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| 1 | The entitlement of women in getting out of control. “Group of ladies make a list of places men shouldn’t take them on the first date”Funny how they are fuming over fast food places but say nothing about sport events, family gatherings or a nightclub being actually a terrible places to have a first date. Guess cherry-pickers gotta cherry-pick 🤷♀️ | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/10/23 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guySo, you wrote about me getting triggered, got no reply and decided to edit into a cringy unfunny joke? Yeah, go search a therapist nearby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/22 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyStill better than spending even 5 minutes with men, described in these comments (you included), so... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyWhy? I think your mother and I have a good time fucking, and it's not just about sex for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/22 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyIf you benefit, why complain? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/22 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guySo, if you can't control it, why are you so pissed when women want someone tall or with a big dick? Just say "Sorry, it ain't me" and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/22 07:20 AM |
| 31 | What are your observations about women cock blocking/“clitoferencing” other women?If the guy she's hitting on is visibly uncomfortable and clearly isn't interested, I began loudly acknowledge the situation. Like telling someone next to me "Omg look at Amy over here trying to get into Mark's pants!" in a joking manner. And if the guy is enjoying all the "attention", I just ignore them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 08:59 AM |
| 75 | Is anyone else getting reminded of their ex narc during the Heard Vs Depp trial?I also hate how Depp's fans blame Heard for him being fired as if there are no endless statements from his former colleagues and crew members about his horrible set behaviour, including being drunk and refusing to learn any lines. And it all began long before he met Amber. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 07:39 AM |
| 64 | Reminder: Men will keep you around for however long is convenient for them - even if they’re not that into you. Break up at the first sign of his disinterest because he will NOT do it for you. 3rd slide is a commenter.Fucking this! I bet 1000$ his gf is the same as you, and that's exactly why he dates her and not a "party girl" who only likes booze and loud music. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 09:05 AM |
| 103 | Understanding the difference between bare minimum and HVMHVM is never equals "a lot of money", I'm pretty sure every active FDS member supports this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 02:18 PM |
| 31 | Incels and the Great Fakecel RealizationThat's how I found this place. Someone commented about "female incel sub" and linked FDS. And I came here to investigate because "female incel" sounds surreal. Incels are people who have sex demand but no supply. While women always face oversupply, but the moment we say that there's no demand from our side, we get labeled "incels"? Lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 12:49 PM |
| 74 | Netflix series “Old enough” - a case study of the differences between little boys and girls.Thanks! Yeah, now, when I have to manage this property, I understand why my parents needed help, but I probably would work harder if they just admitted how useless my brother was instead of pretending that he's too little to help 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/22 01:27 PM |
| 280 | Netflix series “Old enough” - a case study of the differences between little boys and girls.I have a younger brother and I remember how it felt when he was allowed to play all day, outside or videogames, while I had to help my parents do things (grew up in a rural area). And also triggering flashbacks from school when you get paired with the most violent, stupid and unhygienic boy and forced to help him better his grades. But it results only in your grades getting worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/22 01:19 PM |
| 353 | A Porn Producer's Take on Bridgerton and Similar Explicit Shows: They Are No Different From Porn.To be fair, Bridgerton's second season had like 2 sex scenes in the last episode, if I remember correctly. And it overall much better than the first one (for me). But overall yes, idk why all modern tv shows need so much explicit scenes. I barely finished Euphoria's 1 season and not even bothered with a second one. Adults LARPing as minors having sex is definitely not for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 06:51 AM |
| 158 | 🙄I doubt retail company opening was a black tie eventYep, if it was something formal actually, he could've just tell her to wear a dress or a suit. and it was for her to decided if she wants to go then. Also people don't drastically change their appearance, so there's a 99% chance she dresses similarly on a daily basis and he knew what to expect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 02:05 PM |
| 52 | OLDs are literal hellI read that a lot men swipe right literally on everyone and then try to act as if you owe them for "choosing" you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 07:34 AM |
| 36 | My morning tea- How can men be so oblivious?It's even more baffling since you see it it movies all the time, especially after one-night stands, a guy says "I need to go, but there's some food in a fridge, and don't forget to lock the door". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 09:22 AM |
| 15 | How do queens handle a lukewarm man?In general, I'm not supporting an idea of sitting tight and waiting for a man to plan everything, especially for first couple dates since you're basically a stranger to him and it's normal to lack ideas a bit. So it's very important to see if he's really half-arsing it or just not sure if you'd like the same stuff as he is. In my opinion, it should be like a tennis match for the first couple dates, but you hit him back with ideas so he can plan things for you both to enjoy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 08:12 AM |
| 21 | This man really saw a woman’s standards of “has a job, showers daily, and has all his teeth” and came to the conclusion “nah, asking too much, men just can’t meet that”. If we lower our standards, there’s always someone trying to push them even lower.Some women, who are actively looking for a partner in order to have children, for example, might feel very discouraged by the lack of decent men. And if people around say it's her fault for having "high standards", it might get in her head and result in lowering standards to "has job and brushes teeth occasionally". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 01:33 PM |
| 8 | TL;DR: her 'hack' is buying Tinder Gold to change your location and minimising small talk by, I assume, inviting men on a date.Yeah, and she said it's important to tell this to men right away? I mean, it can be a decent vetting move but in general listing all your partners to some random man sounds weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 06:40 AM |
| 53 | TL;DR: her 'hack' is buying Tinder Gold to change your location and minimising small talk by, I assume, inviting men on a date.No, according to her, you change your location to a city you plan to visit/move to and spend time matching with men prior to arriving so when you get there you can go straight to actual dates and not was time on chats (as if time you spent chatting with them anyway isn't "wasted" because you were in a different city🙄). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 02:20 PM |
| 17 | I have no words, this isn't even pick-me behavior anymoreand the '4.99 unt[il]...' part is definitely about her onlyfans account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 11:51 AM |
| 109 | Sick men creating memes like this. They know full well their behaviour is predatory. A girl trying to protect her drunk friend on a night out is a apparently a ‘cockblocker’.Agree. It's not "cockblocking" because we always do it on purpose since it's every woman's "job" to protect her friends and even strangers from creepy dudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 09:01 AM |
| 139 | Sick men creating memes like this. They know full well their behaviour is predatory. A girl trying to protect her drunk friend on a night out is a apparently a ‘cockblocker’.I did the same to a total stranger at a party once. I was sober designated driver (I don't like drinking much anyway) and saw a guy bringing drinks non-stop to this girl. She was laughing and didn't seem distress but it changed when he tried to make her leave. She wanted to stay and dance, and he was already holding her jacket and pushing her towards the exit. I followed them outside to ask her if she actually knows him. And realised that the guy is as sober as I am and she's barely can stand. H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 08:59 AM |
| 30 | Abstinence is one of the most powerful weapons against scrotes.Agree. It's so funny when you tell a guy "No, I don't want to come to your place after a 3rd date because I know you just want to coerse me into having sex" and he gets mad and calls you a whore as if he really just wanted to watch a movie without even touching you 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 09:22 AM |
| 14 | Every warning FDS educated me on was literally my LVM exThanks for the great post! I first discovered FDS via some other subreddit where men made fun of women and their "impossible standards". But posts like yours remind me that the bar is still low af and the majority of women here just want someone who's not pushy, cheating and talking about his ex 24/7. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 10:59 AM |
| 74 | Why I DON’T EXPLAIN. On boundaries, disappointment, and self-shielding: You don’t have to explain to an emotionally abusive man why he isn’t allowed to hurt you anymore.Even better, stop explaining anything to anyone! 9 times out of 10 people pretend they didn't understand what you just said only because they want you to change your opinion to match their. My mental health and life in general began so much easy when I stopped bending backwards trying to please my friends and family. My speech is eloquent enough, I don't use slang words or cuss when unnecessary, so there's no real reason for me to elaborate on the smallest things I've said, except when people wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 07:51 AM |
| 62 | When rape so normalised that girls joke about it happening to themThe only moment from "Fleabag" (both theatre play and series) I really dislike, is when a guy convinces Fleabag to do anal and says that his girlfriend never allowed him to do it because of how huge his dick is. And her thoughts in that moment "Do I have a giant arsehole???". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 02:17 PM |
| 69 | “Girls have it easy” since fucking when??? • @cayleecresta on TikTok roasting a musty loser for minimizing the female struggle & also devaluing women for simply not cooking for his entitled ass. Although that app is full of groomers and weird men, I’m thankful there are HVW on that platform as well.That clip where someone asks her if men are important, and Cher replies "Like... for what?" and camera shows all the pissed off men in the audience. Priceless! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:36 PM |
| 5 | Yes, you are. 💋Oooh, that sounds amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 09:10 AM |
| 335 | Yes, you are. 💋The only good thing coming from this pandemic, is more and more women realising that they never did full-body shaving and full-face makeup "for themselves". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 06:31 AM |
| 53 | He came back.Omg they all do that! I didn't even know that LinkedIn sent notification when people check your page until my ex started doing it 1-2 years after we broke up. I just went and deleted my profile since I'm not looking for a new job anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 07:32 AM |
| 10 | As a Ukrainian living in USA, here is how most of my dates used to go for the past 10 yearsUgh, same, but I'm from Belarus. And on top of that, now a lot of people think that we join R*ssia on their war with Ukraine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 08:56 AM |
| 3 | What is up with men saying they want someone who is passionate about something?I have a similar theory. They probably can't cook either, so instead try to insult women who love these things out of spite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 07:24 AM |
| 74 | What is up with men saying they want someone who is passionate about something?When I used to use Tinder, I noticed a lot of men being very snobbish about hobbies. Some of them even had "I want a passionate woman with a lot of hobbies. No, reading books, watching TV and eating food are not hobbies!" in their bio. Like, dude, you have nothing attractive to say about yourself so you decide to be hostile towards women (again). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 06:40 AM |
| 11 | Textbook Terrible V-DayI low-key want her to forgive him to see what will happen when he presents a crystal yoni egg as a gift 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 09:07 AM |
| 3 | So, who else is on a post-valentines dumping spree?I read somewhere that statistically, most couples break up after the new year eve or valentine's day. Mostly for societal reasons since we believe those dates have something magical about them (the beginning of something new and the ultimate celebration of romantic love) and we hype up our expectations and when a partner, or a spouse, appears indifferent or even opposes the idea of celebrating this dates, out anger and disappointment multiplies. So sorry you have to go through a difficult decisi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 02:14 PM |
| 35 | Y’all were not kidding about men who are upset about the conversations we have on FDS. If the comments were so stupid why weren’t you able to comment and share your opinion? Immediate block !!!A tip: if they sent you multiple messages, don't accept the chat request, don't reply and report for spam. Reddit will automatically give them a warning for spamming. It won't work if you replied or there's only one message tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:04 PM |
| 24 | Ladies please be careful about who you have children with. She is pregnant but he is trying to dictate how she gives birth… also he doesn’t know about the umbilical cord? 🥴A prime example of the Dunning–Kruger effect. Men (and some women, unfortunately) assume that c-section is a simple operation and mothers who choose it are lazy. But in fact, is a quite dangerous procedure and it's gonna be so hard to take care of your newborn because of the stitches and inability to lift things, or even sit, for some time. I'm pretty sure OP won't be able to just tell her doctor "I want a c-section!" and they just roll her into the operating room. 99% it's still gonna be perfor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 09:13 AM |
| 6 | An example of a LV Valentine's day gift. The bar is so low, that she's so excited about receiving this "gift" 🤮I know a lot of people, men and women, who absolutely can't justify just going and buying something unless it's a present. Like, buying this thing won't impact their financial situation, but they still wait for some event to buy it. So I think her being happy about the new vacuum cleaner is exactly this. You can buy it any day of the year, but she still thinks it has to be a present because it's quite expensive. I used to do it all the time for myself too. "Learning" just buying things I need an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 12:33 PM |
| 113 | 22F dating a 34M finds out he co-owns a house in the suburbs with a woman sharing his last name - If he’s making excuses for you not to see HIS house even though he’s seen yours, there’s a reason.The last part had me screaming. Here's your answer for "why she was never invited to stay in his house" lol. Glad she dumped him instead of saying something like "Oh, it's probably his sister or his mother and they just own a house together". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 06:54 AM |
| 54 | Good LuckWhen I used to use Tinder, I encountered a lot of men genuinely shocked that women aren't interested in them. Like, they were very irritated finding out that you need to have a personality and an ability to hold a conversation in order to meet somebody. They really believed women gonna reply to their "hi wyd?" with their home address or ask for theirs and drive there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 11:36 AM |
| 135 | Good LuckI'm not a native English speaker and a guy on Tinder wrote me once that he wants FWB. I was like "What does it mean?", he replied "Friends with benefits. We just meet from time to time, your place or mine, have sex and not spoil it with relationships bullshit". I couldn't stop laughing. Sex considered a benefit?? He proceeded with attempts to convince me how women need it more than men and he'll be doing me a favour. Even now, typing it, can barely hold and don't laugh hysterical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 06:57 AM |
| 6 | Update for my friend creating a "fake" profile with my photos on her match-making siteWell, if I remember correctly, her mother was always against her getting married to an Asian man. My friend was raised in a very religious family and they wanted her to marry a fellow white Christian. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 06:12 AM |
| 5 | Update for my friend creating a "fake" profile with my photos on her match-making siteThank you! ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 06:10 AM |
| 2 | How can I politely explain to my friend that her match-making business is rubbish and I don't want any part of it?Yes, I know her, we met in college and later she moved to China to get her master's degree, met her future husband there and stayed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:58 AM |
| 5 | How can I politely explain to my friend that her match-making business is rubbish and I don't want any part of it?I have a suspicion that it's really her husband behind all this, but I have no proof of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:57 AM |
| 2 | How can I politely explain to my friend that her match-making business is rubbish and I don't want any part of it?Ooof, kinda happy to hear I'm not alone in this, but also obviously sorry it happened to you too. When I only started to learn Chinese, I was fascinated with this country, its culture, history etc. But I could never picture myself living in modern China, with all this shit that happened recently. Race fetish is the whole another deal, but my friend views it as a "good thing" because these men are looking for something specific and not just vaguely doing a wife material search. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:55 AM |
| 9 | How can I politely explain to my friend that her match-making business is rubbish and I don't want any part of it?I watched a documentary about the first-ever dating site. It was for American men and Ukrainian women, but later it was discovered that the site's owner was doing all the correspondence and just charged men for their letters to be translated to Ukrainian and delivered and then another fee for women's answers to be in English as well. I have a suspicion that it's going to be the same here because I will receive e-mails not from these men direct;y, but via my friend's site for "safety reasons". So… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:42 AM |
| 2 | How can I politely explain to my friend that her match-making business is rubbish and I don't want any part of it?Thanks for your answer! I just can't wrap my head around why would she do that. I tried to explain to her that I won't be able to date a man when we have such vast cultural and language differences. I speak Chinese, but I'm nowhere near fluent, so if he doesn't speak my native language effortlessly, it's already impossible to establish normal conversations. But since she has some sort of "yellow fever" and always wanted an Asian husband, it feels like she just doesn't understand why I'm so reluc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:35 AM |
| 11 | How can I politely explain to my friend that her match-making business is rubbish and I don't want any part of it?Yep. My initial thought was to jokingly ask her about how much I'm going to get paid for my time replying to some emails, but after thinking about the whole situation for a minute, I realised how fucked up this is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:21 AM |
| -2 | How can I politely explain to my friend that her match-making business is rubbish and I don't want any part of it?To be fair, she didn't use my real name, and since google (and Instagram, if I'm not mistaken) are blocked in China, I hope it won't be easy to find me. But obviously, if some of these men will want to stalk me, they'll find a way for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:19 AM |
| 3 | How can I politely explain to my friend that her match-making business is rubbish and I don't want any part of it?Well, I want to be polite so she won't post my info on some Chinese onlyfans as an act of revenge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:17 AM |
| 30 | How can I politely explain to my friend that her match-making business is rubbish and I don't want any part of it?I guess match-making is quite popular in Asian countries (correct me if I'm wrong, don't want to sound ignorant), but I agree, this looks more like sex-trafficking. I won't be surprised if it's actually her husband's idea and he just uses her because she's Slavic and has a lot of friends from college, like me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:15 AM |
| 50 | How can I politely explain to my friend that her match-making business is rubbish and I don't want any part of it?I know, right?? It was so out of the blue, we were friends since college (5+ years) and even when she moved to China, still kept messaging each other. And now she hits me with "I think you can be a good wife to a man who doesn't care about you at all as long as you look a certain way". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:09 AM |
| 52 | A FDS sister isn’t going to be on a coffee date, tho… 😂Also thinking about all these poor women who will splurge on lingerie, shave their whole body, cook a 3-course meal, please him in every way and in return get no orgasm and "Oh, I thought we don't celebrate these stupid commercialised holidays, I want to surprise you with flowers any day of the year!" Narrators voice: He never bought her flowers before. And he never will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:00 PM |
| 17 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”Idk why, but lately a lot of women I know treat giving bj as "nothing". Like, they're completely fine with sucking off some random dude in his car on a second date and don't care (or pretend not to) if it's the last time they see him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:22 PM |
| 48 | I've had to tell myself this after cutting a few toxic people out of my life, especially with long-term friends who have felt the need to pat me on the back and tell me that I've "come so far" every single time we speak. It comes off very patronizing and forced. DAE understand what I mean?Yes! One of my "male" friends used to make jokes about stupid women, racism etc. and his gf turned into a pick-me type and supported his bigotry. I stopped being silent and now they won't talk to me because I "can't take a joke". Like, honey, Jimmy Carr is one of my favourite comedians, I can laugh at pretty dark and controversial topics, your "jokes" are just not funny, like, at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 01:21 PM |
| 141 | I've had to tell myself this after cutting a few toxic people out of my life, especially with long-term friends who have felt the need to pat me on the back and tell me that I've "come so far" every single time we speak. It comes off very patronizing and forced. DAE understand what I mean?Preach. Cut off a lot of people who kept telling me "You've changed so much" in a negative tone. Like, yeah, sorry I talk back instead of sitting silently and not allowing people like you to manipulate me anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 10:54 AM |
| 20 | Does anybody else get tired of fake women's posts undoubtedly written by men?"Asian female" is a dead giveaway of a men's fantasy lol. Like, sir, you know what Asia is? Stop projecting your fantasies about Asian = submissive Japanese waifu. I lived in China for several years and people there tend to go Dutch because every meal is basically a bunch of huge dishes you all share. I never went on a date with a Chinese guy, but I'm pretty sure if they're romantically interested, they gonna pay for you and not insist on 50/50 (at least it's what my girlfriends told me). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 06:31 AM |
| 3 | PSA: Tinder will stop showing your account to people nearby if you're inactive for several days, so don't fall for "I deleted this app ages ago but didn't know I need to deactivate my profile separately!"If I remember correctly, it offers you this feature when you set up a new account anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 06:25 AM |
| 3 | PSA: Tinder will stop showing your account to people nearby if you're inactive for several days, so don't fall for "I deleted this app ages ago but didn't know I need to deactivate my profile separately!"Yes, because the whole point of these apps is to make people use them 24/7 and it's not gonna show less active profiles because other people gonna be disappointed if they get no match or no text because you check an app once a week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 06:11 AM |
| 23 | PSA: Tinder will stop showing your account to people nearby if you're inactive for several days, so don't fall for "I deleted this app ages ago but didn't know I need to deactivate my profile separately!"Ah yes, the famous funny prank: make a profile for your friend on Tinder and message some girl on his behalf and just laugh at it later. Solid comedy material, who would pass on this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 06:08 AM |
| 23 | PSA: Tinder will stop showing your account to people nearby if you're inactive for several days, so don't fall for "I deleted this app ages ago but didn't know I need to deactivate my profile separately!"Yet again, sharing my favourite article on this topic: the myth of male bumbler. I mean, Woody Allen avoided rape charges pretending he has no clue what everyone is talking about, so men gaslighting you into believing your tinder profile stays active for ages even if you don't use it is a piece of cake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 06:06 AM |
| 12 | PSA: Tinder will stop showing your account to people nearby if you're inactive for several days, so don't fall for "I deleted this app ages ago but didn't know I need to deactivate my profile separately!"Because the whole point of Tinder is to make sure you use it as much as possible. When you stop checking it after every notification, you get your profile shown less and less because Tinder doesn't need other people to get disappointed after matching with ppl who used it weeks ago and clearly won't reply to messages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 06:03 AM |
| 266 | PSA: Tinder will stop showing your account to people nearby if you're inactive for several days, so don't fall for "I deleted this app ages ago but didn't know I need to deactivate my profile separately!"Personally, I would never ask to check someone's phone (or hand over mine unless there's a court order lol). I was in a similar situation with Tinder and my then bf also said that he's inactive and "has no idea why his profile keeps showing up". Fortunately for me, he was dumb and a matter was settled by me asking my friend to DM him on Insta and he immediately started flirting with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 02:29 PM |
| 335 | Does anybody else get tired of fake women's posts undoubtedly written by men?When a post starts with "As a female, I..." I'm closing the tab lol miss me with this LARPing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 01:58 PM |
| 449 | Does anybody else get tired of fake women's posts undoubtedly written by men?Omg yes! They post obvious fakes that look like: - Hello there, gourguous lady! - Eww... Venmo me 458205239$ and take me on a date in Dubai and maybe I'll let you become a new stepfather to my 10 children from different men, btw I'm 300 lbs and don't date anyone below 6'5!!111 Reeeeee and then circlejerk discussing their numerous encounters with such women like this as if they're real, while pickmes chime in with "On behalf of all normal women, we apologize for this hoe 😔😔😔 I would rather pay fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 01:57 PM |
| 10 | Dirty Talk in the Sheets: Yay or Nay?I think the most important thing there is mutual consent. I met some guys who didn't like dirty talk at all but because of porn culture, they felt obligated to talk like this even if it was a mood killer for both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 01:14 PM |
| 9 | Don't let any entitled male tell you that you need to be desperate for male attention. This mess is Exhibit A for what they want women to believe about their chances of meeting a man. Don't lower your standards.AR, bestie... You're 52 and 5'9. Even if it was a billion more women in the US of A, your chances, with this type of behaviour, still FACTUALLY gonna be zero. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:50 AM |
| 5 | Apple AirTag: a perfect tool for stalkingIt's like when some military base was found because of the Strava app. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 06:19 AM |
| 13 | Apple AirTag: a perfect tool for stalkingReminded me of the app/site where you can find people's social media using their photos. A lot of men used it to find onlyfans models and amateur porn actresses and then harass and blackmail them. I think later the app was no longer free to use, but realistically still a lot of men gonna pay any money if they have a target to stalk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 06:15 AM |
| 10 | Apple AirTag: a perfect tool for stalkingAdditionally, if you live in a big apartment complex, maybe someone mistakenly tries to connect some device to your phone instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 02:16 PM |
| 13 | Apple AirTag: a perfect tool for stalkingI'm not an expert in this, but I think the first step should be turning your Bluetooth on and going through all paired devices and deleting ones that you don't use or ones that look suspicious. Also changing your apple account (or how it's called?) passoword won't hurt either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 02:01 PM |
| 39 | Apple AirTag: a perfect tool for stalkingI think there's also a program for Android that allows you to detect airtags, but you need to either have a friend who has this tag or buy one yourself to make sure this app works correctly on your Galaxy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:29 PM |
| 79 | he has abs and attends uni, so because of this he believes he should be drowning in attractive women. proceeds to whine for several paragraphsLol. Why it's always the same story with these wee poor men who can't get any dates or even matches because women are mean uwu. But when you scratch a surface, not even doing a deep dig, every time you find out that the guy: hates his parents, usually for infantile reasons like "Why they conceived me while not being billionaires?". has at least one untreated severe mental issue, but says it's just his "edgy personality". calls women "bitches" and if someone gets offended, says ridiculous shit li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 12:55 PM |
| 175 | Apple AirTag: a perfect tool for stalkingYep, forgot to mention, according to articles and various police reports, this tag is also often used to steal cars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 11:53 AM |
| 47 | What've you rediscovered about yourself since being single?My general anxiety went from 100 daily to 1-2 on the worst day. I didn't even know before what it's like to not be worried all the time about every little thing. If I want to go somewhere and it requires booking tickets, I just buy them, no need to make sure there's no schedule conflict or check if he's "in the mood" to even go there. The only person who asks "Are you really gonna eat this?!" is my inner voice. And yes, I am gonna eat this. I don't care about my "social media presence". Don't ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 01:10 PM |
| 58 | Steve from Sex and the City is what happens when you settleI wish they focused more on Miranda's struggles of getting an education than running after Che. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 08:28 AM |
| 18 | Part 2. I blocked him, but he used someone else's phone to have the last word. Like I was going to let him 😘A few days ago Russia passed a new law under which pdos will get a life sentence, and it applies to having sx with anyone younger than 18 (if you're 18 or older) and the amount of men angry at this new law is terrifying. Some of my male acquaintances asked why I'm not worried since "women can be pdos too" and I was like "Well, I'm not worried because I have no plans of having sx with minors. And if you're afraid of someone accusing you of this crime — it sure sounds like you're the problem". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 06:27 AM |
| 6 | ✨How to piss off a guy with an inflated ego 101. Works like a charm every time✨He texted me from his friend's number lol. I shared here before about a guy who waited near my work's parking lot to "surprise" me after we went on a couple of dates, so I always carry a pepper spray, just in case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 01:45 PM |
| 282 | Part 2. I blocked him, but he used someone else's phone to have the last word. Like I was going to let him 😘Every day I think about an old Reddit post of a guy who forced his wife to have an open marriage after reading some men's forums that convinced him that he's at his prime right now and can have a ton of young women instead of his old sagging spouse. Ended with him having zero dates while his wife went out multiple times a week and refusing to get back to monogamy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 01:35 PM |
| 33 | Part 2. I blocked him, but he used someone else's phone to have the last word. Like I was going to let him 😘Part 1 for context. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 01:15 PM |
| 9 | ✨How to piss off a guy with an inflated ego 101. Works like a charm every time✨Gurl, every time I post something about height-related my DMs and chat requests turn into trenches where I have to fight for my life (actually no, I just read their nonsense, chuckle, report as spam and block), so don't be bothered with downvotes. Men be out there demanding to know what women bring to the table while being unable to reach a top shelf, pay them no mind) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 01:00 PM |
| 16 | ✨How to piss off a guy with an inflated ego 101. Works like a charm every time✨One of my college friends ended up in this trap. Maternity leave in our home country is 3 years and her husband convinced her to leave her job for good and be a stay-at-home mother. Now, 2.5 years later, he nags her every day about not having a job. And since she only worked as a tourist guide, now there's zero chance of her returning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 07:08 AM |
| 20 | ✨How to piss off a guy with an inflated ego 101. Works like a charm every time✨Yep. I talked to her yesterday after posting this, and she tried to gaslight me into believing that I asked her to give my number to any guy she finds cute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 07:05 AM |
| 17 | ✨How to piss off a guy with an inflated ego 101. Works like a charm every time✨Thanks, I'm going to it panini from now on😂 My mam's friend likes to do it. Her three sons are about my age, so she shows my pic to their friends from time to time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 07:04 AM |
| 13 | ✨How to piss off a guy with an inflated ego 101. Works like a charm every time✨Obviously. It was like his 3rd or 4th message, right after he tried to find out how much money I make lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 07:01 AM |
| 15 | ✨How to piss off a guy with an inflated ego 101. Works like a charm every time✨Same. I don't care about being taller, but the moment he starts to point it out or tries to give backhanded compliments like "Oh you're so pretty for a tall girl" — blocked and reported. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 06:59 AM |
| 164 | ✨How to piss off a guy with an inflated ego 101. Works like a charm every time✨But it perfectly describes a nonsensical tantrum he threw after I ruined his negging attempt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:13 PM |
| 178 | ✨How to piss off a guy with an inflated ego 101. Works like a charm every time✨She claimed she gave it to a "really great guy" and she can vouch for him... Kinda want to know now what type of men she considered horrible if this one was "great". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:08 PM |
| 8 | A few months ago told my friend dating a particular single dad is a mistake, she said I'm being prejudiced. Today sent me a long paragraph about how right I was.Ahah, true. Mine's pretty good since my friends are graciously allowing me to learn from their mistakes and I knew for sure whom to avoid, even before discovering FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:48 AM |
| 7 | A few months ago told my friend dating a particular single dad is a mistake, she said I'm being prejudiced. Today sent me a long paragraph about how right I was.I just remember how in my pick-me days I was supporting this sort of misogynistic behaviour and agreed with guys who talked shit about their exes. And gradually began to understand that if a guy had more than one partner who turned out to be a "real abusive bitch", something didn't add up there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 06:34 AM |
| 4 | A few months ago told my friend dating a particular single dad is a mistake, she said I'm being prejudiced. Today sent me a long paragraph about how right I was.If he's shady about why they broke up, he's probably not a good liar and was caught on this with someone before you. 99% chance she dumped him because he cheated or something similar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 06:28 AM |
| 23 | A few months ago told my friend dating a particular single dad is a mistake, she said I'm being prejudiced. Today sent me a long paragraph about how right I was.Yes. I have another friend who started as a mistress and considered a "green flag" when he left his wife with a newborn baby for her. But the fairytale played out backwards and instead of a Prince Charming, she got a big lazy toad on her couch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 06:25 AM |
| 523 | A few months ago told my friend dating a particular single dad is a mistake, she said I'm being prejudiced. Today sent me a long paragraph about how right I was.Men who love pussy but hate women belong in a dumpster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 02:25 PM |
| 116 | A few months ago told my friend dating a particular single dad is a mistake, she said I'm being prejudiced. Today sent me a long paragraph about how right I was.Agree. My politics is to never discuss each other ex-partners. In my experience, men, who infodump about their past girlfriends, get really mad when you politely withhold everything about your relationships. Feels like they want a blueprint of how to manipulate you or something and I'm always baffled when my friends eagerly share all the bad shit their exes put them through. Like, girl, even if he's not gonna use it against you, why would you wilfully present yourself as a doormat who can be man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 02:07 PM |
| 54 | Women Who Say Their Single Mother is All That's Wrong With ThemWhen I first became aware of the feminist movement (15+ years ago), it was very common to blame everything on men. A lot of activists were saying that your abusive mother is just a victim of patriarchy and you can't be mad at her. Especially if you remind her of your "horrible father", just endure all the abuse and forgive her later. Gosh, the number of forums I was banned on for defending a child's right not to be abused because their father hurt their mother at some point... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 11:31 AM |
| 29 | He knows he’s hurting her but he enjoys it 🤮Told my ex that I don't like missionary because he puts too much pressure on my legs. He ignored me for a couple of hours and then said that I called him fat and terrible in bed. Like, how tf you a) come to such a conclusion and b) make it completely about yourself? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 11:21 AM |
| 78 | girl whatOof. When he asked about monthly payment it was immediately obvious that he expected her to come and beg him for money and he'd had another leverage to manipulate her. LVM always want to be private about how much they make as long as they know you're making less. The moment your check is bigger they do a 180 and suddenly it's "But we're a family! We need to share everything! Let's make a joint account and everyone can spend as much as they want!". Pathetic, glad she left him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 08:30 AM |
| 118 | Dude needs therapyExactly. If you ask a man like this why he has a racial preference, he's 100% gonna list stereotypical qualities and point out that, unlike women of his race, these women know how to please and respect men. Vomit-inducing, every time. I've had an interesting conversation with women here on FDS and we all found one thing in common: men loving women of any race, except their own. I'm Slavic and met a lot of white men saying that white women are the worst. And a few Black women pointed out how Blac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Looking the same after babiesMy friend had the worst postpartum experience, mostly because she followed all those "perfect mothers" on Instagram and constantly punished herself for not losing baby weight or not having a 6 figures job (paid maternal leave in our country is 3 years). I, mostly, support all women, but those humble-braggers boasting about how they got back to work the day after giving birth and lost all weight or even more 2 weeks after that, make my blood boil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 09:39 AM |
| 214 | Dude needs therapy>Looking fon an Asian woman yeah, nah... race fetishes are such a ginormous red flag, you just ignore the rest and throw the whole man out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 09:26 AM |
| 130 | If you found yourself starting to NAG your man - LEAVE.Men be like "but why is she tired?? chores are nothing! when I lived alone I spent 2 minutes a month cleaning and my house was spotless!" but somehow use any means possible in order to avoid helping their wives. interesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 09:23 AM |
| 28 | Being alone is always > than being with a person of low valueI've recently replaced relationship-related FOMO (fear of missing out) with JOMO (joy of missing out) and never felt better! Looking at my friends, who see nothing wrong with the need to ask permission from their boyfriends to do something, makes me especially grateful for being able to level up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 09:20 AM |
| 106 | We're not doing it anymoreMen think "ride or die girlfriend" is the one who stays with a broke abusive cheater, but "ride or die boyfriend" is the one who didn't cheat on you with your best friend when you had your period, and you should be forever grateful for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 06:49 AM |
| 131 | Why are men like thisI absolutely LOVE costume jewellery. The majority of my rings and earrings are of a small saucer size and I wear at least 2-3 pieces daily. One of my exes decided that my taste is "trash" and gifted me a lot of small gold pieces with diamonds. Like teeny-tiny pedants, barely visible stud earrings, miniature bracelets etc. Obviously, I never wore any of them and eventually just gifted them to friends and relatives who preferred these styles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 09:09 AM |
| 58 | I'm shocked that I'm not alone in this. (TW, sexual coercion)I've met me who said, "Women need sex more than men" and "I want a blowjob because I took out the trash" almost in the same sentence, so... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 08:53 AM |
| 7 | Finally ready to date again after getting a well paying job!So happy for you! But also, my situation is and opposite lol. The more money I make the less I'm interested in pursuing relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:54 PM |
| 75 | The kids are going to be fine.Exactly. If you open any question about the attraction on askreddit or a similar sub, the top comments gonna be women writing about kindness, good manners, emotional maturity etc. But if you sort by controversial, there gonna be hundreds of comments from bitter men talking about money, huge dicks and 6+ feet height. Like, of course, it attracts a lot of women, but at the same time, you can't force this type of women to be attracted to you anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:41 PM |
| 123 | Beware of 'moody' menUGH. Mentions of moody men give me horrible flashbacks. My ex used to do this thing when, in a middle of a nice date/event/conversation, he just did a complete 180 and just stopped talking, replying to my questions or began making some snarky remarks obviously trying to provoke me. The first time I got really concerned and asked if he has a condition, like some sort of Tourettes or BPD. He said that he has no idea what am I talking about and nothing changed in his behaviour aka basically gasligh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:17 PM |
| 165 | The kids are going to be fine.I saw a tweet saying "straight men love pussy but hate women" and I was like WOW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 01:07 PM |
| 201 | The kids are going to be fine.Always amuses me how their reaction to getting even less attention from women after becoming an "alpha male" is not a realisation that this is bs, but the further anger and frustration towards dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 01:05 PM |
| 108 | Men that push for 50/50 still don’t realize that dating has become a ladies’ market in 2021, with Tinder being 78% male / 22% female and Bumble & Hinge being 65% male / 35% female. Men outnumber women 4-to-1 on Tinder and 3-to-1 on Bumble/Hinge.Guys, who think like this, have one common problem: unfortunately, no woman ever was interested in them, so they have no idea what it looks like. They read some pick-up books and think all the women have the same attitude and never-ever make first moves, when in reality, if we're interested, we're definitely not gonna sit with arms crossed and lips pursed, pretending to have zero attraction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 11:15 AM |
| 89 | Things like this are becoming more and more common. Squeeze in the wrong area of the neck and she easily could have gotten real brain damage (from the lack of oxygen). Be careful out there ladies.My ex did the same to me, low-key the scariest experience of my life (he used a belt so I couldn't lose the grip). And after that just dismissed my panic attack with "Well, you asked for it, didn't you". But thankfully I didn't get any brain damage because since then I'm staying tf away from any man who's "dominant" or "into BDSM". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 09:34 AM |
| 109 | Hilariously Bad First Dates That I Have Been OnI also have a funny mother-related story! But she barged in in the middle of our date. Turned out, some of her friends saw him with me inside a restaurant, called her and she literally ran there because he didn't tell her he's going on a date and she must approve all the ladies he meets. There was no second date, obviously, because he asked for a check immediately and his mother waited to make sure he only paid for himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 01:37 PM |
| 9 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.Men clatch their pearls reading these stories as if they ever gonna be as rich as Perlman or any other Hollywood man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 11:29 AM |
| 1 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Idk how your post unlocked this memory, but I used to date a dude who randomly pantomimed that there's a giant robot nearby. Like, he made "robot" sounds, heavy stumps sounds and pretended to shake as if the ground around us is shaking because something big is approaching. He did like 3-4 times before we broke up (surprisingly, for a different reason) and if you think we were kids at a time, nope, he was 24. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 10:46 AM |
| 129 | Ben Affleck casts blame on Jennifer Garner for his drinking problemFor me, the ultimate sign of NVM is a man who blames his failures on others. His mother, ex-wife and the government are always top-3 reasons why he's poor, unkempt, unmotivated, addicted etc. And if you try to help him, be sure he'll never-ever gonna give you any credit. Always gonna be "Yes, I did it all myself" not "Yes, my partner helped me immeasurably". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 08:26 AM |
| 44 | My fantasy isn’t for a man to protect me, my fantasy is to not be threatened by men in the first place"24 October 1975, 90% of women in Iceland decided to demonstrate their importance by going on strike. Banks, factories and some shops had to close, as did schools and nurseries - leaving many fathers with no choice but to take their children to work. There were reports of men arming themselves with sweets and colouring pencils to entertain the crowds of overexcited children in their workplaces. Sausages - easy to cook and popular with children - were in such demand the shops sold out. We heard c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 06:37 AM |
| 1 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater."Oh nooo... Wide white surfaces terrify me! Never take me on vacation skiing or to white beaches like the Maldives, I'm gonna be terrified!!!" 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 01:57 PM |
| 554 | My fantasy isn’t for a man to protect me, my fantasy is to not be threatened by men in the first placeI once had a weird argument with anti-feminist. And he said that women are nothing without men and "if all the men are gone one day, who's gonna protect you?" with a smug face. And I was like "... protect me from whom? I never was catcalled, molested or abused by a woman". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 12:51 PM |
| 60 | I can’t stand the purple pill debate subreddit.The whole purple pill is such a joke. A bunch of men getting mad at women who are tired of being treated like shit by the aforementioned men. I mean, the bar is so low, Dante probably saw just a glimpse of it while checking the 9th circle of hell, and men still manage to act so shittily that no case of hopeless desperate pick-me wants to be with them. Can you just imagine that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 12:17 PM |
| 3 | “How to Cure a Feminist...pretend to share her beliefs”, published in the Maxim magazine. Beware Ladies, vet the men claiming to be advocates.The day I wake up and think "Wow this Camaro makes me hot!" is gonna be the last day I'm waking up lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 09:28 AM |
| 6 | Do you have a friend who reaches out to you when things aren't working out with her man, and then the minute they're okay, she's gone?Yes. She used to call me at 10-11 PM complaining about how bad he treated her and how they broke up (for a 232384294238 time in the last 5 years). And when I yet again just begged her to leave him for good, she turned things around and said that he's an amazing boyfriend and I'm just a terrible friend. Obviously, when I needed some support, she was either too busy tending to her man-baby or simply cut me off with "I don't need these negative vibes in my life now". Ended up with me not texting he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 11:37 AM |
| 10 | How Pick-me Women Create nOt LiKe OtHeR giRLsI don’t seem over the moon happy in our interactions and am pretty cut and dry and unsmiling- I get labeled a bitch and microaggressions begin This, fucking this! Idk why people have an idea that if you're funny, kind and quiet, you must behave like this 24/7. also, your post made me think of all the recent situations where I was mad at a woman, and it's always because some men created this type of situation, intentionally or not, pitting us against each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 10:49 AM |
| 2 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.Vape and hookah smoke makes my eyes really itchy. Guess how many times my male friend stopped smoking inside when I asked them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 07:18 AM |
| 2 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.I read a creepypasta about cannibalism and for quite some time had a fear of being fed human meat. Went to a BBQ with my ex and his friends, brought some nice veggies for me. Ex made a scene because I didn't want to "share". Then they thought I'm a vegan so they made sure to put steaks almost on top of my eggplants on a grill because it's so amusing to make fun of vegans and force them to eat meat. And finally, I got like a small bit of the food I brought and they just nonchalantly ate everythin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 07:14 AM |
| 3 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.People who say that your own experience is invalid because they read one article about how it's a CoNSpIrAcY, are the worst. Like, is it made his day better hurting you in an attempt to prove his theory? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 07:09 AM |
| 4 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.I don't have PMS of severe cramps, but a first day is usually uncomfortable. Told my ex about not feeling well because my period started, and a couple of hours later he made a scene because I sat there "with a bitchy face". I was so upset, cried and told him to fuck off because I have cramps. And he was like "Oh, sorry, forgot about your periods, thought you just acting bitchy with no reason, all good". What a twat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 07:06 AM |
| 1 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.I can't imagine myself coMmUniCaTInG with an adult man about how serious and lethal allergies are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 06:59 AM |
| 3 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.My NVM ex was like "no gifts!" and then give me some cheap junk and was mad I didn't buy him anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 06:58 AM |
| 3 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.I once got drunk on a date. I didn't drink much per see, like two beers, but did it on an empty stomach. And the guy I went on several dates already simply called me a taxi, put me in and left. Thank god a taxi driver was a normal man and just did his job without trying to touch me or worse. I had almost a panic attack the next morning after realising what could have happened and that guy I went on a date with said that he just decided to "teach me a lesson". Yeah, a lesson of not going out with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 06:56 AM |
| 3 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.Yes! The same ex used to make fun of people with phobias because he thought it's stupid and if you send a picture of a giant spider to an arachnophobic friend it's just a harmless prank since you didn't send a real spider. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 06:50 AM |
| 4 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.I have a big problem with "modern" restaurants because of this. One ordered a dessert without thoroughly reading and it had celery in it. Fucking celery! Who puts it in dessert?? Thankfully it only made my mouth itchy but now a lot of waitresses around town probably hate me because I made them list all the ingredients, no matter the quantity, for each dish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 06:47 AM |
| 3 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.I have an electric car but I FUCKING hate driving in traffic. It makes me so irrationally mad, I simply refuse to meet anywhere if I can't take the subway there. And for things on a front seat, I once picked up my ex and my gym bag was on a front seat. He just stood outside, not opening the door. I thought maybe it won't open so I got out and pulled the door. He still stood there. I was like wtf dude?? And he said that he has no habit of touching anyone's belongings (total bs btw he never had a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 06:43 AM |
| 5 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.Agree. I once told a guy that I'm afraid of clowns, guess who showed up on my doorstep could days later with make-up and a big red nose on. And he had the audacity of being mad that I lied. Now thinking about telling men that I'm mortified of Bentleys :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 06:32 AM |
| 7 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.I had not an ex, but a friend, who was always late. Like, if we agreed to meet at 3 PM, she started to wash her hair at 2:45. Or if we agreed to grab coffee before classes and she knew she's gonna be late, she simply went to classes without coffee and without texting me that I don't need to wait for her like an idiot. But she was never late for meeting with her bf because he would simply leave if she was even 1-2 minutes late and block her. I never did that because petty behaviour gives me so mu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 06:29 AM |
| 7 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.Exactly! Like, on top of being allergic to cilantro, I simply hate how it tastes (developed this allergy about 4-5 years ago). And I despise when people demand "a valid" reason from me when I just don't want to eat something. As a person, I have the right to refuse anything and others must respect that. no questions asked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 06:19 AM |
| 192 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.The worst V-day gift I received is an old beaten hear-shaper candle. He literally got up after I gave him a nice thoughtful present and went around the house looking for something to give me. Then proceeded to tell me how stupid this holiday is but got very pissy next year when I ignored this day. He tried to pretend that he got me something very big and expensive but "looked like I didn't want it so he'll return it". Spoiler: there was nothing to return, obviously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 02:33 PM |
| 283 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.I had an associate who always did the opposite of what you asked. It was so bizarre. You ask him to stop drinking — he immediately chugs a bottle of vodka, asking him to bring some veggies for a communal bbq — be ready to have 10 extra steaks or vice versa, and god forbid you to tell him to turn on the headlights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 02:29 PM |
| 2 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionAnd also men, who pretend to don't know how Tinder works and behave like if you're the one who swiped on them and therefore they can pretend to be picky and act like they didn't right-swipe you as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 09:38 AM |
| 14 | Just saw this in another sub. Stupid comparison but great response!Human males: nooooo you need us pls give casual sex with no attachment it's what females are made for!!! Bird females: ew none of them are nice colour and those moves are lame af guess I'll just chill this year | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 08:34 AM |
| 3 | Just saw this in another sub. Stupid comparison but great response!And if you take the majority of birds, for example, all the males are the bright colourful ones and do nice dances to attract females. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 08:27 AM |
| 6 | Just saw this in another sub. Stupid comparison but great response!Always funny when men try to use cherry-picked wildlife characteristics as a standard for humans to follow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 08:26 AM |
| 5 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionFrom Wikipedia: FaceMash was opened in 2003, developed by Mark Zuckerberg; he wrote the software for the Facemash website when he was in his second year of college. The website was set up as a type of "hot or not" game for Harvard students. The website allowed visitors to compare two female students' pictures side by side and let them decide who was more attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 08:10 AM |
| 8 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionOne psychologist told me to think of it as a credit. You take a dopamine "loan" but later you have to pay it back, with interest. And the more disappointment you got as a result of a date or even a conversation, the higher the interest rate gonna be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 08:09 AM |
| 5 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionI assure you, even if you message them first, it's not gonna change anything. I have pretty average looks, but some of my friends, who are gorgeous super-model-looking, had the same mediocre experience with dating apps. Men almost always try to insult them, thinking that bringing a woman's self-esteem "down" will give them a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 08:07 AM |
| 1 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionUgh, idk about the rest of the world, but in Russia, phone scams are so common, with people pretending to be your bank assistant and trying to make you wire your money to them, I simply became so desensitized to this. When somebody mentions money, I immediately unmatch them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 08:02 AM |
| 2 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionThank you! When I was in college, chart roulette had its peak popularity. And the crowd was pretty decent too, maybe 1-2 naked middle-aged men out of 100 cool people to talk to. So my friend and I gathered somewhere with a good connection, drank and talked to foreigners from all around the world. Idk why your comment about youtube chats reminded me of this, but now I miss those simple times :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:59 AM |
| 4 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionThe only good thing I got from Bumble is when I was in Berlin couple of years ago and they did a promotion there and for installing an app I got two bottles of delicious craft beer :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:56 AM |
| 4 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionYes! You are only lucky if you find a guy who never tried these apps before. Men, who use it for ages are so bitter at this point. They straight-up attack you and proclaim that they already wasted too much time and money on "shallow females", so now you have to prove that you're "worthy" of their attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:54 AM |
| 3 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionThanks, congratulations to you too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:52 AM |
| 5 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionMy biggest mind shift is realising that a good book is much better than the majority of men I went on a date with. Maybe gets a little awkward when I go to the bar and change places couple times trying to find a well-lit location to read (prefer paper books) :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:50 AM |
| 2 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionAlso, tinder dries my phone battery like crazy! I remember always carrying a power bank or sitting near the socket so I don't miss all those "important" conversations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:49 AM |
| 6 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionThanks! My biggest "problem" is I have no hangover. I can be blackout drunk and just wake up 4-5 hours later and have no problems whatsoever. And I read an article about how people like me become addicts more easily since we don't dread the morning after with excruciating headaches or sick stomachs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:47 AM |
| 3 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionAlso, survivor bias is pretty strong. I think everyone has that one friend who found their "true love" on this app and now thinks it has to happen and you're just not trying hard enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:44 AM |
| 5 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionYay, congrats! My biggest problem was the idea that I can do certain things alone. Like, go to a nice restaurant or bar or even the movies. And then one day I realised how stupid it was: needing a man to accompany me to all these things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:42 AM |
| 5 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionAlways remember that Facebook started as a tool for Zuc and his lame college friends to rate women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:34 AM |
| 7 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionEven before FDS, I immediately unmatched men who didn't want to chat in a dating app itself and always asked for insta/telegram/whatsapp etc. Saw it immediately as a sign of a person who tries to hide having dating apps on his phone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:30 AM |
| 8 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionIf I could go back in time with all my current knowledge, I'd have even less sex, that's for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:25 AM |
| 32 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionThank you! Asked some of my friends and it was the same for them. The never-ending cycle of downloading, realising what a waste of time and resources it is and deleting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 01:15 PM |
| 117 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionUgh, yes. I remember being so fed up with constant "I don't look for anything but casual sex". Especially when I explicitly wrote in my bio that I'm not interested in a sex-only relationship, they still swiped right on me and tried to pressure me into "trying it" claiming that they're so good is sex. Yeah, sure. You're sooooo good that even women who are looking for something casual want nothing to do with you so you're here whining and begging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 01:00 PM |
| 26 | 50/50 (FDS art by me)I love your artwork so much! Especially this piece. Perfectly captures NVM mentality: his plate is empty but he pretends to contribute money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 06:47 AM |
| 2 | The insane shit men will lie aboutI mean, it's gotta be a mental illness, right? My first bf did the exact same shit and I later found out that he's schizophrenic, the same as his mother. He made up elaborate stories for somewhat insignificant stuff. Like, instead of telling that he's late because his bus was late, he talked about the bank robbery and how he was interviewed and I'll see it in the evening news etc. Obviously there wasn't any bank robberies in our city for the last couple of decades. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 08:40 AM |
| 223 | A guy once wrote me a huge paragraph on how when a man offers to pay a bill, you need to argue and insist to pay for yourself. Pls, share your funniest and dumbest interactions about first date courtesy.Men like this are so funny tbh. They don't want to spend even a cent on a date, but still want to hook up later. This results in them trying to make it seems like they're doing you a favour by viewing you as an "equal person" and not someone who's broke and dependant on men for money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 01:58 PM |
| 269 | A guy once wrote me a huge paragraph on how when a man offers to pay a bill, you need to argue and insist to pay for yourself. Pls, share your funniest and dumbest interactions about first date courtesy.Just imagined him holding a stopwatch under the table timing how quick she's gonna reach for the rolls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 01:20 PM |
| 11 | Dunning-Kruger.LVM be like "But women in porn enjoy it! Something might be wrong with you!". Yeah, mate, sure. On the other hand, men in porn last 2-3 hours while you barely hold for 3 minutes, so something is wrong with you too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 06:11 AM |
| 299 | Dunning-Kruger.My ex once tried to convince me that it's my fault I can't cum. Politely told him that his fingering technique simply sucks since I have a delightful orgasm every time I do it myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 12:39 PM |
| 22 | Do not let this mentality make you more susceptible to manipulation, gaslighting, and other forms of abuse. You do NOT need to ‘see things from his perspective’. All you need is block & delete!"Sorry I tried to prove so hard that you're wrong, turns out we both right" said no LVM ever lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 11:10 AM |
| 4 | Some guy slid into my insta DMs, but all his "flirting" consisted of weird negs and backhanded compliments on my photos. Frustrated, I went to check my timeline and saw this post. Paris Hilton is such an icon, loves it!Yes! I'm so happy for her. After everything Paris went through, she deserves all the happiness in the world 💕💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Some guy slid into my insta DMs, but all his "flirting" consisted of weird negs and backhanded compliments on my photos. Frustrated, I went to check my timeline and saw this post. Paris Hilton is such an icon, loves it!Ahah, that's the account I got screenshots from! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:16 PM |
| 43 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesIdk how men still believe that their sperm is good till them being 70+ y.o. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:56 PM |
| 41 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesYessss. Men who make smoking weed their whole personality are just 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:49 PM |
| 34 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesOmg yes. And if you try to do that, you suddenly find that there are at least 3 pickmes in his life trying to "compete" for this prize. Lol, no thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:47 PM |
| 39 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesJust looked up who Tinder founders are and it's totally makes sense lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:45 PM |
| 66 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesMen, who use being autistic or neurodivergent in general as an excuse for their shitty behaviour towards women, belong in a wheelie bin. Somehow you know perfectly well how to "act" in front of your boss or manager and not get fired, but can't behave with me? I smell a lie right here, pal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:45 PM |
| 94 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesI'm not attracted to women, in a sexual way. So once I was on a date and we walked somewhere and a woman ran past us. She had like H size cups, or even bigger, and I looked at her with only thought of "Wow, wonder where she got her bra from, running like this and with no visible pain or discomfort" and a guy I was with immediately started commenting on her "huge bazookas" (his words) and tried to gaslight me into being bisexual and inviting a woman like this for a threesome. The length LVM go in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:39 PM |
| 59 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesGosh, yes. Once had a date with a guy who used photos of when he was my age (19) but in reality was 30+ Nothing bad happened but I still regret not walking aways the moment I realised that he lied about his age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:33 PM |
| 38 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesYes! When I used to use tinder, I remember getting drunk sometimes and messaging a bunch of guys first. Not like "Hi, how are you" but some solid flirting and suggesting that I'm interested in them. Almost none of them replied with "Oh wow so happy a woman wrote me first", they still tried to act as if I had to prove my worth to have a conversation. Fuck men like this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:31 PM |
| 26 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesLol so basically he lied to my friend about being infertile and they agreed on not "wasting money on condoms" and when she became pregnant 2-3 months later he said it was a miracle. To be fair, he's not a bad father now, but their daughter is almost 3 and he sure didn't help during the most difficult parts. How do I know? Well, because I was there to help every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:26 PM |
| 56 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesLol. My mam is self-employed. She owns a restaurant and still works there 6-7 days a week. That's my standard of "self-employment" and so far zero men had the same level as my mother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:24 PM |
| 41 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesI look at famous men around this age (Paul Rudd, 52 or Hie-soon Park, 51) and average men of this age and I just don't get why they can't be like, normal? Being responsible, having some solid goals, trying to make life better etc. Like, I get it, not everyone was born privileged enough, but still, 50+ years is not the end, with a good regiment and lifestyle you can get and least 50 years more to live. But of course, they prefer to sit on a couch and whine about how it's women's fault their life … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:22 PM |
| 52 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesOmg, gave me PTSD right here. Once had the mistake of not properly vetting him and the wife harassed me for almost a year. A terminal pick-me case where she didn't understand that her husband lied to me about being single (among other things, naturally) and tried to ruin my life in an attempt to get revenge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:16 PM |
| 110 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesA famous Russian actor died recently at the ripe age of 74 leaving a 3 (fucking THREE) y.o. child behind. His widow will sure have a great time explaining how come a poor kid has no father. And it's not gonna be an honest explanation like "Oh, your dad was a perv who married a 30 y.o. woman and didn't take into account that the average male life expectancy in Russia is around 60-65". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:13 PM |
| 21 | Some guy slid into my insta DMs, but all his "flirting" consisted of weird negs and backhanded compliments on my photos. Frustrated, I went to check my timeline and saw this post. Paris Hilton is such an icon, loves it!Is she tho? I'm pretty sure her sister is an actual heiress to Hilton legacy (hence her arranged marriage with another rich family member) while Paris just has her own thing going. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:10 PM |
| 32 | Some guy slid into my insta DMs, but all his "flirting" consisted of weird negs and backhanded compliments on my photos. Frustrated, I went to check my timeline and saw this post. Paris Hilton is such an icon, loves it!Idk, watched "Simple Life" ages ago and probably not going to re-watch after the "This is Paris" documentary, but I'm 99.9% sure they said it and editors left it thinking "Oh this is gonna make Paris and Nicole sound so stupid and entitled" while the effect was quite an opposite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:09 PM |
| 81 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesIdk what's their thought process honestly. Like, how can you build a relationship when all your free time and money goes into games. But on the other hand, they don't want to date women who also like gaming because god forbid she's doing it better than him. Or because he wants a second mammy to clean and cook and have no hobbies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:58 PM |
| 135 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesAnd even if you swipe "yes" they act like a billion-dollar prize and expect you chase them and make first moves lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:34 PM |
| 376 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesBonus points for them pointing out that single mams are trash while 60% of their checks goes to child support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:33 PM |
| 145 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesI read somewhere, probably even here on FDS, that therapy helps only self-aware people. Narcissists and other psycos just gonna preted to "get better" in order to impress their therapist and get these sweet-sweet validation points. And continue to behave like arseholes. You know this criminal series trope when, if killer's identity is revealed to us, viewers, but not the police, you 100% get this scene when we are led to believe that killer goes for his next victim but turns out he meets his gir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:32 PM |
| 268 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesOmg went on a date with a guy who claimed to be a popular twitch streamer. Send me a link and I decided to check it. He played Heartstones and had 3 other viewers besides me. It was so awkward, I closed the tab after 5 minutes and he sent me 4 voice messages whining about how it hurt him. And my friend's husband refused to help her with a baby several times because he played World of tanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:28 PM |
| 222 | Some guy slid into my insta DMs, but all his "flirting" consisted of weird negs and backhanded compliments on my photos. Frustrated, I went to check my timeline and saw this post. Paris Hilton is such an icon, loves it!In her show "Cooking with Paris" she said that guys used to call her Ms Blueballer because she refused their sexual advances. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:17 AM |
| 36 | Some guy slid into my insta DMs, but all his "flirting" consisted of weird negs and backhanded compliments on my photos. Frustrated, I went to check my timeline and saw this post. Paris Hilton is such an icon, loves it!Yeah, I never bothered with setting it private, my account name is so weird, you'd never find it if you google me or even know my full name lol. I guess he got it via some mutual friend (my gf hinted at introducing me to one of her bf's friends, but I really hope this weirdo has nothing to do with her). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:16 AM |
| 8 | From now on, replying with this gorgeous art by _meanmachine to everyone who calls me high-maintenance (in a derogatory way)!Exactly. You have only one life so why waste it on trying to cater to some "low maintenance" society standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 06:21 AM |
| 23 | From now on, replying with this gorgeous art by _meanmachine to everyone who calls me high-maintenance (in a derogatory way)!I'm allergic to celery, so I second the motion to compare these men to it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Woman posts about her LVM in 2015 . . . and then updates SIX years later about leveled up lifeI lowkey want to hear how's he doing, just to gloat a little. Hope he knows about how great her life is and cries himself to sleep every night on his mam's couch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:29 PM |
| 37 | Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy.And when you try to communicate, he either tries to gastight you with "It didn't happen. I don't remember doing/saying this!" or gets angry and tries to attack you by listing all the "bad" things you did to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 06:23 AM |
| 17 | Men don't care about women. They won't even engage with a book/movie/TV show if it was written by or centres a woman. They have class solidarity only with each otherMajority of men have such a low self-esteem and lack of empathy, they simply can't watch some piece of media without associating with the main hero. If you read The Witcher, you can see how Andrzej Sapkowski caught this and made Geralt progressively hotter and stronger thought out the series (literally, in the first book a child cried and ran away after looking at Geralt). Netflix immediately cast a tall buff dudebro as a main character and scrotes still complained about women being not sexy eno… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 11:34 AM |
| 18 | I have no wordsUnsubscribed from AITA ages ago because of posts like this. It's clear that she dumped him because of another reason, but he tries to convince himself that she's a silly female who made a scene over a towel. And for extra dopamine, he posted this story so a swarm of other LVM in comments would reassure him that she's an idiot and he "dodged a bullet" while it's 100% the other way around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 07:11 AM |
| 20 | Successful novelist wife writes a book on her lunch hour. Husband is mad.As the great Ali Wong said "I'm always asked how my husband is feeling about my success with a note of concern. He feels great. It's not hard to feel good about your spouse making money." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 06:58 AM |
| 4 | Successful novelist wife writes a book on her lunch hour. Husband is mad.The best thing FDS taught me is confidently saying "Yes, I'm better than you, so what?" to scrotes like this. Wanna prove that I ain't shit but you're king of the world? Go on, but so far your unwashed ass never leaves the couch or gaming chair, so I'm not worried about being humiliated by your success. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 06:55 AM |
| 7 | Piggybacking off of the not clapping back at men who neg you post. What are some examples of negging that men have done to you?I never saw a fit man commenting on a woman's muscles. It's always those couch-dwelling shapeless dudes who never held anything havier than PS controller. Like, if it's so easy for a woman to become "looking like a man" when she starts lifting, why you still be there looking like Rubens' best painting? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 07:09 AM |
| 21 | Shawn Mendes dumped Camilla Cabello and called the relationship “stale and complacent”… this happened conveniently after she gained weight and publicly spoke about her cellulite, fat and stretch marks. Coincidence?My friends think I'm crazy but I know I saw articles about Daniel Craig leaving a gay club with some young guy, but since it was after his first movie as a Bond, his PR team made all this news disappear. Probably the same thing with Mendes. I hope Camilla just got tired of being his cover and asked him to f off. But obviously he got his wittle pwide wounded and tried to humiliate her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:58 AM |
| 67 | Shawn Mendes dumped Camilla Cabello and called the relationship “stale and complacent”… this happened conveniently after she gained weight and publicly spoke about her cellulite, fat and stretch marks. Coincidence?Probably gonna sound a bit problematic, but I'm 99% sure Shawn Mendes is gay, not even bi, and for some reason (homophobic family maybe?) he tries to date women but it's basically self-conversion therapy and obviously not working. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:53 AM |
| 27 | Piggybacking off of the not clapping back at men who neg you post. What are some examples of negging that men have done to you?Idk why people, men especially, think that "someone has a fetish for it" is the highest form of an appraisal? Like telling a 200 lbs woman that she's "overweight" BUT a lot of men love BBW. Or sending a disabled person some porn featuring an actress with the same disability. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:29 AM |
| 35 | Piggybacking off of the not clapping back at men who neg you post. What are some examples of negging that men have done to you?Omg. Yes! The "you're so ____ for a tall woman" makes me see red. The same goes for any comments about muscular women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:18 AM |
| 41 | Men aren’t asking you on coffee dates because they care about your safety or convenience.Also, from a personal experience, he can try and choose a small coffee place in a busy part of town and when there are, expectedly, no free tables, he'll suggest a nice walk in a nearby park and that you can get your coffee to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 07:03 AM |
| 13 | No. FDS is not about clapping back at men who neg youThis. I always find it so useless to try and come up with a quick and witty comeback when some self-diagnosed sigma male tries to offend me. The best response is a silent eye roll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:16 AM |
| 17 | The "Marriage is just a piece of paper" lie.Luckily, no. He thought that in marriage half of what you own belongs to your spouse, but it only applies to certain things bought together after the legal marriage procedure, at least in our country. Fortunately, my friend's relatives finally convinced her to see his real face: a useless deadbeat who provides nothing and makes her miserable. She used her late uncle's money to buy a nice apartment, packed her bag, and left. He didn't even care about a child, only about the money he didn't get. D… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 06:18 AM |
| 17 | I can't help itI once got in a minor car accident where I had a right of way but the other car was an effing giant Lexus so of course, he didn't yield and for some stupid reason decided to speed up. And I nearly died when an angry 5'5 man jumped out of this monster truck and yelled at me for not seeing him. We exchanged info and he was so rude and obnoxious, I couldn't let him go without humbling him a little and when he opened his car door I loudly said: "You need help getting in?" (I'm 5'10 and wearing high … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 09:10 AM |
| 178 | The "Marriage is just a piece of paper" lie.A friend of mine wanted a big expensive wedding ceremony for as long as I can remember. She had a huge binder with various clippings: dresses, decorations, cakes etc. I sometimes made fun of her wedding obsession, but in a good way, since everyone has a right to have something planned perfectly. She also comes from a religious family and wanted both a church service and court ceremony. Well, all her dreams and plans were ruined by a LV prick she fell in love with. She got pregnant out of wedlock… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 08:58 AM |
| 80 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorYep. And Russian men always talk about how Russian women only want to date Arabs/black guys because the first ones are rich and the second ones have massive dongs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 08:45 AM |
| 93 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorYes! I lived in China for several years and Russian/American/African men there only wanted to date Chinese women or women of the "opposite" ethnicity. While Chinese guys praised white girls and were openly racist to every other one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 08:41 AM |
| 159 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorI'm shocked because Russian men are the same: they fetishize Black and Asian women but degrade white (Slavic) ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 06:57 AM |
| 223 | This is terrifying. Scrote at a thrift store tries to lure a 17 year old at to his farm talking about getting injured and needing help.Came here to write the same comment! I think it should be mandatory for everyone to read about Ted Bundy and how he approached his victims pretending to be injured/lost. Especially nowadays. I get that some people don't own smartphones on purpose, but when a man approaches me and asks for directions I always avoid interacting. Especially when there are other people around but he obviously chose me because I sit/wait alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 01:46 PM |
| 48 | A collection of recent bios I’ve seen on OLD, and their translations"If you dare to ask about my height, prepare to tell me your weight" = I'm under 5'10 "Tired of relationships, hookups only" = sex with me is so terrible, no woman agrees to do it again "Tell me the last book you read" = I pretend to be educated, but 99% of my knowledge comes from TikTok videos since I can't comprehend big amounts of information "Swipe left if you have children" = my dad left and I blame my mam for it "Sapiosexual" = you have to be grateful I swipe right on you because it means … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 08:48 AM |
| 79 | Love is never enough!I had a conversation with a therapist once, she gave off major pick-me-vibes from the start, but the peak moment was when she tried to convince me not to discuss anything about the future with a potential partner, ever. Like, she reasoned that men hate being pressured into something and if you talk to him about financial stability or property purchases, let alone kids, he can suffer from huge anxiety and lose all the motivation for being in this relationship. Instead, I must rely on myself only,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 09:18 AM |
| 74 | Why Beer is Actually the Ultimate Women's Drink (hint: Witches!!)Beer is funny. Men claim it's a ✨m a n l y ✨drink but as long as it's just some plain mass-manufactured stuff. The moment it's something creative, like small-produced local craft beer or beer with fruit juice added, it immediately becomes a drink for women and gays. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 01:52 PM |
| 19 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...Asked my male friends once why I never saw them on tinder, despite them using it actively, turns out their age range was 18-20 (I was 26 and they like 3-4 years older than me). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 11:55 AM |
| 9 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...And don't forget such gems as sapiosexual (literally every second profile I've encountered had this word) 6'2 (as only information in a bio, irl smaller than 5'10 me) "I am an abuser with a tiny dick, drug problems and no money, swipe left" as if reverse psychology ever worked for normal people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 11:53 AM |
| 8 | The "huh?"Same. Or he made me repeat something several times and replied with "Sorry, I still don't understand what are you trying to say". I wrote it before, either in one of my posts or in the comments, how this type of behaviour always correlates with men avoiding chats on messengers. Their reason is a desire to have "natural communication" with you, but in reality, they want to avoid responsibility for things they wrote since you always can provide screenshots and other receipts if it wasn't a verbal … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 07:34 AM |
| 7 | My last creative project was in elementary school, and it stays this way.I met a lot of men who think that reverse psychology is a legit thing. They talk about how bad they are, how all their ex-wives and girlfriends were miserable, how they have no money etc. and then sit there with a surprise Pikachu face when you don't want a second date with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 06:58 AM |
| 31 | My last creative project was in elementary school, and it stays this way.Omg, it's a great analogy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 07:55 AM |
| 83 | My family and friends push me to be a pickme & tell me I’m being too picky if I don’t want to date men I don’t find attractive.Just ignore them. People, who think that their opinions are so important that others have to live according to them, are so self-centred that they will go rampant the moment you start ignoring them. One of my aunts was like that, always telling me how picky I am and trying to set me up with some weirdos and borderline alcoholics because that is how her husband is and she couldn't wrap her head around the idea that every woman deserves better. When I debated her, it only gave more fuel to her ran… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 07:17 AM |
| 6 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.Instantly reminded me of a hilarious SNL skit Meet Your Second Wife. The ending is especially on pair with this scrote's fantasy of a wife 20-30 years younger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 08:33 AM |
| 48 | Weight neggingA guy tried to neg me about my weight and stated that it's not offensive because it's something I can change with HeALThy DieT aNd eXeRCise. Lucky for me, he had some adult acne and recessing hairline, so I had quite a field day talking about how he can easily fix it with regular dermatologist visits and hair transplantation. In my pick-me days, I was very shy and respectful and never talked back if people gave me some backhanded compliments or negging or straight out pointe some of my "flaws", … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:28 AM |
| 7 | Woman comments “we Stan a short king” on random videos on Tik Tok. Men take the bait every single timeWell, to be fair, clothes sizes are bizarre sometimes, especially when your body doesn't fit the standard measurements, but hamming pants to a perfect length instead of rolling them up will make you look much better and put together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:20 PM |
| 30 | Woman comments “we Stan a short king” on random videos on Tik Tok. Men take the bait every single timeI'm 5'10 and after actively using tinder last year, I can guess by photo if a man shorter than me with extremely high accuracy. Especially if it's a full photo, you just check where his pants end :D Men who claim they are "at least" 6'1 be standing there with their jeans cuffed two times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 10:11 AM |
| 39 | Spotted in another sub. Subtle red flag that I (as a short-legged woman) have experienced too!Fun fact: this is actually how I found FDS. Someone commented about this community in another subreddit and their comment described women there as "female inc*ls who get mad when a guy walks ahead of them!". Like, it was so specific that I had to check it myself! My ex used to do it. And on top of walking 4-5 feet ahead, he also talked to me at the same time and was pissed when I asked to repeat what he said or didn't acknowledge him talking at all because I couldn't hear him. Once he met me in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:25 AM |
| 168 | Women: Don't accept a single neg. Check out the dating advice men give each other.Exactly. Also, hate when they present their density and lack of empathy as an act of social rebellion. Like "Oh, it's common for men to compliment women they want to date and buy them flowers? Well, I am not gonna do it because I'm not like other boys, I'm quirky and unique!". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 07:54 AM |
| 3 | The farce that “men age like fine wine”Omg same. Especially without any facial hair, he looks much younger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 07:40 AM |
| 72 | The farce that “men age like fine wine”Totally unrelated, but why Korean actors are so weirdly hot? Just finished watching "My Name" on Netflix, and, obviously, the good guy aka a handsome cop is hot, but omg why all the gang members are so smoking as well?? Noticed that with several other series as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 01:02 PM |
| 121 | The farce that “men age like fine wine”Men refuse SPF and moisturizer but try to convince everyone that deep wrinkles and pigmentation give them "charisma and character". My man, you ain't Morgan Freeman, you're just an unkempt white dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 12:47 PM |
| 24 | Never call a man out for negging youIf he does it in person, my go-to strategy is a dramatic eye roll (with an additional tongue click if you feel like it). Idk why but it pisses them off so much :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 08:48 AM |
| 11 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?Lol exactly. This guy later texted me that his ex had multiple orgasms after giving him a bj so it's my loss. I really hope he made it up and this poor woman didn't lie to him in fear of how terrible an actual sex gonna be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 06:05 AM |
| 85 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?My mouth is so sensitive, sometimes I need 20 minutes to brush my teeth slowly between gags. So naturally, it's the first thing I tell a guy if things get physical. And I'm yet to meet a man who didn't throw a temper tantrum after that. One guy literally sat upright, crossed his arms, and declared that there will be no sex until he gets a proper bj. Yeah, mate, I'm not into fucking toddlers anyway, so have a nice evening wanking to some p*rn. Another guy tried to force me by grabbing my hair and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 02:18 PM |
| 5 | I'm done with men shorter than meSome men are so deprived, they can't tell a difference between normal human interactions and flirting. Thank god our relationship didn't move further, because all my colleagues are so great and I treat everyone equally good. He'd just assume I have massive orgies at work and nothing more 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:41 AM |
| 4 | I'm done with men shorter than meBefore FDS I would go into a lengthy explanation and apologise for ruining his surprise. And now I'm all "Wow, you texted me in that tone? Blocked and reported". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:23 AM |
| 4 | I'm done with men shorter than mePlus it wasn't ridiculously expensive, and I think talented artists need to be properly compensated for their work. And people have the right to price their pieces whatever they like, 1$ or 1 million, it's up to me if I want to buy it or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:14 AM |
| 5 | I'm done with men shorter than meYeah, sorry I didn't avoid half of the planet's population because of your insecurities. Honestly, the ones who assume that every interaction between men and women is flirting are the worst kind of people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:11 AM |
| 7 | I'm done with men shorter than meA lot of little angry men dm'd me after this post whining about how fEmAleS always flirt with men at work. And lately, I noticed that more and more people mistake kind attitude for flirting. Well, sorry I don't act like a bitter bitch toward everyone, my brother included, but it's really your problem, not mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:09 AM |
| 3 | I'm done with men shorter than meHe just pretended to care about art. I'm not snobbish and always admit that I just like something because it's pleasant to look at (colour scheme, composition, lights). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:03 AM |
| 10 | I'm done with men shorter than meTrue! I'm always puzzled when people react to something that not applies to them, especially on dating apps. If a guy has "Blonde women only" in his bio, I simply swipe left, without wasting my time on debating him about hair colour and how his preferences are biased because I'm not blonde. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:43 AM |
| 22 | I'm done with men shorter than meMy messages were flooded this morning with scrotes lecturing me on how wrong my behaviour was and how dare I flirt with male colleagues when I'm *dating* someone. I really hope those men are just stupid and can't read, otherwise, the number of creeps thinking about me flirting with my own brother is nauseating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:39 AM |
| 6 | I'm done with men shorter than meI once had a job offer on Tinder 😂 Nothing creepy, just a salesperson, but it was kinda weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:33 AM |
| 16 | I'm done with men shorter than meAll men in my family are 6' or more, so I can't imagine bringing a man insecure about his height to a family gathering, a poor lad will have his self-esteem spread on the ground 😂 😂 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:22 AM |
| 186 | I'm done with men shorter than meYeah, the idea of "surprising" someone by showing up at their workplace is 10/10 creepy af. But please don't worry, I have a mace and he also did't try to contact me since I blocked him. Probably got scared of being punched by my "chad" brother :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:31 PM |
| 93 | I'm done with men shorter than meWeebs and other kinds of Japanophiles are the whole another can of worms I'm not ready to open. My friend is 5'11 and she usually puts her height on dating apps as 5'7 and whenever she agreed to go on a date with guys who claimed they 6'1 or even more, always ended up in hilariously awkward situations because those guys were under 5'10 and lied hoping a 5'7 woman won't notice the difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:26 PM |
| 50 | I'm done with men shorter than meYep. Resident Evil is a great game, but the invention of Lady Dimitrescu sure did make things worse :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:08 PM |
| 40 | I'm done with men shorter than meOne guy proudly told me that aCtUalLy Napoleon was quite tall, I laughed and asked him if he AcTuAllY googled it or just heard in some lame podcast for manly men and didn't bother to find out if it's true? Louis XVI was "quite tall", Napoleon wasn't, hence the name for the complex. But some people just prefer to live in their own bubble of delusion I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:03 PM |
| 31 | A very subtle sign of a manipulative, gaslighting LVBF.My ex LOUDLY snored when I explained something to him (either a book or movie plot I found very interesting, don't remember exactly) and then obviously made fun of my bitter reaction and got offended that I didn't get the joke. Did I mention it was in a coffee shop and I was dying from embarrassment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:59 PM |
| 260 | I'm done with men shorter than meI once put it in my tinder bio and the number of men who swiped right on me with the sole purpose of writing several paragraphs about my misandry and how harmful women's lack of empathy for them, further proved my point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:54 PM |
| 350 | I'm done with men shorter than meMy guess is that he simply googled me and found my LinkedIn. Well, at least I hope that how he did it and not buy following me first home and then to work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:21 PM |
| 159 | I'm done with men shorter than meFor some guys, it really seems like a sexual fetish e.g. something they like only in the privacy of their own home while in public they feel "humiliated". And the funniest this is that I honestly don't care about the height difference, I had several relationships with men shorter than me and only one ended on a mutual agreement because of schedules conflict. The rest ended with me getting tired of constantly walking on eggshells trying not to "offend" them by being tall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:06 PM |
| 3 | We all thought of *that* one ex-boyfriend now, didn't weMy friend went back to her abusive ex because he "already ordered a ring and actually planned a wedding as a surprise for me!" A real surprise for her was when she found out he didn't do shit and continued to waste money on video games and weed. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:20 AM |
| 3 | We all thought of *that* one ex-boyfriend now, didn't weAhah, true. A guy I dated in college once called me and listed all the "bad" things I did and how he planned to marry me if it wasn't for these things. I laughed and asked what kind of drugs gave him an idea that he ever was husband material. He immediately took 180 back to his psycho self and reminded me why I left him in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:50 AM |
| 2 | We all thought of *that* one ex-boyfriend now, didn't weSame. In my "pick-me" days I always felt sad when my friends were bragging about how their exes always trying to contact them. Now I hit that "block" button with zero remorse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:45 AM |
| 62 | We all thought of *that* one ex-boyfriend now, didn't weYep! They be like "Sorry, accidentally called/messaged you... BTW I'm single and lonely, what are you up to?". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:27 AM |
| 2 | It screams LVM to me, but my friend argued that it's actually a HVM behaviour. What do y'all think?Oof. So much to unpack. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:22 PM |
| 15 | It screams LVM to me, but my friend argued that it's actually a HVM behaviour. What do y'all think?Probably the only photo of them together. Can imagine him saying "I don't like to flaunt my love to you around social media" whenever she wanted to post on FB or Insta. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:48 PM |
| 47 | It screams LVM to me, but my friend argued that it's actually a HVM behaviour. What do y'all think?Imagine him having 2 girls in different cities and putting up a billboard for each one, but photos go viral and they find out about each other 😆😆😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 10:11 AM |
| 51 | It screams LVM to me, but my friend argued that it's actually a HVM behaviour. What do y'all think?Agree. If you have zero empathy and had to google "how to apologize" it says the most important thing is saying straightforward what are you sorry for. Reminded me of my ex, whose way of apologizing was "sorry it made you feel like this, not my fault tho". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:59 AM |
| 119 | It screams LVM to me, but my friend argued that it's actually a HVM behaviour. What do y'all think?Totally agree. It's like these videos where a woman says "no" to a proposal made in front of a huge crowd in a public space. She's clearly uncomfortable with the idea of marrying this man, and he knows it, so tried to pressure her into saying "yes". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:12 AM |
| 61 | It screams LVM to me, but my friend argued that it's actually a HVM behaviour. What do y'all think?My friend's reasoning is "Well, he's admitting doing something wrong and giving a sincere apology". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:08 AM |
| 5 | The level of mental gymnastics hereDamn, thought after saying "I took care of it" she gonna open the window and toss the shorts out. Too bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Everyone's talking about Gabby Petito. But they're having the wrong conversation, experts say.Thank you so much for the answer! I've never even hitchhiked once in my life because from an early childhood my parents told me how dangerous in is for a woman (my younger brother hitchhikes just fine), and living in a van sounds terrifying. I also see a lot of people getting angry when somebody says "putting yourself in danger", but I totally agree. A lot of my first dates never happened because I point black refused to go on a hike or come to his place, all because of avoiding placing myself i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 06:16 AM |
| 6 | Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them?All those Helmut Newton wannabes with zero talent make me go 🤢🤢🤢 Especially nauseating when they use dating apps to find "models". Always a waste of time, because they either try to self-promote (and call your names if you dare to criticize their "masterpieces") or try to pressure you into sending them nudes "for artistic purposes". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 02:06 PM |
| 8 | Everyone's talking about Gabby Petito. But they're having the wrong conversation, experts say.Oh, thanks, I think I got it now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 11:21 AM |
| 43 | Everyone's talking about Gabby Petito. But they're having the wrong conversation, experts say.I also noticed a lot of people referencing "Missing white woman syndrome" when talking about this case. I kinda got a general idea of what this "syndrome" means, from Wikipedia mostly, but still can't wrap my head around why some women still try to make this case less significant, because Gabby was white. (For clarification, I live in a post-USSR shithole and we have zero black people here and I don't think I ever talked to one in real life). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 10:26 AM |
| 43 | If someone does not meet your standards, it is better to just not date them at all, rather than date them and try to change them into the person you actually want to date.Yes! I tried so many times to "date down" and choose guys who didn't like art, books, cooking etc. hoping that I'll change their attitude. Snowball's chance in hell! Maybe, maybe for a fraction of time, he'll pretend to enjoy a museum date or a book you gifted him (especially before you sleep with him). But he sure can't hold this mask forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 09:25 AM |
| 158 | “Coersion isn’t Consent”A guy I dated ages ago once tried to pull an "it's too late and taxis are expensive" card. I pulled out my phone and said "No problem, gonna dial my mum now and you'll tell her that I'm staying here for the night". I swear, never saw a guy calling a taxi this fast :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 06:34 AM |
| 17 | Expose them early and often!It's extremely hilarious because he played himself in the end :D I mean, if he really had some other dates and decided to ghost you, it's one thing. But he just sat by the phone the whole Wednesday, waiting for you to call and then waited more, till the next day, to call you and complain?? What a clown indeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 07:36 AM |
| 5 | Why do some men still pretend they don't know the difference between mutual interest and creepy stalking?Porn-consuming men assume, by default, that women love rough sex and it never occurs to them to actually ask "Hey, I like this and this, is it fine with you?" prior to sex. A few might ask in a process if you like it, but 9 times out of 10 they just assume that women enjoy this and if his dick is inside you, it means consensual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 07:28 AM |
| 6 | Why do some men still pretend they don't know the difference between mutual interest and creepy stalking?This. When I was younger it kinda hurt a lot, when I tried to talk to a guy and he treated me like an empty space and then drooled all over some hot skinny blonde. Also learned the hard way that when you say "no" to a guy he doesn't reply with "understandable, have a nice day" and leaves you alone, in fact, does quite the opposite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 07:22 AM |
| 6 | Why do some men still pretend they don't know the difference between mutual interest and creepy stalking?I wrote this post after reading about a man who saw a woman in some park and looked through all tagged photos from this park on Instagram and eventually found her. And like half of the comments were "Well, you post stuff on social media, what do you expect?". It's like if you went to the police station to report a robbery and they told you "Well, you own stuff, what did you expect?". I'm not saying that posting every second of your life is okay, but also let's not shift the blame from these cree… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 06:50 AM |
| 4 | Channel your romantic energy into your friendshipsThis. For some reason, my Instagram feed was flooded with picnic posts this summer and I was really sad because had no partner to plan something similarly cute (also a bit of a "trauma" after my ex constantly mocked me for wanting nice pics for insta). And then I realised that I can simply invite my girlfriends! It was amazing. We had nice food, chatted about everything and had a ton of great photos made. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 01:41 PM |
| 102 | Thanks to FDS men's language classes, I now know that what this means is "we want to be useless and play video games our entire lives so we're victimising ourselves."FDS taught me that only men, who bring nothing to the table, are the ones who constantly complain about how unfair society is. Men, who work hard, have a good heart and take care of others while expecting nothing back, never think like this. Because society treats them good in return. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 12:48 PM |
| 9 | Actions don't lie, how does he react in these situations?I have a funny story about #3 and 4 combined. Travelled with my ex once, and we decided to use public transport. A bus fee in that country was extremely small, like 1/5 of a dollar. I always pay fees tbh, never occurs to me to have a free ride. My ex said that it's stupid and since the fee is so small, no need to pay. While we argued, the conductor came. So my ex literally turned away and pretended to be deaf and mute while I dealt with paying a fine FOR BOTH of us. Later that day some drunk guy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 08:23 AM |
| 57 | Men actually do know how dangerous other men can beMy dad doesn't understand feminism but always warns me about the danger of other men. Once I jokingly asked "But what about women?" and he was like "Don't be silly, no way a woman will try to mug or r*pe you". And zero of my homophobic relatives ever told me "Your skirt is too short, it can attract some predatory lesbians, go change!". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 06:16 AM |
| 15 | Male Neurodivergent PANDERING, and my seething resentment about itWhy is it always about men? Misogynists scream that feminists took over the cinema industry but zero movies about autistic women are made. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 06:12 AM |
| 119 | Male Neurodivergent PANDERING, and my seething resentment about itI feel you. 99% of people still associate autism with screeching pre-school boys or Sheldon Cooper-wannabes, that's why it's so hard for women, especially older ones, to get a proper diagnosis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Is she high maintenance tho?Yes, that was my initial point! I always share food and expect people to take it, and act like a surprised Pikachu meme when I don't get the same in return, especially from a man on a date, ESPECIALLY after he grabbed a big chunk of my food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Is she high maintenance tho?Sorry, English is not even my second language so sometimes I can't express what I truly mean with a proper wording :( You obviously not obliged to offer food if you don't want to share and really expect them to say "no", fake politeness sometimes is much worse than no manners at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Is she high maintenance tho?Honestly, idk, can't see any manipulation in this. If you're offered a bag of crisps, you can either decline or take 1-2 pieces. But it's really rude to grab half a packet. Also, context is important. You obviously don't need to offer food to some random people on a bus, but when it's a date and you ordered different things it kinda comes naturally to offer a bite, especially when you want to try your date's dish as well. For me, it's some sort of an unconscious practice at this point. Obviously… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 07:06 AM |
| 132 | Being a people pleaser is a major tenant of being a pickme. Men will only love the 50/50, sex supply, and maid service, not you as a person.Yep. He never allows her to use a car HER parents bought them, because "she'll crush it". And also refuses to drive her, even for necessary appointments, let alone some entertainment like shopping. She often complained about him, but also tried to treat me like a personal servant/driver. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 02:22 PM |
| 9 | Is she high maintenance tho?My mum thought me from an early age to always offer food I'm having. She also said that a polite person will always politely decline (if it's not a homeless or a starving person, of course). So I was EXTREMELY shocked when first encountered men on a date who a) won't offer you to try anything and b) happily grab more than half of what you offer them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 01:14 PM |
| 339 | Being a people pleaser is a major tenant of being a pickme. Men will only love the 50/50, sex supply, and maid service, not you as a person.Bonus hurt points for when people say "I liked you better before this attitude change". Of course, you liked me better when I gave you free rides, now you have to beg for a car ride your LV husband and probably "pay" him with a b*job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 01:02 PM |
| 140 | If anyone gives you a backhanded compliment or neg at the start of a conversation, walk away...I'm tall, so 99% of backhanded compliments I get are something like "You're so pretty, even with your height" or "Wow, wearing heels? So brave, but probably hard to find an equal guy". When it comes from a man who's smaller than me, I simply crouch down a little, smile and ask him to repeat because I didn't hear it the first time. Their face is usually priceless, especially when there are other people around and instead of negging me, they get a reality check on their 5'5 frame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 12:18 PM |
| 21 | Sisterhood is resistance!!Men say this ain't true, but I'm pretty sure every woman can remember that one boyfriend who said things like "I don't want you to talk to X, she's a bad influence" and listed some weird reasons to support his argument. My friend's husband tried to prevent her from talking to me, because "married women have to be friends only with other married women". I thought he's a great guy and never said anything bad about him to my friend, so this kind of hostility was baffling. Now I know why they do tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 08:22 AM |
| 103 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usOne of my biggest pet peeves is service people commenting on how I spend my money. Taxi drivers saying "It's not that far, you could've walked" or cashiers loudly judging me for buying expensive ice cream. Like, wtf is wrong with you? Just shut up and do your job, nobody asked for an opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:33 AM |
| 58 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usA while ago saw this picture somewhere on reddit and comments were filled with "nice guys" whining about how women are paranoid and now they can't even come to a total stranger on a street with an intend to hit on her. Oh no, what should I do? Miss an opportunity to give a chance to a "really nice guy" or miss an opportunity to get murdered/mugged? What a hard choice indeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:26 AM |
| 58 | One of the worst things your potential partner can do is exploit vulnerable women because peen. It does not matter if he checks all the other boxes, if he's done this he's ZVMYoutube once recommended me this video. It gave me very sad vibes (women aren't abused there per se, but if you watch it, you'll get what I mean). Sent this video to one of my friends. He immediately jumped the "sex work is work" train (in our country prostitution is illegal, but it's obviously endorsed by corrupted policemen). Obviously, his main "arguments" were about all those lonely men who can't find a partner and he tried to convince me that AKCHUALLY 99% of men pay these women just to tal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 09:28 AM |
| 346 | TW: rape - OP doesn't KNOW WHAT TO DO and feels KINDA uncomfortable when her bf openly talks about her being his slave!! RUN!!!! THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD DO!!!! I can't believe my eyes reading this post!!!It's funny how neurodivergent behaviour is often used as an excuse for borderline sociopathic tendencies, but only for men. "Oh, he's just brutally honest, he can't detect sarcasm, just tells you a blatant truth without sugarcoating it!" but when women act the same way, and even more, being actually on the spectrum, we are immediately labelled as rude, unsocialized, and advice to keep our mouth shut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 09:15 AM |
| 65 | TW: rape - OP doesn't KNOW WHAT TO DO and feels KINDA uncomfortable when her bf openly talks about her being his slave!! RUN!!!! THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD DO!!!! I can't believe my eyes reading this post!!!Another proof that NVM/LVM can't pretend forever. Sooner or later mask slips and you see his degeneracy in full view. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 09:09 AM |
| 61 | For The Lurkers And FDS Members Who Wonder Why Men Are Banned Here....Lmao. I was so confused after randomly getting Reddit Care Resources messages (also, really useless because it provides only USA-based services and phone numbers). Now I know the reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 08:53 AM |
| 32 | Story Time: The importance of looking someone up on social mediaI might not be able to go to my favorite spot in fear of running into him again. This. Makes me so sad, because I myself usually feel the same. If I had some unpleasant scrote experience in a bar/coffee place, it gets really hard for me to get back there. One time, in particular, I rejected a "nice guy" in a bar, and like 3 months later went there with some friends, and that psycho was there and he literally came over to us and started bitching about women who go to bars "soliciting themselves". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 10:50 AM |
| 24 | “Not all men” brigaders…smhThe hill I'm ready to die on: crime statistics — the only male-dominated field where men try to demand equality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 12:07 PM |
| 21 | Single fathers will date women for free child care. Don’t let a man dictate which car you buy because they don’t want their child in it. This woman needs to 🏃♀️Mazda Miata looks super-cool and now I want one! And Lexus LX looks ugly af, only an insecure man with a tiny dick would buy one, for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 09:04 AM |
| 9 | "I went to a doctor and he said it's normal because I'm stressed all the time!"Omg, I forgot the beer part! Mr Stressed also claimed his dysfunction on alcohol but somehow drank 2-3 beers daily. I mean Russian size beer, those 1.5-2 litre sized bottles with piss-coloured weird smelly stuff in them. And he genuinely didn't see any contradiction, because "well, it's just a little something to take the edge off". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 06:51 AM |
| 16 | "I went to a doctor and he said it's normal because I'm stressed all the time!"I had a similar experience but on tinder. We chatted for a few weeks and everything was good, conversations didn't feel forced etc. And all of a sudden he sent me several links with hardcore p*rn and commented on how much he loves "this". I tried to change the subject, but instead got lectured on how "all women love this" and if I don't, I'm either lying or mentally retarded (his exact words). So yeah, a lot of women already wrote here "always listen to what he says and he'll rat himself out eve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 06:38 AM |
| 33 | Pick-me-men.Nothing hypocritical there, I think. Men and women initiate divorce for very different reasons. But from my experience, it's useless to ask them for real honest reasons. It's always the same tale of "This b*tch cheated on me, I was loyal and showered her with gifts but she didn't care". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 01:51 PM |
| 134 | Pick-me-men.When a guy starts with "well, my therapist told me that we have to..." I immediately stop listening. I mean, therapy is a way for you to sort out your feelings and emotions, not find ways to manipulate mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 01:48 PM |
| 133 | "I went to a doctor and he said it's normal because I'm stressed all the time!"Thank god he doesn't have any siblings. Probably just enjoyed the concept of a little innocent girl being abused and dominated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 01:43 PM |
| 161 | How a scrote just replied to me on a discussion re: sexual harassment & objectificationWhen you present such cases to men, they usually react with "No-no-no, I mean this very specific strawman situation where a drunk girl has sex with her boyfriend and then accuses him of rape and he gets 100 years in prison. This totally happened with a friend of my brother's friend!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 12:54 PM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]Also, who wrote this article? I mean, one of them contacted journalists in order to share their "fabulous love story"? Looks like propaganda to me, because next time some 19 y.o. tries to search "is this middle-aged man tries to groom me" she'll find an article framing an age gap like this as a great thing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 07:52 AM |
| 14 | [deleted by user]Almost every young person in my country is OBSESSED with living in the USA. My former classmate won a green card and flew to America. Here he was a successful guy, working in IT, making really good money. How he lives his "American dream"? Washing cars. Lol. Tries to convince everyone it's "temporary" but in my books "over a year now" is far beyond "temporary". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 07:47 AM |
| 5 | Reminder: Delete your dating apps! Your sanity will thank you.I mean, it's so stupid. Do these guys try to pretend that they have a queue of hundreds of women waiting to go on a date with them? :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 06:15 AM |
| 11 | Reminder: Delete your dating apps! Your sanity will thank you.*free* escort. Because they don't want to spend any money and hope that there's a woman desperate enough to really come and have sex with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 06:14 AM |
| 58 | Reminder: Delete your dating apps! Your sanity will thank you.Thanks. Your post was the sing I needed. A lot of men on tinder asked me "Are you here to meet someone or just pass time?" and I was like "Are you joking, mate? Who will voluntarily spend time on this app "just to pass time"?" and turns out that's exactly what they do. Especially ppl who work from home. They either ask you straightforward to come to their place for sex or endlessly swipe, have meaningless conversations and so on. And even if they ask you on a date, but you say "I can't today, ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:05 PM |
| 8 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyYes! My friend's husband once out of the blue started telling me negative stuff about his mum's new boyfriend. Like, dude, I don't know her personally so what do you want me to do with this information? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 09:31 AM |
| 26 | Men on Reddit are Porn SickThanks. Before today I lived peacefully without knowing "gaping hope" fetish existed. But of course, I had to search it. It's also baffling because you see a million of posts by scrotes complaining about "not tight enough" but somehow it's a fetish too? Ffs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:54 PM |
| 13 | EXCLUSIVE : inside the minds of liberal feminist masterminds.I deleted twitter ages ago, so correct me if I'm wrong, but didn't someone discover that all those posts bragging about buying house/car/designer stuff with onlyfans money, allegedly made by women, were actually made by men. And one of those men was later prosecuted for soliciting prostitution? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 12:47 PM |
| 22 | I loathe to sound vulgar but #toomanymen see dating apps as free prostitution websites…without any of the stigma of seeking out a prostitute. 🤭 Thank you FDS for helping me delete the dating app I was trying.When I used to use Tinder, I saw maybe 5 men in total who were honest about their intentions and wrote immediately that they seek sex and I will be compensated generously. But the majority of men go straight into "If you're a hooker, swipe left, I only want women who will come to my place and have sex with me for free. No, I'm not taking you out for coffee, let alone dinner!". Sometimes I wonder, how those guys are doing. Probably not great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 09:25 AM |
| 222 | If he wanted to, he wouldTbh, it made me feel like it's actually a product advertisement, but disguised as a "happy man buys a bag for his gf" but I hope I'm wrong! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 06:39 AM |
| 5 | You are allowed to eat.Men really are out there being 5'7 and 150 lbs talking about how muscular women intimidate them, lol. Kendall Jenner would be intimidating to them since she's 5'10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 06:12 AM |
| 5 | You are allowed to eat.Exactly. I can't really imagine an average woman becoming really muscular, let alone "like a man". It's 100% gotta be a lucky combination of genetics and medicine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 06:08 AM |
| 70 | You are allowed to eat.Once at a family gathering, I talked about lifting weights. One of my male relatives started talking the usual stupid shit about how women who lift become jacked and men-like in no time. Looked him dead in the eye and asked "Well, if lifting makes you immediately jacked and look like a man, how come you've never tried it?". His face was priceless because he's one of those couch-dwellers who try to convince everyone around, themselves included, that women LOVE "dad bods". Yeah, no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 01:57 PM |
| 9 | This need to be sharedThe best example of a difference between LVM and HVM! Because usually, when you try to explain to a person what's "high value" they immediately jump into a strawman argument talking about imaginary women who have "nothing to offer" and therefore treated such. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 07:16 AM |
| 6 | This need to be sharedThe best example of a difference between LVM and HVM! Because usually, when you try to explain to a person what's "high value" they immediately jump into a strawman argument talking about imaginary women who have "nothing to offer" and therefore treated such. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 07:13 AM |
| 47 | This need to be sharedThe best example of a difference between LVM and HVM! Because usually, when you try to explain to a person what's "high value" they immediately jump into a strawman argument talking about imaginary women who have "nothing to offer" and therefore treated such. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 07:13 AM |
| 22 | This need to be sharedThe best example of a difference between LVM and HVM! Because usually, when you try to explain to a person what's "high value" they immediately jump into a strawman argument talking about imaginary women who have "nothing to offer" and therefore treated such. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 07:12 AM |
| 6 | I had some scrotes ask why women ghost on dates and rather than listen to the why I was told I shouldn’t date.Yeah, obviously, when he says "I'll call you [specific time or day]" and doesn't, it's immediate deleting. I never saw a man who did the same to his male friends, even if all his limbs are broken, he'll still manage to find a way to text them he's busy, but never does the same for a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 07:00 AM |
| 40 | I had some scrotes ask why women ghost on dates and rather than listen to the why I was told I shouldn’t date.Ya'll ever notice how men define "ghosting"? It's usually when you take more than 2 hours to answer his message. I see that I'm being ghosted when a person is active on social media but doesn't read my message. Loud and clear, seeing myself out, have no time to beg for explanation. But I was accused of "ghosting" million times, especially on dating apps when I don't check my messages during the day and later receive a passive-aggressive message about "how shallow women are for not wanting a nice… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 02:06 PM |
| 35 | Crowns- thought I'd share thisA bit ashamed of how many years it took me to start calling out men if they talk shit about other women in my presence, doesn't matter if it's our mutual friend or Beyoncé. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 01:12 PM |
| 39 | Childfree POVThe whole childbirth discussion sometimes is so bizarre. Recently I stumbled upon a post from some self-proclaimed psychologist and she said that women have no right (!!!) to burden their husbands/partners with the desire to have children. I thought I was tripping, but no, she clarified in comments that women have to sit quietly and wait (!!!) for a man to ask them to have a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 01:03 PM |
| 27 | Every damn timeYes! It's like this is not a mediocre lazy man, but an intricate wooden puzzle and you can't just smash a box but need to find a key, a pattern of movements to open it, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 12:37 PM |
| 91 | Every damn timeYep. "I like to pretend that he's a stupid baby who doesn't have a concept of good and bad developed in him yet so he clearly has no idea that his actions hurting me" is my second favourite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 10:07 AM |
| 269 | Every damn timeOr "Yes, literally everyone in my life told me I should immediately leave this crazy man, but [some devil's advocate bs] so don't give me this advice, I only want to know how I can change my behaviour to accommodate him!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 08:30 AM |
| 3 | “It’s funny cuz it’s true!” - Leslie ChowTo be fair, I'd avoid hiking even with my own family, because I loathe this activity so much :D A friend of mine went on a "surprise" first date once. He took her to an escape room, for some horror quest. 5 minutes later she realises that he did that so he could grope her in the darkness while pretending to be frightened. She "accidentally" kicked him in the groin when an actor jumped to scare them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 07:00 AM |
| 3 | “It’s funny cuz it’s true!” - Leslie ChowIt's funny how people still blame all women's problems on not being 110 lbs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 06:55 AM |
| 25 | “It’s funny cuz it’s true!” - Leslie ChowAs a one-time thing it's okay, I guess (if you're comfortable going to some remote location with a stranger) but some men quickly realise that it's a perfect excuse not to spend money. This guy I've mentioned above even tried to shame me by calling me fat and lazy when I refused to "walk in a park" as a third date in a row and suggested a cafe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 01:40 PM |
| 52 | “It’s funny cuz it’s true!” - Leslie ChowGosh, I hate walks. Like, I'm not lazy, but the concept of just moving without a destination makes my bones itch. I once tried to go on several dates with a guy, who's hobby was hiking, but realised how stupid this is (no offence to people who like hiking, just don't make it a sole activity for a date, jeez). You can't really talk, because either your pace isn't slow enough or you're distracted by the wind and other noises. You also have to either eat at home prior to this "date" or bring food/w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 10:44 AM |
| 84 | When my 30 y.o. male friends put 18-22 age preference on Tinder and complain about zero matchesI think the first post I read on this sub was about the nest and it still haunts me :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 09:51 AM |
| 182 | When my 30 y.o. male friends put 18-22 age preference on Tinder and complain about zero matchesThe only "king" there is probably a mattress size (with a bed frame if you're lucky) 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 08:31 AM |
| 3 | Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨Oof. In my opinion, Depp's career was long over before he met Heard. A lot of his co-workers and assistants reported that he became a total mess. Showed up drunk on set, refused to memorize the script and demanded someone dictating his lines through an earpiece etc. I think the whole "domestic violence" situation between them is an ill-executed PR campaign. Common men talked a lot about how #metoo ruined actors' lives but Kevin Spacey is quietly returned to his work, Cosby was released and plans… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 06:35 AM |
| 35 | Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨It's not a bad idea, but I think you probably shouldn't continue with a man who makes you want to hire a PI. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 01:56 PM |
| 47 | Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨Yes, exactly this. You probably can use it one time, as a sort of a test, to see his reaction. I had a couple of situations, but with friends, where some misunderstanding happened, screenshots helped to resolve it, and everyone remained calm and friendly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 01:55 PM |
| 29 | Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨Exactly. Now I know this, but before I genuinely believed that it's a misunderstanding and maybe he forgot, so when I show him his exact words as confirmation, it'll clear everything. Yeah, one of the biggest mistakes in my past. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 01:51 PM |
| 79 | Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨This. They know damn well what they doing and why. And later just pretend to be a victim of "false accusations". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 01:04 PM |
| 90 | Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨Girl, same. My NVX was always late and had this weird "I reject technology" phase when he didn't use a smartphone or any phone at all. And he didn't bother to find a way of warning me when he's gonna be late. Once he was late for almost an hour (yeah, I was that dumb and waited) and I was angry. His reply "But it's the first time I'm ever late, don't make it such a big deal" got me even more angrier because he was late all the time. 10-15-20 minutes, never on time. Oh, and his "Amish" phase obvi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 12:48 PM |
| 53 | Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨I wonder if there's at least one man who, in a situation like this, simply apologised, without throwing a tantrum like a 5 y.o. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 11:47 AM |
| 118 | Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨Also really funny when he realises that there's no way out and starts to attack you back with "Why you always so nagging and shrewish? It's not even a big deal!" and my all-time favourite "I'll never say another word to you ever since all my attempts are met with such hostility!". Why not, mate, try to be quiet for 5 consecutive minutes at least once in your life, I don't mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 08:19 AM |
| 249 | Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨I had an ex who was a king of "I didn't say that" and when he realised that I can actually scroll through our conversations and hold him accountable, he started insisting on having little to no talks in messengers and only IRL. Took me a while to understand why he did that. Later he also tried to present it as a form of abuse from my side. Lol, sure. Showing you your own message where you wrote "I'll buy this thing tomorrow" after you pretend that you have no idea what I'm talking about is the p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 08:15 AM |
| 127 | Ladies what is something men do that you thought was a green flag but is actually men being trash as usual?№3 is so true. Men, who complain about women "not choosing nice guys and dating assholes" are the same assholes, just ugly and broke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:16 AM |
| 12 | If you are allergic to accountability or you call it "mean" or "making fun of someone" you don't belong on FDSA friend of mine recently found herself in a very dangerous situation. Her fiance started to act weird and paranoid. Small things, like checking her phone or asking about some photo she liked on Insta. I told her that it's alarming, that he suddenly changed like this. She brushed it off, telling me that she's actually flattered because his jealousy means that he cares a lot. Fast forward 3 months, she rans away hlf-naked in the middle of the night because he became violent. But not because of je… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 08:18 AM |
| 8 | I confessed to a fat man and it lowered my value in his eyesTbh it's a big red flag. Yeah, it's one thing when people have some difficulties or disabilities preventing them from passing driving test. But when men start getting really defensive and say some dumb things like "I love taking buses between states" or "Cars are stupid, I would never buy one" it means some serious skeletons in their closet for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 06:03 AM |
| 88 | I confessed to a fat man and it lowered my value in his eyesWhen I started using Tinder, a lot of my friends told me that I need to swipe on not very handsome men (especially fat ones). But, shockingly, ugly men on Tinder want to date at least supermodels. Recently I read an article about how dating apps are designed to make sure people stay single and hooked up on the app, and it kinda makes sense. But facing delusional men, who list you all your "flaws" while looking like a sack of mouldy potatoes, felt like a cold shower at the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 06:54 AM |
| 7 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyI was quite shocked the last couple of weeks because the weather was hot (+35°C compared to a normal 20-23°C for this time of year) and I never met so many stinking men before. Their train of thought probably was something like "I slept in a pool of my own sweat but morning shower is just a waste of time. Also a t-shirt I wore 3 days in a row also fine to put on today". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 06:30 AM |
| 12 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyCheapskates are the worst, mostly because they make "being frugal" their whole personality and give you long-ass lectures when you buy a new dress, but even worse, they have no outlook. They eat cheap sugar-filled food without thinking about future dentist bill. They sleep on a mattress on a floor and blame back problems on literally anything else etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 06:55 AM |
| 14 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyI met men like this, and their excuse is always "But you're so quite! I just don't want to sit in an awkward silence". And I still don't understand what's wrong with it and why some men need a non-stop conversation flow. Especially when you're in a bar or in the middle of consuming a meal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 06:50 AM |
| 11 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guySame. Post-USSR men are the worst, because after WWII women had next to no choice in husbands and were ready to endure anything in order to get married and avoid divorce, and this mentality somehow still alive and boys are raised as if they're kings and it's every woman's biggest joy to serve them. And when they face reality of women looking at them with disgust instead of worship they turn into angry bitter incels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 06:47 AM |
| 11 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyYes! I once met a guy who's apartment looked like it doubled as a homeless shelter for people with hoarding problems. He tried to convince me that it's in a process of "renovation" but I swear those empty beer cans were in the same place the second time I came over 1 or 2 months late. Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 06:44 AM |
| 6 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyWell, maybe it's fine for some people, but for me a man, who just finished a full meal, trying to push more food into his mouth just because "he's paying for it" a bit weird. Especially if that's something like burger or pizza — food that I didn't cut with cutlery but bit directly. Loudly announcing to the whole restaurant that he's going to do it is the whole another level of cringe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 06:40 AM |
| 12 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyYes! It's so weird that a lot of men need to associate themselves with a creator in order to enjoy something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 09:59 AM |
| 5 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guy...cousin? Oh, dear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 08:58 AM |
| 7 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyIf I made a Venn diagram of our lists it would be just one circle :D Men, who from the first couple minutes of conversation start pointing out that they have a right to privacy and simultaneously convince you to "trust them" either married (or trying to date multiple women at once) or just have an extremely shady past (pedo or serial killer kind of shady). Also probably one good thing that came out thanks to the covid pandemic is a lot of people showed their true faces, with zero empathy and ina… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 08:21 AM |
| 6 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyI ended so many friendships because people used depression as an excuse for their shitty behaviour. And when I said that I, in fact, have a diagnosed depression too, but yet I'm trying to be a functional member of society, they always tried to blame me for "faking mental illness". The hardest case was my friend from college — an exemplary Pickmeisha. She always cancelled on me because of "depressed" or "anxious" or "panic attacks" but somehow was miraculously fine when her scrote wanted to see h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 06:32 AM |
| 6 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyA friend of mine worked as a masseuse and she said the more a man bragged about his wealth/job/cars/houses the more abominable his underwear was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 06:17 AM |
| 7 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyOmg, yes. I avoid amateur poets/songwriters at all cost. Because 99% or their "poetry" is misogynistic crap about some manic pixie dream ex-girlfriend who dumped them. And they expect a feedback, like, get therapy dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 06:14 AM |
| 256 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyIt's always hilarious when Mr I'm-Too-Big-For-Condoms whips out his 4-inch massive dong and expects you to really get along with this charade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:25 PM |
| 157 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyYou either dated my ex or there's a lot of men like this :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:23 PM |
| 75 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyMen who exclaim "You don't want this?! We're not wasting any food!" and grab rejected pieces from your plate deserve to be thrown into space. Bonus disgust if he also makes a point of "I'm paying for this meal" as if it suddenly makes a habit of swallowing every last bit of food in front of him normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:13 PM |
| 25 | The guy is 55!!! 🤢Yes! Men like this will ask bitterly "Why she didn't do all that for me?? While we were together??" clearly not seeing who's the problem there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:10 PM |
| 120 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyI met a fair share of men who make liking Tarantino their whole personality (or at least a major trait). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 01:48 PM |
| 59 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyOh my, can you share a story behind the "no Irish men" rule? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 01:41 PM |
| 309 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyMillion times yes! And as a package, I also avoid people who treat this behaviour in others as a norm. Like shaming women for leaving heavy-drinking husbands or boyfriends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 01:29 PM |
| 70 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyYes! I sleep in pj and socks most of the year and in general avoid people who claim that sleeping naked is better. Go wash your bedsheets, mate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 01:21 PM |
| 63 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyMen who engage in some borderline dangerous things are off the list immediately. I mean, if you can make me a filthy rich widow, we can talk. Otherwise, why would I go for a potential heartbreak over your death? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 01:18 PM |
| 26 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyBonus point if their full name is not Artem, but something like Artemiy, Artemi, or Artemij. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 01:17 PM |
| 113 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyExactly. And his idea of "cocky behaviour" changed every time he didn't like something I did or said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 01:13 PM |
| 311 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyMen, who sleep on a mattress on a floor and swear it does magic for their back. And then forget about their *comfy bed* and complain about backache all day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 01:06 PM |
| 127 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyYep. Definitely need to avoid men who suggest doing something *slightly* illegal. Especially when it potentially puts you at more risk than him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 01:04 PM |
| 387 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyA friend of mine had a hook-up with a guy who claimed to be allergic to latex hence no condoms. But unlike him, she knew that latex-free condoms exist. And obviously, he had no allergy, just tried to convince her to shag without a condom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 12:55 PM |
| 174 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyMy ex loved the word "cocky" for some reason. And on top of that, our native language is Russian but he always used an English word, talking about my "cocky behaviour". He used it as a negative characteristic of me but always pointed out that I "can act cocky in a hot sexy way" if I try harder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 12:45 PM |
| 75 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyAhah, that's hilarious. Are you Russian? Or Ivan is an international name? I have a similar pet peeve for men named after their fathers. I just think it's just stupid and always make sure to ask these guys how they felt accidentally hearing their mother shout their name during sex :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 12:39 PM |
| 858 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyI have a rule of always asking a guy for physical proof of his driver's licence because once I went for a ride and when we got stopped by police, turned out that my date never obtained his license and his father literally just allowed him to take his car. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 12:06 PM |
| 255 | The guy is 55!!! 🤢Always bring to my memory one classic post from relationship advice sub, where a man proposed an open relationship because he wanted to have sex with no responsibilities and it ended up with him being dumped twice after a first date while his wife really enjoyed this new lifestyle and went out with different men multiple times a week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 11:13 AM |
| 147 | The guy is 55!!! 🤢Yes! Hope this new woman will simply milk him for his money (if he actually has some) to provide a better life for her kids and then dumps him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 11:02 AM |
| 277 | South Korean Feminists Are Joining No Dating, No Intercourse, No Marriage, No Kids MovementFunny how men are mad yet again. Makes you wonder, why exactly someone, who claims that they don't need women, and if they do, they can get anyone they want, gets so pissed when we choose to live without them. A true mystery, no less /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 10:52 AM |
| 8 | It baffles me why men who complain about FDS think they are the type of men we want in the first place. Male biological delusion is realReminded me of one friend who always criticises me for having "high standards" and "friendzoning men". Like, mate, you're 30 y.o. "freelancer" who lives with his mother and complaints that thrift store prices are too high. My "standards" are not for you, get a life lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 06:37 AM |
| 3 | When friends and relatives start listing things I need to change in order to be "successful" on a dating marketInstantly reminded me of this photo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 06:47 AM |
| 1 | When friends and relatives start listing things I need to change in order to be "successful" on a dating marketI feel you. I'm super pale and hate getting tan (mostly because of cancer phobia) and not wearing a swimsuit at the beach sometimes attracts even more attention than wearing a bikini. And most times men get this weird idea that I'm "ashamed" and try to convince me to undress with horrible "compliments" like "Oh, don't be self-concious, your not fat! Look at this land whale over there (points at 140 lbs woman) she's not ashamed, and you shouldn't be too!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 06:40 AM |
| 1 | When friends and relatives start listing things I need to change in order to be "successful" on a dating marketOmg, same! And the older I grew the more I started to notice how conflicting this messages are. And later I read somewhere that for certain magazines, there's usually one person (often a man) who writes multiple articles under different aliases. No wonder all those advice on "how to get a perfect guy" sound so male-gaze'y | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 06:34 AM |
| 2 | When friends and relatives start listing things I need to change in order to be "successful" on a dating marketA guy once cancelled a date with me because I asked him if we can choose another place because I'm driving and rather prefer a certain parking (it's free for electric cars in my country) and he was so intimidated by the fact that a woman owns a car :D Like, I'm not even making this up, he straight up wrote that he doesn't have a car and it's "unfair" that women just get everything they want and then go and rub it at other people faces. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 06:31 AM |
| 13 | Much love to FDS, always ❤️It's always amusing to sort posts in MGTOW subs by date and see how it starts with "Can you give me some advice on hobbies, I'm trying to forget my ex" and slowly gets overtaken by a bunch of incels posting about how they hate women and how women ruin everything and how women owe them sex etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 06:23 AM |
| 7 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her.Not a fan of Billie so had to dig up some info on this relationship and OMG. So, apparently, this guy tweeted some offensive things in 2011ish (but can you really find a man this day who wasn't a homophobic misogynist in the 2010s?) and people mad at Billie for it?? And 'fans" destroy her merch (also googled that, 120$ for a hoodie?? what??). Moreover, somehow people decided that she's a lesbian (another day of hating and erasing bisexuals) and trying to cancel her for "queerbating" after her la… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 09:39 AM |
| 4 | We talk a lot here about the dangers of porn addiction, and I found a little guide to check and share with men if neededMen be like "It's not a problem, you made this up, porn is not addicting!" and meanwhile my DMs are flooded with angry porn-loving scrotes defending their "hobby". Yeah, because that's exactly how healthy people react to things that are "not a problem" lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 06:43 AM |
| 56 | Men are unhingedMen on the road are so unhindered, sometimes it's really funny tho. Like my dad, seeing someone driving recklessly and proudly proclaiming "Oh it's must be a woman, I bet some dumb blonde is driving!" and when we pass this car, it's always a man :D He literally never guessed right for god knows many years. I usually don't even roll a window if somebody tries to get my attention, because it's always some dumb patronizing shit of a mediocre man trying to "teach" me how to drive/park etc. Sir, lear… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 08:19 AM |
| 17 | Straight men are faking their deep voices 😂I watched a documentary about Elizabeth Holmes (infamous Theranos CEO) and a lot of people said that she was faking her deep voice in order to appear more trustworthy and apparently there's some psychological effect behind it, but to me, she sounds really awkward and I honestly don't know why people do it on purpose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 08:11 AM |
| 44 | The nerdboy syndrome is just as toxic as the f*ckboyThanks for this post! Recently fell for that "nerdy boy" vibe too. The exact same you described: not really handsome (at least face), shy, awkward, but with a good job, steady income, property, goes to the gym etc. And our mutual friend told me "Hey, can you ask him out? He never dayed anyone seriously and I think you'll be really cute together". A pick-me part of my lizard brain was like "Yessss getting my hands on a prize here". But then I was like "Hold on, wait a damn minute... Guy is almost… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:00 PM |
| 109 | Beijing is doing everything to pressure it’s female citizens to have more children, except actually making it materially easier to be a mom. There’s already a gender imbalance and a soon to be crisis in elder care. Chinese Women are telling them to get bent. 😆I lived in China for some time, during the one-child policy, and it was horrible in terms of trying to make some friends for language improvement. Men were literally proposing 1-2 weeks after you met them, because of a huge gender disbalance and social norms (wife has to take care of husband's old parents, for example). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 07:10 AM |
| 1 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.Asked my male friend about this, and his theory is that men like this will never get the attention of their "ideal" girl (tall, blonde, skinny etc.) so they try to find an "average" woman and try to "improve" her. I think it's called Pygmalion complex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:57 AM |
| 18 | Why age gap relationships ain’t no good 😀👎🏼Yep. I yet to meet a divorced man who would simply say something polite about their divorce, it's always either hiding it completely and neglecting their child(ren), or constantly bitching about his ex-wife, calling her names and trying to convince me to hate her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 12:48 PM |
| 35 | Why age gap relationships ain’t no good 😀👎🏼When I was 19, I dated a 32 y.o. I thought it was so cool and made me so mature. Brrr. Learned the hard way why he was divorced, single and avoiding alimony while pretending to be a successful man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 10:11 AM |
| 13 | Always be skeptical of men's relationship woes on Reddit. When my ex persuaded me to do poly so that he could cheat on me, the narrative he posted to reddit was "my girlfriend manipulated me into opening the relationship so that she could get a sugar daddy"Can't find it right now, but there's one iconic Reddit post about a guy who wanted an open relationship and forced his wife into it, and at the end, he got like 3 dates and no sex, while she got really into it and went out to nice restaurants and expensive hotels with several men per week and when he started to get angry, she simply reminded that it was his idea in a first place and he always can get a divorce lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 07:45 AM |
| 5 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.I had a big growth spurt when I was 13-14, became like 5'6 and maybe put an inch during the rest of puberty, so it was so confusing being told all my childhood that supermodels are so desirable by men, and clothes look great on tall and skinny women etc. And when I actually started dating men, turns out they all want someone around 5'. I am the shortest one in my family, so it was quite a shocking revelation when I met men that are insecure about their height. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 06:28 AM |
| 152 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.The concept of men complaining about unchangeable things always baffles me. Like, I can't become smaller or change my shoe size etc. so why would you constantly bring it up? It's like one of my exes tried to push me into becoming a blonde. Dude, your weird fetishes are not a valid reason for me to ruin my hair (I'm a brunette) and waste a ton of money on regular salon visits. And it's the same with height. Like, I get it, you are brainwashed by porn culture infantilizing women and want a 5' chil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 01:31 PM |
| 254 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.Same. I'm 5'7 and usually men I meet either the same height as me, or smaller, and even some I went on a date with had the audacity of talking about how they want a 5'2 girlfriend to look bigger compared to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 12:46 PM |
| 41 | Sis follows her nose & uncovers a whole treasure trove of cheating stemming back years. Now imagine she’d ReSpEcTeD hIs PrIvAcY 🤡 cheaters don’t have any respect for you. And that’s why we’re pro SNOOP. If you think he’s cheating- you’re probably right & just smelling the TIP of the iceberg.Reminded me how I found out about my then boyfriend ex-wife via his airbnb account. Idk why he lied about never being married, and also emphasised that we never gonna marry because he thinks marriage is stupid etc. We planned a vacation and I didn't want to register a new account (never used Airbnb before, unlike him), and for some reason went to scroll through his reviews and found a shitton of "my wife and I absolutely loved this place, will come next year for our anniversary". Couldn't wrap m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:22 PM |
| 53 | My small guide for the "BIG" event of meeting the family.May I add to #5? Because I like to bring The Most Controversial topic to the table, but do it so subtly, and watch for a reaction. Because unstable people really suck at holding a facade for long, and it's better to find out now that his father screams N-word on top of his lung when Black people are mentioned, than find out the same this, but, for example, at your wedding when your non-white friends will be present. For all my Russian ladies here (or maybe someone who dates Russian guy), I perso… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:22 PM |
| 117 | THIS is why you don’t ask guys out 🤡 😭The one and only time I made the first move was so cringy and embarrassing at the end, I still wince thinking about it. He was a friend of a friend, and we hang out pretty often in the mutual company. So one day I braced myself and asked him out. He agreed, so no embarrassment here, but the rest... He simply wrote "yes, let's meet". And then silence. I waited for a day and said that I'm free tomorrow. He wrote right back "great, me too". I was kinda baffled, but assumed since I made the first mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 11:00 AM |
| 19 | Have you seen the male-targeted ads on this subreddit?It reminded me of ads on p*rn sites. Whenever I browsed them (before FDS), there always pics of women and "hot MILFs in your area" etc. But if p*rn is allegedly for women too, where are hot DILFs in my area? So I'd assume that Reddit, as any other site by default, caters to a male audience, regardless of the sub. I read an article somewhere about how you rarely see "manly" products advertised on billboards along the road because it assumed that a man is always behind the wheel, so it's better to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 10:20 AM |
| 1 | How is this even a question??!!I don't mind being the only one who's eating if I'm hungry and it was my idea to get food in the first place. But when a guy specifically asks you out and brings you to a restaurant and then sits with an empty plate — that's the whole another level of weirdness. And very much yes about broke or cheap scrotes. I went on a date with a guy from Tinder and he was 20 minutes late. Afterwards, he asked for "feedback" lol. I wrote that it was okay, but him being late without a warning or an apology was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 06:04 AM |
| 3 | How is this even a question??!!He wanted to "teach me a lesson" apparently, by making me uncomfortable for a desire to drink coffee, since he deemed such things as a useless waste of money. Well, jokes on him, cuz I have a big dog and quite immune to someone standing nearby and "shaming" silently for not sharing human food :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 05:48 AM |
| 62 | How is this even a question??!!I dated a guy like this. But only it started normally, with him insisting on paying on dates (I always get my wallet out, but if men say "I got his" I don't insist). Gradually it became more and more frugal, and with him living with his aunt, our dates turned into endless walks in parks or going "picnicking" with him bringing a blanket and nothing more (he explained it with "there are no toilets nearby so it's better not to consume anything just in case"). The relationship ended really funny tho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 01:16 PM |
| 5 | Lord if this ain't some anti-women shit.My bf of two years broke up with me over a text message. I wasn't really heartbroken, because it was already a matter of who's got the courage to "pull a trigger first". Some time passed and a woman added me on insta, I didn't even bother to check her profile, just followed back. A couple of days later she posted a similar wall of text in her stories, I briefly skimmed through it, thinking "What a pathetic lot them three" and went on with my life. The next day she posted a picture with my ex, lm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:07 PM |
| 40 | Men really do know and they’re much more socially adept than they let onSomeone shared this article here before and it sums up men like this perfectly: they know what they're doing and just pretend to be confused in order to escape punishment. One of the examples in the article above is Woody Allen, who brushed off r*pe accusations by saying "Oh, I don't even remember what I had for breakfast today!" and everyone let it slide. There's a thing called a Kafkaesque nightmare when a person finds themselves in a situation where everyone knows the rules and how to behave,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 11:46 AM |
| 2 | It's still the same thingNo, my comment was purely an example of shitty people (99% sure it was a man tho) who just went and showed everyone her nudes just to hurt her, or maybe "punish" for having an OF account. And how some women really don't even think about such scenarios when selling nudes. With the boyfriend(s) situation, you at least have a "culprit"? I think it was one Skam episode when a guy threatened to show everyone girl's nudes but she told him that it's basically distributing of p*rn and he'll get prison t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 01:56 PM |
| 91 | The reasons behind the myth of short men having a “hard time” dating is other men, their own insecurities and how vicious they are to a taller woman who dares to show any interest.Yes, yes, yes! I say it every time in discussions like this, but short men only pretend that they don't care. And if you're taller than him, sooner or later all his insecurities and childhood traumas will resurface and you gonna be the one getting punished for that. I'm 5'7 and rarely meet men who taller than me. And wherever I tried to "look past the looks" it backfired and had to deal with a 25 y.o. toddler who's mad you wore high heels instead of ballet flats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 01:49 PM |
| 1 | It's still the same thingI follow one tattoo artist on insta, and one day she posted really disturbing stuff in her stories, talking about su*cide. Turns out somebody paid for her Onlyfans in order to save all photos and videos and later send them to all her friends and family. And they didn't even blackmail her like "Pay me or I'll distribute these photos", no, they literally just sent them around for "fun". And since she's covered in very unique tattoos, obviously people know it's her and not some random nudes this gu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 07:01 AM |
| 12 | I listened to my gut.Glad you're safe! I once had a similar encounter and after telling my friends about it later, got comments like "Well, that's why men are too afraid to approach women these days! Why'd you assume he wanted to harm you?!". Like, wtf? Go meet women in normal places, not on some shady backtracks in a creepy way, ffs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 10:15 AM |
| 6 | DO NOT SHARE NUDES IN NEVER EVER EVER.There's a flashmob in the Russian twitter segment, called #нюдсочетверг (nudes Thursday), it's exactly what the hashtag says: people (well, 99% of them are women, obviously) sharing their nude photos with captions about empowerment, body positivity, liberation etc. It started as a good cause to support Russian artist Yuliya Tsvetkova, she's being prosecuted for the vulva drawings (it was deemed as 'pornography'), but soon turned into a bizarre weekly pickme competition where some women criticize… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 08:16 AM |
| 31 | Comic fanboys being depraved 🥲It always amuses me when men suddenly treat a movie as if it's a documentary when there's a female lead. A mentally ill guy can perfectly shoot people while they run? Totally believable. A guy fails to defend himself or his family when two thieves break into his suburban home but then suddenly turns into a skilled killer to avenge them? Yes, happens all the time. But if a FEMALES can defend themselves in a movie it's suddenly feminist propaganda and pandering and unrealistic and poor quality cin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 07:05 AM |
| 2 | When you achieve something like climbing to the top of a mountain or you travel to a destination with a guy, make sure to get photos of YOU alone.My friend and I once went on a trip, with his gf and my then bf. Took a lot of nice pics together. And when we both broke up with them, roughly at the same time, my friend edited all the pics to look like he and I were a couple on this trip :D Took him quite some time probably, but ended up as a great mood lifter for both of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 09:01 AM |
| 32 | Internalized Misogyny ✊🏾 how have you personally been affected?Shout-out to my years in middle school when I thought I'm a transman. Hated "girly" clothes, wore a binder, talked in a masculine way etc. Tuned out it was just internalized misogyny because I thought that everything associated with womanhood was inferior. Sadly, from that, I jumped straight into a "pick me" attitude and still considered femininity "inferior", but only in an attempt to impress men with my "low-maintenance" and "not like other girls". But now you never catch me hating on other wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 12:57 PM |
| 4 | My wish for y’allThe drawing is amazing and now I want these pants! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 12:08 PM |
| 36 | All the emotional labor, organizing and managing being pushed on the woman, who would have known? This is why multiple partners are not beneficial for women, instead of one man baby, she now has two of them.Stories like this always remind me of one episode from "Unbreakable Kimmy Shmidt" where Kimmy's friend decided to make her own cult, but with teenagers as her "husbands". It was presented as a funny skit where boys only played video games and demanded food, and she did endless laundry and cleaning and realised it was nothing like she imagined. Also, quite a common thing I noticed in some people (mostly LVM): do something nobody asked you to do, and on top of that, do it bad. So when next time yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 01:38 PM |
| 14 | He says he is all for “enthusiastic consent” but his whole post is putting women down for not wanting to have sex and being upset when their partners turn to porn.I mean, situations like this, when a woman is not enthusiastic about sex with her partner and rather reject his advances and make excuses in order to avoid physical contact, are not rare, but these women and the ones who against porn are totally different ones. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I can say with 99.9% confidence that men having porn addiction has nothing to do with their partners. Women are always trying to fix things, so I can't imagine a woman, discovering her bf/husband is watching p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 01:27 PM |
| 215 | For those of you torn about prioritizing beauty and avoiding the male gaze, I wanted to share my solutionI haven't even seen her, but now I want to be her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 01:07 PM |
| 59 | Comments under the original post filled with "It'S JuST a SiLLy JoKe!" but is it really?Yes, I understand that her idea behind this is to show how "funny" and "quirky" their relationships are. Maybe I'm just projecting and thinking about times when my ex used to ignore my "i love you" messages or reply with "yes, I love myself too! hahaha" and then got angry with me being visibly sad after this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 12:30 PM |
| 2 | "I Wear My Heart on My Sleeve" & What It MeansBonus for #8: he always uses "men aren't allowed to show emotions" as an ultimate excuse, like "Yes, I screamed and threatened violence BUT if I was a woman, nobody would bat an eye! Because men have no rights when it comes to emotions!". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 11:58 AM |
| 24 | From Instagram. Speaks for itself - so much garbage behaviour gets dismissed by men and pickmes as "shyness".Funny how even in this age of women being constantly shamed for not being sex-positive or not supporting polyamory, men still make up mountains of lies in order to get sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:24 PM |
| 101 | You Idolize the Joker character in the movie, sympathize with his actions because of all the abuse he went through and applaud his violence when he cracks- yet you roast FDS in the same breath. I call that extreme double standards!I might be wrong, but I never met a guy who idolized Joker (played by Joaquin Phoenix) because he was "just like him". Like, 99% of these Joker fans have no mental problems, suffered no abuse from their mother/parents etc. They somehow try to pretend that they do and talk about how society treats them bad. Honey, "society" isn't blocking a shower door in your house, just go use it once a day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 01:53 PM |
| 2 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂It may vary, at least I've heard several once: аптечный листик, аптечный вкладыш or simply вкладыш, it's all means 'medication leaflet' in a context :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 01:35 PM |
| 89 | From Instagram. Speaks for itself - so much garbage behaviour gets dismissed by men and pickmes as "shyness".I once went on a date and a guy made too much of a fuss talking about how he has no children and never been married. Like, literally mentioned it 3-4 times during the date. I brushed it off, mostly because the general topic was about the future in this country, raising children etc. So after a date, we walk to the parking lot, coincidentally parked near each other and lo and behold, a child car seat 🤡🤡🤡 He tried to talk some bs about how his sister must've forgotten it because she borrowed a car… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath."I'm not saying anything, your birth certificate speaks for itself" :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 05:45 AM |
| 196 | Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath.It's always funny to see their facial expression when they complain about insecurities, but instead of flooding them with compliments and trying to convince them otherwise, you simply agree. Priceless. I'm 5'7 so when men, smaller than me, complain about how they want to be at least 6'2, I'm like "Yeah, that sucks, but you're an adult so no chances of growing any bigger". You can literally see that he expected you to talk shit about tall men and admire his height and reassure him he's the best, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 08:47 AM |
| 1 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂You're welcome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 06:14 AM |
| 2 | “It is hard to respect yourself when you are being forced to pick up the garbage of another human being. An adult.”Yes, but for example, in my house bath and toilet are two separated rooms, also I saw somewhere things called "bath mat", apparently it's a rug but made with some kind of water-resistant material and it won't go bad from humidity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 06:13 AM |
| 11 | Men are capable of identifying "sexism" when it's MEN who are being treated badly, but remain silent when women suffer.Omg, yes. Men here complain all the time, but the funniest thing that if you ask a man who complaints about it, where he served, 9 times out of 10 he didn't, and either pretended to have some physical or mental issues, or his parents paid thousands and thousands to bail him. Also maybe you read some materials about the Second Chechen War, where a lot of Russian boys (18-19 years) were held prisoner and only their mothers tried to save them, often risking their lives, getting killed or tortured. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 12:05 PM |
| 69 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂Do you have a special word for men like this? In Russian, we call them "medicine leaflet" because when you buy a drug, there's a huge piece of paper inside that tells you all the negative effects etc. So men, who write essays about what qualities a woman needs to possess in order to be suitable for him, associates with this leaflet: a ton of useless info that I'm not going to be bothered to read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 10:41 AM |
| 17 | Reason #6567 why being single is better than settling.Precisely. I liked the one my mum went to better, at least she told her that her children are strong and talented and will live abroad and support her financially :D Basically all the obvious things all mums want to hear about their children, but still. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 10:00 AM |
| 17 | Attention Pickmeishas! If he only does “men’s chores,” it’s not 50/50Same! Before my brother was born, I did everything while helping my dad: mowing, cutting trees, planting new ones, car/house repairs etc. And I grew up in a village, so when some city boy tells me about "men's and women's work" I always laugh. Like, what are your skills? Emptying a trashcan? Very impressive, my man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:16 AM |
| 46 | Reason #6567 why being single is better than settling.Yep. I don't remember much, but he told be some general "female" stuff like hard childbirth and being aware of strangers. Or that there's a boy I like (there wasn't at that time lol) but there's also another girl who wants him and I need to be careful. You can probably tell all this to any teenage girl and get like a 99% chance of guessing it right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 08:55 AM |
| 55 | Reason #6567 why being single is better than settling.When I was in high school, my mum took me to a fortune teller for a palm reading. He said some general stuff about prospects and the future, but also that I'll be married 3 times. 10 years passed, still haven't started on them marriages, maybe I need to hurry up :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 07:23 AM |
| 5 | “It is hard to respect yourself when you are being forced to pick up the garbage of another human being. An adult.”Saw a post with pictures of a carpeted bathroom in one design subreddit and by reading the comments you could immediately tell who's a boy/man or lives with one and cleans after them, and they commented how awful it is and how bad the smell is etc. Well, yeah, if you piss on the floor. Because I would love a carpet around my toilet, so I can go there barefoot at night and don't put my feet on cold tiles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:42 AM |
| 152 | This lady spitting TRUTHS. Remember to focus on YOU first and not settling up for less.Men, and some women, love telling fairytales about a dirt-poor man and his ride-or-die girlfriend, and how he later became super-rich and all gold-digging women who rejected him before, died of envy. Yeah, nah. Never happened. What's the point of getting married, if you can't afford to buy a house and raise children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:36 AM |
| 6 | Ladies, stop giving HIS house free renovations with YOUR moneyYet again, I'm in this post and I don't like it :( Last week somebody shared a link to an article about "male bumbler", and it's literally how it was with my ex. Sometimes he acted like that guy from "Blast from the Past". "What do you mean where's shower curtain? Why do you need it for? For water not to be on the floor? Is it bad? Oh dear, I didn't know!" "Leaking faucet is bad? I never even noticed it before!" "Dish soap? Just hot water isn't enough?" etc. So yeah, ended up with me buying a sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 06:00 AM |
| 18 | This Is How It Went Down For Me TOO Many Times!I once told my ex how my potential mother-in-law almost poisoned me (maybe a pure coincidence, but on the other hand only I got sick after that dinner) and he was so shocked and talked a great deal about how horrible it is and made sure to even check my food for a couple of times, probably faking that he cared. Well, night in the ICU was much better than all that stuff that I went through with this ex, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 09:16 AM |
| 170 | FDS became the last stop on my journey to fully recover from a pick-me and "not like other girls" syndromes. I used to either hate how I look, compared to other women, or hate on them in order to impress men. Not anymore, thanks to all you queens here!I know! And for what?! Some mediocre men's attention? Hate towards my own gender brought me nothing, except misery and constant self-loathing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 12:40 PM |
| 13 | In my worst Pickmeisha days, I was so proud of being low-maintenance 🤦🤦🤦Don't get me started on "gamer's" idea of decorating a place. A friend of mine once dated a guy, who was into collecting those mad expensive toy figurines of game and anime characters. Big red flag as it is, but okay. So it eventually led to her coming to her place, and first he literally yelled ad her when she tried to touch one. Then, during sex, he suddenly stopped and said that he needs to check on figurines in case she accidentally moved something. I mean, OCD is not a laughing matter, but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 08:53 AM |
| 13 | In my worst Pickmeisha days, I was so proud of being low-maintenance 🤦🤦🤦It feels so nice seeing women here levelling up. Also, don't blame your childhood entirely. I grew up with both loving parents and still chose to stay in toxic relationship where I was constantly degraded and torn down. I think it's gender stereotypes in general, and you see them everywhere, forcing you to think that women have to be loving and caring, despite everything. And if a man treats you bad, you must endure it because there's a blurred prospect of a "prize" and society pushes this weird… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 08:22 AM |
| 37 | Don't Date Men Who Devalue Your InterestsI once was on a date, in a bar, and a song played. I immediately grabbed my phone to Shazam it, because never heard it before and liked the chorus. My date rolled his eyes and proceeded to talk about how trashy it is to like a song like this (it was Ricky Martin if I remember correctly) and how his music taste was always superior to his peers and so on. Massive 🚨🚨🚨. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:05 AM |
| 21 | In my worst Pickmeisha days, I was so proud of being low-maintenance 🤦🤦🤦Pretty much this. And it's always presented as if our "needs" are something extraordinary and not a basic human decency. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:58 AM |
| 18 | In my worst Pickmeisha days, I was so proud of being low-maintenance 🤦🤦🤦Omg, almost chocked on my coffee right now. English is not my first language and I read at first that your bf doesn't wear a t-shirt as if he walks around with a bare torso all the time! Also, are you dated my ex or something? He literally paid for those subscription boxes for gamers and got a bunch of atrocious t-shirts every month, with Minecraft, Witcher, CoD etc. and proudly wore them everywhere (he's 30 btw). My point break was when we went to theatre and he showed up in one of those graphi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:55 AM |
| 25 | In my worst Pickmeisha days, I was so proud of being low-maintenance 🤦🤦🤦Too bad you can only upvote a comment once. Exactly this! Men's idea of low maintenance is a woman who comes to clean his apartment (if he actually has one, and not living with his parents/friends), cook and suck his dick while expecting nothing in return. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:33 AM |
| 13 | In my worst Pickmeisha days, I was so proud of being low-maintenance 🤦🤦🤦I think my mum believed she did good raising me to put needs of others before my own, but I think she just forgot to explain that scrotes exist. Lol. I always be low-maintenance and useful for my parents, or little kids and others, who are in need. But making a life of a grown-ass man comfortable while sacrificing my own needs? Hell nah! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:25 AM |
| 26 | In my worst Pickmeisha days, I was so proud of being low-maintenance 🤦🤦🤦Yep. I cringe so hard remembering how I used to make fun of girls who want expensive dates and gifts, in order to get approval from my LVM boyfriend at the time. And also kinda ashamed of being homophobic then and calling men who actually dress nice and shower twice a day an f slur. And all this just so some crusty-ass scrote's attention, brrrrr. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:21 AM |
| 8 | Let's talk about strategic incompetenceI once lived with a guy and his idea of the housework was to do everything so bad that I'd eventually just give up and stop asking him for help. Before meeting him I thought those jokes about men are overexaggerated, but nope. He didn't bother to properly clean spilt tea, only "wipe" with his foot. He would literally come from work, take his shoes off and then throw socks just anywhere. And he expected me to go around the house and collect them for laundry. And as a lot of women wrote this in co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 01:06 PM |
| 4 | Oh hey, another shining example of how a LVM will destroy your life and sanity and how engrained gender roles make women think this is somehow okay.Oh for f sake! Light financial abuse my ass! Sorry, but stories like this make me so goddamn pissed! I read about a woman in Russian, who was in similar circumstances and finally snapped and left her two kids with her husband. Do you know what he did? Drove to the airport and left them there! And when police found him, his response was "Nah, just got tired of them, also don't want to spend any money, find their mother and give them to her". When women don't have any income, they try to live very… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 10:37 AM |
| 16 | A little bit of tough love for some of us still struggling with our level-up journey. I believe in all of you, you’ve got this!❤️I think they have very tricky prenups. And losing money is much worse for them than to stay with a lying cheating POS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 09:10 AM |
| 9 | if you have to call yourself “nice”, you probably aren’t!What a twat. Hope he'll never be happy and die alone! Happy for your friend. It reminded me about a guy I once briefly dated, he had an erectile dysfunction (some hormonal stuff, not porn addiction, or at least what's he told me). After we broke up, for a reason not related to not having sex, surprisingly, he also decided to be petty and demand all the money he spend on me. But since my pet peeve is greedy men, I simply said "Sure, I'm a generous woman and you totally right. I'll pay you 500$ fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 06:26 AM |
| 653 | if you have to call yourself “nice”, you probably aren’t!I think many women can relate to this, but the only reason I ever rejected a self-proclaimed nice guy is because of them having a literal Excel spreadsheet in their heads. They mark every "nice" thing they did, sum it all up and preset to you in form of "That's the amount you owe me". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 02:15 PM |
| 30 | Don't complain, Don't explain -Kate MossOmg, girl yes! I recently (yesterday, lol) started my deselection process and the scripted phrases that you wrote are so helpful! Before I was such a pickme in every department, always was the first to show initiative or jump with help while receiving nothing back. But now I just don't do that. We agree to meet but friend complains that taxi is expensive — before I would offer to make a reroute in order to pick her up, now I simply answer "Yes, price increases are insane!" and continue with my d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 12:12 PM |
| 9 | How to be a true friend to your pickmeisha pals.Thanks, I'll try not backing down next time. But knowing my petty self, I'd probably also chime in when "real" anniversary date comes and ask her how celebration is going. Also had an interesting experience about cutting someone off. Decided to end talking to one annoying anti-feminist pickme, but did it as an adult: told her straightforward that I don't want to waste my time on "conversation about boys anymore" instead of ghosting her (not proud, but did that all the time before). She got pisse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Allure Magazine Posts The Most Toxic, poorly thought out, male pandering, Sex Advice. Women’s magazines are pick me garbage.Whenever anybody talks about kinks, my mind immediately jumps to that episode of Sex and The City where Carrie met a guy who wanted her to pee on him, and Carrie said something like "Maybe you just close your eyes and I pour warm water on you?". Makes me laugh every time. Also, a tip: when a scrote starts wining about you "kink-shaming" him, simply say that kink-shaming is your kink and he's a hypocrite for not respecting it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:34 PM |
| 28 | How to be a true friend to your pickmeisha pals.Thanks for the tips! Maybe you have some advice on what to do when they switch to "devil's advocate"? For example, my friend tells me that her boyfriend forgot about their anniversary and even tried to gaslight her that it's next month. But when I repeat it back to her, she suddenly jumped to defend him "Oh, but maybe he's right, probably he counted days differently (Gurl, what?!) and overall it doesn't matter much, a stupid reason to celebrate or expect gifts". Like, five seconds ago she was on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 10:42 AM |
| 3 | ‘Studies’ showing dad bods are more attractive to womenWhich 'dad bod' are we talking about? Jason Momoa and Chris Hemsworth or Adam Sandler and Jonah Hill, before his weight loss? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 07:09 AM |
| 42 | Can we just laugh about howExactly. In 2020 it felt like literally every celebrity decided to get pregnant, and it made so much sense. They have a lot of money but also had a chance to be pregnant in peace since there are lockdowns and no events with paparazzi and so on. A lot of women don't even have the luxury of owning a home, let alone being able to provide for a child in a current situation, so the birth rate dropping should surprise nobody. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 06:38 AM |
| 10 | Oh no, men’s porn addiction is our fault apparentlyI'm not an expert on male's anatomy, but if you're horny, why would you need to watch porn additionally? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 10:34 AM |
| 23 | Pick me makes sure to give her credit card to her boyfriend so it can look like he payed. I hate this.I worked as a waitress during my student years. I can confidently say that we don't give a f about who pays. Only scenario when patrons will be judged after they leave is if no tip were left. In that case yeah, staff will talk shit about you and your cheap-ass bf and make fun of paying with credit card in place like Cheesecake factory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:29 PM |
| 17 | Pick me makes sure to give her credit card to her boyfriend so it can look like he payed. I hate this.Yeah, I thought that's like the only thing they sell: various cheesecakes, but looks like there's salads and sandwiches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 01:47 PM |
| 219 | Pick me makes sure to give her credit card to her boyfriend so it can look like he payed. I hate this.What? It's like if you're both 5'4 and you give a man your high heel shoes to pose for a photo. Yes, he'll appear taller than you, if legs are cropped, but he knows his real height, and all your friends and family know he's short. So it's just to impress a bunch of total strangers who don't care? Also, I don't have a Cheesecake Factory in my country, but checked the prices on their website. Expensive meal? Only if your order is literally every single item from the menu, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 10:47 AM |
| 6 | I am officially ready to leave this accursed website after recent events, and this fictional man made story being promoted to me as funny.Because this men have rpe fetish. Fantasising about witnessing it irl and not in prn, especially with women they know or date or married to. Or they have a kink of pretending to be a woman in sexual scenarios. You can easily spot men like this since they have zero knowledge about female anatomy and often write horrible things like enjoying cervix fisting or having a g-spot in their butt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 06:02 AM |
| 141 | I am officially ready to leave this accursed website after recent events, and this fictional man made story being promoted to me as funny.Idk why but it reminded me of a post about r*pe survivors hotline and a woman, who worked here wrote about men, calling to talk about their spouse's or girlfriend's surviving but it quickly became clear that men are describing their fantasies, e.g. talking how gf was gang-r*aped and proceeded to paint in great details what those men did to her, in which poses etc. And a lot of women confirmed her story, talking about how men called various hotlines and pretended either to be a woman or talk on b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:55 AM |
| 154 | Shes a child. Up to 18 is a child. This is basic.Also, anybody else noticed how men talk about girls as "mature enough" only when it's related to sexual stuff. When it's something serious like activism (e.g. Greta Thunberg) — immediately turns into a "stupid girl go back and play with dolls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 07:39 AM |
| 29 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractive"If you want to see man's true face — look how he treats women he's not sexually attracted to" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 06:43 AM |
| 1 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.Hold on! Her twine engagement ring she paid 50/50 for because she's an independent woman and knows how diamonds are no value and all wedding business is just a huge scam to make you spend money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 07:40 AM |
| 1 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to."being Irish"? Lmao, never heard of it, but on the other hand, in my country, if a person behaves like this, people say that he's a Jew, implying racist stereotypes that all Jews are greedy and only think about money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 07:23 AM |
| 2 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.Yeah, I checked her comments under the original post. He's a lawyer, so I'm pretty sure he ain't living from paycheck to paycheck . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 07:20 AM |
| 4 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.Omg, phrase aboot happy meal is so true. Met some men who only pretend to be "frugal" when it comes to dates or doing something for women, while expecting generosity in return and calling us "gold-diggers" if we refuse 50/50. Last time I did 50/50 was when a guy invited me to the movies and we agreed that I'd buy tickets (before covid I watched almost every movie in our local cinema theatre and had a nice discount) and he'd buy food. Well, jokes on me. He texted me that he's gonna be late and I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 07:18 AM |
| 5 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.Lmao, I'm 100% sure she's on pill because he ain't bothered to buy condoms and thinks contraception is exclusively woman's duty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 06:55 AM |
| 25 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.Yep, like there's a competition to get this amazing guy's attention :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 02:21 PM |
| 9 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.As a first date — definitely a no-no, but later on, why not? I mean, I never cooked anything in my entire life (parents both professional chefs), so he can try to surprise be. But I understand what you mean, because my friend once went to a guy's place and he sent her a list of products to buy (obviously "forgot" to pay her back) and when she arrived, he had an already opened bottle of wine and that's it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 12:41 PM |
| 34 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.True. A lot of people confuse being frugal with being a cheapskate. Frugal people will never malnourishe themselves, knowing that the future medical bill will be x1000 times more than the most expensive takeout. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 12:02 PM |
| 56 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.Exactly this! As long as she "pursues" him, nothing will change. The moment she starts showing real displease with his actions — dumped. And he out there, unbothered, looking for the next woman who will tolerate this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 11:57 AM |
| 18 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.I cringe so much because of my past pickme decisions, so it's fine. At least we didn't end up stuck in disgusting apartments trying to figure out how to feed a family with a pack of mac'n'cheese while "breadwinner" watches tv all day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 11:47 AM |
| 31 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.Ugh. Reminded me of my ex, who said, quote "Why waste money on food if you gonna shit it out anyway?" and proceeded to drink 3-4 beers a day and order pizza 10 times a week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 11:43 AM |
| 38 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.I wanted to share a similar post, but it's in Russian and I'm not sure if google translate will be nuanced enough. It's about a woman who met a similar guy, and she thought he's so cute and quirky with "itty-bitty OCD just like Sheldon from TBBT". Ended up with him almost bashing her head for wearing "special toilet slippers" outside of the toilet. And it kind of stated the same as this story, with frugality, her having a food poisoning from a pot of soup he refused to throw out and forced her t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:50 AM |
| 64 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.Exactly. Men love to complain about women who don't want to go 50/50 and make it sound like broke women pursue rich men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:44 AM |
| 116 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.I noticed how the author brushes off suggestions of "communication", which makes me think that she actually tried talking about this and explaining how 1 portion is not enough etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:37 AM |
| 63 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.Men like this are calling us "gold diggers" but can't see past the money themselves, lol. Of course, it's not about taking her out on luxurious dates daily, but I'm pretty sure the real reason he chooses what to order is because she once ordered something "expensive" and he made a scene like a baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:27 AM |
| 2 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.Disgusting. And a lot of men still have the audacity to say that women can call anyone a rapist this day and ruin a man's career with false accusations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 10:17 AM |
| 1 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.Oh dear. So sorry to hear about your friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 06:17 AM |
| 2 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.You'll be surprised by the amount of men who fall for anything as long as there's a dangling promise of sex or at least nudes. Majority of men only pretend to hate places like onlyfans, being mad that women make money and talking how there's terabytes of free porn but still ready to pay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 06:11 AM |
| 2 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.Men like this are angry because they know that women love nice guys, not """""nice""""" ones. So instead of improving themselves they prefer to blame women and make up strawman arguments and stupid fake-ass stories about how a woman rejected them but later regretted her decision and tried to win them back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:36 PM |
| 2 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.A lot of my friends complain that on Tinder they have to constantly entertain women, initiate conversations, ask questions etc. And if they don't, women simply stop replying and never write first. But it's the same with most men. Especially with ones who got brainwashed with "women want bad guys, nobody likes nice guys" bs so they act like it's a privilege for you to get a match with them. And when it backfires their conclusion somehow "Females are stupid, don't know what they want!". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 09:41 AM |
| 2 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.Whisper... Rings some bells. Wasn't it initially an app to share secrets and confessions and app automatically choose a background picture for your text? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 07:46 AM |
| 9 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.Yep. My friend always talked about how she met her husband on Tinder and how great he is and got mad at me when I said that he's not. Now, 3 years and 1 child later, I obviously have no heart to remind her "I told you so" when she complains about how he does nothing except working all day but they barely scrape any money and his top "dad moment" is spending 5 min with his daughter while muy friend takes quick shower. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 07:42 AM |
| 11 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.I saw a lot of guys there with offers to travel or to go to a movie that came out last year, meaning they didn't even bother to update their profile. Worst case for me was meeting a guy when I was 18, to find out that his tinder pics are almost a decade old. Damn you film camera filters! I really thought it was the case. But nope, instead of a handsome 22 y.o. boy I met a balding 32 y.o. man who's whole agenda was "Well, you're legal so there's nothing wrong with it". Yeah, no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 07:39 AM |
| 3 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.My mother's side of the family are all from Poland and I audibly clenched my jaw while reading your comment. Also what's with all those IT guys bragging about their money? And I yet to meet one who actually spends them. Not on dates, but in general. Almost all of ones that I met wear old clothes and live in dirty apartments literally with computer, couch and a fridge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 07:34 AM |
| 4 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.Oof. I was kind tempted before, ngl, but only because of unlimited right swipes option. But one of my male friend said that it's probably an algoritm that shows you popular users first so you obviously swipe those handsome lads right and reach a limit and now Tinder will nag you for the next 12 hours to buy premium. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 07:07 AM |
| 12 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.To be honest, I don't think that if a guy plans something like this, he will invite a total stranger. Or he really stupid and won't take into the account that women never go anywhere without texting the address to all of their friends. I think only in stupid TV series, written by men, women go out without telling anybody. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 07:00 AM |
| 6 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.My justification for going back there was something like "Well, I'm a normal person, right? Not a deviant or a jobless deadbeat. Sure there's a lot of great people just like me, just with XY chromosomes instead of XX". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 06:50 AM |
| 12 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.Yep. Some men be like "She got killed because she went out and met a stranger. Never do that, unless this stranger is me. I'm a good guy and how dare you to assume that I want to harm you! You must trust me!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 06:47 AM |
| 2 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.I think it depends on culture. As far as I'm aware, in many countries Tinder is an app for quick hook up with someone nearby (hence geolocation search), but in countries like mine Tinder and similar apps are not frowned upon as places to meet friends or long-lasting relationships. For example, Bumble will never be a thing here because no Russian woman will text a man first)) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 06:45 AM |
| 7 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.Also funny when they start to complain about being scammed and catfished. Like, sweetie, women have nothing do to with it, you got fooled by another man, who just figured out a smarter way to use tinder by pretending to be a hot young woman who wants to have sex with you, a mediocre man, but needs just a little bit of financial help. That's on you, mate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 06:40 AM |
| 4 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.I look back at my some of my meetings with guys from Tinder and think "Damn, God really is a woman and that's why I'm still alive". If you bored at home and there's a lockdown in your country, I think it can work. I work full-time in the office and have like 1-1.5 hours a day to chat with somebody, and also don't use a phone after 10PM. First two days after downloading tinder I got almost a 100 matches but zero messages, got a bit sad about it (it was Wednesday), continued to swipe and Saturday … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 06:36 AM |
| 5 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.Yeah! Forgot to mention that in the middle of his rant he tried to "sugarcoat" it with something like "If it's an issue, you can totally bring your female friends with you!". Oh, really mate? How about I bring my 6'4 brother with me? No? But he loves boardgames! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 06:10 AM |
| 2 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.I think, in general, there's nothing wrong with drinks per se. At least my idea of "to drink" is to go to a nice bar, have one cocktail and go home. But yeah, I understand what you mean. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 06:07 AM |
| 23 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?What a tool! You know how in some restaurants a waiter purposely gives the bill to a man, not even putting it on a table. My friend once went out with a guy and this happened. And of course he "forgot" his wallet, but he asks my friend to discretely give him her money, under the table, so no one would notice, and then proceeded to pretend that he pulled them out from his pocket and was paying the bill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 01:53 PM |
| 27 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?A friend of mine was killed by his own brother, for money. Told about this to one guy I've been talking to and kinda fancied. His reply? "Oh, bet you wished you were there when he died so you could grab his money and run". I type this rn, almost 15 years after this happened, and still can't believe someone actually not only formed this thought but also proceeded to say it out loud. And, obviously, laugh after seeing my face and saying "It's a joke, just want to cheer you up!". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 01:44 PM |
| 21 | Another round of free publicity for the sub. Stories about FDS men come up with amuse me every time. Really? I think you attribute "threatening someone with violence when they reject you" to the wrong sех.His logic probably was "they say FDS is female inсеls, need to come up with example of what a man would do and simply swap genders!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 02:08 PM |
| 182 | Another round of free publicity for the sub. Stories about FDS men come up with amuse me every time. Really? I think you attribute "threatening someone with violence when they reject you" to the wrong sех.That's why I won't even bother anymore debating with people like this. Like, once, in a similar sub, someone wrote that men can't have safe spaces because women are "triggered". I replied with links to news articles where men stormed women-only co-working space and threatened violence and force this place to shut down. Asked if someone could share a link to a similar story but involving women. And obviously, I got downvoted. Just because I presented facts that contradicted their female-hating na… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:43 AM |
| 254 | This is the double bind society presents women with when we try to speak the truth about male pattern behaviour. If we call it out, it’s misandrist. But if we don’t call it out and end up getting harmed anyway, it’s our fault for not seeing the signs. Head men win, tails women lose. Again.Funny thing: I'm not allowed to drop by to see one of my friends when I'm walking out my dog, because when her husband was 5 y.o. he got scared (not even physically attacked) by a dog and now is deadly afraid of any canine-like creatures. And everyone respects this fear and I never heard anybody ridiculing him or asking what he did to provoke the dog. But I'm yet to see people treating women who were abused by men and who get cautious and paranoid around men. It's always "Yeah, but what did you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:07 PM |
| 10 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceFunny how remarks about "biologically deterministic language" only appear when talking about female spaces. Men can have their own inclusive spaces and nobody bats an eyelid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:45 PM |
| 137 | More examples of blatant misogyny on Reddit. The advice he is giving other men in this post "Go for women you don't find attractive, so you can do depraved sexual things with them"No journal ever will talk shit about misogynistic movements, because it'll 100% gonna end like Charlie Hebdo for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Anybody else met a guy who's pro-mask but anti-condom?Amuses me every time when I read comments here, because all matches my experience almost a 100%. I chatted with a guy who pretended to be really concerned about this pandemic, talked about being empathetic towards people who lost their loved ones, about donating money to help nurses etc. But he probably was so delusional about his good virtues himself, forgot not to post in his insta stories all the parties he went to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 10:45 AM |
| 6 | Anybody else met a guy who's pro-mask but anti-condom?Ugh, same. And some men even had the audacity to ask me to get on pill because "condoms are expensive". Like, are you gonna pay for them pills? No? Oh, you graciously offering me to pay 50/50, how marvellous. Go buy yourself a fleshlight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 07:34 AM |
| 8 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenI bet 100$ that this "journalist" is a man with a small pp and addiction to violent porn but also wastes all his money on onlyfans in order to pretend that those women like him. Also, love how it's all completely out of context. We don't want to be free psychologists, catch some nasty shit or end up a single mother because ya'll broke and addicted to роrn, and it's labelled 'misandry'? Well, call me Khaleesi then because this Missandei-ry is never leaving my side! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 07:27 AM |
| 11 | Anybody else met a guy who's pro-mask but anti-condom?Exactly! Somehow a lot of men assume that if you're agreed to sex, it means that you're "on pill" and they won't even ask to confirm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:36 AM |
| 7 | Anybody else met a guy who's pro-mask but anti-condom?His "argument" was that if I agreed to have sex in a first place, means that I'm "clean" (his exact word). Like, he legitly thought that people with HIV, AIDS or other illnesses simply live in celibacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:32 AM |
| 4 | Anybody else met a guy who's pro-mask but anti-condom?OMG reminded me that scene from Naked Gun, if I'm not mistaken, where they used full-body giant condoms :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:11 AM |
| 5 | If a man says "I will teach you" simply ask "Oh, so you've sucked a lot of them, yes?"Precisely. Idk about other cultures, but in mine (post-USSR countries) giving oral is very degrading because it's rooted in prison culture. And men like this see no difference between going down on men or women, all ends up with you called "fаggоt". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 08:08 AM |
| 3 | If a man says "I will teach you" simply ask "Oh, so you've sucked a lot of them, yes?"I think some poor pickmeisha once told him how much she LOVES blowjobs and now he applies this bs to all women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 08:05 AM |
| 69 | If a man says "I will teach you" simply ask "Oh, so you've sucked a lot of them, yes?"I think almost everyone here met a man like this. Talking about how all the men before him "didn't know how to properly do it", bragging about how he'll make you cum 1000 times over and proceeded to shove his fingers in as a "foreplay" and then jackhammering for couple minutes))) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 01:36 PM |
| 67 | If a man says "I will teach you" simply ask "Oh, so you've sucked a lot of them, yes?"I read an interesting article, but it was ages ago so probably won't find a link, but general idea was about how sex always puts men in dominant position, even if it's femdom and men being submissive, it's still comes down to a woman doing exactly what this man loves and not giving her any real power and she still ends up vulnerable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 01:01 PM |
| 3 | From /AskReddit about which subs give useless or even dangerous advice. Lol.Exactly! The whole "jUsT cOMmuNiCatE!" approach always baffles me. Like, if I understand right and wrong, how a man, who's my age or a bit older, doesn't? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 09:57 AM |
| 3 | From /AskReddit about which subs give useless or even dangerous advice. Lol.The problem is that "incеl" stopped being about only sex a long time ago, and now it's mostly about hаting wоmеn. And people like this associate FDS with hаting mеn and draw a conclusion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:53 AM |
| 33 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?I finally stopped getting sad when my friend talked about her a m a z i n g life. Reading FDS made me realize that she just constantly needs reassurance that she's thriving, but apparently, nothing indicates this so she feels the urge to constantly brag. Also realized that value rank applies to all people, not only romantic or sexual partners, and cut off a lot of LV or NV friends (women and men). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:13 PM |
| 39 | From /AskReddit about which subs give useless or even dangerous advice. Lol.Got it, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:33 PM |
| 30 | From /AskReddit about which subs give useless or even dangerous advice. Lol.It's always funny when they say "oh, X is just a female equivalent of Y". Especially comparing to incel movement, which was founded by a woman, btw, with a good purpose, until it was hijacked by a bunch of misogynistic twats, thinking they're entitled to sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:31 AM |
| 65 | From /AskReddit about which subs give useless or even dangerous advice. Lol.Oh, sorry, didn't know that. But I made this screenshot like a week ago, forgot to post, so maybe it won't be considered brigading because I'm 100% sure no women will go and deliberately search for this post to brigade? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:28 AM |
| 7 | As usual men doing the bare minimum in relationships.25th birthdays are cursed! Mine was shit as well. My ex made a huge deal about hating his birthday and cautioned me to not congratulate him, let alone buy a gift. Well, I ain't your psychiatrist, mate. So I said that I like celebrating my birthday, it's at the end of May, the weather is always great etc. We went for a trip to Germany, I wrote a list of things I wanted to do, he was reluctant about almost all of them. His only participation was the task of finding a cute coffee shop for the eveni… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:47 PM |
| 14 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMLove this sub so much, because every time I think "probably nobody ever does that" and here's a post about LVM doing the same thing that my ex did. Even more, when I said, several times, that it's actually (a) looks very stupid of him walking 2-3 meters ahead of me and (b) kinda hurts my feelings, he simply pretended that he has no idea wft am I talking about. Further, when we rode a subway or any other public transport, he stood either the same 2-3 meters from me, or, if it was packed, faced ot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:02 AM |
| 9 | Do not feel bad for having physical standards - women deserve to be with a man they find physically attractiveI honestly never men a man, who 5'7 or less and genuinely don't care about it. Usually, men like this are bullied in school, by taller boys, and somehow keep this grudge and bring into adulthood, and, even worse, in relationships. I'm 5'7 myself and wear high heels most of the time, and men, who are smaller than me, only talk about how they don't care and how it's cool if their girlfriend is taller, how all supermodels are tall yada yada. But in reality, I can see how gradually they become more … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 07:07 AM |
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