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| 2 | Are young women not attracted to men anymore?It’s the food and media we consume. Stressed animals in captivity don’t reproduced | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 01:46 PM |
| -3 | Women seem to dislike clear communication, its a turnoff for themMost women don’t take responsibility, and thus have shitty relationships or single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 04:26 PM |
| 12 | Q4M: How is it that mid guys with no game still pull 10s overseas?This is like some domestic worker complaining about outsourcing. Now you’ve got competition. Free market is brutal for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 05:08 AM |
| 0 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionThey need to get hot and put themselves out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 10:37 PM |
| 35 | The one belief that turned me from “nice guy with female friends” into the guy actually fucking themEven ChatGPT is gettin laid these days | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 04:48 PM |
| 0 | Men who don't approach women, why?I approach women who want to be approached. I always read people before engaging, and if they look unsocial they I don’t bother. Unfortunately most are like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 12:05 AM |
| – | Coming back with my most unhinged take yetLong term all it takes is a wallet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionIt’s natural selection. People who reproduce have traits that will be passed down. If people have some traits and they don’t pass on, those traits will be gone. In a long enough timeline, simplifying here, women who don’t want children will no longer be born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionSo you’re ok being a genetic dead end. Not trying to shame here, but it’s like removing yourself from the gene pool. And evolutionarily speaking, the women who do this will eventually be gone from the pool replaced by women who reproduce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 10:11 PM |
| -6 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionHappiness is not the end goal of life, and it’s not even achievable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 06:05 PM |
| -5 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionThis right here is a one example of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 06:04 PM |
| 18 | A womans lack of effort is not a sign for you to try harder.Masculine communication is direct while feminine is covert. A guy should shoot his shot, if she respond anything but positive, you forget about her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Women are more attracted to social status than social skills.Women are more attracted to people they are attracted to. Social status and social skills both don’t matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 11:44 PM |
| 2 | If she’s not showing enthusiasm…NEXTYeah this is why I fk on the first date | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 10:43 PM |
| – | Men should always do the bear minimumYeah it’s worth it then you realize some other guy got it doing nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 09:58 PM |
| -1 | Men should always do the bear minimumAgree, Life is all about sex, survival is important but thats easy in modern world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Men should always do the bear minimumyes, don't over pursue and don't over invest in women who don't give much in return. You'll be disappointed when she finds a guy who does non of that and still gets far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Men should always do the bear minimumnot saying you should be lazy, but doing enough nothing grand or trying to be a hero in a movie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 01:59 AM |
| -1 | Men should always do the bear minimumliterally just existing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”yeah your mom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 05:54 AM |
| 11 | for people that were late bloomers in dating, is it normal or just common to have envy/resentment towards people who got to date and have relationships before they did or just people who got to date, have relationships around the typical societal norm of when people have their first relationship?These are natural feelings, never show these in public. Life is not fair. Always put on a fake face to get what your want in life, don’t get emotional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 04:17 AM |
| 0 | Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”Ask your grandpa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”There is. These guys are living in a post women’s right world with an extinct idea that’s why they are single and angry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:06 PM |
| 9 | Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”But the problem is, guys value ownership and loyalty, and don’t really care about building towards anything that doesn’t have those. Friends are usually forever for guys, you can catch up with a guy after a decade and still pick up where you left off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:02 PM |
| 5 | Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”This is how men have been conditioned for centuries, it’s the traditional social structure that worked. It’s not perfect, but without this kind of arrangement lot of guys checkout. You see that with decline in marriage and children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:00 PM |
| 4 | Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”I wrote this for guys who are still stuck in the traditional mentality and struggling in a new world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”No ai. Just spell check only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”Those guys didn’t want to lock it in? I doubt they were “gentleman” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:41 PM |
| -4 | Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”Gotta hedge you bets. Can’t trust these modern women for loyalty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menI think this stems from the prudishness of society. Like you only engage with opposite sex socially for sexual/relationship desire, there is basically no other reason. The only exception is shared interest, then again you can find many people in your own sex for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 08:55 PM |
| 45 | Question: How do you NOT be this guy in this situation:This has nothing to do with game, the girl simply is not attracted to the first guy. Lot of guys need to learn when to cut their losses short and move on and not waste time on girls that aren’t receptive to you. | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop drinking the kool aidNo, If you are a put together man then you will have offers and you can be a f-boy, you can go on dates, relationships, but i know the women aren't like super into the guy. You see the 60 year old guys with 20 year old women thats an obvious example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 04:49 AM |
| -3 | Men need to stop drinking the kool aidNo, What I meant is if she doesn't desire you genuinely then she's settling for you as a realistic option, and most women do end up doing this. You have to as a man as yourself, do you really want that? Maybe some guys are ok with a realistic arrangement, or you'd rather be on the lookout for a genuine connection, if you're lucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 04:22 AM |
| 0 | Men need to stop drinking the kool aidYou're stating basically what i said. If she likes you for money, its transactional. Most women do end up settling in life with a guy they don't really like but a relationship that "works" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 04:20 AM |
| -3 | Men need to stop drinking the kool aidNo. Even women will desire certain men unconditionally. She will be hung over a guy that dumped her or did her wrong forever, there is no logic to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 04:18 AM |
| 8 | As a single man, dating apps are your best bet to find a partner in 2025Pretty much everyone i know who found a relationship did through the apps, real life stuff doesn't work anymore. I see my friends trying the real life approach in social settings being a gentleman and whatnot and i see it fail miserably, only to get lucky on the apps and land a relationship. If you approach girls out an about they almost always go cold, its like some Psyops done to people. Maybe they are taught all guys have bad intentions or whatnot, like what do you expect, a guy talks to you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Attracting women and being a good partner require different skillsetsI agree you have to be polarizing first to attract. A good role model for lot of men is, most people won’t like this, is Donald Trump. See how polarizing he is you either end up liking him or hating him. You need this to make people get an opinion of you. Otherwise you risk being invisible. There is a lot of ways to go about it though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 02:07 PM |
| 2 | The World is not AltruisticMaybe I’m just venting my views of the world. This is an anonymous platform, there is no credit no reward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 09:33 PM |
| 3 | The World is not AltruisticLet me know how good your friends are when your lives pivot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 04:30 PM |
| 2 | The World is not AltruisticThe group does better, but for some it’s a short end of the stick. Life isn’t zero sum, but it’s unequal sum. Would you go along with something if the group will do better, but you individually will be worse off. Men are the best self sacrificing idiots there are. You can look at all the men lying dead going to war as proof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 04:28 PM |
| 5 | The World is not AltruisticIt’s not. Take it with a grain of salt. I gain nothing posting this on a non monetizing platform. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 04:15 PM |
| 3 | The World is not AltruisticTbh they really don’t. Life isn’t some utopia where you hold hands and sign kumbaya, I’ve more realistic with my friends. We have our own life’s and interests and it’s more about finding the win-wins and teaming up on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 04:13 PM |
| 7 | The World is not AltruisticI never claimed I was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 04:10 PM |
| 6 | The World is not AltruisticI’m talking about the whole self help industry, podcasters, brain rot relationship advice you see all over social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Agreeableness is Icky - We’ve all heard the adage, ‘Nice Guys Finish Last.’ Here's why...In short be like Donald Trump | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 03:52 AM |
| 4 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteMaybe evolution wants to remove you from the pool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 09:38 PM |
| 10 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteThere is only two urges survive and reproduce. The former is easy that’s it’s taken for granted, so that makes everything about sex. Anyone who tells you otherwise is lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Guys should become FeminineGo ask a ton of guys what they value in women. If they are normal masculine guys, they’ll never say education, career or anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Guys should become FeminineJust stating facts, not bigotry. Masculinity is about freedom and independence Feminity is about connection Show me a women who values independence and freedom, she will automatically come off as masculine. Don’t ask me, ask everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 04:33 AM |
| -1 | Guys should become FeminineSeeking independence and freedom is purely a masculine characteristic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 11:20 PM |
| 5 | Guys should become FeminineI mean you don’t have to go over the top and wear a dress. I’d argue most girls would choose the pretty boy who never seen the gym over Andrew Tate 100/100 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Guys should become FeminineYou’re playing the hard game. You’re trying to outcompete the women and become even more masculine, it could work but also be a contentious relationship. Why not take the easy route. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 05:20 PM |
| -1 | Guys should become FeminineWomen say this, but watch what they respond to. Women say they want a masculine man, but when they find him, they find him repulsive. If they have become masculine throughout their life, masculine traits will seem repulsive to them. Only exception is a true feminine woman, which is rare. In my experience all those who are, are taken fast, cause it’s easy for them to find a masculine man, there is too many out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 05:17 PM |
| – | The avêrage man has no reason to promote womên’s rightsLil Wayne once said: you all about her and she all about hers Men and Women should promote whats in the best interest for themselves. Let the democratic process play out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:27 AM |
| 0 | Men should be douchebags to find loveWhen you’re polarizing it forces people to reveal a genuine opinion. People who like you will look past your “flaws”, while when you’re not polarizing, you’ll often find people who don’t like you will nitpick you, finding reasons to disqualify. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Men should be douchebags to find loveHe has a cult following. It’s better to loved by a few and despised by many than be tolerated by all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Men should be douchebags to find loveI’ll give an example in plain sight. Donald Trump, see how he does polarizing things all the time. Half the people end up hating him, but it also brings closer the people who genuinely like him. Now he’s surrounded by them. The idea you can be liked by everyone is fantasy, you’re better off filtering out people that don’t care about you anyway. By being a Douche I really meant polarizing authentic behavior. Like if somebody says something bad to you, you tell em to F off, you’re not trying to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Men should be douchebags to find loveTrump is a big douche yet half the country loves him. You’re lost if you think “bad behavior” will drive people away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:56 AM |
| -1 | Men should be douchebags to find lovelol I never said anything about abuse just polarizing behavior to get a peek at a women’s desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Men should be douchebags to find loveI never said about abuse. Rather simple polarizing behavior to flush her hand like be rude to the waiter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:54 AM |
| 0 | Men should be douchebags to find loveI never said being a douche will get you laid rather it filters out people that don’t like you, leaving you with people who do. If you’re undesirabe by everyone well you’re in for a rude awakening. Maybe that’s the fear of the nice guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:47 AM |
| 0 | Men should be douchebags to find loveThe negative behavior is not directed at the person rather in general. If a girl was goddess, she could talk trash about the whole block and I’ll defend her. Humans are tribal, if someone considers you part of their tribe, they’ll defend you forever, if not they don’t really like you and the relationship is made up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:37 AM |
| -11 | Men should be douchebags to find loveIf you love him, you’ll defend him. If not, you don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:32 AM |
| 0 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.Unfortunately most and more guys are domesticated. All beta bux who don’t know reality. I’d take this even further, woman want a man who would even spank them if they acted not correctly. They love domestic violence even when they say they don’t. There is a reason Chad wife beater gets more women than good boy Tommy. It ain’t pretty but it’s nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 01:51 PM |
| 27 | Starting to prefer only going for those who make it easy for meThis is how it’s supposed to be. All this PUA/seduction stuff is nonsense, women are ultimately the choosers and men are the ones who commit. Since women have more options that automatically makes them the choosers. Men have the power when it comes to commitment. All a guy can do is make himself the prize, and the decide among which girls that chooses him is worth his time. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Low status men like high status men are their allies but but they are notNo. Successful are more understanding of men who struggle. It’s not like they were silver plattered success, and you know many men share your struggle. If anything successful men look at unsuccessful men in confused manner, like pal you’re not getting this game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 03:40 AM |
| 0 | Society is one giant psyop designed to exploit and extract value out of people.Attraction is not just looks, it’s the whole package, personality, attitude, but these are all predisposed. There is a reason why you can’t tell a bum homeless guy to go get a job, he just doesn’t have it. People want to attribute their success to their efforts, in reality they already possessed these qualities naturally, combined with some luck. I see you’re redpill, if you observe the world you’ll find out people getting attraction having none of these qualities you mention. People who try to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Society is one giant psyop designed to exploit and extract value out of people.Yeah bet he had an amzing go at life, same with that guy Newton. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Society is one giant psyop designed to exploit and extract value out of people.The same old strategies of showing interest. The game changed for me when I realized it takes two to tango, and you have to start filtering out girls that don’t desire you naturally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 03:30 AM |
| 0 | Society is one giant psyop designed to exploit and extract value out of people.I’m not anti capitalist, Out of all the systems, no economic system pushes people to work hard for better reward like capitalism. Get Monetary reward? Yes. Get Sexual Desire? No. Though monetary reward for what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 11:44 PM |
| 5 | Society is one giant psyop designed to exploit and extract value out of people.Congrats, you’re gold pilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Society is one giant psyop designed to exploit and extract value out of people.Anecdotal experience, I never had to “work” for attraction that went anywhere, and all the times I did, it went nowhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 11:27 PM |
| 5 | Society is one giant psyop designed to exploit and extract value out of people.Have you ever taken an Omega 3 fish oil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 11:25 PM |
| -4 | Society is one giant psyop designed to exploit and extract value out of people.There would be no wonder that exists. If everybody believed it, civilization would disintegrate. Maybe it’s already happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 11:20 PM |
| -5 | Society is one giant psyop designed to exploit and extract value out of people.I took the gold pill, I got no relationship problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 11:07 PM |
| – | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"Blackpill is the truest of all the main pills | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | “Acting nice” and making friends is the only way for a guy to get laid or a relationship in literally almost any contextActing nice can turn you into a friend, you have to establish there is something more than that from the get go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Why Shame and Social Pressure Aren’t Always Bad ThingsEvolution isn’t about what’s good, ideal or what’s right, it’s about what the simply survives. I think in the end the most oppressive society will be the one that will survive. They will simply outnumber everyone else. It isn’t pretty, but that seems to be the mathematical result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 10:37 PM |
| -5 | Why Shame and Social Pressure Aren’t Always Bad ThingsNo. I’m not shaming or advocating. Just observation between western and eastern cultures. Societies are ultimately about survival. People being productive members of societies, getting married, having children makes it go on. There is a reason why Eastern cultures/Traditional cultured outnumber west by a large amount. The pressure/shame gets people with the program. Also a reason why in the west population is declining and slowly going extinct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 10:27 PM |
| -4 | Society actively mitigates biological disadvantages for women, but systemically entrenches them for men.I will never support abortion till men are not held liable for unwanted child support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:55 AM |
| 11 | No, women do not make it "obvious" they're into youI just try to lead the conversation towards a potential date, skip all the pleasantries. It becomes obvious if the girl is actually interested, if not and there is a grey area but she’s still engaging, then I still make an offer. If she’s cold, then there wouldn’t be a conversation happening in the first place. The hardest part is actually getting an opportunity for a conversation, it has to be organic, not like you running up to some stranger. Nowadays it’s hard since people are all in their bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 06:05 PM |
| 20 | No, women do not make it "obvious" they're into youI’ve adapted a one and done policy. In modern day, you don’t actually run into people anymore, there is no third places, in a week you might get just a minute of exchange between a potential new person, and never see them ever again. So you have to capitalize. I don’t try to build rapport or become Friends with women, that’s going to take forever and not realistic anymore. If I get an opportunity to interact with a potential, I’m going to lead the convo toward asking out pretty quick. If no, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 01:49 PM |
| -2 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.Biggest enemy to a woman is another woman. It's basically some mate guarding, eliminate the competition thing. Darwin award i guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 02:23 PM |
| -1 | Dating is insanely inequal and unfair for men, yet no one’s adressing it even though it affects fundamental humanIt’s not unfair, there are pros and cons. Men usually have to build themselves up, but women have value right out of the gate. Unfortunately for women, it goes down as they age, where as for a man there is no ceiling. A man’s value is low starting out, then increases as he ages, given he does the right things. Around 30 is when a man’s value outpaces a woman’s, and then it pretty much never looks back. If you stay put, dating will get easier as you age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 03:30 PM |
| 2 | The advice that “men need to stop showing interest in order to actually attract women” only works for certain top % men. It’s horrible advice and a catch 22 situation.every guy i talk to has a different version of reality. What do you suggest? Approach women and show them interest explicitly, or stop showing interest and be nonchalant. I'm leaning towards an approach mindset with one and done policy. If she gives any friction, I'm out, next one. This way i shoot shot once and save my energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 05:02 AM |
| 3 | The advice that “men need to stop showing interest in order to actually attract women” only works for certain top % men. It’s horrible advice and a catch 22 situation.Some 5d chess thinking What exactly you suggest the man do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 09:24 PM |
| 4 | We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka PolygynyThis is how rich/ambitious people feel about socialism. Don’t tax me more, and redistribute by contributions to some other bums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 01:53 PM |
| 3 | We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka PolygynyWhy should 70 year old dating 20 be shamed? two adults making their own choices. Again you're proving my final point. In the end, every ideology seems to be an attempt to reshape the world in one’s own favor, cloaked in moral or social justification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 10:52 PM |
| 2 | How much does race matter?You need to be white washed in the west tbh | /r/seduction | 05/10/25 06:22 PM |
| 5 | Men are dumb and vote against their economic interest for some perceived macho reasonyeah so they are in fact voting on their own interests. I'm MAGA too even though i don't agree with lot of views, I'm just voting for giggles. I want to vote progressive, but by gut feeling i just can't. It feel like a scam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 05:13 AM |
| 28 | Men are dumb and vote against their economic interest for some perceived macho reasonNah, they don't regret it. Most people vote for the Orange Cheeto because they are pissed off, they'd rather see the world burn down that be one that isn't fair to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 05:09 AM |
| 3 | Top 5 Reasons Men Aren't Having Sex in 2025Never said I was anti capitalist, it’s just the side effect. | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 08:26 PM |
| 128 | Top 5 Reasons Men Aren't Having Sex in 2025I’d say main reason we live in an unsocial world, driven by competition and capitalism. If people were regularly meeting up, and having social connections, these will happen naturally. Now we’re just machines. | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 06:45 PM |
| 91 | This is Without a Doubt the Best Way to Attract WomenWomen look for social proof, this is why cold approach has lowest rate of success ever. Social proof takes time to demonstrate | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 07:52 PM |
| -9 | Your Dating Life Will Be Less Painful When You Accept ThisThe most successful guys I’ve seen in dating, you would think they have some communication disorders. | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 06:21 PM |
| -3 | Your Dating Life Will Be Less Painful When You Accept ThisI’d put looks at the top, status and wealth second for long term viability. Social skills dead to last. The world is more economically equal, and people aren’t desperate. If you can order food at a restaurant and attend your work meetings, your social skills are fine. | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Is Pickup Dying?Dating apps killed PUA long ago. Girls are exposed to more options, so this cold approach pick up barely works. Only game left is social circles, and apps. For apps you just need to look good. | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 03:55 AM |
| 1 | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.People are free to do whatever they want. What I meant was a man pursuing his purpose, will automatically make him more attractive. Doesn’t really matter what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 03:24 PM |
| 1 | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.Agnostic. Just a wording, God-given purpose meaning something he is born to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 01:29 PM |
| -5 | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.There is a man out there for everyone woman, she will drop everything and be whatever she needs to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 09:50 PM |
| 38 | The most successful guy you ever sawMay sound black pill Most successful guys have 0 game. Just awkward, no social skills, maybe even no job etc. but just looks tall and handsome. | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 07:57 PM |
| 21 | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipsSome women have low self esteem, or tolerate bare minimum. Can’t fix stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 01:40 PM |
| – | Lookmaxxers are rightYes, Attraction is complex not simple as Toyota vs Ferrari. But let’s say you live in a world, where you don’t even need a car, with public transportation and everything walking distance. How would you sell a car? Most car companies won’t do so well. Thus the decline is overall relationships today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 11:50 PM |
| – | Lookmaxxers are rightMost guys are simps. Example: If guys weren’t paying for Onlyfans, Women wouldn’t be doing them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 11:20 PM |
| – | Lookmaxxers are rightYou’re saying, you need money and status, which is appealing to people in some parts of world because they lack it, so it’s still a need based coupling up. Whereas money doesn’t mean anything to the western woman, unless she’s broke/desperate. The less need a woman has, her attraction also becomes binary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 09:53 PM |
| 2 | The ability to find FWBs, not relationships, is the measure of how sexually attractive a man is.Men value loyalty, it’s biology. They want all of a woman or none of it. I can only speak my experience, if I get the sense when I’m dating her, she’s been around the block, subconsciously I detach. I think the evolutionary reason is that, if she is been around, it’s more likely she’s carrying a offspring that is not yours, thus ancestors who preferred women who were loyal passed on their genes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 01:29 PM |
| – | Being able to attract someone less attractive than yourself but being unable to attract someone more attractive than yourself adds credence to the existence of leaguesIt’s not leagues, it’s just buckets. People you are genuinely attracted to, moderate, and no. Best match is when you are in both in each others genuinely attracted bucket. Failed relationships, situationships happen when one person considers other person moderate, while the other puts them in the genuinely attracted bucket. If you both of you find each other to be gold, it’s game over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 03:51 AM |
| 0 | The ability to find FWBs, not relationships, is the measure of how sexually attractive a man is.Finding a good commitment is a measure of how good the woman is. If a key can open many locks, it’s a master key. If a lock can be opened by many keys, it’a a shitty lock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 03:25 AM |
| 0 | Modern Western women are just digging thier own gravesI have a theory on this. If you are a man and, you're not conservative/traditional, you are no man. If you are a woman, and you're not liberal/progressive, you are no woman. Female nature is made to constantly test and tear down the masculine for his strength, and its masculine's job to hold firm. The moment men start listening to women, and give in and society becomes "progressive" it all falls apart. By falling apart, I mean population decline. At the end of the day its all about survival, a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:08 AM |
| -1 | Women are the choosers, Men are the committerExactly. Just like giving a woman validation is worthless, unless you’re being chosen by her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 11:58 PM |
| – | Excuse me, I’m looking for…..your number. (Challenge For This Weekend)lol I've done this before, this has been my go-to line for a while. my experiences have been these: - turned into a wonderful conversation, she told be that takes guts would've definitely given me number but has bf. - positive interaction but has bf - straight up no, lol - great interaction, a soft shit test, "Why should I give you my number, I don't know you?", I just said I though she was cute. great convo then she said she was 17, nice meeting you etc, FML - Confused, I don't understand, I'm … | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 05:06 AM |
| 1 | This changed my life forever - Girls actually do want BoysIt's a society's shit test. We're all a few key informations away from taking over the world. | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Poisonous beliefs about life after college, why you need to lose them, and the truth about life after college.If you settle down, its just a stable boring life from there. If you want the party to keep going, you just need to know people who are willing to go on the ride with you, and not just settle for the traditional life. Just a few people, then you can have your own entourage | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/16 03:35 AM |
| 3 | How to touch a guy on a date to get him excited about you (live seminar)Hold up, why are the audience all girls? Do girls have their own PUA things trying to pick up guys? | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 01:13 PM |
| 1 | 5 reasons why you need to forgive yourself and get over missing out on your teen and even college years.I don't compete. Life is not fair, even if you master TRP and PUA, you still won't be pulling at the level of some other chad, who puts in zero effort. Comparing to someone else is the root of unhappiness. Life is not fair, get used to it. There is no point in dwelling or complaining, its not a good strategy. Play your cards and move your pieces and do the best you can. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/16 04:03 AM |
| 1 | 5 reasons why you need to forgive yourself and get over missing out on your teen and even college years.Its kind of ironic that all of these 5 reasons are basically hamster spinning and blaming something else for shortcomings. Yes you miss out, then you move the fuck on. If you really wanted pussy badly, you would've found a way to get it. No point in dwelling on the past, at least you've learned your previous way of life hasn't got you what you wanted. Now play the game | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/16 03:36 AM |
| 15 | Almost 21 years a kissless virgin...the real news is that you got a free cheeseburger | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/16 04:41 PM |
| 1 | I want to be the guy who girls want to fuck, not the one to marryAlways present yourself as that guy who will never settle down. Never ever present yourself as anything of boyfriend material. | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Word of advice for Asian and Indian guys that want blondes.I've been to pretty much every single European country. My experience is that people initially judge you based on the stereotypes they have been brought up with. Notice the word initially, once you know person, it is no longer the stereotype they judge you on. In Northern and western Europe, Indians and Asians have a pretty good image as educated and successful citizens Lets say Italy or southern europe, or some Eastern Europe, people have a negative stereotype. Since they're are immigrants work… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/16 06:28 PM |
| 5 | The "wolf in sheep's clothing" approach.Honestly I think there are so many people like you. I see lot of beta looking single sexually deprived guys in their late 20s or 30s, Experience must have taught them something. Even though they look passive and gullible, I don't buy it. They are people with brain who can put add one and one together, their lack of sexual success growing up must have taught them something. Most of them wear the beta mask around, yet only interested in pump and dumping sluts. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/16 08:34 AM |
| -3 | The "wolf in sheep's clothing" approach.......so you're trying to be an artificial chad | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/16 08:28 AM |
| – | Just got stood up... Feel really badare you short or not the same as you are on your tinder pics? She maybe saw you and bailed, since she didn't like what she was seeing. Be happy that you got a first hand lesson of how shallow people are. Move the fuck on, lift, pick up more chicks and never settle. | /r/seduction | 23/10/16 06:40 AM |
| 38 | "I tell friends who treat their wives magnificently, and get treated like crap in return, 'Be rougher and you’ll see a different relationship.’" - TrumpTrump is no homo sapien, he's an Alphasaurus-Rex | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/16 12:10 PM |
| 1 | How to Recognize Crazy BEFORE You're Targeted - A Guide to Identifying the Borderline Woman. (Part I)...... i think you're obsessed with taylor swift | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/16 08:07 AM |
| 4 | Donald Trump's statement is really more about women being whores than him being a sexual predatorshhhhhhh keep quiet, this is a defensive maneuver. Women already get ton of attention from males, do you think they would want people to think the statement "grab her by the pussy" is ok, of course not. They want to minimize unwanted attention, but if you're attractive is it ok to do whatever the fuck you want because, they want you to do it. If you're attractive anything goes, and if you're not then anything you do is creepy | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/16 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Approached a girl earlier and she responded with "did you just assume my sexuality"?you should've said "I assumed you were sane....I guess not", then back away slowly | /r/seduction | 10/10/16 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How to seduce a girl smarter then you?I feel like there are lot of people smarter than OP | /r/seduction | 01/10/16 08:52 AM |
| 10 | 10 things to stop doing so you can start realizing your potentialSociety tries to bring out the worse in you by make you feel inadequate, this leads to anger and pissed off at your life. Solution: Be grateful, everyone has something to be grateful for. If you have access to a internet, and have food to eat, you're better off than lot of people. I consider every feeling society throws at me as a shit test, if you get pissed off, angry, or violent, you fail. Whenever I feel like my anger or worrying is building up, I quickly remember what I have going for in me… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/16 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Most women who frequently use the internet have at least a vague idea what TRP is, don't let it leak.. it makes you come off as more pathetic than a beta.Women want a natural alpha. Concept of improving yourself, trying to be the best version of yourself is beta. Life is a game boys, play your cards right. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 09:22 PM |
| 1 | I am an Indian guy......, As an Indian guy......, What are my chances as an Indian guy.......Indian guys or Asian guys have dar less success because of how they are portrayed on mainstream media. People perceive you based on this, Asian guys aren't portrayed as romantica, just bunch of it nerds with thick accent. Girls will overlook you easily because that's what they perceive when they first see you. What you should do is, break the stereotype and be a different and unique guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/16 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Partying, drinking, pure debauchery, and escaping FOMO. Why I believe it benefits most men in today's world to go through a stage like this in life at some point BEFORE moving on.I always say this. Whatever it is, Just get it out of your system, or else you'll be wondering what it's like to do it forever. Personally I dont see too much novelty in partying, getting drunk, etc, but for a long period of my life I never had done any of these and wondered what it would like to do it. Then I did it all, now I'm over it. I don't think about it or wonder or worry. I might go to a party once in forever, but it's not for my lifestyle Edit: this just doesn't apply to partying, pret… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/16 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Village Theory - We only can fall in love a few times - Richard KochSo you're saying there is an advantage to having no friends at all | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/16 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Being a great man = chad. Being a great man isn't good enoughLmao. Your average high iq beta wouldn't beat up a Chad. The reason why PUA and TRP were founded were because, surviving has become much easier today thanks to law and order. If it were cavemen days, beta males simply wouldn't live longer. If were not strong or a hunter chances of you dying we're exponentially high. That's why women developed preference for Paleolithic hunter, they'll always be attracted to guys like that. With today's easily survivable society, you have an influx of beta males … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/16 10:46 AM |
| 4 | The real value of women is so much lower than betas thinkIf there is one thing I learned while traveling around the world is that. American hoes are ugly, anywhere pussy has been put on a pedestal leads to decrease is quality of attractive women. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/16 10:39 AM |
| -2 | Hoes Can't bring You HappinessHoes are just accessories. Money is happiness | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/16 08:06 PM |
| 7 | School is Blue PillSchool is to convert young creative humans to law abiding routine workers who will expand the economy. You know what's funny? The people who say fuck the school and do their own thing, end up being employers to high achieving people in schools. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/16 09:47 AM |
| 6 | If you want easy pussy do not display any provider traits.Exactly. If you present yourself as a provider, she's going to play games, not put out, make retarded requests. All because she's looking for a guy who will put up with her (LTR or marriage). But, if you present yourself as an uncontrollable alpha. You get free passes, no more games. She will slut up and show her wild sides, no more fake ass good girl shit. I'm never mentioning to a girl that I'm an engineer. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/16 09:02 PM |
| 5 | Careers and SMVHaving a solid career screams provider. You will get attention when the woman is post wall. But for the ones on the CC, they're looking for the alphas. I don't think it's widely believed that alphas write beta software releases | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/16 06:03 AM |
| 14 | Careers and SMVThis. Whenever a woman asks me what I do for living. My first reaction is "why the fuck is this hoe asking me that". She's looking for a provider, it's highly likely the girl asking is a post wall bitch. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/16 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Need serious advice- My ex broke up with me about a month ago, said she used "depression" to mask that she was unhappy. How to deal with knowing she started dating someone new who looks like an "upgrade" immediately after we broke up? I feel as though I failed as a man to keep her interested?She will do the same to the new guy, when she finds an upgrade. These hoes ain't loyal | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Freedom through EntrepreneurshipThis is called the Position of Fuck you | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/16 07:02 PM |
| 1 | The state of Hypergamy in Germany straight out of my German language textbook.And I have to ask myself, Do I want to be that partner guy she marries when she's old and washed up, or the bad boy. I choose bad boy everytime. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/16 09:51 PM |
| 2 | The state of Hypergamy in Germany straight out of my German language textbook.It's like they aren't even hiding it anymore. They are saying straight to the face and the beta faggots can't ratipnalize the truth staring at their face. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/16 09:49 PM |
| 10 | Dad accused of raping daughter saved by mention of ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’Looks like the dad failed the daughter's shit tests | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/16 05:02 AM |
| 53 | What NOT to do with Women!There is a new quote based on the Confucius one. There are three kinds of men. The one that learns by reading. The few who learn by observation. The rest of them have to pee on the electric fence for themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 05:15 AM |
| 0 | Got a girls number tonight, what now?Just tell her you want to crack open some beers with her and fuck her right in the pussy | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 11:52 AM |
| 1 | I loved her for two years. Help?Meet and fuck some new girls then tell me how you feel about this girl. | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 11:46 AM |
| 8 | I was referred here from another thread, which was deleted by the sub's mods, so here we go again.Finally a positive thing happens from a Windows 10 update. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Being single is starting to get depressing.Hoes are just accessories, they come and go. Don't chase women, chase a great lifestyle. Then bitches will be throwing themselves at you. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/16 09:55 PM |
| 259 | The Sexodus in action: millennials are having less sex.I personally blame the rise of social media. Before all of this, people weren't aware of the high watermark lifestyles. Now all you have to do is scroll through any social media feed to find at any given moment that some one is having a great time(vacation, job promotion, getting married, etc). So now the expectations for great life has increased, throw in women hypergamous ways. Do you think they want to settle for TV on the couch every night. Ignorance truly is bliss, now everyone is playing t… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/16 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Whenever you think 'approach anxiety', think 'Approach Algorithm'Bro this is an inefficient algorithm. Before your brain runs the conditional statement, the girls night be gone or you walked past her on the street. I have a simple algorithm, extremely efficient. If (Girl.isHot()) {Approach();} Else {Continue;} | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/16 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Burn Out or Fade Away?All you have in life is really just time. The trick is you don't know how much time you have left. It could be minutes away or years away. Most people don't realize it, being safe or not you will die regardless. One way I see is youth. Being young is a depreciating asset, I know in a decade or so I won't be able to do the things I'm able to do now. So what are you waiting for? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/16 10:44 AM |
| 3 | Another Poor Bastard Finds Out His Wife Was a Whore For Everyone But HimThese are just plain sad stories, lives getting destroyed. I'm so grateful that by some random clicks through the internet, I ended up in TRP and PUA stuff. TRP might not be moral, but so is life. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/16 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Sex On the First Date INFIELD BREAKDOWN - How To Take a Girl Home | 50 Min full Infield Breakdown50 min video?, I just wear this shirt and it works flawlessly. https://s3media.247sports.com/Uploads/Assets/656/463/463656.jpeg | /r/seduction | 28/06/16 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Fun OKC profile example and analysis: What you should avoidentitlement is ridiculous. You want a relationship, tell me what are you bringing to the table. What makes you so worthy I have to go through all these bs steps. GTFO | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/16 11:28 PM |
| 1 | If you want to get laid, be a toxic manThe society wants us to move away from out natural roots and be a clog in a machine. Born, go to school, get a job, get married, work 9-5, participate in expanding the consumer economy, then die. Problem is its impossible to move away from who we are as a species and what drove us to be survivors. Human were hunters living in the jungle for 99% of out species existence. Modern civilization only happened in about the last 1 % of time, so how is it possible to just forget who we are as a specie an… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/16 11:16 PM |
| 106 | I Met an OrbiterPlot Twist: Your girl has a fetish for dominating big guys and he is fucking her everyday. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/16 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Why you should look as attractive as possible.I don't get a whole lot of matches, one day I made a fake tinder profile with some model's picture, and viola the matches were flowing like crazy, almost unstoppable. It taught me how shallow these hoes are. Their perceptive of attraction is highly influenced by whatever they looked at (tv, magazine, etc). I think this gave birth to PUA, its a survival strategy. Fix the problems by finding a way to game the system. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/16 08:15 PM |
| 16 | You're a fucking Indian male!: Life changing red pill advice for Indian guys in the western world.As a south asian male, I see the problem. The parents are usually immigrants so they raise children with the same values they were raised with from their home country. They raise a beta faggot that will say yes to every order they give, they think its the best for him but being beta doesn't work in the western world. They want to raise a child safe from external interaction, that does well in exams and will secure a good job. They do this because they want a child who will be with them in their … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/16 02:10 AM |
| 3 | "Waking up" means "Separation from the herd mind"If you really want to wake up, get off the social media, news, tv, internet, even trp. Then get off your ass and interact with people on wide scales/ranges (traveling?). Here is the important step, never buy into anything said through internet/tv all propaganda bs, and actually evaluate people directly. The Truth is simple as adding 1 + 1, you just have to expose yourself to it. It is a quite a sad world, everyone is getting their worldview through a curated phone screen. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/16 06:02 AM |
| 1 | The hottest girl you've ever seen walks into the room, what do you do?Disregard females, acquire currency | /r/seduction | 08/06/16 03:43 AM |
| 3 | 10 Year Field Report...Learn From My Mistakes. Learn from My Pain.damn this belongs in r / nosleep. This is some Gone Girl shit, stories like these make me never want to interact with a woman again. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/16 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Is there a philosophy behind this?interact with every girl with no expectation, you're not looking for relationship so there is one things you're not expecting, don't expect sex either. Just have fun and escalate: strong eye contact, asking her out, etc. If you're truly having fun and don't give a fuck, women throw themselves at you. | /r/seduction | 06/06/16 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Embarrassing, but I'd do it again. A story from my life.some say 75% of his body weight is just his balls | /r/seduction | 06/06/16 10:55 AM |
| 1 | shuaiya has passed away.I don't follow zen anything, I'm just pointing out these concepts exists in zen buddhism ways. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 10:36 AM |
| 14 | shuaiya has passed away.There are some examples of following your own path in zen buddhism. A story goes that a student goes to his zen master and says "I want to go on a path to enlightenment", the master says "If you meet buddha on the way, kill him" Thinking about the Buddha as an entity or deity is delusion, not awakening. One must destroy the preconception of the Buddha as separate and external before one can become internally as their own Buddha. Once you have acquired fundamental concepts and have the ability to… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Anyone in Bali, Indonesia?i read this as "Anyone ball in indonesia" | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Does a intellectual, zen-like and collected personality work?people do find the zen guy attractive, but how zen are you? if you see a hot girl, do you just stay calm and collected and never say a word, then the zen is being wasted. You still have to approach and do some initiation if you want girls, once you have a girl engaged then you can go back to the zen guy. Almost in all situation, a girl will never initiate at a stranger, cool calm guy no matter how attractive she finds him. | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 12:13 AM |
| 1 | How to Just Not Care?Observe what you do when someone else around you does something bad/out of the ordinary/embarrassing/etc. How long do you spend thinking what an idiot that guy is? chances are not more than a few seconds because you got shit to do your life. now reverse roles | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 12:08 AM |
| 0 | Would you recommend hiring an escort to lose virginity?No Bruhhh, If you really want sex, then get your ass off the couch, ask some girls out and make some moves. I say that because you're still young and now it the time to learn, experiment, fail over and over till reaching success. If you eat a fish found easily, then you only eat for one day, but if you learn to fish, you can eat fish any day. | /r/seduction | 29/05/16 10:12 PM |
| 35 | Article about 60 year old Mel Gibson dating a 25 year old woman. Comments are full of shaming language & Red Pill GOLD!Its funny when people say you should find a girl your age. When I was 18 with absolutely nothing to show for (0 SMV), all the girls my age were getting with older guys or guys with high SMV. Now after I'm old with increased SMV, these hoes wants to get with me because we're the same age and have things in common, GTFO. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Anyone have experience in Huntsville, ALI tried getting with different girls from there at the same time, but it was a catastrophic breakup with fights. Seemed like all the girls were related to each other. | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Lie about profession to get laid?you're hanging with the wrong crowd. Next time a girl asks what you're doing, just say "I'm in medical school". That's more than enough informations. If she tried to dig in more, play it off with something silly. | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 06:13 PM |
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