This is to all the egalitarian feminists out there. I'm not going to deny you exist. And it may even surprise you to know, I actually believe you aren't a bigot. But you know what? That's part of the problem. You are legitimizing them. You are enabling bigotry and hate. If you don't want to be responsible for this you have two options:

1) Abandon the term feminism.

2) Restructure your ENTIRE movement. This means getting bigots out of power. Gutting gender studies courses, and about a thousand other things I'm not even going to bother to think of at the moment.

Cause let's be honest: #2 is pretty much impossible. Could feminism have been what you want it to be? At one time, maybe. Maybe. But now it just can't be. Not anymore.

So from here on out, let's dispense with the self-delusion. Just go ahead an say, "I enable bigotry towards men, but that doesn't mean I don't believe that men have some legitimate issues."

Cause that's basically what you're saying now, you just don't realize it.

"Hey I didn't rob that bank! I was just the get-away driver! And yeah I knew there were people riding in my car who were robbing banks, but I've decided it's not ethical to decide who can and can't ride with me."

Say goodbye to your last excuse.