6 month LTR was acting out of sorts this previous week, she stayed over this weekend with no dramas. Everything appeared normal.
Caught her frantically texting someone last night, I didn’t recognise the name so I questioned her later that night “who’s XXXX” this was met with what I imagine is fairly common “Oh he’s just a friend from theatre/gym/school etc.
Her behaviour throughout the week and this all added up to be suspicious. I went through her phone while she slept and I discovered the conversation history had been deleted, no evidence of an XXXX in her phone.
Not enough to cover your tracks missy.
A little more digging and I find countless DM’s, snapchats and text screenshots back and forth with the same guy, all about sexual desires, “I missed you” “my bed now smells like you” stuff like that. It’s now pretty clear they’ve seen each other a few times, evening joking that she has a boyfriend and shouldn’t doing this.
I’ve saved the conversations so I have my own copies, I’m pretty shocked fellas. This girl was something special, cooked for me, submissive, and never gave me shit or argued over trivial things.
I woke her up, gave her a chance to come clean. She denied everything, 30 minutes of sobbing and justifying herself she admits to it. But, insists he was just a friend, they never did anything sexual and it was just for attention.
I tell her she needs to get her things and leave. It’s over.
This was a pretty big wake up call, I never thought this would happen to me. My question to you guys; has anyone experienced similar? And the guy is one ugly SOB, he’s overweight and sends these super sappy essays for texts like he’s one of the girls… Why would my ex-LTR be interested in him?