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| 1 | How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays?Honestly, here is the lifestyle that I have adopted: Make a dating profile that is short and to the point, like a billboard, and put it across as many dating apps as possible. Just let it sit there. Don't tend to it. Get into some hobby or interest that you always wanted to, or an old one that you have neglected and miss doing. Do it as gratuitously selfish as possible. For instance, get to a point where you will willingly turn down other plans that seem trifling in order to further pursue that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Do women really want commitment?Apparently, it covers all areas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Do women really want commitment?If you ask a woman, the average man would be far below average - according to the data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Do women really want commitment?Nope. Sneaky. Do we have to bring out the dating data yet again, which shows how realistic a man's perception of "average" is, versus how unrealistic a woman's perception of "average" is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Do women really want commitment?That hasn't been true for more than a generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Do women really want commitment?First, how do you think the stay-at-home moms started? They started as stay-at-home girlfriends, but that's not even what the trend is about anyway. If you at all want to have a stable marriage and children by the time you are 40, that is something that you need to start working towards in your 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 10:37 AM |
| 1 | In all seriousness, Men what do you want from women in regards to solving the modern dating problems ?Men want women to not FEEL like they "settled" or lowered their standards. Men want a "6" woman to be perfectly fine with being with a "6" man - without complaint or regret. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?Well, that's me. We should exchange pictures to see if we find each other attractive. Off-topic, though. What level of education, and why is that important? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 10:29 PM |
| 4 | So, this guy is going through women's TikToks and updating the list of things that men cannot do if they want to be found to be attractive by women. He stitches the TikToks, so I haven't found his account yet, but here's a screenshot of the list thus far.Actually, that's a good strategy. If you don't do anything, you can't be disqualified because of it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/03/23 02:42 PM |
| 5 | So, this guy is going through women's TikToks and updating the list of things that men cannot do if they want to be found to be attractive by women. He stitches the TikToks, so I haven't found his account yet, but here's a screenshot of the list thus far."Eat soup"? "Be a Gemini"? Each of these women criticize these trifling matters as if they are absolutes, and as if they are speaking on behalf of all women. What if I happen to unknowingly step on one of these landmines? Can I expect to be ghosted, and blasted on social media? Do you see how these insignificant matters have nothing to do with a potentially healthy and loving relationship? Do you see how men are frustrated - some to the point of just giving up out of futility? I'm better off jus… | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/03/23 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?You're being reductive. Keep in mind that I had no problem with her stance on the issue. But, she demanded that I change my stance on the very personal medical issue to agree with her stance. My body my choice, right? But, what about all the green flags and hurdles that I surpassed before that? Should relationships involve both parties being agreeable and understanding towards each other? Perhaps with some compromise? "Reasonable"? Hardly. It happens, yes. But, I would be hesitant to call this b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?and owns a yellow jacket | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?If you just went out and got all this stuff yourself, would you need (or even want) a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?agreeableness Ouch. That word is a landmine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?So, you fancy beer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?Well, I'm being philosophical here. And, if you participated in the question, I think it's a safe assumption to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?If you were a completely whole person, you would not need or want a man. You actually would not need or want any other human being. But, assuming that you do need or want a man, that is presumably to fill some need or want. Based on that, what is it that you desire in a man, and how do those desires translate to filling those gaps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?Those individual things for you, how do those things in a man fill the gaps between where you are, and where you want to be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?A woman finds a man's value of her important, then. Does this fill a gap between where a woman's self-esteem currently is, versus where it should be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?Why do taller men turn you on? What does a tall man mean to you? If the answer is something like "safety" or "I want to feel small next to him", what does that chemical activity look like in your brain? As for the professional man, a plumber, electrician, and carpenter are considered to be professions. Would you consider that kind of man, assuming that they were ambitious and hard-working in their professions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 05:18 AM |
| 7 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?The joke refers to being combative - in reference to the post that I replied to. The disagreement between her and I was about an individual and personal subject, which wouldn't affect the other at all. Basically, a difference in opinion on a debatable topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?If you prefer a man who is at least six feet tall, then why? How does him happen to be six feet tall satisfy any particular need in you? If you want a man who is in a professional career, then why? What does that detail translate to in your head? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:49 AM |
| 8 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?Well, I mean, lesbian relationships are known to be sexless and abusive. And, gay relationships are known to be promiscuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:46 AM |
| 0 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?Well, let me try to help. Is the good and constructive life because of a man, or despite a man? Either way, which specific attributes should he have, and how do those attributes work towards your goal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?But, to what end? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:37 AM |
| 7 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?Men also want, above all else, peace, affection, loyalty, and intimacy. So, where is the disconnect? The disconnect is the combative part. My most recent false-start of a relationship - some two years ago now - ended because she kept testing me and giving me ultimatums. Like the woman in the Steve Harvey clip, each of these tests and ultimatums were based on her experiences with previous men. Never mind that, based on how she described them, I easily surpassed each of them (which, frankly, is ea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:35 AM |
| 6 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?Also extremely trope, which is why I asked to avoid the words on the page, and look for the meaning and desire that the words represent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?That is the conundrum. Men are the gatekeepers to relationships, and women are the gatekeepers to intimacy. Intimacy is temporary, in that it only has to be given for as long as it takes for the man to offer a serious enough relationship to the woman, where the consequences of ending it will outweigh his desire for intimacy. If women suddenly refuse intimacy, should men then suddenly refuse a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Why would the most attractive guys consistently go for a normal girl?Well, if you need an online friend, I'm here for you. My intentions are genuine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Being Non-Neurotypical is fucking brutalIt's brutal in society, yes. A society that invented the word "autism", and which claims that such behaviors are uncouth. Meanwhile, behaviors like getting lost in creative thoughts, and a severe attention to detail, probably helped early humans to survive. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/03/23 03:13 PM |
| 4 | Why would the most attractive guys consistently go for a normal girl?Honest question. If you are a genuine person, and you have attractive men pursuing you, and you have been vetting them, and believe their intentions are honest, why haven't you partaken in any of these long-term relationships that have been offered to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 06:47 AM |
| 5 | Why would the most attractive guys consistently go for a normal girl?But, what are the chances that there are also average men pursuing her, but she is just not noticing them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 06:45 AM |
| 5 | Why would the most attractive guys consistently go for a normal girl?Like a hardware store; screw, nut, and bolt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 06:44 AM |
| 4 | Why would the most attractive guys consistently go for a normal girl?Yes. This is typical. It's really a collision of three different things, in my opinion and experience - because (while I'm only slightly above average myself) I go for girls like your type. First, all the things that you listed off are extremely attractive to men. So, there's that. Second, men's attraction towards women who are towards the top of the scale lessens for those ultra-attractive women. This is an often-ignored aspect of the dating data that we all talk about. On average, a man's attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 06:40 AM |
| 1 | So, a guy in a different subreddit took someone's post from XXChromosomes, gender-swapped the text, and posted it elsewhere on Reddit...Roger that. On its way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 03:40 PM |
| 2 | So, a guy in a different subreddit took someone's post from XXChromosomes, gender-swapped the text, and posted it elsewhere on Reddit...You are actually and ironically proving the whole point of the experiment in the first place with this reply of yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | So, a guy in a different subreddit took someone's post from XXChromosomes, gender-swapped the text, and posted it elsewhere on Reddit...Since this thread was removed anyway, I'll just mention that the thread that I'm talking about was in a "Pill Debate" subreddit, but it was for "All" people. There you go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 02:07 PM |
| 1 | So, a guy in a different subreddit took someone's post from XXChromosomes, gender-swapped the text, and posted it elsewhere on Reddit...AAANNNDDD... "[Removed]" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 02:06 PM |
| 3 | So, a guy in a different subreddit took someone's post from XXChromosomes, gender-swapped the text, and posted it elsewhere on Reddit...Seriously. A good portion of my original posts here get removed by mods. I want to prevent that from happening in this case. Also, I want to be respectful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 01:58 PM |
| 2 | So, a guy in a different subreddit took someone's post from XXChromosomes, gender-swapped the text, and posted it elsewhere on Reddit...DO THIS ONE SIMPLE TRICK, MODS HATE HIM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 01:55 PM |
| 1 | So, a guy in a different subreddit took someone's post from XXChromosomes, gender-swapped the text, and posted it elsewhere on Reddit...I'll DM it to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 01:52 PM |
| 4 | I gender swapped a post from two x chromosomes and exposed reddit's hypocrisyI'm going to mention the existence of this post over on Purple Pill Debate, but only as an experiment to test their rules. I'll have to do it in a very generic way. They are pretty strict with links and crossposts, so I'm going to use this as a way to test the system. Just an FYI. If they allow me to mention your experiment over there, I'll crosspost it or reference the original source in some way. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/03/23 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Where have all the good men gone?There is a Nestle plant six blocks away from me. It's where a majority of their salsa is manufactured. I hear that they pay very well. I also live within a few blocks of a hospital, police station, and fire station. And, there are ample small-store businesses dotted in between. You are too brainwashed to see that employment is anything other than being Boss Girl in a skyscraper. I make just slightly above the current national average salary. $1,000 is taken out of my pay every month for taxes. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Where have all the good men gone?I'm not talking about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 02:04 PM |
| 6 | Where have all the good men gone?I disagree. Men naturally want to build their own fort, fight evil, and have pretty girls like them. These things aren't available to them in real life anymore. However, some of the biggest games ever are Minecraft and Elden Ring. Halo WAS huge, until Cortana turned mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 02:01 PM |
| 11 | Where have all the good men gone?Like resorting to shooting an Arab out of boredom, machismo, futility, or delirium. What was the line from "The Stranger"? When the main character was facing death, he looked at his girlfriend, who was a vapid soul, and said something like, "You will never live a single day of your life". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Women's failed relationships and dating abhorrent men proves women's "intuition" is bullshitI mean, if something is right or wrong about half of the time, then that means that there is nothing special about it. If the chances are 50/50, then that is raw randomness. But, I do think women's intuition exists, but it is subconscious. I have some examples of women who I work with deciding to either hire, promote, or fire someone, only for it to be thought of as an error later. But, was it really an error? One woman I work with hired someone for her team because she thought that she would be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 05:54 AM |
| 36 | Where have all the good men gone?You have the cause and effect backwards. With no reason to do anything else, they are resorting to the screen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 04:13 AM |
| 9 | Where have all the good men gone?Tell me that you've only ever lived in cities, without telling me that you've only ever lived in cities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 04:11 AM |
| 4 | Where have all the good men gone?The good news is that everything in the universe, including the movements of societies, function like a sine wave. Once it goes too far in one direction, like (real) memes being akin to mental viruses, the pendulum will swing back. What society will look like when it does swing back will be very interesting to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 04:08 AM |
| 3 | I don't want a relationship anymore.Marry me. :D KIDDING Seriously, though. You seem like a cool chick. I wouldn't mind having another friend. DM me if you feel the same. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/03/23 02:48 AM |
| 1 | I don't want a relationship anymore.Yep. It sure is. CBS, NBC, and ABC will always be referred to as the "mainstream media" - even if they are not actually mainstream - but I watch a whole mixture of content creators across several platforms. Some of these creators have weekly views larger than CNN. And, this topic comes up A LOT. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/03/23 02:46 AM |
| 2 | I don't want a relationship anymore.That's how I describe myself. "Reluctantly MGTOW". | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/03/23 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?See what? You are being too vague here. I think your opinion of what vicious behavior looks like is heavily weighted one way. I mean, there is the gray area of unattractive women just not being treated as nicely as other women, and that being seen as being vicious, in between your two extremes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:18 PM |
| 4 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?"Acceptable targets"? Can you do a dichotomy of what constitutes an "acceptable target" versus an "unacceptable target"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:12 PM |
| 4 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?Men are straight up vicious to women they think are ugly Whoa. Wait. What? I think your view here is highly sensitive, and in a biased manner. I would like you to elaborate on this statement a bit, preferably with examples. My counter-statement would be that men tend to treat all women better than they sometimes treat themselves - no matter the level of a woman's attractiveness. I think it's the details that we'll disagree on. I am referring to the fact that a man will likely risk his life to pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:42 PM |
| 0 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?I thought all women were 10's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:24 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Complimenting a woman you're interested in on looks is dumb and almost always detrimental.Indeed. So was I. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 11:17 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Complimenting a woman you're interested in on looks is dumb and almost always detrimental.You didn't mention any of this in your post. I was correcting you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 10:44 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Complimenting a woman you're interested in on looks is dumb and almost always detrimental.Compliment them on being a pro-choice liberal? That seems even more pandering and condescending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 10:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Complimenting a woman you're interested in on looks is dumb and almost always detrimental.They are objective only in that symmetry is a baseline for attractiveness. Everything above that is subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 10:35 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Complimenting a woman you're interested in on looks is dumb and almost always detrimental.Yeah, OP's post is in line with the other threads on this subreddit which state that individual women like to speak on behalf of all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 10:33 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Complimenting a woman you're interested in on looks is dumb and almost always detrimental.Yet more reasons to not even approach a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 10:24 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Complimenting a woman you're interested in on looks is dumb and almost always detrimental."...giving up your power..." This is not the first time I've heard a woman refer to a relationship as a power struggle. Very mentally unhealthy way to approach relationships. Don't be so combative. Just take the damn compliment. As for your edit. No. You don't get to tell me to not compliment you at certain times, but then to compliment you at other times. I don't owe you anything. I'll compliment you if I want to, or not if I don't. Are you strong enough to handle that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 10:22 AM |
| 5 | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergyNaw. It's not a smart strategy. Let's see how these women do when they turn 35 and still don't have a husband (but now want one), but men don't want to put up with them at that point. Are single 30+ women on TikTok really the happiest? Women on TikTok are begging good men to finally save them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 03:22 AM |
| 7 | is this a looksmatch couple? or does she cringe everytime he initiates anything physical?I watched this video, and that was the main thought going through my head. I was seriously weighing the man - mostly because I have plans on doing something similar to what he did. But, I came to a couple conclusions: We, through our Western eyes, see her a beautiful mostly because she's exotic. But, the same goes in reverse for how her society views him. Really, when you wipe away the Asian fetish, she's pretty plain looking. I think they match in the physical attractiveness department. He was … | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/03/23 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Most men would have no issues dating if they had a lifestyle that allowed them to organically meet women.Totally agree. There are a few problems that are insurmountable, though: As a middle-aged single guy, even though I keep situational awareness up at all times, and I dress nice and have good posture, I feel extremely self-conscious about going out alone. I feel that this is as much a "me" problem as it is a "you" problem. I know women here will immediately try to negate this point, but women are also scared of going out alone. But, theirs if more our of fear. I am absolutely positively sure that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:16 AM |
| 3 | Men who think that a woman should be open to every man’s advances. Can you explain why?Well, you took that sentence out of context. It links innately to the rest of that paragraph. Who is telling you that it isn't about physical attraction? All the women who tout the confidence of a man to approach and flirt (and missing it when it doesn't happen in today's society). But, yeah. It just deals solely with sex, and a majority of women finding a majority of men to be unattractive. Just admit it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Male Delusion Calculator!Are you F-ing kidding me? Top screenshot Bottom screenshot Okay, this says a lot more about society than it does about my very average "standards". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Men who think that a woman should be open to every man’s advances. Can you explain why?What if I referred to unattractive women as being creepy? But seriously, though. Since we are being frank here about female nature, we know that female nature is very finicky about what each female finds to be physically attractive in a man. So, a man who finds a woman attractive and makes a move to strike up a conversation, as the first step to maybe having a relationship with that woman, that man has no idea if that woman finds him attractive. That's why. I myself have several incidents in my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Do men even enjoy dating women?But do I have to put up with the hassle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Do men even enjoy dating women?I have actually been putting a lot of thought into this very question lately - debating each side in my head. For me, personally - and I'm only speaking for myself here - naw. it seems like a bad investment of my resources. I used to be the type of guy who would pine for a past romantic relationship (even though it was me that stood up to the woman - which would cause the break-up). But, not anymore. My last sorta semi-romantic relationship was almost two years ago now. She enters my mind probab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Question for women. What is your honest opinion when you see men and women go back and forth about relationship stuff on places like TikTok?Female Dating Coach Can’t Help Post Wall “Strong & Independent” Woman Get a Date Unrealistic Expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Could it be that women just do not like men that much?? Because it's the men who are getting friendzoned and platonicized by women who don't like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 11:34 PM |
| 0 | Question for women. What is your honest opinion when you see men and women go back and forth about relationship stuff on places like TikTok?Steve Harvey: "Heather brought me her list of requirements..." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 11:08 PM |
| 0 | Question for women. What is your honest opinion when you see men and women go back and forth about relationship stuff on places like TikTok?Have to encounter the real-world - which is full of people who all watched the same social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 11:00 PM |
| -2 | Question for women. What is your honest opinion when you see men and women go back and forth about relationship stuff on places like TikTok?[Non-Binary has entered the chat] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 09:35 PM |
| 94 | Could it be that women just do not like men that much?I honestly believe that women on average just don't like men that much. I also think that they tend to be afraid of them. But, the thing about only 5.9% of men reproducing I think is a misreading of the data. It's only 5.9% of men's DNA that has survived through the millennia. Not the overall percentage of men who ever reproduced. I mean, we don't see DaVincis and Simonis (Michelangelo's real last name) walking around today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Men who want to move abroad to find love - why?edit: please can someone actually answer this question instead of just ripping into American women lol \^ Generally, yes. Your example is a bit extreme, but the answer is basically "yes". What a reasonable man is expecting is something like 70/30 from both himself and her. Whatever the one contributes 70 percent of towards the relationship, the other should be willing to contribute the remaining 30 percent. Oh, and she likes to show affection and intimacy. Is that so hard? Apparently, for a lot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Men who want to move abroad to find love - why?The exchange rate between America and Morocco - where Casablanca literally is - fluctuates. But, at times, it is 1:10. If I liquidated my life and moved there right now, I would be a literal millionaire. Also, the country speaks French. That's cool. I've been passively learning French for fun, but also for this possible or probable future of mine. So, that's one country that I'm looking at. The only weird thing is the difference in economy than what we are used to in the West. Housing is very ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?Wait. Let me see... Ah, yes... "I don't owe you anything." Am I doing this right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?Aren't these considered to be baseline human expectations, though? If you give these to friends, family, and coworkers, why would you not also extend these considerations to a potential romantic partner? Even though they would not be a romantic partner yet, they are still a sole human being who deserves such considerations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?I would like to take the macro view on this, and point out that, asset and intangible wise, you are in the top 20 percent of women, and you are treating a man here how the top 20 percent of men treat women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?I would like to point out that the way the main question was phrased, and how women are answering it here, is from the perspective of what a woman currently in a relationship currently provides towards that relationship, whereas, your answer not only sounds hypothetical, but it is also phrased in a way of what you as a woman can get out of a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?It was not intended, but this thread certainly is bringing out the type of women that men desire. It gives me hope for all of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?Well, they do say that love is a chemical. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?As well as the knowledge of how palatable sulfur and caffeine are when mixed together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?There was a personal internal convergence of sorts that prompted me to ask this question. Just as I was trying to figure some stuff out, I watched a clip from Tamron Hall (she's a daytime programming talk show personality - I think), and she had a female dating coach on that said something that synergized with what I was thinking about in my mind. I did not realize this, but men's purpose is the "Three P's": Protection, Providing, and Procreation. The female dating coach went on to say that all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 03:55 AM |
| 13 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?Well, you've helped calm me down and center me, too. So, that must be your superpower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 03:35 AM |
| 4 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 03:30 AM |
| 8 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?Thank you for this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 02:59 AM |
| 0 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?Yeah, yeah, yeah. I get all that, and have been through all that. Think of this as a massive trial and error on my part, with all avenues already seemingly explored. What's left? What kind of behaviors from women am I missing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?Admittedly, this question is pretty self-serving of me. But, I think other men would benefit from hearing the answers, too. We've have had ungendered versions of this question in the past many, many times, but it always devolves as if men and women here are at a negotiation table. I'm looking for a more coffee-talk and simple approach to this question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 02:51 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.Just in the past few days? Here you go: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ECJ7YBAyJfc https://www.youtube.com/shorts/hdPT1LYDK_Y https://youtu.be/D533mk7sBUE?t=57 For starters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 08:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.I've been working with a therapist for over 4 years on this goal and have not succeeded yet. Some tips and pointers from someone who got through that kind of stuff, and which made me stronger: Keep in mind that the therapist makes money from you having to come back to them. Not that they are purposely sabotaging you - that would be cruel, immoral, and a felony. But, they have motivation to not give you the full tools you need to help yourself. These tools I was able to learn from some really, re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 07:01 PM |
| -1 | Q4Women, can you meet your own standards?I can help with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.I did not say it was representative of all women. But, you do have a lot of women going on TikTok and proclaiming this for all the world. Why? Do men go on TikTok and proclaim that they are strong and independent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 02:36 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.Do you not think using Donald Trump’s Great grandmother is a far more extreme example? Nope. Not at all. They were poor immigrants when she started the ventures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 02:28 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.Do you think most men actually honestly want to get married? Or, do you think that they eventually come to the conclusion that they will have to get married, or lose the woman in their life? If the latter, then where is that pressure coming from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 02:24 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.You mean like on the African continent? In Libya? Where there are open slave markets where men are sold as slaves? Yeah, those places are bad for everyone. Women didn't built a farm with their family? Or a general store? Women didn't raise sons who went to fight in any of the important wars in human history? Women didn't participate in the Industrial Revolution? Female monarchs are not some of the most famous in the world, going all the way back in time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 02:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.Well, there are people here in this thread who say that they've seen it. So... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 02:10 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.You need to go on TikTok and do a search. Your mind will be blown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:42 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.Not true. This is answered in some other replies here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:41 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.Not true. It was not illegal for women to have credit cards or bank accounts. It was a policy that some banks had. There were all-female and only-female banks and credit unions, because this policy that some banks had left a gap in the market that others exploited. It was the law of 1974 that said that having that policy was discriminatory, and that it's illegal to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:36 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.so I suspect even for her there was a sense that you're supposed to marry Okay, but what about wanting to marry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:29 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.Yes. Oppressive societies are oppressive. Even men don't do well in them. They are an extreme example. But, I explain the thing about bank accounts and credit cards being false in another reply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:27 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.I think you meant "overestimating", not "underestimating". But, that's just me mansplaining to you. The wage gab is a fallacy. Did that never make it across your radar? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:26 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.Oh you just want American examples? Women couldn’t vote before 1920 Neither could men, either. Voting is something that is reserved by the US Constitution for the states to figure out. Some states required you to be a landowner - when a lot of men did not own land, for example. But, some women did own such kinds of properties as hotels, brothels, and farms at that point. Donald Trump's great-grandmother was a famous land developer back during the Gold Rush, owning several properties that her son… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:22 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.Now, wait. About the bank accounts and credit cards. You make it sound like it was against the law for women to have those. That has never been the case, ever. These were individual policy decisions that some banks made. Like today's TOS'. It wasn't a conspiracy, and money doesn't care if your feelings are hurt. You were not prevented from having those, you just were not guaranteed them. You could just find a bank that would. It was the laws of the 1960s and 1970s that made it a right to not be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:01 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.Being alpha is not bare minimum - just simply by the definition of "alpha" as being at the apex top. But, I don't think that's brag, either, myself. Being the apex top of something usually means you are not very good at many, many other things. I have developed myself to be pretty balanced in most regards. The "strong and dependable man" part needs to be said often to women a lot, because women tend to be afraid and not trusting of men. I put it to you PPD, that the men here are not real men. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 03:49 AM |
| -6 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.It's because women use it as a reason to not date. As if we think that they need a man. Them purposely saying it sounds like some heavy cope. We know you don't need a man (and it would be very annoying if you did), but do you want a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 03:42 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.Can you share some of those instances? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 03:21 AM |
| -5 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.Eh? Independent and/or industrious women have always existed, at all levels of society. When someone replies in the way that you have, I often feel that they are referring to just American women during the one decade of the 1950s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 03:21 AM |
| 5 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)Because what women find to be attractive varies pretty widely from woman to woman. The explicit instructions are all over the place. If a man were to try to be desirable to even just most women (which is the point that you are trying to get at) based on what women said, it would cause some sort of psychological break. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)Okay, but let's say that he is not fake. He is completely genuine. He was there to "pull", but it also happens to be a coffee shop that he really likes - and likes enough to go there alone. So, he was at-ease and natural. But, he was still there specifically to meet someone - maybe even you. That would still bother you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 04:51 PM |
| 20 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)Then it's Schrodinger's Stalker. He's not a stalker until you look into the motivations. Would it matter if you did meet a guy in public, and hit it off, only to find out later that he was there at that time on purpose alone just to meet women? I mean, that was the purpose and the plan, and it worked. Right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 09:20 AM |
| 26 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)I'm just wondering how many women here will take the part about men scoping out venues where women are at as being creepy stalking. Luck is where preparation and opportunity meet, and we're just trying to maximize our luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 07:53 AM |
| 12 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)Again, all of your responses support the main assertion that, in dating, men are active, and women are passive and bare minimum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 07:43 AM |
| 157 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)"Just be yourself." Sure, because that is all that you had to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 07:09 AM |
| 28 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)Men don't also have to worry about their pictures, dressing well and smelling good, and being charming on the date? Bare minimum - especially since men also usually pay for the date. And, in this age of online dating, men also have to worry about somehow getting their profile to the top of the woman's attention, weathering through trying to carry a texting conversation, and luckily asking her out for a date not too soon, but also not too late - and on a date of the same type of date as what the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask?Agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 02:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Oh, I totally agree that dating today is unnecessarily complicated. Not sure what the people who are overly-complicating it are actually getting out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 02:36 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Disagree. "Adjust" and "compromise" are synonyms of each other. But, you still didn't answer the question on whether you think compromise is necessary in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Takes out quill and scroll and begins to scribble... Note: People who are successful in relationships do not prefer self-preservation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 11:33 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Do you think that compromise is important in relationships? If not, what happens the first time each of them want to do something different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 11:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.We'll take anything at this point, just as long as it's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 11:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Women disagree on which things are better FOR THEM. They don't disagree on which things are better for their partners, Brilliant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.So, we should judge women, and not believe them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 10:59 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.there are dozens of daters who see no problem deciding what they like and going after it. I am calm, warm, and introspective, and I have a lot of room in my life for a woman. I am looking for a woman of the same mindset and of the same frequency. One does not simply go out and get a woman like that. They are usually not out to begin with. I literally would have to go door-to-door. Do you know how many times I would have to risk having the authorities called on me in attempting that? And, not bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 10:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.wut Now this is an unrealistic view of how relationships work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 10:21 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Do relationships involve compromise? If not, then what happens the first time each person wants to do something different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 10:18 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Lesbians have the highest rate of domestic abuse among any subset of people. If it is okay for women to withhold sex from time to time, is then okay for men to withhold a relationship from time to time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 10:16 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.We're just looking for information. Is it too much to ask for the truth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 06:35 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.We're not talking about two women being Catholic versus Jewish, or disagreeing on whether lasagna is a type of cake or not. We're talking about the very most absolute basic matter that makes up the relationship. All men like sex. But, that's not true. There are a couple out there that do not. One of them publishes an article about how sex is horrible and how they do not like it. He will be vehemently disagreed with verbally by all the masses of men. That is why you don't see articles like that. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 03:07 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.They disagree about relationships on the subatomic level. Since a man is supposed to be the one to approach, how would he possibly be able to do that to either woman? The man will probably be willing to show some leeway, if he finds the woman attractive enough. Do you think either of these women are willing to compromise at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 02:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.if my brother and I were arguing about cleaning and I explained why I clean my room and he just refused to listen or told me I was an idiot and didn’t WANT to understand…..that’s when it gets fucking enraging. If he made fun of me for cleaning my room, or said derogatory things about it, or made general sweeping comments based in stereotypes about cleaning…. This part is very poignant here, because it's also important on who brought it up first. In this example, I doubt that your brother initiat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 02:54 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Because men look at what Jana said in that article, and say, "See? Women want to be treated poorly. It turns them on." Think of the path of trouble that paves in front of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 02:40 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.So, when men are told that they should know how to treat a woman, what does that look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 02:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Yeah. I have. For some reason, women love to talk about this kind of stuff to other women, or to anonymous strangers on the internet. In person, face to face, though? Not so much. It's like it's taboo to even talk about this kind of stuff with a potential partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 06:08 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.I honestly don't know. I'm hoping a woman can help explain that to us. But, it's definitely true. Women's attentions and content creation is almost exclusively about relationships and sex. Men? Pretty much anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 04:10 AM |
| -5 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Not at all what I said. Lay off the strawman. What I said was: disagree entirely on even the core tenets of relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 03:00 AM |
| -3 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Correct, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 02:57 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Why aren’t women giving up on dating due to men having different opinions? This is a good point, and I say that it is because the trope that men need women more than women need men is false. But, that's for another CMV post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 01:35 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.The article was written by a woman who defends that lifestyle, and refers to "catching feels" as being a horrible side-effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 01:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.I get what you are saying here, and, yeah, forgetting a birthday is a big deal. But, is that the only times a woman is angry at a man? Can you think of some times you were angry at a man for trifling reasons? Should the man completely physically change his brain just to agree with you? No. Why is it difficult for a woman to see a man's point of view, but downright felonious when a man does not agree with a woman's point of view? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 01:15 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.But, would you classify having to deal with these types of situations adds to the risk, and makes it not worth the reward? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 01:00 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Do you disagree that men are much more agreeable in this regard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 12:58 AM |
| -5 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Macro view, and put yourself in the position of a man that notices either of these women. No, there is no guarantee that you will get along with either of them. But, there is a huge possibility that you will disagree completely with one of them. If men are supposed to approach, how (or why) would you even approach? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 12:57 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Even in your follow up post you were able to pick a side. Then let me come at it from that angle. Do you feel that Jana's position is that of a healthy relationship, and that including a man in that situationship is not a bad thing to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 12:54 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Such widely differing opinions on such an important topic? Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 12:49 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Is it maybe one of the reasons? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 12:44 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.The point is the sheer polar opposites. How are we to navigate through that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 12:42 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.And how do you find that woman? When asking a woman about this topic, maybe using the points of view that these two woman are, are you received in a pleasant manner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 12:41 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.For what it's worth, I would always go for Jebediah over Jana. Jebediah, to me, is what a strong woman looks like. Jana is a trainwreck that I would avoid (if I was even able to pick up any clues beforehand). Furthermore, Jebediah, in my opinion, far more exudes the properties of femininity than Jana. Jana is an excellent example of how Feminism is destroying relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Discussion. What men are experiencing and witnessing in the real world.It would be more interesting to see how people here in Purple Pill Debate react to this. We are told that men need to be more attractive, improve, and somehow demonstrate that they are not violent. But, here are two women that are discussing their entirely different approaches towards relationships and men. We could discuss how the first women purposely seeks out toxic relationships. We could also discuss how the second woman would not be liked by the Feminist movement, and why. Nothing happens … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Discussion. What men are experiencing and witnessing in the real world.For what it's worth, if given the choice, I would always choose Jebediah over Jana. I will go without a relationship and sex, rather than get involved with Jana. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 06:34 PM |
| 1 | An example of what men are experiencing, and what kind of information men are digesting.I'll personally state that, if ever given the choice, I would definitely go for Jebediah over Jana. I would abstain from sex and relationships before I got involved with Jana. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 01:52 PM |
| – | Women and girls are reading the manosphere forums and subs, that makes them less likely to date.Naw. I disagree. Take one stroll through r/dankmemes or r/funny and you'll see that everyone is fair game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 02:06 PM |
| – | Women and girls are reading the manosphere forums and subs, that makes them less likely to date.I'm asking this with all sincerity. What are your thoughts on FDS, and are you sure that your brothers and father are not posting stuff like that in Manosphere circles? "No, they wouldn't!" Are you sure? Someone's brothers are. As a test, I would lightly ricochet something about this topic off them the next time you see them, and see what their reactions are. As a daughter - especially if you are the only daughter - you had a different set of experiences with the opposite sex growing up than the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 01:50 PM |
| 14 | Younger men cannot try harder on dating without being desperateWhat does this look like? Men trying to improve their luck and chances by asking out every girl that they encounter, including multiple girls in the same group - as a common example. He will look desperate, but he's just trying harder. You are equating looking at butts to trying hard? No, he is not. Don't be ridiculous. He is saying that just the act of a man keeping his antenna up (not just for potential dates, but also against potential danger, and being aware of your surroundings) makes him v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 07:42 AM |
| 1 | I think we should have either a flair for single people, or a whole other subreddit.Same for men lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 10:50 PM |
| 4 | I think we should have either a flair for single people, or a whole other subreddit.I'm pretty sure a lot of it has to do with luck, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 07:16 PM |
| 5 | Do men need to be needed in a relationship?He tries to be, but he gets stopped or rebuffed because, "I don't need no man". Why be so unnecessarily combative? What are you trying to prove, and why is that topic so sensitive to you? Here is where Feminism is taking a chisel to the relationships between men and women. Men will make a decision in the relationship (like where to eat), and the woman usually automatically takes an opposing viewpoint - like it's a combat of some sort that someone needs to win. Jeez, the poor guy is just trying t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Do men need to be needed in a relationship?Yes. Very common. Think of it as the same way women need to feel safety, security, and desired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:42 PM |
| 2 | I think we should have either a flair for single people, or a whole other subreddit.Since relationship statuses right now are very fluid as it is - like having a FWB for 15 years (sorry to use you as an example, but it was a low-hanging example, and you don't seem to have a problem with advertising it) - I think that's up to the person themselves. But, if forced to define it, I would say that it would be something like, "Those individuals who are currently seeking a member of the opposite sex". That would hand-wave past the person's current specific situation, and go more towar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:38 PM |
| 3 | I think we should have either a flair for single people, or a whole other subreddit.Currently it seems to be an echo chamber with women in relationships saying, "That doesn't apply to me". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:16 PM |
| 8 | I think we should have either a flair for single people, or a whole other subreddit.Pepperidge Farms remembers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:11 PM |
| 1 | I think we should have either a flair for single people, or a whole other subreddit.The point is, just saying, "That doesn't apply to me," is not productive at all, and often derails the topic. I'm not proposing that single people be the only people here. I'm proposing a new flair, or an alternate subreddit where singles can hash things out. Those who are not single are certainly welcome to observe, and probably participate under the AutoMod auto-post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:09 PM |
| – | If men had lower standards for women than women had for men, average wouldn't be used as an insult (cmv)Many of them admitted to dating several men at the same time. One even said that Caleb was part of her "roster". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 04:11 AM |
| – | If men had lower standards for women than women had for men, average wouldn't be used as an insult (cmv)He was dating multiple of them at the same time. They were also dating multiple other men at the same time. For some reason, this upset them enough to go after his livelihood. That's legally perilous. Their right? Well, their rights end where someone else's begins. So, damage to his livelihood and character could maybe be pursued legally, if he choose to do so. Even if it is their right, legally, they didn't have to do it. He choose not to. But, they were so butt-hurt over this revelation (which… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 01:54 AM |
| – | If men had lower standards for women than women had for men, average wouldn't be used as an insult (cmv)I personally go for the average-looking female myself, so we're both pointing at the same group of toxic people and saying that, yeah, they are toxic. There is that echelon at the top of men and women who are just using each other for shallow and mentally-unhealthy reasons. I'm talking about everyone below that - including the average woman who thinks that she deserves a man who is better at life than her. No, that man is going to ignore her (or worse, use her) and will go for other women in his… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:57 PM |
| – | If men had lower standards for women than women had for men, average wouldn't be used as an insult (cmv)Humor me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:34 PM |
| – | If men had lower standards for women than women had for men, average wouldn't be used as an insult (cmv)We're coming from different directions on this, but I agree with you more than I disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:06 PM |
| – | If men had lower standards for women than women had for men, average wouldn't be used as an insult (cmv)First, the women involved with "West Elm Caleb" were doing the exact same thing as he was. And, they attacked his employer, trying to get him fired. I don't think Caleb ever made a social media post about the situation, but the women felt the need to - for whatever reason. It's this hypocrisy, and the anger, that women show that is unreasonable. Do you see the same type of behavior from men? No. Their equivalent content is along the lines of, "Just leave me alone. I just want peace." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 05:49 PM |
| – | If men had lower standards for women than women had for men, average wouldn't be used as an insult (cmv)Well, jeez. Women are doing everything but physically forcing themselves onto higher-caliber men (although that does happen). TikToks from women listing out demands, and recounting bad dating experiences. Social media shaming, like what happened to "West Elm Caleb". The "Are We Dating the Same Man" Facebook groups. Feminism. r/FemaleDatingStrategy (but r/MGTOW has been erased from the face of the Earth). The "women make less money than men" myth. These are all tools that worked-up women use to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 05:22 PM |
| – | If men had lower standards for women than women had for men, average wouldn't be used as an insult (cmv)You must be new here. I'm not going to do your research for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 05:00 PM |
| – | If men had lower standards for women than women had for men, average wouldn't be used as an insult (cmv)And the man gets to choose which women he asks out. With women expecting or demanding that man who is out of their league (or just doesn't want to) start a relationship with them, it's mentally unhinged to think that it's okay for a woman to walk up to a man and demand that he asks her out. What do you think about men who walk up to women and demand that they have sex with him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?It works like this. Alphas and Thots are the same person, just different genitalia. If you are purposely going out there for instant gratification, and you will engineer your whole life around that pursuit, you are not a good person. And, I'm not even necessarily talking just about sex. And, the massive gray area in between the two extremes is being is being ignored. Intimacy is a very beautiful and enjoyable thing. In a traditional wholesome relationship eons ago, a man and a woman would build … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 04:40 PM |
| 4 | If men had lower standards for women than women had for men, average wouldn't be used as an insult (cmv)Your post is kind of all over the place. But, I will respond with trying to answer it, while being within the spirit of (what I think) is the main point you are making. Men's standards for women are already lower than what women's standards are for men. Ask any reasonable man. All they want from a woman is a woman who is nice to them, a center of peace for them, affectionate, and loyal. Basically, just be a good human being. Do we need to go over, yet again, the stringent requirements women ofte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Why do men assume good looking men are horrible to women and ugly men are nice to women?Cavill gives off ACE vibes and has a peculiar affect. Complete lack of emotion in his expressions and zero sense of humor of fun. It’s weird to me that red pill men use him as example of a very attractive man. He's a handsome man because he's a handsome man. Oh, he's definitely neurodivergent in some way. Not a doctor here, but one does not need to be in order to see his peculiarities. But, being neurodivergent doesn't stop women from swooning over him: Women swooning over Henry Cavill He is pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Why do men assume good looking men are horrible to women and ugly men are nice to women?Well, that argument is glossing over the "not all men" exception. You certainly have bitter angry ugly men. Men who were teased and abused, and just really don't like people because of it. If there is a guy who is tall and handsome and cleans up very nice, he is going to get a lot of female attention. If he is not a good guy, he will take advantage of those women, because his thought process probably doesn't go any further than, "Well, all these women want me. I better give them me," - either in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Fewer women on apps because treated badly?Are men angry at the very attractive men for turning the women off from the apps? Yes. I don't really agree that your main assertion is correct. There are a lot of assumptions. But, taking this question in a vacuum, the answer is "yes". I'm MGTOW. Red Pill and Feminists are enemies of each other, but they are both enemies of mine. I see both polluting the social fabric as a whole - not just the relationship realm. It's toxic, and no one is going to win. If I'm MGTOW, then why am I here? Why do I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 06:04 AM |
| 6 | Women’s idea of an “average” manActually, it is. You are not looking at the data correctly. It's percentages. So, if 1 percent of men are getting 4 percent of the attention, then those men are getting four times as much attention as the 50 percent of men who are getting 50 percent of the attention. Yes, men tended to gravitate towards the top of the scale, but not drastically. It was something like women in the top 25 percent got 50 percent of the attention. And, it was still a bell-curve. Slightly off-center, but still a bell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 04:55 AM |
| 5 | Women’s idea of an “average” manYep. Did. I did not see any mention of raping animals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 04:35 AM |
| 3 | Women’s idea of an “average” manThe data that literally shows that men grade women's attractiveness on a near-perfect bell-curve, whilst women judge men's attractiveness very lopsided and harshly. It's where the whole 80/20 comes from. If you honestly have no idea what I'm talking about, just say so. Anyone can easily find it - although I'd rather not have to spoon-feed someone who seems to be starting off at a place of incredulity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 04:33 AM |
| 4 | Women’s idea of an “average” manWow. Someone is simply putting the data into prose, and you went to bestiality in less than an hour. That is a MIGHTY strawman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Women’s idea of an “average” manNot according to the data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Women’s idea of an “average” manIt’s possible that people just have a poor grasp of statistics and that’s why the term “average” is so often misused. It's this right here. When asked this question, it seems like a woman's range is what is considered to be average in her head. As in, the archetype guy that she would be 50/50 about. Since we know that women have longer lists of requirements, and failing at just one of those requirements is enough to disqualify a guy, that 50/50 guy has to be above-average - statistically speakin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 04:18 AM |
| 31 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?You and me the same. This topic has come up a couple times before, and I have come to two possible conclusions: Yes, many women are sharing the same few men. Women don't think of themselves as "single" because they aren't currently looking for a relationship. The truth is probably in between there somewhere. Something like: Feminism has convinced women to focus on pursuits other than building healthy and supportive human relationships, and to artificially inflate both themselves and what they lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.The citations it references are, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 09:33 PM |
| 4 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Why do you take lying as such a personal attack? Why don't you just deal with being denied and walk away, like how men are expected to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.I did read your whole post, and I did not take this section out of context. It does seem to contradict the rest of your post, so I'm just asking you to maybe elaborate or clarify it further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.But, how do you feel about men taking it personally? Do you feel that it is okay for women to take it personally, but not men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.A man doesn't by default owe a woman a relationship, but that doesn't mean he can start one and just end it randomly one day and say "I owe you nothing". Why not? Men cannot break up with women? And, if they do, they still owe the woman something? Can you make that make sense to me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:07 PM |
| 4 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Should guys take it personal when they are refused sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:02 PM |
| 0 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.And your point being? That you literally took the verbiage way too literal, and based your point of view from there. It's like when you start repeating a word over and over again, and it starts to lose meaning in your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 07:59 PM |
| 0 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.So, they are held accountable and liable, regardless of the name of the law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Is it a level choice, though? How do men typically fare in divorces? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.So, if the man leaves directly after intimacy, that is okay, because he was in a relationship during the intimacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Good Samaritan laws obviously differ on jurisdiction, but in some instances, if you choose to intervene, you have to stay intervened. Other places require you to get involved, but protect you in case things go wrong. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Good\_Samaritan\_law | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 06:45 PM |
| -1 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.You should probably read the Wikipedia entry about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Not true. There are obligations concerning Good Samaritan laws. There are protections, but there are also obligations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.So, you cannot contract sex, but you can contract a relationship. A man can be punished for such legal terms as "abandonment" and "desertion" if he decides to have sex with anyone other than his wife, but his wife will not be punished for withholding sex from him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 06:18 PM |
| -1 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Nope. Adultery is a felony sometimes in places in the world other than the US, but, yes, adultery is a crime - with varying definitions and seriousness across the world and across the States. Maybe not realistically prosecutorial, but it will definitely become a factor in court as far as meting out punishment. Is there legal recourse for a man when the woman withholds intimacy? For desertion and abandonment, if you get a wife that’s your dependent then you need to make sure she’s taken care of l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 06:13 PM |
| 0 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.I see the points that you are trying to make. I would retort with simply that there has to be some overlap. Women don't typically willingly give sex to random men on the street, and men don't willingly offer relationships to women on the street. To do so would be mentally unhinged. Both sides are seeing if the other is worthy of sex or a relationship - the main thing each side is looking for (generally speaking in very, very general terms). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.I’ve heard that men all want sex and women all want a commitment… I haven’t seen that actually play out all the time. Yeah, it is a bit more complex than just that. It's more like a series of Venn diagrams. Generally speaking, men want sex, and also affection, and the ability to provide for and protect a woman, too. Women want attention, and to feel special, and to have a physically attractive mate to potentially procreate with. Both want assurances of these facets within the confines of a stabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Touché. I'll take the sex, but I'm not promising a relationship in return. I'm not even promising any further contact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 05:35 PM |
| 5 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Adultery is a crime. Some places still consider it to be a felony. There are also other legal terms of "desertion" and "abandonment" that the man is subject to if he decides to have sex with anyone other than his wife - which also include the facets of feeding, housing, and protecting the wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 05:28 PM |
| -1 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Then, legally, the money that goes into that relationship to pay for the sex is also illegal. Can you contract a relationship? Whether your answer is yes or no, think in what forms that takes place currently, and other forms that it could take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.So, once a relationship is promised, the expectation is that, over the long-term, the relationship will still exist. Will the intimacy still exist over the long-term? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Woman slammed for ‘toxic’ list of requirements in potential new boyfriend You’re Not A Bitch For Having These 15 Dating Requirements Professional photographer is ready to date. Hires a dating coach. Told to reduce her list of requirements. These are professional and intelligent women, and these are published in mainstream media in a way to make it sound like it's normal to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Exactly. Women have a spotless record in delivering on the promise of sex. That’s not discussed here enough. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Since women never leverage potential sex in order to get things from men I think it's fair to say that once again men are the only ones that need to change how they do things. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Genuine question for OP: Do you consider sex to be the only form of intimacy that matters? No, not at all. I actually prefer the enormous gray-area bell-curve of affection just as much, if not more, than actual intimacy. But, this isn't about me. And, if I had said that, it would have distracted the thread away from the intended meaning. But, since you asked, yeah, women have issues with affection, too. Or do you simply think the only form of intimacy you need, as a man, is getting your dick wet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 04:18 PM |
| -3 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other....and the woman has no more right to complain about it than a man who is turned down for sex. If they do complain about it, then they are rightfully and fully opening themselves up to the exact same types of criticisms that men receive. "Creepy" "ick" "Eww" "Don't look at me in public" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:35 AM |
| -3 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.So that this thread doesn't get locked, here is the host of the Whatever podcast telling a nun to put her phone away: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/zjKe0NrNCfI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:11 AM |
| 0 | CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this subSo, these anecdotes are not true. All these women doing these TikToks, Instagrams, Snapchats, and who go onto these relationship-related podcasts are lying. Can you defend or justify that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 09:35 PM |
| 2 | CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this subZoom out to the macro view. You have all these testimonials and selfies - not on Reddit - from women showing how women behave and navigate through hypocrisies, and then them trying to justify it. You also have - here on Reddit - women dismissing these claims based on their own personal views (which goes to the OP's point). But, this view is also supported if you look at the long-term trend and responses of threads in this subreddit. All of this can't be true at the same time. You take the most f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 08:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this subOh, the irony. This is a "Change My View" topic about women just dismissing men's conclusions out-of-hand because it doesn't apply to them, and you just dismissed his conclusion out-of-hand. I agree with him. Based on the amount of activity this thread is getting from women, I think that might actually be evidence as to there being something to his point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Apparently genuine, well meaning guys don't even exist in some peoples worldviewsYeah, furthermore, how a woman happens to view you at a particular place at a particular time seems to be completely random, so why even bother? All efforts from the man are negated by the sheer randomness of the whole thing. "Improve" myself? Well, first off, I'm pretty satisfied with how and who I am. But, improve myself, in what means, and to what ends? Every trait I can "improve" (which that word is subjective in itself) will be seen as a bonus or a detriment to different women, in different… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Apparently genuine, well meaning guys don't even exist in some peoples worldviewsExcellent points. How do we rationalize this, then? And, what are the true general behaviors of well-adjusted people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 01:08 PM |
| 2 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to doYou must be new here. Here is the data, directly from OK Cupid's blog. This graph shows the distribution of how women view men's attractiveness, and their response to it. 80 percent of men are below the middle point. Despite that, women still message them, but it drops off quickly. Both graphs are very much statistically lopsided to the negative. And, this is pure anonymous data that OK Cupid gathered together. Not surveys: https://archive.is/LDVFm/d24ac393e46969d8a848e7cff90134f236a4fea6.png Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 02:02 AM |
| 2 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to doActual data. Regardless of whether or not the way you saw the data was from a picture on Twitter, is there a reason you don't believe the data that several dating apps have published is accurate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 01:44 AM |
| 4 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to doDo you feel that men's criticisms of women's appearance is also warranted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 01:41 AM |
| 5 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to doOff-topic, but in the same vein. Relationships are VERY expensive for men. When you see a woman complain about not being able to get a man to commit, do you feel the same way when a man complains about not having enough sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 11:43 PM |
| 3 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to doStill avoiding the question, but let's go down that route. According to the data, men pursue women all up and down the scale, but, they judge women's attractiveness in a very statistically even way. If women did the same, then the relationship percentage would be much higher than it currently is. Last I checked, of adults in America, it was something like 2:1 relationship:single. Since there would be two people in one relationship, that means that the ratio is actually 1:1. This is because, when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 11:01 PM |
| 2 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to doActually, no. We're not talking about relationships here. The main question is attractiveness. Do we need to bring out the dating app data again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 10:42 PM |
| 18 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to doOkay. Well, thank you for the explanation, honestly. I think we all kinda knew this, but I think you are the first person to put it so succinctly. But, that doesn't answer the main question. That first physically attractive threshold, why is it so high? Don't say it's not high. We've all seen the data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Is paying for love actual advice for men?Not only that, but let's say a guy decides to go that route. It will probably end in shame, embarrassment, and guilt, but they try to do it anyway. Then, how? I mean, outside of Las Vegas, isn't prostitution illegal everywhere? And, yes, I'm sure it goes on even though it's not legal. But, like, where? According to all the 80s and 90s movies, I just drive down to the main boulevard and get one there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Is paying for love actual advice for men?Is this still an issue of yours? Because my going rate is far less than $500. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Why is attraction important when selecting a life partner you will spend 50+ years with?Dang. Then, I think I'm also demisexual, too. I also found out recently that I was sapiosexual: someone who finds intellectual people to be sexually attractive, almost exclusively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 07:37 PM |
| 8 | "Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate"Russia has recently revived an old communist-era program that awards mothers who have ten children with something akin to a Medal of Honor, and $16,000: https://www.cnbc.com/2022/08/18/russia-offers-mother-heroine-medal-and-16800-for-having-10-children.html China's birthrate has been declining for sometime now - due to the (recently lifted) One-Child Policy - but China very recently saw an overall decline in their entire population. This was the first time this happened since the famines of the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 07:06 PM |
| 4 | Is there something we can do to help raise women's self-esteem?Excessive use, though. A man views a woman who is wearing too much makeup the same way that a woman views a man who has a vehicle that is obnoxiously large and loud. They overcompensating for something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Is there something we can do to help raise women's self-esteem?Well, there we disagree. I think that they want that type of man, for shallow reasons, and they will shout over any critics of that affirmation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 04:02 PM |
| 5 | If there are more single men than single women, then women would rather be a side piece than date a man in their own leagueYou are the only person using those key words. The data shows all age ranges. So, add up and total the percentages for each sex. For the men, you have a total of 131 who are single. For the women, you have a total of 120 who are single. That's roughly a ten percent difference of men claiming they are single than women. There is obviously some overlap where women are sharing the same man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Apparently "reading the room" is harder than people here claim it isWhat I've come to find out is - contrary to what others say - the cold approach is an overall losing strategy. It works sometimes, but it reminds me of the episode of "How I Met Your Mother" where Marshall used charts and graphs to illustrate exactly how unsuccessful Barney actually was with women. Instead of using the word "flirting", use the word "connecting" if it's a positive attribute, or "commiserating" if it is a negative attribute. You notice a specific action or detail about a woman. Sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Apparently "reading the room" is harder than people here claim it isYou: "Differentiating between being nice and flirting is easy." Also you: "If she smiles at you because she likes you, but you don't reply in a socially approved way, she'll lie to you by saying that she was just being nice. But, if you don't do anything awkward, then there are a million more steps involved before you can discern at exactly which slice of the gray area she is intending with you." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Is there something we can do to help raise women's self-esteem?True. Very true. I saw a funny TikTok from a woman sitting in her car (rare, I know) where she said that she's been talking to a guy. They guy rattled off some of his hobbies, and then asked her what her hobbies were. She said, "Bitch, I spend 18 hours a week on TikTok. TikTok is my hobby. TikTok." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Is there something we can do to help raise women's self-esteem?Ego is different than self-esteem, though. They are almost opposite. Ego often compensates for low self-esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Is there something we can do to help raise women's self-esteem?We're kind of talking about the same thing, just from different directions. I agree with everything that you said above. I think those things above are happening because women have such low self-esteem that they look for external factors - like a man out of their league - to make them feel better about themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Is there something we can do to help raise women's self-esteem?We're not supposed to downvote comments here, so take this reply as a downvote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Is there something we can do to help raise women's self-esteem?But, it's the kind of guy that they think they deserve, and accept. In a way, it's kind of mutual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Women, contradictions in men part 2: Electric Boogaloo.I am, yes. My point is that not all of these contradictions - not even some of them - can reside inside of a typical man. So, I was hoping women here, using their experiences, can divide some traits between stereotypical men, to maybe flesh them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 07:09 PM |
| 0 | What does agreeable mean to you?Or, you know, he just wants to have a relationship with a nice person. Someone who won't jump to conclusions, like calling him racist, among other things. Why does that word "agreeable" trigger you so much? You went to "woke" and "dog-whistle" and "racist". This guy is just asking for the bare minimum here. Seriously, who is the term "dog-whistle" for? It's obviously for people like you who look for such things, so that you can then yell it out to attract a mob to criticize this guy for doing su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Women, contradictions in men part 2: Electric Boogaloo."No shit I'm limp, Tony! You overcooked me!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 03:41 PM |
| 2 | What does agreeable mean to you?First, I have seen such texts in women's profiles. I saw one where it said, "Okay, men. I'm lowering my standards. All you have to have is all your teeth and a job." Second, finding an unagreeable woman is far more common than finding a man who doesn't bathe. Third, it's a dog-whistle for who, exactly? Who is the party that is reacting negatively to this comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | What does agreeable mean to you?Well, that's very convenient for them, isn't it? They get to be agreeable when they want to, or not when they don't want to, without any further explanation or reason. What is it called when men are not agreeable for no particular reason? Putting something like this in a profile may hurt feelings - as this thread shows - but it's totally legit to highlight this. Feminine, fit, and agreeable. If this is all he's asking for, this guy's standards are pretty low. He's not even mentioning physical at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: What does “kind” mean to you? How are you not getting it in your present relationship? How are women “unkind” to you?A conglomerate of how my most recent relationships broke up: Picking fights. Seriously. There were several in a row leading up to the break-up. One was her saying, "Hey, I saw so-and-so today. I asked them if you had ever gone over to say 'hello' to them like I told them you would, but they said that you hadn't." Full-blown fight. She was extremely foul-mouthed. Joking around, her and her sister would be on a video chat together and say stuff like, "You need to scrub your stanky pussy, biatch." … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 06:45 AM |
| 2 | What does agreeable mean to you?And other times? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 06:30 AM |
| 0 | What does agreeable mean to you?Should a woman be in a relationship with a man who wasn't agreeable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 05:36 AM |
| -5 | What does agreeable mean to you?Because it's not that common in women these days, so it has to be specified. I think most all men here have a story or two about the woman in the relationship becoming combative and acting like they hate the man. Should a woman be in a relationship with a man who wasn't agreeable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 05:14 AM |
| 10 | What does agreeable mean to you?Why would someone want to be in a relationship with someone else who wasn't agreeable? I mean, the two people are supposed to get along, right? Like, they should at least act like they like each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 03:37 AM |
| 2 | What does agreeable mean to you?Non-combative. Nice. Even-emotions. Truly communicative. Not, "I'm fine". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 03:36 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Telling unsuccesful men that the young women in impoverished countries only want them for their money is pointless, these men believe that women their age in their country are the same. And we can't blame them.You are implying that those engineering jobs in the oil industry are at least close to 50/50 female-to-male. They are not. But, you are also ignoring the ratio on an oil rig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Anecdotal evidences of the state of men's mental health right now. Please add your own. Discuss.You so quickly volunteered all of that information that it leads me to believe that it is a central point to your personality and self-worth - and yes, that you put too much importance on it, unduly so, compared to everything else, tangible and intangible. I travelled the world - as an active-duty military member. Greece, Italy, Israel, France, UAE. I would bet dollars to doughnuts that my global experiences are more genuine and authentic than yours. You sound like that college student who talks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 04:32 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Telling unsuccesful men that the young women in impoverished countries only want them for their money is pointless, these men believe that women their age in their country are the same. And we can't blame them.It doesn't sound like you've heard any. Stop being so obtuse, whether on purpose or for entertainment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Anecdotal evidences of the state of men's mental health right now. Please add your own. Discuss.What you listed is a bunch of shallow attributes that are not normal for anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 03:34 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Telling unsuccesful men that the young women in impoverished countries only want them for their money is pointless, these men believe that women their age in their country are the same. And we can't blame them.And there are millions of women who do use TikTok. If you wanted to challenge your world view, you should go onto TikTok and look for videos about women in the 30s and 40s dating. Or not. Up to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 03:27 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Telling unsuccesful men that the young women in impoverished countries only want them for their money is pointless, these men believe that women their age in their country are the same. And we can't blame them.Okay. Let me walk you through this. Go onto TikTok and search for women talking about dating in their 30s and 40s. See where their feelings are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 03:22 PM |
| 13 | CMV: Telling unsuccesful men that the young women in impoverished countries only want them for their money is pointless, these men believe that women their age in their country are the same. And we can't blame them.Western women aren’t “ruined” by feminism or social media or hypergamy or whatever Not true at all. There are no Feminists railing against the lack of female representation in the oil drilling industry. Feminists want equality only when it benefits them. And, as far as hypergamy, we should check in with the women who were dating "West Elm Caleb" and see how they've been doing lately. I wonder if they were ever able to get him fired for doing something in his private life which they themselves we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 03:19 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Telling unsuccesful men that the young women in impoverished countries only want them for their money is pointless, these men believe that women their age in their country are the same. And we can't blame them.Not true TikTok would disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Anecdotal evidences of the state of men's mental health right now. Please add your own. Discuss.Your lifestyle is not normal at all. Not for American men today, nor for any man in history. I also don't think that the angst is relegated to only this subreddit. Not since mainstream female dating coaches and hosts of relationship podcasts are also ascribing the same views as we see on here. Such examples would be Courtney Ryan (whose YouTube channel's focus has changed over the past year because of the current environment) and Just Pearly Things. These are just two examples of female-hosted m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Anecdotal evidences of the state of men's mental health right now. Please add your own. Discuss.This statement is implying that men are typically prone to use that strength against women, and that women have no defense against it. I think it's more of a fear where women know that they depend on men for things like safety, security, protection, and modern conveniences, and they are afraid that they will be forced into doing something that they don't want to do in order to keep those securities. The "I don't need no man" is a way to cope with that fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 08:18 PM |
| 0 | Anecdotal evidences of the state of men's mental health right now. Please add your own. Discuss.: ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 08:02 PM |
| 0 | Anecdotal evidences of the state of men's mental health right now. Please add your own. Discuss.: ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Anecdotal evidences of the state of men's mental health right now. Please add your own. Discuss.Hey Zim, how you been? Missed you. We had some good conversations here in this subreddit. Is your handle based on Invader Zim, and are you a fan? If so, we have something in common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Anecdotal evidences of the state of men's mental health right now. Please add your own. Discuss.Well, I'm not a threat to women at all. I'm telling you that. Do you believe me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 06:56 PM |
| 18 | Anecdotal evidences of the state of men's mental health right now. Please add your own. Discuss.Man holding tiny vulnerable kitten: hawt. Man crying because kitten died: ick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 06:49 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Women's complaints about online dating are of their own doing.Let's not get wrapped around the axle here. Your math is off in that the 3:1 ratio works the opposite way than you think it does, but I realized that I was more replying to your post than in keeping with the essence of this thread (and I should have said "one-third as many women" - because obviously not all women are on dating apps). The main post was a bit rambling and contradictive, but the main point of the post is that women are much, much more likely to get the above-average man that they w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 06:41 AM |
| 14 | CMV: Women's complaints about online dating are of their own doing.Well, I mean, the title of that article is, "These statistics show why it’s so hard to be an average man on dating apps". And here is the text at the point of that graph: Aviv Goldgeier, an engineer for the dating website Hinge, recently analyzed the share of “likes” on Hinge that went to the most-liked people of each gender. He found that inequality on dating apps is stark, and that it was significantly worse for men. The top 1% of guys get more than 16% of all likes on the app, compared to jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 03:31 AM |
| 8 | It's exhausting to make female friendsWomen: "If you want a romantic relationship with a woman, you should start out as friends with the woman, but avoid the 'friendzone'. You should have some female friends, because not having any female friends is a red flag - but, not too many female friends, because that is also a red flag...What did you say? You actually just want to be friends with a woman? That's impossible. All men want to have sex with all women." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD, to what extent are you willing to sacrifice basic morality in order to win over/impress women?Not very far at all. It's kinda why I'm single right now. I know what the "rules" are, but they conflict with my personal outlook on life, so...I'm single. The first one, I am going to wordsmith your phrase a little bit, and instead of the word "embellish", I am going to use the word "defend". I love my career and hobbies, but they can both be eccentric. We sometimes don't choose which directions they go. We just follow wherever they lead. So, I feel that I sometimes have to explain why I really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 03:46 PM |
| 14 | When women and men refer to the "friendzone", they are each imagining two very different scenarios, which causes the animosity and confusion over the topic.Women: "Try being friends with her first." Men: do that. Women: "Eww! Ick!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Women complain the most about male horniness and yet they benefit the most out of itI am a fan of MXRPlays. They have a couple subreddits here, and a popular YouTube channel. The main folks are Henry and Jeannie. They have a cadre of producers and editors - all female. They sometimes have a group reaction collaboration video all together. They did one of these group reaction videos about a year or so ago, and it was interesting. They were reacting to various TikToks and subreddits. At the very beginning, one of the women exclaimed, "No dick jokes, Henry!" That was followed up w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 08:34 PM |
| 12 | Most people agree that there are not enough high value men for all women, but we don't agree what causes itSet up a situation where a lot of women are not choosing to mate even with their equivalent male counterparts, press the "play" button, and see what happens. I'm not saying it's fair. I'm saying that the poster above only proved one of the main points, and that that main point is going to be very detrimental in the long-term to everyone. But, it seems like it is something that our society just has to go through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 06:35 PM |
| 6 | Most people agree that there are not enough high value men for all women, but we don't agree what causes itHonestly, all things are dependent on each other, and nothing happens in a vacuum. Nations depend upon an ever-increasing population for their stability. One of those reasons is because most of the social programs (which I am in favor of at least the most basic ones) are Ponzi schemes. There has to be an ever-increasing number of new people entering in at the bottom of the pyramid to support the people at the top of the pyramid in order for the society to remain stable. Different societies have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 06:31 PM |
| 32 | Most people agree that there are not enough high value men for all women, but we don't agree what causes itwomen increasingly become unable to be sufficiently attracted to their male mate rank equivalents. So, women's standards are too high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"Women get flown out, but they have a problem with men flying themselves out." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ze-mpWCG3x0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Women don't care what it took to get there, they are just waiting at the finish line to fuck the winners."get" Lovely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 01:19 AM |
| 7 | The long and short of it is as a man you need to be attractive and high value and if you refuse to do that or simply can’t then unfortunately life is unfair and you will miss outThe framing of this thread concerns men who are not underperforming, so all of the mystery around those unanswerable questions dissipates. Should we start comparing the lists of standards that men and women have yet again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 07:24 PM |
| 3 | What are some examples of shit tests?I don't think the frame of what constitutes a "shit test" is that strict. It shows the mentality of the woman. Combative and prone to complaining, or bored enough to start drama - if not directly towards the man, then to other women. Either way, it drips with negativity. Basically, if it feels like a shit test, then it is a shit test. What even is the point of that phrase, except to sow negativity? The phrase itself doesn't even make sense. I should know something that I don't know? It puts the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 07:17 PM |
| 15 | The long and short of it is as a man you need to be attractive and high value and if you refuse to do that or simply can’t then unfortunately life is unfair and you will miss outNothing happens in a vacuum. For every unchosen man out there, there is at least one woman whose standards are unrealistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 06:54 PM |
| 4 | What are some examples of shit tests?Why do you think that it is not a shit test? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:12 PM |
| 0 | Framing the Passport Bros as “predators”, “sex traffickers”, and “creeps” is absurd and reeks of bitterness & jealousy from American women.Where the heck is the Automod post? I wanted to add this extremely recent video into the fray for consideration: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zx\_IvGNd\_Ko | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 03:29 PM |
| 16 | What are some examples of shit tests?"I'm fine." "If he cared enough, he would know." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.Alinity and QxC are both popular Twitch streamers. That link above takes you to what I was talking about, where she is in favor of a double-standard concerning cheating between the sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.WTF is a QxC? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Where does this hostility towards men today really come from?The women are still dead, though. Isn't that what matters? Or, are you going to continue to be hypocritical and spend the rest of your life living in fear of half of the entire human population? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Where does this hostility towards men today really come from?About ten times more women die in car accidents than by the hand of a man. Do you hate and fear automobiles ten times as much...or do you still use them on a daily basis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Where does this hostility towards men today really come from?Or, you know, women could stop fearing men. That, too, you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Where does this hostility towards men today really come from?This is totally disingenuous of you. And, see what you did here? Suddenly words are harmful. Shun this dude right now. Isolate him. Better not take a chance. I saw something about serial killers once, and this dude looks like one. I wonder where the fear comes from. Well, apparently, it comes from within the house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 02:58 AM |
| 45 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.This goes right along with how Alinity justifies women cheating, but not men. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z2bA3MsRGJ4 She didn't get off easy, even with preempting what she said with, "There's this theory..." She was criticized online (rightly so) for saying this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 02:50 AM |
| 5 | You’d be pretty guarded and picky too if everyone from the opposite sex who approached you was trying to penetrate youNo offense, but I'm going to match tone for tone here. Don't flatter yourself. Not every man wants to stick their penis into you - especially with an attitude like yours. Some of us are busy. Just because we smile at you, share a laugh in public, or ask you which coffee flavor you prefer at the kiosk that you go to a daily basis, that doesn't mean that we want to see you naked. I think this fear is part of the problem, and both are imaginary in this aspect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 07:49 AM |
| 11 | Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about itI can't find it now, but there was a viral series of TikTok about a year ago from this woman who was confident to go out by herself alone one night, and expected to make friends. You saw her get ready. Makeup. Which outfit to wear. Where she would be going. And then, out the front door. She went to several places, and had no luck whatsoever. Absolutely no interaction with anyone at all. I felt bad for her, because it was a sign of society as a whole. The TikToks ended with her walking alone down… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 07:39 AM |
| 0 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incels"Are you sure about that?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 06:31 AM |
| 6 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsYeah, the topics of focus in this realm seem to mutant quickly, because it was only about six months ago that this was the main topic - women whiling away their lives with Chad, and then they panic because they decided to settle down about a decade too late. I would just like to ask her what the past twenty years of relationships looked like for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 06:27 AM |
| 6 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsI'm not replying just to be combative, but just to set the frame right, because the passage of time has felt fluid as of late. I'm 46. Entered the workforce officially around 1998. The dollar and the markets were not right by that time already. If she's 40, she entered around 2004. The past twenty years have not been good at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 06:21 AM |
| 4 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsI didn't get that at all. It seems like we are missing some messages - maybe they were switching between platforms - but it sounds like she offered the videos to him and asked for his opinion. His gave his opinion, and it was realistic in that he said that they sounded biased and lacking nuance. He not at all agreed with the content of those videos, but that wasn't enough for her. She took offense to his very level-headed critique of the videos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 06:15 AM |
| 2 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsShe's a strong independent woman. She don't need no man. So, what's she going on about? "Settling"? Please. We're talking about relationships here, where compromise is baked in. Men get lambasted for not compromising, but, hell if a woman "settles". Ha. And summoning Andrew Tate. You sound like anything but Andrew Tate. You stated that you are who you are, and that's it. No Bugattis. No mansions. No helicopters. No fakery and subterfuge. You are being honest and genuine, and you two aren't datin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 06:08 AM |
| 5 | Women Tend To Change Their "Tone" As They Lose OptionsA woman that's not a single mom would likely react with hostility saying it's not her fault, you shouldn't judge her, you're a misogynist, and a whole barrage of insults and attacks. • • • This doesn't even make sense given that the question is about having a child with a drug addict. The point he's making is that the woman's behavior and life-decisions would be excused, or even lauded as her being "strong and brave". And, what a horrible thing it was for that heroin-addict to trap her in the re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 01:27 AM |
| 1 | "Why American Women Are Undatable • No One Wants to Play with a Porcupine" by Dr. Mark McDonald.There is a strong possibility that he was just being honest and respected her enough to give her an explanation other than just ghosting her, or saying, "I have other plans", or leaving him on read. I mean, that's a more mature reason. It was her that got confrontational with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 08:28 PM |
| 1 | "Why American Women Are Undatable • No One Wants to Play with a Porcupine" by Dr. Mark McDonald.He might have meant not mentally attractive, considering what her response was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 07:58 PM |
| 16 | Are there men in your life who are good overall but fail at dating? What does this say about modern dating?But there’s a thing that’s different between men and women. Where we as men will accept certain parts of other mens personalities as their quirks or “ that’s just him!” Women are much less willing to do that for men atleast. I'm only replying and quoting this part to highlight it. It's huge, and I cannot improve upon it, except with an anecdote: I own a BMW. But, it's a lesser model, and I got a really, really good deal on it - less than most other new mainstream cars. It's also extremely fun to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 04:40 PM |
| 16 | This is why women have become more choosy (from the perspective of studies and experiments).Naw, I take exception to this. We see all sorts of things about the friendzone. What you describe may happen, but it's not the norm by any measure. So many testimonials about women getting the "ick" when a male friend tries to break that barrier. And, a woman who has multiple options who present themselves to her is not going to ignore them in order to spend the time to figure out if that one guy that maybe might be good for her is worth maybe looking into. Neither men nor women spend any amount… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 12:38 AM |
| 0 | This is why women have become more choosy (from the perspective of studies and experiments).I think, at first, yes. But after the initial tsunami, things would revert to a new normal. It would take a lot of time, though. Like, at least a generation. I also think this is mainly a Western thing altogether. I don't think there is this much strife on other continents. But, I have heard that this battle of the sexes is even worse in South Korea. I've only heard that, though. I never researched it. I mean, sex is like air. It's not a problem, until you don't have enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 12:34 AM |
| 4 | This is why women have become more choosy (from the perspective of studies and experiments).Huh? The experiments being performed in an experimental context make them more valid - not less valid. It helps eliminate other possible influences on the results. (By the way, I hope you are not the type of person who also says that the science around Covid and climate change are settled.) This reminds me of an experiment that I saw several years ago. I would find it and link it if I was sure that this post wouldn't be removed (most of my previous posts with links in them get removed from here)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 12:28 AM |
| 3 | The 1950s housewife trope is just that. A trope. And it should be ignored because of it.Here's one. The two monarchs who are credited with bringing and keeping Britain up to the world prominence that it is were both queens. Elizabeth I and Elizabeth II. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 04:50 PM |
| 4 | The 1950s housewife trope is just that. A trope. And it should be ignored because of it.A woman that is endlessly having and raising babies obviously can’t take on equal roles to men, it’s just not feasible. It's disturbing that you feel that raising children properly is not an equal role. All adults were children once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:18 PM |
| 2 | The 1950s housewife trope is just that. A trope. And it should be ignored because of it.I would appreciate that. I have been responding to some comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | The 1950s housewife trope is just that. A trope. And it should be ignored because of it.Because voting itself is a new concept. There was 2,000 years between when the Greeks first used democracy, and when it was ever tried again in America. From the 1780s to the 1920s is only 140 years. That's nothing. America has only existed for 250 years. The US Civil War was 160 years ago. WWII was 80 years ago. On top of that, in the US Constitution, women received the right to vote at the exact same time as men did. It was always up to each state on how to run their own elections. It was the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | The 1950s housewife trope is just that. A trope. And it should be ignored because of it.I was sleeping. I went to bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?B. Not even close. I'm sure A was infatuated with each of those other guys, too, at some point, and I bet all that sex wasn't vanilla (which wouldn't be an issue for me anyway). B seems to have more long-term staying power, and would be nice to be around during the 99 percent of the time that we're aren't having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 11:03 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).And, I am the type of guy that she is describing above, and I don't get women. But, I'm not about to compromise myself just to get women. So, it's a conscious decision on my part. On both your and my parts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 04:11 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).Your original post doesn't so much explain why women are choosy, as it just reinforces that women are choosy, and now choosier on more subjects. To be honest, I have my shit together, and a lot of room in my life for a relationship. I'm an upstanding and intelligent guy with a good sense of humor, and a lot of purpose and interests in life. Should that be good enough for an equal woman? Yes. Yes, it should be. But, when you start piling more and more stuff on, guess what, stuff falls off the sid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 04:07 PM |
| 4 | WGTOW Evidence?I don't think WGTOW is a big thing because I view the two sexes in human society like this: There is a circle in the middle consisting of women. Then there is a concentric circle around that circle consisting of men. When women WGTOW, they go inward to other women. When men go MGTOW, they go outward into the unknown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 06:05 PM |
| 12 | The Lack of Critical Thinking Amongst Red Pill MenWell, here is some critical thinking for you: Women often talk about hormones influencing their emotions and behavior. Then why are men shamed for being aroused when testosterone is a male hormone? If all women are different, why are men constantly told to know how to treat a woman? Why is it more socially acceptable for women to hate men than for men to hate women? Why is it a problem when women are underrepresented in male-dominated fields like engineering and science, but it's not a problem w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 03:47 PM |
| 1 | The Lack of Critical Thinking Amongst Red Pill MenI'll agree that instead of men raging against women specifically and directly, the more applicable target should be against the seemingly backwardness and hypocrisy of biology and society. But, the main difference between PPD and the other more centric or female-centric subreddits is that logic is actually being applied here. Cause and effect are part of almost every post. But, maybe that's part of the problem. Remember the recent purge week? Did not the memes fall mostly within (albeit mostly c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in Europe, with women a small superminority in bothSince dating apps are a low-key psychological experiment themselves, I'm all for trying new creating things like this with them. Some dating apps prioritize you based on your level of usage. If you don't use some apps for a while, you fall out of the rotation. I think this is because they assume that you don't use the app anymore and forgot to delete your profile from it (or that that user has died). I wonder if this mechanic was worked into the data above, and how maybe it could be used more ef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Is the bar really “in hell”?Well, a relationship is made up of two people, so there it blame to go around. About the first example, I have done that myself. If I could tell that she was either not into it, or if she was overcompensating, then I would slowly slow down, stop, and cuddle her instead. Maybe have a quiet conversation. If the topic of what just happened came up, I would just say, "It's okay. I could tell that you were not into it. That's fine. Let's just lay here instead." Not having an enthusiastic partner is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | I’ve noticed a lot of you mistake comfort and security for attraction. Maybe you’ve only ever felt those things and don’t know what lust is yetYeah, this is a destructive way to treat yourself and others. It reminds me of Marty McFly's mother in Back to the Future. She only fell for him when her father hit him with his car, and he was knocked out unconscious in her bedroom. Then Marty realizes that that is the only reason his mother fell for his father - because her father was supposed to have hit his father with the car instead. Getting off on danger is only going to get someone arrested and/or killed, and it probably won't be you. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 11:28 PM |
| 5 | Finding a relationship is way easier than making friends as an adult.Yep. All you need is a wireless gaming headset with a microphone. Any brand from any retailer will work. The price range you are looking for is up to $50 - but look for deals around the $30 mark. The one I got is black and red. It will come with its own dedicated Bluetooth fob, so you don't ever have to worry about interference or connectivity. These headsets are awesome because, when I'm not gaming with other people online, I turn on Spotify on my PC and just do other stuff around the house. So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 07:09 PM |
| -1 | Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women?Oxytocin might be a big reason why women repeatedly choose poorly when it comes to men. They choose the ones that give them tingles - not necessarily the most honorable men - and continue to choose that same type of man over and over again, in pursuit of those tingles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women?It means that there are less women pursuing that love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women?In that paragraph, you described the unlikely scenario where a Red Pill guy realizes the error in his thinking, and has a change of heart. A change akin to John Lennon's "All You Need is Love", as if that suddenly solves all -problems - like hanging a "Live, Laugh, Love" sign on the wall, and wiping your hands in satisfaction. This completely ignores that that in itself is the main problem. 80 percent of men are denied that very same love that all people desire and need. People freely admit this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 06:34 AM |
| 4 | Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women?I don't think the internet likes this data point. I see a lot of references to it, but I then have to go into Archive to find the source information. This article references a section of the CDC website that no longer exists: https://archive.is/VBF1v Same here. This article references data that has since been removed from the internet: https://www.divorcemag.com/blog/why-do-women-initiate-divorce-more-than-men Random article with links to data. I got so tired of being led to broken links, I didn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women?Not hate. Just severely disappointed in women. Severely. just how much all humans desire companionship. That is a very naive way of hand-waving past the 80 percent of men who are ignored. Or, is it just women that you were talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women?Not at the time, no. But, familiarity breeds contempt, and people change their minds over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women?Meaning that men require love more than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 04:44 AM |
| 4 | Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women?Correct. It is a measure of despair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 03:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: At this point, this sub is the red pill lightWhat connotation does it have? I'm not defending Red Pill. I'm not one myself. I'm MGTOW. But, I never thought it had a connotation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 11:56 PM |
| 8 | CMV: At this point, this sub is the red pill lightScroll through the various meme subreddits, and the trending controversial videos on YouTube. This new paradigm is mainstream now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 10:32 PM |
| 10 | CMV: At this point, this sub is the red pill lightA majority of men are upstanding men who only want to have a wholesome, fun, and supportive relationship with a woman which is full of affection and intimacy. Women are simply afraid, suspicious, and untrusting of men. If they simply learned from their past mistakes and chose better, and honestly participated in a relationship with good intentions, a majority of all of this strife would go away. A vast majority of men are safe. The percentage of unsafe people is equal on both sides of the sexes.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Has the cognitive dissonance and gaslighting of women towards men, completely taken over this sub?Oh, shoot. I didn't see the "CMV" flair. I thought the OP was posting a question. My bad. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 01:59 PM |
| 5 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYNot at all. Don't be dramatic. It's a system to track all men - including innocent ones. Your trying to "lawyering" doesn't absolve that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | The tone of the posts in this sub is very different to their tone only a few years ago. What’s changed?Until it gets banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYTrue, bad men are bad men. But, no innocent men are bashed on those groups? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 03:52 PM |
| 6 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELY"A man who acts bad is a bad man." Circular. And if my grandmother had wheels, she'd be a bicycle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | The tone of the posts in this sub is very different to their tone only a few years ago. What’s changed?You cannot moderate a group that doesn't exist because it was banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 03:09 PM |
| 7 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYApparently, these Facebook groups would disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 02:55 PM |
| 27 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYWomen: "I don't need no man." Also women: *Engineers an elaborate social system to track and punish innocent men.* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 02:22 PM |
| 2 | The tone of the posts in this sub is very different to their tone only a few years ago. What’s changed?If you banned me for asking that question, then you would be doing both of us a service. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 12:24 AM |
| 2 | The tone of the posts in this sub is very different to their tone only a few years ago. What’s changed?Well, the part about the MGTOW sub is very interesting because, even though it's been banned for a few years now - like, no longer exists - it still shares 40 percent of accounts with this subreddit. That's very honestly very interesting. As for the whole thing, don't miss the forest for the trees. Zoom out and take the macro view. Look at these interactions from above, like in a petri dish. It shows how things interact and react with each other, and how things move and change over time based on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 06:43 PM |
| 5 | The tone of the posts in this sub is very different to their tone only a few years ago. What’s changed?You probably think that banning those subreddits and users solved the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 06:17 PM |
| 3 | The tone of the posts in this sub is very different to their tone only a few years ago. What’s changed?No, they did not say that. This is why we can't have nice things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 06:13 PM |
| 3 | The tone of the posts in this sub is very different to their tone only a few years ago. What’s changed?I'm not going to look it up now, but there was a subreddit called something like "Men Writing Women". It showcased examples of how men would write women in fiction. The only reason I remember any of this is because one of the posts from that subreddit that went mini-viral went like this: "Her nipples were the size and color of pepperonis. I wondered if they would be as salty. I wanted to nibble on them." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 06:10 PM |
| 3 | The tone of the posts in this sub is very different to their tone only a few years ago. What’s changed?Two main poignant takeaways from the data for both subreddits: The second highest for FDS is Dating Over Thirty - when "The Wall" supposedly hits women, and where Millennials currently are. The second highest for PPD is MGTOW - which was banned a few years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 06:06 PM |
| 1 | The tone of the posts in this sub is very different to their tone only a few years ago. What’s changed?What would be one of them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 05:55 PM |
| 5 | The tone of the posts in this sub is very different to their tone only a few years ago. What’s changed?No one is forced to be around you. What criteria for auto-banning would you use to make sure women feel safe in a particular subreddit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 05:47 PM |
| 2 | The tone of the posts in this sub is very different to their tone only a few years ago. What’s changed?I'm a newer member of this sub. Maybe just two or three months? I came looking for answers to things that I noticed were going on out in the real world. This sub seemed it would be at least somewhat neutral. But, this is not my only source of information. I also read articles and pull up videos on all the popular platforms - from all perspectives. I'm just looking for information and data to process so that I can see what this current relationship environment involves, and so that I can then mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 02:24 PM |
| 6 | Besides sex, do you even like women?Professors. Established, professional, highly-paid, probably tenured, professors of classes where 60 percent of the students are female. Were those sexual encounters depending on anything? And, how are the male students fairing? If you think I'm coming down hard on you, I agree with both of you, to an extent. There is a very tall "Ew" wall that men have to get over. Having position, power and resources certainly helps in getting over that wall, but neither those, nor the initial "Ew" hurdle, len… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Besides sex, do you even like women?I'm MGTOW, not Red Pill. There is some overlap, though, and I feel like throwing my answer in here. I used to think women were my equal. Actually, I used to put them on a pedestal. I don't think that they are my equal anymore. Most are not as strong or logical as I am. Those are traits that are needed to survive on a daily basis in the wild. But, you know what is absolutely needed for the human race to survive on a universal level? The ability to create more human life. For that, I cherish women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 03:18 PM |
| 11 | Do we underestimate the toll rejection takes on you?Yeah, this, I guess. After a while, if there is no reward, you see the uselessness of the effort, and just stop trying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Can you hardwire your brain into not desiring sexual pleasures and romantic relationship?The most direct answer to your question is, "yes". The more nuanced answer is that it will require the complete changing of your patterns in life, and what you spend your hours doing and thinking about. You found yourself in this rut. Force yourself into a different, more rewarding rut. The good news is that it's probably beneficial to do anyways. I'm not a doctor, but then neither are the monks who practice mindfulness mental exercises - nor all the social medialites who spout "Live, Laugh, Lov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 04:45 PM |
| – | A woman’s autonomy and freedom over who she lets put their sex organ inside her sex organ trumps men’s feelings and mental well being EVERY SINGLE TIMETyped out in two dimensions, and considered in a vacuum, your statement is technically reasonable: Even if you don’t like their choices, even if they constantly make objectively bad choices about who has sex with them and other men are driven to suicide because of their lack of sex with said woman. The crux is that the solution to lonely, sexless men’s problems should NEVER be a woman losing freedom of who enters her vagina. And we get to criticize you for making these horrible choices, repeated… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 06:35 PM |
| 17 | Entitled sex starved men, sex is not a resource. It’s like asking women to let you eat them just because you’re starvingI can actually see the PSA in my head. Black and white. Unhappy woman standing there, from the waist up, facing the camera. Narrator voice: "This is Stacy. Her quality of life is low because men are not committing to her. It's affecting her sleep, her mood, and her health. Her friends are worried about her." But, with these kind of posts from the OP. "Men? They need or want something? NOPE! No way in hell. Who even let you in here?" It's almost like reverse-psychology. If we happen to mention th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:10 AM |
| 14 | The dating sceneWomen think this for three reasons: They had an above-average guy before, so they think they deserve it now. When they hear the word "possible", it translates to "probable" in their head. Women are very competitive with each other, and they don't want to come up lacking in the eyes of other women. I forget who said it a few years ago - someone famous - but they said that women will die alone before they date at their level or lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Are many men really relocating to developing countries to find women to marry?My long-term plan is to retire early and move to another country. No, I'm not rich - not in the least. I have a house that I can sell for a profit. I have a 401K that I've been contributing to for the past twenty years. And, I would not make this move while my parents are still alive. I'm 46. My parents are a very healthy 76. I hate that children have to bury their parents. I'm dreading that time. But one has to come to terms with the inevitable, and that is probably about ten years away for me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:44 PM |
| 5 | Our ancestors did not get laid for centuries, we threw sh*t at each other and waged tribal warfare in the African savannah until someone figured out that guaranteeing everyone a wife thought monogamy would mean every man has a reason to cooperate and maintain society, this now has been brokenFound Andrew Tate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 02:00 PM |
| 2 | What self improvement does manosphere offer to men that fitness, finance, fashion, social skills, etc communities do not?My apologies. I was actually speaking to the OP in this post. It was supposed to be addressed to them - not yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 01:52 PM |
| 2 | What self improvement does manosphere offer to men that fitness, finance, fashion, social skills, etc communities do not?Yeah, they are chopping this up and segmenting it. Like the human body, most organs have a specific individual purpose, and all are needed for the body to survive. Individually, they shrivel up and die - including the body itself. I'm MGTOW, and I'm fighting against the stigma of it. The way I interpret it - literally to the word of its name - is that I better be capable on my own, without anyone, including women. I'm not there yet, but I'm much, much further along than I was a decade ago. It's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 12:24 AM |
| 25 | Our ancestors did not get laid for centuries, we threw sh*t at each other and waged tribal warfare in the African savannah until someone figured out that guaranteeing everyone a wife thought monogamy would mean every man has a reason to cooperate and maintain society, this now has been brokenNo reasonable man in their right mind thinks that they are guaranteed a wife. No man would want a wife that was guaranteed to him. We know we have to put in the effort, and we want to. All we are asking for in return is the opportunity, and to not be treated with suspicion and fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Men's anger towards women is misplaced: it should be towards other better menMen typically don't get angry out of jealousy towards other men who seem to have more. If you see guys interact, you'll see that it's more of a communal thing. Conversing, demonstrating, and asking questions. What men really are is frustrated about how women treat them with disdain, disappointment, suspicion, and fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life?Yep. I'm told that I'm an above average male. Would like to be in a relationship. Cannot find one. Can you add "affection" to the "sex/relationship" dichotomy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Which privileges aren’t women able to see?Well, first off, I believe that males are more prone to suffer from learning disabilities than females. So, there's a privilege right there. But, in this specific instance? It's more intangible. People are more willing to help a woman than a man. And, if a man isn't productive, he is judged harshly for it - much more so than a woman. If there is an emergency, the woman is more likely to get attention before the man. If a woman starts yelling, people come and look. If a man starts yelling, they t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??”Why are you judging the guys by the way their girlfriend looks? Strawman. They are judging the women, not the men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 08:36 PM |
| 13 | Do too many “unpaired” men cause societal instability?Well, I mean, when you state that the only solution is that women have to be sex slaves to men, I don't see how that could fail. /s I see this argument a lot. The argument paraphrased as, "Women don't owe men anything". You are right. They don't. Nor do men owe women anything. Since we all agree that no one owes anyone anything, how about we start over and just try to get along again? There were many times in America's past where our reproducing rate was not at sustainable levels, and we require… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 10:15 AM |
| 5 | Do too many “unpaired” men cause societal instability?As a counterpoint, I would say that a more applicable and topical example would be China right now. Due to their "One Child" policy (which was only lifted a few years ago), China has the worst ratio of men to women, I think, in the world. This is because many infant girls in China were abandoned to die, since having a son was more desirable to the culture. I don't know if abortion is legal in China, but if it is, I'm sure many female fetus were aborted, too. Now, the latest news is that China is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Q4A: What do you think would happen if men stopped giving so much attention to women?We're seeing it now. I mentioned this before, but over the summer, there was a singles night at a bar. Only women showed up. Not a single man showed up. It went viral because one of the women there TikToked from it. She scanned the outside patio, and every table had just one woman sitting alone at it. Not a single man in sight. Also, speed-dating events have been getting cancelled with more and more frequency lately because the ratio of women to men signing up has been in the range of 5:1. Segue… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 08:45 PM |
| 0 | I do not see women initializing relationships anytime soon, and it is only logicalI agree that the tradition should change to women choosing men. It's just more logical and efficient that way. Us men should just get used to doing our own thing, and patiently wait for a woman to approach us. But, I disagree that it isn't going to happen anytime soon. The old traditional way of doing things is out of fashion now. Yes, the TikThots and Feminists, for all the chaos and hypocrisy that they are causing right now, their actions are beneficial in that they have successfully broken th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so hard to believe women can willingly date shitty men ?Stop. Just, stop. You're drilling down, erratically changing your direction, throwing everything against the wall, just to try to find some exception to exploit. Since the way I originally used the word "exception" before is confusing you, let me rephrase that sentence: to the exclusion of men who are not shitty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to believe women can willingly date shitty men ?The same way the OP knows that it is hard to believe that women can willingly date shitty men. And, I said "exception", not "exceptional". Big difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to believe women can willingly date shitty men ?I cannot, should not, and would not force someone to date me who does not want to. or choose to, date me. Nor do I owe any woman anything. I will date someone who I want to date, and who wants to date me in return. You are not to make demands of me or tell me what my responsibilities are. I have lots of them, and you are not even on the radar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 08:36 AM |
| 4 | Why is it so hard to believe women can willingly date shitty men ?The problem is when women do it repeatedly, and at the exception of men who are not shitty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 08:10 AM |
| 0 | A lot of red pilled dudes seem to think women are into bad guys, but they also forget if you're an average or ugly looking, fat neckbearded dude using asshole behavior to compensate for in the looks department, that will be just as off turning as being a shy timid nice guyWe don't. But, she's assuming that he is. And that's a bonus to her - but not for everyone else. That's kinda part of the problem here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 05:25 AM |
| 0 | A lot of red pilled dudes seem to think women are into bad guys, but they also forget if you're an average or ugly looking, fat neckbearded dude using asshole behavior to compensate for in the looks department, that will be just as off turning as being a shy timid nice guyYour logic makes no sense. My take away: Being a shy nice guy is just as bad as being an ugly asshole. But, look at Messi. He's a shy nice guy, and got someone. Which is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 02:31 AM |
| 2 | OLD forces men to maintain parallel interactions.Well, I'm in the unmentioned third option. I have a handful of matches and messages across a few different apps waiting for me. But, those matches and messages have been there for several weeks now. I am really reticent to pay to have them unlocked. Even though they are just sitting there waiting for me to take action (maybe not actually waiting anymore), I'm not nervous or anxious about contacting them. I just kinda couldn't be bothered. Got other stuff going on. I still go on the apps, but any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 11:17 AM |
| 2 | OLD forces men to maintain parallel interactions.Well, I mean, isn't that a milestone of about when a woman will most likely be willing to commit to a specific man, and they should have "the talk" to make the relationship exclusive? I know there are exceptions, but isn't that considered to generally be when things are discussed and decisions are made? I'm old enough to remember when having "the talk" was when a relationship was ending. Now, having "the talk" is when a relationship is beginning. Sheesh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Women don't care what it took to get there, they are just waiting at the finish line to fuck the winners.And what do you bring to the relationship, besides a horrible disposition? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Are "approach signals" even real ?Oh, shoot. I didn't post this under the boilerplate post. My bad. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Are "approach signals" even real ?Here is what I have noticed. A women is interested in you if, when you start speaking, she immediately starts looking directly at you. I mean, directly facing you, and both eyes wide open and locked onto your eyes. Anything less, and they are just being friendly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 10:46 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Women can't be upset at some men telling them to "choose better" if they keep perpetuating the notion of a "Woman's Intuition."I would add that women's' judgment is also not attuned correctly. Women are extremely perceptive, and they are also extremely judgmental - which goes into the intuition bucket - but their judgment is not productive at all. Actually, destructive. Two women who I was involved with at different parts of my life were both in a position to hire a new employee one time. Neither were HR or Recruiting. Both would be hiring someone to be on their team. Both rejected both candidates. The first one rejecte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 06:57 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women would not date or marry at all if presented with the same options as modern menIf women had to put up with the frequent insults and urging from men to just kill themselves, they would not date. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QES41RG8iho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 05:07 AM |
| 6 | Dating is much more difficult for men if they aren't willing to date trashy womenThis is mainly due to a lack of "Third Places" in today's society. A Third Place would be places after home and work. Back in the day, there were multiple more types of Third Places than there are today: saloons, social clubs, bowling leagues, garden clubs, supper clubs, The Rotary Club, The Knights of Columbus, The Lions Club, American Legion, etc. While these still exist today, they are a shadow of what they used to be, and not at all cool to participate in. They don't exist anymore because th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 10:06 PM |
| 1 | The problems both pills complain about are caused by tradcon men.I agree. But, do you think it's healthy? And do you think we should have to suffer through all the complaints from women about them being used by the top percent of men? Nothing happens in a vacuum. Look at all the collateral strife right now that is being caused by these behaviors. There is an easy way to stop it. Just don't participate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 06:14 PM |
| 2 | The problems both pills complain about are caused by tradcon men.Exactly. People are now choosing those ways of life on purpose - either because they honestly want to, or because they are told that it is empowering to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 02:33 AM |
| 2 | The problems both pills complain about are caused by tradcon men.Well, I think we've found the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 11:15 PM |
| 7 | The problems both pills complain about are caused by tradcon men.When demons caused disease? You mean like when harems existed, as well as widespread slavery? When one man would have twenty women, and the other nineteen men would just go without - just like today? Why do women want that? If anything, today is a regression back to those times. The whole cohesive family unit with two parents and children building something together (like a farm) is a more or less modern thing - since the Industrial Revolution (although conditions were not terribly good for anyo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 10:15 PM |
| 6 | Women don't care what it took to get there, they are just waiting at the finish line to fuck the winners.a woman with options will always pick the best one ...along with all the other women. Get ready to share. Your "options" are really only "perceived options". Women hear the word "possible", and immediately transcribe it to "probable". Can you define "best one", by the way? Just money? Looks, too? How about personality? Are you judging these attributes against your own needs and wants, or the ability to brag to other women about him? When you are done bragging about him, will you then start compl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 09:52 AM |
| 11 | Women don't care what it took to get there, they are just waiting at the finish line to fuck the winners.Including the women waiting at the finish line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 09:34 AM |
| 2 | It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege.Are we still talking about getting a date? Because I've cured cancer, and still can't get a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 09:03 AM |
| 3 | Why is niceness so harmful to romantic relationships?I was part of an online gaming group on another platform earlier this year. It was a golden time. Met a lot of new people, and made a lot of friends. Everyone played all sorts of games. People routinely jumped into games, and others would just participate. It was really cool. There was also voice chat, and if people were bored, they would (including myself) just jump into the voice chat and hang out - sometimes just in silence together. People spent hours at a time in there. A lot of them also s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 03:29 AM |
| 3 | Secrets to sex appeal that every man should follow“women should like me the way I am,” and “I shouldn’t have to put on airs to date." This statement is true. I have worked on myself my entire life. It's an ingrained personality trait of mine. To become the most knowledgeable and experienced person around, so that I have worth and usefulness to society. It is a fear of mine that someone will find me lacking. This was only achieved after decades of making mistakes and correcting myself and those mistakes. Taking into account all the mechanics of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Why is niceness so harmful to romantic relationships?Exactly. I avoid people who constantly need to to display how tough and confident they are. People here are claiming that nice people are nice for the sake of appearances. It's the opposite type of person who does that, and has some serious mental issues there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Why is niceness so harmful to romantic relationships?Thanks for participating! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 09:09 PM |
| 4 | Why is niceness so harmful to romantic relationships?The opposite doesn't get explored enough, I feel. A guy who is nice, but who is also tough. I consider myself to be in that category. As soon as I show toughness, people shun me in disgust. "I thought he was nice. Ugh. He's just an asshole." Personally, I think it's because they thought they could manipulate me because I'm nice, but end up getting disappointed when it doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 09:05 PM |
| – | Lonely single men who get little to no sexual attention project their loneliness onto women about to hit the mythical wallYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 02:46 PM |
| – | Lonely single men who get little to no sexual attention project their loneliness onto women about to hit the mythical wallYour view of men is alarmingly hateful. You claim that women do better at being alone than men, but then you bring up instances of women needing to stay in constant contact with other people, and you approve of the criminal acts for women to get what they want - and also avoid all responsibility for their actions. You literally stated that it's okay for a woman to probably deceive a man into getting her pregnant. Even the Hot-Friend scenario has serious legal and integrity issues that you aren't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Single Men, what are your standards?If you are collecting data, here are my stats: Caucasian with dark features. Midwest. $56K a year. House. Car. Animal lover. Techno music. Coffee. Tobacco. Height / Body type I'm 5'9" and weigh 200 pounds (rounding up, on a bad day). Just smaller than me. Income N/A. Race (if you have a preference) N/A House/no house N/A Kids/ no kids N/A | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Good video that hits a lot of topics that are also discussed here in Purple Pill Debate. A lot of sources and citations. Many points of view. Discuss.Most of the articles that were cited were not gossip articles, and some supported female claims. I don't think you watched the video. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Good video that hits a lot of topics that are also discussed here in Purple Pill Debate. A lot of sources and citations. Many points of view. Discuss.But what did you think of the sources that he cited, which seemed to be articles that were either written by women, or published in women's e-zines? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 05:07 AM |
| 0 | It is impossible for men to actually win debates against women using logic/reason since the latter have an ingroup biasWhat gets me is the more immature debaters will resort to two strategies: Make a prediction: "And then I'll have to give him a handjob for an hour." Make a pointlessly useless short reply: "If only that were true." And since you don't reply to their nonsense, they think they won the argument. Most liberals also debate like this, too, in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 04:23 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: What are the advantages of being the Nice Guy?I guess I'm a Nice Guy™. If categorizing people is necessary for research and editorial purposes, then I prefer to be referred to as an "upstanding guy", or even "sigma" or "omega". Without these types, you would not have an environment where an "alpha" could exist. This is despite the coiner of the phrase "alpha male" later saying that it was an incorrect conclusion to make. So, alpha males don't even exist. Those who are labelled as alpha males, or who say that they are alpha males, are simply… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Rising women's complains today about dating do not add up to the reality of their sexual privilegeWomen can choose to be single, and it is easier than ever in history. They are also happier as single women than single men. I do have issue with this. Most data today shows that women are at a very low point with happiness right now. And, antidepressants for women are at a very high rate right now. It was somewhere around a quarter to a third of all women reported not being happy for long periods of time and/or on antidepressants. Juxtaposition that with this thought. How does each sex deal wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 02:36 PM |
| 3 | New Trend: "Living Apart Together".Look at the way you women are treating this guy, with suspicion and disdain. Assuming the worst, and then judging him on it. Maybe this is what he doesn't like living with. Maybe this exact behavior is what he is referring to as "unbearable". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | your thoughts on the mgtow movement?The lack of communication came from their sides. I think about this topic a lot - even decades after the fact - trying to figure out what I did wrong. I get to the conclusion that I did nothing wrong quicker each time. I remember my high school girlfriend. We dated for about two years. I broke up with her after high school because I thought that she just wasn't that into me. She acted very nonchalant with me, and made me feel as if my feelings for her were much stronger than her feelings for me.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 04:49 AM |
| 1 | your thoughts on the mgtow movement?I witnessed a damaging lack of effective communication. They also would get bored with the safety, security, and fun that I was providing in our relationship, and they would start fights just for entertainment. And, it was always up to me to provide the entertainment for them. They mostly were not able to entertain themselves. I thought it was important for a woman to feel safe and secure around a man. I guess I was mistaken. Or, I was taken for granted. Think of the relationship like an empty j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 10:00 PM |
| 10 | women are not self-aware on how badly they treat menYep. I never heard of "hamstering" or "monkey branching", but these terms are created to describe existing behaviors in women. So, there is cause and effect in play here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 06:07 PM |
| -2 | Women, how often do you see men as enemies?Somewhat By men. FTFY. https://nypost.com/2021/01/26/wife-stabs-husband-after-seeing-old-pics-of-them-having-sex-report/ There are many, many examples of stuff like this. There was a situation just a month or so ago - in Chicago, I think - where a man and a woman had an argument. The woman left and came back with her two brothers to beat up the boyfriend. There was a shoot-out. All three men died. The woman was unharmed. In the documentary "The Red Pill" - which was created by a self-proclaimed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Women, how often do you see men as enemies?And the guys were friendly to a stranger, but the women were mostly suspicious. Yes, that is a trait of finding someone to be potentially dangerous and potentially an enemy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 04:58 PM |
| – | Women, how often do you see men as enemies?What is your take on the reactions that this guy receives from both men and women? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/zcgsgn/discuss/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 04:18 PM |
| – | Women, how often do you see men as enemies?And most violence is against men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 03:48 PM |
| – | Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating?Yep. And at an even more base level, people go along with just to fit in. Fitting in is a huge drug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 08:58 AM |
| 5 | Men who complain about women not taking personal responsibility often don’t believe men should take responsibility for anything.My God, this is primitive thinking. Your whole post is an example of a woman not taking responsibilty or accountability. Men do not care about women's income because we (used to) assume that women aren't going to hypergamize after talking with her girlfriends and comparing boyfriends and husbands. The days of a man fully supporting a wife and children are pretty much behind us. But, we also assume that two modest incomes, where each party's time, money, and effort into the relationship are value… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 03:09 AM |
| 8 | At what income does dating prospects for an average looking man become greater than a 8/10 man who earns 75k/year?I don't have the gumption to look this up right now, but there have already been studies on this done. It was something like, if a 5'6" man made $40K a year, he would have to double that amount for every inch, in order to be as attractive as 6' man who also made $40K a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 02:37 AM |
| – | What does the "average man's" standards look like? And the "average woman's"?If there are plenty of both average men and average women available, then why are women struggling? And, if an average woman ends up with an average guy, why is she considered to have settled? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | What does the "average man's" standards look like? And the "average woman's"?What would some of those factors be for both sexes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Which of these two men are more attractive to women?Do you find it at all ironic that the main reason that Ukraine is holding its own against Russia is because of all the weapons it is receiving from outside sources, and that the other guy is someone who helps in getting weapons to places that they are needed? Is this akin to holding up the sex worker as a hero, but demonizing her customers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 06:46 AM |
| – | Which of these two men are more attractive to women?which saved his country from collapse. And the network of satellites, and the M142 HIMARS systems that the US gave Ukraine. Those, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?Well, I mean, look it up yourself. One theory that I have is that online dating is like a no-effort buffet for the top ten percent of men. However, speed dating has rules and limitations, and takes effort. Meanwhile, the good men are just staying home. They have better things to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: what should women know about sex?True. Very true. I did not mean to make it sound like no men have this problem. Both sexes would benefit hugely from communicating more about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: what should women know about sex?Using porn as an example, watch some softcore porn. Sure, they are actors, but the women in softcore porn display enthusiasm and show a genuine desire to be with that man. This is done through body language and verbal communication. If sex feels like something you are doing together, then that is extremely enjoyable. If it feels like something I'm doing to you, not at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: what should women know about sex?This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 05:26 AM |
| 13 | Q4M: what should women know about sex?There is an enormous gray area of affection that exists between celibacy and hardcore sex that is ignored by most women. Men find this area to be very enjoyable and rewarding, and often as intimate as intimacy itself. But, I feel that women are scared of being affectionate to men - past simple pecks on the cheek - for fear that it will cause the man to go berserk, turn into werewolves, and demand sex immediately. Show affection more, and the need for sex will be less. Just because we are cuddlin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumUntil someone loses their phone, or has it stolen, and the perpetrator scrolls through the contacts looking for "Wife", "Mom", or "Dad". There is other information stored on a contact, too, like email addresses and full addresses. Phone locked? There are many ways around that, including stuff you can do with the SIM card, or plugging the phone into another device. "Hey babe, what's the PIN for the bank account again? I need to transfer some money for Christmas." And this could go on for hours be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 02:31 AM |
| 2 | The Wall For MenWhat am I supposed to explain? The sheer prevalence of height standards. But, it looks like your original post has since been removed by a mod. I don't think that is right for a mod to have removed your post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 02:21 PM |
| 0 | The Wall For MenPlease explain this: https://youtu.be/XuucQTZpfdo?t=48 Not only was she absolutely hypocritical and adamant in her view, but this is seen very, very often. So often, in fact, that it's pretty much come to be known as law. "The plural of 'anecdote' is not 'data'." Bullshit. Data is nothing but a collection of anecdotal evidence. Red Pill helps men know how the female psyche works, so that we can try to avoid the red flags in women as much as possible. Women always talk about red flags in men. Are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 02:08 PM |
| 90 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumThere was a viral tweet a year or so ago by a gal named Jennifer Wortman. I remember her name specifically because she was announcing to everyone that she had just found out that her husband has her stored in his phone as "Jennifer Wortman". This was supposed to get all the ladies to commiserate with her. "Sheesh. Men. Amirite?" There were several viral responses to her original tweet. An exchange that I remember: "I once dated a guy who had me stored in his phone as 'Free Pussy #3'." A response… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate.I definitely agree, especially in the case of Fresh & Fit. I don't like their show overall. They are not good hosts, and it has all the ingredients of a show like "The Jerry Springer Show". But, it's not so much the content itself, but how much of it there is, how honest it is, and the variety of sources it comes from, which is most alarming. It's not the individual act, it's the whole trend of how common the behavior and thinking actually is. We teach women to be weary because of the ten percen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 09:16 AM |
| 27 | Women’s standards of rudeness are different depending on whether they’re being rude to someone or whether someone’s being rude to themI saw a quick demonstration from a vlogger last year where he went to set up his own live stream on Twitch. He showed that if you named your stream "I hate men", that was fine. But, if you named your stream "I hate women", that was stopped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Men should appreciate better what porn has done for themYep. Porn has existed forever. I read recently that during excavation of some ancient ruins (may have been Pompeii) that they uncovered a mural of two guys having sex, and the text beneath it was to the effect of "Women, I am tired of your drama. I seek refuge within my male friends from now on." So, MGTOW and memes go back at least that far. I say it whenever the environment is right, but softcore porn is very romantic and passionate. It does take care of the immediate chemical problem, but it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Is it actually unreasonable that 'below average woman' want to be treated like ' 10' ? Don't below average men expect the people they date to treat them like 'a Chad?"Naw. He's probably the one who initiated the contact. He may have even had to keep the conversation going (I'm being cynical on this point, but this happens a lot), plan the date, and he probably will pay for the date. So, before the date even begins, he's already shown an infinite more amount of interest and investment than her. During the date, he'll probably have to also put in a majority of the effort to keep it going, too. All she has to do is show up and act like it wasn't a mistake to sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men.Upstanding women, who were tricked by male psychopaths, being shamed for it? Please do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 11:55 PM |
| – | Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men.Women have sex with who they want. Men have sex with who they can. Why are you feeling ashamed at having sex with someone that you wanted to have sex with? If it was a potentially good relationship, but it ended, you should feel sadness - not shame. As long as neither party was to solely blame, then the death of the potential relationship should be mourned - not vilified. You need to ask yourself if you are approaching this whole topic of relationships in a healthy manner. It's a horrible thing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 06:19 PM |
| 3 | The "Nice Guy" is a scapegoatThen, do you mind telling these women that they are wrong? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nE8ThBIoHe0 "But, these are just the rare highlighted instances." Okay. Good. Then tell them that. See what kind of responses you get. Think of it as a social experiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 03:13 PM |
| -1 | Men and women cannot be friends because the woman would still expect the man to do all the same stuff that a boyfriend or husband would do.Eww. Gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | I find most wo(men) are unattractive too.I think you are in the minority. That same data set that showed that women find 80 percent of men below average in attractiveness also showed that men viewed women's attractiveness on a nice smooth bell curve. That states that, generally, in most cases, on average, men are pursuing at their own level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Men and women cannot be friends because the woman would still expect the man to do all the same stuff that a boyfriend or husband would do.Well. Maybe. I don't know. But, the point is that - whether it was a signal or not - she grabbed onto him out of fear, much the same way she would have to a boyfriend or husband. But, they are just friends. This wasn't the progenitor of this thread of mine, but I just realized that a similar situation had happened to me. About twenty years ago, I was married. I was working in an office of men and women. Some of the girls wanted to go to a haunted house after work on a Friday night. My wife often… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 12:32 PM |
| -1 | Men and women cannot be friends because the woman would still expect the man to do all the same stuff that a boyfriend or husband would do.Naw. I guess my intention was lost in the brevity of the post. Take a situation where a guy has a female friend (among several other friends of both sexes). He thinks she's attractive, and they get along great, and he would entertain the thought of maybe having a relationship with her, but that topic just never came up between them. They go to a haunted house with their group of friends. She gets scared and clings onto him - almost not letting go until they get out of the haunted house. His thou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 05:34 AM |
| 3 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousIt's so pervasive in social media, I'm not sure how you could miss it. I could start posting TikToks and Reddit threads, but there would be no end. I would just simply mention that topic - from both perspectives - to others and see their reactions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Social awkwardness is the biggest death sentence for men"For all the talk of equality, that we live in the 21st century, men are still expected to make the first move most of the time. We need to ask her out, initiate the kiss, initiate things going further, bring up the topic of sex, etc. Now there are exceptions, but as a general rule, this is still how it works." That is quickly changing, thank God: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nE8ThBIoHe0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 01:16 AM |
| 3 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousWay off-base. Men providing masculinity, leadership, decisiveness, and security is seen as being toxic in today's society. And, no, Bugattis are not examples of those traits. It's true that those are traits that men are generally better at than women, and it's true that these traits are some important traits - for society as a whole - for people to have, but even though women find these traits to be attractive, those traits are demonized in society today. Figure out that conundrum. Yes, people f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Far too many people believe that men not being able to acquire sex/relationships is a MORAL failing. This could not be further from the truth.Excellent post. We all know how men who are broken or dangerous are seen as being interesting to women, which also makes them sexy to women (which is probably because women get to have the fun, without having to worry about the consequences). But, if you are not one of those men, and you have exercised reasonable amounts of effort towards yourself in order to make yourself more attractive to women, but you are not succeeding, then you need to be content with the thought that it's not your fault,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?Indeed. Life, and all facets and functions of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?Love "Sunny in Philadelphia". Well, in that example, I'm Mac. I think most men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 06:50 PM |
| 50 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?This is a very powerful post. The apathy from women. That's what I have been experiencing the most, too. I have realized recently that I have more rewarding experiences either at home by myself, or working on fun projects with friends. I'm so much more desiring comradery than intimacy anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 03:07 PM |
| 5 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?Or, you know, a romantic picnic. That, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 02:37 PM |
| 9 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?I am. I still would really like a loving and supportive relationship with a woman, but I just don't have the energy anymore. The resources I would have to expend get and support a relationship with a woman, versus what I would get in return, it just doesn't seem to be worth it. If one happens to find me, that's great, and I'll do my best, but I'm not really searching for one. You should find that viral story from a few months ago, where there was a single-mixer type of event, and no men showed u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 02:19 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.I mean this honestly. You sound angry, and your anger is mistargeted towards men. Don't berate us and try to shame us for having realistic standards. The rest, I'm being snarky: Sure, wait decades. Sure, have high standards. Sure, fight for the top ten percent of men. Sure, be hypocritical in thinking that only men have to nurture a relationship. Sure, view the relationship as some resource to only withdraw from - not deposit into. Sure, don't recognize that men are looking for their equals, whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 04:17 AM |
| 2 | It is almost impossible to talk redpill men out of their positions because doing so would contradict their lived experiences. Bluepill needs to provide a better explanation for these experiences, not argue that the experiences themselves don't happenGood points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 05:02 PM |
| 4 | It is almost impossible to talk redpill men out of their positions because doing so would contradict their lived experiences. Bluepill needs to provide a better explanation for these experiences, not argue that the experiences themselves don't happenThe why is having multiple partners felt good and validating to her. If everything was copacetic, and all the men involved were also okay with the situation, it's ridiculous to thing that the woman was justified in lying, in order to keep the subterfuge going. That wouldn't be necessary. Would you also feel the same way about: The why is having multiple partners felt good and validating to him. Blue Pills are born. Red Pills are created. By the way, u/Immediate-Impact-215, you are a horrible hum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | What causes women to not understand that they are being used by top tier men?Yeah, hope. Also jealousy of other women who brag about how awesome their guy is. It's their version of the numbers game. Men swipe on apps knowing that eventually something will click. Women also assume "eventually", too. Segue: I think women want men to change between the dating and marriage stages because during dating, the woman wants to feel that she's attached to something hot and exciting and desired by other women. But, after marriage, then her social capital is tied to the guy, and he b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:52 AM |
| 5 | Have you ever met a man that you instantly were sexually attracted toward ?No, he ghosted her with his cellphone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 05:20 AM |
| 1 | The Myth of Men’s Time Vs Women’s TimeYeah, this is some of the worst pop-science that I have been encountering. The overall priority is that everyone is healthy, safe, warm, dry, and nourished (both mentally and physically). Within a family unit, "from those who can provide the most, to those who need the most". Each sex brings different strengths to a relationship and a family. My mother was a very nurturing and supportive mother when the three of us kids were growing up. My need for nurture and support was fulfilled by my mother.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 03:53 PM |
| 15 | Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have?Did your husband ever tell you how he battled and beat it? I would be interested to hear his story. I have a slight slur, stutter, and lisp. None of them bad enough to do anything about professionally, but I did overcome them through sheer willpower and determination. I was in elementary school when they were noticed, and my parents asked the school to do something about it. But, I was also part of the gifted program. Well, in my elementary school, the gifted children did cool fun computer stuff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 01:30 AM |
| 1 | If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life?Such primitive thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 12:06 PM |
| – | If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life?It's high risk for the woman? What's the risk level for the man who starts off with nothing - especially if the woman also starts off with nothing? Loyalty goes both ways. How about they try to be in a wholesome and strong relationship with someone of a like mind, and enjoy their lives together, instead of being transactional with it? This goes for both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 02:28 AM |
| 18 | If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life?My opinion on the matter is that your point of view is heavily biased from the woman's perspective, and it is not realistic. You might be trying to point out bad behavior in men in order to lessen the impact of bad behavior in women. Breaking up after graduation? Extremely common in general - especially if they did not graduate together. Did you expect him to not move away and start his life, rather, stay near that college just in order to continue to date her? And, if anything, the money, beaut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 02:20 AM |
| 0 | Why women have hard time apologizing when they are wrong?Eh. This doesn't take into account other psychological reasons why someone is prone or not prone to apologize, and it completely ignores when someone is not willing to apologize when they should - like when someone truly is at fault for something that they did or didn't do, or a mistake that they made. Additional psychological facets that probably determine someone's probability of being willing to apologize when they are wrong or made a mistake: Confidence to correct the issue. Humbleness to ad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Why women have hard time apologizing when they are wrong?OP: "I'm sorry. I fucked up, but not because of you." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Discuss.And a women's perspective: https://youtu.be/Y3jAXzB6cig?t=380 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?Seriously, why are you here? Do you actually want a relationship with a woman? I feel as if I could go out there for you, find your perfect woman for you, and present her to you, but you would still reject her out of anger and spite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 10:11 PM |
| 18 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?We can share new experiences at any age or experience level. But, sexual experience, trauma, and baggage is something that I do care about. Again, most men care about this stuff because they don't want to be the target of the rage that previous men instilled into the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenHa, I'm a rarity I'm afraid. Okay, "Pick me" girl. KIDDING! Don't unmatch me, too, please. I'm 46. An old 46 mentally, but a young 46 physically. I live in Cleveland. Cleveland sprawls, and then turns into farmland immediately (much like any other Midwest city). So, the women were a mixture. Some urban. Some suburban. Some rural. Some with children. Some not. All within five years of my age. All gainfully employed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 12:22 AM |
| 5 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenI've typed this out before, but the tl;dr of my last near-relationship - which was about a year and a half ago - was that she kept testing me and giving me ultimatums. I gave into the ultimatums that I was okay with. But, once she hit an ultimatum that I was not okay with, the relationship ended instantaneously. I mean, on the spot. Before that and since then, I have had several false-starts. Some that come to mind: I matched with a woman on a dating app. She went to start a phone call through… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever been interested in somebody you thought was well within your league and then they soon partner up with an objectively way more attractive person leaving you massively disheartened?Yep. Men have to go MGTOW, or shoot low - because that lessens the odds that she'll be looking for someone better than you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I know whether a potential partner consumes red pill content?You are making a lot of assumptions, and letting the "what ifs" paralyze you. MGTOW and Red Pill is, at its core fundamentals, a healthy mental exercise to challenge yourself and make yourself stronger. This applies to both sexes. But, as with any philosophy, the extreme prophets are just that - extreme. Have conversations with the guy. Afraid to get intimate until you are sure? There is a huge gray area of affection that is safe. Trust him, until you have a reason not to. The gray area is where… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 05:24 PM |
| 13 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenI want to agree and expand on this main post, but I don't see an automatic reply to post against, so I'm going to use yours as the automatic reply. :) This power struggle that women past their prime focus on is not just about age-gap relationships. It's how women past their prime treat all relationships in general - from personal experience. I'm middle-aged. I'm looking for a woman who is around my same age. Weird, I know. But, to segue into a related topic, all the women that I have tried to ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 03:01 PM |
| 8 | If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive.pussy Or, you know, "intimacy". That, too. That’s why women vet, including “withholding sex” And we can vet and withhold a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 06:19 PM |
| 4 | If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive.I dont understand why men play this holier-than-thou virtue signalling BS when they clearly just want their dicks wet. You're still missing the point. What the guy is saying is that he is looking for a healthy relationship. I see those types of bios myself, and, yes, those are red flags that a guy has to come to terms with, one way or the other. He may choose to give it a go. Or, he may realize that it's either not what he's looking for, or that it's trouble, or that she is not the type of girl … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 05:19 PM |
| – | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapYour argument, if true, only proves the Alpha/Beta relationship, and paints women as looking at relationships as purely transactional. This is a toxic thought that I've been seeing more of. I hope this thought is simply some sort of coping mechanism that dies and withers away on the vine. But, reality itself disagrees with you. Since you like to do research, I would look into the "Just Pearly Things" and "Whatever" podcasts. They have hit this topic heavily a couple times. Here's a good place to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 12:12 PM |
| 1 | How do we "choose better partners"?Last question first. Yes. You should certainly judge *all* people by how they treat *all* other people. As for the main point of the post, as everyone has already probably been telling you, check your friends list. Guaranteed that there is a good guy there. Not *all* will be, but there will be at least one. Guaranteed. That's what you proactively do. What you proactively *don't* do is chase the butterflies. You've probably also heard this a lot, but real and genuine relationships are not like in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 12:52 AM |
| 0 | Men over 30, do you filter out 30 year old women while looking for serious relationships?46 year-old male here. Young in heart and physique. My age range is anywhere between 30 to 50. As long as they are also young in heart and physique, then Gregorian age matters very little. But, what I *am* dealing with is, if I find that a 32 year-old woman might be a good match with me and I want to pursue it, it is difficult to not come off as a much older creepy dude. I do my best to allay their fears, but I have yet to even get past the first "ick" hurdle from them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 12:36 AM |
| – | Nobody is judging you for having standards. We're judging you for being a dick about it.when you act like women you don't want to fuck are disgusting, just because they have the audacity of not making your peepee happy. If you can't express your attraction without being a huge piece of shit about it, then yeah, you'll get called out for saying rude shit. If you absolutely have to use the word "slut" or "bitch" to describe a woman you aren't attracted to I hate to do this, but I am going to need examples of this. If you have actual text examples, that would be awesome, but I am not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:53 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on "Don't Ask a fish how to fish?"Eh. The whole thing needs a heavy dose of cynicism targeted towards both sides. That's because both men and women are biased to manipulate reality to how they want things to be - not how they really are. So, their answers are going to be in favor of that idyllic outcome - but also sent through all the psyche filters such as coping mechanisms, past trauma, and fantasies. And, that's even assuming that the other person has the same type of relationship in mind as you do. So, do I have faith in thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 05:15 AM |
| 11 | Nice guys are not mean or creeps, they are men who interact with women platonically in the hopes women will make the first moveSeriously. If she posted that same story on /r/femaledatingstrategy, they would convince her that she was manipulated, and that her marriage is toxic, and that their whole relationship is built on a mountain of lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 03:36 PM |
| 7 | Nice guys are not mean or creeps, they are men who interact with women platonically in the hopes women will make the first moveAs such, it'd actually seem to be women who are the ones prioritizing sex, Yes. Thank you. It had to be said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Nice guys are not mean or creeps, they are men who interact with women platonically in the hopes women will make the first moveSo true. I would like to expand on this a bit by saying that Nice Guys™ project a bit onto women that they like, and that determines how they act towards women. Nice Guys™ want to be respected and treated in a special way, so they show respect and special treatment towards the girls that they fancy. This can lead to some stunted growth, though. This applied to me a bit when I was younger. Even though I had a whole bunch of girls in middle school who had crushes on me, and I liked a couple of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 02:48 PM |
| 3 | casual sex isn't as fun as I thoughtTrue. So true. Just the thought of removing that stress from the equation is so relieving. My real body count is 10. My pleasure body count is 4. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 01:04 PM |
| 6 | Passport Bros. Discuss.find a partner that had everything I wanted mentally and emotionally, and just encourage them to physically be healthier This is a list of things that are not possible, or highly discouraged, for a man to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 08:43 PM |
| 4 | Passport Bros. Discuss.Is it really Beta Bucks if they are purposely leaving the Beta Bucks environment to find someone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | What does Average Adam have to offer for ANYONEWell, I would argue that men do better alone than women. Men don't typically need those social circles or protection, and they are willing to try fixing or creating stuff themselves - even if they make a mistake and make it worse. I would also go so far as to say that men seem to - on average - be more curious about learning about the world (not just use it as vacation destinations). And, we can always entertain ourselves. What's wrong with being stable and a provider? If the man is helping to p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 06:12 PM |
| 6 | Passport Bros. Discuss.But, women's standards were not mentioned at all in that video - by either the men or women. It dealt more with men not wanting to be involved with combative women. The women just plain seemed mad that men were exercising this option. A couple of the men seemed to not consider the idea, but are now considering this option due to the horrible state that dating in the US is in, and the one women even commiserated with men on this topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Men taking a portion or all of themselves away is not manipulative or toxicOnce the woman has rejected the man, then she has rejected the man. Doesn't "no" mean "no"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 01:09 PM |
| – | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?When women say that they won't "settle", what they really mean is that they won't "cooperate" with men. Something in their brain prevents them from wanting to be cooperative with men in a relationship - so much so that words like "cooperate" and "agreeable" make women seethe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 01:58 PM |
| 4 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?That statement that she made is much deeper than it appears to be. It's anecdotal evidence that some of the following are true, to some extent: Women view men mostly as annoying. Men do give that much unwanted attention. Men do give that much unwanted attention, but it's from a fraction of a fraction of men - the one percent of psychopaths who pursue all women regardless (Matthew Hussey). The 80/20 rule is alive and in effect - and it may even be worse than 80/20. Women don't desire relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 10:33 PM |
| 13 | Your mother didn’t “lie” to you. Women didn’t lie to you. They genuinely thought they were telling you the truth….and that most girls were not they themStrawman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 03:38 PM |
| – | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?Excellent post. 95% of male interest is just white noise at any level of attractiveness. Yes, this is a very wise statement, and one of the core issues of the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 03:01 PM |
| 3 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?Well, I think what the issue is, is frustration that we don't understand why women don't like sex, and we have no idea how to fix that issue. Sex is intimate, pleasureful, and fun. Humans also geared to like it, for the sake of the species. We just don't understand where the disconnect is with women. Furthermore, this affects not just intimacy, but also affection - because women think that, past the lowest point of affection, it's going to arouse men, and then the women will be forced to have se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Most men don't get laid because they don't approach and talk to enough womenNeed peoples' feedback here. I switched dentists about a year ago. My last visit was a couple months ago. The dental hygienist, who is very cute and seems to be about my age, was telling me about how she's going through a divorce because her husband cheated on her with several other women. They have two children. The divorce, which started out cordial, turned nasty. She gave him some terms. He accepted. But, as each court date approached, he would renege. She was very pleasant about it, and seem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 02:09 AM |
| 5 | Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous20 to 30 matches? I'm above average (as judged independently by other people), and I've been on dating apps for two years now, and I don't think I gotten a total of even that many "likes". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 01:04 PM |
| 5 | If a woman has to lower her standards for you to have a shot with her, the relationship you’ll have with her will be shaky at bestThat is not what the data shows - empirical or anecdotal. The raw data shows that what men are attracted to, and tend to pursue, is pretty much at their own level. To get a scope the issue, I suggest that you look up Courtney Ryan and Melanie King. They talk about their frustrations in dealing with unreasonable women - women they are trying to help. And these are not special situations. These are normal everyday women. One of them had a video about some female dating coaches who decided to leave… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 09:03 PM |
| 7 | If a woman has to lower her standards for you to have a shot with her, the relationship you’ll have with her will be shaky at bestThat's not the issue at all. No, I'm not going to bring up the 80/20. I'm going to bring up what else that data shows - the fact that women typically try to date above themselves. Men are typically looking for their equal. Women typically are looking for someone better. Why should I lower my standards if you aren't willing to date at your standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is there anything you like about women?RP exists because men don't RedPill men. Women do. Yep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is there anything you like about women?Non-sexual physical contact is a big thing as well. Sometimes I just want a fucking hug lol. This. I say this to women, and they just don't believe me. They act suspicious, like I'm trying to trick them into getting them physically close to me. On the bell curve of affection, where "0" is absolutely no affection and "10" is hardcore sex, that main area in the middle, where the curve maximizes, is the best. It's better than sex. I can honestly tell you that if I had a woman here with me right now… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Is there anything you like about women?It was a great post. It's been more than a few years. I'm not sure it was even on Reddit. Let me try to figure out how to find it again. If I find it, I'll definitely post it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Something most women just wish men understoodBecause they are good points to stress-test the argument. And, we'll point out hypocrisy whenever we see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 10:40 AM |
| 0 | Something most women just wish men understoodPlease, no offense, but your example is ridiculous. You're talking about the Italian Carabinieri police force. Their name shares the same root as the word "carbine", and they partly exist in order to combat the mafia. So, they are literally the good guys with guns who are there keeping you safe. And, their bullets would kill me just as quickly as they would kill you. We actually did have a run-in with them when we were in Italy. A bunch of us were in the Vatican City area and some of us got sepa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is there anything you like about women?I remember reading a post from a young teenage boy. He was the youngest sibling out of four children, and all three of his older siblings were girls - his sisters. He went out one night with a group of friends, and had an absolutely horrible night. It was one thing after another. He tried alcohol for the first time, and got sick. His girlfriend broke up with him. He tried his first cigarette, and that also made him sick. He got home physically and mentally sick, depressed and crying. When his th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 06:38 AM |
| -3 | Q4M: Is there anything you like about women?Well, men don't like having expectations put upon themselves, either. But, here we are. It's part of the lists that women put together for us. I'm saying that in a sarcastic "what a world" kind of way, with a shrug - just so you get the intended tone correct. This reminds me of an anecdote. There was a guy several years back that worked for an organization like Consumer Reports (it might have actually been Consumer Reports, I forget) which focused on the car industry. He went undercover and got … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is there anything you like about women?If you are man who does not fit what I am talking about , then obviously my question is not directed to you. Is this some ploy to get everyone who replies to this post on a list of some sort? Just kidding. We like women. We love women that are nice and warm towards us. We hate women that are cold and suspicious towards us. Is it so hard to be nice and warm to us? Better question: Is it so hard to not be cold and suspicious towards us? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 05:59 AM |
| 6 | You cannot blame men (fully) for being very cynical about women these days.I would say, instead of bitter, more disappointed. Just plain disappointed in whole thing. Frustrated with all the precariously-stacked double-standards that make up a typical woman's psyche. You can meet all of their prerequisites, and that is no guarantee that they won't end up getting bored and picking fights with you anyway. Often I find myself having the energy and desire to go out and meet a new woman. But then, five minutes later, I think to myself, "Naw. It isn't worth it". Well, I guess… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Do men love women more than women love men or do men just follow and get pushed into these ideals?I would say that men are starved for validation. Women get plenty of it. The transition that the OP is talking about - when applied to men - seems to be the process of forcibly removing that psychological mechanism from our psyches altogether. I would equivalate it to how monks pursue nirvana by quite literally turning themselves into psychopaths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 06:11 PM |
| 14 | CMV: The Empathizing-Systemizing theory explains why women here are so dismissive of empirical research on sex, dating, and relationships.So, I think you have just scientifically proven why I am a member of MGTOW: S-brains have a huge flaw, because... Dating is a social interaction... Therefore, the implication is that dating is not logical and does not subscribe to any predictable patterns. Therefore, dating is random. My S-brain tells me that in random environments, I am just as likely to get interaction by standing still as I am by taking any action. (By the way, fun fact. The writer of that article happens to be the cousin of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Single mothers tend to not see a problem with using their children as a tool in dating.Yep. This more succinctly describes what I was getting at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 01:14 AM |
| 16 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?Yep. Boys watch Disney movies, too. If girls are supposed to be like the princess, then the boys are supposed to be like the prince. I would also add, judge people by their actions, not their words. Trust, but verify through observation. Making a decision and taking action based on what actions you observe is a good thing, and should be encouraged. And, if a woman is attracted to you, you'll almost never know it. And, if they do happen to make it known, it will catch you off guard, and it will p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?Girls poop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Can we talk about Responsive vs Spontaneous sexual desires, and how it affects long term relationships, and casual sex?The first ultimatum was to get a battery of sexually-transmitted diseases tests done. That I didn't mind. I knew that it wouldn't be a problem, and it was nice to get a sheet of paper verifying that I was indeed healthy - which I already knew. The second ultimatum that she gave me was that I wasn't allowed to touch her again until I got a COVID shot. I know that I'm on Reddit. Before people pile on me about this decision of mine, I would like to point out that Dr. Fauci, Dr. Birx, Pfizer, and ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about Responsive vs Spontaneous sexual desires, and how it affects long term relationships, and casual sex?It was pretty simple in my case. My most recent potential relationship was more than a year ago. Things were going great. She did divulge - not the details - that she had some sort of sexual trauma in the past. But, I deftly navigated through that mine field. Then, she just spontaneously gave me an ultimatum. The entire relationship collapsed immediately and completely. Pretty simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 06:09 PM |
| 5 | Can we talk about Responsive vs Spontaneous sexual desires, and how it affects long term relationships, and casual sex?Well, then the male "spontaneous" rises to 95%. Happy? I do admit, not combining the numbers shows a different story, though. It shows that overall women's views and drives towards intimacy are much more unpredictable. But, this also lends itself to the overall topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 06:04 PM |
| 4 | More examples of Purple Pill Debate going semi-mainstream.This is such primitive thinking. Relationships are a scam? I am a rock, I am an island? Both parties benefit from relationships. You stated this yourself. Unless, you don't see building a loving relationship as being a worthwhile endeavor, or that men are not worthy of having a rewarding relationship - or worthy enough of having a loving relationship with you specifically. I mean, the relationship is as binding to the man as it is to the woman. The flip side of your argument is that a man had to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:08 PM |
| 0 | The idea that women will hit the wall and will suddenly need men and give lower SMV guys a chance seems like a bluepill fantasy to meHere's the problem with that. Nothing happens in a vacuum. I have to admit that I think 30 is a bit young to be considered to have hit the wall for most women. Probably 40s is when it actually starts to happen. But, just to stay congruent, we'll use both 30s and 40s. Any women out of their 20s are competing with the 20 year-old women. Sure, women will still get attention from men into their 30s and 40s, and beyond, but what kind of men are available at that point? And, what's wrong with the woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 01:43 PM |
| 7 | The advice women give here should be prefaced with "for ugly or average men only".This. In trying to gather as much information as possible, I digest as much information from female content creators. I can tell you that, from creator to creator, the advice is different. "You have to approach a woman. They like that." "Don't approach a woman. They don't like that." "Be low-key on the first date. This will put her at ease." "Plan an elaborate date for the first date. She'll like the effort." I've come to the conclusion that each woman is speaking as if she is talking for all fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 04:42 AM |
| 2 | The advice women give here should be prefaced with "for ugly or average men only".Well, I mean, whatever the boyfriend's advice was, it's probably how he himself got her to be his girlfriend, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 04:37 AM |
| – | The battle lines are solidifying, and the battle flags are being drawn...at least from one side.Well, now add Arako to this. These videos are all less than 72 hours old. All cross the lines outside of their normal content and into other realms. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9CWOFlHmrrA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Hot Take: MGTOW promotes women’s safety more than feminism these days.Oh, I have no problem at all talking about it. I hope sharing this information helps other people. I'm not lonely. If I was truly lonely, yes, I would be going out more. I guess I just don't see the purpose to it. I have a very wide network of acquaintances that I can contact to do various activities when I feel like I need interaction. I also do altruistic stuff, like send a random acquaintance a letter or a package when I think they would appreciate it. It's my way of staying connected without… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV Its ridiculous to have a body count requirement but not an education level requirementWell, I'm also very intelligent - with the stats to back it up. But, I don't feel like having to prove it, and I didn't need to go to college to certify it. If you still have student loan debt and make less than $75K a year, you now have the option of forcing me to take on the responsibility of your bad decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 03:02 PM |
| 10 | CMV Its ridiculous to have a body count requirement but not an education level requirementNaw, this is one of those backwards science conclusions where correlation does not equal causation. First, education does not equal intelligence nor success, nor fidelity. For those offended by that statement, look at the current state of finances and education in the US. If higher-educated people are so intelligent and successful, why am I probably going to be forced to pay for part of their educational debt for them? If their degrees aren't valuable enough for them to pay off the debt themselv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 05:43 PM |
| 6 | Hot Take: MGTOW promotes women’s safety more than feminism these days.This. As a side note, one of the double-standards that MGTOW people point out is that the sex worker is hailed and lauded, but their customers are vilified. But, anyway, I'm MGTOW - because I stood still while the Overton Window moved past me. MGTOW is exactly that: Men Going Their Own Way. And, I agree with everything that you posted. I am divorced now. Have been for over two years. My wife left me at the very beginning of the pandemic. She had been hinting about it for years. I made deals with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Why is generalization treated as a bad thing, when it's the most efficient way to approach the problem of dating?change your behaviour in an uncomfortable way Like in the backseat of a Volkswagen? I digress. Then we should play their game. From now on, the stereotypical woman here is attracted to short, fat, bald, sensitive, and emotional men, and we should start formatting all of our threads in that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 06:37 AM |
| 4 | Male cognitive dissonance has not taken over this subThe tall, handsome, rich dude is also probably a better bf So, Ted Bundy. Ted Bundy would probably be a better boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 12:55 AM |
| 6 | Male cognitive dissonance has not taken over this subWhy does having a relationship automatically mean excluding sex for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 12:51 AM |
| 9 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?It's because most men are experiencing nasty and unfriendly women. There's no psych-trick here. You are right, no one wants to be with a mean person, but men are encountering a lot of mean women out there. Thus, it has to be mentioned. Case in point, you got very offended at those few words - in the exact same way my meme described. How was I able to predict that? Why do the words "nice" and "pleasant" trigger you so much? Don't you want the same in a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 11:00 PM |
| – | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?WTF is "nice and pleasant?" Miss me with that. We're not servants. Not mean and unpleasant. But, you actually just demonstrated a meme that I created a while back. The post was removed, because it was a meme, but here it is: https://preview.redd.it/anwo10a1j5j91.png?width=640&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=71508b07c7eea3e382ee00d9a2d793e9a8ee0e1e | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 09:43 PM |
| – | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?Conflict #1 - "Choose better". Some of these requirements that some women have are ridiculous. There was an infamous TED Talk where it was a single woman in her 30s who listed out her list of requirements up on the stage for the audience. It was extensive and contradictory, to say the least. And, she denigrated men for not meeting her list of requirements, and for making her feel that she had to pair the list down. Some of the requirements were vague, too, like "successful". Can you specify furt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Men's lack of hygiene.1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Women of purple pill debate, what things do you agree with from the red pill perspective and what things do you not agree with?I'm going to bring up something that is tangentially related to what you are saying. Have you seen these TikToks that modern women are putting out? They are pretty much either the extreme of a bunch of women showcasing and bragging about their toxicity, or the other extreme of women asking, "where are all the good men at?" and lamenting decisions that they made in the past. I mean, if that WAS all that there was to women, you can see why men would wonder why to bother at all. That CERTAINLY is n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:00 AM |
| 7 | Women of purple pill debate, what things do you agree with from the red pill perspective and what things do you not agree with?Eh. Kinda sorta? There is a thought right now that an invisible thing that is negatively affecting society is the lack of "Third Places". You have the place where you live, and then the place where you work, and then the "Third Places" where you socialize. This used to be dance halls, bowling alleys, saloons, church, the town square, etc. Today we only have bars that might have a weak secondary purpose at best, and MeetUp. A comedian once pointed out in a routine that I saw where he said that pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?It's because I have been working on myself this whole time, and I can confidently say that I am a whole, stable, and productive person with interests and curiosity. I have room in my life for a partner. But, you are correct. This whole process is very tiring and very unnecessarily negative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 06:39 PM |
| 1 | To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense?shit No thank you. I'm not into scat kink. You should join us! Here is an invitation: https://www.guilded.gg/i/Ezr6oKmE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 07:22 PM |
| – | To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense?On top of that, there is a very damaging aspect to the dating realm that no one talks about. It's when a "10" guy takes advantage of a "5" woman, and then discards her. Even though she was discarded, the "5" woman thinks that since she had one "10" that that is what she deserves going forward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 02:34 PM |
| – | To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense?Oh, so many. But, I have a funny example that I witnessed. MXRPlays is a popular YouTube channel with two main people: Henry and Jeannie. They sometimes have guest commentators, and also have panels of commentators. On one such video with a panel of commentators, they were all female. So, it was Henry, and like six females. As soon as they started up the first video, one of the females forcefully tells Henry to pause the video, and she commands, "Okay, Henry. No dick jokes." But then, throughout… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 02:27 PM |
| – | To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense?I noticed the exact same thing about Courtney Ryan. We're seeing a live slow red-pilling in the wild with her right now. Just watch the last six months of her videos, and you'll see how the titles of her videos changed from something like "Why Height Does Matter To A Woman" to "When To Believe A Woman, And When Not To Believe A Woman". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 01:51 PM |
| 5 | Women hypocritically use shaming tactics to try and dictate what preferences men are "allowed" to have, while advocating for women being able to have whatever preferences they wantHeight is an immutable characteristic - just like the amount of melanin in your skin. Having a height preference is akin to racism. (Am I doing this right?) But, seriously, though. A woman having a height ultimatum, but then screaming about a man saying something like "I would like a woman to weigh less than me" is a huge red flag to avoid. I mean, dating apps require you to put in your exact height - to the inch (when your height can fluctuate up to a half inch through the course of a day - not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 01:08 PM |
| 6 | Women hypocritically use shaming tactics to try and dictate what preferences men are "allowed" to have, while advocating for women being able to have whatever preferences they wantWhich would be one of the shaming tactics that the OP mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 12:49 PM |
| 1 | A vocal minority is not enough to explain the explosion of the manosphere and other dating related content, things are truly different nowAgain, never heard of Ross Jeffries, and The Atlantic is an incredibly biased periodical. I'm seriously not the type of person to dismiss something based solely on the source, because I'm open to all information, but these sources are actually ridiculous. I don't think you know what Red Pill is. I think you think it means men taking advantage of women. It is not. Red Pill is against people like that - people like Andrew Tate - because they poison the water for us all. Red Pill is mostly about up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | A vocal minority is not enough to explain the explosion of the manosphere and other dating related content, things are truly different nowTwo guys on a show that no one ever heard of before, being mocked and ridiculed by a mob of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | A vocal minority is not enough to explain the explosion of the manosphere and other dating related content, things are truly different nowEh, I just watched that video. I don't think it's as strong evidence as you think it is in this argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 03:14 PM |
| -1 | Ned Fulmer cheated on his wife- Final nail in the coffin for the 'Pick Better' narrativeThose were absolutely never the goalposts, and maybe that's the problem. Women think that there are only two extremes, and that they must pick between them. Every upstanding man wants to be both the chad and the simp for the woman in their life, at the same time. But, seriously, if a man's career is a deciding point for a woman, then the Buzzfeed was a red flag. I hope that helps make it make sense to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 02:30 PM |
| 0 | A vocal minority is not enough to explain the explosion of the manosphere and other dating related content, things are truly different nowIf you are a heterosexual woman, then you are the type of woman that I am looking for. Just as long as you also don't see me as an object to take advantage of and manipulate. If you haven't already, you should probably drop out of dating - like I have - for the time being. With that kind of outlook that you have, one might even describe you as being "Red Pilled" - as you have seen the truth. But, overall, good for you. You are choosing to not participate in the ridiculousness - like the growing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 02:12 PM |
| – | A vocal minority is not enough to explain the explosion of the manosphere and other dating related content, things are truly different nowNormally, I definitely would agree with you on the confirmation-bias argument, except there are two problems with it. Online social communication - in at least the form of GUI messageboards - has been pretty solid for about twenty years now. YouTube itself is something like 15 years old by this point. The earliest I heard of this movement and can find any videos of quality and regularity on this subject dates to only about 2017-2018 (except for the niche outliers like Kevin Samuels). This moveme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.No. That's not what that word means at all. Unbelievable. It's mean to plain just be nice and pleasant. Jeez. Is that a problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Is there a problem with a woman being agreeable at all to any man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Women are not "settling". They are not even trying to be reasonable, or participate at all. That's the whole problem. Should men be agreeable to women? Then, should women be agreeable to men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.What you just posted is exactly opposite of what is going on in the real-world, so it is projection from a female, and there is data to prove it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.That's funny. Men are supposed to "accommodate" for a woman, but a woman is not supposed to "settle" for a man. What makes you think she is going to get any relationship above what she deserves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.I thought women thought confidence and strength were hawt and seggsy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof.Yep. You do not understand the Manosphere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Honest question for women about sexual interest.So, men are supposed to provide that safe and secure environment, and then work to actually have you find us to be sexually appealing, and hoping that you happen to be receptive to it at that time, then do most of the physical exertion during intercourse, and also make sure that you have an orgasm by the end of it - or you'll be angry. Can you let me know at what point you start to participate in the relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.So, what you are saying is that the average woman does not have these basic life skills. So, the "bare minimum" for a woman is actually below average for a human. I am saying this from the perspective of a man who has spent a lot of time in pleasant solitude working on himself and his interests and skills, and I meet all of those requisites that you listed above that average men apparently don't have - or at least you think. I've also been judged to be above average in physical attractiveness by… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.When you imagine your average American woman; do you see someone who's in good shape, knows how to cook good, has at least 2 areas of expertise, has good habits and hygiene, is intelligent, funny, considerate, passionate about things in her life and has either worked or is working to give her loved ones the best life she can? Probably not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof.Two things. You don't understand the Manosphere. It's people of the Manosphere who rail against this type of guy. They are enemies of ours - including Andrew Tate - because we know that it's these guys that poison the waters. When successful women have to do the same type of capitulation, the press publicly takes their side: Angelina Jolie Is ‘Bitterly Disappointed’ With Brad Pitt Getting Joint Custody: ‘She Will Never Forgive Him’ Adele’s Rumoured Divorce Settlement Is *Not* Equality at Work An… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Honest question for women about sexual interest.Matthew Hussey breaks it down pretty well. He does seminars for women who are struggling in the dating world. His original videos are hard to find. So, you'll usually find a reaction video to his content. But, they are all worth watching. Anyway, he states that out of the entire spectrum of men, the really shy 10 percent on the one extreme will never approach a woman. The other extreme 10 percent will approach a woman that they find attractive. Then, 1 percent within that ten percent will approa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.I have been rated a 5-6/10 and do not get many matches on dating apps or much attention in real life. I have been left for prettier but dumber women a handful of times and told that I am not good enough, despite working for a top company, being valedictorian at my university, etc. I would like to check out your profile. Always looking for anecdotal data. It's hard to judge ourselves. But, here is where you go wrong. The valedictorian and career? They are interesting details about you, but men do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withFirst off, it was a cheap throw-away one-liner. Don't put too much thought or emphasis into it. I could have just as easily have said, "I bet she got her taxes done early this year". Personal time-management skills aside, I think the "gatekeeper" logic that I said above (not mine, by the way) holds true, and is an important tool to use to understand the dynamic with human heterosexual relationships. Women who offer sex often to many men is equivalent to a man who offers relationships to many wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:55 AM |
| 1 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withWell, yeah. I kinda explained the pitfall of that in my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withIt's a shitty analogy because it's lengthy, and hard to get right when saying it, and there is no alliteration to help you along, and you'll probably have to repeat it for your audience. A better "lock and key analogy" is that women are the gatekeepers to sex. Men are the gatekeepers to relationships. This describes the hurt feelings each sex feels when denied either sex or a relationship. But, the logic behind the original analogy is that men have sex with who they can. Women have sex with who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Honest question for women about sexual interest.I'm hetero. So, uh no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 03:42 PM |
| 6 | Why is if considered offensive to ask women what they bring to the table?My last promising relationship, about a year ago, she actually asked me this, verbatim, on our, like, fifth date. I was prepared, so I immediately responded with, "safety, security, protection, respect, fun, adventure, exploration, communication, witty banter, and affection." When I turned the question on her, she simply responded, "Uh, ask me later." When I did ask her later, she did give an answer, but it was so vague that I don't even remember what it was now. But, I do remember my internal r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 09:15 PM |
| 4 | The average guy should not be frustrated at the selective nature of average Woman as he would act no differently if the tables where turned.Naw. The none of the data supports this claim. We've all seen the OKCupid data (if you haven't already, just search for "OKCupid data") where women find 80 percent of men below average in attractiveness. The women's version of the graph was heavily lopsided to one side. Unsupportable on its own. But the men's version of the same graph shows a bellcurve with a nice even distribution. A nice and almost perfect curve. When this happens in data analysis, you know that everything is right with the wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationI disagree. You first have to ask yourself why the "Women Posting Ls" is successful, but the "Men Posting Ls" is not. Both are humans posting Ls. Keep in mind that the women are posting this original content. Not someone else. Lack of men's Ls? Lack of men posting Ls? Lack of an audience for men posting Ls? The fact that men bond over poking at each other and call each other out all the time, so it's normal? Probably a little bit of all of the above. But, when you see posts like what are linked … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.Or, you know, we just don't want baggage. There's that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes are quite literally the easiest people to scam and don’t have much capacity for individual thoughtWE'VE HAD A BREAKTHROUGH! DOOT DOOT! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes are quite literally the easiest people to scam and don’t have much capacity for individual thoughtNope. Not at all. That kind of lifestyle sounds like a pain in the ass - including the women involved. Among other things, he's very shallow. I'd rather take a nap than spend that same amount of time in his life. Obviously, I can't speak for all Red Pill guys. I lean more towards the MGTOW side. The elusive animal that we are hunting is a relationship that is full of intellect, caring, affection, and intimacy - freely and willingly given from both parties. We want to be both the betabux and the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes are quite literally the easiest people to scam and don’t have much capacity for individual thoughtAndrew Tate is the enemy to Red Pill men. He's embraces and showcases the very toxicity that we know is poisoning the water. And, no, we don't want to be him, and, no, we don't want the kind of women that he attracts. Yes, Andrew Tate and the Feminists are fighting each other, but Red Pill men are fighting both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?That is ridiculous, and tragic for both women. I'm a reluctant member of MGTOW - mostly because I stood still, but the Overton Window moved past me - and I view men like that as the enemy. They make men look bad, which indirectly makes my live worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?Oh, these are complaints from rich women who have to pay alimony - just like how rich men do. I'm surprised you didn't post the one about Adele, and the breakdown she had over having to pay alimony. Or, the one where Angelina Jolie was extremely upset that Brad Pitt got HALF custody of their children! Blasphemy, I say! Blasphemy. (The first one about the pedophile rape is horrible. The divorce judge should definitely take into account the criminal charges.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Honest conversation about the main topics of this subreddit in real-time.The fact that you assume that I watched all four hours screams an unhinged woman who is in denial and who is projecting. Pop-psy goes both ways. Truth be told, I saw that segment in another reaction video, and took the time to search out the original content to make sure that it was properly framed in context, and to eliminate any biases, and I even queued it up for everyone. I know you didn't say "thank you", but, you're welcome regardless. (Personally, I think that show - despite the cleanness… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Honest conversation about the main topics of this subreddit in real-time.Eh? So the woman just automatically assumes, in a meta way, that if she has sex immediately with a guy who wants to have a relationship with her, then he'll just spontaneously no longer want to have a relationship with her? That's just plain not true. He would be ecstatic about it. He would think he found a unicorn. I still don't understand why a woman would purposely let all these other guys use and abuse her body, but then not let the one guy who would respect it have access to it. So, in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Honest conversation about the main topics of this subreddit in real-time.Eh? That's not what the analogy was getting at, at all. It was comparing giving something special to someone else, but not you, and how that would make you feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?Well, I mean, if we're going to speculate using stereotypes, then there's the Marrying Guy™ type who just wants to be married, and as soon as the other women in orbit around the couple find out about the divorce, they start swooping in, and casseroles start showing up on the guy's front stoop. But, really, what's the stat on men marrying the woman that they cheated on their wife with? The fact that women stay unmarried (which is what the absence of the other half of that data set suggests), then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?Women can, and do, all of these things, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 06:52 AM |
| 8 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?But they know at least three men who left their wives! AT LEAST THREE MEN! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?Well, I mean, if it took six years for the paperwork to be filed, then the woman also waited that long, too. I wonder why the sudden urgency after waiting six years, though. And when you say that it was the man who left, do you only mean that it was the woman who kept the same living arrangement? It was the man who was forced to move out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?I'm probably a rare example, because I happen to prefer to go through short painful experiences and get on with my life as quickly as possible, rather than go through long protracted ones, but I don't like complications. I was married twice. Divorced twice. In both cases, the woman just simply said that she changed her mind and decided that she no longer wanted to be married to me. It was up to me to get the legal process done in both cases. Luckily, I'm an upstanding enough of a guy that both d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Honest conversation about the main topics of this subreddit in real-time.What did you think about the part when the host brought up the analogy of a woman dating a guy, and all they do is hang out in their sweats together, eat pizza, and watch movies - only to find out that the previous girl that he dated he spoiled lavishly with trips and gifts? Should that kind of generosity be withheld by a man until he is more impressed by you, and finds you to be more valuable to him? If he turned off that generosity for long periods of time, you would be understanding and graci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 06:14 AM |
| 1 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?The math checks out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | your thoughts on the mgtow movement?I hate being that "ackshully" guy, but I do want to temper your definition a little bit. MGTOW is a large community of men who, as the name states, have gone their own way. But, there are many different reasons for a large group of men to individually make this decision. In some cases, yes, it is out of anger, despair, and destitution. However, for a lot of men (myself included), we weren't necessarily hurt by anyone in particular. I would say that, after experiencing the marketplace for a long … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?"There is no female Mozart because there is no female Jack the Ripper." Camille Paglia Just how women are given wide berth on certain topics that are particular to them, men should also be given wide berth on topics that are particular to how they function best. I tend to think that men's range of activity is wider than women's, but our acceptance of situations is lower. In general, and in tendencies. That is to say, you find pretty much the same amount of men at a higher frequency than women, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?This is a really good post. It's inspiring me to draft up my own entry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Manosphere icons like Patrice O’Neal and Andrew tate are highly overratedIt would be accurate to describe me as a prescriber of MGTOW, and I can tell you that Andrew Tate is not only a horrible human being, but he is an enemy of sigma males who just want to go their own way. The Andrew Tates and...I don't know...Lizzos of the world are fighting each other, but they are definitely both the enemy of everyone else on our side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:09 AM |
| 1 | The only type of people who care about “body count” are those who never would have the opportunity to raise their own.The only type of people who care about “body count” are those who never would have the opportunity to raise their own. *want FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 09:17 PM |
| 4 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?But are men entitled to anything, anything at all, from women? Attention. Pleasant demeanor. Respect. Eye contact. Conversation. Think about what you expect from a man. Would it be okay, in your opinion, for a man to expect the same things from a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 06:31 PM |
| 0 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Yes, you may not realize it, but your questions get to the core of the issue. The main issue is, why are these questions even valid questions right now? And, I hate to put it this way, but I have looked at this from every angle, from outside of my body, from a macro view, from experiences over the long-term, and talking to both men and women. The main conclusion I came to is that there tends to be nothing wrong with your normal, well-adjusted and mentally healthy male who is looking for a wholes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?I even think that is why women often want to change a man. When they are dating a guy, they want to be associated with a high-adventure and desirable guy. And, they want to lock him down with marriage so that no other women get him. But, once they are married to that guy, and that guy reflects upon their own social status, suddenly they want the guy to clean up and succeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 02:07 PM |
| 1 | If women were less “picky” do you think you’d be in a LTR?Yes. Yes. My most recent best chance - a year ago - she sent me through a CBI interview type of wringer over several dates. I proved with actions, experiences, and evidence how I met all of her standards. She still abruptly stopped the relationship. No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | AA/BB is a MisunderstandingWe feel forced to participate in these threads because they keep coming up. The answers are almost always the same. Why are you not listening to us? Why are you being so combative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | AA/BB is a MisunderstandingWe're not unhappy. We are refusing to participate while these shenanigans are happening. We're pointing all of this out. No one is listening. Instead, we get fever-dream pop-spy copium threads like this...regularly. We're just saying "no", but, apparently, it pisses a lot of people off when men just plain choose to not participate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | AA/BB is a MisunderstandingWhere did you get THAT information? Completely wrong. You need to stay off FDS, and watch some videos that cover this topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | AA/BB is a MisunderstandingSo, with all the millions of data points out there, the rate of filing for divorce should be 50/50. But, it's not. Not even close, at 80/20. Bounce this against the other 80/20 rule, about women constantly practicing hypergamy, and we have data sets that match. Women desperately want out of a marriage with a Beta in order to get an Alpha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 06:35 PM |
| 4 | AA/BB is a MisunderstandingYou're typing out this thread like it's a fever dream of yours. And yet, this is all supposed to be about two people sharing their lives together in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | AA/BB is a MisunderstandingBecause men are done. We'd rather just plain have honest fun with other guys, instead of dealing with the absolutely trifling mess that threads like this describe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | AA/BB is a MisunderstandingOr, like in my case, the woman just changes her mind about wanting to be married to me, says she wants a divorce, and it's up to me to get it done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | AA/BB is a MisunderstandingAnd women file for divorce 80 percent of the time. So, is that evidence of love and happiness, and is it a case of their expectations getting unrealistic again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornSo, then, the main thing hurting men's ability to get women is women not reciprocating - not porn. I'll counter with my own anecdote. The reason you are seeing all sorts of men hanging out together outside - without women - is because we're just plain done with women. So, we have become accustomed to hanging out only with other men, and we no longer are chasing after women. It's not worth it. We'd rather have a stress-free fun time. I can tell you that this is true with me. I just don't have the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornNaw. When women shut men down before any interaction at all, it doesn't even get anywhere near intimacy. Also, I rarely consume porn, and I'm very interested in women, so count me as a data point against your argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL straight men and women who are single. Why are you not dating your attractive single friend of the opposite sex?She turned me down when I asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...The title of the thread: "...when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure..." And then you: "...WaHmEn oNLy WaNt ChAaAd!!11!..." Heh. And then you again: "...not every chick..." Yeah, not every chick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | What happens when people "give up"?I don't want to do what it takes to win the game. I'm definitely with you on this. Stoicism is an art worth pursuing, and a worthy and rewarding life to live. I think you are a sigma male. I, too, have given up, and pursued new interests. I still have profiles out there, just sitting there, like monuments, in case some nice girl happens to trip over one someday. Like everyone else, during the pandemic, I got into bread-making. But then I kept going with it. Researching yeast, doing fermentations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 02:21 AM |
| 17 | Would gender roles and dating dynamics be different if men didn’t prioritize sex so much? (ie: “think with their dicks”). If so, how? (tagged NSFW just in case)...making things easier for 1/5th of the men there. FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor men only? Or for both women and men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, I've received very little interest from women. And, I've been both active and passive in this regard. So, I haven't really been dating. Of the little interest that I have been getting, I would say that they are around the "4" range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEh. I've seen women say, "big dick energy". They see something that they feel the need to get involved with. They turn their baseball hat backwards, literally pull up their shorts, and say it in the same vein as, "hold my beer", as they charge in. Quite attractive, actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNaw, I disagree. I think that would only encourage her to continue to act like that. It's a thought pattern that she's established, and she has learned that she gets a response from it - positive or negative. A response is a response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI actually have no idea how attractive I am. 46-year-old hetero man here. Because of the 80/20 machinations, I just realized that I actually have no idea how attractive I am to others. Obviously, I'm less than "8". But I've been told that I'm handsome. I think I'm about a "6". But I would like some feedback from anyone here who is interested in giving it. I honestly don't know what the range is that I fall into, and I'd like to find out. This would immensely help me. If you DM me, I'll send you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:01 PM |
| 8 | How many sexual partners have you had within the past 5 years?Ma-na-ga-mish Do do, do do do Ma-na-ga-mish Do do do do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 02:58 AM |
| 9 | The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women.Well, here is a recent interview with those said women which has seen some virality. I would suggest that you watch it, and listen to what these girls say. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ubTTYS19Xvk tl;dr: "I want a nice guy to have a relationship with, but nice guys aren't attractive. Chads are attractive, so I let Chads come over and have sex with me." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Is There A Big Enough Time Gap To Excuse a “hoe phase”"You can Google it." Hilarious. I need Google to understand human intimacy and how I feel about it. Reminds me of the time, years ago on a phpBB, where a young woman in college was lecturing me on what human sexuality was, and what was supposed to make people aroused - based on what her professor was telling her. Men and women, who are not psychopaths, are both emotionally invested in intimacy. If you are collecting data, put me down as a data point towards that regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Is There A Big Enough Time Gap To Excuse a “hoe phase”I disagree wholeheartedly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Modern day women have absolutely zero accountability whatsoever"Why is it okay for a woman to blame her behavior on her hormones, but it's not okay for a man to blame his behavior on his hormones?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 01:18 AM |
| 1 | The '1 in 17 Men Reproduced' Thing May Be MisleadingYeah, ever since I heard the "DNA proves that only 5 percent of men reproduce", I knew it was data that was not being interpreted correctly. The correct way of stating it would be "5 percent of men's DNA has been continuously passed down through the ages". A lot of men reproduce all the time. It's just that only 5 percent of lineages have survived over the millennia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for herOh, boy. Okay. Where to start? Well, to start broadly, your argument is thin, because it relies on a lot of extremes and false realities. You want to know what percentage of guys have this mentality of being a player and desiring a virgin? It resides within that top 20 percent of guys that 80 percent of women are chasing. It's a very small percentage of that percentage. Here, I'll let Matthew Hussey explain: https://youtu.be/3g9HVJubTmw?t=35 (Incidentally, if you want to see a surprising exchang… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 04:31 AM |
| 2 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?People like Andrew Tate tend to end up getting humiliated and deflated, and the women on TikTok have to deal with public opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 04:52 PM |
| 2 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?For some reason, people get so angry when men choose to do their own thing - rather than deal with all of this trifling mess. But, there were a lot of women who were alone when no men showed up to this singles mixer. Not one man. Only women. Where were all those Alpha Chads when the pickings were so easy and ripe? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGb97dckDkM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 03:17 AM |
| 1 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?In the short-term? Not good. Right now, it's as if there is a war of attrition going on. There are, and will be, many casualties. And, it is best if us Normies just stay out of it for now - until things calm down and normalize to some new normal. Just so you know where the battle lines are, it's the bottom 80 percent of men who are fighting both the top 80 percent of women and top 20 percent of men. Andrew Tate, as well as all of those women on TikTok, are the enemy to the 80 percent of men. Thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Does it really boil down to looks as far as what makes a woman a potential partner vs a best friend?Somewhere in this following dichotomy is the answer to your question: Looks are important, but the bar is low. As long as you are at least a "4", you will be found attractive by most guys. Just how certain behaviors that men do women do not find attractive because the behaviors do not display confidence, women who wear a lot of makeup and accessories are also seen as not having confidence - like they are trying to hide something, or change themselves because they don't like themselves. Basic fou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Dating After 30 - The Dating Flip - Does It Exist?It's highly situational. Of all the possible scenarios, this is route is definitely one of them. But, I definitely do not think it's a majority. Maybe a plurality, at best. You will always have the guy who just plain gave up by the time he hits 40. You will always have the delusional woman who is still trying to buy her way into a relationship with a man, with her body, into her 40s. You will always have the man that goes for the mousy woman who is shy, but looks young at any age. You will alway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Does Red Pill ideology help you in dating?Not yet, but I think I'm past my prime, and it probably won't happen at this point. This seems to be a younger generation thing. I'm content to be alone now - and the Red Pill thinking has helped in that regard with my mental health. I think I'm okay with just relegating myself to a role of being someone who is in a position to maybe pass along advice and my experiences to others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Most men have low or zero standards?Yes, you are correct in all of those assertions. This has been proven with data, and with mountains of anecdotal evidence. Another angle to look at it from is this: Women engage with men that they want. Men engage with women that they can. Yes, desperate men will underprice themselves. Picky women will overprice themselves. This is why men with large body counts are celebrated, but women with large body counts are not. The man is seen as having accomplished something because he has been desired … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Most men have low or zero standards?Well, the OP kind of went off the rails, so let me fork this back in a reasonable direction. What OP was saying is true. Men have an instinct to take care of women, and women have an instinct to take care of children. That's a generalization. There are certainly gray areas. You think men just want bangmaids? Sheesh. It doesn't sound like you bring much to a relationship, besides anger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEveryone, on both sides, who is involved with that is more than welcome to continue with that, without me, and very far away. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean, I can honestly say that I like both physical traits equally. But, what really gets me turned on is the neck and waist. Hmmmm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:33 AM |
| 0 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?Uhm, yeah. The same also goes for females, too. Unless you want to be part of Chad's rotation, become part of a harem, or continually get ghosted, maybe try dating in your own lane. It would be better for all involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Attractive men are really rareI don't know if this post is a troll or not, but your anecdote pretty much exactly describes what is happening in the dating world right now, down to the exact numbers - and backed up by data. Both OkCupid and Match have released well-known and infamous spreadsheets and graphs about this subject, which each consist of hundreds of millions of anonymous points of data. I highly encourage you to just simply search for "okcupid data". It will take you right there. But, one of the main conclusions wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 03:49 PM |
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