This is me venting but it’s also a question about men and society.

I’ve heard about women who look completely different to the girls their partner jerks off to. Or follows on Instagram. Sometimes they’ll even tell it to their girlfriends face. “You’re not my type, but I’m attracted to you” and yet... their actions say differently.

I stumbled across some NSFW subreddits a while ago one of them for “the perfect p*ssy”. There are subreddits for almost every body part fetishising them.

It’s like... men have these sky high standards but will date women who don’t fit them out of convenience. It’s like they think they deserve supermodels/pornstars but will use ordinary women for personal gain.

I’ve seen metaphors calling Instagram models ferraris and their girlfriends “affordable cars” or whatever the fuck that means. And their gfs are supposed to be flattered by being called “convenient” or “in his price range”.

Is this by design? Do they want women to feel inferior or like they’ll never measure up?

Or are they holding out for a woman that fits all of their physical preferences?