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Seeking Asian Female

thetrollking

March 17, 2012

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Title	Seeking Asian Female
Author	thetrollking
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	March 17, 2012 1:10 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/r085p/seeking_asian_female/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/seeking-asian-female.1025775 https://theredarchive.com/post/1025775

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[–]ignatiusloyola 5 points6 points7 points 14 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

[–]thetrollking[S] 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

What doesn't it have to do with MR? There are dozens of issues wrapped up in this type of debate ranging from social and cultural to the rise of the matriarchy to how men are seen for excersising choices in mates that women do to but don't get dumped on over and so on.

This particular movie may or may not be misandric but if you follow these types of debates you see the same arguments come up time and again.

Female sex tourism = empowerment. Male sex tourism = predatory behavior+child trafficking.

Then there is IMBRA(International Marriage Brokers Act) which makes sending a foreign woman a love letter a crime....this isn't mentioned in this article as far as I can tell but it is tangentially related to the debate in general.

Just to stay on topic with the movie, I haven't watched it. You and I may not agree with this guys desires in a relationship or his type of woman or wife but it is still his right to choose what he wants in a relationship and to go after it.

At the same time he seems to be somewhat of a victim. This woman answered his desire to find a asian woman, or to satisfy his "yellow fever", and she turns around and uses him to make a movie about the "mail order bride industry" and it looks as if, again I haven't seen it, he is basically the but of a joke.

Look at the comments. If men, white men specifically but also black men or asian men or hispanic men or arab men and so on, are not interested in women from their demographics they are universally shamed. Women on the other hand rarely are. I mean, historically where I am from it wasn't white women being lynched for interracial marriage and dating.

Then there is the feminist projection about how men see women as public property but that is about 180 degrees from reality from where I am standing. Black women, as a example, complain constantly about black men dating outside their racial group. Men in general are seen as disposable utility objects to be used by women as a group and even more society for the benefit of women as a group. Wether it is male gender roles or the draft or alimony or whatever, men are seen as a disposable commodity or public property and are treated that way by women and the government.

This racial dating shaming language is just one aspect of how women as a group, not all women, see men.

I could go on and on but I don't see why this is so controversial.

Why shame men, whether you agree with their lifestyle choices or not, for dating outside of their race or country or even marrying a stereotype and not women?

Right after I posted this I saw a link on the New Page about how women are more critical of dating outside of racial groups than men are.....

Also, this issue just pisses me off. I am white and lost my vcard to a black woman. I lived in egypt during middle and a big portion of HS, I have dated and been attracted to all sorts of non-white women and you wouoldn't imagine the type of shit I have gotten for it from both white women and religious people and other races.

[–]ignatiusloyola 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]thetrollking[S] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]Baadasssss 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Black women, as a example, complain constantly about black men dating outside their racial group.

Stop being so goddamn ignorant, this is wrapped up in a bunch of white supremacist values that will make your head spin. Black women are constantly being told that they're ugly, that they'll never be as beautiful as white women (unless they're light-skinned or can pass). That they're aggressive and animalistic and bitchy. Black men then absorb that "white woman as standard of beauty" shit until they start to believe the lie that once you've got yourself a white woman, that's when you know you've made it. It's self-hatred bred by white supremacy and this affects how Black men and women view each other.

Also anybody who exoticizes people of color and other cultures (ex: the way some people do with Asian women, or the focus on Black men having larger penises) is an asshole who deserves shaming.

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