant a tree was 10 years ago. Next best time is now. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 11:10 AM |
| 2 | One meal a day/intermittent fasting scientific research?3.5 years? I suppose you're ripped? How easy is getting shredded? I want to get below 10%. Getting to 15 was easy, then everything just stops... | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Only just found out my LTR is an Alpha WidowBest response (including the ones on asktrp). | /r/askMRP | 28/03/17 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Here's a bunch of studies providing ample evidence to common Red Pill claims. Can't have a debate without evidence!One of the best posts of all time here, no doubt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 12:02 PM |
| 13 | Congratulations, you gamed yourselfGreat post. There are exeptions. She might be so much in to you that she just can't talk/breathe and her knees are too weak to stand near you. I also had one plate admit to me that she was ignoring me to court attention from me. But when you reach this level, your skills of reading social cues will be so high, that you'll be sure her "dread" is calculated. She can't hide it... So yeah. In 99% cases this post is valid. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Test RunIn order to ask the question you already have to know most of the answer. In other words: wtf are you asking? "General advice" is all over the TRP... have a spefiffic question you want answered, untill then, read and learn. There is tons of material on the main sub, books, blogs, podscasts, you name it... | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 01:54 PM |
| 8 | Looking for RP Youtube/PodcastsThe Beige Phillip show | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else not enjoying socializing?I enjoy it. The unaware people are so easy to AMOG. They don't have a clue what's going on.... I hate socializing when I'm not feeling it and when I sucked at it. With practice I became good and thats how you start loving it... | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 12:33 PM |
| 1 | I have poor self image, how do I fix this?It can take months, probably years and a lot of work. Just keep reading, improving and practicing. You can get very far from where you are, but remember its a marathon, not a sprint. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/17 02:05 PM |
| 3 | FR my first approachUse /asktrp for personal stuff | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 07:35 PM |
| – | For guys looking to get married, how do you find out a girl's n-count?You trolling? The evolutionary basis is clear as fuck... High n count means: chance of STD chance of being cuckolded investing time and money in someone who is very unlikely to form long term relationship/commitment, cant control herself and her pussy, so she will most likely cheat. She can be a good lay, but the thaught of LTR disgusts me/us... | /r/askMRP | 20/03/17 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Still pisses me off...Had... but yeah... Still pisses me off. It actually pisses me off that it pisses me off... Just ranting... I know what to do... | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 01:33 PM |
| 7 | A MILF across the street.If men knew all that women think, they would be twenty times more audacious. Alphonse Karr Always assume attraction Of course she wants to fuck. What is this, /relationships? And this gets voted to top? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 06:39 AM |
| 7 | About female orgasms...They are very different. My main plate can cum missionary within a minute of slow stroking. But she really likes sex, she relly likes me, my dick, knows her body and moves herself the way that is easy for her to cum. Another plate never came from penis (no only mine, never). She needs a lot of stimulation with hands, needs to be really horny and needs a lot of time. I think she has some sort of "numb clit" symptom from rubbing herself too much. Then there are all between. I guess there is no AWA… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/17 12:27 PM |
| -1 | Make yourself her only optionCome back and reread all this after couple of years of trp when you are really over her and you've stopped playing nintendo... | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/17 05:13 AM |
| -2 | Make yourself her only optionDude. Go back to sidebar. You lost with her. No matter how high your SMV is, you'll be a loser to her forever. Once she sees your bitchy beta crying child in you, her pussy locks for you forever even if you deadlift 1000lbs. Accept it and go fuck something else... You missed the entire meaning of this post because of your oneitis anecdote, which has totally different dynamic. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/17 08:11 PM |
| 2 | What was the worst Blue Pill thing you did in your lifetime for a girl?Took her to a hotel, payed for everything, gave her a massage, but didn't want to ruin our friendship, so I just talked to her for 3 more hours, then went to sleep and home next day. Fuck... I could fuck a ton of chicks with todays mindset... what the fuck was I thinking... | /r/askTRP | 13/03/17 02:21 PM |
| 2 | INSANE LMR with girl begging for me to fuck herComunicate covertly. Don't talk about fucking. Just say "come over, we'll see what happens." Don't discuss sex directly. Just drop covert hints or teases. If she brings sex directly, just make a joke: "oh, I wouldn't know, I'm a virgin." Also, you don't TELL her overtly: "if you're not into it I don't wanna waste my time". You show it. By texting next girl in front of her to come over (which she is not supposed to see directly by you showing her the text, but by you acting different, withdrawing… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/17 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Wear nice clothes whenever you leave the house. Period.One note. Pick a style that suits you and fits what you're doing. You don't need a black tie dress when going to wallmart. Overdressing can raise eyebrows. Casual can look good and is many times harder to make it look you just "threw something on yourself" and look good. Make sure your clothes fit, they're clean, you're groomed and that you're dressed for the occasion. There was a guy that wore a tie where I used to work, while everybody else was wearing hoodies. He looked weird. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/17 10:43 AM |
| 4 | Question about reading material.This. Made the same mistake. You need to be much higher SMV than her for dread to work, which means lots of reading and work on yourself before you start implementing. Keep it simple and go baby steps, too much will feel unnatural and will freak her (or you) out. | /r/askMRP | 09/03/17 01:32 PM |
| 14 | Plate jealous of my financesOk, this is different from "never tell anyone". I own properties but I don't advertise around what I have, not with everybody. I do tell my inner circle and people who also have properties to share experience. I tell my main plate we're going to fuck at my sea property tomorrow. I don't give a flying fuck what she does with that information. She ain't locking me down and she knows it. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/17 02:50 PM |
| 10 | Plate jealous of my financesWhy? [serious] | /r/askTRP | 28/02/17 02:31 PM |
| 5 | A guide to Abundance mentality?This. Best game is no game. Pretending to have abundance when you're a loser, is creepy. The whole "fake it till you make it" mindset is very tricky, and youre developing a person that does not exist. A little fake ego boost is OK. But you need to be congruent with your mindset. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/17 03:08 PM |
| 1 | help me understand how to handle her feelingsI was 33 when i found this sub. (36 now). :) It's never too late. Check my "my omega to alpha trp year" post on the main sub if you want. Life gets good. Not easy, but good. :) | /r/askMRP | 17/02/17 03:45 AM |
| 3 | Best replies after failed kiss?Perfect. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/17 06:46 AM |
| 1 | help me understand how to handle her feelingsGet your emotions in check. You are DEERing and getting pissed off. That means you are showing you can't control your emotions and you are losing the argument. She can feel this, which makes you less attractive, which makes her a bigger bitch that will try to break you in every way possible. You have a long way to go. You dont change this stuff over night. You need to read more red pill material and practice. Fix what is broken on you, so you can feel more comfortable in your own skin. Listen to… | /r/askMRP | 16/02/17 12:09 AM |
| 4 | Plate declined sex.Usually when this happens I get "the talk". | /r/askTRP | 15/02/17 11:49 PM |
| 2 | She wants children...young, my foreseeable future has myself at the center. I want to travel, I want to start businesses (and fail them), I want to work my ass off, I want to build myself. There's your answer. You have one shot at this life. Now go get what you want out of it and don't let any chick get in your way. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/17 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend stayed over and just 'Cuddled' with Male FriendJust keep confronting her, be jealous and believe everything she says. For fuck sake. Are you retarded? | /r/askTRP | 13/02/17 03:02 PM |
| 3 | So pissed off. desperate for advice, Cant take the fights anymore.You dont become good at anything over night, let alone being alpha. there a lot of work to be done There is your answer. Results won't show over night, just keep going. | /r/askMRP | 03/02/17 04:20 PM |
| 1 | I just got firedGetting fired from previous job was one of the best thing that happened in my life. So many new opportunities that I would have missed if I was still rotting in that place. New experience, intro and retrospective of my life and what I wanted,... and then it landed me a 100x better job. I know you might not see it like that now. But trust me, you will look at that as a great experience down the road. That's also how you should look at it now. Learn from it and move forward. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/17 08:38 AM |
| 1 | The LTR or not questionI get where you're coming from and I agree. But I really doubt there is one hot 25-ish year old virgin in the western world with perfect upbringing and values just waiting at home for a white knight. What I'm saying is, her red flags are easy handle-able by me so far. But yeah, she still needs to smell fish on me the whole time. Will try and keep abundance mentality even if I decide to go LTR. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/17 09:11 PM |
| 2 | First date with instagram "celebrity" update.Good man. Considering you had no experience, hanging out with super hot chick is a great experience, chemistry involved or not. Next time just have a horny "i'm gonna fuck you" mindset and look, and then it's not important what you talk about, but whatever comes out of your mouth comes more flirtatious... | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/17 04:07 PM |
| 1 | The LTR or not questionI doubt that I can find a hot chick that I like with zero red flags though. I just have to be aware of them and act accordingly when they become a problem... Thanks for solid advice. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/17 11:10 AM |
| 2 | The LTR or not questionThank you for this. Good advice. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/17 11:09 AM |
| 2 | The LTR or not questionI can do only 9 with her around my waist. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 09:47 PM |
| 0 | How do you make yourself happy before/when talking to people?People sense it. That's the problem. Make yourself happy. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 08:37 AM |
| 1 | blindsided by 8+/10 girl that I hooked up with, thought it was just a fluke, she is still into me and I am a little confusedLet us know how this goes. And like others said, enjoy it while it lasts and don't forget about your own mission/goals. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Getting older - Is there anyway to get my SMV as high as early to mid 20's males?31? You're not even in your peak. Go back to the gym and fix whatever is broken with you, punk. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/17 02:26 PM |
| 1 | My first date ever is with a woman WAY out of my league. I'm not sure if I should go.You need to go on this date. I forbid you not to go. This will be an invaluable experience. You can't skip that priceless opurtunity. Every next girl will be 10x easier to go on a date with. Assume attraction, take it easy, allow yourself to fuck up. So what if you fuck up? If you never fail, that means your challenges are too easy... | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 08:21 PM |
| 5 | How do girls detect chads so easily?You and me are naturally 10x stronger than women. We don't have to train hard or be exceptionally strong to arm wrestle or outrun (virtually) any female. It comes naturally. Women, however, are 10x better at reading social cues and scanning for good alpha seed. They don't need to train their social intelligence, this comes naturally to them. Small mannerisms, the way they walk, the tone of voice, the reaction of others on them... They subconsciously read all that and they don't even know it. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/17 02:13 PM |
| 11 | Oneitis or is she really interested?I wonder she is genuinely interested in me or trying to fuck up my mind man Female attraction to you is always like the Schrödinger's cat. It exists in both states. You need to open the box and check it, then she decides. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/17 10:26 AM |
| 8 | GF wants me to show "that i care about her" by letting guys flirt with her and then expects me to "man up". I AM FUCKING ANGRY AT HER! AWALT??You are losing your frame all over the place by being angry. How long have you been on TRP? Don't respond overtly to her shit tests. You don't say: "Well did you tell him to fuck off then?" You say: "Oh, you should go on a date with him" a wink and a smirk, then go talk to other ladies. Or if you must, say something like: "Oh, look at you. Trying to make me jellous?" - again, with a smirk on your face. You are clearly lacking abundance mentality and your anger is killing her attraction to you. P… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/17 03:14 PM |
| 1 | I have unattractive face. What shall I do besides lifting?My abs have started to show up a little. That means you have 20% body fat. Not 12. You are fat. Go on a serious cut and face will be better looking and not so important... | /r/askTRP | 23/01/17 11:57 AM |
| 5 | My mega-beta boss is trying to undervalue me to my face to avoid giving me more money. Would you leave asap?Time to branch swing... You need to switch jobs if you want a raise. Always. This is not some corporate mumbo jumbo, it's real in every company I've worked with and from stories of my friends and ex coworkers tell me. Why would they pay you more if you still keep doing the job? They're not stupid. More so if you don't have other options. One of my friends even left a job for another one, then they offered him a better position on previous and he came back. With a double paycheck. The key here be… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/17 12:59 PM |
| 5 | Former virgin here, accidentally got laid thanks to The Red PillGreat report. Remember, progress is bouncy. Don't let next failure discourage you. Everyone hrere was in your shoes in one way or another. Just keep improving and results will follow. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/17 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Did I miss the boat? Is it too late for me to be RP?I'm 36. Discovered TRP at 33. You can make a lot in one year. Just start and never look back. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/17 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Newbie question: where do I fit in?The Game book is old and it was written when pickup was just starting... Negs and similar techniques have been upgraded and psychology behind them is now much more understood. The shit tests that you're asking about, for instance, are a term from PUA/pickup artists, just like negs. But the game (not the book, but the social dynamics) is being played by women (and men) every second of every day and if you want to improve, you need to learn the rules. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/17 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Newbie question: where do I fit in?A: read the sidebar on the main sub. All of it. 3 times. B: the game is what you'll have to learn to love. The game is all around you. Everybody plays it, weather you like it or not. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/17 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Newbie question: where do I fit in?go read the sidebar. Hating the Game? You're not ready for red pill yet. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/17 01:27 PM |
| 4 | law of attraction a scam?If law of attraction would somehow magically work, most planes would crash. Everybody is thinking about crash when landing... But imagining failure when setting up to do something can be a self fulfilling prophecy... Positive/negative feedback on behaviour is a thing. But it's purely psychological. No magic here... | /r/askTRP | 16/01/17 08:29 PM |
| 8 | PSA: Read the sidebar. Seriously. Just read it. Also, since I'm here, let me tell you your problem.Once you become RED you don't need this subs anymore. What's left is newbies and people that will never learn. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/17 09:49 AM |
| 14 | I've found true loveYeah too obvious,... Also, we had a couple of discussions about dogs here already. It's a bad idea, unless you live on a farm or something. You cant travel, take business trips, you have to walk them and generally have time for them. Which a man with self improvement goals shouldn't have plenty. If you get a dog for your own ego and then don't take care of it, you're a selfish cunt. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/17 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Desire cant be negotiated."How do I proceed" You can't, because you will fuck up eventually. You need to understand the whole dynamics, and it's gonna take a while, looking at where you are now. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/17 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Desire cant be negotiated.My feelings were hurt Why the fuck are you discussing your feelings with your LTR?!?!?! No chick will ever fuck an emotional dependant loser, let alone your girlfriend. You have a lot to learn. Go read sidebar, learn about dread, NMMNG, and mostly keeping your mouth shut. You are failing at basic TRP stuff. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/17 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill has a fundamental misunderstanding of the Sexual MarketplaceI'm TRP. I love women. You hate men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/17 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill has a fundamental misunderstanding of the Sexual MarketplaceYou are talking about MRA. TRP is about self improvement. Yes there is common ground, angry phasers and people that don't get TRP, but MRA is bitching about market, TRP plays the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/17 07:37 AM |
| 1 | "I can choose to display a Red pill OR a Blue pill self...and the results are predictable like clockwork." is a blue pill circlejerkAgreed. The people in comments not getting it is what triggered me to write this post. Will make it more clear in OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/17 08:32 PM |
| 1 | I can choose to display a Red pill OR a Blue pill self...and the results are predictable like clockwork.You're not getting my point. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/17 07:44 PM |
| 4 | I can choose to display a Red pill OR a Blue pill self...and the results are predictable like clockwork.Nope. It fits the TRP theory perfectly. Alphas get away with everything. Beta behavior creates divorce rapes and rape charges. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/17 07:21 PM |
| 9 | I can choose to display a Red pill OR a Blue pill self...and the results are predictable like clockwork.yeah, and then they tell all her friends what a pussy you are and so on... I'd rather go ghost and let her hamster do all the work for me with her social circle. I understand the risk, but I've gone beta and then she accused me of being controlling and almost accused me of rape. Going ghost as alpha has never made her go rogue on me... | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/17 01:30 PM |
| 5 | Took Red Pill in the last month and boy am I shaping a new experience and approach to this game.Becoming Red is a long and bumpy journey. You just started. Welcome aboard. | /r/ThankTRP | 10/01/17 03:36 PM |
| 2 | How to build social circles?Hobbies. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/17 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Found a pretty cool girl, but can't fuck her.Probably best advice here. She likes me, I like her. No need to lie. It might even work as a leverage for preselection.. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Found a pretty cool girl, but can't fuck her.I always wear a condom but still got it. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 10:03 AM |
| 6 | LTR Question: GF wants two weeks no contact - What does this mean?I learned of TRP maybe two or three months ago. You don't become alpha in 3 months. It might take years or a decade to kill the blue in you (or maybe it will never die). She feels forced because you're not acting natural. You're faking your alphaness. I suggest you take it easy and focus on improving yourself, then being alpha will follow. Best game is no game. Genuinely be the catch, not pretend being one, because it just makes you look like a jerk. When you've improved and raised your SMV so h… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 07:05 PM |
| 7 | Ever been with a beta girl?That's how you alpha-widow a girl. Not sure how to handle this properly, but if you really don't want anything with her, but care for her as a person, just let her go. It will hurt her, but better now then later, when she gets even more attached. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Social anxiety problemsYou lift, to get bigger muscles. You play guitar, to get better at playing guitar. You learn math, to get better at math. Guess what you have to do to become more social? It's a slow process, you will fail and beginnings are the hardest. But you just have to go out and DO it. No theory or book will help you as much as practice. Invite yourself to every social, sport, culture, party e.g. event that you can. Interact with as many people as possible. And go slow at first, so you don't freak out. An… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 11:20 AM |
| 3 | Girlfriend spontaneously decides to take an international trip without meWhen I see actions like this, it changes and makes me reassess my commitment level Dont explain this dude. Chicks use words. Men do. Just dread the fuck out of her. And stop explaining your actions. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 09:11 AM |
| 2 | I just got rejected by an HB5 (rounding up), and I feel pretty good. Am I finally making progress??what scale is this 4/5? 4 of 5? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 07:50 PM |
| 1 | A GF with plates on the side, erm help?Raise your SMV. Money, looks, girls, health, social network, connections, reel estate, hobbies, be interesting, be funny, etc... You want to BE the catch, not fake being one. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/17 02:07 PM |
| 2 | A GF with plates on the side, erm help?how to lock down the first girl She is the one who has to "lock you down". Not the other way around. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/17 01:56 PM |
| -1 | A GF with plates on the side, erm help?Marry her. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/17 01:10 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when you keep getting ASD behavior in private?Don't shit where you eat man. Its basics. Shit will backfire if she likes you or not. Coworkers will gossip, get jealous, she will dump you, or you will dump her and things will get awkward, you can fuck her too good and all the guys will be jealous, you will fuck her bad and everybody will laugh, you will not call her soon enough and she will feel used, or you'll call her too much and she'll tell everyone you're a creep. If you care about the job, don't make any moves at your job ever. It's not… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when you keep getting ASD behavior in private?The right question is if you care about the job. If you do, don't go there. They do it for attention if they like you or not. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/17 07:37 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when you keep getting ASD behavior in private?She can't just smile. It's awkward for her as much as it is for you. If not more. She WANTS YOU TO MAKE THE MOVE. Every girl has different way of dealing with this first awkward interaction. Some can completely shut off. It's as stressful to her as it is to you. Listen to everybody here and just lean in. She'll probably say something in the lines of "what are you doing??". You just smirk and get even closer to her and go for the kiss. If she really really rejects you (which she won't), just brus… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/17 09:15 AM |
| 3 | What does it mean when you keep getting ASD behavior in private?Act, man. She has given you plenty of signs over the day. She doesn't know how to act when you're alone. She is just thinking "for fucks sake, will he do something now or what?". Just go for it man. "If men knew all that women think, they would be twenty times more audacious." Alphonse Karr | /r/askTRP | 02/01/17 08:27 PM |
| 3 | LTR with a single mom is a viable sexual strategy. Change my view?Why is she single? | /r/askTRP | 02/01/17 07:18 PM |
| 20 | MisconceptionsSidebar material. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/16 12:08 PM |
| 4 | Ex girlfriend dumped me, slept with someone else, then attempted suicideShe's doing all just to get attention and be taken cared of. Don't play her game. You have more important stuff to do FOR YOU. Drop her completely. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/16 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Enough on how to get girls, how do i get good guy friends?I disagree. Men bond by teasing, competition, play, humour etc. Pedestalizing, writing poems, taking them to movies and buying them dinners is gay. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/16 10:10 AM |
| 24 | LTR broke up with me, immediately wants me backDef possible. No, it's not possible. It's a fact. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 09:15 AM |
| 3 | If you experienced depression, I have a question for you.My thought process goes like this: OK. I don't have my left hand. I can cry in the corner for the rest of my life and feel sorry for myself for not having left hand. I can envy people having left hand because they can do so much more. OR. I can accept that I don't have left hand and try to make the best out of my life without one hand. Replace "don't have left hand" with "have depression". Not sure if Tyler meant the same thing. Not sure if you need the same thought process. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/16 10:32 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: why are you you're Pill colourTRP offers a lot of truth. Some people obviously can't take the truth lightly. I can't speak for them unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 09:22 PM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: why are you you're Pill colourWho's angry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 09:17 PM |
| 7 | Q4ALL: why are you you're Pill colourI'm red because I love truth more than fairy tales. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 09:14 PM |
| 6 | Should I try medication?How old are you? if you tried all other things, medication is OK. And find a therapist YOU TRUST. Most effective treatments are with a therapist you can trust, not the method being practiced. Also, if you go on medication, dont take the ones that kill libido. Some never recover from it and libido never returns... | /r/askTRP | 10/12/16 08:35 PM |
| 6 | Support Byofriend to become alpha againThe only valid answer. You helping him will: make him less attractive to you you will use wrong kind of help - subtly and unconsciously sabotaging relationship he will feel even less powerful if he needs help being alpha Mans mission is his own. The only way for him is to fail miserably and reevaluate his life. This mostly happens when a man hits the rock bottom. Until then he will be comfortable living like he does. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/16 07:23 PM |
| 8 | To All The Guys Recently DESTROYED By A WomanNot destroyed. Reborn. Be gratefull for this experience. :) | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/16 12:24 PM |
| 3 | Cold Approached 12x, got 2 #'s and now scared asf again because I might lose virginity tonightIn a month she won't know who you are. Just go with it and fuck. You need quantity not quality now to get experience, so stop overthinking and just go with it.. have fun at it, forgive yourself the mistakes, just brush them off and don't make a big deal out of the mistakes ( if you will make a big deal out of mistake so will she. Don't let her/you fall in to this trap). You come to early? "Oh finally, it usually need like 2 minutes the first time". Your dick falls off? "Oh look. I guess it's sci… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/16 11:30 AM |
| 1 | My girlfriend has cancer and will likely die in the next half year.Good luck man. Hope you get her throug this. Not sure how to handle this emotionally, but for what its worth, try finding something positive in all of this to keep you in the worst times. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/16 11:58 AM |
| 13 | My girlfriend has cancer and will likely die in the next half year.She needs her captain now more than ever. BTW, what kind of cancer is it? Medicine in that part is getting better each year and if found early enough most patients live. Prepare for the worst, hope for the best. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/16 11:01 AM |
| 10 | Dealing with disrespectDepends on the context, but indifference/dread works best in most cases. Light or playful disrespects can be reacted like shit tests, so: jokes, agree and amplify, come back with witty insult etc... But if family member insults you in front of everybody on thanksgiving dinner, then just ignore the motherfucker for the whole night. No reaction. If a friend disses you in front of girls he wants to impress, sip your drink slowly, walk away and have fun that evening without him. It helps if your soc… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/16 01:44 PM |
| 2 | BEAR MODE! How?Just eat and lift. No secret recepies here... Bear mode is just an individual that did this for 10 years. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/16 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Should I put this on tinder or have more gainsDyel? Lightning, angle and photo quality is also not doing you any favours. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/16 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Tips for a young trp memberBesides what others told you, pick one hobby and become master at it. Dont be medicore in 15 things. Pick one. Whatever you want. But when you pick it, be the best in it. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/16 09:31 PM |
| 3 | How to Handle The Fake Break-up: A Masterclass On Shit TestsGreat post. But always remember. Best game is no game. You had abundance mentality and you didn't care much if she left. Playing dread in scarcity mentality is counter intuitive and it's easy to overreact, underreact or fuck up completely. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/16 03:37 PM |
| 1 | When the ALPHA of the group is determined to make you the clown, better to fight back or just leave the group?Keep your friends close, but your enemies even closer. Get to know him, compliment him, kiss his ass,... Kill him with kindness. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/16 08:16 PM |
| 1 | No porn and no sex drive?How's your stress? | /r/askTRP | 13/11/16 08:58 AM |
| 6 | I've finally seen the light.Welcome to adulthood. Farry tales are for children. Now grind your way to the top! ;) | /r/askTRP | 11/11/16 05:31 AM |
| 1 | How to fuck a hot post wall women?I guess you're right. Still need more TRP after 3 years. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/16 08:02 PM |
| 3 | CMV: "Don't talk about fight club" not because people don't want you to improve, because The Red Pill is creepy as Hell.I'm coming from a different perspective. First there was TRP, then people started waking up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 04:02 PM |
| 5 | CMV: "Don't talk about fight club" not because people don't want you to improve, because The Red Pill is creepy as Hell.The red pill is now nearly main stream. The same principles, rules and discussions are being discussed in various subreddits, mainstream podcasts, shows, dating advices etc. Feminists are getting laughed at everywhere. The only thing TRP subreddit has unique is angry phasers that need to go through that phase to grow up and TRP specific language. So no, the 1st rule is there so you're not marked as misogynist before you get your point across. If you avoid TRP lingua and tone down the angry part,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 03:54 PM |
| 1 | How to fuck a hot post wall women?I think this might be it. I'm successful and stable and have my shit together. They would love to fuck me, but they now know this is not the way to lock me down. They would probably fuck me sooner if I was no future... | /r/askTRP | 02/11/16 03:02 PM |
| 2 | How to fuck a hot post wall women?I know I know... But there are plenty of ugly, or fat, or no gluteus muscle 25 year olds, so I'm talking about post wall chicks that are still much hotter than average. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/16 09:39 AM |
| 2 | Attraction and Desire – What I learned from taking estrogen and living as a girlParts of this post are valid and beliavable, no doubt. But this all just falls too much in to TRP theory to bring any real value. Confirmation bias, self-fulfilling prophecies, unmeasurable claims etc. It's a nice read, don't get me wrong. But I can imagine new TRPers eating this like a chocolate with no skepticism. I call bullshit on overall message of the post. Sex cant be changed by couple of needles and personalities are shaped by decades, not months of hormonal differences. Nice clickbait t… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/16 11:08 AM |
| 2 | First RelationshipYou will burn. But hey. Take it as a learning experience. You need to get your heart a little broken to grow up. :) Welcome to the club. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/16 07:39 PM |
| 26 | FR: Took the plunge, broke up with BPD girlfriendRead this 100 times. Do not explain. "It just didn't work out". That's all you need to say. Every subquestion or explanation is going to dig your hole deeper and bring 100 new questions and make everything a mess. You pulled the plug. Now let the shit dry up and don't ever poke it with a stick just to see how dry it is. It will just stink more, so just leave it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 07:40 PM |
| 19 | GF starts crying during sex. What should i do?She got some really heavy tingles at the party from someone. Maaybe she even didnt fuck him because she "loves you". Then she got home and wanted to get the same tingles from you to save the relationship. But she couldn't get them, so she started crying, knowing your relationship is over. Her acusing you of stealing blanket and this kind of passive agressive stuff just means she's allready checked out. Yo're a free man now. Enjoy it. ;) | /r/askTRP | 23/10/16 01:55 PM |
| 2 | How to tactfully dread my LTRAgree. Best way to dread is not to pretend, but actually be busy with other stuff and have mind on other things. Actively/consciously dreading makes you look butthurt. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/16 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Prevent plate from falling in love"first plate" | /r/askTRP | 23/10/16 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Road to alpha, please helpFor me, I'd keep fucking her and stay in appartment untill I could afford better. But I'm not sure how well can you handle something like this emotionally, since you're a virgin and you forgave her a lot. That screams major oneitis meaning it's impossible to keep yourself under control. So just keep hustling. There ain't no such thing as a free lunch. Study, work, look for better jobs, screen for opportunities, expand your social circle, lift, etc. The progress will be bumpy with obstacles, but … | /r/askTRP | 22/10/16 04:52 PM |
| 9 | If you want a friend get a dog. If you want loyalty get a dog. If you want a chick magnet get a dog. Just get a dog.Please dont get a dog for this reasons. They are living beings that are completely dependent on you. Getting a dog to get chicks is as low as TRP can go. Please don't go there. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 07:45 PM |
| 2 | What is a good workout for me?Stop finding the perfect workout, but just do something and stick to it. You'll tweak later. Consistency is the key, not a perfect routine and number of sets. It's a marathon, not a sprint. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/16 08:31 PM |
| 9 | Went from ~12% BF to ~18 BF, and it's like I'm in a different world12% and 18% me is a totally different person. On 18% I have double chin, there is no jawline, when I sit the stomach looks ugly and I also feel bad. On 12% my face is chiseled, bone structure is showing, jawline is visible, no fat under the chin, and I feel great. I look way better on 15% and lower. It might not be the same for everybody (a friend of mine is fat as fuck, but it doesn't show up in his face, so he looks the same in clothes). But for me, my face and chin just fill up and I'm ugly w… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/16 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to really change?Don't change everything over night. Forming habits take long time and plenty of will. And you can't work on 10 habits at once. You freak out and give up after a while if you load yourself too much. Pick one easy and stick to it for half a year. After that, pick a new one, and after that a new one. In a couple of years you will be a totally new person. It's a gradual steady process, no miracle overnight changes happen. And forgive yourself. Everybody fails. Beating yourself because you failed you… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/16 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Relatively existential crisisHow old exactly are you? I was 34 when my sweetheart blue pill relationship was shattered. It was freaking hard the first year. But now at 36 I think it was the best thig that ever happened to me. I'm in great shape, fantastic social life, great job, lots of pussy... next goal: total financial independence (so I work only if I want to). I think now the blue pill was a childish look on a world. You need to kill it if you want to grow up. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/16 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Really low Libido. I dont have the slightest motivation to get laid.Wich ones were off? How high was your test? The low end of the range is really low. Should be close to the higher range if you're in your 20s. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Really low Libido. I dont have the slightest motivation to get laid.Get your blood checked (test, cortisol, lh, fsh, estrogen, other markers...) It could be stress or depression, but you want to rule out any hormonal imbalances or diseases first. Hope your insurance covers this? | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Anyone has tips on establishing a new social life, once you move to an entirely different city?Hopefully you have enough social intelligence to notice when you're bugging someone. I have great experience meeting new people in gyms, just be friendly, make a joke, then leave them alone for a while. Don't just hang there and be awkward. Friendliness is rewarded by friendliness, so go ahead and interact, just be aware of how far/deep/long your interaction should be. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/16 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Trying to determine if I should just go for it alreadyGood, keep it up. And just fuck her, you need the experience. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/16 04:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you express abundance mentality to others?Faking it can make you look like a creep, so make sure you practice on neutral grounds (out of family, coworkers, friends.. ) Best long term goal should be to invest in yourself and the rest will follow. Best game is no game. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/16 04:14 AM |
| 6 | Trying to determine if I should just go for it alreadyIf you don't care about the job, fuck her. The real questions are: - why are you asking us for permission? - why don't you have a job you do care about yet? | /r/askTRP | 01/10/16 04:06 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Many "incels" who post here would benefit immensely from therapyThe whole psychology science is as accurate and effective as astrology. It's not real science, since it does not does not meet the basic requirements for a field to be considered scientifically rigorous: clearly defined terminology, quantifiability, highly controlled experimental conditions, double blind studies, reproducibility, predictability, testability... Most therapies don't work. Actually all therapies (including the fancy CBT) work with the same success ratio, the biggest factor being th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/16 10:58 AM |
| 8 | Personal Life Survey Results 2016Whoa there, sorry for insulting you by trying to get some more data. Yo're right. Information is evil. Lets burn all the books while we're at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 09:02 PM |
| 6 | Personal Life Survey Results 2016Now, can you do some statistics on this? How many TRPers are single vs BPers. How many men are willing to have children and how many women. You know the drill... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 06:59 PM |
| 1 | What are the best gems you've learned since you've been on TRP?Underrated comment. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/16 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Depressed because of lack of results for long timeThere is a lot of chance, but you will have to kick yourself in the butt and do it. No shortcuts for this. Hobbies are great. Its hard to get started, but you don't have a choice. You need to do what you have to do. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/16 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)You brought a forum as a criteria. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)We like movies, we like to talk about them, we like to spend money on them, we have forums about it, ratings, BUT WE DON'T NEED THEM. It's exactly like women. Not sure, are you stupid or trolling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)It does. The movie industry and subreddit are much bigger than relationships and pickup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)I'm 36. Wanna role play sugar daddy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)Honey, I would never lie to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)Good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)You are inconsistent. You disagree with me, now you agree. What hapened? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)Planing on leaving the job thing soon though... the real estates are paying off quite well. So, if I love you with all my heart, never cheat on you, cook and give you 1h long massages every night before sleep then eat your pussy exacly how you like it while we travel the world, would you still love me, even if I don't have a job? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)So you're saying if we can't live without it, there is a subreddut on that thing? Why is there no subreddit for breathing? We can't live without breathing as well. Social dynamics and relationships are a big interest to all of us. There is a lot of interest in, say, movies. More than pick up. But you and I know we can all live without them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)Men that keep orbiting women hoping they can friendship their way in to a relationship, but never get there, are losers. Cmon, this is not only TRP, this is relatively common knoledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)You're right. I would pay for ice cream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)Your train of thought is so clear. You must be a genius. No wonder you're an alpha woman. Can I get your phone number? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)I rest my case. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 05:40 AM |
| 6 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)Im guessing you're basing your observations on pathetic losers orbiting you, not independent grown men (who don't pay you attention and therefore you don't have them in your world view of men) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 05:16 AM |
| 7 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)I actually agree that most men are pathetic about having to be in relationship. I don't agree that it benifits them in any way. They become manipulated pussies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)Prove what? That they like you, or that they don't need you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 05:01 AM |
| 6 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)Well, of course. I'd love to see my oneitis have the same feelings for me, before TRP. Now I just know it's impossible for her to love me like I loved her. It's in the TRP sidebar: women in love, men in love. Read about it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 04:55 AM |
| 8 | Men want relationships & love more than women do, or else they wouldn't be the ones paying out of their ears for it (especially in sugardaddy relationships), falling in love with prostitutes, & other things (sources inside)We like you. We also like ice cream. But we can do without both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Most women who frequently use the internet have at least a vague idea what TRP is, don't let it leak.. it makes you come off as more pathetic than a beta.Spending enough time on TRP, and you see those people saying you can spot TRPer from a mile away are right. I bet 90% of TRPers don't ever become real TRPers. They just bitch about life and yell "alpha" and "false rape accusation", but never break out and become independent grown men, which is the cornerstone of what this sub is preaching. Good post. Stop talking, start doing. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 07:18 PM |
| 0 | How do I downgrade a girl?I think you should call the radio station and make a public song wish for her (biber, sorry), then appologize to her parents and write her a song. /s For fucks sake. You've been on trp for 1year. Fucking act like it. You don't owe her anything. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/16 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis, never felt worse in my life, please helpMost of us here were through this. We get you. It's hard. And it's going to be for a while. So buckle up and get ready for it. But. Looking back at this, in a year, you will see that this was the best thing that ever happened to you. Time to read, lift, self reflect and improve. What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. Now go lift and start improving YOU. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/16 07:58 PM |
| 3 | "imposter syndrome". Looking for some advice.I know that feeling. Just keep giving your brain more proof. Talk to it: "See? She touched me. She likes me..." Eventually it will start "believing you". It's like dogs that had horrible owners. They need a lot of training and socialization to start trusting humans. Your "reptile brain" knows only girls acting horrible to you. You need to "train" it, give it a lot of confirmation that they can actually like you. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/16 12:37 PM |
| 6 | "imposter syndrome". Looking for some advice.1 year of dedicated fitness and diet and you can look like a new person. Changing externally is easier than internally. Meditate, read, self reflect, find where and why you're still holding insecurities etc. It's not an overnight process. You need to prove to your brain that you're a desirable person, so interact, practice and your brain will slowly start believing you. It takes time, baby steps. Just keep giving it proof. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/16 11:39 AM |
| 4 | A mutual lie between TRP & TBP: LooksI'm below average looking when looking just my face. I managed to get my body in shape, I am good with words and dress well. I can get a 7 to fall in love with me. My ex is a 9 (yeah, I was her low). I go on dates with 8s. Your post is false. Looks does a lot for first impression, from there on it's less and less important, when people get to know you more... My boss is uglyer than me. He is also fat and wears glasses. Girls eat from his palm. His persona is an amazing aphrodisiac. Even us guys … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/16 08:38 PM |
| 3 | 19 M I have a chance to lose my virginity to a married 44 year old milf, advice?Is she a type that would tell he husband? Women are great at hiding this stuff from their husbands, so if she's not some psycho I would go for it. Wrap it up, be cautious and "use" her to learn how to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/16 05:57 PM |
| 1 | How are women so instinctually good at it?Besides all the good comments here... show me a bitch, and I'll show you a guy that can't stand her. Her game is good and your SMV is lower than what she's used to dealing with. A natural alpha with good genes and mission in life wouldn't even break a sweat if she didn't call him. She would be the one waiting for his call. Everyone has a match. I've seen the most natural psycho manipulative 9s turn complete 180 and become little submissive bunnies when this happens. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/16 07:15 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Red Pill makes the best case for assuming that all men are rapistsAnd there are no examples ever that woman says no, but actually wants the guy to proceed or try later? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 07:38 PM |
| 4 | Bad day.. how do you Red Pillers get back up?http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Ju580NLuccs/UkSVXXzL_XI/AAAAAAAABdQ/N6j81QmZrvw/s1600/success-sketch.png Just keep going. Fails happen. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/16 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Out of control sisterYou have an excelent motivation to finish school, get a decent job and live free ASAP. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/16 04:09 PM |
| -4 | Shit test "Are you mad at me""I'm too busy to text, so I will text you that I'm too busy to text." - Yeah, that sounds totally natural. Just ignore it, write/ask something completely different "Huh? Hey, what is that book title we talk about last time? A friend wants to know." Or even better, agree and amplify: "I am completely dissapointed at you. You owe me a massage. And it better be a good one" | /r/askTRP | 05/09/16 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Is she cheating?Haha. This is hillarious. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/16 07:32 PM |
| 8 | Are men actually intimidated by successful women?Couldn't agree more. I myself am not intimidated by their success, but their success does nothing to her attractiveness. Their attitude "I'm succesful, so I'm allways right and everybody is stupid" is a big turn off. Not all succesfull women are like that, but the ones that think that they have to be bitchy to be successful surely turn me off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Member of my friends group is becoming a jerkStop giving any attention to him. Just socialize with others. None or just really inevitable contact with him. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/16 04:47 PM |
| 6 | At 21, I just went on my first ever date. What could I have done better?You did excelent for a first date. Now go practice more. And remember, it's allways better to make a mistake doing something than do nothing. Doing nothing is boring and it kills attraction. If the date goes south, do something. Kino, kiss, move location, end the date, whatever... | /r/askTRP | 04/09/16 09:08 AM |
| 9 | Best way to maintain contacts?Activities. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/16 04:46 PM |
| 15 | I went to a high-class escort and thought I'd share some details with you.Escorts are one of the most honest people with great insight in to social dynamics. Btw, can you upload a picture of her somewhere? Need to re-read this with her body in my mind. :) Mask the face if you're worried. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 12:13 PM |
| 1 | 2 Years of RP: Lessons LearnedBe short, but clever. And unpredictable. Predictability is boring. Just ask a random question sometime. Like "hey, do you think dogs know they are dogs, or do they think they are people?" Then let her babble shit, ask a few more subquestions, then just dissapear for a while. Also, girls are different. Some need more, others less. Like everything in life, no theory will get you better at it but practice. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Found this text and am paralyzed. Need adviceOnce you pull the plug, be prepared for extreme emotional roalercoaster in next few weeks. In that time you need to stay away of any contact from her and stay with your close friends. Please listen to guys on this sub. We've been throug the same. Resist the urge to do differently than guys here recommend. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/16 06:14 PM |
| 11 | 2 Years of RP: Lessons LearnedAbout the whole "text only logistics" - this applies when the girl is already all in to you and would walk 100 miles just to see you. You'll know when this happens, because you've fucked her really good at least a few times, and you will naturally act this way with her. You meet a girl, get phone number, you get some IOIs, maybe even a kiss, and then write later: "Saturday, my place, 8 pm, you suck my dick."- this is porn / 4chan / angry-phase fantasy. This does not happen. Unless you have a SMV… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 10:42 AM |
| 14 | What oneitis really is, and why you'll never get over it.Depends. I fucked 20. Then I was in a short dry spell, a bit stressed, a bit anxious for my future and a bit tipsy from alcohol an then met her. Fuck I can't believe how much power she still holds over me. I did hold frame and said goodbye ASAP, but it's best to never meet your oneitis ever again if it was a hard one. Maybe after 10 years. You'd both be completely diferent people by then anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/16 07:20 PM |
| 11 | What oneitis really is, and why you'll never get over it.This gave me a big laugh. Geeky stuff that dries pussy, but I laughed. :) | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/16 07:12 PM |
| 5 | Blue pillers: why would a married woman cheat on her successful dentist husband, for a meth addicted wife beater?Some form of dvorce rape happened in 50% of my high school mates. The other half is on a good way there. My sister is a single mother, she was all over "dad" when he was an extreme skier and a skiediver, then they started a family and he was "beaten" down to be a beta, then she trew him out of the appartment. I was cheated on, once I showed my soft side. Twice with 2 differend women, before TRP. After TRP I got musles, stopped being a pussy and all nice to girls and now I can fuck something new … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 06:08 PM |
| 1 | I successfully turned him into a beta.This. He needs to hit the rock bottom and climb out of there alone to feel like a man again. Any help from you will just make this process longer and more complicated and make him feel less of a man. Let him go. Let him hate you. Let him go through the process of swallowing the pill. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/16 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Does a Woman Have Any Responsibility at all to Protect Herself Against Sexual Assault?/thread Both parties are responsible. Human social interactions are complex. There are many comunication channels active, not only verbal. Specially when there is alcohol, sexual tention, mating, teasing etc with young inexperienced people, errors will happen. That's why both parties need to be thaught. Women need to be thaught how to protect themselves and give clear signals and men need to learn how to read signals and play safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe there are women who genuinely find beta males mores sexually attractive than alphas,?I saw a yes there. It's a deal. We can disagree over skype for the first time, so we don't cancel your wedding just yet (maybe I'm just a fat neckbeard living with his mom ;) ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 06:47 PM |
| 4 | If a woman says "no" you should stop even if you think she's shit-testingWell, read the /u/DaphneDK post. If you can't clearly communicate what you want and what not, you are not an adult. If the guy still uses force, then of-course, it's a rape. But sending mixed signals, acting submissive and enjoying the interaction is NOT clearly communicating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 01:52 PM |
| 3 | If a woman says "no" you should stop even if you think she's shit-testingOh, no, you got the last part wrong. Most false rape accusations happen because girl's dad, boyfriend, crush or someone else heard she had sex, then she needs an excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 01:40 PM |
| 5 | If a woman says "no" you should stop even if you think she's shit-testingDon't you see why some would be intimidated to reject him assertively? No I don't. It was a party. Plenty of people could hear them if she cried for help or anything similar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 01:33 PM |
| 2 | If a woman says "no" you should stop even if you think she's shit-testingThis is horrible advice for socially awkward men. It's an amazingly hot experience when done by experienced alphas that can read through shit tests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 01:25 PM |
| 3 | If a woman says "no" you should stop even if you think she's shit-testingWe don't give mixed impossible-to-read signals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe there are women who genuinely find beta males mores sexually attractive than alphas,?You're out of my search range | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe there are women who genuinely find beta males mores sexually attractive than alphas,?So... Want to go for a date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe there are women who genuinely find beta males mores sexually attractive than alphas,?Well you were the one asking... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Conquering fear of sexual intimacy/failurePractice on hookers | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 07:15 PM |
| 4 | Do you believe there are women who genuinely find beta males mores sexually attractive than alphas,?Well, I don't expect you to understand. Guys that swallow the pill take years to get all the concepts under their skin. Some never do. Hence so much misunderstanding. But hey, if you're really interested you can start by some basics, like No More Mr Nice Guy and other recommended books. It shows you how "nice" is actually not nice, but manipulative. How dark triad is necessary to become successful in business and life and it doesn't make you a psycho killer, but helps you detach emotions from im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 05:17 PM |
| 7 | Do you believe there are women who genuinely find beta males mores sexually attractive than alphas,?You seem more obsessed with alpha/beta then TRP. Also, it seems you have a poor understanding of what alpha is. Insecure bitchy and controlling behavior is as beta as it can get. No matter how rich and attractive the guy looks. Calm, stable, controlling his emotions, not afraid to show soft side... this is alpha 101. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Do you believe there are women who genuinely find beta males mores sexually attractive than alphas,?That long term alpha was a bitchy low self esteem omega, if he had to be aggressive to other dudes to get his way. That is by no means alpha. What you're calling high beta could probably be very much alpha, but I would need a bigger sample to know. Alphas are very comfortable showing their vulnerability, but probably not the way most people think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Rape Culture and the anatomy of a regret rape case.To dangerous for what? It was a party. Plenty of people around. Her screaming would definitely woke someone up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 02:03 PM |
| 5 | Rape Culture and the anatomy of a regret rape case.No you are not sorry. If you would really be sorry, you would be screaming "FALSE RAPE ACCUSATION CULTURE", like you are trying to say we live in a rape culture. I am sorry to break it to you, but we do not. The main sentence in question is this one: I was laying with this guy, and earlier on I explicitly told him we wouldn't fuck. But then he got on top of me and kissed me while I was trying to sleep. I knew it was weird, but I didn't want to be a rape victim, so I kissed him back and eventuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 01:48 PM |
| 13 | Got fired after 3 years because ex refused to work in same building. Pro- feminist society in all its glory.I'm sorry, but you'll be getting a little medicine from me and it's not going to taste good. Most of people finding TRP read a sidebar for a week and then think they are RED, Chad and Alpha as fuck. They go dreading their girlfriends, bossing their coworkers, pulling girls hair because "they like it" and calling all of their friends beta. It's a recipe for a disaster. It's what gives the Red Pill a bad rep and it's justified. You are no different than were before you found TRP. The only differen… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 01:04 PM |
| 1 | What does 'Meditation' actually mean?Never could learn meditation. It was too hard for me to just sit and do nothing. I do love walks though. Thoughts clear up, mind takes a rest, I get away from work, instant gratification of TV and internet, people, parties, I think about my life etc... Light hikes are my meditation. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Oral completely demolishes dick game. Good or bad?Love it. Keep going. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 01:18 PM |
| 5 | Oral completely demolishes dick game. Good or bad?Dude. Share your techniques man. This sub needs this! BTW, I found out that I can perform a pretty average PIV fuck and I will get compliments how good of a fuck it was, if a girl has been aroused in her head by me before. Hard to explain in few words, but the sex for her starts the second you meet. Eye contact, teasing, kino, slight dread (a very subtle dread of completely turning your attention from her to some other activity. Like opening a bottle of wine. They love to watch you being good at… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Norwegian "male feminist" gets raped by a refugee immigrant - then feels bad when the rapist is deported.I also look at it as not fully developed human brain. Their mindset is "I exist, therefore I deserve". That's how children think. They are children. By sheer existence they think they are entitled of respect, adoration, social security, health care, privileges. When they don't get it, they don't change themselves, but blackmail by crying "oppression". What they lack is a crucial point in their lives of becoming an adult. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/16 07:41 AM |
| 5 | Get Your Ass Out of The Weeds. Now, let's get down to how to develop disciplineIt goes both ways. Loving yourself makes you do stuff "for yourself". Since you love yourself. You love to do things for people you love. If you love yourself, you like doing things for you. Now, having bad self image will throw you in to a spiral of self hate. You don't want do do things for people you hate. If you hate yourself, you don't want to do stuff for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/16 12:37 PM |
| 5 | Being kind/gentle is not being beta, being a doormat is.I completely agree with both of you, but I would say this man is actually not an asshole. He just treats himself well and he treats women bad, because they deserve it. It all boils down to NMMNG's point. Nice guy is actually the manipulative asshole. Taking care of yourself and not investing in people that bring you no value, is being honest. You sucked my dick? So what. I don't owe you anything now. I can fuck you and you will cum, then please stop wasting my time and leave. - this is not assho… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/16 03:38 PM |
| 12 | What am I doing incorrectly?The whole PUA industry is based solely on getting phone numbers, which is fucking lame. Getting phone # is the easiest part. Not only that, many times girls will give it to you to get rid of you. Roosh ain't banging anyone. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/16 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Collection of Studies About Human Sexuality And Behavior, With A Brief Summary Of The Conclusion Of EachThis is fantastic. It would be great to have an online TRP database to fill in more and newest research of human behavior aligned with TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/16 12:16 PM |
| 2 | How old are you??This sounded to me she gave you a very honest compliment and you gave her a sign you don't want to be bothered. It's not a normal shit test. You could say it's a test how well you can take compliments. You should've said a sincere "Thank you" then continue conversation with: "So, are you from around here" or some other casual convo. while continue doing whatever you were doing before (getting money from ATM etc). Remember, reward good behavior and punish bad behavior. This can be done in a milli… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/16 09:16 AM |
| 1 | How to break up with GF?Because you don't know how to fuck untill you've fucked a couple of dozen. You don't learn this from porn or anywhere else. Too many subtle stuff going on, impossible to explain. If you're in a LTR, you don't learn anything. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/16 12:52 AM |
| 7 | I want to kill the boyThe 44 laws of power is a fantastic read. A must read for corporate environment. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 05:42 PM |
| 5 | "My mother is my best friend"Nobody likes them. The child has no choice, so he's forced to be a friend of a broken person with no social life. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 03:36 PM |
| 4 | Why marry a RPer?I was an emotional leech and a loser before TRP. Now I'm a confident attractive male with great body and lots of money. Plenty would marry me now that I don't want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/16 02:04 PM |
| 11 | How old are you??Eleven. Can you buy me a beer? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 01:32 PM |
| 3 | How to break up with GF?we lost our virginities Dude, get out of this relationship and get laid. Don't get in to another LTR after you get your number well in to double digits. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Embarrassing so I'm using a shit account. I just need to know why. NSFWLMR, this is basics. Go read sidebar and other beginner PUA and TRP material. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 12:34 PM |
| 1 | I have a feminine face, am I screwed?How old are you? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Serious issue with people talking over meListen to this guy. It's how it's said, not what. When you start speaking, be loud, clear and don't stop speaking when someone starts to interrupt you. You don't always have to be right and to the point. But you have to sound confident and loud. It can be calm (loud doesn't mean screaming). There is a certain way of speaking that will court attention from everybody even if it's bullshit. It's a skill and you need to practice it. You will not become good at it over night. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 12:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] RejectionI was not like that always. But I figured being spontaneous and just babble whatever pops in your head is the best recipe. Being analytical will always get you in a situation that you are not prepared and then you freeze. It's better to always be unprepared and enjoy living in that chaotic world. If you practice you get better at dealing with chaos. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/16 12:15 PM |
| 4 | Much of the distaste for TRP/RPW(i) stems from non-systematizers seeing systematizers systematize human interaction and being grossed outDiscussing a topic that has some science to back it up, field reports, personal experience, statistics etc. does not make this field science YET. But deliberately label anything coming from TRP as misogynistic, denying any mating pattern as a part of human, but instead calling it "love" and "it just randomly sometimes happen" is dogma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/16 08:51 AM |
| 3 | [FR] RejectionI did "punish" her. She was the one reinitiating the conversation several times, apologized, told me her name, then even suggested we hang out later. You can't nuke a hard-next every time a girl is a bit suspicious in the beginning of meeting a stranger. She knew nothing about me. She probably gets approached by creeps all the time, so it's her protection method. She more than corrected her mistake after she saw I'm a cool guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/16 06:28 AM |
| 13 | Much of the distaste for TRP/RPW(i) stems from non-systematizers seeing systematizers systematize human interaction and being grossed outNo. If you discuss and research sexual dimorphism and mating of any living creature you are animal sexual behaviour scientist. If you do it for Homo Sapiens, you're misogynist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 06:52 PM |
| 4 | [FR] RejectionI agree and disagree. :) Openers are actually my strong point. Been opening for 10+ years with 0 social anxiety and plenty success. You can actually open with whatever you want, but it depends on many other factors what will be thrown back at you. This time it was a bitchy "I will reject the next person that talks to me no matter what". That's also why I got in that "challenge accepted" mode right away. Also see my other reply. Thx for comment btw, will apply to most people. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/16 06:13 PM |
| 5 | [FR] RejectionTo be honest, I don't think I really asked for the name IIRC. I get your point and it's a valid one for most people. I have zero social anxiety (in a crowded environment), been randomly opening way before TRP, so I can say I'm pretty good at that. I open by saying whatever pops in my head at the moment so I honestly forget what I opened with the second I say it because it's so random and I'm just throwing stuff out of my head. I opened at least 20 other girls that night. So yeah. Asking for a na… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/16 06:03 PM |
| 5 | the book of pookThe book is online and free and you can read it in a day. You're looking for a permission from us to be a lazy cunt. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 03:13 PM |
| 9 | They will look at you weird. (On IOIs)Haha. At social gatherings my ex would literally RUN to the orbiters she was not attracted to. Giving them hugs, kisses, even tease them with rubbing her boobs against them (by accident) and stuff like that. Then when a guy that she was attracted to came close, she completely froze up. Total black out. She couldn't get one word out of her mouth. So funny, I see a variation of this all the time now. Girl I know is attracted to me hugs everyone around when she comes to a social gathering, but me. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/16 08:24 AM |
| 63 | They will look at you weird. (On IOIs)You don't think anything. Keep professional and personal worlds separated. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 08:32 PM |
| 79 | They will look at you weird. (On IOIs)You know what's even a better feeling? When you're getting actively ignored. When she is actively trying not to look at you. Hard to explain, you just feel it. She is present, in your proximity, but trying really hard not to give you attention. It always makes me giggle inside. :) | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 08:14 PM |
| 1 | How Women Really ThinkAlso, this > https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/35atmg/hypergamy_101_women_see_men_the_way_men_see_jobs/ | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Please Do Not Act Like Men From Pickup Artist Youtube ChannelsTottaly shit post. Where do you see anyone forcefully touching anyone? You might look a little closer, the women are laughing and enjoying the interactions. Who said people are obliged to talk to you if you approach? Try it, you'll see how easy you get rejected. I remember when I first saw Tylers videos couple of years ago and thaught they were fake. I tell you they are not. You have to go through plenty of rejections and mind barriers to become good at it. And the only way you become good at an… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 08:01 AM |
| 0 | Give yourself some fucking creditBeen on TRP for 2,5 years. The progress get's even slower later. The first year is where the most changes happen, because you start doing things. So changes from week to week and month to month are even less noticable. Steady progress is not noticable. But even now I'm a completely different person than I was 12 months ago. It's true. I forgot what I was 1 year ago, let alone 3 years ago, before TRP. It's like it was another life. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/16 08:23 PM |
| 2 | How to use whey?It's excelent for making sand castles. But then they are not sand castles, but whey castles. It doesn't matter, just make whey castles and tell everybody they are sand castles. They look similar. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/16 12:58 PM |
| 2 | I've lived the beta life. It sucks. I want out, here is my plan. Critique and berate me.You dont need our guidence. You allready know what to do. Just remember. Progress is not linear. Its not a sprint, but a marathon. You will fall. Its the guys that can pick themselves from the mud and keep on running that win the race. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/16 02:59 AM |
| 0 | Don't last long in bed. I come from 1-3 minutes. How can I fix this?Not really an answer to your question, but not coming soon enough was considered weakness in some places long ago. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Cheating lying GF - Best way to break up??Too much complications and risk. I'm sure you still have feelings for her, so you will fuck up if you let her coming in your life. Also, why would you want to let her remind you and keep letting her take your focus, attention, emotions etc. You have a mission, and that mission is you. You can play manipulation games with women when you are not emotionally invested. This time just ghost and focus on yourself. You can be friends with her after 5 years. She will want to fuck you really bad when you… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/16 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Cheating lying GF - Best way to break up??Do not listen to anything she or her friends say. Do not explain or ask for anything. Ghost her and work on yourself. Following these 3 steps is the only way you will come out as a winner and it will drive her crazy. Good riddance. ;) | /r/askTRP | 03/08/16 11:50 AM |
| 3 | AWALT - wall banging chick admits her BF doesn't bring in the coin and she wants to know how to make him do soFuck also women you're not interested in. That's how you learn and progress. But I can relate, women I am really interested in are rare. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/16 05:27 PM |
| 2 | AWALT - wall banging chick admits her BF doesn't bring in the coin and she wants to know how to make him do soCan confirm. Good 2 years on TRP, mid 30's. Banging chicks I wouldn't even dream about before TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/16 08:44 AM |
| 0 | Q4BP: Are the women who respond to TRP outliers in your opinion, or common?Agreed. There are many of levels of dread. From you letting her arm go just a little before she does, to moving to another continent and deleting her from everywhere. And a million variations in between. But once you are so awesome you will naturally make tiny little slips of attention to your goal and not to her, which will create dread. You don't have to "work" for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/16 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Why is it hard to accept that your sexual behavior might be different than your normal behavior?Ask someone who was in war. Or the guys that did the prison experiment - not the movie, the real experiment. Ask the dancers who leads the dance. The dynamic is shown in all areas of our life. The reptile in us is alive and well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/16 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Q4BP: Are the women who respond to TRP outliers in your opinion, or common?I agree with you on being damaged and all. TRP becomes invisible once you internalize it. It's a process of becoming a man. Some were lucky to become that way on their own, most of us were not, because society hates masculinity so we were thinking being fidgety spineless dork is also sexy to women. TRP is, as you have figured out, a place for damaged men. Once you undamage yourself, you don't need it anymore. Dread is not a game anymore, but you have your priorities in life, so you naturally dre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/16 09:35 AM |
| 7 | help with reply on tinderIt makes you look dorky | /r/askTRP | 31/07/16 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Q4BP: Are the women who respond to TRP outliers in your opinion, or common?What the hell are you talking about. Alpha is as clear as it can be. There is of course no digital on/off clear cut definition like "what is red". But that is the nature of definitions of complex social interactions like with homo sapiens. If you don't understand it, that doesn't mean nobody can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/16 07:32 AM |
| 6 | Q4Men: What's the worst way a woman has ever mistreated you?After being emotionally abused for couple of months she cheated on me, then we broke up, then she told all our friends that we broke up because I locked her in an apartment for the night because she didn't want to have sex with me. Luckily my closest friends didn't believe her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/16 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?who in this thread is advocating any of that? I'm just following where you're coming from. Commenting on your ass in a grocery store is not the most prestigious social interaction. But it depends on the context. I've had laughs and giggles with way more bold interactions in neutral environments. But it was accompanied with wit and it was appropriate in the context that me and the other person were in at the moment. But you don't become good at this over night. There is a lot of trial and error. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/16 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do some RPillers blame crime and violence on men not getting laid?some It's called anger phase. /thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/16 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?Some do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/16 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?How do you objectify her? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/4uonlx/why_do_women_tell_men_its_disgusting_to_objectify/d5sq9bv | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/16 08:43 AM |
| 3 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/4uonlx/why_do_women_tell_men_its_disgusting_to_objectify/d5sq2y0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/16 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?When I get a hint that she might find me attractive, I look at her body with a wolf look and say: 'This would probably feel good'. I say this to me. Like she is not even there. She usually says something in the lines of: "Hey, I'm here too!"... And plenty of cases like this got me laid the same night. In cases where I showed interest in her and her character (after she showed signs of being attracted to me), she just got uninterested after a while and it never got me laid. Being genuenlly intere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/16 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?Even if you don't try to show romantic interest you will see and hear what others do and what they did wrong. No you don't. You just see a guy kissing a girl. You have no idea what happened before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/16 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?It's OK to let them know. It's not OK to make drama, scream "rape" and destroy the boy's reputation or life. Yes, there are some douchebags that never learn. But there are many more boys that rather go numb and play video games, because social interactions are becoming too risky (for people that were not lucky enough to learn social skills when young and make mistakes) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/16 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?No. Not ugly, but far from BradPitt... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/16 03:31 PM |
| 8 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?Have you ever tried to talk to random people, let alone try to show romantic interest? It takes huge amounts of balls, guts, skills, practice and failure. Social skills are learned. You're not born with them. Trying out stuff (and failing) is a must, unless you want only zombies on this planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/16 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?I don't think women necessarily find it sexy when they're objectified by a hot guy I strongly disagree. Objectifying her is one of the things that makes her attracted to me and extremely horny. By not objectifying her I make myself less sexy. I see it from experience and I was being told by girls how hot objectifying is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/16 03:06 PM |
| 4 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?Social interactions are complex. Somebody is sometimes going to say something you don't like. Specially young men learning social skills and trying how to show romantic interest in girls they like. He's not raping you, just move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/16 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Ex I haven't spoken with in a year messagesYou agree with my comment, then you disagree. Make up your mind. :) I'm saying you can't know. Even if you have the best imagination in the world, it's not even remotely the same. You can't fake emotions. The emotional state that 'drowning in pussy' puts you in is not imaginable. You become a completely different person. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 10:13 AM |
| 2 | I'm a rich beta bucks who foolishly agreed to an open relationship, looking for adviceThat's all you need to do now. The most important part being not letting her know about you doing this by any circumstances. Get ready on all fronts before. When she finds out, shit is going to hit the fan and you have to be 10 steps in front of her. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Things That Keep You Beta:Half-Swallowing The Red Pill.This post is great. Asktrp is full of halfTRP-ers giving shitty feel-good advice. They understand the dynamics roughly, but the advices are just wrong. There are occasional good comments, but true TRP-ers are rare. So, good TRPers, if you're reading this, go vote and comment in asktrp every once in a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/16 07:54 AM |
| 3 | Ex I haven't spoken with in a year messagesAsk yourself this question instead: if you were drowning in pussy, would you still squeeze her into your schedule? The problem is that you don't know the answer to this until you're drowning in pussy. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/16 07:42 AM |
| 3 | Third date: Shows up late, brags about why, then says she's sleeping in her own bedEscalating into a fight. Fight means you lost frame and is the most beta bitchy behavior. I know what you mean by the comment, just be aware that fight is totally anti TRP. Fight happens when the guy loses her mind games and loses control of his emotions. A rock hard man in control of his life and emotions never does that. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Third date: Shows up late, brags about why, then says she's sleeping in her own bedGo read more sidebar. There are levels of dread. From playful comments to completely ignoring/nexting. You punish by giving her less of you (you are the prize). What is this going to escalate to? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 10:43 AM |
| 11 | Third date: Shows up late, brags about why, then says she's sleeping in her own bedScrolled down too much for this comment. Actively ignoring bad behavior, but still being present and giving attention? Really? You're double rewarding her bad behavior. Bad behavior should be punished. By saying something (e.g. "If we're late, you're paying me drinks all night") , or even better, dread/next. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 08:06 AM |
| 6 | How to act around other men when they are talking about a topic you know nothing about and still not seem like an introvert?Yup. Be genuinely interested. If you're not really interested, don't fake it, it will show through. Also, don't ask too much. Let them talk and ask so much that you stay informed enough to follow what they talk about. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/16 12:25 PM |
| 8 | How to proceed with an escort?She knows her pussy is a currency. Which is good and bad. Good, because you can be honest with her, set prices and negotiate services the way you want. Bad because she will try to manipulate the fuck out of you. From "I can't now, I just had a customer" to "I need money for whatever" to reporting you to the police that you were her pimp that manipulated her in to escorting etc. It's a dangerous play. Act safe, wear rubber and be ready if one day shit hits the fan. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/16 10:56 AM |
| 4 | Why do women speak in covert?plausible deniability solipsism hamster ... | /r/askTRP | 22/07/16 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Anyway to "fix" a terrible fuck?It will take a lot of patience and training to fix this. You don't introduce all the porn learned positions and fantasies in first sex with this kind of girl. She will freak out and start hating the kinky stuff even more. Introduce stuff slowly, every time you have sex, try something a little new. Reward when she is receptive (with showing that you enjoy it and attention), punish when she is not receptive. Warning: don't punish by being butthurt or angry or some extreme dread. You have to be sub… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/16 08:56 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Height doesn't matter as much as people think when it comes to attractionI think attitude and the way a person carries themselves matters more. And having two legs matters even more. In fact, having a face matters even more than having legs. /s Height is a plus. Nobody is saying it's everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/16 12:58 PM |
| 2 | does anyone else ever get pissed off at the fact that if we want to do well with women, WE have to change/improve and they don't have to do shit?We have to work out hard and daily, we have to work on our social skills and keep them sharp, we have to live an interesting lifestyle, we have to dress well, we have to act emotionless, we have to be prepared for the constant shit tests, we have to deal with their constant mood swings By the time you'll learn and master all of the above, all the spoiled selfie attention whores will hit the wall and they can't do anything about it. You, however, have a chance to work and improve yourself. It wil… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/16 09:13 AM |
| 8 | As a woman that is very big on self-improvement, I feel that no matter how hard I try to improve it won't be enough.beauty is in the eye of the beholder What is this crap? There are objective beauty traits. Facial simetry, BF%, muscles, big eyes, small nose ect etc. Go back to your BP world with this crap. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/16 08:56 AM |
| 2 | As a woman that is very big on self-improvement, I feel that no matter how hard I try to improve it won't be enough.Cup size? Age? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/16 08:52 AM |
| 12 | Things That Keep You Beta: Revenge FantasiesHah. I got downvoted by angry phasers? :) To explain: I agree that abundance gets you out of anger zone. When you see how women are incapable of resisting you, and they hate you for it. You almost start to see how fragile and scary their world is, being out of control. It ALMOST makes you blue pill (in the sense, that women are wonderful, but from another perspective. The incapable one..). | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/16 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Things That Keep You Beta: Revenge FantasiesAbundance almost makes me blue pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/16 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Question for Men: What combination of the following would produce the best sex for you?Sex with someone who is hot. All the rest is just feel good shit that I don't care about when having sex. It's sex. Not a midnight walk or building a relationship or saving the world or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/16 03:50 PM |
| 6 | What sort of feelings are ok to let a girl know you have?I don't understand the question. You have to show your interest. It's what YOU want. It makes you honest, apart from white knights and orbiters, playing the nice guy card. You're not afraid to show your interest. That makes you hot. You also walk away in the same moment when your interest is not being reciprocated; I.E., not being pushy/rapey/creepy. And because you have options. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/16 11:27 AM |
| 3 | With you guys I was able to tell my ex to fuck off...I find her so fucking attractive. Wait till you bang 10 chicks and get even sexier body then you'll see she is not even that hot. You're just suffering from oneitis. | /r/ThankTRP | 16/07/16 08:23 PM |
| 49 | Please post SPECIFIC examples of cultural messages that tell boys "look don't matter" and "just be nice" to get the girlsForrest Gump (1994) The Terminal (2004) Hitch (2005) Chef (2014) Get Smart (2008) Paul Blart, Mall Cop (2009) Superbad (2007) That's from the top of my head. Let me know if you need more and I'll find more when I have time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/16 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Small Town Plating, Three plates want me to take them to the same big party on the same night.Say you'll meet them there, introduce them to each other, then have a blast. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/16 08:02 PM |
| 0 | Advice on how to handle this shittestWell keep it up if it's working for you then. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/16 02:04 PM |
| -2 | Advice on how to handle this shittestHave you read what he wrote? FWB is bang and that's it. OP is "hanging out", going downtown to do stuff with her and she sleeps over. Thats a lot of comfort. She wants more, that's for sure. Every girl wants more. It's on his side to call it out and make boundaries. It's called a shit test, not a comfort test. You don't have to worry about comfort tests until you have 5 plates waiting outside your door and your SMV is 10x higher then hers and you have kids. But hey, feel free to give her all the… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/16 12:02 PM |
| -2 | Advice on how to handle this shittestWtf is this? Relationships sub? Listen. You do do what you want to do. Never let the bitch define you. You give enough comfort. You hang out with her and she can stay at your place. And you just upgraded her to LTR. If she thinks that's not enough, tough luck. You are your own man on your own mission with your own goals. Remember, that's what makes you attractive. Go with the agree and amplify advice. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/16 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Is revenge worth it?This. You'll be sorry after x years if you took the revenge path. Trust the guys here, we've been in similar situations. It's a marathon, not a sprint. After couple of years her SMV will plummet and yours will double (if you're willing to put the work in). Put her on ignore and your anger in to work and in couple of years you'll be thankfull she gave you this experience. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/16 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Has The Red Pill made me too cynical?From my experience, they get extremely attached to you, but when she manages to break you, she is completely logged out. Totally indifferent, like you never had anything. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/16 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Has The Red Pill made me too cynical?AWALT. this is just an extreme form. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/16 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Hard nexted a plate from social circle, what now?Not sure why hard nexting? She doesn't want to fuck, you don't want to be friend. No need to be butthurt about it. I'd just ignore her attempts to isolate you, talk to you, be friends with you or anything similar. Don't talk to her about it. Betas do that. In social situations act as if everything is normal and she's just another chick. No need to overtly ignore her. Don't hit on her and if she initiates contact be very short and to the point / professional. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Has The Red Pill made me too cynical?Been there, done that. You know why they burned witches in middle ages? Estimating by your responses, you are too deep in her magic already and will rationalize out. Also, lack of experience with this kind of women is not helping you. Ill give you that... they are super fun to be around. Sex is also great. But once you are so emotionally invested in her that you spend most of your time/money/emotions on her, she turns in to Leviathan. She will burn your friend and you with him, if circumstances … | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Broke up with my LTR last night. What the fuck happened?OK, gotcha. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 10:08 AM |
| 6 | Broke up with my LTR last night. What the fuck happened?She likes you, want's to be with you, you cheated on her and broke her heart. I don't get how she is abusing you and not you abusing her? This really looks like you came here to brag. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 08:55 AM |
| 22 | I'm on a deletion rampage. Got something stupid to post? Don't waste your time.I figured out that the pill is not for everyone. I showed it to a friend after a bad breakup and he swallowed it like a candy. Fast forward 1 year, and he is back buying dinners and driving girls around and being a nice guy. He is litteraly proud of not fucking them and being just a friend. My main plate is laughing how stupid he is. This subreddit (or movement) is doomed to be averaged to a lowest common denominator, because that is the nature of things that go mainstream. More people that swal… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/16 10:26 PM |
| 3 | ShallITinder's advice for all guys in their 20s.Keep increasing SMV. Once your SMV will be high enough they'll be begging you to fuck them. Until then, approach, lift, read, repeat. Error on the bold side, not safe (not on coworkers though). | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/16 09:52 AM |
| 5 | How to get your girl to love anal sex.I agree with you. I could actually see the girl get uneasy with all this drama around her asshole. Just lube, put the finger in followed by dick a while later. If she stops you, proceed fucking pussy and try later again. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/16 11:06 AM |
| -1 | Successful neurosurgeon new to redpill, need some advicehow to to avoid being seen as a meal ticket Ever heard the story of The Scorpion and the Frog? The minute you think she doesn't see you as a meal ticket, you've lost. It's in their nature. It's what makes you attractive. Don't fight it. Enjoy it. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/16 02:49 PM |
| 16 | Ex-GF texts me after breaking up to ''talk about us''Listen to this guy. OK? Stop rationalizing why your story is unique and maybe you should see her just one more time or try just to see how it goes. Just STOP. It's hard, but you have to do it: Hard next, lift, read, raise SMV. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/16 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Why do some girls with a high SMV, settle with men with a low SMV — when they are still relatively young?it is their first (or possibly second) relationship. /thread | /r/askTRP | 26/06/16 10:33 AM |
| 4 | FR: Girls don't even understand how they work.Most of my plates tell me they like me cause I'm tough (strong frame, don't deal with their bullshit). Not really sure how deeply self aware they are, but they know what they like about me. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 05:53 PM |
| 8 | My first LTR/marriage was a petite, intelligent HB8 blonde. Now that I am single again, I cant even get ugly chubby girls on tinder, what gives?I agree with you totally. However. Being completely cold and just ignoring everything and just communicating logistics didn't get me the best results either. I guess it makes me too unreachable. Some of the best results I got was when I was promising some sort of commitment, but in a way that she knew I was joking. EG sending a pic of me from vacation, saying: "This is where we'll get married". Strategically placed chick for preselection in shot somewhere. One game is to be lower SMV and act lik… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/16 02:25 PM |
| 0 | Q4BPW: If a guy is "attractive" enough, can he get away with saying outlandish things more so than the average joe?How would you being right (which you're not) discard OPs point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/16 10:34 AM |
| 2 | TRP Experiment : the biggest betaSo I should care about what strangers think of me ? If you wouldn't care what anyone thinks, you would end it and go your way. Now you're male-hamstering around her because you either still want something with her, your ego won't let you or are just a pussy. Most probably all three. Sorry to lay it like this to you. You might not see your bullshit, but other people (specially her) do. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/16 03:07 PM |
| 1 | TRP Experiment : the biggest betaYou don't want to beta yourself out of the relationship. It's obvious you're lying to us and yourself. Be a man and end it. Or go full beta and get a reputation of a spineless pussy and never get laid again. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/16 02:04 PM |
| 9 | What's wrong with me?Dude what the fuck is wrong with you. You're tripping on some chick out of your league, calling her when wasted on MDMA and wasting your time getting oneitis and destroying yourself on drugs. Fix yourself. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/16 11:01 AM |
| 1 | What is the science behind oneitis, as an evolutionary phenomenon in the male sex?Also read about r-K selection theory | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Worst year of my life, but also the best, thanks TRPBeing RP is not a goal. It's a journey. Welcome. Keep reading and improving and you'll learn to love the journey, the game and life. | /r/ThankTRP | 13/06/16 10:03 AM |
| 37 | caught wife cheating, it's over. how do I get over this as soon as possible?This might sound like an impossible scenario right now, but trust me. 2-4 years from now you will look back on this and think this was the best thing that ever happened to you. Shit like this transforms people like nothing else. You will come out of this as a better version of yourself. Unrecognizable. But now you are in for one hell of a ride. Emotional roallercoaster ensured. So buckle up and lawyer up. Make sure you follow guy's advice here. A lot here have been through the same. And don't yo… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/16 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Explain my ex behaviorOnce you go beta with a girl, there is no way back. She saw you broken. She can't unsee that. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/16 06:57 PM |
| 5 | I'm getting laid regularly, but still not happyI also miss the days when I was young and carefree. I remember when me and my uncle were running and the moon was just following us. Some of the best days with my uncle, trying to run away from the moon. Now I'm adult and I know that love moon doesn't work that way. You can't outrun it. I was young and naive and it served it's purpose for the time and it helped me grow. It's a nostalgic memory, but I am adult now. I would love to have that superpowers, but I rather live in real world and leave t… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/16 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Saw the matrix, pill is hard to swallow.You don't have to build the frame around being good enough for her. But it can certainly serve as a great motivation to get you moving. After you pass that, you'll find other motivations. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/16 12:28 PM |
| 3 | How often to communicate with plates?I'm not in to all this communicate only logistics or only when setting up the date. Of course, being deep in TRP you should know when she is not respecting your time away or when she is doing some emotional blackmail, shit testing, etc. You should not talk about that and go dead silent when it happens. But talking about sucking your dick next time? Sending nudes? Favourite positions? Or just random jokes you were talking about after last sex? I don't see a problem with that. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/16 11:11 AM |
| 1 | The Feminine Coup de Grâce - Why she chooses the worst possible moment to leave you.Hypergamy 101 - women see men the way men see jobs - one of the best posts of all time on TRP. When your employer is at it's lowest, you're going to leave him. You deserve a better job, don't you? Then, if you leave him, but he still succeeded to make profit and company gets rich, you'll regret your decision or maybe even want to go back. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/16 10:25 AM |
| 2 | What to do when you're depressed?That sounds reasonable. You'll get there, don't worry, school is important. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/16 10:46 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you're depressed?Financial stuff could be what's causing you to not feel safe and relax and progress. Maslow's hierarchy of needs - you need the basics to be covered. Not something that can be cured with pills or motivational speeches. So deal with it. Switch job? Career? ... tough challenges, but only you can deal with them. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/16 05:08 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you're depressed?Do you have all the basic needs covered (existential, financial, relationships etc)? How are your testosterone blood levels? | /r/askTRP | 04/06/16 11:03 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl says this? + some help on shit test!I'm not sure how women do this, but they know. Yeah, it's funny. 100.000's of years of evolution. Men were evolved to manipulate world (that's why we're good at making and inventing stuff), women were evolved in manipulating men. You can't beat them at that, so faking will eventually be seen through. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/16 11:31 AM |
| 23 | Question for red pill: Were you previously attractive?Not a complete failure, but the pill made a big change. I don't know about the views on society, since I don't know how my views would be if I had (more) sex. Longer: I did have occasional hookups and couple of girlfriends before. But not at all what I would hope for. Girlfriends faded away or cheated when I became too clingy. But it never clicked before swallowing that this was the reason. Like most, I thaught the most romantic way would be to find a girlfriend and then go through life challeng… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/16 07:36 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Erased the idea of getting laid and went to a party to have fun, ended up fucking two separate girls.I actually got laid by saying to a girl that we're not fucking tonight. I totally meant it. This i-dont-need-sex mindset must send some food for her hamster wanting to fuck you. I'd say this is almost on the same level as preselection or money SMV boosters. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/16 08:29 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl says this? + some help on shit test!"she'll get mad". Make fun of her for being mad? This should amuse you, not "scare" you. Dread can be applied if you really mean it and you're not afraid to walk away (because you have options). If you don't have options and you're affraid of losing her (or getting mad or butthurt), she will read through you like looking through glass. You need options to have genuine IDGAF attitude. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/16 11:33 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl says this? + some help on shit test!Remember, shit tests are done to guys that girls are attracted to. So learn to love them and treat them with amused mastery. Do something like this, after she does something to try to make you jellous: You: "So, you're trying to make me jealous?" - a smirk and a stare directly in her eyes. Her: whatever she says, just ignore it and say: You: "So how is it working out for you?" Her: Ignore what she says You: "Well keep it up then" or "you'll have to try harder then" Also, dread if she over-does i… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/16 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Ideas on approaching old girl ex-classmate? (with minimal interactions since graduation)You never hanged out, you barely spoke with her in school and now after 5 years of no contact you'd like to contact her? Sory to say this, but you're a creepy desperate AFC. Get a life. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/16 08:11 AM |
| 2 | Fitness experts and Ripped Redpill lifters, please answer my fitness questions! I NEED HELP, I DONT WANNA BE FAT ANY MORE.Fat loss = calories eaten - calories burned. It really is that simple. It just boils down how to easily manage your hunger and psychology around it. I used to think eating 6 times a day would help. It doesn't. I eat 2 times. Lunch and after workout. Much easier to stay in caloric deficit this way. Also, drinking calories doesn't fill you up and give you that satisfying feeling of full stomach. so try avoiding sweetened drinks, milk, juices and just drink water or black coffee/tea. Most of all, r… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/16 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Sexual selection is strong. A retired postman has over 1300 illegitimate children.Girls are not invited. ;) Not sure what confuses you here. Fenotype = Genotype + Environment. You can't change genotype. But you can change fenotype. That's where increasing SMV comes in. My point was, having fantastic genotype will put you much further. Having been born with Jason Momoa genes you'd be slaying pussy by just existing. But that doesn't mean that you can't increase your SMV by a degree. Half of the world would probably suck Jason Momoa's dick with his increased SMV now. But just by… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/16 07:10 PM |
| 2 | How to not be a totally different person depending on the company?I don't think this is such a bad trait to have, to a degree. I have a friend who is loud the second he comes in a new environment. And more often than not, people that know each other just give that look: what the fuck is he trying to prove? I personally think that it's OK to let things go naturally and not force yourself becoming obnoxious prick right at the beginning. Yes, go out of comfort zone, be confident and communicative, but don't go proving everybody how extroverted you are, specially … | /r/askTRP | 29/05/16 06:34 PM |
| 0 | Sexual selection is strong. A retired postman has over 1300 illegitimate children.You must be very fun at parties. ;) I get what you're saying, but this is getting deeply philosophical. By saying world is deterministic and there is no free will (which is most probable according to physics) you haven't answer any questions. You are "mathematically" right, but our personalities do not access these deep mechanics of how the world works in practical terms. You laying on the couch and playing GTA or going lifting might be a non-free will choice that you have no control over. But s… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/16 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Sexual selection is strong. A retired postman has over 1300 illegitimate children.Well yeah. You can try and get out of your DNA as much as possible by lifting and money. But you can't change height or facial structure. You also can't do much about iq. Some people just got better cards dealt. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/16 04:20 PM |
| 2 | 4 passive game rules that save time meeting women, with examplesThere is a window of oppurtunity that women gives you. If you miss it, you're done. Higher the SMV you have, more options she will give you. But once you miss them all, you are over. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/16 11:23 AM |
| 11 | 4 passive game rules that save time meeting women, with examplesThis is what I want more on TRP. Sexual strategies and action, and less circlejerking meta philosophy theories and angry mgtows. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/16 11:08 AM |
| 1 | I don't want game anymore because I only see women, sex and relationships as a waste of time. Change my view!Sex is not worth it if you hate the game and suck at getting it. If / when you get good at getting it, it's pretty easy and awesome. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 06:39 AM |
| 1 | I don't want game anymore because I only see women, sex and relationships as a waste of time. Change my view!This is my suggestion. You have two options: 1. You start loving the game (it's not easy on the start, because you suck at starting anything. You'd probably hate ice skating if you've never done it before. And you would hate it until you would start getting good at it and seeing some results. Then you can start loving it) 2. remove yourself from the gene pool, social ladders and be a wierdo MGTOW creeping everyone around you. . You're living in a dream where everything should be fair and lovable… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/16 06:53 PM |
| 1 | I don't want game anymore because I only see women, sex and relationships as a waste of time. Change my view!Exacly. If you want to get deeply philosophical, there is no reason for anything. Life has no purpose. Universe has no purpose. But why would you want to live then anyway? You found out the game and the rules and now you don't agree with them. It's like you found out you're a figure in chess game but now you don't want to play. Why? You're ahead of everyone now that you know the rules. You just have to learn to love the game. I love life and I plan on having female company and lots of sex (besid… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/16 01:11 PM |
| 2 | [Serious] Can you guys help me?I can't give you specific advice, but a real man has to have a taste of how the rock bottom feels one time in his life, and see what it takes to get out of it. You're now tasting this. It's not easy and it will be even harder to get out. But you are young and will get out of the misery, no doubt about it. Just don't give up. Be stubborn in your goals and just keep going. Once step at the time. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/16 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Restoring FrameRestoring frame usually involves walking away and working on youyself. What exactly hapened? | /r/askTRP | 21/05/16 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Are MGTOW men usually men who women don't want anyway?Their resources are still valuable and they are good BB and divorce-rape candidates. On the other hand, ugly men-hating women would still be a good lay for a horny loser. So your analogy is pretty spot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/16 01:33 PM |
| 2 | I know "AWALT", but this totally came out of the blue and it hurt me . what the fuck happenedIt could be that she found higher value man, the other option is that she got scared of her strong feelings for you and shut down. Did you get any comfort tests lately and thaught they were shit tests? Did you reward her good behavior? | /r/askTRP | 20/05/16 05:51 AM |
| 5 | How many buff men do you see on a regular basis?Small gym. ;) | /r/askTRP | 19/05/16 05:07 PM |
| 3 | My Brother is ruining his lifeThis. /thread. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/16 03:37 PM |
| 22 | How many buff men do you see on a regular basis?Hundreds. Makes me feel small. Then I turn off r /bodybuilding and youtube videos and hit to gym where I'm the biggest guy. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/16 03:34 PM |
| 2 | How important is it to you that your LTR understands the principles of TRP/the biology that it's based on?Talking does nothing. Been there, done that. She can understand and agree wirh everything, but still be AWALT. Wasting your time explaining and you just usually sound weird. Speak with action, not words. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/16 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Just came back from a date and would like to hear some thoughts...Well, then give up. More pussy for us. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/16 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Steroids: yes or no?7 months is nothing. You don't build a zyzz body in one year. No steroid will help you lose weight. They help with gains (and not losing muscle while cutting) only. Come back after couple of years. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/16 08:23 PM |
| 4 | [RP Theory] Is the RP in a second wave?When you're out of anger phase, you don't need /r/trp anymore. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/16 01:02 PM |
| 6 | Does working out really help you get girls?'3'. Law of termodynamics. If you get less calories in then you burn, you will lose weight. No magic can break this scientiffic fact. There are ofcourse other factors to consider, like getting enough essential nutrients in for body to properly function, psychological (feel good, taste, getting throug day...) etc... | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Does working out really help you get girls?Don't worry. Only 0,001% of people are bigger than Zyzz, and they are genetic freaks and take steroids. Bigger is beeter, allways. No matter how much you lift, you (and me) will never be Jay Cuttler big. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Does working out really help you get girls?Bigger is better. When girls say thay don't want bodybuilder type, they think of Jay Cuttler type. When they say they just want a fit guy, they think of Zyzz type of body, which is almost impossible to achieve natty. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 05:25 PM |
| 5 | Understanding sex and Borderline Personality DisorderTalking to her won't change a thing. She can agree on something now, but she will forget and deny the agreement the second it fits her. Never negotiate with her about anything. You get what you want at the moment you want it, or go get it elswhere. Talking abot it doesnt change anything. It only makes you look weak. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 10:11 AM |
| 6 | Are all men inherently altruistic, selfless people who always care about society?I would argue that there is actually no "pure" altruism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/16 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Lost boner, while losing virginity (FR+Questions)Well, practice putting condom on your willy. That's what killed it. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/16 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Shit Tests? Comfort Tests? Am i missing something?How high is your smv? | /r/askTRP | 15/05/16 11:42 AM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl 'loses interest' and dread game doesn't work?I don't like nexting. For me, it's all about the challenge. That's not a challenge. That's annoying, you're annoying and your low self esteem seeps through your comments. You need to work on yourself, lift, get good at something. You're inexperienced and low self esteem. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/16 06:04 AM |
| 1 | First date this Tuesday. Advice?Problem is I just don't want to ruin this date This "worry" is what will fuck up your date. You need more DGAF/abundance mentality. Go nuclear on dates, tinder meets and coffees with your female friends. Fatties, cuties, whatever. Just get yourself used to being in female company. - Err on the bold side, not safe. - Keep it fun/light. Don't make a big deal about anything, not even your screw ups. - Suggest something stupid like "Im hungry, let's get some kebap". Or whatever comes to your mind. -… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/16 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Abundance mentality without women?Faking is hard. Best game is no game. Most of the "abundance mentality" comes from achieving your life goals, not plates. So put your focus on that. Some investment in "dating" is a must, but plates will become a side effect of you being focused on your goals, successful and happy with your life and achievements. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/16 07:55 PM |
| 3 | What to do when a girl 'loses interest' and dread game doesn't work?Why did you dread if she was all over you? | /r/askTRP | 14/05/16 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Thank you for Awakening MeWelcome. Remember, the journey is long and rough, but worth it. ;) | /r/ThankTRP | 14/05/16 07:45 PM |
| 1 | [ADVANCED] I'm throwing a HOUSE PARTY in 1 month. Input & Experience is appreciated, senior RP members."2". Sombrero might be awkward for the whole night, but me and my friend got 1st award on a costume party wearing snorkeling gear, flippers, paddle and sun umbrella, so you might be fine. :) Also get some cheap props for other people. Or make them bring it. "5". Do what you can. Get a big "Don't drink and drive!" poster with taxi numbers or other alternatives. Can't wait to hear how it goes. :) | /r/askTRP | 14/05/16 07:23 PM |
| 6 | [ADVANCED] I'm throwing a HOUSE PARTY in 1 month. Input & Experience is appreciated, senior RP members.Fun stuff to add spice and make party even more fun: - Hire chicks to serve jagermeister shots at the entrance in matching outfits. Or some hot girl friends if you have enough. They'll increase female jealousy, your SMV, warm the guests etc. - Get fun props. Funny hats, inflatable castles, pools (even small ones), water guns, hawaiian necklaces etc. Make sure you wear the biggest hat, so they know who is the boss. ;) This stuff gets everyone in to party mode, more laughing, more touching, people… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/16 06:54 PM |
| 6 | Q4 Red Pill Men: If a woman is dealing out "shit tests" left and right and trying to toy with you, why continue to pursue a relationship?Yes. They all do it. Covertly, overtly, consciously or not. Some more, some less, some do it loud and clear, some do it by being nice. Not dealing with this is called MGTOW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/16 03:01 PM |
| 3 | I cant get shit done.Stop beating yourself, it's the most counterproductive thing you can do. Everybody procrastinates. You just learn and move on. Dwelling in self hatred because you procrastinated will only make you procrastinate more. Just say fuck it, what happened happened, and do your best next time. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/16 01:28 PM |
| 5 | What would you do differently if you could go back to being 18?Exacly. I was a fat loser with a shitty job, living at my parents and no gf at 33. I'm 35 now, fit, awesome high paying job, buying second appartment and still no gf. Too much meat to slay to waste time for gf... | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 07:44 PM |
| 0 | Men who have slept with over 100 women, what are they?Horny | /r/askTRP | 30/04/16 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Deep, deep thank you redpill. This really feels like waking up.Look. When you break up eventually (for whatever reason) she will have to rationalize in her head (and to her friends) why she dislikes you. That's when she will remember and exxagerate all the events that happened, making you abuser, rapist, manipulator or whatever. Read about "female hamster". I'm not saying this will happen, but there is a high chance that some sort of rationalizing and explaining why you broke up will happen. If it's only "we were not ment to be together", good for you. But … | /r/ThankTRP | 22/04/16 10:27 AM |
| 3 | Onitisone-itis It hurts, but get both of them out of your life. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Models by Mark Manson - Red Pill or Blue Pill?Depends on where you started and how you're progressing. I had a couple of "I'm out of anger" modes in first half a year, but fell back. It's a shaky progress. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Deep, deep thank you redpill. This really feels like waking up.You're the asshole, which is all nice and dandy. Just be careful because she does not believe it entirely and will test it in ways you can never predict. So eventually you will fail (yes, you will, unless you're natural, which I doubt) and then it can get ugly. Her friend is the one who will call the cops on you, when she's crying to her how you treated her. And she is crying to her. Just make sure you are saving messages, getting consent from texts or recording phone calls and similar if you're… | /r/ThankTRP | 21/04/16 04:35 PM |
| 5 | Models by Mark Manson - Red Pill or Blue Pill?Very much red pill. It's the last stage of swallowing. You are not angry anymore, you have your shit together, your life mission and you accept the male-female dynamic and nature of women. That's when you don't have to hide or appologize for your weakneses. Showing your vunerability from mastery is totally different than from a needy or victimhood position (these guys do it for attention and because they don't have their shot together) | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Deep, deep thank you redpill. This really feels like waking up.You will be tested like shit. She's not giving up all that easy life that easily. Her plan is to change you back. I would just next her, because she will create a lot of unnecessary drama in your life now that you "changed". Also, once she sees you're not going back to being BB, she'll make some excuse in her head why you broke up. Like, raping, manipulating or abusing her. So stay on the safe side with her. And like others said, you're new, this is just the start. You will fall, get angry and d… | /r/ThankTRP | 21/04/16 12:19 PM |
| 1 | if the typical role of the beta is to be a "provider" why does TRP put so much value in high income?Good point. Having lots of money puts you in provider mode in her head in a split of a second. Which means you are a worthy man, which means she needs to display herself as worthy, which means her pussy gets a price tag. She blowed some loser's cock last night for fun though. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/16 03:09 AM |
| 5 | Since my break-up over a year ago my world came crashing down.Dude, I was 34 when I was at the lowest point. And it was way lower than yours. Now I'm 36 and life is fantastic. 12 yeas younger girls inviting me for quickies during lunch, which I have to cancel because of my busy schedule, which I love. Ex is just a vague memory of how low I once was. You're just getting started. Best days of your life are yet to come. The trick is not to give up. You learn and grow from picking yourself out of mud. So grow some balls, quit whining and get yourself out. Nobo… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/16 09:26 PM |
| 3 | A Little Mistake That Cost My Best Friend 5 Years of His Life."Nick was me." I saw that one coming. :) Good write up, can relate some. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/16 04:33 AM |
| 0 | Since taking the redpill, whens the last time you cried?I broke up with gf, lost job and found TRP which pushed me deep in anger/depression. Worst half of year of my life. I cried when driving home from 1st day of newly acquired job at the end of the anger phase. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 01:58 PM |
| 9 | What triggered your Red Pill journey?When you experience how the "love of your life" you trusted everything, and a sweetheart that told you "I can't live without you" over night turns in to a dead cold psycho, turning everybody against you and instantly throws years of relationship down the drain without a tiny bit of guilt or remorse, you HAVE to go through an anger phase. It would be unhealthy to just forget it like somebody stole your $4 umbrella. Anger phase is part of healing. If you skip it, it will hunt you forever. Most peo… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 08:30 PM |
| 2 | OK, so you're a couple months into lifting. Now what?While this is all legit and good advice, I'm now switching to HST. There is some good science behind it. Although it's hypertrophy focused, byproduct of hypertrophy is also strength, endurance and good looks. I also want good ratio of max-gains / hours-spent-in-gym. Time is money. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/16 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Post Sex Shit TestIt's comfort test, not shit test. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 02:21 PM |
| 8 | Can't shake oneitis for ex-wife even with platesYou got cancer, you lived with it for a long time, but eventually you found courrage to torn it off of you to save your life. There is a scar there. The cancer was a part of you. The scar will allways be there. It's a reminder how dangerous it can be if left untreated for long time and to watch out for any new malignant forms. Man without scars is still a boy. This is your scar. The one that will make you a man. Keep it up. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 07:13 PM |
| 4 | This girl keeps calling me out. Attraction or annoyance?Sounds to me like she really sucks at negging. Just laugh it off, smirk or ignore. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Why you should get a dog instead of getting married.What's the deal with this monospaced font? | /r/askTRP | 27/02/16 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Women support patriarchy as long as it isn't the one of western menCan you elaborate on that? Or find the video please? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/16 12:30 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The blue pill can never be convinced by data or logic because their position doesn't come from a logical place.Are you seriously suggesting humans are not animals? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/16 04:47 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The blue pill can never be convinced by data or logic because their position doesn't come from a logical place.All female verberates are attracted to masculine and alpha traits and when alpha male is killed or switched, female branch swing to another one. The burden of proof is on you, bloopers, that somehow homo sapiens is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/16 04:27 AM |
| 2 | I think the saddest part of the Redpill vs Blue pill argument is that the Redpill is motivated by the fact that hetero men need female affection to feel normal, and the Bluepill mocks them for this.Assuming you have a point. How would a female version of this look like: I can't empathize with a bunch of children who hate women because women will not have sex with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/16 03:23 PM |
| 1 | The Price Had Better Be Right: Women’s Reactions to Sexual Stimuli Vary With Market FactorsAt TRP we call this ASD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/16 09:12 PM |
| 1 | I'm 22. What should I be doing?Read, meditate, avoid bad stress (there is good and bad stress), avoid addictions (smoking, drugs, excessive fapping, gaming, drinking), have social life, sleep well, eat well, take care of yourself... | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 04:56 PM |
| 4 | I'm 22. What should I be doing?Take care of your health (mental, physical...), it will pay off through your whole life. Get hobbies (pick one or two you like and excel in them) | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 12:16 PM |
| 4 | why should I go to the gym?Exercise (besides your body shape and confidence) also helps your health and mental health. Good clear head is important for study, focus,... and in the end, power. So make some way for exercise. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 03:50 AM |
| 1 | How can you criticize women for not bringing anything other than looks to the table, and in the same breath say that even if women did have good jobs, interests and personalities, you wouldn't care because looks are all that matters?Let me help you too. women love men "opportunistically" while men are the "hopeless romantics" as your link claims. Men never fully recover from breakup Females value social status more than men Divorce rapes and gold diggers are just our imagination? We acknowledge that there are trends and biological differences between men and women. But there are also definitely social factors at play. It's just difficult to tease those apart. There are NO social factors in these deep visceral attraction/mat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/16 03:27 AM |
| 0 | Social Anxiety and Low Self-Esteem, I feel like I will never improve.Baby steps. You have to give your brain thousands of little proofs that people are generally good and will accept you. So start little. Say hi to random people. Then say few words and move on. Do this 100 times and it will become natural. Next, say a few more words, ask them something, throw in a smile etc. Do that 100x and it will become natural. Continue this way and remember. Baby steps. Getting laid is the last step (after a year or more of practice). If you'll give yourself unreachable goal… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 08:55 PM |
| 2 | How can you criticize women for not bringing anything other than looks to the table, and in the same breath say that even if women did have good jobs, interests and personalities, you wouldn't care because looks are all that matters?I thought you'd never ask! :D Now, usually the burden of proof falls to people claiming something. That being said, there is no species on this planet that has sexual reproduction but has NO sexual dimorphism and has the SAME mating strategies in both sexes. Now BPers (and I assume you as well) claim that humans are the only species known to man to have the same mating strategies but the differences are only social. So where is your proof for that? Oh.. well, we're used to you only denying the e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/16 08:28 PM |
| -1 | How can you criticize women for not bringing anything other than looks to the table, and in the same breath say that even if women did have good jobs, interests and personalities, you wouldn't care because looks are all that matters?I'm explaining RP view. You can disagree, of course. But most data show that women love differently then men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/16 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Can we all agree that sports fanatics are blue pill as fuck?I'm sory, but I strongly disagree. The guys I know that get the most chicks and are extremely successful are also big fans of some sports. Maybe not fanatics, but this mentality goes well with "alpha males support and respect other alphas", teamplay, loyality. Biggest bilionairs own soccer teams, because they were once fans of the sport/team. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 01:58 PM |
| 4 | How can you criticize women for not bringing anything other than looks to the table, and in the same breath say that even if women did have good jobs, interests and personalities, you wouldn't care because looks are all that matters?BP mostly. Brad Pitt is a shadow of a bachelor he was before Angelina. Trump on the other hand is not even a bit influenced by his wife. Not that they are good representations of RP/BP, but you get the idea. BP mentality will make a man choose a wife that is more successful and she will outshadow him and make him a loser. RP mentality should make you IDGF about a wife's career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/16 01:51 PM |
| 6 | How can you criticize women for not bringing anything other than looks to the table, and in the same breath say that even if women did have good jobs, interests and personalities, you wouldn't care because looks are all that matters?Who's telling you what you want? I'm just stating what some of the reasons for the op's questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/16 07:30 AM |
| 11 | How can you criticize women for not bringing anything other than looks to the table, and in the same breath say that even if women did have good jobs, interests and personalities, you wouldn't care because looks are all that matters?To society. Not to me as a romantic partner. That's a more mra issue seeping through in trp. I don't care what her job/major is when bringing her in to relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/16 05:05 AM |
| 4 | How can you criticize women for not bringing anything other than looks to the table, and in the same breath say that even if women did have good jobs, interests and personalities, you wouldn't care because looks are all that matters?It's not that they are not intelectual or ambitious enough. We just dont care if they are. And if they are, they are usually bitchy (passive agressive) about it, overly pedestalized about it (oh, look how independent she is!.... so what? Who cares? Nobody congratulates men to be independent...) or they plane out fake the whole "I am smart, ambitious career oriented and independent woman" because she thinks that will give her high value male, but deep down she would rather be a mommy and a housew… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/16 04:54 AM |
| 2 | How is "women bring nothing to the table" not misogynistic?women don't constantly say men are worthless Yes they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/16 06:27 AM |
| 2 | How is "women bring nothing to the table" not misogynistic?You guys are reducing females to hookers and maids, but fail to recognize women do the same to men. Actually any relationship can be reduced this way. A female wants to feel safe and someone who makes her laugh? Why doesn't she subscribe to comedy central and get a body guard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/16 06:21 AM |
| 0 | How is "women bring nothing to the table" not misogynistic?I'm trying to figure out where I said I don't want intimate connection. Even ONSs can have very deep connections. Intimate, emotional, fun, sexual... On the outside it usually looks pretty flat, yeah, but people watch too much porn, so they think all other sex than LTR is meaningless... From a romantic relationship point of view (weather the relationship is ONS, FWB or something more) I bring more. I don't need her to bring anything else but feminine energy. She is welcome, and I respect her as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/16 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How is "women bring nothing to the table" not misogynistic?Would that be hard to believe? If she is successful, I can respect her as a human being. I have a great respect for my female coworkers. But their competence does nothing to my primal visceral attraction to the opposite sex. Nor does it do anything to what I want from a partner in life. I don't need to "feel safe" with her. I don't need her success, money, confidence, validation, emotional support... I have all that. What I want is someone who can make me hard and can spoil me when I want to be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/16 06:06 PM |
| 5 | How is "women bring nothing to the table" not misogynistic?They bring their womb for fucks sake. That's more valuable than any man could ever be. Not by todays standards, though. Being woman, mother and and make new people is something to be ashamed of. Trying to be a man, that is a modern successful woman. That's why most women today don't bring anything to the relationship. Bringing another man in to relationship? I am sory, I allready am a man. I want a woman by my side, not another man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/16 11:13 AM |
| 2 | I need help. Seriously.You want a complete breakdown? You are going down in flames... She has you locked on her. She knows it and her "dark past" is just there to keep you in the fog. There is no dark past when she sucks chads cock. Her "feeling" when you felt when you said you loved her was her inner theif screaming "pha, another loser I can scrap resources and validation from" and then "I better not fuck this up. Quick, make a 'I love you face'". She has you in her little finger. She knows it. What to do? The only t… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/16 01:45 PM |
| 3 | How to get better at eating pussy?Search for "how to eat pussy like a champ" | /r/askTRP | 07/02/16 01:03 PM |
| 4 | It Shouldn't Be This Easy..."calling you an asshole and then she misses..." Totally normal. Assholes get loved and layed. He's an ass for not returning love, in her mind.. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 06:12 AM |
| 3 | TRP is a place for losersTheir point is that we are losers. My point is that we're at least doing something about it, while the rest of the world just keeps hamstering away (keeping and producing more losers). The word loser might be wrong, of course. But I'm using 'their' word. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 06:25 PM |
| 2 | TRP is a place for losersYou say men on RP are losers You're missing the point. MOST men are losers. We are here because we found out (and accepted) that we are losers and want to do something about it. Maybe the word "loser" is too hard, but the point remains. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 06:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm just miserable, and I can't even take the first step to start changing.Of course it's not easy. But studies show that planning exact time, location and task can dramaticly increase chances of completing them then vague plans like "1-4 sets" or "some time tomorrow". | /r/becomeaman | 29/01/16 12:45 PM |
| 3 | I'm just miserable, and I can't even take the first step to start changing.Plan yourself exact mimi tasks and stick to them no matter what. Be as detailed as possible. Exact dates, hours, minutes, what will you do, how much etc. Plan exact workout, reps sets, minutes, etc. Then just follow it. Like a zombie. Just dont think about it and do it. And go easy on yourself at the start. Don't plan 7 workouts per week for 3 hours per day. | /r/becomeaman | 28/01/16 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Cutie I want to plateThanks for the breakdown. I'm not sure about her emotional state either. She does seem a bit interested (she gave me #, she replies and all) but not really enough. I guess I do need to let go of this one and see if she re-initiates after displaying higher SMV one way or another. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/16 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Cutie I want to plateI guess I do need to let go of this one and see if she re-initiates after displaying higher SMV one way or another. Thanks for the input. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/16 07:04 AM |
| 4 | How to change the dynamic of a LTR?You don't need to cheat to apply dread. There are many levels of dread. You want to start with the most subtle ones. Google up (or use reddit search) dread game, there is tones of stuff written on it | /r/askTRP | 18/01/16 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Some opinions on The Red PillIf you come to top 5% by aplying trp, then you can make exeptions wherever you want. For someone at the top 5% that wants a stable LTR a marriage with a good prenup is totaly OK if you ask me. My main point is that the op's points are valid, bu for a trp beginner the lift&avoid women in professional environment is good advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Some opinions on The Red PillI agree on these points, but most are here because they are low hanging fruit to increase SMV and not fuck up before you get your health, life, work and priorities in order. So, first couple of years of TRP (depending on where you started) should be focused on lifting, your career, avoid getting in LTR and marriage and avoid unnecessary contact with women in professional environment. After your SMV is in top 5% you can hire women, get married, stop going to the gym 7 times a week etc... | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/16 07:00 PM |
| 11 | Where do I begin with flirting? Plus, thank you!Besides every trick and method that you'll learn, remember, it's better to error on the bold side than safe side. By being bold (take action) you eather succeed or learn something. Win win. Safe is failing and not learning anything. Also, girls love bold and assertive guys. Disclaimer: take in consideration the era we live in. If you get negative responses, eject. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 09:28 PM |
| 8 | Man of Mystery: Why less is more.I agree. Being quiet and mysterious is game. Best game is no game. So the concept described here works for good looking people. Then, when she sees you're actually boring, tingles go away. On the other hand, if you have interesting personality (+ status high enough) she will hang around even after she gets to know you more. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Cucked by Alphas. How to recover?How to get out of this misery? You know how to get out. Lift, eat well, get hobbies, read TRP, build yourself, your career, social life etc. It will not be easy and it will not be soon. But once you get out you'll be 100x stronger than you've ever been. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 03:20 PM |
| 2 | "If you made more money, we would have more sex"Listen. 99% of TRPers know how you feel. We've been through shit like this, that's why most of us are here. You will feel awful for a month or 3, and bad for a year or 2 IF YOU GET OUT NOW. After that it's only uphill. Your prime years are ahead of you in 5 or 10 years and beyond. If you don't get out now you will be financially, emotionally and personally destroyed. It's a fact. It's a time bomb. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 07:39 PM |
| 7 | "If you made more money, we would have more sex"Exactly. He might be rationalizing that he'll become more alpha later and make more money and somehow fix the stuff. But it's allready too late. It's a war. And op is entering this war (marriage) with stone age axe, while she's allready equipped with aircraft carriers and high tech drones. EJECT | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 04:38 PM |
| 57 | "If you made more money, we would have more sex"Please listen to this guy. Get out while you can. It might be hard to get out now, but in n years she will make it 1000000x harder. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 03:14 PM |
| 35 | TwoX Covering Up Actual RAPE Story Unfortunately it Does Not Fit The Progressive NarrativeThe west failed a massive shit test. We are the BB now. Open your wallets and zip your pants. We're not allowed anything else. On the other hand, these guys haven't failed any shit tests yet, so they're the AF. They don't even hide it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xi0jJj7e8GE | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Give up on my nerdy hobbies?Google "guy has sex with girlfriend while playing cs:go". | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 06:08 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with being over shadowed by the alpha of the group?Crap, I have a friend like that. When I tell him what I did that day, he goes: "Good, I'm proud of you." WTF? Who the fuck are you to give me approval of what I do? I don't hang with him a lot anymore. So, can you throw him off? How much company power do you have over him? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 02:00 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with being over shadowed by the alpha of the group?48 laws of power, laws: 1, 9, 16, 22, etc... and then when the time comes, law 15. But only when you can fully execute the law 15. Until then, play along. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 11:51 AM |
| 1 | What's an event that strengthened a TRP truth for you?No, she was not attracted to me at the time. I was fully beta clingy AFC. But all it took was one big shit test to pass and it was enough to raise her respect for me and to spin the hamster in to "OK, maybe I can do this". Maybe shit test is not really the right word here. She didn't start it. I did. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 11:45 AM |
| 4 | How to react to a plate's other dates.Not really sure, is she trying to tell you how cool you are (since the other date is boring) or is it a shit test. If it's the first one, just play your AF role: "Try to at least get him to pay you for the dinner. After that come to my place. Bring wine." | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 07:01 PM |
| 3 | What's an event that strengthened a TRP truth for you?Couple of months. Almost two years since it happened (been on TRP for 2 years now). The most eye opening event that happened to me. Passed shit test -> got laid. We broke up later, it was pretty ugly, it's in my post history if you want to dig. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 06:35 PM |
| 21 | What's an event that strengthened a TRP truth for you?By getting out of the friendzone: ME: "You coming over to fuck?" HER: "OMG, WTF, how can you be so mean after all we had" ... cry... "I will find someone else to cuddle me." ME: "Bye then." HER: "Ok, lets do this." | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 11:55 AM |
| 1 | 35 / Too Late to Start Self Improvement?It actually doesn't matter, at the beginning you'll be losing fat and gain muscle. So just do something. You'll worry about the details after progress stops. Like everything else. Just get started, be consistent and you will see results eventually. Worry about the details later. And it's never too late. I'm 35 and after 2 years of TRP am still not seing any decline in gaining muscle, pussy, confidence etc. You can search my post history to see how low I started (my highest rated post). | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 04:41 PM |
| 4 | This guy at college I know gets so much women and I don't even understand exactly why.Probably. And a big cock. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 05:50 PM |
| 11 | What are some of your unconventional ways of boosting SMV?Lifting and game is the easy part. Being exeptionnaly good at something that you love is what will give you confidence, power, money and status, which is what will give you all the pussy you'll ever need | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 09:55 AM |
| 4 | Girlfriend of two years says she only loves me as a friendWelcome to the first day of the rest of your life. Emotional roller coaster that you're in right now will fade away and then you'll be a free grown man. Untill then: Do not get in contact with her under ANY circumstances. Even if she wants to. Even if it hurts like nothing has ever hurt before. read TRP lift | /r/askTRP | 22/12/15 12:15 PM |
| 7 | Anyone with experience being alpha, losing it, and gaining it again?This is what being a man is. No way anybody can be at the top 24/7 forever. The difference is when you fall, are you gonna stay down and cry (and do drugs and mmorpg) or pick yourself up and move on. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/15 09:16 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm falling for a plate...You're wanting us to say: sure, go ahead... :) Well, go ahead. But know that you will come out of this hurt, angry, maybe even an emotional wreck. Your SMV will stagnate for the time you let your oneitis hamster (but we click so well and she's so good in bed...). Do yourself a favor and if you don't listen to guys that say "next", remember that day will come. Also, don't get her pregnant. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/15 06:57 AM |
| 1 | easiest ways to demonstrate high value?Good list. I would add Assertiveness. It's a skill that is hard to master if you're not naturally assertive, but is also extremely sexy to women. It's also related to confidence and skill. Practice being assertive (self-assured and confident without being aggressive or need of proof) in all areas of your life, people will trust you and follow you. Also women. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Me [25M] with my wife [29F] of six years, is not sexually adventurous with me like she was in her college years before me.Wtf are you talking about? Don't listen to this guy. And go read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/15 03:15 PM |
| 59 | What is the role of the modern man as we progress in the 21st century? flair:'mgtow'Another view: Some men just want to watch the world burn. Others rather look at the data: The World Is Not Falling Apart If you would have a speech on a random university in 1970 and say that in 40 years the Berlin wall will be gone, iron curtain will be down, war victims will be 10 times smaller, there are 5 times less infectious diseases, and 5 times less hunger, they would think you're nuts. But that's just what happened. It's easy to fall in to distorted media reporting and theredpill is no … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 03:10 PM |
| 56 | The Rational Male – Solipsism IOne of the most eye opening view of the solipsistic world of females was when a plate of mine was giving me directions on where to pick her up. It went something like this: Her: "When you come to that traffic light, head over to me." Me: "What do you mean?" Her: "Just turn here towards me." Me: "How the hell am I supposed to know which way is that? Left or right?" Her: "I don't know. Just turn my way" She eventually gave directions, but it amazed me how hard it is for a woman to put herself in s… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/15 07:10 PM |
| 4 | How to downgrade GF to plate?Having oneitis and downgrading is impossible. You will fail shit tests and misinterpret comfort tests. She will see through your game and you'll just seem weird. You need to get abundance mentality, so upgrade yourself first, then you'll be ready she'll be ready to be downgraded. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/15 01:10 PM |
| 9 | I'm going to ask a pathetic, honest question. Do any of you have recurring dreams about your old oneitis?Every alpha has scars to remind him of the days when he was a child and still learning. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/15 02:21 PM |
| 3 | The best/unexpected bits of RP truth you've received from women?I was druknenly talking to my sister about some of the TRP stuff once. Solipsism, CC, AF/BB, marriage, logic based on emotions etc. She agreed to most of it (some hamstering in between). At the end she said we guys shouldn't know about this stuff anyway and we shouldn't talk about this stuff. They know much more about themselves than they'd like to admit. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/15 12:55 PM |
| 1 | I might be getting out of anger phase, but onto what other phase?Being in control of your life is scary and hard work. But you just go out and do what you have to do. You will like the results. Rewards come slowly and it's not a constant flow, but you will be getting them if you keep moving and improving. And don't pat yourself too much or get sloppy. Keep working on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/15 08:28 AM |
| 1 | OK, need real advice. Appreciate it!Glad to help. Try to have a sort of playful mentality about it. If you're making a big thing about it you'll just overthink everything too much and she'll notice. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/15 03:42 PM |
| 2 | OK, need real advice. Appreciate it!Get this in your head. You're fuckable. She wants to fuck you. You're doing her a favor. On a first date when I get enough IOIs I just go with something like: "Wait. I have to try something." Lean in and kiss. Maybe a 1 sec pause, 1 inch before her lips. As a subtle test/tease. Or just lean in, wait 1 inch before lips and say "You think this will work?" and kiss right away (dont wait for an answer). 9/10 it goes well. If she turns away / is not ready, just brush it off with a smirk and continue … | /r/askTRP | 20/07/15 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Do women have less sympathetic capacity than men?Women can feel sympathy towards men. But they won't fuck the ones who they feel sympathy for. Sympathy is reserved for weaker people than her (children...) The error is in the guy's assumption that he's going to get laid out of sympathy. Become a man that does not need sympathy and they'll want to fuck you. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/15 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Less than a week on the pill…and success has startedGood job. Welcome to the club. | /r/ThankTRP | 16/06/15 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Less than a week on the pill…and success has startedWhat exactly did you do? | /r/ThankTRP | 16/06/15 06:19 PM |
| 20 | My first step down the rabbit hole.In the process of learning to hold frame and becoming an alpha you will find yourself sometimes overreacting and being butthurt over small irrelevant stuff. You've been lied to and walked over your whole life, so this is normal. This might be one (depends on the context) of those moments. Just being douchebag about every small thing sometimes means insecurity, not alpha behavior. But this is learning process, so just keep practicing, even if you go over the line sometimes. You'll know when you'v… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/15 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Q&A Thread: Newbies, ask away.Small steps. You can't be a stand up comedian tomorrow. But you can talk to a random stranger about weather for a minute. Do that every day for 2 weeks, than adjust your goals and do that for 2 weeks and so on. Just keep laying bricks and as you get better at it, it will also become easier and you will start enjoying human interactions. You're starting from the bottom so it will be scary and you will fail. But you need to do it, or you'll stay introverted for the rest of your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 11:11 AM |
| 8 | Red Pill Q&A Thread: Newbies, ask away.Motivation is for the weak. You need discipline. Make a (reasonable) plan and stick to it: Talk to 5 women every day (outcome independent, no age restrictions...) Go out at least once a week. add personal stuff where you need improvement. After 2 months of doing that, adjust plan, move forward. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 11:02 AM |
| 4 | Red Pill Q&A Thread: Newbies, ask away.Love is a disney/hollywood/west society made up word for oneitis. One could argue that it's not the same, but it's pretty similar, but oneitis is unhealthy. You give girl your resources (emotions, money, time, attention, problem solving skills, comfort etc) without her doing anything to deserve it. If you manage to make yourself the prize in her eyes, having some oneitis might be healthy for a LTR. I guess that would be called love. But, again, it's mostly a trap to make guys jump through hoops. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill Q&A Thread: Newbies, ask away.You are angry, because you expect certain outcome, but you don't get it. And you don't get it because you expect it. Learn to love the game and the process, not the outcome. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Just got cheated on for a ChadYour emotions have not kicked in fully yet. You will be in pain for next couple of days/weeks or even months. While you are in pain, acknowledge that this is a phase that you NEED TO GET THROUGH. After you're out of this, everything in your life will be better. But you need to go through this. Use the pain and anger to improve yourself. Lift, read, get hobbies, talk to close friends etc. But do not contact her under any circumstances. Not for a half a year at least. We've all been through that, … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 10:40 AM |
| 2 | The Uncanny Valley between Alpha and Beta MGo ahead and do what you're doing. That's how you learn. But be aware of how much out of the comfort zone you are, analyze yourself and be socially aware. It's OK to be a little above with energy. But just a bit too much and you're weird. Trying hard makes it weird. And it's not always about the energy. James Bond doesn't need to crack jokes and dance around all the time to be alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 07:24 PM |
| 30 | The Uncanny Valley between Alpha and Beta Mdon't pretend This. I have a friend that does that all the time. He's full of energy, constantly pokes jokes, plays cool, he's loud and tries to be in a center of attention in every social gathering. But deep down inside he's a scared kid that can't put his life together. It's fake and you can feel it. My ex read him in a couple of minutes. He just makes everyone feel weird around him. Don't fake it (or if you do, be aware that people will read you sooner or later). Be congruent with your mental… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 02:06 PM |
| 6 | Game over without good looks?I went from ugly to pretty decent looking in a year. Some people don't store much fat in their face and double chin, but I do. So staying lean or not for me means being attractive or ugly. Revealing facial features and showing the jawline makes a huge difference. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 01:03 PM |
| 1 | My Omega to AF TRP year.Some of them were existing, but once the snowball started rolling, most of the guys popping I didn't know. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 02:02 PM |
| 2 | My Omega to AF TRP year.Good question. I might have some luck here, but luck doesn't happen to people who sit at home and do nothing. What I did is, send and email to bunch of guys (semi-friends) if they want to go with me and try this one new restaurant with a massive cheap delicious stake one day. I set up the date and said that I'm going. One replied to all that he's in. Then next one. Then next one. After a week I got their friends asking me if they can join. We had such a good time that people are constantly askin… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 10:46 AM |
| 75 | Woman Faked Pregnancy on Me 25 Years Ago; Today She is a Lesbian FeministI've seen many ugly, old or fat female become some sort of asexual, transgender, lesbian and/or feminist. It's their hamster-way of coping why they can't get an alpha to at least fuck them, let alone commit. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 07:09 AM |
| 8 | My Omega to AF TRP year.I'm in east/central EU working in IT. Job is not easy to find. Like ToshiroOzuwara said: Socialize in start up and IT events, learn, also learn social skills (you're not born with them, you learn them like anything else) and build social circles in areas you want to get a job in. Just keep improving. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 06:38 PM |
| 58 | My Omega to AF TRP year.Exactly. Looking back that advice was really perfect at the perfect time. I was so emotionally invested and fucked up that I would have done anything to stay with her, intuitively. So a big thank you to all ASKTRP-ers from me. Funny thing though. She's really hot. In that social circle I'm now her ex who left her. That means all other girls in that social circle wonder what I've got to not stay with such a hot girl. Win win situation after all. :) | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Redpill truths mirrored in discussion on a female sub about lowering birth rates.So, with this in mind, where should a red piller invest for a good retirement? Not real estate, but where? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 02:47 PM |
| 2 | The value of non-complianceThis is the video. Have a listen to it, it's great: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a9XDb0nxSO4 | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/15 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Stuck with a very bad case of oneitis, affecting several aspects of my lifeWe have all been there. The pain is real and the pill is hard to swollow. The good news is, it gets better. But it takes time. Like Red_truthiness said. Go monk mode. Read redpill, lift and work on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/15 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Ghosting (MGTOW) vs. swallowing The Red PillBeen there. The way up is not linear and is full of ups and downs. The key is to not let the downs get to you to much, forgive yourself that they happened and move on. It gets hard sometimes. Don't give up. It's a loooooonnnng jurney. How old are you? If you keep working on yourself, you'll eventually find yourself in front of the wave and surfing life will never be the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 12:25 PM |
| 1 | New Red Piller. Advice required. (Friendzone)You are to her a random dude. She doesn't give a fuck about your feelings towards her. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/15 07:10 AM |
| 2 | New Red Piller. Advice required. (Friendzone)You were also not emotionally invested anymore. If you're emotionally invested it's nearly impossible. Best way is to improve yourself and after months/years of improving you wouldn't even want to be with that chick anyway. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 02:43 PM |
| 3 | New Red Piller. Advice required. (Friendzone)Say you don't want to talk to some random ugly chick from your neighborhood. Would you call her and tell her you don't want to talk to her? Why would you? It's pathetic. Go do your own business, use anger to improve yourself and if she contacts you, be indifferent. Short answers only. You don't need to be butt-hurt, insulting or explaining yourself. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 02:42 PM |
| 2 | 30 Observations Dealing With Womenbasic generalization Don't fool yourself. AWALT. It's not my job to do anything, if im with someone they get to decide what do they want or not Sure. But then somebody else will decide for her instead of you. thought about it, remember the typical girl who will never say no to a insistent guy becase she doesnt want to hurt his feelings Mainly because she doesn't want to look bad/bitchy in other's eyes. If she was fair, she would end it and stop giving false hope. relationship just took on the ne… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 08:44 AM |
| 2 | How do I go about figuring out whether a girl is into rough sex?Yeah, don't listen to that. It's retarded and dangerous. If you're extremely dominant and alpha and the chick is really submissive, shy (or even fearful) she might be just to afraid to say no. That's called rape. Reading the cues what she enjoys is not easy. Funny thing though. I got a feeling that quiet and submissive chicks want the roughest sex of all. It's sort of a catch22. You can't be to dominant and rough to the point where she's afraid of you (= rape). But they're the ones that it's har… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/15 01:05 PM |
| 3 | What to do about not feeling masculine?Join muay thai or some other MMA club. You'll get the figher moves and hang out with guys with alot of testosterone, which will make you incorporate their behavior. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/15 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers Over 30: What Advice Would You Give A 20 Year-Old?Besides common TRP advice,... learn and practice social skills. Good school will get you to become a great engineer. Good engineer with excellent social skills will climb career ladders fastest, will lead great teams, have good social life, good relations with employees, neighbors and bartenders on overseas cruise. Oh, and good social skills will get you laid. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/15 03:36 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is even tougher to swallow for girlsAlso, imagine how painful it must be to actually find out that you are crazy. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 02:32 PM |
| 5 | Solipsism should be expected in almost every interaction with a woman.It's evolutionary. Think about it this way: I'm gonna be vulnerable, weak and will need resources for next couple of months/years to make a new person. I need physically and mentally strong person by myself who can handle all the shit that's going to happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 08:11 AM |
| 5 | Science of male and female brain - BBC Horizon Full Documentary 2014While I agree with you completely, I wouldn't use the word inferior. The engine of the car is more complex than the wheels, but you can't drive the car without both. Female brain is just wired differently and "smart society" would use that to their advantage, rather than ignore it. Raising children is extremely important for healthy society. Also there are many jobs that need people with higher social intelligence (reading feelings etc), creativity etc, where female seem to excel. And let's not … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/14 01:52 PM |
| 2 | What are some major flaws in TRP?Ok, you have a point. It's not just TRP problem, but social science studies, which are, as you pointed out, pretty unscientific. That's why it's easy to indoctrinate the field. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/14 07:25 PM |
| 1 | What are some major flaws in TRP?You don't know much about scientific method, do you? | /r/askTRP | 05/09/14 07:55 AM |
| 4 | What are some major flaws in TRP?Until we get the whole concept in to scientific methodology, form proper hypothesis with empirical falsification and test it, it's just a bunch of ideas and vague hypotheses floating around (strictly scientifically speaking). So it can't be taken seriously by mainstream science and media. But to get these ideas in to mainstream science is practically impossible in this society. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/14 06:11 PM |
| 3 | How do you encourage leadership in your SO?Try not saying it in a way that you're giving him order to make a decision, but rather come from a "I don't know what to do" position. Not sure if I'm communicating this right, but encouraging someone to be a leader can sometimes seem like you're "above" him. Like encouraging a child to do something. So: Yes: "Honey, I don't know how are we going to handle this problem. I'm scared." No: "Honey, we have a problem and I want you to fix it. You'll be a good boy if you do." After he does something r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/14 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Apparently I'm a pervert. Need help.What can she charge me of? We didn't have sex, I just sent her to another room. The appartment was unlocked. I've got messages from her flirting with me, wanting to come over and "pay". Thx for the advice guys. I'll just let it pass and keep working on myself. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/14 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Apparently I'm a pervert. Need help.Well yeah. I was deep in oneitis. I'm out now. The question still remains. I can't just replace my whole social circle. I can't move, change job etc. How do I deal with this, not to make more mess or reduce damage. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/14 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Can't get over ex-wife - don't know what else I can do!I feel you bro. I ended up a relationship with a crazy bitch a few months ago and I still can't get over her. It was less than a half a year relationship, but I still just can't get her out of my mind. She also had personality issues (probably some sort of bipolar/borderline, depression, anxiety... She was taking SSRIs). Do you have any more info of partners of "crazy" getting more fucked up? I'd love to do more reading on it, she clearly did a mess in my head. Keep it there, we'll get over thos… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/14 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Treating yourself like a human22? I'll be 34 next month. Discovering TRP at this age should be prohibited. "I feel I owe you an apology. We have a rule...we never free a mind once it reaches a certain age. It's dangerous, and the mind has trouble letting go." It's turning in to a depression, seeing how beta I was most of my life, and I can't just "start over" now. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/14 01:23 PM |
| 5 | I've become addicted to love.I'm here as well. I feel hopeless alone. When I was in love, everything made sense and I had future plans and hope and dreams and life was great. Alone, I'm falling in to depression and I just can't seem to get out of it. | /r/becomeaman | 02/07/14 07:32 AM |
| -1 | The most attractive trait you can have is happiness. And I'm serious.I felt hopeless. I still do, but I do see a small light at the end of the tunnel. It's far away and the way there is rough and full of ups and downs. Please search for: "The best stuff I have gathered to help me significantly improve every aspect my life and combat depression! Links, sources, advices! (original post in /r/depression got removed)" in the r/getting_over_it | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/14 06:47 PM |
| 1 | [update] Creative ways to dump an alpha widow?I agree. I'm still deep in oneitis, but denying it. Fuck. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/14 01:14 PM |
| 2 | FR: A ONS I had, became a plate, and gave me the "GF Experience." Some interesting stuff I learntThis. You're going down the oneitis hole. Been there, done that. You don't know it's oneitis untill you're allready too deep and she's screwing other guys behind your back. Get out ASAP. Or use as plate only, but be carefull with too much conversation, cuddling, massages, dates etc. Sex and then get out ASAP. You don't have time to do other stuff than sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/14 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Your mother is special. Don't treat other girls like her.I need this transform. Had beta father and manipulative mother and I can't get my shit together. How do you transfer your mindset? Which books/exercises do I need? THX | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/14 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Creative ways to dump an alpha widow?Thanks. I'm still pretending I don't know anything. The problem are our common friends. How do I handle that? Her brother is a pretty good friend of mine. I'll try to take a picture of the conversation for my archive in case she goes to do some crazy shit after I go ghost. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/14 07:28 PM |
| 0 | What was your "Oh god... Red Pill actually works..." moment?budi badi movi what? | /r/askTRP | 21/05/14 08:45 AM |
| 1 | beta insecurities just flood my brainI've read about the stages and I just seem to be stuck in between. I can't get myself in to 5th stage. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/14 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Complaining about women is not progress.I just seem to be stuck in angry phase. Being beta most of my life after swallowing the pill I just seem to be sinking in to some sort of depression. Where can I read more about getting out of anger phase? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/14 08:27 AM |
| 8 | How do you disagree with TRP?This. Don't turn TRP in to a hating and manipulation of women. TRP is about learning the nature of women and improving your life. Women do what they do because it's in their nature. Men are far from being perfect. Rapes do happen and dominance can quickly turn in to abuse if the power comes in the wrong hands. With great power comes great responsibility. Learn, improve, but don't hate and manipulate. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/14 12:07 PM |
| 30 | What was your "Oh god... Red Pill actually works..." moment?What just blew my mind is when I pulled the L card on a girl I was orbiting for months. No sex, constant shit tests, deep in oneitis, started reading TRP material. Still in denial, but I said, fuck it, let's try this. Approxiamate texts: Her shittesting: "I'm going to go and find another guy for hugging." Me: "Sure, go ahead" Her: "What?" Me: "Bye bye" Her: "Are you serious?" Me: "You're still here? Chop chop, go now..." Her: "Why are you acting like this?" Me: "You can come at 8pm and I'll fuck… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/14 12:00 PM |
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