When a girl wants to know my past?

ShotgunTRP · 2018-07-16T11:26:51+00:00

Tell her you’re a retired crocodile wrestler who retired

chachaChad · 2018-07-16T13:02:55+00:00

Meh... seriously, I'm fucking done in my life pretending to anyone that I am other than what I am. I don't have time for shame in my life. You are who you are. Accept that and move on. If she doesn't like, there's the fucking door. There will be another girl that thinks you're just fine. Well... you have to be attractive and have options...

I was a loser who spent all his time in front of computer and whacking off. At some point, I got tired of that and tried different things. Honestly, if I hadn't put in all those hours I wouldn't have become a highly, successful, well paid expert in my field.

mcr00sterdota · 2018-07-16T11:32:51+00:00

Depends on your SMV/looks. I know guys who have legit lol'd about playing WoW in their teens for years but they still have women in to them.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-07-16T16:42:25+00:00

"I could tell you, but then I'd have to kill you."

"I was an arms dealer"

"The Rules of the International Brotherhood of Assassins prohibits me from telling you anything, but you've heard of 'John Wick'? That film was based on me. I'm still pissed about them killing my dog."

oyoungpadawan · 2018-07-16T12:00:53+00:00

My past was boring af and I prefer not to talk about it.

So I throw some breadcrumbs or some cool stories of the few actual good times I had.

Never tell your whole life story, she'll be bored fast.

Jampak_5000 · 2018-07-16T15:23:38+00:00

Treat it as a shit test. Be mysterious. Be playful. Give tiny bits of information every couple of months or so but not when she asks

cenie · 2018-07-16T17:42:24+00:00

Witness protection program.

[deleted] · 2018-07-16T20:11:05+00:00

Don't tell her your past. Keep being mysterious. Lie if you have to (although don't really because if you're living the red pill life you should be spending your time in interesting and effective ways). Thanos wiped out half the population to get laid with death, women regularly fall in love with their effective rapists. The history of human cruelty really puts into perspective how little we matter or how little people will actually think of our transgressions. When I stress about not texting a girl back or saying something stupid, I think about Stalin murdering 21 million people. Would he really worry about this? No. So go tell a white lie if you have to, or say something stupid. Atleast you haven't murdered 21 million people, but that's not something you just do one day if you're worried about cutting in line, you need real balls to go through with that

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2018-07-16T16:00:40+00:00

Looking at your comments here's what I would do. You don't have to lie. You just focus on certain facets of what you were. Played games through high school and nothing else? You were a loner, just focused on getting out of high school and that's about it. Feeds into the mystery vibe and it's also the truth.

Personally I find if what I say is always anchored in truth I get more creative in what I say and I never feel like I get "caught" in anything.

redisthetruth · 2018-07-16T16:27:50+00:00

Stay mysterious. Give her little bits of information if you want, but you don’t have to reveal anything you don’t want to. You can frame your past however way you want.

Lift. Be a winner. It takes practice. Talk with lots of girls so you have a sense of abundance in your life. It’s mostly mindset and physical training helps create positive vibes.

abudun79 · 2018-07-16T19:42:33+00:00

What ever you do: Don't puke out your past at one or two occasions. Not because you've been a gamer, but because knowing it all is one of the major attraction killers, even if you've been a secret agent and a stunt-man before you joined the Hells Angels.

Asktrpthrowaway420 · 2018-07-16T21:59:56+00:00

Bro, women love mystery, she says she wants to know more about you, but as soon as she does learn more her attraction will begin to decrease.

Title	When a girl wants to know my past?
Author	confusedloner1
Upvotes	8
Comments	28
Date	July 16, 2018 11:26 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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