Thanks to everyone who commented on my previous post, I read everything and tried to reply to as many comments as possible. If you need TL;DR only, the whole situation got resolved, she deleted everything and promised not to do this anymore.

I took your advice and wrote to her that it's a fraud, at least, and a criminal offence, at most, so I'm gonna get a lawyer or any other necessary measures if my photos are still on her site when we finish talking.

(For clarification, she didn't use my real name or age, and even an email she wanted to give out to this man was going to be generated on her site. Thanks to everyone being worried that these men, after feeling scammed, will try to find me using photos, but it's probably unlikely since Google and Instagram are blocked in China).

I also bluffed a bit and promised to call her mother to describe how her daughter is basically a brothel madam, and frankly, I think it made her more frightened than legal threats 😂

Some people told me not to be polite, but I still decided against yelling at her via voice messages and we calmly resolved everything pretty quick. I said I'm going to check her site periodically so I know she didn't lie and my photo won't appear there the next week again.

She also assured me it's a very much legal business (at least in China), and she'll try to suggest to these men to try and look beyond women's race in the future.

Oh, well... I didn't block her yet, but definitely won't consider her a friend anymore.

Edit: asked her several times if her husband is a part of this "business" and she pretended to ignore these messages. I won't be jumping to any conclusions yet but seems pretty obvious it probably wasn't her idea, to begin with.