https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ekwngr/im32m_not_ready_to_propose_but_im_tired_of/

This man strings along his girlfriend for 3 years even though he knows from the beginning that he never wants to get married and she does

I'm afraid that we overlooked a major incompatibility when we first started dating, which is she is someone who has always known she wanted to be married and have a family, ever since she was a little girl. It's basically been her dream. I, on the other hand, have never had that dream. In fact, I was the one in my teens and early twenties saying I never want to be married.