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Women are more likely to continue dating a man who has had a heterosexual affair than one who has had a homosexual affair.

AntiFeministMedia

January 29, 2011

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http://www.telegraph.co.uk/relationships/8288976/Men-more-likely-to-forgive-cheating-partners-lesbian-fling-study-finds.html

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Title	Women are more likely to continue dating a man who has had a heterosexual affair than one who has had a homosexual affair.
Author	AntiFeministMedia
Upvotes	0
Comments	37
Date	January 29, 2011 10:08 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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[–]Brotaufstrich 10 points11 points12 points 15 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It also has to do with societiy's treatment of homsexuality. Female homosexuality is seen as adventorous and liberating, hence it is more likely for a woman to explain a homosexual affair away as curiosity. Just think of university parties and how some women expect their boyfriends to be cool whith them making out with other women, who often even encourage such behaviour - any objection will be treated as a sign of narrow-mindedness and overly controlling behaviour.

Male homosexuality on the other hand is still seen as somewhat shameful and emasculating - so if a man has a gay affair, the expectation is that he must have been dead serious about this, since it will make him look bad, and also, even if he could be forgiven for an affair that is treated as clearly more serious as an experimental lesbian experience, he is seen as less of a man.

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No, you said men are more likely to be either gay or straight than women. I would have to see statistics for proof of this, but I don't think it's entirely accurate just based on personal perception. I have encountered a number of men who claim to be straight or gay, but are actually neither. In order for your statement to be accurate, you should have said "more males claim to be straight or gay." I don't think there are any difference in numbers of bisexuals between males and females. It's simply more socially acceptable for women to be open about it.
What I disagreed most strongly with you about was your claim about studies regarding porn. I've not seen any studies on which porn has more affect on gender. In other words, you're talking out your ass here.
As far as your last statement, again, it's more of an assumption on your part.

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[–]InfinitelyThirsting 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So, by your definition, that women hate gay men: why are there so many women who love gay men, go to gay clubs, have tons of gay friends, who fall in love with gay men despite knowing they can never have them?

Why would straight men not be afraid of someone they think will assault or rape them? People who are homophobes tend to have been taught that gay men are all raging sex fiends who will molest them. In fully homophobic cultures, there are indeed women who encourage it, but straight men do have their own misguided reasons to be homophobic, regardless of what women think. Homophobia persists far more amongst straight men than women, as society gets more progressive.

Please explain why you think it's rubbish. Just like fathers encourage misandric hatred of male sexuality, misandric homophobia also can and does come from men. You can't just say IT'S TOTALLY ALL WOMEN without giving any evidence or reasoning for it.

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