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| 1 | Reading through the guide and having some trouble, can someone help me out?Ive never met a man who regretted putting on 10 lbs of muscle. | /r/RPChristians | 08/10/21 10:30 AM |
| 3 | Iron Rule #6: Your Wife Will Never Love You!College. | /r/RPChristians | 14/07/21 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Iron Rule #6: Your Wife Will Never Love You!The prospect of embarking on a lifelong contract with someone who only loves me for what I can DO for her is repulsive. I wanted an emotional connection, but the best I can get is a cold political relationship masked by a thin veneer of conditional affection. Now that I've taken the pill, I miss the matrix. That's right out of the Rollo Youtube video. He calls it the "Burden Of Performance" and mentions men gets PISSED when they realize that the "love" is very much conditional on the value a man… | /r/RPChristians | 12/07/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Iron Rule #6: Your Wife Will Never Love You!After re-reading my post I didnt clearly communicate the problem was my idealized, blue-pill expectations for my wife and the ensuing shock when she didnt meet my covert contract. | /r/RPChristians | 12/07/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Iron Rule #6: Your Wife Will Never Love You!I'm not sure there will ever be a time in my life where I 100% don't desire my wife's affection like 12 years ago in the beginning. Of course at the time I was so busy hanging with my buddies, staying out till 4am and partying, I didn't even care at the time. Ironically, it was almost annoying that she was so affectionate. I've tried hard to kill the ego that wants to be put on a pedestal but it still returns sometimes. I'm just hard-wired this way and as I mature the jealousy and butthurt appea… | /r/RPChristians | 12/07/21 08:10 PM |
| 9 | Iron Rule #6: Your Wife Will Never Love You!Some extra thoughts I didn't communicate in my post: 1) My wife and I are very attracted to each other. We have sex almost every day and she initiates more than 50% of the time. Has been for years. We don't discuss if we are going to have sex each day, we discuss how we are going to have sex with 4 kids around. It's simply a logistical challenge. 2) We are both in excellent physical shape and are competitive athletes who play sports and workout together 7 days a week and have been for almost 10 … | /r/RPChristians | 12/07/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Iron Rule #6: Your Wife Will Never Love You!Not at all what im saying. Its very common for the relationship dynamic to change as you grow older. Iron Rule 6 sheds light on the aspect of idealized love and how it can damage the relationship if not realized and perspective adjusted. Not all marriages experience idealized love but for the ones that do, his rule helps. | /r/RPChristians | 11/07/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | When Something Heavy Takes You DownI crossfit so never been a problem. | /r/RPChristians | 13/05/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/31/21)OYS #42 40 yrs old, 6'2" 187lbs, 8% BF, BP 205, BS TBD, DL TBD, married, 4 kids Fitness 2 months on Carnivore Diet. I added in milk and rice because I needed a few carbs. I call this "Carnivore For Athletes." Weight going up, energy is up, strength is up. Playing ultra-competitive pickleball a few days a week. crossfit workouts 2x week, swimming 1x week. Need to take a break from Pickleball bc it becomes too time-consuming and the mission of my life is not to become a pro pickleballer. Social Ha… | /r/RPChristians | 06/04/21 11:29 AM |
| 7 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/31/21)OYS #41 40 yrs old, 6'2" 187lbs, 8% BF, BP 205, BS TBD, DL TBD, married, 4 kids Fitness 2 months on Carnivore Diet with a few exceptions. I added in milk and rice because I needed a few carbs. Weight going up, energy is up, strength is up. Playing ultra-competitive pickleball a few days a week. crossfit workouts 2x week, swimming 1x week. Social Between pickleball, workouts, and coaching soccer, plenty of socialization. Business Neglected business again due to heavy social calendar. But now I'm … | /r/RPChristians | 31/03/21 12:35 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on unchecked female hypergamy and “she’s not yours. It’s just your turn”? Do all women eventually cheat regardless of how high your frame or SMV is because we’re genetically designed to be polygamous?After seeing your comment on MRP a few days ago, it appears you've embraced the ideas they are selling you. "I always imagine virgins being horrible in bed and unwilling to do anything the least bit kinky. I’ll keep my whore of a gf" Edit: You are also the same guy who posted to RPC attempting to justify threesomes with his whore of a gf who encourages polygamy, then bragged about anally raping her, then got brutally butthurt when the men told you it wasnt biblical. | /r/RPChristians | 25/03/21 01:03 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on unchecked female hypergamy and “she’s not yours. It’s just your turn”? Do all women eventually cheat regardless of how high your frame or SMV is because we’re genetically designed to be polygamous?Oh yea, MRP is awesome except when they push spinning plates, divorcing your wife and dating younger women, emotionally abusing your wife if she doesnt put out on your schedule, going caveman on your wife when she isnt screaming like a pornstar, openly flirting with women in front of your wife to encourage jealousy, and many other sick ideas that are clearly against the Bible. The MRP Mods are case studies in the damage of their own advice. But you're correct, they have a decent post every time … | /r/RPChristians | 24/03/21 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Announcement: Red Pill Christians will now exclusively be a male only spaceAnd one for kids too? Like RPCK? Oh and pre-teens also: RPCPT? | /r/RPChristians | 24/03/21 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Sneaky Little IdeasLooks like Mr. Robertson will be eternal kindling if he doesnt do some serious repentance. | /r/RPChristians | 24/03/21 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Why Lifting is Not a SuggestionGood thing we have a 100-400 series on the sidebar to address these basic ideas! If only we could get members to read and apply the principles. | /r/RPChristians | 19/03/21 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Why Lifting is Not a SuggestionAlways been funny to me how men look at working out and eating a clean diet as some sort of high-level goal. Lifting is on par with basic habits like showering, brushing teeth and attractive grooming. My gym is full of old farts who rarely miss a day. How pathetic you must be to make excuses when Old-Man-Jim with 2 hip replacements can do lat pulldowns and the thigh machine after walking laps in the pool but you can't finish Wendler's 5/3/1. Then again, Old-Man-Jim probably gets more bedroom act… | /r/RPChristians | 19/03/21 08:30 PM |
| 4 | When you say "I need to read my Bible" what are you really saying?Butthurt and triggered, he took the bait just like I knew he would. | /r/askRPC | 15/03/21 01:04 AM |
| 3 | When you say "I need to read my Bible" what are you really saying?He has an ego so big he cant shut his mouth and learn. OP didnt come here for advice, he came here to argue. | /r/askRPC | 14/03/21 06:14 PM |
| 0 | Field Report - Things are looking up!Love to hear the progress BUT, 300lbs? Bro put down the fork and pick up a weight. You sound like an awesome guy but you look like a slob and that does not inspire submission from a wife or anyone else. Be attractive, dont be unattractive. All the Red Pill tricks and mind-voodoo won't get you respect like sub-12% bodyfat would. STFU, lift and read my post on diet. Your body is a temple and right now your temple is bloated. You have other areas of drastic improvement (mission, discipleship, etc) … | /r/RPChristians | 13/03/21 11:43 AM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/24/21)OYS #40 40 yrs old, 6'2" 183lbs, 8% BF, BP 205, BS TBD, DL TBD, married, 4 kids Fitness Almost 3 weeks on Carnivore Diet and my bodyfat is down to 8% with very little fluid retention. My standard BF hovers around 10-12% but this is a hole new level of ripped. It looks like I'm prepping for bodybuilding show. At 183lbs and 6'2" I want to gain about 10 lbs but you can't argue with 8 visible abs at 40 yrs old. Unfortunately my performance has suffered and the "short" 12-15 min intense CrossFit work… | /r/RPChristians | 26/02/21 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Diet ReviewsBro-Science on display. | /r/RPChristians | 19/02/21 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Diet ReviewsI thought lethargy was due to high sugar content in whole milk. | /r/RPChristians | 19/02/21 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Diet ReviewsI'll def get blood work done and also monitor my Test levels. Last check I had 675 Test so I'm hoping to get above 700 on Carnivore. No TRT until mine dips below 400 or I feel like crap. | /r/RPChristians | 18/02/21 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Diet ReviewsI felt full after a large bowl of rice and meat. But 90 min later I was eating another bowl. This kept my energy levels sky-high but dependent on having food nearby. GOMAD put me up to 200lbs of solid muscle and the strongest I've ever been. I squat cleaned 310lbs, squatted 365lbs, benched 265lbs, deadlifted 490lbs and, most impressively, did that with a 3:20 Fran time. Stopped GOMAD because I felt lethargic and sleepy all day long and started taking pre-workout 2x a day. | /r/RPChristians | 18/02/21 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Diet ReviewsI'm at about 4,000 cals a day. If that doesn't work, I'll drink Kefir which will add another 1,200 cals. It's definitely possible and the r/meatogains sub has guys packing on massive size on strict Carnivore. | /r/RPChristians | 18/02/21 12:50 PM |
| 10 | Where to go from here?I have a gift for talking to people, making connections, and problem solving. Entrepreneurship is a journey best began while young. The difference between success and failure in starting a company and scaling is the ability to devote yourself entirely to the project and working through the hardest times. I would push any young man without attachments who has the desire for freedom to start a company. You don't need a lot of money and you don't need much formal education. But promise yourself you… | /r/RPChristians | 13/02/21 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Dating & Social Dynamics for the Christian:Red Pill Christian Podcast - Episode 29The SNL video says it perfectly. That should go on the sidebar. | /r/RPChristians | 05/02/21 11:03 AM |
| 9 | Money.I've started and sold several businesses. As a serial entrepreneur, I am involved in entrepreneurship philanthropy groups composed of mostly young millionaires. The men are generous with their wealth and it becomes a competition to see who can help more people. Wealthy people have the financial freedom to help others. Middle class men rarely have the means or the time to help in scale. They can however use their limited wealth in a God-pleasing way. I use the wealth generated from my businesses … | /r/RPChristians | 31/01/21 01:21 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (01/27/21)OYS #39 40 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs 183lbs, 10% BF, BP 205, BS TBD, DL TBD, married, 4 kids Fitness Sick with Covid for 2 weeks I didn't workout much. I lost about 7 lbs and finally hit the gym for a light workout yesterday. As a lifetime hard-gainer, it takes me months of dedicated lifting to acquire muscle and strength but a single flu or covid to lose it. But I am committing to 5 workouts a week. This works by splitting bodyparts on several of those days in stark contrast to what I believe and te… | /r/RPChristians | 29/01/21 12:39 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (01/27/21)Something doesn't sit right with me about giving him tithe money and rent, being in his physical space (and subjected to his limitations and control). You can brainstorm several logical reasons why you shouldn't move in, or you can just trust your gut and move on. But more importantly, how's THIS going... I will seek to draw close to God through my daily spiritual practices of prayer, quiet time, study, and scripture memorization; in these I will seek His wisdom and desire to be humbled. I will … | /r/RPChristians | 29/01/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (01/13/21)Injury is spinal degeneration from 3 decades of sports resulting in spurs with nerve damage. Only option is fusion surgery per the doctor but his advice was to wait till pain was unbearable. I believe believe that point can be pushed way into the future. I can slow it down even further with light exercise and yoga but I prefer to continue to compete in sports and take rest days as needed. Stuff like back squats are non-essential for my goals as there are plenty of ways to increase vert jump and … | /r/RPChristians | 18/01/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (01/13/21)Doing push ups and pull ups to work out twice a day. What happened to weights? Under quarantine? Or prefer these kind of workouts? For some reason writing in hate is 100X easier than in love. Having a mission will allocate your energy toward something positive instead of writing about politics trying to convince strangers on the internet. What is your mission and how do you pursue this each and every day with passion? Jerking off every night because after resisting for hours in the dark with n… | /r/RPChristians | 17/01/21 07:43 PM |
| 1 | The Laziness of MenIf I made having the right kind of life experience to hear someone out a requirement I'd never take anyone's advice No, you would only take wise advice from people who have relevant experience. You do this already as you want a doctor to have gone through med school and rotations, a financial adviser with a track record of success, etc. Defending advice from people who do not have the "right kind of life experience" shows your desire to argue needlessly. My only intent was to high light how this… | /r/RPChristians | 17/01/21 07:19 PM |
| 1 | The Laziness of MenI would agree with you except in our specific case my children's teachers are outwardly and vocally supportive of the Gospel. They attend our church, are family friends, and they back up the biblical teachings we preach at home. They are also more qualified to teach small children than myself and my wife. I am an entrepreneur who stays in his lane. I'm sure they could run a business just like I could (and am currently) teaching my kids, but we have God given talents, and they are gifted educator… | /r/RPChristians | 13/01/21 05:15 PM |
| 1 | The Laziness of MenI appreciate you taking so much time to write detailed responses to my posts, both this one and the previous. I like your style because you dissect the post and give your opinion on each part. Instead of responding to each of your points however, I'll just give you a little story that changed my perspective when I got older. In college, I wrote a weekly opinion column for our school newspaper which had a circulation of around 90k. Back in the 1990's newspapers were a big deal. After a few months… | /r/RPChristians | 13/01/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (01/13/21)OYS #38 40 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs, 10% BF, BP 205, BS TBD, DL TBD, married, 4 kids Fitness Tried to back squat 135 lbs and shooting pain down the legs. Ok, so thats off the list for the foreseeable future. Still able to do most exercises and lifts just not load the back. Heavy lifting this week went great, crossfit wod was amazing, swimming was awesome, didnt lose a game in pickelball, and also squeezed in a very competitive game of vball. Overall not feeling the pain in my back like usual due to … | /r/RPChristians | 13/01/21 03:42 PM |
| 3 | The Story of TimYes PM | /r/RPChristians | 06/01/21 12:53 PM |
| 5 | The Story of TimSub is loaded with angry young men who hate the call to leadership when they could simply blame women for being sluts. Not the first time my comments and posts have been downvoted. But plenty of guys get it. | /r/RPChristians | 04/01/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/30/20)You should make a post. I enjoy reading other men's ideas on RPC. I am doing the 100 challenge this month which is 100 pushups, lunges, squats, situps, leg lifts each day. I still do CF workouts 3x week, play volleyball, compete in pickelball, and lift weights. Change is staying off anything that destroys my back (like deadlifts and cleans). If I stretch every day a couple times a day, the pain goes down significantly. I foresee much stretching in my future. Doc says I have 2 options: shots and … | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/21 10:45 PM |
| -2 | The Story of TimAs far as the girl being a perpetrator, it's the man's job to lead the woman. He didn't make her sin, but he certainly didnt lead her to obedience. If she has sex with someone else, it's not his fault. If she has sex with him, it is his fault as the leader. That's as red pill as it gets. | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/21 10:39 PM |
| 2 | The Story of TimYes and there are infinite versions of this fictional story where the outcomes are different. But this particular version was to voice a possible outcome, maybe even a likely outcome to make the reader think in a way that I didn't think when I was young and single. It's fun to think of other possible outcomes and see where they lead, but I bet that they all end with the same idea that fornication is wrong. | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/21 10:38 PM |
| -9 | The Story of TimGood questions, but the point of the story was to make the reader think for himself, not turn it back on the author. | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/21 10:34 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/30/20)OYS #37 40 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs, 10% BF, BP 205, BS 275, DL 135, married, 4 kids Fitness Back is done. Extreme, never-ending pain. Can't squat heavy or deadlift heavy. MRI coming soon but I already know from a previous X-Ray that I have complete degeneration of my discs in C T and L spine. Still working out just laying off the heavy weights for lower body. Played bball the other day and whipped up on some 20 year olds. Also grabbed the rim pretty easily so I havent lost as much vertical as I sus… | /r/RPChristians | 01/01/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Slay Your Idols"Notice. Appreciate God's craftsmanship. Move on." Men can look upon sexually appealing women without lust. However, men who do struggle with lust would be wise to take preventative action. | /r/RPChristians | 31/12/20 02:15 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/16/20)I went several years without picking up my Bible. Didn't seem relevant at the time. Church and worship? Forgettaboutit. Then suddenly I found myself semi-retired for the 2nd time with nothing to do so i read the entire new testament. I never stopped loving God. Just lack of discipline and interest at the time. Over the years my gaps get smaller maybe due to maturity or maybe bc I have better discipline? I know when I'm not motivated spiritually a good butt-kicking sermon can bust me out of the f… | /r/RPChristians | 29/12/20 12:04 AM |
| 2 | 3 Year RP Field ReportStudying the Bible with my wife was great. We changed it up every few weeks. Studied a chapter in a Francis Chan book along with a gospel one week, next week we did a Paul letter with a formal Bible Study book. Our favorite formal Bible Study was "5 Aspects" which has a version for men, single women and married women. We spend about the same amount of time together but focused outward. For instance, last year we would carve out a few hours of time twice a week to go on "day dates" because after … | /r/RPChristians | 26/12/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | 3 Year RP Field ReportExactly. Took me 3 years and more words to say the same thing. | /r/RPChristians | 25/12/20 07:42 PM |
| 3 | 3 Year RP Field Report"you were in a solid personal, financial, physically fit, position to be so involved in your community. Sounds like all of those years of improving yourself positioned you almost perfectly to execute your mission." Key point though was the realization improvement isn't the final destination. Reminds me of that quote in Fight Club "Self Improvement is masturbation" because more of the same doesn't work. | /r/RPChristians | 25/12/20 11:32 AM |
| 2 | 3 Year RP Field ReportWell said! | /r/RPChristians | 25/12/20 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Why did you chose to incorporate the belief system of the red pill community into your life?Unlike most of the guys who went RP, I never had a bad sex life or a dead bedroom. I was reading another sub and a guy mentioned a men's group for successful men call "Married Red Pill." I immediately agreed with the RP philosophy and loved the sidebar, but the men in that group were charlatans. When I questioned their advice over the following months, they repeatedly banned me. Soon, MRP became more of a hinderance than a help. The final straw was watching the mods make a series of unwise life … | /r/askRPC | 24/12/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/16/20)Thoughts on Why Men Hate Going To Church? | /r/RPChristians | 20/12/20 05:06 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/16/20)I don't know how to articulate it but I've lost a lot of the fire I once had and I don't know how to get it back. Relationship isnt linear, there's ups and downs and I know you know that but sometimes its nice to hear it again. I remember I would look forward to going to worship, teaching middle school Bible class, leading devos, lead singing, volunteering etc but if I'm going to be honest, I don't look forward to it anymore, none of it. This also goes in waves. I love reading the Bible, then I … | /r/RPChristians | 20/12/20 05:05 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/16/20)I should have blocked it right away, but I replied, “that I was in a relationship” (with Christ). She sent me a few texts back still wanting to get together; I blocked her number and deleted the messages. Not bending to this advance felt good. I'm feeling super in-control of any lustful thoughts now. Good job. Hard to say no to a girl who wants to bang but the feeling afterward would have been terrible. Guilt, shame etc. Stay strong this week. | /r/RPChristians | 20/12/20 04:57 PM |
| 7 | What's the RPC perspective on steroid/sarms use?I turned 40 this year and in my circle of athletic friends I am the only person not on TRT. I wont go on TRT now or in the near future. I maintain a strict lifestyle that keeps my test levels around 675. That's not high but it isnt low either. My buddies that went on TRT did it for one of two reasons: 1) They had above average test but wanted to have even higher test so they could feel like a 21 year old and didnt care about the negative consequences. 2) They had low test and didnt want to put i… | /r/askRPC | 20/12/20 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a matchI wrote the "Married Man's Guide To Dating" which was my advice for single guys on how to get dates and meet girls. I stand by every word of that post. I have never lived in a liberal state where christianity is looked down upon. I stay in the Bible Belt where women in churches outnumber men 3-to-1. In my region of the country women are asking the same question you are but reverse, "Where are all the Christian men?" It's shooting fish in a barrel down here. That being said, I'm 5 miles from a hu… | /r/RPChristians | 20/12/20 04:33 PM |
| 1 | My Kingdom ComeThis needs to be a sperate post. I have to read it a few more times to fully get it, but it analyzes the motives behind our connection with God. I connect in a certain way which I've heard is based on my relationship with my father. He was the guy who called me in college and said, "How are your grades? Do you need money? Ok, here's your mother." That carries over to my view of God "God I'm doing good but I need some help here and here. Ok great, I'm gonna get to work now." It's why Ive always s… | /r/RPChristians | 19/12/20 09:10 PM |
| 3 | My Kingdom ComeI've noticed over the last 6 months that many of the people I'm around have a completely distorted view of themselves. We all do to a certain point i guess. But it has caused me to take a look at my actions and motives because I don't want to be like them, constantly seeing myself different than other people view me. But this manifests itself in different ways from my experience: For instance, my wife will tell me she "isnt going to do _______ anymore" then within a few days I find her doing thi… | /r/RPChristians | 19/12/20 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Do not be unequally yoked, part two: electric boogaloo.Re-write that thing, 2021 version, and tell the whole story. That was gold. I've said it a million times, for most people the devil uses complacency as his greatest weapon. Usually it takes tragedy to wake us up. That's my story. | /r/RPChristians | 17/12/20 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Do not be unequally yoked, part two: electric boogaloo.Whyd you leave that out in the story? | /r/RPChristians | 17/12/20 10:16 PM |
| 0 | (M22) Interested in a Muslim girl - Advice?Having an incredible woman by my side to form a stable family with has always been the goal. Why not really reach for the stars and aim for owning a sports car! | /r/RPChristians | 17/12/20 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Do not be unequally yoked, part two: electric boogaloo.Reminds me of the time I went to the casino and left 42 hours later, sleep-deprived, half-drunk with all my cash gone. At the time I thought I was living, now I know I was a fool. | /r/RPChristians | 17/12/20 05:36 PM |
| 13 | The ChurchI have 2 thoughts heavily influenced by the book "Why Men Hate Going to Church" and also from being around mega-churches in the southern united states: - Women make up around 70% of the attendees of most churches and even a higher percentage of volunteers in ministry. That means the pastor is surrounded by female opinions and under pressure to serve, and cater to, the majority. I would like churches to recruit more men to serve and that begins with the pastor, as men won't follow a man they don'… | /r/RPChristians | 14/12/20 07:41 PM |
| 22 | I want to date a girl but she is Mormon."I always planned to marry a Christian, but she is so hot that I’m considering I should change plans." That's the kind of man you are summed up in one sad statement. | /r/RPChristians | 10/12/20 06:26 PM |
| 8 | 21 M, need general life advice, thinking of hooking upReading: Haven't read any of the books, have read a lot on reddit. Translation: I'm lazy and dont want the mental challenge. I need a bottle instead of solid food. I learn all I need from reddit on my phone. Stats: 6'2, 165, BF very low Translation: I'm a skinny beanpole with no muscle but I can see a couple abs. Girls like abs, right? Spiritual: Not great. Don't pray often. I share my faith a little, haven't memorized much scripture. I do attend church and men's group bible study though. Transl… | /r/RPChristians | 10/12/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Just for fun -- Is this the most BluePill song EVER?Amazon sells a popular bundle which includes the Kane Brown's cd, pair of roller blades and a hair stick for your man-bun. Antifa fanny-pack included in the premium bundle. | /r/RPChristians | 26/11/20 11:32 AM |
| 8 | Start Thinking Like A Churchian ApostateExamples please | /r/RPChristians | 26/11/20 11:23 AM |
| 14 | A Remedy for Serial OneitisismIt is because you are so deprived of MFEE you are treating it the same way a sex starved man treats sex. You need to start getting a steady flow of this from multiple sources so that you aren't pining for it so hard from one woman. Getting more attention from women will not create abundance as illustrated by men who receive regular female attention and still crave more. Oneitis is cured internally in the mind, not in the physical world. And it is not solved through increased female attention, ju… | /r/RPChristians | 26/11/20 11:19 AM |
| 1 | What I Tell My Kids About My Past SinsThat's my approach. No details but honesty if they ask. | /r/RPChristians | 20/11/20 02:50 AM |
| 2 | PSA: Stop thinking about dating non-Christian girls. It’s pointless.Bad taste on my part quickly firing off stuff on my phone. Point was to strongly discourage dating women who are not wholly devoted to Christ. Just made a post that clarifies what I wanted to say but messed up. Sorry brother. | /r/RPChristians | 18/11/20 06:48 PM |
| 2 | PSA: Stop thinking about dating non-Christian girls. It’s pointless.Good defense. I'd love to see you defend other unwise life decisions cause I think you got that gun loaded and use it often. | /r/RPChristians | 18/11/20 01:29 PM |
| 0 | Is the fact that most Christians are cucks a misinterpretation of Christianity?Christians are cucks? Maybe you just need some new friends. | /r/RPChristians | 18/11/20 01:27 PM |
| 31 | PSA: Stop thinking about dating non-Christian girls. It’s pointless.Missional dating is never a good idea just like fondling your girlfriend through her clothes isn't a good idea. | /r/RPChristians | 14/11/20 08:34 PM |
| 17 | PSA: Stop thinking about dating non-Christian girls. It’s pointless.Missional dating has been discussed and discouraged in this sub for multiple years. OP is towing the party line and has good points. You are the voice of dissent and the exception proves the rule. Dont do what OZ did. Dont date nonchristian girls. | /r/RPChristians | 14/11/20 08:32 PM |
| 2 | HillSong Pastor Carl Lentz' LoverNow he has quite the testimony if he chooses to use it. | /r/RPChristians | 12/11/20 08:03 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (10/21/20)OYS #36 40 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs, 10% BF, BP 205, BS 300, DL 355, married, 4 kids Fitness Gained significant muscle in the last 2 months. Lifts all jumped up due to consistency. Social Trying to make new friends in a new small town despite covid keeping people down. Even getting plugged in to a new church is difficult as attendance is down for sunday service and all bible studies and small groups are canceled or have little participation. Business Took over Amazon FBA account for our brand and it… | /r/RPChristians | 25/10/20 03:32 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (08/12/20)OYS #35 39 yrs old, 6'2" 180lbs, 8% BF, BP 205, BS 265, DL 315, married, 4 kids Fitness Working out with new guy at his small work gym 2x week hoping to lead him to Christ. Also joining the local 24-hour gym this week for in-between days with hopes of making relationships. No tennis, no pickleball, no vball. Social Moved to new city and still getting established. Visiting new church this weekend. Only met a few people since between work and house projects not much time left. Business Transitioni… | /r/RPChristians | 14/08/20 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Hey guys check out this really neat 3 h YouTube video I watched!Took a break for a while and bought a new house, built a new production facility for my business, and pursuing the mission. Still log-in occasionally. I see hundreds of people everyday who need Jesus, so they are my focus. Ya'll doing a good job on here. | /r/RPChristians | 03/08/20 05:03 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/29/20)OYS #34 39 yrs old, 6'2" 185lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 12 years, 4 kids (8, 6, 5, 18 months). Fitness Gyms are open again so I'll return to the gym soon. In mean time, I'm continuing workouts at different outdoor areas and inviting people from my gym group to join. This is one aspect of how I play out my Mission to evangelize and make disciples. Social Plenty socialize now that quarantine is lifted and things are back to normal. Played volleyball with a large group, tennis with … | /r/RPChristians | 29/04/20 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Refreshing words and an encouragement to start conversationsJust in case anyone missed this statement: You all know that my life's passion is making disciples. Actually, I got it from Jesus. It's really his passion. It's what he spent the bulk of his active years doing. It's what he commissioned the apostles to do. It's what the Holy Spirit has assisted the church in doing since the beginning. Important to note. I'm going to quote you in my post about Mission. | /r/RPChristians | 29/04/20 01:48 PM |
| 7 | Why I love my husband. Happy to answer any questions about Christian courting as well.TL;DR - He leads me in the Faith. He has always given faithfully to the church and has supported various missions. He is also sponsoring a child. Since before we were engaged he brought me along to his church and introduced me to his church family. He has supported me in supporting the missions I am involved in. Wait, you both FOLLOW JESUS and he leads you spiritually and acts out his passion and love for God through obedience to God's Word? That sounds suspiciously like a plan for a long, happy… | /r/RPChristians | 29/04/20 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice, long post. And apologize for the scatter brainIn her mind you are an inept captain that doesnt give her tingles or make her horny. So yes you will get denied. It took you years to get into the hole, it may take you years to dig yourself out. Start by leading her spiritually because that shows her you have a priority even higher than her. Women are disgusted when they are put on a pedestal, and making passes at your wife in your current state is perceived as being idolized. Christ first, always. Pray with her every night out loud. Read the B… | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/20 07:56 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/22/20)Ok you made the first step which is identifying your issues and asking for guidance and accountability. Strong first step! My wife also had an emotional affair last year and I wrote a post on it. Two things immediately come to mind: Your wife needs give her life to Jesus. I'm not saying in her head she needs to pray the sinners prayer, I'm saying she needs to START ACTING LIKE IT. A wife who is in love with Jesus and desires to be obedient to His commands would NEVER act the way she is acting. A… | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/20 04:04 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/22/20)This is also due to me feeling a lack of purpose (been having this gnawing feeling for years, just even worse now in quarantine) Plus that and loneliness and you have my two biggest triggers, feeling lost and lonely. What are you doing to develop a mission? I was going to get a new phone but decided not to if I kept falling into sin. No sense in buying a new phone if I can't control myself, Phones become crutches for people without purpose. See people methodically banging their phones all day? T… | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/20 03:26 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/22/20)it's easier to attract a new woman than it is to woo back a wife who has been disappointed in you for a long time. Because it's easier to put on a fake personality with a new woman than to pursue a wife who knows your flaws. Instead of making real change and leading their wives, they look for shortcuts with online dating apps and young, naive women who figure out too late that these men are charlatans. The tipping point for me was going back and reading the OYS posts of the mods in MRP. Most are… | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/20 03:16 PM |
| 9 | Need some advice, long post. And apologize for the scatter brainYou came to the right place. These men know what they are talking about. | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.Yes I would like to read. | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 05:11 PM |
| 13 | Need some advice, long post. And apologize for the scatter brainWent through your post history and it's a train wreck. 10 days ago you started posting in r/sex and many other similar subs. Now after 10 days of terrible advice you are here looking for more advice. I assume you haven't read the sidebar nor do you lift nor do you post weekly to OYS. So you are looking for a shortcut. When we met she was the “good church girl”. We’d known each since 9th grade through a friend. 12th grade starting dating and 6months later having sex. After that she couldn’t get e… | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 05:08 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/22/20)I paused my Hinge profile because it was not conducive to my spiritual formation and mental health. I was checking it too often and not getting the matches I would have liked. It was making me anxious and depressed. I’m not deleting it but going to keep working on my mission and getting in shape before hopping back on (if I ever do). I' wrote a post on dating and in that I discouraged men from using dating apps for lots of reasons. You can meet plenty of women, even high quality women, in real l… | /r/RPChristians | 25/04/20 07:02 PM |
| 5 | Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women.Example of the advice from RPW to a girl who's boyfriend is spinning plates - Mod: "It (polygamy) ruffles feathers every time but that doesn't make it OK to condemn it on moral grounds. 'Follow my values' is really bad advice." Mod was telling the only woman who spoke up against his behavior based on it being immoral to stop moralizing because boys and girls can both be polygamous within the context of Red Pill. I've been banned from both MRP and AskMRP for calling out mods who encourage men to … | /r/RPChristians | 25/04/20 06:50 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/22/20)The main struggle that my father is having is that he doesn't 'feel' anything, therefore it's hard to believe that there is something. He explained that he felt no urge, or 'Holy Spirit". Most people in privileged countries don't feel a need for God. They have good health, money, and lots of fun distractions for entertainment. Their blessings is their curse. What these folks need is an awakening. And awakenings often come during periods of extreme trial like cancer, loss of a friend/family membe… | /r/RPChristians | 25/04/20 11:30 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/22/20)Prayer has never been my strength and I usually don’t know what to say, how to pray, Common challenge for men. I recommend trying multiple forms and seeing which fits with your personality best. For instance, write prayers in a journal. Speak prayers out loud while on your knees during Bible Reading. Pray in your car out loud while you drive. Make mini-prayers throughout the day that consist of 1 or 2 small topics and last only 10-15 seconds. These are each different ways to approach prayer (and… | /r/RPChristians | 25/04/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/22/20)I am just going to have to hire a moving company to move everything for the day. Every time we move we pay for a moving service. Worth the money, they do a great job and all you have to do is show up. IMHO, this is one of the best choices a man can make. Even though I said that in the moment It has been hard since I have been away from my wife for so long. Being away from wife IS hard. I told my wife I wanted to film our session with an old phone and we did. Now I have videos to watch anytime of… | /r/RPChristians | 25/04/20 11:14 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/22/20)I have a rationale for why this has happened, other than memories coming back naturally. I sinned. I relapsed from porn, I've been slacking on bible reading, I haven't prayed as much, and I've felt lonely for the first time in 5 weeks. I believe the Lord made me pay for my sins, to bring me back closer to him. Typical for disciplined men who see actions as their way to demonstrate love for God. But remember, God has already redeemed you. You are washed clean. There is nothing you can do to get b… | /r/RPChristians | 25/04/20 11:06 AM |
| 4 | Just getting started. Want to make OK into great.Excellent advice | /r/RPChristians | 25/04/20 01:39 AM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/22/20)OYS #33 39 yrs old, 6'2" 185lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 11 years 12 years, 4 kids (8, 6, 5, 18 months). Fitness The official sport of retirement communities adored by senior adults with hip replacements and children who failed at real sports has now become my newest obsession. Somehow God gifted me with the unusual ability to whack a whiffle ball around a 20'x44' court with absolute precision. And to think how many years I wasted on Football, Baseball, Basketball, Volleyball, Cro… | /r/RPChristians | 23/04/20 06:58 PM |
| 2 | How do you reconcile Christ's commandment to love others and RP advice to be emotionally unavailable, jerk, dark triad, etc.?I was always amazed at the emphasis RP men placed on sexual interpersonal dynamics. Years ago when I discovered RP, I immediately saw the value in discipline, accountability and self-improvement. Then I read the Bible and saw Paul exhorting believers to discipline, accountability and righteous living. If 10 men follow RP and read the sidebar, all 10 men will have a completely different take on what is RP and how to apply it to their lives. My personal takeaway is that RP was never about sex or w… | /r/RPChristians | 23/04/20 10:58 AM |
| 4 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/22/20)I started something new. I got a notebook and wrote down short term/long term goals. Every morning I go over these goals and pray for each one. After praying for the goal I then visualize the end result. This leads me to having ideas on how to accomplish this goal which I then write down. I also include other items I need to pray for (family members, my temper, etc..). This prayer/visualization time has become the best part of my day. This is Spiritual Discipline and a sign of a maturing Christi… | /r/RPChristians | 23/04/20 10:28 AM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/22/20)I’m down 1.8 pounds from last week and 4.0 pounds over the past two weeks. My waist size is down a half-inch, so my bodyfat percentage – per the online Navy method calculator I've been using – is down to 15.7%. I'm also down a notch on my belt. Everyone else is adding the corona-15 and you are dropping weight! I’m not sure she meant it as a compliment (she claims it was), but in any event, she got in the shower with me this morning. Choo-choo! Haha. Women often see the shower as "their time" mea… | /r/RPChristians | 23/04/20 10:19 AM |
| 1 | About to file for divorceOnce, just once I'd like to see you spend more than 5 minutes in the shower thinking about a topic and maybe you would grow in wisdom. But you already have all the answers. Your life is a glaring example of wasted talent. Go for it. Live for you, bro. I can smell the rank aroma of a man too scared to pursue something outside his own selfish well-being. You reek of it. This is where we diverge: When I die, there will be no regrets about my time on earth. When you die, there will be nothing worth … | /r/askMRP | 20/04/20 03:40 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)I have a good mechanic who 'takes it out in trade' ... ;-) Whats the proper payment for such a BIG job? | /r/RPChristians | 20/04/20 12:46 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)One thing that stood out is that you're desperately trying to fill your time with stuff. I know you have 2 hours of devotion time in the morning, but it sounds like another 'thing' to get done. Always been a challenge for me. Sleep for 8 hours, workout for 1.5 hours, cook and eat 3 hours, play with kids 2 hours, tennis 1 hour, read Bible 2 hours. Still leaves 6+ hours to utilize. I've never understood men who use the phrase "I'm too busy..." However, there is definitely something missing in my r… | /r/RPChristians | 20/04/20 12:12 PM |
| 2 | About to file for divorceu/johneyapocalypse There's always a couple children at Christmas dinner who want to sit at the adults table. Well, pull up a chair. I'll use small words since you went to public school. If you have a mission that is huge and unreachable, aka unmeasurable, then how to gauge whether you're reaching it or not reaching it? Ever hear of milestones? Unreachable doesn't mean unmeasurable. The word you were searching for was "Immeasurable - too large or extreme to measure." College isn't for everyone,… | /r/askMRP | 20/04/20 10:54 AM |
| 0 | About to file for divorceI already mentioned you. RP Life Guru advice above. Disregard his long-winded verbal vomit. Stay out of this discussion son, the adults are talking. Go ahead and disregard all the nonsense you've received so far. Most of these guys dishing out advice are either divorced, about to be divorced, or have terrible marriages and are angry and spinning plates because they took their own bad advice. After 61 comments, not one of these RP Life Guru's seemed to mention your Mission. I guess they haven't r… | /r/askMRP | 19/04/20 06:27 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)Problem I'm finding at the moment is filtering the women I want, which is rather narrow but I've made it clear in my profile what type of girl I want and so far it's worked out ok. Something to chew on. If you were to ask women to rate themselves, they would rate themselves low in most areas including their spiritual maturity and discipline. Those same women we (me and you) would probably rate very high in the same areas. I mention this because depending on what you list at your "wants", you may… | /r/RPChristians | 19/04/20 11:11 AM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)Been having sex between 1-2 times a day since the Q started. That'll pass the time. Wife sounds like a keeper! | /r/RPChristians | 19/04/20 11:04 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)Awesome you took the time to post to OYS. That's a massive first step. Now, what reading have you done on the sidebar? Here's a quote, "You'll be the same person in five years you are today except for two things: the books you read and the people you meet." Lucky you found RP but deep-dive into the readings. Start with the RPC Handbook 100-400 series. If you've read it, next week post some of the concepts you found most interesting. See you next week! | /r/RPChristians | 19/04/20 11:01 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)At the beginning of the week I PMOed once. During the middle of the week I masturbated w/o porn. And since then I have been getting better at resisting temptation and doing something else. I am getting stronger with regard to NoFap the more engaged with God, scripture and work I become, i.e. replacing it with better things. Good job here. We all fail in this area occasionally and it's a life-long struggle that won't change once you get married. Very wise of you to deal with this early on in your… | /r/RPChristians | 19/04/20 10:55 AM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)Wow, you are doing great during quarantine and using your time wisely. Keep up the good work. You might have heard this before but discipline is a habit. Being disciplined takes consistent effort and over time your mind learns this as its new normal. As a computer programmer, I see our brains as little computers. Discipline is a small program being run over and over each day until our brain adds it to the operating system and it becomes the way you live your life. | /r/RPChristians | 19/04/20 10:49 AM |
| 3 | About to file for divorceSince part of my Mission is helping other men discover their Mission, let's get started. - - - - Your individual Mission is designed only for you. How that Mission is played out is unique to you. You have a special set of skills and talents that God gave you specifically for your Mission - not to be successful in business or to be a good dad or to be the cool, alpha guy at the party - specifically for your Mission. Once defined, start thinking of ways you can use those talents and passions. Esse… | /r/askMRP | 18/04/20 06:08 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)OYS #32 39 yrs old, 6'2" 185lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 11 years 12 years, 4 kids (8, 6, 5, 18 months). Fitness Workouts 4x a week with my wife. Pickleball is my newest sport and I'm darn good at it. Playing 3x a week. Tennis now only 1x a week but soon to be more often since my wife (and tennis partner) is tired of losing and would rather play pickleball so I can play other men at my skill level. Hiking with the family. Riding bikes with family. Kayaking with family. We rarely s… | /r/RPChristians | 17/04/20 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Why Men Hate Going To ChurchRead the book, the author posts tons of research proving your theory wrong. | /r/RPChristians | 17/04/20 06:31 PM |
| 17 | About to file for divorceLet me give you the only advice you need. Go ahead and disregard all the nonsense you've received so far. Most of these guys dishing out advice are either divorced, about to be divorced, or have terrible marriages and are angry and spinning plates because they took their own bad advice. Take a few minutes and read through this week's OYS and you'll see just how much good "internalization" of the sidebar did for these fellas. After 61 comments, not one of these RP Life Guru's seemed to mention yo… | /r/askMRP | 17/04/20 11:23 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)My whole life I’ve believed much of what you see on the mgtow sub for many of the same reasons. Every time a girl crossed my path I wondered just how she was trying to screw me over. I wasn’t going to call any woman queen over me and looked down on men saying they were the lucky ones in a relationship. Red Pill single men are notorious for projecting their thoughts onto women. Do women cheat, do women screw men over, are married men miserable? Sometimes. Are women faithful, loyal, and wonderful … | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/20 06:37 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)I suggested our family reading the Bible together after dinner and Jeopardy, but my son isn’t super into the idea. Not surprising. Drunk Captain suddenly decides he wants to run the ship, the sailors ain't happy. They like things the way they are. Don't give up, maybe he needs to pick which chapter to read the first few days. Or otherwise give him some skin in the game. Else it becomes another thing dad wants to do that's not his idea. whenever I mention something church or religion related, he … | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/20 06:25 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)I know online dating is weak sauce but I did end up making a Hinge profile. I've gotten a small but steady flow of likes on it but mostly from not very attractive women. I'm not in that 10-20% upper echelon of men yet, but hopefully in a month or two I should be much leaner and start to get more quality likes. Change your mindset. You aren't on Hinge to get likes or attention from women. You are on Hinge to select women. They aren't picking you, you are picking them. Imagine hiring a temp worker… | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/20 06:16 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)Set alarms on my phone to remember to pray with my wife. HUGE. Good progress! My wife actually made a list called "Derogatory remarks from redirectedfs this week" and is now putting dates and tally marks every time I say something mean. Alpha doesn't equal jerk. Alpha means confidence, frame, productivity. And funny. Think about being the guy who everyone LOVES to hang out with. You walk in a room and everyone goes, "Reeeeeed! My man! SOOO glad to see you!" You get the party started. You get the… | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/20 06:10 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)My mission is to become a physically fit, spiritually sound, God-fearing man who by his conduct, character, and history displays the truth of salvation to everyone he encounters. By sharing my skills, knowledge, and my history with others, I can be a light that points the way to Jesus Christ. u/rocknrollchuck mentioned a study he's teaching called Way Of The Master. It addresses an evangelistic strategy called "Lifestyle Evangelism" which is using your righteous lifestyle to point people to Chri… | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/20 06:04 PM |
| 4 | A girl's quarantine convictions and discovering Red Pill - My first ever Reddit postI've never been a big social media, attention drawing person. Heck, I just recently got an IG account less than a year ago and have like 100 followers... but Ive found myself jealously looking at other girls on social media these past weeks and wanting to post something for attention. This is the girl's version of porn. Men struggle with looking at naked women, women struggle with validation and attention. And just like men, if women don't repent it will become a habit that deeply affects their … | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/20 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Listen up you pricks, we have work to do.I saw a huge increase in OYS posts last week. That's progress. | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Why Men Hate Going To ChurchThe official position of the Catholic Church disagrees with you and it's clearly explained in the video American Gospel. The official position of the Roman Catholic Church is faith+works, grace+merit, Christ+other mediators, Scripture+tradition. But wait, because many local catholic churches do not preach this false gospel of faith+. However, I rarely meet a catholic who believes faith+grace+Christ = salvation. They always tack on a few "extras". My immediate family members (aunts, uncles, cousi… | /r/RPChristians | 15/04/20 01:05 PM |
| 8 | Why Men Hate Going To ChurchAlready have 4 kids causing mayhem. Thats enough for me! | /r/RPChristians | 14/04/20 04:43 PM |
| 10 | Why Men Hate Going To ChurchWife and I are looking for a new church after quarantine. Im not going to shop for a church and look for one to make me feel comfortable. Our requirements are to find a church doctrinally sound and heavy on evangelism with plenty of male participation. Most churches I've joined in the past were full of wonderful people, just not in line with my mission. | /r/RPChristians | 14/04/20 04:42 PM |
| 11 | Why Men Hate Going To ChurchNot catholic because I don't believe in works based salvation or many other teachings of the catholic church. Reformed theology - saved by grace alone through faith alone in Christ alone. | /r/RPChristians | 14/04/20 04:37 PM |
| 6 | Why Men Hate Going To ChurchNot someone I follow. Not a fan of his doctrine or lifestyle. | /r/RPChristians | 14/04/20 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Should I tell my girlfriend? (porn slip)What you really need is ongoing accountability which is why we do OYS in RPC. Make sure you post each Wednesday and relate what you are struggling with. The guys here will help! | /r/RPChristians | 14/04/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)My problem isn't phone-time, my challenge is sports. I can play sports everyday all day and need accountability in this area. And how are you keeping yourself accountable? What metrics are you using? I used to plan sports games every day or two. That equates to 4+ times each week, often for several hours each time. Add in gym time and it becomes obsessive. I dont have any metrics now other than make my family the highest priority and only play sports when it's planned ahead of time without disru… | /r/RPChristians | 14/04/20 02:04 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)Now for the semi-lukewarm-interesting part. The thoughts of my ex this week have diminished twofold from last week. No dreams, just the occasional passing thought that now I only see as just that - a passing thought. My brain is slowly being cleansed of her, with God's strength helping me to move forward. Get back in the game quick. "Nothing gets you over the last one like the next one." Girls are in quarantine too and it hurts them more than it hurts us. Most guys can go weeks without texting, … | /r/RPChristians | 14/04/20 02:02 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)Stats: 27m, 6", (don't have a working scale at the moment but I would guess a bit over 190 lb) Single, US Bodyfat? 1RM lifts? I realized that even as a "Christian" my whole life, I've never really had a very intimate relationship with Christ. Since then, I have been asking God to reveal himself to me in a relational/personal way. Usually solved with passionately pursuing a strong mission. Guys that are obsessed with their mission to disciple people and plan their lives around this goal rarely fe… | /r/RPChristians | 14/04/20 01:51 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)Like all our girls, she is madly in love with my man, and even managed to lick the top of his head the other day while he was opening the gate! Abundance at work. I can feel your tingles all the way across the internet! | /r/RPChristians | 14/04/20 01:47 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)I'm focusing on STFU as once in a while I slip out an "I'm sorry" when making a minor mistake around my fiance. For example, I spill some water on the couch - "sorry about that", slam a door by accident - "sorry", sit on her hair by accident - "sorry, I didn't mean to do that". Remember the same phrase can be said by alphas and betas but get totally different responses. For instance, two men tell their wives, "Babe can you clean the dishes and do a few loads of laundry while I'm at work?" One gu… | /r/RPChristians | 14/04/20 01:45 PM |
| -4 | A Primer to Visual Arousal PatternsIf it's taken you 25 years and a subreddit to learn how to be attractive, buddy you have very little chance of getting and keeping a high-SMV woman. That's ok, chubby girls need love too. Some of them make awesome wives! These are skills learned in highschool and college. By the time you graduate university, you should have a high-paying job lined up, a solid wardrobe, a professional haircut, and less than 15% bodyfat. If you are late to the party then expect to be a backup to the real players. … | /r/RPChristians | 14/04/20 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Bible Study with Wife?Yes, the chapters coincide. Do 1 small chapter each week separately then come together to discuss. Warning, if you are honest in your answers it will be brutal. | /r/askRPC | 13/04/20 04:48 PM |
| 0 | 18 M no Father Girl ProblemsI’m about 6’2 165 exercise regularly So you have the body of a Jr Highschool Wide Receiver? There's a few terms for that: Beanpole Emaciated Skinny Bony Birdchest Scawny Worry less about the girl coming over and more about eating some calories and hitting the weights. Also post to OYS every week. How's your Bible reading? How's your prayer life and evangelism? What is your current lifting program? The point being, it's difficult for us to give advice to guys in one-off situations unless we have … | /r/RPChristians | 13/04/20 04:47 PM |
| 8 | Godliness isn't sexyThe pattern I see both in Christian men and women is their tendency to be just like the world. They make excuses for being overweight, they lack proper leader/helpmate roles, they dismiss attention to physical appearance and they twist scripture to reinforce their fleshly desires (ie divorce, emotional affairs, bad diet, lack of accountability, addiction to phone use and other idols). We expect this of the world, but we should expect just the opposite of Jesus Followers. The greatest single caus… | /r/RPChristians | 13/04/20 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Bible Study with Wife?I'm an enthusiastic supporter of the 5 Aspects of Man/Woman study because it's Biblically solid and reinforces RP principles. It was written decades ago and still used widely in churches. Our church does a 12-month in-depth study using this material and the class fills up every year with a huge waiting list. | /r/askRPC | 13/04/20 04:26 PM |
| 1 | 4,000 Subscribers and 11 men posting in OYS?Same here. I used to post to MRP but all of the advice was terrible. Had I followed their advice I would most definitely be divorced. I believe the Mods in MRP are charlatans. They are verbal bullies with no action to back it up. Conversely, in RPC we see admission of shortcomings and a plan of action to address these issues. | /r/RPChristians | 13/04/20 04:24 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)I was called out last week and felt convicted. This week I've prayed with my wife every day and read the bible most days. I now have it setup so that every morning my wife and I get emailed the daily bible verses. We have been reading them together when we drink our coffee. Great job taking action! Don't let this slip. Keep the momentum going! | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/20 02:07 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)You are doing a great job! First step was to identify your weaknesses and write them down along with action steps. You did that so congrats. Instead of addressing each different point like u/rocknrollchuck I'll just give a few broad tips. This week you need to work on establishing frame. Women lose respect for a man without frame and they become frustrated. Frame is addressed in the 100 and 200 series of the sidebar material. Be a leader, take initiative, be confident, have a plan! Christian wom… | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/20 02:04 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)As a base, we are beginning to change, and some things have broken to where we are setting goals to bring more groups here to host and to equip in prophetic, rest, and presence of God. Over the past week, we have discussed this almost every morning, and I've found it something I can be extremely excited about. I'm continuing to pray into the base, and I'm happy to report that I'm happy here and excited to see what God does next with us. What is a base? When you say we, who are you referring to? … | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/20 01:46 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)That’s when I crossed a line and grabbed her while saying I’m going to be a leach to suck that virus out. Without going into explicit detail I’ll say what I did while grabbing her butt wasn’t proper. She got a real kick out of it though and it’s been like nothing happened. I’m actually shocked it didn’t get her mad with me and glad that everything is still fine between us. Umm, she knows EXACTLY what she's doing. Stay away from her as much as you can. Pray for her and yourself. This is a crystal… | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/20 01:43 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)I read somewhere this week about how men shouldn't be ruled by sex. Men should rule thier lives and decided when to have sex. And I want to be a man in control of himself. As a result, I've been putting even more time into quiet time and meditation to counter my urges. They're still there, but I have more control as I become more aware of it. I'd exercise more, but I'm basically drained. I lean on God for this. The more exciting activities you can schedule the less time you will have for porn an… | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/20 01:34 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)You have some good stuff going on here. Lifting is great, bodyfat great. Prayer time and bible study is great. Keep posting in OYS and get a bit deeper next week in some details. How much reading of the Bible? Do you pray with your GF? Have you read the sidebar material? What is your mission? See you next week! | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/20 01:32 PM |
| 14 | What is an acceptable N count in a woman for you?Interesting question! I have a better question, why haven't you posted in OYS this week? | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/20 01:20 PM |
| 11 | What worked for you to get rid of the pleasure from porn, masturbating & viewing women sexually?Similar question to the one you asked a couple weeks ago. Same answer from u/rocknrollchuck applies here: First you live a life that honors God as a true born again Christian, as well as getting the rest of your life together by lifting, being financially responsible, reading the Bible, Praying, making disciples and joining a local church. Go post to OYS so we can offer guidance. | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/20 01:17 PM |
| 4 | 4,000 Subscribers and 11 men posting in OYS?I would be willing to bet you already know what you need to change, but you are afraid of being told to do it and being held accountable. Will you accept the pain of discipline or live with the pain of regret? Too busy posting in the "Gay Older Men and Younger Men Together" sub. First step is to repent of this lifestyle. | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/20 01:09 PM |
| 5 | 4,000 Subscribers and 11 men posting in OYS?Perfect example of a man who is his own worst enemy. Posts to "Gay Older Men and Younger Men Together" subreddit. Doesn't lift. Hasn't read the sidebar. Doesn't post in OYS. Loves to talk about theology. Men, don't be like this guy. | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/20 01:07 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)OYS #31 39 yrs old, 6'2" 185lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 11 years, 4 kids. Lifting Workouts 4x a week. Kayaking trips, hiking, tennis and other sports every day. Calories still at 3,000+ and still dropping weight! Social More engaged with RPC Marriage Last week wife was struggling with kids and spent most of her week glued to her phone. We talked about both issues and she claims, like always, that she also was thinking this needed addressing. Weird how often she "knows" she needs … | /r/RPChristians | 09/04/20 07:56 PM |
| 5 | 4,000 Subscribers and 11 men posting in OYS?Passive = Weak. Read the sidebar and post to OYS. | /r/RPChristians | 09/04/20 06:58 PM |
| 3 | When do you know that they’re the one?For several months I serial dated several women at the same time I dated her. My wife was the only one out of all of those women who made me want to be exclusive. 3 years of monogamous dating, there was no desire to date anyone else. That's when I knew. And now after 12 years of marriage, I still enjoy being around my wife more than other women. It was a good choice. | /r/RPChristians | 09/04/20 06:54 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)I believe God is drawing me to this other girl. Funny, I feel like God wants me to eat more chocolate ice cream. Be careful you take ownership of what you want instead of hearing it from God. I want to go workout, I don't hear God drawing me to workout. And that's ok. If you just like her better then GAME ON. Last night I planned on playing games late but canceled on him to spend time in prayer. I vape but am trying to switch to nicotine pouches then lowering the nic and then quitting, but that'… | /r/RPChristians | 09/04/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)Wife still laying around expecting you to do the housework? Seen any improvement? | /r/RPChristians | 09/04/20 03:16 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)The only challenge is getting material to make some of our products, as the supply chain has taken a serious hit in all areas around the country. We’ll continue to produce as long as we can. Same situation for my manufacturing business. Lots of order, not enough raw materials. | /r/RPChristians | 09/04/20 03:14 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)Good week or bad week, you are doing the work. Identifying where you need improvement and taking steps puts you in the correct place for success. Don't get frustrated, keep the faith. Most of your struggles are common and they will be overcome with prayer, study and repentance. As far as the lifting, I was 6'2" and 165lbs of skin and bones most of my life. I started lifting and 10 years later I put on a few pounds of muscle! For us hard-gainers, it's food, lift, repeat. Look into "hypertrophy" p… | /r/RPChristians | 09/04/20 03:13 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)I’m single and have been only on 2 dates in my life. In the past I used to struggle because of it but now I don’t feel like I need gf that much, maybe it will change. If you want to be married and have a family, you need to start playing the field aggressively. Nothing is less attractive to a female than a man with few options. You might not be the best looking guy in the room but you can play in your field. Here's some dating tips. Keep doing OYS. See you next week! | /r/RPChristians | 09/04/20 03:08 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)We’ve been doing church at home on Sundays. Our church is posting services online. The kids have been really into it and that’s been surprisingly fun. One of the assistant pastors from our church keeps reaching out and I need to get back to him. Fellowship is an area where I need to improve. I’m reading the Bible several days each week, usually 2-3 chapters at a time. Most of the comments I make on men's OYS is to encourage them to start with the basics: Reading the Bible, praying with their wiv… | /r/RPChristians | 09/04/20 03:04 PM |
| 9 | unattractive yet godly girlWhat do you call an unattractive, fun girl you love hanging out with? . . A friend. | /r/RPChristians | 09/04/20 02:53 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20) it didn’t take long for me to start weeping as we hugged & I lashed out & expressed frustration that we can’t even converse for 2 minutes without her permanently provoking. Failed fitness test here. No biggie. Reset. Next time do not talk about your emotions with her. Make a joke instead. Have a handful of funny quips ready for when she starts to attack you. Agree and amplify if you can remember. She smirked, caught herself & then lectured me “you know how I hate comments like that; I feel s… | /r/RPChristians | 08/04/20 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Give number out or get hers (or both)?Quarantine changes the game. But this too shall pass. And when it does, women will be anxious and ready for activities. It'll be like getting out of jail after years - they'll be hungry. | /r/askRPC | 07/04/20 06:39 PM |
| 3 | I need some coaching.This is exactly what I was going to suggest. Spot on advice! Also great advice for 4,000 guys lurking on this sub. | /r/RPChristians | 07/04/20 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Does Marriage Lower your SMVI've told my wife that I prefer to be gone from the house when she's out of commission... that way I dont have to lust after her knowing it's forbidden. | /r/askRPC | 07/04/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Have you swallowed the Red Chewable Tablet?Very true and for the ones that work, it's a double load. In that case I would suggest the man do SIGNIFICANTLY more to help around the house. That changes the entire dynamic. | /r/RPChristians | 07/04/20 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Give number out or get hers (or both)?A majority of women offer their numbers or blatantly ask for mine. Many times it's within a few minutes of first meeting because we had discussed doing something and meeting up. The exchange is very natural. I say, "Let's play tennis this week," and they respond, "Sure!" as they grab their phone and wait for me to pull out mine. The last couple times I invited women to workout they said, "Text me the workout first so I can mentally prepare." In all of these occasions there was one common denomin… | /r/askRPC | 07/04/20 06:11 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/01/20)Following the secular advice in MRP often produces worse results in my experience. In the mean time as you focus on this path are you being the spiritual leader of the family: Reading and studying the Bible WITH YOUR WIFE? Praying WITH YOUR WIFE? Praying FOR YOUR MARRIAGE? If not then how can you expect her to respect you? The FIRST and MOST IMPORTANT role of a husband who loves and follows Jesus is to lead his wife spiritually. If she won't follow your leadership in spiritual issues, how can yo… | /r/RPChristians | 05/04/20 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Does Marriage Lower your SMVPolygamy was spoken against by Paul in the new testament. Man of one woman. Two become one flesh. I don't see the relevancy of bringing up old testament examples in this context unless you want to send woemn outside the camp for 7 days when they are "unclean" each month. | /r/askRPC | 05/04/20 06:43 PM |
| 0 | Have you swallowed the Red Chewable Tablet?After work (even more during quarantine) I come home and "pitch in," often doing many of the chores out of desire to be a good husband. My wife doesn't run my business, do taxes, handle insurance, car maintenance, home repair, pay my workers, pick up and distribute weekly pallets of supplies, manage supply chain, deal with IRS or any of the other thousands of tasks that are my responsibility each week while she's at home with the kids gasp. She doesn't feel the burden of performance. She just co… | /r/RPChristians | 05/04/20 06:40 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/01/20)Gently reminded her a few nights ago that this is an opportunity to spend time with our children and we need to remain focused on our family instead of externally focused on other people's lives. She agreed and limiting phone time. Also admitted she naturally struggles with phone time because inherently she's interested in what everyone else is doing at the expense of ignoring her own children. Good conversation, she was very open to making adjustments. | /r/RPChristians | 05/04/20 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Does Marriage Lower your SMVGeneration of boys who have never been successful at much so why should marriage be any different? I'm raising my sons excited for marriage. | /r/askRPC | 05/04/20 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts?Start posting in OYS for more background and measure progress over time. Your situation isn't a one-time question and answer deal. | /r/RPChristians | 03/04/20 11:44 AM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/01/20)I was just going over Mark and I picked up on many things to ponder such as: I'd like to see you add notes on your reading every week in OYS. Keeps you accountable and you can go back every couple months and review briefly like an online Bible Journal. | /r/RPChristians | 03/04/20 11:42 AM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/01/20)Spiritual: Still listening to the sermons on Sundays. The Sunday school class is going to do a Zoom thing this Sunday, so we might participate. Bible Study? Prayer? | /r/RPChristians | 03/04/20 11:40 AM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/01/20)I've also implemented more STFU, being tired has made it easy. Every day I get "Your a jerk" or "why are you so mean all the time" for simple things. I've been playfully mean with push pull. Anytime she's gotten in a mood I've just walked away. There was also a few times where I asked her to "please leave me alone". I did this out of anger, I'm not sure if this is the correct course. Sometimes guys mistakenly translate being a leader as being self-absorbed or being a jerk. You are commanded to l… | /r/RPChristians | 03/04/20 11:20 AM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/01/20)Thanks brother! I see a set of weights and a rack in my future. | /r/RPChristians | 03/04/20 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Recently divorced, end of my ropePractically you need to workout, diet, read the sidebar relentlessly, and have lots of discipline. This will increase your confidence and make you a better man. She left me because I was boring and didn't give her tingles, despite a stable career and decent money flowing. That's what you told yourself. Reasons don't matter. What matters now is how you improve mentally and physically so the second half of your life is better than the first half. | /r/askMRP | 03/04/20 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Have you swallowed the Red Chewable Tablet?Great post! Practically this looks like not being ruffled and maintaining frame, doing what I want with the kids without feeling pressure to perform, pitching in around the house when it makes sense and letting my wife vent her frustrations without interrupting. Did I miss any more practical steps? What other strategies can I start implementing this week? | /r/RPChristians | 03/04/20 09:50 AM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/01/20)Great stuff! This is exactly what I needed to hear. One more question: Last couple weeks of quarantine wife has been glued to her phone. She receives 200 text messages a day and sends around 50 a day. I get the alert when we exceed a certain daily amount. I've asked her several times to limit her phone time and she always apologizes but 48 hours later phone is glued to her hand. It's kinda like when wife asks husband to workout, he will but he doesn't really want to and only does it for her. Not… | /r/RPChristians | 03/04/20 09:41 AM |
| 1 | When do the lines begin to blur in Christianity?American Gospel documentary addresses this topic and does it extremely well. | /r/askRPC | 02/04/20 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Married Man's Guide To DatingWho is this "we" you keep referring to? You speak for all mankind? | /r/RPChristians | 02/04/20 01:16 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/01/20)OYS #30 39 yrs old, 6'2" 183lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 11 years, 4 kids. Lifting 4x a week track workouts with my wife and kids. Still 100 pushups and 100 situps each day. Losing weight fast due to my body being naturally skinny. Calories still at 3,000-3,500 per day, but without weights I'm going to look like a high school wide receiver. Social Online and via text and phone call. Occasional chats with strangers 6ft away on the track or playing tennis. Marriage Work has picked u… | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 04:20 PM |
| 4 | Self Defense and killingMilitary has addressed this for centuries - there's a difference between killing and murder. Tons of resources explaining the Biblical foundation via Gooogle. | /r/askRPC | 01/04/20 03:46 PM |
| 2 | ESV vs. NKJV??You can have both! And about 35 other translations all for FREE. BibleGateway.com Personally I like the NLT because it has language that makes application to your daily life a little easier. But I know that most mainstream preachers use the ESV version. | /r/askRPC | 01/04/20 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Married Man's Guide To DatingPlay in your ballpark. Guys who are clearly not good looking and have low SMV needlessly whine about lack of girls and how every girl only wants the top 5%. Yes you might have to date a girl with some bodyfat and bad teeth, but remember she also has to date you. You can maximize your potential with good wardrobe and lifting just like she can buy nice clothes and style her hair, but ultimately they are in the same ballpark. I'll also add there's nothing wrong with a normal girl with flaws just li… | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 12:49 PM |
| 3 | Married Man's Guide To DatingWomen want you to be tall, facially, attractive, in shape, and wealthy. Thats it. I am not convinced women care about morality at all, in fact as a rule I think they dislike it because it imposes a standard of behavior, and women are programmed to simultaneously desire and rebel against standards. Personality is only important if you are socially retarded, feminine, or a whimp. Anywhere in the middle of a masculine personality distribution is fine. In fact being an evil sociopath is not necessar… | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 12:34 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/25/20)Definitely dont throw scripture at her! It was mentioned for your sake to illustrate it is a sin to withhold sex. But you can only focus on you and your response. Keep leading and praying! | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 12:13 PM |
| 3 | Married Man's Guide To DatingIf experience has taught me anything, it's that HB9 "Christian" girls throw their promise rings at the wall as soon as Chad "DadDoesNotApprove" McAtheist struts in. Because they know, "I can always repent and ask forgiveness." Chad is so tempting because christian girls are surrounded by evanjellyfish boys with bad haircuts and acne. | /r/RPChristians | 31/03/20 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird for me to require a virgin or nobody?Yes but be realistic about available women who fit your criteria. I've lost count how many guys in RPC have said they date only virgins then complain about "lack of women". It might be many years before you meet this mythical unicorn virgin, hot, single, christian girl. | /r/askRPC | 31/03/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Married Man's Guide To DatingI wondered how many guys would remember that song. Good to see guys with a solid country music background. | /r/RPChristians | 31/03/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Married Man's Guide To DatingNot if you live an exciting life outside of your job. My life as an entrepreneur means constant excitement and adventure. I travel, play, sell businesses, and therefore my job has a inherent high-market-value. If your job doesnt give tingles, you have to provide them in other areas. | /r/RPChristians | 31/03/20 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Married Man's Guide To DatingExample of the 5% all the girls are chasing. | /r/RPChristians | 31/03/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Married Man's Guide To DatingI have the same standard as you (for a men), I’m just reminding you that you first have to be the men a woman like that would want It took me 1,000 words to say what you just wrote in 20. | /r/RPChristians | 30/03/20 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Married Man's Guide To DatingA few years younger, early 30's women. Could've dated much younger but wanted someone at a similar stage of life ready for a family. | /r/RPChristians | 30/03/20 11:04 PM |
| 4 | Tried everything, deep in 11 year porn addictionWhat is your mission? Giving up porn doesn't work unless you have something even better to focus your time and attention. Ever notice that porn is most tempting when you are bored or have extra time? Ever notice that for most men while they are extremely busy with something exciting they rarely watch porn? I've seen guys with hardcore porn addiction go 21 days cold-turkey in the woods on a hiking/rafting and hunting trip in Montana. First day back home they PMO. Had they stayed in Montana, they … | /r/askRPC | 30/03/20 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Moving from compliance to enthusiastic complianceHad similar issues a couple years ago. I wrote a post about my mission and how it made the quality of my sex life skyrocket. In my opinion, there's nothing more low-value than being without a mission and there's nothing more high-value than having a solid mission. | /r/askMRP | 30/03/20 05:47 PM |
| 2 | I'd like to talk [Revised Post]Correct response. Newbie guys typically get butt hurt and post defensive response. You passed the test. Post in OYS and I'll keep up with your weekly progress! | /r/RPChristians | 30/03/20 05:43 PM |
| 2 | I'd like to talk [Revised Post]Victim puke post. Gentlemen, this is a great example of a question that has been repeatedly answered in the sidebar and in multiple previous posts. For all the single guys in RPC, please stop posting about your girlfriend's infidelity and asking for advice. The advice is in the sidebar reading and has been answered monthly on this sub. Let's move on. Do your research before posting! | /r/RPChristians | 29/03/20 11:17 AM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/25/20)I started praying out loud for and with my wife every morning. I read the Bible to my kids every night this week. u/rocknrollchuck had great insight last week and advised me to not do the evening reading in my bedroom. I moved the reading to the family room and up in the schedule before the bedtime routine. I’m more awake and I could tell the family was more attentive. It’s becoming a habit now for the family. Next is to add in prayer. What a great example to the other men in the RPC group! But … | /r/RPChristians | 26/03/20 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird for me to require a virgin or nobody?Isn't it funny how many guys have a list of traits they require in a future wife, but don't have a list of requirements for themselves? Here's a list that has worked for centuries in millions of marriages: List Of Requirements For Future Wife Repented of sin, has faith in Jesus Reads Bible & Prays Spiritual Fruit List Of Requirements For Future Husband Repented of sin, has faith in Jesus Reads Bible & Prays Spiritual Fruit Notice what ISN'T listed: Good looking, rich, hot, no sexual past, plays … | /r/askRPC | 24/03/20 01:24 PM |
| 28 | Christian girls and hypergamyBased on your post history, you're having sex with your girlfriend before marriage. That will not help your future wife be faithful nor will it help your marriage. Before you can lead your girlfriend, you need to lead yourself. Let's address your lack of self control before we approach the topic of woman's hypergamy. | /r/RPChristians | 24/03/20 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Male/female dynamics in churchu/cooldave777 Please edit and post your stats so we have a little history. Age, weight, height, lifts, reading, etc. This is a newbie question that has been answered generally in the Sidebar ==>> We can get specific only once we know where you are at in your progress. | /r/RPChristians | 24/03/20 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Took my medicine.Wall of text, please edit and add some formatting please! Also, welcome to RPC. I'll be looking forward to your weekly OYS posts. | /r/RPChristians | 23/03/20 06:47 PM |
| 2 | I thought I could get over itThis is a GREAT post for the weekly OYS. Not such a great post for the main sub.. | /r/RPChristians | 23/03/20 06:46 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/18/20)Initiated twice and had pretty good sex once - for me. She was again butt hurt because this time she couldn’t finish. Upset at herself or you? Got a no the second initiation. So only 2 initiations in a week? What the average initiations and successes? | /r/RPChristians | 21/03/20 02:39 PM |
| -1 | [FR] My Affair, Her Husband, and Getting CaughtYou just spent 100 words avoiding responsibility by changing the subject. You think one thing about God, I think something different. But regardless of God or morality, you are still missing the point that men come here for advice on improving their lives using RP principles. You pick which times you want to give advice. Mostly your guidance is bashing or belittling the guys who are new and intimidated. I haven't seen you call out foolishness from the men who should be further along in their pro… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/03/20 01:03 PM |
| 3 | [FR] My Affair, Her Husband, and Getting CaughtIt is your position to tell him his errors, you are a moderator for the RP group. Take some ownership. Give the man some advice. Otherwise what's the point of even having mods and leaders? You can see guys going down paths and help because you have the influence. They respect you and listen. I know you do it in OYS. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/03/20 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill Women Wednesday - Episode 3: Respecting The CaptainI cant watch people talking aimlessly for over an hour on youtube. Write down what you want to say, edit it, refine it, make it succinct, then read it. Just stream of consciousness chatting is boring. Background noise. Next episode make it under 15 minutes, articulate a clear point, keep your listeners interest and clean up the audio quality. I'm not alone in these thoughts because look at the decline in viewership. Articulate - expressing oneself meaningfully, clearly, and effectively. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/03/20 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Why is mission so important? Because ...a man CAN have other missions, but if they don't involve making disciples, they're unbiblical. Give me a couple examples please.Isnt any mission that makes disciples THE mission to make disciples, as per my 2 examples above? We all make disciples in different ways, but we all make disciples, AKA we all have the same mission but we do it in different ways. | /r/RPChristians | 19/03/20 02:14 PM |
| 9 | [FR] My Affair, Her Husband, and Getting CaughtI don't know that she was going to have an affair just like OP doesn't know she's banging him because he lifts and has a beard like he mentioned in the post. He's projecting his thoughts. Maybe she sleeps with him to get back at her husband. Maybe she's bored. Or maybe she's banging 3 other dudes out of loneliness and the realization she hit the wall. She might just be horny. The most valuable lesson in RP is about becoming a better man with a mission, taking ownership, leading your family and o… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/03/20 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Thank God I found you guys.I don't like the govt rules to drive 55 mph and wear a seatbelt, but I dont rebel against authority because I want to be "above reproach." As a lifelong weed smoker, I hate that we cannot use medicinal cannabis because it is illegal, but I also swallowed my selfish pride and finally stopped smoking because my kids wanted to know if it was ok for them to partake. I told them no btw. Lastly, each man is accountable for his own sins so I'll let the Holy Spirit do the convicting, but I will throw ou… | /r/RPChristians | 18/03/20 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Why is mission so important? Because ...Gold! | /r/RPChristians | 18/03/20 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Why is mission so important? Because ...We all have the same mission. Every guy on this sub. I've said it 100 times that WE ALL HAVE THE SAME MISSION. But how we each do that mission is the nuance of your mission. For instance, u/Red-Curious and I are both making disciples of Jesus, preaching the Gospel of Jesus Christ to all people in all nations. But he does it (lets just say) through traveling to foreign countries and building hospitals and then having conversations with locals about sin, Jesus, and Redemptive Grace, while I invite… | /r/RPChristians | 18/03/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/18/20)OYS #29 39 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 11 years, 4 kids. Lifting Quarantine has me down 2% bodyfat and also dropped 5 lbs. Still doing 100 pushups, 100 situps, 100 squats/lunges each day. Wife is now on board and we do it together. Kids are jumping in with sets of 10 pushups and situps. Elbow finally healing. Wife went and bought some dumbells for us so we can workout at home. Looks like quarantine for USA might go till July so hunker down! Social None. Totally q… | /r/RPChristians | 18/03/20 03:53 PM |
| 22 | [FR] My Affair, Her Husband, and Getting CaughtLucca was going to have an affair regardless. Mr. Red Pill DGAF came along and thinks his big, bad, alpha attitude won her over. The reality is that she would have banged the Personal Trainer, little league baseball coach, new guy at work, or all 3 (and probably still is). I occasionally run into women like Lucca and they are full-court-press from day 1. Of course when I mention my wife in casual conversation, they quickly pick up the message and move on to the next guy. Shooters gonna shoot. Bu… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/03/20 03:27 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/11/20)OYS #28 39 yrs old, 6'2" 195lbs, 10% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 11 years, 4 kids. Lifting Did 1 CrossFit workout with the group this week and it involved my Achilles heel - lots of running. Somehow I came in first and beat all the cardio queens and hard-core runners. That tells me that even though you would never call me good at cardio, I can still hold my own in CrossFit workouts because I have no weaknesses. Every single other person in our group has 1 or 2 movements which were a stru… | /r/RPChristians | 14/03/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/04/20)I'm loving the Way Of The Master videos. And the book is fantastic as well. | /r/RPChristians | 11/03/20 01:47 PM |
| 1 | IntroSounds like you are searching for a deeper relationship with God! Keep reading everyday but add some Bible reading with your family. And also you HAVE to lead your wife in prayer and Bible study. Of course you could try and stall and wait till you feel more confident, but that's like saying,"I'll go to the gym to get in shape once I'm in better shape." Today, tell your wife, "Lets read 1 Timothy Chapters 1-3, make a few notes, and then talk about it for 10 minutes next week." I bet she'll be sup… | /r/RPChristians | 10/03/20 12:29 PM |
| 2 | IntroFirst, thanks for the intro as it takes balls to lay out your situation to a bunch of men. 2nd, there's some more info that needs to be gathered here - How often do your read the Bible? How often do you pray? And then let's get to the heart of your marriage: How often do you read/study the Bible with your wife? How often do you pray with your wife? Essentially what I'm asking you is to pull back the fig leaf, are you the spiritual leader of your family? Does your wife see you as her spiritual au… | /r/RPChristians | 09/03/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/04/20)Its not the amount of help you offer or assistance, its the principle of God-given roles in a marriage. Yes you should be willing to help, but its her expectation that is sinful. Her domain is the household, she is responsible for maintaining an inviting and organized home. That doesnt change with pregnancy or with multiple children or with a job or any other silly reason like her period. If she was truly sick and was incapable of fulfilling her duties, that's different. But it doesnt sound like… | /r/RPChristians | 09/03/20 01:27 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/04/20)The Bible reading plan is still broadly tracking to plan, although my wife is about a week behind. I tried to encourage her by saying “never mind, why not cut your losses with Acts and start Numbers together with me? Amazing, great job here! What an example you are setting by having the courage to read scripture with your wife. If you aren't already doing this, I would encourage you to pray with your wife at night before going to sleep. It puts you in a position of authority and it makes any ani… | /r/RPChristians | 08/03/20 01:35 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/04/20)Salvation is a two way street not a moment in time because people change all the time. Yes only Jesus can pay for your sin, but a person still has to accept it and then put the effort in to battle their own flesh. There's nothing that says a new creation in Christ can't revert and go back into the ways of sin. Maybe I say this because I've yet to experience "real salvation". Or because I actually did manage to commit blasphemy against the Holy Spirit as I fear most. But it's my honest very raw v… | /r/RPChristians | 08/03/20 01:20 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/04/20)In the meantime, she has been very tired and nautious after work. She used to do the cooking, but now she is unable. She just lies on the couch in a very somber state, getting easily annoyed if I try to talk to her much. I've learned that this is a function of how well fed she is. Having been through 4 nightmare pregnancies, I don't envy you. However, my wife, and I'd dare to say most women, use pregnancy as an excuse to be lazy, selfish, and entitled, all the while blaming their hormones. Imagi… | /r/RPChristians | 08/03/20 01:07 PM |
| 3 | I guess my main event is going to be today.You need to take advice from men who lead their families because its obvious you don't do that and your wife knows it. | /r/askMRP | 07/03/20 12:14 PM |
| 4 | I guess my main event is going to be today.The amount of F-bombs she dropped on you tells me she thinks you are a child and has zero respect for your leadership. Maybe get another wife and this time earn some respect? | /r/askMRP | 06/03/20 08:14 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/04/20)OYS #27 39 yrs old, 6'2" 195lbs, 10% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 11 years, 4 kids. Lifting Elbow tendonitis still killing me even after 2 weeks rest. Muscles around the joint are inflamed and I'm trying all sorts of creams and massages to help with healing. Not looking good right now for a full recovery and expectations are maybe 4-6 months! Meanwhile I'm working around it. Had spinal compression last week due to a workout with 96 box jumps but this week feeling much improved. I committe… | /r/RPChristians | 06/03/20 03:33 PM |
| 6 | Really struggling with turning down non-christian women. Not sure how best to turn them down. Just need some encouragement.Terrible idea to date a non Christian with the intention to save her. Missional dating is foolish and I think you already know its a bad idea based on your post. My #1 criteria for dating was she MUST be a Christian and I dated loads of girls, many times several consecutively. Its not wise and the number of guys who tried the missional dating approach and paid the price is countless. Sure if you look hard enough there's a few guys who met a non Christian and it all worked out, but the exception … | /r/RPChristians | 25/02/20 09:50 PM |
| 7 | The Differing Missions of Men and Women5 Aspects of Woman Bible Study has an entire chapter on "Woman Is The Glory Of Man" as "Man is the Glory Of God" that touches on this very subject. Man pursues God while woman pursues man (her husband) who is glorifying God. The 5 Aspects of Woman study is 12 months long and taught at our church and unanimously is a favorite of women, some who take it several times, and it fills up immediately with a waiting list. Some of the other men who's wives are alumni of this study tell me it completely c… | /r/RPChristians | 24/02/20 04:48 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/19/20)Mission a work in progress, no work on the mission statement since last week. Glorify God in all that I do by building disciples, stewarding the gifts I have been given and setting an example to those around me. How? Give some details. You got the high level stuff now what does it look like on a daily basis? I've been following you on OYS so keep up the good work. I look forward to reading your update each week. | /r/RPChristians | 20/02/20 04:59 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/19/20)I have sore spots remembering traumatic events in my marriage. What are those. You are anonymous and so are we. It might help to air out some of these. What makes me feel better imagining a new woman, day dreaming of more women Bible clearly states that lusting after a woman is adultery in your heart and that you are to be a man of one woman, forsaking all others both in your mind, via text, and in real life. This may be one of the toughest challenges we face as men but don't allow this to slip … | /r/RPChristians | 20/02/20 04:56 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/19/20)My wife was talking to me about her friends husband. Not sure what exactly about but I asked her if she talks to her friends about me. She said never, I asked if if they do why don't you: "If I told my friends about how you are they would think I was being abused." This caught me off guard. I never raise my voice, I've never struck or even gotten close to hitting my wife. I asked why she would be with a man others would find abusive, "because your a good man". I dropped it at that. My wife's fri… | /r/RPChristians | 20/02/20 04:47 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/19/20)Your situation is very common and reminds me of a Fracis Chan sermon he did a couple weeks ago about Commitment - https://youtu.be/0lK1Z4QY_LQ Dont get discouraged! We are supposed to suffer for Christ. I hope his talk helps encourage you! | /r/RPChristians | 20/02/20 04:31 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/19/20)Downloaded the sample for Way Of The Master on kindle. Cant wait to read it! Might buy the study book and put it in the queue for after 5 Aspects Of Man. | /r/RPChristians | 20/02/20 04:29 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/19/20)OYS #26 39 yrs old, 6'2" 195lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 11 years, 4 kids. Lifting Planned a crossfit workout tomorrow with the group but woke up today with a bad head cold and sinus infection. I think I can push through but I dont expect 100% performance unless I wake up feeling better. Praying the workout doesn't increase the cold. Elbow injured from Tendonitis so I ordered a support brace and took this week off from vball and lifting. Still aching pain during the night which hi… | /r/RPChristians | 20/02/20 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 18, 2020OYS #25 39 yrs old, 6'2" 195lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 11 years, 4 kids. Lifting There's a difference between hurt and injured and I am definitely injured. My elbow tendinitis has grown more inflamed and the pain is a level 9 out of 10 even after "taking it easy" a couple weeks ago. Options remaining are cortisone shot or total rest for a few weeks. This past week I played volleyball and I had to leave early from the pain. Gameplan for the next 2 weeks is buy a compression brace… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/02/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/05/20)OYS #24 39 yrs old, 6'2" 195lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 11 years, 4 kids. Lifting Did 3 brutal workouts, dominated in tennis, and played competitive volleyball twice last week. End of week, my lower back was shredded. Friday, I was 2 minutes into a CrossFit workout and it locked up on me. I still managed to finish the workout (and win) but it was a sign that I need to take 5+ days off from lower back. Posterior Chain can take up to 7-10 days to heal if it's been hit hard and even… | /r/RPChristians | 10/02/20 11:36 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/05/20)Preface: My wife is ovulating and really wants to get pregnant. We had a decent session earlier in the week, followed by a terrible session where she was snapping at me Monday night. I was disgusted with myself for finishing, I should've walked away. Last night she asked if we were going to do it again. I had zero desire to be with her due to her behaviour the previous night and rather than own it and tell her exactly how it is, I fell into nice-guy passive-aggressive behaviours that I'm pretty … | /r/RPChristians | 06/02/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/05/20)Previously I’d have been delighted but, this time, I found myself feeling annoyed. MMSLP says if you act negatively toward a wife who initiates, it will stop her from initiating. Even when you dont feel like having sex when she initiates, do your best to enjoy and reinforce that good behavior...Unless you want to initiate 100% of the time until you die. Personally, my wife initiated like 8 years ago and I said something stupid because I was in a bad mood. 6 months ago she brought it up and told … | /r/RPChristians | 06/02/20 10:34 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (01/29/20)Sounds like she's initiating to get you to chase. And you are. I would try pulling back for a bit - "Nah, not tonight babe." and see what happens. Increase your flirting and Kino throughout the day, but then find ways to put sex off for different reasons. If she really wants it, she'll jump your bones anyway. And that's what you really want, isn't it? Having sex everyday is a blessing but it has turned into a routine despite our efforts for variety (toys, locations, times, positions, etc. We are… | /r/RPChristians | 04/02/20 04:59 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (01/29/20)OYS #23 39 yrs old, 6'2" 195lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 11 years, 4 kids. Lifting Seeing my weight increase week to week which is very unusual because I've struggled to put on weight for my entire life. I went through a period of drinking a gallon of milk a day and even that didn't work. Not sure why I'm putting on weight but I like it. I think it has to do with winter, eating more, sleeping more, less movement, etc. Social Not having much progress. Still hanging out with the cre… | /r/RPChristians | 01/02/20 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Umbilical hernia from liftingTried lifting lighter for months and it still hurt. Finally avoided all movements that caused pain and it healed. Meanwhile did some rehab exercises to assist in strengthening the groin per the suggestion of a PT. | /r/askMRP | 27/01/20 11:49 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (01/22/20)"My roommate hasn't been receptive to me sharing the gospel. When somebody says God sent his son to atone for your sins, and you don't believe in God or Sin, it sounds like a bunch of nonsense. But he likes that I'm disciplined and successful as he would measure it, so he is receptive to more general advice." One of my favorite quotes is "We're meant to proclaim, not persuade," bc it reminds me that only the Holy Spirit is capable of changing hearts. Keep praying and leading by example! | /r/RPChristians | 26/01/20 10:11 PM |
| 10 | Umbilical hernia from liftingHad a sports hernia last year which is a tear in my abs. Took 6 months to heal. Would've healed in 4 months but I kept lifting. | /r/askMRP | 26/01/20 10:03 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (01/22/20)OYS #22 39 yrs old, 6'2" 195lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 11 years, 4 kids. Lifting Never miss a day. On a hypertrophy program meaning high volume. Seems to be working, up a few lbs and leaner. Social Invited other couples to our house for game night and fellowship. Looking forward to the weekend! Marriage This was a wonderful week! Enjoying each day with my wife and family sharing in our mission together. I'm blessed to have such a wonderful marriage and see how it affects other a… | /r/RPChristians | 26/01/20 06:58 PM |
| 5 | Deny sex for a year? what dread level? *StarfishYou've had more than enough guys mention all your faults so here's some real advice: Get a mission. Nothing is less attractive than a man without any meaningful mission. You aren't making a difference in the world, you aren't on an exciting adventure, you aren't doing anything worthwhile. You know it and she knows it. No mission at 25 yrs old is ok, no mission at 35 isn't. DO SOMETHING WITH YOUR LIFE THAT CHANGES LIVES AND HELPS PEOPLE. She's bored. I won't beat a dead horse because the guys hav… | /r/askMRP | 26/01/20 06:34 PM |
| 4 | Deny sex for a year? what dread level? *StarfishI've always hated the hazing but the hazing is necessary. If HOA said here's the solution to your problem without busting his ego, nothing would penetrate his hard head. And he'd be back with the same problem in 6 months like so many of the other guys in this sub who can't make any progess. | /r/askMRP | 26/01/20 06:16 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (01/15/20)OYS #21 39 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 11 years, 4 kids. Lifting Havent tested maxes in a while so next week I figured it's time for a quick 5RM on all lifts. Social Expanded the social circle by meeting a few new people at the gym and volleyball. This week I need to cultivate those relationships to keep up momentum. Marriage Shark WeekTM in our house and the change in atmosphere is tangible. I'm staying lighthearted to pull the family through, but my 1st mate ou… | /r/RPChristians | 16/01/20 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 14, 2020OYS #21 39 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 11 years, 4 kids. LIFTING Crushed workouts this week mostly due to increased rest between workouts and lower volume. Ready to hit it hard this week. Still 4-5x a week in the gym. Doing a no sugar diet with my wife and workout partner because they are both sugar freaks. Day 10 and I haven't changed my diet other than giving up the occasional bowl of ice cream. BUSINESS Seen orders explode this new year and I'm way behind due … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/20 06:14 PM |
| 1 | 2 Year Field ReportRight on, it's a shift in priorities and one that has empowered me to be a better spiritual leader. Luckily she's getting reinforcement from her Bible study called "5 Aspects of Women" which believes a woman's focus should be on her husband, above her children, as this is the way woman was created to glorify God (chapter called "Helper-Completer" is all about prioritizing your husband to empower him to serve God). Next OYS I'll go into some more detail on how my mindset has shifted and how it af… | /r/RPChristians | 13/01/20 02:51 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (01/01/20)OYS #20 39 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 11 years, 4 kids. Lifting Someone called me out about my 365lb deadlift so let me clarify - I lifted 405lb for a single which makes that my 1RM back in July. I have 2 anterior herniated discs and severe spinal degeneration meaning that I shouldn't lift 1RM weight as it's extremely risky. So to change that number to 405lb would be misleading, and to keep it at 365 which is what I can do safely for several reps, is also mislea… | /r/RPChristians | 05/01/20 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Help. Just starting the MRP journey. Need advice.Mission has to be something that is HUGE, helps people and adds value to your life and theirs. It cannot be about your wife and it has to be externally focused. It cant be about yourself or improving yourself because the right mission that helps people and changes your community will naturally make you improve for the better in order to better further the mission. Example: John wants to help mentor young men in his community so he reaches out to the local sports league and becomes a youth sports… | /r/askMRP | 05/01/20 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Help. Just starting the MRP journey. Need advice.You're so self absorbed in your music, your Youtube channels, your video games, etc. you need to pray. so that God can help you understand that your principle responsibility is to protect your children and wife over all things. You need a mission, a purpose. She's right on and all the dancing monkey MRP stuff isn't going to fix your marriage if you don't get a mission. Following RP rules might get you laid, she might respect you more, but you'll never reach the status of true Captain with an awe… | /r/askMRP | 04/01/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | "Ending Loneliness" by Voyle GloverAwesome post! | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/20 07:45 PM |
| 3 | 2 Year Field ReportSexual sins were many and my main struggle: flirting with women, innapropriate relationships with co-workers and employees, porn habit. All of that is much less and the focus is on the mission. I can honestly say I dont want or desire that stuff like I used to crave it. It's freedom from the mental bondage of sex. I needed the validation of my wife stroking my ego through sex, affection and submission. When she didn't give it to me I found it with other women. I still struggle with this but much… | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/20 11:29 AM |
| 3 | 2 Year Field ReportI started a sporting goods manufacturing business. We got picked up by some large retailers so now we just fulfill the orders each month. | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/20 11:20 AM |
| 3 | 2 Year Field ReportReach people in our community for Christ. We use our home and relationships to disciple. How we do that is long and detailed, my wife even made a huge chart! The formal Mission Statement I wrote 3 months ago was in a previous OYS. | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/20 11:18 AM |
| 4 | 2 Year Field ReportNope. Became friends with him in the gym after confronting him. He's a good man just got too comfortable with my wife. He's my workout buddy and we pray together before our workouts. | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/20 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Red pilled 3 months ago. Impending separation. Need some help.I was 5'8" in 6th grade. Then I grew to be man-sized. Congrats on moving a 500 lb deadlift a total of 6" from the floor to your waist. Instead of lifting more weight try an inverted chair and expand your spine. I bet your favorite pair of shoes are boots with thick soles so you can reach the counter to pay for your extra small t-shirts. PS I cant resist ripping on short guys. | /r/askMRP | 02/01/20 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Still struggling after significant gains. Military challenges.She sounds like a whiny, dramatic teenager. Tell me shes super hot or else why in the world did you marry her? Edit: Sidebar and lift. ====> | /r/askMRP | 02/01/20 11:33 AM |
| 4 | Red pilled 3 months ago. Impending separation. Need some help.We have the same body. Your lifts are solid. Physique is good. This isn't your problem. Frame and mission are lacking. You are on the right road. You can salvage the marriage. Ignore all the crap your wife says as it'll change week to week as you progress. Dont do anything stupid like spin plates. Focus on reading and applying sidebar. Fear not, shes not stupid and cant branch swing to a better man unless Bezos calls so you have plenty of time. Dont do anything she requests unless its what you w… | /r/askMRP | 02/01/20 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 31, 2019OYS #20 39 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 315, DL 365, married 11 years, 4 kids. LIFTING 1RM lifts gone up a few pounds due to increased strength but also increased bodyweight and being on Creatine. Note that bodyfat hasn't changed. Last 3 CrossFit workouts I've felt nauseous but can't figure out why. Today's group workout was the worst and I felt sick after only 10 minutes. I'm thinking maybe too much food too close the workout or maybe it's over-training. I'm going to limit my CF work… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 24, 2019Good point, I'm not sure I have totally divorced the two. But if her car broke down and we didnt have sex due to unforeseen circumstances, I'm 100% sure it would have been less irritating. It was the choice to abandon the commitment that irked me. This week I read 31 Days to Masculinity and the chapter on needing/wanting sex everyday was a kick in the balls. I took a couple planned days off to help reset my thoughts on sex. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/19 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 24, 2019OYS #19 39 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 305, DL 355, married 11 years, 4 kids. LIFTING Last 2 workouts have been BRUTAL and my heart rate hit 200+ only a few minutes in. Translation: my body is over-trained and I need to take time off. So this week I'll focus on some rehab exercises, band work, and accessory movements. I eat healthy, take fish oil, Vitamin D, food-based multivitamins, sleep 7+ hours a night and eat a vegetable based diet with good fats and lean meats. But even so my b… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/12/19 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Lessons in Leadership - The MeatballsMy wife eats 150 grams of protein a day due to her fitness level so I dont need to tell her to make meat with every meal. That's the frame. But for the guys married to vegans, this post is great. Horns, I'm using this tip from your previous post today: "After you are done ravaging your woman, and she is laying there on the bed. Her body covered in your sweat and fluids, legs shaking from whatever, the single best thing you can do at that moment is to get up, start the shower, return to the bed a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/18/19)I've always had trouble with disruption of schedule going back to my childhood. I enjoy a routine because my routine is productive and fun. I don't have a regular job meaning everyday is a vacation for me. Essentially I'm semi-retired and have been since my early 30's. Usually a change from the routine means less fun and less productivity, hence the mental challenge. Some perspective: I spend 7 days a week in a nice routine and these family Christmas parties are only a few hours. But since time … | /r/RPChristians | 21/12/19 01:42 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/18/19)OYS #18 39 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 305, DL 355, married 11 years, 4 kids. LIFTING Crazy hard workout yesterday with the group and we decided as a group that we need to take off a week to heal CNS. Everyone had elevated heart rates in the warmup meaning that our bodies were overtraining. SOCIAL Xmas parties, kids school concerts and kids sports put me in a position to meet and chat with new people everyday. I've taken advantage of the opportunities and worked the room. MARRIAGE / … | /r/RPChristians | 20/12/19 08:21 PM |
| 0 | Is Keto good for athletes?I've tried Paleo, Zone diet, Intermittent fasting, and just about every other diet/nutrition plan you can think of. The best thing that has worked for me is the Vertical Diet which is meat, veggies and tons of white rice. I play sports and workout 6 days a week and it's the only diet that can sustain my energy levels and also make me leaner. | /r/askMRP | 18/12/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 17, 2019JP Make Your Bed Video https://reddit.app.link/SVas7y88v2 | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/12/19 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 17, 2019See previous OYS where mission is clearly stated in long form. This is assuming you already know the mission and showing steps taken this week. I'll edit and write that for clarification. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/19 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 17, 2019OYS #18 39 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 305, DL 355, married 11 years, 4 kids. LIFTING Workout group did a crazy squat/deadlift/bench workout last week with 75 reps of each at increasing weight and the result? I. Can't. Move. I challenged a guy with world records in rowing to a rowing challenge and started practicing this week. I'm no slouch at rowing but this guy has world records so gotta put in the time to make him sweat. Suddenly he found a new drive to train hours every day... (S… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/19 03:22 PM |
| 2 | How God Saved My MarriageI slightly remember a chapter in a little ebook called the Red Pill Christian Handbook about mission, but it was so full of grammatical errors and bad metaphors I had to skip that chapter! Just kidding. Actually I love that book and just re-read it for a second time. This most recent reading really rocked me in several ways and I'm addressing some of the takeaways in my next couple OYS posts. I'll read it again in a few months and I'm sure notice several new tidbits. | /r/RPChristians | 17/12/19 02:56 PM |
| 2 | How God Saved My Marriage"Find your mission and you'll get what you want and your wife will suddenly fall in line and your sex life will go through the roof." I re-read and I dont think this was implied at all. It might be that you are projecting bc you're hyper aware of covert contracts and see them everywhere. In that case improving your life would be one huge covert contract if we are all honest because no one improves their life for their own benefit alone. We might do it mainly for ourselves but we also do it to ha… | /r/RPChristians | 16/12/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How God Saved My MarriageAre you seeing it as a covert contract because RP has suggested you need to have a mission separate from your wife or else you are doing it for her? I believe we can have a joint mission. The Red Pill Christian Handbook addresses this when it says the husband should be focused on the mission to disciple, so should the wife and so should EVERY follower of Jesus. So while it is my mission, it's also her mission and your mission and his mission. Since my wife and I are married and "become one flesh… | /r/RPChristians | 15/12/19 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How God Saved My MarriageI wonder if your having prior engaged in the same behavior isn't leading you to close your eyes to reality; your wife started up an inappropriate relationship with Chad at the gym and you rushed in to be a friend there too, but we all know that if a woman wants to be stealthy about having an affair you are going to have a hard time proving she's having an affair - but whether it's hidden or not... An affair is an affair. There's no denying that it was wrong or that it is ok to do it. I just deci… | /r/RPChristians | 15/12/19 06:22 PM |
| 3 | How God Saved My MarriageI don't want to project my thoughts onto her but it's the first place my mind went - that she felt distant from me and emotionally disconnected and this was her subconscious revenge or an attempt to get my attention. Again, this is projecting and I can't ask her because she either doesn't know or has convinced herself it's not true. But later she said, "I'm happy that you have finally chosen me" implying that she felt ignored and just never said anything or I was too dense to hear it. Like MMSLP… | /r/RPChristians | 15/12/19 06:14 PM |
| 3 | How God Saved My MarriageShe confronted me and was very upset, crying and shaking. She felt betrayed. This was around 7 years ago when I had a couple female employees. They were young and full of energy and we spent way too much time together and too little time with my wife. | /r/RPChristians | 15/12/19 06:10 PM |
| 1 | How God Saved My MarriageWe prayed together and decided that the 3 of us (gym boyfriend, her, and me) would become friends and workout together, that way there was total transparency. She also agreed to cease all contact with him via text message and never have texting relationships with other men in the future. What would you say to those who will inevitably say that you're mateguarding here? I would say You do You. My wife loves God and wants to be obedient so she was totally ok with the decision to end communication … | /r/RPChristians | 14/12/19 12:39 PM |
| 1 | How God Saved My MarriageBeliever since childhood. Grandfather was a pastor, parents paid for me to attend Christian school, I spent my summers at church camp. But like most guys, college was 5 years of debauchery and I turned my back on God. Since I had kids, I tried to repair the relationship with God but it was logical not emotional and my selfishness and pride got in the way. I never fully submitted or had a clear mission until recently. | /r/RPChristians | 14/12/19 12:43 AM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/11/19)We have been trying to conceive a child "seriously" for the past four months and it has not worked out. Are you tracking her cycle? You are more fertile after a couple days and she's most fertile on ovulation so you can optimize the chances a little. Not a huge deal but worth looking into. I left her vicinity to go play a round of halo in the guest room to give her space. Definitely get rid of the video games. I had a guy tell me one time, what ever you don't want to give up is the most importan… | /r/RPChristians | 12/12/19 02:15 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/11/19)That – combined with traveling – led to several days without sex. I find it hard to focus being around my wife without having sex. After a few days I treat her like a roommate instead of a sexual being so it's good that she initiated. Try to sneak in couples shower or early morning wake-up sex if you can just to keep your sanity. I've become much more assertive about sex even when it's inconvenient or when I can tell she is distracted instead of waiting for optimal times. I find that once I init… | /r/RPChristians | 12/12/19 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Lifting For Size ConsensusGaining mass forum on Reddit is very good but let me summarize and save you the effort: Eat 5,000-10,000 calories a day. As a Hard Gainer myself, I eat between 3,000-4,000 calories a day EVERYDAY just to maintain my weight and muscle mass. If I want to bulk up I have to lift heavy, limit conditioning workouts and EAT EAT EAT EAT EAT EAT until I'm sick. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/19 05:41 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/11/19)u/cdnrpc I own a manufacturing business that requires about 15 hours a week of my time. I don't mention my business because its purpose is to financially fuel my mission and it does that so there's not much else to talk about. I've owned and sold other businesses in the past and might sell this one in the future. Mission is using my life to spread the love of Jesus, help people increase their faith and strengthen their relationship with God. When we broke it down even further, wife and I made a … | /r/RPChristians | 11/12/19 05:38 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/11/19)OYS #17 39 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 305, DL 355, married 11 years, 4 kids. LIFTING Same plan as last few weeks but did hit a couple PR's last week and still crushing the group WODs. Seeing progress so not changing much. Also playing dominating volleyball after a couple weeks off. SOCIAL Inviting couples and families over to the house for dinner/games but holidays mean schedules collide. Still gym groups and sports group so plenty of social time. Also hunting with several buddies t… | /r/RPChristians | 11/12/19 03:42 PM |
| 5 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 10, 2019OYS #17 39 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 305, DL 355, married 11 years, 4 kids. LIFTING Same plan as last few weeks but did hit a couple PR's last week and still crushing the group WODs. Seeing progress so not changing much. Also playing dominating volleyball after a couple weeks off. SOCIAL Inviting couples and families over to the house for dinner/games but holidays mean schedules collide. Still gym groups and sports group so plenty of social time. Also hunting with several buddies t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/19 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Filing for divorce and the no contact ruleDid the letter look like this? Baby, you are the only woman that matters to me (other than the women I text late at night and take out dancing). I love you so much (except when I'm with other women getting validation). I want you back (but I also want other women so I can feel like a man when you reject me). | /r/askMRP | 11/12/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 03, 2019Thanks! I'm going to let her talk with the doctor and see what he recommends. She's been on iron supplements before and they worked but now we eat so much red meat I didn't think it would be a problem. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 03, 2019That's exactly why we got the 5 min blood test. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 03, 2019Blood test came back - iron is low, glucose is high and her thyroid is low. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/19 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 03, 2019From 5am to 1pm wife is ultra-productive. Yesterday she worked out at the gym with me, made dinner, cleaned the house, did kid's laundry, shopped at Costco, mailed Xmas cards and we had very intense sex - all before 2pm. After that she crashed. As a morning person, she's historically tired in the evenings. But the last 3 weeks she's been exhausted earlier and earlier which is why I think it might be physical. Bloodwork lab test comes back Friday and we'll examine the levels. If nothing looks off… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 03, 20195 Aspects of Man is a great Bible Study done alone or with a group of other men. I tried to get a few guys to join me but they were all "too busy" during the holidays. https://www.fiveaspects.com/bible-studies/five-aspects-of-man/summary RP Christian Handbook is the entire Christian Red Pill sidebar in PDF format. I'm on my 3rd reading and I discover new stuff every time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/19 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 03, 2019OYS #16 39 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 305, DL 355, married 11 years, 4 kids. LIFTING Doing some 2-a-days on top of the regular workouts and still playing tennis. Feeling great other than the insane tendonitis in my elbow so bad I can barely make a fist. On fish oil, CBD oil, and lots of ibuprofen to bring down the inflammation. Also starting a 7 day sugar-free diet which should help the inflammation. SOCIAL Thanksgiving was family time. Otherwise social is mostly at the gym and hunt… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/19 06:07 PM |
| 1 | What to do....Great question! That's what we are here for. Solution right here:Save Your Marriage https://www.docdroid.net/05viVhA/rpc-full-compendium.pdf | /r/RPChristians | 02/12/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 26, 2019I don't fault my wife for the mishap with the pet friendly house as it was hidden in the AIRBNB details section. No matter where we stay our 3 young kids and 1 baby all who have terrible environmental allergies and food allergies have difficulty sleeping in any dusty or unclean environment on unfamiliar beds. We've even brought a hardcore air purifier on trips but that doesn't change the unfamiliar settings. For now I'm set on day trips only and in a few years when the kids are teenagers or have… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/11/19 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 26, 2019OYS #15 39 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs, 8% BF, BP 225, BS 305, DL 355, married 11 years, 4 kids. LIFTING Cleaned 235lbs this week easily. Last 1RM was 225lb. Didn't workout this week as family was on vacation and needed a week off anyway to heal some of these crazy overuse injuries and reset the CNS. Going hard for 12 weeks straight has taken it's toll. Mentally I'm ready to go but needed to make myself rest. Still went on hikes and played tennis but skipped volleyball and did very little lifting. Next… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/19 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 12, 2019OYS #14 39 yrs old, 6'2" 190lbs, 10% BF, bp 225, bs 305, dl 355, married 11 years, 4 kids. LIFTING My bodyweight has increased 5 lbs, bodyfat also up a couple %, all lifts up a little as well. Still doing Stronglifts 5x5, Crossfit wods, Tennis, Volleyball, Swimming, and adding trail runs. Calories steady at 3,500-4,500 per day. SOCIAL With kids, work, sports, etc I dont have extra time, but I did manage to grab coffee with a buddy for a couple hours last week and watch the game with a huge group… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 29, 2019OYS #13 Business is strong. Workouts are solid. Social is on point. Marriage is going excellent. Mission is becoming clear. Sex is frequent and exciting. Mindset is developing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/19 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019OYS #12 38 yrs old, 6'2", 185 lbs, sub 10% BF tested on the BodPod. 225lb bench, 305lb squat. Wife 37, married 11 yrs, 4 young kids. RP 2 years. Business: Extremely busy and very good. Lifting: This week was feeling burned out and fatigued so going to lessen the lifting/crossfit/sports load to 4x with 3 rest days. Resume regular schedule next week. Marriage: Getting back into the routine last week I've noticed a pullback in affection from the wife meaning the emotional "honeymoon" phase of the l… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/19 01:15 PM |
| 2 | 6 years into a LTR, but now something is going on with me - Constructive criticism and discussion will be appreciatedDon't mess around with other women when you are committed to a girl already. That makes your word and your commitment worth nothing. Break it off with your fiance first like a man if you want to experiment and tell her to do the same. | /r/askMRP | 21/10/19 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 15, 2019OYS #11 38 yrs old, 6'2", 185 lbs, sub 10% BF tested on the BodPod. 225lb bench, 305lb squat. Wife 37, together 17 years, married 11 yrs, 4 kids under 8 yrs old. RP 2 years. Business: Xmas retail orders hit this week meaning gotta suck it up and get to work. Planning on adding an extra hour or two each day till I get ahead while still making time for all the social activities. Lifting: 5 days a week in the gym. Stronglifts Program 3x a week, brutal CrossFit WOD 2x a week. Sports 4x a week. I'm b… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/19 09:55 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 08, 2019Studying 1 Timothy chap 1-3 this week with the wife. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/19 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 08, 2019OYS #10 38 yrs old, 6'2", 185 lbs, sub 10% BF, 225lb bench, 305lb squat. Wife 37, together 17 years, married 11 yrs, 4 kids under 8 yrs old. RP 2 years. Business: Busier this week since we're ramping up for the Xmas season rush which is the hot season for retail so our vendors are expanding inventory. That means longer hours than normal, maybe 25-30 hours instead of 15-20 hours. Lifting: Stronglifts Program 3x a week with a fitgirl from the gym, CrossFit WOD 2x a week with my wife. Weight up a f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/10/19 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 01, 2019OYS #9 This is gonna be a long one. 38 yrs old, 6'2", 185 lbs, sub 10% BF, 225lb bench, 305lb squat. Wife 37, married 11 yrs, 4 kids under 8 yrs old. RP 2 years. Business: Our products were just accepted by Walmart after 6 months of negotiation and was told by their Purchasing Manager "Congrats, you're now a millionaire." I only work about 20 hours a week so this will change drastically in the near future. Lifting: Still playing volleyball 2-3x a week. Now playing tennis 2x a week with my wife a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/10/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 24, 2019I hear you. I've been following you for a long time and learning. See you next week. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 24, 2019Must have missed my last OYS. Go back and read that. 18 out of 23 days. Let's see you match that Red. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/09/19 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Anniversaries.He's just giving you shit to toughen you up. Read the books and OYS instead of asking questions. General rule is no questions for 6 months of reading and OYS posts. | /r/askMRP | 27/09/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 24, 2019Super fit, competitive CrossFit athlete for 7+ years. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/09/19 01:50 PM |
| 6 | Why am I the one feeling so much dread?I recently dealt with a similar situation in my house and my action plan has been to up my married game as I got lazy and opened the door for Hot Gym Chad. After 11 years of marriage I assumed she would love my large bank account and ripped abs but forgot she also has a brain that's bored and needs stimulating. Lately I'm killing it with game and being the fun guy she's always been obsessed with. She's responded with affection, sex and unusually clingy behavior which I reward. After 2 years of R… | /r/askMRP | 26/09/19 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 24, 2019OYS #8 38 yrs old, 6'2", 185 lbs, sub 10% BF, 225lb bench, 305lb squat. Wife 37, married 11 yrs, 4 kids under 8 yrs old. RP almost 2 years. Finances, Social, Lifting all good. Making progress week-to-week, having tons of fun. Marriage Last week OYS I was working on being more emotionally present with my wife instead of being consumed with events and social calendar. I've included her in some of my activities (gym, tennis, errands) throughout the week and made time to chat with her about her feel… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/19 11:53 AM |
| 0 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 17, 2019OYS #6 or #7 - Last OYS 9 months ago Stats38 yrs old, 6'2", sub 10% BF, 225lb bench, 305lb squat. Wife 37, married 11 yrs, 4 kids under 8 yrs old. RP almost 2 years. PhysicalPlaying competitive sports 4x a week, lifting/CrossFit 3x week. FinancialBusiness is excellent, my company is exploding. Looking to buy a house in the next 30-60 days. SpiritualLast few weeks started taking a bigger leadership role to be pastor dad and began nightly Bible study with kids and discussing spiritual topics with … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/09/19 11:58 AM |
| 1 | My Wife's Emotional Affairyour mistakes might go beyond what you originally thought. I think you might have missed my reply above - no problems with my attractiveness to other women, my wife knows all about it. I haven't stopped being attractive to other women, I just want to avoid getting emotionally involved with them. I agree women want to date a man other women find attractive and thats not the issue in this case. | /r/RPChristians | 17/09/19 08:34 AM |
| 2 | My Wife's Emotional AffairLet me paint a clearer picture. I was a college athlete and model in my 20's and still have a high SMV. I'm 38 yrs old, 185lbs, 6'2" 8% BF year-round, serial entrepreneur. Still play competitive sports 4x a week, gym a few times a week, and recently was asked to coach a women's v-ball team. Done all the Red Pill sidebar as I've followed for 2+ years. We have sex 4-5 days a week with my wife initiating more than half the time. None of that has changed even through this ordeal and I'll explain why… | /r/RPChristians | 16/09/19 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Death In The Family - Any Experience Here?Always some dumbass on this sub like you who has to open his ignorant mouth. Someone ban this fag please. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/02/19 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Death In The Family - Any Experience Here?Walk away now and tell her she has changed and it doesn't work for you. Or stay and tell her that she needs to change and that there is a time frame. But either way, be assertive. It obviously bothers you enough you made a post so now's the time to take action. Bottom line, you cant live your life for someone else. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/02/19 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Investment Strategies To Minimize Impact Of Divorce RapeIndex funds are safe bets and endorsed by pretty much every progressive investor as better than any other investment channel. Tons of videos on youtube with the pros/cons. Robinhood app or similar to buy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/02/19 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Disrespectful LTR, where can I improve?Bi-polar crazy chicks who get happy then sad then angry then submissive are fun...for a while. Then they turn into AskMRP posts and that's when you know it's time to practice that abundance mentality. | /r/askMRP | 30/01/19 08:37 PM |
| 12 | Living in doubt about my wifes past infidelityI'm not even sure what I'm asking cause I don't see a resolution but fuck this makes me angry... I'm tired of thinking about it so I'd thought I ask for another perspective. This line is the summary of the problem and also the solution. Nothing can anger you unless you allow it. Next step is to realize your wife isn't a goddess, a unicorn, or even special, and she can get dumped anytime you want to dump her for any reason if you choose. You hold the power over your life and happiness, not her. Y… | /r/askMRP | 29/01/19 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Help with Car Shopping for the Most Responsible TeenagerSounds to me like you made a decision for your family and then came here to get validation and got hammered by the clowns on this sub. Lesson learned here OP isn't whether to take over the finances of buy a car for your wife, it's don't come here looking for validation. | /r/askMRP | 28/01/19 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Update: Discovered wife has had an affair, have kids, she doesn't know that i knowShe was so upset about sleeping with another guy, she did it for 5 months. | /r/askMRP | 25/01/19 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Do you call her out on manipulation or rewriting history?Since then she's been very pleasant and nice, and I got an enthusiastic BJ during shark week yesterday. Congrats bro, you got a BJ! Maybe if you play your cards right, she'll let you have sex with her with the lights on. That'd be huge. | /r/askMRP | 09/01/19 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Rebuilding attraction with wifeSo its a lack of confidence that's your problem. Go play some sports, go hunting, go on a hike with some men. Get away from women and get out of your brain. Go fishing or shoot some guns. How much time have you spent with your guy friends doing active stuff not just drinking beer? This isnt the solution to all your problems but its an action you can take immediately that will help. | /r/askMRP | 07/01/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Is marrying an older woman a bad idea?And super hot | /r/askMRP | 07/01/19 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Hooking up with your wifeIts not irrelevant. Of course every anonymous badass on this sub got laid 4x a day when they had kids back in 2005 and they also walked to school barefoot in the snow 3 miles when men were men... I have 4 kids including a newborn and it has changed our sex life. My best friends from highschool and college all have multiple kids kids under 3 years old and we talk about our marriages when we hang out and the way our sex lives have changed over the last 10 years of marriage. While the hormones and … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Advice on keeping frame and adding valueYour biggest problem is that you haven't read the sidebar and posted in OYS. | /r/askMRP | 05/01/19 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Is marrying an older woman a bad idea?Elizabeth Hurley is 53 | /r/askMRP | 05/01/19 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Don't be me - I got cucked!Or you could just ask for an open relationship and save the money you'd spend on divorce | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/01/19 08:46 PM |
| -1 | Is overlooking a female's sexual past foolish?Dalrock is the angriest and most bitter of the red pill writers so discard pretty much anything he writes. | /r/RPChristians | 02/01/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Damage controlGive up alcohol, you aren't mature enough to make good decisions. | /r/askMRP | 02/01/19 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Damage controlGreat example of a person who can't handle making good decisions when drinking and therefore needs to abstain. Real question is, how many bad decisions would he have made sober? | /r/askMRP | 02/01/19 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Don't be me - I got cucked!Or you could ask her to stick around and have an open marriage. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/01/19 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Loyalty to HypergamyMillion bucks she's done this with other Chads. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/01/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | dating for looks vs personality.You don't need lots of great women, you only need one. Mistake some guys make is the statement, "there arent any good women out there" implying the masses of women are not suitable to their standards never realizing that's ok since they only need to find one that fits the bill. | /r/askMRP | 29/12/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | FR: Threesome Fantasies & CompetitionSounds like a low SMV woman without options | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/18 08:13 PM |
| 6 | Good sex requires EmotionTook me almost 12 months, it wasn't fast. I'd have weeks where I would be totally ok, then I'd suddenly need to have sex and she'd be tired or have a sore throat or feel sick. I cant pinpoint any specific action, it was more of a slow realization that my wife really likes to have sex with me and there was no subversive motives when we didn't. Along the way she also became much more open to freaky stuff that I made a priority. I wrote a post on MRP early 2018 asking for advice because my conserva… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/12/18 10:29 PM |
| 11 | Good sex requires EmotionMy sex life improved once I didn't need sex anymore. This was a simple mindset shift that took 12 months. Of course my wife picks up on this and we often plan sex early in the day via text, kino, or offhand comments. For both of us this has greatly decreased the pressure of sex - a reversal from her having to make me happy having sex even when she doesn't feel like it, and for me a reversal from wanting to have sex because I needed to feel validated. In a nustshell this is my main takeaway from … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/12/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Wife Going Out To Socialize With MenZing! Good one! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/12/18 07:58 PM |
| 15 | Testosterone and youI'll mention natural options. This is the holy triumvirate of testosterone: Lift heavy weights with long rests between sets. The more muscle mass you build the higher the testosterone. Lose bodyfat because fat is estrogenic. 11% is good but maybe aim for sub 10%. Your lifts aren't terrible but they have room for improvement. 185 lb man should be 1.5x bodyweight bench press, 2x bodyweight squat and 2.5x bodyweight deadlift. Also limit LSD or long slow distance cardio. Sprints or HIIT is for raisi… | /r/askMRP | 21/12/18 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Love this sub (+ question about meeting an ex)Several things to mention so I'll start here: She's too sure of me and mostly isn't very interested in sex. Identified one of the issues in your marriage, zero dread. But your proposed solution is specifically to get a response from your wife hence a covert contract. I asked my wife if she would be okay, if I met some of my exes for a coffee So you wanted to do something mundane but you asked your wife permission? No, no no. Sidebar my friend ---> I see how it could improve my marriage by making… | /r/RPChristians | 17/12/18 04:31 PM |
| 5 | [FR] The Plate AffairHad a roommate in college tell me one time, "Don't get too excited when a girl sucks you off on date #2. She's done that with dozens of other guys and was probably much less drunk." Takeaway - There's no such thing as a "Trophy Slut" | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/12/18 09:31 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The importance of the basicsGood post. Two things come to mind in response to this post: 1) Women like important, popular, good looking, successful, and rich men. Even teenage girls like these things, hence the popularity of the QB on football team, the rich kid who's daddy own the big company, and the handsome boy who made Homecoming King. Great personality without these qualities doesn't get you anywhere with quality women other than friend-zoned. 2) Worrying about saying the correct thing is always the wrong approach. O… | /r/RPChristians | 16/12/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Cardio and liftingYes | /r/askMRP | 16/12/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Wife Going Out To Socialize With MenUpvoted! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/12/18 07:50 PM |
| 0 | Wife Going Out To Socialize With MenI had about 12 but deleted them for brevity. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/12/18 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Wife Going Out To Socialize With MenBased on the definition of SMV, a famous and highly paid actor would be considered high value to most women. I don't choose what women perceive as high value. Sidebar -----> | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/12/18 07:48 PM |
| 10 | Wife Going Out To Socialize With MenSolid points. But reasonable to mention that most men, including myself, are no where even close to the level of stoicism. It looks good on paper but it doesn't translate into real life easily. Of course on an anonymous sub we all get to be unemotional baddasses who can walk away at any time as the "stay plan is the go plan," but shit hits the fan I bet most guys even on this sub would struggle. I've been in situations where my advice given was not the advice taken. Essentially your mindset is t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/12/18 02:59 PM |
| 4 | Wife Going Out To Socialize With MenIf another man comes along and puts in a fraction of the work and gets similar results If that's the case, how the fuck do you define yourself as high value??? Right guy in the right place at the right time. Wife gets drunk at a work convention, meets VP from competitor company, gets attention and gets nude in hot tub. How does that prove you don't have a high value? Even famous actors get cucked occasionally regardless of their high value. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/12/18 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Wife Going Out To Socialize With MenOf course it's a covert contract and only mentioned because it's the natural beta thinking to illustrate the takeaway: my ego says she owes me some damn loyalty. RP says wrong mindset | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/12/18 02:39 PM |
| 11 | Wife Going Out To Socialize With MenThis is where time value comes in play. A man puts in the time and money to attract a high SMV woman and therefore she has value. If another man comes along and puts in a fraction of the work and gets similar results, it's unnerving and unfair and the ego struggles. If I exclusively want unattached sex, I can speed date on tinder without significant money or time invested. But once I decide to listen to her boring stories, spend Christmas with her weird family and pay for her ticket to Acapulco … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/12/18 04:16 AM |
| 17 | Keeping the same frame.Great comments so far but I'd add that this is your life you are talking about, not some game you are trying to win. Trying to be an alpha or a red pill man or whatever is trying to be another person when what you need to be doing is being the best version of you by cutting out the whiny crap, getting your stuff together, being assertive and most importantly discovering what makes you happy day-to-day and following that. What hobbies do you enjoy, what kind of social situations? What kind of tv … | /r/askMRP | 13/12/18 02:38 AM |
| 7 | Wife is going to happy hour with some guy friendsGreat response. She can go out with whoever she wants but I can be gone when she gets back. It's not weakness, it's a standard. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/18 05:14 AM |
| 3 | Wife is going to happy hour with some guy friendsHopefully going to lift at the gym | /r/askMRP | 10/12/18 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Cardio and liftingSure. | /r/askMRP | 06/12/18 08:37 PM |
| 5 | A Unique SituationWhat the holy hell is going on here? He wants to have sex with multiple women while simultaneously being in a committed relationship? She knows I'm weak, and she's taking advantage of it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/12/18 08:36 PM |
| 2 | A note for the Latter-Day Saints, Mormons, and frankly anyone from a traditional Christian background...Highlights points similar to the struggles outlined in the RP Christian sub. RP Theory still works for religious men even without the higher levels of dread. The challenge is overcoming decades of beta church conditioning for the male and sexual repression for the woman, which varies per individual. Great write-up and applicable to religious men outside of LDS. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/12/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Dread Postpartum?She'll have sex with you when you are attractive to her. She'll give you blowjobs when she wants to mate-guard you. Right now she doesn't think you are sexy or desirable. Women get cleared from their gyno after 8 weeks so it should have been game-on. | /r/askMRP | 04/12/18 08:51 PM |
| 6 | Cardio and liftingMy stats 6'2" 195lbs, ~ 8% BF, 38 yrs old. I think around 205-215lbs would be better weight for someone over 6' because buying pants with a 32" waist is difficult and shirts have to be tailored without exception. My advice as a Strength & Conditioning coach for 12 years - lift heavy and do short, intense cardio like sprints, sled pushes, battle ropes, short crossfit metcons, swim sprints, all with variety being the goal. LSD (Long slow distance) decreases Test in a man as does anything with too … | /r/askMRP | 04/12/18 08:39 PM |
| 5 | Books on ambitionI always think of Atlas Shrugged as the ultimate book on ambition. | /r/askMRP | 04/12/18 08:27 PM |
| 3 | LTR Is in vacationOnly 100? | /r/askMRP | 04/12/18 01:33 AM |
| 2 | LTR Is in vacationAnd his angry responses to the advice of the group proves he's just another scared guy trying too hard. | /r/askMRP | 04/12/18 01:32 AM |
| 14 | Don't argue.I dont argue with my wife for the same reason I dont argue with my kids... there is no winning. We just end up angry with each other. When I discovered RP I really embraced stoicism and the lack of "passion" which is the fancy version of Don't Give A F**k. Don't sweat the small stuff and life goes pretty easy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/18 08:47 PM |
| 0 | LTR Is in vacationShe's calling you in between drinking with hot dudes from all over the world with sexy accents. I hear sun, alcohol, nice hotels, and lots of skin is a recipe for sexy time with strangers. But maybe you're right, maybe she's loyal. | /r/askMRP | 03/12/18 08:44 PM |
| 14 | Initiate fool! Or "Passive dread and you."I'm fairly OI as of now since I want to fuck about 2 to 3 times a week and by initiating 8 to 9 I am getting what I want. 1 out of 3 is only good in baseball. It doesn't create a happy marriage, it incentivizes adding plates. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/12/18 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Setting the bar so high?How long have you been with the current GF? I find they are always on their best behavior for the first year or so then comes shit test after shit test as they become unsatisfied waiting on a ring. I heard a famous movie star say, I only date for 90 days because every relationship is perfect the first 90 days! | /r/askMRP | 30/11/18 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Minimum age for OYS post on the main subWait till youve been dating longer than a semester before posting. We have enough young guys with zero long term commitment and the MRP program is specific to guys wanting to keep their SO. Hard to give wise counsel to young men who dont have any skin in the game. | /r/askMRP | 29/11/18 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Thinking of ending LTRWhats the mission of a 20 year old? Attend class sober 3x a week? | /r/askMRP | 29/11/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Go for the gainzzzz. Really? What do you think.Jesus didnt say wipe your booty clean after a poop so I think that's individual preference. Change my mind. | /r/RPChristians | 29/11/18 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Displays of high value (DHV) vs. displays of low value (DLV) in LTR or marriageFor newer guys we say get your stuff done, eat right, lift heavy, STFU, kino, dont get butthurt, initiate, expand social calendar and other simple rules to abide by. But the more advanced program is more high-level and less rule-based with an emphasis on internalizing value instead of constantly attempting demonstrate with any particular action. In 12 months make another post on value and I bet it'll be all about mindset with very few specific actions mentioned - that's growth. Great lifting num… | /r/askMRP | 29/11/18 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Am I wrong here?Is this your girlfriend, wife, sister, plate? Some context sir. Are you lifting? How far into MRP. Have you read sidebar? | /r/askMRP | 26/11/18 08:18 PM |
| 7 | [FR] When the masks fall, will you dare to see the truth?No mention of plates, maybe he didn't get that far in the sidebar. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/18 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding being sexually manipulatedModern Churchians have interpreted it to mean that you cannot divorce a woman except for adultery- because that is what Jesus supposedly said according to all modern translations. I've read the entire NT cover to cover twice and making my way through the OT. I read several translations when I do this with my app. They sometimes differ in translation but not on intent or meaning. I heard a quote one time: It's unwise for us to second-guess Biblical scholars about translations for the same reason … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding being sexually manipulatedDirect translation of the original Hebrew must be a side hobby for you. Can you offer some insight into the 1st and 2nd Maccabees? I've always wanted some expert commentary on the apocrypha. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/11/18 12:05 PM |
| 5 | Going from dating to serious without showing too much investmentAre you married or in an LTR? Wrong sub playa. | /r/askMRP | 24/11/18 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 20, 2018Yes that's called a fetish. By definition desiring traits a-typical for the masses which turns you on. Ask 100 guys if they get hard on love and compassion or big tits and 95 come back jugs. Great thing about your preference is you can be happy with the typical american chick who avoids the gym. Or maybe you just need the feelz and are a cuddle bunny. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/18 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 20, 2018Heavy is weights at maximal levels for reps 5 or less. Otherwise known as strength building. Calisthenics is muscular endurance bc it's lifting at sub maximal levels. Heavy reps between 8-12 are hypertrophy. Reps over 12 are endurance. All is good, but RP emphasizes strength. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/18 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 20, 2018she will stay up on fingering her phone until the minute I head upstairs and then she takes +30 minutes longer than me to get in the bed because woman. It seems like she is doing this to be controlling, I’m waiting on her in the bed a minimum of 30 minutes before sex. She never turns me down, even 6 days in a row for sex, but other side is that she NEVER initiates. I would like to get her initiating sex and coming to bed earlier. I had similar situation and the higher levels of dread solved this… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/11/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 20, 2018I see other opportunities for me everywhere if this relationship did not work and I am actively flirting and talking to all the women that I can. Abundance is great but be careful not to let it distract you from your marriage. Other women will always be around and alluring. Sounds like you are making progress so keep up the good work. Also still beating myself up about the past and my failings. Everyday is a new day, past is gone. Internalize b/c it helps with your MAP. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/11/18 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 20, 2018I've been practicing martial arts since I was young and it's one of my favorite hobbies, I've lifted before but didn't enjoy it as much, so I'm focusing on calisthenics now. Gotta lift heavy.Rule #1. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/11/18 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Avoiding being sexually manipulatedAnd only on Thursdays. It's right between Handjob Wednesdays and Missionary Fridays. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/11/18 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Avoiding being sexually manipulatedMoonlight as an expert in ancient Jewish traditions? I got a few questions for you concerning Levitical Law. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/11/18 10:48 PM |
| 0 | Where are you guys at with your 1RM?Yep you can lift that particular weight that particular day 3x. | /r/askMRP | 21/11/18 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Where are you guys at with your 1RM?Bodyweight relation to strength is a better indicator. Guy 255 squats 405 or a guy 180 squatting 365? Our group of strength & conditioning coaches dont compare raw numbers b/c drastic height/weight differences, but we do compare weight-2-strength ratio. Pro tip: Don't let any lifts fall behind. I see guys post numbers on MRP that tell me where they spend their time and what they avoid. You make more progress overall addressing weaknesses then constantly trying to add a few lbs to your good lifts… | /r/askMRP | 21/11/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 20, 2018Dread fixes sex (or lack of) and frame fixes respect. Work the steps of dread as you work on OI. It's made a huge difference in my marriage. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/18 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 20, 2018being an excellent mother and giving me beautiful and healthy children is. Not at all related to desire. Desire is physical. I dont think the model on tv is hot because she is a doctor or the chick next door is ugly because she dropped out of highschool. This is purely physical personal preference and cant be negotiated the same way some guys love asians and others dont. If we're talking about who makes a good wife, healthy kids and excellent mother. If were talking about who gets me hard, its t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/18 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 20, 2018I know I must develop an exit plan. Several. I need a plan to exit tonight, if necessary. Since you already know you are leaving, have you developed any plates? Sounds like sexual frustration is in the mix here. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/11/18 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 20, 2018My wife just had a 4th baby and it's difficult to convince yourself that saggy skin is a turn-on. I know guys have a pregnancy fetish but for guys who's wives gained 70 lbs during pregnancy it's not a fetish it's gross. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/11/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 20, 2018Sex: Sex has never been great. What's your dread level? How are you improving SMV? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/11/18 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 13, 2018OYS #4 6'2", 185lbs, 8% BF, 435DL, 345SQ, 225BP. 38 yrs old, wife 36, married 10 years, 4 kids. Last OYS 2 months ago Summary and Progress Need to refocus this week, hence the OYS. Financially, Xmas is best season b/c retail sales. Grinding to keep up with orders. New employee quit after 2 weeks. No time to search right now, need new employee in 2019 with a better vetting process. Socially not playing basketball anymore due to multiple injuries. Pickup basketball was quickly turning into a stree… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/11/18 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Ideal weight and body fat percentageI'm 38yrs old, 6'2" and fluctuate between 185-195lbs with 8% bodyfat. In my OYS posts, some guys said you cant walk around at 8% but its totally possible even at 38. I workout or play sports almost 7 days a week and eat a super clean diet. I've never had a problem with my health or attraction from women. But I do have friends that are similar height and much less athletic and they still get plenty of attention because they're good looking and dress well. In fact I've had to really work on wardro… | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Wife got upset about folding laundry. Was this a shit test and did I handle it wrong?I wash and fold my own laundry. If she complains about folding the kid's laundry, I tell her that it's her fault for getting knocked up four times and she should have thought of that before she let me bust inside her for 8 years. | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you reply to this one?Hows that divorce going? | /r/askMRP | 28/09/18 12:49 PM |
| -1 | How do you reply to this one?Anyone who thinks that;s passive aggressive deserves to be called out by his wife. | /r/askMRP | 27/09/18 04:35 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/26/18)First OYS? About time! My wife just had our 4th and it was bad or no sex for 6 of the 9 months. Now she's back to normal. Good luck stay strong. | /r/RPChristians | 27/09/18 10:01 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/26/18)Have done some lifting in the past with moderate success, not currently a member at a gym due to time constraints. Run 3-4 miles 3x per week. You have to lift. Running/cardio doesn't increase test like lifting and sometimes decreases. Lift. | /r/RPChristians | 27/09/18 09:56 AM |
| -1 | How do you reply to this one?her: don't pay my bills Me: don't be an ungrateful bitch | /r/askMRP | 27/09/18 09:49 AM |
| 1 | facial looks and improving them so you're not uglySomeone did a post breakdown on SMV a few months ago and it was pretty spot on. Looks got you like 2-3 points out of 10. Super hot guy, model maybe 4 points. Money got you another 2 points and confidence/frame 3-4, so take that into consideration. Definitely debatable but in general women are not as concerned about looks as men. That's why women spend more money on clothes and makeup. I'd add that good haircut, shave and good wardrobe can make a normal guy look much better as mentioned in other … | /r/askMRP | 26/09/18 08:27 PM |
| 2 | facial looks and improving them so you're not uglyLooks are only fairly important to a woman. SMV is much more important hence why so many hot women marry older alpha males who are not particularly good looking. Status, personality and success all boost SMV while pretty face only gets you an extra point or 2. Raise SMV - be smart, funny, emotional stable, stoic, charismatic, dripping with confidence, successful and have abundance. If so, a mole on your face wouldn't matter. | /r/askMRP | 26/09/18 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Best approach with wife?Similar story here so maybe I can assist. My super-religious wife said no to oral, anal, shower sex, doggy, and pretty much anything that wasn't boring....but she never said no to sex so we had sex 4-5x a week. Over the years I got frustrated and found RP. For 9 months nothing changed. She kept saying she doesn't like those things, that they are gross. Finally at month 10 I upped the dread, dressing better, shaving every day, started openly flirting with women, removing my attention and time fro… | /r/askMRP | 25/09/18 10:26 AM |
| 3 | [serious] How do you stop masturbating?Self control wont work as evidenced by your compulsive behavior. What will is having your wife bang you to the point you no longer need to jack off. And if she's wearing your tiny pecker out night after night and you're still badgering the witness, you have a sex addiction. Read the post on RPC called "Sex Starved, Not Sex Crazed" which addresses this exact issue. Guy beats it everyday cause wife wont. Wife starts banging him regularly, no more slapping the salami. | /r/askMRP | 24/09/18 09:01 PM |
| 1 | How to Play the GameFor a 25 year old you got some serious wisdom in this area. Great write up on game. From what I've seen the guys on this sub are horrible at meeting girls and an embarrassment to the game so this was much needed. I'll highlight some specifics that are important for those who can't read 2 full pages: She wants to see how eager you are to win her over. And as soon as you care, she has some degree of power. You don’t give that power to somebody until you’re sure you want them to have it. And for go… | /r/RPChristians | 24/09/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | I hurt herSounds like you date just so you can do what you really want... cheat. | /r/askMRP | 24/09/18 10:49 AM |
| 5 | Red Pill WifeSidebar and lift. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/18 10:44 AM |
| 5 | When do you have wife make decisions?I handle finances of 2 businesses, wife handles family finances. SAHM and 4 kids, she has been delegated responsibility over the household. She's my 1st mate and I expect her to carry her weight. It works extremely well in our situation but I've never had respect issues. | /r/askMRP | 24/09/18 10:40 AM |
| 4 | How to do this without being a total piece of shit ?Can't stop cheating because he needs constant validation from women to boost his self esteem | /r/askMRP | 23/09/18 11:42 AM |
| 1 | How to do this without being a total piece of shit ?Just bang a girl in her bed and let her accidentally catch you. She'll understand you're incapable of being faithful, leave you and problem solved. | /r/askMRP | 23/09/18 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Foreign Wife - time investment...Wont learn the system and wants a shortcut. | /r/RPChristians | 23/09/18 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Foreign Wife - time investment...It seems like a better option to find a woman from South America, Phillipines, South East Asia or something like that than being rich, impecably fit, have a giant well kept social circle, a great career, learn tons of game, have a great wardrobe, be well read so you can carry every conversation and be intersting, cause her to dread leaving you, etc. I work 20 hrs week and have all that you mentioned inuding a fit, hot, educated American wife. It's all in your mind. But the fact you think it does… | /r/RPChristians | 23/09/18 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Intro & SummaryHad trouble not seeing every girl I liked since elementary as a potential wife (having grown up without my dad, I have always had a deeply ingrained need to have my own family, and to do what my dad could not do, be there to give orientation). Great introspection, glad you recognize the underlying issues. Good news for you: This is totally reversible. Women are abundant. They're literally everywhere. Being around women, involved with women, dating women, friends with women is super simple. Abund… | /r/RPChristians | 21/09/18 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Has she hit a wall or is she really saving herself?Per hypergamy, women stop having sex when they hit the wall and realize being a skanky slut isn't going to get them the beta they desire. Not saying that's the case with your girl but it's a hypergamy truth. Especially if the women are christian because we all know what good christian guys want right? Low n-count or virgin and someone they can see raising their kiddos. I've seen dozens of women "mature" right around 28-30 yrs old and leave the party scene conveniently when they meet the perfect … | /r/RPChristians | 21/09/18 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Purple Pill and the Christian RedI've heard people at MRP and askMRP make the claim that Christian guys can only ever be purple and never truly red because they're still trying to submit to a higher power or someone else's (God's) idealism. And because we dont believe in plates which means you cant go over dread level 6 or so. Ironically however most of the guys that are hardcore reds in MRP have never gone past level 6-7. | /r/RPChristians | 21/09/18 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Purple Pill and the Christian RedMany Christians who allegedly swallow the red pill don't actually become red because they refuse to give up the blue. They want to apply red pill knowledge and behaviors in the context of fulfilling external ideologies that they find in the Bible or from the church. Summarizes most of the posts I see on RPC. So many young guys on here not dating around, not having frame when they do stumble into a date, not being strong in the gym, not doing the sidebar reading. Then posting some BS about "Shoul… | /r/RPChristians | 21/09/18 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Do a lot of men let their wives know the pin to their phones?I keep my laptop and phones locked with passwords. She never gets those. It's called "privacy" and it used to be a common thing. | /r/askMRP | 20/09/18 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Loving this MRPMe personally, I like to come really fast on blowjobs. Then directly afterwards when we have sex I last 40 minutes and can use all 12 positions. | /r/askMRP | 20/09/18 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Dread and Attraction issues.Anytime I lose desire for my wife (rare but it happens) I go on an isolated trip to the mountains and do some hiking or on a trip with a bunch of guys. No women and little stimulation makes me horny as a 16 year old. Upon returning home, my wife looks like a Swimsuit Illustrated Cover Model. I almost bust a nut just taking my pants off. Did my wife always have this huge butt and big honkers? Problem solved. Summary: Try getting away; isolate, remove other women, go hunting , fishing, camping, sh… | /r/askMRP | 20/09/18 02:31 PM |
| 6 | Gents : Your competitionAll I saw was, "I'm not happy because I'm comparing myself to men all the time." Mommy and Daddy did a terrible job. I see it everyday in the women around me and the psychologists keep getting richer. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/09/18 02:21 PM |
| 5 | FR: RP Working quickly but I'm in uncharted territoryTL;DR: 1st wife cheated on him. New wife now, he became beta bitch. Found red pill and getting laid again. Needs strategy for 15 day work trip. | /r/askMRP | 19/09/18 01:23 AM |
| 2 | FR: RP Working quickly but I'm in uncharted territory"If you behave, we'll spend some time together later after I finish (whatever it is you're doing). If you misbehave, I might be able to "work you in sooner." Took me minute to get it. Solid gold. Stealing this tomorrow. | /r/askMRP | 19/09/18 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 18, 2018My basal metabolic rate (BMR) is 3,300 calories per the bodpod air displacement test. 3,000 is bottom intake for maintaining weight at an active lifestyle. Another 1,000 adds a few lbs a month if I dont play extra sports or do any cardio. I'm sick of peanut, almond, cashew, and coconut butter. GOMAD is 2,400 cals if I buy whole milk. Normal guy definitely too much. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/09/18 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 18, 2018OYS #3 6'2", 185lbs, 8% BF, 435DL, 345SQ, 225BP. Modeled in 20's, athletic, high SMV. Summary and Progress Had 4th child 8 weeks ago. For 6 weeks wife was recovering from stretched vagina. Last 2 weeks of the drought (before doc cleared her), she finally got crazy horny. Balls in mouth, deep BJ's, coming on her face. My wife is extremely religious and a fan of vanilla sex. Who is this woman and where is my conservative wife? Who cares, I like this new girl better. Now the PIV ban is removed, she… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/09/18 10:52 AM |
| 8 | Latin Dance Lessons AKA “Alpha Dog School”Great post. I would say the same about sports. I play several sports competitively and the women at the leagues are amazing and always looking for people to socialize with since their husbands are at home drinking beer and watching football. "Oh my husband? He doesn't play ______. He prefers to play online poker, fantasy football and watch Sportscenter." Women in the 30's look better than most 25 year-olds since they're sporty and fit. Take lessons, join a sports league, have tons of fun. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/09/18 10:37 AM |
| 6 | FR: Go All InI'd cycle between nice guy, then asshole if I was 'wronged'. I could see the path I was on; all the while using my wife as a scapegoat. Basically I'm a passive aggressive bitch, beta to the core, who gets angry and sulks when I don't get my way. Hard to avoid this route in the beginning. Especially tough if you're used to controlling your life and realize you cant control your wife. I had a drop in revenue in my small business. I reeled in spending, hardcore. Glad you didn't give her the "money … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/09/18 10:30 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/12/18)Male Action Plan. Your plan going forward to be more masculine. | /r/RPChristians | 17/09/18 11:32 AM |
| 2 | what does the monk mode mean?Here: http://lmgtfy.com/?q=monk+mode | /r/askMRP | 16/09/18 10:08 AM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/12/18)Post is rough, it's pretty vague. Do you have frame? A mission? Do you socialize? What does your plan look like for lifting? Whats your age, weight, bodyfat, reading list, etc. If your frame is anything like your post, it needs a lot of work. More details. You come here to OYS. This reads like a guy who can't lead his way out of a kindergarten class. Looks like you're spending time in prayer and reading the Bible. Congrats. Now do that plus everything else you're supposed to do to improve. Stop … | /r/RPChristians | 15/09/18 09:23 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/12/18)Looking good. Bodyfat down to 12% would be awesome and totally worth it. I'm at 8% and test is super high with lower bodyfat. Test higher means more energy, more dominance, more libido. The avg routine seems to be work, home, sleep, rinse, repeat, holding on by a thread until the 7 day beach vacation or the 7 day mountain de-stress retreat. The question to ask daily, What did you do today that made you feel relaxed or happy? And how is your social life? | /r/RPChristians | 15/09/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | An introduction23/yo, 6'1, 168lbs. Bmi 20 Skinny fat. Start lifting. And never use BMI. What's your lifts? bench, squat, deadlift? What's your bodyfat? LIFT. I'm currently not in a relationship, and, while I want one, I enjoy being single and don't have a problem with it. Patience is not a trait I have trouble with. Go date a few girls. Lots of girls. Abundance mentality. You dont have to get sexual with them but it opens up options. Its easier to find a job with a job, just like it's easier to find a girl wit… | /r/RPChristians | 15/09/18 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Beginner Moves - this works!All I read was, "Hi guys! Look at how manly I am after 3 months!" Here's some advice, less posting, more reading and OYS. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/18 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: Beginner Moves - this works!Now he'll buy a Bowflex just to say he lifts | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/18 08:53 PM |
| 7 | What’s it mean when a woman puts your number in the memo section?I thought you meant Rolodex. In that case, get a younger woman. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/18 08:50 PM |
| 4 | Wife refuses to be submissiveWrong sub. Post in Red Pill Christian. And a heads up, they're gonna tell you to read the Bible and lead your family. Post to OYS in RPC sub with more details. | /r/askMRP | 14/09/18 01:41 AM |
| 2 | will there be a difference?We don't drink wine. We get the $50 steak! | /r/RPChristians | 13/09/18 12:08 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/12/18)I bet you see an increase in desire from wifey. | /r/RPChristians | 13/09/18 12:07 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/12/18)Height: 5'4" Weight: 205 BF %: ~25% At 5'4" you gotta be dieting 24/7 perfect. And hitting the weights and cardio 5x a week. my room mates are super studs who pull new girls every weekend. I've been isolating myself to avoid the temptation but that's becoming detrimental as my social circles are dwindling. DO NOT be the guy who avoids being around single chicks all the time. Be around lots and lots of women. Ask them out. Grow some courage to chat them up. Get lots of dates. Be aggressive. Play … | /r/RPChristians | 13/09/18 12:06 PM |
| 2 | will there be a difference?Wrong sub. Purple Pill sub is here | /r/RPChristians | 13/09/18 11:55 AM |
| 2 | will there be a difference?Speaking from a married perspective, I don't get many IOIs from women in my church but tons from outside. LTR church women in their mid-20's to early 40's seem much much MUCH more interested in impressing and getting attention from the other ladies in their peer group. Even my wife is in a secret, nonstop battle for status and validation with these women. Upper middle-class, white suburban churches are full of women who update their IG feeds, simply to make other women jealous. I get tired of he… | /r/RPChristians | 13/09/18 11:53 AM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/12/18)Sex life is ok. Intensity and passion is up when on a date, but last night I initiated, she gave me a bit of attitude with her offer of starfish, so I turned it down. Frame fixes respect, dread fixes sex. Up that dread a bit. No girlfriends but casual chatting with other women and not just in front of her but so that you feel more confident and have an abundance mentality. Also dress better, a lot better. You can drop 10-15 lbs with a better wardrobe. But keep lifting and keep dieting goal is to… | /r/RPChristians | 12/09/18 11:43 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/12/18)Wife just had our 4th a few weeks ago. This pregnancy was a sexual desert. We didnt have sex often and when we did it was terrible. She was not the woman I married or the wife I've known for 10 years. Now she's back to normal, thank God. Lack of intimacy will mess with even the most mentally-stable, stoic guy. Stay strong, use kino, work your game but know that her hormones can make her into a different person. Not always, but possible. Stay strong! | /r/RPChristians | 12/09/18 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Lift, Faggot, LiftWhere? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/09/18 01:28 AM |
| 7 | Lift, Faggot, LiftI've never understood the mentality of someone who avoids the gym. Do you also avoid good cigars and beer? Avoid playing or watching sports? Avoid fishing, hunting, camping and bullshitting with your buddies? The gym is built for men. We can't battle each other like gladiators in Rome so we settle for pumping iron and making casual conversation with the ladies in the weight room. Explain to me how a man can spend half his life avoiding this pleasure. What's that thought process look like? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/09/18 03:44 PM |
| 27 | First post: Wife cheated on me with a chick...what would you do?Glad someone said sidebar/lift, I thought the streak of 45,000 was almost broken. | /r/askMRP | 09/09/18 10:00 PM |
| 8 | First post: Wife cheated on me with a chick...what would you do?I'd ask for details, lots of details. And videos or pictures. Any evidence can only help your situation especially in HD. | /r/askMRP | 09/09/18 09:56 PM |
| 9 | Odd question, what is Askmrp's thoughts on kids if your shit is together?I have 4 kids and they're awesome. Best part of my day is coming home. | /r/askMRP | 09/09/18 09:53 PM |
| 35 | "You treat me like a whore"Sounds like a great wife with a un-appreciative husband. Guys come here to get laid and you are getting laid. Guys come here to get respect and you're getting it. So what exactly do you want that you aren't getting? You married her for a reason at one point, why was that? It's standard for guys less than 6 months of RP getting IOI's to want to next their wife, but give her time. A good wife is better than 6 plates. Take it easy, work on yourself, make your wife laugh and feel sexy, initiate ofte… | /r/askMRP | 09/09/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Help needed with response....not quite a shit test...How else can you trick yourself into believing she's still young? | /r/askMRP | 08/09/18 06:57 PM |
| 0 | Anger causing me to break frame. And how to proceed with this.Long story, didnt read. Be the fun guy not the angry guy. Fun guy gets laid, angry guy doesnt. Fun, stoic guy has friends, angry guy doesnt. Fun guy read the sidebar, angry guy didnt. | /r/askMRP | 08/09/18 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Fiance said she is over it, what to do?I'll tell you what to do - Go grab a drink, or ten. It's worked so far right? | /r/askMRP | 08/09/18 06:54 PM |
| 7 | How to hold frame when u’re tired?He doesn't want your advice, he wants you listen and sympathize. His wife is probably sick of hearing him talk. And his spelling is atrocious, I guess his computer doesn't have spell check. 2 months in... I'm a believer now... | /r/askMRP | 08/09/18 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Introduction and BackstoryAs a previous model who's top 5% physically, it still happened to me. Physical prowess and psychological game for long term attraction. Married game is advanced game and there's no off-season. | /r/RPChristians | 07/09/18 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Introduction and BackstoryOur sex life had dwindled to once a month. "Im usually only horny once a month" she would say. "I have a low sex drive". I stopped initiating entirely cause I hated the rejection. How many guys are in this same situation? How many guys found RP because of this conversation with their wives? They are the lucky ones. Really glad you took initiative and started the journey. I believe it's true some women have low sex drive, but like all the MRP pro's say over and over again, "If Chad walked in drip… | /r/RPChristians | 07/09/18 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 04, 2018Which is, of course, completely different than how I think. A man honors his promises no matter how far in the future. I fall for future sex often. My wife is very intelligent and like most hot girls also a master manipulator. she changes her mind minute to minute the way leaves swirl around in an autumn breeze anyway. I'm starting to recognize this for the first time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/09/18 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 04, 2018All 3 really. I dont want her taking the easiest route so she can call herself a good wife with a clear conscious. Handjobs are like working an 8 hour day, it wont get you fired but you wont get promoted either. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/09/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 04, 2018OYS #2. Last week got some much needed advice. Stats: RP for 10 months, 30's, married 10 years, 4 kids, wife HB8, sub 10% bf, 345sq, 225bp, 435dl Reading: NMMNG for the 2nd time Finances: Business is expanding very fast. Last month was best month ever, this month looks to be larger. Social: Been working last 4 months on returning to the life of the party guy which is my natural personality. Had 3 separate groups of friends come to our lake house this weekend to watch football and go out on the b… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/09/18 02:39 AM |
| 5 | How important is a woman's sexual past to you?My younger brother told me one time that he stopped asking girlfriends how many guys they'd been with because it was always an argument followed by a lie. I've never asked my wife her n-count, she's never asked mine. Married 10 years, 4 kids. | /r/RPChristians | 30/08/18 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 28, 2018Good advice. Also be aware that for many women (especially the prudish or repressed religious ones like your wife), this kind of statement serves as an ASD or an excuse she gives herself to allow herself to have sex that she wants but without admitting that desire to herself or to you. Based on her initiating often and her enthusiasm during sex, this probably is ASD. One takeaway from RP for me is watch their actions not their words and specifically in this case. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/08/18 02:35 PM |
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