This has been a monumental mindset change for me lately that has really changed the way I conduct myself.

An example of this happened the other night.

Went out, met an HB8 in the club. Was having a bit of a chat and some fun banter teasing her, we dance and I'm having fun, I'm escalating kino and having fun, I isolate her and take her out to the lounge area... still having fun. I build up the attraction with sexual conversation and K close.. still having fun. She starts to talk... a lot... about serious things.. I'm in a party mood.... I'm getting kinda bored... The girl is totally into me and when her friends go to leave she tells them she's staying. I'm not really having as much fun with her by this point and am left with 2 options.

  1. keep hanging out with the girl, put up with the slight boredom, most likely take her home and F close her for the sake of it cos she's hot.

  2. Grab her number, tell her I have to find my friends and that I'll see her later, and go find an interaction that entertains me again.

I decide to go with option 2. Up until very recently I would have gone with option 1.

I like to practice my game and pick up girls because it's fun, because I like meeting exciting new people, and because sex is awesome. I do it because it's fun. My entertainment comes first. If a girl is no longer entertaining me then I will now move on and find an interaction that is entertaining. I'll entertain myself by entertaining her and challenging myself to get her attention and interest, but if she's a boring person, then next.

It may sound pretty obvious, but has been a pretty big revelation to me and I just thought I'd share.

The flipside of that too is that the girl was amazed that I would just leave after we had built so much attraction, and she texted me the next day and wanted to meet up.