That's it. The main reason I want to hear some insights inside the community from people that are in a relationship. My question is like if a do that. Would that affect the way he sees me? Would that affect the relationship and in what way. I have never done that before and actually I have never been in a relationship before. Both of us are adults but me personally I must say that I don't have experience dealing with man or dealing with a real relationship.. is it his normal? What happened if I do this and he change the way he sees me. From my experience and coming from a disfuntional family I must say that I have trust issues. My father was not a good husband and I can remember how he was and that creates in me like a shield to protect myself from hurting to protect myself from men that could be just like my father was... Back to my initial question. To the people here who are in stable relationships. I wonder if this could affect me affect us and in what way. We have been together for 8 months from now. Any advise of word would be highly appreciate it. Thank you all.