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Yah, there is some merit to this, but he misses out on some things. It depends on the woman, but it seems like what happens over time attachment styles are more of a factor. Women will think about you eventually and you have to remember YOUR INTERPRETATION of what they are thinking could possibly be wrong. Women will ALWAYS miss a good man...eventually
/r/seduction29/10/22 04:15 AM
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idk why this happens. To think about: - I don't believe it's "love" because after two years you can't possibly have enough chemistry to claim it's love. - It may be some sort of "she can fix me feelings" or some feelings of life isn't complete without her. Or some other separation anxiety of some sort. - She somehow triggered an anxious attachment style in you - Possibly its a pair bonding thing that your brain just decides this person is special ​ If none of that is helpful, what will work is t…
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:55 AM
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just get out of it dude - not worth it.
/r/seduction10/10/22 02:47 AM
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You’re not totally wrong. It depends on the person. Some women are like that and really do care about how much money you have. Also, cultural could be - I live in the US
/r/seduction06/10/22 11:36 AM
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That’s just not true. Lol I’m broke and I’ve never had a problem dating women.
/r/seduction06/10/22 11:33 AM
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I feel yah. Recognize that women, well decent ones, don't actually care about your "real"net worth. So, I think a lot of women are more interested in a partner with stable qualities more than in a straight up rich dude. Sure, having money still helps, but you can get a long ways with just being a good, attractive, responsible dude. Tell them you're saving for a new car and as much as you'd like to have a $200 dinner, you'd rather be responsible and keep it light for the first date. Coffee is a g…
/r/seduction06/10/22 04:30 AM
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“I know” And see what she says. Edit: Don’t apologize because you know damn well what you were asking for and so does she. Own it. Obviously don’t push or pursue if she’s not interested, but don’t be embarrassed or apologize for what you want. Assuming your relationship is good, she will set her boundaries and you respect them, but again, don’t apologize for being interested in a woman - it makes you look unsure of yourself.
/r/seduction05/10/22 04:00 PM
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*scratches under blanket and waits
/r/seduction03/10/22 08:03 PM
1

Nice post 👍🏻
/r/seduction03/10/22 08:02 PM
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People who party aren't as concerned with social norms so maybe behave in ways which strait-laced men won't. Thus attract women with these actions.
/r/seduction01/10/22 05:27 AM
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Stop listing all the reasons why you’re having a tough time lol.
/r/seduction20/09/22 11:38 AM
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Yah dude, I quit OLD - I’m not going to go through that anymore. Don’t have time.
/r/seduction20/09/22 11:36 AM
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Lol creeper. Edit: this post highlights exactly what is wrong with “pick-up” culture. 1: geography, the people in a park are not in the park to find love. They are there to do whatever young people do at the park and the women will not be in a mind set to “be picked up”. It’s like if you were swimming at a pool or beach and someone walked up to you and asked you to play video games - “no, I’m here to swim” 2: the odds of you successfully entering a random social group at the park is super low. E…
/r/seduction07/08/22 02:27 PM
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Men would have a lot more success with women if they were just nice most of the time and not so scared/nervous.
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:02 AM
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Sure - send it over
/r/seduction12/07/22 05:15 AM
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Lol I am - by not dating white women. Thanks for the obvious advise homie
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:14 AM
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Check your negative votes homie.
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:14 AM
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Lol that’s not true and you know it.
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:13 AM
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After 30 they seem to get humble enough to actually listen to men, but prior to, they are just bitchy and generally hate men. Obviously not all white women, but it’s a trend for sure
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:13 AM
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Lol I’m white and I am going to be openly racist against white people. Go cry to your mom bro.
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:36 PM
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Right? Literally the only demographic that is bitchier as their weight goes up lmao and more entitled
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:45 PM
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The most unfeminist women are white women lmao.
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:40 PM
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Nah, white women are the worst bro. OP is right
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:40 PM
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So, I’m a white (28M) exercise 5 times per week, have a stable career, college degree, etc. and I can’t stand white women. I straight up refuse to even entertain white women. Like you said man, idk what it is, but they are just bitchy, entitled and provide very little value to relationships.
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:36 PM
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Im scared of getting arrested just commenting on this post
/r/seduction07/06/22 08:01 PM
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Are you sure you like women?
/r/seduction03/06/22 02:05 AM
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Eh, in part it’s your age. After around 25 the quality of available men sharply decreases. Essentially, if you stay attractive, it’s t gets easier every year
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:27 PM
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What the hell is a hip dip?
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:32 AM
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Use app dating ahead of time to set dates
/r/seduction17/05/22 01:57 AM
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Idk - yes and no. It has benefits and it has drawbacks
/r/seduction17/05/22 01:38 AM
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I honestly think your response was good. It was respectful and confident. Look, that’s what I’d call a “soft ask” - you express your feelings frankly and directly. But leave the decision up to the other party without any pressure. This works if she’s confident she’s into you. NOW in my experience, sometimes this is just a smoke screen and they are interested. My current GF told me “I’m not interested in anything, I just want friends” and I said “yah, me too, I’m in the way to your house” We ende…
/r/seduction13/05/22 03:24 AM
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If you have to ask if you’re high value than you aren’t. Just assume you are and act like it. The reality is that women want such simple things, you would be amazed. Like, just listen to them. Like listen to them, and actually learn about them. If you can do that you are so far ahead of everyone.
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:51 PM
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Well then you aren’t high value. Lol
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:45 PM
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Autofellatio
/r/seduction04/02/22 04:21 PM
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*then
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:01 AM
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“So, actually, therefore the course of wisdom, what is really sensible is to let go. Is to commit oneself, to give oneself up and that is quite mad. So, we come to the strange conclusion that in madness lies sanity.”
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:20 PM
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Hey man, I agree with you. I've had success with women by all definitions, but after my last relationship ended, I just don't give a shit anymore. It's like a full-time job and I already have one of those.
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:57 PM
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I think you sound fine - on the hair thing, it is what it is man. Some girls are really into and some aren’t. You’ll just have to find one that is. I’m 5’ 8” and have never, ever had a problem finding women. Most women are under 5’ 8” so honestly as long as you aren’t too upset about it, it doesn’t matter. Go to the gym if you want, but it sounds like you’re good. Work on having a bit more confidence in yourself.
/r/seduction30/12/21 04:58 PM
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Facts dude. Yes, you can get laid if you FOCUS on it, but god, but I already have a job, I'm REALLY not in the mood for another one. I spend my time at the gym and watching the cooking channel. Every now and then I pick up my phone and look a bumble, swipe a few times, respond to one or two messages (I get consistent messages) and then just set it down. I just don't care enough anymore.
/r/seduction09/12/21 02:48 AM
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This is how I do it: 3/10 girls won't like me because of personality 3/10 girls it'll depend on our interactions if they like me 3/10 girls will like me just based on personality 1/10 will hate me no matter what I do 1/30 will be insane 40%-70% of the time I simply expect to not even be able to have a conversation based on personality alone. So, I'm comfortable with those numbers and when I get shot down, I just chalk it up to the 70% I knew wasn't going to work in the first place
/r/seduction29/11/21 03:31 PM
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This is good. I disagree on some items, but overall great advice. Mostly on the pushing her to "qualify" herself. In my experience, she has to be emotionally invested, before any kind of "qualifying" actually works. The reality is she has maybe 100 matches. Why should she qualify herself to this guy when she has 99 guys not asking for the extra work. And, for people taking this advice who aren't relatively advanced in communication skill - a lot of their efforts will come off as forcing weird co…
/r/seduction29/11/21 03:27 PM
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Well your approach was a little half-assed. To be honest, I would stay away from "negging" during any sort of first interaction. The reason being is its not really "unique" anymore and women tend to sniff this out. Wonder how many other messages saying "you'd be cute if you were brunette" or something. Negging still works, but needs to be used differently. Telling a woman what she is "like" generally doesn't work. If you're wrong at all, it ends immediately. Like in this, if she doesn't think sh…
/r/seduction29/11/21 03:20 PM
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Ask him about what Mary Kay Multilevel marketing did in the country of India lol. Nothing but cold approaches and they built a MASSIVE brand. But yah, you gotta be a little smoother than "you're cute" but it works.
/r/seduction29/11/21 03:15 PM
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So, and this isn't ALWAYS true, but generally it is. The reality is that, as a man, unless you are absolutely tiny, you have the ability to dominate basically any woman physically. Now, OBVIOUSLY, women do not like a dominating, controlling and cruel man. But sometimes they wanna know who's in charge. Learn how to be a little bit of a monster. Learn how to take control of her in a sexual way. Whether it be pushing her up against a wall and whispering in her ear with your hand holding her firmly …
/r/seduction28/11/21 08:34 PM
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The quicker you can be honest with yourself and be YOU the quicker you’ll be more attractive to women. It’s honestly just about accepting yourself and being comfortable in your own skin.
/r/seduction22/11/21 09:59 AM
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I would rather over think the approach than overthink why someone doesn't respond to a date, yah know? We all spend too much time thinking about why we didn't get the girl.
/r/seduction19/11/21 11:47 PM
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I know that women like when a man focuses on his appearance. Like put some effort into the beard. Use beard oil, brush it, etc. Basically just care about your appearance.
/r/seduction19/11/21 08:08 AM
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I think your opinion of your overbite is holding you back in life
/r/seduction17/11/21 08:22 PM
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2-4 ipas
/r/seduction13/11/21 03:09 AM
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Well there are two ways to approach "picking up women". You can go for the straight up cold approach. Numbers will be lower (maybe one number for every ten tries you get a number) OR you can do warm approaches within your "market" where you will have a lot more success. A straight up cold approach is what you would be doing if you went into a night club and just walked up to women you've never seen before. This will have the highest fail rate, maybe 1/10 get a number and 1/30 you bring home and …
/r/seduction08/11/21 11:04 PM
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- Comment on a decision she/he is making **Choosing a banana at the grocery store** "Pick that one, its the biggest" - Comment on a situation he/she is in **Waiting in a long line** "I bet my line is going to beat your line" - Comment on the environment **A loud motorcycle drives by** "I like when everyone knows when I'm in the neighborhood too"
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:31 PM
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Women will naturally come to a man who is giving up positive energy, is confident in his environment and is known in the environment. In my opinion this is what being an "alpha" is. Not being all muscly, dominating conversation, etc. Being confident and comfortable in your surroundings will get you much farther. The other items are frosting on the cake. But no one wants to eat just a pile of frosting lol
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:17 PM
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I took salsa dancing lessons a few years ago! It was awkward (I have no rhythm) but I don't care so it was a blast! One thing I will say, is that if you go to the classes and immediately start trying to pick up women, people will notice and not like you. Most likely. That being said, I had several experiences with several of the women where I noticed sexual tension while dancing with them. Dance, for whatever reason, is inherently sexual. I was there was a girlfriend at the time but I wish like …
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:14 PM
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Okay, so tension is all about hold, build, release. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkfi4Ynv2_w The intro to this song does a great job with tension and release. Also, its a cool ass song =) Tension is in the silence. Have you ever been in a situation where someone asks you something and you respond. But they say nothing and you get nervous and start fidgeting and stumbling over your words? You want to create a situation where she starts fumbling and getting nervous. Simply, you could just give …
/r/seduction07/11/21 03:47 PM
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"Hey, do you mind if I maybe sit next to you and breath the same air?" "I'd like your consent to touch your arm" "Do you mind if I casually touch your shoulder" "Here, please sign this document stating you are consenting to everything"
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:39 AM
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Idk if I have a hard line. It depends on the woman and how much I like her. Personally I’ve been with 10 people and whenever it’s more than that it puts me on edge. In my experience women are constantly (if they are attractive) being propositioned and it’s hard for me to trust someone if I know they sleep around. Like what? First time we fight are you just going to go bang some other dude and expect me to be okay with it?
/r/seduction05/11/21 04:45 PM
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It depends. If a woman has an absurd number like 30-50 or over, it’s a turn off for me. There are some studies I’ve seen that after like 12 the likelihood of a partner cheating on you goes up exponentially.
/r/seduction05/11/21 04:41 PM
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A key which opens many locks is a valuable key. A lock which is opened by many keys, well, people don’t buy those locks… Facts
/r/seduction05/11/21 04:38 PM
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I can attest. Used to own one and went through three transmissions in 5 years
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:35 PM
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It’s like with your highschool friends. They see you one way and you can’t really change their opinion of you unless you put space between you and the group.
/r/seduction01/11/21 07:08 PM
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Wear heels
/r/seduction01/11/21 05:54 AM
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Find a new social circles? Idk it’s hard. My ex is loosely associated with a big group of kinda friends I have. So, I just stopped going to their events because I don’t want to deal with it. I’d look for new social circles to find women in. Unfortunately life isn’t a “friends” episode.
/r/seduction01/11/21 03:30 AM
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Well, this is a case where you should add him to the "roster". Try reaching out every week or so to see if you can get something going via text again. Then just keep trying. He may be talking to another girl and the timing isn't right.
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:35 AM
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Lol but he’s not old enough to drink
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:46 PM
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I usually keep 3-5 girls in my general “rotation”. But as the other comments said, it’s more just like an open line of communication with girls I may potentially be interested in. Timing might be wrong, not able to coordinate, etc But I usually always have someone to text/or talk to when I’m bored if that makes sense
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:16 PM
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Hot/Crazy scale? It’s a real thing😜
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:14 PM
1

Yah dude, wtf is up with this self deprecating crap. It’s sooo toxic and is really just a form of bullying.
/r/seduction29/10/21 12:20 PM
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“So my cousin” My first thought was, oooo dis gun be gud
/r/seduction29/10/21 12:12 PM
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Thanks 🙂
/r/seduction29/10/21 06:35 AM
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Say: "Whats your number?"
/r/seduction29/10/21 05:35 AM
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"No" to what? If you are wanting to say, "Hey I need your assistance, it's urgent....and I won't take no for an answer" then the convo needs to look something like this: You: "hey I need your assistance, it's urgent" Her: "Oh, whats up" You: "Im trying to find (name some spice), do you know where it would be?" Her: "Probably in the spice isle?" You: "Cool, thanks. Let's go find it." Her: "oh, okay!" Then she comes shopping with you. Notice how I didn't say "And, I won't take no for an answer" be…
/r/seduction29/10/21 05:31 AM
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I’ll post about how it goes. Typical I wouldn’t try more than once or twice to get a date. But because I’m short on time and will literally never come here again I’m going to put some more effort in and come up with some creative closes and see if I can get a date. Will keep everyone posted
/r/seduction29/10/21 05:26 AM
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Hers a good one for getting a date - works best with text or dating apps. ​ Hey {girl} so I need your advice, it's urgent. (wait for her to respond) So, I met this girl awhile go and (state your intention). I am not really sure how to go about it. She's great, (proceed to spend 2-3 sentences describing her in the third person. Should be vague enough to not be super obvious, but she should obviously know you are describing her) **(you can add aline about how you know she thinks you're cute here, …
/r/seduction29/10/21 04:35 AM
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Yah, It's almost better to approach the friend. You need to get the gatekeepers permission first and then she won't get in the way.
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:29 AM
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Yah, at the end of the day it's a numbers game and not all women are going to even want to talk to you. Look for the woman looking for you. =)
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:27 AM
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"Hey, I need your assistance, it's urgent."
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:26 AM
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Comment on: - A decision she's making - A situation she's in - A situation worth noting in the environment ​ examples: - If she is looking at bananas: "Pick that one, its bigger" - If she is waiting in line and looks annoyed by how long its taking: "I bet my line is going faster than your line" - If an obnoxiously loud motorcycle drives by the store: "You know, I've always wanted everyone to know when I drive by too." ​ Idk if my examples are very good. Lol, but generally those three things give…
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:26 AM
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If you are honest and sincere and confident you can approach however you want.
/r/seduction28/10/21 03:38 PM
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Well, do you want to be boyfriend/girlfriend? Figure out what you want! And then ask for it. =)
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:54 AM
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So, the purpose of this example is to illustrate a couple of points that I hope can answer your questions about opening groups. 1st - target all groups. Men, women, 20s, 30s, 40s etc, because you never know how one group can introduce you to another. 2nd - It is more about your attitude than what you say. If you are having fun, laughing, teasing and just have a "good vibe" groups of people will start to be drawn to you. 3rd - If there are boyfriends or other men in the groups, MAKE SURE TO MAKE …
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:51 AM
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​ So, for girls in their twenties (and this works well for all groups of people actually) if you can be in a location where there are "activities" it is much easier than trying to do it just by talking. For example, I have a local video game bar I like going to. There are arcade games, big connect four, shuffle board, multi-player games, and my favorite, Jenga. Or just a sports bar with darts, pool or any other kind of multi player game. Open using same things we talked about before - commenting…
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:49 AM
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Do more things that make you feel like that did and you’ll see your life change rapidly 😀😀😀 You stud
/r/seduction26/10/21 10:52 PM
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Differentiation
/r/seduction26/10/21 01:56 PM
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Yah, it’s not sometimes lol. But it is fun for sure.
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:50 AM
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We like to be approached... Same thing goes as approaching women. You'll always have better luck if you are direct. To be frank most men can't read a woman signals and right now there is a lot of taboo surrounding men. Half of us are scared to pursue anyone because we are scared of being called a "rapist". Here's some sexual tension advice. I wrote this from a guys perspective but just change (girl) to (guy). I love this one. So, I'm assuming you are already seeing a girl. This IS NOT an early s…
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:42 AM
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Lol dude she asked you to come over for sex and you asked her out on a date? You totally missed the hint. A couple of things: People like to control their environments. It may not have been a direct sex invite, it's possible she just feels comfortable in her home environment and not in public with you. When you asked her out to coffee, the change of environment may have spooked her. She asked you out and you ignored it and asked her out. This shows you didn't listen to her - women like to be hea…
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:36 AM
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"b-but I was just wondering if could share your air, but not too close" (Gets kicked out of college, arrested and put on house arrest. The news starts running a story and he starts getting death threats) Yes, this happened at a college near me.
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:28 AM
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Well you'll need to actually make a plan. Maybe get a phone dedicated just to the girls. Set up a marketing plan (where are you gonna find them) Create a pipeline: Step 1: Get Number Step 2: Flirt Step 3: Set one-one time Step 4: Bang (if no bang back to step 3 for date number 2) Rinse Repeat and keep track of where girls are in the process. Whatever you want to make your pipeline is fine - this is just an example. But you need to identify each step in your process. ​ Systemize it and figure out…
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:18 AM
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Lol wait until you graduate and no one cares. They will probably all stay in the home town and have kids by 20. That's what happened in my high school.
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:15 AM
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If she did really respond with "gimme attention", you're fine. Don't over think it. On another note...do you really want to keep getting that text "GIMME GIMME ATTENTION" when you are busy and the honeymoon phase wears off....
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:14 AM
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Unfortunately, I believe its a cultural thing. I have been browsing some women only dating subs and it is alarmingly about horror stories and how to spot red flags in men. Some of the examples women give are absolutely disgusting and idk how it got this bad.
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:11 AM
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THANK YOU The culture of "pick up artists" needs some help
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:09 AM
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A method for having an interesting conversation with anyone: Rivers and Streams Method: Imagine the conversation as a big river with streams coming off it. When you start your conversation the topic you choose is the main river. As you go down the river you need to turn off into streams (smaller sub topics within the conversation). Listen, watch, look around and use context clues to identify streams. Let's say you're chatting with a girl about the club you are at. You notice someone across the b…
/r/seduction26/10/21 06:04 AM
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Here's a conversation format for you works IRL and really well on social media: Hey, {girl}, I need your help. So, I met this really pretty girl the other day. {now spend 3 or 4 sentences describing her in a positive light. Never directly tell her it is her, she has to be able to INFER it is her - you'll know this when she smiles} Then finish with, I think she might be a coffee girl, but maybe a restaurant girl. What do you think? ​ On dating apps this will always get a response. It is custom to…
/r/seduction26/10/21 05:56 AM
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“May I touch your arm” lol that’s dumb
/r/seduction26/10/21 05:13 AM
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So, first on the videos you see: I collect names and numbers for a living by knocking on doors. Here is my pitch if I am selling paint jobs: Me: "Hi, my name is Josh and I am the local branch manager for Perfect Painting, I noticed you have some peeling paint on your door and I would love to offer you a free estimate." Homeowner: We aren't interested. Me: " Did you notice this peeling (pointing at the peeling)" Homeowner: "Yah, but right now we just aren't going to do anything about it." Me: "Oh…
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:48 AM
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Alright, So, the group of all girls will be the hardest. Women will all test you and get defensive over their group. The best option is to approach the one who is the "leader". Remember the personality types? Look for the one who is talking over everyone else and that is the one to approach first - the "driver" or the "expressive" will usually be the one you need their approval. Same way as before, some kind of comment about the situation, something they are doing or something about the environm…
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:19 AM
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So, here's the deal man. Most of the things that are required to talk to women can actually be taught. Look at getting a job in some sort of sales role. Maybe retail, T-mobile, Apple stores, etc. Find a sales job where they will teach you how to talk to people, general body language items, how to read facial expressions, etc.. Also, there are great resources online as far as sales and reading people are concerned. There's a cool book called "What Every Body is Saying" that discusses body languag…
/r/seduction25/10/21 10:50 AM
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That actually makes a lot more sense. I didn't realize that was considered "Autism" - thank you for the clarification.
/r/seduction25/10/21 10:46 AM
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Game is life bro.
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:46 PM
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Oh boy, there is a lot to unpack here. 1st off, you're literally a child. So, knock off the doomsday shit about being single for 20 years. 2nd, to really help you out, first things first we need to work on that mindset. With your current systems of beliefs about dating its going to be extremely hard to get results. For starters, dating and building relationships is a marathon and not a sprint. It takes time, commitment and a real desire to make yourself better. ​ Edit: That being said its not ve…
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:44 PM
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What does being autistic even mean anymore? When I was in school autism was only used to describe people with sever mental issues and stunted personalities. Like a 20 year old who has the mental capacity of a 5 year old. I have no idea what it means today. Based on your writing skills, I don't understand what the problem is here. ​ Edit: Maybe I'm thinking of down syndrome. Either way, I don't understand what the "mental disorder" is
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:32 PM
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Do things that make you nervous not things that make you feel guilt
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:27 PM
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So in this super market example Charlie has the social proof of being "known". ​ No, lol I've never picked up a girl at a grocery store. I have at bars, around college campuses, the gym and one time in the elevator of a hotel lobby. That was funny.
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:03 PM
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Got it, you have some good foundations there but your word choice and topic choice need a little work. Honestly, talking about yogurt isn't that fun. Now if YOU love yogurt and want to talk about it, you'll want to identify a woman who is also fond of yogurt. Look for leggings, obviously physical attributes, etc. So, lets say the girl is also a gym person... Me: "Sorry, is that brand good (brand A)?", or " How's that you're choosing ?" *** "So, usually I like to eat (Brand A) but have been think…
/r/seduction24/10/21 05:54 PM
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The best way I am going to be able to help answer some of these questions is to work with you on real life scenarios. Do you have any current situations you'd like advice on?
/r/seduction24/10/21 04:07 PM
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Correct, But at least should I worry about to keep the conversation going right ? If so, how do you keep the conversation going? Move the conversation to text first. If you meet a girl in a grocery store her very first instinct is going to be scared of you. Women are scared of men to some degree and you can't spook them. They have dedicated threads about how to spot red flags and creepy men. Doesn't matter how nice you are or not. You will come off as creepy if you try and talk too long in a gro…
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:42 PM
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Of course. I was just surprised! I'm a newb to reddit as a whole and am still learning the ropes and communities.
/r/seduction24/10/21 07:24 AM
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Yes, very true. Not all guys want sex. And hey, sometimes its hard for guys to communicate their wants and needs!
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:58 AM
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You should be reading the field reports, obviously. Ima check em out and see what he's got for advice.
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:46 AM
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You actually hit on a really, really unfortunate point for women. I don't know how to say this without being a huge jerk but women have a it EXTREMELY tough after 30-40. Because men are visual creatures, there isn't much "game" you could have to attract a man who is tall, dark and handsome. Actually, after posting this I went and checked out some dating subs for women and found some interesting things. It seems like women are discusses how to protect themselves from men and how to identify red f…
/r/seduction24/10/21 04:49 AM
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It's bad. There has been a line drawn between communication/relationship building and "seduction". They are not separate. Good communication and listening skills "work" on both sexes and all ages. The "seduction" that is mostly being taught won't really help men at all. We need to focuses more on understand social interactions and building relationships. Learning better communication skills help across your life, not just in dating. Also, what are you supposed to do after you "seduce" a person??…
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:41 AM
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I don't blame you. The state of "seduction" education on the internet is really bad. Also, why aren't there message boards for women to seduce men? I feel like it's a double standard that women just know how to get men and have all these options. ​ edit: Update, I found some and they are mostly about how to avoid men with red flags. I was surprised and disappointed about how much of a concern that actually is...
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:36 AM
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This is not true at all. As men, internet men at that, we put women on a pedestal. The small percentage of women who are ideally attractive get plenty of attention and men typically all flock to the really attractive women. Unfortunately, divorce rates are very high in the US and as we all age, it gets harder and harder to maintain those sexy, early 20 year old looks. There are many, many educated, intelligent women who are single and are probably looking for advice on how to attract men. And ho…
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:35 AM
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Flirt if you want but it sounds like you'd be baby daddy number two lol
/r/seduction23/10/21 10:30 PM
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*Dances away from the thread
/r/seduction23/10/21 09:41 PM
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Good questions, Okay, comment on a decision she's making or a situation she is in. For example: If she is looking at bananas in the fruit section: Point at the biggest one you can find and say "pick that one, its the biggest" If her cart wheel is wobbly in the isle Point at the wheel and say "These things never, would you like me to call the cart maintenance guy?" Or Just approach her and say "you look like you know your way around the store, where can I find the almond butter?" she points "Over…
/r/seduction23/10/21 09:26 PM
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Another thing about seduction is that people who typically teach it don't properly get you in the correct mindset. In sales it takes on average 8-11 contacts to close a deal and most people give up after 2. The biggest deal I ever closed was over 100K on one project. It took me around 80 hours of work, multiple meetings, probably 30 emails and 10 phone calls to get the papers signed. I had another client last year who it took me over a year, multiple meetings at his house, random phone calls at …
/r/seduction23/10/21 08:50 PM
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When you close on a phone number or work towards a first close - opening up a line of communication. You can use the "this or that" approach. If you ask for her phone number you're giving her one option and she can say "no". If you say, "Hey, I'd like to talk to you again, do you prefer text or snapchat?" Again, this is a sales technique. When setting an appointment with a home owner I usually walk them through this line of questioning to set an appointment: "Do you prefer mornings or afternoons…
/r/seduction23/10/21 08:34 PM
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Your conversations are going dry because you're trying to get too much out of the first interaction. Seduction is a game! You gotta play with her and make it fun. It's a myth you can just walk into a coffee shop and bang a girl in the bathroom. lol and if you could that's probably not the girl you want...
/r/seduction23/10/21 08:24 PM
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Essentially you make an "assumption" about her personality and use that to give yourself the highest percentage of success in the first approach. You then need to open your eyes and ears and dig to figure out the rest of her personality and test or original assumptions. The odds are what you first assumed may be a little correct, but she's likely much more complex. Obviously you can't judge a book by its cover. So, to your super market milf, think about relationship progression and your surround…
/r/seduction23/10/21 08:23 PM
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Cool, I'm just kinda writing snippets at a time. I love talking about this stuff! So, I have watched most of the dating advice, blogs, etc that are available and most of the advise is terrible. There is one gal who is good - Emyli Lovz. She teaches from a sales perspective that will actually work. Cold approaching in public is I think the hardest for people, so some tips: ​ As always I think mindset going into this is highly important. With a bad attitude you may as well just go home - need to g…
/r/seduction23/10/21 03:34 AM
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Well, that's the problem with psychology degrees - they don't ever talk about seduction lol.
/r/seduction22/10/21 12:34 PM
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Aight, so IRL humor is going to work more than anything else. A formula you can use for humor is: Wait for the girl to say something a little odd, like "ouch that smarts" or just anything a mom, dad, grandma, grandpa would say. ​ Hey, {girl}, my {grandma, aunt, dad, mom, brother, anyone really} called and they want their {word, phrase, saying, etc} back. ​ As long as she says something that reminds you of someone older than you and what she says is a bit unique. ​ This is the stereotypical "neg"…
/r/seduction22/10/21 06:04 AM
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IRL dating is harder though. Most of the time you'll get turned down more. The formula is essentially the same. Attention getter Who you are and why you are there The Hook The close Except, in real life, those steps are spread out farther. There isn't really a format to approaching a woman in real life. I think thats important to notice. You need to be able to understand her and customize the interaction. For example, I was at a bar a few nights ago and was by myself playing Tropical Thunder. Tw…
/r/seduction22/10/21 06:00 AM
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Then, have some sort of pitch. Have a routine method of approaching women that you can use over and over again. NOT a pick-up line, but a format that gets attention and contains these components: For example, on Tinder, I use this format: Attention Grabber ("I need some advice") Who am I and why am I here ("I think this girl is cute and want to get to know her") The hook ("look through her pictures and describe her. Don't be overt though, she should figure out it is her by reading the descriptio…
/r/seduction22/10/21 04:00 AM
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Lol alright. So, there are some numbers to get in your head before you start approaching women. These are sales numbers I use when I'm doing cold approaches for work. ​ 10 conversations = 1 lead (lead being someone who is interested in you) 3 leads = 1 appointment (appointment being a date) 3 appointments = 1 close (being sleeping with a girl or girlfriend opportunity) ​ So, approach talking to women with an attitude that you are going to need to approach 90 women, to get a girlfriend. Now, an a…
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:53 AM
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Nah, just go cold. She will either sprint after you or she won't respond. ​ Honestly its not going to get better if you stay with her. You have to back off so she really misses you. If you don't do that things won't change. Might get better for a month, but she will keep doing the same things. If you back off and she chases, she needs to chase for awhile otherwise her behavior won't change.
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:41 AM
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Oh, and try to slowly increase mediums of communication. Get her off Tinder ASAP to text. Then, move to snap-chat, something else. I've had girls cross country before I met on Tinder and a month later they would call me at midnight for hour long conversations. It works, but its hard and takes a long time and you'll probably fail. ​ Best of luck!!!
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:37 AM
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Ooooo I love this. Aight, so this one is tough. It really is the most challenging way to seduce a woman. So, first off you need to keep relationship tempo in mind. Relationships need to progress and continue to get to new levels to keep interest. If you will never be an option, it's likely to slowly fizzle out. You are long distance and only have text, you have to slow it down and keep attraction high. Which, means talking less and also making a deep connection you need to drag out the tempo. Fi…
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:35 AM
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Don't look for dating coaches...most of them make a living by having people follow them and read their books/watch videos.. They don't have a back ground in psychology. If you want to study read about psychology studies on personality types. It will be far more useful than "gurus" who date. That aside, just be extremely direct. If you like I woman, look her dead in the eyes and tell her you think she's attractive. Then sit and stare at her until she responds. Most men can't express their feeling…
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:23 AM
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Start by disagreeing about little things. My favorite is to make everyone know that I don't like football. If someone likes something you don't just chime in and say, yah good for you, I can't stand that. The more you do it the easier it gets
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:19 AM
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Next time ask her why she likes her boyfriend and why she thinks they are good together. Then, tell her you're happy for her she found a man. Then move on and flirt with her or whatever. All if fair in love and war and the reality is that if you are assertive, confident and straight forward, her boyfriend is slacking in one or all of those areas.
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:18 AM
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What is a "choosing signal" lol? Go talk to them. You're thinking too much about it. =)
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:15 AM
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I see your point, but most people will never get their lives together enough to develop "advanced" social skills. Predicating learning seduction on that is too much pressure. Let dudes learn how to say hi to pretty ladies, man.. =)
/r/seduction22/10/21 02:55 AM
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