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| 16 | Is it me?Girl. GIRL. "Weight matters to men the way height matters to women". Gosh I already knew that, I saw it in memes, but I just forgot in my frustration. Thank you so much. I will keep this in mind. And yeah. Actually I'm not that approached by chubby guys? I'm actually approached by thin and/or shorter guys who are actually my height. and I gave all of them a chance bc again I'm so rarely approached. Actually my friends were often weirded out by how much I "settle" for not so cute guys. And honest… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | A Kiss Can't Lie: If he doesn’t kiss you, he‘s not in love with you.I totally agree with this. I had 1 guy who was an exception? He was really affectionate with me, kissed me a lot, caressed my face, gazed at me, hugged me, etc, but after a month of action like a couple (I didn't know about FDS back then so I had sex with him early) he still wouldn't make his girlfriend. He said he wanted to be single for about 2 more months. So like. How could he be so affectionate yet not make me his girlfriend. I'm still like ???. I guess I was his rebound girl bc we hooked u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 05:45 PM |
| 5 | When Porn in Life: Driver Was Watching Porn Before Fatal Crash that Killed AnotherImagine that when first responders found him his phone was still playing porn. I would stand there in disbelief and then disgust and anger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 08:52 PM |
| 8 | How to be approached in public…?I don't know if it's FDS approved to accept guys approaching you on the street but I read that; You should attend events where you can meet single men or women who know someone single. You should find something that you are interested in. I read that sport events can attract men. But also charity events for helping people or protecting the environment can attract empathetic men. In theory. If the events you are interested in are more feminine in the traditional sense and/or there aren't many men… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 08:48 PM |
| 27 | Absolute CRETIN cum-brain husband literally poisons his wife with his own SHIT because of his fetish. Men are literal animals and I have no wordsI only read the title and put my phone down. I just. I read the post in the end. This is literally my worst nightmare. There are 2 extreme horror film tropes that make me nauseous. 1. Rats biting/eating parts of a living person. (Despite this is find pet-rats adorable). 2. A person being forced to eat feces. I'm actually nauseous right now. Like I only saw the trailer of the "Human Centipede" but that was enough to give me nightmares. Imagine that your fetish is literally a trope of extreme horr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 01:40 PM |
| 5 | Comedy hour: Curving your exIdk if you are into witchcraft and such but burning things is a great way to cleanse yourself and your surroundings. With all of the windows open, preferably when the sun is shining you burn something and use the smoke to cleanse. In my opinion smoke soaks in the bad energies and then the smoke disappears out through the window and takes the bad energies with itself. So it's ironic that the very thing, that disgusting letter, brought in bad energies but you used its smoke to cleanse everything. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 11:52 AM |
| 27 | 15 daughter notices her dad is a LVM, encourages Mom to leave him...dad finds out and blows up at daughterMost men would try to have sex with this girl if it was legal. Bc she would be "mature enough" to consent. And that women "peak" between late teenage years and their 20s. But if she has got an opinion??? Then she suddenly doesn't know anything about "adult life" and needs to mind her own business. I hate men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 09:38 PM |
| 12 | I genuinely don’t believe in love anymoreYeah it's a hard thing to accept. That's why we just have to live a fulfilling life without romantic love. And learn to truly appreciate other types of love from friends and family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 10:06 AM |
| 91 | FDS is important because too many men think this is acceptable. My heart breaks for her.It's scary reading the last paragraph. Most times pickmes make excuses but not her. She knows this was a mistake. In theory I know that being level headed and realistic is better than being denial bc then you can take action to better your life. But it's still hard to read that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 09:36 AM |
| 9 | Single female celebrities who are killing it?Jennifer Aniston! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 01:16 AM |
| 8 | Two single parents talking about their teenaged sons and then....No this has to be fake. I know men are depraved but no. I just can't accept this as the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 01:09 AM |
| 3 | No longer on bumble (thank God!) having met my new HV boyfriend :) but I saved this screenshot.I don't understand what's the problem. It's clearly a meme and at least he is not a trump supporter. Now the stickers under the text. "Something casual". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 06:02 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond on OLD when a guy asks you to travel to him?OnLine Dating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Do better. It's your fault he cheated. NOT!The "shut up" at the end seasons this trash greatly. Mmmm tasty bitter gaslighting and misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Pick me logic 101: being in a relationship makes me better than the other girls- even if I’m being degraded!👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 10:24 PM |
| 66 | 😂😂 she got him goodI wouldn't do this no matter what is our "title". I'm not your slave/walking sexual fantasy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Eartha Kitt on MenAnd he doesn't answer her question, what does he mean by compromising. And he doesn't answer bc he knows his answer would be trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 10:18 AM |
| 2 | If you're a male lurker here, and you're triggered by the content, its because you're the definition of LVM.I feel you, same here in my country. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 09:58 AM |
| 10 | Trolling will not be tolerated. Trashing FDS and FDS mods will also not be tolerated. This is a support sub.When I first discovered this sub I doubted the not paying my half of the date part. But the more I read the sub and the all time top posts I realised why you need to do that. Men only take things seriously they invested money in. And even then that's not 100% certain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 09:48 AM |
| 54 | Sums it upGreat post but I could barely read it bc of the colors 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 09:30 AM |
| 60 | Ladies, always remember this. Boundaries are what allow you to separate those worthy of your energy and those unworthy of even standing next to you.Vetting/dating phrase, relationship, engagement, marriage and knowing most men are LVM divorce. Any man that tells you, there's something more between dating and relationship, is delusioning you. Doubt everything when it comes to men, except yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 08:09 PM |
| 82 | When he thinks one date will get him a ticket to pound town.Yes! Do not mention how many dates you wait with sex or don't even mention you wait with sex until the relationship bc men will now know how to act, manipulate harder or wait it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:24 AM |
| 2 | “Because my ego tells me I deserve to be but I can’t be bothered to put any work into making this sustainable”I hate how she is more dressed up and how her looks are more groomed yet this guy only threw on this ugly sweater and maybe maybe showered/washed his hair before the date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Please tell me I'm wrong - tortured thinking about horrific depths of male depravity :/I just saw that video and I just hope that it's his pants, that one of the legs of the pants rode down and pull the fabric over the croch area instead of the fabric folding over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 12:42 AM |
| 11 | Haven’t seen this “friend” in over 1.5 years, agreed to meet for drinks and immediately tries to bully me into sex.Your ex you say huh 👀 girl that doesn't sound good. Be careful and apply FDS rules extra strict. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 10:30 PM |
| 57 | The bars are full of insecurec LVMthis is not a "must follow" advice but I would like to add; this is why I don't accept drinks from men. it's a tool to make you more vulnerable (tipsy/drunk) and make you be in "debt" for them. in theory they should know that buying you stuff is a way to win you over, it's an investment, and sometimes you lose on your investment. but they don't think of this that way. they think, they gave you money in one way or another, so they bought their right to have sex with you. just bc they don't give y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 12:46 PM |
| 158 | A demisexual is defined as “a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone.” Thanks to Porn, the description of a normal healthy sexual bond is now a fringe sexual orientation instead of a given.this is why I hate tumblr. Idk where these definitions came from but tumblr had a huge role in making them fairly well known. so many asexual people actually came to realise that they are not asexual just simple people who don't want to have sex with everything. bc on tumblr people advocated that even asexual people can enjoy sex they just need more intimacy or they have periods of times when they want sex. seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 08:01 PM |
| 14 | Is it not near impossible to find men who dont watch porn?I also posted a similar question (here). honestly there are a few good tips there it's useful to read it. but the answer is; it's really hard to find one and you have to give it lots of time. here's my opinion; maybe I over romanticise this but I like to think a HVM is not a slave to his penis so he won't watch porn and is satisfied with masturbation and maybe occasional hook ups. I know FDS would say a HVM wouldn't be that much into hook ups but I don't mean it in the traditional sense, I mean … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 11:25 PM |
| 5 | Dads Spend Seven Hours a Year Hiding from Their Families — in the Bathroom: Study Finds.LVM are so freaking lazy. Why not go out somewhere if you don't want to be at home? There are several places where you can use WiFi for free or just have to pay little. Libraries, malls, cafes. But no they are so low value and lazy that they won't even leave the comforts of their wive's/girlfriends' homes (it's not theirs bc they don't do any home maintenance). They would rather do ridiculous, laughable things like this than have some dignity and go out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:34 PM |
| 8 | Best and Worst Cities for HVMWell then I'm doomed bc American guys are horrible 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 06:50 AM |
| 5 | A HVM can become a LVMI feel like a HVM will react differently than a LVM at his low points. A HVM can be depressed, stressed, sick or even have financial struggles. A HVM won't be toxic to you, he won't project his struggles onto you, he won't hurt you in anyway bc he is hurting. A HVM will ask for your help but also understands that you are not his psychologist and will seek professional help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 06:49 AM |
| 7 | I’m Worth MoreThe average woman almost all the time is more worthy than the average man. And the funniest thing is that men brought that to themselves. Men groomed women to be caretakers and nurturing. Men abused women into maximising their beauty and build a whole life style around being healthy and attractive. So women ended up being the nicest and most attractive people on average among humans. While men? They suffer from isolation bc they can't connect with women neither with men. They die young and age q… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 06:04 AM |
| 17 | Best and Worst Cities for HVMEurope Hungary Budapest: The guys are here are average like not totally LVM but not HVM either. I usually see 1 or 2 well groomed men on public transportation but idk where to meet them. Bc they are not at parties lol. I want to try going to local events to try find them. The average guy in the city, not on the countryside, is fairly clean but not really stylish but hungarians are usually poor maximum middle class. Also hungarians still stick to gender roles but not in the right way. The guys st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 05:52 AM |
| 24 | Gotta love how the dusty men in the comments act like taking care of yourself is some sort of crime when women are expected to do this without complaint.I have seen the original video of the first guy. and it's not the fact that he is taking care of himself but how he rubs his privileges into your face. Obviously his life style is paid or was paid by his parents then maybe he was able to build up his own financial security. He also frames his life as hectic while it's not. He is not expected to be at work by 8 am or even earlier he can leisurely get ready at his own time which is a privilege in itself. He takes a long as time to get ready, then … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 11:26 PM |
| 36 | A dick is just a bigger finger really, so why is [sucking one one] so awful?scat is "fairly" extreme. Wtf. It's extremely extreme. I hate men so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 09:41 AM |
| 10 | Dear Male Lurkers: Understand that not all men are in a position to date. If you can’t afford to take a woman out on a decent date regularly, or if you do not have your own place or car, you’re simply not ready to date. Step Back. That’s more respectable than forcing an issue.Women are so much better at being self aware :/. Like myself, I just finished university but I still need to improve myself. Lose weight, max my looks, find a job. Bc currently I could only get a LVM or be a burden for a HVM. So yeah I'm waiting until I get those done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 09:18 AM |
| 20 | The prize that is marriage to a LVMIf women can fall back onto their families they need to leave their low value husbands. Do not stick around do not feel sorry. Leave him if you can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 06:17 PM |
| 40 | Guy asked me if I'm confident in how I lookdefinitely cut this thing off with him. he is totally trying to dig up your insecurities to use them against you. a true HVM wouldn't ask you about this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 12:56 PM |
| 93 | She had 2 babies.this is why I'm really thankful that I don't want to have any children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Examples of HVM in mediaShane Madej and Ryan Bergara from Buzzfeed Unsolved. Ryan is so cute and attractive :] | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 12:29 AM |
| 14 | "don't reveal your sexual history to a man" - not even if you are in a commited relationship with a HVM?so even if the guy is a HVM he is still affected by misogyny? so even though he consciously respects you regardless of your sexual past he still could feel off about you bc unconsciously he is still affected by misogyny? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:03 PM |
| 1 | "don't reveal your sexual history to a man" - not even if you are in a commited relationship with a HVM?exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 04:54 PM |
| 66 | Woman (31F) reveals sexual past to boyfriend who shocks no one with his reaction. Daily reminder to keep your sexual past a SECRET!honestly if you are together for 18 months and you can't reveal your sexual past bc of his fragile male ego. then it's not worth it to be in that relationship? if he can't handle it then he is a LVM. honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 04:17 PM |
| 8 | I got this trash today lmfao. My profile has zero personal shit on it. It has very little info, but he's crazy as you can clearly seeDid you have the same selfies on different sites? He could have find you with reverse photo Google search. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 11:16 PM |
| 7 | What's your opinion on significant age gaps?Yepp weird back then and still weird. Being in your early 20s and late 20s is so different. There's a lot you learn about life and people in general in your 20s. You experience the world as a young adult and need to adjust from being a teenager. At 28 you already know a lot about how to avoid toxic people and such. In your early 20s you are still naive and open towards everyone. Also what the fuck was a 26 years old doing with a 18 years old. That's fucking nasty. She barely turned "legal" and a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 08:05 PM |
| 28 | Men really think they're funny huhokay noted; if he "forgets" the condom break things off with him. men who are always pushing for sex won't forget to have a condom on them. do not offer that you have your own condoms or if you do expect that he will fuck and dump you or use you for sex. hell don't even do positions where you can't see him, like doggy style. there are far too many stories of girls being r*ped by men who took off the condom mid sex. bc if you consent to have safe sex but he switches to unsafe sex mid time than th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 01:02 AM |
| 91 | They are so predictable..I hate how he holds onto her hand. It's just such a manipulative move. She already has got her back turned on him but he is holding onto her as long as he can. Also it might be minor but he is physically restraining her even if just for a moment that's too much. It just shows that he is not respecting her boundaries. It's hard to put it in words but that move feels so wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 10:53 PM |
| 19 | So over these ‘nice guys’...🙄Yeah girl I can imagine :/ take a break if you need it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 04:59 AM |
| 120 | So over these ‘nice guys’...🙄THAT'S HOW YOU FUCKING DO IT. He couldn't get a grip on you and wasn't able to bring you down. You won't drive some time for me? I bet you would do for an "instagram thot" or if you knew for sure you would get your dick wet. Fuck off. You tell me I'm fat? As you said, I was the same way when you hit me up. What the fuck changed. Oh yeah I have expectations and you are butthurt over it. You ask me what i bring to the table and then you tell me my masters degree doesn't matter only if it earns mon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 04:50 AM |
| 12 | never fall for men who say their "shy" friend has got a crush on you or wants to ask you outthank you sis, I already came to this conclusion. but thank you for the reminder <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 11:18 PM |
| 79 | "I set my age preference for 18-25 bc I might want kids one day" - every man over 35 on OLD. Since when did men start openly pining after having children? Since when were men struggling with baby fever?they also don't realise that their sperm age with themselves. women are constantly told not to have kids above 35 bc the chance to birth a kid with some kind of disability is higher. a simple google search will prove that the same thing can be said about men. https://extendfertility.com/male-fertility-decline/ Other effects of male age While age may not be the most important factor when it comes to male fertility decline, there are other important effects of male age on the health of the pregnan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 11:15 PM |
| 15 | never fall for men who say their "shy" friend has got a crush on you or wants to ask you outyeah. as I said the 2 guys who asked me out in the name of their friend were really fat and ugly. myself I maybe fat but I wear it really well and I just keep getting prettier with my weight loss. so yeah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 08:05 PM |
| 32 | never fall for men who say their "shy" friend has got a crush on you or wants to ask you outI'm almost 26 years old. and it happened with me when I recently turned 25. the guys were the same age as me or even older a few years. men are shit in all ages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 07:59 PM |
| -5 | Freinds with benefits is over!before exams I had a FWB bc he was sweet, handsome, had a big dick and knew how to use it. he also went down on me and pleasured me with his fingers until orgasm without a complaint and he even got it right quickly, didn't have to teach him. he also did other gestures that turned me on a lot. during that 1 month I had more orgasms with him than I did with my long term ex. actually once I'm done with exams I'm planning to try getting into another FWB with another, even hotter guy, who with I made… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 07:11 PM |
| 6 | Thursday Throwback: OKC circa 2016 🤣Oh okay then :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 12:22 PM |
| 5 | You need friendship and social skills to date successfullyI agree with many points but I would like to add that; I know you said you don't want to sympathise with men which you didn't but the "But on the flip side we really have to break down why we tolerate this behaviour." line didn't sit right with me. Unfortunately we can't ignore female and male gender roles when it comes to who was trash. I think it all comes down to the fact that instead of men improving themselves in ways that would be caring and nurturing towards women (bc men don't have a pro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 11:01 AM |
| 33 | Thursday Throwback: OKC circa 2016 🤣Please next time don't give him advice. Now he will definitely look for other girls and even know what type to look for and slowly creep on them with the manipulation bc now he knows this doesn't work :/ just tell him to fuck off and block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 09:08 AM |
| 45 | Woman helps her husband “transition” & now he calls her “some d*ke" and filed for divorce. You don’t have to be a Pickmeisha in the name of gender equality. Abandon ship as soon as they start to put their needs far above yours. Trans scrotes are still scrotes and expect them to behave that way.I'm really attracted to masculine, sweet guys, and if the one I'm with comes out as a trans woman I'm leaving him/her I don't care. I'm attracted to guys with dicks and I'm not gonna pretend to be okay with anything else. honestly I'm not even sure if I stayed with him if he came out as non-binary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 05:46 PM |
| 12 | This user needs to be banned. This was HIS message response to my call for advice.report him directly to the mods. when I got hate message I just messaged one of the mods from the sidebar with the hater's username and I got him banned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 05:36 PM |
| 4 | OLD Message Exchange—He asked me to coffee. My response (good?)+ what should I say next?I agree with it. honestly dating, so going out for dinner, is the getting known each other phrase. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 03:12 PM |
| 11 | OLD Message Exchange—He asked me to coffee. My response (good?)+ what should I say next?well ask others too but I wouldn't go for it. take on for a date or not. no hanging out bc that means he would try to pressure you into sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 03:05 PM |
| 31 | OLD Message Exchange—He asked me to coffee. My response (good?)+ what should I say next?your response was good but omfg his messages, like EVERY WORD, is a huge red flag. "what would it take to..." - um be a decent human being...? like should I tell you upfront that "hmmm stroke my ego a bit more, manipulate me and tell me we will end up marrying each other so then you could fuck me quickly and dump me" coffee - no. coffee is cheap therefore he can afford to fuck and dump several women in a week. to male lurkers; it's not that a dinner is must, though that's nice, but a man who won… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 12:04 PM |
| 86 | The partner of a Dead Bedrooms complainant posted her side and...fecking hell. PTSD, high-risk pregnancy, medical trauma and straight up not being seen as a person!this is why I don't visit sob story subreddits. not even r/toastme. many men will cry a sob story that 3-5-x years of girlfriend left them or that their wives left them. yeah brad? I wonder why? why is that? why is that a woman, who is groomed to be submissive and take all the shit she can from birth, left you? did you break through that grooming that even she couldn't take anymore? or did she discovered her worth and realised that you didn't only not give value to her life but also took value o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:52 AM |
| 6 | The other extreme: how do Low Value Women get High Value Men?why the hell you have to put her down like that? as others said you don't know nothing about her. nothing about her mental state or if he abuses her. maybe she just doesn't fucking have time to or energy to take care of herself. gosh I'm all for looking and acting like a HVW inside outside but you totally sound like a pickmeisha. "I'm way prettier than her why can't I get a man like her???" ugh GET A LIFE. I could go off even more but it would be a waste of time. shame on you and your internaliz… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 09:42 AM |
| 7 | Rape victims boyfriendWhy do men act like this? the answer to that is far too long and the conversation about it is not even over. but mainly it's socialization. the world is fucked up bc of men are fucked up and men are fucked up bc the world is fucked up. it's an endless cycle that is enabled by other men and also fucked up women and by society in general that teaches men toxic masculinity. How can we act, protect and help each other as women when this happens with a man? personally I would google what to say to a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 09:37 AM |
| 31 | Found this oxygen-thieving waste of human flesh while lurking PurplePill. Ladies, MAKE SURE YOU VET THE MAN YOU’RE WITH BEFORE YOU REPRODUCE WITH HIM.before discovering FDS I didn't want to have a child bc of my own reasons; money, time, wanting to travel and party a lot. but now I also don't want to have a child bc most men just don't deserve to be a father. I'm usually on the side that men are fucked up bc of socialization and how other men and fucked up women enable men to grow up to be psychopaths. and I still think that. but honestly....it's harder and harder not to see why also biology wouldn't have a role in how fucked up men are nowad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 09:25 AM |
| 20 | Church of misogynyof course it's removed from r/BlackPeopleTwitter. I know I'm just a eurpean white girl but I used to follow that subreddit to read tweets that could help me understand racism better and how to undermine that. but I had to unfollow that sub bc it's full of misogyny jfc. I hope black women have their own safe subreddit bc this is not it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 09:19 AM |
| 5 | Something I need to work onyeah. but I think this quote is more directed at people like me, who are hot headed and start going off before thinking things through. so a level headed or even a shy woman doesn't have to follow this advice. but someone like who talks before thinks, I need to take this advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 08:15 PM |
| 9 | Do guys suggest fwb to girls who they think above their league or high quality ?Men are usually low value but they are not always that idiots when it comes to getting sex. Men know that a really attractive woman will probably have enough confidence so she won't agree for a FWB. But since women are groomed to lack confidence and be submissive from birth men know that an average looking or a girl with some kind of flaw like overweight will make her insecure and eat up all the breadcrumbs they give her. So there are a few reasons. Unfortunately men especially LVM only try to b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 11:20 AM |
| 49 | Time to delete TenderWhat the fuck is that between his legs and under his hand???? I literally can't figure it out. It's not his dick. It's his thigh??? What??? I'm confusion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 10:29 AM |
| 5 | "Fuckboys don't deserve girlfriend/wife privileges" - I don't think any men deserves these privilegesI agree with you, if the guy is sick or is in a situation when he can't do 50/50 then of course I would help him out. And he must the do the same thing for me if I'm in that difficult situation :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 08:47 PM |
| 44 | Daily reminder to NEVER TELL MEN ABOUT YOUR SEXUAL HISTORY. They can and will hold it over your head, even if they seem fine with it at first. Don’t fall into this all too common trap.Yeah I feel like even HVM can judge you for your sexual past :/ it's just too ingrained into men's minds. Or am I wrong about this? Can a HVM accept anything? I feel like he won't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Delusional Men of Tinder 🙄 Had that he’s into meeting quality people and just because one has a PhD or is a pharmacist doesn’t mean he’s keen on only meeting people with high profile jobs. Funny how he talks about drama queens when he is the drama queenSTOP THROWING EUROPEANS UNDER THE BUS YOU FUCK. MANY EUROPEAN GUYS ARE BEAUTIFUL AND GENTLEMEN AND WOMEN ARE ALSO BEAUTIFUL AND SMART, EDUCATED. I SEE SO MANY BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE ON THE STREET SO SHUT THE FUCK UP sorry this comment lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 11:17 AM |
| 121 | Give them enough rope, and...blocked.why do they need to turn normal flirting into sexting. going from 10 to 100. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 10:16 PM |
| 91 | Found on r/Tinder, the post was mocking a woman who was in university for gender studies.men cannot see women as humans. when you try to talk to them without any mind games they just won't listen. they cannot feel empathy. they just cannot. and this is proof for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 08:08 PM |
| 37 | Even Kendal fucking Jenner should be ashamed for being against an old man grapping her butt!!! What an ageist shallow bitch!!!the only women who may enjoy being groped by a "hot guy" are women who are too delusional/young to know that that's a fucked up way of men to express their attraction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 12:23 PM |
| 41 | Some guy gave me this today, I don’t even know what to say. (I know it means big dick energy, but is this flirting?)This is sexual harassment. You didn't ask nor consent to see a drawing of a dick. I bet he didn't ask "can I give you a dick drawing?". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 10:44 AM |
| 3 | Jerrod is getting creative with his intentions.true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Recent transcript . How was my response?well I'm not 100% so ask others about it, maybe even post another post with this question :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Recent transcript . How was my response?well FDS says don't have sex with him for 3 months. bc you only have sex with commitment. so I guess he should ask you to be his girlfriend by 3 months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Recent transcript . How was my response?huh that's a good question. well ask others too, but in my opinion; when you talk to a HVM he should ask you out for a date pretty soon. not out right but maybe after 3 conversations? like text-dating is a cheap cope out and he can actually copy paste the same messages to other women too. I'm bringing up dating like dinner dates bc actions speak louder than words. when you are going on dates you can vet him with FD strategies; will he pay for the bill or try to split it? is he making you comfort… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 12:33 AM |
| 10 | Recent transcript . How was my response?H: Hey there, is there a better way to communicate? Snap? Or Kik? red flag! snap and kik are heavily associated with nudes and sexting. H: Last time I got checked I was clean, and haven’t had sex since, so I think it’s a go :P H: I think we could have some fun another red flag maybe this is not even red flag. he out right said what he wanted. though it's nice that he gets tested. IF that's true. also I doubt he didn't have sex since the test. also most std tests need 3 sex free months to be 10… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 12:10 AM |
| 5 | Jerrod is getting creative with his intentions.I know I will sound shallow even though I don't want to. but....is he good looking? conventionally speaking. seems like he works out which is great but is he cute? I'm just curious, not judging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 11:11 PM |
| 8 | Keeping a date diaryI LOVE THIS. and I also write down my dating experiences!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 11:08 PM |
| 36 | That's an understatement, Joe.maybe bc I only see my nephew a few times a week (fuck finals) but whenever I see him I don't want to put him down, I want to hold him all day and night. rock him, kiss his forehead and chubby cheeks, and smell that addictive baby smell. but this fucker right here is playing video games and not even holding his baby. how can you be so fucking cold towards your own baby. also why is that baby naked???? babies can't regulate their body temperature, they need to be covered up. gosh there are so man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 07:39 PM |
| 25 | Woman walked away from Liberal Feminism once she became a mother and realized the absurdity of trying to have “equal” relationships while doing 100% of the high risk reproductive labor. LibFem models of equality have a giant “mother shaped blind spot”. (FDS SAYS ALWAYS DEMAND MORE FROM MEN UPFRONT.)when I was into liberal feminism I slept around and let men use me. I was planning to continue when exams would have been over but thank the universe I found FDS in the mean time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 06:30 PM |
| 13 | I want to share this because I never told anyonesorry my comment was deleted so I'm reposting it; unfortunately police is useless. often police is misogynist, victim blaming, sl*t shaming, or even they commit hate crimes against women. I know this is a bit too late and I don't want to sound "someone knows it all" but all I can say in a situation like this it's more useful to talk to a lawyer what can you do, is it worth to sue, etc. a lawyer, especially if you pay them, will be more useful than police. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 06:26 PM |
| 20 | Advice?I'm wondering if he met another woman, and just wants to keep me on the back-burner while he tries to make things work with her? Maybe I'm paranoid. no you are not paranoid. most men, if had the chance, will cheat on their women bc the average man is not socialized well and doesn't realise that being commited is much more valuable than a hook up. He texted later that night saying that he got super busy at work, wanted to see how things went with me when he was super busy, and was disappointed … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 10:38 PM |
| 35 | Can a relationship established pre-FDS be salvaged?Based on other similar posts; I read that if the guy is truly a HHVM then he will adjust to your new behaviour and won't have any problem with it such as higher expectations. But a LVM will tell you bullshit like "you've changed" or "I miss the old you". Actions speak louder than words, so if you not only preach to be a HVW but also act like one then he will definitely notice that and based on his reaction you can decide if you want to dump him or stay with him. But knowing men you probably will… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Time before Ghosting?I see thanks for replying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:42 PM |
| 4 | No one is safe from the depravityHoly fucking hell. I hope he rots in hell for eternity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Time before Ghosting?How are you clear about that you want them to call you? Like do I hint with "my sister called/video chatted me and told about her day and it was so great to hear/see her". Or is that too transparent? How should I do it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 01:31 PM |
| 12 | Porn sickness tells: Early male pattern baldingTestosterone, if I recall it right, actually helps to keep up the muscle mass and makes losing fat easier. Women have a harder time to lose fat bc of estrogen. So men are playing themselves. Fine you are balding, I can get over that, but you don't use your high testosterone to your advantage and keep yourself fit? I'm a woman who is half way into her weight loss journey but do I give up on it bc it's biologically harder for me to lose weight? Fucking no. But men, who have more advantage at losin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 01:25 PM |
| 13 | I’m a minor. Dude wanted to hang, I asked why he’d even want to take that risk, and what the risk to him is. This was his answer. I should’ve never even entertained him in the first place 🤦🏻♀️He was already gaslighting you. He said he was disappointed in you for assuming he wanted sex from you. A normal guy, not even a HVM, would understand that assumption bc it's fucking true. Every men you interact with wants to fuck you, you have to assume that. The reason behind that is what is different. Many men will fuck a woman they don't find hot and just half heartedly attracted to bc they mostly concentrate on themselves. If a man is fucking a woman he is not that attracted to he will just… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 11:07 AM |
| 8 | No one is safe from the depravityNow I know I must provide the condoms and not the guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 10:41 AM |
| 6 | My aunts LVM...Maybe try making her realise by asking her to specify it to you that what kind of values does this LVM bring to her life. And just keep asking, keep pushing the issue. Also tell her that why the LVM is an asshole the moment he is being an asshole. Call him out on it to her. And just keep reassuring her that it's better to be alone or try find another man then being with this LVM. Remind her that what he is doing is damaging her life and she deserves better. By constantly reminding, reassuring, p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 01:46 AM |
| 101 | A real conversation I have literally just hadI can feel the sarcasm in your last reply but honestly maybe it's slightly better idea not to apologise for men even when you mean it sarcastically. I feel like they straight up don't know you mean I sarcastically or ignore the sarcasm and take it seriously. And we don't apologise for men. I might be wrong though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 12:30 AM |
| 19 | LVM -Hates MakeupMen create these impossible beauty standards. Women try and many of them succeed reaching those standards. That attracts many men and women can pick good looking and kind men. Instead of bettering themselves inside outside and making themselves look more desirable bc that would take lot of effort and time, LVM will try to dismiss our beauty by calling it fake bc we use tools to emphasise our beauty or we use looksmaxxing. What's the lesson here? That it's okay to use our tools to maximise our lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 05:34 PM |
| 10 | What's dating culture like outside of the USA?Didn't think my comment would be this accepted I was actually concerned of it being too personal and unique to me lol. But YES you are SO right even in Europe and in my country being in a relationship with big age gap is still too accepted. Honestly I would argue that 16-20something guys actually try to pursue girls in their late or even mid teens bc they are easy to manipulate. Which is so fucked up. And yes it's not that common to date multiple people at the same time which is only beneficial … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 01:55 PM |
| 13 | This has some serious HVW energy and I love it!!!LVM with huge beer guts, decaying teeth, heavily balding hairline, disgusting hygiene will tell you that she hit the wall "hard" bc you can see her skin is mature. Like in the eyes of LVM aged women only look hot if they have the body of a 18 years old with the face of a maximum 30-35 years old. Gosh I hate men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 09:18 AM |
| 13 | The amount of people who way their finger at the woman in this situation while her bf/husband is commiting insurance fraud.🤦 Where's that pussypass I hear about?I think she used gender neutral pronouns so men will actually listen to the story and the details instead of throwing her under the bus immediately bc how dare she demand respect for herself and not to be involved in insurance fraud. If, no WHEN a man is at fault other men will do everything in their power to twist the story and even the smallest details in a way that will be beneficial for the man. They just can't accept that men are often outright cruel and selfish. They always say "there must… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 09:09 AM |
| 30 | What's dating culture like outside of the USA?Hungarian woman here, our country is in central Europe or on the border that separates west and eastern Europe. I mainly tried the dating scene in real life by going out to parties; it's the same as usual people don't go out to parties to meet someone new they only go out to hook up. I used to think that you can meet men who would go on dates with you bc how else you meet men if your friends don't know any and you are not into online dating. It turned out you don't meet these types of men there.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 09:00 AM |
| 20 | Some redpiller sent me this DM after my last post. He talks about his totally real, definitely not made-up wife as though she's a dog 🤢I'm from hungary and it's techincally not eastern europe but there had been a few times when I went out to party and met with american guys and omfg one group talked about how eastern european girls are easy. out loud in english as if most of young hungarian people can't fucking speak and understand english. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 09:06 PM |
| 18 | According to Reddit, mens' problems are vv serious. Women fed up with systematic oppression are "Karens."I was browsing r/all and came across this. honestly I wish I could block subreddits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)I'M LAUGHING SO HARD "THE DEVIL IS A LIAR" LMAO YOU GO GIRL djnvjalsflrkoiz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:47 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)do not try to be friends with men, they will literally wait years in the "friendzone" so they could have a chance to have sex with you. or worse.... there are stories on this subreddit where male friends did horrible things to women when they were physically weak like sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Do I lose all the weight before dating again?thank you for being so understanding and thank you for that too! :) wishing you the best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:25 PM |
| 44 | This is why you have to set a timeline for marriage and dump him if he doesn't propose by then!!!this is why sex education should be much better everywhere. men don't realise that their sperm also ages with them, they think they will produce the same quality sperm as they did in their 20s. https://extendfertility.com/male-fertility-decline/ Other effects of male age While age may not be the most important factor when it comes to male fertility decline, there are other important effects of male age on the health of the pregnancy and the child. There’s evidence that the chance of miscarriag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:24 PM |
| 8 | Do I lose all the weight before dating again?as someone halfway into their own weightloss journey I would say yes you should wait if your self esteem is not steel solid. unfortunately LVM are sooo drawn to overweight girls bc they think that they are so insecure that they will easily give in which is unfortunately true in a way (I used to be like that). another thing is that HVM, who look good and are fit, will probably except the same from their girlfriends. so unfortunately there is an even smaller circle of HVM for us overweight girls. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:15 PM |
| 29 | Another Man lying on the internet that he “accidentally” found out about his girlfriend being an FDS member. These revenge fantasies about dumping a girl after “discovering” her FDS usage are getting less creative.these LVM cannot comprehend why FDS says men should pay for dates. maybe we should pin a post about it. a post that also includes the "message for male lurkers" flair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:01 PM |
| 8 | How to stop being a JEALOUS pickmeisha?I'm in a similar situation and unfortunately still didn't get out of it. but I'm on the journey of becoming more beautiful. so what I experienced with men so far is that the better you look the better chances you have. simply bc the better you look the more men you attract and that gives you better chances at finding a HVM. also a HVM who takes care of his looks will expect similar level of attractiveness of his partner. now you shouldn't look better bc of men but bc you DESERVE to look good whi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Is it infidelity to masturbate to the thought of real people?I know this is an older post but I would like to comment; I don't think you are in the wrong bc of this part; because these are men I have actually known and been intimate with? if you recall past sexual encounters with men then it's not creepy. in the past those men gave you their consent to have sex with them and you reliving those memories of them is not wrong. it would be wrong to try being sexual with them again after they took their consent back such as if you randomly hit them up and tell… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 02:21 PM |
| 50 | how do you get over misogynistic kinks you haveI used to "have" kinks though not on the same level as you. I even read cringey nsfw fanfics or other erotic writings. but the fanfic community is full of r*pe, incest, pedophilia and all justified with "kinks". when I used to read both fanfics or other erotic writings I couldn't get excited or even get off without them. what helped me was immediately stopping reading those and taking a break frommasturbation to be able to masturbate without anything and just my imagination. I would suggest you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:33 PM |
| 15 | how do you get over misogynistic kinks you haveno sorry I don't agree. this is just not true. with therapy she can work out why she has got these kinks, the real reason behind them, which she will discover is not healthy and work on unlearning them. you are not born with fucking kinks. you are groomed to like them by men and porn. women don't realise one day that they are into getting slapped, called dehumanizing names, etc. when I discovered masturbation as a teen I never imagined rough sex hell even just the thought of kissing was enough. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:23 PM |
| 10 | Dating as a tattooed HVW?I'm not OP commenter but, it's not that tattoos decrease her value but I think it narrows down the circle of men a woman could choose from? Tattoos are not taboos anymore but it's still not associated with high value qualities despite that tattoos require money and good taste. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 10:10 AM |
| 19 | It just keeps going.Being beautiful is a fuck ton of work. You need to be in shape have, nice skin, do your hair, makeup, browse for affordable but nice clothes and jewellery. What the fuck he thinks. In exchange he also needs to do the same things; be in shape, be stable and oh not be a fucking alcoholic? Gosh men can't even bother to hit the bare minimum. Fuck men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 10:00 AM |
| 21 | This is the state of dating in 2020.This lineage thing is such a male ego thing. What the fuck legacy does he have that he must pass on his DNA? If Van Gogh would want to keep up his lineage at 70 then that would be fine but the average LVM is not Van Gogh. Now, generally speaking, you don't need to be Van Gogh to be able to have kids but parents having children bc they don't want to be forgotten or disappear totally??? What a fucking selfish reason. What about you only want children to raise another human being? Not bc you want a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 09:43 AM |
| 25 | This is the state of dating in 2020.Women are almost verbally beaten by men with them continuously telling us not to have children above 35 bc they will have mental/physical problems. But men never tell themselves the same thing. Fuck men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 09:36 AM |
| 10 | Only Low Value Men want Women to be DraftedI'm hungarian too!! :D and yes my grandparents still tell me stories of how they had to hide from bombs, how many homes were ransacked by soldiers and how soldiers just forcefully occupied people's homes and burned their furniture to keep themselves warm. my old high school still has got bullet holes on its walls and the school nurse actually died when she tried to help wounded people on the street. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 05:02 PM |
| 28 | Only Low Value Men want Women to be Draftedwomen don't want to be drafted bc there's no fucking use in dying for a soulless and faceless power. why would I, or anyone, fight the fight of the rich? but men, and even some women, are brainwashed into thinking that dying in war is honorable and great. I, as a woman, don't want to be ever drafted in but I also don't wish that on men. also these idiots really think war doesn't affect women even if they are not drafted in? women and children are killed and suffer even worse things at the hands … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 04:57 PM |
| 7 | Simple change that changed my lifeas someone who is into halfway of her weightloss journey; this is so true. my situation with men improved a lot but since I'm still overweight (started at 227 lbs, now I'm 183 lbs, goal weight is 154 lbs for 5"5') I'm only seen as a one night stand material or fwb material. it's frustrating and motivating at the same time. it's motivating in the way that if I lose weight I know that will enable me to have a chance with HVM. and I hate how feminism is not realistic about beauty. "you can be beaut… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 02:03 PM |
| 34 | Hypergamy hysteria debunkedwell ladies this is why we only try to date men we actually find attractive on all levels. do not settle when it comes to personality, behaviour and looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 02:51 PM |
| 4 | pickmeisha behaviour ruined my chances with a guy who is probably HVM. can I do something about it?you are right. and comparing him to my friends is a good idea. thank you again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:24 PM |
| 3 | pickmeisha behaviour ruined my chances with a guy who is probably HVM. can I do something about it?I realised after posting this that I want him bc he represents what I want. a guy with good looks who can commit himself into a relationship. bc when we discussed our past love life he told me he had 2 long term relationships which both lasted about 2 years. that made me feel like he can commit if he wants to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:20 PM |
| 3 | pickmeisha behaviour ruined my chances with a guy who is probably HVM. can I do something about it?in my country living with your parents into your late 20s, early 30s is really common. you have to pay hella lot to own a place and renting is not really worth it. and idk the vibes he gave off feel HVM, and when we discussed our past love life he told me he had 2 long term relationships which both lasted about 2 years. that made me feel like he can commit if he wants to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:18 PM |
| 5 | pickmeisha behaviour ruined my chances with a guy who is probably HVM. can I do something about it?the problem is that I rarely ever post on facebook and he is the same too. and we don't follow each other on other social media platforms honestly I doubt he has anything other than facebook. but I can't be certain. edit: nope this idea is bad. I have to move on. rest of the original comment: maybe when my exams are over I could post new photos of myself a couple times? especially when he is online (I know I'm such a pickmeisha). but hear me out. if I post a photo of myself on different occasion… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:09 PM |
| 16 | pickmeisha behaviour ruined my chances with a guy who is probably HVM. can I do something about it?thank you so much for the reality check! you are so right about these things. thank you! btw I don't know him but my gut feeling says he is a HVM, his behaviour gave me that impression. but you are right, moving on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:06 PM |
| 22 | pickmeisha behaviour ruined my chances with a guy who is probably HVM. can I do something about it?don't apologise thank you for being honest. currently I don't try to see other guys bc of exams. but today my mind wondered after seeing a photo of him on facebook. but you are right. he could write to me any time we still have each other on messenger. thank you for the reality check! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:02 PM |
| 9 | Men always call their women crazy when she wouldn't put up with his shitthis is another great post as an example for if a guy uses a certain phrase then dump his ass. "you are crazy/sensitive" is one of them. also if they ask if you are on your period. do not argue with him, dump him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 10:16 AM |
| 65 | New Year's without a man was wonderfulto quote Cher; Cher - Jane Pauley Full Interview 1996 (3:23-3:57) "A man is not a necessity, a man is luxury. Like dessert. I adore desert, I love men, I think men are the coolest, but you don't really need them to live. My mom said to me; You know sweetheart one day you should settle down and marry a rich man. And I said Mom I am a rich man, you know. My experiences with men are great because I pick them because I like them I don't need them." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 07:16 PM |
| 12 | NEVER allow a man around you when you are in a weakened state.of course we are here you! not to sound too silly but we love you! you are our sister and we protect and cherish each other! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 05:54 PM |
| 45 | NEVER allow a man around you when you are in a weakened state.oh fuck. I don't know what else to say. I wish I could say something useful or comforting. maybe try consulting with a good lawyer? I don't know. but I wish the best for you and a strong, real recovery. you will make it, that's something I certainly know. edit: also don't trust the police, well at least be wary of them. police often don't want to deal with these kinds of situation or are even victim-blaming you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 05:48 PM |
| 39 | NEVER allow a man around you when you are in a weakened state.I'm sorry to hear that. but what about taking legal actions? would you try suing him? I know that's painful and often too expensive. but I wanted to ask. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 05:42 PM |
| 4 | just an idea for a way to vet a man? is it good or bad or pickmeisha like?sooo true! thank you for this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 04:47 PM |
| 10 | waiting 90 days with sexhuh this is the tough love I need. I guess I'm still too optimistic when it comes to commitment. thank you sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 04:39 PM |
| 19 | if you want your partner to take you seriously and invest in you or put effort in solving your relationship problems and to stop treating you poorly then listen to this ladynot a bad post but personally I would move on from a man who I need to punish with not having sex with him. if he is emotionally not mature enough to try and change after we communicated the problem, or when he sees me crying bc of the problem then I don't want to be with him. and if that means I go through men every other week, if this means I will end up alone, so be it. I can still have a fulfilling life without a man. but I won't use sex as a tool to get the behaviour I want from a man. the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 04:26 PM |
| -7 | waiting 90 days with sexI understand but I might consider not using a condom when enough time passed and the guy proved himself. like when we are in an actual, exclusive, commited to each other relationship. not to sound like a fuckboy but I like condom free sex. I'm sorry I just do! it feels good I can't help it TToTT. but of course I want to discuss my options with my gynecologyst, maybe if I could use an IUD bc I can't take birth control, my blood test results didn't approve. of course until I don't consult with my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 04:19 PM |
| 68 | i literally have no fucking wordsthe anime profile pic was already a red flag. the "xD" was another one. not that I blame you girl, I also still have a hard time not to ignore red flags lol. he was trash i'm glad you got rid of him fast! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Dating advice or life tips from 28 yr old Asian femaleI absolutely agree with all of your points and as a currenty overweight (5"5',183 lbs) white girl I'm not offended by this post. but I'm not talking in the name of all heavier girls, just in mine. and yes a HVM will look after his looks, maybe even get muscular so it's only logical that he will also want a HVW who is not overweight. since I lost 44 lbs (started from 227 lbs, goal weight is 154 lbs) I noticed that I have better interactions with people in general, not just with guys. my brother i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 04:06 PM |
| 8 | Before he was bragging about all the casual sex he had and he wanted a real relationship and to take care of someone. I told him I don’t do sex and I take care of my grown self. And asks to get drinks. But then this happens oml, radio silence after. First time being assertive, did I do ok?I'm glad you did that and my comment was useful! :) I understand the emoji situation myself I also use it too much hahaha. and nothing to it I'm glad I could help you a little bit! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 03:50 PM |
| 85 | Before he was bragging about all the casual sex he had and he wanted a real relationship and to take care of someone. I told him I don’t do sex and I take care of my grown self. And asks to get drinks. But then this happens oml, radio silence after. First time being assertive, did I do ok?so I'm not an expert so wait for others' opinions too but here's mine; I think when he asked "what can we do then" or when he suggested to have drinks I would have said "I'm more of a dinner date type" or something like that. while he should be the one suggesting to have dinner, it's not a huge red flag, in my opinion, if he asks what do you want to do. I definitely wouldn't have suggested coffee. coffee dates are too cheap and low effort and usually LVM suggest coffee dates bc they don't want t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, If you "overfunction" in your interactions with men, you never find out if he's a LVMyeah continue observing his beahviour but as my flair says I'm a FDS newbie so I'm not an expert when it comes to FDS dating sorry! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 11:29 PM |
| 17 | Considering dropping every man I’m “involved” with at the moment.you don't even need to talk to them just simply ghost them. but if you want to you can tell that your life is on a path that is different than theirs and that you can't hang out or talk with them anymore. and if they ask why tell them that there's nothing more to this just what you said. and if they keep questioning tell them that it's too complicated to explain, maybe wish them well and then block them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 10:46 PM |
| 100 | This has been trending on twitter a bit and I just wanted to know what you guys think about thistotally agree with it. when I had to spend a week and half in the hospital bc I had a bad reaction to an antibiotic (it wasn't an emergency, they just wanted to monitor my health and do a few tests) my boyfriend didn't come in, not even for an afternoon. okay he lived in another city than me, which was 1,5 hour away with train and he had a strict schedule with his job. but still. we had been together for about 2 years at that point. couldn't he take out 1 sick day to visit me? while in our relat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 10:31 PM |
| 25 | LVM won’t even SHOWER when his gf begs him to. Can we send some self esteem for this poor girl?ugh can you imagine the replies??? I won't even look up the original post bc I already know. all the LVM will make excuses that the guy is tired after a hard physically laborious day and how dare she, who probably doesn't do any heavy physical labor expect him to shower???? what's next she expects him to wash his teeth, dick, balls, and ass??? how dare she???? on a serious note he can't expect her to have sex with him if he doesn't shower. all that sweat, grime builds up around his private parts… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 10:22 PM |
| 22 | Ladies, If you "overfunction" in your interactions with men, you never find out if he's a LVMyou successfully handled the situation but isn't the trust broken? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 10:08 PM |
| 7 | If You Are Not A MAJOR Feature On His Social Media, It’s a GIANT Red Flag 🚩. HVM Always Posts Pictures of His Woman MORE Often Than She Does of Him. He Proudly Shows Her Off to the World and Wants Everyone to Know He’s TAKEN. If He Never Posts Any Pictures of You, You’re Unknowingly Single. Sorry.#1. He won’t accept tagged photos with you. If you have gone on less than five dates with someone, it’s creepy to post a tagged photo of the person you’re dating. However, if you have passed the one month mark, he should feel comfortable enough to be seen in a tagged photo with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 09:13 PM |
| 18 | Dating multiple men — should they knowunfortunately I learned from FDS that's it's not always a good idea to let a man know that you wait with sex until you are in a relationship bc then he will try to speed things up and show qualities that will lure you into a relationship with him. also there are men who are manipulative enough to wait things out until you are comfortable to have sex with him. so idk. I'm not certain wether if it's a good idea or not to tell that. maybe it's about balance? lol that's sounds so cliché but it's a c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 07:23 PM |
| 6 | Do HVM and/or HVM post those long essay I love my gf/bf/wife/husband instagram/social media captions ?honestly I think many of those posts are fake. maybe even written by women posed as a HVM. or written by men who like to imagine what they would do if they were in a relationship. like do you know those posts where they quote conversations word for word despite that no one could do that? like when a LVM drags a feminist into an argument and he "wins" the argument and writes down everything the two of them said? that wouldn't be realistic. the OP should write that "the conversation went somehow l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 07:13 PM |
| 5 | What helps you stay strong?you definitely deserve love. all HVW deserve love. but the thing that I learned from FDS is this; it's hard to accept but it's better to accept the realistic chance that there aren't just enough HVM out there for every HVW. try to live a fullfilling life by creating memorable memories (travelling, going out to have fun), spending time with friends, loved ones, family. and if you happen to meet with HVM then that's great! again I know it's fucking hard to accept, myself I still didn't fully accep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 06:31 PM |
| 3 | my last PickMeisha meme before I discovered this sub. I rarely ever made memes or even posted them that I didn't make. so fortunately I never had whole accounts dedicated to this kind of PickMeisha memes. but still YIKES. so enjoy!oh my gosh he was so handsome. and his soft spoken personality....? gosh such a dreamy man. I mean look at him. gosh I want a man like him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 06:27 PM |
| 27 | If you are single and childfree, don't date single fathersyepp. if I'm gonna be childfree for the rest of my life bc I want to travel and spend money on myself then I sure as hell won't date a single dad. I don't care if he lies that the kid won't be in the picture. bc that would be fucking cruel??? of course the kid has to be in the picture. if I want to spend enough quality time with the guy then I should have to spend that time with the kid too. otherwise I would end up seeing the guy for a couple of times a week for a few hours maximum. which would… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 06:20 PM |
| 1 | my last PickMeisha meme before I discovered this sub. I rarely ever made memes or even posted them that I didn't make. so fortunately I never had whole accounts dedicated to this kind of PickMeisha memes. but still YIKES. so enjoy!okay sis :] | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 03:50 PM |
| 11 | my last PickMeisha meme before I discovered this sub. I rarely ever made memes or even posted them that I didn't make. so fortunately I never had whole accounts dedicated to this kind of PickMeisha memes. but still YIKES. so enjoy!well it feels totally not like that to me ¯_(ヅ)_/¯ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 03:38 PM |
| 103 | "It's hard for men cause they are the ones who have to always face rejection"when i was pickmeisha i used to have sex with men who were clearly into me bc i was easy. and i was easy bc of my overweight (i already lost 20 kg, and I've got 13 kg to lose). like i could see it in their eyes, that "eh it/she will do". and that's also a form of rejection. just a hidden one. and it's hurtful especially bc men still use you. ugh. I'm so glad that I discovered this sub. I was such a "cool girl" who were fine to satisfy her sexual needs even if it hurt her. no more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 03:36 PM |
| 24 | my last PickMeisha meme before I discovered this sub. I rarely ever made memes or even posted them that I didn't make. so fortunately I never had whole accounts dedicated to this kind of PickMeisha memes. but still YIKES. so enjoy!sorry I don't agree. she went into a battle to protect her people bc she wanted to do that, men tried to hold her back, but she sneaked herself and Merry into the battle and killed the Witch-king. after Aragorn rejected her she didn't do anything to impress men but did everything for herself. which happened to attract a quality man like Faramir (who I heard was much better written in the books but even in the movies he is great imo) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 03:29 PM |
| 258 | When he says "you deserve better than me", believe him, and RUN.this reminds me of this tweet; "You ever be like... wtf you really hurt me... and a boy is like... im sorry im such an asshole i fuckin hate myself... and you end up having to comfort HIM? Wack." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 03:23 PM |
| 26 | my last PickMeisha meme before I discovered this sub. I rarely ever made memes or even posted them that I didn't make. so fortunately I never had whole accounts dedicated to this kind of PickMeisha memes. but still YIKES. so enjoy!okay but Éowyn came over her pickmeisha behaviour, and she killed the Witch-king "who no man could ever kill". and she responed with her iconic line "I'm no man". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 03:16 PM |
| 6 | What did you ladies get for Christmas?I used to be extremely anti makeup. about a week before this christmas I discovered this sub, binge scrolled through it, realised that I was anti makeup bc of cultural misogyny. so I have been embracing my feminity since then so I asked for makeup for christmas! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:11 PM |
| 20 | my last PickMeisha meme before I discovered this sub. I rarely ever made memes or even posted them that I didn't make. so fortunately I never had whole accounts dedicated to this kind of PickMeisha memes. but still YIKES. so enjoy!yeah 😂 thank you sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Men LOVE to trap women with kidsthis is why men project their own shit onto women. they always tell you that women try to trap men with a ring or a baby. but who ends up as a single parent with a divorce when one of the couple leaves?? women. whenever you think "this is a typical women thing" try to reverse it and see if it actually fits better to men than women. you will see that most of the time it's exactly like that. never fall for men's lies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Share your goals for levelling up in 2020my goals are; - reaching my goal weight which is 154 lbs / 70 kg - currently I'm 183 lbs / 83 kg and started from 227 lbs / 103 kg I lost 40 lbs / 18 kg between 2017 september and 2018 december. I maintained my weight until 2019 october (so for a whole year) and since then I had been learning how to count calories and how to pay attention to nutrition. I only lost 4 lbs / 2 kg since october but I'm not worried bc as I said I'm still learning how to keep up my good and healthy eating habits. - gr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:56 PM |
| 2 | this sub really taught me not to fear the wallreposting my comment bc I used a bad word and my comment got removed sorry! thank you for replying! yes I definitely had been a lover of water since I turned 25 :D and yepp I'm trying my best to eat genuinely healthy. in fact I just finished eating 100 grams of frozen raspberries hahaha :D which is my favourite snack bc it's low calorie, low sugar and full of vitamins and antioxidants. I'm also on my weight loss journey with calorie counting bc other diets are not sustainable for me and calorie … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:37 PM |
| 2 | this sub really taught me not to fear the wallOfc I didn't believe in the wall even before I started reading FDS stuff because the whole concept is completely ridiculous to anyone who ever leaves the house even once. such a queen mentality! and you are right! unfortunately cultural misogyny got to me but I have been unlearning it for years now and there are milestones when something switches within me and I level up mentally. at those milestones I can feel myself letting all this toxicity go and becoming better. even though I still have thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:36 PM |
| 3 | this sub really taught me not to fear the wallthank you so much for this comment! I'm so glad you dogded that bullet with LVM! and omg now that I think about it I had been fearing the wall since my teens too. but clearly and consciously I had been fearing it since 23. I spent the years when I was 23-24-25 worrying about turning 30. I would literally think "I have to lose weight asap bc I will only have x years to enjoy being young and beautiful". and excuse me??? what the actual fuck?? that's such a bullshit. I can't wait until I reach my w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:33 PM |
| 5 | this sub really taught me not to fear the wallyou are definitely not alone. I spent the years when I was 23-24-25 worrying about turning 30. I would literally think "I have to lose weight asap bc I will only have x years to enjoy being young and beautiful". and excuse me??? what the actual fuck?? that's such a bullshit. unfortunately I will end up with an average 9-5 office job bc I chose a bad field (art history) that can't be exploited lol so now I need time to gain experience and figure out what to do actually with my life. but I calm my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:22 PM |
| 7 | What's the FDS equivalent of a "Plate"?I think we simply call them the "FDS method" or something like that. funny thing is how men use this plating as a way to punish women while women use a similar method to sort out LVM who won't appreciate her and just pull her down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 09:31 PM |
| 5 | What's the FDS equivalent of a "Plate"?sorry I don't know what "plating" means but according to google it's when you cover a surface with a thin layer of gold so I suppose it means when LVM try to appear as HVM just to get into a relationship? bc if yes, I don't think most women fake being HVW, they just become like that, it's a journey. but yeah idk what plating means. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 09:17 PM |
| 9 | Hanging out with LV brothers.I only have sisters (thank the universe❤️💖♡ ♥💕!!) but I think the same goes for brothers as to other men; they just can't comprehend the fact that women first and foremost are human. which honestly causes my brain lack like a bad computer from the 90s. how can they not put aside all the stereotypes, biases, and everything that's caked onto the female gender and see what we truly are. like when I look at men and women often my first thought is not "would I fuck this person" but just look at them.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 09:11 PM |
| 20 | Broke up with my HVM who turned out to be such low value. Why am I feeling sad even though I know better ?I think you might feel like that because you feel like you were lied to? or maybe even more realistic; you were let down. many men only show HVM qualities to get into a relationship and then slack off. that's technically lying or at least deceiving. HVW are actually HVW. they rarely slack off or if they do they care about it and try their hardest to get back into their HVW levels. but if a man slacks off? he doesn't really feel the pressure to get back onto the level he started on. a few of them… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 08:58 PM |
| 8 | Please for the love of God don’t make excuses about fucking your toxic ex over $7 TV accounts 🙄/internal screaming of FUCK FUCK FUCK/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 07:41 PM |
| 15 | 🤡 ❌while there are men who are painfully obviously LVM there are who hide that well and it's easy to fall for their manipulation or lies. so it's like a clown disguised as a mysterious mime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 06:54 PM |
| 13 | LVM Hiding Money From Pregnant Girlfriend. Of course the Reddit Scrotes see no problem with this. Baby Mamas stay losing SMH.I agree with you. if he truly spends that money on important things like his girlfriend and baby then it's okay for him to hide it from the not so close relatives. people leech onto people who have money and it's typical for family members to use this excuse, that they are family, to ask for inappropriate amount of money. we don't even know how the girlfriend's family got into severe financial problems. did they invest in something stupid like a MLM pyramid scheme? did they take on a loan withou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Instagram sharing some solid ideas this morning..oh okay I see :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 04:54 PM |
| 17 | I am so angrythis is why I love Sex and the City (even though there are annoying things about the show). to quote my ultimate favourite lines from the whole show: "Maybe our girlfriends are our soulmates and guys are just people to have fun with." - (S04E01) honestly I wanted to make a very similar post like this. it's heartbreaking to accept the fact that there's a really valid chance that I won't find a HVM for life. maybe he will be HVM for years and then slack off and I need to dump him. which is still b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 04:40 PM |
| 9 | This sub explains EVERYTHINGif this would be about 1 girl friend then it's possible, though not mandatory, to get through her venting several times but even then you have to draw the line and say "we had this conversation 20 times already and you didn't do anything with the advices I gave you". but as I read you are handling multiple girl friends, maybe they even tell each other to "ask for your advice" while in reality they need someone to vent to. and I say the same thing that I say about men; you are not their therapist… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 04:26 PM |
| 58 | Instagram sharing some solid ideas this morning..this could end very badly. not to sound pickmeisha but personally I would feel tense during the vacation and I know men play us all the damn fucking time but I don't have the heart to do that, it would make me feel like garbage =/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | FDS goals with or without a manSorry idk I just found this photo on pinterest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 03:46 PM |
| 60 | Wanting a financially and mentally stable man who prioritizes you and is in okay health isn’t entitled.Yeah and men don't even have expectations that are good for you. Even with a healthy weight they expect you to be more skinny or to have bigger ass/boobs, prettier face. But beyond looks their expectations are not much which is pretty shallow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 09:07 AM |
| 2 | No Contact Broken: Seething With Ragethank you! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 11:29 PM |
| 2 | No Contact Broken: Seething With Ragethank you for the suggestion, I looked it up on the official site and on google but it seems like they don't sell it here in hungary =/ but I will be on the look out for it :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 11:28 PM |
| 2 | No Contact Broken: Seething With Rageyeah same, like 2 weeks ago I discovered that wafers, chocolate or lemon flavored ones, have hella lot of calories even sugarfree ones. no I didn't know about that sub but I'm gonna join it! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 11:20 PM |
| 2 | No Contact Broken: Seething With Rageoh yeah writing it down also helps me with seeing errors in my eating habits or what works. like recently I discovered that my breakfast sandwich is usually around 380 kcal with 55 kcal coffee and for brunch 70 kcal fruit. with this I have about 420 kcal left for lunch or dinner. so routine helps so much! oh I'm also on those exact subs! r/1200isjerky is hilarious! :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | No Contact Broken: Seething With Rageno I don't use any apps, I use a food scale and I look up the calories on the packages and I have a few sites that are trustworthy that will tell me the calories even if the label on the product doesn't show it :). I calculate everything myself and write it down into a small notebook bc I don't trust apps hahaha. oh yeah I'm on r/loseit I was on r/progresspics too but idk I got annoyed with it a bit so I left that. but r/loseit is really good bc you can vent there and get support or ask a questi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 11:05 PM |
| 2 | No Contact Broken: Seething With Ragehahaha it's always great to have someone to relate! :D and thank you!!! I will!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 10:59 PM |
| 19 | I just let go of my LVMwelcome to freedom and love, sister! I love you! I'm so glad you got out! gosh I'm tearing up. sending you lots of hugs, you beautiful soul! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 10:51 PM |
| 2 | No Contact Broken: Seething With Rageyeah unfortunately therapy takes lot of time to work but one can have a relationship even if they go to therapy but only when they already know how to handle their symptoms/behaviour. thank you sweetheart, and yes it was awful of him. but I'm on the way to better myself :) just to talk about it bc I love to lol I had been counting calories for 2 months so far and it has been succesfull! I didn't lose much weight bc I'm still learning but I already learned a lot about nutrition and portion. I'm c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 10:46 PM |
| 22 | Woman quits Olympic sport for her shit husband, 10 years later he tells her she got fat and he isn’t attracted anymore in the most soul-destroying way possible. DO NOT GIVE UP WHAT YOU LOVE AND TAKE NO SHIT; they will NOT appreciate it anyway! 😡😡DO NOT GIVE UP WHAT YOU LOVE AND TAKE NO SHIT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 10:39 PM |
| 2 | r/bluehairedbitch makes violent threats about punching planet prudence's face and killing her, just because she made some comics they didn't like. this sub hasn't been banned yet and has been linked on r/notlikeothergirlswell fuck. eh whatever they will stay lonely their whole life with this mindset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 06:01 PM |
| 2 | r/bluehairedbitch makes violent threats about punching planet prudence's face and killing her, just because she made some comics they didn't like. this sub hasn't been banned yet and has been linked on r/notlikeothergirlsgood news this subreddit, r/bluehairedbitch, is already banned! I tried to look it up but nothing came up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 05:54 PM |
| 6 | Hey ladies, I’m feeling down. Can you girls speak some wisdom In me?honestly if you still have proof of you two being together for 6 months send it to his girlfriend. it's better to know for the girlfriend to know. at least that way she can choose to continue with this asshole (shouldn't do it) or she leaves his ass. but living in denial is not right. or idk. living in denial could mean peace but at what cost? also maybe she already suspects things but doesn't make a move bc she doesn't have proof only her gut feeling. idk. girls what do you think? should she co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 05:44 PM |
| 8 | Thoughts about men who wants to be SAHD? for me: hell noStay At Home Dad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Any tips on how to glow up?if you don't do it already try eating genuinely healthy even if you don't need to lose weight. getting the right nutritions is really important to keep up your health and youthful looks. - mostly eat lean meat - chicken breast, fish, seafood - though you can also mindfully eat fattier meats too - chicken legs, pork - lots of low carb veggies - carrot, broccoli, cauliflower, peas, squashes, spinach, sorrel, salads - some low carb fruits - berries, strawberry, raspberry, blueberry, cranberry or ci… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 01:35 PM |
| 9 | No Contact Broken: Seething With RageHe constantly said I was too good for him and he was worried about fucking it up and hurting me. this reminds me of this tweet; "You ever be like... wtf you really hurt me... and a boy is like... im sorry im such an asshole i fuckin hate myself... and you end up having to comfort HIM? Wack." like okay I get it I have my own insecurities and sometimes when I vent to a very good girl friend and she tries her best to comfort me I cannot believe her and I always tell her I need time to calm down and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 12:08 PM |
| 90 | Talk Therapy: tales of your pickmeisha pastthe fact that you cringe about these means you grew as a person. congrats to that! my own cringy habit that I recently stopped with; trying to emotionally connect with men after 1 casual conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 11:55 AM |
| 11 | CRINGE, sister!Used to be like that until recently I discovered and binge scrolled through this sub. You think being overly affectionate is what guys want bc that's what you see and hear from guys but in reality guys do love the chase. Or at least not to be love bombed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 11:08 AM |
| 45 | Husband suddenly thinks wife’s vagina is ugly. My money’s on porn being the reason.Omfg I only read the post but those people encouraging her to work it out.... how can you move past this...? How can you say "hey my husband of 6+ years suddenly found my vagina disgusting after years of marriage but we worked it out!" Like how do you not think the problem is him. Why is he only having this problem now? After all those years. If I were her I would send his ass to therapy, pack up and leave his ass. You just cannot move past this. He is disgusted by your most intimate part that s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 09:44 AM |
| 8 | What's the intial red flags you ignored from past relationships?He was attracted to my girl friend but she rejected him so I kind of hang out close to him and he eventually picked up on that and picked me. Ugh. It turned out to be a 2 and a half years long relationship but only bc I was wearing the love/pink tinted glasses and let lots of his bullshit slide. I'm so glad I ended things with him, well not for the right reasons, I broke up with him bc we lived in different cities and that put a strain on our relationship. But if I wouldn't have broken up with h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | can you be a HVW if you don't earn much?I see thank you for replying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 07:05 PM |
| 2 | can you be a HVW if you don't earn much?I see thank you for replying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | can you be a HVW if you don't earn much?I see thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 07:03 PM |
| 69 | New Year's Resolution : Drop your pickmeisha friends.this is a really good advice! so many women stay in shitty relationships bc their girlfriends suggest to "work things out" bc they also have been taught and groomed to up with all the bullshit men put us through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 03:09 PM |
| 66 | Men have high standards while expecting women to settle for lessyeah he doesn't like chubby or dark skinned women but I bet you if he is really sex deprived bc he is fucking disgusting personality wise then he will be all so sweet to chubby girls and maybe even to dark skinned women. just to get his dick wet. as a white girl I can only speak to chubby girls now but this goes for anyone who feels it fits them; do not give into a man just bc someone "finally" pays attention to you. as a yet overweight girl myself I gave into jerks when I should have really sai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 01:44 PM |
| 3 | ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM NO MATTER WHATthis didn't happen to me, I saw this on r/trashy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 01:37 PM |
| 12 | Should I continue seeing this guy?NO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 01:19 PM |
| 8 | I am not an "High Value Woman"The fact that I have to do x and y to turn "high value" is so depressed. I feel this. I'm still a FDS newbie so I only recently realised that every choice I make is usually about men even if I'm not consciously aware of it. e.g. if I try to look nice I don't do it for myself but to appeal to men. while it's ok to enjoy attention from others you should never base your choices, that make you feel or look better, on others. for example; if you want to look attractive then do it for yourself and not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 01:18 PM |
| 1 | How should I use FDS as a virgin who's tired of waiting?I'm still a newbie to FDS but not to sex. The only thing I noticed about sex in my 20s (I'm almost 26) is that when I'm ovulating I'm extra horny. But I don't think, actually pretty certain that, this won't lessen when I reach my 30s. With age comes experience and often maturity bc sex in your 20s is not that good bc 20something girls often don't know what good sex is like and how to demand it. Actually myself, as a freshly ex-pick-me I didn't have sex yet with the FDS mentality. Bc so far sex f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 12:18 PM |
| 16 | It even says "choose me"Oh my fucking god | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 10:42 AM |
| -6 | Teen Vogue Feels It’s Important For Your Daughters to Learn How to Have Anal Sex This Christmas SeasonWtf Teen Vogue is often pretty good with their intersectional feminism but this.....? Fuck them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 10:34 AM |
| 9 | Why? Just why?I don't understand he wrote that sentence right. "your eyes are so intoxicating". he didn't write "you're". I think you might misread that. the main grammar mistake he wrote was "take" instead of "thank". but yeah this "intoxicating" thing is off. he thinks being compared to alcohol/drugs is sexy bc people romanticized toxic relationships. yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 07:55 PM |
| 48 | Dudes are exhibiting feminine behavior...they also do this online when they don't have real life friends. there's always 1 woman for a few weeks who is posted and bashed here on reddit. right now it's Greta Thunberg and before her it was Belle Delphine. these LVM must have someone to hate on and/or hate jerk off to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 04:31 PM |
| 4 | this subreddit reminded me to work on my feminity (freshly ex-pick-me)thank you and hell yes queen!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 02:18 PM |
| 6 | He has literally no reason not to text you back.I see and I totally agree! thank you for the reassurance and advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 02:02 PM |
| 15 | this subreddit reminded me to work on my feminity (freshly ex-pick-me)thank you! and oh yeah I feel this so much! honestly the more I'm scrolling through this sub the more I can feel my feminine energies charging up hahaha :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 01:53 PM |
| 14 | He has literally no reason not to text you back.thank you for this reply! and yes, same, I also have periods of time when I'm well and stable so I can put effort into a relationship or dating. so the same thing should go for the guy. if he is not mentally well at the moment he shouldn't be dating. that doesn't mean he can only date when he is totally "cured" bc for many that's not possible. but he shouldn't date until he is stable and well. did I get this right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 01:52 PM |
| 22 | He has literally no reason not to text you back.FDS newbie here; personally I have anxiety or depressive issues and sometimes it takes me time to reply to my best friends. though not months, just a few days or maximum 1-2 weeks. fortunately I don't do this anymore. but I would always tell my friends that when I'm better I will hit them up. now something similar happened to me with a guy. he blamed his mental health for not texting which turned out to be a cop out. so my question would be; if a guy tells me that he won't be able to text me for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 01:12 PM |
| 3 | this subreddit reminded me to work on my feminity (freshly ex-pick-me)thank you! lots of hugs! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 12:59 PM |
| 9 | Men do not see women as individuals on the same level as themI'm sorry that happened to you but at least you got out of it, congrats for that! And yeah men just don't want women as people. Personally men see me as a hole to fuck and as a shoulder to whine on. It's frustrating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 12:02 AM |
| 57 | Men do not see women as individuals on the same level as themI feel this so much. I have expectations about relationships but my main is this, to be treated like a human. I don't want to be anyone's girlfriend, wife, mother of his children. Especially in the traditional sense. I want to be a partner, companion, someone who with you try to enjoy life the best as you can. I don't want to play games but unfortunately I have to bc men are trash who will do anything to trick you into having sex with them, be like their mother and take care of them, and do all … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 10:32 PM |
| 66 | Male-Centered Dating Advice Directed at Women - A Compilationomfg THANK YOU. I had a few months, after I lost lot of weight, when I would approach guys to ask them out bc on the internet I read that guys loved that. B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T! I had been turned down every time, though the guys were always sweet. but men who find you attractive will approach you. and the guys who suggest that women should approach them aren't actually shy but ugly/dirty and know that they would be turned down. guys in real life will approach you, it's only here on the internet where … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 09:16 PM |
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