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Ditto, she said I “cheated on her” which let’s be clear I didn’t. She controlled the bank accounts, had my location, you name it. But once she got on that stuff she lost literally everything. Of course still attracted to her because that’s my wife and I love her but God did she turn into a monster. Served me papers on her birthday in October etc. told me two weeks ago that she wants me to suffer forever. Mix that stuff with her impulsive actions. Good Lord was it interesting.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/26 03:24 PM
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Lost my wife when she started taking that stuff too dude. Then blamed everything on me. Short marriage still going through the divorce but I’m telling you, there’s something in those things that make women go crazy. Idk how to explain it.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/26 03:18 PM
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Glad I don’t have kids with her
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 11:59 PM
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28k a month holy fuck
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/26 03:35 PM
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Ya ever seen that photo of the chopper pulling out of Vietnam? Ya that. Nah jk I got something similar 100 pt army deployments, masters degree etc but got damn if I get one more fat chick with kids dming me I’m gonna lose it. Hell I still love my STBXW.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/25 04:47 PM
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Ya know? One day at a time. That’s what men do. Please be safe and as a Christian man. Merry Christmas
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/25 06:36 PM
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I feel ya I’m going to the mountains with some friends ironically all of us in the group are going through a divorce
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/25 10:10 AM
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First time back to work it’s exciting
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 06:17 AM
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Lol thank god we were only married for 2 years
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/25 02:06 PM
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I think I’ve been getting abused the whole time tbh
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/25 01:49 PM
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This isn’t just hell man, I have two loans I put on the house for pool and landscape and she’s over there living it up in that house. That I’m paying for.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/25 12:45 PM
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I picked mine who was known for de escalation. My wife has been known to go above and beyond for everything I mean she served me divorce papers at her b day party and called me gay then made a trivia game that night about me. But I also picked a female because females love fighting females
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 07:41 PM
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She is my happiness, in a weird way. I mean I built my life around us. Just did everything for her. Now I feel like zod from man of steel “you have taken away my sole purpose” or whatever he says.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 11:08 AM
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I dont think so but also, get ready for my answer. Grab that mfr and ask why they are doing it. Marriage is sacred. It hurts I know but hunt the reason down
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 01:58 AM
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It was a saying sorry, there was no gun. I def should have specified that. I was implying I was ready to do it
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 04:54 PM
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Oh ya, I mean straight up I’m open about it now but that night Oct 17 when I cried to my wife about wanting to KMS. I was ready to like I had the gun cocked and loaded. And I said I’m so sorry for everything in the financial realm I’m sorry for everything. And she says it’s okay I love you we will get through this. Spoiler 13 days later we did in fact not get through this lol
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 04:08 PM
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Sounds good, she def had a disorder of some kind. I helped my wife through a depressive episode I mean it was bad. But now she’s divorcing me so 🤷🏻‍♂️. Funny enough when I go through a depressive episode. Crying out to the VA to help me and trying to tell them that the only thing holding me together is my wife. And I tell her all of this and then she’s like it’s okay. Then next week she’s like fuck you divorce papers.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 03:54 PM
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Oh ya had to make rank some how lol
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/25 05:47 PM
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Lmfao. I’m an emotional sex person. Had lots of intercourse back in college (army vet going to a college prime time) settled down and really only want a family. Had/have the family. Just wife is well going bananas
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/25 04:52 PM
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Already did. She said she made it up but won’t apologize 🫡
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/25 01:33 PM
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It’s insane that it’s people that have their names plastered everywhere in Virginia and I’m like. Bruh, tf is wrong with yall.
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/25 12:13 PM
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Wife told all her friends I’m actually gay and was sleeping with women and men. One of her friends keeps harassing me about it.
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/25 11:54 AM
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Ya it’s crazy that these are like professional political people harassing a disabled veteran lol like bruh what
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/25 11:50 AM
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Literally wife childhood trauma from their parents divorce. Mother and father hit her and the other 6 fuckers. Wife gains weight in marriage. Wife goes on weight loss drugs. Says I’m a POS and files divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/25 07:28 PM
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Holy fuck did we marry the same lady?
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/25 07:21 PM
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It’s a shame because I love her so much
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 08:20 PM
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Oh buddy, let me tell you. I’m going through a straight blood bath right now in my divorce no kids thank god but god is she petty. I always tell people to not dwell on the past as none gets married to have a divorce. I ignored all of her red flags and she did the same to me. I keep telling myself “I’ve been through worse. And There is nothing that past you could have changed or seen or else you would have.” Don’t kill your self of past actions.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 08:16 AM
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Ditto got into the police force and wanted to share it with her. Before hand I used to share my running times with her from my Apple Watch. I usually catch myself sending it then think to myself “oh ya that’s right I’m alone again”
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 08:04 AM
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Ya definitely so, shame too. We were a power couple. Oh well glad it was a short marriage. First time in my life with her I’m standing my ground.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/25 06:44 PM
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Don’t go after women with more than two dogs too. Seriously there is some hidden statistic out there that women with more than 2 dogs are crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/25 06:42 PM
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I’ve thought about this heavily and it actually breaks my heart that I have to do this. The way she served me at her party made false accusations publicly. Created a trivia game night against me and my character. Then kicks me out of the house we own. I love her so much but looking back, everything she did was wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/25 05:08 AM
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I thought through this and I really want to reconcile with her because I truly love her but what she did to me was just disgusting. Saying I committed adultery and I slept with women and men. Created a trivia game night about me. Then she kicks me out of the house I’ve been paying the mortgage on for the betterment of the year. I have that and I’m also having her get served on the misusing the company we own together. Not enforcing the leases. Etc.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/25 04:40 AM
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Thank you, maybe? Idk I do see a lot of it but idk. But after today. I think I’ve been awaken so, idk. I’m just living the life at this point
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/25 03:27 AM
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From the US OF A we are there too man, hang in there.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/25 05:40 PM
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Well I met my wife today and I admitted to emotional infidelity. Not in like a romantically way but emotionally went to other people. I love her but I will admit towards end of the marriage I emotionally disconnected from her. She was just mean. I will say though the old me would kill the new me now. I am a broken man. I betrayed the trust of my wife. I “sexted” this girl because my wife didn’t want anything to do with me and she found out. No nudes nothing just flirty messages with some provoca…
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/25 08:35 AM
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At this point in my skirmish I’m the same. Just send it
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 07:32 PM
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Fighting for my life out here
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 04:00 PM
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My divorce strategy was to be as calm as possible. My therapist told me that the woman you married is no longer there. That’s a complete stranger. My priorities always shifted. No kids though so that’s a win. If you have kids make sure to make it the least traumatizing as possible.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/25 04:00 PM
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Thank you and like I said to the other people. I Met with my lawyer yesterday. It was refreshing, all of you are right. What she did was illegal. I’ve submitted all the evidence to fight the count of adultery. Banking statements, location. I’ve offered to subpoena my phone. Take a polygraph. Anything and everything I can do to throw this at fault divorce out I’m doing it. I’ve even got the person who she claimed I committed adultery with willing to testify. This same person also has submitted ev…
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/25 11:59 AM
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Met with my lawyer yesterday. It was refreshing, all of you are right. What she did was illegal. I’ve submitted all the evidence to fight the count of adultery. Banking statements, location. I’ve offered to subpoena my phone. Take a polygraph. Anything and everything I can do to throw this at fault divorce out I’m doing it. I’ve even got the person who she claimed I committed adultery with willing to testify. This same person also has submitted evidence that counter acts the claim of adultery. I…
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/25 11:57 AM
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Oh ya everything is sorted. I modeled myself after my dad who’s been married for like 50 years to the same person.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/25 08:12 AM
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Absolutely, I mean army veteran, got 100 percent lost my job due to govt shifts etc. now I’m going in for something that has nothing to deal with my degree or experience but yolo. Send it
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 06:21 PM
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Well I have disability from the Va and I have been trying. I have a good amount of applications out there etc.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 12:09 PM
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No, I don’t think I did anything suspicious. I mean she has access to my phone etc. the female she specially listed on the adultery charge I havnt seen in 5 years. It was a past relationship from years ago but we cut ties. We both are married and we’ve kept in contact with eachother for years. The paperwork says a specific date that the adultery was taken place. Again problem with that is I was at work then a brewery with my friend and his wife. Then went home. We also go to thus brewery regular…
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 12:05 PM
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It was Thursday she said she had cleaners at the house I said cool whatever. I went to my parents gym etc. I then go to her birthday party that night and it turns out the cleaners were her friends and they moved everything that I owned out of the house and into a truck. That will be going to my parents. So she told me I’m not welcome back at the house. We both bought the house 2 years ago so my name is on it. It’s also a VA home loan so without a doubt since I’m the veteran. Anyways. She changed…
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 11:56 AM
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I also have a rental before the marriage and a few stocks nothing serious though
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 09:02 AM
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I lost my job and I have Va disability. Currently going in on wed for an interview but yes I still had a heavy stream of income
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 08:58 AM
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No
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/25 10:19 PM
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She was financially dependent on me and I just let her control all the banking info accounts etc. I got a new phone plan and new phone but money has been tight extremely tight.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/25 07:52 PM
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