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Inner Game Ploikblah/r/seduction30/10/21 12:39 PM
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Fundamentals Ploikblah/r/seduction06/09/22 09:44 AM
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Outer Game Ploikblah/r/seduction05/10/21 11:05 AM
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Fundamentals Ploikblah/r/seduction03/08/22 02:35 PM
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ConversationPloikblah/r/seduction27/09/22 12:13 PM
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Fundamentals Ploikblah/r/seduction24/09/22 11:24 AM
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ConversationPloikblah/r/seduction23/02/22 12:55 PM
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ConversationPloikblah/r/seduction23/09/21 12:06 PM
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Outer Game Ploikblah/r/seduction11/05/22 10:48 AM
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Ploikblah/r/seduction04/10/19 10:32 AM
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Fundamentals Ploikblah/r/seduction13/03/24 08:36 PM
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Fundamentals Ploikblah/r/seduction23/09/22 07:26 AM
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LifestylePloikblah/r/seduction06/08/20 01:39 PM
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ConversationPloikblah/r/seduction13/10/22 01:09 PM
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ConversationPloikblah/r/seduction09/10/20 06:00 PM
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ConversationPloikblah/r/seduction21/12/21 02:42 PM
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Ploikblah/r/seduction12/09/19 09:50 AM
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ConversationPloikblah/r/seduction14/11/20 01:14 PM
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ConversationPloikblah/r/seduction26/09/22 09:58 AM
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ConversationPloikblah/r/seduction03/03/22 09:16 AM
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Fundamentals Ploikblah/r/seduction05/09/22 11:39 AM
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LifestylePloikblah/r/seduction08/08/20 02:55 PM
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Inner Game Ploikblah/r/seduction10/05/22 11:16 AM
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ConversationPloikblah/r/seduction04/06/20 11:55 AM
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Ploikblah/r/seduction17/08/19 01:48 PM
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LogisticsPloikblah/r/seduction20/03/20 02:03 PM
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Ploikblah/r/seduction18/07/19 08:15 AM
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LifestylePloikblah/r/seduction04/08/20 12:58 PM
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Ploikblah/r/seduction08/11/19 09:18 AM
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ConversationPloikblah/r/seduction16/10/20 11:42 AM
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Ploikblah/r/seduction10/01/20 12:39 PM
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Ploikblah/r/seduction03/02/20 11:43 AM
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LifestylePloikblah/r/seduction09/09/20 04:36 PM
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FundamentalsPloikblah/r/seduction13/05/22 01:46 PM
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ConversationPloikblah/r/seduction02/03/22 01:41 PM
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Fundamentals Ploikblah/r/seduction25/09/22 09:40 AM
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ConversationPloikblah/r/seduction03/11/20 02:11 PM
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FundamentalsPloikblah/r/seduction16/04/20 11:27 AM
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Ploikblah/r/seduction01/02/20 12:51 PM
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ConversationPloikblah/r/seduction01/11/20 09:55 AM
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Ploikblah/r/seduction19/09/19 11:00 AM
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Ploikblah/r/seduction15/11/19 12:21 PM
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Inner Game Ploikblah/r/seduction20/09/21 07:07 PM
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LifestylePloikblah/r/seduction25/11/20 02:13 PM
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LogisticsPloikblah/r/seduction17/12/20 03:10 PM
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Outer Game Ploikblah/r/seduction19/09/20 07:51 PM
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ConversationPloikblah/r/seduction17/03/22 02:22 PM
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Outer Game Ploikblah/r/seduction03/03/20 11:53 PM
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Eh I don't want my first time to be with a prostitute
/r/seduction17/03/24 11:34 AM
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I'm gonna need a better co pilot cause I ain't got a clue why this ship is stuck at the harbor
/r/seduction16/03/24 06:35 PM
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I agree with you, I tend to have better interactions with this mindset
/r/seduction16/03/24 06:34 PM
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I think OP was talking about guys who manage to get dates and are trying to get 2nd dates. This post isn't for guys like us.
/r/seduction16/03/24 05:05 PM
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Being a 28 year old virgin isn't fun
/r/seduction16/03/24 04:43 PM
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5 7
/r/seduction14/03/24 03:02 PM
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I work out daily lol, I have a six pack
/r/seduction14/03/24 01:26 PM
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Any tips on how to develop these?
/r/seduction13/03/24 10:28 PM
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Can you do this alone?
/r/seduction13/03/24 10:27 PM
-2

Being happy I'm alive has never gotten me a date
/r/seduction01/11/22 09:58 PM
-2

I think looks, height and status are far more important than being grateful lmao.
/r/seduction01/11/22 09:51 PM
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Why the fuck would women find me more attractive because I'm happy I have food and shelter?
/r/seduction01/11/22 09:00 PM
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But I thought women weren't attracted to looks?
/r/seduction01/11/22 06:13 PM
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How come loads of guys don't get matches on dating apps then?
/r/seduction01/11/22 05:58 PM
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My problem is kinda similar in that I can't get a girlfriend, but I also can't get laid.
/r/seduction19/10/22 01:59 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/confession/comments/3n7zqs/as_of_today_i_have_been_rejected_1000_times/ How do you guys explain stuff like this?
/r/seduction15/10/22 06:34 PM
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UK
/r/seduction14/10/22 07:12 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/confession/comments/3n7zqs/as_of_today_i_have_been_rejected_1000_times/ I'm not the only one in this boat
/r/seduction14/10/22 07:10 PM
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Yes been trying to date for 11 years now
/r/seduction14/10/22 06:57 PM
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Don't get dates either
/r/seduction14/10/22 01:09 PM
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Yeah some of us never recieve these signs, it's a tough game
/r/seduction14/10/22 01:08 PM
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Eh I go to the gym daily and am still a 27 year old virgin, it's not really the holy grail of advice people make it seem to be
/r/seduction14/10/22 10:19 AM
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What are choosing signals?
/r/seduction14/10/22 10:18 AM
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That ain't good
/r/seduction13/10/22 06:09 PM
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What
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:56 PM
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Yeah bro I tried back in college, and at work
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:44 PM
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Fuck, I best stop working out then
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:43 PM
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Oh yeah I go out every Friday
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:43 PM
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Yeah I don't know how that happens, I can barely get a woman to reply to me
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:42 PM
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Haha it definitely didn't work in college either.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:41 PM
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Haha chess club is full of guys, no women there.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:39 PM
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Where do you meet women for friendships?
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:39 PM
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What steps did you take to improve yourself?
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:38 PM
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I mean if could fuck a girl like that, I wouldn't be here, I'd be fucking her
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:38 PM
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Do women only care about money? What do they offer?
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:33 PM
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How can I work on my social skills with women then?
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:33 PM
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Sorry?
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:31 PM
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I mean general sexual prime
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:31 PM
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Yes but getting a date is infinitely easier for women so I guess it balances out?
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:30 PM
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May I ask, why is it that women can smell desperation but not when a man is abusive?
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:30 PM
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Yeah been trying for over a decade now
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:28 PM
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Yeah then I'm not interested in women. Thanks for the elucidation bro, imma just stick to porn.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:27 PM
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I'll pass, thanks for the suggestion nontheless
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:27 PM
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Nah when I talk to women I show my kindness and light heartedness haha
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:25 PM
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Yeah I'm looking for women around the 3/10 range
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:24 PM
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Well my hobbies include working out, playing chess and football. I guess two of them are on show because I'm fit?
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:23 PM
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No, it's more than the lack of sex. It's the lack of women, period.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:23 PM
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But the only thing I'm missing in my life is female companionship. I thought seduction meant, ya know, seducing other people. Or is it referring to seducing yourself?
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:21 PM
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Yeah I'll just have to do the latter
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:20 PM
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Well I'm not really looking for good looking women
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:20 PM
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Nah, face height and race is what matters
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:18 PM
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Yeah I don't think I'm attracted to women anymore
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:17 PM
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How is paying for a girls coffee, a girl who wants to hang out with you, the same as paying a woman to spend any time at all with you? Sure, someone calling me a 3 doesn't necessarily make it true. But when its multiple women, in addition to the fact that I get zero matches on apps, plus women in real life aren't interested ,I'm probably a 3.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:17 PM
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Ew, I'm not trying to be a backup option. You're saying they'll fuck all the hot guys then settle down with me? No thanks
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:15 PM
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After a certain point you don't get anymore ripped
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:14 PM
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Damn that sucks to hear
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:12 PM
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Yeah been working out for years now, I don't think women care about body tbh. Only ever been complimented on it by men
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:12 PM
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Cool, I'll probably lose it around 35 or 36 so I'll make sure my body is in tip top condition. Thanks!
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:11 PM
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Yeah I'd love to be with a woman around my looks, never met any who were interested
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:10 PM
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I mean I kinda need a woman to like me if I wanna date lol
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:09 PM
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Nah I've been told by women that I'm a 3. I take care of my hygiene and health
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:09 PM
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I already work out daily and have a good physique
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:08 PM
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Idk what those guys have that I don't
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:08 PM
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How can a 3/10 guy become a 7?
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:07 PM
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Weird, some are saying teens others are saying 40s
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:06 PM
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Yeah that's depressing, wish women weren't so looks oriented
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:04 PM
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Nah lol I'm a 3 so I only try with below average women
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:03 PM
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Back? I was born in London, I have no connections in India.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:03 PM
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They don’t suck. You suck. Bars can be awesome. Went to them for years to practice and years to teach/run boot camps. Go to more chill bars/lounges. Opener= https://stephengrosch.com/?s=Opener
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:02 PM
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Idk, looks definitely matter or I'd be able to get matches on dating apps.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:00 PM
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Yeah it isn't, I get zero matches on dating apps, women have rated me as a 3.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:00 PM
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Haha nothing little about this man, but duly noted.
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:59 PM
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You may not have just started out. But if you are just opening with HI. Then you are making moves like a newbie. An indirect opener. Something that gets the conversation going. So you can get more reps opening and talking to people. So you gain confidence and experience with small talk= first step I’d recommend. At least 20x a week. Not all in 1 night. Like trying to lose weight, you have so be healthy the majority of the week. So spread out over 4 days. So you have 2 rest days/back up days if y…
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:55 PM
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Idk then, I've done the same. Maybe because I'm 5 7 and Indian?
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:53 PM
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Yeah I can't say it's unique to me though https://www.reddit.com/r/confession/comments/3n7zqs/as_of_today_i_have_been_rejected_1000_times/ Guess some guys just aren't seen as attractive by women?
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:51 PM
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Hmm, so us adult virgins missed the boat?
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:49 PM
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Good job! That is more than most do. FYI. First homework assignment I give phone coaching students is 20 cold approaches in a week. That is the baseline. A handful isn’t enough when starting out. 2nd. How did you open those 5?
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:42 PM
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Well I'm in my late 20s and it's the same as my teens and early 20s.
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:39 PM
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How many did you do. Anywhere. In last 30 days?
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:38 PM
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Good. But now what have you done to actually level up? How many cold approaches did you do in the last 30 days? -these are questions I ask all my Students.
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:36 PM
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What measurable steps have you made to “try”. Reading and throwing shit against the wall hoping something sticks- doesn’t count.
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:34 PM
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Don’t even waste time thinking about this. Go out and approach and try and lose it!
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:32 PM
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I'll pass bro, not for me. I'm gonna try get it the organic way, will feel way more accomplishing.
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:28 PM
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Thank you, motivating stuff.
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:59 PM
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Yeah, and I definitely have put in the work. More than most guys who get laid regularly
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:55 PM
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What
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:54 PM
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Ah I missed it then.
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:52 PM
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Of course
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:52 PM
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Trust me, when you've been trying to have sex for 12 years to no avail, the sex drive just becomes a nuisance
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:52 PM
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As in everyone knows not to put women on a pedestal
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:51 PM
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How do you know this for a fact?
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:50 PM
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Yeah that's basic ngl
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:49 PM
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So much for just be yourself haha
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:47 PM
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Well I get a haircut like every 2 or 3 weeks, medium fade on the sides. I live in the UK.
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:45 PM
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I'm 5 7 average indian guy, shower daily and feel confident
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:44 PM
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Yeah I workout daily
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:43 PM
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Well no, there indeed is an objective sexual prime
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:42 PM
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I think having to pay a woman to touch me is extremely depressing. I'd still also have the issue of being unable to attract women.
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:41 PM
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I'm smart, kind, funny and very empathetic. I love myself!
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:41 PM
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Hmm, well I hope my T levels do drop tbh, the high sex drive is annoying
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:40 PM
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Hmm not true, otherwise I wouldn't have tried to date.
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:40 PM
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If women wanted me, why would I be a 27 year old kiss less virgin? Women aren't really into me bro. I'm a delivery driver.
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:37 PM
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Finding a woman I like isn't a problem, finding a woman who likes me though? Yikes.
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:33 PM
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You get pussy?
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:32 PM
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My mindset has been shaped by these things. They've made me more disciplined and confident
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:22 PM
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If getting a degree and building a good physique is the wrong excellence, I don't wanna be right
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:20 PM
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Yeah that's definitely not true. I still need to ask women out.
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:08 PM
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Cool, I got plenty of time then
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:05 PM
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Yeah but theres a sexual prime. If I lose it when I'm 60 I doubt I can consider that my sexual prime
/r/seduction13/10/22 01:40 PM
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Jheeze my libido is already sky high Haha, hope it calms down in my 30s tbh
/r/seduction13/10/22 01:25 PM
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Ok cool, hopefully can lose it before 40 then
/r/seduction13/10/22 01:15 PM
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There's nothing unusual about that, I'm 27 and in the same boat
/r/seduction13/10/22 01:14 PM
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Why are most of the women here such...pricks?
/r/seduction04/10/22 11:35 AM
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Yall are getting matches?
/r/seduction04/10/22 10:27 AM
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I'm in the UK
/r/seduction29/09/22 05:05 PM
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Ads? Where?
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:39 PM
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Trust me bro I've tried them, all sorts of different pics
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:08 PM
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Yes been at it for 10 years now.
/r/seduction29/09/22 03:58 PM
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Yeah I never get matches
/r/seduction29/09/22 07:11 AM
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Are you talking about dating apps? I've never managed to get a match
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:31 AM
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I go to bars and clubs
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:20 AM
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Whichever woman was interested in me
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:20 AM
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Haha my friends are tall and good looking, they don't get rejected.
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:19 AM
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Having to pay someone to touch me would only compound my depression
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:18 AM
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What was the biggest change for you?
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:17 AM
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They seem very closed off
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:15 AM
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Literally me?
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:35 PM
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Maybe for you it isn't
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:35 PM
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Never understood women tbh
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:34 PM
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What's wrong with fucking "whales?
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:34 PM
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100% men
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:05 PM
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Yep, we used to do do this a lot in drama society.
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:04 PM
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Well currently I am a delivery driver, I just graduated with a law degree so I'm applying to intern positions. Soon I'll be a paralegal and will be able to acure some experience. With that, I want to be financially secure so that I am able to travel the world, and provide for my family. I also have been working out daily because the image I have of a man in my mind isn't one who is flabby and out of shape. I enjoy chess so I have also been studying that through books and videos. Football is anot…
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:03 PM
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Sole travel like that is extremely expensive. I'll just have to keep using the dating apps and approaching women in bars and clubs.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:51 PM
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Haha they don't give them to everyone, I've spoken to loads of guys who have experienced the same. Everytime I go out and go out to have a blast with my friends, which I always do!
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:48 PM
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So how did you get dates?
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:47 PM
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I'll pass
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:46 PM
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Yeah women never give me looks or eye contact so I just approached them women who seemed interesting to me
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:39 PM
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Yeah Haha, go fuck those different women bro
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:38 PM
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Well all I know is I gave it my best shot and didn't receive a single match from any lady.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:28 PM
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Having to pay a woman to touch me would only further my depression
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:27 PM
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Men reach their prime when they're 36? My purpose in life is to explore the world, explore what it really means to be human. I enjoy talking to people and learning about them. Everyone is an individual with their own tastes and dislikes. Their own dreams and ambitions. I find this very fascinating. I want to be a successful man in terms of career, friendships and dating.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:11 PM
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Yes I have tried hobby clubs and also clubs and bars.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:09 PM
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Lol been clubbing many times absolutely pissed. Women just walked off when I approached
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:09 PM
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UK
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:08 PM
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I assure you, over the past decade of me trying to get a date, I've come to find that women are extremely picky.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:08 PM
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Women just have high standards bro
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:53 PM
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I'm not in college
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:52 PM
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Any suggestions? Not really into yoga or dance.
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:43 PM
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How do you know how decent my profile was, or wasn't? I used the tinder subreddit to get advice
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:42 PM
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Yes, I have a wide circle of friends.
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:31 PM
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Oh I thought you said you weren't ripped. Do you have a degree? Of course I didn't get my law degree for women but I did think it would make me more attractive to them, boy was I wrong. So women don't match with me because I believe they won't match with me? How does my beliefs affect a person who I'm not even in contact with?
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:28 PM
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I mean not so good lol, this hasn't helped me with any of my issues.
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:26 PM
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Yes when I was in college I was in loads of hobby groups. These days I frequent the football group and chess club.
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:24 PM
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Bro, I've been trying to get laid since I was 16. That's about ten years. It has been anything but easy. I know you find it extremely easy, but for some of us it's the most difficult thing in the world. Just have a visit on /r/virgin, read some of the story's of guys who have tried their best but can't get laid. Indeed, there are people who are experiencing the opposite of the ease you are lucky to have. It's also pretty rude to be saying you're getting laid because you aren't meeting the bare m…
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:16 PM
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Trust me, I'm 27 now, over the past 10 years I've tried dating apps numerous times. They just don't work for short indian guys. Only white men tend to have sucess on these apps. More women for you I guess!
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:06 PM
1

Well I have deleted my dating apps as they were not doing any favours for my self esteem, swiping right until you run out of swipes every day and not getting a single like back is a shitty feeling to say the least. I have tried them all though, OkCupid, Bumble, plenty of fish. I truly believe you need to be an exceptionally good looking guy to have any sucess on these platforms. I tried various bios. First, I went with a bio that listed my hobbies and what I was studying, plus what I was looking…
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:50 AM
1

I'm a 5/10. I go to the gym daily, have a six pack and broad shoulders, always ensure my hygiene is on point. On a dating app, looks are the only thing that matter in terms of getting a match. I have to highly doubt my personality is why women don't swipe on me, given they haven't had the opportunity to converse with me. Who is wallowing in self pity? If I've given it my best shot and not had a match on any dating app, me saying I'm not attractive enough is just a fact, no wallowing present. I l…
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:40 AM
2

As a brown guy, lmao, no one is into brown guys
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:27 AM
1

Or D, just not attractive enough. I gave it my best shot, used the tinder subreddit for advice on my profile. Swiped right like 80%.
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:00 AM
1

I have tried every dating app, never got a match. Approached women, never met one who was interested. Just because it's easy for you does not mean it's easy for everyone.
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:57 AM
1

Because attracting women is extremely difficult
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:09 AM
1

Did you reply to the wrong comment?
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:01 AM
1

I guess if paying is the only option, I'll just stick to porn and move on.
/r/seduction26/09/22 08:32 PM
0

Why is sexting with women creepy?
/r/seduction26/09/22 08:23 PM
1

Yes, that's what I said lol
/r/seduction26/09/22 08:05 PM
1

Well everyone is different, I don't see how having sex with a prostitute would help with having sex with a different women. She may have different wants and needs.
/r/seduction26/09/22 08:04 PM
0

Tbh rn sexting is all I can get
/r/seduction26/09/22 07:52 PM
1

Well couldn't I just practise with whoever that future lady is?
/r/seduction26/09/22 06:58 PM
1

And I said I'm not opposed to the former.
/r/seduction26/09/22 06:24 PM
1

So you, a guy who lost his virginity normally, is going to tell me that it's my choice that I'm not willing to succumb to paying a woman in order to touch me? That's hilarious.
/r/seduction26/09/22 06:17 PM
1

I'm guessing you lost your virginity to a prostitute then?
/r/seduction26/09/22 06:09 PM
1

Yes, I'm more than open to paying for her drinks or diner. I'd get addicted to prostitutes and would become broke rather fast.
/r/seduction26/09/22 06:07 PM
3

Eh having to pay a woman is just depressing, and getting a gf has proven to be impossible.
/r/seduction26/09/22 05:53 PM
1

That requires a woman to want to fuck me haha
/r/seduction26/09/22 05:49 PM
1

Yeah, or I just message women and steer the conversation sexually
/r/seduction26/09/22 05:09 PM
3

Just post saying I got a big dick. Having a big dick helps.
/r/seduction26/09/22 05:03 PM
4

Yeah I prefer the women to want to sext. Was easy af on that app to meet such ladies.
/r/seduction26/09/22 10:59 AM
1

Damn it, now where am I supposed to sext with women?
/r/seduction26/09/22 10:57 AM
1

Really? Got a source?
/r/seduction26/09/22 10:49 AM
2

Maybe it was a ball park estimation
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:27 AM
2

Bro? Yikes
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:14 AM
3

Might it also be possible you can do everything right and still fail?
/r/seduction25/09/22 09:56 AM
2

Yeah I've heard a lot on this sub that practice is better than reading up theory, yet clearly that doesn't seem to be the case.
/r/seduction25/09/22 09:49 AM
1

Well women seem to be doing quite well in the getting dates department
/r/seduction25/09/22 09:46 AM
2

I guess, but this subreddit is to learn seduction, so us not so attractive guys can learn how to pull women too.
/r/seduction25/09/22 09:45 AM
1

Probably because women have complained about being cold approached in recent times. I'd imagine attractive women do, however, get approached in social settings.
/r/seduction25/09/22 09:43 AM
1

I'm into all colours of women
/r/seduction24/09/22 01:56 PM
2

So they key to seduction is something that can't even be taught?
/r/seduction24/09/22 12:44 PM
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I find this hard to believe.
/r/seduction24/09/22 12:43 PM
2

How do I make her care that I exist?
/r/seduction24/09/22 12:34 PM
1

I'm not a woman lol, I don't get asked that much .
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:58 AM
4

Such as?
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:58 AM
7

So how else do you get to know someone?
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:57 AM
1

Yeah this puts me off approaching women
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:22 AM
1

That sucks
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:19 AM
1

Who said anything about white women?
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:19 AM
1

I'm a 5 so I try with 5s
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:19 AM
1

I mean that's all great and dandy but I've never met a woman who was interested in me
/r/seduction23/09/22 11:19 AM
6

Lol that's not how the world works buddy
/r/seduction23/09/22 11:18 AM
4

Perhaps the experience creates the mentality?
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:52 AM
10

Well if I've been rejected constantly for those two things, I'd be pretty stupid to believe they weren't an issue.
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:52 AM
16

I do blame myself in many ways, which is why I'm constantly improving myself by going to the gym and joining hobby clubs to become more well rounded and interesting. End of the day however, dating is just extremely complicated and difficult.
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:41 AM
10

How many 5 7 indian guys do you know who get dates?
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:40 AM
5

No
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:40 AM
2

Was at college mainly. Nowadays at clubs and bars.
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:40 AM
2

I prefer average plain women, but I try with below average women too. Yes I went to events and stuff and approached women there, they just found me extremely boring I guess as they always gave one word answers. I guess you wouldn't understand as you are white, but trust me, being indian means you gotta try for like 10 years before a woman is even interested in a 10 min conversation.
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:39 AM
3

Let me guess, you're white? I tried not only in law classes, but social clubs too like drama society. Women just weren't interested in me. And 7/10 is super attractive dude, I'm like a 5 on the best of days.
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:29 AM
24

Those hot indian women aren't interested either.
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:27 AM
6

Haha so you're a 6ft white guy and you're gonna tell me, a 5 7 Indian guy who has consistently been rejected for height and race that we are in the same boat? You may not be everyones type, but I am no ones type. How many women do you know whose type is 5 7 Indian men? Over the past 10 years I have worked on my social skills, joined social clubs and gone to bars to approach women. I have tried every free dating app and got zero matches. I really do wish I was in control of my dating life, but I …
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:27 AM
4

Yes I did that a lot in university, it was great fun but it didn't really help in terms of learning how to make women stay in the conversation with you and not walk off.
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:19 AM
4

Well it was mainly at social clubs in university. I'd approach women, say hi, ask them stuff about themselves and just be myself really. Worked well with making male friends, women not so much. I'm not really young, I'm 26 so I don't know if that would be a great idea.
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:13 AM
2

Alrighty then
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:11 AM
2

You know what they say about assumptions. I love women, and respect them dearly. I don't blame women for not being interested in me.
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:06 AM
4

And what can I do to rectify that?
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:01 AM
1

One was a personal attack, the other is just retarded
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:01 AM
2

What's wrong with having a tiny dick? Body shaming ain't cool dude. And besides, I never make sexual remarks to women when I get to know them, literally just try to get to know them.
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:57 AM
10

Shadi is for marriage, I am not ready for that. I just wanna go on a date with a girl and get to know her. Some guys say I tried too hard, others say I didnt try at all. It's all so convoluted. End of the day, at least if I end up a 40 year old kissless virgin I can look back and say I gave it my best shot.
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:56 AM
2

Ugh this is pointless, it's like talking to a wall. I've been trying for 10 years dude, approaching women and trying to get to know them. They ain't interested and walk off.
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:54 AM
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So yeah, I've been practising my social skills for 10 years then as I've been approaching for that long, and have been rejected constantly during it. Lots of trial and error. So I guess my social skills aren't the issue?
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:51 AM
1

I couldn't say hours, I don't think I've ever had an hour chat with one woman. But if you mean how many hours I've tried to have conversations with women, several dozen.
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:50 AM
2

Share our lives? Chill I'm just trying to get her number and get to know her. I've put in a lot of work. When I was in college I joined social clubs to pracistce talking to women, like drama society. I have tried every dating app. I've been clubbing numerous times and approached.
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:43 AM
4

How do you acquire social skills then?
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:41 AM
1

So answer his question, what's the difference between a shit test and woman not being interested?
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:40 AM
3

Took about 3 years. Women don't really chat with me tbh.
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:37 AM
4

That's so daft. You can be non needy af and still get zero matches on tinder.
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:37 AM
6

Glad you've found it easy, I've been doing this shit for 10 years and have yet to get a date.
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:14 AM
1

I came here when I was about 19. Currently a 26 year old kissless virgin. So not very helpful.
/r/seduction22/09/22 07:30 PM
1

I mean you just said you never want to be approached, so how are guys supposed to date?
/r/seduction13/09/22 07:54 AM
1

No effort in the apps, better profile...hmmm
/r/seduction07/09/22 01:27 PM
1

Women don't glance at homeless people?
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:14 PM
1

Try what
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:06 PM
1

Never received a smile, thanks for the info!
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:37 PM
1

My gut must be broken then, I always think they're looking for A B or C reason.
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:31 PM
1

Do women like jokes such as walk up to her with your boner and let her touch it?
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:16 PM
1

Well I wouldn't mind a hookup
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:01 PM
1

I'm average looking so probably just a look then
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:59 PM
2

What's social skills got to do with getting matches?
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:59 PM
11

Yeah that explains why women are constantly getting zero matches on apps whereas men are bombarded with options
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:52 PM
1

Nah I gave it my best shot, they weren't interested. You're right about looks, I've used anonymous apps to talk to women and they love me, wanna meet up and have sex but they say let's see you and it all goes to shit.
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:46 PM
1

Got it, thanks
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:45 PM
7

I do, otherwise it would be 100%
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:41 PM
1

Social clubs, dating apps, bars and night clubs
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:33 PM
1

That would be like 90% of women then
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:27 PM
1

Where are they man? 26 and haven't met a single one who wanted to grab a coffee
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:24 PM
2

But I'm 26 and never met a woman who was interested in me.
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:54 PM
2

Ah they always look away
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:19 PM
4

But then I'd approach everyone and be labelled desperate
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:15 PM
1

So you're saying they're interested?
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:10 PM
1

The problems I wish I had
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:05 PM
7

It's scary when you've creeped women out before in the past
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:59 PM
0

I don't, again this isn't a stand up comedy act I'm just here for advice.
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:55 PM
0

I'm not here to make you laugh, I'm here to seek advice. Fact of the matter is, dating apps require good looks to get matches.
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:50 PM
0

I felt confident when I made my profile, chose my pics and did my bio. Still got zero matches. Dating apps are a looks thing, not a confidence thing.
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:39 PM
2

So where does confidence come into play?
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:32 PM
1

I'm not seeing your point. What does that have to do with me not wanting to creep women out?
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:29 PM
2

So where do you pick up women?
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:28 PM
1

This subreddit has gone to shit
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:20 PM
0

Why are girls so hateful of guys who feel afraid to approach for whatever reason, given that women have the same reasons to not approach too?
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:20 PM
4

Yeah the competition is extremely stiff
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:19 PM
-5

I'm sure you don't, but there are guys here who know about indicators of interest
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:18 PM
-9

A few years ago this subreddit was a lot more serious.
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:15 PM
-6

I thought you lot were supposed to be experts on women, clearly I've come to the wrong place.
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:13 PM
8

Well I think women have higher standards than guys so my answer might not be relevant
/r/seduction06/09/22 11:43 AM
5

Yes I'm still waiting for those signs that they want to be approached
/r/seduction06/09/22 11:23 AM
28

I'm more concerned if she's gonna be creeped out or not.
/r/seduction06/09/22 11:23 AM
19

Isn't approaching a woman in the first place a display of confidence?
/r/seduction06/09/22 11:22 AM
27

Man, women truly are the most confusing thing in the universe.
/r/seduction06/09/22 11:02 AM
18

No, not everybody does creepy things. Disturbing others when they want to be left alone is not something I'm a proponent of.
/r/seduction06/09/22 11:01 AM
3

Ok cool, I'll give it a try next time.
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:19 AM
25

Wtf
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:19 AM
1

Yeah that happens, never been smiled at but sometimes I get a couple of glances. Does that mean she's interested?
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:15 AM
52

Yeah this sucks, I know I'm not attractive due to having zero matches on dating apps, and my countless approaches at bars, clubs and other social events being rejected. So I guess they must think I look weird.
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:02 AM
1

By take you mean get her to agree
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:53 AM
7

But naturally men have it more difficult as we have to instigate and start the whole dating process. It's a lot easier to date when you get approached. I've creeped out women in the past by smiling at them so I'm deathly afraid of approaching women out in the street. Guess I'll just have to avoid that and stick to dating apps.
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:53 AM
1

Right now I just have to be able to get her number
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:45 AM
1

All the book would say is I asked women out and they all said no
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:29 AM
2

All I need is one woman to say yes.
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:29 AM
1

The two are intrinsically connected
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:29 AM
1

Isn't that contingent on having an abundance of women attracted to you?
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:28 AM
2

Crying like a bitch? Is a man not allowed to feel upset?
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:28 AM
1

What am I investing in then?
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:16 PM
1

Yeah honestly I've pretty much tried it all, improved immensely in every department but women still aren't interested. They're just way to different to men for me to understand and comprehend.
/r/seduction05/09/22 01:54 PM
4

The problems I wished I had.
/r/seduction05/09/22 12:04 PM
7

I workout daily, have a law degree and lots of hobbies. I still feel bad about myself because I'm unable to attract women. Well I guess it's because if women find them attractive, they're better than me. Clearly women don't want to carry on my genes, but the genes of other men. Improving yourself is the purpose of life as far as I'm concerned. I genuinely have no idea how to get a date, despite my best efforts.
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:55 AM
1

Been rejected my whole life since 16 from 26. I must be at the doorstep of sucess then.
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:28 AM
2

https://np.reddit.com/r/confession/comments/3n7zqs/as_of_today_i_have_been_rejected_1000_times/
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:31 PM
3

Think end of the day it just boils down to whether the girl is interested in you or not
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:29 PM
8

Thanks, I gave it my best shot over the past 10 years. It's easy for some people, extremely difficult for others.
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:27 PM
5

Same, just without women
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:25 PM
4

Cool man, must be nice
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:21 PM
11

More women for you I guess.
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:19 PM
1

Don't I know, my body has interested women before and they've messaged me, but then block me when they see my face.
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:32 PM
2

Not really, it has helped with being more confident and understanding to be vulnerable, but in terms of actually getting dates, I'm still at 0.
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:19 AM
25

Hate to it break it dude, but you're probably not attractive. Welcome to the club!
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:49 AM
1

So then how the hell does anyone make friends of the opposite gender?
/r/seduction03/08/22 09:20 PM
0

Even with alcohol I get nervous around women.
/r/seduction03/08/22 09:09 PM
0

Even when you're just trynna make friends?
/r/seduction03/08/22 09:02 PM
1

Women need to understand then that guys can feel nervous just like women can feel nervous around guys they like. They need to stop it with this toxic masculinity nonsense .
/r/seduction03/08/22 09:02 PM
1

Ah well what about if I'm just trying to make a female friend
/r/seduction03/08/22 08:58 PM
0

I wasn't looking for advice, just wanted to know why women find nervous and awkward guys creepy. I've gotten my answer. Mods can lock this thread now.
/r/seduction03/08/22 08:51 PM
1

Well if a woman approaches me and is nervous, it's pretty obvious why. She's interested and worried about messing it up, it's natural.
/r/seduction03/08/22 08:48 PM
1

Oh, so it's just because I'm unattractive ? How can I make female friends then, or is that not possible?
/r/seduction03/08/22 08:47 PM
1

So the guys who can't get girls, can't get girls because they can't get girls? Seems legit.
/r/seduction03/08/22 08:34 PM
2

So you're saying women will eventually approach me?
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:12 PM
0

I meant awkward in the sense you get nervous and might stutter, mumble or not know what to say.
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:11 PM
1

Well I'm just trying to make female friends. Women look at body even when making friends?
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:10 PM
2

Ah that makes sense, thanks
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:06 PM
1

But I do believe that, I'm ripped, got a law degree, have hobbies and friends. It makes zero difference when every women says I'm not their type. This whole abundance mentality is overated
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:03 PM
-2

If a woman approached me and was nervous, I'd try to make her feel calm and relaxed. But women aren't that kind it seems.
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:02 PM
2

Cool, I'll give it a shot. Any tips to not be seen as a creep there?
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:01 PM
1

So he was a television host? I don't get it
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:59 PM
5

And how exactly will that make me believe I can attract women, when the reality is I can't?
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:58 PM
1

I'm in the UK, my chess group only has men. Same with my football group.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:58 PM
0

Yeah that's easy, not what I'm talking about in this topic. I meant when you approach women and actually try to get to know them, either platonicaly or romantically
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:57 PM
-1

Just because it's easy for you doesn't mean it's easy for us all.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:57 PM
0

I don't know who that is but he sounds like quite the top lad
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:55 PM
1

It's been said countless times on this subreddit, and I have experienced in person myself.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:55 PM
2

Ok but what if all you ever get is rejection? How can I have an abundance mentality?
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:54 PM
0

I am 26
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:53 PM
2

Any suggestions?
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:53 PM
1

Yeah a lot of the responses here have made it clear that women aren't as empathetic as men. Women might feel nervous themselves, but they don't find themselves creepy. But when a man is nervous, he's a creep who's hiding something. I find it hilarious 😂
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:50 PM
1

The only thing online dating did was confirm that women find me unattractive. I'm a part of a few hobby groups but sadly it's just men who frequent them.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:49 PM
0

Sure but mainly due to women not being interested in me.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:43 PM
1

Wouldn't having to resort to paying in order for a woman to want to touch me not further destroy my self esteem?
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:39 PM
-1

Sure
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:29 PM
1

This is gonna be difficult, my goal is to make one female friend before I die so I guess I just gotta buckle up
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:23 PM
1

Well it's not like I haven't tried over the past 10 years. It's just that I've creeped out too many women.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:18 PM
0

Well I'm not fucking anyone good lol, I'd have no clue what I'm doing.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:16 PM
2

Google "women creeped out face"
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:16 PM
-2

Women my age who are virgins? I've never heard of such a thing 😂
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:15 PM
0

I've accepted my situation in regards to my sex life, but I do want to make female friends. I guess you're right, I would never actually do anything that would put anyone in harm. It still hurts though when you're just trynna be friendly but women think you're about to harvest their kidneys.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:14 PM
3

Erm my friend group doesn't have an alpha, we ain't wolves lol.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:13 PM
-1

Failing an interview doesn't harm anyone. Not sure what that sports analogy is supposed to mean. In a fight it's a completely different situation, that's life or death. With women, making them creeped out is horrible because you've put them in a position of fear.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:12 PM
6

Probably the one word answers, closed body language and their imminent departure from the conversation. I've also had women show me faces of disgust when I've smiled at them, so I no longer even look at women in the street.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:11 PM
-2

Yeah guess I'm not a fan of making others uncomfortable for my own gain
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:10 PM
1

Feel like that's a bit selfish.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:04 PM
0

You said women wanted men who could gain the respect of other men. I have done that, women still don't want me.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:03 PM
1

This has been my experience
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:59 PM
0

I guess I'm not that kind of guy, I don't like creeping people out.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:59 PM
1

Ok thanks
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:58 PM
0

Just wanted an answer to the question I asked in the topic title, ya know.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:52 PM
1

Where can I meet such women lol
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:51 PM
-5

Nah they are visibly creeped out
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:50 PM
0

Yup, like a wise man with a stolen platinum chip once said, the game was rigged from the start.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:48 PM
1

Lol I'm like a 1/10, I can't find any zeroes
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:48 PM
2

So the advice that women are just people don't overthink it has been a massive lie
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:41 PM
0

I'll be honest I've kinda accepted my situation ain't changing, so I just go there to chat to guys like me. I do however want to make at least one female friend in my life.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:40 PM
0

I mean I have plenty of male friends so I'm not sure about that
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:39 PM
0

Oh, now that makes a lot of sense.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:39 PM
1

Well like if a woman approached me and was nervous, it would be pretty obvious why. I guess women just don't understand that guys are like them in that sense, we get apprehensive too.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:39 PM
-1

Tbh I'm not really looking for help, I've given it my best shot over the past 10 years. Tried hobby clubs, bars, nightclubs, dating apps, messages women on reddit but still it's the same story. I've kinda accepted that I ain't getting a date, but I wish women didnt find me creepy just because I get nervous around them
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:37 PM
1

So women wouldn't find it creepy when they themselves are nervous. But when a man is nervous he's hiding something or wants to rob them?
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:35 PM
0

I'm not seeing your point.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:34 PM
1

Oh so women never feel nervous when they approach a guy first? Damn how are they so confident?
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:31 PM
-2

Not interested in that. I'll just stick to porn and cuddling my pillow.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:31 PM
2

Eh I like those subreddits, it's the only place I can talk to guys who understand my situation.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:30 PM
2

I mean that's the same with my Male friends lol, it would just be nice to have a female friend.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:28 PM
1

My point is, women feel nervousness, right? Does it come for a place of hiding intentions?
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:27 PM
-5

Well I've been trying for the past 10 years to get a date. My negativity is a result of my countless rejections. It would be foolish for me to believe that I am a catch to women, when clearly I am the opposite.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:26 PM
-2

Trust me, I spent 3 years in college doing this lol
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:24 PM
2

So do women never get nervous when talking to guys they're interested in?
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:24 PM
2

No but it would be nice to have a female friend.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:23 PM
2

Do women never get nervous when talking to a guy they like then?
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:23 PM
5

Been playing chess for a year, love that game. I also play football every week with a football group. I do 6 days a week PPL. Been doing pullups and pushups a lot at home but now I'm back in the gym regularly. As for the last question, is there any other way to lift? 😂
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:22 PM
2

No, I predominately try to make female friends. I've never even flirted with a woman. Not that I even know what that is lmao.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:20 PM
-4

But can't they just put themselves in his shoes? Like what if they were approaching a guy they found cute and were looking to ask him out, wouldn't they feel nervous too? Or do women not empathise like men do?
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:19 PM
-3

Thing is I've creeped women out just by smiling at them, I'm pretty unattractive. It's all fine and dandy me believing that it's just excitement and not nerves, but how does that help when the end result is women are creeped out?
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:18 PM
3

Again I was just saying that to highlight why I'm nervous around women. I go to the gym daily lol.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:13 PM
3

I just said that to highlight why I feel nervous.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:05 PM
-13

So yeah seems like I just gotta suck it up and be creepy for a while, which idk, doesn't sit well with me.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:03 PM
3

The fact that they're so easily creeped out, it's a bit of a catch 22 in that sense. With men, I have no fear of being a creep or making them feel uncomfortable.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:01 PM
2

I don't get nervous when asking women for directions or recommendations, only when I'm trying to get to know them.
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:57 PM
-4

Well you say that, but women behave very differently to men. With women, I never get any initiating conversation with me. I've never even had a female friend as for some reason I seem to be unable to connect with them, one word answers and they walk off. I'm nervous because I hate making them feel creeped out. I have creeped out women before by just smiling at them.
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:56 PM
-1

Yeah definitely unattractive as I've tried every free dating app and never got a match. I actually had some women on reddit want to meet up, that is until they saw a pic of me. I guess at least I know my personality ain't the issue.
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:47 PM
1

But when women are nervous, it's not creepy? Man women are truly the most confusing thing on the planet.
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:40 PM
3

I mean that's a fact, not a mentality. I have been trying to get a date for the past 10 years, so how can I have an abundance mentality?
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:29 PM
1

I mean it's quite the reach comparing a man having a friendly conversation and a doctor performing surgery, no?
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:09 PM
11

Oh trust me, I've tried it all. I've creeped women out just by smiling at them.
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:06 PM
5

Ah yeah so it's not a mentality, figured.
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:00 PM
33

So I just have to bite the bullet and creep women out?
/r/seduction03/08/22 02:58 PM
12

I make women uncomfortable by not approaching them? Jheeze you just can't win 😭
/r/seduction03/08/22 02:57 PM
6

That's ridiculous, why is some who is nervous untrustworthy but someone who spits game a reliable person?
/r/seduction03/08/22 02:43 PM
2

Because I don't want to make women feel uncomfortable?
/r/seduction03/08/22 02:42 PM
10

How do you get abundance mentality when you've never met a woman who was interested in you? Is it a mentality or just a fact that these guys have an abundance of women into them?
/r/seduction03/08/22 02:36 PM
3

I'm a 26 kissless virgin purely because of my looks, every women says I'm not their type. We are complete opposites!
/r/seduction03/08/22 02:32 PM
1

Yeah I never wanted my first kiss to be paid for but I have zero clue how to attract women so I'll have to bite the bullet
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:36 PM
3

How did seeing an escort influence your dating app experience? I'm a 25 year old kissless virgin and I get zero matches.
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:27 PM
2

I don't, I'm simply illustrating that I have zero experience with women and would like to have some.
/r/seduction15/06/22 11:33 AM
2

I'm a 25 year old kissless virgin. I want to go on one date by the time I'm 40.
/r/seduction15/06/22 11:31 AM
4

5 7 guy here, also a kissless virgin
/r/seduction11/06/22 09:12 PM
1

For some of us, even a woman looking at us is considered a huge success
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:05 PM
14

Just use tinder?
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:04 PM
1

Yeah my approach is to smile a see if a girl catches my eye, make eye contact and put my hand out for her to dance
/r/seduction06/06/22 06:02 PM
1

So what's the solution to us guys who have never had a woman be interested?
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:30 PM
2

As a 25 year old kissless virgin, this seems like a small price to pay to finally have women be interested in me lol.
/r/seduction04/06/22 11:14 AM
1

So how should I do it?
/r/seduction25/05/22 05:49 PM
3

How do you even go about making a female friend? I've always struggled with this
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:42 PM
1

Yeah I'm going again soon but my club game is horrific
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:26 PM
1

Yeah I was a nicely lit picture of me smiling outside of a castle
/r/seduction14/05/22 11:30 AM
4

Damn this has never happend to me. How good looking are you bro?!
/r/seduction14/05/22 10:12 AM
3

Meeting women irl is even worse because they don't wanna talk, at least on anonymous apps I get the chance to have a conversation with women.
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:10 PM
1

I doubt most 25 year old guys have never kissed a woman
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:36 PM
1

Yeah I guess you're right but I can't give up. Nothing I can do about my height or looks
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:22 AM
1

I get zero matches myself so wanted to see some encouragement lol
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:20 AM
1

True but it sucks not getting laid lol
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:19 AM
2

Eh I like having a fresh fade lol
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:31 PM
3

Oh you're really good looking then bro. I can't even pull a 2/10 on tinder or irl
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:18 PM
6

Where do you cold approach
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:54 PM
1

Nice but I don't go school and I don't meet women at work
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:54 PM
5

For me it's the opposite lol, I love texting because you have so much time to think
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:54 PM
2

Yeah I'm absolutely horrendous at any sort of game but I gotta keep trying man or I'll never have my first kiss
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:53 PM
5

Yeah I don't take it seriously at all but it's still kinda depressing when not a single woman wants to talk to you lol
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:50 PM
1

You got any tips for day game my dude, I need you to be my guru haha.
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:38 AM
4

Lol I do that every day
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:31 AM
4

Damn I can only dream of getting my lay count that high. I'd be over the moon if I could just get my first kiss lol.
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:31 AM
8

Damn, that's inspiring stuff dude!
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:11 AM
1

Thanks man, you're right. I'm 25 and never been on a date.
/r/seduction11/05/22 10:44 AM
3

Yeah I'm just afraid of being a creep man
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:08 PM
1

Yeah I'm not sure about approaching women in the street
/r/seduction10/05/22 12:19 PM
1

Not really, I've tried over the years to put myself out there through social hobbies and stuff though.
/r/seduction10/05/22 12:18 PM
1

Nice man, where did you meet her?
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:27 AM
1

Literally I think it's the only reason I'm a virgin, I don't think I'm bad looking (although I get zero matches on dating apps), I'm smart, I'm kind. I just ain't got the bollocks to even look at women let alone approach them.
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:27 AM
4

It's not easy man, I have social anxiety too so I just instantly think they'd find me boring or uncharismatic. Also, I just think that women would find me creepy approaching them in public.
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:23 AM
1

Being a 25 year old kissless virgin. It hasn't had any success so far but I have to keep trying.
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:14 AM
3

As a 25 year old kissless virgin, I wish there was a only one. There is an only none
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:13 AM
1

It's extremely difficult, women just give one word answers and walk off. They don't go to clubs to hookup.
/r/seduction24/04/22 11:30 AM
1

I'm just here to live vicariously haha. In any case OP believes flirting to be very different to hitting on someone. I just find OPs idea of flirting to be cringey.
/r/seduction22/04/22 06:39 PM
0

Oh I'm a 25 year old virgin I'm very well used to it haha. Also the OP says that that isn't flirting, that's hitting on someone. You both have a different view of what constitutes flirting.
/r/seduction22/04/22 04:14 PM
-2

Just not a fan of flirting personally
/r/seduction22/04/22 01:18 PM
1

Yeah I've accepted it probably ain't gonna happen for me, but I like coming here to live vicariously I guess lol.
/r/seduction22/04/22 11:31 AM
-4

Yeah guess I have to stay true to myself though.
/r/seduction22/04/22 11:19 AM
1

Agreed
/r/seduction22/04/22 11:17 AM
1

What age did you lose your virginity then?
/r/seduction22/04/22 11:17 AM
-22

Flirting sounds cringey
/r/seduction22/04/22 11:13 AM
1

I tried every free dating app but never got a match or reply. Tried social clubs like drama society and met zero interested women. Tried nightclubs but women just walked off.
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:24 PM
1

I don't understand this, do women approach you when you ignore them? How do you get laid while ignoring women?
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:17 PM
2

Idk if that's good. Maybe she's looking at me because I creeped her out, or because I'm looking at her?
/r/seduction20/04/22 04:53 PM
4

If a woman glances at you does that mean she is interested ?
/r/seduction20/04/22 04:45 PM
2

Trust me, having to pay in order to be able to touch a woman would be far worse for me. I'd rather just stick to porn and die a virgin.
/r/seduction17/03/22 09:09 PM
2

Yeah I can make male friends extremely easy but struggle with women. Do you have any tips on how to make female friends?
/r/seduction17/03/22 08:19 PM
2

I've never been able to get a date.
/r/seduction17/03/22 07:54 PM
1

Yeah I've never gotten a match on any app
/r/seduction17/03/22 04:38 PM
11

I really don't want my first time to be paid for, that would destroy my self esteem.
/r/seduction17/03/22 02:35 PM
1

It's always been a problem for me.
/r/seduction09/03/22 11:48 AM
2

The problem is potential dates aren't giving me a chance
/r/seduction09/03/22 11:47 AM
2

Yeah I honestly ain't got a clue where to meet women. I tried in college but didn't meet any who were interested. I honestly thought that would have been the best place to get a date.
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:37 AM
1

Yeah I workout daily, managed to get to 15 pullups in a row recently. You're right in that it's a great hobby, although I haven't found it to be very useful in attracting women.
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:50 AM
4

Where did you approach women?
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:49 AM
1

I definitely don't get what you mean haha, this whole dating stuff has always confused the fuck outta me.
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:30 AM
2

Yeah but I literally have no idea how to get a date, been trying this game stuff for 8 years now.
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:28 AM
2

Nice man, although I wouldn't consider 18 a late bloomer. Where did you meet women?
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:19 AM
1

Yeah if only I knew how to haha
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:12 AM
1

Yeah women are beyond me ngl
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:37 PM
1

Bro you're hella lucky. I'd be over the moon if a 2/10 was interested in me
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:58 PM
1

Yeah I feel like this too. I wear well fitted clothing, I work our daily, my friends say I'm funny and hard working but I still don't understand how to get a date.
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:13 PM
1

Lol, I wouldn't be surprised honestly. I always thought I'd just go on dates in college and it would happen but damn this shit is hella hard.
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:12 PM
1

I'd have been smart enough to not find myself in a situation where I needed to outrun a tiger lol. Smarts were more valued back then by women.
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:11 PM
1

The person I replied to said that I must be undesirable if I'm struggling with women
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:09 PM
1

Yeah I value other things over superficial things, but maybe that's because I'm a guy?
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:09 PM
1

It's easy for you, deffo not for me.
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:07 PM
1

You got any evidence for this mate? Haha
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:03 PM
2

Yeah but sometimes it's outside of your control. I have no power whether women will agree to go on a date with me ultimately, I can only do my best in terms of being kind, caring, funny and attractive
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:03 PM
1

Oh self improvement is something I do daily
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:01 PM
1

Yeah what's easy for me might be hard for you. For example, I found getting a law degree pretty easy!
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:00 PM
1

Has happened dozens of times
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:00 PM
1

I mean yeah I'd imagine having sex with a woman who only cares about your wallet wouldn't be too great of an experience lmao.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:59 PM
1

Yeah guess I'll have to
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:59 PM
1

No one gets laid in London?
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:58 PM
1

Yeah like at clubs they'll just walk off etc.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:54 PM
1

London
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:54 PM
1

Why do people assume I don't take to women lmao
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:53 PM
0

You don't think I have been working on myself? Lmao
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:52 PM
1

Nah man I just say no worries and move on when I'm rejected. There seems to be a lot of generalizing and stereotyping when it comes to us virgin guys.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:51 PM
1

The former.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:50 PM
1

To me yall definitely are, I haven't a clue how to interact with you.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:50 PM
1

Hmm really? It's a matter of location?
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:48 PM
1

Women not being interested
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:03 PM
2

So life has just become way harder for men and way easier for women in terms of mating?
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:59 PM
1

Yeah I tried that and got a gazillion matches haha
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:58 PM
1

I can do both!
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:42 PM
1

Wish I was born in more simpler times
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:42 PM
-2

Yeah man I wish I was gay, I'd have loads of guys asking me on dates.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:33 PM
1

I know that, I'm asking why is evolution trolling me lol.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:32 PM
1

You said easy in your post
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:27 PM
1

Idk, I just have never met a woman who wanted to date
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:26 PM
1

Yeah I wish it was that easy
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:23 PM
1

Yeah I gave it my best shot and didn't work out, at least I know I tried hard!
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:23 PM
0

Where can I meet such women?
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:20 PM
3

Yeah lots of people also end up as 40 year old kissless virgins too. That's what I'm worried about
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:20 PM
2

Trust me I can't afford to have standards haha
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:20 PM
1

I've tried every free dating app but never got a match or reply.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:16 PM
2

5 7
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:16 PM
2

Yeah imma fold haha
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:14 PM
2

Yall can PM me to review my pics, much appreciated!
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:13 PM
4

I'm 25. I love every aspect of my life but the inability to get to know and be intimate with women makes me extremely depressed
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:12 PM
3

Yeah its getting boring and tiring though consistently trying my best but getting rejected
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:10 PM
2

Nice man, I did the same but got zero matches
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:09 PM
3

Yes and no. I tried every free dating app but got zero matches, all they do is crush my self esteem.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:09 PM
6

Yeah I even made a thread asking why I'm so desperate to date. I don't get it
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:08 PM
5

Yeah I guess that makes me feel better. I'm not necessarily losing because I suck at the game (I do), but also because the game itself is extremely difficult and pretty rigged lol.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:08 PM
4

Yeah I don't know why I'm so desperate to get to know women tbh
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:07 PM
1

Yeah I got a six pack, not huge but pretty healthy I'd say. My fashion is good I guess, try to wear well fitted clothing.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:06 PM
1

Yeah being Male sucks
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:05 PM
-2

Yeah one of the undesirables
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:05 PM
5

Yeah which is why I don't get the advice of don't do it for women do it for yourself. Getting a woman is extremely hard so I need to do it to become more attractive to them.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:04 PM
0

Most guys in this sub get laid so they know what they're talking about lol
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:03 PM
3

Yeah I've tried so hard to be sexually attractive but I guess it just ain't possible for some lads
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:02 PM
3

Can't wait till I get whittled off then lmao, this life is just pain and suffering for guys like me.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:58 PM
25

I work out daily, have many hobbies and have a law degree. There's absolutely nothing easy about getting a date lol.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:56 PM
10

So why did evolution make me undesirable? Seems like evolution just loves trolling lol
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:56 PM
0

Haha yeah if you've figured out women then you'll find it childs play in comparison
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:55 PM
1

Yeah women are so complicated though, I'm not sure I'll ever be able to understand them lol.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:54 PM
2

Call me a weirdo but I don't really want my first kiss to be with a prostitute.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:53 PM
2

Making it hard is her job. But seriously, it's pretty difficult, at least for me.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:53 PM
6

Yeah it freaking sucks
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:46 PM
1

I've been on holiday many times!
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:46 PM
0

Yeah man it truly is the most challenging thing in the world
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:40 PM
1

Yeah man shits way more complicated than my degree haha
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:39 PM
2

Yeah I've been studying pickup for almost a decade now. Books like models have helped immensely I have to say
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:34 PM
1

Why do I feel like women got it easier in terms of evolution and the ability to pass on their genes?
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:33 PM
6

Lmao I workout daily, always ensure my clothes and hygiene are on point. Just because something is easy for you doesn't mean it is easy for everyone.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:32 PM
2

Yeah who should I be then lol
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:31 PM
2

Yeah guess so, evolution sucks ass haha.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:27 PM
2

Yeah I've perused this sub for years, great bits of information on how to be confident and not care about rejection but it hasn't helped me in actually getting a date so far. All my friends tend to just get laid from using dating apps haha, they're also pretty tall and good looking so women tend to just approach them.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:27 PM
2

Moi
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:25 PM
3

Yeah that's all I really do tbh, try to be a better person
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:25 PM
2

Who should I be then lol?
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:21 PM
3

So life for us undesirable guys is just eternal torture until we die? Damn this sucks:(
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:21 PM
1

Idk, I feel like my law degree was infinitely easier than understanding how to attract women haha. How do I learn how to get a date?
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:20 PM
2

Yeah but that's like saying once you learn how to perform open heart surgery it's easy. Doesn't make it any less difficult to learn it in the first place lol
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:17 PM
35

Yeah but then how the hell did my genetic line get this far if I have undesirable traits. I need to learn more about evolution.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:03 PM
1

Yeah man I just be myself, try to get to know them ya know. I don't try to impress anyone haha, if you like me great! If not, have a great day!
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:03 PM
2

Yeah been trying for the past 8 years to get a date but damn this shit is hella hard
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:02 PM
1

What if all you ever experience is rejection?
/r/seduction02/02/22 11:15 AM
1

At least there would be less depressed virgins like myself.
/r/seduction14/01/22 10:48 AM
0

Yeah, and I believe it should.
/r/seduction14/01/22 09:48 AM
1

Nah theres guys in their 40s who are still virgins, doesn't happen for everyone.
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:22 PM
1

Ah nice I'm below average, tried professional pics
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:07 PM
1

Ah fair, if only I was good looking lol, I tried all the apps but never got a match or reply.
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:05 PM
1

How did you lose it then
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:00 PM
1

Ah yeah, I ain't losing it anytime soon lol.
/r/seduction04/01/22 03:57 PM
1

How did you lose your virginity at 28 but are now 27?
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:49 PM
1

Never met one who was interested
/r/seduction22/12/21 04:13 PM
1

You don't think I've tried?
/r/seduction22/12/21 04:04 PM
1

Nah my type is average plain women but I've never met one who was interested in me.
/r/seduction22/12/21 03:46 PM
1

So wanting to get with a woman shouldn't be a goal of mine?
/r/seduction22/12/21 03:00 PM
1

Not missing anything? Then why does everyone want to date?
/r/seduction22/12/21 02:53 PM
3

I'm 5 7, average looking Indian guy. Nah I've tried social hobby groups, bars and clubs.
/r/seduction22/12/21 02:16 PM
1

Oh yeah trust me, in the past 8 years I've put myself out there rigoursley. Tried social clubs when I was at college, tried every free dating app and have been clubbing and to bars many times. At least I'm used to rejection now though.
/r/seduction22/12/21 02:04 PM
1

I mean wouldn't they figure it out when the see I have no clue what I'm doing in bed?
/r/seduction22/12/21 02:01 PM
4

Idk, my law degree was infinitely easier than getting a date.
/r/seduction22/12/21 01:09 PM
1

No
/r/seduction22/12/21 01:03 PM
1

Just because I don't have women be attracted to me doesn't make me a loser.
/r/seduction22/12/21 12:59 PM
1

Ah lucky you, the only time a woman has initiated a conversation with me was when she was asking what I wanted to order.
/r/seduction22/12/21 12:58 PM
3

Yeah I've creeped women out just by smiling at them, I'm well aware I'm a creep. I'm trying hard to stop that behaviour.
/r/seduction21/12/21 06:36 PM
1

Oh yeah that's for sure, I wouldn't have any friends if I was a mute Haha.
/r/seduction21/12/21 05:27 PM
5

Yeah lol I've got a law degree, I workout daily, I have friends, I have hobbies. I'm happy in all areas of my life expect my dating life.
/r/seduction21/12/21 05:27 PM
2

Let it flow naturally? So she approached you then?
/r/seduction21/12/21 05:26 PM
1

How do I act normal? For some reason I do really well with guys, have loads of guys friends and can talk to them very easily. My struggles are purely with women.
/r/seduction21/12/21 05:25 PM
3

Well I've been working on myself for over a decade now but still don't feel any closer to getting my first date, 4 years is not that much tbh. Porn is the only sexual activity I get lol. I'm great at listening! But I can't seem to hold the interest of any women, they actively avoid eye contact with me.
/r/seduction21/12/21 05:24 PM
0

Yeah approaching is easy, getting a yes? Not so much.
/r/seduction21/12/21 05:22 PM
2

What if you're naturally just quiet or prefer to be quiet?
/r/seduction21/12/21 03:35 PM
5

Yeah but would women find it weird that I'm 28 and never touched a woman?
/r/seduction21/12/21 03:13 PM
2

Yeah I read about this in models years ago, great advice but hasn't worked just yet.
/r/seduction21/12/21 03:10 PM
13

Oh no I shower and work out daily, I get a haircut every 2 to 3 weeks. I use cologne and deodorant. You're right about not being able to form intimate bonds with women however.
/r/seduction21/12/21 02:48 PM
7

Idk just never met a girl who was interested in me tbh. I find it extremely difficult to have a woman keep a conversation going with me. Any advice on how to get on the right track?
/r/seduction21/12/21 02:47 PM
1

Couldn't even get a single date
/r/seduction14/11/21 03:46 PM
1

I was at college for 4 years, graduated a kissless virgin.
/r/seduction14/11/21 02:50 PM
1

Oh no I'm 24 right now, but I have been trying to get a date for the last 8 years to no avail.
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:25 PM
6

Yeah I've achieved many, like getting my law degree. I'm happy in every area of my life expect my dating life, so I'm gonna try spend the next 16 years on getting a date.
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:19 PM
9

Well I typically avoid approaching women out of fear of creeping them out. What can I do so I'm not desperate to get a woman?
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:18 PM
8

Tried every free dating app but never got a match. They don't really work well for average looking guys.
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:17 PM
2

Why? I like the UK!
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:15 PM
8

24
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:15 PM
7

I've chased my goals my entire life and no woman has followed
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:09 PM
2

Right now my life is devoid of any girls so I'm not sure about that haha
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:08 PM
8

No lol
/r/seduction30/10/21 02:27 PM
-1

As long as your in a social setting
/r/seduction30/10/21 01:57 PM
-52

I'm in the UK, not really socially acceptable to approach strangers here. I'll have to try find some hobby groups
/r/seduction30/10/21 01:50 PM
5

Ah cool, at least I know it ain't my fault then.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:34 PM
4

I live in the UK, and yeah I've been working out for years. I'm not interested in a gang bang, I just want to get to know a woman.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:34 PM
17

Nah I Iive in London
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:33 PM
8

I mean at clubs and shit I always see those type of women with tall good looking men so idk
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:33 PM
4

It's not so much the virginity that I have an issue with, more so the fact that I can't find a woman who would be interested in getting to know me.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:32 PM
24

It really isn't lol. Average and attractive are not the same lmao. I'm average and short and also Indian.
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:51 PM
8

Idk my standards are non existent.
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:51 PM
2

5 7
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:42 PM
3

Bumble, okcupid, plenty of fish and coffee meets bagel
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:32 PM
3

Idk then, I've tried various photos and bios
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:30 PM
1

Like a dozen or so.
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:09 PM
32

Lol if it was that easy I'd have a body count of 5 by now.
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:04 PM
5

Eh fat girls have the same high standards as other women in my experience.
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:04 PM
4

Yeah I have done this but never met a woman who was interested. I don't think clubs are a good place for short, average looking men.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:44 AM
20

No thanks, I'm glad you've found your true sexuality though.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:37 AM
14

Yeah I honestly wish I was gay, then I'd finally be happy and have a fulfilling dating life. Gay men love me Haha. But unfortunately even the thought of being with a guy makes me physically sick. Life is just a troll.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:33 AM
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Honestly if I'm still a virgin at 30, which I wouldn't even be surprised by, I think I'll just start seeing prostitutes. Not being able to touch a woman in your whole life sucks ass.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:29 AM
61

Is it normal for it to be this difficult though? I've been trying to get a date for 8 years now.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:22 AM
3

Lmao that's BS, I was at university for 3 years, graduated a kissless virgin
/r/seduction15/09/21 12:46 PM
1

Eh theres guys in their 30s and 40s who have been working themselves for decades and never kissed a woman, nothings guaranteed.
/r/seduction09/09/21 02:48 PM
1

I was always focusing on myself 👍
/r/seduction09/09/21 02:40 PM
1

Yeah the latter of those is completely out of my control.
/r/seduction09/09/21 02:30 PM
1

I mean I was happy with myself at 16 lol, but self improvement never ends
/r/seduction09/09/21 02:21 PM
2

I'm not quitting on myself, I'm quitting on trying to get a date lol. Been trying since I was 16, I'm 24 now. Time to move on.
/r/seduction09/09/21 02:12 PM
1

Yeah my approach has always just been to treat women like people and try to get to know them, I'm not very good at game.
/r/seduction09/09/21 02:03 PM
1

Yeah lol the competition is way too fierce for me to compete. I've tried every free dating app but never got a match so I'm not much of a dating prospect in the eyes of women.
/r/seduction09/09/21 01:56 PM
2

I've been working out daily for years, the only people who have noticed are other men.
/r/seduction09/09/21 01:52 PM
0

UK
/r/seduction09/09/21 12:55 PM
-1

As a 24 year old indian kissless virgin , probably not.
/r/seduction09/09/21 12:37 PM
3

This thread gives me hope as a 23 year old kissless virgin.
/r/seduction10/04/21 01:23 PM
5

How could confidence be the deciding factor in whether or not they swipe? It's pure looks on dating apps.
/r/seduction08/03/21 03:11 PM
4

Lmao your looks got you the matches.
/r/seduction08/03/21 12:49 PM
7

Confidence is why you get matches and some of us get zero?
/r/seduction06/03/21 01:49 PM
1

Have you ever been on the r/tinder profile review thread? Plenty of average looking men with great profiles who get zero matches.
/r/seduction12/02/21 01:49 PM
1

I don't live in India
/r/seduction18/01/21 09:22 AM
1

How do you make friends at the gym? And what sports would you recommend?
/r/seduction17/01/21 04:40 PM
2

Unfortunately no.
/r/seduction17/01/21 04:35 PM
1

I have wide circle of friends
/r/seduction17/01/21 04:24 PM
2

Why don't you make the moves?
/r/seduction12/12/20 11:46 PM
2

Why is it rational for me to approach her but not rational to expect her to approach me? My soulmate would be someone who puts in equal effort.
/r/seduction15/11/20 03:07 PM
1

If she's my soulmate why doesn't she come up to me to spark a conversation?
/r/seduction15/11/20 12:48 PM
6

I mean I'm a 23 year old virgin who's tried very hard to get laid so I know what my man is talking about, shit ain't easy.
/r/seduction14/11/20 06:36 PM
4

He's not wrong.
/r/seduction14/11/20 06:27 PM
1

Not in my experience
/r/seduction14/11/20 05:34 PM
1

Ah I'm not really the show off type of guy. I prefer humility.
/r/seduction14/11/20 05:13 PM
1

I tend to get one word answers like not much.
/r/seduction14/11/20 05:13 PM
1

Still in college but aspiring to be a lawyer!
/r/seduction14/11/20 05:12 PM
1

Could be, although I find making Male friends very easy. Do guys just not care that much about personality?
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:41 PM
2

I'm not a chain or bracelet kinda guy. Guess I'll stick to having zero matches.
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:40 PM
1

I'd say I'm average but I do get zero matches on dating apps so maybe.
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:35 PM
1

It's not a matter of having things to lose, it's a matter of sexuality.
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:28 PM
1

If I was sexually attracted to men I'd definitely give it a try!
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:11 PM
1

Well if they don't want kind and caring men then they don't want me. I'm not going to become an asshole just to get laid. I'll stick to being true to myself and wanking off to porn.
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:08 PM
1

My point is that isn't weird or strange. It happens to a lot of men. Getting laid isn't easy. I guess we are just going to have agree to disagree on this one.
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:03 PM
1

Of course I like myself more than some random woman who I just met 😂. I've know myself my whole life and known her for about 15 seconds. Everyone seems to think that virgins must hate themselves or put women on a pedestal. I can personally attest that this isn't always the case. I prefer complimenting women on things they actually have control over, like their sense of fashion or humor. I guess I'm more attracted to personality than looks. As I've said before, I'd know I'd make a kind, caring, l…
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:02 PM
2

I'm not sure, but that's what I mean, getting laid ain't easy lmao. Even at a nightclub where people are drunk, women still turned around or walked off when they saw me approach. And that happens to a lot of guys. It isn't weird to not be seen as sexually attractive by women.
/r/seduction14/11/20 02:51 PM
0

My standards aren't very high, my type is average plain women. Although, I wouldn't be opposed to below average women if there was a connection.
/r/seduction14/11/20 02:30 PM
1

I don't know, my friends and family say that I'm smart, funny and kind. I don't think I am creepy but I have definitely creeped women out unintentionally as they have walked off when they saw me approaching. What do you mean by too different? I know they don't feel attraction towards me. Thanks for the luck!
/r/seduction14/11/20 02:29 PM
1

I'm not sure why you assume I'm going up to women and asking them let's have sex 😂. I keep telling ya, I just speak to them like normal people. Women aren't some extra terrestrial species, they're just human beings. They want someone to show interest in them as a person. But that doesn't mean that if you do that women will be interested in you sexually or romantically. Again, I'm extremely comfortable in my body and I have much belief in myself. I know I'd make a kind, caring, loving and attenti…
/r/seduction14/11/20 02:27 PM
1

True, wome give out numbers just to get men to stop pestering them. Getting a woman to pick up the phone on the other hand, that's a different story.
/r/seduction14/11/20 02:22 PM
2

Not every woman is desperate. But any desperate woman can use tinder and get laid the same evening. Hope that clears up any confusion. The reason why women respond positively to you is because you have a lot of skill dude, not because women are easy to attract. I literally just said I talk to women like normal people, I just try to get to know them and when they reject me I don't pester them. I say have a good day and move on to the next. I have a wide circle of friends so I don't think my socia…
/r/seduction14/11/20 02:21 PM
2

Well I'll take it! At least it goes to show we are confident, persistent and chase after our goals not matter how many times we are knocked down!
/r/seduction14/11/20 01:55 PM
4

1) I'm not sure about that. Any woman could jump on Tinder and arrange a hookup for the evening within 15 minutes. Furthermore, if women are as desperate as men we would have a lot more women approaching men. As you are aware, this is not the case. I can also say from experience that women are not desperate, or at the very least there aren't any desperate women here in London. 2) It difficult to get a sense of what to say and not be nervous when you've never had any success with women. As of now…
/r/seduction14/11/20 01:54 PM
2

There's dozens of us!
/r/seduction14/11/20 01:35 PM
1

Tell him that you like him and want to date him. Good luck!
/r/seduction14/11/20 01:21 PM
1

And how did that help you?
/r/seduction03/11/20 04:59 PM
1

Okay cool, guess I'll try that when lockdown is over. Thanks!
/r/seduction03/11/20 02:40 PM
1

I have the first two on lock but could you elaborate on the third please?
/r/seduction03/11/20 02:25 PM
1

Has this topic been spoken about before?
/r/seduction01/11/20 02:18 PM
1

Ah, well whoever said guys care more about looks then girls was the biggest liar.
/r/seduction01/11/20 01:51 PM
1

Ah, it's a lot different here in the UK
/r/seduction01/11/20 10:58 AM
1

Really? It's the complete opposite for me. Where are you from?
/r/seduction01/11/20 10:54 AM
3

I don't know, knowing that a single woman found me attractive would be enough to increase my confidence for a long time. In any case, it's a lot easier to be happy when you're dating and meeting women than being alone. The problem of never experiencing intimacy or romantic love would definitely be solved by a woman.
/r/seduction01/11/20 10:53 AM
1

Or just ask them out on a date and depending on their answer you'll be able to deduce whether they like you or not.
/r/seduction01/11/20 10:21 AM
2

Some of us have never touched a woman. Experiencing that intimacy would definitely increase our confidence and our happiness.
/r/seduction01/11/20 10:14 AM
2

If it was that simple I wouldn't be a 23 year old virgin
/r/seduction01/11/20 10:03 AM
1

Unfortunately I'm a heterosexual Male human being who has feelings of loneliness and I yearn intimacy and romance. I wish I could turn my hormones off and forget about dating but thats not possible unfortunately
/r/seduction18/10/20 11:30 AM
1

Post op or pre?
/r/seduction17/10/20 01:51 PM
1

It's clear from the responses in this thread and posts on seduction in general that women get a free pass. I mean even you are saying why should a woman be held to those standards. Why should men then?
/r/seduction17/10/20 12:45 PM
1

That's probably because women are given a free pass for this stuff, whereas men are told to be direct and confident. Has nothing to do with biology
/r/seduction17/10/20 12:41 PM
1

Yet if a woman was to post about her dating woes no one's gonna tell her to shut up and and 'be a woman'. This is what I mean by double standards
/r/seduction17/10/20 08:39 AM
2

1) Sounds like a self inflicted problem to me. They could, maybe, value other characteristics instead of money? I think that would solve this issue. 2) Women also have the luxury of make up to boost their looks. This is not socially acceptable for men. Women also prioritise looks, that's a fact. I'm not saying being confident is a bad thing. I just don't understand why women don't have to be confident. I want to be with a partner who is secure in themselves and not afraid to approach me for conv…
/r/seduction17/10/20 08:33 AM
1

Exactly, I have standards too. How can I trust and respect someone who doesn't approach me and instead expects me to risk being rejected or labelled a creep? I'm not attracted to people who expect others to do all the hard work.
/r/seduction17/10/20 08:26 AM
1

Sometimes you can do everything right and still fail
/r/seduction17/10/20 08:22 AM
1

I'm just tried of the non stop rejection and would like someone else to do the hard work now
/r/seduction17/10/20 08:21 AM
1

Why shouldn't she?
/r/seduction17/10/20 08:20 AM
1

Nice argument
/r/seduction17/10/20 08:19 AM
1

Not my kinda thing. Appreciate the advice nonetheless
/r/seduction16/10/20 01:43 PM
1

Woah easy there cheif, no one's blaming women for everything. I'm just highlighting the double standards between men and women in dating.
/r/seduction16/10/20 01:43 PM
1

What double standards do women face in dating?
/r/seduction16/10/20 01:33 PM
2

I wish I could be that charismatic guy who can get women whenever he wants but I can't. I've been trying since I was 16 to get a date. The way I see it, I'd rather have the problems women face when dating then the problems men face. Shits harder than my law degree
/r/seduction16/10/20 01:31 PM
2

Yeah same. Been trying to get a date since I was 16 and nothing about this is fun. But unfortunately my hormones don't allow me to just move on and forget about intimacy. I wish there was a way to just turn off the part of my brain that wants to be with a woman.
/r/seduction16/10/20 01:29 PM
0

I wish, unfortunately I'm not attracted to men.
/r/seduction16/10/20 01:27 PM
2

But if a guy was to leave a note everyone would call him a pussy and the he needs to be direct and just approach. Women should be held to the same standard
/r/seduction16/10/20 01:27 PM
1

Dating is definitely not fun. I have more fun during my morning shits then I do trying to get a date.
/r/seduction16/10/20 01:26 PM
3

Not all women are attracted to broad shoulders, some prefer tall skinny men, some prefer dad bods. Same with men. Some guys prefer thicker girls, some men like women who are skinny. We are certainly not slaves to pre programmed notions of attractiveness. We are no longer living in caveman times. It's 2020, men and women are equal.
/r/seduction16/10/20 01:24 PM
1

But that could be taken as a friend inviting someone to hangout.
/r/seduction16/10/20 01:19 PM
2

Indirectly? How does one indirectly ask someone out on a date?
/r/seduction16/10/20 12:41 PM
1

So are you saying that you've only ever liked one guy, the one you approached?
/r/seduction16/10/20 12:29 PM
1

Yeah exactly. Their idea of approaching is leaving a number on a table and running away. I just find that extremely unattractive; they expect us to approach but aren't willing to do themselves. As for the making the move, it should be a mutual responsibility. The man shouldn't be blamed for not making a move if the women didn't either.
/r/seduction16/10/20 12:24 PM
4

That sounds like an excuse to me. Human beings aren't slaves to pre programmed ideas. Biology can influence sure, but it does not control our actions
/r/seduction16/10/20 12:21 PM
4

My point is why aren't women held to these standards? Why does a man have to be confident and high value but a woman doesn't have to be confident enough to approach men? I'm just tired of the constant rejection and I guess I want someone else to do the hard work. I'm trying hard to get over myself but it ain't easy!
/r/seduction16/10/20 12:00 PM
1

Can't those 'lonely' women just use Tinder?
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:15 AM
2

Wait you got two hundred matches?? I can't even get one
/r/seduction13/10/20 10:13 AM
1

Girls giving eye contact, flirting, playing with their hair, touching your arm, wanting to talk to you. None of this has happened to me
/r/seduction13/10/20 09:54 AM
1

Got any tips for making female friends?
/r/seduction11/10/20 01:32 AM
1

I've never rejected a girl or anything.
/r/seduction11/10/20 01:30 AM
1

Zero as here in the UK lockdown started around March
/r/seduction10/10/20 10:54 AM
1

Do men and women require different social skills to be successful with? For some reason I can make Male friends easily but I've never had a female friend. How can I take the conversation to a more engaging place?
/r/seduction10/10/20 09:13 AM
2

Currently I'm rocking a medium fade with a side part, I use clay to help style it. I wear Jean's, a shirt (or jumper depending on how the British Weather is feeling) and jacket and some nice trainers. I'd love to talk more but I need the other party to engage with me too, otherwise it feels like I'm talking to a wall. In college I was pretty consistent but lately due to covid I have been unable to meet many women.
/r/seduction10/10/20 08:58 AM
1

Well for example at drama club, I'd just try to get to know them, just like I talk with the guys there. I'd ask them what they study, where they are from etc. But I just got one word answers and no questions back. In terms of appearance, I'd rate myself as average. I workout daily, I always make sure hygiene is on point. However, I have never got a match or reply on dating apps so I might be overrating myself
/r/seduction10/10/20 08:48 AM
1

You say worrying about it won't help but then you say women expect experience so I should be worried? Also, I'm not 'waiting', if I could have I would have lost my virginity at 16, I just haven't met any women who was interested thus far. And yes, that's the part of the chain that I'm struggling at, finding a girl who is actually interested in me. How can I improve in this area? I workout daily, always make sure hygiene is on point and I wear fashionable clothes. What else can I do?
/r/seduction10/10/20 08:44 AM
1

Nah, they were visibly disinterested and gave one word answers. I don't want to date girls like that
/r/seduction10/10/20 08:37 AM
1

Improvement is a life long journey though. Are you saying I should never worry?
/r/seduction10/10/20 08:36 AM
1

I no longer use dating apps as they were having a negative effect on my self esteem. In regards to interactions, they all pretty much go the same. One word answers, lack of interest. Notably, this does not happen with men; they actually respond and sometimes even initiate conversation with me! This has never happened with a woman.
/r/seduction10/10/20 08:35 AM
1

Meeting people isn't possible right now due to Covid. I guess I'll try nightclubs again whenever they open. Also, if you include online dating then the number is in the hundreds. Thanks for the detailed response
/r/seduction10/10/20 08:30 AM
3

So getting rejected by 50 women in a row is normal then?
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:54 PM
3

Where can I meet more women then?
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:53 PM
3

Don't know why you assume I don't try and talk to women. I was part of my drama society for 2 years in college, tried talking with many women. I have been to countless bars and nightclubs. I've just never met a woman who wanted to date or hangout with me.
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:47 PM
2

No I don't really have the money right now to spare on a coach. Maybe once I have developed a career
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:04 PM
4

Yeah I mean literally zero lol. Good to know I still got time though!
/r/seduction09/10/20 07:47 PM
2

So my situation is normal then?
/r/seduction09/10/20 06:46 PM
8

I have been improving myself since I was 18, will definitely keep it up!
/r/seduction09/10/20 06:30 PM
1

Erm probably a few dozen? Around 50 perhaps.
/r/seduction09/10/20 06:06 PM
8

I'm panicking after reading your comment!
/r/seduction09/10/20 06:06 PM
2

Ah so not the opposite then
/r/seduction04/10/20 01:04 PM
1

You get no tinder matches but go on loads of dates? How?
/r/seduction04/10/20 12:50 PM
1

Yeah sadly. Guess looks are more important than I thought. Many thanks
/r/seduction28/09/20 09:55 PM
2

Ah I see. For me I feel like making female friends would help me to understand women, then I'd focus on losing my virginity
/r/seduction28/09/20 07:06 PM
1

Eh idk, I have random guys approach me no problem. Just the other day I got offered a beer by some random guy when I was sitting at a park bench. I don't really see girls approaching guys at like drama society either. Think maybe in the UK they don't like making the first move
/r/seduction28/09/20 04:54 PM
1

My zero matches on dating apps leads me to believe otherwise
/r/seduction28/09/20 04:49 PM
1

How can I stop them feeling like that? My goal is just to make my first female friend
/r/seduction28/09/20 12:45 PM
1

I'm not even trying to seduce them, just make a female friend
/r/seduction28/09/20 11:48 AM
1

Yes, men are far more receptive though
/r/seduction27/09/20 11:52 AM
5

How does the woman know you have something worth talking about before she approaches you?
/r/seduction23/09/20 02:08 PM
2

It's absolutely bizarre to me!
/r/seduction23/09/20 11:42 AM
3

I've never even had a woman initiate conversation with me. How do these guys have women actually approaching them for sex?!?!
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:46 AM
5

How long does it normally take before a woman is interested if you're just being yourself? Been at it since I was 16
/r/seduction19/09/20 08:30 PM
0

You have women approach you?
/r/seduction19/09/20 08:29 PM
1

Ask her out on a date
/r/seduction19/09/20 08:08 PM
39

Why are you speaking on behalf of all women lmao. Most women do have extremely high standards, hence the constant posts of guys getting zero matches on dating apps. Guys do not get approached so we have to ,by nature, approach as many women as possible before we get a yes.
/r/seduction19/09/20 08:00 PM
2

Been on a dry spell for 23 years, you'll be fine.
/r/seduction19/09/20 07:07 PM
1

I have friends in real life, I've never found it difficult to make friends honestly. Lol how does that not sound human, do humans not work out and dance in nightclubs? I have no incel vibe, I don't hate women nor do I think they are different from men. They're just people.
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:22 AM
1

I know but I have been trying to get a date since I was 16. I'd really like to have some sucess at this point
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:20 AM
1

I've been myself for my whole life, yet I have been unable to attract any women. If it was that simple there wouldn't be a subreddit called Seduction where men discuss how to attract women.
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:19 AM
1

I'd be cautious not to creep her out ngl, I have very little experience with flirting with girls.
/r/seduction09/09/20 08:13 PM
1

Ok, thank you very much. Cool username too btw 😂
/r/seduction09/09/20 06:17 PM
1

I tried every free dating site under the sun but never got a match or reply. I no longer use apps as they were having a detrimental effect on my self esteem. The stuff about becoming a better man, however, is right up my alley. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction09/09/20 05:58 PM
1

In what ways has this book helped you? I'll definitely give it a read.
/r/seduction09/09/20 05:56 PM
1

Yes you're right, travelling is indeed quite cathartic. But I want advice to make myself more datebale and attractive to women. My approaches thus far have resulted in no success.
/r/seduction09/09/20 05:30 PM
1

Well when Covid 19 wasn't a thing I was part of my drama society at college. That was a blast. But right now, I don't really know what hobbies to explore, or even how.
/r/seduction09/09/20 05:21 PM
1

I already have hobbies. I enjoy playing football, playing video games, music, movies, trying out new foods, driving. But these haven't resulted in success for my dating life. That's why I asked what do you recommend. What hobbies of yours have helped you seduce women?
/r/seduction09/09/20 05:15 PM
1

What shall I read? I've already read Models
/r/seduction09/09/20 05:13 PM
1

Cool, will definitely keep the gym going. What hobbies do you recommend?
/r/seduction09/09/20 05:08 PM
1

Is seduction only for good looking guys? I could always say the mask has to stay on
/r/seduction26/08/20 04:38 PM
2

I've been alone my whole life lol. How do you create and abundance mentality when you've been rejected by every girl you've approached? I'd be lying to myself if I said women wanted to be with me.
/r/seduction26/08/20 03:16 PM
1

None around me are open
/r/seduction26/08/20 02:48 PM
2

I workout daily, guess I just have to wait till Corona subsides then
/r/seduction26/08/20 02:48 PM
2

Yeah I used the tinder subreddit for advised, changed up my pics but still nothing. I guess I'm just not good looking enough for tinder. Any other way to get laid?
/r/seduction26/08/20 12:49 PM
2

Not everyone gets dates and numbers. Even a girl saying hi can be an accomplishment for some of us
/r/seduction26/08/20 12:20 PM
1

Ah shucks, well I guess I don't know what I missed out on at least.
/r/seduction26/08/20 12:13 PM
1

Approach where? Here in the UK it isn't really socially acceptable to approach random people and ask them out
/r/seduction26/08/20 12:09 PM
1

I wish
/r/seduction22/08/20 08:18 PM
1

Yes I work out daily via pullups and pushups. I always ensure my clothes, hygiene and fashion are on point. Hmm well I've been putting myself out there since I was 16, 23 now and haven't met a woman who was interested in a date yet. How many goals do I need to crush before I get some female attention?
/r/seduction14/08/20 03:09 PM
1

An escort? I'm only looking for a blowjob and I'll wear protection.
/r/seduction14/08/20 02:20 PM
1

Yeah you've had girls show you interest. It's hard to not be desperate when you've never even touched a girl and never have met a woman who was interested in a date. I can't even make female friends where I approach just to get to know them
/r/seduction14/08/20 02:03 PM
1

I'd imagine a kissless virgin like me is a little more desperate than you lads who at least manage to get dates lol
/r/seduction14/08/20 01:50 PM
1

Yeah approaching in real life is just as ineffective as online dating for me. I'll definitely wear protection, thanks!
/r/seduction14/08/20 01:49 PM
1

I don't have any female friends unfortunately. Seems like prostitution is my only option. Thanks for the info!
/r/seduction14/08/20 01:48 PM
1

Online dating just doesn't work for me, I've tried different pics and bios, every single app results in zero matches. Swiping right every day across multiple apps and getting nothing back wasnt doing any good to my self esteem so I've deleted them now.
/r/seduction14/08/20 12:59 PM
1

I rub one out daily, hasn't helped in the least. Some days I do it multiple times.
/r/seduction14/08/20 12:46 PM
1

I don't mind putting in effort, just my effort so far has not resulted in a girl liking me and I'm getting desperate to experience some sort of sexual activity.
/r/seduction14/08/20 12:46 PM
22

Thank for this! As a 23 year old virgin, I get tried of people advising me to try get a girlfriend, as if that's even easy. I'm not ready for a relationship, just want to have some sex, and there's nothing wrong with that!
/r/seduction10/08/20 05:48 PM
1

23 year old virgin. How do I get my first kiss?
/r/seduction10/08/20 02:41 PM
6

You're lucky man, I've never met a woman who was interested in friendship with me. Keep it up!
/r/seduction10/08/20 02:41 PM
2

Lol if it was as easy as going out there and finding women that share my tastes I'd be on a triple digit body count by now. I don't get any matches on dating sites so women generally do not find me very attractive. I personally think I'm decent enough.
/r/seduction10/08/20 12:30 PM
1

Lucky dude! I'm fit, got a six pack and still can't get a woman.
/r/seduction10/08/20 11:30 AM
1

Your answer to how to stop despairing about women not being interested in me is to stop despairing? Thanks, I guess. If I was a women, I think I'd think I'm good looking. I take care of my hygiene, fitness and fashion. Always make sure my hair is on point etc.
/r/seduction10/08/20 11:28 AM
1

Like I said, I don't get any matches or replies on dating sites. You're probably very good looking.
/r/seduction09/08/20 01:44 PM
3

Was part of my drama society at college for 2 years because I enjoy acting. Met no interested women.
/r/seduction09/08/20 01:43 PM
1

I mean I can't even get my first date, definitely ain't thinking about kids.
/r/seduction09/08/20 01:41 PM
3

I always thought men and women were the same, so I just tried talking to women like they were men, asking them stuff about their hobbies and trying to get to know them. How can I better understand women then? I'll try these apps but I doubt they will work as dating apps are barren wastelands for me
/r/seduction08/08/20 05:03 PM
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You make it seem like getting dates is easy. 23 and never been on one. Shit is difficult in this day and age
/r/seduction08/08/20 04:59 PM
6

I have been working on myself for years. I study law, I workout daily, I have friends, I have a car. I always make sure my clothes and hygiene are on point. How much self improvement is needed before you start getting some dates? What apps are there to make female friends? I was unable to get any matches or replies on any dating sites but I guess I can try friendship apps. College definitely wasn't an easy place to make female friends. Made plenty of Male friends though
/r/seduction08/08/20 04:55 PM
4

How I stop being a creep? I just try to get to know them, ask questions make jokes etc.
/r/seduction08/08/20 04:51 PM
1

I'm not a victim, I'm not entitled to a woman liking me. I have been trying to get a date since I was 16. I've definitely gone out and done something about it.
/r/seduction08/08/20 04:06 PM
3

I know they're not interested because I've never been flirted with, get one word answers and a blatant lack of interest from women. Yeah that's what happens, they see me approach and walk off or turn around, or they're friend will come along and pull them away. Sometimes they just start snogging the closest guy to them when they see me walking towards them.
/r/seduction08/08/20 04:04 PM
1

I'll try but I probably will get addicted, considering it's the only way I'll be able to experience intimacy. Thanks for the tip!
/r/seduction08/08/20 01:24 PM
1

How do I do this? Ask them that I want to meet their female friends? Wouldn't that be weird?
/r/seduction08/08/20 01:23 PM
1

Hmm idk I'd say I'm average. I don't have any facial deformities or anything. But maybe you're right. In that case, is it possible for a ugly guy to get laid?
/r/seduction08/08/20 01:22 PM
1

Have you been a with a prostitute to validate this advice? Or is it just conjecture?
/r/seduction07/08/20 07:07 PM
1

Yeah for me the normal way is just impossible. Thanks, will do!
/r/seduction07/08/20 07:02 PM
2

People call women who have sex sluts. People call virgins like me weirdos, betas, creepy. Who gives a fuck what other people call prostitutes or how they feel about them? I already feel shitty never having had a date. I want to stop feeling shitty about never having touched a woman. A prostitute seems like the perfect, and right now only, way to do so. Of course I would love to have met a nice girl, dated her, and lost my virginity the normal way. But after so many numerous attempts resulting in…
/r/seduction07/08/20 06:58 PM
1

Not in the UK you can't, people here don't like being approached. Add in wearing masks and a deadly virus, yeah that's not gonna work. Thanks!
/r/seduction07/08/20 06:34 PM
1

More like 3 years maybe
/r/seduction07/08/20 06:30 PM
1

Nope, sadly average looking
/r/seduction07/08/20 06:29 PM
1

Online I don't get any matches or replies. I have been clubbing numerous times but no women were interested. Many times I'd approach and her friends would come and take them away. Or they'd start snogging the closest guy to them when they saw I was walking towards them. Idk man, maybe girls in the UK just wanna be left alone.
/r/seduction07/08/20 06:27 PM
1

Why would it be that bad? I'd have experienced sex, touching a woman, being touched. I don't think I'll feel cringy
/r/seduction07/08/20 06:24 PM
1

Around a dozen or so
/r/seduction07/08/20 06:22 PM
1

Not possible to make any friends right now due to the covid situation. Still possible to see prostitutes however.
/r/seduction07/08/20 06:20 PM
1

What if you have tried to get laid the normal route but have had no success whatsoever? In your view, would it be alright to see a prostitute? Ijust want to experience a woman's touch, cuddling and stuff like that
/r/seduction07/08/20 06:16 PM
1

I don't get flirted with. Never had a woman compliment me or anything like that. I've just good a few pics of myself and my cats, and my bio lists my hobbies and stuff about me.
/r/seduction07/08/20 06:14 PM
1

Yeah I'm average looking unfortunately. I've been working out for a while now, home workouts now due to the virus. Got a six pack, definitely has improved my confidence but no difference with women
/r/seduction07/08/20 06:11 PM
1

I don't want to have to pay, but I've been trying since I was 16 and have been unable to get a date, let alone my first kiss, let alone having sex. I just want to have sex at this point, my sex drive is through the roof. I don't care about being a simp or whatever, I don't really care what others think of me, I legit just want to experience the touch of a woman.
/r/seduction07/08/20 06:09 PM
1

I guess I don't know when a woman is interested. I've never been flirted with or complimented by a woman so I'm not sure how they show interest. My standards are pretty non existent, I'll date any woman.
/r/seduction07/08/20 06:07 PM
2

None
/r/seduction06/08/20 04:43 PM
2

Not just dating sites. Never met a woman who was interested in real life either.
/r/seduction06/08/20 04:35 PM
6

I'm just being honest.
/r/seduction06/08/20 04:13 PM
5

This sounds promising. Thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction06/08/20 04:00 PM
2

My standards have been non existent for a while now. Why 6 months? With the current situation of world, it's now less likely for me to get laid than it was before when I was trying in college.
/r/seduction06/08/20 04:00 PM
6

Well I'm in the UK so it would be illegal. But I smoke weed too so fuck it!
/r/seduction06/08/20 03:36 PM
8

It is completely normal for average looking guys. It's women who never get 0 matches. I think you think dating apps are as easy for men as they are for you. I assure you, this is not the case
/r/seduction06/08/20 03:33 PM
8

I have been working out every day for quite some time now.
/r/seduction06/08/20 02:58 PM
7

I'm lean, got a six pack. I agree, confidence had definitely increased.
/r/seduction06/08/20 02:56 PM
6

I have switched up pics, tried different ones, still nothing. I don't want other guys who also don't get matches to read this and think they're something wrong with them. That kind of thinking ruins your self esteem. Its completely normal to get no matches on dating apps, for men.
/r/seduction06/08/20 02:55 PM
17

Eh it's actually quite common. Are you a woman? Dating apps work completely different for men. Just go on r/virgin or foreveralone, plenty of average looking guys who don't get any matches
/r/seduction06/08/20 02:45 PM
8

Of course
/r/seduction06/08/20 02:27 PM
9

Dating apps don't work for me. I have a wide circle of friends but that hasn't helped in meeting interested women. Why do you feel like you wasted your money? Did it not feel good? 50 bucks sounds like a bloody good deal!
/r/seduction06/08/20 02:17 PM
6

Tried every free dating site, never got a match or reply
/r/seduction06/08/20 01:59 PM
1

Uk
/r/seduction05/08/20 12:56 PM
1

I have tried every free dating app, never managed to get a match or reply
/r/seduction05/08/20 12:55 PM
1

Yes in college and at clubs
/r/seduction05/08/20 12:50 PM
1

What specific skill are needed to socialize effectively with women? Socialising with men is easy for me but I'm guessing I have to treat women differently?
/r/seduction05/08/20 12:50 PM
1

How do you get practise when girls aren't interested?
/r/seduction04/08/20 01:16 PM
2

I only use this account for advice on losing virginity so it might seem like that's all I do. I'm absolutely not complaining, I'm trying hard to improve myself. I work out, read and try to be a better person everyday. Reddit personal adverts don't really work for guys, there's only a few women on those subreddit and they get bombarded with messages. I'll try paying for tinder, although I have doubts it will work considering I was unable to get a single match
/r/seduction04/06/20 12:58 PM
1

Ah that's lucky man. I have tried every free dating site under the sun but have never gotten a match or reply.
/r/seduction04/06/20 12:14 PM
2

Well I had hoped I would be able to try get my first date during my last year at university but Covid 19 has put that plan to a halt. I have friends, I've been out clubbing many times but have had no success unfortunately. I have to be realistic, it's probably gonna be a few years until I have success. Thanks.
/r/seduction04/06/20 12:11 PM
1

Girls
/r/seduction06/05/20 05:30 PM
1

What do you talk about with them? I can never seem to get much of a conversation out of them.
/r/seduction06/05/20 05:12 PM
3

Yeah I have read Models and lot of the top voted posts in this sub. The most crucial thing I've learnt is the importance of inner game. Being confident and believing in myself has really made me happy in life, so I guess I have been successful in seduction in some way.
/r/seduction06/05/20 04:47 PM
2

Nah I'm not talking granny's, more like 30-50
/r/seduction20/03/20 04:34 PM
1

How should I work on myself? I work out, make sure my hygiene and fashion are on point. What else should I improve upon?
/r/seduction04/03/20 12:17 AM
2

I'd give myself a 5/10. But tbf, from what I've heard and seen, loads of guys don't get matches on dating sites.
/r/seduction04/03/20 12:06 AM
1

No, and I want to be with a woman who is interested in me not my money.
/r/seduction04/03/20 12:06 AM
0

So you don't approach women? I approach women and still can't get laid. So your advice is to stop approaching? Because I have never had a woman intiate a conversation with me unless she was asking what my order is.
/r/seduction20/02/20 02:54 PM
1

How do I figure out why women aren't interested then?
/r/seduction03/02/20 01:51 PM
1

It's much easier for gay men. Just go up to them and say let's go for a coffee.
/r/seduction03/02/20 12:39 PM
1

I'm 5 7 so that can't be it
/r/seduction01/02/20 05:03 PM
1

Hmm possibly but even then, hows a random muthafucka supposed to know where your mates are?
/r/seduction01/02/20 01:05 PM
0

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/e7tol8/why_looks_dont_matter/ Here's a post by a moderator of the sub stating that looks don't matter at all. There's a lot of guys on this sub who think it all boils down to personality which is absolute nonsense
/r/seduction27/01/20 12:33 PM
1

And people say looks don't matter...
/r/seduction25/01/20 01:37 PM
1

I've tried every free dating site but have never managed to get a match or reply. Dating apps aren't for me. Where else?
/r/seduction23/01/20 12:26 PM
1

No this does not happen. How should I change my dress sense?
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:53 AM
1

I guess so
/r/seduction10/01/20 03:18 PM
1

But I'm always focusing on my shit. Women have never came. So I'm assuming they'll come when I'm older? Ergo, I have to wait until im older for my first kiss.
/r/seduction10/01/20 03:11 PM
1

Do I really have to wait until I'm 40 for my first kiss?
/r/seduction10/01/20 03:00 PM
4

Please don't worry about my feelings, I'd rather have honesty. It is my looks after all
/r/seduction10/01/20 02:54 PM
0

Yeah I do/am all of the above sadly
/r/seduction10/01/20 02:53 PM
1

I still don't follow.
/r/seduction10/01/20 11:55 AM
1

Where does the assumption that I haven't built myself come from? And where does the assumption that I'm over sexualising come from?
/r/seduction09/01/20 04:43 PM
1

Seems like your advice is contradictory. On the one hand you say don't Jack off in order to stop focusing on sex and women. On the other hand you say don't leave a bar until you have a womans number
/r/seduction09/01/20 02:42 PM
1

Like I've mentioned, I only get one word answers and disinterest from women when I talk to them. I've tried to make female friends when I was at college yet none were interested. Men on the other hand actually initiated conversations with me, and did not walk off when I approached them for a conversation. I don't know how to increase my social friction. You're right, this stuff isn't easy. In my experience, it easier to get a law degree than it is to have a two sided conversation with a woman. A…
/r/seduction09/01/20 02:20 PM
1

How do I stop looking desperate then? I always approach with the intention of just meeting a new person, and if they seem awesome become friends with them. I guess they can sense my desperation. How can I combat this?
/r/seduction09/01/20 02:00 PM
2

It doesn't work. I study. I have a part time job. I have hobbies. I hang out with friends. Yet still I yearn to experience the touch of a woman. Its impossible to stop thinking about it.
/r/seduction09/01/20 01:56 PM
0

I guess I'm screwed then. I've tried very hard to forget about sex and not focus on wanting to be with them but its impossible. My hormones must be out of whack because I can't help but to want to have sex with a woman. And never having experienced the touch of a woman just makes me want to see what's it like even more. Oh well, thank fuck for porn
/r/seduction09/01/20 01:51 PM
1

I don't get it man. I think men and women are equal, some are nice some are terrible. Yet in my experience men are much more open and friendly than women. I don't know maybe I need a different set of social skills for women
/r/seduction09/01/20 01:49 PM
1

But they don't even give me eye contact. I'd feel like a creep trying to talk to a girl who clearly wants to be left alone. What other approaches can I try?
/r/seduction09/01/20 01:48 PM
3

Eh I've stopped masturbating plenty of times. All it does is make me extremely horny. Now I just do it once or twice a week, or I'll go insane. Also, if I can't get a single match or reply online, I'm not sure how not touching my willy will suddenly get women interested in me and get me matches.
/r/seduction09/01/20 01:44 PM
1

I don't think my conversational skills are bad as I find it extremely easy for me to make Male friends. My body language is open and friendly. My mindset is to see if the girl is even interesting, would I want to be friends with her or date her. What is the correct mindset to have then?
/r/seduction09/01/20 01:43 PM
1

I mean all I've ever gotten is rejection so I'm quite used to it now. I just never realized how much work and effort is required to even get a single date. People just make it seem like yeah go talk to girls, be confident and you'll find someone interested. It really isn't that easy in my experience. Its 2020, women are no longer slut shamed. Women are praised for exploring their sexuality. Its virgin men who are shamed now.
/r/seduction09/01/20 01:42 PM
1

I find the first statement hard to believe, as it's infinitely easier for a woman to get laid then it is for a man. I'm pretty much fulfilled where I am in life. I'm not super ripped but I'm slim and have a six pack. I have a decent circle of friends. On my way to getting a law degree. Everything is good in my life. Just wish I could I find a woman who was interested in me now so that I can experience dating and sex.
/r/seduction09/01/20 01:21 PM
0

Yeah that's all I've, and quite a few other guys, have ever experienced. Girls giving one word answers. I'm confident in myself, I know I'd make a good lover. But they always have closed body language and turn away when I approach. Some of us have never had a two sided conversation with a woman because we've never met one who wanted to talk with us.
/r/seduction09/01/20 01:06 PM
1

But how do guys you get laid get laid then? Do they just not cum and blue ball themselves?
/r/seduction09/01/20 01:03 PM
3

I have tried online dating but never have managed to get a match or reply. My type is average plain girls, my standards aren't very high I just wanna be able to touch a woman at this point. Even at clubs I try to approach average girls yet they walk off when they see me walk towards them.
/r/seduction09/01/20 12:50 PM
4

I've never met a girl who was interested
/r/seduction09/01/20 12:41 PM
1

Yeah I don't get this post. Talking to girls doesn't mean you're gonna get a girlfriend. The girls have to want you to talk to them.
/r/seduction09/01/20 12:41 PM
5

But what if you talk to girls but they just give you one word answers and walk off?
/r/seduction09/01/20 12:25 PM
1

Oh I thought we were having a discussion. I was genuinely interested in learning your perspective but no worries. I guess you have to be exciting and fun for a woman to engage in a simple conversation nowadays.
/r/seduction28/11/19 01:46 PM
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Why are you pointing out height and baldness? Are these factors that determine attractiveness? Think you've just proven my point. What makes an exciting lifestyle? May I ask, what makes your life exciting?
/r/seduction28/11/19 01:35 PM
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Oh you're a woman? I think the problem is women have extremely high standards. I mean you said it yourself, you find that most men don't look good in their pictures, and that a high quality man is a rarity. That's why men are unsuccessful online.
/r/seduction28/11/19 01:24 PM
1

How much improvement is needed before you can get a woman? I gym, study Law, have joined social hobby groups like the drama society but still have never met a woman who was interested.
/r/seduction28/11/19 01:20 PM
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Well those profiles are the ones that are shown, meaning they are the most successful. Seems like most guys are low quality guys who don't give a shit about a girls confidence then
/r/seduction28/11/19 01:16 PM
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All I see on Tinder are women using selfies and a low effort "I love travelling" bios. Yet men are expected to be the most confident, charismatic, fearless beings around with most exciting of lives. Seems like too much effort for little gain, in my opinion.
/r/seduction28/11/19 01:06 PM
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Jheeze think I'm just gonna stick to porn than jump through a bijillion hoops
/r/seduction28/11/19 01:01 PM
1

How do you get girls without approaching? I've been approaching since I was 16 and have yet to get a date.
/r/seduction15/11/19 12:29 PM
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I can talk about anything with my friends, that what I mean by being myself. No topic is out of bounds, in that sense me and my Male friends have quite a tight bond. I've never met a woman who was interested in friendship with me, however. I don't think my personality is attractive to women who want Male friends.
/r/seduction12/11/19 12:37 PM
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So I should just tell stories to women? With men I just be myself and they become friends. I guess with women you have to be more entertaining?
/r/seduction09/11/19 12:21 PM
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Hey man if I was you I'd take the 5s. Average girls can be nice too
/r/seduction09/11/19 12:18 PM
1

May I ask why you haven't had success?
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:19 PM
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I'm pretty sure I'm straight, like I'm not sexually attracted to men although I do find them more friendly generally. How do I make a female friend? Making small talk seems to bore them, so I'm not sure how else I can introduce myself.
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:19 PM
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My problem is, this far, I've been unable to find a connection with any woman. How long does it take to start finding connections between you and women?
/r/seduction08/11/19 03:11 PM
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How do you get that initial interest?
/r/seduction08/11/19 12:57 PM
1

Well that's the problem, I don't have fun speaking to women because they're so uninterested.
/r/seduction08/11/19 12:41 PM
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Ah I don't think I'll ever be able to just not care. I guess I just have too much of desire to experience what dating is like, what touching a girl is like and feeling wanted by her. It's impossible for me to not care about these things
/r/seduction08/11/19 10:36 AM
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But me loving myself and developing myself has not led to any success or attention from women.
/r/seduction08/11/19 10:07 AM
1

I'm quite content with the man that I have become. At this point i just want to have some experience with women, my life otherwise is very contentful. For me success would be having a conversation with a woman where she is actually engaged and not looking at the nearest exit. In terms of success in other areas of my life, they were much simpler to achieve. For example, to make friends I simply had to be myself, then friends introduce you to their friends and so on. For education, you read a book…
/r/seduction08/11/19 10:04 AM
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Jheeze imagine needing a coach for something 15 year olds can figure out. I really didn't realise seduction was going to be this hard. I thought it was just natural, men and women are sexually attracted to each so it should just happen , right? Boy was I wrong
/r/seduction08/11/19 09:44 AM
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Ah I think we have pretty much the same approach then. This stuff is more complicated then my degree, law. I just can't seem to figure out how to make a girl not feel creeped out by me.
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:45 AM
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What I meant by silly games is not treating the woman like a human. I try to build a genuine connection by just being myself. If I put on an act eventually it will wear off and the real me might not be the person who has a connection with the person, rather it was just the person I pretended to be. But I guess you're right, this obviously isn't working so if I want to experience the touch of a women in my life time I have to change myself.
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:35 AM
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Well I don't understand playing silly games with women, so when I approach I approach with the intention of finding out whether we are compatible. I try to figure out who she is, what kind of stuff she is into. I make jokes when appropriate but women are always visibly uncomfortable, they give one word answers and walk off which makes me weary of approaching more women because I don't want to creep them out. I've tried every online dating site under the sun but got zero matches and replies. At c…
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:23 AM
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Well everything I do in life I do it for myself. I go gym because it makes me feel good, I partake in hobbies because I want to learn more about them. I take care of my hygiene because I wouldn't want to be with a slob, and I have to be with myself 100% of the time. This has never correlated to success with women. I feel there's more to it than simply living life the way you want to live it. I'm glad this worked for you however.
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:01 AM
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And how did that turn into getting with women then? I'm certain that I don't need any external factors in order to be internally happy, just being alive is blessing itself. Yet this hasn't resulted in attraction from the opposite sex.
/r/seduction04/10/19 10:37 AM
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I have no female friends but I can ask my Male friends
/r/seduction19/09/19 12:32 PM
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Well whenever I approach it's with the intention to get to know a girl. I ask questions, make jokes when appropriate but nothing ever happens, they just walk off.
/r/seduction19/09/19 12:22 PM
1

Hmm this doesn't seem like the answer. Many people who aren't on steroids get laid.
/r/seduction19/09/19 11:45 AM
1

I do talk to women but I tend to get one word answers until they walk off.
/r/seduction19/09/19 11:37 AM
1

I thought being yourself was very important in seduction? You're saying I should just appear as a stereotypical man?
/r/seduction19/09/19 11:05 AM
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I am comfortable, the problem is they aren't comfortable with conversing with me. If she wanted, I'd have no problem having a 10 min conversation with a woman. None have ever stayed for longer than a minute unfortunately
/r/seduction12/09/19 02:44 PM
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I'm a college student, currently on a gap year now because I'm doing placement at a law firm. In terms of my looks, I'm below average height, 5'7 and I'm of Indian ethnicity. I'd say my looks are average but I've tried Tinder, Okcupid, Bumble, Hinge, but no matches or replies. Online dating is definitely not designed for guys like me. I swiped right maybe 70% of the time. This all seems way to complicated not gonna lie, I might just move on from all this dating stuff. Wish I could kill my sex dr…
/r/seduction12/09/19 02:43 PM
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I'm happy, smart average looking and quite happy with my life. But this hasn't equated to success with women. What is square one? How do I learn how to seduce women? I've used many of the tips that are mentioned on this subreddit but I guess they're expert level. What are the fundamentals?
/r/seduction12/09/19 02:19 PM
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I don't understand the not failing part. What does failing mean? The woman is the one who rejects so surely she is the one causing the guy to fail? I aim to be myself and get to know other people, men and women alike, it just seems men are more friendly whereas women are aburbt and uninterested.
/r/seduction12/09/19 02:09 PM
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I have been unable to attract any girl though. I've also tried every free dating site under the sun but have never managed to get a match or reply. They don't seem like toddlers to me, toddlers tend to at least be interested in what I have to say
/r/seduction12/09/19 12:23 PM
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Hmm I can talk to men pretty easily, they always converse back. Women on the other hand give me one word responses and walk off. Or it's just clear they're not interested in a conversation
/r/seduction12/09/19 10:20 AM
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How do you become a better man in the eyes of women? I work out, have hobbies, trying to make something of myself etc but it's still not enough?
/r/seduction12/09/19 10:11 AM
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Yeah I know I'm off putting to women but that's what I'm trying to figure out. I'm trying to understand what exactly it is that makes me a creep to women. There's been a lot of helpful stuff here and I'm grateful to myself for posting this question, as it has helped me a lot.
/r/seduction02/09/19 02:05 PM
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Yeah I'm physically fit. I do have abundance mentality in that I acknowledge there's plenty of fish in the sea, but as a virgin it's hard to accept that at the same time as having no girl be interested in me. I'd like to think I'd be a kind and empathetic partner. She and I would be a team and work together to make our lives better
/r/seduction02/09/19 02:03 PM
5

Lol yeah when I go clubbing I'm looking for a hookup
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:46 PM
1

Well I'd happy with a hookup or even a date, I'm not exclusively looking for a relationship.
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:35 PM
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How would you go about getting a girls number. I've never been able to do so.
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:33 PM
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No I joined drama club because I like drama and wanted to meet like minded people. Made plenty of Male friends but no girls were interested. I'll try that book
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:32 PM
1

I do talk to girls, but never met one interested in friendship
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:30 PM
1

Nope zero
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:25 PM
5

Ah okay I'll give this a try, thanks!
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:24 PM
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I said random girls, I don't have any female friends. My Male friends are just as stumped as me
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:20 PM
1

But will random girls know why I'm unsuccessful?
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:17 PM
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Stuck on step 1
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:13 PM
0

But I think it's normal to recognise that women and men are different. Like for instance most guys will hug their female friends but won't do the same with their Male counterparts, opting for a handshake instead. I think it's in our biology to treat women a little different from men
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:12 PM
1

Like I've mentioned I've tried this at the drama club but girls were either taken or not interested
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:11 PM
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Well I started working out, joined the drama club and starting going out more to increase my confidence. I guess I'm just not awesome enough of a person to attract girls.
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:09 PM
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Ok so how do I start a conversation without asking questions? What should I talk about? Normally I just ask situational questions like what did you think of the coursework, or what do you study.
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:04 PM
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Well although I know you mean well, there's plenty of virgin males in their 30s and 40s. It seems like maybe there isn't someone for everyone after all. I've also tried girls at college, at drama society. No luck.
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:00 PM
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I have zero female friends, never met any that were interested in friendship. I have quite a large social circle but it's just guys. At college and at clubs I approached women. At college it was solely to try and make friends at my lectures. At drama club there were girls that I was attracted to but it wasn't mutual unfortunately. I don't really know how good my photos are, they are clear and show my face however. My conversations are probably trash as girls just walk off. Although the same does…
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:58 PM
1

Well girls don't wanna be friends with me either. I do have plenty of Male friends but it's not the same. I guess even a female friend would make me happy enough to forget about sex
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:50 PM
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Hmm well yeah I'm short, 5'7. I'm also Indian and I've heard Indian guys talk about how they get rejected because of their ethnicity. I don't let such superficial factors affect me, because at the end of the day I can't do anything about it so I have to be confident and keep my head up. I guess I don't know how to flirt because I always just try to get to know the woman first, I make small talk but can never I interest girls in a conversation longer than 30 seconds.
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:49 PM
1

Yeah that's what I used when I went clubbing. Seems to only work for really good looking guys though as girls just walk away from me, or their friends come and pull them away
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:39 PM
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Yeah I've made posts but it's just crickets. Tried virginity exchange, even tried to use my well-endowment to appeal to women but no responses. There was a app called whisper which I had some success with, managed to sext with women but when it came time to share selfies I got blocked everytime. Since I've been at college I've tried very hard to socialise with women, so I'd say 2 years of full effort.
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:38 PM
5

I work out, and I am working towards my law degree, currently on break. Hasn't helped at all with girls
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:14 PM
1

It's not irrelevant to me as I want to have sex. I was just explaining the situation, i.e. zero experience with girls.
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:13 PM
1

Woah I never released women could read minds! In all seriousness I don't think me wanting to meet women is the reason I've never met a woman who was interested. Don't women on Tidner realise that the person they are talking to wants to have sex with them? Of course they do but that doesn't turn them off .I just wanted to make friends and socialise.
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:12 PM
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R4r subs are terrible, you never get a reply because the ratio is 90% male, and the women are bombarded with messages. Regarding Tinder, I've tried various pictures, and from what I've heard from the average guys experience, getting zero attention on Tinder is pretty standard. How many years of approaches does it take to get better. Been trying since I was 16 and have yet to get a girls number
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:09 PM
2

Yes, I even joined the drama club in a bid to try something new and maybe meet like minded women. Was there for two years but never met a girl who was interested
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:07 PM
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Yes many times, they either give one word responses or walk off
/r/seduction02/09/19 11:08 AM
2

Gently tease my relatives? What do you mean?
/r/seduction17/08/19 05:43 PM
3

I've never had a female friend in my life, girls just don't enjoy talking to me, I get one word answers. Have plenty of Male friends though. And what's the I'm ready look?
/r/seduction17/08/19 05:27 PM
5

Right but at a club I don't see anyone who is very ugly, the ugliest girls aren't interested but even they aren't that ugly ya feel me
/r/seduction17/08/19 05:26 PM
1

Can you please explain the point then, I'm inexperienced so I didn't know what he was talking about
/r/seduction17/08/19 03:35 PM
2

Trust me I've tried with all types if girls at the club, the lowest I've ever seen is 4's
/r/seduction17/08/19 03:07 PM
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I don't think I've ever seen a 1/10 irl. I've tried with fat chubby girls at the club but they're not interested, they just turn around or walk off. Where can I meet 1/10 girls?
/r/seduction17/08/19 02:52 PM
1

This isn't really helpful advice. It tells me nothing on how to get girls. I've been developing my strengths and improving myself since I was a teenager.
/r/seduction05/08/19 01:29 PM
1

Well I was a part of the drama club at my college for two years. No girls were interested there, I'd try to get to know them but they just give one word answers and walk off.
/r/seduction05/08/19 01:13 PM
1

Everytime I went clubbing I went with that intention, to have fun and maybe meet some interesting people. I enjoy myself, but whenever I approach a woman they walk off or their friends come along and pull them away. I don't think clubbing is the way for me.
/r/seduction05/08/19 12:44 PM
2

Ah you're tall so online dating was a cake walk for you. I'm 5 7 so tinder is a bust
/r/seduction18/07/19 02:00 PM
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So in a club I make sure the woman sees me first, never approach from behind. I then go up to her confidently, however, they either turn around, walk away or their friend pulls them away. On online dating most apps are match based, and as I get zero matches i dont get to message girls. Otherwise, I read their bio and try to make a joke or comment based upon it.
/r/seduction18/07/19 08:51 AM
2

He said he got more eye contact. Don't think that has any thing to do with confidence, they just found him more attractive
/r/seduction30/06/19 10:25 AM
4

Although I don't consider myself forever alone, I'm a 21 year old virgin, never kissed a girl. I go gym, have hobbies and am pretty confident in myself. Yet still I cant get any matches, girls at clubs walk away from me and generally no girls ever been interested. Some of us have tried very hard to improve ourselves and be dateable, but dating isn't fair and it isn't for everyone.
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:49 AM
4

How do you get matches? I've tried every dating app under the sun but have never got a reply or match
/r/seduction18/06/19 02:41 PM
1

I don't mean make them laugh as in like a clown, I mean trying to connect with them and make banter, like with a good Male friend. I tend to get one word answers and they walk off though
/r/seduction18/06/19 12:49 PM
1

Well currently my approach has been to try and make female friends, talk to them, get to know them make them laugh etc. Has been a complete failure. What other approaches can I try?
/r/seduction18/06/19 12:34 PM
1

Well I've been working on myself since I was 16 and have yet to get a girls number, so if anything I'm being over ambitious lol.
/r/seduction18/06/19 12:06 PM
4

You mean random girls on the street?
/r/seduction18/06/19 12:05 PM
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I've been at the drama club at my university for two years now, made many friends but no girls have been interested. How can I advertise myself best online?
/r/seduction12/06/19 01:23 PM
1

But the whole concept of seduction relates to impressing women to attract them...
/r/seduction10/05/19 12:01 PM
1

I've been trying since I was 16 but have yet to get a girls number. I have hobbies, I have friends and I have a decent personality but I guess I just don't have what it takes to attract girls. Escort seems like the only option. Thanks for the help
/r/seduction10/05/19 12:00 PM
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Not really man. I've tried approaching girls at college and at clubs but I get one word answers or they walk off. I've tried online dating but got zero matches and replies. My personality is clearly a turn off to a girl so I was hoping I could use my dick as a means of gaining interest
/r/seduction09/05/19 07:49 PM
2

Mate I just wanna get laid
/r/seduction09/05/19 05:22 PM
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So why do girls fawn over celebrities when they have no emotional connection with them? It's pure sexual attraction
/r/seduction09/05/19 03:45 PM
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Well I'm struggling to get female attention through the normal avenues which is why I asked about this.
/r/seduction09/05/19 03:03 PM
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