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I joke that my husband is going out to find new girls and sleep around whenever he has to be away from home. He agrees and jokes about how many girls flock to him. Tickle fights ensue. Edit: also when on your trip you're most likely going to be talking on the phone. Keep it to a minimum. Sure talk about your days ups and downs and listen to hers, make some jokes, then say good night. Don't let the conversation drag on for hours every night. Even if you've got nothing better to do than watch TV t…
/r/askTRP11/08/15 06:41 PM
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Or another possibility is that she's PMSing and she's tired and sore from the day of fun before. Swimming in pools makes your vagina uncomfortable because of all the chemicals drying it out. PMS makes you more tired than usual and lots of physical exertion makes you especially cranky because of tiredness. Sometimes people just don't feel well and when they don't feel well they don't want to have sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 05:25 PM
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Welding, woodworking, handyman type of stuff, car repair.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 06:36 AM
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Can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not, but yea, that's a butt load of money. Most people I know have less than $1,000 in CC debt. Even in college most people I knew didn't use credit cards.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 06:02 AM
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In the time that you spent waiting for a reply to this, you could have watched that movie already and told us the answers to your questions. Just go watch the movie if you're interested in it.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:32 AM
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GASP! $15,000 in CC debt?! Jesus, I've never met someone with that amount of CC debt. Where the hell do you live that people are wracking up that kind of debt?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 08:18 PM
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Unsecured debt or secured debt? A small car loan for $5,000 is MUCH different than a massive $5,000 credit card bill.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 06:43 PM
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Shouldn't it be more "Don't have lots of debt, and don't date someone with lots of debt" Because it can really go either way. In college I was dating this guy who I liked a lot. We got on really well and were very compatible. After dating a few months we got on the topic of finances. I'm a debt free person and live very frugally and he apparently liked to trade cars in every couple of years and had $50,000 in vehicle debt. Shocked I asked what other types of debt he had and he regularly charged …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 06:40 PM
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that he's handsome, and even though our team is getting hammered, she will still take every opportunity to sleep with the goalie of OUR OPPOSITION. AWALT man. Girls jump ship. Really?
/r/askTRP14/01/15 07:15 AM
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Don't most lonely chicks sit at home, eat ice cream, and watch The Notebook on Valentines Day?
/r/askTRP13/01/15 06:32 AM
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However, if you want someone to agree with you instead of not agree with you, your best bet is to try not to offend them. Offending someone is the fastest way to get someone to disagree with you. Sooooo... Do you want them to agree or disagree with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/15 06:02 AM
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Most people don't have the finesse with words to put it in a way that is not offensive. It's often said "Women are liars" or "stupid" etc. instead of saying they MAY not have the ability it is said in definite terms such as "they don't have the ability".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 07:56 PM
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I don't think women are not "honest". They just may not have the vocabulary or self awareness to put it into words properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 06:35 PM
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Wouldn't it be "follow your heart"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 12:15 AM
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we have a pact not to get like them LOL. One day, one day you will. Because, well, age and biology and all that good stuff.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 12:38 AM
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get total lame-ass after 1:00 if they even want to come at all Are your friends over the age of 25 and have jobs? If so, that's why they go all "lame ass" after 1 AM.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 12:28 AM
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Is there a possibility that she was on some kind of medication that shouldn't be mixed with alcohol?
/r/askTRP10/01/15 12:20 AM
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I'm like you, I don't dare take/send any pictures like that. You just never know where they're going to end up. Just explain why you don't do it and if they keep insisting and disrespecting you have a "go to" super ugly picture of someone that is obviously not you, like this.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 10:53 PM
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I'm not saying most men, I'm just saying I don't believe it's 80/20. It's probably around half and half. I think most people forget about the ugly girls. Ugly girls go out with the ugly guys, the broke guys, the low SMV guys, because they, themselves, have low SMV. I mean really, ugly people need(and get) love too.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 06:31 AM
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If you don't use RP slang you'll have woman and men agreeing with you around the block. But as is, you're going to be dismissed by the mainstream because of "misogyny". Most people know quite a few RP trigger words like "cock-carousel" and "hit the wall" and all they're going to think is that you're some neck beard TRPer. It was a good article though.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 06:12 AM
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there are vast masses of men not getting laid reproducing. Fixed that for you. Just because someone isn't reproducing doesn't mean, in this day and age, that they're not getting laid. Genetic studies look at the past. And in the past it used to be widely acceptable to rape women when conquering their village, have several wives, and take women and children as slaves. Genghis Khan alone is thought to be a direct blood line of 1 in 200 men due to the massive amount of children he fathered and the …
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 05:36 AM
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Meh, I know a lot of guys that should be in that 80% that aren't, because there are ugly chicks out there as well. Ugly dudes get with ugly chicks. I know very few men who don't have some sort of sexual/romantic relationship with women.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 02:30 AM
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Biologically all animals are more likely to become aggressive when they're hungry. It goes to the flight or fight response. Those snickers commercials "you're not you when you're hungry" aren't just funny, it's true. Becoming aggressive when hungry could mean the difference between a meal and no meal. Most animals are going to go for the meal.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 08:39 PM
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Try /r/redpillwomen
/r/askTRP31/12/14 04:12 AM
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It's growing more and more common where women are willing to be in a LTR and have a child with a man with out getting married. Though most of them still want to get married. There are benefits to marriage that cohabitation just doesn't provide. Especially after death. If one of you dies the other now has to pay inheritance tax on EVERYTHING. Own a house? the survivor now has to pay again for the house. Bank accounts? The survivor now has to pay taxes on that. Cars? Toys? Stocks? 401K? Pension? A…
/r/askTRP19/12/14 04:43 PM
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Some things you should think about regarding the new company. Since it's smaller is it more vulnerable to financial problems? How old is the company? Do they have a good amount of loyal clients? Will they be able to keep paying you your wage with out going on financial hardships and ultimately either closing or laying you or others off? While the new job sounds great you should weigh the options.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 07:45 PM
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Soooo you're talking about the 1930s?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 10:43 PM
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I think it would be hilarious if number 5 were literal instead of figurative.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/14 10:39 PM
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in my head I was disgusted by the rampant hypergamy. I don't understand this. Why? She is not your LTR she is someone you occasionally fuck. Were you expecting her to be loyal to you? Was there any indication that had you made her an LTR she would have continued fucking other people?
/r/askTRP15/12/14 10:31 PM
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Amazingly some people actually like their kids and want a place in their lives.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:17 AM
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She's been consistently angry and "short" with me, has said a few times "We're still fighting / I'm still mad", and so on. I'm also trying to be considerate of the fact that she's been up a lot the last couple of nights due to a sick child. It's easy to get frustrated when there's a lack of communication. Right now your wife probably feels undervalued and unappreciated. She's looking at things from her point of view. While you work from home, she does to. Her job though doesn't have a quitting t…
/r/askTRP17/11/14 07:38 PM
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I just looked up that shirt. He shouldn't have apologized to feminists, but that was one dreadful looking shirt. If colors could make a sound that shirt would make the loudest most awful music known to man.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 06:25 AM
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Say "you're welcome" unprompted.
/r/askTRP16/11/14 05:57 AM
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Bowling, extreme picnicking, billiards, people watching, volunteering.
/r/askTRP16/11/14 05:53 AM
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Those are really small pictures with even smaller writing.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:15 PM
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Well then, link for the lazy?
/r/TRPOffTopic14/11/14 05:30 AM
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Why can't she get a job in her 50s? I know people who have worked up until the day they died.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 05:28 AM
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eventually ends up mentioning "make sure you get a comfortable couch", implying that the guy would be sleeping there. ... Fuck I'm dumb. Whenever people would mention that to me I was picturing watching movies together on the couch...
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:25 AM
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Most people I know that have had kids out of wedlock are not in committed loving relationships. Since you're the one with all the statistics. I'd love to find out how many of these people are medium to high wealth that are having kids out of wedlock. I'm willing to bet the majority of them are low wealth to poverty level. So your argument "If anything, the allure of cash and prizes is incentive and I would submit that not being married and not having access to the entirety of her "baby daddy's" …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 12:51 AM
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Woman here. Never. I'm probably a minority though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 09:08 PM
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Like I said and you said, your analogy is bad. I'm not going to argue the point of your stupid analogy any more because you don't seem to understand where the fault lies in it. If you go up to your girlfriend/wife/husband/boyfriend and say, "Hey I'm not getting what I want. Give me what I want or I'm going to dump you and find someone else." It's blatant manipulation. No matter how you put it, it's manipulation. Now if you go up to them and say "I'm dumping you because xyz. Good bye." that's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 08:37 PM
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Your analogy is faulty because dread game only works with someone who already "owns the car". It's not dread game if you're not exclusive with the person. and and it is the most productive and effective approach I know for getting what I want. Yes, you're getting exactly what you want. Not taking into consideration what the other person wants, just YOUR wants and getting them. That is called manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 07:47 PM
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It's very easy to have a family without a wife and it's getting easier every day. That's not necessarily a good thing. Being a "baby daddy" isn't having a "family". It's being a sperm donor with increased chance and ability for the woman to leave. At least, that's my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:19 PM
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I'm not arguing what women have to give. I'm stating that they're not going to hang around with out some sort of security. You want to keep the same woman around and have kids with her? In all likeliness you're going to have to marry. Some people want marriage, some people don't. If you don't that's cool. But some people do and that's fine to.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:44 PM
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And scenario #2 is, to my mind, the best way to win the "game" of selling his car. There is absolutely pressure (even "dread", for the buyer, depending on how badly they want to get that car) involved, but that is the result of applying basic economics to the situation, not through some attempt at manipulating the buyer. You yourself have admitted your analogy was faulty. It does not apply and I'm not going to argue it. You want so badly for dread game not to be manipulation that you are willing…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 06:41 PM
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Scenario 2 isn't game. It's basic economics. Game by definition is manipulation to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 05:05 PM
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Hamstering can happen both from men and women. What you're doing now is trying to convince yourself that it's not manipulation so that it isn't wrong. It's manipulation no matter how you look at it, how you phrase it, or how you execute it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 07:26 AM
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If she wont stick around without a ring on her finger she is not a keeper anyway. Ok, well, in case you haven't been paying attention, the entire basis of TRP ideology is evolutionary psychology. Women seek security to raise their children. Security and stability are some of the most important factors to a woman. With out the promise of stability and security most woman are not likely to stay for an extended period of time or to bear your children. Women give up a lot and become very vulnerable …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:12 AM
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O.o Is this sarcasm? I want to believe this is sarcasm but it's really hard to tell over the internet.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:41 AM
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Not necessarily can't but more wont. Most women wont hang around forever with out the promise of a ring/security. Most women wont have kids with you with out the promise of a ring/security. Most women wont give up their lives/jobs to raise those children for you with out the promise of a ring/security. It really depends on your wants. If you want a family a wife will give you a family. If you want a companion a girlfriend will give you companionship.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 05:56 AM
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Why don't you suggest a group meeting together? If he's got a wife suggest you all get together for drinks.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 09:16 PM
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Right, your welcome by the way ;O) A moral is a held belief not an impulse. Morals are developed over time and through a persons world experience. Factors in developing morals are regions, religions, family, and laws. Someone can convince themselves that anything is morally justified if they wish to. Morals don't have to be held by the general public in order to be considered morals to just one person or a small group. Long standing morals that are held by the majority of people have come about …
/r/askTRP12/11/14 08:53 PM
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Your argument is contradictory. Please reread and rephrase if you would like to have an actual discussion.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 07:02 PM
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Just because you don't believe in moral justification doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Take WBC for example. Most of the population believes that what they do is morally wrong but they firmly believe they are in the right.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 05:45 PM
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In my view it's not. But there are plenty of children fuckers out there who you could ask.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 07:43 AM
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Morality is something you really should determine yourself. With the right excuses anyone can find anything moral. It's called hamstering. There's a long list of morals out there already that have held through the years for a reason.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 06:43 AM
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Obviously the women will tell the men on their first date. And then the mating ritual of 40 year olds will begin!
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/14 03:36 AM
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I think it's going to be funny when those women hit 40 or 50 and then decide "it's time to have a baby". There's a reason you want to have kids early. You're not going to have the energy to run after a kid in your 40s and 50s. My dad was 40 when he and mom had me. They... were not the liveliest of parents.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/14 03:33 AM
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They get no sympathy from me because I was working again a week after I got out of the hospital. Well it's good to know that you bottle fed your kidny stone and that it slept through the night every night since the day you birthed it.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 08:34 PM
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That's a lot of dates. Holy shit. I get the impression you're not spending what women would call "quality time" together. You don't have to go out on dates or spend money for quality time. It's just doing anything together and having conversation. Some good quality time tasks are laundry (folding and putting away). It's monotonous work that can be made better with help and conversation. Dinner. It's just nice to hang out and talk with an extra set of hands. Teach her something you like/know how …
/r/askTRP14/10/14 04:53 PM
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Birthday parties don't have to be on the actual day anyway, Our family almost never celebrates anything on the day of. Only Christmas day and Thanksgiving are done on that day (and even then we celebrate them with extended family at a different time). Anniversaries, birthdays, some other holidays, all celebrated when most convenient.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/14 04:29 PM
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You left out the whole 100 years part. The reason that's important is because you change the mind of the younger generation, not the older generation. You're not going to change some 60 year old mans opinion, it's just not going to happen. You talk to his kids and grand kids though, you'll have much better luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 12:19 AM
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And the general attitude towards womens rights has shifted dramatically in the last 100 years. I'd say 90% of the time when I hear something misogynistic it's said in jest. And the other 10% of the time, sure, it's annoying but nothing is going to come from being offended and bitchy at whoever said it. Nothing's going to change their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 05:13 PM
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Never said there wasn't any bias against women. I said we've got all our basic human rights (at least here in America). People are allowed to have their own thoughts and feelings. If someone is a misogynist they're allowed to be. You can't police everyones thoughts and feelings. To force people to accept your point of view is as wrong as them forcing their opinions on you. If people learned to just roll with the punches instead of become super offended and bitchy the world would be a much better…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 03:56 AM
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Yes, but as style goes, who the hell wears a suit anymore besides to work?
/r/TRPOffTopic12/10/14 02:30 AM
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That would be so fucking awesome! ...for like a day.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 01:11 AM
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My husband is pretty RP I'm more purple. But I realize that men really get the short end of the stick. I've witnessed it, a lot. It's sad. Things are not equal. No one will ever be equal. Feminism accomplished what it set out to accomplish. Women have all basic human rights. I don't understand what the hell they're trying to accomplish any more other than driving men into the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 12:50 AM
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Style was at its peak when fedoras were common. It's sad that they are thought of as stupid. Many people could do more to enhance style these days. Just like making fun of a fat man for working out, you shouldn't make fun of someone for trying to look decent.
/r/TRPOffTopic12/10/14 12:37 AM
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At first I thought you were talking about Jiff. As in the peanut butter.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 07:44 PM
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No, some deaf people enjoy the feel of vibration from instruments. They can literally "feel" the music. Beethoven became deaf later in life but continued to write an play music. He put his piano directly on the ground so that he could feel the vibrations better.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 07:40 PM
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Seriously, can anyone else think of any downsides for a woman? Well, kids are a pretty big down side. Usually when you get married you have kids. When you have kids your freedom is taken away. When your freedom is taken away you get angry. When you get angry you take it out on your husband. When you take your anger out on your husband you end up divorced. When you get divorced you end up a single mother with no marketable skills. Don't end up a single mother with no marketable skills. Switch to …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 07:15 AM
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Wait wait wait... How can you tell if a baby is a dwarf? They're all tiny and look like wrinkled old men anyways.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:57 AM
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If I am casually talking to a girl - she HAS to bring up how she has a boyfriend. This is them letting you know they have a boyfriend so that you don't get the wrong idea early on. And if I ask for her number she says she HAS a boyfriend! I don't understand why you didn't catch on the first time she said it. What the fuck is this shit? Rejection.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 06:46 AM
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How much in loans would you have to take out for you to "live on your own"? Now ask yourself if pussy is worth that amount plus interest over 10-20 years.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 05:43 AM
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Most people tend to capture beauty in art. From quilting, to paining, to photography, to sculpture, to buildings. It's all art.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 12:59 AM
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And yet... there are these which go for thousands of dollars and some people consider beautiful. Oh, here's some more, and more.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 12:57 AM
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No, beauty is not in the eye of the beholder. O.o Yes, yes it is. Beauty is entirely subjective. There is no "this is right and this is wrong" when it comes to art. You obviously like different things than I do, and that's perfectly acceptable.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 05:55 PM
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The beauty is being driven out of traditional feminine crafts. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Personally I find the traditional quilts to be boring and overdone. If everyone stuck to what was traditional we would have nothing new and interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 05:16 PM
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It is at first. But then you do it and you think "that was way easier than I thought". I canned 150 lbs of apples this fall for the first time and had a wonderful time! Just make sure you have enough sugar!
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 05:06 PM
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However, TRP mentions to never buy drinks or anything for a plate. Does this include FWB? It depends on the girl. Some girls will insist on going back and forth with the check. In that case I wouldn't care about it. Some girls just take and take and take. In that case I wouldn't give her jack.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 04:58 PM
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She's secretly a black widow. The reason she doesn't mention the father of her children is because she killed them and ate them. If she mentioned them then there would be an investigation into where they are and they'd turn up missing. This last dude she sank her fangs into but was interrupted and could not consume his body. She is now looking for a delicious snack to munch on that feeds the parasite that is now in her womb.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 05:24 AM
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Yeah.. mines a bit pricier I'm headed back to africa I think yours is a bit more dangerous as well.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 06:32 AM
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You were both pretty fucked up. She was apparently way more smashed than you were last night as she can't fully remember that you guys took a cab together. Maybe it's a good thing you didn't fuck her last night.
/r/askTRP04/10/14 08:39 PM
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Since when does a "Why?" not suffice? I've never understood asking so many questions in a row with out letting the other person answer.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:53 AM
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Son of a bitch. When did "tranny" become a slur? God damnit I feel old now. Is this how old people felt when their common use words became slurs? One day it's a word that you can use to describe a group of people and the next you're not allowed to say it any more. It's like you've gone back to being five and you've uttered a swear word in a group of adults. Everyone becomes quiet once you say it and your mom or dad reprimand you for saying it. But, instead of it being your parents, it's your kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 06:12 AM
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Since you're going to test them all and don't care, why not do something fun with them? Blow them up with air and have condom balloons all over your house. Or blow them up and use them to play darts. Or blow them up, go on top of a roof in a bustling city and gently toss all the condom balloons out into the peaceful night. Just because you may be in a shitty situation doesn't mean you can't have some fun with it.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 04:38 AM
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They'd have an aneurysm at being expected to do anything besides drool in the corner over video games. O.o Maybe city boys, but my husband does a ton of shit around the house. He chops and hauls fire wood, he fixes things, he builds things, he improves things, he takes out the garbage, he squishes bugs, he kills our food, he tills the garden, he just does manly stuff. It's pretty awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 07:10 AM
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Wow, I wonder what kind of family he grew up in. Granted, I'm not the greatest chocolate in the box, but until I grew up and my friends started getting married I had never seen or heard of that behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 03:52 AM
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We had anal sex for the first time that night and next morning I was woken up by a blowjob. That's just disgusting. I mean, good for you if it's true, but that's disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 04:17 AM
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Didn't know that.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 03:23 AM
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Is there any way you could slightly alter your major to go into nursing? RNs are in high demand (at least in the states) and it would be an easy job to move with as there is a wide variety of nursing positions open. From hospitals to in home care. It's really rewarding work if that's what drew you to medicine in the first place.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/14 08:57 PM
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They can't have sex without getting attached and they get damaged by casual sex. Men can bang lots of different women and not get attached or be emotionally damaged by their experiences. I don't understand this one. What do you mean they get "damaged" by casual sex? As in their desirability, mentally, physically?
/r/askTRP26/08/14 05:00 AM
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Sounds like you live in a small town. I know the struggle. Not the best selection of men out there. I would suggest you go out and join some kind of club or event to meet good men. Try a bowling league? (You gotta pay to go bowling, so he should at least have a job if he's there) If you don't mind me asking, what's wrong with the men you work with? Is it that you work with them and are their superior and that would be weird or are they not quality people? In my experience, farm boys make great p…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 06:01 PM
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It's like a purse or makeup party. Not a sex party.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:01 PM
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You don't bring the toys home with you, you order them and get them in the mail. You might win a door prize but they're usually very small/inexpensive items.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:00 PM
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pointless money spending On sex toys, for sex, with their man. Yes, very pointless.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:57 PM
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Stop dating guys who are struggling to keep their head above water. They don't have a car or job? No go. They're not good material. (car can be excluded if you live in the inner city) How are you meeting these guys? What is your job (I'm curious since you said it wouldn't allow you nice clothes)? I would suggest you go see a therapist about your issues for right now. And go out to a nice thrift shop in your area and pick out a few nice clothes that you like. It might boost your self esteem to be…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 04:55 PM
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My goals for this weekend are as follows. Finally get that mattress we're not using out of our house and over to my dads. Go to the state fair. Do not die at the state fair. Do not get angry at any one for being idiots at the state fair. Convince my husband we should get a hotel room after spending 9 hours at the state fair instead of driving 4 hours home. Attempt to have sex in said hotel room and hopefully succeed despite probable aching back, feet, legs, shoulders, and head. Sleep off the sta…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 06:59 AM
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How hard would it be to get a very small/cheap office space that you could go to work 5 days a week? The mentality that "you're home, you should be helping out too" won't leave unless you leave.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:45 AM
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These seem very over the top responses. Scenario 1. Why didn't you just take the dress off instead of pouting like a woman? You could have gotten sex with a lot less effort there. Scenario 2. Dude, have some respect for punctuality. You ask her as she's leaving? Have some forethought!
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:39 AM
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Free shit is limited depending on where you live. Cities it's sometimes harder to do free things. Country there's more free stuff but more spread apart. If there are any good parks in your area go to one. Parks as in swings, slides, jungle gym. Mad fun (especially if you're inebriated). It will let you know early on if she's got a sense of adventure/fun. Go to the beach if there's one around. Go to some sort of festival. It's state fair season. (I suppose there's the entry fee but she could pay …
/r/askTRP21/08/14 06:24 PM
2

Only in the way that Catholisism is a subset of Christianity
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 03:55 PM
2

The majority of people in society aren't suave, cool, collected, or smart. Most of us are nervous, self conscious, and a bit stupid in certain social situations. More often than not you're going to say something very stupid when you first meet someone. For example, One day I saw a guy walking down the hallway. He'd just come out of the bathroom and he had obviously wiped his wet hands on the back of his jeans leaving hand prints. I thought it was funny, I said "nice butt!" He looked at me confus…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 03:23 PM
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There were a few over the top rejections there. But in general I think most women try to be polite. I have heard various times in PPD that women are entitled and narcissistic You're only hearing one side of the story. You'll hear what people want to think to make themselves feel better. Example: A man sees a woman that he thinks is pretty. He wants to try to talk to her, but he's not really good at it. His buddies convince him to go talk to her. He goes up somewhat nervous and says something tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 03:09 PM
2

It's really nice to know that you guys have a budget. So many times I've seen posts where people don't have one. Good for you guys :O) Since you can not add his income to the budget because your husbands income is sporatic and your income is able to cover all the bills perhaps you can make it so that all of his income goes into savings since you're concerned about your savings. Or you can put it all into your emergency fund if you don't have a fully funded one yet (3-6 months of expenses). You n…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 02:31 PM
2

That's probably just the easiest way to put it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 02:15 PM
1

I'm sorry, I thought I was just relating an experience so that people can understand; they're not alone what it feels like things to avoid (such as isolation and bottling it all up instead of talking about it) contributing factors (isolation, not having a leader, not having a support group) and to get help. I did not mean to bad mouth anyone, especially my husband. I was relating how I felt at the time so that maybe people can see that in themselves. I sure as hell did not see it in myself until…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 01:10 AM
1

So you know how everyone says women get kind of crazy from PMS well... (1) hormonal changes, (2) chemical imbalance, It's just to a greater degree with PPD and lasts longer because the hormones take longer to balance out and go back to normal. And sometimes they never do. (3) genes, Yes. Some people are predisposed to having depression or other behavioral disorders. If you do and you get PPD that's going to worsen it. (4) lack of attention, Lots of people get depressed regularly because of this.…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 12:00 AM
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As I said, this is a special flavor of irrationality. As someone who has suffered through it and looked back it's very true. I don't know if any man could ever really understand the concept of looking at, hearing, or thinking of anything and just bursting out crying and not understanding why. Being alone and going through it was the worst and exacerbated it tenfold. It's a special type of insanity that no logic, no matter how sound, can get through. It leaves its mark permanently on a woman and …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 09:59 PM
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Depression diagnostic criteria has remained constant from the time that it has been put in the DSM to present. They have added different forms of depressive disorders but signs and symptoms have remained constant since the time that Hippocrates talked about it long ago. Don't treat her any different after she's pregnant than you did before or it will go to her head. Sounds like a sure fire way to CAUSE depression instead of prevent and help cure it. "For mothers suffering inadequate social suppo…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 09:12 PM
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This has to be the most ignorant essay that I've ever read on this sub. They even have a name for this- Post Partum Depression. No, that's not even close to what postpartum depression is. It is a chemical imbalance that is brought on by the crazy hormone changes that happen naturally. It is something that can affect any woman after pregnancy. Don't treat her any different after she's pregnant than you did before or it will go to her head. Spoken like someone who's never been married or had kids.…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 08:14 PM
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Maybe he's tired. You said he's a very driven guy and works a good job. Maybe he just doesn't want to lead as much in the home as he's doing it all at the office? It seems like he defers a lot of control of the home to you, which is pretty normal for a couple that works well together and trusts each other. For the sex thing. Try making the little things he does into sexual advances. He rubs your leg during a movie? Snuggle in closer and rub him back ;o) He kisses you? Turn that peck into a long …
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 06:43 PM
1

No, My husband was already pretty red pill and I just never realized it. I started swallowing the pill about a year ago. His behavior didn't change much but his happiness level did. Our relationship became better. We still butt heads on occasion but it's becoming less frequent.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 06:26 PM
1

You should create a new ppd thread then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 03:33 PM
2

Just as not everyone can agree on any one thing they will all never agree on one particular behavior of any person. It's like asking everyone "what's the best flavor of ice cream?" Some people like chocolate, some vanilla, and some like pistachio (which is disgusting btw). Everyone on the site is an individual, while there may be a "hive mind" of sorts none of them will unanimously agree on any one thing, because they all have their own preferences. Some may appreciate a woman who wants to wait,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 07:38 AM
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You can't please everyone. No matter what someone will find fault with you. Even if 9 out of 10 guys agree with what you did you will only hear from that tenth guy because he has something negative to say. It's best to just ignore their double standard and go with your own opinion of what is "right".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 07:13 AM
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I think you may be going about this in the wrong way. The only place you're going to get with that kind of behavior is divorced with half of your shit. Marriage game is very different than the rest of the game that TRP talks about. You should be doing some looking into that. A great website to find some good RP marriage material is http://marriedmansexlife.com/ The thing about trying to turn your marriage into a RP marriage is that it takes time. You're not just going to start acting all alpha d…
/r/TRPOffTopic19/08/14 03:25 AM
1

Why do you say his career is over? It's not like he's dead or anything.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 03:08 AM
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I don't even understand this.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 03:07 AM
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Well, technically she did a little bit more than just nannying them. She did have to wreck her vagina 7 times. And after the 5th or 6th... it just doesn't ever look the same...
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 03:05 AM
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So .. she should get 1/2 of what they have - and at least some of his future earnings. I agree with everything you said except that. I can understand getting a hefty amount, as they were very wealthy, but that's just too much. What the hell can she do with $400 million that she couldn't do with $50 or $70 million? Indeed he left her, which is why my numbers are still in the millions, but $400,000,000 PLUS half of all future royalties is just a stupid amount of money.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 12:48 AM
2

This wasn't really rejection as it was probably that her place was messy and she didn't want to give you a bad impression.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:38 PM
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A man loves a woman for who she is. I may be misunderstanding you but I've read much in TRP that contradicts this statement. To me, and I think to most people, "who she is" means her personality. Which, like I said, much of TRP disagrees with. Perhaps you meant something different?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 01:55 AM
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I'm assuming you live in Suburbia...you admit that you are surrounded by the so-called "good minority." No, I grew up around the good minority in suburbia. Now, I live in redneckville and witness bad relationships almost daily. It's very disheartening. If you would like I would be more than willing to share stories but right now I must go clean out my car as I'm hanging out with my aunt tomorrow and my car is a rolling garbage can on wheels. Yeay for having kids!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 12:44 AM
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Cities and redneckville. Suburbia is usually where the minority is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 12:23 AM
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I'm sorry, I didn't intend it as "I'm a special snowflake". But more as the reality of realization that the world is a fucked up place. I used to think that this kind of stuff was "normal" (meaning that the majority of people are like this and the minority are bad). But the more I talk to people the more I realize that this kind of behavior is a minority. I used to say all the time to my husband "Why can't people just be normal" when hearing about awfulness. When he said "we're not normal" the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 05:08 PM
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Perhaps this person is using RP and BP in place of alpha and beta. I can see how it could be a common misconception.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 04:35 PM
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Fair enough. How do men love then? What about mens love and womens love is different? Like I said, I can't speak on how or why men love. I have no idea what about me makes my husband love me. What makes you love?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 04:28 PM
1

you do think that you can understand someone else's love simply because you both have vaginas? Because we're both the same gender I can understand what they find attractive about their spouse and what they may love about them. I don't see the same thing in women. I can see how women are physically attractive and how men want to fuck them. But I don't understand how men love past that. I don't know what about a womans personality is relationship material. What about women make men want to marry t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 04:23 PM
0

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 04:16 PM
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Women love when men are worthy(in a red pill sense, not in a rom com sense) of their love. This is transient and has a expiration date(the affection that follows after is not love.) I don't know... Part of me says yes part of me says no. I have loved some people but when the relationship became unhealthy I left while still loving them. The love (as in caring for them and caring about them) didn't go away, it just changed from romantic love to... I want to say brotherly love. I cared about them s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 04:14 PM
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I don't believe so. In many TRP posts about LTRs they state that in a healthy LTR there must be a good balance of alpha (rp) and beta (bp). You can agree and disagree with RP theory. Some people don't find the entirety of RP to be accurate but find the majority of it to be so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 04:07 PM
1

I stated that I do not know how men love as no one can experience anyone elses love. I can witness and understand how women love because I am a woman and can see similarities between the way I love and the way they love. I can also understand the attraction between some because as a woman I can feel the attraction. When it comes to men I have no freaking idea why they love women. I do believe, in general, that men and women are fundamentally different. We find different things attractive and wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 04:00 PM
1

That one sentence yes, as you pointed out earlier the rest of the post does not state that. I said that's how I love, and pointed out what I witnessed from other people as love. I answered his question early in the essay using his own words and at the end in somewhat his own words. That's pretty basic essay writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 03:28 PM
1

Because that was the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 03:18 PM
1

I suppose it's technically not manipulation as she is asking directly for what she wants. But it's a shitty thing to do. It's the same thing as going up to a comedian in a normal setting and saying "Say something funny". People can't just pull genuine feelings such as complements out of their ass on demand. You want complements? Do something that someone would complement you on. Everything feels better when it's earned instead of a freebee.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 06:39 AM
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As I am not a man I don't know what what men feel when they love. I think this is a very hard question to honestly answer because no one knows what the opposite sex's love feels like. They only know their own love. I have really only had positive influences regarding love in my life. My parents stayed together until my mom died. Dad lost a very lucrative job and my mom stayed with him. Mom was diagnosed with ALS and my dad stayed with her. Both sets of my grandparents stayed together while being…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 06:15 AM
1

Marriage ceremony: split both ways 50/50. When did the tradition of the parents of the bride paying for the wedding, or the majority of the wedding, cease?
/r/askTRP15/08/14 12:44 AM
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I never even said equally. Perhaps you should learn to read. I suppose in some instances it's fair to do so, in some not so much. And why does everyone blame the women in these instances? What about the damned divorce lawyers? Aren't they the ones who come up with this absurd amount in the first place and then push the women to go for it? Sure the women go with it but why does no one ever blame divorce lawyers who are the ones who suggest it in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 11:07 PM
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Not quite your question but you should really get the TV out of your bedroom. I assume it's in your bedroom because of watching a tv show before bed. A TV in the bedroom fucks with your sex life and your sleep schedule. The bedroom is for sleeping, fucking, and storing your clothes. Not watching TV.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 07:11 PM
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No, not all women cheat. That's like asking "Do all men cheat?".
/r/askTRP14/08/14 07:16 AM
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That's... different. I'm going to say no to that one. However, if you happen to be in a field of flowers with him feel free to pick some of those flowers and share their beauty with him before throwing them up in the air spinning around and singing "The hills are alive with the sound of music". Or, maybe that one is just me.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/14 06:31 AM
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I think I remember reading either this or something very similar a while ago. You told the story of abuse from your father and the actions you tried to take in length. I'm very sorry that this happened to you. It is astounding how much the police can neglect and how social services can turn a blind eye to something that is obvious and then focus and make a big deal out of things that aren't happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 06:00 AM
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You forgot to add "Before the age of 30 and without sperm in a sperm bank". They do the same thing for women who want to get their tubes tied. It is to protect their asses because reversing it doesn't always work and you may think you don't want kids in your 20's but some people, as they get older, decide that they DO want kids. Just keep it wrapped, that new pill for men will be out in the next few years. You don't have to go giving yourself a vasectomy in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 05:53 AM
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Yes... they didn't have a very good marriage did they. BUT, he got laid, at least in the beginning. Then she refuses to fuck him for a long, loooong time.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 03:33 AM
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I can understand it but I don't often practice. My mom and dad used to sleep in separate bedrooms because of moms snoring. I know this because she moved right next to my bedroom. Sometimes I'll sleep in the guest bedroom because my husband or I are sick and don't want to infect each other. Or sometimes I just can't sleep and am tossing and turning and don't want to bug him. But we don't practice it regularly.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/14 03:03 AM
1

That was a very interesting and very RP take on Williams death. The one thing I must disagree with though is when he says "You don't continue getting paid if you get fired" Eh, some jobs you do. It's called severance pay. But it's small and short lived.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 01:54 AM
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You are very correct. They both, more than likely, got much much more than they put in. Though with his second marriage I think he probably picked a pretty good woman as their marriage lasted for almost two decades. Where normal celebrity marriages last 5 years, if that. If it had not been for his substance abuse it may have gone on longer. Then again, it may not have.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 12:10 AM
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I'm not claiming to know the ins and outs of their relationship. I have no fucking clue what went on in their personal life. I was saying that these women didn't get this money for "just having a vagina". Hugh Hefners girls get money for just having a vagina.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 11:19 PM
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That's actually not equality, and I was never arguing for it. I have no idea how hard it was to wash the dishes, raise the kids etc. I don't know what she did to contribute to the household. I doubt you know what she did to contribute to the household and I doubt you know much of their personal life.. Maybe she had a career, maybe she didn't. Maybe she did do a lot to try to keep him interested but being on the road so much, especially back then, it would have been very hard. I don't know. I was…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 11:14 PM
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I'm not defending anything. Like I said, it's semi acceptable to me to split assets, not alimony. They're two very different things.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 11:05 PM
1

I meant eating alone, I'm sorry. I should have clarified. I didn't want people to think that I would sit at the table with my husband eating dinner ignoring him for a paper. But breakfast and lunch are spent with my nose in the paper.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 07:46 PM
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I know my life, I have plenty of time for self reflection. I just don't like to do it while I eat.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 07:35 PM
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I said that they didn't deserve the alimony. Though splitting assets that are accumulated during marriage is semi acceptable to me. You have no idea what his wives contributed to their household, I'm sure it wasn't as much as he did, but that is part of marriage. You combine your assets and don't keep track of "his and hers". His first divorce happened, I'm fairly certain, because he was cheating on her, a lot. His second divorce was most likely caused by his addiction problems. Williams admitte…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 07:27 PM
2

I can't stand eating while doing nothing. I always have to have the paper or book in front of me while I'm *eating alone. Just chewing and staring off into space is so monotonous.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 07:07 PM
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His first wife he was married to for 10 years. During this time they had a child and he had an ongoing affair with their childs nanny. His second wife was the nanny whose marriage lasted almost 20 years and had two children together. I'm not saying that these people deserved what they got, but they weren't simply gold diggers and didn't get it "just for having a vagina".
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 06:33 PM
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No one has to be at fault to get alimony. Alimony is also separate from splitting the assets. So you split the assets that you've accumulated during your marriage, that includes the bank account, 401k, retirement, pension, house, investments, etc. and THEN you pay alimony on top of that. Even if the other person, be that person man or woman, had their own job and their own income. So what if some women are paying alimony too? They shouldn't be unless their spouse gave up a career and would be de…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 03:44 PM
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He will, however, be remembered as a great man for a long time instead of a selfish man who is soon forgotten.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 05:53 AM
3

While I'm sure it's not THE reason for his depression, or even the beginning of his depression, but the fact that you have worked so hard to have it all taken away is a devastating aspect in someones life. I'm sure there were many possible reasons that we can find that could have attributed to Robin Williams depression and eventual suicide. Setting aside his death, modern alimony is outdated. While I have no problem with when it is used properly, as in it being assigned to women who gave up life…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 05:32 AM
1

I don't know how new phones work but since you're concerned she's not getting them and texting only seems to work when she's texted you first, go into her texts and hit reply instead of starting a new message? Also, you could call her.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:50 PM
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Rule number 1 - dont get married....perhaps one of the most critical lessons that TRP teaches. If one chooses to ignore that fact and get married, then you deserve to get raped for making such a huge mistake. This is not a rule, it's an opinion on lifestyle. Some people don't want to have a bunch of meaningless sex. You dont need to get married to have a family - in fact - many people are forgoing marriage entirely when they have kids. Sounds like feminist bullshit. Marriage is and has always be…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 03:16 PM
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The problem is, the captain can make all of those changes (catch more fish, rein in his emotions, etc), but when the ship gets back to port, the first mate will just go to the owners and have the guy fired because he did lose control. This is a really awful metaphor. What exactly is "port" a metaphor for? And who are the owners? Might as well jettison the crew and get a new one and start fresh. Most people want to at least try to save their marriage for one reason or another (usually so they don…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:58 AM
2

Why on earth would you ever ignore or disqualify a complement? That's just plane rude. Graciously accept it and if you choose to you can also turn it into a conversation.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 05:21 AM
2

So you show up HOURS after a planned date with no apology and no explanation? Did you let her know you'd be hours late or did you just show up? If the latter you sir are an ass and do owe an apology. She was rightfully upset. If you wouldn't do that to your friends, family, or employer why would you do that to your girlfriend? The morning was a shit test but you can avoid those if you actually man up and admit when you're in the wrong. TRP doesn't mean you're never wrong.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 08:49 PM
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I dated a kid back in high school. We were pretty close, but soon after we started dating I had to move a few hundred miles away so we broke it off. I started dating someone else, went off to college somewhat near where my ex lived. We saw each other every once in a while. He confessed that he still had feelings for me after a few months of me being in college. I shot him down because I was seeing someone and saw that we were both heading in different directions. He overdosed a day or two after …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/14 03:48 AM
1

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope it hasn't spread and that everything goes well. Now I'm off to check all my freckles and moles.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/14 01:37 PM
0

"Why didn't you answer my question" "I don't want to"
/r/askTRP30/07/14 08:23 AM
1

I've found that classic country and rock is the way to go. There are some songs that wine about women but the majority of it is quite good.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 12:06 PM
3

This should be asked in /r/redpillwomen. It would be a great discussion piece. Few women make fun at their own expense. Most of the time when tried it comes off as "I'm seeking for reassurance" and reassurance is given and the point of it being a joke is missed completely.
/r/TRPOffTopic29/07/14 03:43 AM
1

Wtf is up with her eyes? She's got lips and a mouth but just squiggles all over the rest of her face.
/r/TRPOffTopic26/07/14 04:44 AM
2

It really depends on the kind of life you're looking for and the kind of woman you're looking for. Are you looking for the city life, suburb life, or country life? The SMV of each type of life and woman to accompany that is very different. A high SMV of a country man is very different than that of a high SMV of a city man. It's also MUCH easier to attain. I can only advise you on the country life. Learn how to fix things. A great saying around here is "if a woman can't find you handsome she shou…
/r/askTRP25/07/14 05:06 PM
1

I think you'd be hard pressed to find a 10 male OR female who is still a virgin. Plus male virginity isn't as highly valued as female virginity. With male virginity you think of something along the lines of not knowing what they're doing, possibly being injured from lack of experience, and lasting a very short time. I think it's a strange idea and probably wont get much attention if you go through with it unless it's a reality TV show.
/r/TRPOffTopic24/07/14 09:50 PM
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Try checking out the MMSL website and maybe even one of his books. TRP isn't very marriage friendly and more often than not gives advice that leans towards short term relationships such as plates. (because most people here are 19-25 single men working on themselves) The MMSL is dedicated towards healthy RP marriages. It seriously doesn't matter if your wife has a job. Most women in this day and age HAVE to have a job, even if they're married, in order to pay the bills. It doesn't matter if your …
/r/askTRP24/07/14 07:36 AM
2

Rock climbing isn't a hobby of mine but I've gone out with church groups and climbed a few cliff faces on retreats. It's pretty damned awesome. It did hurt my hands but you grit your teeth and bear it just to see what you're capable of. When you get to the top it's the most amazing feeling to know what you have just done and to look out over the landscape. You look down at your hands (that may be bleeding) and think "I just climbed a mountain. I just climbed a fucking mountain!" (It's not actual…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 07:18 AM
8

Your vag needs to drink some cement and harden the fuck up. O.o ... have you actually ever put your dick into a vagina?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 03:59 PM
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I've gone to marriage counseling pre discovering this sub. I would say it drastically improved our relationship. My husband and I went through one of our church pastors. It wasn't "Listen to your wife and shut up" It went through everything about a relationship. Communication, sex life, expectations, dreams, finances, kids, fighting, problem solving, compromise. We focused a lot on communication since that was our main problem area. We didn't know how to talk to each other. My husband would bott…
/r/askTRP22/07/14 02:20 AM
3

Wait... what's wrong with wanting to serve your country? I've never dreamed of becoming a soldier but I see nothing wrong with women wanting to serve in the armed forces.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 01:59 AM
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If I do escalate my commitment, I would stop. How much more commitment do you need? You considered your relationship with her to be a LTR not a plate. As in you've both made the agreement to become menogamous. You sir are an ass hat who's going to turn this woman into a man hating whore. Because that's how it happens. Girl gets her cherry popped by a dude. They agree to become menogamous. Girl falls in love. Dude cheats on said girl. Girl finds out. Girl goes psychotic. Girl now thinks that AMAL…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 12:21 AM
1

however she should be offering up another time and date in the same text, and she didn't. Maybe if he'd replied in a better way she would have. "Hey, friend is having a melt down. Would it be ok if we reschedule?" "Yea, I'm sure you'll make it up to me later ;O)" "How's Friday?"
/r/askTRP21/07/14 07:06 PM
1

I can assure you she's probably thinking of ways to make you suffer for that. Or just ways not to go out with him again.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 07:03 PM
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My vagina cringed at that. By the end of week one it would be an inflamed tattered mess. 4 times a week is totally doable. 4 times a day indefinatly is hard to maintain with out getting some kind of infection.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 05:07 PM
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I think he was probably just upset and stressed instead of trying to nuke the relationship. Most people want to try to save their relationship. Their communication skills are probably lacking and the guy was at his wits end with all the stress that she mentioned before. Moving is a HUGE stressful deal and when you're stressed with bad communication skills things like this end up happening. It sounds like he's finally got her attention, be it a bad way to do it. But I hope they do work things out…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:19 PM
2

Good will, Plato's Closet, Savers. Pretty much any second hand store is where I go. Personally I hate online shopping as I can't try on the clothes first and see how they fit.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/14 06:33 PM
2

When I identify as a female, it's usually in regards to marriage. "I have done this" or "My husband has done that". There are many questions, as of late, in /r/AskTRP about marriage and how to deal with it. I feel my experience is valid and would like to help other men and women attain happiness in their marriage as I have mine. There has been only one time in regular TRP that I have identified as female and been up voted. It stands to reason that it is not the advice that is given but the fact …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 03:13 AM
3

Learn to avoid gender identifying in TRP. I rarely identify as female but when I do, the down votes come like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 06:27 PM
6

Do you mean exploit?
/r/askTRP13/07/14 03:54 PM
2

Those seem like really easy things to forget. Now if it was clothes, makeup, tampons, and a toothbrush... I'd start to get worried.
/r/askTRP13/07/14 02:09 AM
1

I have a nice playlist mix of country, 80's classic rock, and modern rock that really get me in the mood to get things done. Listening to your playlist makes me want to swing dance though :O) I should visit my grandmas house and see if she's got any of those old flapper dresses from the 20s.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 06:53 PM
3

Some hobbies you can turn into decent paying jobs. Wood working (Not very in demand but it's a relaxing hobby and if you get good enough you can sell your work for thousands) Welding (making stuff out of metals) Cars (fixing or restoring) handyman. (if you know how to do plumbing or electrical you'll have a job for life) I would say computers but this guy is sick of them.
/r/askTRP10/07/14 12:23 AM
1

LOL you think she's going to be cheating on a family trip? Are you kidding me? No. While she may get some time to herself at the pool and chat with some people, Ain't nothing going to happen when family is around.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 05:35 PM
8

Good for you dude. If you want some LTR game check out this website.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 06:48 AM
8

Yup. It's a pretty simple way of looking at it. But seeing as you've never tried it and your in your 30s, well, fuck it's worth a shot right? You wanted peoples outside perspectives you got it bud. Perhaps the reason you feel no need is because you've never had it. You can't miss what you've never had. Did you not have the urges to go out and have sex during puberty? Not "did you ever go out and pursue sex" did you not have the urge. If not that would be a pretty important factor to peoples advi…
/r/askTRP09/07/14 04:22 AM
2

I’m intelligent, articulate, and motivated on anything I set my mind to. Set your mind to getting laid and then see how things change. Come back in two weeks.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 03:40 AM
23

She sounds like a good RP woman from what you've said. Three weeks in my opinion is a decent amount of time to ask for an exclusive relationship, I don't see anything crazy there. I have a feeling though she'll move on within another few weeks if you don't drop the other plates. A woman who is more RP than the rest usually aren't willing to share. All depends on what you want. If you want a relationship with a fairly decent girl go for it. If you want to run spinning plates then go for that, but…
/r/askTRP08/07/14 11:18 PM
11

You don't say that shit to your wife. Admit you're looking at asses or titties but you don't insult your wife on that level unless you want a divorce.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 07:04 PM
-1

/r/redpillwomen isn't /r/relationships It'd be futile to post something so trivial to redpillwomen when I know why he's on his phone all the time. Nagging him wont help the situation. And it would be unacceptable to tell him to get off the phone when he wants to talk to friends or family. We have two rules regarding phones and I think that's enough. 1. No phones during dinner 2. No phones during date night. My point was that it's not a one sided deal. While women are the main offenders it is a q…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 06:49 PM
6

Probably going to get down voted to hell for this. Most of this depends on how much she's contributing to the household all together. Is she paying half of everything? Is she working long hours? What is she doing when you're doing chores? Have you previously divided up tasks? I'm assuming you're living together and this is a LTR. I posted this in a different sub but take a look at this article and the website all together. There's a lot of gold in there for LTR.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 06:23 PM
-1

Post what part? The bride with the phone? My husband not having to compete with my phone? Or me having to compete with my husbands phone? And why was I down voted? Seriously. It's the exact reason I don't own a smart phone. I want to pay attention to the world outside so I only own a dinky little flip phone.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 06:08 PM
0

Do you see how you're talking to me? I have no reason to talk to you respectfully when you don't show the same courtesy. You asked me to give you pockets. I said pockets are available for you at the store. It's few and far between that womens pants will be stylish, comfortable, and have functional pockets. Just because you've SEEN pants that have pockets doesn't mean that they are functional pockets. Nor does it mean they're comfortable or stylish. You bring your ass up. Because that's the main …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 06:01 PM
1

Not saying that you go back to your normal self after 3 days. Just that the cravings get better. You've detoxed and you don't have such strong withdraws.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 04:57 PM
3

... I can't tell if this is sarcasm or not...
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 04:55 PM
0

You want us to look pretty or functional? Are you really going to be ok with us not having pants that cradle our ass and show off our figure? Instead having baggy pants that make our asses look flat and we can fit our entire purse in our pockets? I really think my husband and most men would disagree with you on that.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 04:43 PM
3

Let people know you're quitting smoking. It wont calm you emotions but it'll give people some understanding if you do get angry. Once you hit the three day mark it'll get better.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 07:28 AM
1

I can honestly say my husband has never had to compete with my phone for my attention. However, I've had to compete with his phone for his attention.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 07:25 AM
-5

Ever notice how overweight women are starting to carry their entire purse in their bra, or between their breasts? Ever notice that womens pants and skirts don't have pockets? Or at least functional pockets? What that woman did was not ok. I mean who the hell would be texting her during her wedding is beyond me. But either give us some fucking pockets or shut the hell up about boob money.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 07:24 AM
-2

Well, I'm going to trust your user name on this one.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 06:45 AM
7

Your biggest problem right now is that you are not congruent. You are mixing beta behavior (telling her she is beautiful, complaining about her withdrawing) with alpha behavior (denying her desires for your own). Women do not trust men who are not congruent. That's called long term game. It's completely fine to complement your long term girlfriend. Women trust men who are not alpha all the time. It's called being a person. Women wont trust you if you're not a leader. There's a big difference. If…
/r/askTRP08/07/14 05:32 AM
1

So why didn't you want to work on the marriage?
/r/askTRP03/07/14 04:44 AM
1

How close are you with his family? Perhaps an intervention would be your best bet. If he continues, there's really nothing more you can do than wait until he hits rock bottom and wants to change himself.
/r/TRPOffTopic02/07/14 03:44 PM
2

Us country people really know how to live.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 06:29 AM
1

If all those guys she has been with were committed relationships, don't turn her into a slut. There are plenty of sluts out there for you to butt fuck already. Don't need to turn another girl into a slut.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 06:06 AM
9

Go fishing, hiking, camping, boating, hunting, shooting, mudding, 4 wheeling, swimming, chop down a tree and make something out of it, spend time in nature learning survival or focusing on yourself, take pictures, enjoy time with family, go to the bar (I don't care how small the town is there is at least one fucking bar there), fix something for your parents, go to the library, go to the local attraction, learn a new skill. Maybe this would be the perfect time to focus on yourself instead of foc…
/r/askTRP02/07/14 05:43 AM
3

I find it's pretty normal. I'm about a size 6-8 (depending on the pants) and my husband has told me I shouldn't lose any more weight. Being between 120-140 really gives nice feminine curves. "You look healthy (well fed, not starving but not fat)." ~ Hubby
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 04:57 AM
1

Coming from someone who is expert at LDR with experience. I hate advocating for LDRs. It absolutely sucks. There's so much bad with too little good. Is there an end in sight to the LDR? If not, it's a long hard road that sucks balls to walk down and you may want to end it on good terms if you can. Start learning to end conversations. Say what you have to say and then say good night. If you allow yourselves to be on the phone for hours every night you will have nothing to say like is happening no…
/r/askTRP02/07/14 04:25 AM
6

Is this a fantasy or an actual pursuit? Fantasy might not be so bad depending on how much you like her, actual pursuit is probably going to harm the relationship.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 04:02 AM
2

Any advice would be great as I suck at dancing and dont feel i should learn to be something I am not? What? How does that make sense? Why not just learn some basics so you don't suck? It would drastically improve your confidence because on the dance floor, just like in a relationship, men are supposed to lead. Dancing is actually a great metaphor for relationships. Lean to twirl her, dip her, and how to lead her into what you want her to do on the dance floor.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 03:30 AM
1

Holy shit! Was that their speed in MPH????
/r/TRPOffTopic02/07/14 03:10 AM
1

Second out of two, and subject to beheading at the King's order. Sure. Queen, whatever. Not really any different than a slave in this context, except for the amount of jewelry. See, now you're just being a butt face. You have no interest in trying to understand. All you want to do is belittle. I get that. What I still don't understand is whether it's you who decided that he isn't getting sex, or him who decided it. Does it really matter? I really don't want some stranger delving into my sex life…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 03:02 AM
1

Yup. Mid make out session or right as you're getting into it pull away "Just getting this out of the way, you don't have any STDs do you? I really don't want my dick to fall off." Response is usually, "No, Do you?" Maybe it'll be a yea, But maybe you'll catch an embarrassed look on her face like you caught her and she'll still say no. And even if your dick is begging you man, walk away.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 10:25 PM
-2

Play doctor. Pretend your her gynecologist. If that doesn't work, just ask. May be a momentary mood killer but better safe than sorry.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 09:35 PM
1

Yea, that seems like a little much for a reply to a joke. AMA if you like. Why are you here?
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 08:55 PM
2

Say no next time. When she asks why, tell her flat out why. Perhaps she'll change, perhaps not.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 05:44 PM
10

I believe this is called fraud. Don't do this.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 05:01 PM
1

So my objection about the good king still stands, I guess: just because he's good, it's okay to give him broad, blanket authority Fine, if you would like to look at it that way, yea. He's the king of the castle. Since you're so happy to compare him to a king, I guess that would make me the queen, not a subject, not a peasant, the queen. The second in command. When he wants sex and you don't, is it you who decides you aren't going to have sex, or him? Usually if I don't want to have sex I have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 04:32 PM
5

I camp often and I will tell you that unless there are showers where you are, it would probably be in everyones best interest that you do not get laid at the campground. Bug spray. It's disgusting on your dick and can cause major discomfort when it gets in a vagina. Sweat and grime. Everyone is just disgusting after camping with no showers. Swimmers itch. If you're camping near/on a lake, there are probably ducks there, that means there's probably going to be the bacteria that causes swimmers it…
/r/askTRP01/07/14 05:18 AM
1

What happens if the decision is something other than buying a house. Let's say, having sex. What if he wants to, and you don't? Does he gets the final say? What if he wants to punch you, and you don't want to be punched. Does he get the final say? What if you think you want to get a job? Does he have the final say? What if you want to order chicken at a restaurant instead of fish? Does he have the final say? I'll admit, if I was in a relationship with someone like that I would not allow them to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 05:01 AM
8

Indeed, people who visit PPD are usually somewhere in the middle with less extreme views. It's a nice middle ground here. I like it. I think I'll stay for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/14 02:50 PM
20

Probably going to get shit for this. But I've been married for 3 years, but with my spouse for 9. When you're ready, apologize for forgetting the baby monitor. She will in turn apologize for acting so irrationally. If you're ready to let it go, say "I forgive you." Not "It's ok" not "thanks." not anything else. Say "I forgive you." It will take her aback for a second. Because you're the only person who has the power to forgive her. If your not ready but still want to apologize and she says sorry…
/r/askTRP29/06/14 02:26 PM
3

Next time you see a woman with crows feet, remember, they're the ones who smile, laugh, and are generally more pleasant than those that don't. Your face doesn't wrinkle unless you wrinkle it often.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/14 02:01 PM
3

Lots of women hate doing dishes. Why? Because it makes your fingernails soft and easily breakable. You tend to get little hooks in your nail that you have to bite off or they catch on fabric. And then your nail has a rough patch that you bite at even more to get it smooth, but it doesn't work. Before you know it, your fingernails are super short. It's annoying and I like my fingernails. It also gets the front of your shirt wet.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 04:53 AM
1

You wash, She dries and puts away. It's literally that simple.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 04:47 AM
6

Ah, So I was right. Not much experience at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/14 04:20 AM
6

Doubtful. Where exactly are you getting your experience young 22 year old "college brah"? Bars? College campus? Frat parties? Yes, a very experienced man you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/14 03:41 AM
8

That just makes you a douchey human being. "I'm no longer polite to women because they're women."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/14 07:55 PM
2

That's not what I read on TRP. Anyone and everyone has access to TRP. Anyone can post their opinion. My opinion is that it's not for everyone (Male captain female first mate). Someone has to be trustworthy for you to put that much trust in them to submit. If both people are vying for control of the relationship Neither should be. How many times have you heard "What do you want to do?" "I dunno, what do you want to do?" "I dunno." Or "Where do you want to go to eat." "I dunno. Where do you want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/14 06:42 PM
1

I know. It's a very good example. It's a shame there aren't more like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/14 04:43 PM
2

Star Trek always seems to come up in these discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/14 04:36 PM
1

why does that give TRP the right to generalize, and say this is how all relationships should work? It doesn't. Not all relationships should work like that. A lot of TRP is talking about EARNING that position. Men have to be trustworthy and must be able to support/protect the family in order to earn the title of captain. (Getting a better job, making more money, becoming physically fit) No woman is going to trust a man to be their captain if they're not able to protect her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/14 04:33 PM
2

If both people are vying for control of the relationship life is MUCH harder and both people usually end up unhappy. Captain First Mate doesn't work for everyone. The captain MUST be trustworthy. No one is going to sit idly by and watch their life go down in ruins if the other person is making destructive decisions. I don't just sit around waiting for my husband to tell me to do things and bend to his will whatever he says. It's called Captain, First Mate because sometimes the First Mate must ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/14 04:27 PM
15

I don't understand. Their game is to try to sell you something. That's it. They're sales people. You either say No, walk away while ignoring them, or you just kill time talking to them and play their game with them. I'm so openly aware of the manipulation and total lack of sincerity of most of their actions. That is their JOB. Their JOB is to try to convince you to buy something. If it was some chick at the bar trying to convince you to buy a drink it would be a different answer. But this is the…
/r/askTRP28/06/14 03:50 PM
10

So if you die young, you plan to leave your wife destitute and your kids rich? Even if you die old your plan is to leave the woman who spent her life taking care of you and your kids destitute. Why? If you found this mythical perfect person who would never have a job so they can ba a stay at home wife/mom, birth your children, take care of them and the house and you Why would you want to leave them destitute?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:26 PM
1

Their percentages don't add up. 49% of women do more house work and only 19 % of men do it. What about the other 32%? Who the hell cleans their house? That many people can't possibly have maids!
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 08:40 PM
9

Unless she was fatter than him it's a bit of hypocrisy to be calling her fat. Dude gained 50 pounds while she only gained 20. It doesn't excuse the weight gain. But he doesn't put her weight in there only his, so for all I know she could have been 230. But I doubt it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 04:29 PM
15

I had also went from 163 to 210, Don't throw stones in glass houses dude. You can't call out someone for being fat when you're also fat. I'm not saying you shouldn't have left her but unless she was over 220 you were the pot calling the kettle black.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 04:24 PM
1

I don't think it will happen unless he has a catastrophic brain injury or something. I remember about a year or so ago there was a /r/relationships thread with a girl asking for advice about her bf or husband of 5 years back handing her out of fucking NOWHERE. Everyone was like "leave him that's how abusive people start blah blah blah" But some people heeded her to take him to the doctor because of such an unusual mood shift. Turns out the guy had a brain tumor. I couldn't find the link. Sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 04:17 PM
-1

Say for example, your husband took up smoking after you have been together, or started going to bars instead of coming home, became insanely strict with your children. How would you handle these behaviors? Those really aren't that bad. Started smoking? Fine, as long as he's not doing it in the house with our kids around. Going to the bar? He had a hard day at work and needs some man time with his friends. Become more strict with the kids? I would fucking LOVE it if he did. I hate always being th…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 04:07 PM
7

Example: Sobs about how bad they were to her...This is just her TELLING you to not do these things, to try and train you into submissiveness. Female: "Derick always did --(Alpha shit like cursed)-- and -(Alpha Shit like Hanging out with his friends whenever he wanted)--- I hated that. You: You pretty much tell her you do alot worse then Derick so sucks for her and laugh. What if they're not alpha traits she's complaining about? Like never doing laundry and just fabreezing things when he ran out …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 07:05 AM
1

I found my most attractive friend on FB, grabbed a few photos, and crafted a fake profile. I hope you alerted your friend that you were doing this. Even though it was for a social experiment it's not cool to use a persons pictures with out their consent.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 07:39 PM
1

false rape accusations comprise anywhere from 1% to 90% of all rape accusations. That's a pretty wide spread there...
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 07:44 PM
-3

Well, you know where they could go for that ;O)
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 03:37 PM
2

It's very nice that you're thinking of landscaping. However I would suggest a trim instead of a shave unless you plan to shave every time before sex. The reasoning is that if you shave and decide to have sex a day or two later without shaving again your pubic hair turns into a horrible landscape of sand paper to a vagina. Those little hairs are sharp instead of dull and rub vigorously on the sensitive skin of a vagina causing soreness and a woman wont be able to go as long or as frequently. Whil…
/r/TRPOffTopic16/06/14 06:14 AM
2

I don't think I could give my hubby a full BJ for the life of me. My jaw and neck will get too sore. Usually we move on to better things.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 05:25 PM
9

Go ahead and think back to highschool, think back to college and look at what guys got laid the most and always had girls hanging around their shoulder. Honestly? It was a super nerdy jewish kid who was out going and... wait for it... nice. GASP! The point though was that he was outgoing. He was a social butterfly and got along with all the cliques in school. He wasn't much of a dick, just confident. I'm sure his giant cock probably helped him a bit. But hey, he was blessed, who wouldn't be conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 02:14 AM
0

You are correct. Discussing LTR here is a good thing and should continue to happen. However the amount of dislike towards LTR and marriage here is very discouraging to those who are already in them and who want them. I would like to provide a space for people who are already in/want marriages or LTR to discuss ways to improve their existing relationship with advice and input from both sides.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 07:00 PM
2

I can only think of a few times where my husband has said "no" and then changed his mind. I don't think I lost respect for him at all. I was happy that we were going to go do stuff together. I don't usually want things. I want to do things together.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/14 09:40 PM
10

LOL. I'm sure he'll find doormats anywhere he looks. All of us women are just aching to bow down to this guy who wants virtually nothing to do with us other than cooking, cleaning, sex, and offspring. I'm sure he'll find plenty of Mrs. RightNows but I don't believe Mrs. Right actually exists for this guy.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 02:44 AM
3

I get ragging on people. My family does it constantly. But this was different. There was no joking tone. There was no punchline. There was only anger and superiority. Perhaps I'll suggest to my husband to lend her husband one of his RP books.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/14 07:52 PM
2

Killing bugs. I can't do it. That crunch when you step on them just gives me the willies.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/14 05:23 PM
2

Yea, I don't really think I should be admiring her for that stuff though...
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/14 05:10 PM
1

I don't understand.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/14 01:26 PM
6

Later in the evening he came in and she was holding someones baby and said "see, aren't they perfect at this age? This is why I want another one." He said "eehhhh." and she repeated "Yea, you really don't have a choice." She's not the most eloquent of people.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/14 04:05 AM
3

Is she going through menopause? Those kinds of emotional out bursts can happen during that time.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 08:24 PM
1

Sorry, I was just confused because it sounded to me like you were blaming them.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 05:14 PM
1

Ah, it sounded like you were blaming the administration for what happened.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 04:47 PM
7

Wait. How does the administration play into this? Can't people just be fucking crazy despite who the president is?
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 05:35 AM
3

That... is a super awkward prank... I have a feeling that this didn't go as the guy planned. He kept taking it out trying to get a rise out of them. Good on those people for keeping their professionalism in the face of weirdness.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 11:52 PM
1

Just trying to help one of those mistakes to not be for them to split up and 1. have him pay child support and 2. her be a single mom.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 06:18 AM
1

So not a good idea to try to help on both fronts? I'm not sure what my husband said to J, but I know he can beat around the bush instead of being direct and blunt.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/14 08:18 PM
3

Yes, if he gets back full time but that's not the nature of the job. It's work when there's work.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/14 07:48 PM
1

We don't see each other often no. In the past we've gotten along and we've gently talked about the struggles of the type of jobs our SOs have. sitting her down and telling all of this to her in one big glorious speech. LOL No I was planning on a gentler approach like just bringing topics up and talking about them giving tidbit of help here and there. I was just hoping for some wisdom on bringing her back to reality, how to broach subjects, ways to phrase things so she doesn't get uppity, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/14 07:15 PM
1

They've been together about 2-3 years. Their daughter is going to turn 2 soon. Um I'm not too sure on the whole dating thing. I know J had a few short relationships after high school but because of his type of job (gone for long periods of time) he didn't have anything serious until E. He took the layoff well because that's part of the job. You work when there's work and don't when there's not. He'd been gone for about 2 months prior to the layoff and only thought it'd be for a month or so but w…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/14 07:01 PM
2

Ok family dynamics like this J is my husbands brother. E is J's girlfriend. E and J dated and got pregnant. Now E is the mother of my niece. While J is my brother in law I have no relation to E. So it's not a good idea to try to talk to E and give her some first hand advice as we're both in the same type of boat but I've learned how to make mine float while she's digging a hole in hers?
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/14 06:48 PM
1

They got pregnant out of wedlock. They haven't tied the knot because J doesn't want to until things are more stable and they can pay for it. E used to be pretty mellow. She was a great gal. I think the stress of not having an income and a new baby made her go a little crazy. Plus the influence of her "friends" while J was away. I want them to be able to stay together because their kid shouldn't grow up without a dad and become another statistic of kids without dads. And he'll get taken to the cl…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/14 06:33 PM
1

Thanks very much!
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 09:55 PM
3

We have an IRC channel?
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 09:43 PM
1

I would not leave my husband over trivial matters I've stuck with him this long haven't I? Though I would leave him if he didn't want to be a family with us. It's not a little trivial issue to not actually be with your wife. It's a huge issue. Like I said I don't want to go husband bashing to the world. He has done things in the past to slowly degrade my trust in him. We've been together 9 years. There are little things that happen all the time to slowly wear down trust. Like water constantly dr…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/14 01:36 AM
2

Cool. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/14 01:06 AM
1

I didn't know career meant that. I see career more as a long term job where you have room for advancement. Like I said, I knew ya'll would not agree with that choice I made. I do not deny that. It's something that I did before I joined RPW. It was a choice between my mental health and continuing to let my husband have the reigns on this decision. Once depression has its claws in you it is a hell of a task to shake it. I'm not talking about "I feel sad for a few days" but more considering taking …
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/14 01:03 AM
2

Oh dear God, You're right! I just looked in the mirror! How could I have been so blind?!
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/14 12:46 AM
1

Huh. And here I thought I was being respectful.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/14 12:43 AM
1

Thanks! This is the best advice I've gotten. Thank you for explaining the reasoning behind it. How do your kids deal with being in the car all day? What do you bring along for them to do at places like coffee shops? Where do you find these things to do like ballet? Is it in the paper? Yes I understand the problem is with me. I need direction and purpose to my life. I'm hoping that with this move I can get purpose and direction again through a job or school or something. I had a job last year it …
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/14 12:41 AM
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Perhaps not everyone is happy with a life of being a SAHM and they want something more. Why is it wrong for me to want to help contribute to our house hold finances? Why is it wrong for me to want a career? Why is it wrong to want to move to be closer to my husband so that I can feel normal with him and not anxious or cranky? Why is it wrong to want to move so that I can be a better wife and better parent? Why is any of this wrong and why are you so hatefully bashing me when I've been honest?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/14 12:07 AM
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I felt it was ironic that you ladies preach trust and submission, not something I disagree with entirely, and I was asked why I genuinely thought he would be home. Because I trusted him. I felt it was ironic. That's where the lol comes in. Perhaps that's a major part of what has led me to distrust him. I don't know. Yes I'm asking for advice on how to be better. I've gotten advice on how to be better, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/14 12:01 AM
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I didn't say he had any problems. You're irrationally angry right now and just being mean while I'm giving calm concise answers. I focused on my faults here because that's what ya'll asked of me. Yes I have problems. I do not deny this but openly express them asking for help and advice. Once you read my honest answers you decide you don't like me and then bash me... Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 11:53 PM
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Why? That seems an odd place to put it rather than under the actual part that I said it. Yup, I said that. Thanks for taking things out of context. :O)
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 11:46 PM
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Indeed. I ordered it on amazon a few days ago. It's being shipped.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 11:43 PM
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Yes. Would you have preferred ya'll?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 11:40 PM
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A few years ago I was taking care of my mom while she was dying. She took a big life insurance policy on herself when she thought something was wrong. She asked me to give up college and come home to help take care of her. I did because I felt obligated to as my sister lives far away and has a career. So for 2 years I helped take care of her until she died. She paid me with her life insurance money. I got a big lump sum that's sitting in our savings account designated for a house. Then when my h…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 11:36 PM
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He did road construction while we were dating. It was a little the same but I got to travel more to be with him. That was pretty awesome! What made you believe he would genuinely be around more when you two decided to start a family? I trusted him at his word. LOL
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 11:28 PM
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... You may want to read a few of the comment replies I already made. I didn't really list a whole lot of his faults because I don't really want to husband bash. As far as being unhappy yes, I am unhappy. Being alone and not with my husband has made me pretty unhappy one certainly leads to another. If you've never been away from your husband for months on end perhaps you should experience it to understand the feeling more. I never said I was making demands on my husband romantically. Nor did I e…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 11:26 PM
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Well, someone suggested it to me. I read some on the website and thought perhaps my husband might like this book. Perhaps it would give advice to bring us closer together. Perhaps it would make him feel more confident. Perhaps he might just like to read it and then ignore it. I don't know, it was worth a shot to do something rather than nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 11:02 PM
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but don't you know when he is exactly coming home so you could start adjusting your train of thoughts to be appropriate for when he does arrive? It sounds crazy but no. There are a lot of times when he says he'll get off on a certain day and that day comes and goes and he's working the same job 3 days later because things got backed up. There are also days where he says he'll be home on a certain day and then show up 2 days early because everything went better than expected. Now I just don't wan…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 10:43 PM
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We are moving closer to where he works.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 10:10 PM
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He does abatement at the mines up north. It's a very physically demanding job. We have a shared checking account like all married people. I don't know how else to answer that question. Sex life is minimal. He's tired and stressed after work. It's hard to go more than one round when we do have sex because my body is just so unused to it. I have "friends" that I met though church. I've hung out with them a few times but they're all SAHMs that do home schooling with several children. It's hard to f…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 10:08 PM
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I bought an old gun rack for my husband and refinished it. I found sanding, finishing, and putting it all back together to be very soothing. I would suggest to start with something like that. Pick something up at a garage sale for cheap and test the waters with it. You'll find out if you like it or not. And if you don't you're not in too deep.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 09:50 PM
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It's not a point of motivation to be home. It's a point of he's physically unable to work a 10-16 hour shift 6-7 days a week in the mines doing very labor intensive work and then drive 4-5 hours round trip home to spend time with his family. There are times when he works 8s and he comes home 1 or 2 days during the week but he's exhausted. He eats dinner, spends some time with our daughter and then goes to bed. He TRIES to be home but it's hard for him to do. Yes, he probably feels as though he's…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 09:46 PM
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Our daughter is 3. She's a curious one and rather destructive when left alone. She's now out of a crib and into a big girl bed. During the summer we get out pretty often but it's winter in northern MN and it's awful. The nearest walmart/target/social area to go is an hour away. I have a car that gets great gas mileage and I used to do that often when we first lived here but it puts a BIG dent in our finances. Filling up every other day costs quite a bit. Yea, I had to brow beat him into it. For …
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 08:56 PM
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I used to have hobbies. I'm a pretty good artist. I tried getting back into drawing but since my daughter is 3 she gets into everything. She got a hold of one of the pieces I was working on and destroyed it. My heart just about broke when that happened. I also garden, do work outside, and found a passion for wood working but the weather here (northern MN) hasn't permitted any of those. Winter here is an awful awful time and exacerbates depression. :O(
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 08:06 PM
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He usually stays at one of his cousins houses that live slightly closer or at a super cheap dingy hotel. In the two years that I told him how unhappy I was he found no problem with our living situation and continued to try to convince me that we had a good thing since our house is payed for. He still doesn't like the idea of moving and where we're moving to. There is no vision for our family. I've asked about plans and what he sees in our future and he just says "relaxing and spending time toget…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 08:00 PM
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Oh, we've had plenty of our fights where we say we never want to see each other again and throw our rings at each other, like any other couple... That's a bit crazy. I've never aired anything like that on FB or social media. Sometimes when my husband frustrates me I say stupid little kid things to him but never anything hurtful. I've never understood why people say "when I get angry I say things I don't mean". I think that's entirely untrue. I think when people get angry they're saying things th…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 06:39 AM
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Lol. I was just thinking about this the other day and wrote down my moms story. It's a sad sad story about how my parents roles in life completely flip flopped. :O(
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 04:55 PM
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I'm glad you were able to take care of him. It's funny the types of things men want to do when they're drunk.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 03:15 PM
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I beg to differ. Marrying well would be marrying someone who is better than you. They're an over all better person, they're smarter, they have a better job, they're more physically fit, they're funnier, they're wiser than you. Granted, you don't usually find all of this in one man. But the general consensus is to marry someone who's better than you so you feel comfortable letting them take the Captains chair.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 03:27 AM
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I'll PM it to you. It's a lot of stuff I'd rather not put out there on the internet.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 12:54 AM
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It's good to know that the women here are in good relationships never having to deal with these things. He'd have to do something that displays he's ill or ACTIVELY DENYING that he is hurting his marriage or his family through measures that risk self or mutual destruction on emotional or financial levels. I, however, seem to have picked a very bad husband...
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 12:40 AM
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The only scenario I can think of where I would overrule my husband is if he is in the hospital and on heavy drugs or if he were in some other way incapacitated. Even then, I wouldn't be overruling as much as I would just be taking the bridge. Thanks, that puts in a bit more of a perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 12:30 AM
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Yes, he did use the word crisis. I was just wondering if there were ever any times that any woman here has had to deal with something like this.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 12:28 AM
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There would have to be an extraordinary set of circumstances for this to be justifiable. Well it does say "crisis". And yes I see your point but I honestly can't say that in the event of some kind of extreme happenstance I wouldn't extremely object. Some crazy examples. Husband comes home from meeting with someone and says that he's going to put all of our savings into scientology. Husband becomes extremely religious due to some kind of cult and wants both of us to quit our job and go "preach th…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 12:23 AM
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I edited and put the two paragraphs he talks about it in the text spot.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 12:05 AM
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That's a pretty awesome chart! Mine's just a monthly chart that I put those things on. I should get more technical.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 11:55 PM
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He used a lot of Star Trek metaphors but did not give any real life examples.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 11:38 PM
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What I do is I have marked days for cleaning different rooms. Monday- kitchen Tuesday- living room Wednesday- laundry etc. Sometimes I lag behind and don't get it done but I'll just combine days when I have extra time.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 06:55 PM
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Why would this not work? It would be easy to play off each other, especially in social situations, if both persons were this way.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 06:51 PM
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...I'm not OP but we're almost exactly alike. Are you saying that I've got to give up my humor to be more feminine? I'm already married so I don't have to worry about attracting other alpha men. I'm working on becoming better for myself and for my husband. I don't know if I could ever "stop being funny". It would be like ripping a chunk out of myself.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 06:45 PM
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Dear lord, You've just described me to a T. Even the whole loud voice thing... Are you my sister?
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 06:29 PM
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You could just see her face drop at that last line.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 05:59 PM
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Yes, I understand that but demonizing a man after being broken up wouldn't further this purpose.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 09:55 PM
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What is the evolutionary purpose of this?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 08:24 PM
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Men who manipulate, fear their lack of power in a situation and use other people to their advantage to change their place in the situation without improving themselves. Women fear their lack of power. They can't use brute strength to get what they want generally 1. because they generally don't have it and 2. it's illegal and frowned upon in society. What you're saying is that men who manipulate are no better than women who manipulate. There is no difference between men and women who manipulate b…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 06:58 PM
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if you've had sex with even one person before your husband, he's automatically a 'loser beta' That's one I haven't heard before. On a side note, what are these marriage friendly RP websites you speak of. I've been trying to find some for my husband and I to look at.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 06:47 PM
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She very well could have been lying and froze in the face of something tragic. I was just offering an alternative explanation. And now I have to go buy a first aid kit and put it in my car...
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 06:40 PM
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I believe she didn't have an extra pair of gloves. She said she never checked vital signs because she didn’t have another pair of gloves. That's from the article.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 06:23 PM
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So there is no difference between men and women while doing this?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 06:19 PM
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Can someone explain to me why some women are this bat shit crazy. I mean I know hormones and instincts pay a part but not to the point of calling the dean of his school. I've heard other stories like this in my personal life and I just can't understand it. Is it our society? I've read a few of the posts on the side bar but, either I read it and didn't understand it, or I haven't come across it yet.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 06:18 PM
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She was unable to overcome her dislike of blood, and watched another human die because of it. It may not have been a dislike of blood but more a fear of blood borne pathogens. Anyone who has the possibility of working around blood or any other bodily fluids is given some pretty scary training on it. Many times we are told not to engage bloodied/soiled strangers with out PPE. She may have had a cut on her hand or somewhere else that could have let the infection transfer with out proper PPE. Don't…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 05:58 PM
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Serious question. Why is it different when a man does any of these things compared to a woman? Not saying all men do these types of things but when and if they do why is it different?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 05:24 PM
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This guy really doesn't sound like the type of person to be swayed by her post. I would be more afraid of her showing him the post out of fear that he'd try to dominate and isolate her further. This guy sounds like really bad news. Either she grew up in a home where she was dominated or he's some how abusing/manipulating her into this. I can't believe any woman would just agree to become completely isolated like this.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 03:39 AM
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I'm sorry I put it in such harsh terms but, man, I was you. I was blissfully ignorant. I thought nothing in the world would make me bitter, nothing in the world would make me lose respect for my husband, nothing in the world would make me want to leave him or take what he'd rightfully earned. And we dated for 6 years before we were married! The sad truth is that marriage is really hard. Pregnancy and having kids together is really hard. Your hormones can make you go CRAZY after kids. You could b…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 03:07 AM
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imaginary consequences STDs are very real consequences. They actually added a new one to the list. Lymes disease is now an STD. Get yourself checked man!
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 02:07 AM
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Why does everyone here assume that everyone else is over weight and needs to loose weight? Or is this a metaphor for something else?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 02:04 AM
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Agree to it, put a stipulation in it that if he decides to leave the prenup is void.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 01:56 AM
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As a woman who is slightly horrified by this post I have to tell you that things will change. I said the same damn thing when my husband and I got married. I said I'd never want to strip him of things that he worked so hard for. So we got a prenup. Now many years later I regret that, because quite honestly that saying "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" is absolutely true. Your bf wants to go back into the military. This means he is going to be GONE. You bf is going to LEAVE YOU. Not in the…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 01:38 AM
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I'm hoping this book gets to him a bit. I've tried many times to get him to comment, especially early on in our relationship. Perhaps the reason he doesn't say anything is because he's gone so often and he just wants me to feel good about myself when he is home? Hopefully things with shift once we're together more.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/14 07:13 PM
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I think TRP would benefit greatly to de-emphasize the sex angle and concentrate more on the self-improvement aspect. Instead of seeing the latter as a gateway to the former. Thank you for saying this. As a woman, (I know I'm not supposed to be here!) I came here (TRP) wanting to find advice to help my husband and I into a RP relationship. All I find is a bunch of stories about, well, man whoring.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 01:29 AM
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Wow, the answer to a lot of those questions is no. I guess I've stopped caring in a lot of the aspects of my life and relationship and let it kind of drag for a while. Thank you very much for your input it really makes me see a lot of the failures that I've let happen. I have one last question for you though. Where do you find the motivation for all of that? Cook, clean, raise kids, do the laundry, and have sex at night. I can barely motivate myself to do the first three in a single day let alon…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 11:55 PM
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Yes, we have a 3 year old daughter. I don't bake much but when I do I enjoy it. I enjoy creating something delicious. I just hate doing the dishes so much I avoid it. I used to be an artist/photographer. That went away when we had a kid because I just don't have the time for it. The only thing that I can think of is hosting family functions. I learned to be a good hostess from my mom. I really enjoy throwing a good get together. It's only done a few times a year though and in between I feel usel…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 10:27 PM
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I think I fear his decisions because I've spent so long alone in the relationship and I recently had to fight and fight hard to get him to agree to move. I'm sorry to say I had to pull an ultimatum for the first time in our relationship. He currently works away from home and we're moving so that we can be closer to where he works but I also want to have a life. Currently I do not have a life and he either does not understand this or he does not care, I'm hoping it's that he doesn't understand. I…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 10:13 PM
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Thank you, that's why I asked the question. I wanted to gain perspective from other peoples experiences. There's not a whole lot of positive female influence in my life or in the surrounding area. I'm not sure what it means to be a woman in every day life. I don't know how to be feminine really. I just know that I'm not a home maker. I'm bad at it and I don't like it. It brings no satisfaction to me to take care of the house and kids. I'm not really sure what else is womanly or would make me fee…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 08:23 PM
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Well the reason I found this sub was because I was looking for a change. things aren't right in our relationship and we're both struggling for a portion of leadership I suppose. I'm not sure what "normal" is. I suppose both having a say in decisions and both participating in house hold tasks? I would like him to be more of a leader. That's why I'm trying to introduce him to TRP. But part of me fears that he will make decisions selfishly and only consider what is best for him and not for us. We a…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 07:58 PM
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Indeed. Thank you very much for your input!
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 07:36 PM
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How would this work if the man does not have a clear vision of the future? What if he makes (large life changing) decisions based on selfish wants instead of what's good for both of you or a compromise?
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 07:34 PM
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I don't quite understand what you mean when you say "self improvement with out resentment". Who resents who for who's self improvement? Are you talking about women improving themselves and resenting their men for not? Or men improving themselves and women resenting their men for improving themselves? Also do these go both ways? If not (I'm assuming it would be from the womens perspective) what would it be for men?
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 07:28 PM
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What do you do if there's something you'd like to do together? For a small example going out to see a movie. You want to go see one and he wants to go see another. Do you still compromise on things like this? Or do you go along with him and watch his and ignore your desires? (I used this example to better understand day to day life instead of major life changing decisions which I would hope would still be up to discussion) He's become my Captain, which makes us both much more happy because we're…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 07:24 PM
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No, just taking it one step at a time.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 07:10 PM
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What does him running the relationship entail? Does he make all the financial decisions by himself or do you two still sit down and discuss things together?
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 07:08 PM
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Married Man Sex Life. I came across mention of it in r/deadbedroom and did some research went to the website read some stuff on it and decided to order it. I guess it's a book talking about RP lifestyle in marriage but directed at me. I'd like to read it to gain a better understanding but I also want to respect my husbands wishes to not read it before him.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 06:09 PM
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Yes. I'd like to gain an understanding through other individuals though.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 05:48 PM
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So do most RPW split these "beta" tasks? Is it "unredpill" to ask for help with house hold chores that typically women do? Is it looked down upon here to feel that men should help out with house hold tasks? I'm sorry if these questions seem... stupid, I'm new to this and I'd like to understand this more.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 05:32 PM
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So we have no honor or loyalty to men?
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 01:08 AM
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Why do they say women have no honor or loyalty? Do we really not? I understand lots of women are crazy but I can't see that we have no loyalty or honor. Could I get examples if you agree with that?
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 12:45 AM
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Indeed. I was just very confused. I read up a bit on TRP and liked a bit of what I saw and wanted to learn more. Bought a book for my husband and all that. I've been around extremely sexist men before though, who do think that a womens place is in the kitchen and don't see any other value to us. I was hoping I wasn't going to have to burn that new book I got.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 03:54 PM
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Thanks! That's a much simpler explanation.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 03:49 PM
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And your husband helps? or does he have other "man dedicated" tasks?
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 03:37 PM
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Thanks, I'm still a bit confused by that article then. Why is it stating that women should be back in the kitchen? I never really though of myself as a feminist, I understand that there's things that both men and women are better at, but them saying that women are basically baby machines and our time is best spent taking care of the house really pissed me off.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 03:35 PM
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Once a woman writes you off, most of the other women that see it will write you off, depending on the attractiveness of the female who rejected you. The hotter the female, the lower your chances become with every other female who saw your rejection. This is why men have a natural fear of rejection. Yes but this is exactly why people with a 5 and below have developed a good personality. They don't often go after the 10. You go after someone close to your own number. Then as the night progresses y…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 02:18 PM
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While looks are important your personality changes your appearance over time. There was a study I read about that said that you only truly see what a person looks like in the first 5 min of meeting them. After that outside factors, like personality, job, charisma, etc, weigh in on your attractiveness. I have met people who at first I think are stunningly attractive but then once I got to know them their number dropped significantly. And also the other way around. Personality can only go so far b…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 05:50 AM
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I'm confused, that's what The Red Pill is? Saying that women shouldn't work and need to stay home and take care of the house?
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 04:43 AM
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