Discovered LTR has been cheating.

KrissVectorEOC · 2019-11-17T00:34:28+00:00

This happens a lot. Doing it for attention is the common go to. They seek validation and feelings.

Sounds like you did the right thing. Next step is to continue building yourself, get some plates, and find someone better.

As for her, go ghost because there is no forgiveness to be given. You respect yourself and she crossed that boundary.

SirKolbath · 2019-11-17T02:16:09+00:00

Who cares why she cheated with some orc? You're free now. Her loss.

julius_pepperwood1 · 2019-11-17T00:13:05+00:00

AWALT is no joke

Treatscatscrave · 2019-11-17T07:06:51+00:00

You know that anytime a woman cheats, you dump.

You know that a man can have side chicks and this may have nothing to do with his wife ( this is why the smarter wives stay).

You know that when a woman cheats it is always-ALWAYS- a sign of lack of respect for you thus you end it.

And THIS is what separates the men from the boys: a red pill man knows that things will get worse if he forgives his wife as forgiving such a disgusting thing will make her lose even more respect.

So he suffers short term pain to avoid LONG term pain.

Naturally you want to know why.

Novelty. She now regards you as 'her's' and You are boring.

You must ALWAYS keep her chasing something.

2019-11-17T12:04:12+00:00

This will keep happening until you stop using cooking and the ability to act submissive as qualifiers. A maid can do that.

opinden · 2019-11-17T05:32:14+00:00

This is the exact reason why I've been avoiding LTR'S latley, these bitches really ain't shit dude. Always remember AWALT. Try not to rationalise everything, it'll make you insane. Time to go monk mode and work on yourself. All the best my bro.

trunksshortsman · 2019-11-17T00:12:59+00:00

You probably got complacent in your relationship.So she moved on to someone new

Protocol_Apollo · 2019-11-17T00:25:36+00:00

Hard to know why she cheated.

Im not sure girls cheat just like that, I think it’s more of a gradual process of them losing attraction and then they hit the cheat button.

Maybe too much dread hence why she’s after some beta.

But as I said, it’s hard to pinpoint the cause/reasons of this.

You won’t get the reason from her and you know what to do.

Leave.

Haytch1234 · 2019-11-17T04:29:51+00:00

Girls can be submissive yada yada. The whole good girlfriend to you.

She will still have the urge to be fucked by another dude on the side that doesnt give a fuck about her.

She is ultimately fullfilling the urge to be a nurturing girlfriend but at the same gets fulfill her urge of getting ravished by mysterious cock.

Thats how females work.

YouWannaPutMoneyOnIt · 2019-11-17T05:03:28+00:00

Whenever they cheat the answer is to ghost and hard next every single time is it not?

i-am-the-prize · 2019-11-17T05:53:40+00:00

N.E.X.T.

Better now than later married with kids.

ThrowawayYAYAY2002 · 2019-11-17T08:58:56+00:00

Good job on finishing with her, as it's the only option.

Block her number, remove her from social media, profit.

It does not matter one iota why she went with a dude that, by your own admission, is a pleb. That doesn't matter...

The truth has come out, and THAT is all that matters.

Just focus on yourself now.

If you're the kind of man that likes to quickly move onto the next woman, then hit up a few plates (if you have any). If not, focus on being smarter, fitter, and wealthier. Maybe book a vacation? Hit up old friends?

Take a week off to get over her and then move on.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-11-17T18:34:29+00:00

Discovered LTR has been cheating.

You spelled "ex-LTR" wrong.

This girl was something special

Evidently not.

But, insists he was just a friend, they never did anything sexual and it was just for attention.

Biz Markie: "But you say he's 'just a friend'....

I tell her she needs to get her things and leave. It’s over.

Yep.

I repeat, reiterate and say again, though, fellas: If you were spinning 3+ plates, none of this would matter.

Startlivingfornow · 2019-11-17T05:03:28+00:00

Females always have the propensity to cheat, doesn't matter if it's a 6 month LTR or a 10-year marriage.

Your key takeaway here has to be that it isn't her fault, it is you. You keep doing the same shit and your next girl will cheat as well.

You let yourself go somewhere along the way or you trusted her too much or you got comfortable and blind-sided.

Next time, always have something going on the side - not cheating - but just back up options that you're talking to as friends.

Also, never give a girl more of your trust than you're willing to take as a knife to the fucking heart. For me, I'll trust a chick about 40 - 50% on everything she says.

"Going out with friends."

Probably flirting with random dudes for fun 'ladies night'.

Going to the store. Probably going to call an ex or try get away with messaging orbiters or some randie she doesn't want to fuck but wants validation from.

If she does none of the above, I'm pleasantly surprised.

If she does any of the above, I already knew it was coming.

Friendly-Casper · 2019-11-17T09:37:34+00:00

She's a cheat and a liar, what more is there to understand? Cut all contact with her and move forward. She is no longer part of any future chapters in your book.

HastaPronto90 · 2019-11-17T10:17:43+00:00

What can I say? Keep your head up. Better to leave a bad person after 6 months then after 6 years. How old was she and what was her notch count?

JoeBuckYourslf · 2019-11-17T11:33:13+00:00

AWALT

Yes and don’t ever try to get her to admit lying. Her hamster will justify the fuck out of it and she will give you more lies along the way, as long as you let her.

Immediately drop, move on. Lucky you. So much pussy for the taking out there.

Herdsengineers · 2019-11-17T14:28:25+00:00

Not married to her, no need to save documentation, etc. For the guys reading, OP did ok with this, confronted and got rid of the cheating girl. Next time, just need to say "you've been cheating with so and so, it's over." then leave or kick her out depending on if you're out, at her place, at your place, etc.

keep it short and sweet, no need to get her to confess, etc. it's about your dignity and self respect, part of which is about not playing games and giving time to listening to a cheater lie more and make more excuses. if you know, and she's denying still, why fuck with her more?

and when confronting, don't ask "who is this guy?" or anything. don't invite the opportunity to lie more. just state you know she's cheated with such and such dude, it's over, and go. hell, cheaters don't deserve the dignity of face to face. do it over text so she can't freak out on you. then ghost her and move on.

MattyAnon · 2019-11-17T22:14:44+00:00

This girl was something special, cooked for me, submissive, and never gave me shit or argued over trivial things.

AWALT

and it was just for attention.

She's lied so much, you can't believe a word she says including this.

No idea why she did it, but the simple fact is she's a cheating whore.

Next...... and consider whether girls are worth your commitment.

PhaedrusHunt · 2019-11-17T23:23:16+00:00

Interesting comments in this thread.

I was actually thinking about it recently when men cheat it's for sex when women cheat it's for relationships.

My wife has told me stuff before like quit being so alpha and quit being such the dominant guy in every social situation.

When women are at the infertile part of their cycle they're more likely to have sex with a guy with more beta tendencies that is good to listener and sensitive and blah blah blah. When they're ovulating they want the alpha.

Just a good thing to keep in mind

wanker7171 · 2019-11-17T11:47:32+00:00

I woke her up, gave her a chance to come clean.

I just don't get it. Why the fuck does it matter? You uncover a bed of lies and your first thought is "She'll be honest with me now!" Furthermore there's no apology that would change how you should respond.

And the guy is one ugly SOB, he’s overweight and sends these super sappy essays for texts like he’s one of the girls

I'd say it was never a permanent thing in her mind. A close buddy of mine is the best ladies' man I know and he's also a personal trainer. After he broke up with his girlfriend (he got bored of her) it surfaced that she had cheated on him with a guy who wasn't even half the man he was, similar to your situation. Sometimes girls just sleep with these fags mainly because it's new and exciting for them and the dude had some level of frame control, but girls never stay in those arrangements.

Dimenzije90 · 2019-11-17T00:42:31+00:00

If hes description is true then she was using him for attention, but nonetheless if she can do that she can cheat with a chad. Learn from mistakes and move on. We have all been there in similar situations. Thats why we are here. Keep lifting.

maddisser101 · 2019-11-17T14:26:16+00:00

AWALT.

BurnieSlander · 2019-11-17T22:51:17+00:00

How is it that you are “shocked” and “never thought this could happen to you” yet you know about TRP?

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-11-18T00:53:01+00:00

AWALT. Happens. The will help you further internalize the pill. Now move on and don't take her back. Keep on purpose and improving yourself.

HurricaneHugues · 2019-11-23T01:49:16+00:00

She was interested in him because you have low standards. She doesn't sound like a girl you ever should've entertained past plate status. You vetter poorly and now you're dealing with the consequences. You may down with dogs, you will catch fleas.

badabing654 · 2019-11-17T13:05:57+00:00

Surprised you didnt shank her

catsdontsmile · 2019-11-17T09:06:07+00:00

what's LTR

Title	Discovered LTR has been cheating.
Author	TIGERSTYLE_
Upvotes	75
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Date	November 17, 2019 12:07 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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