Sexual frustration is getting to me

Liberaler · 2022-03-17T15:40:32+00:00

reduce your pornography consumption and masturbation as much as possible. Contrary to common believe both things increase libido and in many cases frustration. (reducing time online in general is good for mental wellbeing)
you have to channel your sexual energy in some creative outlet. E.g. drawing, writing, singing & making music.
Doing sports will increase your libido, but at least reduce your feeling of frustration
make steps towards finding a romantic/sexual partner. These steps don't have to be big, just effective. Do it in a way the process is enjoyable, not just the result. Celebrate small victories.
Share emotional intimacy with your friends. By opening up you will get things from your chest.
See a female massage therapist (a serious one, not a hooker) to reduce your touch deprivation. Ask for light an sensible touch. Oxytocin (the cuddle hormone) will do its trick no matter the context.

monox60 · 2022-03-17T19:52:02+00:00

Don't let the kissless and sexless thing affect you too much. Being hung up on that affects you massively.

Go at dates trying to have a fun time whether you're getting laid or not. Of course try to be flirty and kiss if you can.

Top-Conversation678 · 2022-03-17T16:23:27+00:00

Go hit on women there is no better way, or you know you could go the dating apps route but there is huge competition there considering 98% of men do that

Traditional-Put2200 · 2022-03-18T02:32:15+00:00

Dude fucken hell, I used to be dating coach dm me and let’s get the v card out the way within the month or less. Ignore all these people saying it doesn’t matter and blah blah blah, it’s a pain point and everyone knows you’d be happier with women wanting to fuck you. Part of you already knows, respect that part of yourself and fix it.

Chicagoj1563 · 2022-03-17T20:17:44+00:00

Put your focus on your social skills which will lead to an actual sex life. Try to put things into perspective, you're feeding a potential sex addiction. Just tone it down, and try to work on meeting people, going out, etc...

Arcchimedes · 2022-03-17T14:27:12+00:00

Get a prostitute. Or start pick up. If you don’t know what that is, I got you. 😇

oceans-05 · 2022-03-17T20:50:49+00:00

Go on a party and loosen up with friends or go to the club and when you have a little alcohol just fn do it brotha you will get there I belobe in you

Title	Sexual frustration is getting to me
Author	Ploikblah
Upvotes	1
Comments	17
Date	March 17, 2022 2:22 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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