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| 409 | What are some early on signs he’s a cheater?Stays in contact with exes lol. Has alot of female friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:34 AM |
| 73 | Is anyone else sick of seeing YouTube recommend these types of videos to you?I’ve heard of alpha and beta but now there is a sigma? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?How is it conditioning if it’s something I want? My mother is not a pick me, she is a queen and she’s married to a HVM. Why is it wrong of me to want what my mother has? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?Ummm what I am definitely happy with myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 02:28 PM |
| 4 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?Idk you but I love you for this advice ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:36 AM |
| 8 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?You’re making a lot of sense, I think you are right I just feel left behind. I am used to being on par with everyone else and I’m getting depressed because for the first time I am not. You figured me out! Haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 02:50 AM |
| 10 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?You’re so right. I can’t imagine being depressed and also having to be a mom with no support. I can’t walk myself into that situation. Thanks ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 02:28 AM |
| 5 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?I am sorry. Sending you hugs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?Yes I had a easy straight forward life. Do you think this is why I’m having a hard time now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 02:16 AM |
| 7 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?Why do you think a woman isn’t at her full potential if she thinks a male is necessary? I specifically want a husband and kids, the family unit. I think it’s okay and natural for women to seek out companionship and a support system. I also think we need to recognize that alot of women Ditch their friends once they get married so sometimes the advice of get friends as a support system isn’t that easy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 02:12 AM |
| 7 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?Yes you are right. How can I get out of the scarcity mindset when I feel like HVM are actually scarce? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 10:17 PM |
| 18 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?Yes you are right. How can I get out or the scarcity mindset when I feel like HVM are actually scarce? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?Thank you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 10:15 PM |
| 15 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?Maybe I don’t get it because I’ve never been in a very bad relationship before. I could be suffering from the grass is greener on the other side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 10:15 PM |
| 11 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?Thank you ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?27 and yes I’ve been in relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 10:10 PM |
| 18 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?Honestly I would rather not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 10:09 PM |
| 6 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?I am 27 so I will look for that. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 09:23 PM |
| 5 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?I have been and it’s been disappointment after disappointment. I won’t give up but it’s really hard to keep the faith when things keep going wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 09:11 PM |
| -29 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?I guess I thought it went without saying that I am not interested in single motherhood because I clearly said a husband and kids. I felt you were pushing it because I already stated what I was looking for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 07:58 PM |
| -27 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?I am chill I was just saying lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 07:44 PM |
| -32 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?Please stop pushing single motherhood on people who don’t want it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 07:30 PM |
| 10 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?Hugs. I truely feel for you. I hope we both get what we are looking for. The friend group dwindling as we get older is something people don’t talk about enough. A lot of people aren’t open to making new close friends, sure they are open to associates but not actual close friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 07:00 PM |
| 19 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?But number two doesn’t apply to some of us. I am not someone who has struggled with self love or being in a healthy state of mind. I actually went through life pretty happy and accomplished everything I wanted on my own. I don’t think people who want marriage and children automatically suffer from not having self love or being unhappy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 05:29 PM |
| 49 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?That is true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 04:59 PM |
| 15 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?So I’m stating I want to be married and have kids and instead of respecting my choices you want to change my mind? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 04:58 PM |
| 14 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?The things I can control in my life are going extremely well. I don’t have complaints. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 04:57 PM |
| 54 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?Thank you best comment ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 04:56 PM |
| 74 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?The answer for me is no, all of their relationships are low value. But that doesn’t make me feel better because there are things I can’t do alone. Like having a family and children. Depressed alone is one thing, but if you’re in a depressing relationship and you get children and a family out of it isn’t that better than being depressed alone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 04:53 PM |
| 23 | Doesn’t it seem like men only value women who they think are out of their league?I don’t think we should compare ourselves to Beyoncé. I think celebrities live a completely different lifestyle than us isn’t her husband a rapper? A lot of rap music encourages having a main chick and a mistress we can’t act surprised when a rapper is living what he raps about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 06:55 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel when people say “ a man needs to feel needed”?Same I genuinely do not want to feel needed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 03:01 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel when people say “ a man needs to feel needed”?Huh? Why do you need a human you just met 6 months ago? That’s literally unhealthy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 08:21 PM |
| 6 | How do you feel when people say “ a man needs to feel needed”?I think feeling needed in a marriage is completely separate from being needed by a man you just met 6 months ago. This post is not directed toward married people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:30 PM |
| 15 | How do you feel when people say “ a man needs to feel needed”?Agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:19 PM |
| 7 | How do you feel when people say “ a man needs to feel needed”?Totally agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:14 PM |
| 19 | How do you feel when people say “ a man needs to feel needed”?Hahaha!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:14 PM |
| 7 | This post will probably be removed.At times I feel like this sub went from dating strategies to women being shamed for DESIRING to be in relationships. I’m sorry is this not a sub for people who Desire to date? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 03:37 PM |
| 293 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusOmg I love this sub. I’ve been saying for a long time and people always point to how LVM say men don’t care. HVM want equals. They are not looking to feel superior to their partner , that is a LVM trait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?Thank you! If I want to find out if I’m fertile (without trying for a child) where do I go? Fertility clinic? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 05:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?Thanks! Did you have children using the eggs you froze? I read it’s painful process. Is that true? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 04:47 PM |
| 4 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?I support and really like this ideal!! I actually don’t mind it because I want family and I agree that women are better partners. My issue though is that I RARELY encounter HVW. The women I know would sneer at the thought of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:48 PM |
| 5 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?Very true. I disagree with decoupling children and right partner though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:11 PM |
| 15 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?I actually never thought about this. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:07 PM |
| -7 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?How is it a dream world when it’s my reality lol you said in your other comment that your mom is a pick me. So maybe for you what I’m talking about is dream world cause it’s just not your reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:06 PM |
| 3 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?Good point lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:05 PM |
| 7 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?I agree ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:10 PM |
| 5 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?I guess because I come from the happy married home. I’ve experienced the benefits. So since I experienced it I want my kids to experience it too. I’d feel like I’m cheating my kids of the experience of having a family. I don’t mean to rub it anyone’s face, but coming from a loving family is amazing. Being unconditionally loved and supported , it truly lives up to the hype. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 07:08 PM |
| 3 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?A good parent tries to position their children to be in the most healthy position as possible. That is literally the point in good decision making and vetting while dating. Literally. It is healthy of me to plan to bring children into the world in the most supportive and healthy environment . I am not sure what you are getting at. Do you want me to go ahead and not plan the best for my child ? Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 05:54 PM |
| -2 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?What? Obviously my kid would have their DAD if something happened to me. I said I rather not have a sperm donor because then it’s just me and the child and no other additional support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 05:43 PM |
| 6 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?Thank you! Those were great points ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 04:15 PM |
| 14 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?Thank you!! That is something to consider. However , I am an only child who comes from a small and loving family. I would prefer to not go the sperm donor route because I want my children to have a family. I think about things like what if something happens to me and my parents are of old age. I don’t want them to be alone. Sure I will leave them a ton of cash but children need love and support more than money. I want them to have an aunt , uncle, cousin, or someone to turn to in the event somet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:58 PM |
| 3 | How do you not desire love when you have independently accomplished everything else you have wanted in life?I don’t think you read the content of my post. I think women do know we are capable of happiness and whole lives outside of relationships. This question isn’t intended for those who don’t recognize that. This question is directed towards women who are accomplished and have completed everything they want to and want to start a family. Some of us want marriage and kids and there is nothing wrong with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 02:19 PM |
| 82 | How do you not desire love when you have independently accomplished everything else you have wanted in life?Exactly I feel like society makes you feel needy for saying you desire a romantic relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 07:38 PM |
| 6 | Why did Disney and society at large lie to us about the true nature of most men?I agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 11:14 PM |
| 92 | Research proves men are not the heroes they claim!We didn’t need research for this one 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 01:35 AM |
| 38 | What age range should I be dating in?I agree. We need to collectively stop giving them such a large net of options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 08:33 PM |
| 5 | Do you believe that men are only as faithful as their options?Lol I agree. I feel like they say this to brainwash us . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Do you believe that men are only as faithful as their options?Totally agree q | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 03:27 PM |
| 25 | Gut feelings: have you ever had a weird, but GOOD one?Did he ever explain why he stepped away? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:16 AM |
| 76 | Do you believe that men are only as faithful as their options?Love this comment . Saving this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 12:37 AM |
| 23 | How could any woman sacrifice this much??Desperation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWGreat words thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWGreat words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWThis post is intended for those who are having trouble working through solitude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 11:24 PM |
| 17 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWHonestly, I steal friends all the time ! Lol, I feel like female friendships are worth going out of my way for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 08:15 PM |
| 13 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWI totally agree that it’s worth the effort. Hugs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 08:11 PM |
| 38 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWLove your response. Thank you. I also find that when I am directionless, my social and dating life absolutely thrives. But when I uphold boundaries and standards BOTH social and dating life takes a hit. It’s saddening at times , but like you mentioned, there is a difference between solitude and loneliness and we get the benefits down the line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 08:10 PM |
| 80 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWWe have to be honest and discuss that not everyone has a lot of close female friendships. I fortunately do. Alternatively, when a lot of women hit 25-40 , they start families and rightfully shift their focus to their husband and kids which leaves the single women out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 08:06 PM |
| 1 | The way you are treated significantly changes when you start to love and respect yourselfSo happy for you sis you deserve all the love and kindness ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 05:36 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: How do we let go of “ the one who got away” or “ what could’ve been” thoughts?😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: How do we let go of “ the one who got away” or “ what could’ve been” thoughts?Good one ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:38 AM |
| 8 | Discussion: How do we let go of “ the one who got away” or “ what could’ve been” thoughts?You’re so right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:00 AM |
| 13 | Discussion: How do we let go of “ the one who got away” or “ what could’ve been” thoughts?Yeah! I’m more so talking about things like this. Where nothing went wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 05:39 AM |
| 23 | Discussion: How do we let go of “ the one who got away” or “ what could’ve been” thoughts?😂😂 very true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:58 AM |
| 27 | Discussion: How do we let go of “ the one who got away” or “ what could’ve been” thoughts?This is a good one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: why do men think they can bring nothing to the table and still be valued? Why should we value a man who offers NOTHING?You’re right.Why do you think we have always been told that women are the prize then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 03:14 PM |
| 7 | Discussion: why do men think they can bring nothing to the table and still be valued? Why should we value a man who offers NOTHING?Very true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 05:04 AM |
| 20 | Discussion: why do men think they can bring nothing to the table and still be valued? Why should we value a man who offers NOTHING?Do you have the link to the thread? I am trying to search for it now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 04:59 AM |
| 12 | Discussion: why do men think they can bring nothing to the table and still be valued? Why should we value a man who offers NOTHING?True | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 04:39 AM |
| 20 | Discussion: why do men think they can bring nothing to the table and still be valued? Why should we value a man who offers NOTHING?You are so right smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:56 AM |
| 19 | Discussion: why do men think they can bring nothing to the table and still be valued? Why should we value a man who offers NOTHING?I agree. Why do you think we were told women are the prize when historically, we have never been seen that way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:53 AM |
| 12 | Discussion: why do men think they can bring nothing to the table and still be valued? Why should we value a man who offers NOTHING?I agree. Why do you think we were told women are the prize when historically, we have never been seen that way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:52 AM |
| 18 | Discussion: why do men think they can bring nothing to the table and still be valued? Why should we value a man who offers NOTHING?So true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:26 AM |
| -1 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:I don’t do 50/50, I don’t know if you’re blind but I clearly said I overtly say no. But am I in denial that 50/50 is the norm for people under age 30? Absolutely not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 11:14 PM |
| 6 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:Idk where you got im a people pleaser from when my style is to overly say no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 08:27 PM |
| 0 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:Idk but I’m still dating the man who asked me and he continues to pay for everything. The topic never resurfaced. The point of my OP is to gather thoughts on whether people are overt or not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:36 PM |
| 7 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:Yep I think this is where she was coming from | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:From what I’ve seen its true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:21 PM |
| 33 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:I agree ! But my question was am I right in overtly saying no or not. My friend also doesn’t do 50/50 but she operates in a different way. I’m overt where she is more quiet about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:21 PM |
| 6 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:I didn’t get it either to be honest lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:17 PM |
| 55 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:I agree it’s definitely tacky to ask | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:23 PM |
| 31 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:We can’t deny that splitting checks has become normal. I don’t think a man asking if you do 50/50 makes him low value, I think If he “expects and requires” 50/50 then he is low value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:04 PM |
| 251 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:I agree. I went out with a guy and he asked if I believe in picking up the check sometimes. I said no. A friend who also doesn’t do 50/50 said that I shouldn’t overtly say no because it’s sounds tacky, just don’t pay. What are your thoughts? Should I never overtly say no or simply never pay? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 01:51 PM |
| 66 | Society needs to stop perpetuating the myth that women should settle for unattractive men because they'll be "nicer". Women should be allowed to date whoever they want whether men like it or not.People have always talked about me because I only date guys I am attracted to. They say as a woman I’m the pretty one and that’s that. I just don’t believe that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 03:06 PM |
| 5 | PickMeisha proudly catering to men on OLD.That’s what they say but I know a lot married to women who pursued them 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 09:11 AM |
| 20 | PickMeisha proudly catering to men on OLD.I agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 10:21 PM |
| 37 | PickMeisha proudly catering to men on OLD.True. But PickMe’s literally pursue men. They pursue the HVM too. So even if she’s not on the HVM spectrum, they literally place themselves there lol. Thoughts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 10:09 PM |
| 96 | PickMeisha proudly catering to men on OLD.How can we prosper with so many PickMe’s readily available 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 10:03 PM |
| 5 | I made a post about hating my course work and after a short convo about it I get a willy pic. Usually I block/delete this behavior but I just couldn't this time!I really love this 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 10:02 PM |
| 35 | The Myth That Older Men Are Better In Bed 🤢They are also ugly lol they swear women are actually attracted to their ugly asses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 12:13 AM |
| 14 | Let’s discuss: when people say you can’t have it all are they just projecting because they feel like they can’t have it all?My definition of all is everything I can offer myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Let’s discuss: if a guy asks do you go Dutch on dates do you bluntly say no or answer in another manner?I agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 02:11 PM |
| 4 | Let’s discuss why a HVM will choose to be with a HVW over the 100 million available pickmeishasVery true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:18 AM |
| 11 | Let’s discuss why a HVM will choose to be with a HVW over the 100 million available pickmeishasSo true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:17 AM |
| 16 | Let’s discuss why a HVM will choose to be with a HVW over the 100 million available pickmeishasAgreed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 11:53 PM |
| 23 | Let’s discuss why a HVM will choose to be with a HVW over the 100 million available pickmeishasTrue! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 11:53 PM |
| 45 | Let’s discuss why a HVM will choose to be with a HVW over the 100 million available pickmeishasVery true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Part 2: For sh*ts and giggles, what's your HVM zodiac sign?I totally agree with this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 11:03 PM |
| 16 | Part 2: For sh*ts and giggles, what's your HVM zodiac sign?My father is a HV Gemini man 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:56 PM |
| 1 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?Why are those signs in particular your favorite venus placements in men? How can we compare our venus to a mans venus to determine compatibility? I thought mars signs mattered? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 12:29 AM |
| 8 | Let’s discuss the difference between a slow moving relationship and one where he’s just not that into you ?What do you mean by make a move? I edited my post to provide more context. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?Well that’s not my experience, I am 27 and my parents marriage is exactly what I thought it was and what I want. I know it’s hard for some people to believe that happy marriages exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?Good one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 01:44 PM |
| 2 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 12:33 AM |
| 2 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?You’re right sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 07:43 PM |
| 0 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?Understood sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 07:17 PM |
| -1 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?Lmao okay bye sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 07:16 PM |
| 2 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?Thank you! This was really helpful. I feel the advice needed is different when you already have your life together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 06:42 PM |
| 2 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?No, I don’t. I want to stop yearning because I want to be patient. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?You shouldn’t call someone’s view of life narrow, what’s narrow to you doesn’t mean it’s narrow to someone else. I encapsulated hobbies and traveling, amongst other things when I said “ happy, fun social life”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 06:39 PM |
| 2 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?But what if you came from a happy family like me? My idea of love is the healthy bond my parents have. When I read unfortunate stories I think it’s unfortunate and that’s all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 01:38 PM |
| 1 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?I already do this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 01:05 PM |
| 3 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?This is a great way to approach this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 01:04 PM |
| 5 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?Thank you sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 01:04 PM |
| 1 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?I really found this helpful. Thank you so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 01:02 PM |
| 1 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?No, I want that life because I come from it. I don’t think a therapist would think otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 01:01 PM |
| 3 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?I elaborated in my post why I want it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 01:00 PM |
| 6 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?Lol I come from a healthy loving married household so I don’t have a romanticized image of love I have a very real one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 12:58 PM |
| 2 | The realisation there are not enough HVM in society and some of us will likely be single forever and never marry.Same. I’m a high wage earner but that’s only ONE aspect of my life not all of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 06:54 PM |
| 5 | The realisation there are not enough HVM in society and some of us will likely be single forever and never marry.Having a good social circle is a must however I 100% don’t believe that’s more reliable. There is a pattern where as women have families they rightfully so divert more of their attention towards their families and themselves. I also had a good mother and father and feel it’s my duty to do the same same. I also am not into meaningless sex lol. I honestly believe our minds are computers, if we believe it won’t happen then it definitely won’t! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 02:57 PM |
| 11 | The realisation there are not enough HVM in society and some of us will likely be single forever and never marry.For me its desiring children and a family unit. There is nothing wrong with a woman desiring this as it is just being a woman. However I am just not into the single mother thing I’d rather get married and divorce and at least know I attempted to give my children a proper life. I’m in the minority of women who don’t think men are that special and am not boy crazy. However biological kids are a MUST for me. My aunt is 55 single no kids and well paid. She had a heart to heart with me years ago and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 02:28 PM |
| -1 | I no longer envy married people. Too many are involved in miserable marriages.I have good judgment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 02:18 AM |
| 12 | I no longer envy married people. Too many are involved in miserable marriages.I only want to get married because I want to have kids and I refuse to do it alone lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 09:23 PM |
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