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makinplays/r/seduction16/08/12 12:03 PM
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makinplays/r/seduction18/07/12 09:56 PM
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Field Reportmakinplays/r/seduction01/01/13 11:35 PM
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makinplays/r/seduction25/09/12 11:15 AM
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makinplays/r/seduction14/10/12 05:44 AM
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Wow. I'm all for people having firm stances or personal beliefs about things or having personal preferences, but fuck you for making all of those judgments about people just because they smoke.
/r/seduction30/01/13 10:36 PM
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Yes and no. I only really get bored of them if I stop sleeping with other girls too.
/r/seduction29/01/13 07:45 PM
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I found myself getting sick of it, and I had a couple of girls I was hooking up with so I just stuck with them for a couple of months and just left the PUA stuff. Now I'm interested and ready to get back into it again, and have a strong base of knowledge to improve on, and like-minded friends to improve with.
/r/seduction02/01/13 12:18 AM
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Haha wow, just checked the dictionary. I've been using that word incorrectly for a long time. I thought it just meant intensify, make stronger etc. Cheers mate! Upvote for you.
/r/seduction02/01/13 12:07 AM
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Both those links were blocked by my antivirus - kinda makes me re-read this now and see "Click these virus links and you'll be banging millions of hot girls instantly like me" Although if those links are legit, I'd be keen to read them.
/r/seduction26/11/12 09:33 AM
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Wow, I've always been told that I'm really good in bed and I never understood why, because I always just do what I want to do. Turns out that's all of that stuff. Lucky me.
/r/seduction26/11/12 09:29 AM
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Started reading this for the first time today. I'm only halfway through and I already have a totally refreshed view on human social interaction. Incredible book.
/r/seduction14/10/12 05:38 AM
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Don't shit where you eat all depends on the person in my opinion. I've slept with a few girls from my work, and it's been really fun with them. The key is, that these girls are chilled out and don't want anything more than a bit of fun. I've had the opportunity to sleep with a few other girls from work too which in any normal circumstances I'd have jumped at, but because I think it'd turn awkward sooner or later, have passed up the opportunities. Avoiding problems is all about making sure everyo…
/r/seduction02/10/12 08:31 AM
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Generally mine is -Smile -Eye contact -Be confident -Assume attraction -Outcome independence -Kino
/r/seduction16/09/12 11:31 PM
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Don't try to keep in contact. You'll either get friendzoned or contact will just drizzle out anyway. Just tell her you had fun and you'd love to catch up next time you're out there. Last memories for her will be the awesome times you had and she'll want to hang again anyway.
/r/seduction07/09/12 12:53 AM
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See it's not so much about finding things to do, it's more about getting her to do them and stay there.
/r/seduction03/09/12 09:58 PM
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Ok I agree with you on all of these counts, but you're kind of missing the point here. I already do see her every day. I never initiate texting, and it's not very often that it happens. It's almost as if the problem is that I'm forced to be too available, so that it means there's almost not a reason for her to go anywhere else with me, even though she apparantly wants to. I guess this is the sort of thing I'm trying to get around. The other reason why I'm not totally giving up after the flakes, …
/r/seduction03/09/12 09:55 PM
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Sounds like you just think that most people won't appreciate your sense of humour so you censor it. I struggled with this for a while, and the key with it is learning where the line is between. "Oh my god I can't believe he said that! hahaha!" and "Oh my god I can't believe he said that. What the fuck.."
/r/seduction30/08/12 11:59 AM
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Haha this is funny because I use an aids joke all the time with great success. Me: You should know, I'm actually riddled with aids. I contracted it from an African prostitute. Her: What? Me: Have you seen 'life's too short'? Ricky Gervais? Steven Merchant? Liam Neeson? Her/90% of girls: OMG I LOVE RICKY GERVAIS/STEVEN MERCHANT!!! Me: Haha haven't you seen the skit they do with Liam Neeson? It's gold. I have to show it to you! EDIT: Would never use this over text though.
/r/seduction29/08/12 10:34 AM
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I love this book, and I've never read a page of it. It's a pretty good way to get any girl anywhere in a sexual frame by talking about it. Asking them questions about why it's so popular, and do girls really like that sort of thing? Can get you into a sexual frame with a girl really comfortably, really fast. God bless whoever wrote that book.
/r/seduction25/08/12 12:34 AM
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Nice! Another sales technique which I find applies massively after building trust, comfort, rapport and KINO with girls is assuming the 'sale' In sales, always assume the sale. Don't ask them for it. Once you've got their interest, start the sale process. They'll stop you if they don't want it. Exact same thing applies with pickup. Once you've built attraction,assume she wants to give you her number. Don't ask her, give her your phone and tell her to put her number in. She'll put in a fake one o…
/r/seduction23/08/12 11:00 AM
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It can help you a lot to start out finding a set with one obvious ugly duckling in it, and then opening her. The friends are usually more receptive because the ugly one rarely gets hit on, and then you can dance with the others without them feeling threatened. Although then you can get into the problem of them just pushing you to try and get you hook up with her. Can be a good way of breaking AA and getting warmed up though.
/r/seduction19/08/12 07:07 PM
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I'll let you know if I start.
/r/seduction16/08/12 11:51 PM
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Don't get me wrong, I think pickup is fun too. I just think the idea of pickup (for me at this point in time) is to find sexy, fun, and interesting people to spend time and have NSA sex with. If someone's not ticking any of those boxes, I now know I can go and find someone who will. So why not do that instead?
/r/seduction16/08/12 11:49 PM
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I think you're definitely right about that. I guess this is certainly advice that I would have interpreted differently when I started out. However I think it would still have applied equally as well. Even though I would go out and 'have fun', deep down no matter how much fun I was having with my friends, I would know that really I wish I could talk to this girl, or dance with that girl. So if I was being truly honest with myself I would have to admit that I hadn't been having all the fun I could…
/r/seduction16/08/12 11:39 PM
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Obvious troll account. I have to say though I did get massive LOLs from this. I absolutely lost my shit at "Thinking back I should not have gone into as much detail as I did and her body language and eye contact didn't seem to convey deep interest but when I get started about the loss of functionality on the desktop from the Metro interface vs. any perceived benefits from improved usability in a tablet computer I become impassioned." Reminds me of David Thorne. Quality. 10/10 would read again.
/r/seduction16/08/12 12:09 PM
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Sounds like it was a one night stand that you took too far and that's why she wasn't affectionate. Also even if it wasn't a one night stand, you're much better off putting some space in between interactions. I can go on a date with a girl and really like her, have her spend the night and if we spend the entire next day together it all loses its novelty and excitement and I'll get bored. Give her at least a day or 2 to think about you, then get back in touch.
/r/seduction16/08/12 10:15 AM
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I like that you think you're in your prime at 18. A girl told me once that she had never been approached by a guy under the age of 22. Another girl told me that all guys under the age of 21 have an immature aura about them and don't know what they want. This is far from absolute and universal, but 18 is certainly not your prime, whether you know it or not yet.
/r/seduction13/08/12 11:33 PM
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"I guess you already know that means a no lol. Where are you from chefporkchop?" "I'll tell you on Friday when we have that Coffee"
/r/seduction12/08/12 11:13 PM
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This one.
/r/seduction12/08/12 10:55 PM
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Not really, it builds the tension I think. Most of the time it won't last 5 seconds because she'll introduce herself to me. If she doesn't then I'll introduce myself to her and continue conversation as per normal. 5 seconds really isn't that long.
/r/seduction12/08/12 10:40 PM
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Bouncer - "Hey bro - Go home if you want to do that shit" Me - "Sorry man haha, just got a bit carried away. I won't do it again" Bouncer - "No seriously, go home..." I took the girl home so it didn't really matter, but yeah.. apparantly they don't like that stuff. (Just to be clear we're talking about picking her up off the ground, she had her legs around my waist - Not pick up as in PUA)
/r/seduction12/08/12 01:05 AM
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To be honest this is the situation I want to avoid. I realize that some people are going to be dicks no matter what, but when I'm out trying to have a good time, I don't want to be put in a position where someone wants to fight me. I'm kind of looking for ways of removing the girl from the situation and dismissing the guy without him getting more aggravated. Having said that, it sounds like you handled the situation pretty well but the guy was just a faggot.
/r/seduction12/08/12 01:02 AM
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To be honest the handshake line is kinda irrelevant, the main part about the handshake is to keep holding her hand for as long as possible. I don't really know where you can find good lines for that though. When I first started looking into this I was looking for canned lines like that, so I did a bit of research but most of the ones I found totally sucked. I think the key is to just start the conversation off on a playful tone. It also makes their friends a lot easier to handle if they can see …
/r/seduction11/08/12 11:57 PM
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Neither I don't think. It all depends on how it's delivered. If you think of it all as delivered with a totally straight face then it would be rude and people would get pissed off. The key is that it's all delivered whilst beaming a massive smile at them. They know you're teasing, and you're not telling them how awesome everything they say is even if it sucks just because they have a pair of tits. That already sets you apart from half the guys in the club and they want to talk to you more/spend …
/r/seduction11/08/12 11:52 PM
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Hmm, I got kicked out of a club for picking up a girl while making out with her the other day so I'm a bit skeptical about this one.
/r/seduction11/08/12 11:47 PM
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Here is my best opener for clubs. Me: Hi (smile) Her: Hi -(usually smile) Me: Smile at her for about 5 seconds and don't say anything Me: I'm 'makinplays' Her: I'm HB Shake hands Me still holding her hand you have a really good handshake, your dad taught you well! Her: either starts talking about something to do with that or just giggles and says thankyou Me: So are you a -city I'm in- girl? Her - response 1: Yeah I am! Me - Response 1: That's pretty boring, so you're just like everyone else her…
/r/seduction11/08/12 06:09 PM
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Try to include your friends, although I do know what you mean about them ruining your game. I was out with one of my friends tonight who has nowhere near enough game to be a wingman, but routinely pulls fat/unattractive girls simply by paying them attention and he has a great time doing it. Tonight he ruined a couple of my sets by just being vulgar and overbearing, so I made it my number one mission to hook him up with the first girl who'd take him. Opened a 3 set of HB 2-4's and then introduced…
/r/seduction11/08/12 06:02 PM
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Also one other interaction I had that night that wasn't with a girl, but shows how talking to everyone can benefit you and open doors. When I met up with my FWB she was in a club which is usually open doors but tonight had a VIP function going on. I went up to the bouncer and he said "Do you have a VIP card?" I pulled out my ID and said "I have a VIP ID?" and gave him a massive shit eating grin. He said "Nah mate, get out of here" but the other bouncer who was with him laughed and said "Haha nic…
/r/seduction11/08/12 01:33 AM
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Paper, scissors, rock. (not joking)
/r/seduction07/08/12 09:27 AM
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My question is why would you want to sleep with a cheater anyway? It may be different for other people, but for me I personally need to like and have a connection with the person that I'm sleeping with no matter how hot they are, even if it is only for one night. If she's a cheater, or really stupid, or a bitch, or any character trait that generally fucks me off then I don't care how hot she is or how into me she may be. She's disqualified. There are plenty of awesome, fun, cool, sexy girls out …
/r/seduction06/08/12 12:00 PM
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I dunno, I could see this working if you delivered it well enough and had a bit of a better follow up to it. If you opened with this... "Me: Can I ask you two a question? Girl 1 & 2: Sure! Me: Do you promise to answer it? No matter how outrageous it is? 1 & 2: Yes. They looked a little nervous now Me: Okay...Spit or swallow? 1 & 2: They began laughing We're not like that, sorry!" And then look fake confused/disgusted and say something like "You don't brush your teeth? that's disgusting! Your bre…
/r/seduction06/08/12 11:42 AM
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Awesome FR. I can relate to this so much it's crazy. Especially the reflection. It used to happen to me so much, and I would try to figure out where I'd gone wrong for so long. The great thing about Seddit is not that it stops you making mistakes, but makes you realize them once you've made them. So after beating yourself up for them for a bit, you're so aware of them that make damn sure you don't make them again. I agree with a lot of the others about not going on a date with her friends though…
/r/seduction06/08/12 11:33 AM
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I read the entire sidebar several times, also just stuff that pops up on here day to day. But seriously, it was mostly a lot of really basic stuff. Like not wanting to take the lead and always asking the girl what she wanted to do. Also just complimenting girls consistently and wondering why that didn't arouse their interest, dropping everything to hang out with a girl if I got the chance, making myself far too available to them, and lacking too much confidence to make any moves unless she prett…
/r/seduction05/08/12 09:14 PM
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At least you can see where you're making mistakes. It means you clearly know what you should be doing but it just hasn't clicked yet. Also, I saw from your comment history you're from NZ. Whereabouts?
/r/seduction05/08/12 08:58 PM
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People tend to get kinda pissed off when people give them shit about smoking. Even if it is tongue in cheek. Just as a social smoker I can tell you that it gets awfully old awfully fast. I don't think you should smoke with her if you don't like smoking. That's compromising your values way too much. I'd just have told her that I didn't want to smoke but would come outside for some air while she had one.
/r/seduction05/08/12 12:35 PM
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"I'm going to get a drink, you wanna come?" "It's hot in here, let's go outside and get some fresh air for a second"/smoking if you're a smoker. Dancing etc.. Basically any excuse to detach yourselves from the group temporarily. It shouldn't even need to be a good excuse if you've already built some attraction. She should want to go with you.
/r/seduction05/08/12 12:18 PM
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Half the time when I go out I end up losing my friends at some point and going solo anyway. People always seem friendly enough. It's the same as with anything. Just be confident.
/r/seduction05/08/12 07:26 AM
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Sounds like you did really well. Just the fact that you keep using the words 'Money' and 'Baller' in the way you do kinda makes me hate you.
/r/seduction05/08/12 07:24 AM
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I'm 22, HB6 is about 20 I think? and HB8.5 is about 24? Not sure about HB7 but I'd say early 20s. I see HB6 at work every day, and it's all good because we're both chilled enough for it not to be awkward. HB7 I also see every day. HB8.5 is in a different department and works different hours so I rarely see her, maybe once every 3 or 4 weeks or something. Pretty much never.
/r/seduction05/08/12 07:05 AM
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Just remember that if you ever find your girlfriend/wife banging someone else. But each to their own. I just think at the end of the day it's important to have a set of morals that you stick to no matter what they are.
/r/seduction04/08/12 11:09 PM
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Far from a natural. I was so incredibly AFC it's not even funny. I honestly cringe at some of the things I used to do/say thinking they were smooth. Basically almost everything I learned though I got from Seddit. I lurked here for a while and disregarded a lot of it as "That'd work in America, but girls here aren't like that" and "Yeah but this girl's different" before getting sick of never getting laid and decided fuckit I'd try it. As I'm a relatively good looking guy with an accent, it made t…
/r/seduction04/08/12 11:05 PM
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I never ask either. If I sleep with a girl and she tells me she has a boyfriend later, then I can happily go about my day with a clear conscience. It's a matter of also not asking questions you don't want to know the answers to. But at the end of the day it's her responsibility to tell me if she has a boyfriend, and then I'll respect that.
/r/seduction04/08/12 10:57 PM
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New Zealand!
/r/seduction04/08/12 10:47 PM
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HB6 as I said I slept with on a previous night out and put in a really solid performance so she was always wanting to go home with me again that night. She also told a lot of the other girls at work that I was a great lay so that may have had something to do with it. I'm not in any position of power at my work. I'm very good at my job though (sales) and have won a few awards for it but I don't really think that had much to do with it. You're right, it's hard to tell how much was there already, a…
/r/seduction04/08/12 10:46 PM
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No door charges on most of the clubs around here! Makes changing venue a lot cheaper =)
/r/seduction04/08/12 10:36 AM
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This is great. I was reading this and it's pretty much a play by play of how I dance. A couple of things I'd add though. As far as brushing your hand over her shoulder goes. If she has long(ish) hair then you can just brush it away from the side your head is on when she's grinding you, that way you touch her shoulder and neck and also get open neck access so you can kiss/bite her ear. Girls go wild for this sort of stuff. Proof = the threesome I had last night [FR pending].
/r/seduction04/08/12 06:21 AM
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I envisaged him more as Milton off Office Space.
/r/seduction28/07/12 11:40 PM
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I'd say he'd want to kill him because tryna fuck a girl when you know her boyfriend is in the same house is pretty much the most disrespectful thing you can do to a man. You may as well just piss in his face. OP is a dick.
/r/seduction26/07/12 10:35 AM
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Of course I don't think it should be punished with death. I also don't think that he meant the boyfriend was going to literally murder him. I just think that if the boyfriend goes and gives him a smack in the face it would be exactly what he deserved. I think one of the biggest themes of this board, and pick up in general is getting the mentality of abundance. That means there are plenty of girls around and you don't need to go around fucking someone else's girl. It's not clever, it's not alpha,…
/r/seduction26/07/12 10:26 AM
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You deserve it if he kills you. That was a dickhead move. You knew she had a boyfriend and still kept kissing her that night.
/r/seduction25/07/12 11:21 PM
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Internet one-itis. Go and find somebody else.
/r/seduction23/07/12 10:05 AM
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Nice work man! Good FR! Sounds like you know exactly what you're meant to be doing. I'd just say though that there seems to be a common misconception on here that you need to say something before a kiss. Discussing a kiss before it happens is awkward. It doesn't display confidence. Just grab her head with one hand and her waist with the other and kiss her when you've built enough attraction/kino. If she doesn't want to be kissed, she won't be.
/r/seduction23/07/12 09:39 AM
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I like this, saved to memory for future use.
/r/seduction23/07/12 09:29 AM
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Something I saw on here a while ago and thought it was cheesy as fuck, and dismissed it as crap is the palm reading. After trying it a few times it's pretty much become one of the strongest tools in my arsenal because 1. Kino 2. Makes girls laugh, every time. 3. Easy way to turn the conversation sexual. Basically segway into it however you like. I often use, 'So why should I keep talking to you? Tell me something that you can do that nobody else can do'. Eventually she'll ask you the same thing,…
/r/seduction23/07/12 09:29 AM
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Haha play! Yes! I love that word. If you want her as a hookup just text her late next time you're out and she'll immediately know what's what. E.g. anytime after 1am. Hookup to FWB is pretty risky in my opinion, if you 'hang out' with them they'll inevitably start to think of you more as boyfriend material. In my experience FWB only works if you are friends first or if there's a definite time limit on your time together (e.g. tourists, exchange students etc..). I reckon just keep her as a hookup…
/r/seduction23/07/12 09:16 AM
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Sounds like you did awesome man! Asking girls to kiss is always going to be awkward but it says alot about how well you did that she wanted to hang with you all day!! I find from what I've experienced so far that with kino it's all about confidence and leading at the same time. For instance, I took a girl on a date to the zoo, and when I saw a cool attraction I would grab her hand and say "let's look at this". and lead her to it. The other thing that is great for both leading and kino is the han…
/r/seduction22/07/12 09:47 AM
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FR- Field Report. This is a written account of what you did. I guess it is an FR. I just think of them more as a description of a certain outing or event on a single day rather than over the course of a few dates. Now I re-read it though I see that it was just over the course of one date. Regardless though, I stand corrected sir. I give you an upvote as the spoils of your victory.
/r/seduction22/07/12 09:11 AM
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Sorry to be blunt, but I can tell you exactly what is wrong with you from this comment right here. Your mindset is all wrong. Stop planning to join a tennis class and join a goddamn tennis class. Stop planning to do community service at a school and do some community service at a school. You don't need a personal trainer to join the gym. There are heaps of people there who know what they're doing. Go and watch them use a machine in the mirrors then copy what they did. Go up to someone who's on a…
/r/seduction22/07/12 09:03 AM
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This is an educational FR for if you're an older woman and want to seduce a younger guy who's not that attracted to you.
/r/seduction22/07/12 08:47 AM
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Not really a FR, but congrats on the K close dude.
/r/seduction22/07/12 08:43 AM
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Also, remember that girls love guys that don't know how to dance. Not the type of guys who don't know how to dance so they sit in the corner nursing their drink. The type of guy who doesn't know how to dance so he gets out there, dances way over the top with a giant smile on his face and is absolutely impossible to ignore. Be that guy.
/r/seduction22/07/12 07:28 AM
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"When I girl tries to kiss me, or I'm going to kiss her, I make sure to whisper something like "kissing you would be awesome, but I love being single, and kiss would be all it is, if your cool with that, then..." at this point, look her dead in the eye and smile, say nothing. Same goes with an f-close, always make sure you clarify your intention and position before proceeding." This really seems like a bit of overkill to me. The way I see it is that if I get an F close or even certain types of K…
/r/seduction21/07/12 12:48 PM
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Sorry, just badly worded. I've had sex with 3 girls in the last month, but one of them I've been sleeping with pretty regularly so I don't know the exact number. I'm by no means a master PUA though haha. Still very much learning the ropes. Don't worry, if you did upvote you haven't been hustled out of internet points ;)
/r/seduction19/07/12 10:13 PM
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I'm in New Zealand, but originally from the UK. When I open with "Who are you?" it's always with a great big smile, but it's like I'm interested but with a hint of 'What are you doing in my bar?' in the tone. I find it to be a fantastic opener just simply because most people don't start conversations that way, it's straight to the point, and the wording of it almost sounds like they have to explain themselves to you. Those reasons may be total crap, but it seems to work haha.
/r/seduction19/07/12 09:39 AM
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I'm in New Zealand. Originally from the UK though. Sorry, not sure that I understand the question. Transform myself as in my life or as in to get into a better state that night?
/r/seduction19/07/12 09:35 AM
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I can't remember where I read it to be honest. But the change of state really didn't happen that fast, it was sort of over the course of about an hour. To give you an idea of the timeline the whole pickup with the girl happened in less than an hour from Hello to Bed.
/r/seduction19/07/12 09:26 AM
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Hahaha dear God I hope I never become like that. I have that problem too, what I tend to do is find quieter parts of the bar, and still use it as an excuse to kino. I'll pull her in to hear me but also lean in so that it's more me reflecting her body language than appearing overly forward and eager. I find that generally unless you've made an abysmally bad first impression on a girl she won't have an issue with a hand on her back or shoulder to guide her in in a club environment even if you've l…
/r/seduction19/07/12 09:23 AM
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Finishing on her face when she told you not to is something you do at your peril. Last time I did this the girl stood straight up, punched me in the face, went to the bathroom to clean up and then walked out without a word. Admittedly though she did text me afterwards to apologize, and then when I didn't reply brought me a pizza and some cupcakes to make up for it. Still, I don't think it's something I'll be doing again anytime soon.
/r/seduction17/07/12 01:25 PM
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Dafuq? You tried to kiss her after she vomited everywhere? Shiit you're dedicated to the game my friend. I'd be straight out.
/r/seduction17/07/12 01:21 PM
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Sounds like she was dtf but then you took too long chatting to the roommate. Then once you had to go and knock on her door for a while, and her being the ones ending the little makeouts put her back into the position of being in control. That, combined with her being pissed off from before resulted in Fap. It's simple maths. ;) But realistically she was probably just being difficult cos she was frustrated and still DTF or she wouldn't have still been making out with you. If I was you I would hav…
/r/seduction17/07/12 12:50 PM
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This is something I've been considering for quite a while, how much money did you save up for this? I've been trying to figure out an appropriate amount. I guess it depends on where you went but I'd love to hear more about your trip?
/r/seduction17/07/12 09:10 AM
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Damn, where do you live that people are so generous with their drugs? haha.
/r/seduction15/07/12 11:54 AM
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From my experience, the best way to get sex is to just get the girl so turned on that she wants it as bad as I do. I just don't think mentioning any form of STD is the way to do that haha.
/r/seduction15/07/12 11:43 AM
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Haha oops, meant to just reply to the thread! Very true though, everyone's different.
/r/seduction15/07/12 09:29 AM
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The one thing that got me from theoretically improving my life to actually doing it was basically to realize that once you know who you want to be, you just need to start acting like that person. Start thinking like that person too. Ask yourself what would that person you want to be do in this situation. Soon enough you'll inevitably start to become that person.
/r/seduction15/07/12 09:27 AM
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It decreased my confidence, libido, and motivation to approach girls. It may do different things for different people, but for me personally I have been told by no less than 5 people out of the blue that I'm like a different person lately and seem a lot happier. I only started /r/Nofap at the start of the month. I won't be stopping!
/r/seduction15/07/12 09:18 AM
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The fact that there's been months between interactions makes it sound like a very bad case of oneitis. If you get the chance to see her again, get her number. In the meantime, find other girls. Worst case scenario you won't be so awkward next time you chat to her.
/r/seduction15/07/12 07:13 AM
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I know what you mean. Whenever I see a girl I like it seems that I like her heaps so I start making moves, then she starts to like me. Once that happens I start to like her less the more she likes me. I dunno what it is, but it's kinda annoying.
/r/seduction10/07/12 12:09 PM
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For me, I go to the gym for a few reasons. The exercise makes me feel so much better in day to day life Knowing I look good and have a nice physique helps with my self confidence in day to day life. Girls like guys who are in good shape. I like girls and want more of them to like me, so I like being in good shape. I want to be strong and fit in case of a zombie apocalypse. All of those reasons are pretty much just doing it for myself, but for a variety of different reasons. If that makes sense?
/r/seduction08/07/12 10:16 AM
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These were my exact thoughts.
/r/seduction27/06/12 09:27 AM
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This is cool. Day game appeals to me because it's more of an everyday thing, I'm still working up the balls to work up to that though. For some reason night approaching seems way less scary to start with haha.
/r/seduction25/06/12 09:59 AM
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I agree with this, I think it's hard to tell if you enjoy a place if you haven't been there yet. I used to absolutely hate the ideas of clubs, and then when I went there I still hated them. Then I realized that I was so convinced that I hated them that I hadn't given them a decent try. One night I forgot all my preconceptions about clubs, went out as if it was my first time out and knew nothing about them and had an absolute blast. Seriously, give it a go.
/r/seduction25/06/12 09:28 AM
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The way I see it is there's always the opportunity for a number close, it's really not that big of a deal unless you've already been blown out of the water. I don't think it's even really a game thing, it's just whether they think you're a creep or not. If they don't want to give it to you, that's cool, wouldn't have been much fun hanging with someone who didn't want to hang with you anyway. If I get a good vibe from someone, whether they're a guy or a girl and I think I'd want to hang out with …
/r/seduction25/06/12 09:22 AM
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I like this idea a lot, I feel that it could certainly backfire in some situations, but certainly something that I'll add to my list to try.
/r/seduction24/06/12 05:53 PM
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Well I didn't kick her out as soon as we got to my place, we got into bed first and then she all froze up and this conversation ensued. I definitely wish I could have had more time to escalate and make her feel comfortable at my place,but by this time it was about 4am and I was pretty tired. You're right though, I could probably have reacted a lot better and possibly got a result. Next time I go out I'm definitely not gonna hit the booze so hard though so I'm a bit more on my toes.
/r/seduction24/06/12 05:52 PM
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Yeah, I think you're right about that, I definitely ended up making it into too much of a big deal. To be honest by this point though it was around 4am, I was pretty drunk, felt like I was being used and there's nothing that pisses me off faster. Cheers for the feedback!
/r/seduction24/06/12 05:45 PM
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