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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Relationship vs. Hookup VibesExactly, if you have many female friends, I'm not sure the value of having anymore. Most people only have a Finte number of friends they can keep in touch with on a regular basis. | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Relationship vs. Hookup VibesQuick question, are you answering as a guy? Would most women agree with what you wrote? | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Relationship vs. Hookup VibesHaha... Apparently I was drunk when I wrote that...I couldn't read it myself. Needed serious editing! | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 10:39 AM |
| 0 | Have you quit scenes where you are very unlikely to be successful?They do, but they don't meet in clubs and bars. | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | If you know you're not a catch...So you are saying you are confident even though you do get rejected and can expect a high rejection rate? Some people just don't have that level of confidence. They go out and even without approaching they can tell women are not interested. You would approach regardless? | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | If you know you're not a catch...I do understand what you are saying and the best way to do it is to not give a damn about your rejection rate or what people think of you. Be confident regardless. However, there are an unfortunate few for whom this is far harder. For example shorter men or certain ethnic minorities that most people make assumptions about and respond to in a particular way. That said, I do get it. It's just not easy. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 03:31 AM |
| 2 | I only attract women who want something seriousSo you attract women who just want hookups. Where do you go for them? | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Isn't being friends with girls a little pointless?I dunno. Look, I'm no better at this than you are. All I'm saying is I have learned it the hard way. I have tried to be friends with girls only to then lose them to their boyfriends and that is painful. As I said it's far more painful because you've built a very strong, emotional relationship with them only for them to just disappear. Ask anyone here. Being friends with girls is not easy. Even if your intentions platonic, because you can develop emotions for them. This has also happened to me. E… | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Isn't being friends with girls a little pointless?I know you asked this a while ago. Trust me you don't want to learn this hard way. The problem with friends-first is it's also a massive time waster and pain driver! There are times when you are just good buddies and "friends" with a girl you are attracted to. Look (before the girls kill me), its not always nefarious. Sometimes you like a girl and you want to be close to her even without escalation. This just happens naturally, sometimes without yourself realising. But then, if you ask her out l… | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Flirting safely feels like the only option!Because you are in the same circles as her and will keep seeing her even when you don't want to. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Isn't being friends with girls a little pointless?this situation isn't good for you .. if you never met them before and only wanted to date then Drop them. (if you are part of a wider social group already together suck it up and work out how to DNGAF/move on) It wasnt a one of friendzone. It was a friend I never escalated and missed my chance. She has boyfriend now and im still talking to her, though quite distant. I'm OK with it, but I don't want anymore of them! | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Isn't being friends with girls a little pointless?This is assuming you have good control of your feelings and have adequate other potentials running in parallel. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Isn't being friends with girls a little pointless?Because most people here just want casual sex… They aren’t planning on getting into a serious relationship. Which means that being friends first is counterproductive to that goal, and it only wastes everyone’s time. This may be true given it is pick-up sub reddit, although seduction technically not the same thing. But I think this might be a little unfair. The problem is, as you also say, once in friendzone, always in friendzone...it is irrecoverable. It wasn't me, but a girl below who echoed th… | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 01:59 PM |
| -2 | Isn't being friends with girls a little pointless?If you have read my post, you would know that I have female friends, quite a few in fact. These are women I had no second intentions from the beginning. I also have a friend through being friendzoned and made a conscious decision of continuing a friendship with. It was not easy. At some point, being friends with women you find attractive and had intentions with being romantic with at the outset is largely a waste of time for both parties. You seem to think it is an insult, but this is where wome… | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here have poor social skills and found a fix?In others base your responses on their reactions. And also see what works in the long run. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here have poor social skills and found a fix?Could you clarify what this means. Like how does registering how someone speaks to you help with your responses? | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Inducing the "boyfriend bomb" from a girlIt seems what you're saying is proceed regardless... until she mentions it | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Inducing the "boyfriend bomb" from a girlThat's a good one! :) | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Inviting a girl to an event where you might meet other girlsWhat was it like to be a backup guy at a party? | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | should I go ahead and ask my female friend to hang with me alone even though it might risk awkwardnessBut what are your intentions on this platonic "hang out"...do you think you will escalate? | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | should I go ahead and ask my female friend to hang with me alone even though it might risk awkwardnessJust following this conversation. What would you say is the difference between what the OP is suggesting and asking her out? | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 12:34 PM |
| 3 | What should you do and how should you approach a date if you don't want a relationshipActually, I am open to relationship with the right girl, but I'm under no obligation to make it happen. It's just a few dates and if it it happens it happens, even after sex. She could also dump me all the same. I feel that sometimes women believe that men always have that player and wanting sex and scram afterwards mentality, that leads to men running for the hills way to early. In fact, many men look for compatibility and don't want to commit unknowingly. Dating and enjoying yourself shouldn't… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Eye contact - creepy vs confidentWouldn't looking away immediately mean she is shy and actually likes you? | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 02:52 PM |
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