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These_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 11:03 PM
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Need SupportThese_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men30/08/24 02:48 AM
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These_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 04:51 PM
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These_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men12/08/23 01:51 PM
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RantThese_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 08:56 PM
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These_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men25/08/23 01:46 PM
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These_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 08:13 PM
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Need SupportThese_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men28/09/24 04:42 PM
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LawyersThese_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 12:42 AM
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CourtThese_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 02:46 AM
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These_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 02:45 PM
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CourtThese_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 12:14 AM
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These_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men08/11/23 03:45 AM
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These_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 07:38 PM
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Dealing with the Ex / STBXThese_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 11:37 PM
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These_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 11:06 PM
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These_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men19/11/23 05:35 PM
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These_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 08:23 AM
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Spousal Support / AlimonyThese_Row6066/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 08:40 PM
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1

Doesn't sound too bad. Probably fixable if you both want it to work
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/24 01:08 PM
1

This isn't tinder
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 12:34 PM
3

My boy is 23. I'm 58M. We have a good enough relationship. He reaches out to me often. I'm proud of him in every way and I tell him often. The divorce affected both of my children in an adverse way but they understand the reasons why and have both told me that they just want me and my ex to be happy, whether together or apart.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 12:06 AM
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Yep. Wife friended men from all over the world and was involved in dozens of emotional affairs with them. When we went to marriage counseling, the marriage counselor told my wife that what she was doing was a betrayal of trust and was outside the boundaries of our marriage vows. She didn't believe him.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 10:34 PM
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Does your ex work?
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 05:07 PM
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I bought a good mattress, (Casper), and lived /slept in our finished basement
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 12:52 PM
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I had a very similar situation. I'm a 58M. Married for 30 years to a verbally abusive 57F. Relationship started off great. Marriage wasn't perfect throughout the years but we made it work. Then she hit menopause.... She became more verbally abusive towards me and my family. She refused therapy and told me that I was the one who needed therapy. Kids are mid-twenties and off on their own. I filed for divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 12:46 PM
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Are you able to expand on this please? Is there data supporting this? "The number 1 indicator that a man is about to get divorced in the next 6 months is job loss"
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/24 09:35 PM
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Yes! I feel like I've been through a trauma
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 06:26 PM
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Same. 58M here. Looking forward to peace and no toxicity
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 04:54 PM
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r/divorce
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 04:51 PM
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Not realistic. Everyone has the right to divorce and there's nothing that you can do to stop the process.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 02:05 PM
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If you want things to work out with your wife, both of you may consider couples or one on one counseling or both. Online "infidelity" contributed to the demise of my 30 year marriage. I'm a 58M. It's a betrayal of honesty and trust - however - from what you've described, that doesn't appear to be the case in your situation. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 02:03 PM
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Go for walks, join a gym and workout 3-5 times per week
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/24 02:24 AM
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Good! If you can make it work, more power to the both of you
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 11:04 PM
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Hang in there.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 11:01 PM
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Mine did the same. She didn't want the gravy train to end. Fuck her. She's using you. Move on bro
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 09:39 PM
1

As does my stbxw. You'll probably have to pay some alimony
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 08:41 PM
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How did you get zero alimony with her not working? And why are you going to trial and not working out an agreement?
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 04:48 PM
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This is the first question
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 12:38 AM
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I really don't see this as a negative for my agreement. If anything it's giving my soon-to-be ex-wife a sense that she won something from me. Even though I was planning on paying it anyway.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/24 11:36 PM
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Because I made a deal with both of my kids to pay their undergraduate tuition
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/24 08:26 PM
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Did your ex work at all during the marriage or after? If so, what was her ~income?
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/24 03:27 PM
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Sounds like you're unable to allow your heart to feel. Could be grieving the loss of your wife/life/marriage. With me anyway, going Through a 3 year divorce process, it had it's emotional ups and downs. Every day is better especially now that we've agreed to terms. You're wounded. Give yourself some time to heal. You'll come out fine in the end
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/24 12:26 PM
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I ran the numbers and there's not enough equity to make a reasonable offer
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/24 01:53 AM
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I don't think you were an idiot at all. You put yourself out there, made yourself vulnerable and it didn't work it. It's OK. Onward and upward.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 08:13 PM
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Why not?
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 08:07 PM
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I paid for both kids first car lease. Just a deal that I made with them. I can certainly use the proceeds from the sale of the house to pay off my son's Sallie Mae loan.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 01:51 AM
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She kisses your daughter on the mouth?
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/24 12:57 AM
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I'm in CT which is no fault
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 12:07 PM
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68 pages... Each page has at least 10 questions
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 11:39 AM
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Married 30 years. Kids are 25 and 23
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 01:09 AM
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Great reply. Thanks for sharing
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/24 03:51 AM
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No kidding
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/24 07:53 PM
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I'm not sad about her. I'm sad about the situation that I'm in. The upheaval and change that it's causing me and my 2 adult age kids. I could give a shit about my stbxw
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/24 05:07 PM
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No. SSRI's and I don't get along well. Not taking any prescription medication
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/24 05:06 PM
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SSRI's are the devil. Stay away from them if at all possible.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/24 02:29 PM
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I'm 58 almost 59 and going through a divorce that I initiated from my wife of 29 years. She's also a narcissist and passive aggressive and I feel like I've been abused and may have some sort of PTSD. My advice to you would be to get out of the house as much as possible. Are you able to rent a place until the divorce is finalized? Have you legally filed for divorce? Hang in there.... It isn't easy at any age
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 01:27 AM
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Get out of the same bed for starters. Get out of the same house if possible. I was a horn dog when I first filed. That has subsided now that the legal process is approaching the end. I'm too stressed and anxious to even think about getting laid
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 07:43 PM
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DB?
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 01:08 AM
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She does not respect you
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 07:45 PM
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https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.sevenchairs
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 11:10 PM
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Well said
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 03:53 PM
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Don't
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 01:44 AM
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I'm so with you. I was on bumble and tinder for one week and I had to cancel my accounts and delete the apps. The women, for the most part are all fat, inked up and full of demands. I'll leave things up to organic fate.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 01:42 AM
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Why wasn't it a 50-50 split? Was this decided by a judge or is this the agreement that you and your ex agreed to amongst yourselves?
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 01:37 AM
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Got it thanks
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 12:05 AM
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The question, as obvious as it is, is for me to be educated on modifiable versus non-modifiable alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 11:45 PM
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I believe in fake boobs
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 04:33 PM
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Dating apps suck. Do you know how to cook and clean? I love fake breasts
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 03:10 PM
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How can you get everything?
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 03:29 AM
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Yeah I try not to directly involve my kids
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 02:30 AM
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Unfortunately, she's the most stubborn person I've ever met.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 02:10 AM
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Dating apps suck in my opinion. But if you set appropriate expectations going in, maybe it would be a good thing for you
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 12:10 AM
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You could be me, lol
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 07:36 PM
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Woke?
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 07:35 PM
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Thank you.... I needed this
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 07:33 PM
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I just don't have the urge to be with anyone else, let alone getting back to the dating scene.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/24 08:19 PM
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No one should be giving you unsolicited advice. They should be there to support you and give advice if asked.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/24 11:30 AM
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Do you enjoy doing these chores? If so, then I'd keep doing them. There's no harm especially if you derive pleasure from yard work. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/24 02:17 AM
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It's such a cliché but get yourself out there. Gym.... Pickleball.... Even if it's just once per week.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/24 07:52 PM
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Good to know, thank you
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 09:39 PM
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What's DARVO?
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 09:03 PM
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It's a natural progression of life. Looks fade After Time
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 02:23 AM
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If it's not physical, it's definitely an emotional affair. Cut your losses and get away from her
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 01:03 AM
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No. I could have dealt with that...... It was the constant passive aggressive behavior, lying about texting or facebooking strange men from all over the world, the not working or contributing to the household expenses as we agreed to, the negativity towards my family
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 01:02 AM
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This 100%
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/24 02:06 AM
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In my opinion it's not because of money. It's because they don't want to look like the cause of the death of the relationship. At least that's what occurred in my marriage
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/24 02:05 AM
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You're mourning the loss of your relationship
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/24 02:04 AM
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Redecorate. Remove reminders of her if at all possible.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/24 02:02 AM
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Why are you here?
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 12:31 PM
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Yep. Same here. Granted, our kids, are both in the early 20's. My stbxw is trying to paint me as Satan to our kids, her family, my family and her wacky friends. She even called my doctor, lol
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/24 09:41 PM
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I feel you
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 11:02 PM
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Lol no
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 03:00 PM
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Research midlife crisis
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 02:59 PM
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I did. She was happy being miserable and unemployed while I funded her existence
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 02:59 PM
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Maybe have some patience
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 01:12 AM
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Sounds like a midlife crisis
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 10:39 PM
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What do you mean by "he's an emotional swinging door?"
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 09:33 PM
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Be thankful that you don't have kids
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 08:55 PM
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Whatever works for you
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/24 10:35 PM
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Grey rock her
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/24 02:25 PM
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Do not engage or respond. Use grey rock as pointed out previously.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 03:25 AM
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That's not the point. Furthermore, I'm not asking or wanting anyone to be on "my side".
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 01:25 AM
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It's all verbal
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 01:23 AM
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Mine won't pay for anything. I'm paying all the bills. She stopped working.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 12:43 AM
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Great info thank you. Hartford.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 12:42 AM
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Sorry but what Is PL?
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 12:32 AM
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We have 2 scheduled... A remote pre-trial and a Case Date Hearing
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 12:30 AM
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So it's meaningless? What if she continues spewing her nonsense? Do I have any recourse of she continues?
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 12:15 AM
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Hell naw
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 11:32 PM
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You sound exactly like me 5 years ago. I filed this past summer. Best of luck to you.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/23 01:42 AM
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Happiness and sanity
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/23 01:41 AM
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Thanks. I'll check it out
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/23 12:19 AM
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My god.... You're married to my wife!
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 01:46 AM
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RPD meeting is over. The 2 attorneys met for 10 minutes or so. We have a pre-trial set in February and final date for something (final divorce?), set in March. Waiting for my cunt STBXW to submit a settlement proposal.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/23 03:39 PM
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+1
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 07:37 PM
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Get out of the house ASAP
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/23 05:09 PM
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When you and your gf are comfortable telling your son. I'm happy that you have found happiness with your gf!
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/23 02:33 AM
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How on earth would we know your story?
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/23 02:32 AM
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Don't know don't care
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 10:17 PM
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How were you able to avoid alimony? What state do you live in?
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/23 03:46 AM
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No more walking on eggshells every day.... Walking into the house never knowing what mood she'd be in. Never having to listen to lame after lame excuse for no sex /intimacy. Not having to deal with her lieing..... All of the time. Not having to worry about who she's now inappropriately conversing with on Facebook. Plus, this tool didn't work or cook.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/23 03:45 AM
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100%
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 04:08 AM
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Trust, intimacy were gone. She treated my family like shit for years.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 05:17 AM
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My thoughts exactly.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 10:59 PM
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No
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/23 12:05 AM
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Hard disagree
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/23 12:04 AM
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Not sure what you are referring to? Please elaborate
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 03:48 AM
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USA
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 02:30 AM
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I have the option to not have her as a beneficiary in my Will?
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 10:13 PM
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Great advice thank you. Will do
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 06:13 PM
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Is it OK for me to move my direct deposit salary to an account that only I have access to and she's not an account holder?
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 05:05 PM
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Except that she will want continued access to the checking account withdrawing more and more
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 04:05 PM
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100% grey rocking
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/23 01:38 AM
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Kids are over 21
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/23 11:36 PM
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Yeah, that much I do know but what would be an appropriate response if she asks? ..... And she will ask
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/23 08:04 PM
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Stay and you'll be miserable. You have a LOT of life left to live. You deserve to be happy.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/23 01:38 AM
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Go for number 2 and be happy
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/23 01:37 AM
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Can you go out with friends? Do something for distraction
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/23 08:22 PM
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Gotta get that out of your head asap
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/23 08:15 PM
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Look into ketamine troche therapy through joyous. $129/month. It has saved my life. God luck!
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 03:04 AM
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Good for you! Enjoy yourself!
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 03:01 AM
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Yeah that's pretty standard
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/23 01:04 AM
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I know I'm going to have to pay.... I just hope it's not for an exorbitant number of years since my wife is quite capable of working and earning a living
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/23 02:59 PM
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Meditation with ketamine microdosing is helping me cope. Highly recommend.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 11:10 AM
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What do you mean by tone and why would that be an advantage?
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 10:49 AM
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Thank you. I thought I was the only one
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 12:56 AM
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Sounds a bit extreme to me. Especially since we have kids and a dog that we both take care of
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 12:31 AM
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Financial hit, the adult aged kids not completely understanding or being supportive of my decision to file
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 05:27 PM
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If it feels right, go for it. You're old enough to know better
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 10:56 PM
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You lost me at "sin"
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 06:25 PM
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Damn..... That's seriously cold and wrong. Way too soon for that. I feel for you
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 06:06 PM
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Great insight thank you for taking the time to reply. No, I don't have to explain my reasons to others since the reasons why are apparent to them.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 04:46 PM
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Love lesson #2
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 02:02 AM
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Tough call.... Did OP have a good relationship with ex's fam?
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 03:05 PM
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Welcome to the nightmare. She sounds like a narcissist
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 01:57 PM
1

So continue to date her perhaps?
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 05:53 AM
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Write the check out to cash
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/23 02:36 AM
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Easier said than done
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/23 02:35 AM
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Did you and your wife cohabitate right up until the divorce?
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 09:10 PM
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Yes. CT is no fault so 50-50 even though she hasn't worked in 24 years. No child support since it's are 22 and 24.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 07:18 PM
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Yep :( this is the main reason for me hesitating going through with the divorce. But I simply refuse to be unhappy any longer
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 06:10 PM
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Divorced once or twice?
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 05:58 PM
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Thank you for sharing your success story and inspiration
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 05:57 PM
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Thank you. I feel for you.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 04:18 PM
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Damn. I can relate to the daughter relationship being strained. Do you think that she'll eventually understand and come around? How old is the daughter?
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 03:36 PM
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I stuck it out out of hope. Hope for change. I'm done at this point. Just trying to gather the strength to tell her that I'll be filing in October again.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 03:30 PM
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Define getting killed in court please. Which state do your reside in?
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 01:31 PM
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Sounds a LOT like my stbx
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 12:07 PM
2

Lol +1 for ToG
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 12:06 PM
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Great stuff! You truly are inspiring. Thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 02:08 AM
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Did she give reasons why?
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 12:56 AM
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Hang in there. Feel free to message me.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 11:41 PM
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Let's see, well, in my situation, I won't have to listen to my SAH wife of 28 years berate me if I buy a pair of socks, or tell me that my hemorrhoids are from sticking stuff up my ass, (which I don't), tell me that my sister is being selfish because she needs a break from taking care of our 86 yo mom whose health is failing, ( I told my wife that is like to go stay with mom for a week or two in order to give my sister a break. Or listen to her tell me that her bitchy mom and 2 flaky friends tol…
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 09:48 PM
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Great reply!
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 09:40 PM
1

Get a girlfriend and keep things casual
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 09:39 PM
1

If you're computer savvy, start a computer repair business.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/23 06:07 PM
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My God..... You could be me! I've filled and recanted twice in the past 1.5 years. I just can't seem to bring myself to make the commitment to move on. I'm in therapy for it. I had 6 + months worth of darkness, suicidal ideation, depression and anxiety. They have all disappated, thanks to at home ketamine therapy. I need clarity. I WANT to be happy yet i KNOW that I'll never be happy married to my wife.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/23 05:58 PM
2

Very encouraging! Thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/23 09:20 PM
1

Sorry but why do this please?
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/23 02:02 AM
1

Vegas for sure
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 05:05 PM
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Good for you for starting dating. I can't understand why people frown upon dating until after 1 year has passed. fuck it. keep it light and fun enjoy the companionship and have a good time.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 11:15 PM
3

Can't the judge make her get a job?
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/23 01:00 AM
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Doesn't sound bad to me right now lol
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/23 01:00 AM
5

Actually leaving and filling. I can't take that step.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/23 12:03 AM
3

Have you considered couples counseling?
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/23 08:21 PM
2

How old are your kids? Sorry to hear that your soon to be ex is weaponizing your children
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/23 08:20 PM
8

Try hinge or bumble. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 10:22 PM
2

I'm with you. Married 28 years and on the fence regarding moving forward with the divorce which would be my doing. Fortunately, my kids are a bit older... 24 and 22. I'm just having such a difficult time letting go even though I KNOW that we're incompatible at this point
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 03:41 PM
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I wish that I could be that selfish. And I don't mean that as an insult.... It's actually a compliment!
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 03:24 PM
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I'd ask.... 24 years is a long time.... And you've both been through the ringer apparently.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 02:28 AM
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Of course, 28 years ago, I thought my stbx was a keeper. Different time, different ages.... Not an apples to apples comparison if that's your angle. No legal ramifications here in CT
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/23 04:38 PM
1

I would not have attended due to the group being held or sponsored by the church. No need to mix religion into the fold
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/23 09:38 AM
5

Fuck her
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 11:53 PM
1

How wonderful! Thank you for taking the time to share your positive experience
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 07:12 PM
2

Thanks, I've ready that previously. Sound advice indeed.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 06:48 PM
1

The heart wants what the heart wants
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 06:35 PM
1

CT is no fault
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 03:57 PM
1

Thank you for sharing your success story! Very encouraging.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 02:37 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 12:41 PM
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Not sure why you're getting down voted. Thank you for your positive story!
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 12:40 PM
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Yep. I realize that. I told her that I wanted to wait until I'm officially divorced before this get too serious
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 01:48 AM
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Lol. That I can agree with
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 12:53 AM
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But they're not the same person by a long shot
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 12:41 AM
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She's not cruel, is a family person where my wife is not... Yes, she's into sex..... Everything that I'm into and more... She's present, she LISTENS to me. Not that it matters - BUT - she's well off and retired. She doesn't need my money.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 11:53 PM
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Because I like being in a loving relationship with someone who actually cares about me and wants to take care of me and please me
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 11:38 PM
1

Thanks, I'll look into your book recommendations
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 09:00 PM
1

Woke crowd? Lmao
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 04:19 PM
2

I do
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/23 10:30 PM
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To my current wife? No. To someone else? Yes
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/23 04:41 PM
2

How so?
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/23 12:47 AM
1

Why?
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 08:21 PM
8

Thanks for your reply. She won't go to couple's counseling because she doesn't think that it will help.. The reality is, she won't like what the counselor tells her/us. We've tried counseling a few years ago. My wife thinks she's perfect... That, in her words, "there's nothing wrong with me". She's the first to criticize others and compare ourselves to others.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 06:24 PM
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This is me 100%. Thank you for sharing
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 05:01 PM
1

Same
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 04:55 PM
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