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| 2 | 31M still living at home. Should I not even worry about girls right now?What kind of girls were they? | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 04:50 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate for a kissThis is gold! | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 03:45 AM |
| 2 | How do you move from the introduction to the seduction/flirting part of the conversation?Definitely great advice. Sometimes I get stuck in my head thinking, man I don’t want to come off as a creep and scare her away. Whenever I’m comfortable with a person though, I can really be a fun person. | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 07:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you move from the introduction to the seduction/flirting part of the conversation?Wouldn’t you say it’s too fast right away? Wouldn’t she feel uncomfortable? | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 07:31 PM |
| 2 | How do you move from the introduction to the seduction/flirting part of the conversation?I get this, but I also don’t want to come across as too creepy or bold. It’s like I’m just starting to say hi and I’m already joking with her, I feel she might feel uncomfortable, instead of asking couple of questions first. | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 07:31 PM |
| 4 | How do you move from the introduction to the seduction/flirting part of the conversation?Yeah I’m usually a playful person. I can make jokes once I’m comfortable, but since I don’t want to come off as a creep I play it way too safe. Which leads to nowhere. I can see building up the momentum, so she’s more comfortable too. Instead of out of nowhere teasing her. I’ll keep in mind those levels and test it out in my next interaction. | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 07:28 PM |
| 2 | How do you move from the introduction to the seduction/flirting part of the conversation?Exactly the answer I was looking for. Thanks for breaking it down for me! I know nightlife and day game can be very different, so I try my best to not creep her out. Checking out that article you sent me, I noticed you’re doing couple of bootcamps in LA. I think that’s something I definitely need. | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Advice on not being afraid to flirt with women?I’m not going to lie, I think that’s actually the best advice so far 😂. I know many people say not to think with your dick, but if I’m just thinking about getting laid then I throw every insecurity out the window. How do you get around thinking about the outcome, or relying too much on the outcome. | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Advice on not being afraid to flirt with women?Thanks for the advice. It definitely works, I know I have tried this. I’m naturally a funny person. When I don’t care and I’m completely myself I get good results and women show interest in me. For some reason lately my anxiety has been to the roof and I have a hard time being myself. I filter out everything and play it safe. Maybe just start little by little or meditate more so I’m just completely relaxed. | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Advice on not being afraid to flirt with women?Thanks for the advice. I could be funny and I have used that Craig Ferguson method. It’s funny when I don’t care about the girl, the girl is interested in me. I’m really being myself and being bold. I’m just having a hard time getting to that state of mind. I think ironically when I try not being creepy is when I come off as weird since I have the mental fog of dust being cautious of what I’m going to say or been seen as. That’s true though, I have zero control over people’s minds. Yeah it’s all… | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Advice on dancing and flirting with women at the club?I keep the conversations short, but usually bounce to the next girl. If I’m getting good signs at the next event, and some light kino, I’m going to do the hand of God and lead her into dancing. | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Advice on dancing and flirting with women at the club?Definitely no deep conversations 😂. Girls are out there to have fun. How do you keep it simple while building rapport? | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Advice on dancing and flirting with women at the club?What I meant just approaching her and taking her photo (or her group) is not enough. I need to escalate the interaction, dance with her, move her to a more intimate area of the club. But definitely, the approach mindset is everything. | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Advice on dancing and flirting with women at the club?I see it as a big opportunity to get over my approach anxiety, and to meet women. Also when it’s a loud environment I use it as an excuse to get closer and light touch them on the elbow (I should try around the waist too). A girl was doing it to me and I realized how easy it is to kino, so I started grabbing her elbow every time I had something to say. That hand of God is a new one I haven’t heard of before, but looks like a good idea. I also used dental floss opener and got good results after I… | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Advice on dancing and flirting with women at the club?I did before, but now I like to stick around and make those jokes. Now 95% of the photos I take is because I find the girl attractive, but just approaching because I find her attractive is not enough. | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Advice on seducing Chinese women and other conservative women?Thanks for the reply and article. I’ll check it out. | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Advice on seducing Chinese women and other conservative women?I think that’s a good way to build comfort, however attraction is a different story. If I build to much comfort I’ll end up in the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Advice on canceling date plans?Yeah I feel it’s like junk food. I like it, makes you feel good in the moment but in the long run it’s only going to bring problems. | /r/seduction | 13/02/26 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Advice on canceling date plans?Hey man, just I texted her saying sorry and I had changed my mind. Although I’m having second thoughts 😂. I mean gossip is gossip like you said. She probably is talking to the married dude, but it could also be just friendly conversations. I still think it’s not healthy to be texting with so many of my friends. I also got proof she’s going out with one of them, I don’t want sloppy seconds. | /r/seduction | 13/02/26 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Advice on canceling date plans?What? Me avoiding seeing her to avoid drama? | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Advice on canceling date plans?😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Advice on canceling date plans?Quite honestly I’m not looking to waste my time. Even if we hit it off, there’s always a possibility that she will go back to attention seeking from other men which always leads to cheating. I was flirting hard with her over text, even sub communicating sex and she was responding well. Then I find out she’s going out with a friend, and talking to another married friend. I don’t think that’s healthy for a woman. I could care less if word get out that we are dating, I don’t care about that, but I’… | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Advice on canceling date plans?You’re right bro. | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Advice on canceling date plans?I had my good share of dealing with narcissists and I know they don’t take rejection well. What worries me the most is I’m going to be seeing her around because of my mutual friends and her trying to cock block me with potential dates, but fuck it. | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Advice on canceling date plans?Nah bro read the title next time. | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 03:25 PM |
| 7 | Advice on canceling date plans?Why would I say that if I’m not interested in seeing her anymore? | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Advice on canceling date plans?Yeah that’s true man. | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Advice on canceling date plans?Sounds good and honest, but at the same time a little harsh. Maybe I’m just overthinking it since I don’t want to ruin future opportunities with other mutual friends. | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Advice on not getting overly attached to every single woman I meet?What’s your solution? I’ve learned to enjoy spending time on my own. I find it therapeutic. Walks, hiking, eating out, concerts, pretty much anything without feeling uncomfortable or weird. There’s just so much time you can spend on your own though. I might hit up a friend to go hiking or out for whatever, because I also enjoy the company. We are social animals after all. | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Advice on not getting overly attached to every single woman I meet?Check out the responses. There’s a lot of good advice on here. Anxious attachment is something I’m definitely looking into. | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Advice on not getting overly attached to every single woman I meet?Thanks for the advice. I definitely needed to be reminded of this. I think it was a book or YouTube video regarding the Nice Guy syndrome where I first heard about this. It’s like nice guys end up being the image people they think they want, but in the long run it’s exhausting because you’re faking a different person than you really are. I think it’s also about calibrating, it plays a big part. It’s about looking for signals. I have a very dark sense of humor, which I know will get many people o… | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Advice on not getting overly attached to every single woman I meet?I do have several things I’m passionate about and stay focused. Just when it comes to girls I have been dry lately and when one comes around that’s when I become too attached even when I hardly know her. Lack of options is definitely the reason. Also someone commented anxious attachment, which also makes sense. The two combined is a recipe for disaster. | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Advice on not getting overly attached to every single woman I meet?I don’t think rotating is necessary a form of avoidance, but instead a form of having options. It depends on the person too. If one girl doesn’t answer to go out when I want to check out a new restaurant, concert, movie or whatever I have other options. | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Advice on not getting overly attached to every single woman I meet?I mean I think that’s the thing about rotating, you don’t like the girl you look for another while having couple of others around until you find the ones that you like. | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Advice on not getting overly attached to every single woman I meet?Sounds like that could also be a defense mechanism to prevent yourself from getting hurt, therefore you set your standards so high that no one can reach them. You meet a girl no necessity perfect, but good enough for a relationship, but you’ll still find the imperfections as a deal breaker so you discard any possibility of being with her. | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Advice on not getting overly attached to every single woman I meet?Yeah I have recently realized I have codependency issues, but I haven’t really looked into it. I’ll definitely check out that book, I remember hearing about it. I think it was Robert Glover who was describing women with daddy issues. I’m also reading “How to be Yourself” by Ellen Hendrinksen and it has helped me a ton understanding my anxiety. There’s a really good YouTube channel, forgot the name, but the therapist explains anxiety is just a defense mechanism to avoid painful feelings. The best… | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Advice on not getting overly attached to every single woman I meet?How about the outcome though? I mean I guess the point is to not really care about her reaction, but if it’s just a mean and bold message even too much for her to handle and she just takes it as an insult and stops replying when she had interest before? | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Advice on not getting overly attached to every single woman I meet?You got a really great point. I haven’t been meeting a lot of women lately, so the few that come around or even show interest are very few. When I do meet one that shows interest is like I end up valuing the interaction too much because it’s so rare. I definitely need to start meeting more women. | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Advice on sending voice messages when you cringe at the sound of your voice?I think I’m too self conscious, trying to sound perfect is what makes me sound weird or not me at all, which is the opposite of what I want. I also took forever to reply, because the overthinking and I went through so many voice messages, it also didn’t help all the “Message Deleted” in the chat that maybe she lost interest. It’s funny looking back, stuff happens. This is definitely a great exercise. I also think it will get getting over the awkward feeling of listening to myself. I’m going to r… | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Advice on sending voice messages when you cringe at the sound of your voice?That’s actually pretty cool. I’m definitely going to try it | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Advice on sending voice messages when you cringe at the sound of your voice?Hey man you sound just like me 😂. I’m too self conscious, and end up guarding myself. There’s something about hearing my voice in a recording or watching myself in a video that makes me feel awkward. I’m sure other people don’t notice, or don’t even care but it’s definitely something I need to work on. There must be a scientific explanation behind this. As for those exercises I will definitely give it a try, thanks man. I have a deep voice, which helps, but I just need to work on pauses, deeps a… | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Advice on sending voice messages when you cringe at the sound of your voice?Thanks for the advice. We met before at a party and been texting here and there. I just haven’t really asked her out since she lives two hours away and I’m not really that thirsty to make the drive 😂. There were other events we were supposed to meet up at, but they got cancelled, so in a way I’m just waiting for the next event to make the drive worthwhile. I’m not really self conscious about my voice, it’s just something about listening to a recording or watching myself in a video that makes me … | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Advice on sending voice messages when you cringe at the sound of your voice?Been thinking about taking speech classes to get more comfortable speaking at parties. I’m sure it will also help my voice. | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Advice on sending voice messages when you cringe at the sound of your voice?Yeah I could just ignore the problem and keep repeating it. Other people have suggested training my voice by recording my voice and reading a short paragraph which is a good exercise. I also think it’s one of those things I’m overthinking. She probably doesn’t even notice and here I am thinking I sound boring. | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 03:22 PM |
| 70 | Do women instictively know when you have options?I see many comments saying it’s op’s confidence, vibe, and micro expressions, however, how can women tell from an app? It’s not like he’s meeting them face to face where they can actually see/feel it. | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Age gap - how to attract youngerJust out of curiosity What do you do for a living? | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 12:57 PM |
| -1 | How I reply to girls IG stories that make her respondAwesome post. Great lines, deserves more upvotes. | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 04:40 PM |
| 5 | The Best Book You Have Read About SeductionThat Psycho-Cybernetics books looks pretty interesting. I just read the summary and looks like a book I could use for daily life. Sounds familiar, not sure where I heard the name before. Probably from law of attraction subs/videos. Anymore info for on the VAH book? I feel a lot of stuff by old PUAs is still pretty good. The new stuff just seems like a copy of paste from the basics, anyone can read Mystery Method and call themselves experts and share whatever they think they know on YouTube. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 02:34 PM |
| 14 | The Best Book You Have Read About SeductionThe Game by Neil Strauss. Very funny and honest. I forgot it was even a seduction book. It’s one of those books I had to finish quickly. Gives you some good solid advice that I have applied and worked. It’s not a straightforward question and answer book, but it’s definitely worth reading. Models is another great book. The main point is to have honesty and being honest and okay with who I am has helped me in other areas of my life. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 02:27 PM |
| 25 | Fundamentals: 4 characteristics of guys who do well with womenCan you give an example of how you would tease? | /r/seduction | 10/10/25 08:09 PM |
| 3 | What’s the one book, seminar, video that gave you a good basic understanding of flirting and social skills/intelligence that you could build on?Without Embarrassment that’s a new one I haven’t heard of. Yeah, I still plan on continuing reading and growing I just need one good book/video with examples so I can get the ball rolling. That’s what I like about Neil Strauss in The Game, instead of just learning from Mystery he went out and learned from all the greats from that time. In the end being himself is what got him that hot musician chick. I got to agree. “Just go out and talk” is where you put everything into practice, but you still … | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 02:16 PM |
| 1 | What’s the one book, seminar, video that gave you a good basic understanding of flirting and social skills/intelligence that you could build on?I read it awhile back, I need to read it again but I liked that it touched a lot of different topics. Honestly is a good advice, showing who we really are instead of hiding behind masks. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 02:06 PM |
| 1 | What’s the one book, seminar, video that gave you a good basic understanding of flirting and social skills/intelligence that you could build on?Great advice. What I mean about being bold and not caring about the outcome is many of us in the beginning play it way too safe and we avoid being funny or edgy. Instead we come out as too logical and boring. We play the nice guy. It doesn’t mean you’re going to be an asshole either, but if you got a good joke or can sexualize a joke do it. Also we can get to focus on the outcome that we get paralyzed and not do anything. It’s fine if she’s not interested, or she doesn’t give us the number. We t… | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 02:04 PM |
| 2 | What’s the one book, seminar, video that gave you a good basic understanding of flirting and social skills/intelligence that you could build on?Thanks for the suggestion. Practical advice is always the best compared to just theory. I’m not saying copying and pasting is the solution, but it’s a good starting point to develop your own style. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 05:18 AM |
| 1 | What’s the one book, seminar, video that gave you a good basic understanding of flirting and social skills/intelligence that you could build on?Never heard of Bluelock, how did it help you? Yeah I’m more aware about not all material I watch or read is going to help, or it’s easy to get lost in the process. That’s why I rather just read one really good book and develop my style from there. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 05:16 AM |
| 5 | What’s the one book, seminar, video that gave you a good basic understanding of flirting and social skills/intelligence that you could build on?Yup, I think 95% of the advice on this sub is “Just talk to her” or “just go out and practice” and while practice is the most important part it’s also doing it right. It’s like someone wanting to learn to play baseball. Someone who doesn’t know a thing about baseball and going out to the park to practice is going to have a harder time compared to someone who has an idea about the game. Again, it’s easy to get lost in so much material but also be aware of putting what works in practice. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 05:13 AM |
| 2 | What’s the one book, seminar, video that gave you a good basic understanding of flirting and social skills/intelligence that you could build on?Yeah you can definitely get lost in material. I’m reading Atomic Habits and the author explains the difference between motion and action. Motion is just researching without any real progress, but it gives us a sense of peace and progress. At the same time it’s just security from really taking action. Compared to action where you are actually improving and trying new things. Nice, never heard of that book. I’ll definitely check it out. Mystery Method is another book I need to finish reading. I ju… | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 04:20 AM |
| 5 | What’s the one book, seminar, video that gave you a good basic understanding of flirting and social skills/intelligence that you could build on?Thanks for the suggestion. I have heard a lot about it, if I’m not mistaken it was one of the first PUA books. I’ll definitely check it out. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 04:14 AM |
| 3 | What’s the one book, seminar, video that gave you a good basic understanding of flirting and social skills/intelligence that you could build on?Yeah that’s what I’m trying to say. Instead of being awkward and have nothing to talk about, I’d rather have a good base and practice from there. I don’t have a problem approaching women and cracking a few jokes here and there, it’s just after that I get lost. How can I connect or bring up sexual topics or bring up a reason to meet at another time when my mind just goes blank. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Those of you with a lot of instagram followers does it help you with womenI think it’s more about the material you’re posting. If you post everyday about your average looking meal, or the sun or whatever just for attention then it’s not going to help compared to hanging out with friends, going out, high value things. Also, it’s a good introduction to get women interested in an interesting lifestyle, but a good women probably won’t care compared to someone who just wants attention and to go out and not invest a lot in you. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Do women really like men who are players, or have opinions?Thanks for your lengthy response. Sounds like you are describing the cocky type of guy. The type of guy who won’t shut up about the women he’s slept with, or how he “almost got her number”, or even how he’s so desirable by women everywhere he goes. The type of person who likes to brag. Yeah I don’t agree with that attitude either. I see what you’re saying, a man who can keep a woman is worth more than a man who has multiple women. I think the quiet and mysterious men show more confidence and ski… | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 05:26 PM |
| 5 | Help on dating an avoidant woman?How do you know it was lost before it even started? | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 06:24 AM |
| -2 | Help on getting women to invest more in my IG?Yeah, but I also like using IG to meet women or as a way to show value. | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 03:45 AM |
| 29 | She falls in love quicklyIt would be very careful. Love bombing at the beginning of the relationship could also mean you’re dealing with a narcissist or someone with daddy issues. | /r/seduction | 23/07/25 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Do women really like men who are players, or have opinions?Seems what you’re saying is the same thing as women feeling attracted to men who know how to fight, yet they remain peaceful. That gives them security. When I’m out with someone I don’t text anyone else, they get 100% of my attention. I like to be respectful, just the same way I expect them to show me respect. Sometimes when we are driving and the text message shows up on my car dashboard, or we are looking at something on my phone and I get a text message. I ignore it, but I’m guessing it adds … | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 03:25 AM |
| 15 | Do women really like men who are players, or have opinions?You got a good point on giving the appearance that others girls like you, but how do you go about giving that impression? Do you just become really charismatic and flirt with other girls that after a while they begin to show interest in that same social circle? On social media, would you say it’s good to have post/stories with other girls? | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Do women really like men who are players, or have opinions?Let’s say you got all those things, status, and you’re pulling girls. Wouldn’t you say there’s also a level of jealousy and insecurity from women that they would rather find a guy with no options to give them security? | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 03:07 AM |
| 0 | Do women really like men who are players, or have opinions?You got a really great point here. It’s like they get curious why so many women are attracted by a man that makes them feel good that they got to give it a try. Where do you draw the line between talking to multiple women and they believing that they are being played? If a single text turns them off in the early stages, before getting to know them. A lot of time I don’t want to invest all my time in a single woman specially if I there’s a probability of getting ghosted. | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 03:02 AM |
| 6 | Do women really like men who are players, or have opinions?Could also women get jealous and lose interest when they see other women interested? | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 02:57 AM |
| 11 | Do women really like men who are players, or have opinions?Yeah I think you’re completely right. When they see men who are constantly trying to hit on other women it just makes men look desperate for attention. I think when you’re out with someone you ignore other women’s text and talk to any other women you come across like anyone else. | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 02:56 AM |
| 27 | Do women really like men who are players, or have opinions?Yeah, well I’m not taking any advice from women. I’m just confused. Are they really competitive, do they like men who have options, or are they just insecure and jealous when they see the potential of me being interested in another woman. | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Don't forget to be a great storyteller and have interesting stories yourself.Yeah that’s a different topic, exaggerated humor. When they ask “Really?” You can reply “no it was a joke” and laugh but always be clear you weren’t being serious. | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 02:12 PM |
| 4 | Don't forget to be a great storyteller and have interesting stories yourself.Definitely don't make up stories, that's the point of actually going out to have stories of your own. Being a good storyteller doesn't mean you'll be talking all the time, but on the contrary, it's a way to connect and build rapport and actually listen to relate. Being a good storyteller is better having one great story and being going at telling it, than a bunch of small talk. | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Im finding it hard to flirt with girls I just met, is this normal? Should I just wait for the first date to begin flirting?What do you mean? | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Im finding it hard to flirt with girls I just met, is this normal? Should I just wait for the first date to begin flirting?That’s an amazing video. I have no problem talking, but I lack a conversation structure and after a moment it leads nowhere or it turns into an interview. I’m looking forward to trying this structure question, statement, deep question. I think statements after question is the key. Also having values and asking around those values to demonstrate pre selection is gold. Thanks again. | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Im finding it hard to flirt with girls I just met, is this normal? Should I just wait for the first date to begin flirting?You’re right, I need to work on developing my charm. I have looked into that before, but I haven’t gotten much experience. I guess what you’re saying is I don’t have to be direct or flirt to seduce a girl? Just with charm, confidence, talking about her, interesting conversations, etc? I’ll check out that video. | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Im finding it hard to flirt with girls I just met, is this normal? Should I just wait for the first date to begin flirting?I guess what I’m trying to say is to take it up a notch. I can bring up a conversation, now what? I want to be remembered, I want to stand out from the rest, I want the conversation to be interesting that she looks forward to my texts. Yeah I can talk about her, but it will turn into an interview. Maybe if a throw a joke here and there, but I feel that’s not enough to show interest without being too forward or direct. I like looking at examples, not necessarily to copy and paste but to get an id… | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 04:43 AM |
| 1 | In The Game, Neil Strauss mentions a PUA goes on Elimidate. Does anyone have the episode?Thanks for the info. I’m mostly interested to see how it went more entertainment than anything else. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 04:56 PM |
| 4 | Is the PUA community completely dead?What should I Google? I tried googling PUA communities and forums and all are from the 2010’s. I don’t know man, I’m actually enjoying the game. It has given me a clear base on building a solid game foundation. What don’t you like about it? Cool site, I’m going to bookmark it and read it tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 09:55 AM |
| 3 | Is the PUA community completely dead?Maybe, have you met any out in the field? Seems you got to go out and find them just like girls lol. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Does peacocking still work?What did you change your style to? What type of clothing layers have brought you more positive attention? | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Everyone says the only point of texting is to set up dates, but women seem to lose interest when I keep texting short.That’s true. Good stuff. Keep it balanced. I means depends on the girl and what she’s looking for too. Someone who’s looking just to mess around won’t care about how my day or her day was. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Everyone says the only point of texting is to set up dates, but women seem to lose interest when I keep texting short.I have couple anecdotes, stories, hobbies I keep under my sleeve for when she asks only. I don’t like to bring them up to not seem pretentious. Typically I ask stuff about her too. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Does peacocking still work?Yeah I guess it’s a good opener. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Everyone says the only point of texting is to set up dates, but women seem to lose interest when I keep texting short.Sounds like logical and no emotional questions. I feel like I’ll end up in the friendzone. Shouldn’t I ask those sort of questions after building seduction? | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Does peacocking still work?You sound like my high school friends. No disrespect or anything. I was and still into punk music. I just saw Subhumans play couple of days ago. I don’t know man, but I always dressed the opposite, very simple a well fit slim fit shirt and jeans. I need more color in my wardrobe. I’m also into punk chicks and hipsters. Pretty much anything lol. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Everyone says the only point of texting is to set up dates, but women seem to lose interest when I keep texting short.Good stuff man. Ask probing questions, find out what they’re passionate about. Not gonna lie, sometimes I get nervous over the phone, worse yet video calling but I’ll give it a try. Thanks again man | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 10:10 AM |
| 3 | Does peacocking still work?What do you typically wear? What has brought you positive attention? | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Everyone says the only point of texting is to set up dates, but women seem to lose interest when I keep texting short.I like the idea of making it clear that I want to meet up. Cool man. What’s a good way to build intimacy? What has giving you good results? Any specific topics? Or lines? | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Everyone says the only point of texting is to set up dates, but women seem to lose interest when I keep texting short.That’s true man. How about giving up too soon though? What if there’s interest, she’s busy for some reason or whatever then I stop texting altogether? | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Everyone says the only point of texting is to set up dates, but women seem to lose interest when I keep texting short.What are some tips or conversations to make it fun? Text messages to remind them they still exist? Ouch like a simple hello? I’m trying to avoid those sort of messages. Thanks man | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Everyone says the only point of texting is to set up dates, but women seem to lose interest when I keep texting short.That’s a good answer. My texting is usually dry and I just try to set up a date asap. What do you usually text her about to get her in a good mood? Thanks man | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Everyone says the only point of texting is to set up dates, but women seem to lose interest when I keep texting short.What do you talk about when you call her? I usually have a hard time with small talk. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Everyone says the only point of texting is to set up dates, but women seem to lose interest when I keep texting short.That’s a good answer. Can you give me examples on how to build interest and excitement over texting? What are some good topics or starters? Thanks man | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Everyone says the only point of texting is to set up dates, but women seem to lose interest when I keep texting short.Over text? That’s my question, I thought texting was just set up dates. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Everyone says the only point of texting is to set up dates, but women seem to lose interest when I keep texting short.Maybe, if they’re the ones initiating the texting I feel there’s some sort of interest. I just have to keep flowing it. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 09:20 AM |
| 5 | How do I fight the overwhelming urge to reply to texts immediately?Tbh if you have the time, text her. Dont play the alpha game if you’re not ready to play, and don’t act like one because women can sense shit like that. Don’t stop doing something if you’re busy just to text her back though. I usually reply her saying I was in boxing class or took a nap if I really was. If I have time I’ll text her a minute or two maybe even right away if I’m on my phone. For some reason I have gotten better results this way. I | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 04:38 AM |
| 8 | What activities and things can you do to become more masculine?Combat sports. Just took up boxing. Sparring is as manly as it gets. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Tips on showing intent to girls you just met?Good stuff, thanks. I’m going to save them. | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Tips on showing intent to girls you just met?Shouldn’t you show interest/intent during the conversation though? | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Need advice texting a girl after she didn’t show up to our second dateI thought about being cool about it and not making a big deal to not loose my frame. Thought about something like “I’m actually still waiting outside your house jk. It’s cool I used up the time to run some errands. Lmk when you’re free”. Leave the conversation open, if she’s really interested she’ll reply back if not I’ll move on. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Need advice texting a girl after she didn’t show up to our second dateNo what? Don’t text her back? | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 11:25 PM |
| 6 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetThis sounds like the behavior I see a boring dude on a date or a public place who hardly smiles or speaks, while the girl is non stop talking, driving and even paying for the meal. Are you typically like that out on dates? I like to be fun and joke around when out on dates, maybe that’s also killing attraction. | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Holy shit.. I had a minor victory tonightMind sharing what tips you used? | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 10:16 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with jealousy and backstabbing at work after being promoted?Nice 👌 At first I wanted to produce the best results as possible, now seeing upper management doesn’t even care. Another reason to enjoy the ride, get paid, and continue working on my next goal. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with jealousy and backstabbing at work after being promoted?Thanks man, I have brought up issues to the manager like a cashier giving food for free. Had proof with cameras and everything. He did nothing. Now I’m just trying to fit in and take my job not too seriously, still show the best results I can, but if the upper management does nothing I’m just going to keep my head down like you mentioned and start focusing on my next goal to get out of there.  | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Redpill basics from someone who grew up with them.How do you practice stoicism in real life? I have been reading Meditations and the typical quotes on IG, and while everything makes sense putting it to practice in real life is hard. I’m sentimental and get easily emotional, probably due to growing up surrounded by women, so when someone gets to me or a girl seems interested in another person I lose frame. The stoics talked about feeling emotions, whether good or bad, but just controlling it is what I find it difficult. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/21 08:36 PM |
| 5 | I fucked up, need help on rectifying the situation, confessed I like a coworker.“They reject you once. They’ll do it again” Once you start backing away and they see it, they’ll try to bring you back in for validation. Once they see they have you that’s when they reject you once again. Don’t fall for this trap. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Girl from work talked shit and spread rumors about me - how can I confront her without losing frame?Actually things just got tougher. Today I found out she’s been giving discounts and extra food to family and friends. Pretty much stealing. She’s also taking extra lunch time when she’s already clocked in. I’m gonna try and find enough evidence to get the manager to give her a warning. She’s someone I have to keep an extra eye out, otherwise she’ll do things behind my back. Also, I’m beginning to suspect the manager has brought her Starbucks, which he hardly ever brings food to anyone. She’s man… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Girl from work talked shit and spread rumors about me - how can I confront her without losing frame?Can you explain more on the difference between trying to socialize and others everyone wants to be with? I usually try to be funny as a way to control my social anxiety. Calms the situation down. It’s also part of my nice guy syndrome to be liked. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl from work talked shit and spread rumors about me - how can I confront her without losing frame?Thanks for the reply. Didn’t think about her having any leverage. I’m usually charismatic and joke around with other people at work, except with her, so I also don’t want to get in trouble with HR saying it’s personal even though it is. Yeah I have authority over her. My manager knows and we joked around about it. It’s just rumors and her talking shit. We moved on. Maybe I am taking it too personal and don’t want to be taking shit from anyone. In a way I want to be assertive and let her know why… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 10:09 PM |
| 4 | How can I maintain frame when I’m too sentimental.Seems to me the worst part is getting judged by other people around. Yeah mistakes happen and don’t respond properly and look like a fool. Not a big deal I get over it, but not on the eyes of others. At least that’s how I feel. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 07:34 AM |
| 3 | How can I maintain frame when I’m too sentimental.I don’t know if age matter much, as long as we realize there’s a problem and we try to find a solution to it. Definitely need to lift though. I’m currently at 135lbs, 5’5, skinny fat. What helped you get through when you were 13? | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 07:30 AM |
| 32 | How can I maintain frame when I’m too sentimental.Appreciate the reply bro. I remember reading somewhere on here about never procrastinating and catching thoughts in the moment and questioning them in the 3rd person point of view. Like, “I’m lazy I don’t feel like working out “ From 3rd person point of view “Look at the human, woke up feeling motivated now it’s only noon and feeling lazy for no reason. He’ll keep telling himself tomorrow. “ Same principle here. From 3rd person point of view, continue asking why. Nice tip when it comes to confid… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 07:25 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being less naive and see through people’s true intentions?Sometimes it’s just not what they say, but their body language too. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 07:40 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being less naive and see through people’s true intentions?That’s good advice. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 07:39 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being less naive and see through people’s true intentions?Thanks for the info. I guess emotionally intelligent and social adept is what I’m looking for. I prefer to be prepared and see through people rather than being deceived. It won’t work all the time, but I guess not trusting anyone is the best way to go. I’ll look into those books, thanks for the info. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 07:37 AM |
| 11 | Didn’t get the promotion because I’m “too nice”Yeah I need to reread NMMNG. Just need to put it into real world practice. Not a big deal, it’s not a career job or anything. It pays the bills, but I’d rather learn here before I move up to another job. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 05:20 PM |
| 1 | what is your life code that you live by?Is that from Heat? | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 04:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you remember the books you read?Do you have a journal? How do you organize everything you write down? | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 05:35 PM |
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