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SCROTES MADLakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:27 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Lakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:33 PM
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NAH, SISLakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 12:17 PM
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DISCUSSIONLakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:24 PM
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LEVEL UPLakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:26 PM
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DISCUSSIONLakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 01:56 PM
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DISCUSSIONLakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 03:18 PM
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RANTLakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:37 AM
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DISCUSSIONLakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 07:41 PM
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STRATEGYLakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 02:45 AM
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SEEKING ADVICELakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:12 AM
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STRATEGYLakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:37 PM
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SEEKING ADVICELakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 09:49 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Lakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:41 AM
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STRATEGYLakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 06:27 PM
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LEVEL UPLakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:39 PM
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SEX STRATEGYLakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 02:34 AM
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DISCUSSIONLakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:31 PM
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SEEKING ADVICELakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:53 AM
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SEEKING ADVICELakersrock111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 10:24 AM
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We are by far hornier than men, we also know how to control it better. Every man I have been with gives up so soon. They get tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:41 PM
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Why because we don’t want a small penis picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:40 PM
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I am a bachelorette so no I am ok with not getting married. I enjoy making $, having my own place, and getting laid that thankfully result in no kids:). Because kids suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 12:32 PM
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Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:28 AM
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I have a beautiful triangle bush that I like to condition and brush it out (it’s like a soft pillow)! It’s quite sexy if I must say. And some nipple hair because well I am Italian. 🤷‍♀️. The pits and legs I shave!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:02 AM
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And I am a type A sexy brunette who will have the last word. And I do overall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:42 AM
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Ya what’s with that? I had a guy do that EVERY fricken time. I blocked his ass real quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:41 AM
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I don’t think I should get marrried. What’s the point? If he is committed and I am, he can buy me a beautiful ring and we can call it a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:09 AM
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Oh it would be worth it if I had it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:00 AM
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If a prenuptial is done, how does one make sure they can’t have anything even if one was not married but living together? Just hypothetically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:59 PM
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I am getting a prenuptial if I get married!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:05 PM
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Whohoo!!:)) looks like I will be single for a while, but no one can give better O’s than me😉😈!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:57 PM
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This is why I have no dating apps:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:22 PM
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Bingo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 08:31 PM
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Typing this was hard work, just like that 4. My thumbs need to rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 06:33 PM
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I say wait 6 months to have sex. Why not right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 06:32 PM
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Oh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:02 AM
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Oh. So those fellas didn’t man up? For their SOs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:32 AM
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What? He didn’t date you in a serious manner? I am interested to know more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:30 AM
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Many men want bjs, I am content with hjs. Way easier to deal with. And on my time of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:15 PM
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Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:51 PM
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Second this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:38 PM
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I second this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:38 PM
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What’s real spicy, is masturbating when he is sleeping. Now that’s kinky😉.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:02 AM
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Same here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:52 AM
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Even after dating for months sometimes they still suck at it. I am a lover and a giver, so that’s my area. But so many men are just so average. Like have some passion people!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:51 AM
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Yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:17 AM
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So I should be poker face and just have him talk?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:11 AM
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A HVM will not have anything to hide on his phone either. I always offer to share mine, because I have nothing to hide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:03 AM
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Nada. Don’t have any :).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:18 PM
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Yes like men pretending they have a big penis, a truly big fella doesn’t have to pretend. He can literally wear tight jeans or be a grower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 04:50 PM
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I love it!! But not to the face. Just in me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:51 AM
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He just has a breeding fetish, which works well if both parties are sterile. Unless you want babies then breed away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:57 PM
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I keep my standards high, like men like women with big tits ( mine are a nice perky size 32B and then to a 34B during my period) well I like men who are well endowed. No shame, not sorry:).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:39 PM
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Spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:31 PM
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I am bored, and would consider sex with a woman, bisexual men, and obviously of course with gay men (but that’s not socially acceptable) Why not? Life is short.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:03 AM
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Oh so true. One guy didn’t even know the female anatomy. That sexy time ended real quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:02 AM
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Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:01 AM
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Or anyone in between
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:15 PM
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Oh true good point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:28 PM
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So a HVM will do what? Engage with an intellectual conversation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:19 PM
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We deal with a lot of bullshit as women. It blows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:46 AM
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Many men are boring. And not attractive unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:47 AM
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Well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:45 AM
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Whoa that’s nuts. So how would a HVM differentiate from this nutcase?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:12 AM
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Agreed!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:58 AM
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And$$$
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:17 AM
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Maybe I won’t get married and keep my account separate from his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:14 AM
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Ouch!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:06 AM
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Ya I love my triangle bush! It’s sexy and womanly!! And if a male can’t handle that, then he can go have sex with someone else!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:28 AM
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:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:16 AM
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Yes he is a smart dumbass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:15 AM
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Good idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:15 AM
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How?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:14 AM
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And it did go nowhere you’re right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:13 AM
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So true!! And unfortunately both parties get hurt! Unless I start banging women, then they not I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:13 AM
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Good point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:15 PM
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Men just want control, a me me me concept.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:13 PM
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Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:11 PM
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Oh my! I am glad you’re strong and independent!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:11 PM
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I like that!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:09 PM
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Yes and if men overall can prove us wrong well that’s a win win for both parties then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:26 PM
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No kidding!! I just had two LVMs message me privately just bashing me. Jokes on them, their karmas were at -1 and they were blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:25 PM
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A dating one. Check out my comments from two days ago. How do I send the link?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:24 PM
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Well put also. It’s a shame men make this choice. When they could make better choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:22 PM
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Well put
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:04 PM
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No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:35 PM
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Ya and read the MDS, they want a woman with big boobs or one where the guy makes the choices (lol ya right). Well to the men who see this, we want a 6ft fella with abs and a dick that actually impresses us with a guy who knows how to use it. After dating of course. And we will just have the men have to keep “reading that text”, while we do our own thing. Two can play this game men. And studies show women are smarter than men. If they want a lvw they will have to pony up or buy a sex doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:27 PM
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Yes! And this guy was just not that bright.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:08 PM
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Why I also gave up my gymnastics career (that lasted like a week)...plus missionary is awesome!! He does the work. It’s 2020 folks, time for men to level up or leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:05 PM
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Second this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:01 PM
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This little guy was definitely a LVM. He couldn’t understand and comprehend basic FDS posts. I was just pissed and made a little effort. But the poor little guy well he will just struggle. I don’t feel bad for him either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:49 AM
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Make sure you bring your own bottle and have eyes on it the entire time. A drug can be put in there so easily, just look at Bill fricken Cosby, that piece of scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:46 AM
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I would prefer to wait a year before sleeping with a fella. That teaches me ALOT on what he is after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:45 AM
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HVM pays for every date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:43 AM
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How much should a guy pay per date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:41 AM
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This is why I do what I feel like doing or wearing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:10 AM
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Yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:35 AM
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Can confirm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:04 AM
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Haha my ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:45 AM
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It totally is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:23 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 11:07 PM
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Jump dump his ass what she should do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:08 PM
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Maybe I just won’t get serious with a guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:07 PM
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Lol yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:58 AM
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Just like I like a man to be effortlessly hot! And to fit like a glove in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:09 AM
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Yes well said!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:09 AM
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I would rather elope. And marry up of course!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:23 AM
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Have him Venmo you $100K then you can give a therapy session if you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:35 AM
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Uh oh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:27 AM
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I am not a fan of V day but probably because I haven’t been with HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:24 PM
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What can I say, I like my men cut and big!! ♋️🤷‍♀️😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:37 PM
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I like this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:26 PM
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Wow that’s smart! And faster than I would want though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:25 PM
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Agreed!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:24 PM
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But men can lie about their numbers. So how can I hope for a virgin? I would be totally on board with sleeping with one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 12:05 AM
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I like missionary. He has to do all of the work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:26 PM
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I would have told that other girl and frame it just like he did. Then maybe she will think he is pathetic too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:11 PM
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This is down the road if I was that serious about a fella! Or maybe he and I could be neighbors ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:21 PM
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Thank you the star award!! I feel so humbled:).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:16 PM
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For her to bring home the bacon!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:32 AM
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So if I buy a house and he moves in, how does one financially keep it all separate? Like with food and utilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:28 AM
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If I had an inheritance I probably wouldn’t tell the other half. Maybe that’s just me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:26 AM
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Yes!! Brad Pitt is so sexy in that film!! Especially that pool scene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:12 PM
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Awww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:28 PM
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And what you eat:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:05 PM
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Likewise to the man. I double what they tell me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:04 PM
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I have no problem doing that! Some men couldn’t keep up and others resisted. They didn’t last. They didn’t love themselves to then love me nor did they see me as a queen! I am high caliber, why settle?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:59 PM
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What a loser he is. And they had a kid. Which sucks for that kid unfortunately. That dad is basically a deadbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:28 PM
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Yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:12 AM
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Or watch hot male and male porn:) or women on women porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:16 AM
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Girl you are an 11 out of 10! Don’t let that fool bring ya down!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:50 AM
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I love ‘cut’ men and I want them to be clean too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:49 AM
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And many were born with smaller penises (like baby size), and their self-worth is depleted. Mainly because society puts expectations on men to have larger penises and told be strong and fertile and to repress emotions. It’s a sad situation for them, however, they can choose to be positive and not upset with what they were born with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:43 AM
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Ugh same here. Like I want to be friends first to get to know them as a person and then date and then become exclusive. Great things (like me), take time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:33 AM
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They have parties often and he was super nice to my relative’s bestie who’s besties with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:17 AM
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Someone who I have met is besties with him and you’re right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:08 AM
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Yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:05 AM
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Which is why mr. right will cook, clean, and be my man. I will conquer him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:46 PM
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She should save photos of every hot guy she knows and let him see. Oh and she should masturbate to them. And she should only get support from her husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:38 PM
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Haha. And I wouldn’t be offended. To be in the water and then on land the next minute, Well Orcas would be jealous. Obviously I know that’s not what he was referring to. But it makes it more fun this way. You’re welcome you incel on reddit who will probably make a new account to continuously keep messaging me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:37 PM
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One called me a landwhale on reddit. I blocked him. It’s quite humorous that he thought it would be good to stoop so low and in such a pathetic way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:26 PM
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Second this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:21 PM
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I also date high value men who make a lot. And I like a man who cooks and cleans and treats me like a queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 01:47 PM
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So true! Although in this case he was twice my age and hitting on me. My colleague who’s around his age thought he was hot. I made it clear that he has no prayer. And was hoping he would see her! She’s not an ugly potato.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 01:41 PM
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Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:52 AM
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I won’t lower my standards for a fella. I will just be single until a HVM can prove himself to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:04 PM
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It’s sad how so many men are anti condoms!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:58 PM
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So he is obviously an incel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:48 PM
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I wonder if she is CF too? She should do another piece on dating as a Childfree woman. Like a piggy back to the FDS. That would be cool too! I am grateful she did this FDS piece also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:43 PM
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So true!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 01:29 PM
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I wait till he is exclusive with me. It could take 6 months. Many men can’t hold out that long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 11:36 AM
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It sucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:53 AM
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Oh so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 02:32 AM
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Well what can I say, I am a high caliber woman who is hall of fame quality!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 01:45 AM
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Me too!! I love me so very much!! I also “do” me quite well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 01:40 AM
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And this is why my hot Italian ass is just doing me right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 12:22 AM
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Oh yes definitely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:36 PM
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Holy cow that’s a high number. Must be because of their diet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:24 PM
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This is so true. It’s a shame, and will only further prevent people from finding either higher quality fellas or better friendships even with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:37 PM
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Oh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 05:18 AM
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Why is there an imbalance? I have wondered about this too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:47 AM
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I will be meeting with someone who’s very high up at a midsize university and I pray to god it’s truly for business. That’s the vibe that I get from them. I certainly won’t charge this guy only because he is so high up and that would ruin his career if he made it sexual. Or so I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:45 AM
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Thank you! Likewise:).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:17 AM
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Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:19 AM
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I say triple your rate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:57 AM
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Agreed!! Do they just hookup at those “meetings”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:57 AM
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I totally agree:).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 02:00 PM
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That’s so true!! I am so grateful to that one guy and I broke up. He was a mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:43 PM
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Former athlete ( played all throughout school except in college), I think coaches do help. The right coach is well balanced and can deliver the message of what needs to be done well without shaming others. We worked out with the guys sometimes, and some were jocks with that jock personality, but others were really down to Earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:39 PM
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Make him be exclusive with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:35 PM
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Oh they certainly can, it’s amazing how so many choose not to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:19 PM
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A guy tried to while in school with me, no more. If he can’t level up to a WFPB diet, well he better just get used to it. My fridge is full of what I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:17 PM
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By 40 lbs exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:15 PM
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Third this. Hey men on MDS, pay attention. And you can try to BS your way through a date, but it won’t work. Men have posted about wanting to use our tactics to their advantage. It just won’t work. It has to be part of the culture and personality that is up to the standards of us women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:14 PM
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Haha of course it’s working out well. He has the sex with no effort on his part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:06 PM
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Ya I shouldn’t have to question his actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:00 PM
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So spot on!! A man tried to argue with me to have kids and to move in with him. I just flat out told him no. I wasn’t ready to buy a place or have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 05:09 AM
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And this is why I wait and wait. I admit, I friend zone a guy first, because I want to know what a fella is like. Unfortunately men know I am a nymphomaniac without even me saying hi. I give those clues away because I have a bubbly personality. I am from Europe and built like an athlete because I am one. It drives me nuts. People wink at me or hit on me a lot. They see me for sex. And I obviously don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:36 AM
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Hell fuckin ya!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:27 AM
2

:). You can do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:24 AM
2

Thank you:). And if you ever have to argue with safer sex, drop his or her ass like a hot potato!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:18 AM
2

Just understand that coconut oil won’t do well with condoms. Water based or silicone lube should suffice though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:14 AM
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And if one day you were to have anal sex, make sure a fella wears a condom (and replace after each ejaculation). I haven’t figured out how STIs don’t spread when doing oral from the back to the front or front to the back. I always was clean physically and made sure a fella was too. And he was and I was tested (full-panel), before any hanky panky (I made the poor guy wear a condom during oral until those STI results came back). I have a phobia of STIs as you can tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:12 AM
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This describes me but I choose to order in and choose to grow out my bush (which I condition because it looks amazing like a triangle!). A man to me has to match well with my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:03 AM
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And this is why I am not dating online. I am just letting the universe have its way with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 02:55 AM
8

What a great idea! Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 02:55 AM
4

Mr.Right will come:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 04:57 AM
2

I can understand this. The first of two fellas I slept with, sucked in bed. He had watched WAY too much porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:19 PM
1

What? I am a woman:).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 12:52 PM
5

Mine are B34. They haven’t ever complained about them. The only thing I want to get rid of, is some nipple hair grew in. That’s not sexy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:54 AM
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Haha not me. A man can do the laundry, and cook, and clean:). And then bang all night:).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:47 AM
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I like some BDSM, but I like equal communication and obviously consent has to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:34 AM
5

A guy who wants to do business with me keeps saying “ well you’re smart, you’re attractive, and you have the personality “. Well duh. But that’s so superficial in my opinion. Then I called him out on it and he said “ personality wise you may not be what I am looking for” Obviously I am fine with that. I can’t do business with a guy who is like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 11:29 AM
3

What a love, doing what he loves, for his love!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 03:13 AM
3

Yes that too. Depends on what I am in the mood for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 01:00 PM
5

I prefer hand jobs. Sometimes I like BJs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 03:25 AM
7

Yesss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 03:22 AM
12

That’s so spot on!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 01:59 PM
90

I wouldn’t. Stand their ground. They earned those degrees. If a man can’t accept that, well that’s a quick way to know that he is not worthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 01:53 PM
25

Oh so true. Financially independent and yet men still struggle with that in my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 01:52 PM
6

Haha. Monogamy is the way to go:).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 08:37 PM
5

I would bet good $$$ that those redpillers aren’t exactly interested in showing off their genitals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 02:15 AM
1

He was? My google must be failing me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:09 PM
2

I am. Usually I ask or go for the feel if they are interested. But I hate surprises so that’s why I have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:51 AM
3

That guy should make me a roast. A roast sounds nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:34 AM
1

Haha just randomly ask to see it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:18 AM
1

Of course!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:04 AM
1

No what if he doesn’t share about his size and I don’t ask?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:03 AM
4

I am just being single for now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:02 AM
1

What happens if you find out you don’t have attraction then or there’s a surprise?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:26 AM
4

Agreed:). Plus, the New York Fire Department are on 🔥!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:24 PM
3

That’s what I thought too!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:12 AM
13

Thank you:). Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:09 PM
20

Add the “call her daddy”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:01 PM
101

I think it’s reasonable to be exclusive before being engaged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:51 PM
4

Lol. It’s true though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:05 PM
7

Don’t give up!! Someone told me my left arm was bigger than my right. I write lefty, but it’s probably also because I am constantly getting off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:42 PM
1

You go girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:39 PM
1

Niice!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:39 PM
12

Or flick the ole bean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:30 PM
1

What about a fireman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:29 PM
3

I haven’t had one of those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:25 PM
3

Like to be with two fellas?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:25 PM
1

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 01:11 PM
7

It’s in my genetics! It’s part of my love languages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 11:55 PM
10

HAHA ya right! My ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 10:22 PM
11

Oh totally!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:14 PM
5

Ohh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 02:08 PM
8

How can I have Iphone share the name and picture?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 02:01 PM
2

Haha he might as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:41 PM
-4

Well mr.right will be my friend first before dating:). I will let him know that I would intend for it to lead to dating, but that I like to take my time. It might be a year before sex, but that way I know he is serious about me. If he is having sex with women after being exclusive, well that’s a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:58 PM
21

Same. He should have gotten a vasectomy and been medically cleared by it. Then used a condom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:10 PM
4

Yes. I would check out what the men tell other men what to do on Male Dating Strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 03:32 PM
8

No because he is inconsistent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 03:31 PM
2

Oh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 03:34 AM
0

What happened with the Royals?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 02:07 AM
31

Time to block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 04:25 PM
1

A serial monogamist? That’s new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 04:01 PM
2

I haven’t had great sex so I just didn’t communicate it because at that time I thought it was good. But upon realization that connection which is important to me, wasn’t there, well it made sense as to why the sex sucked. Plus I would phrase it as, “ok what can we do as a team to do better?” Communication is key to me. And that is something that I have learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:56 PM
7

Yes. I want to just be able to connect with ease with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:28 PM
1

He is yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:23 PM
3

I think so too. I wonder if he is an active MDS user?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:22 PM
7

He did just a drink date? He didn’t buy you lunch or dinner? I wouldn’t pursue it any further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 04:30 AM
-2

I actually did. I made it super clear. Yes fetlife is something that I would want to share with a fella and thought consent would be a bigger deal there. Since boundaries are important especially with bdsm or choking, etc. When you want a fella and want to build an amazing sex life, well that’s why I did what I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 03:46 AM
1

:) sounds good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 03:41 AM
1

Codependency. I have been to therapy already for my trauma that wasn’t sexual in nature . It just will take time for me to learn more from fellas. I have come a long way actually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 03:24 AM
5

He is blocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 03:20 AM
0

Well hopefully it was yummy lol. I know it was a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:49 AM
0

I never knew. I get attached easily (trauma in my past), and love pleasing. It’s part of my personality plus combine that with a very high libido, my culture, and just not having met mr right. So I jack off a lot instead of going on dates with lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:45 AM
1

Totally agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:41 AM
0

That’s how I should be. I know narcissists so I didn’t write that for fear of people thinking I would be. Culturally we are all about love where I am from. And it’s quite different here. I am a hopeful romantic. Sometimes hopeless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:38 AM
0

Agreed. Basically I want a man that’s better than me. I am pretty chill and am all about hedonism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:33 AM
0

Lol agreed. I actually only look at it when I am ovulating and on my period typically. But flick the ole bean basically daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:31 AM
0

And that’s why I am just being single. I tried for years. And it’s time something else takes the reigns. At least I have porn! I have a high libido. I gotta take care of it somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:25 AM
0

Not sure what you want me to do exactly? I get the research part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:22 AM
1

Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:13 AM
2

I definitely learned from the guy above that’s for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:08 AM
0

And I like that. But only when it’s obviously mutual. Which it always has been in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:06 AM
0

Kind of. I was just going to meet him by chance. I figure I should give the universe a chance to manifest one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:05 AM
0

I deleted my picture. So getting there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:58 AM
3

Lol No I am just newer with dating. I only had sex with like two men in my life and some foreplay with like 8 others. And didn’t have the dating guidance like others have had. So that’s why I turn to you all. And try to read and learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:43 AM
3

He is blocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:36 AM
-3

Well tinder wasn’t good and I had heard that on fetlife consent is seen as a good thing. But you’re right. It was worth a shot to try.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:32 AM
3

I see it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:19 AM
3

I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:19 AM
1

Ya and I hate this. Men do this all the time to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:08 AM
-1

I agree. That’s why I wanted opinions! I have definitely seen enough porn and have done some soft bdsm but nothing hard core. Which I am fine with. I am also from the Rome area, so sex or just my way if living is what many Americans would perceive to be sexual. I had a friend comment on me eating ice cream and she said she was getting turned on. And I certainly wasn’t being sexual. I just love chocolate! It’s like subconscious. If there are any other Italians here how would you describe it? Does…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:08 AM
2

Oh that soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 12:51 AM
2

And I should say, nothing against religious folks. Mr. Right will just walk into my life. He will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 12:50 AM
2

Whoa so when should he be asking to be his gf? Isn’t it after like 6 months? I don’t like to rush and I like to talk. Which is good and bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 12:44 AM
-5

I know. I am sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 12:28 AM
4

Probably or seeing what I would say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 12:19 AM
-9

I am a small white hot female who comes from a family that looks like we have it all together (it’s eh, it’s fine). But I am also adorable and everyone tries to play off of my “cuteness” even when I am being serious. It’s why I am excelling at my job. People just hope that I will date them or hook up with them. I am also an introvert with an anxiety (except during my job. I have some extroverted tendencies).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 12:18 AM
3

I have and they all wanted kids. And fetife was my last online option. I have tried hinge, bumble, tinder, okcupid, and even fricken match.com(those were just all religious people).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 12:15 AM
0

So when would I not be vague then? Ugh I hate being a human sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 12:12 AM
3

I like that. Well said. No kidding it is a cesspool. I thought it would be more refined than tinder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 12:06 AM
4

Good idea. It was on fetlife. Which probably didn’t help my case. I like to take my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:52 PM
1

Check out my full transcript. In my newest post. But yes unfortunately:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:47 PM
2

I put the full transcript in my new post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:38 PM
1

What are good questions to ask when texting? When should I give him my cell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 09:52 PM
3

Hello:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 08:35 PM
6

Following
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 05:26 PM
3

Well said. Ya he tried the “playing dumb route”. That drives me nuts. I know he is smart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 02:58 AM
4

Spot on! A fuckboy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 02:57 AM
4

Lol so true!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 09:38 PM
16

Well he did deserve it. He wasn’t honest, he sent mixed messages, and he wanted to be connected on LinkedIn and wanted to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 03:48 PM
4

So what would be some tangible examples? Obviously men have wants too. Like bdsm acts. I enjoy those as long as he is on the same wavelength as me with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 01:05 PM
2

Not yet no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 01:03 PM
4

Yes but just much smaller.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 01:03 PM
2

:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 01:02 PM
5

Wait so sexually what would a HVM want then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:34 AM
4

What if you don’t want a wedding? But would rather elope? I am an INFJ:). And I would rather just elope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:33 AM
5

I have the opposite problem! I eat a WFPB diet and men freak out that I eat carbs. Oh well their loss:). I look fit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 01:07 AM
10

I would love to have another boyfriend!! A HVM of course!! I am not into hookups and many men are. I tell ya, flicking the bean daily gets old!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 11:35 PM
23

Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 01:37 AM
-31

I am white and I have dealt with lvm too. It is a systemic issue across all races I believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 12:39 AM
2

Ooo good idea!! I thought about it for that purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 03:03 AM
2

Well put. Ya he totally wouldn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 01:58 PM
2

Yes I think you’re right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 05:53 AM
1

Thank you:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 12:05 AM
0

Oh right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 09:41 PM
2

Good idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 07:07 PM
1

I added the viber app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:31 PM
3

I like that! That’s awesome!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:28 PM
2

So she was in love with a depressed fella. That’s gotta be tough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:24 PM
2

Agreed. So when should they see the real number? Like if he turns out to be a HVM? Also what about it being a major metropolitan area?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:18 PM
1

Till when?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 05:20 PM
6

Oh that’s good!! I don’t ask for nudes either because I don’t share them myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 04:06 PM
1

Oh lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:41 PM
1

Ohh. What does OLD mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:39 PM
14

How does one get the google number?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:32 PM
7

Oh? How do those apps work? So since I stopped the online dating when should a new fella and I exchange numbers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:31 PM
-6

I am missing the dutch concept. He could be independent too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 01:50 PM
-9

Wait why is going dutch bad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 01:50 PM
4

He said: Ya I am just your typical guy. I said: Be what you want to be. I am an extraordinary woman in the meantime. But I believe you will meet someone who will light up your life sexually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 01:26 PM
3

Wait you’re still with him? This guy doesn’t take care of himself let alone you. Sex once a week is not a good sign.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:52 AM
3

So what’s a good example? A fella asked me “ want to try before you buy?” In reference to a hookup obviously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:34 AM
2

Me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:19 AM
9

I am so independent so this would be so hard for me to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 12:10 AM
4

Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 12:08 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 09:45 PM
9

Thank you:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:34 PM
37

Had a guy do that, then he ended it. He called three days later to rekindle, I blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:18 PM
11

And I do believe then now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:17 PM
4

Yes drop him. Just block now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:15 PM
3

That’s what I do:). No contact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:05 PM
1

And I am pretty submissive. It’s hard to tell sometimes. I have been lovebombed too which is awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:22 PM
9

I like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:04 PM
8

Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 02:59 PM
27

I will obviously think of the most attractive man ever!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 12:26 PM
0

So I should not tell men that I want a sterile, CF man who I want to be friends and date first? I ask because I want to weed out those who aren’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 02:49 PM
2

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 02:47 PM
8

I dated a guy who was a Leo and thought he could do so. I am grateful it didn’t work out for him and I. He drove a mini van, not exactly wealthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 01:50 PM
-3

Ok?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 04:47 AM
5

I am realistic with my money because of where I came from. And I am realistic in life with a fella. Doesn’t mean I have to defend myself more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 03:03 AM
-6

Ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 03:00 AM
-27

I am financially independent so I would be going dutch.:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 10:34 PM
16

Hopefully he is still wonderful in a year from now:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 08:54 PM
0

That’s smart!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 08:18 PM
6

Agreed. If he fits into my life that’s great otherwise he can find another gal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 06:34 PM
6

Soo true. I like how you think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:37 PM
10

Ohhh. So what should I do if I make billions? So that a fella can’t take my wealth? I would rather do as I please with it:).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:36 PM
12

Didn’t they do a prenuptial?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 03:19 PM
6

So just date without going to their house for the first 3 months? Whoa mind blown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 03:11 PM
3

So how many dates before we should be going to their place?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 02:51 PM
5

What can we tell men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 04:54 AM
2

I am curious to see if I was wrong or right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 02:34 AM
17

I think he slept with the receptionist girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 12:19 AM
15

I am a nymphomaniac and I know how to handle my sex drive. I have had a man try to pull this stunt on me too, I wished him well. I too need the emotional connection first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 11:17 PM
6

He noticed immediately obviously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 12:21 PM
1

Not trying to. I read it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 12:13 PM
1

Ohhh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 12:13 PM
6

Me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 03:15 AM
4

I had the bilateral salpingectomy and because of my fear of pregnancy I still want sex with a sterile man. I mean I would rather he not wear a condom ( assuming he was medically cleared of STIs) but I have always been with non sterile men as many men don’t become sterile and many men do not get the full panel (14 I believe it is STIs). What’s your experience and what have you all learned/tips?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 11:44 PM
3

Ugh it sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 07:16 PM
7

See that wouldn’t appeal to me. I want a confident man who is not a narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 07:15 PM
7

So what if you meet the right guy. Don’t allow your emotions? And don’t tell him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 01:35 PM
13

Now I see why people don’t put the effort in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 01:26 PM
15

Dang, I have clearly never been with a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 01:25 PM
27

And this is why I don’t hookup with a fella until it’s official.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 01:24 PM
4

Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 12:31 PM
18

Why do so many surgeons cheat? Is it due to their narcissism? I would imagine quite a few are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 12:29 PM
3

I love beards that are clean! Beer not for me. Not my thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 12:18 PM
3

I have lived in a small rural town, and if I had to pick, I would take the city. Solely for dating purposes since I am Childfree and not religious and I like sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 12:02 PM
3

I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 12:00 PM
3

I like fit men too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 11:21 AM
14

Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 02:41 AM
6

Any luck for you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 12:08 AM
13

I am just going to focus on work and if dating works, great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 11:25 PM
10

I just gave up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 11:13 PM
4

Well said!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 11:39 PM
6

Huh yes that makes sense. So what are non back handed subtle compliments then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 11:04 PM
7

This one seems subtle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:28 PM
6

I just block them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:21 PM
10

Oh because the LVM would just give a sweeping general statement in hopes to get laid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:21 PM
4

I don’t get it. A HVM would not say this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:59 PM
-4

Oops I missed it, sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:01 PM
5

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:58 PM
-26

We shouldn’t generalize to ALL men. Some men yes but certainly not all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:49 PM
4

Oh I like that!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:03 AM
6

If only he had something witty to say!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:52 AM
4

Haha good response!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:46 AM
16

I will stick to hot men:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:34 AM
3

I bet many men do. So I ask for a live video with an actual ruler. Otherwise they could just send something from google images.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:46 AM
0

People call me smiley quite a bit because I just smile a lot!! I also have a very adorable symmetrical face and the kind that people want to bang. And that’s just my “resting face”. If I am trying to be sexy obviously they are turned on, but I do have to try. Usually laughter ensues too!!
/r/seduction17/12/19 01:37 PM
2

Since I also don’t know a man’s sexual history I always have them show me the medical documentation of that test.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 12:25 PM
2

I can do that:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 11:48 AM
4

Agreed!! I have noticed that. I should just go to the democratic convention! I like that idea too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 11:05 AM
5

I live in the usa:). I would call the IRS? I doubt they would give it to me. Maybe I could do a background check? Although if I did he should probably be aware of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 11:04 AM
2

I can do that. But when? I grew up in a household that was quite rigid so I have come along way but I have more to go in expressing myself:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 11:02 AM
4

I have with him. The other guy slept around my time and was way better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 11:44 PM
4

Oh dang! And he won’t compromise?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 11:43 PM
30

Wait how did you get around that? I know a guy I was with, we had different sleeping schedules, so for “us” time we met half way. But he would go to bed super late and I would go to bed earlier, and each time he would want sex of course after he was done watching a movie or something. And so my sleep was interrupted is my point. I just wondered how you did it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 02:05 PM
5

Awww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 09:09 PM
8

I would have responded we can meet at a coffee shop instead and have coffee.And that’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 10:21 AM
7

I am a small white roman brunette. I won’t lie that’s creepy. Consent has to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 03:39 AM
42

So a polyamorous relationship with two bisexual hot fellas who are sterile are probably rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 03:14 AM
10

Preach it!! My libido is off the charts!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 02:17 AM
5

Ohhh! I have now. That’s interesting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:42 AM
5

What?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:24 AM
6

True. I knew then but wanted to see if it would work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 03:55 AM
6

So what’s your advice? Should I buy a house? And not him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 03:43 AM
8

More than a year? I feel like that’s fast. I dated a guy for a year and I am grateful he didn’t ask me to marry him. We weren’t compatible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 03:42 AM
5

Oh thank you:). Yes this helps!! Damn I will have to be doing more Ménage à Moi again!! Mr right is in my life (in my dreams as the universe is making him)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 02:07 AM
5

Ohhh. I understand now. I feel like 3 months is soon to decide whether a man would be my boyfriend. I am an empath though and take my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 09:06 PM
2

Better to weed them out early by having or not having it? Don’t guys usually like to within the first three months (ideally date 1 from my experience men have wanted to).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 09:01 PM
7

Oh so true!! I dated one of those muscle men! He was ripped but boy was he dumb when it came to nutrition!! I ate meat then too but I discovered the WFPB diet by Dr. Colin T Campbell and have been working toward 100% WFPB. I don’t eat gluten, dairy, or caffeine (very very rarely), or drink. My libido is through the roof!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:20 PM
6

So should see though or have him wait it out a few more months before sex? Assuming she wants to have him wait it out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:16 PM
2

So use condoms it sounds like. All the time. For vaginal and oral? For anal again with the narcissist guy, we tried and failed. We were in college and just horny. Now I am out of college and always horny but much more cautious. I am very grateful to not have gotten pregnant or an sti (nothing against those who do).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 01:44 PM
2

And that’s what I struggle with. My boundaries are so firm. I had dated a narcissist man before and he really threw me for a loop. But I am in a much better place in my life, I am much happier, and I want to bang. The other guy I hooked up with was just a hookup. I like that you set it firm early on though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 01:41 PM
1

That’s understandable. I just would be nervous that transperitoneal migration or whatever is left of my tubes (so the ends), aren’t closed? My surgery was done over 2 years ago. Sorry I only have the links below, but it is interesting. https://amp.kansascity.com/news/business/health-care/article230397424.html https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18462619-pregnancy-following-bilateral-salpingectomy/ https://www.fertstert.org/article/S0015-0282(04)02993-0/fulltext
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 04:55 AM
4

Ohh. Even after I am with mr.right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 04:41 AM
1

Men don’t want to wait though. Yes that is my fear which is dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 02:52 AM
6

When would it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 02:51 AM
2

I agree, although condoms can be fun if he is down for it even if I was exclusive with a fella again. At the same time the only times I had sex they were creampies or close to them and they felt amazing!! Now that I am sterile my chances of pregnancy thankfully are lower. I am also Childfree so sex is a huge component for me. Once a fella gets past my logic and business side of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:41 AM
2

I agree. I have considered going to a sex club but I am not sure if people get tested first? Or if they just go? I am a woman with a very high libido but I have had sex with a handful of guys. That’s it (like 2). And some foreplay with 5 others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:35 AM
5

That sounds like my friend although I am not sure if she has had orgasms. She is not married to the last guy she had sex with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:27 AM
3

Agreed. I know I just would love to just get to it also. But I understand it’s better to wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:22 AM
2

Same here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:42 AM
1

Those men have insecurities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 03:55 AM
1

I agree:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 12:14 PM
0

I don’t drink so how should a dinner and bar tab be split?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 11:58 AM
4

Wait so women pay for men for their schooling?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 12:40 AM
2

I did yes. He is out of the picture now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 09:23 PM
2

Oh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 09:21 PM
1

Hvm? Lvm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 06:25 PM
5

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 02:09 PM
6

Yes, I have an inner child so yes it is. I was feeding myself with humor and satisfying my inner child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 02:09 PM
0

Yes. I find humor in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 02:08 PM
2

You’re welcome:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 02:08 PM
7

Probably. I am not surprised. Jokes on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 01:39 PM
4

It wasn’t much effort on my end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 01:21 PM
13

Make his name public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 10:44 AM
-14

Agreed. It’s all in moderation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 12:23 PM
1

So what’s the happy medium to know he isn’t a loser? What should one be doing to make sure everything is split? Except finances his are his and mine are mine. I have put a lot of work into my success no man can take that and run. If I marry a fella he and I are doing a prenuptial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 10:28 AM
1

Yes because I think it’s odd when they ask. They wouldn’t in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 10:02 AM
7

Awww hello:))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 01:30 AM
19

Childfree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 01:27 AM
4

I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 01:09 AM
16

Well said, yes strange is the right word. Are they usually only children?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 12:59 AM
58

I am CF so I am even more limited because men want the kids but don’t want to raise them always. So the few CF men I have met were ...interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 12:06 AM
4

Oh so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 10:40 PM
5

Sounds like the guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 10:29 PM
4

Hoodrat hookup call? How so?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 10:28 PM
8

I agree!! It does drive them nuts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 10:28 PM
3

Not yet no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 08:44 PM
5

He responds immediately. He did tell me gets bored a lot at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 08:31 PM
4

Or even continuing a conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 08:31 PM
7

Same. I am busy with three jobs, and finding a place to live for April.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 08:30 PM
4

He asks every day like frequently. Where I wonder?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 07:56 PM
5

Yes maybe he just doesn’t know what else to say? Or is it a control thing to see if I am seeing others?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 07:51 PM
3

There ya go!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 07:42 PM
2

6 months even seems soon for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:11 AM
2

I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:11 AM
3

When should the L word be dropped?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 03:20 PM
4

So it’s better to not be exclusive? If I understand right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 01:19 AM
6

No no no. But for me it is. I am someone who needs more time with a fella.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 01:18 AM
59

That’s why my ex wanted exclusivity within 3 months. What I learned from that is to make them date me longer. Before becoming exclusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 11:52 AM
50

For sex yes. But how long to wait? A year? 6 months?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 11:40 AM
60

I do too. So I turn many fellas down! I want an old school dating with a fella with a modern twist (where it doesn’t end in babies and where he and I are equally involved in the relationship).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 11:40 AM
1

Oh nice!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 04:08 PM
4

Where and how does one do these fee requests?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 03:59 PM
0

Me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 11:11 AM
6

I have zero shame:). I stick to what I like and the rest don’t make the cut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 11:14 AM
1

Those are the best!! The man I like lives so far away and we both know it so we are both friend zoning each other. Well he knows I like him. But he also knows we have our own lives. But he is going to marry me, I just know if.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 03:24 AM
1

Well said!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 03:22 AM
2

I can’t. I miss the super subtle signs sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 03:21 AM
2

Yes agreed!! I don’t tell men about my libido. I am the female version of this man you describe but with a few insecurities. And yes those men can be insecure too. Most of us have an insecurity. I can say my libido and stuff here because no one knows me like I don’t know anyone else on here either. That’s the beauty of reddit, we get some knowledge here and utilize it out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 04:09 PM
2

I agree:). Thank you:). This helps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 04:06 PM
2

Wait how can I tell? Men will talk about sex immediately if I say anything remote towards it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 02:57 PM
5

But so many men are generic ya know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 02:56 PM
2

Oh I agree! Even my blood type is rare!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 02:56 PM
7

I just want a minimalistic honest man who has zero kids, wants zero kids, is sterile, wears a condom, is tested, drug free (not my cup of tea) and eats a whole foods plant based diet and has a wickedly high sex drive also (believe it or not many men don’t have a high sex drive), and knows the stock market better than me. I know it’s a lot to ask for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 02:09 PM
1

-*not yo but to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:31 PM
1

I just wouldn’t close the relationship up, I would be transparent:). I understand:). Oh I understand!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 07:30 PM
1

Or I keep it open and honest. That way there is nothing to hide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 07:11 PM
1

That’s so interesting!! I like it! Thank you:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 07:05 PM
1

I understand yes that’s so true! I have a good process in place. So men obviously want sex, I do too. But I want the commitment first. So when is a good time to get sexual after the sti screening?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 09:31 AM
1

Haha. So what is your advice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 09:22 AM
2

I mean if I could with Brad Pitt or Ryan Reynolds (both are rich enough other people can take care of their kids because I wouldn’t) I would!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 08:58 AM
11

And this is the 5000th reason to be CF, winnifred please tell the good people of reddit this! Share this for new generations to come since we CF don’t have a choice anyway in others decisions. And when the messiah comes, he too will rejoice in the CF!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 12:16 AM
2

So the fwb is that the same fella who one would hook up with? Or would one be with a fella they want to be serious with and have a fwb on the side?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 12:12 AM
3

I am sorry you had to deal with that fella. I like your one hour date idea. So do they know it’s only an hr too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 10:00 AM
6

I do morning or lunch dates first! Works well actually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 09:51 AM
2

How come just an hr?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 09:48 AM
5

I think they do they’re just more polished and polite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 09:46 AM
1

Just keep being genuine:)). If I had met you, my goal would be to build the connection too.
/r/seduction14/10/19 11:56 AM
4

Well when they can date women without kids O understand why men don’t want the hassle of kids
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/19 06:03 PM
0

Actually he came early and we did multiple positions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/19 10:50 AM
1

I have only hooked up with one guy for sex and he wasn’t very good at it.( dated other fellas just didn’t have sex with them) And men still view me as an easy lay too ( or they try just for sex). I want a life partner to NOT have babies with. So if it makes you feel better, those men didn’t have your best interests! And when I mention condoms and an expensive full-panel STI test, that usually slows a guy down. I care about my health and don’t want a man who doesn’t believe in that test ( it is p…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/19 08:30 PM
1

If you like her you go at her pace. She might have had bad dates before or is new to dating. Go at it from an old-fashioned way and she might just be impressed.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 01:02 AM
1

It’s rough being CF. Sooo many men want kids.
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