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you are not damaged goods. there is still a purpose for your life even if you can't see it.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/24 02:13 PM
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You are likely upset because you are a loyal person with normal human emotions. Take solace in fact that you are not a psycho like her. The thing that sucks in this world is you can't expect other people to be like you. and sometimes even when you thought you knew them it's likely that you really didn't. I'm just getting out of an 18-year marriage where my wife never gave a shit about me. I stayed because I took marriage seriously and for the kids. She only cares about herself. Most people are i…
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/24 12:30 PM
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I understand. try to keep in mind that until someone has gone through a divorce they don't understand how absolutely devastating it can be. I think it's because it's seems to be so commonplace in our society that people that aren't going through it think it's a typically normal thing. It was never designed to be that way. My family has been here for me and I have a couple guy friends that I text with a lot and meet once in awhile. I'm also attending a class called "DivorceCare" at a local church…
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 02:34 PM
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The kids thing is hard but it is BEYOND YOUR CONTROL. You can only do what you can do. That is being the best father you can be. It hurts. I'm in the middle of my divorce too. we've been separated for about 7 months and had the temporary hearing two months ago. I have some days where I breakdown, but not as often as I used to. It seems like you're pretty hard on yourself. The further you get from the relationship the more you will see that not everything was your fault. In my case....I did a lot…
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 02:33 PM
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I still haven't even made it to the finalized divorce. We had the temporary hearing a couple months ago. since she left she refuses any kind of talk about anything except the kids..... There wasn't any physical or verbal abuse (I may have called her stupid once that I remember in 18 years)..... although she says there was "emotional abuse". then again, she is severely mentally ill so I'm trying to extend some type of grace because of that. I know for certain my life is better off without her but…
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 01:59 PM
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I used to operate under a spirit of anger. I had a pretty good relationship with my kids before but now that the anger is gone (Thanks to God) our relationship is 10 times better. Ask God to help you so you can be more patient and loving towards them. I'm sure you're going through an incredibly stressful time right now.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 01:05 AM
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thanks
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/24 10:02 PM
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I can absolutely identify with how you're feeling. Even though the relationship I had with her was terrible in a lot of ways on both sides.....(even though she always gaslit me to make everything my fault). I still grieve the destruction of it. I'm not crying all the time like I was a month or two ago but I'm still pretty upset. But that's the weird thing.....she acts like it is all normal. Perhaps to her it is. The whole scenario is just sad as hell.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/24 09:57 PM
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I don't think you're an idiot for trying to be compassionate towards a very obviously mentally ill person. I can identify with this as my STBX also struggles with mental illness. she's medicated but.... One thing I realized is that I used to think medication made a person normal.... But it doesn't.... If a person's crazy it just makes them somewhat less crazy. I think you're only issue here is the same issue that I have which I am working on and that is setting healthy boundaries. sometimes if p…
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/24 06:47 PM
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I think what men are actually desiring, optimally, would be a faithful partner that is what a woman should be. Loving, nurturing etc etc Unfortunately in this day and age it's an incredibly rare find. So it makes sense to me that you see men never wanting to get in a relationship again with with what they know is the majority of women these days...versus still desiring a faithful companion that actually cares for them.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/24 04:00 PM
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there's nothing more devastating you could do to your daughters than to kill yourself. you definitely don't want to leave them alone at all times with a woman that is this out of touch with reality. I'm going through a divorce myself currently and I've had all of these thoughts as well. at the end of the day you just have to resolve to understand that just because you are a loyal person doesn't mean you can make others be. If you check out now your daughters are not going to have any kind of exa…
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 01:54 PM
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Do you have any spiritual beliefs?
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/24 12:24 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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