Story time: Essentially was attacked by a woman at a bar...

BinaryShadow · 2010-02-20T15:38:52+00:00

She was drunk as hell. Had you fucked her and she didn't remember consenting... congratulations, you're a rapist.

cryptogirl · 2010-02-20T19:26:51+00:00

Resisting unwanted sexual advances is a learned skill. Most women pick up the basics through everyday experience, while men have far fewer opportunities to practice the art.

In other words, your actions were completely understandable.

cup · 2010-02-20T09:32:41+00:00

"Manly" friends mock me for my disgust.

I'm not sure friends is the correct word.

Offensive_Brute · 2010-02-20T17:52:51+00:00

I'm fat guy, and I'm not too attractive, so girls, the ones that occassionally find me suitable for courtship/mating in some capacity, think they can just have their way with me. They mistake me with some one who is so desperate for companionship that I have no self respect, and no standards. Once I was even forceably tongue kissed by a girl who I had, early on in the evening, told indirectly that I was not attracted to her, and I slapped down her persistent advances continuously. She wasn't even remotely attractive to me.

Girls are becoming so desperate for companionship that they are starting to act like men used to before that behavior was illegalized and socially stigmatized by feminists. Its an unsettling experience, but in the long run, its nice to know that there are women out there dealing with the same sexual frustration most men deal with every day, and some are cracking and acting out, just as some men do.

Ultimately I think these incidences will lead to a better mutual understanding between the sexes, especially as men begin to speak out about this instead of feeling ashamed and emasculated.

No matter what anyone says, no means no, and you should not feel guilty or emasculated for standing your ground. If you did that to her, no one would be making excuses for you or blaming her for looking for it. You did the right thing. You can't just go about fucking any sloppy drunk that throws herself at men in bar restrooms. Call me a prude, I don't care, but that is offensive to my sensibilities. Do whatever you want, its your life, but thats not the sort of woman thats gonna get my penis in her.

kachapati · 2010-02-20T16:26:35+00:00

It must be something in the female collective unconscious last night. I was at a bar around 6pm, and started talking to a mother/daughter pair. The daughter started making blatant sexual passes at me and basically told me that she wanted a man to get her pregnant.

First off, she wasn't within my "range" of attractiveness, but also, that kind of behavior from females is a huge turn off for me. I like to advance and even for my advances to be resisted at least initially.

Yeah, we as men definitely need to be wary of crazy bitches. Just because there's a warm, wet hole waiting to be fucked doesn't mean you should do it. So, good move man, looks like you dodged a bullet.

gondolph · 2010-02-20T13:08:37+00:00

what a mess

Gareth321 · 2010-02-20T13:02:01+00:00

This is like a tame version of the rape story posted here from AMA recently.

My feeling is that if you weren't interested in her, you should have made that clear from the beginning. What did you want from her, exactly? In saying that, even if you were interested, trapping you in the bathroom falls well outside the bounds of what I would consider normal dating/one-night-stand etiquette. Though, in saying that, some people manage to get off a quickie in there - which might be what she was after.

Sounds like she was too drunk and lost the plot a little. No harm in telling her to fuck off; no harm in telling her to shut up and give her what she wants. Either way, you shouldn't feel emasculated.

SarahC · 2010-02-20T19:00:51+00:00

Hm, I'm nearly 33. I occasionally wonder if I'd get attention at a bar. I've not been for about 8 years.

Though if it's this kind of attention, I think I'll stay in and surf the net.

Sarstan · 2010-02-20T19:53:48+00:00

Reminds me why I never did the bar scene.

DemosthenesXXI · 2010-02-22T00:37:21+00:00

See...LHtFA in action.

He used it (not by name), and he's not in jail. It works, doesn't?

kragshot · 2010-02-22T00:38:22+00:00

Rule #3:

Don't put your dick in crazy.

kachapati · 2010-02-20T18:17:09+00:00

Let your friends deal with the psycho hose beasts. Trust your instincts and avoid drama at all costs. The reason everyone thinks men should want to fuck and willing hottie on command has to do with mans desire to propagate the species. But clearly your instinct is correct....save your seed for the healthy females.

FreddyDeus · 2010-02-20T12:52:29+00:00

Here's the deal. When you meet an unknown girl in a bar, sure have a laugh. Until it is obvious that she is innebriated to the point of not being able to adequately control her behaviour. At that point you exercise some common fucking sense and you suggest she should leave. You maybe offer to pay for a cab. If she won't fuck off you have a word with the bar manager.

You do NOT encourage her, you do not start making out with her, you don't fondle her in the fucking toilet. Not unless you WANT the trouble that you ended up getting.

Your fault buddy.

rmbarnes · 2010-02-21T00:16:16+00:00

It's nice to hear some men have standards when it comes to who they fuck. Also 32 calls?WTF. Bitch be crazy.

GorillaJ · 2010-02-20T10:56:06+00:00

I'd mock you too. You hit a bar, flirt with a chick, protest not at all when she's feeling you up, and then disengage at the very end?

If you didn't want it, you should have stopped her when she was first getting sloppy.

Title	Story time: Essentially was attacked by a woman at a bar...
Author	evildeadxsp
Upvotes	32
Comments	41
Date	February 20, 2010 9:22 AM UTC (16 years ago)
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