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It's tricky but you don't have to be where you don't want to. If the cons are too bad for you you could get out. No one has to obliged you to stay where you don't want to stay
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/25 11:06 PM
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Who said that you lose your value when you're age? Is that kind of things that they teach here?
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/25 12:58 PM
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You have 10 years advantage of me (I'm 34) so, good luck. Don't feel bad about this. This too shall pass
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/25 08:43 PM
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I totally agree. Not a good indicator of husband or father either. But considering,y circumstances. I don't want to be alone for now. Remember I lost my sibling and my father in less than 3 years.and I need support.i need care, that's the only reason I keep him, but I don't expect anything else besides that.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/25 10:36 PM
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He posted a WhatsApp picture of him and his "female co worker" in September 2024. I confronted him about the matter and he stands all be the side of this girl explaining that she is the only real friend that he has in work etc. I mean wtf? Why give some X person some much importance. Or worse. Put it this matter ABOVE MYSELF? Isn't me who he loves ? Then why agree to get separated for just one stupid fucking reason? PS I'm not mad or anything. I process my feelings while ago just for you guys I …
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/25 10:15 PM
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*I don't.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/25 10:03 PM
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"semi common female logic" the problem in this group is those bitter guys that always generalized "all men do this" "All men do that" I hate this kind of comments. Because it doesn't help AT ALL WITH MY SITUATION. Why tf should I care about "what all men do. Why tf.you I care about Chad do. That's not of my business. What I'm looking forhere in this community is the help and support and guidance on wise women whom get through similar situations. I'm only concerning about my problem and how to so…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/25 10:02 PM
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It probably it's fire.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/25 03:01 PM
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Yes there's a reason. But I keep it to myself. I'm only here to seek advise of wise women not to generalized my personal experience.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/25 02:53 PM
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Wtf?
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/25 02:51 PM
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Over a year. We have 4 dates then he asked me to "be exclusive" that he wanted me to be his girlfriend. We keep dating and knowing each other and have been intimate since then. We have fun together because we have a lot of things and interestests in common I developed feelings as fasts as he get close and very interested in me. He talk to me about moving in together he asked to marry. He also talk about "having our own stuff like buy a car together. Buy a house etc. His mood is always happy with…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/25 08:04 PM
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It was mutual. In October last year. I found about the condoms 2 months ago.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/25 03:49 PM
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Yes. I'm don't want to be with him. That's what I want. But it's so hard to let go.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/25 04:43 PM
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I'm concerning about his values, the lies are not a good indicator of being a good person. And the fact that "somehow" all his friends are "girls". I don't like this but also I don't want to confront him for that. I think it would put me in a weak position.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/25 04:41 PM
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I turn 34 this year and he's 31. I have a lot of insecurities about the age because somehow I've notice how people in general stigmatized women for her age, in things that people judge you for "being in your 30's and "you're old and still not marry or don't have kids" etc. Let's face this fact, that we pretend to don't care what people said but, deep inside it hurts.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/25 04:36 PM
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Leadership. Make the decisions. It's protective of you. And you can naturally feel safe and secure around him.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/25 06:55 PM
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From my experience I don't recommend it. If you're older and he's younger you will notice always the difference on things. Like you want to start a family and he only cares about his friends videogames and shit likes that. It sucks
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/25 06:48 PM
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Im talking about my experience. We have 4 dates. Then he began to visit to my apartment. Made out and I noticed that he was "ready" then the third time he came in my apartment he "ask me if he can sleep over" and I noticed that was the code for having sex. I was a virgin. I didn't say yes the first time he ask me. I was totally confused because I had never been with anyone but at this point we considered each other exclusive. We talk about it. He ask again on a Wednesday and I said "come to slee…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/25 06:40 PM
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Me too. I'm not ashamed of express what I feel. I'm 34 and I'm stuck with the worst relationship of my entire life. And im so afraid of ended up alone. Im just want a way out of this pain.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 07:04 PM
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That's the issue. I do intimacy before commitment and shit went through the door.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/25 10:13 AM
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Did dating apps works?
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/25 10:10 AM
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Wtf do you want to know that? It will change your life in some way or something?
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/25 10:46 AM
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I read it carefully. Thanks a lot. Having information and guidance is very important for me ✨
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/25 12:51 AM
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Slut shaming. Not in my presence or not that I know of. He is very extrovert person as an opposite of me I'm extremely introverted. And he has a lot of friends but I don't hear yet that he makes negative comments about other women in general. We both +25
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 08:10 PM
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Yes that was my fear. That he might lose respect or lose interest
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 08:08 PM
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I'm not a virgin. He is the first boyfriend I ever have
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 08:06 PM
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Hi. And yes we have intercourse on a regular basis. We have been together for 8 months.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 08:01 PM
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Totally understandable. I have also the same settings in Facebook and other social media . Certain people shouldn't see what I posts or with whom I'm socializing I dont like being asked about where did I go o why I'm talking to x y z
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 04:48 PM
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It's totally ok to find her annoying. Is normal. Every regular person should feel the same way you are feeling right now. I have a friend that is the same way too, I mean she has a very difficult personality but I will not let her affect me nor affect the other relationships I have for the good I just keep my distance from her. A healthy distance and in my socials I mute her, so I don't see her posts. Actually I have certain number of people that I muted in social media for same reasons. I just …
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 04:25 PM
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People that have mental disorders should discover their own path, just like everyone else. Showing extra concern may have the opposite effect on them, maybe they will become codepend on other people and that's also not healthy for anyone
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 04:06 PM
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Cut this person off from your life. I've cut others for way more less than this
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/24 07:27 PM
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The real question I want to ask is why you even force yourself to go through all of that?
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/24 07:27 PM
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Why you take things personal? You think strangers at the streets of coffee shops get together to hate you or something?
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 03:46 PM
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Why someone would do such thing. Unless is a bad person. Bad persons do nasty things to others.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/24 11:23 PM
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If I was you I would end things and move on. For me when a relationship gives you more suffering than happiness, that's the main reason. It donest have to be that hard to choose. The harsh part is when you done it. There will be times when you will want to get back just to feel secure again. But that's just a feeling. I came back with someone only to find out that the same issues are repeating again. But is your choice. Good luck 🤞🏻
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/24 09:20 PM
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Stop reading or even care about those comments. They come from resentful people. Why you shout take it seriously?
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/24 09:13 PM
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Why everybody's point of reference is memes? Imagine that you should judge the quality of your life based on a meme. How pathetic is that
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/24 02:46 PM
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How you deduced that she is 'a mistress '
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/24 12:01 AM
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Girl. I don't even know you, but I feel that you're an excellent catch. The only thing that I think you done wrong is staying when he told you that don't want anything serious. When a man says that, believe them. You will never make him change his mind, only wasting you're time. Take time to heal, and I wish you health and happiness. Good luck. Ps. I was in the same situation, I broke with him 3 months ago. I never thought about getting back together, but I gave to admit that I miss him. I keep …
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/24 11:57 PM
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We wish you the best of lucks 🥰
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/24 01:54 AM
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My opinion is that social medial is shit nowadays. People posts "memes" and videos of other people criticizing others, criticizing women, mocking women, judging people for no reason. I love Internet from 2008 to 2014 where you can share something fun with your friends and post your photos and where you can write in your friends walls or tag them in photos etc. Now other people tell you what you 'should do' or how you 'should' behave. Recently on Instagram I was reading the comments on celebritie…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/24 12:56 AM
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Im reading a book that is based in the green and red flags in the early stages of dating and getting to know someone. Is basically all about the green and red flags, don't let the title fool you. The book is from Bruce Bryans its called "he's not that interested just passing time. Is better that read literature based on the male perspective so you can know how they think about these things. Good luck
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/24 10:55 PM
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Don't be ignorant about aging. No one that is 40 can compare themselves with 20 year old. When you will be aging your power will reside in other things, your kids, your family, your prestige, your career, your work, your legacy. your contribution to your community and society. What you would think people will write on your gravestone 'sexy- well dressed petite girl'? I don't think so. Looks is only a part of being a woman not everything. Don't let the insecurities people have blind your judgemen…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 07:18 PM
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I don't know about you guys but for me reading all of that shit that people going through in Relationship advice topic is emotionally draining, it sucks my energy to read all that mess so I take a long break of that kind of topics. I'm only active here when I seek the advise and help to develop new perspectives. Try to cut your time online and select what kind of topic you want to watch on the internet so you can avoid and prevent emotional exhaustion
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/24 06:13 PM
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I don't know about you OP. But for me generosity is a very important quality that I looking in a man. Someone that gives from the heart without expecting something in return or else, our interactions will become a merely commercial transaction.. I'm willing to give my best from the heart and I hope the other person appreciate it and give back only and ONLY if he wants to give. It's not an obligation, you know.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/23 04:11 PM
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I would want to date and married someone that loves me, chooses me and cares for me. Someone that sees a future with me on the picture. The rest doesn't matter like a dating pool and strangers but I don't make the rules, I'm simply a girl that tries to discover the rules and play well my cards. Is ever easy for anybody
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 09:33 PM
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Thank you very much for these words. I really need to hear them during the past days! I will built the courage again to go on dates 💪🏻
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/23 01:40 AM
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I'm 32 🤔
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/23 04:44 PM
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What is body count?
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 08:08 PM
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Also having sex is something that kind of proof their "value and performance" among men. And many exaggerated the number. I have seen this in high school. The dudes when talking to each other about their adventures always lie about the number
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 08:04 PM
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It happen to me also not because I want destroy a family bla bla bit because I set myself to settle with crumbs of love and attention. That's the root cause. This man doesn't even tell me that hes married or with kids. But I can tell based on his actions. He's actions never match his words The worse you can do is settle with few when you like everyone else want everything. This man will never give you what you want and you will never be happy. Like me. Right now I'm reading the book "attached" b…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 12:45 PM
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Don't push someone away due to insecurities. Let me correct myself. If I was you, I wouldn't push someone that good (as you say) away just only for insecurities. I mean, did you ever talk about this with your friends and family? You don't have Idea how hard it is to find someone that have consideration and attentiveness these days. Who buy you flowers? There is a world full of men who want to f you but few will consider you "the one" remember that they also do they pick and selection I have the …
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 04:27 PM
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Ohhhh not yet. I will read it now thanks 👌
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 02:47 PM
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Is not of my business but I'm curious. Allow me to ask you. If you live in a Muslim country, how you can kiss someone in public? That not compromise your physical safety? Someone saw you guys?
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 12:16 AM
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He leave you because you don't want to masturbate him??
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 12:09 AM
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If I were in your position I would tell him that the rules are made for the 2 of us. If he wants to sleep with other women that gives me freedom also to sleep with other men. Tell him that and you will see how the desire of f others p****ies instantly goes away from him 🤔😆
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 08:50 PM
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I think your ex is jelous of you moving on and doesn't accept willingly or no that you have a new man and future husband in your life. Men are like that, not bc he wants you back but bc he doesn't want other man around you. My comment might not be liked by others but I saw this happened a lot in my surroundings. Fight for your daughter and get the best lawyer that you can pay. Good luck 🙏🙏
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 11:51 AM
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I want that. The kind of relationship that gives me confort and peace. I'm tired of all the jerks that I have met really. And trying to be a better and compassionate woman for an honest man 🙏
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/23 06:24 PM
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If he truly apologized just move on. There's nothing can be done I think. We all make mistakes and say inappropriate things but don't let this thing makes you feel bad about yourself. You know your worth
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 09:22 PM
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Maybe I'm wrong but my thought is that this is a excuse to hide something bigger and that could possibly hurt your feelings. But like every girl in here, is my opinion. You should read every different thoughts. Analyze them and get to your own conclusion. You know your situation better than anyone. I wish you the best of lucks 🙂🫂
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/23 09:38 PM
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I get you girl. I'm in the situation. Is like friends and family disapproves the people I like.maybe it has to be for protection but I'm reading and trying to get more mature and get better at picking partners. Good help me and help us with this 🙏
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/23 09:29 PM
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That's what I think is better for a long time relationship. The 2 people have to be best friends. And you should know him and he knows you. And be comfortable in each other presence and spend time together. You cannot do a long time relationship with a stranger or someone that doesn't trust you
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/23 09:26 PM
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His change his behavior with you just because he read something on internet?. That means the relationship hangs on a wire everytime something made him change his mind
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/23 09:20 PM
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I don't want to be disrespectful or mean but in my honest opinion I think this could be a troll. Knowing our community and poster here how come this women leave her life and go marry to a stranger and let him abuse her. It doesn't make any sense
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 04:45 PM
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Why you marry him if you didnt know how really is the person?
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 04:42 PM
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Don't waste your time on people that will never you feel safe and trust around
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 02:40 AM
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I'm in the same situation. Any tips from our married friends?
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 05:10 PM
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In "the surrender single she also says "every man could be the man" But I don't see her married with a Walmart cashier. Just saying
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 05:00 PM
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Thanks 🙏😊
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/23 03:19 AM
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Anyone has a link to download it? I search for it and I don't find it 🙏
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/23 01:01 AM
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And also I'm very proud of being a woman that works. We both can work and have a built a good future with our efforts. That's what I think. Also I appreciate woman that stay at home. Raise children and taking care of a house is also a respectable job.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 05:18 PM
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Why I should be ashamed of wanting a provider.. I want the best for my family and future children. And I will not support homeless lazy men
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 05:15 PM
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I think dating these days is hard for anyone. Is not like years before
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 11:11 PM
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You can always get what you want. But if you try sometimes. You get what you need For my experience I'm not trust 100% pin my emotions because I feel strong things with wrong guys. I know in the beginning saw the red flags but "my emotions" don't stop even seeing the red flags. You can feel many things for the wrong person and that is really hard. I always think that my picker is broken according to emotions and love. I have the good person in the past for me but I don't feel those things your t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/23 11:26 PM
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I'm no one and I don't have the right to tell no one what they have to do but I can share my opinion on the topic. What I would do is look for that man that happens to love me, appreciate me and be a good person with good manners and that have things in common with me like values, and education I think people let the internet dictate very important aspects of their lives and they shouldn't
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/23 02:14 AM
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Mods should verify the type of post that they accept. This hardly be written by a woman. In today's internet there is hundreds of trolls messing with communities. I don't doubt that there could be trolls messing around RP women coumunity
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 11:56 AM
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I love when we used the term Realistic. Because in the dating scene there's a lot of people coming with their exigences and forgive that their not perfect too. Just as anyone
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 07:39 PM
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Don't be upset about statistics. Just be prepared to receive the things that will come in your life. Remember that we cannot make someone like us. Be prepare to receive the person that will honor you and love you by who are you, not your nationality. Well, that's my opinion. If for you it's very important the nationality of the men, I respect that.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/23 01:08 AM
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Practice? First simple ans easy things. Master that and then go for elaborate things. I always try to improve. And also eat and have fun 😊
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 11:40 PM
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Advantage you can pick the best men (and every men will be interest in you) for a Partner (if they also choose you) Disadvantage unwanted attention on the streets, jerks can harass you etc
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 03:09 AM
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If you concern about your body. For my experience I can tell that men love big booties and bo*s lmao. Embrace your body just take care of your waist. Imo
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/23 11:43 AM
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I need help with that too. I'm overweight after the loss of my sibling last year due to covid. And now I have to loose weight. Where do I start:(
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 11:59 PM
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I offer yes. But usually the man in question decides to pay all himself
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 11:35 PM
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You're talking about the man in your life or men in general
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/23 04:01 PM
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What Body Count means?
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/23 02:27 AM
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What it's shit testing?
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/23 08:23 PM
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He's not love you. Look at his actions. Let him go. He doesn't deserve you
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/23 08:22 PM
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Many things. But the most important for me is how they need you to love them
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 10:16 PM
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I don't understand it. Why this sub reddit is so polemical to others 👀
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 04:42 PM
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