My friend claims to be a feminist and because feminism is about equality the people who take away men's rights are not feminist no matter what they themselves claim. Were I argue how many people claiming to be a part of a group does it take to change the definition of the group? His argument boils down to "No true Feminist would do that" and I don't know how to get around that. I have tried and he will literally repeat it to every time. So any idea on how to change his mind, am I wrong and should i change my thinking, or should I just not talk about this stuff with him?