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Tears from a woman are as dangerous as a dagger from a man.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 12:29 AM
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I know this may be surprising but yes some people learn different things at different times depending on different factors and variables. Shocking I know. Just because something is obvious to you doesn't mean that someone that learns a concept later in life should just give up because they're fucked. That is literally antithetical to TRP philosophy. You sound like an edgy 14 year old that wants to prove something instead of helping your fellow man.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:46 PM
14

You hear that everyone? If you came to TRP to learn things you don't already know then you're a lost cause. Sure was fun boys. Pack up the textbooks. Last person shut the door on your way out.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:29 PM
8

Tell me exactly how advanced your mental retardation is. http://illimitablemen.com/understanding-the-red-pill/red-pill-constitution/ Number 15 is literally what the OP is expressing.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:42 PM
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This is one of those rough to swallow aspects of the pill. I was already aware of this. I first had a feeling this was true and then I read this Cracked article and it clicked for me. I know Cracked is usually bullshit but this article is actually brilliant and I encourage everyone to read it. http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 02:21 PM
6

This is a brilliant insight that I hadn't even thought about. Right or wrong, thank you for sharing something thought provoking.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 09:39 PM
14

The problem with love is it contingent upon an outside party being able to grant you your idealized version of what love should be. This means you are reliquishing some of your power in this in exchange for love. Remember gentleman, power is the ability to direct one's own destiny. Once you have made love a priority in life your destiny will always be entwined with another person's. Whether this is good or bad is the subject of philosophical debate. TRP will always choose power over love though.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 12:20 AM
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If we are going by the dictionary definition of bigotry (which is intolerance to those who hold different beliefs) than reddit in general is a pretty damn bigoted place. I mean every sub is essentially it's own echo chamber of bigotry and bullshit. I definitely do not buy the fact that TRP is the most bigoted though. There is no way that award could go to anyone other than the ShitRedditSays sub. EDIT: Upon reading that article they have done what I suspected and just chosen to redefine the defi…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 03:29 PM
1

I doubt any real dark triad has the self awareness to self identify as a dark triad.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 02:11 PM
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She just doesn't understand why Equality™ is bullshit. To me that's where are all the rest of her bullshit comes from. Even if you're logical and start off with a bad premise, you're going to get a bad conclusion. If you were to ask her what's the difference between men and women she would say "nothing except the plumbing".
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 05:18 PM
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While I would just like to say that this is good advice for most people, it can be taken to a debilitating extreme by others. Most people spin their hamsters to rationalize their problems and why it's not their fault. I, however, have suffered from crippling low self-esteem and placed the blame of everything on myself. This really fucked with me growing up and the best thing I have ever learned to do is to forgive myself for the mistakes I make. Identify your mistakes accurately, and fix them ef…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 12:36 AM
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This an invaluable lesson though. Some men never learn this and go from relationship to relationship repeating the same mistake. I believe once you have internalized this you've passed probably over 50% of the shit tests that make male-female relationships such a challenge.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 07:18 PM
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This is probably the most succinct and accurate way of describing a woman's love I've ever seen. Thanks for the insight.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 06:49 PM
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Behold the true power of the hamster. She doesn't even realize the incongruity of her ideals and her actions.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 01:29 PM
2

Firstly, I think you should examine what love means to you. I don't think most TRPers are bitter misanthropes who don't believe in love, we simply realize that the Disney version of love we've been sold by society is bullshit. Give this a read: http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/ My honest opinion is that any human can transcend their instincts, but I believe it requires so much effort and will power that it would hardly be worth it for the average person.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 02:34 AM
3

Being aware of your own instincts is of course part of the battle. The next question is why do you want to curb these instincts.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 02:02 AM
6

I did some research and it is true that Narcissitic personality disorder does effect SLIGHTLY more men than women. However, disorders such as Histrionic personality disorder (which have a component of narcissism) effect FOUR times as many women. And let's not forget good all solipsism which can create narcissistic tendencies.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 10:00 PM
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"Men more narcissistic than women" Hahahahaha.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 06:02 PM
10

Women evolved to be breeders. They evolved to gestate children with the best genes they can get and raise them with as much resources as they can secure. This is what women do for our species and it is impressive but in the end they are just baby machines. Men on the other hand evolved to explore and exploit his environment (for his children and woman of course). Men evolved to look up at stars and wonder what they were, where they came from, and why they were, and then to ruthlessly pursue the …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 12:56 PM
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Do you hate a dog for chasing a car, fetching a stick, or peeing on a carpet?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 03:33 AM
6

"Kill the boy so that the man can be born"
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 12:43 PM
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Asexual betas or demonized because they won't do the monkey dance and become a girls beta orbiter like the good little beta they should be. They don't serve the feminine imperative in the same way that a standard beta provider at least does.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 11:36 PM
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Remember that for one gender to fulfill their sexual imperative the other must give up their's. The most potent weapon we have against hypergamy is polyamory; and notice how demonized it is.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 09:58 PM
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http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15097964 Care to site some sources? Oh no, of course not, this is reddit. By the way high levels of testosterone have also been linked to increased heart disease, immune deficiency, and earlier mortality. Please present tell me those are all myths as well.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 07:00 PM
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You do know that premature balding and hair loss is associated with high levels of testosterone right? Right? I hate when people with no real grasp of biology, psychology, or sociology try to writes treatises on biological determinism.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 12:36 PM
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I have never met a person that didn't hamster.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 08:34 PM
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If you're a hood rat then no it's not. But swag on playa.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 03:31 AM
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Good work. I want to point out something that you have done well that you may or may not be conscious of. The "I am here to support you" gambit is a shit-test. If you would have taken her up on that offer of support she would have quickly rescinded it and then detached herself from you. You can never rely on a woman. She will find it disgusting. I speak from experience. But good job. I learned from your post and hope to implement the these things into my own life.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 02:26 AM
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I'm not telling you to be a clown. I'm telling you that to a woman you are nothing but a clown http://www.rooshv.com/men-are-nothing-more-than-clowns-to-the-modern-woman
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 02:18 AM
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Here's the problem I have with being social. I'm an introvert and naturally I do not thrive in social settings. It takes a lot of energy and can be quite stressful for me. However, this isn't even my main problem. My main problem is most people are fucking boring. Sinfully fucking boring.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 02:03 AM
1

I think fashion is often under represented as a quick and easy way of boosting your SMV. Most guys dress TERRIBLY. I mean they really have no idea what they're doing. How often do you see some poor sap with a graphic tee, cargo pants, and running shoes that look like they're from an 80s sci fi movie. And all of these things fitted horribly I might add. I used to be of the opinion that fashion didn't matter. I used to wear basketball shorts and Hanes white T shirts everywhere. It was so juvenile …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 01:57 AM
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It's unfortunate for one reason. No matter how much the fatties protest and shame men into thinking that fat is beautiful it won't happen. Men will always like curvaceous and fit women for obvious genetic reasons. This is itself isn't sad, in fact they deserve the denial they've built themselves. However, the fewer fit and healthy women there are, the more valueable they are. So the more women that fall for this fat acceptance bullshit and let themselves go this will drive up the SMV of every ot…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 11:11 PM
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I think Chateau Heartsie said that we are basically clowns to women now. We're performers. We live in a time where women can support themselves and if not the government will support them. This is the reason you see that absolutely seething disdain for beta providers in this current environment. They are almost completely unnecessary and simply interfere with optimizing a woman's hypergamy. So what's left for men to do? Just simply be alpha. They just want us for our genetic material and our ent…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 09:40 PM
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I think this crosses the line from intergender analysis to an actual case of psychopathy, histrionic personality disorder, and god knows what else.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 11:15 PM
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What the fuck are you even talking about. I'm not even being pedantic. Stop using words you don't even know the meaning of. The point of that post is to illustrate why people don't give a fuck about you if you're weak.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 09:41 PM
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Taken from the Red Pill Constitution on IllimiatableMan's blog 5.) – Women do not care about male weakness and neither does society. If you are weak, depressed, small, poor, uneducated, unconfident, essentially anything which stops you from being powerful, then nobody cares. People only care about you when you’re powerful or a beautiful woman. You have to pull yourself up by the bootstraps and rely on yourself because nobody else gives a fuck about you. You’re given a dichotomy, sink or swim, yo…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 08:41 PM
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Unfortunately that's what being a man is. Deal with your problems, and then deal with the problems of others. No one wants to hear about your shit though. Laugh and the world laughs with you Weep and you weep alone
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 07:40 PM
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So you're saying natural selection is a good thing? Well let's make vehicles less safe to weed out more stupid people. Let's stop producing medicine because it allows people genetic defects who would not otherwise be able to reproduce to reproduce. These arguments are so ridiculous. What's good for the goose is not good for the gander. There are many facets of biology that have been restrained and curbed to produce civilization.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 06:56 PM
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IDGAF what's fair or not fair. Only what's real. That is literally the first thing the OP says.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 06:15 PM
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OP is initiating a classic argument from nature fallacy. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Appeal_to_nature Hypergamy is natural. So is violence. He even mentioned wolves eating deers for christ's sake. If you are arguing from nature you have to accept EVERYTHING that is natural and that includes violence and rape. Now get out of here with your bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 06:00 PM
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So what you're saying is I should do my thing by raping as many women as possibly and spreading my seed as much as possible? When you realize what's inconsistent with what I just said you'll realize what's inconsistent with what you said.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 05:40 PM
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He's been conditioned to be like that.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 04:26 PM
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Most people who talk about Ayn Rand know nothing about her philosophy. Ayn Rand would hate the 1% as well because most of them have made their fortunes through government intervention and special interests.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 04:27 AM
4

In all seriousness though for plate spinning I'd definitely go for 9s and 10s but if I ever wanted an LTR I would sacrifices a lot of points in attractiveness for a woman with a sense of humility and an ego smaller than Gibraltar.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 04:46 PM
11

"Please Mr Alpha Sir. May have perhaps just one of the lowliest of your harem?"
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 04:39 PM
1

Ha she got mad and now she's rage posting all over reddit about TRP.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 04:25 PM
11

So what you're saying is the 8s and 9s are freed up then? Sounds awesome!
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 04:20 PM
3

You seem angry. And let's be realistic, if you had any valid points to argue about with observation and evidence to support them I would be happy to hear them. Instead this is what always happens. A woman comes in here and then shouts us down for being pathetic misogynists instead of taking the time to really self reflect and consider some of the things said here and why they might be true. This sub is not for you. This sub is for men. If you don't like it kindly leave.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 04:07 PM
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All women see men as utilities. You're either a beta provider and your utility is your work and resources, or you're alpha and your utility is your ability to give them the tingles and the genetic material they need. And you know what you have to do. Improve in every way possible. Raise your SMV to the ceiling.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 01:43 PM
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What a lot of people don't realize is that male's have a pluralistic sexual strategy as well. Alphas will have as many women as they please where betas will try and lock down a single woman by investing more in her.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 11:43 PM
3

TRP is not en all encompassing philosophy. TRP is amoral and doesn't care what you do to get laid. However if you have other philosophical obligations then that's another story.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 11:36 PM
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I keep my hair long because it forms long goldilocks curls that look like they're out of a movie. Sure it's very feminine but it works for me and starts so many conversations. Women will often ask if my hair is real and if they can touch it. It's led me to being laid more than a few times. This effect is amplified when dealing with black women. Number one rule. Play to your strengths.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 08:38 PM
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I am a sailor and this quote I always liked: "A pessimist curses the wind. An optimists expects it to change. A realist adjusts the sails."
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 08:28 PM
11

Also, is it just me, or can you see the news reporter getting turned on?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 08:05 PM
112

I think the best part of Corey Worthington is not that he shows what Alpha is, but what Alpha is not. You don't have to be a good person to be Alpha. You don't have to be intelligent to be Alpha. You don't have to care about anyone other than yourself to be Alpha. Always remember that.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 07:44 PM
2

It all comes down to femcentrism. Hypergamy is seen as normal and as the guidelines for how a man and a woman should interact with each other. On the contrary polyamory, men's sexual strategy, is seen as deceitful and shameful. Women are trying to box men as much as possible so that they have the most options and we have the lease. Why would a woman want to control her hypergamy when it is encouraged and to her advantage to exercise it fully.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:00 PM
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I bet men lie as well, but just differently. Like a man might lie about how much he makes to assuage a woman's hypergamy, but women will lie about a baby being yours. Chris Rock has a skit where he says men lie the most, but women tell the most fucked up lies. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g_4DYBejrvo
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 02:49 PM
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I get that on the internet you'll find some really extreme, and maybe even falsified, stories. However, I am still grateful that even in my most shameful of shameful beta days, if some bitch told me I had to do chores to get a BJ I would have told her she could go fuck herself.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 02:49 AM
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It's brilliant to be reading this so many years later. I'm sure some of you will have had the experience of feeling invisible to women in highschool. Well, it's because you almost literally were.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:38 PM
4

I apply TRP exclusively to LTRs. In fact I would say the beauty and utility of TRP really reaches it's apogee in the context of LTRs and not plate spinning. Since I've been RP my LTR has been much more stable and more fulfilling. Sure it's sad that I can never fully trust her, never fully relax, never full put my feet up and enjoy a woman's love because the second I stop preforming is the second I get dumped. This does detract from my happiness, but so does the idea that I'm going to die. A trut…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:19 PM
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That is true as well. I was also referring to how this attitude of society's is pushing men out of children's lives. A boy can't have a mentor anymore without it being seen as creepy. Boys aren't learning how to be men from men anymore. Girls are also in a bad place. They don't know what a real man and/or are not used to male attention, so when they become teenagers they become even more easily coaxed onto the CC. Just my two cents.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 04:23 AM
8

Good thing I never want to look like Dorian Yates.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 04:12 AM
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Also, as a corollary, I'd like to add whenever anyone says you can have something "quick", "fast", or "easy" that person is trying to sell you something.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 04:11 AM
111

I think we should pause and reflect on how this is fucking up kids.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 03:53 AM
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"Equal right equal rights equal rights, but pay for all my shit."
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 11:20 PM
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I've always done this. It's actually my favourite, and go to formula for almost any debate. It actual has a real name other than "double blue pill" it's called reductio ad absurdum http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reductio_ad_absurdum Essentially you are take your opponents argument and taking them to their logical conclusions. When the conclusions happen to be absurd it exposes just how faulty the original premise was. Add these to your arsenal. They work wonders.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 03:46 PM
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You'll never achieve any of this in this culture. If women are embracing Open Hypergamy, the best thing to do it to return fire by embracing our own sexual strategy of open polyamory. In other words spin the fuck out of some plates. The cultural climate will break you if you try and do anything else.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 02:25 PM
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I actually don't disagree entirely with this quote. The problem arises because women interpret this to mean they can always be at their worst.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 03:41 AM
9

I actually like these stories because I will only ever end up on the more favorable side.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 12:02 AM
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Shit OP I am not very big, have no facial hair, and my voice isn't that deep. Should I just get a sex change?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 07:18 PM
1

Just remember women only fuck up. If you are average you will only attract below average women.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 11:25 PM
12

Alcohol doesn't make people cheat. Alcohol simply gives someone plausible deniability for when they get caught cheating. People know this and that's why when they drink they think they can do whatever they want because "I'm drunk, the alcohol made me do it"
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 11:14 PM
3

http://therationalmale.com/2015/02/06/two-camps/
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 12:41 PM
9

The most bitter part of the whole situation for me is while I have to fight for every single iota of SMV I have, some women are going to show up later in my life (probably post 30) after riding the CC and simply believe they are now owed all the things I have worked for. Of course I am going to bitter. I've sworn if I'm not married by 30 I will never marry a woman my own age. Only 10 years younger.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 04:33 AM
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I'd like to say that the lonely old man myth used to terrify me. Now when I look around me I see unhappy single women, and unhappy marriages, but I don't see any unhappy old men. The one single old guys I know is fucking amazing. He builds boats and sails them across the sea. He has in own plane that he flies. And he has the most amazing stories and adventures. Dude doesn't take shit from anyone either. In the end women need men more than men need women. Men need women for sex. Women need men to…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 03:31 AM
2

I would love to see these alpha's here who shit on art call Ernest Hemingway or Charles Bukowski betas and not real men to their face. They'd be on the ground so quickly.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 03:21 AM
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You can't see yourself as the prize if you have no reason to. Faking it until making it only goes so far. Do you go to the gym? Do you have interesting hobbies? Do you do well financially? Are you highly educated? The more you invest in yourself the more of a prize you become. Even if a fat 25 year old professional WoW player thinks he's the prize he still won't be seen that way. Change yourself and your perception of yourself will change with you.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 03:45 AM
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I am a very open minded person. I will listen to anyone lunatics or kings and judge what they have to say based on observation and evidence. My first stop on the red pill voyage was the rational male, and everything I read their jived with my past experiences to an almost creepy degree. Like someone had scripted my experiences with women. Even if some of Rollo's stuff might be stretches and reaching into bullshit evo psych territory it goes VERY far to explain a lot of things I have observed. No…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 03:35 AM
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They just made the first artificial womb. As soon as they make the first sex-bot we can all call it quits. We can divide the world 50/50 and never have to worry about dealing with the opposite sex again. Guess which society will be better. I'll give you one try.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 12:45 AM
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I would do this in a heartbeat. Please give clearer instructions. Does nationality matter? How do you apply?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 11:21 PM
1

This is why we all talk about internalizing things. It really is the difference between PUA and TRP. When you're driving your car do you think about how to clutch, shift gears, accelerate, break, and turn in serious detail and while timing each different action. No because you've driven so much you don't have to think about these things. The goal of TRP is not to game women, it's to become the personification of game. You don't need to think how to respond because you'll respond how you should.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 08:52 PM
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I'd only ever do MMF if it were a one night stand and casual as fuck. How any married man could think this is a good idea is beyond me. I can't imagine how much liberal "don't be insecure", "be open to new things" kool aid this guy had to drink.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 08:46 PM
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These are things you can only answer yourself and no one can do any of the work for you. The only thing I can say, which I guess you have learned, is never make a woman your goal. It will always crush you.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 07:03 PM
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I'm surprised that know one has thought of Alpha widowing as a strategy. Alpha widow a bunch of women and then you'll have guaranteed access to sex in 30 years. Assuming you're not still banging 20 years olds. It's a solid back up plan though.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 06:44 PM
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Can we at least admit that marijuana is a far more boring and apathy inducing drug than alcohol ever could be. At least drunk people do things. High people just talk about how high they are.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 03:54 AM
1

Yeah but how. Due to unfrotunate life circumstances of break ups and friends moving away I have zero friends. I am doing decently in all other areas of life except I have no social life. I'm not in school. Don't know how to proceed.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 01:18 AM
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In my opinion rational self interest is the only thing Objectivism got right. Her metaphysics and political philosophy are both pretty ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 11:20 PM
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It comes down to in groups and out groups. Do I want a bunch of people from another tribe mating with my women? Of course not. I'm psychologically conditioned to think this way even if it's silly. We are always thinking of things in terms of in groups and out groups. It helps make sense of the world. However, when you apply this to sexuality and start hitting on insecurities, sparks fly. EDIT: In my high school it was the cool thing for white girls to date black guys. Did it make me angry and bi…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 08:10 PM
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My opinion is that TRP is not a complete and self sustaining philosophy. It encompasses a lot of great ideas that should be internalized if you want to live a fulfilling life. However, ultimately, I think it's just a building block in a much larger and more encompassing personal philosophy that everyone should be building. TRP isn't THE truth. It's A truth. As long as you go on living on this earth you should be learning and refining your ideas.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 08:08 PM
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If I had to chock this up to some bullshit evo psych theory, I say that one of the worst things that could happen to you would be warring tribes coming in and raping your women. Can you imagine a more moral inducing speech than your captain telling you that a bunch of heathen brutes are coming to rape and despoil your precious virgin women? You'd go nuts and be spearing people like your were in the movie 300
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 08:05 PM
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Hypergamy crosses borders and races. Are you sure you don't just want a white woman as some sort of trophy to assuage your insecurities? Because that's what it sounds like. If you want something go get it. There will be obstacles in the way of everything you do and if those obstacles are too much trouble for what you're getting than you can't complain about it.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 08:03 PM
3

Except AWALT. And TRP actively discourages pedestals of any variety. These threads may pop up but I certainly don't put any belief in them.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 07:47 PM
2

Is that a thing that actually happens? I certainly don't pedestalize asians, latinas, blacks or any race of women.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 07:42 PM
5

I never understood this. If you're not white why do you pedestalize white women so much. They're not that great. Why is it every minorities end game to snag a white girl?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 07:30 PM
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All of what you said can be summed up by the quote: "Men are idealists pretending to realists. Women are opportunists pretending to be idealists."
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 06:58 PM
2

Humans are humans having a fulfilling relationship with any other person is going to be difficult and require compromise and sacrifice.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 05:09 PM
10

I try to ease back on the throttle but never go into idle. This makes it easier to ramp up the RPMs once i've recovered. Also in my weakest moment I go AWOL to take advantage of Law 16: Use Absence to Increase Respect and Honor. Works like a charm.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 04:10 PM
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I don't know how much I agree with this. In fact I'd claim the opposite. I think we are born Alpha. Watch a young boy. He has purpose. He does things in a self confident manner because his brain hasn't been indoctrinated by all the bullshit beta ideas of our culture. That's what I believe anyway. I suppose you could argue it either way.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 02:56 PM
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Traditional girls won't call themselves traditional girls. "Traditional girl" is just slang for I'm going to try make you my beta orbiter and pay and wait for what I'll give to Chad Thundercock in 30 minutes.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 02:28 PM
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I'm all for holding Frame and setting boundaries but these are words we are talking about. If we started feeling like we need to censor words that trigger us we're halfway to being feminists. My advice would be find the root of your insecurity involving this word, be a man, and deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 03:24 AM
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Have you ever notice that the people who perpetually chase happiness and post things like "After every rain storm is a rainbow" on facebook are always the most perpetually miserable? It's because they don't know how to process their emotions. When these people taste unhappiness they think there is something wrong that should never happen and they push it out of the way as fast as possible instead of actually processing the emotion like a mature human being.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 02:42 AM
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People like that always remind me of the fox and sour grapes fable. Also I briefly read his post history and he admits that he is autistic. Nothing to see here people. Move along.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 08:08 PM
10

If that's the case I can flip on any channel any time of day and break out the pen and paper.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 08:03 PM
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Except most men won't see this as a cautionary tale. They will see this as just how things are supposed to be. May I present to you the wonderful world of Open Hypergamy: http://therationalmale.com/2014/08/07/open-hypergamy/
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:31 PM
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A lot of TRP theory arose out of actual obersvations of gender interaction. They're based in observable reality and many peoples lives have been improved dramatically, myself included, by introducing these ideas into my life, much to chagrin of your original post. So if we apply a theory in the real world, and we find the results that theory predicts, what is wrong with using those theories as a road map for living?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 04:55 PM
2

They key ideas of this sub are self improvement and male sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 04:41 PM
6

Nothing you just said has anything to do with TRP. Perhaps you're looking for a different sub?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 04:29 PM
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If that's the case expect all lines to go down as soon as she finds a man she can branch swing up to.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 04:07 PM
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This is so suspicious it warrants a lot of reflection. LTR to FWB is a downgrade to a girl. Women will NEVER voluntarily downgrade any area of their life for any reason. I guaran-fucking-tee you she has ulterior motives and you better figure those out quick and in a hurry if you care enough. I would plate her and fuck other girls anyway.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 04:00 PM
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This is the paradoxical nature of women I've never heard adequately explained. Essentially women love men for their strength and power. However, because he is strong and powerful he is also dangerous. Females HATE risk that they cannot completely manage and neuter. So they set out to tame and manage the danger that power and strength confer. By doing this they also neuter the same power and strength they fell in love with. Now you've got a beta that women absolutely revile.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 03:43 PM
4

I like to think of it as how you'd treat your daughter. Less dehumanizing and probably more accurate too.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 03:39 PM
45

Imagine if we could inject every feminist with testosterone.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 03:35 PM
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Really and truly this is what drove me to TRP. How a woman can say she loves you, how she'll be there for you no matter what, how you can let your guard down around her and she'll love you more for it. Then when you do any of these things you get rejected and dumped immediately. It really is a mind fuck. I think it's the most insidious kind of shit test there is.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 03:34 PM
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People get mad when they've realized they've been fed a lie for so long. Especially when that lie leads to such catastrophe as the lie about what women really are. That being said there is a lot of brazen and very real misogyny on this board.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 03:35 AM
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I have this theory that American women are attracted to black guys because they represent all the hypermasculinization that has been so thoroughly bred out of your average beta white dude.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 03:32 AM
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I've actually seen and read up on this before. Some of these female streamers clear 100,000 a year off of ad revenue and donation money. They are simply doing what any man would, using their assets to the best of their ability and monetizing the shit out of it. They're just beta orbiters after all. A fool and his money will soon be parted.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 11:44 PM
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If anything I think Feminism is some weird Red and Blue Pill Frankenstein that doesn't really know what it really wants to do or say. Take for example female mating strategy and the feminine imperative. Feminism is clearly designed so that every stage in the game sexual deck is stacked in their favor. All women are beautiful. The ever increasing definition of what constitutes rape. The shaming and restraining of masculinity so that it's neutered, safe, and that they have a steady supply of willi…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 08:37 PM
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I don't think it's living vicariously though. I think they genuinely enjoy the sense of humiliation and degradation the same way a BDSM person would enjoy masochism and sadism. I'm far more interested in the psychological causes of these things though. I think Freudian psychology really needs a resurgence because I feel the answer is definitely in that area.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 05:51 PM
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I've always wonder if the appearance of cuckold culture, and the explosion in rates of male to female transsexuals (which has always been higher than female to male) has anything to do with gynocentrism and how ruthlessly masculinity is being demonized.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 05:49 PM
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Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain. And could you keep your heart in wonder at the daily miracles of your life, your pain would not seem less wondrous than your joy; And you would accept the seasons of your heart, even as you have always accepted the seasons that pass over your fields. And you would watch with serenity through the winters of your grief. Much…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 06:52 AM
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Pain is our mothers milk. Let it nourish you and make you strong.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 02:47 AM
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I was quoting from a rational male article: http://therationalmale.com/2012/08/22/just-get-it/ Honestly there is no way of knowing why she ditched you. If you really were doing everything right then my best guess would be she simply found someone better and branch swung. If not you might have fucked up in some crucial way and not even realized it. I'll say this though. Never be afraid to lose a plate/girlfriend/wife for whatever reason. ALWAYS be ready to walk. The moment you are not willing to …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 02:33 AM
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When the lines of communication go down, you don't get a message saying the lines of communication have gone down. That's what the lines of communication going down means.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 02:25 AM
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People hate bieber because he's terrible. People love him because he's a pop star. Even though there are people that both like and hate him there is no controversy around him. You don't seem SJWs, feminists, TRP, conservatives and who knows what other groups getting riled up about Justin Bieber. 50 Shades of Grey is popular for the same reason Twilight was popular. Mysterious and powerful alpha male falls in love with bland and boring plain jane.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 02:19 AM
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That's the fantasy aspect and why it's so eaten up by women. It's the thought that a rich powerful man would pick a plane jane nothing of a woman to be his everything. It lets women project themselves onto the movie.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 01:49 AM
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Shitty movies and books come out all the time without generating this much controversy. Let's get real here. I think OP was pretty accurate and was well thought out.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 01:38 AM
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I've seen it said here before, but a low SMV man is literally offensive to a woman.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 12:41 AM
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Women have quite literally evolved to do this.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 12:08 AM
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Posts like this remind me of how TRP can be turned into a warped ideology just like feminism. You have feminists run around screaming misogyny and rape at every incident until they become useless buzzwords devoid of meaning. The same thing applies to TRP. We have a lot of useful terminology on TRP such as plates, ONEitis, pedestals but I feel like you just threw the word pedestal out there and hope it stuck as if you were saying something profoundly Red Pill. It is perfectly fine to enjoy women …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 12:00 AM
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I can't tell if this is a troll or not, so if it is a troll congratulations I guess you confused me and got me to reply. You've typed out a lot of words but essentially have said nothing and haven't really extrapolated on any ideas. What exactly are you on about? There's no coherent thought throughout your paragraphs.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 03:20 PM
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It's such a shame too that feminists have disarmed women of their greatest asset: charm. Have you ever met an actually charming lady? They are electric. They are magnetic. They are a summer rain that refreshes your soul. I'd give up all the skank pussy in the world for a charming young lady. A woman without charm is like a man without game and we can all see the consequences of both those things.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 02:44 PM
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Don't ever date a girl who is best friends with their ex. I am best friends with my ex and I'm pretty sure I could poach her from any single guy that started dating her with minimal effort.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 02:40 PM
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Imagine if prostitution was not only legal but socially accepted and just seen as normal. Pussy stocks would plummet. You'd have a lot of women suddenly acting like they've got a little sense instead of spoiled little princesses because now they have got to sell the whole package and not just the hole.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 01:57 AM
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Status has always been confusing to me too. I look at people who women would think have "status" and they look foolish and stupid to me. They look like they've sacrificed the better part of themselves for fool's gold. I've always had luck with women by playing more into a rebel without a cause stereotype. I think at the end of the day the number one most important concept of game is frame. You can have a beat up piece of shit car, a dead end job, and worn out clothes, as long as you hold your fr…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 01:53 AM
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I mean it might be fun to break these girls from time to time by nuking their egos from orbit with your TRP awareness but it's not going to get you anywhere. A giant part of TRP is that you can never admit to being TRP aware. You just covertly convey that you know that game and are better at it than she is.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 10:17 PM
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Every so often I see beta's erroneously justify the sexual revolution as everyone getting laid more. Since women are having more sex guys are having more sex right? Wrong. Your average beta still gets zero action. Chad Thundercock just has queue lined up now.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 02:58 AM
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There are strong independent women. I've seen them. But they don't do things like what you described in your OP and they most certainly do not label themselves Strong Independent woman.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 01:18 AM
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Honestly I used to think like those guys. The world is full of technology to do work for us now, what's the point of getting big like a caveman. Those guys are full of shit. You're obviously in a preppy and academic environment with people who have a tendency to get stuck up their own ass. They think it's a low class hobby because they have the platonic idea that the matters of the mind are much more noble than those of the body. It's all horseshit. I guarantee you that women like muscle on a li…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 12:32 AM
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Civilizations have been built on monogamy. Human sexuality is far too complex to reduce to what simple sexual strategy trumping all. Different mating strategies arise due to different environmental factors. For a good chunk of our history monogamy made the best evolutionary sense because it meant we could sink the most resources into our offspring insuring that they were capable of reproducing. In today's current climate monogamy is on the decline. Soft harems are once again falling into favour …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 12:11 AM
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Women actually love to be objectified. You just have to have a high enough SMV for them to enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 03:03 PM
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Selfishness is human nature and I tolerate it from other people empathetically up to a certain point. But the story you just described definitely flies above and beyond any sane person's selfish drives. I mean what's the point of dating someone like that? You literally don't have any pretense of support or affection. You're basically an accessory to her ego so she can show off that she has a boyfriend and to be her emotional tampon.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 03:00 PM
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I've always been impressed by how much feminist can contort itself to "dismantle oppressive gender roles" when it involves women doing feminine things, but as soon as men step out of their gender roles and go MGTOW or something else the shaming tactics kick in. Man up. Grow some balls.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 02:50 PM
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I'm glad a lot of you are responding positively and are reaffirming just how masculine and invigorating poetry can be. I'll leave you guys with some of the good stuff. Some Charles Bukowski, a man of tremendous passions and talent. there is enough treachery, hatred violence absurdity in the average human being to supply any given army on any given day and the best at murder are those who preach against it and the best at hate are those who preach love and the best at war finally are those who pr…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 02:10 AM
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Are you referring to the Kipling poem If? Last stanza is: If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch, If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you, If all men count with you, but none too much; If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it, And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 02:05 AM
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I find it all beautifully paradoxical. Love and romance you would think are a noble pursuit and worthy of a mans sense of artistry and perfection to be honed to razor sharpness. However this is not how it works. You can make a woman the center of your universe and she will absolutely despise you for it. You would literally be more attractive as a professional house of cards builder than a professional lover.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 11:52 PM
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I guarantee you the best case scenario for you is that this comes to nothing. However I foresee shit for you now in dealing with HR. I worked in a corporate environment for 6 months and knew how to play the game better than this dude. This MRA territory not TRP.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 11:50 PM
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I would much rather take advantage of feminist psychology than try and correct them. I mean jesus christ, you'll be crucified like jesus christ if you make one wrong step. I'd much rather take the Machiavellian route: "Yeah yea whatever you say baby". Then proceed to fuck her into next week.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 08:33 PM
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The funny part is she'll psychologically fuck up that girl just as much as she would have the boy.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 07:42 PM
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Learned this the hard way. A woman cannot love a man that grovels. You lower yourself in her eyes and in the eyes of others around you. It completely counter productive. If you want to love you have to play the game. "Swallow blood before pride."
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 04:19 PM
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It just goes to show the Frame and internalized Game is the engine that runs your SMV. You can be ripped, have model tier looks, be a successful business owner or doctor, and have tonnes of interests and hobbies. But if you don't have game, the lynch pin that brings it all together, you're still going to get chewed up and spit out.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 04:07 PM
1

Thanks for the advice. Part of it is I like a good challenge.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 04:39 AM
1

I do not oneitis for the sister. I think she's hot.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 04:38 AM
1

The struggle is half the fun. Low hanging fruit aren't as tasty as the fruit from that tree on the mountain top.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 04:37 AM
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Do child abuse survivors ever get over their abuse? I'm not saying these are the same thing but not getting sexual attention during your teenage years and feeling like a sexual pariah while Chad Thundercock fucks your highschool sweetheart can be incredibly emotionally damaging. We are all shaped by our experiences and that is what makes us who we are. The real question is who is getting the better deal in the long run, the Chads that are now settled down with the nagging wife or the newly alpha…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 01:09 AM
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Because TRP works for me. For the vast vast majority of women acting dominant and aggressive and alpha has worked wonders for me attracting women and keeping them. In my doormat beta days I suffered immeasurable at the hands of women. So that's my own anecdote and why I choose to subsrcribe to TRP. It works 99% of the time in 99% of situations with 99% of women.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 03:30 AM
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Do what works for you, and discard the rest. If you and your boyfriend are perfectly content and happy with your relationship then good for you guys and I sincerely wish you the best. However, this place is for men who have found happiness and fulfilling relationships through Red Pill wisdom.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 02:20 AM
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Women definitely have IMMENSE influence on all spheres of life. Their influence is simply covert, as is the way they like it. They're simply going for more overt power grabs now a days. Anyone who believes women are powerless is a fool. Just imagine all the dangers we have faced as a species and women have survived more often than men have. This means their evolutionary toolkit of survival must be just as honed and deadly as any man's
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 01:41 AM
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I thought I'd inject a little red pill comedy. Louis CK. On jobs and the entitlement of young people. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0JW1tJLRtsk
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 11:37 PM
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Women want to feel secure and they want a man that they know will take care of them and assure that they are safe even when they are experiencing the thrills of danger. The best way to achieve this is by embracing a father archetype. Act as if she's your little girl you are showing the joys and beauties of the world to. You're an old soul that's been around the block so many times nothing surprises you and everything is at your command. I feel like this one of the more powerful elements of game …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 10:47 PM
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Well it just has to do with their sexuality giving them intrinsic worth. If you had to go out fight mammoths to the death for dinner or you could get some poor schlub to do it for you in exchange for sex privileges the choice seems obvious.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 09:52 PM
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I should have phrased that differently. You can't expect them to love you they way you feel you should be loved. You can't take off your armor at the end of they day and put your feet up. You can't expect a woman to ever be there for you when you're down.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 09:34 PM
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Men evolved to manipulate the environment. Women evolved to manipulate men.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 09:21 PM
23

This is a bit tangental but there are parts of TRP that do really counteract my own depression. When I start to fall into that dark space of apathy and malaise once I reach a certain depth I realize that no one is coming to help me, and that is liberating. I can't rely on anyone but myself to crawl back up so I better dig my heels in now and start scaling mountains. You're given the options of sink or swim as a man. You can blame sinking on anyone and anything. Your parents, your upbringing, you…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 08:28 PM
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Take this lesson and learn from it. You will get nowhere being an idealist who believes in right and wrong. When you show up on a job you have to play the bullshit game everyone else is playing. You fucked up the game and lost your job for it. Don't make the same mistake next time.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 07:02 PM
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Betas can never be completely eliminated because they are part of what's known as an Evolutionary Stable Strategy. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evolutionarily_stable_strategy Basically the more Alphas there are the more beta traits will be desired. One can never completely eclipse the other.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 05:29 PM
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Women want the best possible man and to lock him down. They prioritize quality over quantity and will simply branch swing if they feel they can do better. In this sense they don't technically keep plates, however they will keep beta orbiters just in case of a crash landing to rebound off of.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 03:22 PM
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I actually found that article to be anti-femcentric. The author is essentially arguing against hypergamy. "Go ahead and settle before it's too late!" instead of "You have all the fish in the sea to choose from so go for the best and biggest fish".
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 02:58 AM
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Last relationship fell to pieces even though I did everything "right". I couldn't reconcile what I had experienced with a lot of the knowledge and information I had at the time and I'm not one for cognitive dissonance. So off I went searching for answers. I stumbled through a number of blogs getting closer and closer to what could be described as red pill. Then I found Rollo's Rational Male and after reading a couple of his articles everything clicked. Here was someone describing using the scien…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 02:54 AM
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You fucked up on one of the golden rules. When gaming you are using covert communication, not overt communication. You are suppose to subtly drop teasers and hints at your sex life. Or even let your friends or a past girl fling fill them in. They mystery and their hamsters will drive them wild. Showing them a sex conquest story you posted on reddit is a pretty huge lady boner killer.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 02:03 AM
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My natural personality is very heavily monogamous even after swallowing TRP. Basically society has shifted away from monogamy as its standard method of mate pairing. Now serial monogamy and polyamory are much more common. So you can chase monogamy all you want and if that's what you want that's what you want but just realize that deck is stacked against you and you will probably end up hurting yourself a lot. The knowledge is there it's up to you to do with it what you want.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 01:45 PM
1

Swallowing TRP is a lot finally cracking a decryption code on the a radio. A lot of conversations I hear people in that I once thought was white noise and bullshit is now straight redpill talk. Like some of the things I hear women say they could be redpill bloggers. You know, if they were out to help men instead of their biological imperative.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 01:41 PM
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I hate how these fucking bullshit articles try and flip the script of what's really happening. I would not give a fuck if my woman was successful and smart, in fact, I would prefer it. You know what men don't date women who are smarter and more succesful? Because women won't date those men. Women demand men who are better than them in ever conceivable way. And guess what. If a woman wants a man smarter than herself, that means she is by default dumber than he is. Women set these bullshit standar…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 01:37 PM
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The difference being when you tell a woman not to wear make up she calls you on your bullshit. When a woman tells a man "just be yourself" he bites.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 02:11 AM
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Let me be extremely clear. Whether or not she's attractive without metric tonnes of make up and photoshop is not my point. My point is her weight is not an issue. She has not become so fat that her weight becomes unattractive or a deal breaker.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 10:43 PM
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To be honest I see this more as bragging to other women to increase her status among them.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 10:27 PM
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Honestly she looks attractive. I'd definitely tap it. There's a lot of things you could get up in arms about, but this is not one of them.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 10:24 PM
22

You always know when you have pushed a woman's buttons correctly when she switches over to overt forms of communication.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 09:49 PM
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What's amusing is that she believes she is upset by this. However, if he would have stated the exact opposite and said something along the lines of "I will always love you and be with you even if you cheat on me" (I have konwn guys this pathetic by the way) her vagina would have been dryer than the mojave desert and you better believe cheating would then commence.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 06:20 PM
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Nice assumption. Why don't you take your condescension somewhere where it might have value like /r/feminism
/r/askTRP03/02/15 03:47 AM
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Look not all of us can be Chad Thundercock. All you need to do is do something well and be interesting. I've said it a few times on this sub that if you play piano and you want to try play guitar because you think it will get you as many girls as Keith Richards don't do it. You will suck and Keith will get the girl. Instead become the best fucking piano player you can be. Play to your own strengths. In highschool I played the witty and crass smart ass that would say things to undermine and hamst…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 06:40 PM
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It means stay in your own narrative. Don't fall into theirs. Once they suck you into their story and have you trying to plead your case, begging for mercy you're basically already at the gallows. They are so ridiculous that you don't even entertain their ideas. It's Amused Mastery. Just act like the whole thing is the laughable bullshit it is. Stay in your reality. In THE reality. Don't let them drag you into their world. That's frame.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 06:02 PM
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It has always amazed me how alphas are given a free pass to behave as sexist, racist, and in general abysmally poor human beings simply because they stimulate the tingles. However if a beta tries this shit he's shutdown so fast his head will spin. Take a look at how Nice GuysTM are vilified for expecting sex in return for kindness. He's a misogynistic asshole because he believes women owe him sex for his kindness. The bad boy alpha expects and demands sex simply out of a narcissistic belief in h…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 05:50 PM
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http://therationalmale.com/2014/11/23/vulnerability/ Boom.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 02:44 PM
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"Happy is the man that knows the causes of things."
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 01:29 PM
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I'll try answer a few of your questions. If you've read any of TRP at all you'll know that feminism is an ideology that seeks to consolidate male and female privilege for women while denying all responsibilities. As an ideology it exists in its own kind of bubble and will perpetuate whatever kind of data and falsehoods in needs to survive. This means it must attack those who directly oppose it and one of the best ways to do that is by dehuminizing the enemy. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dehumani…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 01:24 PM
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I'd say we simply buried our biological imperatives under abstractions and pursuits of more noble nature as someone like Plato might put it. The problem is Women never did. Women have always been very very aware of their biological imperative. Look at all of mythology. Women are always connected to the Earth and the animal world.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 10:30 PM
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This is Open Hypergamy in action. Women have now deemed it acceptable, since it's woven into the fabric of society, to announce their plans to men in a show of confidence of victory. They literally not only intend to have their cake and eat it, they are thrilled at the fact they're getting away with it and want you to know they are. EDIT: The best part is also the plausible deniability woven into conversation. If you would have taken the notion to call one of them out on their bullshit they woul…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 10:14 PM
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One of my favourite quotes has always been: "Man's greatest weakness is his facade of strength. Woman's greatest strength is her facade of weakness."
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 10:09 PM
3

My problem with this kind of reasoning is that if love is a neuro-chemical reaction, which it is, than so is every single other experience you will have in your life. That life's mission and feeling of accomplishment? Chemicals and stimuli impinging on the brain. So what exactly makes one more of a delusion than the other?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 03:14 PM
3

That story is very suspicious. Unfortunately it's the internet and we'll never really know. So here are my observations. I've read enough of TwoX to see a pattern that no matter what sins a woman commits she should be forgiven by her partner. However, if a man does something wrong in a relationship it's all "you deserve better girl" and "don't forgive him". Perhaps this is just own group preference on a massive scale. Second point: I find it funny how out of all that information given 90% of the…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 12:25 PM
11

No women want all the rights, privileges, and perks of masculinity with none of the obligation and responsibilities.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 11:46 PM
1

The quality of that woman's life would decrease drastically without the former. Not so much the latter.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 10:44 PM
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It's amazing how I can read this paragraph and it describes my last relationship so perfectly it's almost embarrassing that human nature can be predicted with such accuracy. I believe it was Rollo who said you can never ever take a break. There is no respite, there is no bastion where we as men can finally put up our feet and have the woman we love tend to our psychological wounds. We are fated to be like Atlas the giant that holds the world on his shoulders. And the more he tries the more the w…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 12:18 AM
9

This is where I buck heads a lot with TRP philosophy. I have met many charming, entertaining, witty, creative, and interesting women. I have met a lot of aggressively boring men with personalities reminiscent of a square drawn by a 2nd grader. I don't know why your experiences are different than mine but my experiences are still my experiences.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 11:49 PM
0

Men can never entirely throw off our provider roles though. Not if you want a woman and companionship. Women have built in self worth through their sexuality. Men do not.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:06 PM
6

I'm not sure if it has been mentioned but telling a woman "I'll be there for you even if you want to be single for a while" is quite literally the worse possible thing you can say. It means she can completely capitalize on her alpha fucks while knowing she has a beta bucks verbally committed to her. And secondly what kind of alpha would say something like that anyway.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 06:05 PM
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The thing is though culture is just as relevant and important as biology. Consider the following: Every human needs to eat. Eating is a biological function driven by hunger another biological function. However, what a person eats, how a person eats, when a person eats, who a person will eat with, how often a person will eat etc. is all dictated by culture. Sexuality is very similar. Hypergamy may be on a rampage but only because our current culture allows it free reign.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 04:51 PM
7

I'm probably going to get people strongly disagreeing with me but after some instrospection this is what I feel is at the root of a lot of slut hate. I believe it is envy. Would I have liked to have slept with 70 people by the time I was 20? Sure. But because of my gender that would have been a quest of Homeric and Tolkien proportions. I had to work for every girl I've ever slept with. Where as a slut simply opens her legs and "allows" someone the privilege of fucking her. In other words it's a …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 03:53 PM
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The entitlement always amazed me as well. If this were a conversation among guys there would at least be a possibility of over hearing the phrase "What could I do to get..." such and such. But with most women it's just "Where is the prince charming I was told I have been owed as my birth right"
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 07:50 PM
2

I'm fully aware of everything you just wrote. That's why I prefaced my paragraph with "since mating strategies and definitions of love and affection change with environment and culture". And that's the key isn't it. The environment dictates what sort of match making and pair bonding will happen. In the environments you described there was more cohesion because there was more pressure to cohere. While I agree with you about the single happy family being idealized bullshit for the most part, I do …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 02:11 AM
1

You do realize this your story is not TRP right? While I totally empathize with your upbringing and being a late bloomer you did not handle it in a psycholgoically healthy way. If you reread everything you wrote and listen to yourself you come off at the very least as sadistic (feeling power and pleasure from hurting others) and a little bit psychopathic (remorseless). You have taken your pain and internalized it and now you must hurt others to find a sense of self worth. That's fucked up that's…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 01:05 AM
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I'm not going to pine over "the good 'ol days" since mating strategies and the definition of love and affection change with environment and cultures. But I will say that in the late stage consumer capitalist culture we live in we've started to view our partners as goods to be settled on, replaced, upgraded, and disposed of the moment you become inconvenienced is an interesting phenomenon. It could only survive in a culture of such excess and materialism. Again I'm not arguing against our biologi…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 09:32 PM
2

The thing is leisure and self improvement are not even the zero sum game people thing they are. For instance when I want to relax I go and noodle around on a guitar. When I first started playing is was dreadfully dreary and tedious. Far worse than lifting weights. Now it's fun and relaxing. I sit down and play some blues licks and just calm down entirely while also practicing a skill. And it is a skill I can use to entertain people and impress women. No one gives a fuck if your level 100 in WoW.…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 04:57 PM
1

This is reddit. An echo chamber inside an echo chamber. People only want to hear whatever confirms their own beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:53 PM
1

Wow look at all that fucking hamstering. Careful you might break your wheel. In the precious 48 Laws of Power you guys circle jerk to pieces here one of the laws is never admitting to your own mistakes. Men and women both do this. This isn't a gendered issue. If you think it is you're just blinded by your own brand of prejudice. Don't you look stupid now.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:46 PM
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It's called ego protection and both men and women participate in it equally and fervently.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 04:39 PM
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All girls are naturally Red Pilled. It's only men that have been so thoroughly indoctrinated we need to be unplugged and reeducated.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 04:18 AM
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You clearly don't understand what I'm saying. Not feeling challenged is different than being bored. If you have an active brain you don't get bored. If you have an active mind you have a palatial inner world inhabited by thoughts and ideas. It's called having an imagination. If you ever find yourself being bored it means you don't have that.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 04:15 AM
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I don't think I've ever been bored in my entire life. I firmly believe that only stupid people can be bored. You have a limitless brain that can think of limitless ideas. I can sit down and quite literally entertain myself for hours with my own thoughts independent of outside influence. If you can't I think it's a problem. "I'm bored" has always struck me as a red flag statement from anyone, male or female.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 03:37 AM
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Nice post. I feel like you should have also mentioned resilience though. It's another psychological concept similar to hardiness. The best way I can phrase it is hardiness is the ability to take stress and adversity and not break. Resilience is the ability that after breaking you bounce back easily.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 01:30 AM
3

I've seen the clip before. It's a good video and captures a lot of TRP truths. "No one gives a fuck about who you are, just what you can do for them." Anyway my point is that motivation is external and discipline is internal. If you always need something external to motivate you'll never get things done consistently because you'll always feel like you need something pushing you. Discipline on the other hand is not wanting to do something, not being motivated to do something, and doing it anyway.…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 10:02 PM
8

I disagree. I think most people have alarmingly bad bullshit detectors. I've known a lot of people in my work career who do absolutely nothing all day but get by by just bullshit everyone. They bullshit clients, they bullshit coworkers, they bullshit bosses. These people do fine and move up. I often joke that learning to be that good at bullshit is actually more arduous than just doing your job. Secondly if you subscribe to the Dark Triad theory of sexual attraction you will know that Narcissism…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 09:57 PM
3

Motivation is garbage. Discipline is what you want/need.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 09:44 PM
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If you work in such a place, know this: it is NOT NATURAL. While we're on this subject: Was sitting down 9 hours a day in a fabric coated box ever natural?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:37 PM
0

I don't think you necessarily did anything wrong in this instance. You did exactly as you should which was not to try mate guarding. I'm just saying the other guy wasn't that game savvy. If I had been in his position I wouldn't have tried to wedge between you two. I would have made a point of just being in the social circle and being charismatic and whenever possible hamstringing you and inflating myself. What you did was good. I'm just saying if the other guy had been better you would have to a…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 11:07 PM
5

You did one thing only right and that was to not engage in mate guarding showing that aloof character that women love so much. However, any slightly more competent person would have been able to get her.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 10:45 PM
1

I'm not going to argue with you anymore because we seem to be just bucking heads with "nuh uh i'm right" mentality. http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/20/alpha/ That's my definition of alpha. And as it's also Rollo Tomassi's as well I hope you won't throw any more 'argument from authority' fallacies at me. Alpha is simply a state of being. Yes it is sexually appealing to women for various evolutionary reasons. However it be both destructive or constructive depending on how it is harnessed. It al…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 12:46 AM
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Thank you for posting this Rollo. I find out of all TRP material I am fascinated by shit tests a great deal. In my BP days I was a pretty classic Nice Guy Beta type that figured out a few RP things. Mainly that confidence was key in any interaction with women. This led to me getting my first real LTR which was great for a while. However she eventually start just tossing shit tests at me one after the other. I had no idea how to respond or what was going on. My confidence eroded and I found mysel…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 09:27 PM
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Now I know you are full of it. Alpha does not denote success. The prison system is full of alphas okay. Alpha is a state of mind and depending on how you use that state of mind and what environment you find yourself you can succeed or fail. Alpha is being confident and dominant. Psychopaths are usually pretty alpha. Notice I did not say place women on a pedestal. I merely said make a priority. As in your relationship with a woman taking priority over say your job. Most men on TRP would shout tha…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 09:17 PM
1

You know what's funny is that to me everything you're preaching is the epitome of beta. "Don't mind me boss, I can work late." "Don't worry boss I can come in on the weekend." Giving away your time for free is not how you get promoted. You think your boss gives a fuck if you work an extra 10 hours a week? All he sees is a sucker he can get more money out of. A door mat he can do whatever he wants to. This is the very epitome of beta behaviour. And if you think that your boss is noticing you and …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 11:09 PM
5

Can we get fucking real here for a second? If I work an extra 30 minutes I am getting paid for overtime. Even if it's a nickel at the end of the month IDGAF. It's a nickel I worked for. Reasoning like yours is the reason why in the US have these bullshit unpayed internships and people basically being slave workers.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 08:55 PM
1

Women fundamentally can not love you the way you want to be loved. Men love idealistically and women love pragmatically.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:47 PM
8

You realize loyalty is a concept entirely invented and propagated by men to ensure that they were the biological fathers of children. Every strand of a woman's DNA is screams out against loyalty. If you meet a woman who truly values loyalty all that means is she has been indoctrinated (probably religiously) thoroughly enough that the psychological values have temporarily overridden the biological values.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:40 PM
1

So much bullshit to unpack in one post. Just because you don't like a certain truth does not mean you get to be immune from the potency of that truth. Sure you can choose not to compete and forfeit the competition because of competition anxiety but that still means you lose. If you're happy with that's fine. Live the life you want to live. I hate the conflation between being sensitive and being beta. I also love nature and beautiful things. I play guitar and I write poetry and prose. None of the…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:19 PM
1

There's a difference between acknowledging the reality of a situation and nonproductive complaining. It's important to identify and analyze the ways one might be disadvantaged so that one can compensate accordingly. Not doing so would be foolish. I do agree with you about simply whining though. That's for the feminists.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 12:48 AM
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Don't be a creep. If you can't do this you probably have autism and I would suggest first getting that treated.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 11:01 PM
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It's shit like this that gets linked in the other subs and gives us a bad name. Why the fuck would you be a fan of such a degenerate human?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:59 PM
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Or you can choose to be articulate, intelligent, cultured and dress well, while still being fit, masculine, and aggressive? This is not an either/or situation where we have to roll certain traits for our real life RPG.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 02:45 AM
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I still do not believe that biologically we experience core human emotions any differently. I believe men are just conditioned from an incredibly early age (think baby boy not being coddled as much as a baby girl when he cries) to be stoic and emotionless as possible. People just do not give a fuck about a man's emotions and being emotional will get a man nowhere. Whereas displaying emotions as a female will get all your needs quickly met. This is basic behaviourism and Pavlovian reinforcement.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 09:42 PM
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It's up to you to choose the meaning for your existence. It's a privilege only humans have. You can even choose for the meaning of your live to be women, but women will always hate you for that decision. It's a Catch-22
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 06:03 PM
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That thread was made after mine. Check your facts before you make yourself look stupid.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 08:55 PM
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Well it's like I said: women are not consciously trying to carry out some malicious trap. They are not trying to fuck over some poor schlub. They are simply trying to optimize their biological imperative as efficiently as possible.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 08:17 PM
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Then why the fuck are you posting in a thread I made asking a question? If you have nothing to contribute to the discussion then don't say anything.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 08:15 PM
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The husband usually doesn't find out. And do you think most men would risk going to prison for life to murder someone? I'm sorry if you've been cuckolded and feel bad about it but being angry isn't going to change anything. The point isn't that women consciously do this. In fact I'm sure they don't. You underestimate the power of our limbic brains and subconscious. Just how people find themselves emulating a lot of relationship problems they found in their childhood. It's not a conscious choice.…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:31 PM
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Alpha fucks/Beta Bucks. Women will get pregnant with the Alpha Fuck machine and then seek to lock down a Beta Bucks provider she knows will be loyal and provide for her and her kid. This is basic stuff here.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 06:53 PM
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Thanks for the honest reply. I understand what you've said, but I was thinking more in terms of SMV. What causes a woman's SMV to degrade as her partner count increases, where as the opposite is usually true for a man. Someone else in this thread mentioned the lock and key analogy but what makes the man the key and the woman the lock? I've shed my egalitarian views and understand women are different and interact with eachother differently, I'm just trying to understand why.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 06:27 PM
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Why don't you post a link or explain yourself instead of posting smarmy replies then? I've seen it explained before but never to my satisfaction. Always some wishy washy extrapolating.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 04:51 PM
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I agree. Honestly the first thing I learned from watching people around me is you can't change anyone. People are always going to be who they are unless they decide to change themselves. Also your last sentenced reminded me of this joke: What's the difference between America and yogurt? If you leave yogurt alone for 200 years it will develop a culture.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 12:38 AM
1

If you're going to clubs you're probably already my definition of a loud obnoxious asshole. I guess you just have to out compete the other loud obnoxious assholes?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 07:15 PM
6

I especially liked the analogy of the captain going down with ship when the first mate simply jumps ship. The first mate probably said something like "Captain I've meticulously checked the charts and weather conditions and the sea is completely free of icebergs."
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 07:09 PM
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The most interesting people I've ever met, both women and men, have always been the most unstable. I'm not saying it's a correlation, just something I've noticed. So just decide what's more important to you.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 03:28 AM
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I disagree that all women are "basic bitches". I will say this though: every woman I have ever head describe another woman as a basic bitch exhibited all the same characteristics she was mocking. In other words most women that call other women basic bitches are basic bitches.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 02:29 AM
1

First of all I do not own, nor have I ever owned, a smart phone are a pair of nikes. I live in a third world country. Obviously I understand you're point though and I recognize the same could be said for the computer I am using and the clothes I do wear. I am simply going to address your bolded phrase since it seems to be the core of your argument. "There ARE no morally superior positions insofar as there are no victims involved in the direct consenting parties" Okay so again I disagree. Here's …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 03:09 PM
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I think the error in how you're trying to define morality is that you assume no wrong doing if your motivations are simply not sadistic. I want a piece of cake. In the room with me is a button that if I push it I receive a piece of cake however everybody in the world's pet gets run over. I push the button for delicious cake. I didn't want everyone's pet to die. And I didn't know any of those people so I didn't owe them anything. I just wanted cake. I am morally spotless under your model.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 03:38 AM
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The point of this thread that there are no morals. We made them up. The universe is entirely indifferent to our existence on this planet. Hence if you're okay with fucking someone's wife because it's amoral, well then, so is murder.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 03:26 AM
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He's trolling you. Unless you're counter trolling. I'm too old for these internet shenanigans.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 02:22 AM
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I am so glad someone posted this. It's like I said back in another thread: If you want to fuck around with someones woman and feel no moral obligations I hope when her man puts a shotgun to your face you don't feel he's morally obligated to not pull the trigger.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 02:20 AM
1

I find the idea that men are somehow more loyal than women laughable. Like your bros wouldn't sell you out for some pussy. Human nature is human nature. We invent things like loyalty, marriage, and honor to culturally restrain the parts we don't like. That doesn't mean those parts aren't still mentally active.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 02:23 PM
12

I posted something like this in Rollo's Domain Dependence thread. Always play to your strengths. If you're an excellent pianist and you're in competition with a guitarist don't try and pick up a guitar because you will suck at it. Be the better pianist than he is a guitarist and you will still get the girl. Always play to your strengths.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 05:42 PM
2

Sexual strategy is amoral yes. But since we live in a universe totally indifferent to us all morals are essentially arbitrary. I say this to say that when you fuck some guys wife I hope you don't hold him morally responsible when he puts a shotgun to your face. And I hope he does.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 04:34 PM
1

When I read this the phrase that came to mind was "Jack of all trades, master of none". While it's perfectly acceptable to be comfortable in many domains I still find it useful and satisfying to "specialize" in one or two. I'd rather be a top rate pianist than a floundering guitarist eve if both operate on the principles of western harmony and music.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 03:48 AM
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I'm going to assume you live in another country, most likely in the US, since people in the US always seem like they're state of affairs is the only one in the world. I believe TRP has a word for that. What is it again? Oh yeah: Solipsism. So if you treat BPD good for you however there are people in parts of the world that will not deal with it so keep your shitty US opinions to your shitty country.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 12:37 AM
1

I don't really buy this. I think there are many ways to make money that don't involve corporate bullshit. I was hoping some of you would have interesting jobs you could share and how you got into them. I am a person that needs beauty and freedom in my life. When I am deprived of those things I become very depressed very quickly so even if I wanted to no woman or child would ever be worth self enslavement.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 03:45 PM
-1

Just some food for thought: Most psychologists and therapists refuse to work with Borderline Personality people. What does that tell you?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 11:20 PM
3

I don't understand all the why people here are so determined to have everyone like clubs. If a club isn't your style or setting you like, then don't go there. Don't feel pressured by anyone to do something you don't like. It's the most bizarre thing I've noticed on this sub. If I said I didn't like skydiving or knitting why would you insist I just push through because I'll eventually get used to skydiving and knitting? Do the things you like to do and women will follow.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 07:17 PM
1

Then we are operating on different definitions of ONEitis. I view it as the soulmate myth. The opposite of the soulmate myth is that you can have literally anyone because every one person is just like the other. I am saying as a person becomes less and less ordinary their dating pool shrinks in terms of people they can form compatible LTRs with. This has nothing to do with abundance mentality. Sure I know I can pick up a bunch of 5/10s but would I want to? Yes every woman, and every man, is a sp…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 04:44 PM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Correlation_does_not_imply_causation
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 03:23 PM
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I can confirm. I bought the feminist narrative of equality and equal sharing of emotions. My girlfriend had been really pushing my buttons with shit tests and I eventually had an emotional break down in front of her. Ice queen for a week and then dumped. Her reasoning: "we're not a good fit". Translation: you are not the rock in my bullshit. I'd also like to add that I WAS a rock for 3 years of dating. I was steadfast in a tremendous amount of her bullshit. But the one time I cracked and game ov…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 06:04 PM
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