Most Effective & Creative Quick Openers?

SomeRespect · 2021-10-28T22:11:58+00:00

My openers change depending on where I'm at in life because recycling the same canned lines makes things feel forced.

I try to involve the girl in my life situations or comment about her, or both.

Usually starts with:
"You look like you......."
Or
"Excuse me I need a girls opinion on something......"

willgo-waggins · 2021-10-28T23:23:59+00:00

I honestly will often just randomly start including them in a conversation as if we were already discussing (insert whatever sounds good). Almost always it gets them to pause and I have a chance to continue then suddenly go “yeah I really think you’re right about that. Btw my name is Wilgo. What’s yours? I mean since we are already talking we should know who we are taking to right?”

It’s smooth and you’ve already disarmed them by making them feel like they are just in a friendly discussion.

shavasanap · 2021-10-28T22:10:38+00:00

Start with eye contact. Hold her eyes for a bit, let go, and then make eye contact again. Smile a bit and approach her, and let it go from there.

imjustdumbaf · 2021-10-28T20:27:28+00:00

Man just say anything. The first thing you say probably ain't gonna register anyway. I opened a girl standing next to me while raining by saying "how are you not wet?"

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-10-28T20:15:07+00:00

I don't wanna be that guy that is hitting on women in a grocery store, but.....I'm totally that guy.

affinitypaw · 2021-10-28T18:46:31+00:00

Hi, I'm /u/pxparadise

OGWarlock · 2021-10-28T19:05:47+00:00

GhoulChaser · 2021-10-28T19:06:34+00:00

“Hey I know this is totally random but you’re absolutely gorgeous and i’d be kickin myself for the rest of the day if I didn’t find out more about you”

anoyingprophet · 2021-10-29T00:40:28+00:00

Just have a convo with a girl based on something that has to do with the environment and observe how she reacts to you. You'll be able to tell if a chick is attracted to you just by the way she lights up when you talk to her. From there, escalate the conversation. Here's an example of a pull I did last week at the gym. So It was chest day and I saw this beautiful girl that I never seen there before. My type exactly. I knew at some point I was gonna talk to her and I was just waiting for the perfect moment. So after I did my main chest movements, I was gonna finish it with some peck deck. Turned out, she was using the peck deck. I ended up asking her how many sets she had left. She was all smiley when she talked to me so I can kinda tell she's easy to talk to. She said 2 sets. So I sat there waiting. Then I noticed as she was doing her sets, she would stop mid sets an move her shoulder around. Her form was also terrible and she was going to heavy. I thought giving her some advice about what seems like a shoulder impingement might be the perfect chance to talk more, as I had a previous Injury, and I'm a huge fitness nerd who would love to help anyone. I simply went up to her and asked "hey sorry to bother you, but I noticed you keep on moving your shoulder. Is it hurt?" She tells me she dislocated in the past and how it flares up. I mentioned how I had a similar issue and taught her how to fix her form and what excerises and stretches she should do. Then we exchanged names and made plans to workout with each other. She gave me her snap. Couple days later were at the gym doing our thing, and our convo gets real and we talk about past relationships and I tell her I'm into her. Got her and now we're gonna link up.

So what you basically need to do, is find a purpose to actually talk to the girl. Either ask her about something that's related to where you guys at at. Or assist her based on where y'all are at. If you see a chick in line at Starbucks, ask her what she would recommend. But here's the catch, after that initial opener, you only escalate the convo if you can tell there's a vibe. Meaning there's unspoken chemistry and if you can tell she's open to actually having a convo. You'll notice there's girls who will come off as distant. Usually if a girl isn't attracted to you she'll come off this way. Oddly, if a chick is actually attracted to you, she could be doing something extremely important like cramming for her final at the library, but if she digs you, she'll literally appear like the most down and available person to have a convo. This final part is the most important and it takes a level of intuition and social awareness.

letsgetrandy · 2021-10-28T18:58:44+00:00

Excuse me, do you have a moment? I need some assistance.

Jdaddyk07 · 2021-10-29T03:26:14+00:00

Comment on:

- A decision she's making

- A situation she's in

- A situation worth noting in the environment

examples:

- If she is looking at bananas: "Pick that one, its bigger"

- If she is waiting in line and looks annoyed by how long its taking: "I bet my line is going faster than your line"

- If an obnoxiously loud motorcycle drives by the store: "You know, I've always wanted everyone to know when I drive by too."

Idk if my examples are very good. Lol, but generally those three things give you something to comment on.

Hope this helps!

prince_of_brosia · 2021-10-28T19:38:50+00:00

If you have a friend with you have him or her say to a group a girls “have you met u/pxparadise?” Ice broken and take it away

Orange-of-Cthulhu · 2021-10-28T22:38:20+00:00

"Hi, would you like to buy a moose?"

humblesnark · 2021-10-29T05:38:30+00:00

This one has worked for me: context is a Halloween party where I hardly knew anyone. She was dressed up and hot and it was nearing the end of the night. I approached with "wow my god you look amazing. I gotta ask, how many guys have asked you for your number tonight?" Turns out the number was zero. "Really? These guys are idiots." And I handed her my phone.

2021-10-29T09:06:04+00:00

“You’re talking to me now”

BradleyX · 2021-10-29T01:24:37+00:00

“You are the hottest of hot.” It’ll work or not.

karmaval · 2021-10-29T00:00:42+00:00

What are you doing step sister?

urbeatagain · 2021-10-29T03:25:31+00:00

Using “Baby I’ll rob banks and kill for you” always worked for me.

Dinobrothers · 2021-10-29T04:49:33+00:00

When at a grocery store walk up to a girl and ask her if she can watch your buggy it'll be quick. Walk a couple steps while digging your phone out of your pocket and walk back to her with a smile and say "thanks, this is for when you need me to return the favor" while handing her your phone with the dial screen showing. Be prepared to be rejected giving you her number. That's just a initial reaction but the ice is already broken so u still have a chance if shes attracted to you. What I do when they reject is ask if she has a boyfriend if she says no then I'll tease her and say than who's paying for all of this stuff. Its these light teases joking and laughter that gets me in the door with most women I meet

LolaBijou · 2021-10-29T06:34:25+00:00

Do you know what time it is?

AstralValProjection · 2021-10-29T10:24:00+00:00

Observations.

Title	Most Effective & Creative Quick Openers?
Author	pxparadise
Upvotes	76
Comments	61
Date	October 28, 2021 6:01 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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