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It's possible. It also could have turned off many more intelligent people who think Christians are not using their minds and the only way to faith is by ignoring science or rational thinking. ​ It's hard to say. ​ I'm afraid that this line of thinking - "Oh, my overconfidence and zeal only resulted in more good and more positives!" is just repeating the same error... You're being overconfidence and zelous about your errors from overconfidence and zeal. It's again pretty humorous. I don't know, i…
/r/RPChristians31/10/18 07:49 PM
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Someone had mentioned Ray Comfort style - I've heard a bit of his stuff and I'm sure it's good. It's just funny when he talks about Banana's - here's a video kind of making fun of him a bit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YfucpGCm5hY&feature=related ​ It's never been clear to me why Christians want to jump in and try to make scientific claims when they either have no background in science and have done little to no educating themselves on science. If you've done the work, great - come to us wit…
/r/RPChristians31/10/18 05:46 PM
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First I would say, I'm not an expert anymore than you are. I like one author I read who says, always assume the person you're talking to knows more than you do. Why? #1 it takes humility. #2 you may learn something if you do as opposed ot the opposite. You're right - it is hard to develop an online relationship. The reality may be that it's very difficult to share the gospel in a meaningful way on the internet, just like it would be hard to have a loving relationship that is only on the internet…
/r/RPChristians30/10/18 07:27 PM
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I listened to this. It was very good. I think the interesting thing here is that he's not in a Red Pill Rage mode, but he's trying to seek peace and improvement. This is one of the highest levels of the MGTOW game. It's interesting, I have heard many people say that high level and low level MGTOWs have to do with if they want to have sex with women or if they want to date or whatever. I think a high level MGTOW is more like what this video is describing, a man who seeks peace and improvement and…
/r/MGTOW30/10/18 06:35 PM
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Haha, I don't know if it is that simple but let me take a stab. First, just like when I sold things - I would learn all I could about them, listen and learn in love. Then I would build a relationship with them as much as I could, in love. It is much easier to say what needs to be said and for others to listen when - 1: They think you care about them and 2: You've attempted to understand where they are coming from. At this point, I would in my own fashion tell them about Jesus. Everyone will do t…
/r/RPChristians30/10/18 06:24 PM
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Let me tell you this as a person who was once was professional paid good dollars to convince people to buy things. You must adapt your style to the person. If you have one approach, then you will fail with many people. Some people like straight forward, to some it's intense and confrontational. There honestly may be dozens of approaches. It's like the Eskimos, I once heard they have dozens of words for snow. Why? Because they are excellent at distinguishing between types and because of this, the…
/r/RPChristians30/10/18 02:52 PM
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God is poetic and good at words... im not. I read the bible multiple times but everytime i read the same verse for the 2nd time it translate to new message which is really cool but the reason why i asked this bc im curious about what men think about this and not just a man , Christian guy/man. Im also just curious about what the opposite gender think. But thanks for the advice. You don't need to be great at words. Jesus made faith simple to understand, you dont' need an incredible intellect. How…
/r/RPChristians30/10/18 12:25 AM
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I am. But I'm not. haha anyway, I think you can do whatever you want. I think your sex drive is a natural gift and can be used for good. Like a gun can be used to protect your nation from Nazi Germany. As for it being ok or not, don't go searching for feedback from people - I think it's fine, but instead - I would read what Jesus says, pray and ask the Holy Spirit. Then come up with where God guides you. Honestly, between you and your man - I think whatever brings you joy in that relationship is…
/r/RPChristians29/10/18 11:50 PM
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This sounds awesome. Questions, what is your number? Where do I find women like you?
/r/RPChristians29/10/18 11:21 PM
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I enjoyed your comment, so I edited the post.
/r/RPChristians29/10/18 11:04 PM
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The point is that the model doesn't make sense when converted into reality. Even if it did, it would only work in a setup where everything could be boiled down to a dollar figure and the husband is the only one working. No models truly work. Maps are an attempt to understand the terrain and communicate something. However the map is not the actual terrain. The more variability and intangibles that exist, the harder it is to create a model. Surely we can say this model isn't adequate but it doesn'…
/r/RPChristians29/10/18 11:03 PM
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I don't disagree.
/r/RPChristians29/10/18 12:51 AM
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Fair points. I admit when you are right. It is unproductive.
/r/RPChristians29/10/18 12:51 AM
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Did he account for opportunity cost? That honestly seems low. Time is the biggest cost.
/r/RPChristians28/10/18 11:08 PM
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There is so much I want to say on this. But, I'll just say this. A help meet was created for man to do far more than just have sex with him. That is just one of the ways their love manifests itself. She is to give herself to him, be subject to him in ALL things. Sex is not the be all end all. Not by a long shot. Any man, castrated or not, would benefit immensely from having a truly godly wife. Even perhaps, helping win him over to the word of God by displaying real love and submission to God in …
/r/RPChristians28/10/18 11:07 PM
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Oh, I would love to hear that too.
/r/RPChristians28/10/18 11:01 PM
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I like talking to people, so the approach isn't a hassle to me. I also enjoy first dates; I never schedule doing anything that I wouldn't be happy doing with a regular, straight Christian guy friend from college. I also don't invite girls out who I don't expect to be an amusing companion during an evening out. I'm just talking about the cost of entry. Enjoying it doesn't matter to me much in this analysis. A corollary would be if you were a high income earner and played League of Legends 50 hrs …
/r/RPChristians28/10/18 09:01 PM
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Feminism is the belief that a woman’s roles and responsibilities of a wife to her husband, a mother to her children, and homemaking are worthless (when they are actually priceless). Therefore, to have any value, they must prostitute themselves to random attractive men (NSA sex, FWB, etc.) under the guise of finding themselves and prostitute themselves to corporations to make money (careerism). I'm not necessarily buying into this mindset, I'm more commenting on it - like it exists. Just if I wer…
/r/RPChristians28/10/18 08:48 PM
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100% on your side. I think one could say, learn "game" as in social skills that help you interact better with people. Great. Learn "game" as in, learn tools and tricks on how to get women more attracted to you? Vomit. Why? You are serving her hypergamy. You are buying into her frame. So I guess it depends how you approach the learn game thing. But when we say, "learn more text game" that is clearly not learning social skills to enhance your life - type of learning. That's the learn things that c…
/r/RPChristians28/10/18 07:10 PM
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Of course, it could be your text game. If a date did go well, and they are into you, use a touch of dread. Let them sit around hoping you will text and hanging on your every word when you do. But if you're constantly staying in contact, and think they've "got you," then it ruin part of the "game" some women like to play. Get (more) jacked I don't think it's text game or getting more fit, I think it's the frame. Those are like putting bandaids on a wound. The more I read about Red Pill and what n…
/r/RPChristians28/10/18 06:46 PM
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That was $19,000 to store them. It probably was over $100,000 in expenses to keep trying and failing. I'm a doctor but not in fertility.
/r/MGTOW28/10/18 05:37 PM
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I think you can be attracted immediately, but what you're feeling isn't love, just infatuation. A wise woman recognizes this and is wary of men who express strong feelings too quickly. They are likely to evaporate just as quickly as they appeared. Sure, a wise woman doesn't like it. Neither does a completely unwise and fickle woman. I think you would be surprised to see how the new generation (20-25 yr old girls) chose men. They are not wise and discerning, they do like to be treated poorly beca…
/r/RPChristians28/10/18 01:36 AM
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Please don't slaughter me for having oneitis. Lol dude. Like many people who ask for advice, you already know the answer. Stop making women so primary in your life, keep pursuing your passion / making your life the best you can (preferable in a way that honors God), and then when you are living the life you love and have passion and enthusiasm and are busy THEN add that woman. Clearly right now the women are the center of your universe. Oneitis proves that. You can't get oneitis with a powerful …
/r/RPChristians27/10/18 11:46 PM
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Well, yes, because she knows you're not really praising her -- you don't even know her yet! Yes and no. We have a very good feel for people within hours to days of knowing them. Sure you learn more as struggles come but the elements that you love and enjoy about a person can be seen within hours. I know a lot of guy friends I have that are great, we clicked immediately and enjoy each other. There is such a thing as instant chemistry. So, I believe you can know enough to love / enjoy a person imm…
/r/RPChristians27/10/18 08:56 PM
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PART 2 More on point: I have 4 kids. They are often bad. As a parent, I am their leader and they are my followers. They are to follow my instructions. If I use a combination of positive reinforcement and negative reinforcement to train them up to be well-behaved and good followers, is that immoral manipulation or is it something that both the Bible and society instruct us to do? Clearly the latter. ​ Again, a word game that I don't want to play. So you are telling me you could teach a class at y…
/r/RPChristians27/10/18 08:48 PM
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PART 1 ​ Ok, since you are doing commentary - then maybe that makes more sense - I don't know and have barely glanced at his 16 commandments. For the uniformed, I think writing: "This is a commentary based upon LINK" would be helpful. I honestly thought you wrote / made these up. ​ And yet there are several places in the Old Testament where God identifies himself as "a jealous God." I absolutely agree that it can be applied in very unbiblical ways, but it is also a concept that God identifies wi…
/r/RPChristians27/10/18 08:47 PM
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But either way I guess we're going to have to agree to disagree on this one. Wish you the best too man. I wish you the best also. I don't think we disagree, you in fact proved the only point I was making. By admitting the pornography allowance that is conditional you prove what I am saying. You have set up this rule set in your mind: I want to marry a woman who is equal to or exceeds my rightehousness In other words, you want the best you can get for yourself. This isn't bad - I think it's natur…
/r/RPChristians27/10/18 06:04 PM
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Ok, I think feedback is due - I tend to be on the harsher critique side so take it as you will. This is too long, you need to get to your points faster and clearer. Point I seems like it should be powerful or deep, but it's just lackadaisical. It may be true but again you take too many words to make your point. Point II - I don't find lots of mentions of Jealousy in the Bible, let me pick out a few: For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice. No…
/r/RPChristians27/10/18 05:39 PM
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Is that really nonsense though? ​ Women behave this way all the time. If you tell a woman she is the center of your universe and praise her when you first meet her, she will run. If you are a higher status male and harder for her to get (even look at the bachelor TV show) - then all these girls "LOVE" you. But then a few months later they say "he's such a jerk"... wait, why was he a love interest now a jerk? He was always a jerk but he was a high status jerk and she got caught up in wanting him.…
/r/RPChristians27/10/18 05:01 PM
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Yeah. I was just commenting. I don't make this stuff up.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/18 02:39 PM
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You don't need skills with money, fame and adoration from millions.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/18 02:37 PM
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There are so many double standards it's not worth talking about.
/r/MensRights26/10/18 10:59 PM
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I think confidence is king but yes, agree.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 10:59 PM
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Yes, clearly being a high status male in a contextual thing. Weird creepo high school teacher hooks up with 18 year old attractive high school student. Why? He is a very high status and authoritative male in his little bubble. In the outside world he is a poor teacher with a crappy car / apartment. Women are so hardwired for this that they can't even stop themselves from jumping on the high status male in the weirdests of contexts. You could be a huge nerd pro-gamer, but if you are a top 1% nerd…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 10:57 PM
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Yup. It's sad really. I'm not a woman hater at all, but women today have bought into all the wrong things. They are greedily trying to get better and better (males/resources). I do enjoy men like Leo DiCaprio who realize this and don't marry to avoid the disaster that awaits. I'm not an extremist saying 0% of marriages work but it's not good.
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 04:27 PM
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Bolding mine. There is a slight moving of the goal posts here from your original statement, which was "I can firmly say that the Bible doesn't reference science," but you can fall back on that you were always talking about scientific experiments. Science by it's nature has to be things we can form hypothesis on, test, and then confirm. So experimentation really is a cornerstone of science. If we can't test it or experiment then it's hard to call it science. Medicine is a good example, it's actua…
/r/RPChristians26/10/18 05:30 AM
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The 90/10 is in effect. These sites are useless. You can get matches and go on dates but the women are women who go on dating apps. Which means they think they are better than they are. The actual hope will come when they are on the site for 5 years and realize the awesome guys they thought they could lock down (10%) are just doing the pump and dump. So they then start to settle but that's at like 30-40 years old. A woman who basically has Hypergamy unlocked on a dating app..."wow I'm super awes…
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 01:00 AM
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100%
/r/RPChristians26/10/18 12:31 AM
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No, I would consider someone talking about a water cycle to be science. Nor do I think the book of Job reference light particles. Life of flesh is in blood? I'm a physician and I have no idea what that even means. You realize islamist will find random quotes out of their Bible and say similar things. These are hardly science. What is science? Science (from Latin scientia, meaning "knowledge")[1] is a systematic enterprise that builds and organizes knowledgein the form of testable explanations an…
/r/RPChristians26/10/18 12:30 AM
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Sorry for your buddy. Too bad to hear.
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 11:51 PM
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Nevermind. I have to recall that discussions are rarely fruitful here and have trouble ending peacefully. So I will just stop. I have a doctorate in a hard science and I can firmly say that the Bible doesn't reference science. Science didn't even exist until over 1000 yeears after the Bible was written. That would be like saying the Bible referred to smart phones and artificial intelligence.
/r/RPChristians25/10/18 11:02 PM
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Exactly. And the mountain verse was a metaphor. Humans speak with metaphors all the time. Like when Jesus said he was a door, he didn't physically become a wooden door - well, unless you think he did?
/r/RPChristians25/10/18 10:26 PM
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You would have to ask the vlogger
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 06:03 PM
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Jesus said you can move mountains also.
/r/RPChristians25/10/18 02:13 PM
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Why?
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 02:12 PM
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hmmm, I believe you are referring to: Some Pharisees came to Jesus, testing Him and asking, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason at all?” And He answered and said, “Have you not read that He who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man …
/r/RPChristians25/10/18 05:57 AM
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Of course you do. Though technically it's really not that you "think" it is the right thing to do, so much as it is that you "feeeeeeel" it is the right thing to do, because you've been programmed into it... not only is zero "thinking" involved, but in fact rather the opposite: "incivility" as you would doubtless call it, has been programmed into your psyche as something that is just "not done"; it is in effect a "thought *stopping"*mechanism. No. I think it is the right thing to do. I believe, …
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 04:54 AM
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TRUTH, even BRUTAL truth is actually far more "respectful" than a bunch of pandering, ass-kissing LIES. I never said to kiss ass or lie. A low form of discussion is to contrast to extremes and say you must either: A. Call someone a pussy and tell them to go F off ... or B. Be an immoral liar who kisses ass ​ Surely in this world of many possibilities we can think of more than 2 possible ways to respond. I think you can tell the truth, not kiss anyone's butt and also be respectful. Look, I know I…
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 03:38 AM
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I will not argue if it's true or not. I just like the mgtow guys and hope you can treat people with respect. Like I typically say, hard to argue with the philosophy of mgtow.
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 02:17 AM
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Good points and discussion until you said go F yourself and called him a pussy. But good points.
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 01:24 AM
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this is true...it's not about women, but women's behaviour. if guys did the same thing, it would look just as stupid. nothing wrong with having female friends or fucking women...the point of this sub is to point out the dangers in today's times when anything a man does, is punished, where women have a pussy pass. agreed. It's good to have a rational people on here. I must admit when I hear someone bring up a valid question then others say things like "GTFO" or "Stop whining" - it's like, ok - th…
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 01:22 AM
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I agree that the idea you need to hate women is misguided. The focus for a man should be not anti-female or anti-anything - it should be pro-masculine and pro-purpose. With that said, I don't mind laughing at ridiculous women just like I would not mind laughing at ridiculous men. So when they post something that is hilarious about women, I don't mind. The issue is when everything becomes anti-female, which I agree with you - is not a good path to go down. ​ I do understand it. Many have trauma o…
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 11:27 PM
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The account of Genesis I've never taken to be a literal account. Frankly, I believe the theory of evolution better explains the dynamics of how the earth began. The few setences in Genesis, IMO, are more to tell us who and why rather than how. That's why parsing words here seems - well, at least to the Jesus follower, ancillary.
/r/RPChristians23/10/18 09:23 PM
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haha, I guess we could say being a female is a checkbox. And not being a dead corpse is a checkbox. How far can this go? ​ Look, it's pretty clear what I'm saying - I looked for rules so often in Jesus teachings but he often doesn't give us rules because rules wouldn't work for a billion people. So instead he gives us principles. The principle I am saying is that you should be careful to disqualify women based upon your whimsy - you already said you would be good with a woman who has seen porn b…
/r/RPChristians23/10/18 04:59 PM
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As a woman with a high N-count herself, I think you should stick to your guns on this point. If you compromise your standard, you're never going to love your wife fully, and you'll always view her as being "less than" because she wasn't a virgin. That is the recipe for an unhappy marriage. So hold out for what you want ... and I'm sure there is a virgin young woman out there who will be thrilled to find a man who has also kept himself pure for her. (You are a unicorn too, lol.) ​ Thanks, never b…
/r/RPChristians23/10/18 02:06 AM
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good point
/r/RPChristians23/10/18 01:58 AM
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haha - well, no reason to add insult to injury. But I guess this guy doesn't care
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 04:05 AM
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dude, story please? This photo is so funny
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 04:04 AM
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Yeah - and wherever that leads you - it's where God wants. I hope you do find a good virgin woman who you can serve + she can serve you. Good luck!
/r/RPChristians21/10/18 07:45 PM
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I do not have a sin hierarchy. I find religious debates kind of dull the more I study Jesus. When I look at Christ, I see a man who did teach the truth but he also primarily loved people and was a servant. So they more I blabber about my opinions, the less I am being like Christ. However, when I look at Jesus saying that if you lust in your heart you've committed adultery, the way I read it is that the heart is primary and whether someone just wants to sin if they are given any chance vs those w…
/r/RPChristians21/10/18 06:15 PM
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It seems like you have a sin hierarchy ​
/r/RPChristians20/10/18 08:41 PM
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fair enough. I use language to communicate ideas - the word movement means: "a group of people working together to advance their shared political, social, or artistic ideas." I do look at MGTOW men as a movement in that, many men are trying to advance and share the ideas, it's a group hence people are finding ways to communicate together. Look, it's not a big deal if you want to call it a philosophy and I want to call it a movement - I'm not even clear if something can't be both a philosophy and…
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 10:15 PM
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haha, I don't know. ​ I would bet though - having the modernized woman, social media, terrible feminism and modern american values pumped into these women is making the odds terrible compared to other societies or cultures that value the group and the family (or even hundreds of years ago before feminism took root). So I guess the odds today? Terrible. The odds throughout history? Not terrible.
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 06:27 AM
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I think we had a good discussion on this thread. I think I get it, there are nuances to life. Hard to say 100% of _____ group is like whatever
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 01:27 AM
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slavs 2 generations ago also did it, stayed together no matter how much he drank and beat her and he stayed with her no matter what by default (no other option usually even considered), too. yup
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 01:26 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 12:15 AM
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It is bad to monkey branch though. So if they would all run then it's bad. This woman could divorce her husband and they dont have a prenup. Anyway, I did learn that many Asian cultures that are non westernized will stay married because they are less individualistic compared to the west. Even an unhappy wife will stay married to not dishonor her family or husband.
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 12:15 AM
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Fair enough. That was my only point.
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 12:13 AM
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Haha semantics. Fun
/r/MGTOW18/10/18 11:29 PM
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Right. She is a very rare woman. But she seems like a good woman. I'm not even saying she is a good woman. Just she seems good from what I can see
/r/MGTOW18/10/18 11:29 PM
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Ok. I'm not even disregarding the low odds
/r/MGTOW18/10/18 11:27 PM
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I've had my account 5 years, I've never posted on Reddit except for this account. I had a specific issue. You assume I haven't read most of the side bar, I don't say all because I prefer not to lie. Not everyone is an internet troll. Some people want to ask legitimate questions and they are legitimate (not a side bar topic). Is that too nuanaced? That's why Reddit quarantined red pill, they can't see nuances. But the mods here treat the new people like Reddit treats the forum.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/18 12:42 AM
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You guys don't even let new posters post. It's hard to truly support a forum that doesn't even have the men joining in their interest. I tried to ask questions twice on this forum and you don't allow us to post.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 10:04 PM
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Thanks, nothing like being called a pussy by a woman when being open about struggling.
/r/RPChristians13/10/18 09:51 AM
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I am a bit older than you but have been through struggles also, some similar. Let me give you advice - advice I would give to myself. I'm still single and get frustrated with "the game" but I managed to workout a lot of other things in life well. I preface my advice with this to let you know I have achieved some very good things and I've read + learned a lot. ​ Let me start with phases - why? I think you really need to go step by step here. You can't work on 15 things at once in life. You need t…
/r/RPChristians12/10/18 05:23 PM
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Thanks for the advice. You're right I need a break.
/r/RPChristians12/10/18 02:11 AM
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thanks bro. Hard to admit - but I am struggling. ugh
/r/RPChristians11/10/18 11:07 PM
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Lingq is a good language website, FYI. Good luck
/r/RPChristians11/10/18 10:56 PM
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you are going to work in Brazil? Do you speak portuguese?
/r/RPChristians11/10/18 10:24 PM
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Yeah, I know you guys are right. I guess I hit the everything is meaningless phase too early in life.
/r/RPChristians11/10/18 09:18 PM
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all true. I just hate male / female relations here - I should say for men outside the top 20%. ​ I feel like I'm a few degrees away from MGTOW.
/r/RPChristians11/10/18 08:18 PM
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As for "loving others as Christ loved them" - what's your view on how Christ loved them (in a John 13:34-35 context)? Because I very rarely see a good answer to that question. ​ I've been thinking about this a lot recently. I don't pretend to be a perfect person, I'm more screwed up than most! But I'm trying to learn and do better everyday. I say that to just set up that I'm trying to get better at what I say below. Let me start by quoting a verse from the parable of the good Samaritan: 36 “Whic…
/r/RPChristians10/10/18 06:40 PM
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I wrote out a long reply and it was too argumentative and unproductive. I think we are missing each other's points. Good luck to you.
/r/RPChristians10/10/18 05:51 PM
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Thanks for such a great + detailed response. I'm very grateful to have a productive conversation on a great topic. I agree with essentially everything RedCurious just wrote and let me preface this reply with one point - we are all united with one simple thing, we are Jesus followers and believe in Christ - so regardless if someone has a small disagreement on something, it doesn't really matter that much. Let me comment on a few things that stood out for me. ​ First, Sin. The word sin comes from …
/r/RPChristians10/10/18 05:10 PM
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I think you know the general answer is that the Bible was inspired by God and written by man. Does so and so's writings carry the same weight compared to so and so? Sure, I guess. It really depends on what you're saying. Paul said once for women to not wear hats, does that carry the same weight as what Jesus said? I'm not here to be an authority, I was here stating the obvious that the law doesn't stand because you can't pick and choose pieces. Someone said earlier quoted this: ​ And hereby we d…
/r/RPChristians10/10/18 12:40 AM
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Below is a repasted reply, adding a few things. Athiest have every right to question why we don't stone women who commit adultery or follow other practices from the old testament. It doesn't make sense to say that, oh well we follow these 5 because they are moral but the civil ones, we don't... Is that biblical or was that made up by some commentary? You will find no one who keeps the whole law, Paul struggled keeping the whole law! So what portions do you keep? The ones that are convenient enou…
/r/RPChristians09/10/18 11:27 PM
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If you're lifting just to improve your SMV then I would say the same thing. ​ Doing things just to look better to women is ridiculous. I.e. if you suddenly lost your penis and then could not make any sense of what you're doing, then you're obviously just doing it to get a woman - i.e. putting them on a pedestal. ​ You know it's true. ​ Basically, there is a big difference between taking an hour or two to get some pictures and taking 5-6 weeks and learning a craft just to put pictures on a retard…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 06:04 PM
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I have no doubt this will help. However, isn't this somewhere against the idea of least effort. Take 6 weeks and full days to take pictures of yourself just to get more women. I'm not doubting you'll have more success. But this seems ridiculous to me and it seems like you are putting women and sex on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 03:59 PM
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Oh, I think you're right. I misspoke in saying whole reason, it's one of the reasons.
/r/RPChristians09/10/18 03:56 PM
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Can't argue with Jesus
/r/RPChristians09/10/18 03:52 PM
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Yes, he fulfilled it and replaced it. There is no reason to say, "he did away with it.". Look, theres a very simple test, you don't follow all the law. There are hundreds of commands in Deut. You pick and choose what you like and don't. The Bible as you know it was constructed for hundreds of years. In fact, the first many generations of Jesus followers had no New testament, certainly had no old testament, they didn't know the law or any if the things you are saying. Yet Christianity great like …
/r/RPChristians09/10/18 03:51 PM
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Actually, you didn't use any theology or any things Christ said to justify your point or why my point was wrong. Let me clarify more clearly, The old testament law is obsolete. It's replaced by Christ law. Jesus commandments are not in Deut. There are maybe 600 commandments there. You observe very few if any. You don't discard it, sure. But it's been replaced by something greater. This is the whole reason for the names new and old testament.
/r/RPChristians09/10/18 03:42 PM
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Well, as Paul would say - if you use some of the law then you must use all of it. There's lots of stuff in Deut that you wouldn't implement. I'm more attuned to it right now because I just read a book on it. Do whatever you'd like. Just realize it doesn't make sense to upload 1,2 or 10% of the law if you discard the rest. That's the reason Jesus had a new covenant.
/r/RPChristians09/10/18 03:15 AM
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hmm, I wouldn't go through the old testament trying to find commands on how to deal with things like this. I think one od the reasons Jesus came was to show us an example of how to live to take place of some type of rule structure. All I can do is glean some wisdom from this but it's hardly a command for Jesus followers, no more than circumcism.
/r/RPChristians09/10/18 02:17 AM
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Our world will collapse with women like this. Especially when the public and government supports them.
/r/RPChristians08/10/18 10:52 PM
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It's my profile pic for Facebook - so it should be easy to find. 😁
/r/RPChristians08/10/18 01:03 AM
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So you're saying I should tease women by wearing a male G-string?
/r/RPChristians07/10/18 12:15 AM
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I appreciate your perspective. Thanks for sharing. Hope your day goes well. : )
/r/RPChristians06/10/18 04:16 AM
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Really? I find that hard to believe. They are all over the media. Maybe women suddenly look for the more stable guy who don't marry early. Or they already are single moms and look for a guy to raise her kids. I find it hard to believe that you don't know a single person.
/r/RPChristians05/10/18 09:45 PM
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No I can't. But I can recommend you find the verse. Read it, read it in context, pray about it. And maybe you can find a concordance or other experts who can explain it. I am not an expert at theology.
/r/RPChristians05/10/18 09:43 PM
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Still. Can't tell if serious.
/r/MGTOW05/10/18 02:15 AM
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I'm not trying to de-value your concerns or ignore them. However, the comments section on the Red Pill can not give you the type of breadth and depth you need to go into a discussion like this. We can sit and argue about pros and cons of communism (again, I think it's so bad that it's not even worth thinking about the sex) - HOWEVER, it's pointless. You need to undergo hours long search (seriously, this could be 5-10 hrs) that discusses the strengths and weaknesses). ​ There are problems with bo…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 11:52 PM
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My point is very simple. I don't even care if your point is true, the evil of communism is greater than any joy from sex. Hundreds of millions died under communism in the 20th century - it would take me far too long to form an argument against communism - I know a popular lecturer was planning on doing maybe 5-10 hrs or more of lectures on this topic on Youtube. I also could defer to multiple hour long detailed discussions that are fact based on Youtube on this topic. (please don't take the refe…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 11:11 PM
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Communisim is garbage. It doesn't matter what happens under it. ​ Breaking News: "Sex on your first hit of cocaine is better"... problem is, then you get addicted to cocaine and it destroys everything in your life.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 09:25 PM
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There is a tendency in RP to absolve men of any responsibility for the failure of relationships by blaming eee-vil women. Absolutely there is. Look, there are barely any women in RP forums - there are very few here. It's only common sense that a person who has been through a divorce will tell a one-sided story, very few people can acknowledge all their personal short-comings. So it only makes sense that women would be painted as evil. However, this also doesn't negate the fact that many of the s…
/r/RPChristians04/10/18 08:43 PM
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That's an interesting approach. I also was thinking something like this, if you want more peace then find verses about peace. Then when you don't have peace, try saying them or memorizing them. Here's one: You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you. There are many others also.
/r/RPChristians04/10/18 08:19 PM
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Haha nice
/r/RPChristians04/10/18 08:16 PM
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Ok, even if it's disappointment over a long period - this is still fickle. ​ It's not like they got married in a split second decision - they said this in front of (typically) their familes, God, friends. I, ____, take you, ____, to be my lawfully wedded (husband/wife), to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part. ​ I'm not here to be self-righteous or point fingers at people because I have compassio…
/r/RPChristians04/10/18 03:44 PM
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I agree with your points. I wouldn't down play strength anymore than I would down play health. We could make a similar argument God wants us to take care of our bodies and be healthy and eating well would be good for us. My central thesis of Christianity would be the things Christ taught, especially loving other as he loved them and loving God. If we are applying that idea by being strong, I think that is great. I have no issues with your points. I've just seen the Bible used to advance politica…
/r/RPChristians04/10/18 03:15 AM
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Can't argue with that reasoning. I wonder what Jesus 1 rep maxes were. On the real though, I can't tell if you're being sarcastic about Jesus expecting men to lift weights. Wait, now I do remember a verse in James: Faith without lifts is dead.
/r/RPChristians04/10/18 02:31 AM
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Women are operating from the same playbook. That's why the red pill forum got 300,000 subscribers. It's just men are now documenting their BS and we all know what's coming.
/r/RPChristians04/10/18 12:03 AM
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I agree lifting is good, even great. At the same time, I think it's not best to use the Bible to somehow support doing squats and deadlifts, I think it's enough to encourage people to do it - just like I would encourage people to be healthy. I know this may not be well-received as people like lifting (so do I!) - but I believe if we use the Bible like this then it supports other people using the Bible for other purposes that are not in the Bible. As far as I see it, I use the Bible to support wh…
/r/RPChristians03/10/18 11:57 PM
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Thanks for sharing. While I don't have any personal experience with this, your story is almost identical to hundreds of others I've heard. Woman buys into cultural feminism, feels like she's not appreciated, makes up abuse claim (to rationalize her behavior - how could she NOT divorce a guy like this!?), is irresonsible and not good with money, will not follow her husband's leadership, lastly possibly jumps ship to another male (best she can get). AWALT. It's so interesting hearing everyone's ex…
/r/RPChristians03/10/18 11:47 PM
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Thanks. I'm sure your story will help other men and may even help yourself a bit(?). To your comment - You're among men and essentially somewhat of an online brotherhood. You can say she she she all you want dude. Also it's anonymous, no reason to have any identifying details. ​ This isn't feminism counseling where you have to abide by some rules, if you have an honest mistake then add it but you can write "she she she she she me" if that's your experience. Just write whatever you believe to be …
/r/RPChristians03/10/18 08:00 PM
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Sorry to hear that. Prayed for you and your family just now. If you're ok with it, could you share just the basic things that lead to the relationship doing what it did?
/r/RPChristians03/10/18 03:06 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2018/aug/15/us-womens-rights-campaigner-accused-of-sexual-harassment
/r/RPChristians03/10/18 03:02 PM
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I think we're running into semantics issues. To keep peace - I don't think it will help if I explain where we are repeatedly having misunderstandings. Thanks for your insights.
/r/RPChristians03/10/18 06:04 AM
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Well, these are 2 min write ups. I felt like it was a blue pill interpretation and hence I wanted to ask how the red pill interpretation of this text would be. Which is why I asked, if I just agreed 100% - I wouldn't have asked. I may have mispoken in the original post.
/r/RPChristians03/10/18 04:40 AM
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haha, I obviously questioned it or I wouldn't have posted it.
/r/RPChristians03/10/18 04:02 AM
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Thanks for all the verses - I put the book quote at the end of my original post. It is interesting - I do respect the author and I'm not clear if he may just be misreading this or what. Thanks for the detailed reply, I'm going to look at these verses more carefully!
/r/RPChristians03/10/18 12:55 AM
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I respect the author. I think our culture is highly feminized though and it's hard to tell when it's happening. I quoted at the end of my post the direct quote from the book.
/r/RPChristians03/10/18 12:28 AM
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There are different types of agression. I think that the pharisees misleading people about Jesus very own mission is much different than some random guy showing him aggression on the street. Clearly, you have to pick and chose your times to stand up and fight for something - and Jesus (as I see it) picked the times he needed to. It is expressing love. It's love as defense though - he's loving the people he's leading. Sometimes you have to stand up to evil to love. And responding with love doesn'…
/r/RPChristians02/10/18 11:30 PM
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Well, it sounds like you're doing the best you can. There is no true way to avoid patterns of thought, habits / other than possibly building new ones by using God's word or Jesus teachings and repeating them in your mind or writing out your situation and relating it to what God says.
/r/RPChristians02/10/18 08:43 PM
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hmm. I think I would say to behave like Christ. ​ Christ didn't have perceived threats or aggression, he had real aggression. Did he respond negatively, not really - he just loved the people around. I think you should just think about what Christ would do in this scenario and do that. ​ There are 2 possibilities - they don't like you or you are misunderstanding - either way, just behave in a loving way. There's no step by step thing to do. Pray about what the loving thing to do is - then do it.
/r/RPChristians02/10/18 06:34 AM
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Hmm, I think this is pretty easy. I would for sure "cut her off" - but I wouldn't have a problem texting her to say "no thanks" or stuff like that. Points to consider: - you state you see no future with her - you state you do dumb things with her which could get you into trouble ​ Done. Cut her off. If she wants to text you and tell you a story, just respond with really short 1 word answers and be nice / kind but tell her that you are busy with other things. You don't have to make time for women…
/r/RPChristians02/10/18 02:58 AM
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Again, my issue mostly is with wanting sex there. Sure I would be satisfied but it's hard to say you're going to be celibate.
/r/RPChristians02/10/18 12:12 AM
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I now realize that even the most spiritually mature women are susceptible to their base programming My conversation with her this past weekend was merely another of many sobering reminders that AWALT - even the sweet, innocent ones who in my former judgement I thought could never have been like that. Women are women. These ideas are the ones I was struggling with if I'm honest. Why? I had idealized women I think or I should say I had an idealized picture of a great woman, a unicorn, and it's a b…
/r/RPChristians01/10/18 10:36 PM
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TLDR: Jesus. I agree that some of the historical stuff about drinking and sexual activities may have been glossed over or fabricated - that's a guess (I don't clearly have evidence to support that). I believe as followers of Christ we are supposed to live in Christ's frame and try to be Christ like. I don't know if me making judgements about Kavanaugh is a Christ-like or not. I do love the simplicity of Jesus message, go love each other as I loved you. As frustrated as I am with how terrible peo…
/r/RPChristians01/10/18 07:46 PM
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I agree with your post and thank you for your advice. ​ Why was I worried about this? Agreed, it's a blue pill thing to even address this. It's probably as simple as it sounds - guy wants happy family and beautiful wife - guy getting frustrated with his selection of women - guy wants sex - guy now frustrated to find a feminist imperative running things, arrogant women who will divorce you, etc. ​ I agree, I'm in their frame and need to get out. That was just my thought process - I'm not saying i…
/r/RPChristians01/10/18 07:07 PM
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I know. You are right. I think I need a break. ​ I've been absorbing so much secular red pill and mgtow stuff and hearing all the negative stories about women - honestly many of them make sense and ring true. The red pill resentment, red pill malaise, red pill rage, red pill whatever - it all makes sense. I find myself not liking rude behaviors of women. ​ Like this morning, I run into this gem on MGTOW - https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9k4eia/found_on_rtinder/ And all I can think is, I'…
/r/RPChristians30/09/18 06:01 PM
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Not really. MGTOW isn't banned or quarantined.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 10:25 PM
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This forum and the red pill in general, is about male / female interactions. So in general they comment on behavior according to the gender. If we are using "sexist" as derogatory, then if you walked through the thread - you would notice this was a play on words, as "men are pigs" is frequently mentioned in society and no one even blinks or even gives thought to that idea being sexist We live in a feminist country where saying something like, "men are pigs" is met with high fives and laughs and …
/r/RPChristians29/09/18 10:17 PM
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yup
/r/RPChristians29/09/18 06:06 AM
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Agreed with everything you said. The fact you are willing to look at all the issues and think about them puts you in the top 5-10% already. You sound virtuous to me!
/r/RPChristians28/09/18 08:49 PM
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Well, not all of us! Unless by "emotion" you include anger over the fact the confirmation hearing for a SCOTUS justice devolved into parsing slang terms for flatulence in a 35-year-old high school yearbook. Unfortunately, it's our circus and our monkeys. It's a shame that our politics have descended to this level. ​ Sorry, I use women in general and by far don't mean all. I'm more referring to the women I've seen on TV. Which unfortunately is what were getting most of. ​ As I started out with th…
/r/RPChristians28/09/18 07:17 PM
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Well, not all of us! Unless by "emotion" you include anger over the fact the confirmation hearing for a SCOTUS justice devolved into parsing slang terms for flatulence in a 35-year-old high school yearbook. Unfortunately, it's our circus and our monkeys. It's a shame that our politics have descended to this level. ​ Sorry, I use women in general and by far don't mean all. I'm more referring to the women I've seen on TV. Which unfortunately is what were getting most of. ​ As I started out with th…
/r/RPChristians28/09/18 07:10 PM
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OR you can read it here! ​ Naboth’s Vineyard 21 Some time later there was an incident involving a vineyard belonging to Naboth the Jezreelite. The vineyard was in Jezreel, close to the palace of Ahab king of Samaria. 2 Ahab said to Naboth, “Let me have your vineyard to use for a vegetable garden, since it is close to my palace. In exchange I will give you a better vineyard or, if you prefer, I will pay you whatever it is worth.” 3 But Naboth replied, “The Lord forbid that I should give you the i…
/r/RPChristians28/09/18 04:53 PM
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Thanks for the great reply
/r/RPChristians28/09/18 03:15 AM
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agreed. Freedom of speech. They are not doing anything other than talking to themselves. Why is reddit so concerned? Are they anarchists trying to revolt against America? Do they pose a threat? No. It's senseless censorship. And I don't agree with all they say. I love many of the founding principles of our country but deep down I think it's going to ****.
/r/RPChristians28/09/18 01:13 AM
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There is no reason to censor TRP. It's feminism
/r/RPChristians28/09/18 01:12 AM
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No joke.
/r/RPChristians28/09/18 01:07 AM
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Thanks. 1.99 on Amazon. Just got it
/r/RPChristians27/09/18 10:40 PM
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it's anti femnisim. I can admit these guys can be somewhat offensive to women but the mainstream media is offensive to rational thinking and no one bans them.
/r/RPChristians27/09/18 10:05 PM
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I am moderate leaning right.
/r/RPChristians27/09/18 10:04 PM
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what does OYS mean?
/r/RPChristians26/09/18 08:35 PM
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I'm page 99/144 on the sidebar complete PDF. I'm not married so I don't typically read the married stuff. I'm in the process of getting established in a new city. But I haven't been good at church, like a lot of single guys I felt lost in a big sea of married people. I am re-dedicating myself to getting involved and being a leader - but I don't have a church yet. I'm not getting better at evangelizing! That's why I am asking for books or resources to help. This has been a weakness for me. I don'…
/r/RPChristians26/09/18 08:24 PM
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men - done and done.
/r/RPChristians26/09/18 06:51 PM
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I listen to EIC, he's good for the most part. And also the Red Man Group. They are hard core secular though, they believe in sleeping with as many women as you can, there are no virtuous high value women - some of their beliefs are extreme. Christ can change a woman's heart just like man's - they don't believe that.
/r/RPChristians26/09/18 04:42 PM
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Don't sweat the stuttering. It's hard to say, don't think about it - but I think if you own who you are and are confident then it doesn't matter. People see it but will accept it if you own it. Like people say, maybe there is a way to get rid of it, if not that's fine. Serenity prayer. The best advice I've learned in my short time here is "forget about the women". Just do your best to live your best life, i.e. be on a purpose (God given), get your house in order (finances, job, wardrobe), get in…
/r/RPChristians26/09/18 04:34 PM
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Her stomach?
/r/RPChristians26/09/18 01:30 PM
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Agreed. I have learned a lot from this site already in a week or so. Hollywood and America are so blue pilled it's crazy. I once got a book called what do women want or something and it essentially taught me how to be even more blue pilled and feminine. There is so much backwards advice out there it's insane. I should say I had once seen the red pill stuff but they were always talking about being a player, getting your notch count really high, slaying Btch$ and stuff - that I was like, these guy…
/r/RPChristians26/09/18 01:47 AM
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shouldn't you state some of her claims and then people can discuss. This is a very broad question.
/r/RPChristians26/09/18 01:45 AM
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Sure. I'm not saying it's not possible. But just as many men have described, even in this very post - good looking guy comes in making 10 times more income than you, clearly has a higher status than you, woman jumps ship and leaves even though she was a "good Christian woman". AWALT. If you're fortunate to be "alpha" enough and she continues to dread and have that going on, maybe you can master her. But let's not pretend like it's in our control. And the state does no good making a welfare state…
/r/RPChristians26/09/18 01:43 AM
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I'm on it. Thanks.
/r/RPChristians25/09/18 10:58 PM
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Holy crap, great post. Paradigm changing. I wonder in my mind, does Jesus pursue me or us? I don't know - you make a good argument though. This is a very MGTOW type of argument though (I know labels are so lame because no one really knows what any of these labels mean) - but the argument essentially is be on your mission and she can join if she wants. I must admit - maybe in a secular way - how much of my time and attention moves towards doing things that I think will get me more women, be that …
/r/RPChristians25/09/18 10:47 PM
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Thanks for the detailed reply. Good points I moved to a new city recently and have no church. Do you guys go to the big mega churches or small churches or what?
/r/RPChristians25/09/18 09:55 PM
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Right. So we can agree it's not good, it's biological nature and that if tempted - men would probably do the same. Fallen world. Holy Spirit is the only way.
/r/RPChristians25/09/18 05:21 PM
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Haha, I am. I can live off maybe 10-15% of my income. My work hours are slightly less but I have to stay up on my field for some time, he certainly the 60 hrs Also I like working. I could survive working 40 hrs a month but that doesn't sound like fun - surviving.
/r/RPChristians25/09/18 01:19 PM
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Thanks for the rec. The money thing - while I'm not set, that's probably my best area. I'm lacking in the social proof / game / red pill skills. ​ I'm checking out your book... I usually buy on amazon so I can get a feel for reviews. This is a self published. ​ Also - I'm all for getting advice from experts - however, how is one book telling me how to get my money, diet, social life and fitness/physique optimized? It seems like that would be 4 different books right there. How can one book be goo…
/r/RPChristians25/09/18 05:14 AM
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congrats
/r/RPChristians25/09/18 02:32 AM
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As u/Red-Curious would say, what's your mission? And how will having a woman help that mission? thanks for taking the time. I'm probably just going through this red pill frustrating thing and need to just focus on God instead of money, women, status, sex because it's all pretty empty and depressing. I'm not suicidal or anything but certainly I keep getting a "what's the point of all this" attitude.
/r/RPChristians24/09/18 10:52 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I think the issue I'm running into, hitting your 30s there's a lot less of this young, innocent / pure women that I get into interact with. Social groups in teens / even into college, there were all these interactions, but as I've become a professional single guy working a lot - there's less social groups to find these women - maybe that's another thing I have to get better at... lol
/r/RPChristians24/09/18 10:50 PM
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Thanks. You're right. About the job thing, I just thought it would give me better options.
/r/RPChristians24/09/18 06:14 PM
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Sounds wise. My problem I think is with sex and wanting sex - which is making me want to plan to get women. You're on a better path than me right now.
/r/RPChristians24/09/18 04:44 PM
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Right - secular marriage is what I'm talking about. Look, Christian marriage is the real idea of marriage just like Christ-like behavior is the ideal. But today's American women don't value Christian marriage (I've also heard those statistics, there is no difference between "Christian" women's actions and nonbelievers. That is, if we are to believe women / people at their words of being Christians.
/r/RPChristians24/09/18 03:11 PM
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What is your long term plan or goal with women?
/r/RPChristians24/09/18 02:30 PM
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Can you explain how the things you are saying don't apply to many more than just adulterers. Deceiver, thief, liar, sexually not exclusive - how many modern women play the dating market and manipulate and lie, become promiscuous, steal other women's husband's. This description applies very well to many attractive young modern females.
/r/RPChristians24/09/18 02:29 PM
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This reply and case are exactly what I was getting at in this post. Many have offered counter examples and surely there are. But here's the thing, how do we know the counter examples aren't just still women being Hypergamous above being faithful. The guy may be in her mind the best male she thinks she can get and she may have dread. Well, shes not loving him for real- it's still Hypergamy. maybe a true Christian virgin never married woman could overcome all this. What percentage of women is that…
/r/RPChristians24/09/18 02:25 PM
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Marriage was meant for men? Well, marriage today is for women. Other than religious reasons, there is no benefit for a high status male to marry. We say on here to get women you must be desired by many women and make other women want you (dread). This all works better outside of marriage. Marriage 2.0 is for women. I guess when marriage has a meaning - i.e. you don't divorce and there's actual comittment, then it good for both.
/r/RPChristians24/09/18 02:20 PM
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I agree with all you said. Im just being honest. I'm sure you are right. I think my blue pill fantasies are just dying and it's frustrating as I worked hard to get into a top 1% job/income and now all I see are beta bucks single moms or promiscuous Hypergamous women. I would prefer a normal Christian virgin who believed in marriage. Maybe it will work out for me, maybe not. But you're right, it's about God and I may just be in a bad moment / frustrated that I believed in a lie.
/r/RPChristians24/09/18 12:48 AM
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I agree. That's my whole point! How is she worthless? She is the same woman both times. This is the argument about bringing a foreign girl home - you are the alpha in the foreign land so she loves you. Then here in America she finds an even better alpha. She's the same woman both times. She left the betas in her home country, as soon as you are the beta she leaves you. The woman who cheats just was using her Hypergamy on you first then on some other dude later. This is why these guys advise you …
/r/RPChristians24/09/18 12:07 AM
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I didn't mention it to be an ideal, but more it shows that when men can, they would probably enjoy 700 different women. I.e. it supports the idea that the male sex drive is hard to suppress. I didnt say it ends well when men do that.
/r/RPChristians23/09/18 11:45 PM
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I have no idea. I'm learning like everyone else. I know that the male sex drive probably needed to be what it is to drive civilization, biology and human history to where it is today. Our set up today - monogamy is maybe the ideal but it's the ideal when marriage means something, but we have marriage 2.0 when sex and marriage dont matter anymore. There was a red pill post in the other forum talking about women who sleep with only one man in their life, they brain and body bond to that male more …
/r/RPChristians23/09/18 10:55 PM
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But why is a male with a strong sex drive a pig? Because he used it outside of marriage? I'm not here to debate premarital sex or stuff like that. Solomon had what, 700 wives. I'm not pro polygamy - but it's clear that built into males is the desire for lots of sex. How is a woman's hypergamy not being a pig? I would argue its worse because the female does it consciously and plans for it. It's like the difference between a crime of passion and premeditated murder. They are seen differently in th…
/r/RPChristians23/09/18 10:46 PM
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I don't know if I argued they should be different. Your points are valid. I'm with you, we should learn how things are - not worry about should be's. However, I'm still further understanding how things are. I have been blue pilled nearly all my life.
/r/RPChristians23/09/18 10:41 PM
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My job takes 60+ hrs a week. I was factoring that in. But you're right.
/r/RPChristians23/09/18 01:37 PM
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You're probably right. Thanks for the harsh criticism. I'm not being sarcastic. I think you are right. We all have down moments
/r/RPChristians23/09/18 01:36 PM
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I think the more accurate statement would be doesn't want to learn the system. Funny, I'm sure the apostle Paul spent 5 days a week at the gym and tried to approach 20 girls and week and take notes on his game lol You act like learning game is somehow a central aspect of life. Maybe 21st century America. It is a shortcut though. I likely won't take it though.
/r/RPChristians23/09/18 12:35 PM
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maybe you're right.
/r/RPChristians23/09/18 12:09 AM
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Yes, the Proverbs 31 model is so much better. ​ It's interesting, as men we are attracted to women's looks / bodies / etc, but a woman with true inner beauty is truly a delight. This isn't to say we can ever ignore fully what a woman looks like but having more of an emphasis on inner beauty would be good for all men. The problem is that all this internet dating and online interactions are superficial and have nothing to do with actual character / values.
/r/RPChristians22/09/18 06:54 PM
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Good point ​
/r/RPChristians22/09/18 06:52 PM
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A "TL;DR" is always helpful for long posts. You'll get more feedback. added the TLDR. Thanks for the feedback, I think you make some good points about not taking this as cannon or scripture and also to learn the ideas and move on. I do think social media and technology are opening up new dynamics though that we've never truly seen in human history. Even internet porn is an example that is having detrimental affects on society, this was not possible previously in human history. ​ EDIT: I ran into…
/r/RPChristians22/09/18 06:45 PM
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Will check it out, thanks for the feedback
/r/RPChristians22/09/18 12:04 AM
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It's a heart problem, not a cultural problem. The solution is the Gospel of Jesus Christ, which changes what we cannot: the human heart. Great point. Great verse.
/r/RPChristians21/09/18 11:58 PM
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It's interesting you point that our. It does seem like the modern Christian female has little different from the modern American female other than maybe being less promiscuous. But even that isn't a given. Who knows?
/r/RPChristians21/09/18 10:54 PM
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Great post. Very encouraging
/r/RPChristians21/09/18 01:35 PM
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Ok, so I will respond to your points. To stay organized, I will try to address each one at a time. I follow your first story and reasoning. I agree. I would say that I personally would not use that word and the reason is simple – although we can be made new, it’s a constant struggle between the flesh and the spirit. And as you state, “be selfish” for a saint is different from “be selfish” for an adulterer and murderer. I hear all the time, the people who call Christians foolish in these groups t…
/r/RPChristians21/09/18 07:09 AM
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I see your point - and this is probably semantics we are running into. The word selfish, "lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure." - I'm taking to mean as lacking consideration for others and you are more using it to say that it's a pleasure to do what you please which is a good thing. I agree with the idea, just saying the word selfish is not how I would write it. ​ These ideas are actually very helpful. I am working through your stickied …
/r/RPChristians21/09/18 03:16 AM
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Good work. I think that Rollo and these other guys have missed the mark. They have figured out many evolutionary truths about women and many of the things they say are true. But then their application is usually to be selfish and self-centered and take what you want. They assert that's the true mark of man. But anyone, even athiest, that have understood Christ and who he was - they all agree that this man was a good man, the ideal man and the Christians would say he is the Son of God. Why? Becau…
/r/RPChristians21/09/18 02:36 AM
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Great post. I am struggling with having a big enough mission. Right now I just have a hard job that has a good income but I don't have a real purpose. The red pill guys are like, make your life cool, get hobbies, get into shape. But deep down I know making my life really awesome isn't a mission - and if it is, it's pretty self centered. I'm hoping to find something! thanks for your help. ​ you're right though, I don't have something I need a woman for right now. Other than sex, haha
/r/RPChristians20/09/18 04:16 AM
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