Divorce. Talking about Divorce at work? Fired? Bankrupt? At the End?

Demonspawn · 2012-06-14T01:49:32+00:00

When you've got nothing left to lose, you get to figure out who you really are.

Who are you?

dhyana · 2012-06-14T02:59:23+00:00

Someone once encouraged me long ago with this reminder: 'You haven't lost until you either surrender or die. You control the first, fate controls the second.'

Your'e obviously not dead (yet), so winning is just a matter of holding on longer than the fuckwads that are shitting on you. Can you do that, Il128?

Never surrender. Never. You'll never be able to look in the mirror again. Anger is a great motivator if you use it for something positive. If you give up, they win.

Let me ask you this: If one of these assholes walked into your trailer right now and tried to kill you, would you fight back?

Get angry. Fuck them where they live. What have you go to lose?

AvgGuy101 · 2012-06-14T03:59:05+00:00

Sorry to hear about your situation. Been there, done that and I am still here to talk about it after more than 10 years of dealing with the so called "family court" system.

During that time I was laid off from 3 different jobs but each time I bounced back with something better and in the end my daughter came to live with me. So you never know what tomorrow may bring.

Il128 · 2012-06-14T01:50:13+00:00

I'm sorry brother. My words might seem meaningless, but my empathy, and my respect are not. I wish I could do more than offer you these condolences which will surely seem trite. They are heartfelt.

Please stay with us. You are not alone.

thrway_1000 · 2012-06-14T03:53:22+00:00

I want to say something positive here, but it goes against my nature. I'm sorry to hear that you're suffering and I can understand wanting to find a way out. The only thing I guess I could say is, you have kids and I'm not sure if you want to really leave them behind that way. As a depressive I've avoided that problem figuring that the day would come when I would finally end it all. But, situations change. I won't tell you it's not a valid choice because I think it is, but life changes for many. If you want to talk I'm willing to listen.

AvgGuy101 · 2012-06-14T05:12:40+00:00

Dude, bail the country man. Go to china or thailand or some shit and teach english. Have sex with some of the hottest women you have ever seen, (but don't trust them) It is the easiest job to get. Don't tell the dumb cunt where you went and never go back. Don't pay her a god damn penny. Get your passport renewed first and make sure to request the 48 pages, this will give you the most time. You will have ten years to get another countries passport so you won't be able to be tracked by the states anymore. Not that theyd be able to do that anyway.

pcarvious · 2012-06-14T02:18:37+00:00

You've made a difference for me and many of the young men reading up and learning about what it means to be a MGTOW. If I could reach through the net and shake your hand I would. Instead all I can ask of you is to be there for the next batch of men coming to the MRM.

2012-06-14T05:47:01+00:00

get a loan from the bank and skip it to thailand or vietnam or something and never come back. You could probably get a decent job over there since you're white and have plenty of experience. If not, just don't pay it back and fuck cheap hookers until the end of your days

occupythekitchen · 2012-06-14T11:57:39+00:00

don't ever talk to the women you work with, they'll backstab you so quickly you won't even know what happened. I'm just glad I learned that when I was 18. Women are social manipulators and they'll use any ammo to their advantage.

Anyways, be strong and don't take your life away and do what people suggested go out of the country and live like a king. I would also buy post cards from different places (brazil, india, china, japan, etc) and tell her thanks for getting out of my life now I can explore the world without a care, if you will a much needed respite from someone who couldn't live up to a vow. Your kids well set them up with a savings account and put the money you'd give your ex in it so when they're 18 they get the money and not your wife blowing it on plastic surgeries and bar drinks. Have some fun son!

rightsbot · 2012-06-14T01:38:17+00:00

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AnthonyZarat · 2012-06-28T15:28:12+00:00

Hundreds of posts, thousands of comments, 10,000 comment karma ...

Guys like this do not vanish without a reason. i am worried also. Does anyone know anything? Is there any way we can help?

Liverotto · 2012-06-14T08:16:48+00:00

Is it a crime to suggest to someone to pull a Columbine at work?

Title	Divorce. Talking about Divorce at work? Fired? Bankrupt? At the End?
Author	Il128
Upvotes	38
Comments	36
Date	June 14, 2012 1:36 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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