| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | The only viable method of attracting womenReads like a list of clickbait titles. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/17 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Oral contraceptive changes preferences for male facial masculinityNowhere in the research is this implied. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/17 02:53 AM |
| 5 | She cums or you goFkn twelve year olds nowadays :') | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/17 10:46 PM |
| 4 | Want to expand your RP reading list, but hate paying for books? Me too.Project Gutenberg has a lot of those books for free, since copyright has expired. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/17 10:45 PM |
| 5 | Male sexual needs = female commitment needsThe biological need for women to have kids almost certainly requires a dick in them. However this biological need only starts to materialize after a certain age. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/17 03:22 PM |
| 23 | Cringe video: Fat beta schlub played by Coyote Ugly tatted bar skanksNever gonna get those 2 minutes of my life back. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/17 01:57 AM |
| 7 | How much Dan Bilzerian understands.OP knows he pays for those girls right? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Height, my meditationsDid girls' attraction to you change noticeably as you gained muscles? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/17 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Height, my meditationsDo you have good game or muscles to make up for your height then? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/17 06:47 PM |
| 45 | TBM's OFFICIAL LOOKSMAX GUIDE(HOW TO BE A TOP 20% MALE) PART 2Where's part one? All your posts seem to be deleted. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/17 02:13 AM |
| 1 | 10 logical fallacies that block you from success, plus Beachbloke's Lazy Lay methodSo basically you have small talk about mundane things with her while escalating meanwhile right? And here I am worrying about what to say while I should be touching her which is more fun anyway :/ | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/17 09:21 AM |
| 1 | How To Stop Feeling Tired (if you're always tired as fuck, then none of the self-improvement material in the world will be enough - get your energy levels on lock first!)How do you define low libido? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/17 06:05 AM |
| 1 | What to Say to Girls by Todd Valentine (probably the best video you'll ever watch on this topic)That convo was so awk | /r/seduction | 14/02/17 02:11 AM |
| 1 | How do I appear sexy before bed?Maybe stop using the word sexy so much. What are you like five? | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Field Report - Worst Daygame Lay EverI detest posts with buzzwords in [b] | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 10:31 PM |
| 4 | Manage Your ArousalWhat a good reason to buy Resident Evil 7 on PSVR.. :) | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/17 08:09 PM |
| -5 | Obsessed with sexGo fuck a prostitute to get it over with. | /r/seduction | 19/01/17 10:48 AM |
| 4 | Why I Get Laid A Lot From Nightgame And Most Don'tI try REALLY fucking hard when I get turned on. Maybe this is the problem, most guys aren't really turned on.. | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Gun questionSometimes you need to provide some extra incentive for spreading her legs I guess. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/17 07:35 PM |
| 1 | I attempted to calculate how much casual sex women in the United States have by age group.Just curious, what are you currently studying or how did you learn this calculation? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/17 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Quality Must-Read TRP books?I don't understand what people like so much about the rational male. Not so much practical advice in there, only meta game | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 11:33 PM |
| 0 | Why you should watch hardcore porn regularlyOP said watch porn, not fap to porn. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 10:35 PM |
| 0 | Getting muscular is your best optionI think you should hire an investment bank to do your female valuation. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 02:16 PM |
| 1 | How a short-guy can be more masculine in the eyes of others.I read suits. Those help too to make you look bigger. As long as they fit well obviously. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/16 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Testosterone Supplements?Don't forget sleep. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/16 12:57 PM |
| 43 | Read 15 lessons from Pook, tried few on my standard girlfriend, and was amazed how they work to the letterWhich constitutes the logical fallacy of the appeal to authority. Words should be valued on themselves not based on the people uttering them. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/16 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Lower smv guys and chasing womenBilzerian pays the girls he's with.. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/16 12:33 PM |
| 8 | You are probably stupid and are broadcasting this inferiority to those around you.Main takeaway of this wall of text is that your internal game can diminish your SMV gains due to negativity and bad mentality. On the guy that dances like JT vs the guy with perfect push-pull: I like this example. The p-p guy is clearly still in the validation-seeking stage, while the dancer guy doesn't give a fuck. Good example how important mentality/not giving a fuck/not seeking validation is. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/16 04:27 AM |
| 12 | The pre-fuck conversation is one big autism screening testFair enough but how do you do it? Any practical advice? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/16 08:00 PM |
| 2 | FYI the science subreddit is not a reliable source of information"Lesson learned: do not go to r science" I think the lesson learned is don't read the comments in r science. The link to the article is still perfectly valid. I however disagree with not reading the comments, as it is important to get your own views challenged. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/16 02:45 PM |
| 1 | This is for the guys who aren't as attractive: you can't waste your time with endeavors that won't improve your smv5'8" is not short in your book? What to do if you are balding? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/16 09:59 PM |
| 4 | The difference between talking to a lot of girls, and actually cramming your genitals in them.You didn't touch her at all and only talked to her all night I assume? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/16 11:23 PM |
| 6 | Simple tips to insert your meat stick into a new chick.Good post. I would like to add pull the trigger: lots of guys talk to chicks and go on dates, but refrain from actually touching her/escalating and thus end up in the friendzone. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/16 05:42 PM |
| 1 | You don't need to be a 1% man to just get laid.Do you think that a main reason most guys aren't getting laid a lot is because they don't actually go for it? i.e. they talk to women fine but don't escalate by touching her so they don't get seen as sexual guys? So, if those guys would 'try' harder by escalating they would mave more success? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/16 08:35 PM |
| 1 | I can hold conversation with a girl but dont know when to "pull the trigger"I think this thread was questioning how to do exaclty that. | /r/seduction | 07/10/16 08:51 AM |
| 2 | 2 year dry spellI agree with this: lots of people on the sub are not doing their best to get laid. Its actually pretty simple if you think about it: you go to the bar, talk to some girl and escalate. The first part pretty much everyone does, the second part just requires some determination but most guys do this as well, its just the shamelessly escalatating that many men don't do and this part is really key. Just put your hand on her back, get closer, just do it and after that take her home and fuck her. | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 09:00 AM |
| 1 | No approach anxiety. Just no idea what to do after that.The biggest players I've seen when talking to a girl they always have their hand around their waist etc. after that just let yourself be turned on by her and then it will feel natural. Maybe you masturbate/porn too much and are not sexually interested in real girls that much anymore. Try cutting down on those and see if that helps. | /r/seduction | 14/09/16 05:34 PM |
| 1 | No approach anxiety. Just no idea what to do after that.OP your problem is that you are waiting for her to make a move, while you should realise that it is your job. When you are talking to her, you should be horny because she is hot. You want to touch her and then you just do it. Start small by touching her hand and her lower back etc and then just make things more sexual by escalating to the kiss. Since you are horny and want her this feels natural. | /r/seduction | 14/09/16 05:20 PM |
| 1 | My Definite Guide to Inner GameDo you have a link to this one? | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 03:34 AM |
| 1 | No fap & no porn since August 2011: positive changesCould you explain how it is that you are more dominant in bed? Is it because you are hornier? I always feel that I'm too passive when it comes to girls, maybe masturbating less could cause me to be more agressive due to being hornier. Was that the case for you? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Pornography Addiction and Erectile DysfunctionWhat do you mean by results? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/16 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Lifting to compensate for heightOkay thanks good to hear. I thought I was completely screwed being bald and short (avg height is 6 foot here), but maybe there is some hope for me by lifting. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Lifting to compensate for heightI've read in one of your threads that you are pretty muscular and also short. Do you feel that since you've become muscular women are physically attracted to you, i.e. giving you the fuck me eyes? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 03:58 PM |
| 1 | HONESTY and how you're FRIENDZONING YOURSELF and your own SEXUALITY.I think for me the problem is that I don't get seen as a sexual guy. I know women want a guy that wants to fuck them but I don't get seen that way. I can talk to girls and I know in my head that I should escalate (touch her arm, small of her back and work way up from there) but for some reason it feels 'awkward' to do so. I feel as if she doesn't really want me to do that and that is why I don't really do it even though I know I should be touching her. Do you have any pointers on how to overcome… | /r/seduction | 06/04/16 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Seduction in One Picture.Is this in the same boat as "how do i escalate?" and the answer is "just do it"? So I can conclude that in the end it boils down to getting over that fear of rejection, in other words having the willingness to do it? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/16 06:24 PM |
| 1 | HONESTY and how you're FRIENDZONING YOURSELF and your own SEXUALITY.So in conclusion guys friendzone themselves by not expressing their sexuality - that they want to have sex with the girl. Could you do a post on how to best do this? | /r/seduction | 06/04/16 03:14 PM |
| 5 | Now that I am really successful with women, I hate them more than ever.Can I conclude from the pictures you posted that you are bald? | /r/seduction | 29/02/16 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Ronda Rousey admits to having suicidal thoughts, but then looked to her man and thought "I need to have his babies. I need to stay alive." You just can't make up how true TRP isWhat world do you live in that Ronda is a 5 :o woop | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/16 05:19 PM |
| 1 | The Golden Rule: How To Not Get Fucked In BusinessSure, but isn't that why there are punitive damages? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 09:35 PM |
| 3 | The Golden Rule: How To Not Get Fucked In BusinessThis has nothing to do with spreading your eggs, more with negotiating a good contract. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 09:29 PM |
| 3 | 3 months swallowing the pill and will be attending to my first college party; what should I do? (22yo, virgin and omega).If you're 57 kg at 1.8m you should focus on eating more next to lifting. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/16 09:58 PM |
| 6 | You Have Low SMV If You Are Unsuccessful With WomenAfter reading and reacting to your post I discovered the sidebarred article "Confessions of a reformed incel". Due to an event his mindset actually shifted and he acted in a confident way and not really caring what women (or anyone else) thought of him. Now I understand the paradox of TRP I think; by working on yourself you become confident and this confidence leads to getting laid. The paradox lies in the notion that most guys come here because they have trouble to get laid, but most likely the… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/15 02:33 AM |
| 4 | You Have Low SMV If You Are Unsuccessful With WomenDo you think that for a guy who has a 'minimum level' of SMV (basic hygene etc.), which would be most guys I guess, the problem they aren't getting laid is not their SMV but their behaviour/confidence? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/15 01:34 AM |
| 4 | You Have Low SMV If You Are Unsuccessful With WomenI think it's more a combinatoin of both. Raising your SMV will do nothing for you if you don't know about TRP truths about 'how the world works', evidenced by all those 'attractive' rich guys that seemingly flock to Mystery bootcamps etc. However on the other side, raising your SMV for yourself is probably the quickest way to get in the confidence alpha mentality, because the quickest way to feel like the boss who owns the place is when you truly are. In the end in my opinion it boils down to co… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/15 01:30 AM |
| 1 | You Have Low SMV If You Are Unsuccessful With WomenThat's what OP says; you get a lot of women so probably have high SMV too.. It's not that easy for other guys who don't have high SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/15 12:13 AM |
| 4 | How do you beat the "out of my league" feeling?What do you mean? | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Being A Highly Selective MaleI slept with women in bed on three occasions, two women in the same bed on two occasions and was locked into a bathroom with a girl who was notorious for sleeping with a lot of guys on one occasion, all girls who were between a 6 and 8. Nothing happened Do you mean you weren't attracted to them and this caused you not to act and fuck her? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 02:57 PM |
| 1 | I can't get girls to see me sexually a.k.a How the fuck do I close?What is Mode 1? Never heard of that (book?). | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 01:49 PM |
| -15 | Why Most Women Can't EngineerReplace female with male in all these anecdotes and they are still perfectly valid. Hypocrites. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 06:01 AM |
| 4 | Unlikely F-Close [FR]Solid advice! Sidebar plzz | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Women will do almost anything for an Alpha MaleYea you are right, but this applies to many "TRP" concepts. I guess this is TRP and not the equivalent sub for women. Many things TRP says about women applies to men as well. Still, that doesn't make it less hypocritic. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Virgin GameI don't really get it, do you mean that when he tensed up and failed at hiding his attraction to the girl, this created sexual tension (which he tried to avoid but failed at) and you found this sexy? | /r/seduction | 22/05/15 02:05 PM |
| 15 | Even when I act confident (body language, posture, walking with my head up) and dress well, I almost never catch girls on the street looking at me twice. Is that an indication that I'm not good looking enough for women? To be a ladies man?never apologize for my sexuality, and always pursue under the assumption she's attracted to me. This part probably sets you apart from 90% of men. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 04:17 AM |
| -2 | Viewers on attractive gamer's stream perfectly exemplify BB behaviour.Inb4 OP creates a post about camgirls. Oh and by the way, male streamers also receive tons of donations. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/15 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Have any of you ever roomed with a female?Living with men or women doesn't make a difference. Both have their up- and downsides.. If you two get along fine I'd see no reason to not do it. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 11:07 AM |
| 1 | The strong silent type that attracts women - Pure Hollywood fiction?Even the strong silent type has to walk up to a girl and talk to her. | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 10:29 AM |
| -3 | TIL: 17 of the 20 richest women in the world "earned" their fortunes through trust funds, inheritance, or were heiresses.How is it a big difference, it's all relative: the person that starts from nothing and becomes a millionaire is not necessary doing better than the person who inherits a million and becomes a billionaire. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 08:49 AM |
| 1 | 'The Killer Instinct' from the Good Looking Loser blogWhy are posts from 2 years ago get posted still? :') | /r/seduction | 26/04/15 05:20 PM |
| 7 | How can i get a flirtatious mind?So basically the best way to embrace my sexuality is by getting really horny from girls (which I guess I don't so much right now because of porn and fapping)? Can it be that due to porn and me not getting horny from real girls that easily I don't see them in a sexual way and thus don't feel that confident and dominant/sexual around them? | /r/seduction | 23/04/15 01:05 AM |
| 6 | How can i get a flirtatious mind?How do you do this? | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 09:47 PM |
| 6 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 1]Substitute heroin for cocain. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 05:04 PM |
| 1 | The Wall, Alpha Jocks, and You - a short rant.OP do YOU get hit on every day? :') | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Do it all for yourselfBeing awesome changes you. It changes your walk, your talk, and how you perceive the world. But being awesome will make you confident enough to not care, because you know you have your shit together. You’re happy with your life, eager to get up in the morning, and confident about the future. That girl across the bar? She doesn’t know you’re awesome. But you do. You know you can walk over to her, talk to her, and spark her interest, and if she’s a bitch, then you talk to that other girl four seat… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 11:19 PM |
| 1 | I cannot believe the shit I heard today. "UK government's aim to have 25% of women in FTSE100?I find this to be a bit simplistic, or does infrastructure get funded by violence where you live? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 04:18 AM |
| 4 | FR - "I don't kiss on the first date."Reading your report I think this is the basic foundation why you are so succesful. Being alpha is a mentality and thinking you're better than the rest is alpha per definition. I think that's why TRPs doctrine that improving yourself by lifting etc. is the best thing you can do to increase your SMV is very effective because the best way to think you're better is by actually becoming better. The thing I do not quite get yet is the hamster thing. You ignore her and that makes her insecure so she st… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 04:16 AM |
| 3 | FR - "I don't kiss on the first date."Nice ad hominem though. Could also be a compliment. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 04:10 AM |
| 3 | FR - "I don't kiss on the first date."Every "aware" person sounds like a sociopath. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Quick-and-dirty tips and tricks for aspiring alphasAm I wrong to assume that you've been good with women from an early age? I think people that aren't that good with women and masturbate to porn a lot do in fact benefit from giving porn up, because this forces them to interact with real girls to get their sexual relief. I guess if you're already good with women masturbating to porn a lot doesn't "hurt" your game, because you already know how to get girls anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 01:52 PM |
| 8 | I spend 30 minutes a day reading this pdf on DBT (dialectical behavioral therapy). It's made me more confident, less of an asshole, and given me the ability to relate to women and see myself as an equal, and not as some chump.Comic sans though :( | /r/seduction | 16/03/15 09:27 PM |
| 6 | Teenager girl urges beta friend to commit suicide. She then raises money for mental illness in the name of her friend.What a pro at getting what she wants. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 10:17 AM |
| 1 | FR: Getting Subway at the mall leads to plate (your posture is fucking important, nonverbal cues, communication, frame, direct game, etc.) and a HUGE red pill momentYea but she gets the feeling you're not needy by how you act right, like the body language you were talking about. I guess the eye contact you gave her also contributes to giving off a non-needy vibe. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/15 11:33 AM |
| 2 | FR: Getting Subway at the mall leads to plate (your posture is fucking important, nonverbal cues, communication, frame, direct game, etc.) and a HUGE red pill momentBecause that's the type of guy she saw me as, that's the dick she's dreamt about hanging off of all her life. And now she's found it. So can I take from this that this girl saw you as that guy that would fuck her brains out instead because the way you looked at her in the subway? She knew from the moment you looked at her for 4 seconds that you wanted to fuck her and did that make you attractive to her? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/15 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Guide to Social Circle GameNice guide, what would be the best way to make smalltalk? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 05:34 AM |
| 3 | How? The Ultimate Guide To Overcome The Fears of Approaching - Part 1/2What do I say dude, what do I say? Guess I'll have to wait for part 2 to figure that out, but this has potential =) | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 09:24 AM |
| 3 | So, I met the "Other Man" today.How beta to concern you with all this :') | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 09:56 AM |
| 4 | How Martin Luther King made me better at game.Good post. I like how you describe how you dealt with the awkwardness when you first started deliberately practicing it. | /r/seduction | 23/08/14 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of the mentality that I am trying to prove myself to women?Would this mean that when I'm going out and just talk to any girl (even if I don't feel any attractiveness to her) because I want sex really bad, this would make me needy and outcome dependent, but when I talk to a girl I am really attracted to I would not be outcome dependent because I like talking to attractive girls? | /r/seduction | 06/08/14 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Getting girls invested in you?I believe that if you are escalating, you should be doing it for yourself (i.e. I'm gonna kiss this ridiculously hot girl in the first 10 minutes of the date because I want it and it's gonna be awesome for both of us) If you want to kiss her, how is that not outcome dependent? Aren't you outcome dependent on the kiss in that case? | /r/seduction | 05/08/14 07:52 PM |
| 1 | If you can do these without being "beta-shamed", you truly understand the game.Yea I know, so how do you propose to increase one's SMV? Working out, improving your body language etc? If an alpha can get away with saying and doing basically anything (thus making outer game as in routines superfluous), I guess the best way to become this alpha guy with high SMV is working on yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/14 09:09 PM |
| 1 | If you can do these without being "beta-shamed", you truly understand the game.Isn't the way a girl judges your SMV by observing how confident you are. If you make such "power moves" like taking the girls drink that signals a high amount of confidence and thus SMV. If not, how do you suggest to raise your SMV? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/14 08:25 PM |
| 1 | How Direct Daygame Revolutionised My Dating LifeHmm that sounds about right. However I do feel that the site is a bit chaotic. Do you have any advice on where to start? Reading the articles I suppose? | /r/seduction | 26/07/14 02:23 PM |
| 7 | How Direct Daygame Revolutionised My Dating LifeThis reads like an advertisement.. | /r/seduction | 22/07/14 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Guy allows his 4-year long girlfriend to post to GW. Pretty obvious what happens next.If somebody could get a hold of the chat conversation between that guy and his GF, that would be some nice online-game guide.. :') | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/14 08:59 PM |
| 1 | How does improving yourself make you less nervous with women?Hmm, so that would mean that if I approach her like I would approach somebody I would like to meet and make my sexual desire known (by flirting and physicality) so I don't end up in the friendzone, that would make her attracted to me? Looking back on my past succesfull experiences I indeed just went to talk to them like a friend, while flirting a bit, holding strong eye contact to signal my intentions etc., but besides that nothing really special. To kiss her I just went for it. I can't understa… | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Self Love, Vulnerability, and Modern SeductionI never understand how self-love (and thus becoming non-needy) is supposed to magically enable oneself to be vulnerable and 'just do it'. | /r/seduction | 09/07/14 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Guy conducts Tinder experiment with photos of model, average guy, and ugly guy. Reaffirms invisibility of bottom 90% of men.How does this reaffirm anything? Hasn't it been pointed out repeatedly that men who smile seem less dominant than men who don't smile? In order to do the experiment correctly at least the facial expression of the males has to be the same.. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/14 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Confidence is NOT key and wishful thinking won't turn you into an alpha.Well the way Seddit suggests to build (real) confidence is doing exactly the things you do: work on yourself. Faking confidence with game is impossible because your weakness will always shine through. That's probably why when you were young people didn't notice you; you had fake confidence that wasn't backed up by any value. The real confidence which arises from actually improving yourself like you suggested is what makes you alpha and apparently your current persona is a good example of that. O… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/14 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Michael's StoryThis guy spent all college not participating? I wonder what he's been doing then instead of participating then? It's no wonder you're not getting any social interactions is you don't get out there yourself. Don't see how this is sidebar material. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/14 10:26 PM |
| 1 | You drew the short end of the stick, stop bitching and get to workI assume with 'working' you mean practising approaches? | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Unusual advice for Self-esteem / internalization question?Well I've had a few drunk makeouts and one-nightstands with mostly ugly girls. Like I said on a rational level there would be no logical explaination why I wouldn't be good enough for girls, I just don't 'feel' good enough for them. Acting like I'm good enough is therefor very hard, although "technically" I should be able to turn them on etc., but perhaps like you said just approaching and saying something, have a conversation, short-cuts the problem. But because I don't feel good enough for peo… | /r/seduction | 07/03/14 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Unusual advice for Self-esteem / internalization question?That's pretty hard to say without using terms that can be quantified. I suppose how I feel about myself isn't too positive because otherwise I wouldn't have to post here. Let's suppose I feel really bad about myself, what would you advise in that case? | /r/seduction | 07/03/14 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Unusual advice for Self-esteem / internalization question?Never actually thought of it that way. I can indeed put in more effort to push myself to actually take action. At the very least taking action short-circuits the worrying in the short-term. The feeling I have of not being good enough for women might fade after some success, hopefully... Thanks! | /r/seduction | 06/03/14 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Unusual advice for Self-esteem / internalization question?It's a pretty solid point and I'll keep that in mind, thanks! | /r/seduction | 06/03/14 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Unusual advice for Self-esteem / internalization question?This actually makes a lot of sense, thanks! If I may 'transform' your anecdote to PUA terms basically what you are doing is putting the other people to qualify themselves to you instead of the other way around. I think it would indeed be a good 'mindshift' for me to force myself to think 'what are other people up to' so I can't worry about what they think I'm doing. That basically turns the tables on people. Combined with reading a lot like you suggested, which will arm me with the knowledge to … | /r/seduction | 06/03/14 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Unusual advice for Self-esteem / internalization question?Hey! thanks for your response. I think the part about achieving things may be pretty spot on and is very helpful. It sounds very logical that if you're doing things nodoby else does your self-esteem rises. With that in mind I guess that you're correct about me feeling very mundane and as a result of this I might get the feeling I'm not good enough because I think I can actuallydo a lot better than I'm doing now. I'm not bad at sports or at school but I feel that I can do a lot better than I do n… | /r/seduction | 06/03/14 08:36 PM |
| 2 | "Alpha" Begins with Body LanguageDo not take rapid actions. When you go to pick up a cup of coffee, take out your phone, or open a door, do it at half the speed your brain "wants" you to do it at. Good. Now do it at half the speed of THAT. Now you're getting there. Relaxed, deliberate, graceful motions are attractive. Fidgety, nervous motions are the behavior of a weak man whose system is flooded with chemicals he can't control. This part is really important, since moving more slowly instantly gives you a feeling of dominance. … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/14 06:52 PM |
| 2 | How to obtain a feeling of value.I can indeed try to consciously improve my mental thoughts (you call it meditating I think) in order to get an abundance mentality because basically the abundance mentality is the result of a logical thought progress/rationalization. Improving self esteem by focussing on what is valuable about me thus in essence works in the same way, I guess.. All the other sides of seduction such as frame control and body language can be practised consciously as well. It all seems so easy now.. :P | /r/seduction | 25/02/14 05:49 PM |
| 2 | How to obtain a feeling of value.Hey! Thanks for your reaction! If I understand the concepts correctly low self esteem may be corrected by investing more in yourself. This means practicing proper body language and eye contact, as well as reading more books, working out etc. etc. On the other hand, thinking highly of girls is compensated by the abundance mentality. I don't know exactly how this one works, but I guess it's a rationalization? I'm not aware of concrete ways to practice this. Any other advice to take girls of the pe… | /r/seduction | 25/02/14 01:02 PM |
| 2 | How to obtain a feeling of value.Thanks for your reaction. So what do you suggest I focus on then? Things like improving body language, eye contact, reading books, working out? Anything else? | /r/seduction | 25/02/14 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Neurokinetics, Mental agility and densification of brainmatter.Interesting take, mister Kombaiya. Obviously brainpower is important. Two things sting me a little bit though. First of all you take the Prince as an example that does not display any brainpower. However I disgress, considering the book as a prime example of using brainpower to actually describe the situation as it is and offering viable solutions to the observed problem. That these solutions are deemed to be criticized by the masses does not withold the writer (Machiavelli) to not voice his opi… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/14 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Struggling with the need for external validation.Inspired by mark manson perhaps? | /r/seduction | 26/11/13 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone read "The Black Flag" by Shark?I think this is just the way Shark likes to write. Amateur porn is not an alpha habit per se, but amateur porn and nude photography involves a fucking a lot of women I guess. I think that's the connection Shark is making. I wouldn't put that much value on that exact sentence. | /r/seduction | 03/11/13 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone read "The Black Flag" by Shark?It reads very easily. Wouldn't consider it as 'another one of them books' because it doesn't try to conceive some magic idea to focus on, but starts very structurized with basic 'red pill' know ledge, and then goes on on how to actually internalize this knowledge. Have to warn you a little bit though, his writing style is hard and fast like Roosh and Heartiste. I considerer Black flag to be more elaborate (covers more subjects) than roosh's bang actually. It's not as dense as Mark Manson's Model… | /r/seduction | 30/10/13 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone read "The Black Flag" by Shark?I think it's one of the best books out there since it covers everything from inner game to outer game to beliefs etc. | /r/seduction | 30/10/13 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How do I become more interested in women?/r/nofap. From The Roosh Program: Limit masturbation to only one day a week. You’re not going to be too motivated to the challenging task of approaching girls if you’re not horny. Therefore you must greatly curtail your masturbation habits to only one day a week, preferably an off day like Sunday. You want your weighted balls to push you to approach since there is no option of release through your overused hand. | /r/seduction | 29/10/13 04:01 PM |
| -1 | Internalizing the confident / alpha mindset: entitlement is the link between actions and thoughts.I agree with what you say. The word entitlement might be a bit clumsy. However I think you might have misunderstood my post. The point of my post is that the mechanism that facilitates how the inner feeling of confidence is derived from outside achievements (i.e. general lifestyle improvement) is called entitlement. This does not have to be factual entitlement as you point out. The problem is, are so far on the scale of unconfidence that they shouldn't worry about feeling 'over-entitled'. The ex… | /r/seduction | 23/10/13 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Internalizing the confident / alpha mindset: entitlement is the link between actions and thoughts.As I described, it is obvious how changing your belief system (inner game) leads to increased confidence. However, a lot of advice on how to become confident instructs to improve ones lifestyle. My post tries to explain how external lifestyle-improvement leads to internal confidence gains. I agree that it's more effective to change your belief system, but it is also harder to do so, as actions precede thoughts. | /r/seduction | 22/10/13 11:52 PM |
| 1 | How does one go about being more outcome independent?http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php?7330-Achieving-Outcome-Independence | /r/seduction | 23/09/13 08:32 PM |
| 0 | How to escalate sexually without being creepy in day game?Verbal escalation. | /r/seduction | 20/09/13 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Books/Material/Videos on Dark Triad Style of Seduction?There really isn't much to say on this subject. As you know the three personality types the triadic person is made off is narcissism, machiavellinism and psychopathy. As concluded in the heartiste articles linked by RythmAndTango machiavellinism is basically game, narcissism is overconfidence and putting your own interests first and psychopathy is the taking of risks and basically could be seen as outcome independence. The paradox with the dark triad personality is that in order to ingrain it in… | /r/seduction | 14/09/13 09:36 PM |
| 1 | The importance of passive seductionReally good post. Also, you also point out things that can be consciously improved, such as eye contact. | /r/seduction | 11/09/13 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Condensed notes from "What Women Really Desire" by Zan PerrionThanks for the notes but it sounds like a lot of David Deida to me. | /r/seduction | 30/08/13 03:55 AM |
| 2 | "Real sex isn't like porn sex"I think the look Asa Akira gives when she looks deep into the eyes of the guy comes pretty close to what you mean. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/13 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Confidence. The military and seddit.I have to ask: could you be more detailed on how seddit helped you? Change of reactions from the men under your lead or what do you mean? | /r/seduction | 11/04/13 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Gentlemen, what are some ways you've become more interesting and valuable?What is the difference between reading and learning? | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Maintaining the correct mindset at all times - how?Seems to me that you are getting needy / outcome dependant. There are quite a few articles around on how to overcome this mental problem. | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Swallowing the pill makes you do funny things...Could you elaborate on how you eating the red pill changed your behavious in such a way that you got all those plates spinning? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/13 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Why spin plates when you can set the whole table?Rather than smooth-talk my way out of commitment, I've been able to establish a literal 5-girl harem of girlfriends who are exclusive to me that are variably aware of each other. I wonder if you could elaborate on how your red pill philosophy has concretely changed your behaviour (and talk), which in your opinion made it possible for you to 'set the whole table'. In line with that, how did you program the idea into them that they are working for your attention specifically? Cheers! | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/13 10:27 PM |
| 1 | I've spent about a year in the Pick-Up Community and with Self-Improvement all the while keeping a journal of everything along the way. I'm thinking about publishing it as a free E-book and PDF on Amazon, and was wondering if this something you might actually readWould love to read about your experiences. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Welcome to become a man. Today's mission: 1/14/13 - Get a gymCan those 75 push-ups be done in iterations of for example 3 times 25, or 5 times 15? | /r/becomeaman | 14/01/13 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleVery nice! Looking forward to the next parts. | /r/seduction | 12/12/12 06:38 AM |
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