Passport Bros. Discuss.

nemma88 · 2022-11-17T23:18:32+00:00

If you can't compete as equals, giving yourself an advantage is smart.

Teflon08191 · 2022-11-17T18:35:29+00:00

If a guy is going to go abroad to find a wife, then it would be defeating the purpose if he brought her back. She'll assimilate and be acting like an American woman before he knows it and he'll be right back at square 1.

Laytheblameonluck · 2022-11-18T11:55:07+00:00

I think men getting passports and travelling is the best thing they can do in life.

CosmicBioHazard · 2022-11-18T01:26:09+00:00

As a former passport bro?

Foreign women marry white men because they think we’re more “liberal” than what they can get at home. They still want you to be a breadwinner, of course, but they don’t want to be doing all the housewife stuff. ‘In white countries, the husband does all that, too! Teehee.’

You will end up marrying a psychopath. Either that ends badly or you luck out and she’s the good kind of crazy.

Yeah, you’re more attractive there than here, but that’s only if you’re attractive. The advantage? Here you’re scared to approach women because they might react poorly and get you in trouble. There? Men approaching women is normal. Women approaching men is normal. You won’t be crucified and you might even get approached. Ideal environment for an exotic foreigner to get casual sex… with crazies, but casual sex nonetheless.

Angelio72 · 2022-11-18T08:12:47+00:00

With work from home I think more and more and me will go to Asia and try and work from there. Iknow a ton of swedish men who studied programming who hade this idea .

I think this will be more and more popular with men yes. We have already seen this for a while but with older men in my country , the feminist used to hate this thing , but what is now they are starting to do the same with african men.

Dr_Fujimora · 2022-11-17T17:42:11+00:00

"Creepy sex vacation" as if women don't smash randoms while on holiday in another country.

Iluvalmonds83 · 2022-11-18T13:09:03+00:00

Eh, if you find someone you connect with well in another country, all the more power and blessings to you, man or woman. I never get women who complain about “passport bros”; even if it’s a mail order bride situation as long as all parties are consenting and legal age, not my or anyone else’s place to voice unwarranted judgement or opinions about it.

Loadeddice84 · 2022-11-25T19:25:00+00:00

Men that can afford it are starting to find love in other countries because western woman have lost thier minds. Aside from that.. they look better, they are Excellent cooks, they want children and those children will be the man's they are with not Chad the pool boys. Gig is up. Dudes are done in the west. Men still like traditional woman. Woman are the only 1s that seem to think men like boss chicks, Strong independent and single moms. Generally you stay in thier country. Moment you bring them back to the U.S. Western woman will curropt them.

CanOfWoody · 2022-11-18T04:37:59+00:00

Im a "passport bro" currently living in the phillipines from america. Planning to live here another 5 months before I keep moving around asia.

I wouldnt bring a woman home, and I dont think ill get married.

But to date casually its amazing. I could go on a date every day and smash a handful of girls a week, with girls that would definitely be out of my league in america.

I just smashed 11 girls in my first month

First day here I knew it would be good cuz I got 150 likes on tinder in one day.

In the west I get maybe 5 a week, from low quality girls.

social_mule · 2022-11-17T22:43:12+00:00

I'm an avid traveler and have been since I first traveled outside the US back in the late 80s when I took a trip to Canada. I believe it was the summer betwixt my freshman and sophomore years in high school. My first actual overseas trip was in the early 90s when I was stationed in Korea. In total I've probably traveled to over thirty countries.

I do enjoy seeing the landmarks, landscapes and nightlife but I'd be lying if I said I didn't also enjoy fucking women from all over the world. So I guess I was a Passport Bro^TM before the phrase was coined.

I've met a lot of American men on my travels as well. Some are sex tourists but a lot of them are expats who just decided to leave the US and reside permanently in another country...oftentimes with a wife from that same country. There's a common theme to all their stories and you wanna know what it is?

Foreign women aren't just easier to look at they're also easier to live with than American women.

I've even heard stories of grown ass men literally crying at Galeao Airport in Rio de Janiero when they have to board the plane leaving Brazil and returning to the United States. That's how vast the difference is in the quality of women.

Right now, as we speak, there's a 50-something retiree who has relocated to Costa Rica and he's sitting on the beach with his toes in the Atlantic Ocean next to a beautiful Tica senorita. I guarantee you he's not losing one wink of sleep worried about some American beluga whale calling him a loser on an anonymous internet forum. He's living his absolute best life and I say kudos to him.

Repulsive-Cupcake505 · 2022-11-17T18:24:52+00:00

I think many people on this sub aren’t well traveled or think primarily with a western mindset .

Asian cultures tend to value status , wealth , intelligence , more so than the USA . European looking physical features are more prized in Asia than they are in the USA. This is why the concept of mixed babies is though of as cute .

Personally learning Chinese has been the single best thing for my dating life. In the Bay Area it opens the pool to so many women , in addition to spending time in Singapore and China before my current girlfriend.

Dagenius1 · 2022-11-18T02:43:54+00:00

This is not new, correct. I’ve seen this up close a few times and if that is your specific goal and you plan it, it seems to work out well.

Never seen it in Asia but I know a few dudes who imported brasilian and Columbian brides and seems like everything turned out well.

Yes American citizenship was a factor. Seems like it was citizenship and babies as the most important things to agree on.

NigroqueSimillima · 2022-11-18T00:18:46+00:00

American women are some of the least attractive in the world due to their high obesity rate. The narcissism in modern American/Anglo culture makes dating them even worse. And the wealth in this country means you'll have a ton of impressive guys to compete with.

That being said, America's a big country and there's many many quality women to be found here, but for an American man he could almost certainly get someone way better if he left, even to another wealthier country in Western Europe or Asian.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2022-11-17T17:56:40+00:00

What's there to discuss? Chumps that can't make it here think they'll have a shot elsewhere, and they probably will, for a price.

Beta bucks is so so so terrible, unless its buxing for a foreign single mother that financially dominates, verbally abuses, and sexually withholds from him.

She doesn't speak much English, hates you, and sends all your money to her family, but at least she's thin and docile! 🙄

Mobrowncheeks · 2022-11-17T17:37:02+00:00

I think one of the craziest things the manosphere has come up with is using money to leverage conservative relationships with foreign impoverished women, while there are already poor women in America that you can use your stability to leverage on.

Gari_305 · 2022-11-17T18:04:07+00:00

There seems to be some debate on whether the guy would bring the girl back to the US or not, but I don't see why they wouldn't.

Simple because she'll most likely divorce him, once they come back to the states.

Otherwise, you are just on one of those creepy sex vacations.

Both men and women engage in sex tourism since at least the 70's

we have an immigration problem right now in the US, does this complicate matters at all?

This has gone on for a long time at least here in South Florida, in which men with money uses it for leverage for sex and relationships, it's been a thing in latin communities down here now the thesis has spread to the anglos in the rest of the States.

It's nothing new honestly, let people have sex as long no one gets hurt.

jkj1993 · 2022-11-17T17:33:36+00:00

It's just insane to me that suggesting men should travel to the other end of the Earth to find relationships is now more realistic than asking women to lower their standards.

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-11-17T19:01:55+00:00

There seems to be some debate on whether the guy would bring the girl back to the US or not, but I don't see why they wouldn't.

I mean if the desire was to get away from Western women, why would he bring her back? More than likely all that would happen is let's say she just becomes assimilated to American Life and then he's right back where he started

mrgoodbarxxx · 2022-11-17T21:15:24+00:00

I don’t see the problem with it. I mean, you should find love wherever you can. Would this be an issue if women said they only want a six foot foreigner? I doubt it.

So why would it be different for men? Find love and be happy. That would be my advice for men and women.

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2022-11-17T23:14:59+00:00

Everyone should go where they're celebrated , not tolerated. You'd be a fool to stay in the same place where you're getting terrible results. It's really just commonly sense.

rurunoa · 2022-11-18T02:46:05+00:00

do u think western women care about the men that have to go to such lengths to find a partner 😂

localmicrodosechamp · 2022-11-17T18:24:01+00:00

So betabux for foreign woman is that the RP teaches 😂😂😂😂😂

Edit: Lol got banned perma from here but don’t give a fuck

IntegrityDJones · 2022-11-17T21:46:53+00:00

Don’t care what you do. Just stop telling the women who don’t want you. We do not care. Stop announcing you’re going to another party when you were invited to the one you’re trying to threaten in the first place.

Needing a woman to be financially impoverished so you can have a sex slave, bangmaid, punching bag isn’t a flex. It’s you trying mental gymnastics to avoid admitting the truth. You’re more than likely so repulsive inside and out you need to pay a woman to come near you. Which is fine. But this “I’m going to take my sexually rejected and unattractive ass to a poor woman who needs me” is not a flex. It’s alarming anyone would think announcing you’re so revolting people need money to be around you is something impressive.

2022-11-17T19:20:16+00:00

Yeah I guess the women are cheaper, they probably won't respect you but sounds like you're already having that problem in America anyways too

ThanosSnapsSlimJims · 2022-11-18T01:43:23+00:00

Speaking of passport bros:

I wish there was a way to get something to the top without getting karma from it.

There are Youtubers:

FatandBroke LaoWhy86 SerpentZa

They were passport bros. One is basically a rapist, one is a con, and one dug up bones in an asian country and forced his wife to watch. When she looked away, he screamed at her.

iamatwork24 · 2022-11-18T13:48:58+00:00

I love how going on vacation to have sex with foreigners is creepy to you but that going there to get a wife not with love but with money and promises of America isn’t creepy to you.

TricksterOfFate · 2022-12-28T14:06:05+00:00

Passport bros is more about moving to the foreign country and live with your partner there while having businesses in the west that bring money from the west.

localmicrodosechamp · 2022-11-17T20:21:55+00:00

sex tourism is really gross and predatory. it makes me not want to be around men ever in any context.

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-11-17T18:44:53+00:00

Everyone focusing on 3rd world countries when the majority of the time it’s other western countries.

I went to Amsterdam before COVID and was pulling like crazy even through OLD. I noticed the same with my friends.

Barneysparky · 2022-11-17T18:02:51+00:00

You mean sexpat. Giving it a new name isn't the rebranding you think it is.

BrummieAMN19 · 2022-11-18T01:19:50+00:00

Lol it’s far easier and cheaper maxing out your looks and game in your own nation than throwing the towel in and fucking off to third world nations.

Personally men should max it out in the west then move to somewhere else where their nationality, ethnicity and race is more desired (if they want to )once they learn everything they need to know.

StupidWhiteBoi · 2022-11-17T18:38:53+00:00

_ don't have passports on average, and it's mainly __yT men who have passports and go to Ukraine, Poland, Thailand, the Phillipines, etc

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2022-11-18T00:45:54+00:00

I admit 90 day fiance is trashy but entertaining.

Mostly because the people who go to the foreign countries are such complete trainwreck freaks.

Tomridddle · 2022-11-18T03:11:19+00:00

It's not only creepy and predatory, but also pathetic. Imagine being forced to relocate to a developing country in order to find a partner. I'd much rather be single than do that. My ego couldn't deal with the reality of being so undesirable.You have to live with the fact that no single woman in your country thought you were attractive or worthy enough to date.

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2022-11-18T09:21:44+00:00

I've been living abroad for 1/3rd of my life, in the US I was very popular with women, to an outrageous extent, women buying me gifts, chasing me, but I had to go abroad for work (in short I suspect I never really learned the skills to fit into "society," as a result of my popularity.

Abroad, I was more or less invisible, women for the most part will only go for a foreigner out of total desperation, it's not love. And I respect that. I'm not that desperate.

People underrate American women. You get honesty from them, the problem is that the honesty of American women means that they simply aren't attracted to most American men. That's where the problem lies. If you're sexy to American women, basically they're the best in the world, there's no where else that you can essentially live off of a woman and it's socially acceptable.

Basically, there's love, then there's not love, a woman can't ever really love a man unless it's truly not based on "providing" or seeking something (like citizenship). Don't ask me how I know this.

Revolutionary-Low728 · 2023-01-06T20:28:14+00:00

How do these guys even sustain this type of lifestyle? If you go overseas to find a wife, how do you stay there long enough to find someone worth having a family with?

CharzardKing · 2023-01-08T02:15:55+00:00

Im from the US and I will share my experience. I’m pretty fit and workout often. I make far above average income. I don’t have kids. Im pretty blessed in the sexual arena as well. I’m very educated and have gone to relationship therapy to work on myself. I would consider my face at least a 7 in attractiveness.

I still struggle to get women I’m interested in. If a girl meets my standard for physical appearance, there is a like 75% chance she already has kids with another dude. So right off the bat my options are extremely limited, because I’m not going to be a step-dad when I don’t even have my own children.

The other 25% of women who meet my standards for physical appearance and don’t have kids are either 1) educated college grads who won’t look my way because I don’t have a degree or 2) are holding onto hope that they will land an ultra-millionaire with their looks. Which is fine, whatever, that’s their prerogative, even if I find it incredibly unrealistic and damaging to society. The manosphere refers to this phenomenon as “female hypergamy.”

So I decided to commit to learning and Spanish and dating in Mexico. I was opened up to a world where I’m practically fetishized and worshipped just for being an attractive American. And then when they discover everything else that comes with the package, they get obsessed with me and throw themselves at me, even let me have open relationships and do any sexual thing I want, even though I’m a little shy and haven’t experimented much in the US. And these aren’t poor women, either, these are college educated Mexican women, lawyers, psychologists, business women.

So put yourself in my shoes. Why would I even think about women in the US who typically dismiss me as average even though I am high value? As a 7 without kids or debt who is emotionally intelligent, I deserve at least a 7 without kids or debt who is emotionally intelligent. But that is unattainable unless I scour every corner of every city in the US. I’m 30 now, and I want kids. Im not waiting another 5-10 years.

Its statistically proven that women in the US who have committed to feminist ideology are also extremely reluctant to give up their traditional expectations that benefit them, like men initiating all contact, men paying for all dates, men must always remain sexually faithful.

If you were me wouldn’t you go where people treat you like you’re worth something? I don’t care what any feminists or misandrists think of my decision to date Mexican women. To me they will just be miserable with only their unrealistic standards to keep them warm at night, and my wife and I will have everything we want out of life.

calfshrug · 2022-11-17T19:47:55+00:00

All of this spectrum of geosexographic creepery is dictated by either looks or threat of violence and trauma.

Sex tourism to lenient nations reg. A.O.C. for pursuit of sexual anachronism / pederasty / breaching of consent — inherent levying of psychological trauma and/or violence.

Sex importation of a monolingual, diminutive adult with minimal skills or status — potential for levying harm via Stockholm tactics

Looks can be conflated in this because the extent to which a partner is willing to be dependent on another can depend on perceived safety and looks alike.

Title	Passport Bros. Discuss.
Author	No_Reflection_798
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Date	November 17, 2022 5:19 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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