The last stage of Blue Pill conditioning alot of guys have to get over is the lost fish potential.

So you were an out of shape dork who couldn't dress, got AMOG'd even by strangers when you were younger. Some traumatic experience (probably a bad encounter with a specific woman) finally flipped a switch and made you start to self reflect. You fell down the rabbit hole that is the red pill. You started lifting weights and getting money. You've had a few one night stands since your "awakening" (at first it was nerve wrecking for you), now you aren't talking about "frame" you are just you. All the "Alpha Male" tendencies become second nature. its just who you are not a persona you're putting up. People actually respect you now. Congrats bro.

But then you remember............her...................

The random chick that you though you were close with when everyone though you were a dork (who actually thought of you as a dork). Or the girl that broke up with you cause you werent good enough, you weren't Chad (Or Tyrone, or Chan or whatever is your race's example).

After your monk mode you started following her on social media. You hope that she sees what an awesome guy you've become. You got the Mclaren. You post some shirtless pics and some other strategic photos of you getting pre-selection from other girls. You want her to feel regret. Deep down you want her to see everything. You need her to see everything. "Haha your SMV is diminishing. See you though I was just Clark Kent but I'm really Superman. I'm better in every way than every other guy you've dated or will ever have the chance to date. I'm Chad. Physically, Mentally, Financially, Socially, Sexually. Aren't I good enough now? Don't you desire me. Please........Why wont you love me.........I'll be whoever you want me to be just love me......."

Stop.

Cause that is some simp shit just to feed your ego. You did all that work and you're still thinking about one singular woman and if you are good enough to impress her. (got your bowl out like Oliver Twist "may I have some pussy?"). Why do you still care about her? What did she specifically offer to your life that no other woman on this planet could fulfill? (Did she neg you and leave an imprint?) She did not give one single damn when you were at your lowest so why are you invested in her opinion at your highest? Why do you care that she sees you differently? What do you gain besides stroking your ego?

You still got the Blue Pill conditioning. If she sees you differently or if youre still the dork in her eyes it doesnt matter (Or are you admitting she is the president of your life). Why do you want to make babies with someone who doesnt really like you? Who will resent you with every passing day because of her diminishing SMV. Do you want a energy vampire/ parasite? No? Then go live your life.

She doesnt matter anymore. This journey was for you and you alone, to move onto bigger and better things. Unless she is actively trying to sabotage your future relationships, stop trying to show that chick you're awesome and just go be awesome. Same rule applies for everyone from your past. If they hear about you through the grape vine or not it doesnt matter because they dont have a role in your future/ reality that you are creating. You are a rare commodity now so act like it. You are indifferent to all of them (not some fake hopeful indifference but indifference as you wouldnt have a second though if they were gone tomorrow)

Cut the last string of blue pill thinking.