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It depends on the type of therapy. Couple therapy is a waste of time. Cognitive behavioral therapy on the other hand is something every man should learn. If they can't learn it on their own, then seeking the help of a therapist who specializes in this helps for sure. Cognitive behavioral therapy helps faggots challenge their circular thoughts that sabotage them and make them constantly think and worry like a faggot.
/r/askMRP21/04/20 02:44 PM
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The question you should ask yourself is do you feel the need to be in another relationship? If the answer is yes, then ask yourself why? If the answer is no, then ask yourself why you're asking these other questions about what condition you should be in. Personally I think you need to start there. I think you still have some blue pilled programming underneath there. Accept the mistakes you made in the past and don't allow them to define you anymore. If I was in your shoes, the last thing I'd be …
/r/askMRP20/04/20 01:54 PM
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For long term relationships - okay. For short term sex partners - no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:38 PM
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You might have less shit tests by dating down but you'll definitely increase your comfort tests. This can be just as exhausting if you don't solve the problem by building a huge frame.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 08:42 PM
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Red must have gotten an extra dose of anal today because his reply is not as brutal as expected.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/20 05:33 PM
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Dude, don't piss on my leg and tell me it's raining. You're complaining and whining like a bitch. Own it.
/r/askMRP03/04/20 04:18 PM
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There is nothing spineless about asking questions. Agreed - but when you bitch and whine about how others respond, that's being a pussy.
/r/askMRP02/04/20 05:18 PM
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You sound like a millennial. Back in the 80's we were always told to stop being a pussy. Look what happened when adults stopped telling kids to grow a spine.
/r/askMRP02/04/20 01:13 PM
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Though I’m having a new issue because she likes to use the excuse that her pussy is sore and raw from fucking and that’s why she would rather me cum down her throat. If anyone has a solution to that I’m all ears Waiting for /u/red-sfpplus to recommend anal.
/r/askMRP01/04/20 01:49 PM
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Maybe you're right. 2 askmrp posts in less than 2 weeks.
/r/askMRP01/04/20 01:45 PM
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Exactly.
/r/askMRP27/03/20 02:44 PM
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As a woman, you're just telling us how you feel in this very moment. Like the weather you'll feel differently tomorrow.
/r/askMRP27/03/20 12:58 PM
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Your woman is like the weather. Remember that. You had clear skies. Then rain clouds came in. Now it's clear again. Eventually rain clouds will come back. Don't build your life around trusting her or thinking her current feelings about you are permanent. You didn't say how old she was. Is she approaching 30?
/r/askMRP27/03/20 12:56 PM
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I got banned once while throwing stones at Stone, but I deserved it. I didn't like Rian at first, but after watching his videos for a while, I started appreciating his ability to encapsulate MRP topics.
/r/askMRP24/03/20 03:54 PM
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First tip - ask all questions on askmrp, not marriedRedPill.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/20 12:15 PM
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Anyone getting upset or feeling the need to moralize OP's post is missing an important message.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 07:44 PM
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She can wish on one hand and crap on the other and see which one fills up first.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/20 01:13 PM
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Just blame the man and claim victim-hood. The patriarchy is the root of all evil.
/r/askMRP13/03/20 09:30 PM
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OP's wife is a textbook response for a woman who's experiencing the dissonance of the two mutually exclusive narratives that the Sisterhood shoves down their throat... the Disneyland fairy tale and "You can have it all'. What you're describing sounds like the female version of red pill, except they lack the awareness and ability to acknowledge their circumstances.
/r/askMRP13/03/20 09:08 PM
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This isn't a woman who wants an open relationship because she's been complaining too long about the lack of intimacy with you. She's complaining because she feels like she missed out in her early years. This says 2 things. 1. She isn't too excited to be with you. 2. In the back of her mind she feels like she can do better. If what I said wasn't true, then she wouldn't want to jeopardize what she has with you. My advice: End it and then focus on improving yourself. If you stay the path ahead of y…
/r/askMRP13/03/20 01:15 PM
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Either she's an insecure drama queen who's doing this for no reason at all, or you've failed many comfort tests and they're turning into shitty comfort tests. If it's the second scenario, AM and A&A will turn a comfort test or a shitty comfort test into an even shittier comfort test. You haven't really given us enough information. Were you / are you on the phone a lot when you're with her? That's an annoying habit to be around even if your a guy. I think there's more to this one situation you've…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 01:50 PM
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I really like this analogy.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 05:20 PM
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64 motherfucking years old and you are worrying about ONEITIS in a fucking woman you have been fucking for half a century? I read somewhere that women in their 50's and 60's cheat more than women under 50.OP is either worried about these statistics, or he plans to take advantage of the male to female ratio in that age group. Think about it - a good looking fit guy in his 60's-70's tapping all that granny ass available. OP - forget about your wife and go get those GILFS!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 05:10 PM
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I always down vote him because he's obsessed with anal.
/r/askMRP26/02/20 08:31 PM
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This. Moreover, their feeling over a man is binary. It's either yes/no on/off. They either like the guy or not and they don't calculate all the attributes that cause them to come to that conclusion.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 04:42 PM
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If she was't being used, then she'd be too busy using.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/20 01:21 PM
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She probably has every strain of HPV imaginable...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/20 10:53 PM
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Baby Boomer using Reddit lol.
/r/askMRP10/02/20 10:24 PM
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You keep bringing up muslim like this makes her different than any other unicorn woman out there. Muslim women are just as hypergamous as any woman. Just look at his Chris Hanson "To Catch a Cheater" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dG23rPIyy6Y. The muslim woman in this video is just as much of a whore as any other western woman and blames the guy for working 16 hours per day while she sits at home whoring around. So what does getting married in terms of Sharia even mean? Are you living in a west…
/r/askMRP10/02/20 04:49 PM
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If you're in the US don't move to one of the States on this list https://gucciardofamilylaw.com/michigan-law-common-law-marriage-mythbusting/ Luckily many States abolished common law including the one I live in.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/20 12:43 AM
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I think the mods make it confusing on purpose as a right of passage. This way if you're really serious you'll put in the work to figure everything out on your own with no hand holding. This was my experience getting to know this place. Found askMRP. Kept seeing "read the side bar". Looked for a side bar and saw shit. Read the askMRP Rules. Looked at the askMRP description and saw no mention of marriedRedPill or side bar. Watched some other newbie ask the same question as OP in the comments secti…
/r/askMRP07/02/20 05:25 PM
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That's what they said about the Californian Liberals when they first started coming to Texas.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 08:19 PM
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Red Pill Autist Rule # 7 "Every beta action must be countered by an alpha action and vice versa."
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 06:39 PM
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If you want to give her foot rubs, then give her fucking foot rubs. If you want to buy her something, then fucking do it. But don't be autistic about it and keep a check list of credits and debits like your balancing a fucking check book. This is not maintaining frame or becoming your own center point of origin. It's dancing monkey. You're overthinking it and that's why everyone here cringed once they realized you weren't a troll. Red Pill is like riding a bike. You have to learn to stop paying …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 05:16 PM
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The wife called me in hysteria over being yelled at by the Coworker and being made like it was her own fault for being bitten. Fair enough. I own that mistake. But don't discount my other advice. Acting like a dancing monkey will get you nowhere. You're entirely in her frame and you know it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 04:57 PM
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So your wife saw you get hysterical and act like a bitch when another co-worker started yelling at you? Corrected by OP Then you bought her flowers, chocolates and gave her some foot rubs? Then you posted a video of you squatting 4 plates for reps. Then when you got home you paraded around in your whitey tighties, where you proceeded to lift her up several times and then scratch her deeply while giving her foot rubs as you "animaled" it up a little? Did I understand this correctly? You fucked up…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 04:48 PM
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Jesus, this laptop situation could be OP's golden ticket. My bet is he won't pursue it.
/r/askMRP02/02/20 01:28 PM
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You are the first of many cocks that will be inside that girl. Congrats!
/r/askTRP01/02/20 04:35 PM
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Like a dog she'll find a new master and forget that you even existed. So don't worry about hurting her feelings. That's temporary. If the roles were reversed (and she thought she could do better) she'd drop you in a heart beat and then rewrite history.
/r/askMRP01/02/20 03:50 PM
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She's looking for a man like you to scoop the poop.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/20 11:21 PM
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Someone to be her pooper scooper. You know someone to clean up after her 5 dogs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/20 11:20 PM
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As a man don't you want to take care of her and her 3 toddlers? This is what real men do. lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/20 11:15 PM
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And Robert Downey Jr.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/20 11:09 PM
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Awfully hard to be chasing cock when you have there babies at home. Wife: Hey honey. Some friends are coming over today for a play date. Just Judy, Karen and Charles who's a stay home dad. I wouldn't worry about him, he's just like one of the girls. Husband: Sure sweaty that sounds fine. Wife: Here's a movie for you kids to watch. Uncle Charles and I need to go upstairs to check out the running toilet. We'll be back down in about 20 minutes...
/r/askMRP30/01/20 09:03 PM
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What the hell is happening? This is the 2nd time in this thread I'm nodding my head at red-sfpplus and agreeing. I guess red-sfpplus isn't such a bad guy after all when he's not talking about anal...
/r/askMRP30/01/20 08:54 PM
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2 things can be true at once. Everything you said, and yes - I'm angry that I was fed a lie my entire life. The question is what I'm going to do about it? What changes do I need to make to stop feeling like a weak pussy? These are my next steps in OYS. Because being angry at nature isn't going to accomplish shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/20 01:30 PM
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Blown away. Painful to read but all true.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 11:24 PM
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He got banned from MRP. Then deleted it. That's about all I know. I remember seeing another user with the flair "formerly DTC" but I'm not sure if that was a joke.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 10:51 PM
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She doesn't have a problem. You're right. I'm the one with the problem. She's just following her programming. All she ever wanted was the version of what I am today. Someone who not only takes care of himself, but doesn't turn her down when she wants sex or affection. It sucks that it took a traumatic experience for me to wake up do what I should have been doing all along. AWALT has fucked me up. I grew up so fucking blue pilled. I grew up believing men were shit and women were so virtuous. My m…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 10:46 PM
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I know. It's no way to live. It's my hamster taking over.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 03:09 PM
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So what are your goals? At the end of the day, my goal is to learn to balance my life, and eliminate my hamster and the anxiety it causes. I've had a running hamster my entire life, but in the past I used it as motivation for career success. So getting rid of it is a scary thought. What do I replace it with? Last year that hamster switched over to my wife after what happened. At first I felt that if I became more beta then it would fix everything. Then I discovered MRP and like seeing a turtle b…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 03:05 PM
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How did you learn to short circuit the hamster? The paradox I have is I know I need to do this, but I attribute a lot of my past success to a running hamster. Does this make sense?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 02:19 PM
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But where you lack is you don't know how to change your own mental models to constructively work in this new world. God damn you guys in MRP are wizards. I think everything you said is right on. What you said here has struck a nerve in a good way. I'm a software architect and developer so I relate a lot with what you said, but I see it in a new way thanks to you. I now see MRP as a framework just like in Software. It's a set of API's we need to work with and adapt our data models to. The sidebar…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 07:48 PM
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I have OCD issues. I never realized this or cared to admit it until now. I need to address this and find out where this is coming from. MRP is valuable to me, just as much as lifting, diet and improving my appearance. But if these things are all I think about 24/7 it's not healthy. Your question is a really good one, and I'm going to use it as my starting point for my next OYS. I appreciate it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 05:10 PM
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I hear you. The problem I'm having is I'm thinking about this so much that I feel it's preventing me from progressing. Like that scene in the Road Trip movie where the Grandfather says to the kid, "you know what your problem is? You're all brains. Not enough cock and balls". I want to stop thinking about this constantly and just do it. The fact I'm unable to put things into action means there's a disconnect I have with the side bar material. I'm better off reviewing this again, then coming here …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 05:00 PM
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No I didn't mean it like that. What I meant is MRP / Red Pill has become an obsession of mine to the point it's all I think about. As another poster said I've failed to internalize or adopt any of the MRP concepts. I can read this sub reddit all I want, but unless I put this into practice in real life I'm wasting my time and everyone else's. I don't know, maybe I'm thinking about this the wrong way, but I need to find a way to put this into practice. For me, anything else is a distraction until …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 04:54 PM
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"then will 'huff' whilst saying 'im red pill as fuck, im right'" Is the guy you speak of named Alex J Anderson?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 03:56 PM
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OYS # 9: Age: 46, Married 20 years, been together 26 years, 2 Teenage daughters Weight: 202.0 lbs, Height: 5’11, neck 16.5 inches, waist (at naval) 34 inches. Started working out 11.5 months ago. Bench Press - 235 lbs x 8 Overhead Press - 150 lbs x 8 Bent Over Row - 190 lbs x 10 Deadlift - 315 lbs x 8 Back Squat - 275 lbs x 10 Lifting: Lifts stayed the same this week. Didn’t try and increase weight or reps. Sidebar: The Rational Male Volumes 1-3. NMMNG, Married Man Sex Life Primer, Practical Fem…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 02:07 PM
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The "purge" idea is hilarious This is TRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/20 07:00 PM
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Dude.. your post history is sad. Hope you’re doing well. My post history is very sad. I would even go as far as pathetic. However this doesn't cancel out the lessons I learned over the past 12 months. The consequences of my blue pilled faggot life during a 20 year marriage. I used to agree with you about apologizing. Now I believe in resetting. Always reset when you fuck up. Apologies give comfort at your expense. Action gives comfort with respect. If OP keeps doing this, shame on him. It means …
/r/askTRP27/01/20 06:33 PM
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If I punch my grandmother I would definitely apologize, because it’s not the same thing. WTF is this? PurplePillDebate? Straw man. Never apologize to a woman. If you ever find the urge to apologize, you stop yourself. At best you tell her “I don’t like the way I acted the other day - this isn’t me, and it won’t happen again”. THEN MOVE ON LIKE IT DIDN’T HAPPEN AND RESET. Actions speak louder than words when it comes to women. Apologies are for simps who think magic words will fix everything. Lea…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:20 PM
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Call her and apologize or something if it bothers you so much. Jesus. OP don't listen to this guy. I can't believe this got upvoted 28 times. I can't take some of the responses here in TRP. I'm sticking with MRP.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 02:42 PM
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Action wise I think you did everything perfectly. You let you know your time is valuable and won't be wasted on bull shit. She will either correct her behavior because you stood up for yourself, or she'll continue shit testing you until you had it with her. Either case it good for you. I do find it humorous she felt comfortable enough to do this so early. The 2 of you aren't even in an LTR. She must be used to guys letting her get away with this. Good job, and don't feel bad about it. Your time …
/r/askTRP27/01/20 02:38 PM
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I think he said $200k. That's $1,000 x 200. Or $500 x 400. If he got paid in $20 bills he would have 10,000 bills. I don't think he can fit all that in his pocket, but at any rate I think he did say $200,000...
/r/askMRP26/01/20 11:20 PM
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Or making her lick peanut butter off your penis like rover does when nobody is home. Wait, that's supposed to be a secret....
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/20 09:36 PM
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If she's constantly complaining, it's a symptom of something else. Most likely you're not leading, not making the decisions and leaving those responsibilities to her. You hit the nail right on the head.
/r/askMRP24/01/20 04:42 PM
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Let's switch the same logic onto them... If a woman is 4'11 she can still marry a guy who is 6 ft tall, but if a guy is 5 feet tall he can only have an incel life or hooker. Such the rottenness of our hypergamous system and marriage culture where a man is considered a product whose market value is determined by his masculinity.
/r/MGTOW24/01/20 04:22 PM
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As I read your OYS it's making me realize what a blue pill faggot I still am. I'm the conflict averse guy that u/RStonePT talks about in his recent reply at https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/ersfcn/thanks_mrpaskmrp_you_fixed_a_man_and_a_marriage/ff6exm1?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x. The only difference between me and the OP of the linked thread is I didn't write a post congratulating myself about my own self denial. Instead I do this each week in OYS. I hope you stick to your guns. Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/20 04:08 PM
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I have one word. Profound. And this is an understatement. OP read this reply everyday. I know I will...
/r/askMRP21/01/20 05:28 PM
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OYS # 8: Age: 46, Married 20 years, been together 26 years, 2 Teenage daughters Weight: 201.0 lbs, Height: 5’11, neck 16.5 inches, waist (at naval) 34 inches. Started working out 11.5 months ago. Bench Press - 235 lbs x 8 Overhead Press - 150 lbs x 8 Bent Over Row - 190 lbs x 10 Deadlift - 315 lbs x 8 Back Squat - 275 lbs x 10 Lifting: Back squat went up 10 lbs and Overhead Press went up 5 lbs. I’m just going to keep doing what I’m doing. Sidebar: The Rational Male Volumes 1-3. NMMNG, Married Ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 03:26 PM
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I wouldn't apologize to her, but I would address the situation by saying "remember when I told you to fuck off the other day? Well I thought about it and it bothered me because that's not me - and I'm not going to let that happen again". Right now I wouldn't blame her if she was thinking "do I really want to be with someone who treats me like this the rest of my life?"
/r/askMRP20/01/20 03:49 PM
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Her text didn't even warrant a "fuck off" response. Why would you even say that? Dude this was a comfort test. If you keep failing too many of these you're going to get cheated on or dumped. Not by Chad, but by Beta Billy who starts making her feel warm and respected inside when he tells her how special she is, and she doesn't deserve such treatment from you. Ask me how I know. I used to pull these bitch moves too thinking she was shit testing me and trying to control me. Next time don't be such…
/r/askMRP20/01/20 02:42 PM
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I agree logically, but I don't think the hamster always concludes things logically. Back in 2015 my neighbor came over panicking because he told me his credit card information was released as part of the Ashley Madison hack. He said he never did anything, but signed up and paid for credits out of curiosity. I told him to just wait and see what happens and then deal with the outcome. He ended up telling his wife about the entire ordeal. 6 months later the world forgot about it. She never would ha…
/r/askMRP19/01/20 11:01 PM
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Lumberg fucked her This alone encapsulates OP's entire post brilliantly. This should be OP's flair lol.
/r/askMRP19/01/20 09:19 PM
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"So my question is, why if the moment was bad, that she had no pleasure, would she contact him again to fuck ?" She had sex without a condom because she was hot for him and her internal programming wanted his seed in order to procreate. He was great at sex because she contacted him the next day and even told her friends she wanted to see him again. She's now bad mouthing him because he used her and didn't give a shit about her. Now at the end of the day she probably values him even more because …
/r/askMRP19/01/20 05:28 PM
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Those aren't 1 rep maxes homo. Read the x 8 after each weight. Also, note I even highlight based on estimates. Yet here you are saying the obvious.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/20 01:22 AM
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Every time you say “fitchick” I cringe. Nothing screams onenitis then having a little nickname for the little lady.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/20 08:19 PM
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"my wife dropped the bomb on me tonight that she wants to have sex outside of marriage, because she no longer feels safe with me, because she believes I raped her way back when." This doesn't add up. She's basically saying "you traumatized me once when we were having sex, now it's making me want to have sex with someone else"? If she's not already banging someone, then she's got someone lined up and she's pulling shit out of her ass as an excuse to have sex with him without being labeled a cheat…
/r/askMRP17/01/20 01:46 PM
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Only the dual sexual strategy women have can explain this behavior. That's what OP doesn't understand and it makes me cringe. When a wife tells you that she doesn't like muscular men (or you're getting too big) it's a comfort issue and insecurity for her in that specific moment in time. That moment will pass soon enough when she's ovulating and/or in the presence of a much more masculine/muscular man than OP. Her programming will take over at that point and there's nothing OP can do because he's…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/20 02:05 PM
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I agree with you guys 100%. The app calculates my max squat around 360 lbs. No way I could do that without buckling or tearing my groin.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 08:53 PM
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"Moved into a very nice new house with my new ROCKSTAR partner who is a real person (yes, they do exist)." I think it's great RP is helping you in your divorce. However for me this statement just doesn't seem right. Most women are on their best behavior in the beginning. You won't see your rockstar's true colors until she is no longer new. And you moved in with her? I don't know man. That just seems to go against everything you should have learned while you were here...
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 08:35 PM
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OYS # 7: Age: 46, Married 20 years, been together 26 years, 2 Teenage daughters Weight: 201.0 lbs, Height: 5’11, neck 16.5 inches, waist (at naval) 34 inches. Started working out 11 months ago. Bench Press - 235 lbs x 8 Overhead Press - 145 lbs x 8 Bent Over Row - 190 lbs x 10 Deadlift - 315 lbs x 8 Back Squat - 265 lbs x 10 Lifting: Lifts keep improving. Based on my estimated lifts I’m now in the 1000 lbs club, but I don't know how accurate the app is.. A few of my lifts just made advanced leve…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 05:31 PM
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I cringe when I read OP's original post and updates because it reminds me a lot of myself not so long ago. Watching OP is like watching a turtle begin crossing a highway. We all know whats going to eventually happen. Vanilla sex, 5 blow jobs in 12 years, believing her when she says she doesn't like muscular men even through she goes to the gym 6 days per week, he makes less money than her and she complains about it. She's gonna take him to the Bone Zone. That's the only thing that's going to wak…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 03:27 PM
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Thanks for the suggestion. I'll check it out the book.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 10:16 PM
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Coming from a faggot (me) who got permanently banned in askMRP, a 123 day ban is a gift...
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 10:07 PM
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Makes me laugh how so many people talk of frame, which is essentially composure, and then lose their shit the second someone wants some genuine advice. I thought the same thing when I originally started coming here. That was until I realized MRP is just one giant shit test. The moment you learn to ignore these tests is when you start to understand the message and make progress. Ignore the noise - consume the hidden messages. If you fail a shit test in MRP (like OP did), you're gonna fail a shit …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 10:04 PM
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My wife HATES guys that lift. We make fun of guys like that all the time. Her and I are both in great shape. I didn’t come here to get advice about how to get my life in order or how to get in shape. I don’t need that and my wife would divorce me if I started lifting and got buff. All you bastards in MRP have been steering me wrong this entire time. Everyone telling me to go by my wife's actions and not her words. Everyone telling me to lift and gain muscle over the past 11 months. Don't you get…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 09:51 PM
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I see a pattern happening on marriedRedPill. OP asks question here instead of askMRP. A lot of guys (even veterans) waste their time answering OP. Post gets deleted by moderator. When are you guys going to learn? Edit (1-15-2020): Alex J Anderson marked his original inquiry as solved. Apparently all it took was 4 slaps on the ass to fix his vanilla sex marriage and bring spice back into his relationship. Alex J Anderson is like an onion. You have to peel the layers of ego and self denial to get …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 05:40 PM
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This belongs in askTRP. You're gonna get your ass ripped apart here...
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 08:02 PM
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I think 3 things can be true at the same time. You can always maintain your frame, follow your mission, and be your own mental point of origin. You can fail miserably at comfort tests to the point it becomes a problem. You can keep a little mental check list in the back of your mind to make sure #2 doesn’t occur while you’re implementing #1. This is my take on OP's post.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 03:32 PM
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OYS # 6: Age: 46, Married 20 years, been together 26 years, 2 Teenage daughters Weight: 200.0 lbs, Height: 5’11, neck 16.5 inches, waist (at naval) 34 inches. Started working out 11 months ago. Bench Press - 230 lbs x 8 Incline Bench Press - 190 lbs x 8 Overhead Press - 140 lbs x 8 Bent Over Row - 185 lbs x 10 Deadlift - 305 lbs x 8 Pull Ups - 25 lbs weighted x 10 Dips - 90 lbs weighted x 10 Back Squat - 265 lbs x 10 Lifting: Overall this is progressing better than I expected. I’m using the symm…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/20 03:44 PM
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I know you guys are right.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/20 07:05 PM
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There's a place for that, it's called OYS. You hit the nail on the head about everything. Especially this.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/20 07:02 PM
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I'll take this rehashing of BP alpha topic over the constant onslaught of BP beta whiney shit any day. OP brings up an interesting POV and something you touched on in your comment here. Blue Pilled Alphas are shit at comfort, and it's true they DNGAF. That is until they experience a traumatic experience (such as being cheated on because their wives are tired of being ignored) that causes them to reevaluate their entire framework. In these cases the BP Alpha will either write her off and divorce …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/20 03:48 PM
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Everything you said is correct. I never saw it this way. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/20 06:17 AM
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OP - I think you bring up something that's not mentioned a lot on MRP. Can you elaborate what you define as a blue pill alpha? Would the following be accurate? 1.) Successful with career and chases his own ambitions and passions with confidence. 2.) Physically attractive and is in shape. 3.) Puts women on a pedestal thinking they are more virtuous than men. 4.) Will often put career and self interests ahead of wife and family; failing comfort tests; while believing convert contracts and wedding …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/20 04:07 AM
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Have sex with her once a week, and then on all the other days have your wife peg you. Getting a pounding from behind by your wife will soothe the inner faggot in you...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/20 03:04 PM
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There's no revelations or truth bombs here and it's futile trying to reason with the bluepillers. Gotcha. Only personal trauma or a significant experience that rocks the blue pill foundation of how one see's the world will change the blue pilled man. However I do find it interesting they take the time to debate. I think they find some truths to it, however they don't want to accept it yet. That's the bargaining phase of the RP Stages...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:38 PM
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You'd be amazed how many married women I've seen "cheat down". When you're in a dead sexless marriage to an overweight lazy ass who let himself go and then sits on the couch watching sports all night, attention from another man is very powerful. Even if that other guy is short and average looking. This happens a lot, and in these cases the cheating wives are just feeling the dopamine hit they've been missing for over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 07:10 PM
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This actually needs to be discussed?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 06:45 PM
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Let go of the defensiveness and ego brother. We're not here to bicker like women.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 01:46 PM
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Let go of the defensiveness and ego brother. We're not here to bicker like women.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 01:46 PM
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Exactly. I work in an office mostly with women. None of these women act the same way with me alone compared to when they're around their husbands or boyfriends. Rakosnik always remember this...
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 01:51 PM
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none of my exes went on a bersek cock search after we broke up. i guess its also about what kind you choose in the first place. You're still blue pill if you really believe this. The fact is you will never know one way or the other.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 10:02 PM
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OYS # 5: Age: 46, Married 20 years, been together 26 years, 2 Teenage daughters Weight: 198.0 lbs, Height: 5’11, neck 16.5 inches, waist (at naval) 34 inches. Started working out 10 months ago. Bench Press - 225 lbs x 8 Incline Bench Press - 185 lbs x 8 Overhead Press - 135 lbs x 8 Bent Over Row - 175 lbs x 8 Deadlift - 285 lbs x 10 Pull Ups - 25 lbs weighted x 10 Dips - 90 lbs weighted x 10 Back Squat - 235 lbs x 10 Lifting: Squat and Deadlift numbers keep going up each week. I’m now averaging …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/19 02:02 PM
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Social anxiety/self-doubt is just narcissism’s whiny, faggoty cousin. Nobody is looking at you as much as you are. Everybody is preoccupied with their own stupid bullshit and inner monologue. This is it in a nutshell. Sadly I lived my entire life this way. Time to break old habits.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/19 01:29 PM
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OYS # 4: Age: 46, Married 20 years, been together 26 years, 2 Teenage daughters Weight: 196.5 lbs, Height: 5’11, neck 16.5 inches, waist (at naval) 33.5 inches. Bench Press - 225 lbs x 8 Incline Bench Press - 185 lbs x 8 Overhead Press - 135 lbs x 8 Bent Over Row - 175 lbs x 8 Deadlift - 285 lbs x 10 Pull Ups - 25 lbs weighted x 10 Dips - 90 lbs weighted x 10 Back Squat - 235 lbs x 10 Lifting: I was sick last week with a virus, but I was still able to increase my deadlift by 10 lbs and squat by …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 01:24 PM
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I think there is some good advice here for guys who think too far to the left, however some guys might take this advice given here and take it too far to the right. I once saw a guy on MRP who thought he was following his mission to the point that he refused to even call or text his wife while he was on a business trip for 2 weeks. For 20 years I was a guy who did whatever the fuck he wanted. At the end of the day, do whatever the fuck you want, but make sure you always show her some comfort alo…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/19 02:34 PM
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He got really nervous that I called him out on it and started DEERING. I just kept it short and to the point by telling him this won't happen again.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:57 PM
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This happened to me once. I ended up casually bringing it up when we went out for a beer. I told the guy "I heard you asked my wife to go out and do this with you. You are friends with me - you are not friends with my wife. Do we have an understanding?". Some would call this mate guarding. I call this firmly letting another guy know he crossed a boundary.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 10:28 PM
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As far as I can tell the younger Gen Z kids (who are in grade school or middle school today) are less fucked than the Millennials. I agree with this 100%. Many Gen-Xers are cynical as hell and we instilled this into our kids. I'm also seeing Gen-Zers wanting to be more independent than Millennials were early on. For example, my daughter got her drivers permit at 15 and is now driving, and can't wait to get her first job. Compare this to her Millenial cousins who refused to drive until their earl…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 03:06 PM
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The self loathing and toxic shame run very deep. Taking these thoughts out at the gym is currently my only way of addressing the self loathing. At the root of my self-loathing is a deep sense of inadequacy. Thinking about my lifting goals and the progress I make helps. For the rest of the time I'm becoming accustomed to dealing and feeling the uncomfortable feelings head on...
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 10:47 PM
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OYS # 3: Age: 46, Married 20 years, been together 26 years, 2 Teenage daughters Weight: 196.0 lbs, Height: 5’11, neck 16.5 inches, waist (at naval) 33.5 inches. Bench Press - 225 lbs x 8 Incline Bench Press - 185 lbs x 8 Overhead Press - 135 lbs x 8 Bent Over Row - 175 lbs x 8 Deadlift - 275 lbs x 10 Pull Ups - 25 lbs weighted x 10 Dips - 90 lbs weighted x 10 Back Squat - 225 lbs x 10 Lifting: Increased my bench press by another 5 lbs, but that’s about it. I”m going to hold my position on lifts …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 02:07 PM
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As stupid as it sounds, amused mastery seems to work for almost any case. Just simply repeating what the other guy says in a mocking way no matter what they say or how many times they say it sort of puts them in the light that you don't take them seriously. Other guy: You're ugly. Me: You're ugly. Other guy: You're a loser. Me: You're a loser. I did this once and found the other guy just got more and more frustrated until he said "loser" and then walked away. That's when I said "you're a loser" …
/r/askTRP03/12/19 01:13 AM
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Thanks for your feedback. You're seeing some things I either haven't figured out myself yet on my own, or it took me up until now to realize them. But can't figure out why you continue to beat yourself up every chance you get in this subreddit and others. I guess for so many years I used ego to cover up my self-loathing. Now that I stripped it away I'm feeling everything raw head on. I know it looks like self depravation (it is). A part of me feels like a fraud if I come on here and tell everyon…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/19 02:39 PM
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Sometimes it's because she believes she cannot do better (hypergamy at work). However this is only based on current circumstances. She only sticks around because a better opportunity hasn't presented itself yet (hypergamy). Once presented, she'll have no problem using the cheating to rationalize her leaving (hypergamy - in this case I don't blame her).
/r/askTRP29/11/19 01:52 PM
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I think the 5 stages of grief as a consecutive series of single steps is a myth. I took the pill beginning of this year after discovering my wife of 20 years tried to cheat on me. I went from denial to anger to depression and back over and over again. Being angry at others is normal in the beginning. It's like trying to bend the spoon in the matrix. But what you need to realize some day is that there is no spoon. In other words the criteria you're using to judge women is blue pill and doesn't ac…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 06:57 PM
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The cause of proper dread is being or becoming a man that radiates attractiveness. Thank you for this. You're an inhibited beta whose self loathing translated into fear of rejection. Unlearn it, slowly. Especially thank you for this...
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/19 05:24 PM
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Obviously I'd want neither, but at least in America I have the choice to leave a woman and go my own way. In Japan not so much. You bring shame to your company, fail and get fired you are fucked for the rest of your life. Think sharing 50/50 is bad when you have a break up? Try 0 once you're an outcast in Japan...
/r/MGTOW26/11/19 07:02 PM
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I lived in Japan and worked for a Japanese company for many years. Instead of servitude to women they traded it for servitude to the company. These guys work 16 hour days easily and have no other lives than work. On a positive note they get to spend a lot of time drinking sake and beer getting drunk with their co-workers so they can self-medicate themselves from the stress and anxiety they feel from working so hard. Live happily? lol I'd take a woman over that...
/r/MGTOW26/11/19 06:36 PM
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OYS # 2: Age: 46, Married 20 years, been together 26 years, 2 Teenage daughters Weight: 195.0 lbs, Height: 5’11, neck 16.5 inches, waist (at naval) 33.5 inches. (15% bf according to navy method but don't believe it's accurate). Bench Press - 220 lbs x 8 Incline Bench Press - 185 lbs x 8 Overhead Press - 135 lbs x 8 Bent Over Row - 175 lbs x 8 Deadlift - 275 lbs x 10 Pull Ups - 25 lbs weighted x 10 Dips - 90 lbs weighted x 10 Back Squat - 225 lbs x 10 Lifting: I increased my back squat by 10 lbs …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/19 04:34 PM
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Underrated comment here.
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 04:39 PM
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What are you talking about? There's many men out there who will fuck for fuck's sake. I'm not saying all, but enough.
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 04:37 PM
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That guy posted it as satire. He's cracking up at all the people who took it seriously.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 08:23 PM
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Underrated comment.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 03:18 PM
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If a girl is really into you she's going to be thinking about you all the time. She is going to text you a lot. What you can't do is keep texting her back 1-1 ratio. What's worse is texting her more than once when she hasn't even responded. This is what's bad. If she's not texting you - and all texting stops because you stopped texting - then she wasn't that into you. If this happens to anyone here - keep working on yourself and raising your SMV. Because women who have feelz and tingles don't ju…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 03:15 PM
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But ultimately I want to be able to let my ego receive the full blast of the real world, without any support. This right here. Thank you sir.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/19 09:16 PM
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Good read. I was an unattractive fuck. I still haven't swallowed the pill. Otherwise my initial response wouldn't be "nobody deserves to be cheated on". I'm still thinking about shit like women should have integrity. I keep thinking that by accepting this nature we're giving them an excuse for bad behavior. I have a lot of work to do on this. I can wish all I want but I'm only fooling myself if I think there can be another way...
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/19 03:12 PM
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OYS # 1: Age: 46 Married 20 years, been together 26 years 2 Teenage daughters Weight: 193.5 lbs Height: 5’11 BF: Navy Method: 15% (but who the fuck knows my neck is 16.5 and my waist is 33.5). Bench Press - 215 lbs x 8 Incline Bench Press - 180 lbs x 8 Overhead Press - 135 lbs x 8 Bent Over Row - 175 lbs x 8 Deadlift - 275 lbs x 8 Pull Ups - 25 lbs weighted x 10 Dips - 90 lbs weighted x 10 Back Squat - 215 lbs x 10 Lifting: I was sacrificing form for weight and suffered 2 injuries a few months a…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/19 06:06 PM
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I think this reply is onto something. Fail too many comfort tests and attention from another guy (even a beta) becomes powerful.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 07:03 PM
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Your time, attention and sex yes. Gifts and vacations not so much. That's beta bux and doesn't create desire. In fact can do the opposite. Other women chasing you and giving you attention also keeps her hamster on you.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 07:00 PM
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You're right if the girl is completely unhappy and unsatisfied with the guy she's with she'll definitely want to experience better. Ovulation is a multiplier.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 09:37 PM
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Right. From 14-18 I slept and ate like crap (hardly ate sometimes). I always wonder if I could have pushed the height up passed 6ft.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 05:55 PM
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I was 5'9 when I was 15. I stopped growing at age 19 and ended up at 5'11.5 It depends on genetics. You grow in your sleep so make sure to get at least 8 hours and eat well. You can also look into HGH treatment through a doctor. My nephew (who has an identical twin) did this and ended up 3 inches taller than his brother (who didn't).
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 05:25 PM
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I get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 09:24 PM
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Rian - First - I apologize for the low blow about your videos. That won’t happen again. You’re bringing awareness to RP and I was a fool for discounting that. I respect what you are doing. Second - If moderators don’t want victim pukes, then they should change the guideline to reflect that. Otherwise they shouldn’t give first timers shit about it. It’s either acceptable or its not. There’s a lot of shit in MRP, and I highly doubt my shit topped the usual. OP’s post here is a good example of true…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 08:23 PM
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I "literally" attacked him? Damn if you consider that an attack I'd hate to see how you handle life in the real world. I've never seen the kettle call the pot black as much as I've seen here at MRP. Coming to MRP to work on my ego is like going to a bar to work on a drinking problem. The room is filled with others who have the same problem and some of them are not willing to admit it. Have fun writing about anal and rape fantasies. I'll stick to the side bar and books.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 12:00 AM
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My new flair should be "Neutered by Ego" since I got permanently banned from askMRP today.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/19 09:52 PM
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Part 2 is going to be about, yep you guessed it: Pegging https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pegging_(sexual_practice)
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/19 09:23 PM
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If you see no value in this then that's your opinion. Fair enough. However you believe you're in a place where you feel you can decide that for others. That's not a good thing.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 07:21 PM
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I feel the same way about your videos. But to each their own. That's the difference between you and I Stone.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 07:18 PM
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I didn't assume anything Stone.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 07:11 PM
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You're absolutely right. I'm still focusing on what she might do. I keep looking at my life and how it can be affected by possible actions of others. I'm never going to be able to control that. However I can learn to control myself and my own perceptions.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 06:41 PM
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A wife whose been deprived of desire for years and suddenly gets flooded with hormones is the same thing. They are addicts for that feeling. They will do anything for it. There’s not an ounce of logic that will penetrate their psyche. This is the part I wanted to believe so badly over the past 9 months. I wanted a guarantee that if I fixed myself then I'd never have to worry about it again. However there are no guarantees in life. I know now that she's 100% capable of cheating under the right ci…
/r/askMRP11/11/19 06:20 PM
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It wasn't for me. Sometimes you need to find a way to draw a line in the sand and tell yourself enough is enough. For me this was my way. But I get it. I added to the noise at MRP.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 05:20 PM
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What makes you safe is your ability to acknowledge and assess the reality of a situation, so that you can work to address the real problem as opposed to the phantoms your ego conjures up as an excuse. Everything you said here is true. The post 3 days ago was my ego. Even then I was trying to mask pain. Jesus you guys see right through it all.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 04:36 PM
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Understood. Thanks.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 04:27 PM
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I will never be 100% sure but she pursued a former coworker for 2 weeks after he left and attempted to meet him in person. When you buy see through panties in a sexless marriage it's pretty much a good sign it's going to get physical if it already hasn't. Intent is all that mattered to me. Edit: She also became obsessed with the guy and even drove by his house. On some days it was 5-10 times. It was pretty scary and it took a lot for me to process the situation. I wasn't dealing with just an aff…
/r/askMRP11/11/19 04:27 PM
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Thanks for this. Much appreciated.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 04:24 PM
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I think I misunderstood what victim pukes were. I've seen guys in the past post about their journey on askMRP. No way I would post on main marriedRedPill. Moderators please delete this post if it's inappropriate. I won't do it again.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 04:16 PM
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I agree.
/r/MGTOW11/11/19 04:03 PM
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I get it. First OYS coming tomorrow. This is a victim puke.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 03:52 PM
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You're woman isn't the problem. You are. Stop lying to yourself and everyone else and own your Fear of being hurt. Allow yourself to feel the vulnerability. It's the only way forward. Damn. I'm not OP, but this could have been written for me. I'm in the same boat as this guy except the pregnancy. I'm going to read this over and over because it hit home big time. Thank you.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 01:50 PM
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Got it. I knew something had to be off. Except for the pregnancy I'm in a similar spot as this guy. Ego. Swallowing and spitting/choking the red pill. Anger. I'm just going to shut up and read the comments because I need this ass kicking as much as he does.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 01:45 PM
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Many guys here are coming from a place where they've given complete power to their spouses over the years. So they're starting from the point where their SO's have the power in the relationship and they have to get it back. And so they're told to STFU, lift and read side bar. I think this is the reason why it's been 2 days and you've gotten absolutely no response. Your situation is different. I find it most interesting because it was the exact situation I was in when I made my transformation aft…
/r/askMRP10/11/19 11:39 PM
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I recommend you read a book from the side bar called Practical Female Phycology. You need to understand women’s “reactionary” arousal mechanism. It’s not just visual and physical like men. Men have 17 times more testosterone than women even when they ovulate. I can assure you we want the physical aspect of sex more than women do. You are mistaking the final outcome of sex as the primary motivation factor for women having it. Why do you thinking women read romance novels instead of porn? Especial…
/r/MGTOW09/11/19 06:20 PM
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I would say men are less attention driven than women. To women attention is crack. Sex provides a pathway to the crack.
/r/MGTOW08/11/19 07:01 PM
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While on the pill she never ovulates, so she'll always be looking for comfort above all else. Whereas off the pill she's going to be eye balling masculine men when she ovulates. The fact she comes for you during that time is a good sign. Studies (not related to link) show that women with less attractive and masculine men are more irritable with their partners when they ovulate. However it's the opposite when their partner is masculine. https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/03/study-wom…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 06:55 PM
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I come across the black pill videos called WAW (see https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFnJMPQow7A) recently. The interesting thing is most of the authors of these videos will not show their face.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 08:30 PM
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lol thanks.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 08:20 PM
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Curious to know how you earned the flair "Cucked by machines"? I tried reading your post history but couldn't find anything.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 06:57 PM
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Is the ED related to any medical issue? For instance high blood pressure or low T? In my case it was phycological after I found out about my wife's "emotional" affair earlier this year. Going anywhere near my wife made me limp as a worm, like my brain was telling my body to stay away from her.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 03:19 PM
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Any study regarding newly weds is bullshit for the simple reason that many women are on the pill early on in the relationship. The pill prevents a woman from ovulating. What happens when the newly wed wife goes off the pill to start a family? Ovulation begins and the wife begins to feel desires and emotions she hasn't felt in years. Desires for more dominant and muscular men. The poor beta pukes who actually believe this article...
/r/TheRedPill06/11/19 12:36 AM
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more adventures on the horizon More 3 hour drives next time your girl wants a donut? Dude the way you handled this is no way to live. Too much emotional energy wasted on your part.
/r/askMRP05/11/19 05:43 PM
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Women check out guys just as much as guys check out other women. They just hide it better than men because they have better peripheral vision. Your unicorn should get her peripheral vision checked if you're noticing this... Edit: In my own situation and experience I've found the only way to stop her from doing this is to lift and create dread. If she's too busy noticing other guys right in front of you (and she keeps looking) it means she's very comfortable with you. Too comfortable.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 06:17 PM
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She doesn't want to desexualize him. The truth of the matter is she wants a strong and dominant alpha who is marriage material. But since she can't find that, she settles for Beta-Billy who's just good enough. Over the years Beta-Billy becomes more of a pussy. He gets a fat gut and he starts sitting in the passenger seat in the car while she drives when the family goes out to dinner. And when the wife asks him where he wants to go he replies "I don't know, where do you want to go?" Meanwhile the…
/r/askMRP03/11/19 10:12 PM
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OP reread what you wrote and pretend it was written by someone else. This story goes from low carb diet to buying donuts to fighting with your girl to driving around for 2 hours to turning your phone off so she can't track you. Take red pill - blue pill - it doesn't matter. What you wrote is nuts.
/r/askMRP03/11/19 06:40 PM
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It means vows won't stop a woman's mind from rationalizing why she deserves to give into her temptations. She will always find a reason. You didn't give her attention. You were distant. You didn't do [fill in the blank]. So don't rely on vows to keep her from cheating. Rely on your ability to be the best version of yourself so she won't want to.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/19 07:36 PM
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What the hell is going on lately with guys thinking /marriedredpill is /askMRP?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/19 07:12 PM
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What a load of bullshit. Science is what enabled the internet, which enabled Reddit, which enables you to shit post about how “bluepilled” it is Figuring out how to send requests and responses between 2 computers is absolute. You're comparing this to "Social" sciences? Christ, osirise even adds the quotes around "social" to make that distinction to audists such as yourself...
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/19 06:18 PM
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She's never had what? You can't go based on what she's told you. She's been asexual and lacking any interest in sex. This is stage 1. When she reaches 40 and beyond you are fucked.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/19 08:19 PM
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Feeling asexual is stage 1 of 4 for most women who end up cheating in a marriage. http://womensinfidelity.com/female-stages-of-infidelity/
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/19 08:11 PM
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Right on.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 07:58 PM
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Personally I have no problem with gay people at all. One of our close lifetime friends of our family is gay. When I say faggot I'm strictly using it in the context of MRP sidebar definition.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:45 PM
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I think you're missing something important here, because you're arguing something we all agree with. 2 things can be true at once: 1.) You should never have to worry about what a girl will do whether you're there or not. If you have to start doing this, you shouldn't be with her. 2.) Many women look to the guy they're with to handle situations like this. They do this because they want a big and strong man to stand up for them. They will have no problem dealing with the situation themselves, howe…
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:24 PM
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Not necessarily. Many insecure women will still look to you to handle the situation for them. And when you don't, you might end up looking like a weak faggot. Take care of the situation like it means nothing to you, and then take them home and fuck her. Saying "she's with me buddy, get outta here" is a better strategy to have sex at the end of the night than standing there like a faggot saying nothing.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 04:00 PM
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I understand that mate guarding is bad, and having to do it is weak. That said, many of the answers here are over simplifications. It's important to note that there are 2 types of women in this situation. Type A is a high self esteem woman who has no problem speaking for themselves. Type B are low self esteem women who won't speak up for themselves, and they are depending on their man to be a man and step up and handle the situation for them. If you have a Type B woman and you stand there speech…
/r/askTRP01/11/19 01:29 PM
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10lbs?! 10 measly pounds and you think if she loses that then magically you’ll be happy and she’ll be happy and you’ll never need to post on MRP again? 10 lbs is a lot relative to a 129 pound manlet. The problem is if she lost 10 lbs and got hot she'd probably find a real man who's taller and weighs at least 175. Jesus OP weighs the same or less than most women his age in really good shape. Let's hope he never has to go to prison. They'd treat him real fine...
/r/askMRP01/11/19 12:57 PM
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A cuck is a man who is raising another man's child. A cuck is putting in effort to make sure another man's DNA succeeds over their own. A daughter is your own child and contains your dna. A daughter will pass on that dna to their own children, carrying on your legacy regardless of gender. If you do not understand this then you are a retard or an audist.
/r/MGTOW31/10/19 06:23 PM
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Geez, not only did he ask this question, but he asked it in the sacred marriedredpill proper instead of askMRP? Lots to learn my friend...
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/19 12:32 PM
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You'll no longer sit at a 4 person booth at restaurants. You'll have to wait for a 5 top.
/r/askMRP30/10/19 01:48 PM
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Gotcah. Hysterical bonding is when your SO cheats on you and it causes the 2 of you to have sex like rabbits.
/r/askMRP29/10/19 03:04 PM
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Can you explain why why you included "hysterical bonding" in the title?
/r/askMRP29/10/19 12:59 PM
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Nah just see a pattern on reddit.
/r/askMRP29/10/19 12:53 PM
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I think it's a trap. Going to a strip club is a gateway to other things. Next thing you know she wants a FFM. Next thing you know she wants to see what it's like to go to a swingers club. Not to do anything of course, but just because she's "curious". Next thing you know she wants to swing. Next thing you know she wants an MMF. Next thing you know she wants you to set up a 30 guy bareback gang bang. Next thing you know she wants to have you wear a ball gag and sit in the corner wearing a lock de…
/r/askMRP29/10/19 12:11 AM
5

OP is all over the place. Did a woman write this?
/r/askMRP25/10/19 02:24 PM
13

For some reason when I read this I pictured OP as Kip in the Napoleon Dynamite movie. Specifically the scene when Kip starts dressing like a black guy and tells Napoleon he's taking La-Fon-Duh out for some prime rib. Calling her out on unimportant shit is just flexing your muscles kinda like Kip does. It isn't authentic. Also, no sex is already the default outcome, so deciding there would be no sex was pointless. I imagine Kip saying to La-Fon-Duh "there will be no sex tonight"...
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 09:56 PM
1

Ah gotcha. I thought this was to a girl who you already met and seen.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 09:30 PM
6

Dude a guy with the mindset of abundance doesn't take time to text a chic for her pic just so he can have a face to a contact. She see's that. I'm surprised you don't.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 09:08 PM
6

me: "send me a pic to use for your contact" Ask yourself, would Chad do this?
/r/askTRP15/10/19 08:45 PM
13

Does anyone know how much he was making? It sounded like they were struggling to find places they could even afford. San Fran is expensive. You can make a lot of money in California but because it's so damn expensive for everything you're no better off than some guy making $150,000 in the midwest. In Cali: - Earn 1 million a year. - Buy a shack for median price of 1.7 million or more per year. - Pay around 14% State Income Taxes. - Pay 7.25% sales tax on everything. - Pay more for services and e…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 11:47 AM
1

Dude you're muddying up the discussion here like women do in an argument. I never said lifting heavy wasn't worth my time. I swear some of you guys on MRP just like to make shit up. So let's stay on task here. A shit load of guys can be 15% BF and still not be able to squat 1.5 times their body weight. That's what this discussion is about. Are you now clear on this?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 06:05 PM
9

Sometimes MRP feels like walking into a Cub Scout meeting where there's a fat kid appointed as the new Cub Master and he's taking his job too seriously.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 05:08 PM
2

Carrera and CaptJohnLuckDiscard read the comments you just posted here and notice you both sound like women. What you both are doing here is what ladies do.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 12:43 PM
3

Apparently barrel wasted boy with body dysphoria cares too. Don't kid yourself. You're no more special or better than most men here.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 12:35 PM
1

Then lift for your own reasons. Who said otherwise. If you want to lift for strength, then lift for strength. If you want to lift for looks, then do so. That's exactly my point. Too many guys (including OP) think it's all about strength. What a bunch of autists.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 12:31 PM
2

Who the fuck cares. 51 inch shoulder span to 32 waist ratio is really good for a guy in his 40's. Man guys and their ego. Enjoy the pissing contest.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 12:28 PM
2

Jesus. You are like a chick. Crab in the bucket.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 12:28 PM
31

The following is the only scenario that makes sense: 1.) Your wife stopped being attracted to you. 2.) This loss of attraction was most likely due to an encounter with another man she found more attractive than you. This encounter is probably innocent, but she found herself thinking about him. This caused her to question her relationship with you. 3.) The reason this other man was more attractive than you is because of one or more of the following: a.) He's better looking. b.) He's more fit c.) …
/r/askMRP09/10/19 06:44 PM
-1

Yea I ain't denying that. A lot of guys come on here and think it's all about how much you can lift. You can lift all you want, but women are always going to find men who have the golden ratio of 1.618 between shoulder and waist with a V shape to be most desirable.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 05:55 PM
1

Look at the video of the guy at 6:08. He has visible abs and decent muscular definition. Not great but not terrible. He's at 16.9%. Yea he looks around 16.9%. No argument there.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 05:30 PM
0

Easily triggered? lol Just because you say it doesn't mean it's so. Point is I see a shit load of guys who you claim to be in the minority. It's actually more common than you think. Edit: This post belongs in askMRP at best. Not here.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 05:26 PM
-1

"But if you are at 1.5x BW or less for your squat / deadlift and claim to be under 15% BF, that's bullshit 95% of the time. The other 5% are just weak AF." My squat is shit compared to all my other lifts. Easily under 1.5x BW. Yet I'm 6 ft tall, 182 and my waistline measured at naval is 32 inches. My shoulders are 51 inches. This get's me very close to the golden ratio. I have abs. Yet I see a lot of guys at the gym with my situation. I call bullshit on your post.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 05:09 PM
3

The post-wall faced LTR will only be a distraction to your improvement plan. Think long term. Ask yourself if the person you want to become, the person you visualize yourself being 12-24 months from now would even consider being with this skank who wants to be used by a married man so willingly. Your current wife might not be giving you sex now, but she might be willing to give sex to the version of you 12 months down the road. Are you willing to put that in jeopardy and screw your future self?
/r/askMRP09/10/19 02:01 PM
1

This is a really good post. I think the only way to stay in such a situation without losing your mind is to do what you've done. In your head you demoted her, and there's no being promoted back once something like this happens. You've given me something to think about in my situation.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 01:40 PM
13

"In all likelihood these internet randoms are just fat office chair Rambos with no experience with your situation." 182 lbs @ 12% BF here who went through a similar experience. I went through this 8 months ago. Wanted to stay for the kids. Looking in the mirror each day and seeing a man who stays with a cheater will eat you up inside. Don't stay for the kids. It was her choice that destroyed your family - not yours. Don't be a beta chump and take it up the ass. Life ain't all sunshine and rainbo…
/r/askMRP08/10/19 09:18 PM
2

Who's your daddy and what does he do?
/r/askMRP08/10/19 06:46 PM
2

lol he's got some flair. I almost spit out my protein drink when I read it.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 06:45 PM
13

Ha this reminds me of the good ol'e days of February-March 2019 shortly after I found out my wife wasn't a unicorn who could do no wrong brought down from the heavens. Eventually you're going to hopefully get past this and understand that nature and evolution are responsible for women's behavior and tendencies. Think about it as a woman in history. If an outside tribe comes in and conquers your own tribe, are you going to sit and mourn your beloved husband? Or are you going to survive and find t…
/r/askMRP08/10/19 06:38 PM
6

This is the heart of the matter and one that took me a long time to resolve. At the end of the day trying to fuck is equal to fucking.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 06:25 PM
13

"We are on day 4 or 4 here, so yea. It is the same nagging feeling" Trust me it doesn't go away. Not day 4, not day 200. "Trade he in for a smaller, tighter, younger better looking model" Don't think of it as a trade in. Think of it as a lease or rental that you can end at anytime.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 05:56 PM
24

Same boat as you. Found out 8 months ago she was obsessed with another guy and tried to hook up with him. I tried to work it out but the trust will never return. Her sexual interest also increased to the point we're having sex everyday (sometimes twice a day). I told her last week I wanted a divorce. She is trying to get me back by seducing me constantly, despite the fact I'm moving forward. I still have sex with her, but in my mind she's not my wife anymore. She's just a plate. Do what you got …
/r/askMRP08/10/19 05:22 PM
4

Every time I see your flair it makes me chuckle. BTW the Mods should tag OP with "Daddy" flair.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 04:46 PM
7

You have to take every point of view from everyone with a grain of salt. I agree with a lot of what Rollo says except a few things. For example, I don't think it's good advice when he says you have to break up with your wife in your head. I don't believe forming a detachment style to cope with the fact your wife may leave or cheat on you is the answer. The answer is being ok with it and moving on to something better if/when it happens.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 02:24 PM
3

I'm glad you posted it. Thanks.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 12:42 PM
1

Good lord you bought a home with someone you're not even married to? You poor poor man. Control your own finances. If you can't afford it, then you can't afford it. At this point just say those words to her and then lead the conversation to a place where if she wants it badly enough, she needs to pay for it. If it's something you both want then 50/50. Do this now or what's yours is going to be "ours" and you're not even married.
/r/askMRP07/10/19 04:43 PM
1

This is the stuff I see on MGTOW. lol Summary: Women become cheaters when their SO and relationship become meh.
/r/askMRP05/10/19 04:50 PM
5

She's 18 times more likely to be an alpha widow compared to a virgin. Get rid of her and hold out until you find your virgin unicorn.
/r/askMRP04/10/19 06:21 PM
1

Yea they actually had a top 40 hit last year.
/r/askMRP04/10/19 06:18 PM
2

So now you're going to take her back? If you stay married you go back to a joint financial situation. That means she just costed you 10k because she didn't have her shit together and you're allowing it.
/r/askMRP04/10/19 04:24 PM
2

You must be the Chad that motivates OP to fuck his wife before the concert. lol
/r/askMRP04/10/19 01:02 PM
3

My ego wants to come up with a post like this so it can pleasure itself.
/r/askMRP04/10/19 12:29 PM
5

Pretty much this. Most guys think it's only alpha Chad they have to worry about. That's a concern for guys who have low SMV and failing shit tests. For guys that are failing too many comfort tests, who don't show attention, and pursue their mission at the expense of neglecting their unicorn, then they need to worry about beta bob (as hack3ge points out). You can fuck a girl all day long, you can focus on your mission, you can have high SMV, however if some other guy shows any characteristics tha…
/r/askMRP04/10/19 12:16 PM
3

I agree my friend.
/r/askMRP03/10/19 10:17 PM
28

I don't think he had a question. I think he just wanted to tell everyone he keeps his wife pumped and filled with cum so she doesn't fuck some random dude at the Back Street Boys concert.
/r/askMRP03/10/19 10:06 PM
18

"That aside, I also don't think she will cheat because I actually fuck her good." Famous last words...
/r/askMRP03/10/19 10:00 PM
1

So you're just going to say "Hey welcome back. Glad you can stay!"? I think what she did is just as bad as an emotional affair. You can't trust her. The fact she's asking you to get her out of her lease makes me think she absolutely has no respect for you. It's all a game to her and you're playing along.
/r/askMRP03/10/19 08:28 PM
6

Stay away from the "cuckold" category on Pornhub. It might give her some ideas...
/r/askMRP03/10/19 06:40 PM
9

Women are just drugs for your brain, and the Red-Pill is the rehabilitation. This statement is profound. In one sentence you simplified what my new world view needs to be.
/r/MGTOW02/10/19 09:02 PM
1

Most millennial men are already confident. Ha ha ha ha ha! Are you being serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 08:12 PM
-1

Many men in their upper 30's and 40's are more attractive than they were in their 20's. Several reasons. They lift to keep themselves in great shape (compared to when they were thin early on). They make more money (consistent with your original point). More importantly, many are 100 times more confident in themselves than they were in their 20's. Especially if they suffered trauma of being cheated on by their 10-15 year relationship, they know what they want in life and they put themselves first…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 03:32 PM
1

Curious to know, would your decision differ whether or not it was just emotional (not physical)?
/r/askMRP01/10/19 09:28 PM
1

If I'm drunk enough I would have sex with 50% of all women. So you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 09:26 PM
1

So are you going to stay? I really hope you don't. You're going to kick yourself later if you do. I felt similar to you when I found out about my wife's affair. She's higher SMV than me. However she tried to kiss my butt from day 1 and I still left. No price for my self respect. Good luck man.
/r/askMRP01/10/19 09:20 PM
1

She's freaking out because at the end of the day the fear of loss is much greater than the desire to gain. Women who cheat don't think they will get caught in the moment, so the fear of loss is less than the dire to gain in this case. However, now that you gave her the ultimatum, the fear of loss is imminent and is now greater than the desire to gain. If you back out of this ultimatum, you lose everything. In addition, if you stay with her, then her chemical high of losing you will fade and you …
/r/askMRP01/10/19 01:03 PM
3

So how are you focusing on your work and study if you keep checking her pictures and missing her dearly? It's like you bluffed yourself and lost.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 06:35 PM
1

Nothing worse than making monthly payments for a couch your ex-wife is using for tinder dates.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 03:40 PM
130

This 100%. Also in her mind she's rationalized why she deserves this. Just remember, the fear of loss is much greater than the desire to gain. At the time the desire to gain was greater than her fear of losing you because women who cheat think they won't get caught in the moment. However the fear of loss becomes much greater now that she did get caught. She may no longer have the chemical high with the other guy. Her chemical high is now focused on the fact she lost you. That will go away, so do…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 03:19 PM
-1

Nah I have to disagree with most of the posters here. She doesn't like anal. In fact she hates it, but she did it for you because she wanted to make you happy. Now she see's something that makes her miserable is becoming a regular thing. And now we're trying to decipher if her response is a shit test or a comfort test? What a bunch of faggots. Yea sure, so go ahead and keep pushing something that is painful and she hates. That sure as hell will up her desire for you.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 01:08 PM
2

This is an unfortunate situation but the only thing you can do is use that insecurity feeling that's driving your gut. Use it to drive your lifts instead. Take every little bit of anger, hurt and rage you got from the situation and use it as fuel. Yes you shouldn't be feeling this right now if you were a better man. However that doesn't happen overnight. So in the meantime you might as well take advantage of these feelings and use them to help you progress.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 12:42 PM
3

You have a lot to learn my friend. Although the world is absolute, black and white for you - it's not the case for everyone else. The world is relative. Meaning a version of you who has reached maximum potential physically from lifting is more attractive to women than the version of you who didn't. You don't have to have model tier looks to score with high value women.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 06:01 PM
8

Go to the gym and focus on lifting. You might not be blessed with hunter eyes and a strong jawline, but you can develop a physique that girls will have a similar reaction to, All the insecurity and depression, allow it to piss you off and use it as fuel at the gym. You get nothing out of feeling bad about the current situation. You need to visualize what you want to look like in the future and become excited about that instead of feeling sorry for yourself now.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:53 PM
4

My problem was that I jumped the gun too soon. I should have kept an eye on it and waited and allowed her obsession to play out. When I saw she was checking this guys FB account (and his wife's) every hour and driving by his house 5-10 times per day on GPS I confronted her on it. She trickled truth lied for 2 more weeks until I got the entire story. At the end of the day, I found enough evidence that a little attention from this dude caused her to go into stalker mode and she either fucked him o…
/r/askMRP27/09/19 03:35 PM
6

Thanks man. When this happened to me 7 months ago I was ill equipped to handle it (was before RP). Definitely not where you're at now. Good luck...
/r/askMRP27/09/19 03:00 PM
5

She ran across a dude so hot earlier in the day that her vibrator wasn't enough and she needed a real dick - though didn't have the time to get a real dick - and yours was nearby. My thoughts exactly here. My wife hit me up on the night she first crossed the line with her co-worker on his last day at the job. It just so happened to be the day she was ovulating also. I also turned her down because I wasn't feeling good, and she reacted the same way. If this is the case, then OP has a problem. She…
/r/askMRP27/09/19 12:22 PM
7

I think you're still spitting up and experiencing the bitter taste of the pill. It still bothers you that your unicorn (and women in general) notice other men and are affected by their attention. You're stuck between the blue pill world where you were taught that women were better than us. You were taught that they were more loyal than us men. You were taught that women don't lust after other men. This bothers you because at the heart of all this is fear that you are not good enough. You're worr…
/r/askMRP26/09/19 07:10 PM
11

She's obviously attracted to him and thinks of him; even fantasizes about him as well. Get rid of the idea that she would never cheat on you. I thought the same things about my unicorn. Trust me, she would under the right conditions. You and I are very similar. The hamster runs strong in us. The only good thing about an overrun hamster is the fuel it can provide at the gym. For now use that until you get it together. Don't say anything to her, but keep an eye on it. I caught my unicorn the same …
/r/askMRP26/09/19 05:05 PM
1

Fair enough. I thought you might have been a troll and I wasn't in on the joke because these fellas were being unusually friendly. lol
/r/askMRP25/09/19 12:59 PM
1

He deleted his post lol.
/r/askMRP24/09/19 09:25 PM
2

Hypergamy is not only about status. It's an instinctual desire of females to discard or cuckold a current mate when the opportunity arises to latch onto another mate based on one or more of the following: Money. Hotness Confidence The way he makes her feel. Game Attention When OP speaks says "She treats me like a king and the sex is pretty good, I just dont know if I can keep her around knowing I can do better looks wise. I do feel I would be trading some things she has going for her in return f…
/r/askMRP24/09/19 09:18 PM
1

He's been too busy in Colorado tapping those 6.5's.
/r/askMRP24/09/19 08:57 PM
1

Male version of hypergamy. That's you OP.
/r/askMRP24/09/19 08:53 PM
1

We're just roommates. It wasn't about him. It was the attention I wasn't getting from you. I didn't think you loved me.
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 08:12 PM
1

A majority of RP feels empowering. Swallowing and choking on the pill at first was exhausting to me. Perhaps you still might be processing it. I still am. Hypergamy was the most difficult part to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 06:32 PM
3

I have a feeling OP is on the autistic spectrum and taking all these comments seriously. On the other hand, I can't tell if this guy is a troll or not. Maybe I'm the autist.
/r/askMRP23/09/19 09:26 PM
1

WTF. Once a year.
/r/askMRP23/09/19 01:48 PM
6

Yea 1/2 acre. Include edging and blowing it can sometimes take longer. 3 guys come with 2 zero turn mowers and a blower and get it done in 15 minutes. Worth every penny.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 07:32 PM
15

I love being worth $75 - $100 per hour at my job and being able to pay another man $30 to save me 2 hours per week cutting my lawn.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 06:32 PM
1

I just recovered from a similar injury you describe. Keep working out, but eliminate all exercises that trigger the pain. Once I did this, it took about 8 weeks before I noticed I no longer felt pain in everyday life. Once you no longer feel pain in everyday life, wait another 2 weeks and then start the following: 1.) Narrow grip pull ups with maximum weight assist. Each time move the weight one level higher. 2.) Reverse curls with extremely light weight. I'm about 3 weeks into performing #1 and…
/r/askTRP19/09/19 05:26 PM
1

Dude you are autistic if how I use that bothers you.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 05:03 PM
1

"You eventually understand that the power that took control of your wife is the same exact power you have with other women." Not at all. I'm not sure why you say that. It definitely is to my advantage as I state above.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 04:36 PM
1

I get it and agree. I think we are talking the same points just the other way around. If you are a low value man women will break their own boundaries for another man because of AWALT. To reduce this possibility you become as high value as possible. By not doing so, you are creating an environment where AWALT is more likely to happen.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 04:08 PM
1

Count 14 days after she begins her period. That's the magic day in my experience.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 03:54 PM
1

No books I can recommend. I do like Athol. One day it all just clicked. To me abundance doesn't have to be exciting or interesting. Abundance can exist whether you take advantage of it or not. What's harmful is the opposite of abundance, which is scarcity. This is when you're not living life for you and you're doing it for the validation of others, especially women. The worst thing in the world is to feel you NEED a woman and you require her in order to be happy in life. Women are too emotional …
/r/askMRP19/09/19 03:51 PM
2

Yes, however AWALT is more likely to happen if you're a blue pill faggot who lives his life depending on covert contracts instead of increasing his own value.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 03:45 PM
4

Yes. It was a hard lesson for me to learn. It was difficult for me to understand at first that both things can be true.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 02:16 PM
2

It's only a zero sum game if your eggs are all in one basket (marriage). Otherwise once your value is high enough you are now a product that is sought after. Women only want the top 25-20% of men. They settle for the rest. When you have unlimited chances to score it's no longer a zero sum game. In other words, abundance.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 02:12 PM
3

Your statement is irrelevant because it assumes I'm not doing it. Smart guys plan in order to minimize risk. Idiots jump off the cliff hoping for the best.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 02:07 PM
5

Yes
/r/askMRP19/09/19 02:05 PM
1

Thanks for your answer man. I was in the same boat as you. Never had fear of being alone, but fear of not being able to find someone as good as her. Fear of seeing her with someone else. Oneitis. Ego. Last week was our 20th anniversary and something switched in me. I no longer feel I need her. I know longer feel I need any woman. What happened between us was a circumstances of AWALT, and I should have known better she wasn't a unicorn. However sometimes the aftermath of AWALT is not worth the tr…
/r/askMRP18/09/19 02:58 PM
2

Sincere question because I read some of your past. Why didn't you next your wife overnight?
/r/askMRP18/09/19 12:57 PM
5

Either way funny as shit. I picture the Homer Simpson meme where he walks in through the revolving door and then immediately walks right back out when he sees another man with more substance.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 08:19 PM
2

I remembered it wrong. I thought the guy said he'd leave the city if he wasn't the tallest fittest guy in it.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 07:45 PM
1

My go plan is the same as my stay plan. So technically no. As I work through my RP training I'm finding the inevitability of leaving her easier. The life I now imagine without her is better than the one I have with her.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 04:34 PM
1

Gosh - I think I found someone who's a bigger pussy than me. "I saw a hot girl in the grocery store once. I could have tried to hit on her but I didn't. I'm so authentic!"
/r/askMRP17/09/19 03:40 PM
13

For women it's safe. They can pull this shit and get their joy from the attention. Then deny it even happened if you say something - making you look like the bad guy.
/r/askMRP16/09/19 06:34 PM
3

OP take it from someone who pulled the trigger too soon listen to lololasaurus You have a tough road ahead of you. It's been 7 months for me and I'm wishing I would have waited and verified before saying anything. Women will gas light, rationalize and straight out lie about something so obvious. In my case: Oh you bought new see through panties? Easy answer - I wanted to feel sexy. Oh you were going to tell me about the crush before I confronted you? But you were driving by his house 5-10 times …
/r/askMRP16/09/19 06:23 PM
3

I agree. STFU is for new guys who fail too many shit tests and start RP from the standpoint of being a weak beta who lost respect in their wife's eyes. If these guys suddenly started getting comfort tests and handled it by STFU they'd have an entire new set of problems. STFU is not the right approach when handling a comfort test. In fact it can make it worse because in comfort tests / shitty comfort tests.
/r/askMRP13/09/19 08:33 PM
2

Yea your formulae is more accurate. Women are attention whores.
/r/askMRP13/09/19 08:25 PM
3

Not saying she's going to cheat, but it doesn't take much of a Chad to take over her biology if she's not content with you. It sounds like you've failed a lot of comfort tests like I did. Now you're getting shitty comfort tests. I did the same thing as you, I took comfort tests as shit tests. You don't need to fall into her frame in order to reverse the damage. Edit: By the way it's not about doing the dishes and chores like the other guys are telling you.
/r/askMRP13/09/19 07:35 PM
14

It's a trap. Expect her to be asking if Chad can join in a few months...
/r/askMRP13/09/19 06:59 PM
10

This is exactly what happened to me 7 months ago. Came home exhausted - even warned her months in advance life was going to be challenging and difficult for me. She was saying the exact same things to me. Next thing I know I find out she's obsessed with some old fart beta orbiter who was giving her compliments and saying nice things to her. Watch out. She might be planning on having him over to your house and fucking him on the couch while you and the kids are gone. That's what my unicorn was up…
/r/askMRP13/09/19 06:55 PM
1

Replace the following statements below with STFU. That's where you went wrong. You turned a comfort test into a shitty comfort test by not shutting your mouth. I used to be the expert at doing this. "i promise to change and be better..." "because we were all over each other and were new with one another " Give her physical affection instead.
/r/askMRP09/09/19 07:47 PM
14

I'm waiting for a follow up post titled "My wife had sex with Chad at Back Street Boys Concert".
/r/askMRP08/09/19 03:33 PM
3

No way I would take care of someone for 2 years who wants out. You're letting her waste 2 years of your life. Don't wait.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 07:31 PM
2

Yea I had to fill out this love language shit when my wife and I saw a couples therapist 6 months ago. That was before I discovered RP. I think my love language at the time was words of affirmation. lol
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 07:05 PM
2

Every day I force myself to talk to anyone and everyone I come across. In the past I'd avoid any encounter I could. Listening to a lot of audio books on small talk, etc. and using what I like. I can carry on a conversation past 5 minutes now. Sadly this was something I could never do before...
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 06:52 PM
4

The 5 love languages gives her the tingles. That's all you need to know to get her wet. Edit: Sarcasm
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 06:11 PM
3

I make $175,000 per year, have reached the golden ratio in regards to waist to shoulder ratio, and 11% body fat. I'm mostly proficient in all my lifts. I get tons of IOI, vertical scans, eye contact and smiles from pretty women just by walking passed them in public. However do you want to know why I'm still a faggot? Because I'm battling social anxiety. Women can smell this as soon as I start opening my mouth. So what you're not taking into account is one component or attribute can subtract your…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 04:43 PM
3

If you're thinking of it that way, then you're still thinking of her as a someone who processes things the same way as a man. The physical aspect is separate from the emotional aspect of her complaining. Is it her weight or her complaining, or both that makes you avoid her by not climbing into bed? If it's the complaining then you haven't started seeing the code in the matrix yet. That moment when you realize you can stop bullets in mid-air. Trust me, I didn't have to deal with any weight proble…
/r/askMRP02/09/19 04:01 PM
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Dude you are in for a world of hurt if you keep this up with her. I did the exact same thing as you. For years we'd put the kids to bed, I'd go down to watch tv and fall asleep until 2am and she'd go into our room and fall asleep alone. I'd also do the same faggot behavior of telling her she should just tell me what she wants. Fast forward 10 years and you're going to end up like me, and it's going to happen like this: Wifey is going to continue to complain and you're going to continue telling h…
/r/askMRP01/09/19 11:19 AM
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You should be embarrassed for posting this faggot routine. This has got to be a troll posting this.
/r/askMRP16/08/19 07:10 PM
1

lol RPeed is right. I see so many personal trainers with guts having their clients perform all this functional training shit. After 2 years they don't look any different.
/r/askMRP16/08/19 07:09 PM
1

ngRoad_518 I'm getting these exact same shitty comfort tests on the exact same topic and struggled how to handle them. On one hand I don't want to reward shitty behavior, on the other hand - I don't want to provide too much comfort to the point she starts acting moody again and and starts treating me like shit. My wife seems to be addicted to drama, and even has told me one time she finds me more attractive when I'm angry with her. What makes things worse is I'm still angry with her for becoming…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/19 07:25 PM
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Probably because she isn't ovulating. So she want's the warm and soft beta right now.
/r/askMRP13/08/19 05:49 PM
3

I had a similar situation on Saturday after drinking. However it wasn't in front of the kids. Despite how far we've come, I still allow certain situations trigger emotions in me. The "paper bag" frame that someone else said is right on. That's what you and I have right now. We're all big and bad and won't be pushed around. So we yell and scream whenever we feel the slightest friction. In my case I took 30 minutes to cool off. She came down to the basement and something really weird happened. I t…
/r/askMRP12/08/19 02:00 PM
2

You don't get it. When someone says Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks they are referring to the value of a man to a woman in the scope of a woman's hypergamy. Yes being an alpha with money is the best scenario for you. 100% agree. But that is not the same meaning in regards to hypergamy and the meaning of beta bucks / alpha fucks. 2 separate things.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 03:06 PM
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Because the meaning of "Alpha Bucks" is specific to women's point of view and their benefit to the relationship. Not the mans.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 01:20 PM
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Alpha Bucks is more in line with married red pill aka askMRP. It's a good goal if you're married and want to reduce the chance of your wife doing anything considered AWALT. However I agree with others, if you're single and don't want to be in a LTR, Alpha Bucks is only beneficial to women.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 09:48 PM
1

This.
/r/askMRP06/08/19 03:36 PM
1

Right on brother.
/r/askMRP06/08/19 01:59 PM
2

Baloney. Just drink the 2 damn beers.
/r/askMRP06/08/19 01:54 PM
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What the hell is going on with reddit? I make a post a few weeks ago about workout goals (receiving really valuable information in the process) and I get torn apart being called a faggot needing validation. This guy talks about having to handle shit tests over drinking 2 beers, and then talks about the little mermaid. Just drink your 2 damn beers. WTF.
/r/askMRP06/08/19 01:17 PM
2

No evidence that she fucked him, and a lot of evidence that she didn't. At this point it doesn't matter. She had intent and would have. I was able to recover everything in the past 12 months including deleted text messages and social media activity, GPS, snap chat, you name it. I saw everything. When I confronted her she first pinned it on him saying he said he wanted to kiss her body and that she became obsessed because of the attention. Over the course of the 2 weeks she trickled truthed and c…
/r/askMRP21/07/19 07:01 PM
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Honestly I don't regret posting this. I got a shit load of direct and to the point advice I needed to hear. I don't care if people see me doing this for ego or validation. Yes I'm still with her but it's eating me inside. I know what I will eventually need to do. At this moment my stay plan is the same as my go plan. Focus on me and fix this weak ass habits and do a better job at owning my shit. I've heard Rolo say you need to mentally break up with your wife. I'm doing that now. I need time to …
/r/askMRP20/07/19 06:17 PM
2

Your post here has the most meaning for me. I'm going to read this everyday. To be honest I was always afraid to imagine my life without her, but I'm ready to start doing that now. I'm looking at this as a marathon. I'm not going to change bad habits overnight, but I will work my ass off to do it everyday. Thank you.
/r/askMRP20/07/19 06:08 PM
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I wanted to stay on the positive with my exercise, but that's a fair response. It was really fucked up. The guy was nice to her. On his last day of work, she told him that if she wasn't married, then she'd ask him out. The discussion let to him telling her she smelled good and wanted to kiss her body. Next thing you know, she's stalking his house. Driving by his house sometimes 10 times per day (never stopping). Also looking at his and his wife's social media every few hours. She invited him ove…
/r/askMRP19/07/19 07:10 PM
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I always believed that and still do today. I know in my heart I probably won't get past it. I will never trust her again. In the meantime I'm getting my shit in order. Physically and mentally the best I can. Enjoy my home and having kids with me for a little more while. It's all about me now.
/r/askMRP19/07/19 07:06 PM
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Yea I get it. She cheated. I doesn't matter. AWALT
/r/askMRP19/07/19 06:56 PM
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No not at all. AWALT. I get it. People are saying she actually did it. In the end it doesn't matter. The intent was there.
/r/askMRP19/07/19 06:54 PM
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Now this I can't argue against (wife's attempt at cheating, oneitis, etc). Please see my other comment. My stay plan is the same as my go plan. It's just what time it is now. Don't agree with the dance moves. I'll stick to the weight lifting category on reddit then.
/r/askMRP19/07/19 06:33 PM
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I don't give a shit about validation. What I do give a shit about is the information I got from posting this. Especially the symmetrical strength app. What the fuck is reddit for if you can't post about things you're excited about? I'm competitive and I want to see where other people are at. Sadly I'm the biggest one at the gym in my tiny home town.
/r/askMRP19/07/19 06:33 PM
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I agree. The only difference is that's what would have happened had I not see the text messages that were leading up to that. So being a pussy is staying with her? I can't argue you might be right. At this time my stay plan is the same as my go plan. Focusing on me, demoting her and enjoying having my kids in the house for at least the rest of this year until I decide what I truly want to do.
/r/askMRP19/07/19 06:30 PM
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I know I have a long way to go. I admit I'm struggling with the mental part. Just lay it on me. When you guys say I have a weak ass faggot mentality, what exactly do you base that on?
/r/askMRP19/07/19 06:20 PM
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This is a really good site. Thanks man
/r/askMRP19/07/19 06:00 PM
3

Nope, but that's a separate set of goals.
/r/askMRP19/07/19 05:55 PM
1

Yea I'd switch the descriptions he wrote for 315 lbs and 405 lbs.
/r/askMRP19/07/19 05:53 PM
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Also, are these reps or maxes?
/r/askMRP19/07/19 05:51 PM
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Regarding protein I'm eating my body weight in grams. You saying I should cut calories? Most days I'm at 3,000 calories per day, except for the 2 days a week I eat a small container of Ben & Jerry's which puts me at 4k. I stopped doing that...
/r/askMRP19/07/19 05:46 PM
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This is exactly what I was looking for. Gonna make this 495 lbs shit happen.
/r/askMRP19/07/19 05:44 PM
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As others have pointed out, your actions and frame are that of a woman who branch swung and it didn't work out. You are so focused on your pain, you have no idea how much pain you caused your wife and this other woman. All because you lost yourself and didn't focus on your mission in life. I'm not going to feel sorry for you. You messed up and hurt people. I know how it feels to be on the receiving end because it's the original reason I came here. It makes me even more annoyed when I see men do …
/r/askMRP19/07/19 03:03 PM
1

I almost spit my protein shake out reading this comment. Frickin' hilarious!
/r/askMRP19/07/19 01:10 PM
3

Bad idea. You might as well try and create dread in your wife by taking her to a couples massage. Knowing your luck she'd probably get a hot guy to rub her out, while you got stuck with the harry fat homosexual dude trying to give you a happy ending.
/r/askMRP19/07/19 01:08 PM
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It doesn't matter if you don't want to look like those romantic guys. Ever since I started lifting women who are twenty years younger than me are giving me vertical scans from my face, shoulders down to my package and back. When you are strong and built, women notice and they want to have sex with you. If other women look at you and can imagine having sex with you, then so will your wife. Imagine your wife saying she didn't want to look like those good looking people on TV, and instead just want…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 01:17 AM
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"If she is not a fucking slut and can keep her legs closed, she will stay loyal." Still a bit of blue pill in you my friend. :) Have you read the Rational Male? AWALT
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 04:57 PM
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Yea I thought I was married to a "good girl" for 20 years. I was an alpha dick focused on my mission and treated her like shit and neglected her. She ended up finding emotional comfort from some old beta male who gave her compliments. Stopped shit in time but lesson learned and got my act together. Sill working and need to STFU more. That's my only problem at this point. Anyway, I'm seeing women in their 40's all around me cheating for 2 reasons. 1.) Their Alpha male husbands ignore and neglect …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 02:45 PM
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"What people fail to realize is that this really only is a big problem when trying to date women in their 18-30 range. Once they hit the wall, which they all do at some point, all of that manipulation, expectation and games goes right out the window and they start looking for a beta-make provider while being much less picky." Not sure I completely agree with this. Women, especially over 35 desire to be desired only increases with age. Whether they are married or not, the more masculine and attra…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 02:51 PM
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This. Never ask a female a question that starts off with "Do you mind if I...". That's what submissive people do.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 07:54 PM
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