After thinking a lot about what I want out of life, I've come to the conclusion that I want to be the party animal with some cool friends and a high lay count. So any ideas and suggestions?

50pluspiller · 2016-05-16T08:15:54+00:00

Get a six figure job with your STEM degree, buy a cool place and have a party every weekend.

[deleted] · 2016-05-16T10:16:59+00:00

You want to be the male version of a post-wall partyslut, got it. Good luck with that.

But remember one thing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HgAL4L1sXtg

vandaalen · 2016-05-16T08:58:02+00:00

Think again.

NightwingTRP · 2016-05-16T10:31:20+00:00

Go to college/university. Join a band as either lead singer or lead guitarist. Become a drug dealer. It doesn't take much. Not really much of an achievement.

smartengineer93 · 2016-05-16T10:19:59+00:00

You want a short cut. Trp isn't about short cuts. You can't be a party animal wo cash and you can't have cash wo a job therefore you can't be a party animal wo being a working stiff. This mentality is what is wrong w this country, just looking for free stuff. Such a long post saying how you "thought a lot about life" is pointless. Go lift, go to school, get a job then live it up on the weekends.

thebaldbear · 2016-05-16T10:01:09+00:00

The "washed up douchebags" are the guys who lived a version of this dream a few years ago. Do not expect to follow the same path and reach a different destination.

Be careful making large "My Life Should Be X" judgements, particularly if anger is a motivating factor.

Think of the toll on your body from the alcohol and lack of sleep - your SMV will be dramatically lower from that alone in a few years time.

I would urge you to re-think this.

Why not be the physically ripped guy who works in a well paying STEM job, goes for amazing dinners with a group of loyal male friends every week and has one of several beautiful women in your life waiting outside your place to fuck you when you get home?

Edit: Upon further thought, I imagine a large factor in this is that deep down you want the validation from other people seeing you live this kind of life. "See guys, NOW I am COOL! LOOK AT ME BE A MINI CELEBRITY!" This is a very toxic frame of mind. Be very careful. I know it may feel like you're sure that this is what you want, but dig deeper and ask yourself why you want it.

GunsGermsAndSteel · 2016-05-16T12:01:01+00:00

Lift weights. Then lift weights harder.

Approach ten girls a day.

Spend most of your disposable income on things that will help you live the lifestyle you want: clothes, concert tickets, etc.

Ignore the people in this thread telling you not to pursue your desires. I'm assuming you don't have kids. So your life is still your own. Have fun.

[deleted] · 2016-05-16T11:55:15+00:00

get in great shape, then visit foreign countries where your $ goes WAAAAAAAAAAAY further. You will meet cool dudes who are traveling, and have your pick of local women, and dopey backpacker girls who are traveling to "find themselves" (some dick)

quicklogaccount · 2016-05-16T12:43:03+00:00

I understand and can empathize with your feelings man. Get one thing straight now. In some years in it and you'll be fed up. So, make this "the right way".
Real fulfillment comes either from "relinquishing desire" (oriental way) or "constant improvement" (western way). What you seek is incompatible with the oriental doctrine, so you'll want the western way. NEVER STOP SELF IMPROVING. Got it? You can't focus 100% in becoming a party animal or in the end you'll be severely screwed. STEM guys should be too smart to make this mistake.

0 - Start caring for your physical now. Go to a nutritionist, get a PT and be disciplined. You want quick results. Pick a dressing style that fits your hobbies, but pick an expensive version;

1 - Get that stem degree of yours and look for high paying job with career prospects in big cities. You'll want money to use and to self validate;

2 - Get a place in the "partying" neighborhood. If the city is big enough for a hipster area, get it there. There's usually an area for the rich, stuffed with traditional people looking for making families. It looks great. Get away from it. Decorate your place;

3 - Study and max out PUA and game;

4 - This is tricky. Either go with your friends to clubs and start merging groups and taking numbers (best) or invite new friends to it. Your house's place should offer a logistic advantage here;

5 - Start gathering people at your place before hanging out, eventually progress to just invite them there.

Make sure you have one or two hours a day for a hobby or reading books. Your "SMV time" won't be more than 7 hours a week, gym + grooming. You'll spend some time per day, not a lot, keeping in touch with people you met. The rest is yours. For adults, parties are on weekends.

SoRedSuchAlpha · 2016-05-16T20:53:17+00:00

Confused by the answers in this thread. Everyone is acting like the OP is a teenager of college kid.

If I read it correctly, he already has the STEM degree and is on his way to getting the 6-figure job. He just thinks that's not sufficient to make him happy.

rpvp · 2016-05-16T08:33:14+00:00

What you think you want is just shit that comes with success. If you make women your goal, you won't get them. If you make success your goal, you will get women. So the problem here is that you must be really young and naiive to frame your thinking under such a light that makes you think that partying with hot girls will be the epitome of your life. You're projecting idealism in its rawest sense and if you do want all these things then try to get a great career, make lots of money, and aim for things that make you a successful individual.

648262 · 2016-05-16T11:28:16+00:00

Buy booze, invite friends, party.

PS: You want it because you missed out. When you've done that; then what?

JamesSkepp · 2016-05-16T14:10:44+00:00

Alcohol, an amazing party going on, lots of hot girls in it, some cool guys in it that I am friends with, a little bit of drama, and an active sex life. An amazing social media presence where I have pics of me with hot girls and at parties. A social circle full of fun people....

You're an ideal all men should strive for to be :|

That being said - start with modeling dudes like Dan Blitzerian (known for being known, makes money from that, it's his job and a hobby). I would recommend watching what top youtubers do in their channels (most of their content is about nothing, yet still gets 100k - 1m views per video). Socialmedia game (for followers) is content game. Your content is "emotions" and "storytelling".

Be warned - socialmedia presence is not gonna be built in one day (or month) but once you get the ball rolling... (Molyneux has 500 to 1000 new subscibers/day. Boogie2899 had 2,5 million subs year ago, now he has 3,5mil and all he does is post his nerdtalk vids).

Docbear64 · 2016-05-16T15:07:15+00:00

My cousin was the guy you want to be didn't go to college, was a socialite, had a different girl every time i saw him (quite a few were cute too) while you're young , attractive, and no one expects much of you you're great. The issues occur when you hit 25 and you're still in that same place.....then 26,27...all of a sudden your circle changes because they are getting married, have real jobs, your looks are starting to fade and your charm is becoming outdated .

Today he is married to a chick who waited for him and fucked him while dating other dudes (blew him one time and then went to kiss her boyfriend) . They fight daily, he has health issues, he is trying HARD to get a security guard card , and he called me the other day to brag about how another guy called him an alpha for kicking his ass in call of duty... He was proud but for a true former alpha male in social situations i would think that would be a sign of how far he's fallen.

The point being it sounds like a good idea, in fact it sounds like a dream come true and you can be one of those dudes but that is a short lived life. You will have an exciting next 5 years and then be lost and behind your contemporaries who will have the party life, pretty women, and a means of providing for themselves. Expect and desire more from your life.

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